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| 1 | Looking for like-minded people to build a small dating community | Conversation | Evilfck | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:28 PM |
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| 2 | How would I seduce my friend's sister? How would I even know if she's even interested?The whole point of seduction is to make a girl experience something with you that she originally wasn’t thinking about or planning. What difference does it make whether she’s interested right now or ready to date? That’s exactly the point of seduction - to influence her desires. What have you actually done to get closer to her? There are so many options: ask your friend to give you her instagram, go over to his place, organize a party and invite both of them. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Ghosted after a hookupYou came up with that in your own head. This sub is about seduction. There are a huge number of guys who are in love with one single girl. But just one look at her takes their breath away. And they’re trying to get closer to her in any way they can. obviously, someone hurt you badly and you’re in pain. I hope you meet one or two great guys who help you become stronger and more confident in yourself, remarkable cake | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Ghosted after a hookuptricking? men and women love sex same way. heal your traumas x2 | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Ghosted after a hookupShould I teach you how to choose men properly, or can you handle it yourself? | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Ghosted after a hookupgirls should heal their traumas | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Ghosted after a hookupThere are a huge number of reasons why this can happen. One of them is that the girl is provoking you this way, trying to make you text her first. In my experience, there were many times when girls stopped texting. I didn’t text either. And after 3-4 weeks, they would show up again with some idiotic explanation (but in reality, they were accepting defeat in a game they had created themselves, realizing that they needed me more than I needed them). | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why women don't chase men?Because there is a huge number of vegetable-guys who give their attention to every girl who is prettier than a goblin. Why would she chase you if there are a hundred idiots messaging her on Instagram every day? Unless… you are a particularly valuable specimen. You were told correctly - girls don’t chase men in your reality. In actual fact, this happens all the time with men who understand the true value of each individual and know who is more valuable - he or any girl in front of him. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 06:17 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Like To Push Through Resistance With Women. Why do You Do It?The difference between us is that you wait to be evaluated by women first, and only then choose from the ones who approved of you. I, and other men, choose the one we want ourselves - exactly the one we want. It’s not that hard to get a “hell yes” from any girl when you know how to do it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Help me hook up with this girl againwhen I asked if she wanted to see me again why would you even ask that..... she had a really great time with me. Sure, let's stay in touch ouch You really don't understand the meaning of her behavior. You don't understand what she feels or thinks. If sex is really good or she likes you a lot, she’ll be the one messaging you and asking when you’re free. What do I do? add her on Instagram so you can influence her with your stories and posts. Meanwhile, you can learn a bit about how to make women f… | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Date escalation guide neededThe main thing is the state. Get into the state of a 5-year-old child, to whom everything is interesting, to whom everything is allowed. Who does everything he wants, because it looks fun. Think in advance where it’s better to go so that it’s convenient to touch her. Because the more touches, the stronger your connection. I always arrange dates at the cinema. Just build up the intensity of touches, from the simplest and accidental ones to openly sexual ones. Track her reaction and what she feels… | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 05:46 PM |
| -1 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?how can it help you? It has no connection | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate physically on a date when she’s passive?but I found it hard to “bridge the gap” physically without it feeling forced or awkward. It’s not about special tricks that will help you get closer to her. The issue is that you’re not confident enough and you’re afraid of her reaction. You can always take her hand and pull to go somewhere else. You can tell her to sit closer to you. Or you can move closer yourself to show her something on your phone. Also, how do you escalate when she isn’t giving strong physical signals but also isn’t rejecti… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?If the chat is dead because she got bored of you, then there’s not much point in trying to revive it - she’ll just get bored again. But if at some point you both simply lost enthusiasm and the conversation paused, then starting it again, even after a long time, isn’t a problem at all. There are plenty of ways to do it. For example, you can text her saying you want her opinion because you trust her taste - then send a few photos, like different pairs of shoes, and ask which one she likes more. It… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Fun or creative questions to ask on a date?yes | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 05:34 AM |
| 8 | Fun or creative questions to ask on a date?It’s not about the questions she was asking. She had a list of questions because she’s genuinely interested in understanding herself, the world around her, and the person sitting next to her. For some people, that’s completely normal. For others, it feels unusual. You shouldn’t just imitate curiosity or try to appear mysterious. It’s better to focus on self-development so that those kinds of questions arise naturally in your mind, without prompts from reddit | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Girl in libraryWhat difference does it make whether she was actually interested in you? Even if she wasn’t, you could have created that interest. In your place, I would have said: Give me your Instagram. This weekend I’d like to go for a walk with you, but right now I want to focus on my studies. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBOf course not | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Actually hitting on 5 girls will teach you a lot more than reading seduction content for 5 years straight.what's the problem to do both things at the same time? | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean ?i cleared things in the early stage that i am only talking to her because i have interest in her and i like her by doing this you’re shooting yourself in the foot. This should be shown through your actions, not your words. If you behaved the right way, you wouldn’t have to explain anything. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 02:38 AM |
| 1 | What does this mean ?why would you ask her to date each other? omg don't do that next time | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | new to cold approaching need help with textingor should i be texting her starting small talk or try to get to know her on text? yes She won’t go anywhere with you because she’s absolutely not interested in you. You didn’t spark any interest. Learn how to communicate with girls, how to evoke emotions and make them fall for you, both offline and online. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Does this stuff really work?absolutely | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Yall gotta help meDo you want me to invent your date and guess the right moment? haha how am I supposed to know what’s going to happen between you two. Just start with light touching and gradually increase the intensity, watching her reaction. You can’t prepare for a date 100% just by reading reddit. Some things are only learned and trained through practice. | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | You’ve had a good date, she’s agreed to come home, now how do you escalate?In general, when you’re experienced and confident, you don’t need some special strategy to avoid scaring her or looking weird. You like her. You like yourself. You understand that, most likely, she likes you too. And even if something goes wrong and she runs out of your place screaming, it’s not a big deal. It’ll just be another funny story to tell your friends. You can simply look her in the eyes and say, “Come here, I’m going to kiss you.” Or the other way around: “First kiss me on the cheek, … | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Yall gotta help meso I really want help on how can i escalate this situation into a makeout or cuddle By gradually increasing physical touch. First light, almost accidental touches. Then more obvious and bolder ones. In the end, you can move on to open, daring touches.If you’re doing everything else right, touch is exactly what brings you closer to sex and to her arousal. i dont think getting laid would be that easy so i think i should take time The more you think this way, the harder it becomes for you. It’s bet… | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?what's your plan for the date? | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:55 AM |
| 16 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?it's not weird, it's not dumb👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Brought her home what did I miss hereShift your goal from “bringing her home” to "awakening sexual desire". What’s the point of taking her home if she doesn’t want you? On the other hand, when you’ve triggered sexual arousal, things can happen even before you get home. Or she might ask you to take her home herself. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Looking for other bros who enjoy gaming (not video games) *Everyone should view this post & give there opinion.This has existed for over a decade. At the very least, there are many groups and chats on telegram for different countries and in different languages. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Brought her home what did I miss hereWell, I would never take a girl to a bar. It’s absolutely fine to kiss in winter. If you’re having fun and she’s happy with you, she doesn’t care where you kiss. I’ve done it many times in winter. There is no connection between kissing and taking off clothes. You kiss her for the first time to show her that right now, at least for tonight, she is yours. After that, you kiss her whenever you want. It can happen outside, in a shopping center, on the beach, at the cinema, etc. Why would you start t… | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Friendly hangoutthe goal is to meet her. No matter what she says | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 06:28 PM |
| 32 | Brought her home what did I miss hereIt seems that while you were trying to seduce her, she was already ready for everything, hahaha You were overthinking it too much. This is something you fix with more dates and more successful dates. If you had touched her more during the date, you would have started kissing before getting to your place. And if the kissing had started earlier, you both would have felt more comfortable at your place. Everything will be fine, just practice more. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Slid into her dms, now what?If you've managed to spark strong interest in her, tell her you're planning to go somewhere (an interesting place) and ask if she wants to join you. Signs of strong interest: - she messages you first - she gives detailed, thoughtful responses to your questions - even if you end the conversation by not replying to her message, she writes to you again (double-texts) | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Dating App OpenersI prefer using bumble, where girls have to message first. Too many girls use dating apps just to feed their ego. They reply with one word, talk to 20 guys at the same time, and expect you to entertain them. So I choose not to boost their confidence with artificial openers. I feel my value. And a simple message where I express one of my thoughts is enough. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Dating App OpenersAre you ready to take a random girl on a trip? Your message sounds needy and portrays you as someone who is willing to entertain a girl just to get at least a bit of her attention. It should be the other way around for you. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 04:36 PM |
| 7 | How to respond"yes" | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How to actually bring em homebut once I am actually there I don't get the confidence to flirt with the girl looking in her eyes. It’s obvious that you don’t feel like you’re worthy enough to hang out with them. It will be much easier to “bring them home” once you realize that they can desire you as much as you desire them, and sometimes even more - if you behave correctly. You don’t have a problem taking a child to disneyland because... it’s an amazing opportunity. And it shouldn’t feel like a problem to bring a girl back t… | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | "No Spark" text after dateNot too sure where I went wrong? Date went on for 3 hours - at the same location? 3 hours? and what was your plan? You don't need to stay in one spot for so long, unless you're at the movies or at your place. If you're taking her out on a date, it means you want her. Did you have a plan for where you were going to have sex with her? If yes, then why did you sit in the bar for 3 hours? If no, that's a mistake. If you're both enjoying the evening, what's the problem with inviting her back to your … | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageyou don't get what you want simply because you lack the skil | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned yet again, rethinking love vs arrange marriage now.how exactly you worked on yourself? | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 02:59 PM |
| 17 | Should I still talk to this girl at my gym?now its her turn to do something if she likes you | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 12:42 AM |
| 8 | Best way to not put women on a pedestal?Keep practicing. What’s important is not the number of approaches, but the number of girls you strongly interested or made fall in love with you. As soon as you simultaneously have 3-4 beautiful girls who are always happy to spend time with you, you almost automatically stop valuing their appearance and rank so much. Well, you also need to understand that the most valuable thing in your interactions is your vivid, unique individuality and your experience, not their appearance. There is a huge nu… | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How to reply when she teases you about having lots of girlsshow the exact conversation | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you’re a dom or a sub?you can take the test | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 02:12 AM |
| 5 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.it just means you don't know how to do it😉 | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Date with older womengood for having fun, bad idea for dating. She seems early 30s? Means she is early 40s. Asians... 😎 | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Been snapping this chick and it’s going well, but she’s not gonna be back until Thanksgivingcompliments have nothing to do with making her fall in love with you, omg Her impression of you, the amount of time she thinks about you and the strength of her feelings -depend on two things: your personality and the way you treat her. personality Things are going to get boring only if you both are boring. If every time she asks how you are or what you’re doing you reply with the same basic things, the interest is going to die. I know nothing about you - your age, your lifestyle, your personali… | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Been snapping this chick and it’s going well, but she’s not gonna be back until ThanksgivingYou need not an arrangement about meeting, but strong interest from her side. Interest of such strength that neither long distance, nor the presence of other friends and guys around her would interfere with you. If you make her think about you constantly, you will meet as soon as it becomes possible. Therefore, what you need to think about is how to interest her in you, how to make her fall in love with you online. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 03:36 AM |
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