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Very good reply :) I will also add that alpha traits like outgoing and confidence can be easily trained. While beta traits like career / money takes much longer to upgrade. I think the beta man trained in confidence and cold-approaches can pull higher quality than the natural alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:25 PM
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Imho, it should be referred to 'alpha' and 'beta' traits. Because one man can be very alpha and also very beta at the same time. But you are very right that a man's personality affects his league. If he's outgoing and confident, he can score with girls relatively hotter than him. Miracles won't happen, and a nerdy guy won't suddenly go with super-models, but getting girl +1 or +2 vs. your attractiveness is definitely doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:23 PM
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Not only that - there is the whole industry commited to un-conditioning (I don't want to use the word 'brainwashing') men from their jelaously. For example: https://youtu.be/iMnCeGiVTFU The West trains the whole generation of males to be as beta as possible, then it's surprised that hardcore Chinese guys are taking over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:59 PM
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Mostly from cold-approaches in clubs, public transport, street, uni, etc. Everywhere. Just start talking to girls and see where it goes. You don't want to keep conversation going for the sake of it. Hit on her in a direct manner and tell you like her legs or something. If she excuses herself, then you move to the next. If she stays, then you ask for contact details (phone or messenger, fuck Facebook). Then you give it up to three dates. Afterwards, you ask her to come for weekend to your place t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:34 AM
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It's semi-effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:31 AM
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I had a similar story. I met a few players and tagged along long enough to learn their tricks. Those guys usually didn't have much going on for them, i.e. they had average jobs and little money, but they were getting laid right and left. They are a bit above average but nothing special, i.e. you could do the same after a year or so in gym and/or some fashion advice. I learned a lot. If you want to have casual sex, present yourself as a fuckboy interested only in her body. It takes a bit of pract…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:59 AM
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I am glad you are reading this sub, so you can learn something. However, I don't have energy for that 'you are insecure' bs. Please let's talk in a year or so. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:26 PM
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But people who talk like you are insecure. Grow up and we can talk again. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:03 PM
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If you mention the word 'insecure' again, I will stop this conversation. This is a manipulative tactic and I am not going to stress myself. You can learn something here or exchange insults - it's your choice. So you generalize all women. We are all dishonest... okay... I'm not pretending to be a "good-girl" because he has some boyfriend potential. Not generalise, but many of them follow this pattern. I hate the term "good-girl". I just don't want to have casual sex with everyone in the moment we…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:29 PM
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Agree 100%. It's even worse than that. It's BlackPill-ism (RedPill encourages self-improvement) and it's very prevalent amont 20yo men. Check YT videos. It's also very interwined with gaming videos and that's scary. I really fear for the future of current 20yo girls, because in a decade those guys will be what's available in dating pool. Those girls will pay the price for their mums' slutting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:23 PM
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I actually don't get your point here. My point is that you girls are very dishonest to yourself. If you fucked a rando from club, that's exacly what you are and don't bs yourself about 'mood'. There is nothing wrong with casual sex and my best relationships started as a fuck-fest. However, if you are suddenly pretending to be a 'good girl' just because dude has some boyfriend potential, this only shows how fake you are. I saw it over and over again in my dating life. Own your past and apply the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:08 PM
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Believe me I don't expect you or anyone with a mindset like that to even look at me :D Believe me that I did hear it many times. I was in yours-like vagina many times too (maybe even yours? loool). I have decent men in my life That's exactly the thing - you have *MEN* in your life, i.e. you have many uncommited fuck-buddies. You don't yet see difference between *fucking* and *dating*. I slept with 50+ women, but I found only three of them to be commitment-worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:34 AM
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If a girl fucked some rando from a club after knowing him for a few hours, she did that because she wanted to fuck a stranger. End of story. Sometimes that girl isn't in the mood to fuck a stranger. Fucking a stranger and having sex with someone you know, someone you trust is different. If from this you think that it's because she thinks "you are not as sexy for me as the other man" that's your insecurity talking. You forgot to call me 'immature' and 'incel'. Lol. It's not unfair for you to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:24 AM
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what are you talking about? Same treatment If a girl fucked some rando from a club after knowing him for a few hours, I don't see how she can require me to actually date her for longer than those few hours before we have sex. If she insists on doing that, everything I am hearing: 'you are not as sexy for me as the other man'. Therefore my response is 'go back to him then and I will find myself a girl who finds me sexy'. Their usual response is 'I though you were different than other men'. I said…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:01 AM
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Please re-read. I told you I am going to be exclusive and serious with her. That's a waaay more than I offered to any Western girl in the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:57 AM
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Upskill yourself and change a job Go to gym and start weight lifting Dress and groom better Push yourself till approaching girls makes no difference Stop feeling sorry for yourself and work on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:54 AM
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Red Pill is a reaction, not the root of the problem. Women's standards are very unrealistic now vs. what they offer. For example: (i) a single overweight mum refuses to date any average men and (ii) sex workers are shocked when men tell them they are not good for an ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:50 AM
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Damn you know a lot about the husbands of porn actresses. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ LOL. True, I was interested in their psychology and if they can be well-adjusted human beings (generally speaking: nope). It's a kink of mine and a fascinating study. I also got interested in men who somehow can handle those situations. There are some photos of those couples in the Internet and you will notice huge difference in attractiveness between them. Lots of those marriages last like 2-3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:48 AM
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LOOOL. I like you :) We can be friends. Let me try the same. ​ I am a GIGA-fuckboy. I'm a SSSSSTTTTUUUUDDDD. ​ I'm not ashamed to admit it, HERE, on Reddit, ANONYMOUSLY. ​ I like to fuck. I'm a sexual man. I love sex, and I love it. I've had over 50 partners, and IDGAF. I'll admit it anywhere. ​ My partners can tell and don't care. If they ask, I tell them directly. Girls either don't care or are actually more horny because of it. ​ My social media doesn't have evidence of other girls I've fucke…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:52 PM
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If she is so great, why wouldn't you want to give her commitment? I just said I want to date her seriously. I hope she moves on and finds a guy who cherishes her and doesn't make her give him an ultimatum. Why are you okay with hurting her? I am not OK with hurting her and that's why I am cutting off all fuck buddies. As for question - how did it happen, let me give you a straight answer - because your girlfriends played those games so much that I started to play those games with them too. Surpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:24 PM
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There is a major difference 45yo man vs. 45yo woman - no one gives a shit about 45yo women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:14 PM
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That's true to some degree, but not that much as you think. However, I am only almost 40. I still have a good decade if needed. I am keeping myself fit and groomed. If all goes well, I will commit to 25yo who I am dating. She already told me to be serious with her or she walks away. Let's see, but I am narrowing down what I want in a woman. I don't give a fuck about MGTOW - those guys are losers that just complain, but don't do anything to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:53 PM
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Again, the sooner you males admit you're gay and you just don't like women, the happier you'll be. I am gay and I don't like women. Are you happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:41 PM
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It's opposite. The attractive men have the luxury of being picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:40 PM
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a man who cares about pasts isn't worth it anyway nah, don't believe in that. I didn't care till I started filtering for LTR. DINK What's DINK? i get that, i stay away from fuckboys and tend to be attracted to the quiet blue-pilled or hopeful types anyway Those are the best guys I think. But they won't approach you (too shy) so you need to somehow approach them. But for dating those (formerly) promiscous girls are just a risky deal could be for some, but not all Nah, even if we skip all emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:37 PM
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Why do all red pill men have the same fantasy life? Why do you think I am RP? Dating foreign submissive woman My gf is not submissive at all, lol. 20 years younger than me 14 years younger. who has only slept with 1 other person Yes. and has no problem with me sleeping with other women on the side. She has a problem with it. I was given an ultimatum - we are going to became exclusive or she moves on. One of your red pill daddies should invest in a team creative class exercise, you have GOT to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure foreign born girls are just as married, or maybe even earlier than Caucasian girls Same applies to Western girls. It's about increasing your chances. If I have to dig through the chaff, I prefer to have a 30% chance for a good relationship with a foreign-born girl than a 10% chance as with a Western girl. As for the money - all females are attracted to money. British girls are more likely to waste it more on handbags and other shit, while foreign-born are more likely to save. Nah…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:13 PM
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thank you! i don’t see the point in sleeping around. if i wanted sexual leverage all i have to do is show a little skin, but usually idc about that Good. Keep it up. Most men really care about your past - don't let others convice you this is their 'insecurity' or 'immaturity'. i totally get your point, but i think we can safely say gen z men and women are a bit different in this regard. having babies isn’t as much as a priority in relationships as companionship and love is, kids and family are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:06 PM
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Which is exactly why women shouldn't put out on the first or second or even third date and make guys wait. Gets rid of most asshole guys who think like this. It prevents women from being used and keeps the genuinely interested ones around. That would be true two decades ago. Now there is so much choice (if you are attractive man), than I don't care. Women put themselves in that situation where sex is plenty. Good luck trying to make attractive men settle. Some of my friends are full-time pump & …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:48 PM
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Look among foreign-born girls and you will be very surprised. It's even more fun with non-caucasian girls :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:46 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:45 PM
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You are very wrong, my friend. When I met her, the blow jobs and any sex toy were off limits. We did even argue. Yesterday she sucked my dick like a pro and we used two vibrators (boobs and clitoris) on her to make sure she comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:44 PM
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I am really glad you are so well informed at your 20ies. I wish more girls were the same. The problem with older women is ferility. After 30 it takes a dump, at 40 is non-existent. You see, we men like sexual variety. If I didn't want to have kids, I don't see a reason why I should commit to one woman. I am attractive and fit = I have options to get sex. However, kids and family are a priority for me. It's a deal: let's make kids and brought them up together, in exchange I will stick with you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:39 PM
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99.999999% of men a woman meets will have 0 idea of a woman’s hoe phase unless she tells him or he or his friends have fucked her. Check YouTube and see how much RedPill podcasts grew in the last few years. 20yo guys are very aware now. It even feeds to gaming communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:22 PM
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Damn! that's good :D Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:19 PM
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Imho, it's worth for for family / children. Also, you need two-parents family to brough them up. I don't see other reasons. I am currently dating foreign-born 25yo who is also smart / ambitious. We are a few months together and sex is still crappy because she had only one bf before, but I think it might be her. She doesn't mind my fucking around that much, but said I need to be more serious and exclusive with her and she moves on. She's very determined girl. I guess I will give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:18 PM
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No. I would rather have old-school dating where people get to know each other first. But right now dating is a clusterfuck and if I were follow old-school dating strategy, I would be a sucker. I had to adapt. Please re-read what I wrote above.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:44 PM
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Sarah hits the wall a second time around the age of 50 that is when her SMV becomes lower than Ben’s. 50??? In my experience: >30yo woman is not attractive enough for alpha / Chads >35yo woman is not attractive enough fot betas >40yo woman is invisible I am almost 40yo and I date late 20yo girls. In a decade I will seriously date early 30ies. I never banged >35yo and I won't do that till my late 50. Because why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:13 PM
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sorry, wrong post :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:01 PM
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My hoe phase was comprehensive, lol... Yep, after a hoe phase, most men will treat you the same. Sorry, you are just not good for dating, i.e. you are the risk. I am not saying it's fair. You could have changed your ways, but I am not a mindreader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:59 PM
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The problem is that these are different types men that make in to 3 months Those dudes simply have no other options. Three dates rule is perfectly fine (a bit more for low-n girls, i.e. virgin or one-two bfs). Everything more than that and I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:56 PM
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From my observations, a notable portion of men marry the woman who blows their mind in bed even if the rest of the relationship is crap. Yes, because most of men don't fuck around and don't see what clusterfuck those girls are. A half of my lays were girls with boyfriends. Every experienced man will tell you not to date those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:55 PM
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You only need to go through so many of these encounters before you learn Yes, one or two encounter is enough. Let's make it even three. Everything afterwards is either: you are easy to manipulate or genuinely slutty - both disqualify you from serious dating (because you are a risk).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:52 PM
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:( it sucks that most men are just not empathetic to these things in this thread. luckily it feels like most men irl are empathetic It's not about being empathetic or not. Dating her means I have to spend my time and resources on someone else's child. Meanwhile I could be dating childless girls. Single mum is just a bad deal for any man. Sorry if it sounds brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:50 PM
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I’m willing to give certain women the benefit of the doubt in saying it’s this My too. Once or twice it's fine - guys are manipulative too. However, banging the whole football team is not a 'mistake'. She's either easy to manipulate or slutty - both are bad bet for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:47 PM
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It's either: she's easy to manipulate (stupid) and, as such, bad choice for a relationship she's genuine slut, and, as such, bad choice for a relationship If she tried casual sex once and decided its not for her - no problem. If she tried it twice or even three times - it's bad luck, I am cool with it. But if she banged a whole football team - sorry, that's just a slut, i.e. good for fucking, bad for dating. I don't care about the reasons - she's just too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:42 PM
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If she can make 'youthful mistakes' (when she was in her prime), I can make my 'middle-age mistakes' (when I am in my prime). I happily banged over my 30-ies with lots of sluts. Also, lots of them were disappointed it lead nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:37 PM
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Even so, people in this thread act soooooo shocked that women do behave in very similar ways to men nowadays when it comes to sex. Nah, that's fine be me. I don't mind girls being sluts to me. If that's who you are / were, then give me the same treatment. Let's enjoy the same. BUT, I dislike when a girl actually wants to date me she behaves like a good girl (because 'the past is the past', 'she's no longer like that', 'she's matured', etc.). Then I am expected to follow all that old-school datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:36 PM
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i hope things work for you. works for me. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:26 PM
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Well idk I'm not a porn consumer and I don't keep up with what the sluts are doing. I guess the guys they're with are attractive and you disagree. Clueless? Do you mean the husbands don't know their wives did porn? Lol . I doubt that. By clueless I mean low-end career, low-end looks, much older or some other issues (like drugs, criminal record, violence, etc.) And which comment? It was a separate comment, my first one, not this thread. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:16 PM
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Now if women were consistently guarding sex and requiring commitment before, that would be a whole different story. Try to explain that to them. LOOOL I assume any girl is a slut, I try to bang them all, then I decide who is relationship-worthy. I prefer to miss a few good ones, than to make a mistake with a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:14 PM
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yup men want women to immediately have sex with them but also want a woman who has a low body count, thats realistic lmao. goodluck finding a woman with an n of 2 who sleeps with you on the first date. No. I would rather have old-school dating where people get to know each other first. But right now dating is a clusterfuck and if I were follow old-school dating strategy, I would be a sucker. I had to adapt. In other words - I assume any girl is a slut, I try to bang them all, then I decide who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:12 PM
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OK, I tried my best. You are trolling my friend. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:09 PM
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porn stars are literally prostitutes - they are not typical women - it makes sense that they would marry men who are old and ugly but have $. Actually no. if porn starts date / marry someone outside the adult industry, those guys are the most clueless men you can find. For some reason lots of them are low-key musicians. Very rarely they have any money/career (there are exceptions, but very very few). Google them a bit and try to find what their guys do. I'd really like you to answer my other com…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:07 PM
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Oh, you were quicker than me :) I edited it a bit with more explainations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:58 AM
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how would you know if she's low n or not on the first few dates? are you seriously asking your date their count and whether they've had casual sex before? if not this situation is just stupid and hypothetical. I have experience and I can tell with high confidence which girl is easy lasy and which I have to date. You get the sixth sense once you fucked around. I start as a fuckboy who is not presenting himself as relationship material. But I am attractive, so all good girls are interested anyway.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:50 AM
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thats his fault, as usual :) Most of men don't have casual sex options. But most women don't care about most men. If you want a top man, better do what he wants. At it happens that we want low-n girls. So it's either - have fun and then settle with an average dude, or behave like a lady for a decade and get a gentleman for the rest of your life. It's simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:48 AM
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Yes, but obviously this creates a scenario where you want to be the one she fucks and not dates, because her liking you doesn't seem to mean much in this scenario except that a No means a harsher refusal. THIS is how fuckboys are created. Ladies, welcome to the dating world you created.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:43 AM
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In my mind, the relationship box is special. You're lucky if that's the box you find yourself in. This is exactly wrong mindset you girls have. A relationship is a prize for a girl. You are lucky to be in one. We (men) are happy just to fuck around. We go into relationship, because sex is waaay easier to get there. Why else I would I go through all this pain of approaching and dating girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:12 AM
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Well, once those guys who like casual sex grow up, they won't look for a relationship among slutty girls, too :D It's simple - once you been around, you see what drama a slutty girl can cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:08 AM
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This is very good point. In this day and age, it's better to be a fuckboy. If any girl is relationship-worthy, then it's very easy to upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:57 AM
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it sucks for the full package men because they’re basically being “punished” (we don’t have sex with them immediately) for being better than the himbo THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:56 AM
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The real question is: Which kind of guy would you prefer to be? Her fuckboy first, then boyfriend (maybe).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:55 AM
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i also understand the perspective most women have when it comes to not wanting to have sex immediately with someone you want to be in a relationship with women also need to understand men felling less-worthy than her random fling because she makes him jump through all those hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:55 AM
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If she waits (with you) for sex, you both are: establishing very bad pattern, where sex is a reward she might lose interest with you meanwhile if she had any casual sex before - it just leaves bad taste, because why her 'serious' bf is less worthy? Three dates rule is what I think it's fair. She has enough time to know you. If she still waits after that, move on. Exceptions are very low-n girls (<3), but you still should not wait for long than a 6-7 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:53 AM
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I'd like to point out that it's entirely possible - and even more probable - for someone to be a virgin or sexually inexperienced, then get married, then start swinging later in age (for any number of reasons ranging from pleasing a libidinous spouse, to making up for the prior lack of sexual exploration), which makes me question the efficacy of your use of swinging as exemplary of sluts-only-getting-ugly-dudes. It's possible, but how likely? Come on :D Does the matter of women engaging in extra…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:08 AM
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I'm saying men cant have it both ways. They can't encourage slutty behavior and pretend to be the victims because theres no women left who are "wife material". Western women = yes. Maybe 10% is marriage-worthy. Foreign-born women = nope. Around 70% is marriage-worthy. My solution - slut with Western women in your 20ies and early 30ies, and then marry a cutie from abroad :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:55 AM
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Nah, just leave her with her believes. No point of arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:49 AM
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There are social circles where the norm is for high-status men to treat “n” as more or less irrelevant and date the best and/or most compatible partner they can find regardless of body count. Like what circles? Maybe porn-start circles :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:47 AM
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There are many things wrong here... Let me unpack it one by one. Birds of a feather flock together. Your friend group is a reflection of you, not greater society. You are assuming that people move only in one group. Nope. In times of Internet people have multiple connections and groups. I know plenty of former slutty women who married rich men. Being rich is not the same as having high value. High-value man has options. Don't overestimate money - once you cross ca. 2x average it's pretty much eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:46 AM
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In what world do the majority of men reject slutty women? For fucking - no rejections. Come on, every dude wants to get laid. We lie to show how secure and alpha we are. Lie, lie, lie - that's my motto. For relationship - it's a completely different story. I know only one decent man who is seriously dating a former slut. Every other friend of mine is either married to a low-n girl or looking for one. Slutty women get by far more attention, praise and resources from men than non slutty women do. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:54 PM
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Only angry sexless men, or angry men who are upset they can't get sex from the women they desire BS. I have lots of sex and I am attractive. What pisses me off are girls who scream 'unfair' and 'double standards' without knowing how hard is dating for men. Set up a Tinder account with average photo and see if you even get one date per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:56 PM
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women don't like casual sex as much WHAT??? I fucked tons of ~25yo girls. Don't tell me they don't like casual sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:36 PM
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It's much simpler than this... Important question for a girl: Will females reject slutty male? Majority won't. Will males reject slutty females? Majority will. Important question for a man: Will females reject poor/unaccomplished male? Majority will. Will males reject poor/unaccomplished females? Majority won't. So here you go: for girls - if you are slutty, prepare for a substandard male, i.e. less attractive than you could get otherwise. Don't believe me? Do to any swingers or poly-crowd meeti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:30 PM
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Kevin Samules is divorced twice for a reason. Aside from it - he's fun to watch :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:43 PM
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LOL, same here. 9 is the most I gave ever to anyone. Which is exaclty three girls I met in my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:47 PM
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From my experiences, there are not many genuine 9-10 among trophy wifes. Usually those girls dated before guys with money and know they are full of shit. Genuine 9-10 can afford to select good dudes who have money, ambition, confidence and looks, i.e. full-package. Those girls don't need to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:39 PM
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Bullshit x2. Roughly same money and same story (cheated on). I don't wish anyone this, especially life-partner. Kevin Samuels is fun to watch, but no way to get an advice from him. He's too full of himself to be a player. Good pickup is smooth and invisible. Everything is sub-communicated and words are just external fluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:36 PM
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a handsome young executive in a Fortune 500 company Does that make him high-value? Nope :) Look at the girls he can pull - that's exactly where his value lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:31 PM
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Where did you get that from? Don't get stuck on money value. A handsome cash-poor bantender is way more higher value than a stockbroker. Man's value is generally visible from the women he can pull (naturally, not some gold digger). For a man to be high-value he would have high-value woman. Not some dolled up 7 or 8. High-value man settles with genuine 9-10. Don't bs yourself that trophy wifes are anywhere near. Now, any high-value woman will have her options too. She is likely to kick her cheati…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:28 PM
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I didn't say it's easy. A good thing about it - once you learn, it stays with you through life. I.e. you won't be simping ever again. Every time I was hunting for a new ltr, I needed to re-train myself for about a month and then skills were back at the previous level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:26 PM
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Dude, start cold-approaching on street, in transport, in library, in shop... EVERYWHERE. You need to do ca. 500-1000 approaches before you see any traction at all. Try to be funny, keep talking to girls. Make a habbit - if she's hot, then you talk to her. After doing that for two years, I guarantee you will get more tail than you get otherwise. Socialising it good and stuff... for getting semi-hot girlfriend. If you want the hot girls, then learn cold-approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:35 PM
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They can do that by following the approach you described,by dangling marriage or money etc. That's for sure :) Actually, it's hapening very often now. But it still needs some time to pull off (i.e. 2-3 months vs. 1-3 dates as a fuckboy). To be honest, lots of those women deserve it like no-one. Yh, there is a few truly unlucky ones, but the majority played the same game in their 20-ies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:09 AM
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If they have enough approach skills to get married , they have night approach skills to cheat. It's not the same :D To get successfully laid you need to know how to approach, flirt, etc. How to be charming, etc. To get married you need to find ONE lady, court her for the next half a year, then pop a question. Look, there are reasons why only a few percent of men can pull of being a player. Good looks help, but it's primarly a skillset. Womens standards sky dive after 30 I would even call it a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:48 AM
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Men stop having problem getting laid after a certain age. Most men if they want to cheat, can cheat. Nah, most of guys are clueless, even when older. Lack of skills how to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:28 AM
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I think it's because women wait too long with dating and the men they get are leftovers (i.e. not the hot six-pack dudes she sees on TV). She will marry him for the lack of options, but still think about her hot ex(es). She won't be attracted and cheat, but the poor dude never had cheating options anyway. Therefore, he will stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:07 PM
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OK. I gave up. Believe what you want to believe. As for me 20yo > 25yo > 30yo girl. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:29 AM
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I know... look at responses... 200lbs+ and other silly examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:13 PM
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there are older women who are fitter and more attractive than younger women Don't kid yourself. 20yo will be hotter 99.9% of time vs. even the most fit and attractive 30+yo. Edit: to all people that replied. Please don't give me extreme (and silly) examples. Most of 20yo are not 200lb plus. Men are finding 20-25 to be the most attractive age - just accept it. Edit 2: OK, I give up. Girls, you are free to think what you want. It's just the minor detail that it's the men who decide which women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:44 PM
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Most of my male friends (I am close to 40) are going down after 35. Unless they have gym and diet habbit, the belly starts to grow and arms start to weaken. Unless they use moustariser, their faces became wrinkled. Unless you do special excersie on knees, they give up too. A very few of my friends still looks good and are fit. Therefore, if a 40-years old man maintains himself in him 40-ies, he it already in top 30% look-wise. If he also has good career and money, he's in 10% top.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:09 AM
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