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Mods dont give them what they want. Lol
/r/RedPillWives09/12/23 09:49 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better to believe, dude. I can't force you to think rationally.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 10:17 PM
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There's a difference between criticizing and seething. You're attempt to project your emotionalism on others isnt working.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 10:13 PM
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Because you're whining about your ideas being criticized and pretending that anyone who disagrees has some kind of emotional vendetta against it. This is the same emotional nonsense rad fems do.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 09:35 PM
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Then you're projecting your emotionalism on other people. You just want to be a victim.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 09:27 PM
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Have you considered that your problems may stem from the fact that youre so steeped in emotionalist thinking that you believe criticizism of your ideology and attention seeking behavior is the same as seething?
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:55 PM
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Not in this group. If youre really looking to give advice youre better off posting this in non RP related groups. All youre really doing by posting about geomaxxing here is preaching to the choir.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:21 PM
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This is you whining about women and then posting it for randos to see in the hopes of getting brownie points. If youre going to go elsewhere for relationships and sex thats youre prerogative but you dont need to make a spectacle of your exit to strangers. Just go your own way already.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:08 PM
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What kind of brain damage must you have experienced to think criticism of op is trying to sound cute?
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:03 PM
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My brother in christ this is a debate group, not your diary.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 03:23 PM
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Is there a reason you chose to toss it all instead of cutting back on spending? Especially with things like your games, you could just wait for a sale.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 01:02 PM
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Ultimately the same reason you can point out examples of men tearing apart their families. Theyre stupid and take their lives for granted.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 01:54 AM
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The only reason i posted this is because theres a subsection of men who harp on about female delusion who honest to God believe they're going to find a virgin trad wife who will not only care about the fact that they were degenerate before her but also want to keep living the degenerate lifestyle after marriage too. They get really upset when you point out reality doesn't work that way and their dick isn't a magic wand that gets them out of accountability for their actions.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 01:51 AM
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Shes married and happy. Whether you like it or not she ended being right and getting what she wanted.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 01:39 AM
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I gues it would have to depend on their views of religion. If they screwed up by having extra marital sex once or twice then i dont see lack of experience being an issue, if the woman has a low bodycount because she only fucks ltrs it might be an issue.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 01:16 AM
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Not for the virgin trad women. In fact they're preferred.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 12:58 PM
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This sounds like you're trying to discredit her. What she is saying is not wrong. Even if she herself doesn't live by it. Its more than fair to criticize someone for not practicing what they preach regardless of whether theyre wrong or right. Ultimately if she really believes that women are happiest with a husband and kids shed be busting her ass finding a man instead of wasting time on youtube. It's not about the fertility. It's about that she spent her fun years on other things. She is current…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:44 PM
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If a woman thinks women shouldn't vote she's most likely looking for the trad package. That means she wants to be home with the kids. Probably have more kids than average. Probably there's some religious attendance involved. You can't get that on a whim obviously. My point is that Pearl, at her age, can still quit her job and become a sahm of she wanted to. Her age isnt a negative factor yet for either fertility or finding a guy who may not be a perfect trad (virgin raised religious) but she cou…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:57 PM
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It depends on which part of beauty standards you're referring to. If youre referring to the fact that celebrities will edit their photos to get rid of any and all imperfections. Then the reason is because it can cause mental health issues in young girls and women because perfection isnt attainable. If you're referring to the fact that men like attractive women then its because they whine about men having standards.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:42 PM
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Its incredibly rare to find any man or woman who wants the (trad life with 6 kids) life. She could still find someone with a low body count and settle down, quit her job and have a couple kids.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:38 PM
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A lot of guys who whine about OnlyFans sluts exploiting men for money arent really upset that men are being exploited, theyre just upset that a man isnt benefiting from the exploitation of other men. Hence why so many of them simp hard for the Tate brothers.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:22 PM
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They came to the realization too late and now they can't get that deal. The smart women got in early and are keeping their mouths shut about it. Pearl is 26 - 27. Geriatric pregnancy starts at 35. That's plenty of time to find a man, give up her career and pop out a few kids. She's just not doing it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:19 PM
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Its fascinating how these women who advocate for women going back to the kitchen and not voting refuse to live by the rules they advocate for.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:06 PM
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While there is a population of women who do engage in this behavior, most dont. Most just buy their games and enjoy.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:58 PM
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Blaming all women for your shitty choices is childish. And its hilarious that the guys who whine about "women and accountability" are the first to do whatever they can to absolve themselves from accountability. Make better choices.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:57 PM
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As long as this also goes for any man has a past of shitty women, fine.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:41 AM
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I never really understood the talking point that "Guys dont want women playing games". The vast majority of people dont care.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 01:16 AM
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The study you cited surveyed women 25 and under. Which i believe because more relationships end than last long term. Do you have anything proving married women mostly start to lose interest in their husbands in a similar time frame?
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:27 PM
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Women also lose interest in sex after 2-3 years in a relationship. Citation needed
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:10 PM
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The first came from Institute for Social and Economic Research and the second analyzed incomes. Your inability to handle that facts debunk your narrative is a you problem.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:01 PM
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Again I'm not blaming anyone for anything.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:00 PM
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You're still not hearing that. What I said was your response is essentially you emoting that you won't ever believe me. This is a cop out. So now you're saying women had boyfriends who DID NOT know what they were doing? Can you make up your mind, please? First you said women had BFs who knew what they were doing; now you're saying they didn't. Which is it? Statistically speaking women are more likely to enjoy sex with partners who care enough to learn what they want. This has been the point I've…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:48 PM
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The point im making is that women are more likely to orgasm when the guy they're with cares enough about them to try. This isnt about pinning the blame of anything on anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:28 PM
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LOL "citation needed" That's womanspeak for "I'll never believe you regardless of the quantum or character of evidence offered". I never thought i would ever hear that facts and logic are a woman thing from someone in this group but ok than. You can't expect to just preach at people and never have to back up your arguments. That's what feminists do. No one is saying women are pretending not to have had boyfriends. What we're saying is that you're all lying about ending up with the best men. You'…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:26 PM
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Women are most likely to orgasm within the confines of a committed relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:14 PM
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Most women lie about their one night stands. Most women lie and say they never had one, when in fact they've had AT LEAST one. I don't believe women's "statistics" based on self reporting. Women lie. They especially lie about sex. What does lying about a single ons have to do with your theory that women were having a ton of mind blowing sex with Chad? Of course she had a few prior boyfriends who knew what they were doing. You all have. It's just that you all lie about it. Where are all the women…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:12 PM
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Compared to what we men have to go through; for you it's a walk in the park. You're confusing attracting someone for short term with attracting someone for the long term which is naive about how dating works. So, yeah. You have it way, WAY easier. No one is looking to toss you in jail merely for existing within 10 feet of a man. Unless you live in some kind of Islamic theocracy this isnt happening. Can you point to a news story where a man was arrested charged with a crime and put in jail for me…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:51 PM
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--they've had at least 1 one night stand because the man was so incredibly attractive they couldn't help themselves. They just wanted to fuck the guy, so they did, and they didn't even care if they never saw him again. And the sex was pretty good. Statistically speaking this isnt true.. Women have a much lower chance of reaching an orgasm with a hookup rather than with a boyfriend/husband. The more likely scenario is that, since modern culture tends to overhype hookups, women go into it thinking…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:46 PM
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You can easily find someone to spend your life with - it's just that you won't be as sexually attracted to that man as you would be with Chad. But you can find someone. You cannot build a life with someone merely based on "But they're nice" there are a ton of other things to consider like life goals, personal values, finding out of they have some kind of relationship breaking mental illness, and so many other criteria. Not to mention sometimes guys will lie about their intentions as well. And on…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:15 PM
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Finding a long term relationship is not difficult for women. This is nonsense. Finding casual sex is easy finding someone to spend your life with is not.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:01 PM
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I have specifically posted examples in this group proving the opposite at times so no, not all talking points are correct.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 12:56 PM
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The truth isnt ideological but the Red/Black pill definitely is. A large chunk of the arguments made are either blatantly false or based on half truths.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 12:53 PM
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Pushing back on ideological points isnt condescension. Plus ive been namecalled for pointing out something as basic as "Finding a long term relationship can be difficult". Ultimately if men in this group want to be heard they need to be mature enough to be able to talk about the issues.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 12:47 PM
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they most often only try and refute arguments This is because a lot of arguments red pillers make tend to be either outright false or based on half truths. You often don’t see them asking many questions or trying to have genuine discussions. Be completely honest here. If a rad fem kept complaining about how men are responsible for all of the worlds problems would your reaction be to try to listen intently about what an evil piece of shit you are to be or would you react defensively? Plus it does…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 08:21 PM
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The link you posted is of a comedian making a joke about prostitution. The link i posted was of a rando on the internet putting out a policy idea. Where was the punchline?
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 05:56 PM
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If you look at the comments theyre not written as jokes. Explain this "joke" then.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 12:50 AM
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Womem make things for themselves difficult by being picky. And men make things difficult for themselves by attempting to use apps that are 80 percent male and, in large numbers, only messaging the hottest chicks.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 12:50 AM
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As you can see by the dating-experiments I posted there is no such thing as "below average women dont get any messages". No one here ever said this. I dont know why you keep trying to make this strawman work. The study said that the hottest women got the most messages. That OKCupid- study about messages shouldnt be taken seriously since below average women get messagef on apps like Tinder (if the swipe on every guy) The fact that you added the caveat that they have to swipe on every guy to get a…
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 12:47 AM
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Everything i have said is based off of a study and you posted "Just Trust Me Bro".
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:12 PM
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If this was even remotely true than why are single moms more likely to be poor in the usa?
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:11 PM
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I provided a direct source with tons of screenshots. If you refuse to look at it that's on you.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 06:00 PM
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This isnt really relevant to the conversation at hand because the men aren't talking to these women. They're for the most part only trying to talk to the hottest women on the app.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 05:59 PM
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If you go to r/inceltears you can see posts glorifying these things.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:58 PM
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So youre walking back your previous point about these men seeing the other women as options now. Because you said earlier that the men saw all of the swipes as a potential partner.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:56 PM
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Your study doesnt mean anything when men also swipe and message average and below-average women. Average and below average women arent getting the vast majority of the messages. Your study only shows that the hottest women get the most male attention (most messages) which isnt surprising. That doesnt mean average or below average dont get liked or messaged. The point of the study isnt to say that no average woman ever gets a message. Its to point out that as much as guys here like to complain ab…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 07:55 PM
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Swipe indicates theyre sexually attractive enough to escalate with. Or it means that men are swiping on as many women as possible only to pick from whoever swipes right back. but being OPEN to mid women is not the same as ONLY prioritizing hot men like women do. If youre not at least sending a greeting to the mid women then youre not really seeing them as an option.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:41 AM
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It doesnt matter if men find more women attractive if they're not talking to them after swiping right. Saying "Men only look at pretty girls" is wrong. I posted a study debunking this.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 02:39 AM
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The fact that men swipe more is irrelevant since they still won't message those women they swipe on unless they're the hottest women in the app. Do you think a lot of the guys who complain about the 80/20 rule would stop complaining if the women matched before ignoring them?
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 12:16 AM
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I take it you don't believe in the 80/20 rule then since this point and the fact that men message the most attractive women were both proven in the same ok cupid study.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 11:58 PM
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It can't be a fallacy if it's true. In fact it was proven in the same ok cupid study you guys use to prove the 80/20 rule.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 11:56 PM
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You can look into the radicalization story of a lot of prominent feminists and find incidents where being treated poorly helped them down the road to man hating. Julie Bindel is a famous example. Ultimately people being mean to you doesnt give you the right to mistreat other (uninvolved) people. I wouldn't excuse this behavior from a woman and i don't excuse men either.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 10:53 PM
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Op mentioned men who consider themselves incels but don't adhere to some of the more toxic parts of incel ideology. This being said i still don't see how an otherwise normal but lonely guy sees people roasting guys fantasizing about raping/ beating women and girls and ultimately decides maybe they had a point about the rapes and the beatings.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 10:29 PM
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If you think regular lonely guys become further intrenched in incel ideology by watching people react to incel comments supporting rape, domestic violence and pedophilia than that says a lot about what you think of the average lonely guy.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 10:06 PM
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Anyone with basic reading comprehension would be able to tell that wasnt what i said.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 12:25 AM
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Most people in general are fat in western countries. The idea that incels specifically are all ripped Chadlets who aren't getting laid due to height is absurd.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 09:49 PM
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The average man in English speaking countries is 5'9" This hypothetical short brown man isn't responsible for being short, but he is responsible of he insists on using apps that are 70 to 80 percent male and refuses to try to better himself by losing weight and experimenting with newer hair style and clothing choices.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 06:26 PM
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I would have recognized the manipulation tactics and shut it down then and there.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 04:27 PM
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The reason black pill is so popular is the same reason why people gravitate towards feminism, racial activism and other woke ideologies. Its a lot easier to blame society for your struggles then take responsibility for your actions.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 03:32 PM
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Do you not know what the word marriage means? The fact that she was a girlfriend means they werent married.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 01:29 AM
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If they actually loved and were genuinely attracted to their husbands, why are the majority of divorces initiated by women? A large subsection of divorces are due to infidelity and domestic abuse. Its not on women to tolerate being mistreated and abused by men, its on the men to not abuse and mistreat their wives. Source: Trust me, bro. Youve yet to post any sources either. If you wont research i dont have to either
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 09:56 PM
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You know there are years between the age of 25 and 40 right?
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 02:11 PM
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And because they weren’t able to lockdown Gigachad, they settled for the non-threatening software engineer. The Gigachad was allowed to plow it for free without commitment and now Melvin gets to pay for it for the rest of his life. Are you beginning to see why marriage doesn’t mean a goddamn thing when it comes to disproving 80/20? You are basing this entirely on nothing but youre own personal feelings since no stat whatsoever backs up the idea that large swaths of women dont really love the men…
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 02:10 PM
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Stats on marriage isnt self reported. Marriage is a legal institution. The idea that large amounts of women arent getting married because they werent able to lock down gigachad is idiotic nonsense not backed up by any facts whatsoever. In regards to stats on dating there really is no other way to get stats then asking. And its not like you guys have this level of scrutiny when the content agrees with you.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 12:43 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 07:57 PM
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Every study we have on dating and marriage debunks this.
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 07:54 PM
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Red Pill stats arent bad persay but they have a habit of leaving out other stats that dont back up their narrative. Two really good examples of this would be leaving out the fact that women make up a small minority of dating apps when they complain about the 80/20 rule. Another is leaving out the fact that men date women similar to them in age when they talk about how men tend to think women in their early 20s are the hottest. Ultimately look into the things Red Pilled guys talk about but also l…
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 03:40 PM
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Also, women doing sexual stuff does not automatically equate to dudes fucking each other, unless you're honestly suggesting that every playboy bunny had strap ons and were fucking each other. You know its possible for 2 dudes or 2 women to do sexual stuff that doesnt involve penetration of a penis/dildo right?
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 09:02 PM
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Op may not have said that the Playboy mansion was said to have orgies in it not necessarily specified if it was running trains. Since a lot of dudes tend to fetishize lesbians its unlikely the Playboy bunnies were exempt from doing sexual stuff together. The male equivalent would be fucking other guys.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:38 PM
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Op mentioned group sex with other dudes. While fucking other dudes may be cool with you a lot of guys wouldnt think the perks are worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:59 PM
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Op mentioned group sex with other dudes. While fucking other dudes may be cool with you a lot of guys wouldnt think the perks are worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:02 PM
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The hypothetical OP mentioned group sex with other men.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:01 PM
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The mentality of the guys who believe this also watch channels like Fresh and Fit who unironically believe 30 to 40 % of all women in their 20s are being flown out to other states and countries to fuck rich dudes. Theyre divorced from reality.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:58 PM
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I have no idea what happened with Jeremys Razors so i wont comment on that. But monetizing your channel doesn't necessarily make you a grifter. Plus, considering he's showing his face and making MGTOW content, it would probably be difficult to find another job because of this. An important part the definition of grifter is to spread views you dont really hold for some kind of financial gain. I havent personally seen any evidence hes pretending to be MGTOW for money.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 08:52 PM
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Its possible shes Afro Latino.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 08:44 PM
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Dont you think this question is kinda important to the overall conversation, especially since the divorce rate is something this sub will point to as a negative for marriage?
/r/MensRights22/06/23 12:06 PM
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I don't see how it's possible to suggest that men would have the advantage here. What did you mean by this then?
/r/MensRights22/06/23 12:04 PM
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Why do they initiate divorce?
/r/MensRights21/06/23 05:10 PM
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I didnt necessarily say that either sex had it better, i just said there are advantages and disadvantages to being either sex.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 05:06 PM
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I stand corrected then.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:41 PM
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I didn't say you said it i just said i think your reaction would be different if the sexes were switched.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:05 PM
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Men typically dont drop the gendered expectations of women, though. For most couples nowadays it just means women have to work and do the housework.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:07 PM
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How much does everyone want to bet that if op saw a screenshot where a woman matched with a man just to tell him he's an ugly balding pos hed be whining about how modern women are awful.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:04 PM
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Hes a scam artist who bragged about scamming lonely men who he now claims to care about. He also wears religion and traditionalism like a skin suit. He was also stupid enough to brag on video about committing multiple crimes and the ability to flee the country if investigated and unironically blamed the matrix for the Romanian govt acting accordingly.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:56 PM
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Do you have any evidence whatsoever that the majority of women are really scrolling on social media when they claim they're cleaning? It seems like you're grasping at straws to minimize what the woman does for the family.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 09:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14acsti/male_privilege_examples/joabydy?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button If you click on the Table of Contents tab there will be a tab called methodology.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 09:42 PM
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You're the one who said male chores are potentially dangerous. Im just genuinely curious which one you're referring to.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 09:39 PM
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That's more of a biological privilege/disadvantage depending on how you look at it. I was more referring to social privileges.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 09:38 PM
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If you want a virgin, yes.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:37 PM
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They exist within religious communities and contrary to the copium put out by some red pill creators, they dont lock down hoes.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:58 AM
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The study i mentioned stated that even women who were the breadwinners still did more around the house They may be less frequent but are more physically demanding and potentially dangerous, Can you name a male dominated chore around the hoise which is dangerous?
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:54 AM
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what op says is that if a woman is insecure about how men view her if a woman is on the market then she's laser focused on chad and she's ignoring other men who dont have the same demands because she sees them the way chad sees her The number of women with insecurities and women lining up for Chad are wildly different. The reality is that a lot of womens insecurities come from either the fashion industry, which is filled with women and gay men, and social media. and i can vouch for this ive seen…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:53 AM
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There are pros and cons to being male or female.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:50 AM
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The idea that things like stretch marks and especially breast size only matter to Chad isnt true either.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:01 PM
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The majority of women arent dating/marrying Chad so it doesn't matter.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:00 PM
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The idea that no one else in society judges personal appearance except Chad is ignorant of reality.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:51 PM
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It's probably because when people think of manosphere groups they think of people who give a lot of idiotic takes like fresh and fit, justpearlythingz, and mld.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 11:28 PM
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Nowhere in your given study is mentioned that women solely do those chores. You don't understand that. No. Youre not understanding because i didnt make that point. I said that women, even when theyre the bread winner, do more chores around the house then men. This is backed up by the study i linked. So there won't be an imbalance. Yes there will because, while the male chores you mentioned are important, they arent nearly as frequent as chores around the house. You mentioned chores like car main…
/r/MensRights17/06/23 02:37 PM
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And if she stays home, it's unfair that she does "more of the chores"? Are you mixing two arguments up? just didnt read them. The study i linked also showed that women still did more chores when they were the breadwinner. Now it's about the finance? And now it's not bad to stay at home? Staying at home though still get money to buy nice things and live a good life? It's great when both parties hold up their end of the bargain. While there are women, who get to live well this way there are also w…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:49 PM
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And if she stays home, it's unfair that she does "more of the chores"? Are you mixing two arguments up? just didnt read them. The study i linked also showed that women still did more chores when they were the breadwinner. Now it's about the finance? And now it's not bad to stay at home? Staying at home though still get money to buy nice things and live a good life? It's great when both parties hold up their end of the bargain. While there are women, who get to live well this way there are also w…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:47 PM
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Maintainance doesn't happen infrequently and that's so sad and common to think. This is blatantly false. Car maintenance only happens every few months unless your car has a ton of problems. Same with house maintenance. Yardwork is typically a once a month thing. Comparing this to having to cook, clean and watch kids everyday isnt a good comparison. Those are burdens, mental workload thinking about and most important you choose to qualify those tasks, chores, duties in more, most and less importa…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:40 PM
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That women hold the higher rates for caregiving is just the natural fact that women are usually around the newborn because of breastfeeding ig. Im referring to the fact that even when the child reaches school age the woman is still usually taking a career hit whether this is by staying home entirely or working less hours. All in all will it lead to the woman having the choice of being a SAHM or to give the child to daycare or anything else. Think of a case where the father decides if the mother …
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:44 AM
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what are the chores? Who keeps track on who does for how long on what are seen as the chores? Typically cleaning around the house and doing things like dishes that have to be done every day. It's like getting a call to drive by the grocery-store after work to pick up some things or to quickly lift the saddle on the kid's bike. Both of these incidents are things that would maybe happen once a week. Comparing this to having to do something every day isnt a good comparison. Or just quickly clean th…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:38 AM
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for women there is also no expectation to go back to work after birth immediatly. This depends on if she and her spouse are on the richer side or poorer. Does it put men in a better situation? Or the women? I think not, it's just as it is. You dont see how taking a career hit to take care of kids could potentially have negative consequences? If the couple were to get divorced thats time and money put into savings or retirement she can never get back.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:30 AM
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If you have no money whatsoever you should be addressing that and not the fact that women don't want to fuck you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 11:44 PM
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To give an example theres no expectation to take a career hit for kids and most of the chores tend to fall on them. Whereas even when women work full time (and are the sole provider for their household), they still do the chores more. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/#time-allocation-across-marriage-types
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:25 PM
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The only real privileges i can think of in the west would be social privileges.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:14 PM
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Im confused as to why this is relevant to this sub.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 08:10 PM
3

Unless hes drugged her or physically forced her to then yes she did.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 01:14 PM
7

Do you believe its possible to fuck someone (especially for one night where bad personality is easy to mask) with some shitty character traits without it being abusive?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 12:06 AM
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Nothing here implies rape or sexual assault. Its possible for a woman to have sex with a dude with a shittypersonality because hes hot. What the previous comment was referring to was a scenario where the woman had a casual past for the hot guys but wants to make the guy she wants a future with wait.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:37 PM
3

I have no idea where you made the link from having a past with consensual sex to rape and sexual assault.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:21 PM
1

Not necessarily. With the Jordan Petersen incident, a lot of people interpreted him referring to a culture that enforces monogamy as guys getting a govt issued wife.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 02:03 PM
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I didnt ask for a justification for socially enforced monogamy. I asked why the previous poster thought the only choices we have are either men oppress women or women oppress men.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 10:14 PM
1

So when will we as men be considered to have paid women back sufficiently to deserve a scrap of attention for our issues? In an ideal society everyones issues regardless of race, sex, skin color would be equally important. By instituting affirmative action for women instead of judging people by their merit, we traded one discrimination problem for another.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 03:37 AM
1

I would argue that obsessing on hate is wasting what little time you have but if you chose to waste your life i cant stop you. Good luck with that buddy
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 03:32 AM
1

Most men were just wage slaves who couldn't step out of line either. Men who weren't wealthy (often aristocratic or political) landowners couldn't vote. Most men didn't own businesses or assets of significant worth. Most men just had to do what they were told, for whatever wage they were offered. They were miners, blacksmiths, builders, military, or maintainers of people and lands for the wealthy. These men didnt have the barrier of not being able to go for jobs in certain fields because "Mens p…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 03:21 AM
0

How cute. You think some skin bleach and surgeries will function like magic and turn you into Gigachad.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 03:09 AM
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The part about being a virgin was after "there is no compromise". My issue is with that and not him being a virgin. I dont care about the virginities of strangers.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 02:08 AM
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This would require women to be interested in you. Black pilled types typically want the revenge because theyre getting no pussy.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 02:07 AM
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Youre right. I should have used "an incredibly small amount" instead of anecdotal. Those women did exist, they were involved in their respective fields, we have historical record to prove it. Written records, physical artifacts, photographs. Actual hard evidence. These women were still a handful of women, who still needed to overcome inequality and buck social norms to get where they were, in a history of hundreds of millions of women. This would be like if in response to a discussion on men and…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 02:03 AM
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Hes not. He said "There is no compromise which will make both sides happy" in response to me stating the fact that certain groups of red pilled guys want male dominance over women.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 01:39 AM
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i just want to get my revenge on as many women as i possibly can. It's really sweet that you don't want to get revenge on any women since the amount you can is 0.
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 01:29 AM
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Do you have a justification for why there isnt a better solution other than oppress or shit on men/oppress or shit on women that doesnt involve your anecdotes of hanging out with crappy people?
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 12:59 AM
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The guys that make these comments arent looking for a solution that makes both sides happy. They want male dominance, even if this means women are treated poorly.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 07:32 PM
1

If this is proof that all women would rather fuck dogs then ugly dudes are the men who rape children proof that all men would rather rape kids then have sex with adult women?
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 04:31 PM
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You posted a list of a few women when there have been millions throughout history. Only having a few women out of millions is anecdotal. Its also worth mentioning that these women had to overcome any barriers of the time because the idea that a woman should be able to do what she wants is a very new concept. In a similar note, the fact that we could also point out famous black people in US history doesnt erase the fact that black people didnt always have the same rights as white people.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:02 PM
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Anecdotes dont disprove the rule. While women arent currently oppressed in the west this doesnt change the fact that they werent given the same educational opportunities as men were for most of human history.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 06:38 PM
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The tendency of some dudes to cry that theyre not hot enough to participate in the destruction of society never fails to amaze me.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 11:11 AM
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Picking the guys that actually want serious relationships with them instead of guys that are out of their leagues and/or just see them as an easy fuck is a part of what "pick better" means. Does this mean that the guys who get divorced and lose their kids should have picked better too? Sometimes people (both male and female) back out of their promises and you cant always predict it since humans arent capable of telling the future. It also doesn't help when the same people saying "women should pi…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 11:06 AM
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Pretty much the whole thread is men saying that because women have more options it's their fault if they don't get what they want compared to the average man who barely has any options. I'm surprised this one didn't get blowback since this one is pretty stupid too. Just because men will fuck a woman doesn’t mean hed marry her.
/r/AllPillDebate08/06/23 11:31 PM
0

In regards to morals this is blatantly false.
/r/AllPillDebate07/06/23 06:50 AM
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Your inability to understand other people doesnt change the fact that people are different.
/r/AllPillDebate07/06/23 06:48 AM
14

"Everything has to be about me!"
/r/MensRights07/06/23 05:49 AM
-1

This take says more about your taste in women then it does about actual women.
/r/AllPillDebate07/06/23 05:35 AM
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Lots of places, hobbies, religious institutions, the important thing is when someone goes out on dates to look for red flags.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 08:41 PM
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Op didnt say moral he said ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 08:40 PM
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• I expect the man to make the first move. • I expect the man to impress me and flatter me in our first meeting. • I expect the man to ask me out and risk painful rejection. • I expect the man to plan the date, and have it be exactly what I want despite refusing to offer any suggestion or input. • I expect the man to pick me up and drive to each location of the date. • I expect the man to impress and flatter me even more at every moment of the date. These aren't unrealistic because men have been…
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 03:36 PM
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Yes it is. No amount of pretending facts aren't real makes it less real.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 09:36 PM
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You should look up the definition of gaslighting because its not "Stating obvious facts". why is it so easy to find examples of women being entitled, narcissistic, and toxic towards men? Why is it so easy to find examples of men beating their wives and girlfriends to death? It must be because men are all violent animals /s
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 09:30 PM
13

What exactly is this post implying? Are large swaths of dudes here being relentlessly shit on by their wives and kids or is this a society shitting on men take?
/r/MensRights05/06/23 09:26 PM
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I hate it when news sites post articles like this but dont link the poll. Which viewpoints young men agree with the Tate brothers on is a very important fact to deliberately leave out.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 04:12 PM
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The controversy of backing an opinion that doesnt align with the status quo will bring more views which OnlyFans creators rely on.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:31 PM
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Its because youre selectively noticing the ugly people taking the most issue with mens complaints.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 01:09 AM
1

The idea that either sex can live without the other is ignorant arrogance. Both sexes contribute so much to humanity that losing either would be detrimental.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 07:37 PM
2

Have you actually met these girlfriends and have they all confirmed that theyre his girlfriends?
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 02:21 PM
4

Considering Steven torpedoed his marriage, I wouldn't have personally named him if i was going to make the case for conservative women divorcing without a good reason.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:31 PM
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While this is interesting, i dont see how this is relevant for this sub.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:48 AM
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Matt Walsh isnt divorced, he and his wife are not only still happily married but just welcomed babies 5 and 6 not that long ago.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:47 AM
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Feminists blaming mens issues on patriarchy is just another way to blame men for their own issues and comtinue to center women as the main victims.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 07:22 PM
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This has to have been written by a teenage/college age boy who has no idea how the real world works. Anyone who has ever had to work to pay rent/mortgage would see how delusional this is.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 06:52 PM
1

While this is true a lot of the same guys who say this will also point to the top >1% of women who are able to bag a rich dude or make a lot of money on only fans as a woman privilege despite the fact that the vast majority of women will never be able to achieve either of these.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 05:46 PM
0

I like conversation. Unfortunately it seems like a growing number of dudes here, usually blackpill, would rather name call and whine like children then discuss their ideas like an adult.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:46 PM
2

What are your thoughts on the non white Chad variants that are also used (Tyrone, Chang, etc)?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:45 PM
0

The option is still there even if a lot of dudes dont go for it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:43 PM
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and most ugly women will still have a simp that will take care of her despite being broke. Do you have any evidence to support this?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:30 AM
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Anyone who resorts to namecalling over a disagreement isnt worth my time. Feel free to comment back when youre mature enough for an adult conversation.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 04:18 AM
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An ugly man can still get money or status and still bang and marry hot women whereas theres no amount of money women can make to overrule her looks.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 01:17 AM
1

What we want is irrelevant to what's realistic. Not all trans people look like Frank n furter from Rocky Horror show. Quite a few of them pass as women (Blaire White as an example). Ultimately if you look like a dude use the dudes bathroom and if you look like a chick use the chicks bathroom.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:47 PM
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If you look at the covers of romance novels theyll usually have conventionally attractive women on them. I dont know how to link to a google image search but if you look up Romance Novel Covers youll see what im referring to.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:22 PM
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The women in these novels are typically attractive women. The only exception to this was the rom com spoof "Isnt this romantic" with Rebel Wilson before her weight loss which technically is a comedy making fun of rom coms and not a rom com.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 12:13 AM
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You know porn is made by men for men right? I cant wait to see the post about how romance novels and movies portraying women as attractive are proof that 'men ain't shit'.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 06:59 PM
2

Men must NEVER feel guilty for the sins of few assholes. I agree I feel shame because these women Get Away with their Bullshit. While the Male Criminals get Harsh Convictions Not always. Theres a plethora of examples of both men and women getting away with heinous shit.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 02:18 PM
1

Do you think men should feel guilty about the male criminals who rape/murder/abuse their partners? If the answer is no, then why are you ashamed that someone else did something evil when the only connection is that both of you have vaginas?
/r/MensRights28/05/23 02:15 PM
1

Across multiple studies; attractiveness determines romantic evaluations equally for both sexes Women feel sexual disgust when they imagine even talking to an unattractive man This one needs to clarify what the women considered unattractive since a lot of dudes would be disgusted if a 400-pound woman hit on them, too. It is Looks > Personality > Money for both genders, but women lie more about it This is probably due to social stigma. Men are attracted to "nice" women, but women are not attracted…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:58 PM
0

Any proof of that or are you going to continue to throw npc lines at me?
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:44 PM
0

Women and men arent the same
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 12:22 AM
0

This attributes male sexuality to women. Women arent in to casual sex like men are since it sucks for most women. Women arent men.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 03:10 PM
1

Where is the study proving that most women settle for their husbands?
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 03:02 PM
1

Im going to guess no based on how many black pillers here dont understand the difference between disagreeing and trolling.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 03:01 PM
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What's your point here? If you ask any man what hes looking for in a quick fuck or an ltr he would also give different answers.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 02:58 PM
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What's your point here? If you ask any man what hes looking for in a quick fuck or an ltr he would also give different answers.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 02:58 PM
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You know you can always pick better sources instead of pretending that your crappy source is a good one. Edit. Replying before blocking is the act of a coward who cant back up their opinions with facts. Have fun in your echo chamber
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:07 PM
1

That's a damned large sample size compared to other studies. You can find pew research studies with over 30,000 people polled so no 6000 isnt a lot. Plus the actual amount of people you guys are making generalizations about are one group within that 6000 so the actual number is a lot less. How many is enough for you? Ten million? A billion? Tens of thousands at least. And they would all have to be young women.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:17 AM
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Because AWALT, Female Nature, so forth This is an appeal to an ideology you have yet to prove. But put any woman in that given case, and the result will ALWAYS be the same. This is blatanly false. Why do you think that the women liked the pedophile just because he's hot in the first place? Hmm? The same reason dudes come out of the woodwork to fuck Casey Anthony and simp for female child rapists, theyre stupid and think the evildoer is attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 11:32 PM
2

I dont keep count.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 11:18 PM
1

Why do you blame women as a whole for the morons who swiped right on an account but not men as a whole when some dudes will fuck Casey Anthony and downplay female rape of a young teen when they think she's hot
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 11:12 PM
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6000 is an absurd amount of people what are you talking about. you don’t need to ask everyone to get a good idea of what’s going on. Not enough to make the broad generalizations that you are. only 15% of young women identify as Bi and way less actually date women We arent talking about 6000 young women. Were talking about 6000 people of all age groups. With a study that small it can be easy to overrepresent some groups that are otherwise small. Plus this also doesnt account for other potential r…
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 11:07 PM
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it doesn't matter if it's IRL or Online, don't use that as flirting material, run! I agree. Men should also run from crazy women who murder their 3 year old daughters too.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 08:11 PM
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This was a survey of 6000 people. The idea that this says anything about society as a whole is insane. Plus your hypothesis doesnt take into consideration that the young women are way more likely to identify as bi so a few of them may be dating each other. also can you link these stats that show that women aren’t picky plz. Yes the USA keeps marriage stats and has for decades and theyve never shown that only 6 foot rich dudes are getting married
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 08:07 PM
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Did you forget that people have vision IRL as well? They can clearly just not talk to you IRL. The vision isn't the problem the fact that men make up the majority of app users. This is why stats have never shown that women irl are as picky as dating apps.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 07:35 PM
1

How much self determination do the men have? They have more rights then women do. Near the beginning, the Taliban were killing men who used to work for the Americans, comedians were killed for telling jokes, it's not good for anyone. While these things are still bad, men in these countries still have self determination and arent treated like less then human like women are in these countries. The role of women in these countries is to be married off as a child and hope he doesnt beat you.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 01:04 PM
-1

Exposing what? Did your mother throw you at a wall headfirst as an infant? You're acting like you escaped the asylum
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 09:02 PM
1

So you're admitting to what you consider stupid behaviors why?
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 08:58 PM
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While im not going to pretend that all men have it easy in Islamic theocracies, the idea that men have it as bad as women there is ignorant of how these theocracies work.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 01:53 PM
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Wow, such oppression... a tad dramatic, no? You'd think there would be more pressing matters to be concerned over if they were so oppressed. Feminists keep going on and on about how women are seen as property _ over there_ and no-one cares about domestic violence and rape... What do you think will inevitably happen to women in a society where theyre not allowed self determination? Theyll become property.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 01:52 PM
1

This is only really useful if shes looking to hook up, not if shes looking for a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:20 AM
-2

I dont know what you're smoking but you should probably stop.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:13 AM
1

What do you think AWALT means?
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 05:12 AM
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And that somehow makes it okay? No one is holding you at gun point and forcing you to use the apps. If you dont like it dont use it.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 12:51 AM
1

You're right, blindly attributing negative behaviors to a sex is incredibly dumb.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 12:18 AM
3

My brother in Christ everything you have posted here are lazy adhominems. You of all people dont get to pull the "no personal attacks" card.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:51 AM
1

You dont get to lecture anyone about reality when you say so much terminally online nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:43 AM
1

So you believe a large amount of dudes are beating their girlfriends? Its interesting that you seem to be simultaneously misandrist and misogynistic at the same time.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:40 AM
1

Some of us live in the USA where you can keep a gun and use it for self defense, y chromosomes arent bulletproof.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:36 AM
0

But what if my personal ideology says all men are like that?
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:34 AM
2

If you can blame women as a sex for some morons matching with a kiddie rapist can i blame men as a sex for thinking crazy bitches like Casey Anthony are hot or the countless examples of men reacting to a woman raping her student with "where were all the sexed up teachers when i went to high school"?
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 11:58 PM
0

The idea that only older women find age gaps bad is a lie by dudes who are targeting a younger group for the wrong reasons.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 11:40 PM
6

The same can be said for male love songs.
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 07:51 PM
2

Can you name me any songs that specifically say the dude who broke her heart was what red pilled guys call alpha?
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 11:32 PM
2

Its also possible they all just have shit taste in women and instead of analyzing their life choices they just choose to blame women instead.
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 10:41 PM
2

Or men in larger numbers have decided its a better use of their time to shoot for a career that only really requires a trade school or some kind of on site training instead of wasting tens of thousands on a useless degree.
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 10:21 PM
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Ultimately I won't be able to choose which sex my child is when i have one. I have the midset of just wanting to love whichever I get. Women are enrolling and graduating from college more than men This is entirely due to the personal choice of men. if you have a son there is a really good chance he will end up lonely and miserable with little prospects for the future. This isnt necessarily true. People are still getting married in significant numbers plus you just said earlier that women are sta…
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 02:05 PM
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It wouldnt be as bad if males were allowed to do the same but ultimately feeling pride on a characteristic you were born with (skin color, sex, etc) is cringe behavior.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 03:08 AM
1

Op never said Chads as in plural, he said Chad as in this one guy this is why he said "If he has this many in this group imagine how many he has in the entire country". Even then the majority of women arent fucking Chad statistically speaking.
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 03:37 PM
-1

Do you honestly believe that Chad somehow managed to find a way to bend time so he could similarly fuck the entirety of England?
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 03:19 PM
2

Why are you here and not at your local pd reporting the crime?
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 07:11 PM
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Because youre taking a tongue and cheek group title literally and what theyre actually doing is just shitting on their exes justified or not.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 07:08 PM
0

Ultimately dont expect a traditional woman if youre not a traditional man (and vice versa). Unless you are able to cover the living expenses with your job you should be helping with chores. Theres also a tendency for some in the manosphere to believe theyre entitled to a woman whos trad enough to be a virgin before them but not trad enough to expect marriage or fidelity in the relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 12:48 AM
1

Have hobbies and friends, watch what you eat, take pride in your personal appearance and hygiene, dont make bad financial decisions, be realistic about your expectations, communicate instead of having an unspoken contract where you get upset shes not filling a role you never told her you wanted her to.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 11:49 PM
1

In most circumstances i would get your point but these women are prostitutes whos livlihood depends on attempting to maintain their youthful appearance as long as they can.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 06:36 PM
3

Because bisexuals and lesbians dont have the same supply and demand issue that straight people do on apps.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 05:34 PM
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Anyone whos intellectually honest would say yes, but a lot of pro choicers aren't really pro choice but pro female privilege.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 04:32 AM
1

Because a lot of people, both men and women, heard "enforced monogamy" and unironically thought he meant assigning a woman to a man arranged marriage style.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 04:26 AM
10

Pick me just means "woman who isnt spouting the correct feminist talking points".
/r/MensRights07/05/23 02:55 PM
1

dating as a whole seems to suffer from a supply/demand issue from the stats though. the study comes from a general population survey. Unless you live in China this isnt true since women outnumber men in most countries. and while the ratings came from people on dating apps they are still just ratings. many young people use OLD anyway. The supply and demand issue i brought up earlier causes problems because if youre in the low supply high demand group, you can be pickier so the women in dating app…
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 02:27 PM
1

Dating apps suffer from a massive supply and demand problem in the usa which makes them unreliable for explaining dating as a whole.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 12:14 PM
1

who said anything about dating apps? Where do you think the stats you mentioned come from? anyway also remember how twice as many young men vs women are single, so this imbalance in the gender ratio is going to be found literally everywhere in dating. Older guys dating younger women has been a thing for thousands of years. Ultimately the younger guys who arent established career wise yet can still find someone once he hits his 30s.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:07 PM
1

Dating apps are a reflection of real life. False. Real life doesnt have the demographic problems that Online dating does. Complete false, it's because women can afford to be picky and fuck the hottest dude without realising that the guy will never commit. The demographic difference makes this way worse then it does irl. Is every dating app a hookup app for you? Is hinge, is bumble, is okcupid? Cause honestly, they are all the same, they all took it from tinder. All of them have the same demograp…
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 12:22 PM
1

Do you have any evidence to support this?
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 01:54 AM
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Why show me those articles? Articles saying that most young people are lonely. I already know that, most men are lonely because they can't provide much value, they're not good looking enough to garner the interest of women and they don't make enough money to impress women. Because the fact that younger generations aren't as social as previous generations is pretty important to the topic at hand. Using marriage stats isn't valid, because what are those marriages like? Some average dude having to …
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 01:26 AM
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All I can provide is the swiping statistics made by okcupid that showed that women on average attractiveness has the same pull as the most attractive men. Another study showed that women swipe left on 95% on tinder. All this really proves is that the women on dating apps are picky. This says nothing about dating irl. Now why do you think women swipe left on such a small amount of men? Because women are a scarce resource on these apps so even the fat ones can fuck the hottest dudes if they want. …
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 01:19 AM
1

Ultimately, the men who see you as a sex object aren't the ones you should be dating.
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 12:52 AM
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Well, those same men that are complaining about those male dominated apps go outside and meet women just to also have no luck We have stats on younger peoples going outside habits and this is in larger numbers false. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-gen-y-guide/201510/why-millennials-are-failing-shack It's almost like most women don't find most men attractive enough to get a shot, both in apps in the "real world." This isnt backed up by any marriage stat I've ever seen. Using stats ab…
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 10:28 PM
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They are dating apps turned into hookup apps by women. Do you have any proof whatsoever that these apps werent designed to be hookup apps but became them because of women? Women aren't wired for casual sex, but they are starved for attention and thus they will have casual sex especially if that means they have a chance to score a top 10% man. Men are a lot more self coscious than women so if a man is a 6, he will settle with a 6 woman or below. But a 6 woman will not settle with any man less tha…
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 10:09 PM
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Probably because they're mostly hookup apps. Women aren't wired for casual sex like men are, and the few women that are on the apps want to hook up with the hottest dudes possible. If it were the other way around, men would do the same. Ultimately, unless you're a top-tier guy, your time is better served trying to find someone irl instead of blaming women for their choice to go on an app that's mostly male.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:29 PM
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Because a lot of them are hook up apps and women arent wired for casual sex like men are. Plus most women are able to find boyfriends irl.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:25 PM
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Can Siri also explain that expecting a fair shot on apps/websites that are majority male is naive at best and delusional at worst? Its astounding to me that the guys who complain about womens unrealistic standards are also the guys who cant understand why they're not getting pussy on an app thats 70%+ male.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:59 AM
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Are you suggesting that women exterminate male babies in the womb?
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:19 AM
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Can you be a bit more creative with your video thumbnails? You post the same picture with a semi different looking woman every time.
/r/AllPillDebate01/05/23 05:47 PM
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The idea that monogamy is dying because a miniscule amount of people practice polyamory is a massive stretch.
/r/AllPillDebate01/05/23 02:07 PM
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Gender neutral rape and domestic violence laws Fault should be taken into consideration when it comes to alimony. Ultimately if the breadwinner held up their end of the bargain, the person who filed shouldnt be walking away with half their paycheck. Auto 50/50 custody and any parent that was proven to be lying about abuse or attempts to turn the kids on the other parent should lose custody. Any and all affirmative action programs should be eliminated and the best person should get the job. Also …
/r/MensRights30/04/23 09:46 PM
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While the abuse allegation is still debatable and i refuse to believe anything that wasnt proven in the article, there is no reason you should ever treat your spouse with the condescension he did nor should you ever say "i dont love you" to them. The fact that so many of his former employees have come forward and also claimed that he was a manipulative asshole doesnt help him. This video disproves his attempt to paint the situation as "I was the great christian husband and this ended because she…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 09:12 PM
1

How will they even enforce this? Especially with the trans community pushing self id.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 12:26 AM
1

Just another example of why sending nudes is a bad idea.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 12:04 AM
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People make this same argument with men and porn all the time. I would argue that its better just to make sure people know "This is fiction" rather than criticizing anyone who enjoys the media.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 08:54 PM
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Why exactly are fantasies bad? This has the "Women are too hot in videogames" energy. If women want to read romance novels with super rich hot dudes, thats fine. If men want to play games with female characters with tiny waists and massive tits, thats also fine. Just let people enjoy things.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 08:49 PM
2

I get to pass down my values and culture to another generation.
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 04:54 AM
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Anything under 7 feet.
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 02:38 AM
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I meant how the red pilled guys use it. The idea that 80 percent of the women are going after 20 percent of dudes.
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 01:51 AM
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The 80/20 rule only applies to online dating. Using an app thats 80 percent male isnt the only way to meet women.
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 12:12 AM
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I am just stopping this conversation now. You are playing mix and match. What I said about society had nothing to do with my marriage And even if you got that right, you still know nothing of my marriage or my ex. and how could you? I said this because you were the one who brought up your marriage first. Considering how often open relationships that dont start off open end in disaster, it was a reasonable assumption to make. Ultimately its not a good idea to bring up your personal life if you do…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 03:02 PM
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You weren't there. And that is why you don't know crap about it. If you unironically believe society was what broke it then you were left in the dark about it. She came up with that before the marriage. We were living apart until she completed her Master's degree, which would be a couple years after the marriage This should have been a red flag. Open relationships that dont start as one are well known relationship killers. Even your Jim Crow comments.....Asian/White marriages were also condemned…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:52 PM
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Open marriages are not rare at all and 5% is a substantial number. 5 percent is an extremely small minority.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:49 PM
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What "standard" do you think that men have upheld? No sex out of marriage. It used to be common practice to take your teenage sons to brothels... It was almost a coming of age tradition... Citation needed. Women were expected to be chaste virgins... That same standard has NEVER applied to men... That is why the bride wears a white dress and a groom wears a black tuxedo... Historically; the colors were a symbol of her purity and his impurity... This is blatantly false for any abrahamic religion. …
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:45 PM
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Open marriages are rare in the west and the only ones that actually have a chance at working are the ones where they were open from the start. Also using the word plenty for what you acknowledge is only 4 or 5 % is a bit of a stretch.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:19 PM
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This is because i have yet to come across actual data that isnt vague. Reasons like cheating and abuse are pretty straight forward but theres also irreconcilable differences which can be a lot of things, valid and not.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:17 PM
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You don't think that outside people cannot destroy a marriage? Unless youre talking about extreme examples where someone fabricates evidence of cheating, no. A lot of cases where a 3rd party is able to sabotage a relationship, its allowed to happen by the weaker link. Society has broken up plenty of inter-racial marriages by making their lives hell. . Unless youre talking about the days of Jim Crow, then there were more than likely other factors at play in these relationships Today they work on …
/r/MensRights23/04/23 03:19 AM
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Honestly if youre attributing blame to a 3rd party for your marriage ending then the 3rd party isnt really the issue, the weaker link in the marriage is.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:56 AM
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Fair enough, but with the advent of "no-fault divorce", I'm not sure we can really know. Unfortunately the only way we really can is if stats are recorded.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:51 AM
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You cannot just ignore a man's libido and hope that it will go away, which is exactly what you are talking about doing. Asking a man to uphold a standard men themselves held for thousands of years isnt ignoring his libido. This is dramatic. 1). Become a happy Alpha Chad Whore with 3 baby mommas living his best life. If by best life you mean a wage slave to your baby mommas then ill just have to agree to disagree with you here. 2). Get betabuxx'd by an abusive gold digging witch because they are …
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:46 AM
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Why do most mothers just tell theirs sons to be nice and eventually they'll find a nice girlfriend? Everybody knows that being a nice guy won't get you laid or a girlfriend so why do most moms insist of this useless advice? Because the goal is to set up our sons to find a good wife, not be a whore with 3 baby mammas. Did women fuck the nice guy in college or high school or even after? They bluepill the fuck out of their sons so much like they seem to want them to be cucked. I did. My mom did. My…
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 09:48 PM
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Women initiating divorce doesn't necessarily mean theyre at fault. If someone filed after finding out their spouse cheated would you blame them for the end of the marriage or the cheater? Its really important in these conversations to figure out why these divorces are actually happening and to blame the correct party regardless of sex.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 09:30 PM
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Non traditional black men dont get to cry that black women arent traditional and non traditional black women dont get to cry that black men aren't traditional.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 10:28 PM
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I would personally argue "My ex is suffering with cancer but i felt the need to make it about me" would have been a better headline.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:51 PM
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Because the women who do make these accusations have something psychologically wrong with them and they, for the most part, dont have consequences when it comes out it was all a lie.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 07:04 PM
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redpill content creators say looks matter a bunch because people who are that far in aren’t that stupid/delusional typically. but they still say “game matters” because otherwise what would they have left to sell? Does this mean you don't trust any red pill creators? Because even guys like Rollo Tomassi who doesn't do pickup also say this. studies on looks and what women find attractive and what % of men women find attractive back me up. they are plastered all over this sub lmk if your interested…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 09:19 PM
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you know what I meant. you can be socially awkward and still get laid easily if your hot. I seriously doubt this. Even red pill content creators talk about how important game is. , but you do have to be probably around the top 20% or so at least. Otherwise you can still cope by being a betabux if your bottom 80% which is something I guess. Do you have any evidence whatsoever of the idea that millions of average dudes who are married are only married because his wife decided to settle?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 09:10 PM
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hot autists still get laid. Not all autists are socially awkward. even most PUAs nowadays say you need to be hot to do PUA and have it actually work. you said it yourself you need to be sexually attractive, you can’t “personality” your way out of it. why switch up now? Because when i say sexually attractive, i mean attractive. i dont necessarily mean you have to be built like a greek god. You dont necessarily have to be a gigachad to be in a relationship where she wants to sleep with you.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:17 PM
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Have you seen an increase of traffic on your channel since you started posting these videos here?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 04:33 PM
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As long as your not completely disfigured you can overcome not being 6 feet plus and a 10 by having a decent personality or being confident, this is why pickup is a thing. You cannot be hot enough to overcome social awkwardness though. values Some of us actually want to get and stay married. If you dont thats fine, but to ignore that having similar values is an incredibly important thing for maintaining a long term relationship is foolish.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 04:23 PM
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If you actually believe anything will ever save you from the fact that sexual attraction is important then you have bigger problems.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:07 PM
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Which is the most important in getting dates (height,weight,face,country etc), For women, looks. For men, confidence. which pill is closest to true, I dont necessarily subscribe to any pill. what would your ideal will be if you could date anyone you want I won the jackpot with my husband so my husband. which is the most important thing in the relationships Similar values.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:05 AM
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The type of Asian men represented in stuff like K-pop and K drama are the top 1%, not the average Asian man. It's almost always tall, super pale-skinned, and good-looking Asian men. In other words, Asian chads. The overwhelming majority of Asian men you will meet on the street look nothing like that. This is also true of most media around the world. You don't see average dudes in movies. Its always guys like Chris Pratt, Matt Damon, or Tom Cruise.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 11:14 PM
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If you can't gain the self control to watch what you eat then yes.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 09:27 PM
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It doesnt. It benefits the kids.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 07:55 PM
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The great thing about women like this is that theyre nice enough to put it out there that theyre crazy.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 02:29 PM
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This would be a waste of time given that many feminists dont practice logical thinking.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 04:29 AM
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Op and i never talked about matriarchal or patriarchal societies Also most of the west hasnt been an actual patriarchy for decades at this point.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 04:16 AM
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Maybe if there were any more that weren't so pathetic they couldn't even survive I would be able to use more examples. Most of europe has had at least one female elected leader, all of these countries are still standing.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 04:01 AM
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A persons past matters because past behavior can be a sign of decisions they will make in the future as well as reflect their moral compass.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 03:49 AM
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There is no magical society where all men or all women are wonderful leaders. There are only anecdotal examples. Also pointing to a single tribe thats badly run as an example that all women cant lead would be like pointing to Hitler, Mao or Stalin as examples that men should never lead.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 03:46 AM
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You know sex bots and ai already exist right? TFM has an ai/sexbot gf.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:21 PM
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Any society where someone is in a position of power merely because they check off a checkbox group is a society which will suffer. Only women who have proven they have what it takes should be a leader.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:20 PM
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Do you have any proof of this?
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 09:23 AM
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Its not necessarily feminisms fault. Anti natalist ideology is pushed by many different groups.
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 02:04 AM
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You are the one on here saying that the majority of the male population is not good enough for you I never said this. My first comment was a single sentence stating that men will fuck women they won't marry. This isnt a controversial opinion within the manosphere. How did you get " All men suck" from that? Is it possible you meant to reply to a different comment?
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 09:44 PM
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Anyone who believes they're exempt from the fact that the past matters is a moron. Regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, your past will matter to anyone worth locking down.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 08:47 PM
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You don't think that maybe having more access to casual sex also makes it easier to find a long term partner? No it doesn't. This is one of the things the Red Pilled guys are right on. There are plenty of dudes who would fuck women they wouldn't want to be seen in public with. Just pure stupidity and arrogance. Feminine traits for sure If you think these are feminine traits you need to log off and go outside more. , I know introspection is a foreign concept to most women, but maybe you are just …
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 08:17 PM
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Why exactly should brown girls care that slave owners hundreds of years ago thought white boys were hotter?
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 12:28 PM
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According to the video they had dated for 6 years and she was 21 in the video. The 28 year old was a newer girl paired with Vivian.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 12:16 PM
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He said the girl he paired her with was 28. He said Vivian was 21
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 01:26 AM
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He stated she was 21 and that they've been together for 6 years. 21 minus 6 is 15. This is basic math, my dude.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 10:01 PM
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21 year olds shouldn't be sliding into the dms of high schoolers.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 06:01 PM
1

Cheat mode applies to casual sex only. Finding a man to wife you up is more difficult.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 05:59 PM
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My guess is that she is probably obese and not admitting it, or perhaps she has social or self grooming issues.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 01:55 PM
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I posted the video footage of Tate saying this later in the thread
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 01:49 PM
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People make mistakes, they need to be repeated to be a trend. I doubt he will ever be on again. The fact that they did absolutely nothing when thia happened but are quick to dogpile women who dont understand fertility, or merely women who have an attitude makes me think they think ignorance and attitude are worse then rape. Since they have a history of kicking out guests for less, they have no excuse here. Age of consent isn't 18 in many countries. Legality doesnt equal morality. In France its i…
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 01:47 PM
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It's legal there lol In some countries the age of consent is as low as 13 to 14. Does this mean having sex with 13 to 14 year olds is ok? Fuck in france its illegal to get a paternity test. Is it immoral for frenchmen to want to make sure the kid is theirs. Legality doesnt equal morality. I watched the entire video and there was no mention of age anywhere. No, you didn't watch it then. He specifically said they were together for 6 years and then said Vivian was 21. He mentions her age when he ta…
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 01:44 PM
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Tristan bragging about taking the virginities of a 17 year old girl 1:08:00 https://www.youtube.com/live/qTLkbHu_LRo?feature=share Andrew admitting that hes been in a relationship with Vivian for 6 years and that she was 21 when this was filmed. https://youtu.be/bFNzGBRUUlE The Fresh and Fit guest who bragged about rape https://youtu.be/B6KrqZmQxcI
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 03:54 AM
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How many of these other groups openly support these creators after they admit to these actions? Andrew Tate is one of the most popular creators and he admitted that he started dating his bottom bitch Vivian when she was 15. The fresh and fit boys laughed about a guest on their show bragging about targeting white women to rape them. Rich Cooper said absolutely nothing when Tristan Taste bragged about how many 17 year olds virginities he took. While other groups definitely have their bad actors, t…
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 11:24 PM
2

I would argue that the idea of finding a woman abroad, while being an older concept, still isnt mainstream.
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 02:16 AM
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In the west, no. The best thing you can point to are affirmative action policies that benefit women and divorce and child custody. The unfortunate thing about arguing this is that a lot of womens activists dont really want equality. They want privilege, so these arguments will fall on deaf ears.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 01:51 AM
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Yes. And despite men advocating for women to take care of their kids, they still dont like single moms. A lot of people dont want to deal with that baggage and thats perfectly fine and normal. Its not my job as a woman to absolve men of the consequences of their choices and its not mens job to absolve women from the consequences of theirs.
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 01:39 AM
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This kind of attention seeking behavior is incredibly annoying
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 06:59 PM
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These studies come from dating apps which are 80 percent male. Putting forward a study about an app thats 80 percent male and attempting to make a statement about dating as a whole is intellectually dishonest.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:59 AM
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The second paragraph is filled with ideology and any stat will just be written off as "Shes settling".
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 04:33 PM
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maybe that hasn’t happened because women weren’t free to marry who they wanted for the longest time? If this was the case then why didnt this same problem exist in the west during the time period where women could chose their husbands but dating apps didnt exist?
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 02:09 AM
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You're making the assumption that "mental load" what its more popularly characterized by is emotional labor is specific to a group of people, when hundreds of men in the the comments have already stated they experience this. Yes and im one of the people who did so since i explicitly stated that men have also ended relationships for this reason. The point im trying to make isnt necessarily men bad women good. Its that in a relationship its really important for both parties to pull their weight. I…
/r/MensRights01/04/23 07:12 PM
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If women actually found 80 percent of men unattractive then wed be facing a social collapse due to lack of kids. The stat youre citing comes from dating apps which are 80 percent male. If youre an extreme in demand minority, you can afford to be as choosy as you want.
/r/AllPillDebate01/04/23 07:03 PM
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Which religion if you dont mind my asking? Im not aware of any religion that allows either sex to sleep around out of wedlock.
/r/RedPillWives31/03/23 08:11 PM
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Dont be a trad wife to a ho.
/r/RedPillWives31/03/23 06:13 PM
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I think you invalidating my experience is truly saddening. I would argue that pretending to know more then you do is worse. The reality is until you have to both work full time and watch kids you wont know what the workload is like. My mom is that exhausted and resentful women with a lot on her plate and she places those burdens on me everyday because I'm her daughter. Then why did you make an entire post shitting on this experience if you acknowledge that it sucks? It really just comes down to …
/r/MensRights31/03/23 06:10 PM
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Statistically speaking your chances are higher in person then on an app thats 80 percent male. Unless you are gay of course.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 04:20 PM
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I'm not a house wife. I'm a girl in my 20s that lives with my mom and two brothers but still experience it No you dont. While i will agree that its not the worst thing in the world it can still be incredibly frustrating to never get a break because your spouse wont help with chores or traditionally female aspects of child rearing. Having to come home after a full time shift to a messy house because the other partner wont help overtime builds resentment and both men and women have ended relations…
/r/MensRights31/03/23 04:10 PM
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In a non rigged and less competitive environment many incels would try to. Every single time i bring up fairer environments that exist right now, such as going outside and meeting people, i get excuses on why they cant be bothered to leave their homes.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 04:06 PM
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It may help a little bit but it still wouldnt solve the issue. A large subsection of incels are incels because they refuse to put in the work to find someone.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 03:01 PM
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It would depend on the guy. My husband likes manga and video games so i tend to give him gifts from those areas.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 01:50 AM
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Im on the side of humor none.
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 01:34 AM
1

Can you address my actual point instead of making up a scenario that you can feel victimized by?
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 01:30 AM
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Delusional behavior is still bad regardless of whether its humored by others.
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 12:07 AM
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Probably yes. But any man doing this needs to acknowledge and be ok with the idea that he is personally contributing to a culture of misandry because doing this sours these women on men or makes women inherently distrustful of men.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 08:55 PM
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I think our Red Pilled and MRA friends care more about women getting lighter sentences for the same crime and preferential treatment within child custody courts then dating younger men. The idea of crying about a grown person dating another grown person with a bit of an age gap is something that only women with nothing better to do complain about.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 08:13 PM
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Both sides want the finish line shortened. The fact that there's an ever-growing sentiment among men that they shouldn't be expected to go outside to find someone is evidence of this.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 02:35 PM
1

This was hilarious to read.
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 08:15 PM
2

The categories are separated because they are not mutually exclusive. Online isnt necessarily mutually exclusive either. Some respondents met online and also met through friends; for instance, if the friend had made the introduction online or if the friend forwarded an online profile.” I would argue this shouldnt be counted as meeting online since they really met through a friend and just used social media to talk instead of being given a phone number by said friend. They werent using the intern…
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 10:10 PM
1

Not at all. I've never understood the mindset of feeling personally slighted because videogame characters like Bayonetta are hot. It's pathetic. Especially when if you point out to these same women the myriad of examples of unrealistic male bodies in media, they usually turn around and say that its different because "Its a male power fantasy."
/r/MensRights21/03/23 05:38 PM
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This is the result of deliberately cut up "Meeting irl" into as many chunks as you can while not doing the same for online. The majority of people still meet irl and unless you think youre hot enough to compete on a platform thats 70+% male then its also your best bet to find someone.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 05:28 PM
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Your best bet to find one of these women is through hobbies or a church/synagogue/mosque/temple.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 05:25 PM
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The 40 percent meet online stat still means the majority still meet in person.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 03:52 PM
1

President Nixon did a take on war on drugs... literally the government has a whole document on it lmao. Yes and it was supported by the black community at the time. Whats your point? your whole point was blacks weren't alive during this time, that was your whole argument lmao which I debunked. I never said this. What are you talking about. when it comes to stealing and petty crime whites outsource everyone, statistically whites overall commited 4 million out of the 6 million crimes, which is 70%…
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 02:56 PM
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Yeah it ended 40 Years ago... so blacks literally just got simple rights like fucking working right? So wouldn't that mean millions of blacks are still alive that faced discrimination, Jim crow, lynching and all? Lmao What universe are you living in where black people aren't allowed to have jobs? Stop deflecting I'm not talking about crime in general, Yes you are. Murder is a crime regardless of the reason someone is murdered. I'm talking about in America where whites lynched blacks because of t…
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 02:29 PM
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I would see what you're saying but segregation ended 40 years ago? It did end. People still lynched blacks because they were black just a few years ago... Lynching people for any reason is a crime. As lomg as humans exist we will always kill each other for messed up reasons and no policy or law will ever stop this entirely. still redlining, still discrimination, there are these things because people are keeping these things alive.. None of these still exist in the usa today. blacks are still get…
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 05:31 AM
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I would argue that arguing with yourself on a public forum then strutting around like this makes you hot shit is more embarrassing personally but you do you bro.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 10:17 PM
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Ah. You think Australia dragged people out of their houses and put them in quarantine camps huh? I didn't say any specific policy. I hope you had fun making something up to criticize tho
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 10:14 PM
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If what i posted agreed with your points then you probably should have worded your previous comment a bit clearer.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 10:09 PM
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Why should i give a shit what the Australian govt thinks? Especially considering the fascistic way they handled COVID.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 10:05 PM
3

Lol well, you see, if it was a case of shedding light on discriminatory policies then there would be no need to discuss these subjects exclusively in a subreddit for hateful people. It would just be talked about normally. The ethics of reparations for people who werent victimized payed for by those who didnt victimize anyone is talked about every single time reparations is. Also if you believe this is a hate group why are you here? there is a massive, coordinated cover up of reverse racism or it…
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 09:48 PM
1

How exactly is not supporting discriminatory policy a white supremacist thing?
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 08:00 PM
4

This can happen to literally anyone, even women have gotten married to men who eventually left them for other dudes (or other women). The idea that you can do the right thing and still get burned is practically common knowledge for most people.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 02:02 AM
1

The article is about a woman deciding to leave her husband after deciding she's lesbian. What is the point youre trying to make here?
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 09:37 PM
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Im confused as to where youre going with this.
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 07:01 PM
1

Honestly my opinion of this depends on whos at fault for the end of the marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate12/03/23 10:09 PM
1

Where did you get this quote?
/r/AllPillDebate12/03/23 04:19 PM
2

If this was even remotely true then why wasnt pre 1970s america a crime ridden shithole?
/r/AllPillDebate12/03/23 02:40 PM
1

A ugly woman doesn’t have to use a resource that isn’t her to attract men. She will always be her ugly self while the rich ugly dude can lose his money. The ugly woman will only have x amount of options available to her. While a man can lose his money this doesnt change the fact that he has the option of increasing his options while she doesnt. Again, can’t compare, women obviously have it a better since a ugly man would have to literal join the top 1% of men while the ugly woman doesn’t have to…
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 10:35 PM
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No. Its incredibly hard to compete for 20% of women on an app thats 80% male.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 10:12 PM
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A tall woman can still attract a lot of men simply because dudes are simps and she has a vagina, How many would actually wife her up though? The fact that a guy would pump and dump her is worthless to most women. Most runway models are tall even, Runway models are picked by whats considered beautiful to women and some gay men. Additionally, an ugly woman doesn’t need money to attract men, so that argument doesn’t make sense. The fact that an ugly man can still land a hot woman with money is a ma…
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 09:03 PM
1

The femcells condition isnt sex without paying just like the male incels condition is free sex. Neither is getting sex on the terms they want.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 08:50 PM
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Because theres a segment of guys who would rather pretend that everyone is out to get them instead of acknowledge the truth that theres sometimes a legitimate reason to be wary of age gap relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate10/03/23 11:27 AM
2

Theres this thing called an enter button. Try it some time.
/r/AllPillDebate10/03/23 04:38 AM
1

There are lots of subreddits crapping on crappy women's behavior. R/nicegirls for crapping on femcell behavior. r/dependa for crapping on women who expect privileges for being married to someone in the military. R/fundiesnark craps on culturally conservative women. In a similar case there arw currently hundred of thousands of dudes simping for Andrew (i like to slide into the dms of 15 year old girls) Tate. Theres a segment of both men and women who will make excuses for bad behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate09/03/23 11:48 PM
3

Menstrual leave should just be sick leave and asking for a doctors note is a really shitty thing for a company to do. Its unnecessary and wastes your time and money.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:57 PM
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An interesting little fact is that if you search her twitter feed for any mention of Madonna and Cher (both have dated men with an even larger gap then DiCaprio) theres nothing. Gee, i wonder why this is....
/r/MensRights08/03/23 11:53 PM
1

I thought my sarcasm was evident It can be hard to detect sarcasm reading a comment.
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 05:42 PM
0

But you just said women of good character would settle for a decent guy and now theyre secretly using the guy for resources. Which is it?
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 05:19 PM
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Not necessarily. A lot of "Chads" tend to just want to spend their lives hopping from woman to woman. The women youre speaking of wouldn't be interested in that.
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 05:15 PM
1

Manosphere guys tend to think settling is a bad thing and that women who "settle" dont really love the guy theyre with.
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 05:14 PM
4

The idea of having a day people celebrate you based on how you were born is cringe.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 02:55 PM
6

All of the happily married people (myself included) i know met their significant other through hobbies
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:40 AM
2

Anytime you see someone say any variation of "All men/women are trash" its a dead giveaway that they suck at vetting partners.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 06:49 PM
1

Honestly when i see people comment that women dont owe men anything its usually in the context of someone she isnt romantically linked to. (Ex: she doesnt owe you sex because you bought her dinner on a first date). Most people tend to operate under the acknowledgment that there are obligations in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 04:56 PM
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and most of them are married to uncle sam when they're single (not that i'm against welfare in principle, i would think a society with no safety nets is barbaric). At least in the usa single women make more than married women do And women in marriages who do take career hits do so for the benefit of the family. a woman can install tinder and shop for men like a consumer on amazon.com regardless of her own lifestyle and achievements ( Women dont like casual sex like men do. This is why hookup app…
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 04:15 PM
0

What does jbb and jbw mean?
/r/AllPillDebate05/03/23 10:47 PM
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Yes men should have a right to request a paternity test but its understandable that his standoff attitude towards the situation and treating you like youre guilty off the bat is upsetting.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 03:02 AM
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It´s not mental gymnastics, Giselle came to Tom Brady AFTER he established his Sacrifice for football in his career not before, she aint some childhood love interest and she clearly expected Tom Brady to change after the relationship. This might have to do with the fact that he literally made vows on their wedding day to work to keep the marriage going and didnt follow through. Thats not how Love works, Tom Brady is expected to perform not in bed to Giselle first but second, first he has to perf…
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 12:15 PM
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Lol, here I´m going to have to give the same argument I give to Brexitards to make it better understood, here it goes listen well: "When you leave from a partnership from a deal you sign, you go back to where you were previously before you signed that", Now I know in divorce there´s a lot of BS like Divorce rapi** husbands out of their money, but even if Giselle had a ton of Tom Brady´s money she still would be forced to settle for high middle class or below after the divorce, no high class man …
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 07:54 PM
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Same bull as other Superstars, if the model wives are so successful why are they settling to be trophy wives for the Superstars? Tom Brady isnt special in this regard, other superstars have "successful models" as wives that dont mind having kids with them. No one said she was settling. I only brought this up because people kept trying to accuse her of gold digging to relieve Brady of his responsibility for the marriage ending. As for him breaking his promises, he likely saw the writting on the w…
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 06:56 PM
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blame the game he has to play. He made multiple promises to leave that he went back on. He is responsible for his actions. As for Giselle she´s just another Gold Digger only reason she cared about him was case of his career results, ofc he wasnt part away from his career like this. She is a successful model who has a net worth almost twice what his is. This accusation is absurd and could have been debunked with a minute long google search.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 12:08 PM
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The abuse of the word grooming is infuriating. I hope she gets laughed out of court.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:51 AM
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What does it say about the guy commenting on her? I was referring to the simps in her comment section not anyone in this group. That the market dynamics have gotten so out of whack that even a man who on paper is self sufficient and self made, still has to go for women who are objectively inferior to him in every way, because average women with average status and wealth, think they are entitled to getting with rich, high status chads? Yeah, it's a fucked up world. Blaming market dynamics is a co…
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 11:32 PM
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This says a bit more about the guys commenting and the guy who wifed her up then it does about her.
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 09:08 PM
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A great place to start is to not neglect your wife and kids for a job. This, as well as the cheating and the going back on promises, is a marriage killer. The number of people who dont see this as common sense is astounding to me.
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 04:37 AM
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You're really short? If you're a man, your dating options are slim to none. If you're a woman, the world is your oyster so many men love dating short women. Being tall as a woman can be a dealbreaker for some guys. -You're ugly? If you're a man, you'd better be tall and have money or it's over for you. If you're a woman, your dating options will be fewer, but far from none. I would personally argue that the fact that an ugly dude can get a better paying job to offset his looks makes men have it …
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 02:59 AM
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Do you mean exwife? If not this doesnt make sense since usually men and women tend to have an agreement where the man will work more hours and the women will work more domestic duties.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 02:40 AM
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Im referring to instances where men send emails to content creators like Rollo Tomassi or Rich Cooper specifically asking about it. Usually these are dudes who want to become dads but are afraid of the unfairness in courts.
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 05:07 PM
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Its possible womens tendency towards being Bisexual more than men can also be a factor. Either was though the stats still dont point to a large scale adoption of polygamy in the west.
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 11:56 AM
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Not always. A large percentage of the content creators are either married or have long term girlfriends. Plus if you look at the advice videos from a few of them, youll see replies to the question, how to find an ltr.
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 11:50 AM
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Criminals have more children and more partners The women these guys are knocking up arent the women Red Pilled guys consider LTR material.
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 01:12 AM
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Honestly youre better off not expecting it but being prepared just in case. This way if it does happen, awesome. If sex doesnt happen, you wont be let down.
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 01:10 AM
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Being hot will make people want to fuck you money wont.
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 04:31 PM
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Fame and money can attract for the wrong reasons. Theres plenty of women who would go for rich dudes because they want the money even if theyre not even remotely attracted to him. If you want a woman who genuinely want to fuck you then theres a time limit for 99.99% of men.
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 04:15 PM
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The link he posted showed a group where women slammed shitty dudes they've dated. The idea that sll of these women were in harems for these guys isnt substantiated.
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 04:12 PM
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Women shaming men for being crappy people and other women dating these men later doesnt magically mean we live in a polygamous society.
/r/AllPillDebate23/02/23 01:14 AM
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Because there's a subsection of men who want a revenge fantasy where the women who rejected them when they were younger are all now depressed single and childless while they get their golden opportunity to pump and dump 20 year olds.
/r/AllPillDebate23/02/23 12:43 AM
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Yes i can because there are no stats that prove that polygamy is prevalent in the west
/r/AllPillDebate23/02/23 12:38 AM
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There are a grand total of zero studies that back up this out of touch worldview.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 11:55 PM
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Its because youre wrong. The real number is 32/51 female vs male single status. Any disparity can be explained by the fact that women tend to like men who are older then them.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 11:47 PM
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True, but the recent stats show that most young men are actually single, and most young women aren't, so 80/20 works out irl too. Do you have any evidence to support the idea that most women are being shared by the Chads? Because every single stat I've ever seen in the subject refutes the idea that polygamy is as common as you're claiming it is. A woman still gets 100s of messages on social media from chads even if she doesn't actually use dating apps This is just straight-up false. This is blat…
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 10:38 PM
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Evangelicals had a choice between Trump or H Clinton and Hillary was accused of silencing Bills rape victims to further her own career. To most people rape is considered worse then cheating.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 10:25 PM
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I agree in the cases of some religions. But in the cases of religions in the west they tend to apply morality, especially sexual motality, to both sexes very well.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 08:52 PM
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I agree
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 08:50 PM
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they cant, no one can They can and do all time. only way to police women is to put them in the timeout corner for bad behavior which as it turns out only happens to men because there's always one more simp no matter what the woman does One of the more common talking points from RP guys (which i happen to agree with) is that women don't want to marry simps. It can be argued that the fact that most promiscuous women being unable to lock down the men they want is a form of being held accountable.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 08:50 PM
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80% of men are largely invisible to women This stat comes from dating apps that are overwhelmingly male. If straight men choose to try to find a woman on a male majority app this is reflective of their decision making skills and not on women. And I mean, a 50 year old millionaire can regularly have sex with beautiful women half his age for money While this is true lots of men here actively complain about having to pay for sex
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 08:45 PM
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"Men age like wine" is a cope. Men have a slower decline.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 07:04 PM
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No one polices women. No one on the progressive side polices women. Religious institutions still do but they cant do all the work.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 12:04 AM
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Because the idea being pushed here is that all of the negatives, including those to women, would end tomorrow if women decided to police chads behavior. I didn't specifically say "shitty to women" because some men get screwed by hookup culture too.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:59 PM
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The first coment in this thread stated that hookup culture and all of the negatives are due to women not policing male behavior by not fucking Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:52 PM
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Then you're voluntarily not getting laid then.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:35 PM
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Until men can fuck women that are better looking than them for free, the same way women can fuck men better looking than them for free, we are neither the same, nor similar, so stop the false equivalency ✋️😂😂😂 Mens lack of standards isnt womens problem. The fact that women can fuck hotter dudes is entirely because casual sex benefits men more and they're biologically predisposed to seek it out more. Also I'm not redpilled dumbass. Grow up.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:21 PM
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Thats fine but this is still you making a conscious decision to not have sex and not being unable to have sex at all.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 07:11 PM
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Sex is still sex regardless if the woman is into you or not.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 06:59 PM
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Because women controlling sex doesnt give men a free pass to be shitty people.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 06:58 PM
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I dont typically see men making the argument that its fine to rape 12-17 year olds either. so why should people even care about them hooking up with younger men? Because when people complain about older dudes fucking 20 year olds they point to differences in life experience and power imbalances. If you complain about Dicaprios dating habits of dating women 20 years younger but stay silent about Madonnas boyfriend whos almost 40 years younger it can look like youre complaint is that the women are…
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 06:54 PM
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I'm confused. Typically red pill guys shame women for not fucking dudes they have commitment to and now theyre shaming them for not sleeping around. What do you guys want? Also male incels can hire a prostitute so theyre not really incels theyre volcels like the women are.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 02:29 PM
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As long as i never see you complain about women treating men badly, sure.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 02:21 PM
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Why is it womens responsibility to essentially force men into behaving decently?
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 02:06 PM
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Then you have no moral ground to complain that society refuses to listen to you when you actively refuse to listen to others. There will never be a fair solution unless the issues of both parties are considered.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 10:14 PM
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I still have to pay alimony, courts and the justice system are skewered to support women be it with lighter sentences for the same crime or unfair alimony payments. Unless your spouse took a career hit which doesnt seem like the case in this scenario then you wouldnt be paying unless you got the worst divorce lawyer in the area.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 10:06 PM
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You are assuming that men force her to do it. No im assuming that typically women do more chores around the house and this is backed up by every survey youll find on the subject. Whether or not she is forced into it or not isnt relevant. and men already compensate her by providing for her. If you chose to get into a relationship with the understanding that one party provides and one stays home with the kids that's fine. This doesnt apply to marriages where both parties work. and also in case of …
/r/MensRights20/02/23 10:01 PM
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You're not, you're saying that men must pay alimony because some women willingly chose to become mothers and take a break from their careers, conveniently ignoring the fact that while she's being a stay at home mom or working part time, the man is financially providing from her and the child. Nope. My original point is that men who are concerned about alimony might want to consider 50/50 relationships where both parties pay bills and watch kids. Alimony, regardless of either of our opinions on h…
/r/MensRights18/02/23 10:48 PM
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So just to be completely in the clear: if someone could only get sex through rape, but they chose not to, are they volcel or incel by your definition? I would say no because with rape theres a lack of consent. Imo they are incel. If you can only get sex by unethical means, you are incel. If you can get sex consensually, but you choose not to, then you are volcel. I guess this would have to depend on morality. I personally think any kind of sex work is bad but its still possible to willingly be a…
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 10:25 PM
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Are you seriously writing off the idea of dudes abandoning their spouses and kids because welfare? You know its possible to advocate for no one being fucked by courts right?
/r/MensRights18/02/23 10:17 PM
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if you’re paying it doesn’t count Sure it does. Sex is still sex even if it doesnt have initial desire that one can get from a ons.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 10:16 PM
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Can't eat your cake and have it too. Ironically i have been making this exact same point this entire time.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 10:14 PM
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if you do something for your SO it's because you love them not because you are expecting future alimony payments. Im referring to instances where the breadwinner doesnt hold his/her end of the deal. should the payment be reimbursement for all the money he has spent on her If she is the reason the relationship ended, sure.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 10:12 PM
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This is a fair assessment to make. But the reality is that with the ways the current laws are set up if both parties are paying bills and watching the kids, the chances of paying alimony and losing your kids are lower.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:37 PM
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Honestly if you think providing a path forward for guys who complain about alimony and prenups by pointing out that this exists due to the fact that women have to take a career hit for family is feminist then i dont know what to tell you. It seems like you just want to complain and not talk solutions.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:18 PM
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How is acknowledging that women take career hits due to kids devaluing to men? And also why is it feminist to ask men who dont want to pay alimony to look for a 50/ 50 relationship where both parties pay bills and do chores since the fact that women had to do chores is why alimony exists in the first place? Do you actually want solutions or just to complain?
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:16 PM
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I doubt you would count rape or necrophilia as ascending. That's because both of these require force. . I consider hiring a hooker an ethics violation. It's something harmful to both men and women. That's fair. My overall point though is that in both cases male and female incels are only volcels who cant get sex how they want it. The women can't get the commitment and the men can't get desire.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 12:14 PM
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if you are asking for equality ,then equality is also this men provide and women do support with housework ,but now you want him to provide and do atleast half housework , Yes. The reason alimony exists in the first place is due to the fact that not working or working part time to watch kids puts the woman far behind where she could have been if she had just stayed full time. So any man who complains about prenups or alimony should be doing half of the housework so the woman can keep her job and…
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:11 PM
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When did he say he wants women to ruin their careers? Is it because you assume the woman gets to stay home with the kids? I have multiple people complaining and calling me a closet feminist fir merely suggesting that men who have concerns about alimony look for 50/50 marriages where both parties pay bills and do housework. The point im making is that if the man doesnt want to lose money due to alimony during divorce they should have a 50/50 marriage.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:02 PM
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There are 100% men out there who are pulling nothing and shooting at everything. These guys can still go the sex worker route. The fact that these men are still virgins is because they're choosing not to lose it under circumstances they dont like.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 04:58 AM
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Only if you're also bringing in the same amount of cash and splitting expenses 50/50. This is fair. Often what happens is that one person ends up paying more, usually the man, and is still expected to do half of the housework. This is blatantly untrue and stats prove it. Usually the woman has to take a pay cut so the family doesnt have to spend the money for a full time babysitter. Oh and fixing things around the house, or fixing cars, mowing lawns and stuff isn't considered housework by women, …
/r/MensRights18/02/23 04:43 AM
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As long as you split housework and childrearing 50/50 prenups are reasonable.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:12 AM
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This outlook tends to ignore the stats about relationships, marriage and out of wedlock childbirths because the people with these ideas want to believe that women as a whole are looking to become single moms and get some random guy to foot the bill.
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 11:54 PM
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Yes. Incels of both sexes are volcels who cant get sex with the terms they want. If your definition of an incel is someone who cannot get sex period then no one is an incel. If your definition of incel is someone who cannot get sex on their preferred terms then women can very well be incels too.
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 11:46 PM
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70% of women identify as feminists. The actual number is 38%. The only other number ive seen thats remotely close to your 70% are surveys that ask women if the dictionary definition of feminism applies to them. Chances are that most people in this group would be "Feminists" too.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 11:25 PM
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I'm assuming this is a general you since i don't push that narrative. Yes. Feminists should stop blaming men for their issues.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 08:11 PM
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Yes they did. They were the ones calling white women traitors.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 07:34 PM
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I dont know what you mean by "not wanting to speak about." After Trump was elected, there were a lot of articles painting white women as traitors due to this stat.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 05:55 PM
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This isn't wrong, but you can make the argument that any kind of privilege is the result of unfair expectations. You can make the argument that historic male privilege was really unfair to guys since men were expected to work, provide, and potentially die for his spouse.
/r/AllPillDebate13/02/23 05:01 PM
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Usually when men in this group complain about female privilege the thing theyre upset about is that it can cost thousands of dollars in divorce court fees to maybe get 50/50 custody of their child, not that they cant sell pictures of their buttholes on OnlyFans.
/r/AllPillDebate13/02/23 09:53 AM
1

Do you believe the man in question is marrying the 12 partners theyre said to have been fucking in the editorial?
/r/AllPillDebate13/02/23 09:50 AM
1

Typically this happens if the rich person is doing something to keep others down. Not necessarily when they merely make more money.
/r/AllPillDebate13/02/23 09:49 AM
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The study is about the number of sex partners. This means casual. Take your own advice
/r/AllPillDebate12/02/23 07:39 PM
1

That's because radfems are female supremacists.
/r/AllPillDebate11/02/23 03:48 PM
1

The wealth of others is also being constantly thrown in our faces. Am i being victimized because other people have more money than me?
/r/AllPillDebate11/02/23 03:47 PM
1

Its kind of hard to criticize victim complexes without using the word victim.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 11:46 PM
1

I assume that's a general "you" Yes. I probably should have been clearer there. but I do understand the feeling of having no investment in society, since I have no children and will leave no legacy, everything I do and achieve ends when I die. They at least had the prospect of getting married and having a family, without that why fight for it? What would we be protecting? I'm someone who served their country as well and I've certainly paid more in tax than I'll ever get back, but I at least unde…
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 11:45 PM
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and the medical and societal issues this could generate This is a massive stretch. Men have been not getting casual sex for thousands of years and have been fine, so will modern men. I would be more sympathetic if you were talking about men who wanted relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:46 PM
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We havent had a draft in the usa since Vietnam. No one is asking you to die for anything or anyone, let alone the small amount of terminally online radfems who hate you.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:44 PM
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You didnt read anything i said if you didnt see the argument.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:14 PM
1

Youre not left behind by society just because youre not getting matches on tinder. Men have been not getting casual sex for thousands of years.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:05 PM
1

I dont disagree with your point about not wanting to wife up Chads leftovers but the idea i was critiquing was the average dudes who are complaining that they cant be the Chads pumping and dumping.
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 09:52 PM
2

"Men peaking at 40" is RP cope since many of them want really badly to believe that their actions dont have consequences so they can have their cake and eat it too.
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 06:56 PM
1

Nice strawman. Can you attack my actual argument?
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 12:04 PM
4

The Tates have made their entire fortune on lying and stealing.
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 12:03 PM
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Youre missing the point. The point im making is that someone else having an abundance of something (sex, money etc) doesnt mean anyone who doesnt have said thing is a victim or has a legitimate reason to be upset that they dont have said thing. I am not a victim because people are richer then me because im not entitled to money. Likewise men arent victims if chad is getting sex from sluts and they arent because men arent entitled to sex.
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 12:14 AM
1

This is a childish and entitled way of thinking. With social media i constantly see lots of different people being able to buy stuff and go places i can't afford to. Does this mean men as a sex are personally victimizing me unless i get a blank check to get whatever i want?
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 11:49 PM
6

This study is about casual sex. Men have been fighting in wars while not getting casual sex for thousands of years.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 11:39 PM
1

In the usa the percentage of children with single parent families is 27%. So no the average women isnt a single parent. This stat also includes widows/widowers and most are 40+. So if youre looking for a younger woman she has even less of a chance of being a single mom.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 08:39 PM
1

Surrogacy doesnt magically make the stats saying that two parent households are better then one go away.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 07:05 PM
0

Honestly it shouldnt be legal for single people to adopt, women or men. If your confidence in finding a partner is so low that youre even considering willingly being a single parent then youre being selfish at the expense of some poor kid who has to live with your bad life decisions.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 01:29 AM
7

Where were all of these people when Madonna started banging a dude younger than her daughter?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 01:12 AM
1

It kinda does. The thing that changes is that you get women who will fuck you for access to money instead of actually being attracted to you.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 03:09 PM
3

Hes a toxic, emotionally abusive asshole. Please leave him.
/r/RedPillWives04/02/23 05:49 PM
12

Do you have joint custody?
/r/MensRights01/02/23 11:18 PM
-1

In western countries, men. 99% of legitimate women's issues can be boiled down to "People are rude sometimes". In non western countries, women.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 11:04 PM
2

Im going to treat this like it's real even though it may be a troll. Second bigger issue is if I had a daughter, I really can't imagine loving a female, knowing what kind of person she would grow up to be. Don't have kids until you get help.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 08:50 PM
7

Being a virgin doesn't necessarily make you asexual.
/r/AllPillDebate31/01/23 01:16 PM
5

While i dont think that you being in your 30s means that you will for sure die alone its still better to be alone then with someone who clearly doesnt love you.
/r/RedPillWives31/01/23 03:40 AM
2

tbh it is kinda hard when nearly every woman i had this conversation with was unable to come up with a clear, applicable and straightforward explanation of what such a strategy in a specific place and time looks like without contradicting themselves between the capital letter at the start and the period at the end of a sentence. No one male or female can make a fool proof guide to love. All I can really tell anyone is that if youre not a top 1% guy going on an app thats 80% male wont help you. M…
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 10:56 PM
1

Yeah. Thats what happens in a low supply high demand dating app.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 10:52 PM
1

TwoXChromosomes isnt representative of all women. We have decades of marriage stats that disprove the idea that women only go to top 1% of all guys.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 10:51 PM
3

Almost any strategy would be better then competing on tinder with rich 6 foot plus guys for the attention of the handful of women who are on the app.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 09:41 PM
1

There are no stats that back up this claim.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 09:40 PM
2

The stats on most dating apps have shown that the vast majority of users are men. With the exception of gay men, this should be something they should look at and decide on a more fruitful strategy to find a partner. It's ultimately your fault if you join a platform that's 70 to 80 percent male and dont find a female partner when there are better strategies to finding someone.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 09:32 PM
1

The study you cited separated meeting in person into multiple categories but left online as one. If you add all the in person categories, 60 percent of couples still meet in person. https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 09:21 PM
2

Considering the majority of these women arent all dating and marrying 6 foot 6 figures 6 inches Chads it kinda does.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 09:16 PM
4

Because women dont like casual sex as much as men do and we typically find boyfriends in person.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 06:20 PM
0

The difference a 80/20 percent male/female ratio makes.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 04:44 PM
1

One thing i wonder about this is how many people are calling themselves feminists actually keep up with modern feminist thought and how many were told "Feminist means equality so i guess im a Feminist".
/r/MensRights28/01/23 05:59 AM
1

Some of us never participated in hook up culture.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 02:58 AM
-1

There are entire communities of lower body count women who are marriagable. Theyre typically found in religious environments such as a church/synagogue/mosque.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 02:56 AM
1

In what reality are you living in lmao. Ugly women can easily date average men and hook up with literal Chads, while ugly men live and die forever alone. Women- even ugly women- have life on easy mode, and that is a FACT. So im supposed to ignore the countless rich dudes with power who had younger cuter girlfriends because you want you want to feel like a victim? Women judge men FAR more harshly for physical appearance than men do for women. Not if you have money status etc
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 03:35 AM
7

I dont see any downside for the normalizing of splitting the bill. It helps decent guys avoid these leeches. It also helps decent women avoid guys who believe buying them a big Mac means they're entitled to sex.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 10:43 PM
3

most men judge women on their sexual history/n count. Something that women CHOOSE to participating in out of their own free will. Men also judge due to physical appearance which you cant do anything about unless you want plastic surgery. Not to mention that there's a subsection of men who will lie to try to get what they want for their benefit. So if you ever make the mistake of trusting the wrong person it negatively impacts you Most women judge men on the way they physically look (excluding we…
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 10:34 PM
6

I have a lot of ideological overlap with most people here. When it comes to things i disagree on most people here are adult enough to have an honest conversation about it unlike feminist groups.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 04:33 PM
2

These two have been arrested and held, but not charged with anything just because some women have made some statements. How is this NOT a men's rights issue? How is having a justice system a mens rights issue? The concept of arresting someone when there's enough evidence to point in his/her direction has been a thing in most countries for hundreds of years. A couple of women can make a claim and your home gets raided, your property seized, but they aren't sure if they have anything to charge the…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 01:19 AM
1

Where do feminists think sperm comes from?
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:04 PM
2

I didnt say any of what youre pretending i did. So feel free to comment back to what i actually said and not your imagination. Ill happily respond then.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 07:01 PM
1

I dont know what the gender breakdown is of people who just dont want kids. Ive just noticed its more common among younger men and women.
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 06:58 PM
5

Saying that women must by in large be exaggerating, that is saying they're not being truthful on purpose.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:05 PM
9

Wow. What a coincidence that when men complain about women not pulling weight its always true but when a woman does it, the bitch must be lying. /s
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:32 AM
0

How much of this is by choice? A growing number of both men and women nowadays dont want kids.
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 11:19 AM
8

To be completely fair. I've seen a few of these stories too, and usually, the guy they're complaining about isn't doing anything at home except for his videogame of choice while the woman has to work and do most of the cleaning.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:16 AM
3

I cant tell if this is a troll or not.
/r/AllPillDebate18/01/23 12:11 AM
1

Youre not competing with women youre competing with a new batch of late 20s early 30s men who are younger and hotter.
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 07:10 PM
2

26
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 04:43 AM
3

What are you referring to?
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:13 PM
0

Yes it does. Thats how user stats work.
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 02:06 AM
1

Yes. But unfortunately things such as "Feeling unhappy in the marriage" is vague.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 07:37 PM
1

Like i mentioned earlier. Men are responsible for some of them just like women are responsible for some of their husbands divorcing them. I have yet to come across a comprehensive breakdown of how much is whos fault.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 07:06 PM
1

Sometimes. The most common reasons given for divorce are infidelity, money issues, and irreconcilable differences. The big issue with manosphere guys is that they have a tendency to lump in the legitimate reasons for divorce with the illegitimate reasons to inflate the numbers. We won't really know how bad divorce is until we get those numbers on why the divorce happened.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 03:38 PM
1

This doesnt change the fact that men still make up a large majority of these apps.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 03:16 PM
-2

An 76 24 ratio in favor of men isnt anywhere near what most people would considered significant numbers.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 02:40 AM
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Women dont do online dating in the same numbers men do. Attempting to make an assumption about womens behavior based on what men are doing is absurd.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 12:46 AM
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Their problem isnt the fact that they use the studies. Their problem is that they will use data from sausage fest platforms like Tinder to make broad generalizations about the majority of women who dont use it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 09:58 PM
0

I did. They were making jokes about past experiences. They don't literally believe they all dated the same guys.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 06:39 PM
1

Now replace little child with big strong man that locked the door and started kicking you. You ask him to stop, he doesn't, you kicked him back, he doesn't. You tried to pin him down and take the key, you failed, you reach for your gun and shoot him, he dies, nah that's self defense. Now replace the big man with a small baby that lives in side you XD Replacing the big strong man with the baby is blatantly dishonest because the man is actually threatening your life and the baby is not. Since you …
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 03:43 PM
0

I dont know where you live, but where i live, if i decided to kill a small kid for smacking me during a tantrum, i would be arrested for murder.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 03:38 PM
1

So the 1% is ok? No but you still cant stand on the backs of rape victims to push the idea that a deadbeat mom should be able to kill her kid. What about the baby kicking the mom? No one consents to being kicked! Any woman who willingly has sex with a man takes on the risk of getting pregnant. Plus even with strangers being kicked doesnt give you the right to kill someone.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 03:12 PM
0

In the case of an abortion the woman 99% percent of the time engaged consentually in an action they lnew could get them pregnant. A better comparison to a woman who wants an abortion would be someone at a casino wanting their money back because they only consented to winning.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 02:50 PM
0

You dont have to be a comedian if you make jokes and you dont have to be funny to be a comedian. Both men and women have made jokes amongst themselves about their life experiences for as long as the species has existed. Anyone who read the posts and thought they were all literally dating the same men is suffering from being terminally online and needs to log off once in a while and talk to people.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 02:46 PM
3

This is why vetting is important.
/r/AllPillDebate11/01/23 09:08 PM
1

Or you can just not date sociopathic strippers.
/r/AllPillDebate11/01/23 06:57 PM
1

Interesting study but it said nothing about women being pathological liars in significant numbers. Do you have anything to back this up?
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 04:39 PM
1

This is my point. Asking a woman to her face is different then asking a woman when shes anonymous.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 04:00 PM
1

This applies in real life not necessarily an anonymous survey.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 03:35 PM
7

They were probably blinded by the last 10 guys whiteness too in the hopes of being able to go to a foreign country.
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 02:34 PM
1

If this is just really about sex for these guys then why dont the American ones plan a trip to Vegas and pay for a prostitute?
/r/AllPillDebate08/01/23 03:17 PM
1

Its a joke. Youre not supposed to take jokes literally.
/r/AllPillDebate08/01/23 02:59 AM
2

I thought progressive love diversity of ideas and perspectives Where have you been for the past decade? Progressives have by and large surrendered free thought to everyone else. As for redpillers they just seem too dogmatic and incapable of understanding when to change things. A lot of red pilled dudes, more often the black Pilled guys, tend to have very strong ideological stances they stick to regardless of what evidence you can bring against it.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 09:47 PM
6

Why are teen boys sexist and have to grow out of it but teen girls are not sexist and instead are boy crazy and boyband crazy, talking about boybands, writing in diaries about boys and wanting boyfriends and validation. In a recent article, teachers in the UK warn of teenage boys becoming misogynistic due to Andrew Tate. He is also the top searches on Google a lot. Younger girls unfortunately adopt modern feminist ideological stances. Younger boys are liking Tate and RP stuff more. Both ideologi…
/r/RedPillWives03/01/23 05:36 AM
3

For some women asking for a test out of nowhere would be an accusation of cheating. For most people, cheating is considered immoral.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 06:26 PM
25

MRAs have been able to back up most claims for over a decade at this point. The issue is that the other side cares more about their victim complex and feelings so attempting to throw facts at them is about as effective as stapling jello to the wall.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 03:05 PM
4

Op isnt married. His ex is just doing legally questionable stuff to steal his house and he needed a lawyer yesterday.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 02:43 PM
2

Unfortunately I don't have the money to retain the lawyer at the moment. I have a few years To file a lawsuit .. This is probably why. This is a situation where you can't afford to not have a lawyer.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 02:41 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 05:14 PM
1

The "Kill all men" crowd aren't typically the ones who want long-term relationships with men. To answer your question, I wanted to one day find someone to create a family and spend my life with.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 02:44 AM
5

Honestly if i were you i wouldn't even consider forgiveness unless she told everyone she lied and begged for your forgiveness. You're better off just moving away.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:39 PM
6

Anyone who unironically uses the word foid needs to go outside more.
/r/AllPillDebate28/12/22 09:31 PM
1

you presuppose that men predominantly chase after celebrities and models, or in general, women more successful than them, on account of you thinking "popular and successful women are hot" (reminder: for you This is a strawman. The only thing i said is thay given the choice between banging a 10 and a regular girl most men would pick the 10. Apples giving advice to an orange on how to be an apple. If youre going to criticize my comment or the concept of women giving advice as a whole, you should a…
/r/AllPillDebate24/12/22 01:45 AM
1

The scenario is that you had to pick one. In this scenario, i don't think men would go for the girl next door.
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 01:31 PM
1

i don't tell a woman that she is misandric and that she should go to therapy instead of the gym if she asks me for advice. if she asks me how to pull guys, i'll say i don't know or i'll answer correctly based on what does pull guys here on earth, not in some ideal disney fantasy world. I addressed this in the part of the comment about picking the wrong women to ask for advice. Women with more success in their romantic lives would give a better response. A better bet for getting advice from women…
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 01:30 PM
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To answer your original question, it's because some of us are well qualified to give dating advice, even more so than a lot of RP content creators. Your past poor choices in women to ask for advice isnt my problem nor is it the problem of any other women. What do they have to offer that beats the prospect of thousands of beautiful women who want to marry you: If you want better results in dating, you first have to have a realistic view of the world in front of you. The ides that you can hop the …
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 03:38 AM
2

60 percent of all couples still meet irl. Going outside is still working for the majority of people.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 07:53 PM
1

Paternity test. Also, although its an uphill battle, if the child is yours you should try to get custody, she will abuse the child like she abused you.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 06:25 PM
1

An important question to ask yourself is "If she were to get pregnant, would i be fine with her killing the fetus?" Ive seen too many stories of men being heartbroken when she kills their baby.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:36 AM
2

I tried to be as nice as possible about this That was your first mistake. Jk. In all seriousness, they by and large dont qant equality and attempting to talk about anything that doesnt center women will get you labeled an incel.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 12:23 AM
3

The only person that matters, OP.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 08:05 PM
4

Cohabiting and having sex before marriage is considered a sin within the Catholic Church.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 12:57 PM
9

She is undeniably better looking then he is.
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 03:31 PM
8

Nice try fed boy.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 03:24 AM
4

You dont. It looks like what this article is highlighting are women who both work full time and also do the bulk of childcare and chores being upset at their spouses for not helping as much as theyd like.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 09:31 PM
0

Do you have any evidence for the idea that women are by in large settling for men theyre not happy with?
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 07:39 PM
0

Absolutely not. The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman isn't. This is nonsense. We have decades of marriage stats which disprove this. Women just dont go for average men on dating apps, but this is a supply and demand issue not a women issue.
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 03:21 PM
0

I'll need to see evidence of this. I have yet to see any kind of evidence to support the idea that all or even most women only try to date 6 foot 6 figure men.
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 03:20 PM
0

I would agree. But this doesnt really help the common talking point from RP that the 80/20 rule is applicable to dating as a whole.
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 04:29 AM
1

For casual sex. Attempting to use data from a casual sex app which has an overwhelming male user base to explain how dating as a whole works is intellectually dishonest.
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 04:22 AM
0

Tinder is a casual sex app. Casual sex appeals to men more than women.
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 04:17 AM
0

For hundreds of years, women depended on men for fiscal security so they settled Men couldnt all marry the supermodel so they settled. same logic They don't need to settle anymore and it's during this unique era of humanity where you can truly see what exactly it is women desire. Women would rather share the same hot guys in their city than get married or date especially at a younger age This isnt statistically true. The only way one can believe this is by looking at dating apps which are overwh…
/r/AllPillDebate11/12/22 02:28 AM
-1

This is blatantly false. In real life, women dont just shoot for 6 foot 6 figure men. Hundreds of years of marriage records disproves this. The fact that women on dating apps do this is specifically because of the fact that theyre in high demand on these apps due to the low supply.
/r/AllPillDebate10/12/22 11:01 PM
0

Tinder has a male female ratio of 75 percent male 25 percent female. If you deliberately play on the hardest mode possible for dating you have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate10/12/22 07:53 PM
1

Three things came to mind reading this. The idea that women like male sluts but men dont like female sluts is based on the actions of the women they (Red Pill men) find undesirable for a relationship. Theyre assuming the actions of the "sluts" they have sex with are how the other women will act. Hilariously, this is something they regularly criticize a subsection of modern women for. The women they actually find desirable for an ltr are the more religious and conservative types. Within these gro…
/r/MensRights10/12/22 07:44 PM
0

What makes you think I'm talking specifically about that kid? Because the post your comment is on its about a 1 year old. This isnt an unreasonable assumption to make. Plus even you used the term kid as well Look, if somebody has a baby, you don't know whether it's a boy or a girl until you get more information. That's why people say it's a baby. I don't know if English isn't your first language or something but there's absolutely nothing wrong with calling a baby an it until you know more. That…
/r/MensRights07/12/22 09:59 PM
0

It's in the link in ops post.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 09:02 PM
1

You've got very female thinking. The child in this is a 1 year old. 1 year olds have had an observable sex for a while. Basic biology isn't a woman thing.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 08:45 PM
1

A child isnt an "It". Using the word mistake as a label for an innocent person (who was also victimized by his/hers mother) is misdirecting the negativity in the situation of a woman cheating on her partner/husband.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 08:22 PM
3

Honestly my only disagreement here is you referring to the child as a mistake. Its not a good thing to insult or be mean to a child just because his/her mother was an immoral cunt. Its not like you can choose the circumstances of your conception.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 07:57 PM
1

I'd probably be single up until my 30s due to being shy introverted gamer.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 11:38 PM
3

He can't expect much from someone whos in jail.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 03:46 PM
1

No. But unfortunately there are a lot of women who make the stupid mistake of never having conversations about life goals until years into a relationship. Women who want marriage should be upfront about what theyre looking for instead of blaming the man for not having the same goals.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:48 PM
24

Why didnt mom get a hysterectomy or an abortion? I was reliably told that a pregnancy is a womans body and a womans choice after all.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 08:45 PM
2

Legally no. But it should be.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 02:09 PM
-1

Or abortion should be illegal with exceptions for moms life being in danger.
/r/AllPillDebate28/11/22 02:05 PM
3

It's not a few. The majority of men aren't deadbeat dads and they are the ones getting screwed over thanks to the court system trying to protect women from the few deadbeat dads/themselves. I would need to see stats for this. Personally, I think it would be fairer to let the woman deal with the consequences of who she picked as a partner instead of punishing random men for it. Are you referring to child support for a kid out of wedlock? If so, men should be held responsible for who they pick for…
/r/AllPillDebate28/11/22 10:44 AM
3

comic strip characters written by a serial animal rapist from a penetentiary, I keep reading this in different comments, what is the reference behind it?
/r/AllPillDebate27/11/22 11:29 PM
12

Im not going to pretend dead beat dads dont exist because a few guys got screwed by divorce courts.
/r/AllPillDebate27/11/22 02:16 PM
0

Tell me you dont have an argument without telling me you dont have an argument. "Dont become a murderer" while a valid condition is still a condition nonetheless.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:50 AM
1

/r/deadbedrooms doesn't allow this discussion anymore, the lowlibidocommunity complained too much about talking of their partners cheating. The entire subreddit is supposed to be a support group for people in these situations. It's entire purpose is for people to vent about their unhappy marriages/relationships. A quick visit to the page and youll find lots of people saying theyre unhappy. /r/deadbedrooms bans mostly men A lot of people in the group at least claim to be men so I'm not sure what …
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:49 PM
1

Do you have anything to back this up? The guys and gals in r/deadbedrooms will explicitly say theyre unhappy in their marriages.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:40 PM
1

The majority arent "Statistics show that 56% of men and 34% of women who commit infidelity rate their marriages as happy or very happy. "
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:07 PM
-1

If your child grew up to be an unrepentant mass murderer/rapist or both wouldnt this affect your relationship with them?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:18 PM
-2

Conditional love is still love. Women and men can and do love each other but humans arent truly capable of unconditionally loving someone or something. Only God can.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:35 PM
2

I’m in NYC and despite putting a great amount of effort into my dating app profiles, Your problem is that youre using a platform that is overwhelmingly male in the hopes of finding a woman. Youll probably have better luck meeting someone through social outings or hobbies.
/r/AllPillDebate20/11/22 07:27 PM
-2

Men dont love unconditionally either. Unconditional love doesnt exist unless you believe in a god.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:24 PM
2

Not every person who cheats is in a dead bedroom. Sometimes theyre just selfish assholes.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:58 PM
8

You can write off any legitimate reason for divorce if you apply the "People lie about it" reasoning.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 10:11 PM
11

If both of you are working full time its not fair to have to do all the chores. I would recommend at least doing 50/50 (if you are both full time workers) but take on more chores if you drop to part time.
/r/RedPillWives19/11/22 09:37 PM
19

The most common reasons ive been able to find online are 1. Infidelity 2. Financial issues (vague) 3. Irreconcilable differences (also vague).
/r/MensRights19/11/22 09:31 PM
11

Even if you dont take an issue with the idea of a teacher doing porn, it was reported that she made some of the content on school property and thats undeniably an issue.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:38 PM
19

How can anyone try and defend her? Because the same people who push the strong independent wahmen ideology also tend to believe that women are incompetent idiots who cant be held accountable for their actions.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:36 PM
14

How is it treating men like property to enter into a consenting relationship with one? These women seek out men who want a SAHW. No one is holding a gun to your head forcing you into a marriage with a traditional woman.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 01:41 AM
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I wasnt sure if you were agreeing or if my comment was somehow misunderstood.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:53 AM
-18

Whats your point?
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:44 PM
42

There are very few things that annoy me more than the blatant infantilization of women.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:17 PM
2

The problem you may run into arguing against Affirmative Action with a feminist is the fact that sexism is mainstream in their ideology. A large chunk of them genuinely believe that modern men should take the mistreatment due to the fact that dudes a long time ago treated women badly.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 05:51 PM
1

Yes, from eastern europe, not refugees No i mean refugees from Africa and the Middle east Here are some stats https://www.statista.com/topics/5899/migration-to-italy/#topicHeader__wrapper
/r/MensRights08/11/22 05:41 PM
1

I meant not sleeping with strangers is the smart decision. Women for the most part dont get enough positives to justify doing it in my opinion.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 02:58 PM
5

I would argue that its not a matter of whether she is weak or strong but a matter of if shes making an intelligent or unintelligent decision.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 01:58 PM
1

Have you not heard of the concept of an example? South Africa is one nation that has money not the only one. There are others who are closer and can take in refugees
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:48 PM
1

Some of us have jobs my dude
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:47 PM
1

There are several countries on the way that can help anyone in need. Italians have already taken in hundred of thousands of migrants and have decided they cant handle anymore.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 01:46 PM
8

There are countries in africa that are also safe. Why are they going to Italy instead of there? It shouldnt be expected of European countries to take on wave after wave of migrants when theyre suffering economically especially when there are safe countries closer.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:56 PM
8

I used South Africa and Dubai as examples. Theyre not the only developed country in africa or the Middle east. There are plenty of countries closer who could potentially take them. Morocco, Algeria, Mauritania all also have muti billion dollar economies and are closer. If we googled other african countries the list would grow.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:46 PM
7

You just implied that most of africa and the middle east are shitholes that can't handle a few migrants. I dont want to hear you call anyone racist.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:40 PM
8

So is Italy and the other European countries you insist must take migrants.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:37 PM
3

In this article from NPR Meloni and the right wing govt are being criticized for not only not refusing entry to men but also women and children too.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:21 PM
3

The right wing Italian govt is anti migration in general not just the men. The idea that Italy should have to accept the consequences of mass migration because the migrants happen to be men this time is ridiculous. No one is entitled to go to Italy.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:12 PM
25

South Africa has a multi billion dollar economy and beautiful big cities. Why do you have such a stigma against it?
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:08 PM
12

I deadass just said earlier in the thread they have the right to block both men and women for coming in. You can leave the victim complex at the door. It's cringe when the feminists do it and its also cringe when you do it.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:07 PM
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Acknowledging that african and arab countries that have bustling cities and economies have bustling cities and economies isnt mentally challenged. Do you seriously think the entirety of africa and middle east are all war torn shitholes where they all live in mud huts?
/r/MensRights07/11/22 09:09 PM
7

There are plenty of developed countries such as Dubai and South Africa where they can go. Why didn't they go there? Plus, the Italian people voted in a government with a stance against wanting more migrants. Italians have the right to decide who comes into their country and foreigners have no right to say anything about it since they're not the ones who have to deal with the consequences of mass migration.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 09:02 PM
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There are plenty of developed countries such as Dubai and South Africa where they can go. Why didn't they go there? Plus, the Italian people voted in a government with a stance against wanting more migrants. Italians have the right to decide who comes into their country and foreigners have no right to say anything about it.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 09:02 PM
62

Then the many countries they passed on the way could have taken them and given them the help they need.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 08:53 PM
3

I think there's a middle ground between a culture of men and women using each other as objects of sexual gratification and "repeal the 19th".
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 08:23 PM
108

It's not Italys responsibility to import anyone male or female.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 07:54 PM
1

Hmm I wonder why we don’t have male friendships after we have girlfriends or wives? Married guys do have friends for the most part. Maybe it’s because you refuse to let us? Considering the majority of men (and women) suffering from a lack of a social life are younger single people this is a stretch. This is a generational problem.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:59 PM
1

This doesnt excuse failure to vet in terms of a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/22 05:59 PM
1

Its commonly found on most popular RP channels.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/22 05:58 PM
2

Yes but a large subsection of the RP crowd tends to hold the idea that women should be held responsible not men. If your view about responsibility is consistent than i dont disagree.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/22 10:48 PM
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With women's myriad contraceptive options, she can make the choice for herself, by herself, without her partners knowledge. I dont really get whats relevant about the fact that it can be taken w/o the partnera knowledge. This is despite being "post Roe", where some states have restrictions on abortion. I already acknowledged that far left states still have abortion. The only option men have that is unilateral is vasectomy, which is usually permanent and (as you pointed out) not 100f effective. I…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 10:47 PM
0

(which can't be used without the partner's knowledge, therefore is not unilateral) Whether or not it can be used without the partners knowledge is irrelevant since you shouldnt be trusting random people to use their contraception if you dont want a kid. No, you're misrepresenting my point about womens' choices as a rant against the idea that men don't have any problems. That's a classic strawman fallacy. Then why was your original comment relevant to my original comment?
/r/MensRights31/10/22 07:14 PM
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You claimed that women don't have the right to separate sex from parenthood. I demonstrated with my response that they do, and went into detail about the means available to them, compared to men's. No they don't. Birth control and condoms dont work 100% of the time. As i mentioned earlier, bc and condoms dont magically make consequences go away, it just makes it less common. The only way either sex could have consequence free sex would be abortion up until birth for women and allowing men to sig…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:56 PM
0

I posted this In the USA we live in a post Roe society now. Women (With the exception of far left states like CA or NY) no longer have sex without consequence. You replied with this post where you talk about the different types of contraception types at women's disposal, abortion, and the current child support laws. Then you end with this quote "If a man wants to be a parent (or not), he needs the woman's cooperation. If a woman wants a man to be a parent, she doesn't require his cooperation at …
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:47 PM
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And I showed you the myriad ways in which they still do. The only birth control method with a zero percent pregnancy rate is abstinence. Birth control/condoms don't magically wipe away consequences or just makes consequences less likely. If youre point is that birth control existing means that sex is consequence free than both men and women have had access to consequence free sex for decades in the west. How did you get a rebuttal to "Men have literally never ever faced any hardship ever and don…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:34 PM
2

I never said women arent responsible. I just said that men are also responsible for their bad decisions as well.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/22 05:30 PM
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How did you manage to get *Men have literally never ever faced any hardship ever and don't have any issues worth addressing From *The tide is turning on abortion and women now have to make better decisions about who they let nut in them I'm genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:18 PM
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Im sure feminists appreciate your support since you must think so highly of them. You unironically believe that acknowledging Roe happened means you have to be a feminist.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:12 PM
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If women are responsible for the men they date mistreating them then men are responsible for marrying women who divorce them.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/22 03:54 PM
1

When did the consequences of sex ever disappear. I was referring to the fact that women can opt out of parenthood after the child is concieved (abortion) but men cant. If kids are one of the consequences than you should prepare. Get a good education and career and prepare to share your child not have them to yourself. I 100% agree.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:45 PM
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Roe was just overturned a few months ago and states are just starting to pass laws now. You're as ignorant as you are sexist. I hope you dont criticize feminists because this comment validates the horseshoe theory. Calling someone sexist over stating an opinion is cringe.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:42 PM
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In the USA we live in a post Roe society now. Women (With the exception of far left states like CA or NY) no longer have sex without consequence. The amount of people making emotional arguments about common sense is astounding.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 06:33 PM
1

The study doesnt reflect this. The idea of every woman wanting a 6 foot plus guy mainly exists on dating apps which women in large numbers dont use.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 03:24 PM
9

Honestly with feminists they'll usually tell you. Just look out for the popular feminist buzzwords.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:23 AM
9

The first comment in this thread was referring to a 50/50 split in child custody. Not splitting the money.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 09:14 PM
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If you dont think 50/50 is fair then what is fair?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 08:56 PM
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While this is a horrific situation that no one should ever have to experience, i completely understand why she is doing what shes doing. I wouldnt personally trade a couple months of life at the expense of my unborn child.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 08:49 PM
-1

I swear with how Pro Choicers talk about pregnancy, youd think that women get pregnant by random chance like being struck by sperm lightning bolt.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 12:58 AM
1

I have yet to see any substantial evidence that he knew her as a minor so Im going to assume the people complaining are just butthurt that Rutherford is dating a younger woman instead of a 30 year old.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 07:03 PM
1

Some people have goals such as marriage and kids. Hopping from ltr to ltr is a waste of time for both men and women in this situation.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 01:18 AM
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I would argue that you're making this a bigger deal than it actually is. The study said that women typicallt want men taller then them. Considering the average women is 5"4 and the average man is 5"9 its not the incoming catastrophe you think it is.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 01:16 AM
2

While i agree that saying "Men shouldnt cry" is a really bad thing. This still isnt even remotely comparable to the damage that rad fems have caused.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 07:14 PM
8

OP: Social conformity demands they don't call themselves hetero, because that means they can get that sweet LGBT oppression points. While i do think this plays a part in this, the fact that heterosexual men greatly outnumber same sex attracted women also plays a part.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 11:43 PM
1

Honestly your best bet would be to ask him if there are ways you can make him feel more appreciated and supported.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 11:36 PM
1

Im not disagreeing with the idea that him not going through the sperm bank is a contributing factor here. Im just also pointing out that the fact that the couple he helped was a same sex couple significantly contributed to his problem. If this had been a heterosexual couple, the male in the relationship could have signed the birth certificate and he would be on the hook for child support and not the donor.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 08:49 PM
1

This took place before those laws were put into place. NBC has an article talking about this case in December 2012. If this case had happened after these laws the ex girlfriend would be on the hook for child support and not him.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:27 PM
1

She could have if she was male.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:28 PM
1

Let's say that after a few yaers it starts to go viral, it became relatively inexpensive and gained massive popularity, and eventually just shy of 50% of men would volunteer to experiment with it, but not as popular among women (low single digits). In effect, male population would drop to 30%, 20% trans, and 50% female Males with gender dysphoria make up less than 1% of the population. This wouldn't happen.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/22 01:08 PM
1

My point is that the state could have gone after the girlfriend but didnt. Since we both agree on this point im not seeing where the disagreement is.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:09 AM
1

Yeah maybe... but if she doesn't have any money, the state isn't exactly getting maximum benefit now, are they? The state isnt getting maximum money if dad is out of work either. Weve seen plenty of stories of courts going after dads who cant pay. You need to put the idea out of your head that the state does this "in the interests of the child(ren)". They do it because it's free money and to benefit themselves. This is BILLIONS of dollars in federal kickbacks annually across the nation. I litera…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 06:48 PM
1

They could have ordered the other mom to pay but didnt.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 06:06 PM
3

In terms of physical appearance women tend to have more lax standards of what theyll date. This is why youll occasionally see younger women with older, uglier dudes if theyre rich.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/22 12:36 PM
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Op was referring to donating to a sperm bank. The guy in this article dontated without the use of a sperm bank with an at home insemination. And technically this happened in part because conservatives in Kansas didnt want to recognize the same sex parent as a parent.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 02:32 AM
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I dont think the movie is inherently bad since there are tons of horror and action movies have both men and women being killed. The fact that its considered a feminist movie due to the fact that Foxs character kills men should tell you what you need to know about modern feminists.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 02:19 AM
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Theyre in the minority within the trans men community. Many, like the trans guy in the article, only identify as a man when its convenient. Otherwise, its time for nail polish and moms girly shirt for them.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 11:35 PM
8

And they want to change that. Which is why the rights of trans-men is a men’s rights issue. Well.....
/r/MensRights10/10/22 11:31 PM
18

You should have researched the state of womens rights in Iran before this post.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:03 PM
1

It would hurt both although this would also be true if men went on a strike too. The economy would suffer and childcare would be in very high demand.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/22 02:22 PM
1

Have any evidence of this?
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:18 PM
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Working less and being financially supported isn’t a sacrifice. It is when you have kids. If you want to make the sacrifice of financially subsidize me, please feel free to do so. If you want to be a stay at home dad good for you. Just hope that after being woken up every couple hours for diaper changes for several months straight, managing school and extracurriculars, and making sure the house is clean your so doesnt accuse you of being a lazy leech like you accused women of doing when they wan…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 12:13 AM
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This only really accounts for the small amount of women on dating apps which are largely used by men. The current male female ratio on tinder is 75/25 (not including bots or catfish). The issue with manosphere guys making the 80/20 rule argument is that theyre attempting to criticize women as a whole for being "too picky" when women arent using the apps they get their data from. The 80/20 rule is the result of dating apps not having the supply of women to meet the male demand for them.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 12:09 AM
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You conveniently omitted that point. I left out nothing. Women take career hits to have children. Single women in the USA make more then single men. If women dont have families they dont make that sacrifice. http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html
/r/MensRights08/10/22 11:50 PM
1

The methods used are questionable. The records come from the us govt. Its the best stats you will ever find on the subject. The one that works less obviosly does more house chores. Than its fair, and then its ok for the women to spend some husbands money. Everyone has to do their part. I dont see the problem with that. I agree. My issue is with the assertion on your end that women who do this work for their family are really just greedily spending their husbands money on makeup and girls trips w…
/r/MensRights08/10/22 09:34 PM
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With spending the husbands money its mostly on expensive holidays, lots of clothes, shoes, beauty products, decorative stuff for the house etc. Groceries and basic necessities are basicly the same. This is nonsense debunked by the consumer spending link i posted earlier. Plus this isnt the 1950s anymore. The two income family has been the norm for decades. Depends on how you view it. Divorce rates are pretty high. There are still millions of people still married or cohabiting. And women in these…
/r/MensRights08/10/22 09:09 PM
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Jup but the women arent subsidized by their husband because the husband does not exist. Marriage hasnt declined quite this much yet. Plus single women make more than single men. Womens careers only take a hit when they get married and have kids so they can take on more domestic duties which benefit everyone involved. https://www.politifact.com/factchecks/2014/apr/09/genevieve-wood/what-pay-gap-young-women-out-earn-men-cities-gop-p/ So their effective spending power is reduced. It will only go do…
/r/MensRights08/10/22 07:39 PM
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Marriage declining will not be relevant to corporations because food and stuff around the house makes up the majority of comsumer spending. Men not getting married just means they have to buy it themselves.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 07:22 PM
0

Wheres your source? If youre going to make a claim its on you to back it up.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:28 PM
0

there's a bias against men in court regardless of how much or how little they make. if you dont know this then you need to do some research. The fact that you conveniently dont post a source to back this up is telling. Heres one for you to back up that higher earning women do pay alimony. Men get harsher sentences for the same crimes than women do. We arent talking about the criminal justice system. If men get screwed in criminal cases what do you think happens in family court? You think it's di…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 02:18 AM
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It probaby has to do with the fact that the supply of same sex attracted women is incredibly low and the supply of heterosexual men is incredibly high. Straight women have more option then lesbians.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/22 03:30 PM
4

I knew from a young age i wanted to get married so i spent my time doing things to make this happen. Casual sex would have been a waste of my time.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/22 03:27 PM
1

This is blatantly false. Women who make more in the USA do pay alimony. We just dont see it as often due to the fact that men make more typically.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 03:08 PM
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Im agreeing with you. The point i was making was that the higher earner, which is usually but not always the guy, is the one who pays alimony. Its not a blanket "women gets money man pays money" situation.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 01:31 AM
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Bradys wife makes a lot more than him so this rules out alimony entirely. The only way you can come to this conclusion is by either not doing enough research or by blatantly ignoring how divorce and alimony works in the usa. Either way you really should think before you post stuff like this because it only fuels the people who claim MRAs hate women.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 12:30 AM
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This isnt how divorce law works. The higher earner (usually the man) is the one who pays alimony.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 12:26 AM
1

Men don’t get in relationships for money, that’s women. No one said that. But this doesnt change the fact that hundreds of thousands of dollars is still a lot of money even for men. There is no evidence of the idea that women like money more than men do. Women get in relationships for money. Very few women get into relationships for just money. Most women people claim are "just in it for the money" are really in it because they want a sahm. Saying theyre in it for money is as intellectually hone…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:01 PM
1

So you're telling me that men don't like money? You can get hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of coverage. This is a lot of money even for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:31 PM
1

If you were a girl who was a gamer during this time you would know that for most of the harassers it was not about "ethics in gaming". There were plenty of female gamers who understood that ethics within journalism is important. The idea that gamergate was ever a sex issue isnt true. Its a narrative made up to deflect from valid criticism. Even today the level of harassment for women and black gamers is ridiculous, from people who six years old when gamergate happened. If youre referring to onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:12 AM
7

Any variation of "Mens problems are because of patriarchy" is a form of victim blaming and/or a way of trying to minimize mens issues.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 12:45 AM
9

Even if you gave incels the least amount of benefit of the doubt i still dont see how theyre a threat to kids.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 07:46 PM
1

Studies have shown over and over that the normalization of extra marital sex and increased single motherhood has caused a lot of problems.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:26 PM
1

Your opinion on the current laws is irrelevant to the fact that marriage is still the best environment to raise kids.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:53 AM
1

For an individual man, marriage is a pretty bad deal. This is irrelevant to anything i said
/r/MensRights29/09/22 11:50 AM
0

No im not. Studies such as this one also take cohabiting couples into consideration and still came to the conclusion that children of married parents still do better.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:30 PM
0

this law is imposing de-facto marriage outside of formal marriage. if you like marriage you should like this too. Two things can be true at once. Cohabitation outside of marriage is killing the family. This law is authoritarian and overreaching. all the happiest families i know hae unmarried parents living both together with the chlldren Good for them. The exception doesn't disprove the rule. Studies have shown over and over that happily married parents are the best environment to raise kids.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 07:50 PM
3

The decline of marriage is the decline of family regardless of how awful the current laws are in terms of male equality.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 06:28 PM
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Cohabitation outside of marriage is killing the family, not this law. This law already has enough negative consequences where we don't have to make any up.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 05:30 PM
3

A lot of the fields were lower paying before women got into the workforce in large numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:23 AM
1

The majority of wealth is made by men because men typically choose higher earning careers. The only way this can change is if we force women into jobs they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:29 PM
1

Well REALITY is a GOOD portion, if not majority of those people on here who say those things, that theyre above behaving like that, they'd never be unattracted to their partner for behaving beta, or don't ever dream of having sex straight away, or their man is perfect and their love will keep them together etc etc - Will EVENTUALLY go ahead and do the very things they SWEAR they wouldn't do. Some of them will cheat. Some of them will monkeybranch. Some of them will one day feel unattracted to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:52 PM
4

No intelligent man or woman should actively want a baby with someone theyre not romantically compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:37 PM
1

Im not aware of anyone whos actually mad about it. People just tend to not like hypocrisy and will criticize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:17 PM
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No. In fact one of the first things my husband told me when we first started dating is that he wanted to save sex for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:55 AM
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The concept of being upset about emotional labor is selfish and immoral. If you love someone, man or woman, you should want to be there for them when theyre having a rough patch.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:39 PM
1

I don’t oppose women; I oppose feminists Then why are you crapping on women who are actually protesting mistreatment instead of radfems? You conflated the two on multiple occasions.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:38 PM
6

I dont think being a virgin is bad. In fact i preferred it when i was still looking for Mr Right.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 06:09 PM
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At the end of the day, I can’t bring myself to respect the ideology of somebody who would yell at me one day for holding open a door for her and the very next day have the nerve to expect me to get arrested and possibly even die for her in a public protest. No one is asking you to do anything for western feminists. The only thing I'm asking of you is to not blame an unrelated group of women for the misdeeds of western feminists. These are two different groups and two different ideologies. Again,…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 05:03 PM
-1

How? If they want their feminist utopia so badly, why put the onus on men to achieve it? Women in these countries are actually oppressed, they need a mans permission to get an education, leave their homes, travel. Or is being “strong, independent women who don’t need no man!” just an empty rallying cry used to further the use of men as cannon fodder so that feminists don’t have to get their hands dirty while fighting their own fights? Strong independent wahmen is a rally cry by Western feminists…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 04:26 PM
2

Shows how much they depend on men. They can't even fight for their own rights. In a lot of these countries women dont have the autonomy to get an education or travel without a mans permission. How do you expect women to be able to protest this way? The Iranian men should hang back and let these strong independent queens earn their own rights. This is just gross and horrible. If you want to criticize western feminists im right on board with you but these happen to be women living in an actual pat…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 04:12 PM
1

This is anecdotal so feel free to take this with a grain of salt but when i was a kid i was jealous that boys got to do the boy scouts because girl scouts tended to do more stereotypically feminine things while i would have prefered camping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:12 PM
1

I would argue cheating with her friend isn't much better than cheating with a criminal. She would have to not only heal from the damage he did by cheating but also from trust issues that may affect her ability to have close female friends in the future. The criminal part damages her more than him.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/22 10:11 PM
1

If he had a few ltrs that would be one thing but men who engaged in casual sex would be a no go for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:34 PM
1

No its not. There are plenty of dirtbags who get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:32 PM
5

Nice troll
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:01 AM
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That wasn't the point of my question. The point was to find out if he's basing this off of personal experience or based off the idea that men are somehow better than women, based off his reply its the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:01 AM
1

So you believe women are stupid but men are fountains of knowledge even on things they have no experience in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:59 AM
1

Does this mean that you think men shouldnt give women advice on dating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:06 PM
8

The lack of body strength to be able to defend myself if a man attacks me. Cramps can be horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:13 AM
1

Religious women are taught since birth that this is something you have to be rational about. The fact that they are rational is the reason theyre not higher bodycounts or a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:47 PM
1

A lot of virgin or lower n count women are that way due to religious values. Most religions tend to have a negative view of promiscuity regardless of sex. The idea that a higher n count man is higher value is a part of secular morality that devout religious women (the majority of virgins) will not follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:34 PM
1

Anyone currently serving cannot reasonably expect any kind of privilege until the war is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:58 AM
1

At least in the US being in the military comes with a lot of great benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:25 AM
1

a low n-count Unless you spent every second of every day with her throughout her entire life you have no idea what her n count is only what she told you it is. If you want to be delusional that's on you. I can't fix naive nor do i care too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:49 AM
1

If your fantasy makes you feel better you do you. You're still in for a rude awakening once you have to interact with the real world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:37 AM
2

Women arent the ones pretending that people who have casual sex are devout religious people. That would be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:38 PM
1

It's wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:29 PM
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It contradicts what a conservative religious person is. Saying that a devout religious person is easy to bed makes as much sense as a woman who exclusively fucks men calling herself a lesbian. They were pretending to be more into religion then they really were if they dont live by the religion they claim to be a part of. Words have a meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:26 PM
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A large number of RP dudes operate under the delusion that they can spend their 20s 30s and 40s banging sluts and there will be a mythical 23 year old virgin who will be happy to be a sah girlfriend raising his kids while they continue to rack up a body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:42 PM
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My point was saying that your comment was absurd. I don't need to personally drop a number when i can debunk your own argument with your own source. Women see "normal guys" we see 6'2" (11% of the total population). Chiseled jawline, athletic build with piercing eyes (total of 5% of male population). Dating apps arent real life. Men outnumber women by a large margin on most apps so women can be a picky as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:37 PM
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Women as a whole, sure. Trad con women, nope. A bodycount is considered a negative for most major religions regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:32 PM
110

That's a great start, gotta keep that trend going though.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 07:52 PM
1

Attempting to "extrapolate" data by extending your statistic to include people it specifically separates is attempting to force a square peg into a round hole. Your quote said 29% of men who admit to cheating not 29 percent of all married men. We have estimates of infidelity you can work with instead of inflating the number of unhappy marriages based on literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:50 PM
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Of the 29 % of men who admitted to cheating in LTR/ Marriage 56% blamed lack of sex in over 6 months This was your quote. 29% percent of men who admitted to cheating not 29 percent of men cheat. Every estimate i have been able to find online pegs the percentage of marriage that deal with infidelity at 20 to 25% including women who cheat. I also tend to see sources that say men and women cheat in similar numbers so your actual number is in the ballpark of 29% of 10 to 13% of all marriages. Edit i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:17 PM
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29% of men who cheat doesnt mean 20 percent of all men are getting laid. It only accounts for men who admit for cheating. Its estimated that infidelity affects 20 to 25% of marriages this includes female cheaters. So your statistic applies to 29 percent of less than 20 percent of all marriages if we give a little wiggle room to account for women cheating. t's funny how a little bit of critical thinking goes a long way. Critical thinking does go a long way but so does basic math. You should try u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:49 PM
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That's literally not true women accept men with higher body counts than them Sure women with body counts will accept men with body counts. Virgins or women with low body counts are less likely to accept a former or current slut though. you don't hear men complain how women don't want them because of their body count, at least as often as women do . Male sluts remain sluts. They rarely settle down when they can go for the next chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:43 PM
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I will agree that there are some women who will overlook a slut past, especially since religions like Christianity advocate for forgiveness, and if the man has regrets. There are some men who will do the same. They Don't like cheating but they will tolerate it if they are given girlfriend status, as long as the other girls are just pump and dumps they will accept it. Unless youre in a non western country your friends are part of a small minority. Most devout religious women would see sexual immo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:41 PM
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People typically only post when they have problems so using the reddit to judge how most of marriages are doesnt make sense. Using your exact same logic i could point to r/whenwomenrefuse to make the claim that a large percentage of men would straight up attack or kill you if you say no to a date or sex with them when its verifiably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:36 PM
1

Have any statistics to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:32 PM
1

Sluts dont care. Women from religious circles do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:31 PM
1

The hilarious thing about your comment is that my husband, who was also the guy i lost my virginity to, was a virgin who had never had a girlfriend before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:31 PM
4

They were probably lying about their body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:29 PM
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No you cant. The vast majority of lower body count/ virgin women come from religious communities that have been advising them to avoid sluts like the plague for most of their lives. This is why Roosh V is now attempting to distance himself as far as he can from his past after his conversion to Christianity. Its funny that the same guys who mock women for not knowing that getting a slut to pay attention to them isnt the same as getting a guy to want to be with them long term are also the same one…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:58 AM
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With less than 20% of men having consistent sex and less than 5% having multiple partners. Males sluts are pretty much a myth. Almost half of people in the usa are married (this isnt even counting those in monogamous ltrs) the idea that only 20% of dudes are actually getting laid is absurd. The 80/20 rule only applies to online dating where men outnumber women by a significant margin so the few women get to be pickier. I also have serious doubts about your claim that less then 5% of men have had…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:59 AM
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The idea that women dont struggle with dating is ignorant of reality. The ease of casual dating doesnt translate to dating with a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:36 AM
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It's mostly true and should be followed by every woman who wants a long term relationship or marriage. While this will negatively impact shy guys, way too many women make the mistake of wasting time on guys who don't want the same things she does and it ends in heart break.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:00 AM
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Most people now meet via dating apps This actually isnt true. according to this study from Stanford the majority of couples met irl only 40% meet online. Plus apparently relationships that start on dating apps are more likely to end with divorce. Cold approaching is a no-no cuz the success rate is extremely low, Its not nearly as low as the odds you get on most dating apps considering men outnumber women on most of them. Your best option for a long term relationship is to meet through friends or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:28 PM
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As long as these same dudes understand that low body count women dont typically like male sluts either thats fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:48 PM
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Unless you get a paternity test proving otherwise, then you're not a father and won't be judged by most people. Although the fact that she refuses a paternity test is shady. It's possible she had multiple partners and youre the best potential dad out of them.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 05:02 PM
2

Yes some still do.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 02:47 PM
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And what is that? I just listed dating apps as one of the bigger things but to name another Men set themselves up for the friend zone by befriending a girl they have interest in and waiting too long to say anything. And how does TRP hurt men? It teaches us how dating works so we can figure out which way to do it best. I never said that TRP hurts men. I just said theres a lot of delusion in Red Pill circles. Yes let's look at celebrities. Look at actors from the 90's. The men are still working wh…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 02:35 PM
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Men learn real quick where they stand and what needs to be done to improve their dating prospects, This is false. Men in the west routinely do things that hurt their chances due to either lack of info or due to investment in some kind of ideology. Red pill men are notorious for this. A great example of this is the amount of men who are surprised that they dont get matches on dating apps despite tons of data showing men outnumber women. There are entire online communities of men dedicated to deli…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 02:12 PM
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I dont see it being much different then men in this group being cautious around women due to risk of false accusations.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 11:31 PM
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The idea that men are turned off by finding out a girl is taken but women arent is nonsense. Plenty of dudes, especially within the manosphere, are perfectly happy to fuck a taken chick and give the excuse "She was gonna cheat anyway it may as well be with me".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:12 AM
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Which would you choose if youre just looking for casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:48 PM
3

If an average girl and Megan Fox in her prime walked up to your average guy to express sexual/romantic interest, are you telling me that men wouldn't want the hotter woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:51 PM
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Men outnumber women on OK Cupid by a significant number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:53 AM
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The source you gave said 28% a little over 1/4th of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:15 PM
1

If you have the source id be interested to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:14 PM
2

Its telling that when asked to substantiate your claim you decide to strawman me then drop the conversation entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:17 AM
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You gave the victory speech to early my dude. You have yet to disprove my statement. Plus you also rebutted my comment when i assumed you thought the majority of women use the apps. Anytime you want to drop any evidence to support your claim id love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:01 AM
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My original point was about the number of women on dating apps. The fact that the few who do drop the app after finding someone is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:41 AM
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Do you have evidence that the majority of women use dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:09 AM
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You should have the "What are you looking for" talk as soon as possible. You should make sure youre on the same page in terms of relationship goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:21 AM
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The 80/20 rule only applies to dating apps, and considering that women make up a small minority of dating app users (not including bots) applying it to women as a whole is idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:17 AM
4

Probably 4 or 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:51 AM
2

I agree that pay should be based off ability to do the job. With jobs that arent on the front lines, like an office job on a base or a nurse/doctor, the fact that a man can do more pushups then the woman is irrelevant to the conversation.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 12:35 AM
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It depends on the job. There are lots of jobs in the military that dont involve being on the front lines.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 07:35 PM
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He had a nice meal with company, that was the agreed upon exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:40 PM
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This only really applies in situations where both parties explicitly agreed to a casual relationship. Women who complain about being used for sex do so within one of two situations, He lied to her It started casual and she developed feelings later
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:39 PM
5

Do you have a source for that?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 04:43 PM
1

Technically she didnt do anything wrong since they werent exclusive at the time but i dont see the point of sleeping with guy A when you really want to be with guy B.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:42 PM
2

Within a healthy relationship that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:46 PM
1

That doesnt necessarily solve the problem. If you look on the r/deadbedroom page youll find plenty of stories about the spouse "enjoying" sex long enough to lock down their spouse only for the sex to dry up after marriage or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:39 PM
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People walk away from bad situations, (like abuse, neglect, cheating etc) so unless you have a statistic for why the marriage ended the 80% number doesnt really matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:14 AM
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OP was referring to a full on dead bedroom, not just "not being in the mood right now". Men arent evil for having needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:09 AM
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That doesnt always help in these situations. Ive read plenty of stories on r/deadbedroom where the woman or man "enjoyed" sex long enough to lock them down then the sex stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:07 AM
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The phrase "All people are different" isnt inherently incompatible with the idea of trends. Individuals can have their reasons for why they are how they are and you can still see patterns of behavior among these individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:44 PM
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How did you read Pigeons original comment listing trends and observations about what women tend to have going on when engaging in hook up culture and get that they dont believe in trends out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:02 PM
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Because a lot of guys who complain about this seem to want a virgin woman who is fine with him spending his youth racking up a high notch count and they havent figured out that a lot of these women come from really religious circles who tell them to avoid guys like this like the plague. Plus a lot of these same guys also encourage each other to ditch a girl who makes them wait for sex, so their methods attract the women they claim not to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:43 PM
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news but a lot of these women overseas are going to require marriage before they sleep with you. Plus who knows how many of those matches matched in the hopes of getting a spouse visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:59 AM
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Extra costs also includes hair as well. For most of my adult life i only really get a hair cut once every couple years and the guys ive dated, including the guy i ended marrying didnt care. Women arent mandated in any way shape or form to spend money on their looks. Its a personal choice and one that men still arent responsible for. For the money, women picking lower paying jobs isnt mens problem either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:53 PM
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Women have been recently pushing the idea that "I dont do makeup for men i do it for me". So the extra costs women willingly take on arent mens problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:13 PM
2

Citation needed.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 01:48 AM
2

The Paredo principle is irrelevant to dating. I was asking about your takes on dating.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 01:37 AM
1

Oops my bad.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 01:36 AM
1

The Pareto principle has nothing to do with dating. Im asking about your take about dating.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 01:27 AM
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It looks like apps that are geared towards finding a serious relationship tend to have a better male/female ratio. As for meeting IRL it depends on the guys hobbies. My husband and i had interest in politics and thats how we met.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 06:34 PM
2

Citing an ideological belief isnt an argument. Have anything to back up anything you just said?
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Any decent person who called themselves alt right left after Charlottesville. The word has been dominated by Richard Spencer and his ilk ever since. A lot has happened since 2016. Look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:30 PM
2

Do you have evidence to support this claim?
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:48 AM
3

Either use apps that have a better male/female ratio or try to meet someone in person.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:48 AM
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It depends on who im talking to. For Red Pill guys my most controversial opinion is that its not the fault of women as an entire sex if you insist on dating on the hardest mode possible (dating apps are overwhelmingly male dominated). For most other people, my most controversial opinion is that hookup culture is degrading not empowering.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:00 AM
13

Leo works in Hollywood, one of the most left leaning environments in the country, in the year 2022. What exactly would be the motivation for staying in the closet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:25 AM
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I would say not at all since the only thing Alt Righters have in common is a dislike of non whites and the Red Pill is very diverse in terms of content creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:42 AM
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I dont think its inherently hateful but unfortunately the people who run reddit more than likely do so i get why some mods may be a bit concerned about it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 07:06 PM
2

And its not boss job to make you happy That's true but when this same employer complains that no one wants to work for them anymore since they cant understand the concept that people arent emotionless robots they have no one to blame but themselves.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:34 PM
9

Acknowledging that children take work and that theyre also worth the work arent mutually exclusive ideas.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 02:22 PM
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Youre right that it doesnt have to be personal but for an increasing number of people it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:51 AM
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Finding someone who is right for you isnt supposed to be easy. It took years for me to find my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:49 AM
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Sometimes people are sad for a reason. You never know what some people are going through.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 01:55 AM
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As much as guys in the manosphere tend to not like this kind of advice, the number one thing i would tell my son is to be himself. No one can wear a mask forever and if a woman doesnt like who you really are, then shes not a good match for you. Its better to not waste your time chasing women who arent good matches for you. Go for a woman whos happy to be emotionally supportive when youre going through a bad time and stay away from those who will hold this against you. Spend a great deal of time …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:59 PM
1

The most recent stats put meeting irl in the 60% range. Old isnt the majority yet. Plus men outnumber women by large margins on a lot of these apps.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 08:16 PM
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I dont really get the aversion some women have to having a door held for them. I have held open many doors for both men and women and my intention was just to be nice, never due to feeling like im more competent.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 04:08 AM
2

The second you hear "If this was a mens issue it would have been solved already" you know the person youre talking to is delusional.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 02:38 AM
0

at that point, what would you say to your husband if he had his doubts? Honestly if the kid came out looking way different then both parents then any guy would be right to get a paternity test. However i was talking about examples where both parties wanted to have a kid and there are no current signs of infidelity on either side. Different situations call for different actions. please don't lecture me about punnetts square because a science lesson would not convince any man under those circumsta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:29 AM
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this is why the red pill community stresses the importance of marry before you carry women have 100% autonomy over their body and the choice to bring a child into the world men have the right to know, with certainty, if this is their child. especially out of wedlock Im leaving this alone because im not really disagreeing with you here. you're not gonna guilt me, nor are you gonna accomplish anything by this line of questioning Im gonna ignore the emotional arguement and bring up it was you who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:13 AM
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prioritize communication when you literally gave the ultimatum of being single because dad wants a paternity test? whenever a woman gives me an ultimatum, I choose the option I know she doesn't want me to off principle. How hard is it to say before you have a kid that in the event it happens youre going to want a test? Why are you so insistant on dropping it on her later? never claimed to love anyone. I was having sex, condom popped, plan b failed and I decided to stay as a partner because she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:50 AM
1

I would argue that the only unconditional love that exists is if you believe in a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:25 AM
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Or you can prioritize communication in your relationship and minimize the chance of your kid ending up being raised by single parents. Why exactly is it like pulling teeth to ask you to talk to the person you claim to love about your boundaries and expectations when having a kid? This should be common sense. Also you act like being a single dad doesn't come with baggage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:20 AM
4

I could tell. It still doesnt relate to my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:18 AM
4

What point are you trying to make with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:34 PM
2

Yeah. The idea is to let her know before trying for a kid that a paternity is something youre just going to want to have. This wont always be a guarantee that she will initially be ok but at least she wont be blindsided by a potential cheating allegation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:33 PM
4

Then it doesnt matter if you end up single then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:31 PM
7

The women on Witches Vs Patriarchy are radfems. They have a tendency to take it as a personal attack if theres ever a conversation that doesn't center women.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:21 PM
5

Men who get cheated on by wives can still pay alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:16 AM
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I believe paternity fraud should be a crime so i wouldn't treat him much different then i would treat a victim of any other type of fraud. My position on the paternity tests is that if you seriously want one, the time to say so is before the child is conceived not after. If you surprise her with the idea when she's already pregnant than its understandable that she'd be hurt by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:11 AM
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To be fair Kevin was one of the more reasonable guys in the manosphere who tended to push the idea of settling down and getting married, so its understandable that women who advocate for a more traditional lifestyle would find common ground.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 01:26 AM
1

The idea that if someone disagrees with you then they must be lying for money is a dishonest cope.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 01:24 AM
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The only scenario where it might be possible to save a relationship when cheating would be if the guilty party admits to it and seems remorseful. This being said though it's understandable that the party who was cheated on would want to leave. I personally wouldn't give a second chance to a cheater. The idea that women should just tolerate cheating because "men are different then women" is just an attempt to persuade women to tolerate being mistreated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:36 PM
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Women shit test men to see if they stand for themselves, they ask questions they subconsciously want you to dismiss rather than answer, and they react positively to playful condescendence I can only speak from my own experience but if a man i was seeing acted this way that would be our last date. I guess its not out of the realm of possibilities that some women looking for a hookup may act this way though. Women like dominant men, men that know what they want, dont bend over for others, make phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:20 PM
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If youre talking about the current state of dating, pointing out that women arent having sex is still something that should be brought up regardless of their reason for being sexless.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 07:11 PM
-1

The experience being different isnt relevant to the conversation.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 02:10 PM
0

No one said being sexless wasnt a choice for women. Just that it exists. Casual sex doesn't appeal to women like it does men.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 11:06 PM
1

Dating apps arent a good resource for looking at female dating habits considering women dont use them in the same numbers men do. Plus the idea that female sexlessness is due to covid ignores the fact that its been on the rise since the 2010s. https://ifstudies.org/blog/is-the-sex-recession-turning-into-a-great-sex-depression
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 08:48 PM
1

It's convenient that when women are experiencing sexlessness they must be lying.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 08:31 PM
0

What qualifies a “loving marriage” statistically? Mom and dad are married and still love each other. You can be a couple. And not be married and still love each other. I don’t assume you need a contract with the state to be a good parent or provide a stable home. While this is true it's not very common. Most Unmarried parents are either divorced from their childs other parent or a couple who had an unplanned pregnancy. Also a lot of marriages end in divorce. More than half of them to be specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:59 AM
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Statistics have shown over and over that the best situation to bring kids into is a loving married two parent family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:55 PM
4

Some people want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:48 PM
0

This makes the assumption that men haven't also been objectified. Women were objectified by having to stay home with their children. Men are objectified by being cannon fodder for whatever the latest war is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:20 PM
1

So because a select minority of men had power we get to diminish what the 99% went through? Do you also have this opinion towards any negative policy towards women since women got the vote since women are the bigger voting block?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:17 PM
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Were you married to any of these men? The posts says men don't want vanilla sex from their wives Signing a legal document shouldnt magically change someones kinkiness level overnight. A dude who likes vanilla will still like vanilla after the wedding ceremony. So your husband doesn't want vanilla sex from his wife? If you agree with OP you should comment under automod. She isn't technically agreeing with op. Op made the claim that most or all men want kinkiness. She said that most men she had be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:18 PM
6

This makes the assumption dating is supposed to be fair. Unfortunately as long as crappy people of both sexes exist dating will never be fair for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:07 PM
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Genuine question. Do you also hold this view about feminists as well? A large percentage of them regularly ignore mens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:46 PM
0

Have you considered the possibility that the #SaveOurGirls campaign had more to do with the fact that they could still be alive rather then their sex? Unfortunately theres not really much you can do when the child is already dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:09 PM
1

Where are your examples of them showing romantic interest in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:04 PM
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Heres the video where Rich Cooper says the following... -He tells the person asking him for advice that the girl he cheated on several times is secretly ok with it despite the fact that they entered into the relationship on monogamous terms and she had to forgive him each time. -Women who critique male cheating think that men and women are the same -Man on woman cheating doesnt betray a woman like it does when she does it to him He also lists examples of kings where they cheated on their wives a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:37 PM
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They used the word cheat. Cheating requires not telling the other party. Otherwise its just an open relationship. Plus in the case of Cooper he condoned the idea of cheating and betting shed just be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:02 AM
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Like i mentioned in an earlier comment. Some RP content creators (Rich Cooper and Fresh and Fit) have explicitly said that cheating on your partner is ok if youre a "High Value Man". Accountability has to be across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:20 AM
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It does when the conversation is about why they can't get a woman. Accountability shouldnt end the second someone gets into a relationship. What do you expect men to do? Either one of two things. Dont justify garbage behavior in anyone. Im convinced that part of the reason we see awful manipulative behavior in both sexes more often is because we dont shame it like we used to. Or stop complaining when women are awful. Decency is a two way street. How do they encourage cheating? Multiple content c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:15 PM
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I dont hate the manosphere as a whole but i am critical of it at times so ill answer this. RP doesnt hold men accountable it just makes excuses for their bad behavior. Ex: they tend to either turn a blind eye or openly encourage male cheating while acknowledging a woman cheating is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:11 PM
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I was referring to the more doomer black pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:13 PM
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The point im making is that if women are responsible for their relationships going south due to misjudging his character then men are also responsible for misjudging thier girlfriends character. Men in manosphere communities tend to have the mindset of "She should have vetted better" when the woman gets burned and "Modern women suck" when men get burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:50 AM
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Divorce rape isnt the only thing they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:48 AM
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The second part of that statement also includes relationship failures as a whole not just within the context of a marriage. I used marriage as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:44 AM
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Lets assume men pick as bad as women (we don't), Marrying the cute girl who ends up divorcing you and taking your stuff is a bad choice. If women are responsible for picking a guy who seemed decent at the time but wasn't, men are also responsible for their relationship struggles too. you would not see us whining about it, we take responsibility for our choices. There are entire online communities of content creators who are personally making money on doing just this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:35 AM
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OP is probably referring to men when they reach their 50s or 60s. Men in their 30s are still relatively young.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:59 AM
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He provided a link to his original comment and explicitly said men shouldn't hit their girlfriends or wives in anger, the only other context calling your partner a slut or slapping happens is in the context of consensual sex. He may not have explicitly mentioned kink in his comment but it was implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:18 PM
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I'd contribute more when the kids were really young. But for the most part it would probably be split 80/20% if i was the bread winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:12 PM
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Infants have to eat every couple hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:11 PM
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I appreciate the context added and I'm glad that there wasn't anyone legitimately advocating for domestic violence in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:08 PM
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Which post was this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:54 PM
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I didnt downvote personally. But to answer your question i was banned for pointing out that fucking a guy on the 3rd date wasnt the best way to get into an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:15 AM
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The mods actively surpress decent advise on that subreddit when said decent advise would benefit a woman over a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:06 PM
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One little tid bit id like to add regarding this conversation is that men greatly outnumber women on dating apps in general (paid memberships would be even worse) so when men complain about how picky women are, they're only citing the opinions of a small minority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:27 PM
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Go to any beach, or bar, or club in a city with a lot of young, hot single women like LA or Miami and you'll see beautiful women everywhere. How many hot influencers posing in gym wear or bikinis are there on instagram and tiktok? They are everywhere. No they arent. At least not in the states. The majority of women arent hot skinny chicks. The majority of men and women in this country are overweight. This would be like if i pointed to sports car events and country clubs and said "most men are ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:35 PM
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As for why why a multimillionaire female celebrity would tolerate it: guys don't care about a woman's money. It doesn't change much. Can you explain to me how men not caring about money is relevant to a woman tolerating cheating? A female celebrity is desirable because she's hot. Lots of women who aren't rich are also hot. This just isn't true. A lot of famous actresses (Megan Fox in her prime as an example) are also in part famous because theyre considered some of the sexiest women alive. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:41 PM
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Question for OP. Are you one of the guys who complains when a woman doesnt fuck them on the 3rd or 4th date? Regardless of your personal opinion on the double standard when it comes to casual sex, if youre a guy who wants casual sex, then its stupid and counter productive to actively shame the women you want to fuck for fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:21 PM
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But what dictates what you can demand is tied to supply. It takes well over a decade to train a neurosurgeon and there are only ~50k of them worldwide. There's a reason they are compensated so well, and there's a reason the most world renowned neurosurgeons are compensated with salaries several times the salary of the average neurosurgeon. They are a limited commodity. This arguement only makes sense when it comes to relationships where only one person is famous and successful. When it comes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:42 PM
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wives of celebrities and athletes think their man will only have sex with them? I bet a lot of them have some sort of agreement that the marriage is open on the man's end. This is entirely speculative and ignores the fact that celebrities tend to marry each other. They are a limited commodity and they get to set their own terms. We live in a society where women can file for divorce so everyone gets to set their own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:23 PM
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I would never share my man. An important thing to keep in mind about societies where men had multiple wives is that women didnt have the rights they do now. Women were forced into polygamous marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:18 PM
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Im the only one supposed to be sleeping with him so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:37 AM
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Entitled, no. But its still harsh and rude. Just say youre not interested and move on. No need to say to his face that he must have bad intentions because he had the audacity to ask you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:14 PM
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I think it's projection. There are a lot of guys who may not be the best looking who would love to have a girlfriend and treat them well, so they assume all not great looking men are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:11 PM
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I don't see how asking someone if they'd be interested in meeting again after having a great time together would be off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:10 PM
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This to me looked like he was asking her if she'd be interested in going out sometime since he enjoyed talking to her that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:18 PM
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The projection is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:28 PM
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I genuinely dont understand why youre not getting that a thread about personal values is a thread about personal values. Even in the quotes you cited he never bad mouthed anyone, he just said "I think this" dozens of people, including many who agree with your stance on casual sex did the exact same thing. Its possible to have an opinion about how to best do something without shitting on other people who disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:25 PM
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That's absolutely what he's saying, you're just lacking reading comprehension. This entire thread is a question asking about personal values. Youre just being emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:10 PM
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no offense, but that sounds like a you-problem. Yes. Personal values are personal. He never said no one should ever do it because muh feelings. He just said that due to his observation he believes that being in love first is the way to go. Grow up. Other adults aren't responsible for your own mental hang-ups and insecurities. You're describing the mentality of a child. You threw an internet fit over a mere disagreements. You should put your stones down since youre in a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:58 PM
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Then why are women uniquely bad in these situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:33 PM
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Its shameful to build a relationship based on manipulation and blame an entire sex for your actions. The fact that we dont is part of why modern society sucks so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:31 PM
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In the example you gave you did wrong first. Doesnt this mean that what you got was justified even by your own argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:31 AM
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Also i only started by leading her on because it never ever worked before based on honesty, so i tried to do it differently AKA be an asshole, and it worked. So in your opinion its ok to mistreat people if you yourself have been mistreated in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:05 AM
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No i am precisely that moraless man because most women i ever interacted with also didn't have morals too. You said in your previous comment that you decided to try being the nice guy after the lying and the manipulation. You build that relationship on a flimsy foundation and put yourself in a situation where you could never have a healthy relationship with that girl. Now youre turning around and complaining that "Wahmen aint shit" when it didnt work out for you. If any woman had made a post com…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:08 AM
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i can't see how anyone could respect such a person. You have admitted to only dating someone, who you knew wanted a relationship, for sexual gratification. And you also admitted to manipulating them and lying. There are plenty of people in this group including RP guys who would ask the question of why anyone could respect a manipulator or a liar. Why do you think you have any moral ground to stand on when it comes to mistreatment in relationships? You were the male equivalent of the women youre …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:24 AM
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Because having sex with someone who is not husband worthy is a dangerous gamble. let's say meet you meet a man who meets all of your criteria, he is everything you want (sweet, rich, handsome...) but meanwhile you want a relationship he just wants a hookup. What would you do if that is the case? Have a casual relationship or ghost him? If he wasnt dating with a purpose (marriage) then he wouldnt really tick off all my boxes. Id wish him well and move on to find someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:57 PM
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Is is a recipe for a lifetime of hopping from one failed relationship to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:53 PM
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Having kids is baggage a lot of people dont want to deal with. Plus theres the possibility of baby momma/daddy drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:07 AM
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Yes women are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:10 AM
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How does women being picky magically make the 7 to 3 number go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:06 AM
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What im saying is that anyone with basic math skills and common sense should know that 7 to 3 isnt good odds for ones in the 7 camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:40 AM
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On Tinder men outnumber women 7 to 3. If you deliberately put yourself in a situation where dating will be harder for you then thats on you and not women as a sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:03 AM
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This is clearly bullshit, and yet another attempt to diminish men’s struggles. Other people having struggles doesnt magically diminish yours. The fact that you think casual dating and ltrs are two sides of the same coin shows a severe misunderstanding about how dating for a woman works. For every guy catcalling or in the dms saying perverted shit or making over the top advances asking to fuck there are dozens simply trying to get a date or make genuine conversation who get the same cold shoulder…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:59 AM
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Rape, Domestic Violence and Sexual Harrassment are not the only downsides to dating nor are they even a plurality of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:45 AM
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Then he should have said that instead of saying theres no downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:43 AM
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Unless we're talking about instances of rape then women bear 50% responsibility for any unplanned pregnancy. Women all get "the talk" and learn how babies are made young. If they choose to take the risk and have sex with someone that's on them partially. if you choose to believe her telling you that she's on birth control and not take necessary preventative actions yourself, then that is just very poor decision making While what you're saying isn't wrong, it would be widely viewed as sexist and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:22 AM
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Like i said earlier, money will not turn a 2 in appearance into a 9 or 10 but it can still be an attractor for women and they can still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:00 AM
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Yes. Because like i mentioned earlier money and power can also attract women. I never said that money will magically turn a fat bald guy into Chris Hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:55 AM
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Prostitution doesnt typically involve attraction so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:21 AM
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That isnt the point. The point is that things other then looks can make a man attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:35 AM
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I fully agree with this statement. My original comment was in reference to the word "ugly" being used since ugly is used to describe physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:55 PM
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The original poster said that physically ugly dudes can get laid. This is verifiably true as women dont always value looks as well as men. Saying that the experiences are different isnt relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:39 PM
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Yes it is. Something about a man has to be attractive to a woman for women to want to have sex with him. Women will not just have sex with any man. No it isn't. Op was referring to physical attractiveness. There's plenty of ugly rich/powerful/high status dudes who get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:30 PM
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Can someone explain why Kanye is listed in regards to property division during divorce?
/r/MensRights11/07/22 10:27 PM
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Can someone explain why Kanye is listed in regards to property division during divorce?
/r/MensRights11/07/22 10:26 PM
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Absolutely. I'd recommend having the "What are you looking for" talk early though.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/22 10:06 PM
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If things keep slipping have you tried creating a checklist of everything you need to do? I did this for one of my jobs for the closing duties and not only do i not forget anything anymore but its satisfying to scratch off chore after chore as I make my way through the list.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/22 04:34 PM
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Do you have any statistics to back up the idea that the majority of women are currently in situations like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:35 PM
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The percantage of women in casual relationships is nowhere near the majority of women. This accounts for the small amount of women on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:18 AM
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And yet your respnse "Most women are straight. So this means that for every woman in a relationship, theres also a man." is saying "well men can't be having much trouble as these women need a man to be in a relationship" yet you fail to recognize that its the same group of men going around in circles with a lot of these women. I'm talking about ltrs not hookups. It's not physically possible for all of the chads to be in months to years long relationships with all the women. All the women have pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:52 PM
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The person you replied to stated it was easier for women to get into relationships, if you aren't denying that why your response? Its possible to acknowledge that there are struggles men exclusively face when trying to date while also acknowledging that the dating situation isnt as bad as some claim it is. Not talking about 1%ers but the above average. Above average men are still a small minority and there still arent enough of them to make the point that women are just dating the above average …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:51 PM
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Doesn't change the fact its easier for women to get into a relationship. I'm not denying that. I'm questioning the idea that it's practically a Christmas miracle for your average guy to get a girlfriend. so you have women going from man to man who are towards the upper end of the scale in terms of attractiveness until she manages to settle on one or ends up alone with the inability to lock the type she wants ("If he isn't a benefit to my life then I will stay single" is their cope) This leaves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:37 PM
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The idea that most men are in this kind of relationship wasteland but women seem to not feel any kind of effect due to this doesn't make statistical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:18 PM
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How else would you get these kind of stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:09 PM
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I literally never said that. I just said that for every woman in a relationship there is also a man in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:02 PM
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All of these easy relationships have men in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:01 PM
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Poly isnt statistically that popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:00 PM
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Most women are straight. So this means that for every woman in a relationship, theres also a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:02 AM
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Theres a tendency of guys to assume that women have amazing time with dating as a whole due to the fact that getting casual is easier, when many women arent looking for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:18 AM
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Not a strawman when you revealed your immediate assumption about a guy approaching you. i.e. "If he approached me with the intention of a ONS..." Those are your own words. Youre making this up. Theres a difference in the way guys act when theyre looking for something casual vs looking for an ltr. I could tell from the way my husband (and previous exes) acted they were looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:30 AM
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Lol. Not sure how you think this stuff works. A guy has to find you physically/sexually attractive first and foremost. He does not know if he wants to be in a relationship with you or not before he knows who you are. You can know you want a relationship and also not know if the person in front of you is what youre looking for. You're probably going to assume that any guy just wanted a one-night stand so your rejection rate would be pretty close to 100%. Which confirms my point. Nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:18 AM
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Look up any sort of "pickup artist" content on the internet. Those guys typically do a LOT of cold approaching and it's common knowledge that a guy has to approach at least 100 women to MAYBE get a few dates out of it. I dont doubt this is the case for dudes who want to pump and dump but im referring to men looking for relationships. Women arent as interested in casual sex as men are, this is why when you see social experiment videos where a woman cold approaches male strangers and offers to sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:48 PM
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I was asking about irl dating. Everyone in this group already knows about dating apps. Dating apps arent the same as dating someone you meet in person. Do you have any statistics that women reject 90% of men who approach in real life? Also if you want my statistic here it is. https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:28 PM
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Even if the man/woman ratio were 1 to 1, women would still reject 80%-90% guys after a quick glance. Citation needed. "Anecdotal". So my experience of reality is not valid. Makes sense lol. I guess let me know how many approaches you witness over the next 24 hours while you're outside "touching grass" lol. While you may not personally see anyone approaching anyone irl this doesnt change the fact that the majority of couples still meet in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:20 PM
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I was referring to dating apps like tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:13 PM
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You're ignoring the fact that dating apps allow people to talk to each other. On most apps people can reject someone based off the profile alone. Talking through an app wont help if she swipes right before you have the chance to say anything. This fact is still irrelevant to the other fact that men still outnumber women on these apps, which is why the roi for many guys on them is so low. I've heard IRL is supposed to be 10x better for guys and yet I never see guys approaching women anywhere at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:11 PM
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Dating apps by nature encourage being more focused on looks. It offers a skewed system to find a significant other. In real life men get the opportunity to showcase positive personality traits, increasing the odds of finding chemistry with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:20 PM
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Women who are worth dating wouldn't immediately jump to "He must be creepy" if a guy merely asks them out. Theyre vetting themselves as problems for a potential relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:05 PM
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They would also mention hobbies and other personal interests. Most couples i know irl met this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:01 PM
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Ask the 60+% of couples who meet irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:40 PM
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If average guys would rather put themselves onto platforms where they outnumber women simply because they cant be bothered to walk outside then they have no right to blame women for their lack of success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:25 AM
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I'm not saying that men don't have a harder time. They undeniably do. The point im making is that men shouldn't choose the hardest route possible, unless you're giga chad with the three 6s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:15 AM
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It's incredibly annoying that this has to be said over and over but with online dating men outnumber women by a large margin (Tinder is 7 to 3 in favor of males). If you as a man deliberately choose to attempt to date in the hardest and most fruitless way possible for you then you have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:03 AM
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If youre casually dating, no. If youre looking for a long term relationship/marriage i would say yes, mainly to make sure the woman youre with isnt a heartless jerk. A woman who truly loves her man would try to comfort and support her man when he has a bad day, not tear him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:59 AM
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They can call themselves whatever they want but traditional values are still incompatible with what RP influencers tend to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:26 PM
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The Red Pill is an ideology for men. Women arent supposed to benefit from it. It seems like youre conflating RP with Conservatism when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:22 PM
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I, for one, welcome feminist harpies ending their own bloodlines.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:18 PM
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Men dont have reproductive rights in either country.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 02:46 PM
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No. Id expect him to watch in complete shock as i tackle the thief with my entire body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:03 AM
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The tendency of some women to demand that men have to be responsible for their choices is astounding.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 08:03 PM
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There is no my truth or their truth. There is just the truth. Moral philosophy and opinions can have variations.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 02:18 PM
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If you want things to be regulated it won't be just in favor of women. My original comment was about single parents across the board both men and women. Not allowing single people to adopt doesn't favor any sex. You claim that you want children to grow up in stable families, then certain things are required. Yes. The thing that is required is that we put the kid in a household that is as stable as possible. This requires two parents who love each other. Single people have been shown through stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:44 PM
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How is this relevant to the fact that single parent households don't do as well as two parent families?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:33 PM
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But we're talking about men's choices over their own bodies. They can choose not to hand over sperm in the first place either through abstinence, condoms or vasectomies. And women can choose from multiple forms of birth control and abstinence. Once they've handed it over they can't be mad that a baby is made and a woman doesn't want to kill the baby. Cool. Then men should be able to opt out of parenthood. If its a womans right to go to her local Planned Parenthood and have the fetus killed due t…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 01:09 AM
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In that case women still have a choice now. Multiple forms of birth control (the patch, iud, pill, have the guy wear condoms) or abstinence.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:51 PM
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Youre entitled to that opinion. Im entitled to mine.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:45 PM
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My comment is a criticism of the idea that anyone should have to defend feminists due to morals. If you choose to do so that's youre prerogative but these same people would go right back to hating you the second they get power when you commit the horrific crime of wanting an issue addressed that doesn't affect women. Im more than happy to stand up for anyone with consistent moral values but these people have none.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:44 PM
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What does this have to do with the fact that abortion advocates tend to only support choice for women?
/r/MensRights24/06/22 08:43 PM
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Why? The same women who are currently crying about abortion being overturned were the same women claiming that financial abortion for men was manipulative and that the idea of men having choice is evil.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 06:55 PM
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The hilarious thing about the article is the inclusion of the quote "To the privileged, equality feels like oppression" because that statement is completely true but doesnt apply to the group the author thinks it does.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 08:52 PM
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60 percent of couples meet in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:31 PM
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The fact that so many men find this surprising when men outnumber women on tinder 7 to 3 is astounding. When there are more men then women youre going to have a hard time. If you deliberately flip the switch to dating on hard mode then you have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:03 PM
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Why should family only be based on genetics? Why should the state be able to force anyone into that decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:07 PM
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I would not date a man who would be unwilling to raise an adopted kid. Theres massive difference between adoption and falsely claiming your spouse is the father of a kid thats not theirs. That difference is consent. Women dont have some kind of birthright to trample on mens right to consent in these kind of situations. So this only affects couples in a committed relationship. If you can't trust your partner, you shouldn't be married to them. I agree with the idea that you shouldn't marry someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:05 AM
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It's astounding to me that this is the case. There's no excuse for that kind of legislation other than forcing men to raise kids that aren't theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:42 PM
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Standards related to ambitions and attitudes/habits would be a lot more understandable rather than just “must have decent job”. I get what youre saying but for more traditional women who want to become moms early in the marriage it makes more sense to look for a man whos already figured his finances out. Doesn’t matter what the guy has been through, only what means he can provide in this present moment. You really see this differently? To be fair no ones experiences really matter to anyone if th…
/r/MensRights18/06/22 06:03 PM
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Men in first world countries can get a paternity test. And for those who are worried about pissing off the Mrs. They can take the baby for an errand and get the test done without her knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:57 PM
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Love isnt an equal opportunity situation. While people with mental health problems shouldnt be treated poorly due to their mental illness, its also not the responsibility of other people to date them. They should be working on fixing their issues so they're in a good place to be a good partner.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 12:31 PM
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Life costs money. While neither party has to be rich, if you want to build a future (and family) with someone they need to be able to pull their weight. This shoudnt be a controversial opinion.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 04:33 AM
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Someone who -has no ambition -doesnt have marriage and family as a goal -someone with bad morals (Someone who doesnt follow Christian values)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:24 PM
2

At least from what ive heard from a few content creators i watch. They tend to make the bulk of their money through sponsorships and superchats/superchat like websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:51 PM
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Im 25. And ive been on most social media platforms since i was in my late teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:01 PM
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My early 20s would have been so much easier if the average woman really did get dmed and given money for no reason like some RP seem to think. In reality this doesn't happen for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:53 PM
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Like if you are after attention, affection, love, sex, cuddling, etc., i think those 2 options covers all bases from it. You dont get love from a prostitute or a sugar baby. You need to swipe endlessly, tank infinite rejections, be always well groomed, be rich/handsome/tall/charming all the time, can't ever "turn it off" for a few minutes, and get zero extras for it. This is what happens when you limit your options to a platform where men outnumber women 7 to 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:25 PM
2

I think about past experiences with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:01 PM
2

Guys within the manosphere say frequently that a womans profession (with the obvious exception of sex work) is irrelevant to them. So the cashier and supermodel can still be higher tier women to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:17 PM
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In reality, we all know these guys are the ones who usually get laid the most. And no, it isn’t because they are “Ch4d” these guys often look homeless and frequently are. While ill give you the benefit of the doubt and say that you may have seen examples of this happening. The vast majority of assholes are getting laid because theyre physically attractive or rich. “Women don’t know men are abusive until after they’ve already become attached.” “vIcTiM bLaMiNg” This is verifiably true. It's been w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:13 PM
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Do you think that if your average joe had the choice between a supermodel or an average woman he wouldn't pick the supermodel?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:19 PM
2

Do you have any evidence to support this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:51 PM
2

You're never going to get 100% consensus on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:13 AM
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Because they’re not the ones who get pregnant, or are culturally expected to raise kids, and there’s no way for a woman to verify at the time like a condom Men are still typically required to pay 18 years of child support. Many guys given the choice between paying for a kid they dont want and swallowing a pill everyday would opt for the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:04 AM
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Immigrating to another country would involve leaving friends and family. Plus theyd have to abandon hook up culture in favor of the values of the nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:04 PM
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Women who believe that every man wants to date/sleep with them come off as self absorbed to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:06 AM
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A really important piece of information RP commentators tend to leave out when discussing online dating and the 80/20 rule is that men outnumber women on online dating platforms by a significant number. When given more and better options people regardless of sex will take it. Tinder is 7 to 3 Ok Cupid is closer to 2 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:23 AM
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The same reason men like to talk about what makes a real woman. Its a criticism of bad values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:25 PM
2

A relatively small percentage. and how many of those women would actually be beautiful women that have access to richer higher status men etc but would still rather work and financially support their husbands. Why should they have to be beautiful? If we are talking about a role reversal in terms of sexuality and what women are supposed to find attractive then shouldnt the men in these situations immitate women and consider below average looking women in exchange for the financial support?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:55 PM
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Genuine question to people who dont like age gap relationships. Should 18 year olds be able to drive, drink (in some countries), move out of their parents home, make decisions for themselves without parental permission? It makes no sense to say that they are old enough to make these more impactful decisions but they somehow magically cant decide to date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:11 PM
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One thing to keep in mind about the men who say these things is that they espouse the belief that women only really have to offer sex and beauty/youth. Only looking for these things leaves them open to a lot of interesting (batshit crazy) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:05 PM
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Telling someone with a dying spouse that its secretly fine because they can collect life insurance money and not have to divorce them would be borderline sociopathic.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 02:44 PM
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Literally none of this would be a problem if you vetted for women with similar tastes and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:27 PM
2

I tend to have a bit more of a conservative view about sex and wouldn't want a guy who either had casual sex or had a bunch of short term gfs he ended up sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:23 AM
7

I would consider more then 3 to be a high body count for my age (25).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:20 PM
1

Im not personally a big fan of tattoos but as long as he's not covered head to toe and the tattoos have meaning. I wouldn't like face, neck, hand or private area tattoos either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:26 AM
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I wanted romantic love, a dedicated sex partner and someone I could have and raise children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:44 AM
2

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manacled_Mormon_case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:23 AM
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Do you have a point to add? If so im not seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:25 PM
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While i agree with the sentiment that men sleeping with strangers they don't like is a contributing factor to how awful modern dating is, i also would like to add that women could also solve this problem by not sleeping with losers who dont care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:22 PM
1

God, I miss my Harvey Weinstein days. I think you picked the wrong metaphor here considering at best Weinstein got laid due to women wanting things from him instead of actually desiring him and at worst he raped them. Nothing in the rest of this post gives off the idea that either of these situations are relevant to you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:51 PM
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Im neutral about it. As long as no one is being pushed into going/not going to college. Although colleges should end the special grants and scholarships for women since theyre the majority now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:52 AM
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No they arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:48 AM
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Sounds like you're ok with it, so long as it is occurring on your terms... Yes. This is called being in a relationship. Part of being in a relationship involves the idea that not everything is about you. You have to make sacrifices in some areas and effort to keep the relationship going. Neglecting your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend to play videogames all the time is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:52 PM
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Because for many pro abortion advocates the woman is all that matters. This is why these same people will cry misogyny at the idea of asking women to be more responsible about who they let nut in them but will turn around and say "If you dont want to be a dad you shouldnt have sex" to men who dont want to be fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:58 PM
1

I'm slightly overweight 5"6 160lbs. Im currently implementing better habits and am starting to see results.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:05 PM
1

In 2022 you can't define if a good situation for a child depends on being a married man or a woman, or two women living together or a single man. You literally can with data. The good situation being less prevalent doesnt change the fact that its the good situation. And in many cases a single wealthy man that can spend 200k on a surrogate baby, can also provide a better situation than the large majority of population. Im not denying that a financially successful man/woman would be better prepare…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:59 PM
1

No one is saying that men have to get married. Were just pointing out that its selfish to deliberately bring a child into a sub par living situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:52 PM
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Sure they would. But their lives wouldn't be comparable to a child in a two parent family with parents who love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:32 PM
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I agree but i was referring to OPs hypothetical scenario where both parties are expected to go 50/50 on bills. My point is that it wouldnt be fair to expect your partner to pay half the bills while also doing most chores and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:37 PM
2

Raising a child is a two person job. Statistics have shown over and over that a single parent household is detrimental to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:46 AM
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Yes. I wouldnt have married him if i didnt think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:10 AM
3

There is no mainstream movement advocating for reversing womens suffrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:51 PM
0

The reason this stereotype exists is because of how many prominent people in TRP advocate for non monogamy and/or cheating. It's also possible to be a great mom/dad and be a terrible spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:45 PM
1

I participate in the chores that are relevant to my living situation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:16 PM
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As long as men split housework and childcare 50/50 sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:04 PM
1

I would argue that the couple should take into consideration how labor intensive the job is and how many hours are worked. If a woman makes more then her construction worker husband with her comfortable air conditioned office job it would be unfair to demand that he does most if not all chores when he gets home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:42 PM
2

Back when i was still single i went to events that involved my hobbies to try to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:45 PM
2

If you don't want marriage just don't get married. Typically men who do want to get married do so for religious reasons or to have children (who statistically speaking do better in a two parent household).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:17 PM
2

Nothing will improve for men on dating apps unless more women use them. Right now men make up 70% of app users.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:07 PM
2

Everyone (both men and women) who is physically able should incorporate working out into their everyday lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:00 AM
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I dont really feel anything about it. We have each other now and he makes me feel like the luckiest woman in the world to be his wife. If none of them were able to see how amazing he is then thats their loss and my gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:18 PM
1

Honestly i don't think many people dislike MGTOW as a concept. The people who dunk on the MGTOW are usually dunking on the "Wahmen aint shit" subsection of MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:09 PM
1

There are many different types of people who do this. There's people like Dr Laura Schlessinger, Suzanne Venker. There's also an entire genre of content creators called the Femininity movement who tend to make self improvement and advice content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:56 PM
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If its her body, her choice then its also her responsibility. Its baffling to me that in a scenario where women have multiple options of otping out of motherhood (adoption, abortion) people get really upset when men ask for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:36 PM
1

How exactly do you expect someone to do research on removed comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:06 AM
1

Thats probably why i didnt see it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:05 AM
1

How far back did you have to go to find the Nazi comments? I went back almost a week and all I found were gender related comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:02 AM
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There's a pretty enormous difference between having needs in a relationship and being a literal nazi Ok. Its perfectly fine to not like his opinion but lets not minimize the suffering that occured under the nazi regime just because you dont like his opinion. believes that asexual people are malicious actors You just shamed him for saying sex was important to him in the context of a relationship. Shaming someone for their needs in a relationship is a crappy thing to do. women are useless except f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:48 AM
1

Its really interesting to see the person accusing someone else of shaming someone and being a jerk then turn around and shame someone for having needs in a relationship. The reality is that most people want sex in a relationship and asexual people should just date other asexual people instead of demanding that people ignore their needs to fit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:26 AM
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Not really. Im well aware that a lot of celebrities and influencers use photo editing software to get the flawless look.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:16 AM
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I live by the following rules when it comes to my marriage. These are just the ones i can think of off the top of my head. Try to be the best version of yourself for your partner. Dont attribute to malice what probably was an honest mistake. Remember that your partner is a human being with emotions and needs. Don't insult your partner ever. And if you're angry enough that you risk saying something you'll regret its best to walk away till you cool down. I tend to follow the Mike Pence rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:55 AM
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No. Sex is an important part of a relationship for me. A relationship without sex might as well just be a friendship for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:57 PM
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But what about men? Well IMO, men are much better in distinguishing the physical from the emotional. That is not to say that men with very high body counts are preferable for every woman. But men with higher body counts are still able to bond. Maybe it's because men don’t bond through oxytocin but through vasopressin. Ultimately, men and women are different and men are much better at bonding with a new mate than women. I agreed with you up until this point here. The issue with men with high body…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:51 PM
2

I wouldnt. There are rules against doing so in my religion. Plus i wouldn't want to share my husband and i have no desire to get a boyfriend on the side. Even if this wasnt the case, i know people who have actually tried it irl and it ended as a massive dumpster fire of resentment every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:10 AM
1

I dont think the number of deadbeat dads would increase. I just think it would just make it easier for the ones who do abandon their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:56 AM
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The number of women who would want to get married wouldnt decrease that much but the number of women willing to take career sacrifices for the family will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:51 AM
1

People give unsolicited advice all the time. This is part of why some women complain about strangers telling them to smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:41 PM
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Have you considered that the women who say youre fine how you are and the women who are banging the ripped dudes might just be different women with different tastes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:19 PM
9

How do you define "High Value"? Ive noticed that in Red Pilled circles what they consider high value and what i consider high value are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:09 AM
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Even if i wasnt already married the answer would have been no. Its too much baggage i would prefer not to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:30 AM
1

Anecdotal evidence is Anecdotal. By that logic the plenty of people in this group who know women who havent cheated are just as valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:26 AM
1

Your opinion isnt a statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:44 AM
1

No it isnt. There arent any statistics out there that support your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:42 AM
2

You can use this line of "reasoning" to justify any unprobable claim regardless of how absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:44 AM
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Sex within the confines of a relationship is just as emotional as it is physical. Go to r/deadbedroom and youll see countless examples from both men and women discussing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:01 PM
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The fact that you read a post about the reality that men are people with emotional needs in a relationship and managed to get this from it is incredibly disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:56 PM
1

We come from a religious background where doing so would be considered immoral. Neither of us would be comfortable in that situation. The more realistic option would be to try to get better at performing oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:12 AM
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This makes the assumption that the math is even necessary. All you really have to have is the common sense to realize your partner is a human with needs and care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:10 AM
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Yes. I made an oath to my husband and to my god to stay with him for the rest of my life. If it were me id feel conflicted because i wouldnt want to die alone but i would also feel bad about being a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:44 AM
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Unless you live in the middle east or some parts of africa you dont live in a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:43 AM
2

Stuff such as “meet through hobbies” and crap doesnt count. My husband and I met through a mutual hobby. If you rule this out right off the bat youre missing out on some decent opportunities. If youre really that opposed to meeting someone IRL then online dating is the only way to go. But keep in mind that men outnumber women 3 to 1 on sites like Tinder so your chances there are slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:37 AM
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