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| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingLook at the birth rate and tell me women haven't abandoned their gender role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Both red pill & blue pill advice encourages men to be sociopathicAny advice that involves protecting yourself appears to be at least a little sociopathic as it's inherently self interested and both red and blue pill behaviors obviously cause harm. Red pill and blue pill are both defensive responses to feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I am willing to exercise, but I don't want to exercise. Therefore offering to go for a run with me is a grave violation under your absurd idea of how things work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 06:20 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Yes, that is also adultery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:13 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?We need to recriminalize adultery too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 11:19 AM |
| -3 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Rejecting everyone makes her unmarriageable, not liking a particular partner is normal, never picking anyone is obviously an issue. The cope is to triple down on saying that nobody is good enough for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:19 PM |
| -6 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Its cope after rejecting everyone who would marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:07 PM |
| – | Men, do you REALLY know when a woman is not attracted to you?Do men know when a woman, for her "safety", conceals her lack of attraction? no. Do men know when a woman is flirting with them but being coy? Also no. Do men know their own lifetime batting average and how those women looked? Absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 11:53 AM |
| – | Men arent rewarding bad men, women areThe decline began when we stopped stoning adulterers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Speed dating is the most brutal dating settingSpeed dating is literally the opposite of a successful pairing strategy. No wonder men don't want to participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 04:12 AM |
| 5 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceIt is also possible that they are simply unsafe to be emotional around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?That is a particularly stupid "ick" if you take it seriously that charm comes naturally. In the same way I don't think women fall out of bed looking dinner date ready. What this woman is saying is that she likes experienced men and she uses their charisma to judge them. If there were some class then either A. it teaches men wrong and its bad or B. it is a good shortcut that ruins her metric and its bad. The ick doesn't work at all the other way because if there were a class that untaught feminis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ?Where did anyone restrict the terms of the discussion to casual dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ?If the leading cause of divorce is money fights and money problems men are wildly underestimating the importance of money for long term relationship success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her jobYou need to have significantly better communication with your girlfriend to know what's up because your life isn't merely a career. If you feel like you're going to be a wallet for a boat anchor of a wife you're in the right. If you think running your house and caring for your future children isn't enough your priorities are wrong. A "career" will be a distant low priority for her. You already exceed the median household income by yourself and you're not even married yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?Men are literally never intimidated by women. There is a chance a man can be emasculated by a woman who out-earns him. Mostly though its that a woman's career drive is a negative value not a positive one. I don't need her money and I don't want to suffer coming home to her complaining about a boss. Women who have apportioned all their time to work are also simply logistically difficult to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:32 AM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenOnly feminists believe that nonsense. Only the poorest or most materialistic women work outside the home apart from raising their family. Men work to be providers and protectors of the family unit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | What is wrong with modern menThese are the attacks women throw whenever a man sets a relationship boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 03:02 PM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenThe problem with modern women is that they are feminists. They abandon their societal role in order to do a poorer job at a role they don't even like. They think they should get credit and social status for doing so and men have permitted this charade to go on for decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 02:29 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Liberals were too naiive to detect people working/arguing in bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 05:21 PM |
| -1 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itAllowing your pool of dating options to become sabotaged with trash is about as stupid a way to fix the problem as you can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why are you not hypergamous?If you want to be a genetic dead end go find an overeducated career oriented feminist she'll be dead set on being childfree. As for money, I'm a man, I make money. That's like a cow getting milk from the grocery store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?Settling is a state of mind. Men want women to be mature enough to accept the good relationships they are able to attain rather than be bitter forever about being unable to get someone "better". I'm sure it goes both ways too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:20 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.I've run out of patience for your bad faith misrepresentations. Maybe you should have your father choose your dates for you from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:48 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.I know you think you're making a point, but one man saying one thing and another saying another isn't the hypocrisy you think it is. If you interview tons of people for a job but won't hire any of them that should tell you 2 things at the same time, your pre interview screening isn't filtering out bad candidates and it's definitely screening out good candidates or you would have found one by now. It is the same for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:28 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.I've said all I needed to say to refute the premise of your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:01 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.Women can be both extremely selective and use very bad criteria for their selection process at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Given the "ideal" wife/girlfriend/partner, do you genuinely *enjoy* providing?You won't understand this dynamic unless you realize that society considers men largely disposable apart from their capacity to work/produce value. Men are not treated as fully valuable people unless they are needed. Providing for a woman really isn't even enough of a responsibility, because the fruit of providing for a woman leads to a family. The role of the provider gives men dignity and a grounded place inside the family. Its a huge demonstration of faith in her husband for a woman to trust … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Men can now message first on BumbleThese companies are discovering that you can't turn a tire kicker into a serious buyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:23 AM |
| – | The problem is not women caring about looks, it’s them pretending not to.The gender with the highest agreeableness being asked an uncomfortable question takes the answer with the least flak. You want women to be real with you? Speak authoritatively and respond really negatively to BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 11:50 AM |
| 5 | The "quiet" male revolution.These "liberations" are that they've made the worst case option slightly less horrible so that people stuck in that rut stay in it longer. Imagine thinking being a replaceable corporate cog is better than being the irreplaceable mother of a family. That's "liberation" Imagine finding the women around you so horrible (or desolate) that you're better off with a synthetic relationship with a digital prostitute. That's "liberating" wow. If you think you "don't need" your partner you're utterly unmar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerA society that actually allows someone to purchase a kid like this is utterly devoid of morals. Single parent raising a kid yields horrible outcomes for the child doing so intentionally is turbo-retarded. You have 40 million dollars, spend 100k paying some stylists to looksmax you and you'll definitely be able to make a baby for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:02 PM |
| -1 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?It is VERY RARE that someone is being utterly “illogical.” If you think they are, perhaps you should consider that you’re not privy to all of the information and contexts Bullshit. Most people can be rational for entire minutes at a time once all their immediate needs are met. People are so rational that fear is about the only thing that can motivate them to do anything, and they're so rational that scientific evidence of them being wrong about something typically makes them double down. Men wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a broke woman?I don't expect a woman to have any money. A woman with lots of debts is a red flag, both because it indicates she's bad with money and that she's expensive. Having similar values about money is pretty critical and I don't want a lavish lifestyle and I don't do debt. Women don't want to be made to feel like a piece of meat, likewise men don't want to be made to feel like a wallet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?What is there to figure out? You share or you die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?This assumes sufficient resources that those 30-40 men can't do better than a shard of the top man's resources. This assumes the 30-40 men are foolish enough to permit polygamy. This assumes the 30-40 men don't aggressively punish adultery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex.If you think you can make any unilateral change to the relationship you want and just expect men to put up with it you're in for a real shock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:20 PM |
| 0 | She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex."Withholding" is a perfectly fair term for the apathy of the responsible party for a dead bedroom. If a man is unemployed and doesn't even try to get a job, it's fair to say he's holding out on doing what is expected of him for the family. These men don't know how to fix the problem and don't see anyone else working on the problem, or worse, acting like it isn't a problem at all and they're frustrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 05:51 PM |
| 4 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youLooking at pew research polls, around three percent of men older than 45 have never been in a relationship. Survivorship Bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 08:32 PM |
| 3 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Its technically true that all the money in the world in 19XX couldn't buy a modern smartphone, but grandpa got a union factory job with no high school education by walking through the doors and showing up sober, bought a house and paid it off in a few years on a single income. Then Dad's generation had higher real incomes than today. And now there's millennials taking usurious debts to buy enough education to have a reasonable income. I don't think we work much harder, I think we just earn less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:51 PM |
| -2 | The problem with “Women would rather obey their boss than their husband”Submission is a human experience, you've never submitted to your parents? to your government? to God? Do you think your submission to your peers has to be absolute? if it seems like the end of the world wait a week and it will no longer seem that important Does our child go to daycare x or daycare y Should I take job x or job y Should we move to X or stay at Y To delay is to decide, for the sake of your own healthy relationships you should come to understand conflict resolution. You cannot dump … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Women possess no empathy for men and should stop lying about it.Does he want to talk about his feelings and low self esteem? Straight truth here. If women grok this they'll understand why men 1. won't discuss their feelings and 2. are always solutioneering when they hear women talk about their problems. Every social interaction a man has had since his mama stopped picking him up when he cried has punished feelings and rewarded actions. It made him a man. Your man does not need to work on anything to "correct" this, it is the natural order of his life that he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 07:18 PM |
| -3 | The problem with “Women would rather obey their boss than their husband”I'm not dating him. How is that even possible? Submission to a boyfriend is not a thing. This is about marriage. What compromise exists between buying house x or not buying house x? Do you realize how many thousands of decisions a married couple has to agree on in a year? If you crack the code on making that perfectly 50-50 please share with the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 06:55 PM |
| -1 | The problem with “Women would rather obey their boss than their husband”Who breaks a tie vote? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.The problem with this is men won’t stand in solidarity and play No Nut November What they need to do is enforce monogamy. "Chad" got stoned to death not too long ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.The subsection of men you're interacting with treat promiscuous women like disposable silverware. So yes your deviant sex kink reddit posts do indeed attract the worst possible kind of attention. Its silly to expect reddit neckbeard coomers to be indicative of what men look for. I can tell from your perspective that you're A. really young and B. A trusted male in your family/close circle hasn't told you anything about what men are like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:02 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedAbusers love bomb when they've overstepped to reel them back in. See the back of a cop car: "Baby I wouldn't hit you if I didn't love you." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeOnly in the last 20 or so years have women began to discuss the difficulties of it rather than glazing over them. That is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceImagine thinking that NOT consuming social media is brainwashing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceBecause if she has to literally force herself to ignore the fact that she’s subconsciously and emotionally and hormonally and mentally not aroused or attracted to you, it’s a constant effort. Women's hormones are a 35 year roller coaster so the hormonal attraction is really only necessary during the baby window of the cycle. You believe otherwise because most women you try to date have their hormones screwed up by birth control and we're living in an instant everything culture where rejection ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityYou seem to be suggesting that the standard of living a man provides for his children is contingent on being married to the mother, which would be an idiotic argument to make. That isn't the point I am making, but it would be true to say that parents who stay together are providing a different standard of living than parents who separate no matter what the dollar figures say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityVanderbilt isn't the midwit redditor that can't understand their own research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:38 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityThat's an intentionally misleading argument since the cost of raising a child is also proportional to income (rich people spend more money to raise kids). Its intentionally misleading to conflate discretionary spending on children with the cost to raise a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityWhy would he want his children to live in poverty instead of maintaining the lifestyle he worked/works for? Child support doesn't go to children it goes to the parent. That parent has no responsibility to see that that money in any way benefits the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:16 PM |
| 5 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?What do you think a western church is like? Do you think they bring a hundred goats to her father as a dowry too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:34 PM |
| 3 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.Tell me you're upper middle class without telling me you're upper middle class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?You have now successfully answered the question in your title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:18 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?By asking that you imply there are no obvious positive traits that they "bring to the table". If they were strikingly beautiful you'd say they bring good genes to the table. If you asked, "Why do you drive THAT car?" I'll infer that you think my car is a clunker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?More like women are on a monthly rollercoaster of sex hormones that makes them tempestuous and irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | People on this subreddit completely overlook how the boomer generation has caused maladaptive socioeconomic conditions for today's young adults that play a causative role in the dating, marriage, and fertility trends we’re seeing todayUnfathomably based take on boomer economics, however it wasn't their looting of the treasury that set people up for social failure. It was their ex-hippie indoctrination of feminism that plagues modern youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 05:43 PM |
| 39 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.We cannot admit that women have agency to make decisions that could possibly reflect poorly on their social standing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?In order to be the best partner you can be, you must identify traits that enhance or detract from your value and incorporate good traits so that you attract a partner that is similarly self improving. You and your crocodile tears are useless to people who want to better themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually unreasonable that 'below average woman' want to be treated like ' 10' ? Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?"Average men are not delusional enough to think they will have a perma 24 year old model girlfriend, but some average women think they can have a top 20% height and top 20% salary husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenRebelling isn't a lack of care it's an inversion of those beliefs. The carefree rebel is a lie, they're typically obsessive critics of the orthodoxy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blameGrip strength and testosterone levels have plummeted over 40 years as the water supply is contaminated with birth control estrogen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I never understood this concept when it comes to sexno value The sex has value less than or equal to the man. Lower value guy needs to save up for sex. Throwing themselves at a guy who is out of their league is cringe pickme strats but you hate women if you criticize some women's stupid choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 03:54 PM |
| 5 | It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enoughPeople generally don't care about those men very much as sad as that is. It is a socially unacceptable position for a man to be maidenless Most men in human history didn't get to recreate as sad as that is. There are legions of people convincing women that spinster cat mom golden girls life is anything other than miserable. The old social order that cured this is crumbling. Eg. Adultery is far too socially acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 03:54 PM |
| 4 | It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enoughIf you have a high enough Xanax rX you can keep delusional standards forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Young women encourage toxic masculinityToxic masculinity is a slur developed by feminists, its not real. Dark Triad personality isn't masculine. Men don't catcall because it "doesn't work", it works great on chicks with low self esteem and daddy issues. There's just a legion of women who aren't like that who wish those men were trying to court her instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.The CDC isn't a particularly good source. A survey is a terrible way to get truthful information, no matter who is asking the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Okay pal, go ahead and stake an affirmative claim on academia's weakest possible evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same.Imagine believing that nobody lies on a survey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"For a woman who gives "hookup material" the time of day, the only thing a man wants to be is "hookup material" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 27 | Q4W: How does women being able to"smell misoginy" line up with women who end up being in abusive relationships?I am not a chick: If you're a socially maladjusted person and you don't know why, you're like a city slicker stomping through the woods. Everything in the woods can hear you crunching leaves and snapping twigs. If you're a real deal sociopath, you've trained your whole life to sneak through the woods like a ninja. Everyone, man and woman, has a sociopath-ometer between their ears, its merely an arms race between how sophisticated both parties are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.You cared enough to reply, so I must be touching a nerve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 12 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.You're welcome to believe that the fairer sex is immune to crabs in a bucket mentality but leave me out of your delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 03:50 PM |
| 10 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.Women resent rich men for dating up in appearance and older men dating younger in age. Notice the women who give a shit that Leo's gf is perpetually 23. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 02:24 PM |
| 0 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardBecause their porn addiction and record low testosterone saps all their industriousness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 06:35 PM |
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