Even-Purple-1749 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	If you had to remove all of your "Non-Negotiables" and keep only three, which ones would they be? 1) Share similar morals, political view and religion. 2) Kind and emotionally intelligent 3) Funny	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/26 06:23 PM
9	How to be submissive and feminine All the time Please consider why at 26 year old man is dating a 19 year old and asking her to be subordinate. At 3 months this is a massive red flag. Why is it that he doesn't date someone at least 21 who has had a couple of years post 18? Because women his age can better see through him and his tactics which are on display now. The beginning of a relationship is to show your best side. This is his. He is showing you the nice side of who he is. Is this what you want? because this is who he is. Now you get to…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/26 06:17 PM
13	How much communication to expect from a business man at a conference Conferences are busy, no unusual to not hear much. Breakfast at the hotel with others, conference rushing about, networking after it finishes and tired from travel. Obviously this varies but no I wouldn't say it's unusual. Equally a text message on his part isn't really a hard thing to do. See how it goes.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/26 07:37 AM
5	I can’t stop thinking about a man I only went on one date with. Did I ruin my chances Dating is hard. It's a long game. Try not to get too invested after one date. Chalk this up to a lesson learned. Go kn some other dates to rinse this out your system and or take a break. Dating takes time you'll get there.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/26 02:21 PM
17	Help me get standards for men First of all I don't think that's a bad list at all. But I would look at myself, do I truly have the majority of those qualities? Are you kind, romanitc, ambitious, well educated, financially secured and ambitious? Have you travelled etc? Are you emotionally mature? Given that you're 21 and want someone tall, you may not be as emotionally capable as you perceive yourself to be. My boyfriend is 2 inches taller than me (5"10) and an absolute super star. He's not a high earner but is diligent with …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/07/26 05:57 AM
2	Did I hit a dead-end? But also honestly the first thing she says is that he's tall so there is likely no hope.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/26 08:34 AM
3	Did I hit a dead-end? This is supposed to be her husband not some random house mate. Like I said its the lack of future planning. He wants to continue with free bills and she gets "free" rent. Whilst she doesn't get to kay rent she is also now paying the bills for 2 people not one, whilst he gets to improve his own capital. Will he be paying for all household repairs? Anyway OP havsnt replied so no worth bothering now!	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/26 08:23 AM
2	Did I hit a dead-end? I wouldn't want to be my husbands lodger with no plan to share. He gets a pretty sweet deal too just paying into mortgage with no bills - my household bills are about the same amount as my minimum mortgage payments, so like insaid he retains his investment and she doesnt. She will stay renting and it's harder to save. She doesn't have to be on the deed now but if there is no plan to own a house together personally I wouldn't be comfortable. But agree OP sounds too much anyway! Certainly wouldn't…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/26 07:15 AM
5	Did I hit a dead-end? Correct they are not, but she's lived their 3 years paying bills and they are getting married... and she hasn't mentioned any indindication of being added. She says he pays mortgage and she pays bills and groceries and thats how he wants ro keep it, so essential she is renting from him. That's fine for a girlfriend boyfriend situation, I would do the same. But if at 3 years in and they are getting married and he wants to keep paying the mortgage and her by the sounds of it all the regular bills …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/26 07:24 PM
25	Did I hit a dead-end? The most problematic thing here is the house doesn't have your name on it / tou havententioned a plan to be on it.. so whilst you pay utilities and groceries which could be as much as the mortgage is (or whatever a %). He is keeping his money as the value is retained in the property. If you were to split up it makes this more complex - you haven't paid anything towards mortgage on paper etc, not in your name, he said she said. Personally I would be highly uncomfortable with this. The other separ…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/26 03:32 PM
2	Did I hit a dead-end? Very dangerous to not be on the mortgage.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/26 03:24 PM
2	What would you do if you were in my shoes? Slightly confused, if you want a male led relationship, he is leading you to his faith and you need to follow him in your duty to be led by him as the decision maker. If you want a relationship where you have equal options and choice, then this is Co led by both of you. It is perhaps not him that is the issue but what you want.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/25 08:35 PM
2	What Are The Best Skills A Girl Can Acquire Before Marriage? Financial administration, budgeting. What is coming in and going out. Pensions, savings etc. If you become a SAHM this is even more important, your household income is yours too and both husband and wife should understand bills, tax and budgeting. Whilst you maybe a SAHM, that will unlikely be your only career especially as kids will go to school and leave home. Unless your husband earns a very high salary. So thinking about how you can also make an income, what you are good at or enjoy doing, t…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/25 12:15 PM
17	Is it possible to ensure sexual compatibility while waiting until marriage? No it is not possible to ensure it. Right now you have no idea if you like sex, how frequently you like sex, and what turns you on in person vs fantasy. Whilst all this can change over time, starting off having no idea is a bit like buying a house without going inside, or a car without driving it, sure it can work out but it's a gamble! Maybe think about what is different given that you aren't religious about being married vs not? Doesn't mean you should have casual sex, and given that divorce e…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/25 06:29 PM