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| 141 | Some people are not meant to find a partner | Debate | EverhardWriting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:20 PM |
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| 2 | If your world view has basically no scientific backing, you are probably wrong.Phrenology was once a peer reviewed scientific field too buddy boy. Peer reviewed isn't the holy grail you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 07:24 PM |
| 2 | If your world view has basically no scientific backing, you are probably wrong.85% of all matter in the universe is not backed scientifically. Does 85% of the universe not exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | No way most men are friends with a rapistI know women can lie. I also know that in this case, the investigation they conducted was quite intensive, no stone left unturned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 08:59 PM |
| 4 | No way most men are friends with a rapistA (up until then) standup guy I used to know assaulted a girl in her dorm back in college. No warning signs, the guy just did it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:18 AM |
| 9 | No way most men are friends with a rapistSo, a long time ago I used to think the same, no way any of the boys could ever do something like that, right? Well, in college I had a large group of friends, I think it was around 20 people. I knew the stats of "X percentage of men is a rapist/would do it", but I didn't think this would apply to any of them, I trusted these guys with my life. Then one day, a girl in my class asked me if I knew "Guy". Of course I did, he and I were good friends. Then she hit me with the bomb that Guy assaulted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerSomehow, the majority of women keep choosing these abusive men to spend time around Somehow, the majority of abusive men keep manipulating women to spend time around them. Funny how that works... See how baseless your claim was? Back it up with a source senator. If sex hurts and you don't tell him to stop, that's on you. I see this as an extra reason for women to be more cautious or picky with who they choose to date or sleep with. Because if they chose wrong, the man might not actually stop whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerThat pressure is still there, it comes from people's preference in a partner. When female peacocks select a partner based on their tail feathers, that's sexual selection, which is part of natural selection. But according to you, when a woman (or a man) has certain preferences/requirements it's different? At our core, we are still natural beings, and as such are subjected to natural selection. Every creature, from a little protist to a human, is. The selection pressure might have decreased, or dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:40 AM |
| 10 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerA man or woman (or something else) still chooses/prefers a partner based on certain traits, so there's still selection for certain traits. Thus, the modern dating scene isn't removed from natural selection at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerWith reproduce, I meant have children. If you use birth control, evolutionary wise, you're in the same boat as a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 08:08 PM |
| 12 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerUnfortunately, just because everyone deserves it does not mean everyone will get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerSexual selection is a form of natural selection... And yes, height does not change your chance of survival, but according to every red pill and black pill man it does impact your reproductive succes. And again, natural selection is not the chance to survive, but to reproduce. So height based selection IS natural selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerBut we do use mamy of those natural resources as is (like the antibiotics I mentioned). When I talk about people natural, I talk about humanity as a whole. If man makes a primitive stone axe, cuts a trees with it and builds a log cabin, then I view that as natural. In the end, everything we have now was because originally man built something with their bodies. If a beaver would buy his wood from another beaver, I would still see the dam as natural. Also, yes, organisms using power to supress oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerTo me dating skills are a part of social skills, but I get what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerNo, it is not. Natural selection is a selective process. Selection pressure comes from the environment, and in this case, other people are part of the environment. If, for example, women want tall men, then the "environment" selects for tall men. But this doesn't mean there is a purpose to the selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerSocial skills are part of the best version that I was talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partner"Meant" might have been the wrong word. I meant it as a "you didn't get a partner? Too bad, not everyone gets a partner". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerEvolution (and as such natural selection) isn't goal driven, that's one of the biggest misconceptions about the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:26 PM |
| -2 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerI do understand that natural selection does not always lead to good outcomes, since (argument to authority incoming), i majored in evolutionary biology. I could have probably worded my statement better. I know evolution isn't teleological, and should have used other words. I used "meant to be" and "not meant to be" because it's easier to understand. What I meant was: if people can't get a partner, it is what it is. Not everyone can get one. Also, while natural selection isn't purpose driven, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerNope, the post was very much intended towards women too. Men can have standards for women too, and if a woman is physically unable to meet them, tough luck for her. We just see this less because it's mainly guys doing the chasing, but at least in other animals we can see some examples (like Jacanas). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerI don't believe in right or wrong genes. But even so, if they reproduced, at least natural selection wise they weren't "wrong". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerBecause they chose the wrong guy, which actually gives more credit to the fact that women should be apprehensive when it comes to this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerIt might still have them, but at least she won't have to worry about her partner ditching her when it goes wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerOn the medicine part: do you think bacteria are natural? If so, wait untill you find out what peniccillin really is. A naturally produced antibiotic that comes from... a fungus (of the genus Penicillium). So yes, we do in fact take penicillin from mushrooms. In fact, many antibiotics are derived from or directly sourced from living organisms. Were the trees used in the construction of my house not a part of nature? Or is this different because I (an organism) modified the tree to make my house? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:48 PM |
| -6 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerI'd say its as far or close from natural as a person's belief about what nature and natural is lets it be. So I'm going to ask, what do you see as natural? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerPossible abuse? Complications during pregnancy/childbirth? Two things that would make me reconsider my options if I was a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:35 PM |
| -2 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerIn the end, all those things can still be seen as "natural" , because a natural entity made it. Or should beehives, termite mounds, bird nests and the like not be considered as nature either? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 13 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerI don't think it's anyones obligation to make sure everyone has a partner. If two people find eachother that's great for them, but a few men and women being single for life does not lead to the end of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:32 PM |
| -2 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableIf you're 5'8 and looking for a girl, and the standard is "woman height + 3 inches", then look for women below 5'5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:22 PM |
| – | Shattered masculinity by penis size comparisonMy man got hit with the classic "the big ones hurt". I don't know if this will help you at all, but look at it from this angle: yeah, that guy might have been bigger, but from what I just read you're better. You're good in bed, you make her cum, big dick Randy did not. Anyone can have a big dick, you just have to born with one. Wow man, look at mr. 12 inch over here, he's so special. But that doesn't mean he knows how to use it, your GF even said so. IMO knowing how to fuck is more important tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:36 PM |
| 2 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableIf you still can't get anyone to like you after doing everything you can, I doubt you really did everything. More often than not it's personality that keeps these "universally ugly" people from finding a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableDefine universally ugly. I probably pass as universally ugly (assymetric face, lowkey fat, big nose, no jawline, etc.) and I still managed to pull a woman that's honestly way out of my league. A big part is in the way you present yourself: you can't really change an ugly face, but you can wash your greasy hair (for example). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:51 PM |
| – | The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce ratesLots of poor people in richer countries have it the same way. If you're barely scraping by, a 20 euro (average price where I live) pack of condoms is a big expense. On top of that, many wellfare systems give extra money when you have children, so more kids = more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:49 PM |
| – | The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce ratesDivorce statistics tend to be skewed anyways, since a person who never divorced only counts for one "not divorced" in the dataset, but a person that gets divorced has the potential to marry and divorce again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:43 PM |
| – | The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce ratesBecause most often, the poorest countries in the world have the worst (sexual) education, and less access to contraceptives and the like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:40 PM |
| -1 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableIf a woman rejects you solely based on height, then it might not be the kind of woman you want to chase after. And I know for a fact that many of the women I know wouldn't be against dating a smaller man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableIf I may ask, what are those things beyond your control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 09:23 AM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'I think this depends on which group of women you look at. I don't think many women living in Afghanistan or similar countries have it easy. A lot of third world countries are still behind on the Western standard for womens rights and education too. If you look closer to home, the women you see or hear about online on "easy mode" are probably exactly that: women you see online. The sample ain't exactly representative of the whole population. Of course you see more rich OF girls or "spoiled" wives… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:46 PM |
| 8 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Then why not go after the average woman who doesn't do the things you look down upon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:33 PM |
| 13 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.You could say the same about most men... Coming from a butt ugly guy himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:53 PM |
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