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My advice doesn't really help with this current situation, but I promise it will help with future seductions. You can really cut out the need for text game and phone game altogether by learning to properly seed a date. By seeding a date you set up the day 2 before you number close, which means all you end up having to do over the phone or through texting is confirm the meetup. Here's an article on how it's done, if you're interested: Seeding a Date Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction14/11/12 07:50 PM
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If you're looking to add sexuality to your conversations in subtle ways then these two articles on storytelling will help significantly: Storytelling Mojo I Storytelling Mojo II And, I really like these articles on sexuality and seduction - You might enjoy them as well: Initiating Kino and Sexuality Stop Asking For Kisses Enjoy
/r/seduction14/11/12 07:41 PM
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In my opinion, learning to seed a date has been one of the most rewarding techniques I've learned. It reduces flakes and pretty much negates any need for phone or text game since the technique requires that you set up a date before you number close. Here's more info on it in case you're interested: Seeding a Date
/r/seduction13/11/12 09:25 PM
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One of my favorite ways to get out of an emotional slump is to meet some new people. Any new people. Try hanging out at a smaller bar, earlier in the night, when the music isn't too loud. I chat up the bartender or whatever waitress I have and eventually someone nearby. Most of the other people that come to the bar early are waiting for friends and are excited to talk to someone so that they don't feel awkward and alone, which makes it easy. If you make an impression on them, you'll likely end u…
/r/seduction10/11/12 02:09 PM
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Leave her alone and move on. Also, next time give seeding a date a shot. It will reduce any future flakes and help solidify any plans you make. Here's everything you could want to know about it: Seeding a Date Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction09/11/12 05:01 AM
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Ah, in that case. It shows strenght to voice your own preference, however, there is a more seductive way to do it. Try this: Tell her your preference. If you don't have a preference, then get one. Emotionally connect the preference to your life rather than talking about the preference in a technical manner. For example if it's a band, don't talk about the band's musicians or sound or history. Rather, talk about what the band means to you emotionally. "Everytime I hear them they remind me of the …
/r/seduction07/11/12 10:20 PM
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"Argument is the most antiseductive form of language." - Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction07/11/12 06:33 PM
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Telling you to "not get jealous" isn't exactly good advice. It's not something you can act on. It's like telling you to "just be confident" or "don't be upset" - other than taking baby steps to alleviate the problem - you either feel it or you don't. Think about it this way - most guys have a lot of trouble picking up women, even more have trouble getting girls that are already taken. So the chances of that guy succeeding aren't particularly high, which should give you some relief. You can't rea…
/r/seduction07/11/12 04:29 PM
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Advice for: DoMelikeaDrug and DSHackerc I think it's important to create a romantic window of opportunity to kiss. There's a great article on the subject here, it's really well explained and has tons of examples: Stop Asking For Kisses And I also think this article on escalating kino will help as well: Escalating Kino Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:57 AM
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This is a pretty common problem. Below I've listed some ways to deal with it and linked some articles to help you if you need more info. If the qualification routine isn't working: Be sure you're building enough attraction - Demonstrate value and disqualify. How to disqualify Building Value Look for an extra indicator of interest - you may be misinterpreting them and, therefore, timing your qualification wrong. Indicators of Interest Be Interested: Qualification Make sure you're doing the routin…
/r/seduction07/11/12 01:57 AM
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You nailed it. The Art of Seduction is the best place to look. It's about the principles of seduction, which are genderless, as well as timeless. You can absolutely tell a guy he's second best in bed. I know, years ago, my college girlfriend said it to me, and damned if I didn't stick around trying to prove myself number one. I must have bought every Taoist and Tantric book in the Barnes and Noble, and read them cover to cover. So not only did she end up with me, she ended up with me spending a …
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:05 PM
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Well, if you're trying to keep a guy you're already sleeping with, just tell him he's the second best sex you've ever had. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene has great examples of female seductive archetypes, and tactics from some of the more famous female seducers in history. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:49 AM
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Hey Superbear, I use the cube and Eliciting Values along with simply asking questions about subjects the girl has already brought up. Here are some how to articles on the two: Eliciting Values The Cube And there's a book called Kokology, which is a bunch of visualizations like the cube - Here's a review and routine from the book: Kokology Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:43 AM
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First change the topic from the mundane to something more unique. Here's a good line to help you change topics and tease her at the same time: "Wow, we're at a party and you really want to talk about school? You can do better than that." To get conversation moving you can also use an opinion opener, I'm aware that you've already technically opened, but opinion openers are also great for kickstarting a lagging conversation. Here are two I've found particularly useful for this type of situation: M…
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:27 AM
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In response to "Don't go to the party, be the party" Check out the second video on this page about 3:00 into it. Russell Brand, "I'm not fucking. I am fuck." Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction02/11/12 06:06 PM
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In my opinion, The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene is a great place to start. It's full of the principles that anyone learning seduction should know. Why wouldn't you want to learn anything scripted? Would it be okay if the scripted material was created by you, for yourself? Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction02/11/12 06:03 PM
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Sure thing! Here's a list of qualification routines that could help you out: Room Full of You's Routine Beauty is Common Bait, Hook, Reel, Release And for more on qualification in general: Be Interested: Qualification Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:37 PM
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Make eye-contact just long enough to say the person's eye color in your head. When you look away - look to the left or right rather than up or down. Here's a great article on body language that has eye contact info as well. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction31/10/12 04:02 PM
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A few tips: You can touch them on the arm between the shoulder and elbow and draw them back in. Make sure you're telling shorter more concise stories that have a point, and a defined ending. Make sure you're using your body language to help tell the story. More specifically your hands. Calling them out doesn't really help because it's you're fault they're not interested not theirs. Which means you probably need to get better at storytelling, and tighten up your routines. Here are two articles I …
/r/seduction30/10/12 06:09 AM
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I think you're missing the principles of opening and how value works in a seduction. Here are two articles that will help: A Guide to Openers Direct and Indirect It's a Value Game I think reading the two of them will really give you a push in the right direction. Good Luck, Evolve
/r/seduction30/10/12 05:59 AM
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To be chivalrous you have to own a horse. Luckily, I do. Aren't there enough kiss close techniques in that article? Do you really need more? Give them a shot. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction30/10/12 05:51 AM
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Very well written, however Seduction is not just male to female. It involves all gender variations, but I get the point. There's always a higher and lower relative value person or group of people in a given interaction. One more thing about value: Value, in seduction, is relative. Your actual value isn't particularly important, your perceived value is, however. Women, especially attractive ones, have higher perceived value in a room, because a majority of people's attention is directed at them. …
/r/seduction29/10/12 10:24 PM
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No. Please don't do this. Seduction requires a combination of words and actions. Asking every single step of the way will certainly ruin many seductions. Here's a great article titled: Stop asking for kisses - that has some really great answers for you. Cheers, Evolve Also, regarding Sex Nerd Sandra's advice - a piece of strange trivia: Antioch college had a very famous policy called the Sexual Offense Protection Policy (SOPP), that meant all students had to ask their potential partner for appro…
/r/seduction29/10/12 10:04 PM
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If it's a party you can still use indirect openers for entire groups: What You Need to Know About Openers If it's small enough, simply walking up and say, "Hey, I haven't met you all yet, I'm (name), I'm a friend of (person you know)," Will work. And for a little more info here's an article on meeting women at small gatherings: Seduction and Private Parties Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:52 AM
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Yes, If I loved you...
/r/seduction28/10/12 11:24 PM
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Start at the beginning. Don't worry about getting girls "fast." Take the first step by working on your openers. Learning the principles and practicing on a regular basis: What You Need to Know About Openers Seduction isn't magic. It's a skill and it takes time to learn. Good Luck, Evolve
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:34 PM
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Negging is just one of many ways to disqualify. Disqualification is necessary in most seductions, because it creates barriers that you and her can eventually break together. Negging, like every other technique in seduction has a time and place of its own. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:26 PM
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Rejection will always suck. Here's an article that will help you out. Reject This! (http://gentlemensociety.com/reject-this/) Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:17 PM
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It's more than likely, that you aren't losing girls, because of bad texts... You're losing them because your skills up to the point of getting the number need more work. This article will help: Preventing Flakes and Getting the Number You need to start Seeding a date In short, it works like this: Talk up a place you're going to go, whether it be a bounce or a date.You have to make her want to go there - really sell it. Then...Don't invite her, and change topics. Spend a few minutes talking about…
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:10 PM
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Fixed Thanks! How to spot a girl looking for a one night stand
/r/seduction28/10/12 01:31 AM
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Carry a condom. Talk to as many girls as you can, get numbers and set up dates by seeding. This way if it doesn't work out tonight, at least you'll have plans with different girls in the upcoming weeks. Read this article on Halloween and Seduction. Read this article on spotting a girl who's up for a one night stand. Good Luck, Evolve
/r/seduction27/10/12 09:52 PM
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There's a technique called Seeding a Date In short, it works like this: Talk up a place you're going to go, whether it be a bounce or a date.You have to make her want to go there - really sell it. Then...Don't invite her. (You will later.) Then, change topics. Spend a few minutes talking about something else for a few minutes - a new topic or something you've previously conversed about.. Finally, close the seed by inviting her along. Once she's agreed to come along, exchange numbers or bounce to…
/r/seduction27/10/12 07:42 PM
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Once you kiss them you lose attraction? Maybe you're not going after women who are attractive enough for you. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction27/10/12 02:29 AM
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Strive to be unforgettable. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction27/10/12 02:27 AM
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Here's a link for instructions to fuck, Marry, Kill specifically for the purposes of seduction. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction27/10/12 02:20 AM
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In addition to my recent comment here's an awesome article on initiating kino.
/r/seduction27/10/12 02:13 AM
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It's about seeing/creating windows of opportunity for a kiss. Here's a great article on kissing by a guy named Mojofist: Stop asking for Kisses Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction27/10/12 12:28 AM
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First you have to figure out why you hate yourself and then you have to do something about it. If you really want motivation to approach. Give a buddy of yours $100 and he gives you back $20 for each approach. If you don't do the approaches he keeps the money.
/r/seduction26/10/12 10:28 PM
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This article has a links to a number of fully explained canned openers at the end of it: How to Open: Direct and Indirect
/r/seduction26/10/12 10:26 PM
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I teach seduction for Neil Strauss, he invited me to the seminar. He likes us to keep on our toes with the material. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction26/10/12 06:36 PM
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Right - so the time constraint is false. You say you're leaving but don't actually leave. Once you've opened you'll have to build interest by being interesting (using routines, disqualifying, and telling personal stories), once you've received some sort of indicators that she's into you - then you have to let her know that you're into her by qualifying. After that you're going to want to seed a date.
/r/seduction26/10/12 06:28 AM
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Have the girl walk up to the girl you're into and have her say something similar to the following, "Hey, can I talk to you for a minute. I've had a crush on that guy forever and could never get him to make a move on me. He's really picky with women. I think he's kind of into you. He's a really awesome guy. What did you say to him?" That will create enough interest to push the attraction forward. Other things she can do are: Occupy the other women in the group while you isolate the target. Occupy…
/r/seduction26/10/12 05:43 AM
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It's pretty simple, the seduction community very mainstream, and it started years ago... At one point the seduction community was a community. There existed "game." Then the community became an industry and you started to see market segmentation. This means companies had to differentiate themselves from one another in order to sell product. That's where you start seeing the deconstruction of the knowledge. Eventually "game" became, "night game" and "day game." Then you started seeing "direct" an…
/r/seduction26/10/12 05:29 AM
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There are two possibilities: You are very unlucky. They're not interested. Aside from suggesting a sacrifice to Zeus, I can't tell you how to fix the first problem. But the second problem can be dealt with. You're most likely coming on too strong. Chris Rock says that everything a guy says to a girl translates to "how about some dick?" and for the most part it's true. Most guys who approach women are showing interest, even when they don't mean to show interest. You need to come in a little more …
/r/seduction26/10/12 05:14 AM
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Great. Let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction26/10/12 05:04 AM
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Last week I went to a seminar by Joe Navarro, who's an ex-FBI guy that teaches about body language. It was pretty amazing. Here's one lesson I picked up that might help: For the most part, people are comfortable with you touching the area between the shoulder and the elbow, even if they don't know you. It might be a good place for you to start. Otherwise, you could try routines where you're required to touch the girl's body - like the ring finger routine. Cheers, Evolve
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:29 PM
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Alcohol shouldn't be a social crutch. It's great to get used to being in bars sober - it'll improve your game quite a bit. Get to the bar early - You want your energy to ramp up with the bar itself as more people come in and the music gets louder. Walking into a bar at the height of the night by yourself can be overwhelming. Get Talking - If you come to the bar early you can begin talking to the other folks that got there early - they're usually bored and waiting for friends. If you can befriend…
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:10 PM
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Just set up the next date. You're over-thinking it, if she's willing to go out with you again, and she knows you're sexually attracted to her, then she's going out with you because she likes you too. Take her somewhere unique and exciting and make sure that you use some sort of macguffin to get her back to your place at the end of the night. (Here's an article on MacGuffins) One last thing. Don't text/call/facebook her too much - just set up a time and place to meet and get her to agree. A conne…
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:00 PM
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Your inner game is lying on the floor with your shattered ego. But it's not the end of the world, confidence breeds success. So just get back out there and start talking up girls again - keep practicing. And do it knowing this... Trying to pick up girls in a language they can't speak ain't easy. If you practice pick-up in a foreign language for long enough - picking up girls who speak your first language will be a piece of cake.
/r/seduction25/10/12 06:32 AM
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Great post liquidhandle. I want to also add to your first point. If you read through The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene you'll see that, historically, many people used their reputation as a seducer to their advantage.
/r/seduction24/10/12 06:25 PM
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There's a technique called "Seeding a Date" In short, it works like this: Talk up a place you're going to go, whether it be a bounce or a day 2.You have to make her want to go there - really sell it. Then... Don't invite her. (You will later.) Change topics. Spend a few minutes talking about something else for a few minutes. Finally, close the seed by inviting her along. Once she's agreed to come along, exchange numbers or bounce to the place you were talking up earlier. If it's a number close, …
/r/seduction24/10/12 06:15 PM
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The Art of Seduction By Robert Greene The Rules of the Game By Neil Strauss The Game By Neil Strauss The Definitive Guide to Body Language by Barbara Pease, Allan Pease Kokology by Tadahiko Nagao The Mystery Method By Mystery, Chris Odom, Neil Strauss
/r/seduction24/10/12 05:57 PM
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Finding a structure for my seductions, that I could stick with and practice.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:13 PM
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Hey Ice Bear, This is Evolve one of the coaches from Gentlemen Society. People generally don't like seduction material that they have to practice, because seduction is one of the only arts where you have to fail in-front of someone, (usually someone you find attractive). They are absolutely worth using. Just like everything else in the game - if it adheres to the principles of seduction and is well practiced, then it will work. It may feel unnatural at first, but so does picking up a guitar or l…
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:58 PM
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