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Knowing how to fight is useful, until someone pulls out a knife or a gun, i've been in that situation and it's not like it is in Hollywood films lol only fight if you know the opponent is not tooled up with a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:29 PM
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Defo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:18 PM
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And this is why i never used apps, people coming in with checklists and shit, all the women i ever dated were always through social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:15 PM
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Perhaps the most frustrating thing about liberalism is it's inability to acknowledge the dangers of uncontrolled mass migration. The left kept ignoring the people constantly in the USA until they had enough and appointed the most radical person who could deal with it, Trump. The resent for mass migration is also building up across Europe, the Dutch, the Poles, the Italians,the Swedish, the Germans etc people have had enough of the useless policies of the left that have only damaged their countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:08 PM
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How about we just let the conservatives date the conservatives and the liberals date liberals? Everyone gets who they want then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:43 PM
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Yeah the millenials are the last generation to have experienced what it meant to actually know everyone and socialise properly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:39 PM
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As a 90’s Kid, I feel lucky to have played outside, before experiencing the age where technology dominates every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:25 PM
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I'm surprised no competitor has stepped up against them to show off their own ideas, must be difficult with Match having bought up most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:35 PM
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It's calling a truce for a day 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:32 PM
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Not even like co workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:36 PM
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My mum fell out with her friend over something like that, she lied to my mum about my older sister being pregnant while my sister was in school with me, worst thing is i used to be friends with her son but didn't realise how much of a gossiper his mum turned out to be until my mum told me about her spreading lies around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:33 PM
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That's good of you to do that, what was it over?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:18 PM
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People are waking up in the UK and Europe as well..after all its their futures at stake ...Common sense or Communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:32 PM
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I don't think it was about getting back at women, the main issues highlighted were mainly to do with illegal migration/ border control, inflation, the economy, and to stop getting involved with foreign wars etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:28 AM
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And poor girls in this country were left at the mercy of foreign paedophile grooming gangs for years because of failings by senior police and council bosses over here, disgraceful. Starmers next to go hopefully. Little weasel of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:29 PM
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And Trump's presidency was the only time over the last 10 years when the Ukraine didn't lose any territory and the situation was quite stable. And I think it was thanks to two things. First Trump confronted Russia, China, Iran and kept oil prices lower thanks to "drill, baby, drill" which also limited possibilities, for earlier mentioned countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:52 PM
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I wonder if it will effect YouTube also, it's a censorship's nightmare on there, comments getting deleted left right and centre, One single word or phrase that's not even offensive can cause an entire comment to be automatically taken down it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:15 PM
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A lesson for Britains priminister Keir Starmer and the Labour party, if you refuse to stop illegal migration, the people will just end up voting for the most radical person who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:07 PM
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Go and watch TIKHistory on youtube who talks about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:29 AM
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It's sad, i had some ladies call an ambulance for me after i had a heart attack once, i don't see why men can't at least stop a phone thief taking from a woman, a rape scenario or any creepy stalker staring at a woman on a train, bus etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:00 AM
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Does coming to a womans aid after a roof tile slid off a church building, hit her head and knocked her to the ground count? I stepped in when i saw that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:55 PM
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I don't see conversative men calling for the genocide, extermination and large-scale ethnic cleansing of Slavs, Eastern Europeans and Jews. The Nazi's literally planned for a war of annihilation and to replace the people of the lands they conquered with their own Aryan race.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:11 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLHG4IfYE1w
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:39 PM
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The rise is from right wing conservatives so not exactly comparable to hitlers rise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:20 PM
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The Nazi's were Socialist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:34 PM
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My sister knows her and she told her that he was hot but also a creep to think that would win her over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:24 PM
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That's not true, anyone that does it is in the wrong, the point i'm making is that the majority of people doing it are migrants and i know this because 20 years ago women were not getting harassed by these foreigners on the scope that i'm seeing now, just three months ago it was reported on ITV news here that over 81% of women in the UK now feel unsafe walking in the dark. Those figures were unheard of when i was growing up in the early 2000's. Ever since the government failed to tackle illegal …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:16 PM
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And if that was a gold digger instead with you at the bar how do you think she'd react to that offer? Sounds like you've got a good woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:06 PM
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That assumes that all women would do that, I personally know of a married woman that works in a department store in Harvey Nichols in London who was offered 5,000 by a good looking dude to take her out, guy just comes along and starts flirting with her and he dumps a Chanel bag on the counter with the money inside. Guess what? She turned him down. Not everyone is an asshole you know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:28 PM
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You hear about it on social media a lot, but why have i never observed this in a shopping mall? I don't see players walking around with average looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:51 PM
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Plenty of average guys with attractive women, you seem to be under the impression that they don't date average men anymore, that's not what i'ver seen when i go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:47 PM
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https://www.pacom.mil/Media/News/News-Article-View/Article/3895099/coast-guard-navy-rescue-woman-child-pets-from-sailboat-beset-by-weather-925-mil/#:~:text=Security%20Alliance%20%2D%20IPhsa-,Coast%20Guard%2C%20Navy%20rescue%20woman%2C%20child%2C%20pets%20from%20sailboat,925%20miles%20east%20of%20Honolulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:35 AM
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The mainstream media are too afraid to say it, so it has to be done, now we are a stuck with a Communist priminister in charge of the country called Keir Starmer for god knows how long 🙄 I'll take Nigel Farage over him anyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:21 PM
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Any society where 1 men gets most of the women while others suffer is one that is destined to collapse, that's not natural either. Monogamy works, polygamy does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:10 PM
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It also states it was to prevent elite men acquiring multiple wives, the equivalent of a chad on Tinder hoarding loads of women away from the average guy. Is this a bad thing stopping that? Have you seen how unstable societies are that are polygamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:05 PM
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On the Titanic there were 1,349 men who died and around 150 women and children who died. Although 324 women survived and 161 men survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:56 PM
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This article says https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/from-darwin-to-eternity/201109/why-we-think-monogamy-is-normal "The case for an automatic association between Christianity and monogamy is weakened further by the fact that socially imposed monogamy was first established in ancient Greece and Rome, centuries before Christianity even existed. Greco-Roman laws prohibited any man from having more than one official wife at a time. It's true that forms of de-facto polygamy (e.g. concubinage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:26 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with immigrants who want to contribute to society, ie working in hospitals as one example, it's the illegal migrants that cause a lot of issues, in my country we have these holiday inns full of them and the occupiers have been already caught out stalking and harassing women on the streets, one of which was murdered by them https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14001423/Rhiannon-Skye-Whyte-Bescot-stabbing-Walsall-mother.html, an innocent lady that worked at…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:52 PM
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Actually monogamy has been around since the years of the Roman Empire, The institution of marriage in ancient Rome was a strictly marital monogamy it’s not a new concept
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:01 PM
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Yeah there’s a reason that societies where a few men have access to a large amount of women are more prone to violence and collapse ( polygamy) it’s not sustainable, monogamy on the other hand is proven historically to actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:25 PM
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I think serial monogamy is the standard for a lot of women, but with men there are a minority who’ve always been promiscuous and wanted multiple sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:29 AM
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You should also remove the algorithm, because what’s happening is that guys who would be compatible partners are effectively pushed out of the deck while only attractive player types ( non committal men sleeping around) are mainly shown in the front of the que to the women that first set up their dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:22 AM
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Everyone has their own type, I don’t think that men and women are only expecting a Barbie doll model, reality certainly doesn’t reflect that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:29 PM
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One aspect is that Europe already has a pub culture dating back hundreds of years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:15 PM
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Right, the atomisation of society and social media has destroyed our sense of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:58 PM
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We were already participating before COVID so it was never really forced anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:25 PM
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Remove the apps, bring back more social events and community spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:38 PM
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I just see posts on Reddit where guys said they switch their locations and the likes go up to like 500 at least compared 5-6 in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:14 PM
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Europe, Latin America, Asia etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:12 PM
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There’s more women on them overseas than in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:09 PM
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Yes we want orgasms but women also don’t want to feel pressured, you know when a guy is making it obvious rather than going with the flow so that the woman isn’t stuck in her head thinking oh if I don’t orgasm it will hurt his ego sort of thing they don’t want to be worked mechanically, if there’s no pressure it’s more likely to happen, even with my past partners and current I don’t constantly ask oh have you cummed yet, I just read her body
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:48 AM
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They’ll just have to learn that poor choices have consequences ( being used)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:02 AM
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Yeah porn definitely ruins a lot of expectations for sex, some of the best advice I’ve found is from this coach https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IhzMR_lV2O8&t=25s&pp=ygUOYWxleGV5IHdlbHNoIDM%3D he’s worked with thousands of women for 20 years and a lot of his comment sections are actually full of a lot of women vouching for him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:46 AM
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What’s the most common mistake you’ve seen by men in the bedroom would you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:54 PM
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What helped my partner get comfortable was to masturbate on her own for a few weeks and then when she was ready, place my hand on hers so she’d show me what direction her hands move in and types of pressure and speeds etc then after that take my hand while her hand was on top of mine directing me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:23 PM
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The difference for lesbians is there’s far more kissing that goes on for longer time (15-20mins or more) and touching the whole body, since guys get hard fast some guys will just kiss for like 2 mins and then bang they ready to shag lol and think they can go straight for the genitals when it doesn’t work like that the woman has to be aroused with foreplay before getting to that stage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:37 PM
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The Magic wand 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:34 PM
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The Hitachi and the Rose clit sucker in particular are very fun 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:21 PM
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No evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:50 PM
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Looks have no link to orgasms, understanding what she likes does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:31 PM
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I do this in coital alignment missionary position, my partner enjoys that more than in an out, makes sense since the pubic bone grinds the clit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:04 PM
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https://www.rutgers.edu/news/why-are-young-adults-having-less-casual-sex It’s on the decline according to this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:33 AM
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I mean, there’s a reason that there’s an orgasm gap for one night stands 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:05 PM
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The best options ideally are guys who want to commit, casual sex for a lot of women is unfulfilling because the guys are only interested in getting themselves off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:31 PM
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Yeah that’s it, ultimately whether someone will cheat is mostly down to a persons character
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:01 PM
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From my experience even when my girl is wearing sun dresses or casual clothing like jumpers jeans and wooly hats she will still get the occasional look or catcall from what she’s told me, so women can still get approached even when they aren’t in sexy revealing outfits. This is on men to just to keep their hands off and show some respect, controlling what she wants to wear just because of a few creeps is not the awnser, I know that she only has eyes for me and I am not insecure 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:26 PM
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I think it means going after men who don’t have an agenda ie to lie their way into bed and leave the woman afterwords
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:01 AM
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Worked for me anyway, I’m really not threatened by hermits on the apps, doing things the old school way 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:50 AM
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You realise that majority of people on the apps are men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:20 AM
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They like guys who aren’t afraid to take a risk, I don’t think they’re concerned about dudes hiding in doors 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:22 PM
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It’s not just about sex it’s also about loyalty, and that isn’t the only source out there, it’s already well known all over the internet that hookup culture is controversial because of the impact of pair bonding it has long term and that also effects men too not just women, just think of how many broken families there are out there all because of someone’s own selfish desire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:12 PM
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Good for you man, I’d say try to meet offline, a lot of girls out there who want to be approached
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:26 PM
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Yeah and there’s guys who are settling for girls below their own attractiveness, like that is just a awful strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:43 AM
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Look it’s a free country do as you wish, but you should still think about it https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/influence-multiple-partners-womens-pair-bonding-naaz-fatima#:~:text=Casual%20sex%20leads%20to%20a,multiple%20partners%2C%20neutralize%20the%20brain. Comparison is the thief of joy, don’t end up dumping some good guy just because he doesn’t measure up to past partners no one deserves that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:43 AM
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And if you meet first you’re already ahead of them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:53 AM
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The pros are that you’re not competing with thousands of guys in a stack unlike the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:45 AM
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Yes the majority of people still meet through bars, friends, school and work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:49 PM
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In the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:13 PM
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Not necessarily, if they’re holding hands and kissing in public and she doesn’t have a look of disgust, there’s quite a lot of average guys walking around…say 6’s coupled up with girls that are around 7’s, I don’t think I’ve witnessed a Chad level dude with an average girl, a lot of them will usually be with a girl who’s on his level of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:58 PM
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I have, the evidence is outside denial is not a river in Egypt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:44 PM
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Go walk around a mall or a super market and observe, Online just gives us the illusion that only looks matter but the world is not black and white like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:39 PM
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No it doesn’t, personality is just as important I’ve seen guys who were good looking that were awkward as fuck around women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:35 PM
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Attraction is only a high priority on the apps where people don’t really care about anything else besides photos but in reality it doesn’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:02 PM
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Being promiscuous in hookups all the time messes up your chances for happiness in a future relationship, I don’t think this is taught enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:44 AM
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Both I’d say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:20 AM
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Haha brilliant, maybe the vomit revealed the hidden message 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:40 PM
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I read somewhere that women can experience up to 13 orgasms, that’s a lot of pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:37 PM
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Third spaces and social events >>>>> online apps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:33 PM
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Being kind and supportive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:40 PM
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Actually polygamous societies are far more prone to collapse than others are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:15 AM
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I think standards would change if Instagram, TikTok, dating apps etc, things that influence “the grass is greener” mentality were removed from society permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:37 AM
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The age of apps is in decline
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:35 AM
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Tim originally laid the foundations with the World Wide Web , although there are indeed other things that women have invented that I will credit them for https://www.ipoi.gov.ie/en/understanding-ip/student-zone/women-inventors/#:~:text=Women%20created%20inventions%20including%20the,were%20also%20invented%20by%20women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:31 AM
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I find that hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:09 AM
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But the internet was invented by Sir Timothy John Berners-Lee
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:02 AM
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Oh dear, should've tried striking a conversation at a work do instead, he fucked up big time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:15 PM
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Yeah consent is important, but since HR wasn't around in the 1950's when they both met i imagine men are a lot more cautious now and afraid of losing their job if they take a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:20 PM
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Yeah that's why meeting in real life is so much better because you can actually feel a person out more there's less of a superficial nature to it, with the apps you only get sucked in by the "halo effect" and disregard other traits and values
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:13 PM
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It's kind of sad that it would be frowned upon now, i just feel like the art of conversation is something that technology as much as it's catching up with theses dating apps etc, can simply never replace authentic connections. You know what they say "if it aint broke, don't fix it!" what worked for our grand parents and parents is something that has worked for generations. And we mustn't let corporations like Match Group commodify everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:27 PM
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My grand parents met at a disco ball and my mum and dad met in a bank she worked at
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:09 PM
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I'm not sure if any new app can fix the ratio balance, since most women don't even want to use them as they were scared off by all the creeps sending dick pics and sexting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:05 PM
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Also, i'm not sure about conventionally attractive men with rounder average woman, from what i've seen in malls i've gone shopping in, there's average guys with women who are better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:30 PM
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Yeah, them head turns when you walk into a bar or restaurants where another guy or girl sitting at a table is staring at you thinking oh she's well out of his league lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:51 PM
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They can, i'm 6 foot but have an average face and hooked up with a chick at a house party
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:20 PM
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I think in any location at a bar or social gathering etc average guys can definitely hook up easier than if they were using the apps IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:16 PM
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Yeah i'd say at least 4 of my partners have been met through women in my friends circle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:40 PM
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Via online for Gen Z 59%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:30 PM
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A wingwoman is also good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:17 PM
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https://www.pymnts.com/mobile-applications/2024/young-people-favor-in-person-singles-events-over-dating-apps/ Attendance at dating and singles events targeted at millennials and Gen Z has increased by 49% this year compared to last year, Bloomberg reported Friday (June 28), citing data from Eventbrite. The decline in the number of paying users on dating apps like Tinder further supports the trend of young people seeking alternative ways to meet potential partners, according to the report. A surv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:10 PM
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only about 10 percent of people in committed relationships or marriages met their partner on a dating site or app, according to the Pew Research Center in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:53 PM
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Of course not every single woman is like this, but many women who hang around on the online groups like AWDTSG are running into the same problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:47 PM
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https://www.breakpoint.org/the-decline-of-dating-apps/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:59 AM
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Just a typical stag do haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:21 PM
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Base of the mountains, sounds like you have some nice views on your doorstep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:28 PM
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Wasn't alone to be fair had two others in a banana costume and super mario along side me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:33 PM
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Not when the marshall tells you to run across the field and get shot 50 times by 20 people with paintball guns, body looked like a pepperoni pizza after that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:30 PM
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It's just another word for back up option basically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:24 PM
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Hahah hot dog costume i was wearing one of those paintballing once 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:21 PM
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Chads only want sex, why would i be jealous of someone who's only used and doesn't recieve real love?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:56 PM
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Dunno about you but i never had to multidate anyone, all 4 of my relationships i met her alone, i'm sure there's plenty of men who would rather not be a dancing monkey in an exhausting competition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:40 PM
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Yes there is, i'm surprised even Japan are feeling the effects, i thought this was mainly a problem in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:49 PM
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If Match group lose the case then perhaps we see a non profit version replacing their current system
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:29 PM
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Europe is more equal than UK
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:49 PM
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Yes it's wrong and it looks like there are now parties who are finally standing up to them https://www.npr.org/2024/02/14/1231513991/tinder-hinge-match-group-lawsuit There's a court case coming up next year around June at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:39 PM
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Find a woman who’s not on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:31 PM
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Not just the dating market either, but housing and jobs, guys losing sense of purpose etc https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=q9YeLgidu_Y
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:56 PM
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Or they can look for a partner who doesn't want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:31 PM
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Why should they share? Western values were built on monogamy not degenerate polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:48 PM
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I usually opt for Levi 512's not too baggy but not too skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:25 PM
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Not even on Meetups?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:18 PM
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Your plan would fail by the very fact that the top percentage of men would only want to mate and have children with the top percentage of women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:44 PM
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Hard to stand out with prompt features since whatever you have put in someone else could also have the same discription lol and the predictable dead fish, gym, hunting and selfies in the car front seat might as well just be a list of clones 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:02 PM
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30 year old man, my girlfriend is 24, so around a 6 year age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:55 AM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:29 AM
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I never wanted that, bouncing from one woman to another just to rack up a notch on the bed post is just an empty meaningless lifestyle, one partner was enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:08 PM
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Thats one of the reasons that guys will date younger, because the women have less baggage and are often more friendly, they don't come in with the attitude of 'what do you bring to the table?" but instead are up for a fun date that doesn't become a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:44 PM
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The patterns are similar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:16 PM
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Strong men make good times, good times make weak men, weak men make hard times, hard times make strong men. And so we go round and round.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:14 PM
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The Mouse Utopia experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:08 PM
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"And that is a problem. The end result of treating dating as a purely selfish and self serving action is the continuous creation and reinforcing of an incentive structures that either ignores immorality in the best case scenario or flat out reward it in the worst case scenario." It's just a symbol of how far society has fallen in the west, while the rest of the world still upholds tradtional values, hedonism and selfish individualism is rife in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:02 PM
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They tend to push things quickly because they are aware that they have competition with other men in the background, so the faster they can set up the date the better the chance of him getting to the finish line before the others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:28 AM
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No, all men want is for you to make good choices instead of picking fuckboys who are clearly not fit to be a partner, I don’t think that’s the same as men choosing overweight women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:25 AM
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That’s fair, you clearly don’t overlook guys for superficial reasons, on the apps of course this is often what happens a lot of men who would make great partners get ignored for some player who fucks around and runs off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 07:20 AM
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Sure, but if you go out in a group of girls and guys to a party or social event, you have that trust built there when other girls who aren't with you will notice you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:38 PM
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Whats the explanation for the above figures though? Doesn't add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:36 PM
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Thats awful, sorry you went through that, have you thought about telling a couple you're friends with to maybe sit in the background and just look over occassionaly to make sure your safe on a date with another guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:54 AM
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I think the explanation could be that women are dating older men, since 63 percent of men between 18-30 are single while just 34 percent of women in that same age range are also single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:18 AM
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There are certainly men who are going after overweight women rather than choosing women they actually find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:59 AM
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Yeah but you see what happens is, after those players used her and then she finally meets a good man who respects her and wants commitment she now has her guard up and may be more volatile towards him because of trauma from that previous person, but the thing is if it wasn't for those poor choices she'd be more friendly and open with the right man in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:43 AM
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One guy Hoarding all the women? Good luck with that, there’s a reason that polyamorous societies descend into violence and chaos that is not sustainable in anyway shape or form average women are not entitled to Chad they need lower their expectations and stop arrogantly looking down their nose at good men, because sooner or later they’ll regret that decision when there’s no one around for them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:31 AM
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At the end of the day everyone settles, men don’t get their Victoria models and women don’t get chads 🤷‍♂️ it’s called being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:44 PM
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So you’re happy with narcissistic men ruining society instead with their behaviour? Maybe there’s a reason that parents were the ones who used to choose considering they could read an arse hole like a book and actually knew the difference between a good man and a dickhead who uses women for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:06 PM
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It wasn't always awful, at least before OLD came out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:17 PM
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There are no happy endings going down that route, only misery when your just used and thrown away, plenty of good men out there who won't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:15 PM
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Or men could go overseas if they're having zero luck in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:12 PM
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Funny thing is look at how much the inbox blows up if you change your location on the apps to a country outside of the west, you get the equivalent of attention girls recieve in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:08 PM
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And the former is better? To be used constantly? How is that better, these jocks literally just run off after they're finished and do it to the next poor woman that comes a long these are not men we should look up to, all they leave is a path of destruction in society, don't you want a partner who's actually a good man that treats women with respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:32 PM
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Technology is at the heart of it, specifically the apps and social media/instagram etc. People are far less socialised because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:55 PM
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All we've got in liberal society is political divide, mass uncontrolled migration and total collapse with selfish people in charge who don't give a shit, the liberals couldn't run a society if their life depended on it. Even my country the UK is a mess thanks to the left leaning Labour government.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:36 AM
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Depends, if it's illegal prostitution where they are overseen by a pimp that's not good to support knowing that the girls are trafficked etc, but if it's escorts like say a couple of girls who share the same apartment but do it independently and tour around and aren't run by a pimp, that's probably different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:28 PM
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That's good to hear because porn makes some men feel inadequate in terms of size and there are guys who take their life over this which is sad because as you mentioned it's something that can be worked on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:58 AM
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The art of conversation is irreplaceable and technology will not change that, if this is a social experiment then apps have already failed, the stocks for match are on verge of collapse 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:50 AM
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Removing those would improve things though, just remember how social we used to be before covid and apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:13 AM
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That's the problem with these podcasts, people will start generalising and tarring the majority of women with the same brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:01 PM
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I agree, but i mean there is no top 1 percent for every women or man to go around, it's why settling happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:44 PM
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Statistically there's not enough of a small percentage to go around though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:31 PM
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That's debatable, on one hand if she doesn't she might just get used for sex forever and find no one, on the other, if she does she has a better chance of finding a good man who will treat her with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:09 PM
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No it would fix the "Grass is greener" mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:00 PM
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Yeah specifically, dating apps and instagram, I think banning them permanently would fix a lot of things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:28 PM
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The orgasm gap shows that partners experienced it more in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:13 PM
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The statistics say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:43 AM
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Welcome to the club 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:36 PM
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I feel bad for how women are objectified sexually when they are as young as 5-12 years old which is totally wrong, the pain they have to experience with child birth and periods and i feel bad for women who are used for sex as they deserve to find happiness. I've worked with teaching assistants in school that were women that helped me pass my exams and looked out for me when i was bullied which i am forever grateful for, i've been taken care of by some of the loveliest nurses in hospital, grew up…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:28 PM
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Thats not what the orgasm gap shows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:20 PM
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How about just raising your standards and stop going for the women who are into the party lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:32 PM
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Hahah sounds as ridiculous as those pop up messages "This woman is just 5 miles away in your area and wants to fuck!" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:44 PM
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And the biggest problem is the fuckboys/players take over them and ruin it for the men that join up who are just seeking love, when i met my girlfriend offline i didn't have to worry about competing with thousands of players
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:24 PM
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Serial Monogamy is more popular than polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah i think perhaps social media is blowing this phenomenon of sharing out of proportion, i expect it's just a small minority who do this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:18 PM
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I think one of the most degenerate things i've seen was a programme on channel 4 tv called naked attraction, thats the sort of stuff we're promoting in society now smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:10 PM
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Doesn't mean they're realistic options
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:09 PM
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Anybody chasing perfection isn't going to find it anyway, there isn't unlimited choice, there's only good choices and bad choices, if one continues to make the mistake of having no clear idea of what it's going to take to make them happy the level of risk goes up as they get older. I don't think it's a secret that beyond the age of 35 the quality of available men start to drops as a lot of older guys do start seeking younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:03 PM
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Or putting in effort simply means focusing on your girls pleasure? which is what good sex is about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:28 PM
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Ok, what year did the metoo organisation start up was it in the early 2000s or a bit later?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:27 PM
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So there was a lot of male chefs that were harassing their female colleagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:57 AM
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I agree they need to look for more thoughtful and kind women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:26 PM
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I think the mouse utopia is playing out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:54 AM
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I don't know how the first one fixes that, even if you had 5 matches, the same 2 conventionally attractive men will be selected while the other 3 average guys won't get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:24 AM
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Society is comprised of three types, the extroverts, the introverts, and the ambiverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:25 AM
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What they want is a gentleman, a man who can declare his intentions to a woman he fancies, but only when he senses that she is receptive to his advances, otherwise he stays silent and moves on. He never asks for more of any woman than she is willing to give, so being clingy is definitely not part of his makeup. He is as warm or as cold to a woman as she is to him, but he is never rude to a woman in return for her rudeness. He is not afraid of bullies and stands up for his woman. An honest and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:23 AM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/1166625/self-harm-and-suicidal-thoughts-during-lockdown-in-the-uk/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:07 AM
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29 percent of 18-29 years old reported experiencing thoughts of self harm/ suicide during COVID lock down. Look I enjoy the odd night in like anyone else, but its' clearly not good for mental health to be in doors all the time. Humans are social animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:53 AM
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But why would she chose them over you? You've already set yourself apart from the competition and proven you're much more of a man with courage by approaching her, you're not hiding away like a wuss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:44 PM
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Well lets how long they last when the lawsuits come lol https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/feb/17/are-dating-apps-fuelling-addiction-lawsuit-against-tinder-hinge-and-match-claims-so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:54 PM
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Tell that to the average men coupled up, I think your claims are somewhat pessimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:41 PM
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If that was true then average men wouldn't be paired up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:40 PM
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Their stocks declined https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2024-05-07/match-posts-sixth-straight-decline-in-tinder-users-shares-fall https://www.livemint.com/market/stock-market-news/bumble-shares-crash-33-set-to-lose-350-billion-in-market-value-after-dating-app-trims-2024-revenue-guidance-11723134225156.html
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:31 PM
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Women didn't create it, it was corporations like Match Group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:28 PM
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It worked though, I know, I was there, I remember in 2012 walking into my local bar and there were so many faces i could recognise like 100 people at least, the art of conversation was alive, people were happier in general,i went again to the same spot last year, multiple tables of locals just too busy on their phones, I was shocked. Covid and Technology combined really damaged society IMO. Thats my personal experience anyway and most people my age ( im 30) and older can relate to what I said. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:19 PM
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But just think about how many people were not staring at their phones as much 20 years ago and before that and were not as distracted, think of like the times when everyone just had Nokias or Sony Ericson phones, you could walk into a bar for instance and you'd know everyone, conversations were always had there was a sense of community. Try that in 2024 and count how many groups are just staring at them like zombies and sticking with their own. Technology has had an impact, not just the users.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:58 PM
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The only solution really is to get more people outside and give them opportunities, apps and technology is ultimately what has created a more isolated and lonely society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:33 PM
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Yeah we blend in like secret agents 😂 I looked into some of the traits of the condition online and one of them was Intense focus and Masking which is accurate haha whats your star sign
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:21 PM
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Yeah same here, i can relate to that, i also have high functioning autism myself, although when friends first met me they never would have guessed it, i was social but did have anxiety growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:24 PM
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Yeah are you a girl who needs to recharge after socialising?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:20 PM
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Yeah, i think men should appreciate that although the grinding doesn't help you as man, just be satisfied knowing that that motion shes doing is pleasing her and then it will be your turn when she's climaxed. Men need to be patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:13 PM
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Agreed, i'll usually try to communicate with words like harder or softer, faster or slower, and whatever she says i'll follow her lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:40 PM
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Oh I see, yeah that would be frustrating for you, sex is more like a dance, trouble is men treat it like a race to the finish line 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:09 PM
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Although nina hartleys how to eat pussy like a champ video is quite good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:59 PM
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Is that when you are grinding but then they decide to thrust?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:44 PM
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Oh really, were some of the woman you knew a bit cold is that why? Or were they just not the affectionate type of person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:52 AM
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It's nice to be there for each other rather than just one person caring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:24 AM
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Yeah i think i've only seen just one of my male friends cry and even he was good at hiding it for a long time, we had a lot to drink one weekend and he opened up about having lost his uncle in the 2006 lebanon war. In the end it shows you can only put on the brave face for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:02 AM
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Anger is a common one for reddit that's for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:52 AM
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What do you mean by burden
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:51 AM
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Yes we both get sad, we both get moved deeply by things. It’s a kind of toxic masculinity that says men aren’t allowed to feel, to hurt, or to show emotion. You can only put on the brave face for so long, i know there's times where i've held it in but then its come out when i've gone to bed. Birthdays and Christmas are probably the hardest ones since my dad is no longer here on this earth, but 8 years on i've learnt to cope with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:42 AM
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It was kind of different for me, my mates never really saw me cry until they came to my fathers funeral, they were used to seeing me laughing and being happy, i found it easier to do it around girls i was close to, since the women were quite empathetic. I was trying too much to be a "man" when with male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:33 AM
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Ok yeah that's true, i'd say there's a difference between being with someone thats had 5-6 relationships over a person thats had hundreds of hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:55 PM
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Men are cautious with picking a partner with a sexual history because a large number of partners over time suggests that you jump into bed with people very easily. You might have low standards. Or you might do a lot of cheating. If you don’t seem to care which random people you sleep with, that suggests that you also don’t care about their mental or physical well-being. A large number of partners may indicate a more general lack of self-control, lack of emotional investment, and lack of thinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:07 PM
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Brock Lesnar? LOL cmon! More like Alexander Dreymon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:55 PM
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I agree, everyone has a specific type
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:30 PM
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Honestly It's just a new term for Jock
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:30 PM
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This https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhwoYbt0NAQ&t=6s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:27 PM
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What was the older model like before the swipe feature?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:46 PM
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I doubt that, the illusion of choice makes you believe that there's a prince charming or insta hottie just round the corner, in reality they are so rare to even find
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:12 PM
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Does anyone know what the ratio's were like on the older apps like eharmony and plenty of fish back in the early 2000's?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:09 PM
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Isn't one of the consequences of having too many casual sex partners, pair bonding issues for future relationships and higher rates of infedility?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:52 PM
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Yeah and to be fair even during World War II, the Soviet Red Army had many female snipers who were some of the best and were responsible for a significant number of German soldiers eliminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:48 PM
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"then the woman will think, “he can’t be that great, his friends HAVE to vouch for him." But if he wasn't a good guy then why would they invite him a long in the first place? That doesn't make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:45 PM
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Traditionally social circles have always been effective, there's the trust that is there that when you meet someone, the friends in your group can vouch for you that you're a great guy to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:28 PM
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I believe two things are possibly happening, first there are women stuck in situationships with players messing them around who think the players are committed when they're just sleeping with multiple women and second, there are women who are getting into relationships with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:33 AM
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Well if she wants a 6.5 trust funded blue eyes player then why can't a man have a mid 20's woman without baggage? Bit of a stalemate situation we have here. I guess compromise is out of the question if people are so entrenched in their ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:28 PM
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It's not a fantasy if it's already happening
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:11 PM
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Doesn't mean they will get that, unless the woman is on the same level. Average women who go down this path only get their hearts broken by players.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:08 PM
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The third point i disagree on, i literally went to school with guys who are average looking who got married last year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:06 PM
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It's moments like that part in the movie Angels and Demons with Tom Hanks when all the civilians both men and women all stop that priest from drowning in the fountain that also shows the value of community.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:21 AM
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Yeah i'm glad that it was in the day time where at least there were people around to quickly step in, would've been worse if that was at night with no one around, those things are like bricks, it really hit her hard on the head and i remember seeing her just curled up in a ball hands on head crying in pain bless her. I was so angry that this could happen since i've lived here for 30 years and never seen incidents like that, i was thinking who the fuck is maintaining those roofs cow boys? The roo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:51 AM
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There wouldn't be an oversupply in the first place if it wasn't for the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:46 PM
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I think it was easier in a way that we weren't so overwhelmed with unlimited options to the point of being indecisive, we just simply went out and met people through work, school or in bars and pubs and whoever was available we chose them and that was it. The Competition was certainly less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:05 PM
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Ok yeah i can agree with that, serial monogamy is whats the standard now for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:28 PM
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If they were relationships and not just casual sex partners then that must count as monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:44 PM
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Yeah my cousin's wife cheated on him on my mums side of the family and my aunt and uncle who she'd visit a lot completely cut her off and want nothing to do with her now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:29 PM
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Birds are pretty monogamous, many are mated for life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:44 PM
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Monogamy seems to work pretty well for most people and a lot of people who think it's a worthy goal but there are some who fail to perfectly execute it (adulterers fixated on polygamy), but as a cultural norm, it's got a strong track record.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:37 PM
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Apps only work for average men if they change the country location, otherwise the experience in the west for men on them is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:35 AM
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That's the Halo effect in action, the environment seems similar to what is happening on the dating apps. Sad stuff. I can't blame men for saying screw that i'm not going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:42 AM
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I guess because even if average men turned up, like the superficial nature of the apps, most of the women there will just go for the most attractive option. Why do it when you can meet girls through social circle where they are more likely to be grounded people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:28 AM
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Your last paragraph is why community is important, it's not that we aren't entitled but as human beings who live together in the same town we should look out for those who are in trouble, it's still alive at least where i'm from, recently i was just walking home from an hospital appointment and i saw a tile come sliding down off of this church roof and knocked some poor lady who was also walking by to the concrete, i ended up rushing over to her and called for some help. I think it's a shame tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:15 PM
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Ughh posts like this really show the sad break down of community
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:28 PM
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Gifts are definitely nice ,i got a delicious personalised kinder cake from my partner for my birthday a couple of months ago. 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:00 PM
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Women orgasm more in relationships compared to casual sex, so average men are still able to please their partners https://theconversation.com/the-orgasm-gap-and-why-women-climax-less-than-men-208614
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:55 AM
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It just happens naturally, you could be busy with a group of friends and then you just happen to lock eyes with a girl in the same room who was smiling at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:58 PM
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Ultimately, it's who can commit to you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:46 PM
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Shaming is not needed, just cut them off by banning the apps and other social media outlets they are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:26 PM
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It's the apps, things were more natural when they weren't around, you just went out and socialised. There was no pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:23 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3lypVnJ0HM Go to 6:40 minutes in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:16 PM
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Rosters sound exhausting, i was always more of a 1 at a time person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:02 PM
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I don't think it's that beautiful women are having fun with attractive men, it's more that there are average women who are attempting to do that and not dating average men, at least on the Apps. That's what men on there get tired of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:33 PM
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And men like younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah Society thinks they can dictate what choices we can and can't make, screw them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:56 PM
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Yeah "Whisky dick" is definitely a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:34 PM
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It's one of the most overused words now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:29 PM
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That's why if you were in your 20's and that woman didn't want you, but you turn 30 and then they suddenly come back you turn them down and date younger. That's the only way to push back against this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:19 AM
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Todays generation are all about.. I want, I want, I want, I’m looking for, he has to, she has to etc etc. People are so egocentric now, it’s all about them and what they get from a relationship, not what they can give in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:58 PM
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Yeah I think this summarises it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ReBJfxHjFU
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:04 PM
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Of course it's fair, they're with men with honest intentions instead of narcissitic abusive losers who just use women and throw them away, this small portion is of no benefit to society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:23 AM
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Yeah i'm not against it, im 30 and my girlfriends 24
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:00 PM
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Then don't be the guy who ends up in that situation, date someone you desire, not a person you settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:27 AM
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Ignore all those demands it's all nonsense, just look for someone in reality who's more grounded, if you're in the US head to the south and find a conservative woman, or failing that you have the option to travel to Europe, Asia and Latin America and doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:18 PM
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It does doesn't it, i think people are getting too caught up in the "rat race" over happiness and fulfilment in life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:30 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:17 PM
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Ok Karen no need to overreact 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:22 PM
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I sent you a link in another comment of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:09 PM
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Ok sure https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=crying+over+chad Start scrolling lol too many to count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:47 PM
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"Thursday" is probably the only app that seems more sensible as it invites everyone to social events where they can meet face to face, skips over a lot of the ghosting you would normally come across on hinge, tinder, bumble etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:35 PM
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Too bad they are already created in such a way where the only thing people value is physicality and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:37 PM
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Conservatism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:22 PM
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If they didn't mind they wouldn't be moaning about them on there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:18 PM
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And a divided society, brilliant....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:41 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:55 AM
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Oh but I have, hence why i advise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:45 AM
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Doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:23 AM
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The apps are hell on earth for the average man now, 20 years ago they weren't going through that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:16 AM
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Just as men don't have to put up with a 35 year old that's slept around and now expects commitment, they can just date a mid 20's woman instead....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:55 AM
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It's not better though because it leads to indecision in the first place aka the paradox of choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:51 AM
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Nothing wrong with wanting minimal competition, 20 years ago and further back than that too, it was only local men dealing with local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:50 AM
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It's simple, we remove apps and have more people interact in real life like how it's always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:17 AM
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If that was really what they desired then they wouldn't be on hundreds of clips on the internet crying over getting pumped and dumped by the hot guy XD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:15 AM
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Apps are just full of bots and catfishes if that's what you really enjoy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:56 PM
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I disagree, it's easier to vet a personality than it is to stare at a picture of a person you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:14 AM
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It sucks for women if all the attention they get is only for sex instead of getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:54 AM
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I think it's the apps that are the root cause of why most men can't find anyone, recognising the non stop ghosting and the large exclusion of men and the lack of dates etc I think we should get rid of the apps permanently and focus on creating more events for singles in a society where men and women can interact properly without being judged at a superficial level. Conversation and true socialising is a lost art.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:57 AM
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IMO the day when dating apps are removed, then you might see some fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:51 AM
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That's one of the main flaws of the apps, the indecision that goes round and round ie grass is greener syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:42 PM
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Yes I have platonic friends who are women but i don't get involved with exes out of respect for my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:18 PM
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What does that book shed light on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:47 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting a woman in her mid 20's, if you've ever been to the deadbedroom thread you'll see that there are some men who've got with a girl in her 30's and gave her a chance only to be resented. Women who are younger tend to have less baggage overall. My partner is 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:45 PM
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Chad is just basically a new term for "Jock"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:02 PM
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Are those 47 women also on the apps though? Because that could also explain turning him down, when you believe you have other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:27 PM
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And then they show up at 30 and expect the men they didn't get with at 20's to pick them when it suits them? Why should they? This is exactly why passport bro's exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:48 PM
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If he isn't fat, takes care of his body, has his finances sorted, doesn't sleep around, then no that is not his league. He doesn't have to date a single mom and a fat woman, of course a rich TikToker Instagram girl isn't either, but a woman who doesn't have kids, isn't overweight and has zero baggage is his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:25 PM
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One of the worst kinds is the "jealousy" test, i was in a night club once back in 2015 when i was single and got talking to a girl at the bar then another guy shows up she turns to him starts talking to him, they exchange numbers and she says to me "did it bother you that i did that?" i just smiled, unphased, drank my beer and walked off to find a different girl, i knew what she was doing and i wasn't gonna fall for it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:10 PM
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But women do it subconsciously, the testing is to evaluate whether you're legit or not. Too good to be true or just full of shit telling her what she wants to hear. She's doing it cos she has strong emotions for you and she needs to know it's all real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:58 PM
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My view on this whole issue is that the women will eventually realise that they must get with those men they did not view as potential partners, some might realise this when it's too late and some will probably decide to stay single for the rest of their lives because the dating pool is going to be very small and the average men who have been at the fringes of society will start dating women that are younger than them and this will lead to higher age gaps between men and women in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:43 PM
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Sure, if you want to get catfished and run into profiles using old pictures who look nothing like that when you meet in reality and large numbers of scammers 😂 OLD is literally dead now. I thank god that my partner i met in person was actually attractive. The amount of horror stories that my friend has told me of meeting girls off the apps who created profiles that made them look slim but turned out to be the complete opposite when he agreed to meet them at the bars are endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:21 AM
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We need to get back to community and tribes and get off of the brainwashing of phones and apps. There's too much information going around also and everyone is way over stimulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:01 AM
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Yeah technology is not nature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:28 AM
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Yeah i read that Bumble is already down by 33 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:23 AM
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Facebook was never meant for dating, but keeping in touch with friends and family. That's how i remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:21 AM
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I think the key is everyone acknowledging that social media and the apps have done the most damage to the dating world, and that we need to get rid of it before people just become more alienated and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:19 AM
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Nature? I think you're underestimating the hold that technology has on influencing ones decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:59 AM
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I agree, i love your name btw my mums called sheila 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:43 AM
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Not if we banned apps, instagram etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:36 AM
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I think social media has an impact on a lot of these figures thrown around, the idea that so many men are unattractive is nonsense, that just sounds like the internet talking rather than personal experience. Let's honestly ask ourselves would this view be around had Dating apps and Instagram not come into existence? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:37 PM
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It's a bit unusual though to only like a small percentage of men, i've never witnessed foreign girls acting like that, it only seems to be western girls, almost like social media has warped the minds somewhat. There are a lot of good men out there who are getting ignored for some chad just because he looks good, which is ridiculous because that's not how you should only measure a person's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:20 PM
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Because they will learn how to flirt and social skills, the art of conversation is something that can never be replaced by technology. And if you look at the statistics 20 years ago compared to now you'll see that there was a lot more men and women coupled up and less single epidemics. It's a lot easier to pick someone out of 50 people in a small pool than it to choose 1,000 ( which only leads to indecision and always assuming someones' better which gets no where)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:48 PM
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I'm already partnered, but it doesn't change that doing that would still help a lot of average men. The solution would be a game changer and would force people to be more social with one another and start to erode the other cultural element of prioritising yourself over everyone else all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:41 PM
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They only have access because of the apps, which if we took away would stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:32 AM
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Poor choices are still poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:30 AM
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Girls travel in groups to feel safe though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:36 PM
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Perhaps because those men are the kind of men who actually want to have a family and get married, not just have mindless casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:35 PM
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No we aren't, but as the apps show, their are a lot of men who will do anything to get in a girls pants, you'd really take a chance with 10 men alone knowing maybe 5 of them could be trouble?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:28 PM
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But have you seen how male mallard ducks gang up on the female ducks for mating? Because 10 men for 1 woman would look like that, that's not exactly a pleasant experience for the woman is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:16 PM
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And men are not going to get with women who only chase after chads, they will instead adapt and go after younger women overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:05 PM
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That 200 to 13 sounds like whats happening on the dating apps, in real life those kind of ratio's would never be sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:03 PM
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Technology influences a lot, compare the rate of people getting coupled up 20 years ago to now and it's obvious that there's a pattern, especially considering this ONLY started occurring ( the epidemic of singles) after Social Media/ Dating apps rose to prominence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:15 PM
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You criticise men for going abroad yet don't say anything about the fact that women keep chasing narcisstic chads who just pump and dump them which is why the western dating market is such a mess for average men? Hypocrite, they are going where they aren't going be treated like shit and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:31 AM
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As someone else put it, " It’s likely that the standards of both men and women are not actually real, but rather programmed into their minds by the media and the broader cultural narrative, I think if we stopped deliberately pushing these messages, most people’s standards would decrease."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:26 AM
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Because someone in their 30's has a lot more life experience and has done things that a person in their 20's perhaps hasn't, they could have been divorced, slept around loads, maybe have a kid etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:07 PM
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Because more choices or even more accessibility doesn't equal more results. Ever been to a candy or toy store as a child? Too many options isn't always good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:57 AM
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Then you throw toxic groups like Incels and AWDTSG into the mix and you can see why everything is a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:44 AM
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Maybe because men don't want a woman who comes with a lot of trauma and baggage? i'm 30 but my partner is 24
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:17 AM
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They are certainly a concern that needs addressing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:28 AM
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Dating apps have made men more lonelier, depressed, and lack genuine love, intimacy and connection from women more than ever because most of the people are not looking for a serious relationship there. Just one night stands, or some lie they want a relationship, to get someone for them to use and abuse. In my experience 90% are shallow and only looking for some fast hook up, only to forget them the next day. It's not worth it, in fact from what i've seen the apps are actually more effective over…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:16 PM
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But you still have competition
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:12 PM
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I think if you do it respectfully and learn to take no without it hurting your ego it can work in the right situation, there is one dating coach on here who in fact got married from cold approach https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AGmMcuL9pvs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:28 PM
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It's not sustainable, they will have to settle or remain alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:04 AM
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Sounds pretty miserable, nothing can replace the love of a fulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:54 PM
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According to a 2017 Economist article, polygamous societies are more likely to collapse than other societies and are more prone to war and invasion. The article also states that all of the 20 most unstable countries on the Fragile States Index have polygamy as a feature of life. Probably not the smartest idea unless you want History to repeat itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:23 AM
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It's not there would be a revolution if something like this occured
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:10 AM
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Stop the push for everything to be online and create a society that is more centered on meeting in third places and communities like it was 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:40 AM
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It would take a conservative government to step in and remove things that people are becoming too addicted to like the dating apps, tiktok, instagram etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:21 AM
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They don't have to though, if they don't want to be put in that situation they can just go for a younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:11 PM
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Just don't use dating apps thats how i met my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:50 PM
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Are you a Gen Z who only grew up with social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:02 PM
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First it was the top 1% then it's 2% then it's 3%, 5% , 10%, 20% these figures are getting more silly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:34 AM
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It isn't obsolete. Men are better on the whole when they take the difficult path, not the easy one. Dating apps are the symbol of lazy, comfortable, sheep-minded society . I know some people who are happy from meeting their partner on apps. Good for them. But if they didn’t have the apps, they would have met her somewhere else, and they would have earned her, not been given her by a corporation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:16 AM
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It's declining https://www.bustle.com/p/the-size-of-hookup-culture-is-being-greatly-overestimated-report-finds-its-having-some-damaging-effects-61050
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:06 PM
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If thats true then why are their so many average looking couples then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:46 PM
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Yeah I think If men stopped thirsting over overweight women below their league and got some standards and went for women who they found attractive that would change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:31 PM
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Society collapsed for the Romans because of civil wars and barbarian invasions from the Huns, Gauls, Visigoths etc not because of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:42 PM
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I'm already getting laid, i have a partner i met offline, i'm only speaking for the men that are struggling with OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:06 PM
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Ban the apps. It solves the problem of chads getting away with pumping and dumping every woman that the average man is interested in on there. I also think that women , should learn how to be satisfied with good enough. As my mum and dad once said to me.. "You need to find somebody who is good enough for you in every aspect, and she needs to find you good enough in every aspect , and then you build a relationship around that" It makes a lot of sense. Of course you will always meet guys who are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:12 PM
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If men get cut out they will just go international, it's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:03 PM
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get rid of dating apps instagram etc and bring back a return to more in person dating methods
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:11 PM
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Because women in those countries give people a chance, they don't turn them down just because they are not a stupid chad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:56 AM
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Not on this scope though where 80% of men have been shut out on apps, i never witnessed this utter madness when i was going out in the 2000's. People were far less superficial and narcisstic before technology FACTS! And until it's rolled back things are only gonna get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:53 AM
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A lot of problems would go away if we banned dating apps, instagram, tiktok, OF etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:35 PM
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Right and as we know, one of those environments influencing unrealistic standards is dating apps. It would be interesting to see in a experiment how the world would look if all these apps, instagram, tik tok etc just shut down for one whole year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:30 PM
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Ok yeah I agree the 2nd one is wrong to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:47 PM
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And chads are not attracted to average women they want the top tier women and will pump and dump the former
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:28 PM
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I'm not a passport bro but my girlfriend is originally from Portugal, I think men just want to experience a different culture and it could be that there are men who feel their values are more in common with foreign women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:27 PM
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What if those same men travelling abroad are the guys who are being ignored in favour of a Chad in their own country did that not occur to you? If you had options to bypass that problem by dating elsewhere I don't see why you wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:22 PM
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The root of all the problems you mention is thanks to social media and dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:28 AM
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Trump has some of those traits, the way he used to handle Putin in diplomatic relations, he was firm but no push over didn't show weakness but also showed that he could talk to him on his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:38 PM
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Yes I believe it was a woman who's the author of a book called - Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough who addresses a lot of this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:31 PM
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Wtf is beevis and butthead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:32 PM
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That's crazy, i'm 6 foot and have never been called short lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 PM
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You've also heard of "pegging" right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:13 PM
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Well the choice is settle or get pumped and dumped 24/7 that's the price to pay with sleeping with models out of your league 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:58 PM
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I think you meant to say picked there, pegged....hahaha hey if that's his kink fair enough 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:37 PM
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There was a tv show I remember watching last year called "Rise and fall" where there were sixteen contestants who divided themselves into the "Rulers" and the "Grafters". While the Rulers lived in a luxury penthouse making the decisions, the Grafters lived in the basement, carrying out tasks to win money for the prize pot. Something that I observed was that the women on the show who came from a CEO level background were difficult people to get on with as opposed to the other women on the show wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:31 PM
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Yeah that's so degenerate to do that to a date behind their back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:33 PM
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Match are going to get taken to the cleaners in court by lawsuits
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:26 AM
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No it's because they are insufferable and extremely abrasive, my girlfriend is a vet that looks after animals and is lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:13 AM
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Imagine if "Anonymous" went after them, it would be funny as i know what that group is capable of 😂 cyber attacks would no doubt hurt them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:49 PM
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Not really, even 20 years ago it was easier for a lot of men to meet partners through school, social circle, work etc. Anyway back to my point, some potential negative aspects for men using dating apps include: Pressure to conform to traditional masculine stereotypes: Men may feel pressure to present themselves in a certain way to attract matches, reinforcing gender norms and potentially leading to feelings of inadequacy if they don't fit the mold. Objectification: Some dating app interactions c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:45 PM
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There's clearly a lot of inequality on the apps, it's not about advantages, it's exposing the fact that a huge portion of men are cut out for a much narrower amount which is a cause for concern. I think the lawsuits against the dating app corporations are perfectly justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:25 PM
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No it won't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:14 PM
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Tiktok is already getting banned, apps will follow i reckon
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:37 PM
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It's also liberals in power that are in fact making it harder for the local women in my country with the rapid flow of single immigrant men who are coming in thanks to open border policies under the Labour government and harassing them in the streets it's happening so regulary in the UK now. My girlfriend is so nervous when she's not with me at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:09 PM
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It began in February and is still ongoing, from what I know Lawsuits usually can take up to 12 months to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:07 PM
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If the lawsuit against Match exposes their practices as fraudulent and is a success then we might see an end at some point to that corporation and OLD will collapse, it's already struggling anyway what with the levels of stocks that have dropped over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:13 PM
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Based on just how they look? What about is this person compatible for a relationship and marriage or are they just going to pump and dump?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:35 AM
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I think thats why you'll have men going overseas because a lot of places in Europe, South America, Asia etc do have a lot more women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:28 AM
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Date younger and choose someone with not as much baggage, i'm going out with a 24 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:25 AM
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It's a dangerous game for anyone to play sleeping with another mans woman, i went to college with someone who went through that, then one day i read the news, and found out he had got locked up for 14 months for punching the guy to the floor and then slashing him with a knife after he caught him with another woman sitting on top of another man in his living room at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:18 AM
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Yes social circle and communities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:07 PM
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If there's something those two share in common is that they both create unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:24 PM
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I think we can, if we banned dating apps, instagram, porn etc women would stop being exposed to the kind of narcisstic men who only manipulate them and put them in "harems" without the girl even knowing it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:02 AM
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There is also an orgasm gap for ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:09 PM
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They want relationships not to be pumped and dumped in some meaningless ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:08 PM
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There's plenty of average guys who are coupled up go outside, i am one of them. Sorry I don't buy that, it's just societal standards influenced by the access to options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:15 PM
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I gurantee if social media and dating apps dissappeared the rate of relationships would rise because more people would be going out and socialising like the past
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:04 PM
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Female nature my ass lol this is the apps and social media everyone knows it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:01 PM
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You're wrong it is causing this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:25 PM
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And we also have to accept that if any men are cast out they have every right to go abroad to a different dating market where they won't have to put up with that attitude, i'm not doing myself as i was lucky enough to meet a girl in my own country but for all the guys who can't i'm not against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:47 PM
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If OLD and Instagram dissappeared they would soon be humbled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:46 PM
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Its such a cringe term
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:07 PM
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Or theres the other alternative, if they aren't having success in their own country, they will travel overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:59 AM
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There are liars on both sides, why do you think that some of those groups have been SHUT DOWN?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:55 AM
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I dont blame video games either it's definitely social media/ instagram/dating apps etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:40 AM
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They will go bankrupt with the amount of users walking away from them, there's also a lawsuit in the process at the moment against them which could fuck them over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:24 AM
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Check the stocks they've fallen a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:04 PM
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The ones all owned by Match
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:32 AM
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I dont think anyone here is suggesting communism but the facts do show that too much choice can overwhelm someone to not making anything at all, the "Paradox of choice"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:40 PM
1

Sounds like some porn fantasy, i imagine only a small percent of men can even get that, pleasure after a while will only lead to desiring more again and it will be empty in the end when you still feel the same afterwords, i mean what is better than actually loving someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:38 PM
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I've got a cousin who's literally doing this lol he's going out with a single mother while at the same time sleeping with girls on the side behind her back smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:16 PM
1

Banning apps and porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:54 PM
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With the rise in choking acts without consent of which some women have even died from I would agree that porn has an impact https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/dec/08/sexual-choking-is-now-so-common-that-many-young-people-dont-think-it-even-requires-consent-thats-a-problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:30 PM
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All fun and games until they never contact again and the woman are left heartbroken because their dream of landing prince charming never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:55 PM
4

The best ones are formed from meeting in person, at least theres time to vet someone a lot more and you aren't just judged based on how you look in a profile picture, more chance to make your personality shine. I met my girlfriend through social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:59 PM
4

Choice was always around even before the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:54 PM
2

Start with destroying the apps and social media just tax the shit out of them for false promises and scams and make them go bankrupt. These big corporations have attempted to turn dating into a casino slot machine and they need to suffer for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:37 PM
2

Why do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:33 PM
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Because its very superficial, imagine thinking looks alone are the be all and end all of things thinking you've found someone good only to get dumped because you ignored red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:54 PM
2

Utter bollocks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:37 PM
8

No, dating apps did
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:47 AM
1

Online takes away the magic of a meeting in person the old fashioned way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:24 PM
1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:10 AM
2

They're on the verge of falling apart anyway if you look up the stock levels for apps these days
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:09 AM
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So did i, im 30 and average guys did get laid, i went clubbing a lot in my 20s and saw it with my own eyes, the apps and insta raised the expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:13 PM
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Its cut off 80 percent of men on the apps, thats a recipe for disaster and a lot of resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:06 PM
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Keep having sex and get pumped and dumped by said attractive men...not exactly winning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:01 PM
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I'm not afraid to be vulnerable with women, one of my good friends reached out to me after my dad died when i was 20, she sent me a message on whatsapp the next day and arranged to come down, pulled up outside my house and gave me the warmest hug and then took me out for a drive to grab some dunkin donuts where we had a nice chat, that was 8 years ago. I ended up seeing her again a couple of weeks ago on my birthday when she joined my friend group for drinks at a couple of bars with me, we all k…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:14 PM
6

You take away the apps and social media and that mentality basically vanishes, why has no one realised that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:36 PM
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Yeah short term gratification doesn’t lead to the longer term satisfaction of a life well lived. A lot of that energy gets transferred to raising kids, the issue is that we live in a society where everything is so disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:25 PM
1

There's a reason theres' an orgasm gap for ONS and not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:03 PM
1

I think deep down, as humans, we have a need for companionship, and hookup culture just doesn't bring that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:29 PM
1

Nope https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gQ1rMwNWHpw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:54 AM
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Actually it's the opposite https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gQ1rMwNWHpw listen to this. If anything, average men are MORE LIKELY to work a lot harder to bring their partner to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:53 AM
2

Dating apps and social media have really created a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:21 PM
1

I think going by the 60 percent of men single and only 30 percent women single staticistics, means that a lot of older men are dating younger, younger women are dating older, and younger men and older women are being left out of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:55 PM
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Could another reason for men going there be because the gender population is more balanced and not so much men more than women? I mean if your on the apps and there's more men, go to bars and there's more men, go to hobbies and theres more men, i can kinda understand why that would be frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:44 PM
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The point is that on the apps specifically, most average men dont get anywhere near the attention as those men on there, the regular women on there are mostly chasing the guys in the video. Although what I will say is that it's players like that who ruin it for the average men on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:41 PM
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Did you know there also an app that guys use "face app" to edit themselves into chads, quite humourous really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:28 PM
1

Whats that about not settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:02 PM
1

In the context of dating apps, it's men like that who are pursued more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:26 PM
1

Of course, as they say "all is fair in love and war"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:02 PM
1

Whats your view on the PPB's?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:57 PM
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And if men don't want 35 year old single mothers with baggage they'll date younger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:50 PM
1

Fantastic sex is not getting pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:48 PM
5

Is it also not desperate to shoot above your league despite knowing you won't end up actually in a relationship with that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:35 PM
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I think this is what OP means https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PhwoYbt0NAQ&t=1s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:09 PM
0

What about if we just limit dating apps social media and bring back more of the old school avenues of interacting in person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:37 PM
1

It seems that some men are already opting out what with that group known as the Passport bro's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:04 AM
1

Just anything that has to do with likes and DM'S
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:55 PM
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I think it's the players that are ruining it for both sides on the dating apps, especially for the men and women who actually want to date, the average men are ignored, the women who are excited about meeting someone end up getting just used and disregarded. While the men who want to date are wishing he could have had that chance. It's sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:43 PM
1

So then limiting dating apps in society and other online sources would help men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:06 PM
0

Average men could do all of those things and still have a chance, but on apps, it's the chads that get most of the likes, the average men in contrast get hardly any likes. In the past the average men weren't just ignored because they didn't have a 6 pack, broadjawline or any other over the top facial features, they were still spoken to by women and many average men did get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:14 PM
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He certainly has an ego that could fit a football stadium
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:58 AM
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Despite being a bastard trafficker of women, i think the one he did for men was kickstart them into building themselves up into something, whether that was career aspirations or telling them get into shape etc just to get their life together properly as a lot of men who were feeling low were missing that sort of motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:35 AM
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I think OP should've first specified which year he meant by the "past"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:29 AM
2

By the past what metric? 80's? 90's? 2000's? Because I can say people were a lot more sociable in those years than nowadays so i would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:00 AM
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To be fair In the past you weren't being compared to other "options" since dating apps weren't prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:34 AM
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It's not so much the choice, but how the system is run. Some potential negative aspects for men using dating apps include: Pressure to conform to traditional masculine stereotypes: Men may feel pressure to present themselves in a certain way to attract matches, reinforcing gender norms and potentially leading to feelings of inadequacy if they don't fit the mold. Objectification: Some dating app interactions can lead to objectifying experiences, where individuals are valued primarily for their ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:50 PM
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They clearly don't work, it's a flawed system https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/feb/17/are-dating-apps-fuelling-addiction-lawsuit-against-tinder-hinge-and-match-claims-so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:51 PM
0

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:38 AM
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Attractive women are dating attractive men, average women on the other hand are getting dumped after sex by attractive men thats the real reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:37 PM
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Ultra handsome men are not with average looking women dont fall for that either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:31 PM
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He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life. - Muhammed Ali
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:00 PM
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Well i can say that shes defo out of my league in terms of looks, shes from portugal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:21 PM
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Chris makes that mistake of talking about 80 percent of women chasing top 10 percent blah blah blah so no, I think Dan is a bit more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:07 PM
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I think men should still not be threatened by them, Dan is right. Lifes about taking risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:00 PM
1

I met mine through friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:55 PM
4

Only a small percentage compared to men and Gen Z have also quit them https://www.cnbc.com/2024/07/02/gen-z-is-ditching-the-apps-to-date-in-real-life-here-are-4-top-tips-.html#:\~:text=Gen%20Z%20is%20tired%20of,born%20between%201997%20and%202012.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:53 PM
7

I don't even use instagram and was still able to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:28 PM
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It's not a myth though is it, dating apps are clearly a sausage fest https://www.google.com/search?q=ratio+of+tinder+men+to+women&sca_esv=4f60644d94a128dd&sca_upv=1&source=hp&ei=yh6IZpe4D5WehbIP8KuymAs&iflsig=AL9hbdgAAAAAZogs2uD8SUYm80sQ7PIIYm-KGj-_LU10&ved=0ahUKEwiXxca-qJCHAxUVT0EAHfCVDLMQ4dUDCBc&uact=5&oq=ratio+of+tinder+men+to+women&gs_lp=Egdnd3Mtd2l6IhxyYXRpbyBvZiB0aW5kZXIgbWVuIHRvIHdvbWVuMgYQABgWGB4yBhAAGBYYHjILEAAYgAQYhgMYigUyCxAAGIAEGIYDGIoFMggQABiABBiiBDIIEAAYgAQYogQyCBAAGIAEGKIEMggQABiA…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:27 PM
2

Refusing to go out is just shooting yourself in the foot really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:58 PM
5

The photos at the end had mostly average looking partners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:37 PM
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There isnt, they settle in the end with their looks match
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:59 PM
1

That isn't whats happening hence the wide spread pumping and dumping that goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:42 PM
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There's a hierarchy, attractive women can settle with attractive men, average men can sometimes settle with attractive women ( I consider myself in this category since i've been told my partner is better looking than me) average women can settle with average men but average women cannot settle with attractive men since the attractive men are only out for a hook up with the average woman thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:39 PM
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I wonder how the government would react if half the male population just left the country and went abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:18 PM
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"A lot of men are just unattractive and undesirable to women" Spoken like someone whos only used a dating app in their life, my partner that i met through friends certainly didn't find me unattractive, most men are not unattractive you are just so exposed to the delusional world of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:09 PM
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Personally, I think if you're sleeping around with bunch of different people at the same time then it turns into a Paradox of Choice scenario. Basically it's like logging into Netflix and trying to find something to watch, but you can't settle on anything because you have too many choices...so usually you don't end up watching anything at all. Obviously, if the people involved (not just the two people, but everyone else they're seeing) have agreed on this scenario, then that's their business. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:30 PM
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Wasn't like that when I met my partner but each to their own i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:27 PM
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This is the impact of social media https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/woman-rejects-5000-men-who-filled-out-an-application-to-be-her-boyfriend/news-story/ba709a238419d1e4dc1391ba8825391a Imagine turning down FIVE THOUSAND MEN that is honestly ridiculous, what the hell have we done
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:20 PM
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