Evening-Term9993 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
212	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become	Activism/Support	Evening-Term9993	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 02:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Misandry isn't a flex He is brainwashed.	/r/EverydayMisandry	25/01/26 05:23 PM
1	Lovely This is the type of picture to brainwash women into thinking hating all men is smart and cool.	/r/EverydayMisandry	21/01/26 09:32 AM
11	Foolish hot takes by superficial people I mean the first one has some truth to it. Women have make-up and men using it is frowned upon by everybody. Generally the idea of male grooming or trying to improve physical appearance has now been lumped with toxicity and looksmaxxing culture. The second slide is just a plain backwards take, ignorant of hypergamy and ignorant of today's dating standards set by women for men.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/11/25 03:31 PM
13	False accusations are "ok" I wish I was gay.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/11/25 11:17 AM
5	"Apparently if Homo Sapiens Sapiens with XY Chromosomes disappeared, we'll become a Utopia." <image>	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/11/25 10:43 AM
5	Apple Review has finally responded after 20 days about why my All Male iOS App was rejected If you do find a way to make a case, you could start a fundraiser. I'm sure many in here would support it.	/r/MensRights	21/08/25 09:42 AM
17	User on 2x hates men because of period cramps And I hate being a man because women and society think I'm sexualizing them whenever I blankly glance at them. Another generalisation and paradoxical argument. Yes, I can't wait a millennium until the knowledge of every human is absorbed into one AI machine so we don't have to worry about genders or period cramps. 😍	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/08/25 03:26 PM
16	Misandry is making me suicidal I get it dude, it's very frustrating. Especially when we can't call it out directly, it's pretty hard to make any meaningful progress when it's not even noticed as a problem by society or even by our own gender. What is it exactly that makes you feel those biases and double standards the most?	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/08/25 03:08 PM
42	As a man who has been raped twice by women, this is disgusting, but not surprising. r/mensrights is a "hate subreddit"? Fucking hell man and that's an auto ban? We aren't cooked boys, we're incinerated.	/r/EverydayMisandry	04/08/25 03:07 PM
3	Being rich is the key gentlemen Tom Cruise is the best example of this. He went from having a chopped recessed jaw to one of the most recognized chads in Hollywood because of a recessed jaw surgery. It quite literally changed the course of his life.	/r/MensRights	24/07/25 10:42 AM
5	People believe men can’t be happy single This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact special punch complete apparatus numerous cagey memory ad hoc cake friendly	/r/MensRights	21/07/25 10:57 AM
-1	The feminist conundrum No. Start calling out and shaming casual misandry. It's not too difficult. The same way that woman have been calling out misogyny for years.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 10:35 PM
-2	The feminist conundrum Calling out both sides literally is fighting bias. You just want a turn being bitter and think anyone not cheering you on is 'part of the problem.' That’s not fighting, that’s sulking	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 03:51 PM
0	The feminist conundrum Yeah, I’ve spoken out against misandry because double standards suck. That doesn’t mean I’ll cosign misogyny just to ‘even the score.’ If your idea of justice is ‘they did it first,’ you’re not fighting bias. You’re just flipping it.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 03:14 PM
2	The feminist conundrum Me: points out a lazy generalization. You: ‘no u.’ Wow, groundbreaking.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 03:04 PM
-4	The feminist conundrum So the logic is: 'they generalize us, so we should generalize them back'? Nothing says intellectual honesty like copy-pasting the same bad behavior you claim to hate. Great strategy.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 02:51 PM
-9	The feminist conundrum Edgy nonsense disguised as wit. If you’re gonna generalize half the planet, at least be original.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:52 PM
-8	The feminist conundrum Thank you	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:50 PM
4	The feminist conundrum It being a meme doesn’t magically erase the context or impact. People lean on irony to say things they wouldn’t say outright. That doesn’t make the message harmless, it just makes it easier to deflect when called out. I’m not 'missing the joke,' I’m pointing out how it's used	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:39 PM
-39	The feminist conundrum If the point isn’t about all women, maybe don’t frame it like it is. Pretending vague blame isn’t harmful is exactly how lazy generalizations spread	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:26 PM
4	The feminist conundrum I caught the reference. That clip’s been reposted into oblivion. Recognizing a meme doesn’t make it immune to critique, especially when it’s used to hide weak takes	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:26 PM
-65	The feminist conundrum Blanket statements like that don't help the conversation. If you're frustrated with a particular behavior, it's more productive to be specific. Generalizing all women not only weakens your point, it also reinforces the very stereotypes you're criticizing.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:16 PM
-88	The feminist conundrum No. Not all women.	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:04 PM
1	“You don’t care” Male therapist exposes misandry in the mental health field. Yeah, this sums it up nicely	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 01:23 PM
7	What must I do if I am being bullied by my female colleagues in the office (I am a man)? I'm really sorry you're going through this. What you've described sounds deeply upsetting, and no one should have to face that kind of treatment in the workplace. It takes a lot of strength to speak up about something like this, especially when you're being isolated and made to feel uncomfortable just for existing peacefully in your environment. What you're experiencing is not normal and most definitely not acceptable, as this goes beyond just teasing or awkwardness. It sounds like a mix of bull…	/r/MensRights	26/06/25 01:21 PM
3	Pro Male Collective News #2 You hit the nail on the head perfectly	/r/MensRights	26/06/25 12:42 PM
7	Apparently Not Liking the Idea of Putting People in Boxes Based on Their Birthdays Means You Hate Women Jumping to conclusions final boss. How can somebody that talks so confidently on introspection & self reflection not see the stupidity they're spouting out?	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/06/25 08:12 AM
1	Impossible to feel sympathy to somebody, based on their gender Bold to admit you lack empathy for 50% of the population and still ask if you're a bad person, like the answer isn’t baked into the question.	/r/EverydayMisandry	12/06/25 09:58 AM
2	What is the most pressing or important issue facing men that has nothing to do with women? That's nice to hear man. In the UK I myself get called a "melt" for talking about my mental health. For reference, melt by definition, means somebody who is acting overly soft, emotionally vulnerable, or pathetic. This is very common behaviour in the UK.	/r/MensRights	11/06/25 08:17 AM
29	What is the most pressing or important issue facing men that has nothing to do with women? Us putting each other down for talking about our mental health.	/r/MensRights	10/06/25 03:59 PM
3	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become Hey, I get where your frustration is coming from. You’ve clearly experienced or seen a lot of injustice, and I’m not here to deny any of that. Misogyny is real, dangerous, and it’s rightfully taken seriously. But what I’m talking about isn’t about ignoring that, it’s about making space for both conversations. Just because misandry might not lead to the same level of violence as misogyny doesn’t mean it’s harmless. When a society consistently shrugs off bias against one group, even in “joke” form…	/r/MensRights	08/06/25 12:21 PM
0	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become Yeah, I get what you’re saying and I totally agree that misandry is often overlooked or brushed off, and that’s a real problem. It definitely deserves more recognition and open discussion. Where I push back a bit is on the idea that it should get more focus because women’s issues have had a spotlight longer. I don’t think justice works that way, it’s not about flipping the imbalance, it’s about getting rid of the imbalance altogether. That's all I've been trying to say. To me, saying both misand…	/r/MensRights	08/06/25 12:19 PM
1	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become If you’re here just to say ‘sybau’ with no real contribution to the discussion, it makes it hard to take your engagement seriously. This space is meant to highlight men’s issues, including how casual misandry has become and dismissing it with mockery only proves the point. If you disagree, you’re free to explain why, but shutting down the conversation without substance doesn’t make a strong case for anything. Respect goes both ways.	/r/MensRights	07/06/25 04:08 PM
19	Sabrina Carpenters' New Song It’s honestly sad how normalized it’s become to mock or belittle men in mainstream media and worse, how it’s often framed as “empowerment.” Sabrina Carpenter had the platform and opportunity to uplift or start meaningful dialogue, but instead she leaned into the tired “men are trash” narrative. Releasing something like this during Men’s Mental Health Month isn’t just tone-deaf, it’s actively harmful. We talk a lot about equality and understanding, but content like this only fuels division. I’m n…	/r/MensRights	07/06/25 11:10 AM
-1	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I can understand your argument however misandry doesn’t need to outshine misogyny to be taken seriously. That is not justice, that is simply just flipping the imbalance. You don’t fix erasure by rewriting who’s allowed to matter more. It’s not “BS” to say both deserve equal attention, it’s the bare minimum if we’re serious about fairness. Saying misandry should get more focus just repeats the same hierarchy you’re supposedly against. If the problem is selective empathy, you don’t solve it by bei…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 10:28 PM
1	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become That’s honestly a smart move, creating work that reflects what you stand for has always been one of the most effective ways to counter a dominant narrative. Media shapes culture, and if we want to push back against the imbalance, we need stories that don’t just complain about the problem but actually reframe it. That said, I still think there’s space for both, cultural contribution and direct engagement. Art can plant the seed, but sometimes it takes a conversation to water it. Even when it feel…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 10:03 PM
-1	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become Listen man, saying misandry deserves more attention than misogyny is just flipping the same imbalance on its head. That mindset doesn’t and will absolutely not fix the problem, it just creates a new version of it. Misogyny didn’t get a pass just because it was ‘normal’ for decades, and misandry shouldn’t either. Both are corrosive, and the moment we start ranking which one ‘matters more,’ we’re fighting a losing battle. If the goal is fairness, then the double standards have to be called out acr…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 10:01 PM
-4	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I don’t think it’s ignorant, I think it’s nuanced. You’re right that open misogyny gets publicly condemned more in the West, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It just takes more covert forms now, think about wage gaps being dismissed, women’s health issues being underfunded, or how quickly female voices get discredited in certain industries. Any of these issues I'd be happy to discuss with you. But the same time, you’re absolutely right that misandry is often brushed off or even celebrated…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 08:44 PM
-7	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I get where you’re coming from, but I would not say one is worse than the other. I think both misandry and misogyny are serious problems, just expressed differently. Misogyny tends to show up more in physical violence and global structural oppression, while misandry often hides behind jokes, stereotypes, and social systems that quietly dismiss or shame men. One doesn’t cancel the other out. If we want an honest conversation, we have to be willing to call out both, not just whichever one feels mo…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 08:37 PM
5	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I hear the frustration, and you’re right that young men are growing up in an environment that often treats masculinity with suspicion or outright hostility. But just to clarify, it’s not just “older fellows” who see what’s going on. I’m 20, and I’ve been seeing this dynamic play out for years already. It’s not about age, it’s about awareness. More and more young guys are recognizing the double standards, the misandry masked as empowerment, and the social cost of just trying to speak up about it.…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 07:19 PM
1	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I’ve had my share of pushback, bans, and people refusing to engage in good faith too. You’re right that there’s a subset of activists (not just on the Left, to be clear) who weaponize ideology for control, not conversation. And trying to reason with people who already see reason itself as oppressive is exhausting. But here’s the thing: not everyone in those spaces fits that mold. Some people are misinformed, not malicious. Some are bystanders watching the exchange. And even if the person you’re …	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 07:10 PM
3	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I get where you’re coming from yes, sometimes pointing out a double standard can backfire socially. It’s true that some people double down or even retaliate, especially online. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible or not worth doing. That kind of thinking just hands the cultural narrative over to the loudest or most extreme voices. You say “they usually know that,” but in my experience, many people don’t really reflect on the double standards until someone politely points them out. You’re not a…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 05:39 PM
3	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become It depends on the context, but calling it out doesn’t always have to be confrontational. If I see that kind of line in a dating bio "I hate men but you’re cute" I’d swipe left, like anybody would I hope. But if there’s a space for a message or a way to address it with them, I’d say something like: “Just a heads-up, leading with misandry as a joke sends the wrong message. Flip the genders and it wouldn’t be okay, this shouldn’t be either.” That’s it. Short, clear, and respectful. You’re not tryin…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 05:07 PM
3	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become Easy. Dating bios that say “I hate men but you’re cute” get laughs and swipes. But let's flip it, if a guy wrote “I hate women but you’re hot,” he’d be dragged immediately. That’s not nuance, that’s a clear double standard. And when one version is brushed off as quirky or funny, it slips under the radar and repeats. It’s not hard to spot, it’s just easier to excuse when it’s aimed at men.	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 04:23 PM
5	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become Again I understand what you’re saying, that silence or disengagement can sometimes deflate the power of bad ideas. But history shows that silence can also signal acceptance, especially when the same message gets repeated over and over without pushback. Think about how women were expected to just “laugh off” casual misogyny for decades. It was baked into jokes, workplace culture, media, all under the excuse that it wasn’t serious. But the turning point came when enough women stopped brushing it o…	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 04:12 PM
20	We Need to Talk About How Casual Misandry Has Become I get where you’re coming from, but just avoiding misandry doesn’t address the bigger issue, it just sidesteps it. If casual contempt toward any group is left unchallenged, it gets normalized. If we only engage with the ‘nice’ people and ignore the toxic ones, we miss the chance to push back on a narrative that actively harms mutual respect. Silence can look a lot like agreement. I just think it's important to address this sort of thing, the same way women cracked down on casual misogyny.	/r/MensRights	06/06/25 03:18 PM