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What do you mean they "shut down" when they find out their affection is reciprocated? They don't get excited?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:15 PM
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Ok, you convinced me /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:11 PM
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The way I understand it, when women are playing hard to get they at least give you something. When they want you to approach but don't wanna seem to interested they give you a slightly lingering look or a quick smile or stand near /you or something. But avoiding basic eye contact seeme like clear disinterest to me. It's like "keep moving, there are other girls here." But I tend to really lock in once I have my sights set on a particular woman, so I just kept playing stupid and acted like I didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:32 AM
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Pretty privilege is more about things outside of the dating realm. Like an attractive women being more likely to get lenience for a petty crime. Attractive people having an easier time dating is a separate issue from pretty privilege, even if it concerns men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:15 PM
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This same formula has played out with multiple women I've been with throughout life: I see them, I think they're hot, I try to catch their eye but they ignore me. They're not interest. Like she will determinedly not look in my direction once she realizes I'm paying a bit more attention to her than one normally would a stranger. But I keep trying throughout the night, and at some point we get to talking and she opens up. We start dating, and once we're fully in a relationship, she always tells pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:09 PM
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Yes, being in a committed relationship with a truly great partner is so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:04 PM

I think they're 2 dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:30 PM
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I wonder how this topic is usually discussed around here if it gets its own dedicated thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:28 PM
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Also, men still need those exciting traits to attract women for a LTR. It's kind of a different set of skills, though not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:14 PM
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You act like being with a different woman every week is the ultimate goal. Like it's objectively preferable to being in a fulfilling, meaningful relationship(not saying all or even most romantic relationships are fulfilling and meaning; most people do indeed partner up with the first person who shows interest). When I'm seeing a different girl every week, it's just because I haven't found one who's just right for me yet, who would be worth giving up my freedom and being in a committed relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:13 PM

Nothing wrong with it at all. It's motivation, I guess. But ideally you want to improve yourself for its own sake, and you don't stop improving once you're getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:46 PM
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I'll give you one example, just one of many types. I'm a man, and I've had multiple girlfriends who had no interest in me when they first saw me, wouldn't even make eye contact with, and later started liking me when we got to know each other. Then, when telling people the story of how we met, these girlfriends would say there was instant, strong mutual chemistry from the very first look. This is an example both of how women "expressing" themselves tends to be unreliable, and how you can't cite o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:51 PM
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My real world I mean one's own personal experience. Studies and other people's experiences are not reliable. At the very least studies often contradict what one tends to often experience romantically and sexually in real life. This isn't about whether women openly express it or not. I place more importance on what women do anyway, not what they say'express.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:16 PM
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Oh, I'm not saying women have less libido, but rather that their libido is stimulated differently from men, per my own experiences of which I have a lot, not "reading negative information". But yes I know women like sex. Studies simply don't capture the nuances of what's happening in a real sexual relationship between a man and a woman. That's why people arguing that the sexualities are very different usually cite real world experiences as their basis, and the ones arguing that the sexuality is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:04 PM
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Yes, the idea that women's sexuality is similar to men's is a common misconception. It makes sense on paper, which is why studies get it wrong but in real life, men and women are complimentary, not the same. If you want a partner whose sexuality is similar to your, then you're looking for a same sex relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:57 AM
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Yeah as a man I agree, women's bodies are the best. didn't think straight women thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:34 PM
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OP very clearly says "visually aroused by" though, not just "I find them pretty"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:24 PM
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I've literally never heard of this. I don't doubt you because people on the internet say all kinds of shit, but it's not something I'd invest much attention to. Women always say they're attracted to one thing and then respond to something else in practice. Like I've seen women say they would never date a guy without his own house and then down the line they're with a guy who's renting or living in an apartment or even with his parents. What is it about the female body that they say aroused thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:24 PM
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Man here. I'm a romantic but I can definitely see why someone would enjoy just being single and childless and having your freedom. Half the time, that's what I want. I'm surprised that a lot more people are not openly into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:00 PM
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It doesn't upset me lmao. Let women gold dig if they want to. I just avoid those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:41 PM
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OP's not talking about younger people being more attractive, just younger women. So I don't know why younr comment focuses so much on something that's irrelevant to the topic. Yes, some women find younger men more attractive, but that's a much more niche thing, not sone "other side of the coin" to what OP is talking about. Usually when women talking about the appeal of younger guys, what it ends up really meaning in practice is "it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:30 PM
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Yeah, I've seen this line of thinking before, /u/DiligentRope. "I came across this situation involving literally one person, and now I'm gonna assume this happens to the entirety of that person's gender."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:19 PM
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2/ Wanting an 18-year-old at 35. What do they think a girl like that would want from them? Connection. We men never said a young woman can't be genuinely into an older guy, same like she would a guy her own age. It's just not something most men go out of their way to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:27 PM
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They mean transactional in a direct, literal way, but you're talking about transactional in a metaphorical way. So no, all relationships are not transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:03 PM
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You don't see many younger women with older men simply because in general, people tend to date people similar to them, both men and women. Same age, same hobbies, same religion etc. So while it's not the norm, I certainly see enough older guy/young woman couples to not be surprised by it. With most people, they first meet another person, and if they're interested, take it from there. But any guy with reasonable social skills, if he decided that he really wanted a young girlfriend and tried to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:59 PM
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Looks matter...to a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:42 PM
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