Evening-Employment Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	I don’t want to spend my life alone	STRATEGY	Evening-Employment	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/20 02:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Pedophilic scrote logic Thaaaank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 09:52 PM
2	Ugh. And some people really believe this is okay. But did you know that if you stop wearing makeup at ANY point in the relationship, he can accuse you of no longer "trying" or "caring" about him anymore? Sure, fine, hitting me and cheating on me is just you doing you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 01:35 AM
2	how important is passion/chemistry? "Most people need consistency more than they need intensity. Intensity makes a good story. Consistency makes progress.” It's tough. I'm not going to say passion/chemistry doesn't matter or that they're bad. Vetting is tricky and to the extent that you're able to, try to remain objective. But also? You're a human being. You can have feelings without being ruled by them. Been practicing mindfulness for years!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 01:32 AM
51	A key reason why FDS is not comparable to incels/TRP In addition to sex, I've had about...four different "opportunities" just in the last three months to be someone's girlfriend. This is during quarantine. I was just rotationally texting to pass the time. They didn't even meet me in person. I think you guys are desperate. AND WE ALL KNOW WHY.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 01:21 AM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020 Again, brilliant. Thanks for calling me out! I'm absolutely recovering from a very bad habit of sleeping with people on the first date. My therapist (bless her) and I are working on this. I apologize if this seems glib, but are there really men who would wait three months? I imagine the question answers itself, but I'm struggling to imagine this man. Could be a self worth thing on my part, though!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/20 04:00 AM
1	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020 Extremely well put. Thank you! To be honest, I'm not sure what an "FDS" approved profile template would look like. I want to be myself but I also recognize its more complicated than that. If I'm really doing justice by myself, it should be. All good things to consider! I appreciate your time and energy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/20 03:56 AM
11	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020 Finally put "no hookups" towards the top of my dating profile. I can't believe how much time I invested in getting to know people who explicitly said they weren't interested in anything serious and how long I critically undervalued myself. I would give someone a shot just for being nicer to me than my exes -- even if they weren't that cute. Here's to finally waking up!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 05:27 AM