| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Setting up the follow-up (2nd encounter) and a bit of self-improvement stuff | EvolvedMale | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 04:53 PM | |
| 0 | Humility is confidence... | EvolvedMale | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 04:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Men also have to blame themselvesSupplication = the chump's equivalent of actual seduction skills | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now?The original post is bittersweet. It sucks that you are where you are now, but the awesome thing is that you know where you stand what you need to fix it. The first step is realization that you have a problem and you want to fix. This is a great start! I have a certain point of view on how to improve yourself and 'get there.' It all starts with self reflection and evaluation. You take a look at yourself and figure out what's wrong with you. The next step is self improvement. You fix your shortco… | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I'll be honest...Girls only come on to me when I'm a mean condescending asshole.Just remember that there's a difference between playing mean in the interest of fun and being a dick. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Coversation help neededHere are some tips.... http://evolvedmale.com/post/53405790490/a-gentlemans-rules-of-conversation-from-1875 Now stop sucking at conversation. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with this (indirect rejection)?Great advice. To add to it... If the only reason to communicate with her is to secure another meeting, you're doing it wrong. You might be trying to sell before she's ready to buy. You need to create attraction/appeal so that she's asking you to hang. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 05:43 PM |
| 14 | Stop deciding for her!I find that guys who 'made the decision' for her are likely doing so in fear of the consequences if things go bad. C'mon guys, no risk, no rewards. What's the worst that could happen? You get rejected? Be confident, be assured and know that regret hurts a lot more than rejection. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 03:07 PM |
| 4 | How to take massive actionIt only gets better from here onwards | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 08:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm only attracted to women who have serious problemsRealization is definitely the first step to fixing issues. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 08:25 PM |
| 36 | How to take massive actionPersonally speaking, humility is liberation... I come across as pretty confident and charming to most people, so some people assume me to be cocky. The truth is that I’m actually very humble. Confused? I always keep an open mind and I’m always receptive to feedback from anyone; I rarely take offense to anything people say (this is humility). As such, I have no reservations in the way I act/talk when I interact with people (which comes across as confident) because I don’t fear negative feedback f… | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm only attracted to women who have serious problemsSounds like you're not looking for a serious relationship - just flings and lays. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 08:11 PM |
| 8 | I'm only attracted to women who have serious problemsYou have the need to be wanted, hence your 'knight in shining armor' mentality. You get fulfilment from 'fixing' girls. You probably build intense relationships at a very quick pace, but it dissipates just as quickly and you move on. Because your fulfilment comes from 'fixing' these girls, you perpetually find broken girls. I think you need to find fulfilment from other aspects of a relationship (besides sex, of course). In my opinion, the most powerful fulfilment is finding someone who makes yo… | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 06:09 PM |
| 1 | 2 years and 276 days of going out and I still have not approached a single girl. Please help.You're clearly looking for approaches in the wrong environment. A lot of people fall into the trap of being pressured to make approaches while at clubs or bars. Perhaps the problem is the venue. You've clearly got some anxiety issues which is probably holding you back from making approach. I'd suggest a change of venue. Figure out where you feel comfortable talking to people and the rest should flow naturally. Find a public place where there are lots of potential girls; be it campus, the library… | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 05:49 PM |
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