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You need to get off the Internet. See a therapist maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:33 AM
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Like I said, the girls i kno fuck guys that are at the least respectful to them. They don't fuck assholes...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:13 AM
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I dont know any woman personally that is attracted to an asshole. They are however attracted to respectful men with whom they share a chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:04 PM
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People in general are engaging in relationships a whole lot less. Its really not an exclusively guy issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:09 AM
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I think you need to log off for a little because this seems like a fringe Internet view ....i dont think people are just walking around lamenting that its hard to find a partner, as much as people do here. I can assure you that plenty of average looking guys are finding women, i see it all the time. Also studies show that everyone, male and female, are engaging in ltr less than before. Its not an exclusively male or female issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:58 PM
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Immean, why does it need to be acknowledged? Just because women have it easier doesn't mean that finding a suitable female partner is necessarily hard or overly complicated for guys. And theres plenty of women that struggle with finding relationships and or sex partners. Just because something might be generally true doesnt make it true for everyone. This all sounds like imaginary problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:27 PM
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Ok, so so women have easier. Whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:10 PM
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So what does this mean exactly? Women are horrible creatures because they have easier access to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:31 AM
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I don't think this is really a "revolution". Men arent revolting against a system imposed on them that created obstacles from being them achieving their best in life. Deciding to forego traditional relationships is a trend observed in both males and females.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:56 PM
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Fair enough. Do you want to have sex with a lot of women? Or would you if you could?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:58 AM
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Fair enough. but that didnt answer my question. What r u thoughts on men/women with high body counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:45 PM
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I can understand not wanting your potential sex partner to be someone with a very publicly available sex history, but your sentiment implies someone like this doesn't deserve any kind of romance. Are you saying this? Furthermore, what's your opinion on men with lots of sex partners and women with lots of sex partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:45 PM
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Most guys here apply their microcosm of experiences to women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:08 PM
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A quick glimpse at reality proves OP wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:04 PM
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Lol. These subreddits exist because some men (and women) have bad experiences and/or spend all their time on social media and think suddenly that every man and woman are all the same. Groups of people with extreme thinking tend to poop together on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:04 PM
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Good god this sub lol. I swear you guys here are living in an alternate reality, or simply have just never interacted with a woman, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:13 PM
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Either way, you cant prove what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:13 AM
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Prove it. Thats never been my experience, nor my friends, nor family. You said yourself you literally only dated one person. So what's the deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:12 AM
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OP, once again you're proving that you likely have little to no real world experience in dating and relationships. In actuality there are plenty of relationships where the man and woman give equally, love each other, enjoy each other's company, and so on. Not every relationship is "transactional", even if some are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:09 AM
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Unfortunately, this sub is ruled by guys who arent too well adjusted with real life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:00 PM
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Someone on fresh and fit must of said it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:58 PM
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This sub sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:57 PM
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You claim you're not a big social media person yet you use all encompassing terms like "most" women, a common sentiment of guys on this sub, guys that are very clearly addicted to social media and stuck in their bubbles of women hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:44 PM
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Either you only go after a very specific type of woman or you do in fact spend all your time on social medua because everything you're saying is so far from reality it calls into question whether you're actually serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:29 PM
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Jesus christ. You need to step outside man, get some fresh air. Step away from social media for a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:01 PM
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My mans you need to step off the internet, off social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:22 AM
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No lol. Men being on social media so much is why you places like this sub even exists. Yall cant even differentiate between reality anymore amd think everything you see on social media is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:25 PM
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Do you all get all your opinions from social media? Every single post here is a huge generalization of women based kn a video on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:47 PM
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Lol. Woops.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:41 PM
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Lol. While you make up facts plenty of "average" men are having casual sex just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:34 PM
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You're living in a cave if you think women don't have casual sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:32 PM
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.....Says some random ass redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:04 AM
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While it may be true that people in general are having less sex/lonelier, its wildly exaggerated here on reddit. I'm very convinced that most people in this sub are chronically online and get all their opinions from influencers. Almost every post I see here is someone crying about something that is in reality no where near as bad. There are plenty of men varying in levels of attractiveness engaging in relationships and having satisfying sex lives. These are the same guys that view all women as g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:12 PM
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Good god lol. I really wonder where yall are getting this from. Men and women are having casual sex just fine; maybe you're referring to the chronically online men who spend me time or onlyfans than in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:26 AM
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Lol okay buddy, keep believing that. Nevermind the fact that historically women were legally barred from careers that enabled them to develop their own wealth, nevermind the fact that it wasn't until very recently in the western world that women could even own their bank account. Nevermind that in many parts of the world women still don't have half same rights as their male counterparts. But yeah, women are "more influenced by social engineering than men are".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:36 AM
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Another weird and one dimensional take on purple pill debate by someone who either hates women or has no experience with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:00 PM
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OP, how old r u, seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:23 PM
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You're post literally says because many women don't want to go 50/50 therefore most women don't care about men lol. You just made the most ridiculous generalization and cant seem to fathom the real life is way different because many, many women don't mind 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:05 PM
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Lol, your reasoning is weird. I said I never met any women that had an issue going 50/50, but also understand there are some that exist. You're the one generalizing like every single woman out there doesnt want to go 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:02 PM
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That or OP just watches youtube videos with guys selectively interviewing women who think this way and forming their opinion based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:09 AM
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I have never met a single woman that had any issue with going 50/50. On top of that, plenty of women I've met always wanted to pay for me like a spoiled child. My dude, either you get your opinions from watching videos on YouTube or you're just really young. Because none of this is the ultimate reality you're proposing. Sure there's women out there that were raised to think its a man's job to pay for everything, but there's also men out there that abuse women and see them as below them. Does tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:08 AM
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This whole sub is "internet opinions that dont reflect reality".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:25 AM
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the disconnect is in you getting your generalizations about people from videos off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:54 AM
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Yall are weird. I dont get with a woman out some gamified sense of a relationship. I get with her because we share similar interests, hobbies, and life goals. And of course attraction. Most relationship do this. Companionship is literally why people get together. Humans have an innate need to have companions, its apart of our survival instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:32 AM
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At this point I relegate most of these assertions to "internet opinions which dont reflect reality" because what I actually see in reality is totally the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:11 AM
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how exactly was I proven wrong lol? It is possible for people to get sucked into abusive relationships regardless of sex; the OP literally says "women are 100% repelled..." and I'm literally saying that's a horrible generalization; I know plenty that are absolutely repelled by asshole men and not kind men, so that directly disproves that women are "100%" repelled by kind men sentiment. You're the one arguing in bad faith when your not even looking at what was said. Like I said -- only in the min…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:38 AM
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Ive seen men do the same shit; another post here echoed the same sentimen -- yall are too quick to attach generalizations to women that are just as applicable to men. This isnt a woman issue its a human problem. Ive seem dudes go back to abusive relationships(physical, psychological, emotional) plenty times. I wish y'all would stop with the hard fucking facts and live in reality for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:09 AM
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Except no woman i kno personally or dated acted this way, and none in my greater social circles either. This is just some bullshit that's only true in the minds of redditors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:57 PM
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Source: andrew tate said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:02 PM
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This has got to be a bot post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:30 AM
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Like I said -- in my personal experience, women in their 30s aren't running around complaining about men going for 20s women; they are getting partners just fine. I think all this purple pill shit is just really overblown. But thats how the Internet and social media works, make small issues seem big.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:17 PM
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Sure some do. But most people usually date within their age range. So most 30+ year old women arent struggling to date anymore than their 20s counterparts. Why focus on the small percentage of men who date much younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:26 AM
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Why would they b jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:28 PM
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I swear this sub -- either it all RP bots or some people really just spending 99% of their time glued to what some youtuber tells them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:02 PM
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yet I myself don't personally know any that feel that way; in fact they don't want to be "taken care of" at all. This online propaganda has gotten a lot of yall stuck on hard truths that aren't true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:00 PM
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Theres a bunch of men out there looking for a mother figure too. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:20 AM
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I think most people just want someone who has the qualities of a good friend; trustworthy, respectful, fun to be around, and whom you can be comfortable around. All the other stuff is just over exaggerated propaganda you hear on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:58 AM
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Very true (very familiar with latin culture lol). Like I said, it is changing, albeit less so in certain places of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:35 PM
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Says who, you? Like I said, no one I kno personally as well my greater social circles has the experience you're talking about. Things are changing, and continuing to change. Relationships across the bar are moving away from traditional mindsets, this is literally a hot topic right now. And I'm all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:11 PM
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Isn't the norm, says who? I dont know any guy personally who didn't have the same experience. The things you're saying to me are pretty foreign to me from a personal experience perspective. Shared interests -- likes, dislikes, life goals (filmmaking), outlooks on life, political views, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:25 PM
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I don't even know what you mean by "prove yourself anymore". I already told you my relationships came about from shared interests and attraction, and my partners often paid bills or had no issue splitting. So idk what you're actually getting at anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:08 PM
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Wow! Some actual sense in this sub. Thank you; these andrew tate/Kevin samuels/etc. dudes out here propagating the idea that a woman who seeks to pursue her life goals, have financial independence, is the breakdown of society! I literally once heard Kevin Samuels admonish a woman who said that she wanted to be financially stable and wait to have kids. He beat her down about it. Fucking stupid. I never understood wanting your wife to be a house slave and acting like this is the true and best way …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:21 AM
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Mmmm, not exactly. I'm American, yet all my relationships the women offered to pay the bill and had no issue splitting the bill. Immean, there are def women like the way you describe but really it is a more an online trend than an actual widespread thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:15 AM
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Literally every woman I dated wanted to pay for the bills and also never had any issue with splitting the payment. Don't believe everything you hear online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:10 AM
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Copy, cuz my experience with genZ women is different. I guess everyone is different then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:08 AM
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I think you're thinking of it too red pilly. All my relationships started based on shared interests and attraction to one another. The relationship aspect came naturally. There was "no winning over", I didn't have to prove myself a worthy partner, at least not in the way your suggesting. What do you mean things are changing for the worse? If anything, the breakdown of traditional attitudes on relationships is actually helping society, not hurting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:07 AM
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I think its funny that the andrew tate influencer types fail to mention this; the whole idea of men as the sole provider is so laughable uneconomical. I remember watching a kevin samuels clip where he literally asked a woman, in a somewhat admonishing manner, why she was earning a high income and not letting her partner handle the income making. Like, does it sound economically sound for one person to make all the money, instead of both. Its so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:03 AM
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Yeah, I'm starting to feel the same way. It just all feels like an Internet trend; much of what I see in reality is most people dropping traditional attitudes about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:57 AM
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So this has been your experience throughout life? Or just something you heard an influencer claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:54 AM
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No woman i ever dated expected me to pay for dates and "win them over". Everything was mutual and often they went out of their way to pay for dates and such. i get what you're talking about is still a thing but its not exactly like it used to be. Things are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:53 AM
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And my point is that plenty of people are having babies. There is no actual crisis here and we don't need to be out here denigrating people for choosing not to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:10 PM
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But people are reproducing all the time so I don't really understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:47 PM
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So the thousands of relationships out there that don't have children are meaningless? Meaningless to who you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:23 PM
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Literally a bunch of them. But why they all need to start families?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:24 AM
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Most guys i kno in real life also arent having issues with finding hookups and ltr. The whole passport bros is kust another cog in the Internet machine designed to make a miniscule thing seem way bigger than it really is. I dont pay it any mind (im not on the Internet 24/7).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:25 AM
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Yes, charismatic, smart and put up a facade of being a decent and respectful human being until they're not. And in my personal circles none of the "bad boys" have the most girls and exes. Its just varies more than everyone here wants to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:53 AM
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Serial killers attract women more than your average man? Yeah, no. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:30 AM
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Lol. Warlords had a tendency to force women into their personal harems; for many women it was a survival mechanism not because they enjoyed it, but because the alternative could of been death. In an alternate world where women historically had fairer chances i heavily doubt they'd be head over heels for vile men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:57 AM
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Personally, I dont know any woman like that. I guess cuz im all around a respectful person the women I attracted were respectful people who value being treated with respect and kindness. I'd prefer to attract people that are like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:55 AM
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Yeah no. Ive never seen women struggle to find dating partners just because they were over 30. Doesnt happen. Plus, most people date others in the same age range. The truth is men will pursue women and being in your 20s isnt the secret t9 getting male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:13 PM
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The whole idea that women after 30 arent desirable is a myth made up by giys on the Internet. In real life being over 30 has never been a deal breaker for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:29 PM
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A lot of guys here are highly influenced by youtube dating gurus and pretty much base their opinions solely around what these guys say. Most of them fail to realize that these gurus exaggerate their claims and also rely on viewers not being insightful enough to look to deep into their claims. Half of anything these guys say are directly contradicted by real life experiences. But they perfected the art of influence so well that they've fostered a collective anger amongst their viewers over imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:23 PM
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I said once we got together, we alternated. Which means sometimes I paid, sometimes they did. It was never a big deal and no pressure to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:58 PM
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Personally i dont know any woman that thinks this way. I live in a big city. Every woman I've encountered as a potential dating partner paid for my dinner and then once we got together we just alternated. Was never a big deal. I don't think its rational to assume every woman think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:07 AM
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There are in fact plenty of men who absolutely love fat girls, myself included. Please don't let a few opinions on the internet influence your overall perspective. Plenty of dudes like big women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:32 AM
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These guys are so far down the rabbit hole of self loathing behavior that they have to convince themselves that an average looking guy paired with a woman who is more attractive to him (according to their metric of attraction), must be in a secretly unhappy relationship. Despite the overwhelming amount of couples consisting of individuals with varied levels of attractiveness, these guys have already determined that relationships can only go 1 or 2 ways, and everything else is an exception. I swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:26 PM
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Social media and all the ways it disconnects us socially. Hence all the guys hear complaining about women based entirely on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:21 PM
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Nah we have to assume their doing bad or else these guys won't be able to support their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:16 PM
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These guy's ideas of observation is checking their insta pages 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:16 PM
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The consensus here seems to be held by guys who spend most of their time on dating apps and social media. In the real world, you'll find people with different levels of attractiveness being in relationships and getting along just fine. Last time i checked, every couple walking down the street didnt consist entirely of a traditionally attractive women and a guy who has superior athletic form, worth millions and is 6'5" or more. Just because some women go for male celebrities doesnt everyome does.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:14 PM
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Good god i swear this sub. This is the most ridiculous incel shit Ive heard. Seriously. Everything you're saying doesnt match reality, at all. Get out of social media and live a little. Average looking people are getting along just fine. I swear the Internet turns non issues into big problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:29 AM
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The guys here are delusional and sex starved to the point they dont have a basic notion of social ability because every woman is just an object to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:32 PM
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These guys literally only see women as sex objects, devoid of any intelligence or personality. They're so desperate to have sex that to them a woman is just a thing they need to fuck. I find it funny how these guys will complain about how women suck and then you find they have these opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:31 PM
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These guys only see women as sexual objects, devoid of any personality, intelligence. They have no concept of a woman as an actual human being. Thankfully, their fictional notion of women is completely inaccurate to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:26 PM
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Lots of dudes would rather propagate a false persona just to pick up a chick. Nah I'm good. Takes too much work. I'd rather be me and get people who are like minded. In the long run you have way more piece of mind and you learn to accept that not every good looking woman is compatible with you. And that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:19 PM
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Yall r seriously the saddest bunch. "Women want to be sexualized" one user said. Yall are exactly the type to think yall know what women want (never mind you treat them all as a monolith) and then when you find women that dont fit in with your expectations you self destruct and then in turn hate all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:15 PM
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No, it doesnt lol. Ive seen plenty of women in their 30s and 40z, and 50s, get into relationships no problem. Idk what the obsession with age in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:39 PM
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Perhaps Massimo is an attractive guy? One doesn't have to have "Dark traid" traits to be attractive lol. In that same vein, there's plenty of women who don't consider him immensely attractive. I'm not sure how any of that proves anything. The idea that marrying your rapist back then was the only viable solution is straight bullshit. Aboslutely nothing about that could stop a guy from doing all over again. You really think that curb rape lol? But beyond that, how is owning slaves "a solution"? Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:38 PM
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The fact that some women do it with some men doesn't mean the majority do it. Again, you need more proof than "just trust me bro, I've seen chicks do it with athletes". Like I said, that hasn't been my experience at all dude. It honestly sounds more like you want it to be true, so you awash yourself with red pill ideologies because it confirms you're worldview. And when that worldview is challenged you default to "but majority women do it". And as for the bible, I'm talking about what the bible …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:54 AM
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And how many of them are not? You have no metric to even determine any of this is true; you're going purely off of anecdotal evidence, mixed with shit you hear on the Internet. Just because some women do it with some men, doesnt mean all women do it. That's not at all how you make these kind of determinations. My experience is totally the opposite. And as for the bible. It was written by men who also believed that women were 2nd class citizens, worth less than men, should cover their heads in ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:58 AM
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Youve seen this in all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:37 AM
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Heh? The amount of guys I kno in long term relationships that dont have any of these dark triad traits makes your thesis null. I'm sorry but this whole post sounds like the ramblings of someone who has spent more time talking with people online than in real life. Some women are drawn to evil men, sure. At the same time a whole would absolutely not be drawn to someone like Ted Bundy. Its weird that because some women liked the guy your whole worldview is that all women like guys to be a little ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:35 AM
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pretty sure all people are easily influenced by trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:33 AM
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People are getting lonelier. Its not a guy specific problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:15 PM
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This is a crock of bullshit lol. Yall ppd dudes are so weird; you speak like someone who zero experience with a woman. i kno average looking dudes that get casual sex, have decent sex lives, and arent complaining about women. This sub is devolving into an incel sub, and that is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:26 PM
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Where exactly do you hear this from? I'm gonna be frank, I'm a guy too, and haven't heard any of what you're saying to the level you say it, anywhere else except online, especially here. But I don't spend all my time here, and my experience in real life isn't anything like what you are saying. Me, my friends, their friends, and so on are getting on just fine and none of them feel like they are being denigrated as men by women. So again, I ask, who exactly is telling you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:34 PM
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Can you explain exactly how "feminist badgering" has affected your life? Are you saying you have trouble being able to be happy because of feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:19 PM
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Unfortunately, the effects have already taken over. So many guys on here are convinced that women are everything thats wrong with society, because of stuff they see on Instagram, YouTube, etc. You got the Andrew Tate zealots, red pillers, mgtow and so on. Social media has become too deep seeded in the zeitgeist of young people, and their opinions have become too influenced by bad actors, dishonest gurus and so on. People take everything they hear on socials as gospel at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:16 PM
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I swear to god this sub....what the fuck are yall on. Women are just horrible human beings for simply being women huh? Yall spend more time being annoyed at imaginary problems then on stuff that truly matters in your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:04 PM
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These guys wish women would fuck them just because they want it. Theyre mad they can't get easy sex and somehow now blaming all of society's issues on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:20 PM
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Like yo wtf is wrong with dudes here. Out here proud of something they apparently hate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:14 PM
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So men fuck over other men. Why is everyone here pissed at women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:11 PM
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Honest question -- is purple pill just about dudes complaining about 100 social issues and blaming them all on women? Why is every post basically this? Is purple pill even real at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:11 PM
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Dudes out here acting like men are better than women for doing something they were basically forced to do and would choose otherwise if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:24 PM
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What does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:09 AM
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You do realize that women weren't legally allowed to be in war right? Take a wild guess who made those laws...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:36 AM
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Men commit more crime globally than women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:34 AM
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Historically women werent even allowed to participate in war. These are all man made rules lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:33 AM
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Lol wut....these are wars made by men, wars women weren't allowed to fight in. Women couldn't vote, had more limitations on their access to jobs, got lower pay than men, were expected to be baby incubators evem when they didnt want to.....what the hell r u on about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:32 AM
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Ive never heard a girl say its toxic to be insecure lol. Ok sure the chick you spoke to said it, but honestly is she a good representation of all women? Again, i know plenty of girls that dont think that way. But, to your point, im gonna say what a lot of yall dont want to hear -- all these issues you guys claim to be major problems of society are in actuality the result of the patriarchy working against itself. Men created societies that valued their own strength and valued women as lower than,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:41 AM
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I'd argue it's a lot more complicated than that. This is what feminists have been trying to explain to yall but you guys pass them as crazed psychos. Everything you're complaining about is in some way tied to the patriarchal nature of our society. I'm not gonna go into detail because its too late but the point is, is that all of their issues are tied to how men created a society that values women and their independence lower than mens. Men developed laws and social paradigms that forced women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:12 AM
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Someone must of hurt you bad my mans because this is too far from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:53 PM
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Jesus these threads never cease to amaze me. Seriously i feel most guys here complain online than actually just going out and living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:48 AM
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Sigh. This is everything that's wrong with this whole internet generation. Y'all listen to more shows that give you such a limited view of things instead of just going out and living life and experiencing things for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:49 PM
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So what you're telling me is that you let an internet show dictate what all women think? FnF of all shows?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:42 PM
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My mans you are seriously lost. How old are you? If this is how you go bout life idk. Ive enjoyed many relationships with women who are smart, financially stable, caring and never once had any of the issues yall talk about. You guys need to hop of the socials and live a little more because this shit has got yall seriously ducked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:39 PM
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I havent seen that. All the woman ive courted or observed are the complete opposite of how they're portrayed here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:11 PM
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Curious, how many women have you dated or attempted to date? What were they like? Because every woman i dated didnt care about money, status, game. We were found each other attractive, had similar tastes and outlooks on life, and that drew us together. Is that not your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:07 PM
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I feel like this whole sub is men making posts about what women want, women telling them they're wrong, and men telling women theyre wrong and they know women better than women know themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:06 PM
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Seriously. Im convinced most of the arguments and complaints that I see on this sub come from guys who's only concept of women and dating is from the internet. Like, none of these dudes have any actual real world experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:54 PM
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Are you really asking how do people find relationships outside of the internet? Like this is an honest question? Can you not fathom the idea that people actually can form a relationships without needing a dating app? You realize most relationships are formed outside of the internet, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:49 PM
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Makeup has been a staple element of the american (and other countries) beauty/fashion paradigm for literally centuries lol. Things like that are so deep threaded that they become social norms, because thats how social norms work. Look around you, almost everything makeup related is tailored to women. The idea of wearing makeup is reinforced in our society. I'd say that being a male centric society, aka a "patriarchal" society, has something to do with it, but a bunch of dudes on here get trigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:28 AM
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The guys in this thread are hopeless. Purple pill is one giant echo chamber at this point. Clearly to most of yall women only like status and power and anything else just doesnt factor into them at all. Women cant be in love with an average joe, she must be only attracted to tall "chads" who make at least 6 figures. Women are a monolith of the same traits and desires in men according to yall. I think another angle to take OPs point is that the Internet has given power to this kind of fringe thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:54 PM
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This whole thread is a bunch of dudes echoing the same one dimensional viewpoints. Yall minds would be absolutely blown away if you actually saw how varied and multifaceted women's tastes are in the real world. The fact that you guys can only look toward surveys makes me feel like most of yall have no actually had any real experience with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:03 PM
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This all sounds like incel speak tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:29 AM
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Seriously im convinced this sub has been taken over by incels
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:20 PM
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I swear these posts come off like theyre written by 15 year olds. "Do women just not like men?". Like what? Where the hell do you get that from? Just because women aren't jumping to fuck every guy doesnt meet doesnt mean women dont like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:26 AM
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Can you give me an example of men's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:46 PM
0

Online dating trends dont any way represent the majority of women lol, not by a long shot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:35 AM
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I swear ppd is full of dudes declaring to know exactly what women want but never providing an solid proof
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:23 AM
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Who the hell told you this? I swear the things on this sub I see. The weirdest statements I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:12 PM
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Where r u getting that women desire richer men? I know no women like that and all of them are highly successful in their fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:55 PM
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Sigh. At one point in time womens options were limited, and more or less didnt have a choice. Notice how in modern times we see women becoming more educated than b4 and as result, women are having less kids and arent getting married as young as they use to. Women didnt prefer being in a harem lol. Historically women were denied the same job and education opportunities as men. That plays a big factor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:48 PM
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This is all just CMV material. You havent provided amy evidence. And frankly, its bullshit. Furthermore, women preferred being property? Lol seriously? How about at one point in time they have no choice because they were seen as lesser than men? I swear these posts, its literally the same thing. Women suck, only wants chads, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:42 PM
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Good god these posts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:06 AM
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Lol wut speak 4 yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:51 PM
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Wtf does this have to do with pussy pass denied? Oh thats right, nothing....
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/23 03:48 PM
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Seriously, I swear this post reads like a guy who doesnt get out much or doesnt really want female friends, just friends he can fuck. Out in the real world males and females arent having trouble being friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:14 PM
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The post makes you sound like you dont get out much OP. Outside of reddit males and females are becoming friends rather easily. I swear purple pill is this weird bubble where people exaggerate a whole bunch of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:12 PM
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Lots of dudes here cant accept this. They talk all day about how the natural order of this and that, then when you tell them that statistically men are a big threat to women, they shout and complain and act like its sexist. Sorry bros, but a man is more likely to commit a crime, especially a sexual one, against a woman than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:10 AM
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Lol. Women having independence is clearly a giant conspiracy right? Yall are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:09 AM
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Its really hilarious to see all these guys essentially arguing that women are pointless without a man at her side. These guys are really afraid of the idea of woman that is independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:08 AM
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Yet men are getting into relationships with women all the time. Im sorry but this sub has gotten a lot of yall stuck in some weird hate fantasy. The problem is y'all are too sensitive to rejection. The moment you accept that no one owes you their affection, is the moment all this purple pill bs goes out the window. Yall have literally no clue what just being yourself and not being perturbed by the idea that not every woman will want you will do for your self confidence. But of course you guys ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:59 PM
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You guys have no concept of a real, loving relationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:01 AM
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Lol, your a troll.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/23 11:11 AM
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lol, how do i sound like an andrew tate fan when the man is notorious for denigrating women....
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/23 03:05 AM
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A bunch of shit posted here isnt but lets face it this sub isnt truly about pussypassdenied its about finding every chance to denigrate women
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/23 11:46 PM
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It doesnt matter on this sub. Its just about denigrating women no matter what, even when it doesnt even apply to the sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/23 11:36 PM
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Idk why dudes here have this weird obsession with women in their 30s. Despite the fact that most women in their 30s have no problem getting partners, both short term and long term, dudes here are convinced that any women beyond 30 is no longer dating material in the eyes of a man and that is so far from the truth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:27 PM
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I legit dont know any woman given a pass to be lazy and entitled. These are like .0001 percent of women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:59 PM
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My god this sub. Did all the dudes from r/incel come to here or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:47 PM
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Ive seen it plenty of times. You aren't the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:45 AM
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Heys Mods, i think y'all need to change the name and description of this sub. Literally every post is just men complaining incessantly about women while acting as if men do no wrong. Why is this still "purplepilldebate"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:23 PM
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So like, is purple pill basically just a female hate sub at this point? Literally every thread I read consists of dudes complaining nonstop about how women are whats wrong with everything in society, and somehow conveniently men are the true victims. Like wth lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:14 PM
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Most dudes on here appear to be red pillers who have absolutely no idea how relationships and women work. So not surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:01 AM
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And you know this for sure lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:58 AM
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Lol. Its just no winning with yall. Women only want one kind of man, and even when they say thats not true "they don't all admit it". Ok my mans, you keep thinking that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:35 PM
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No woman as ones who want their men taller, bigger, make more money....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:15 PM
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I couldnt agree with that. Like I said, most women I know are fully independent and aren't looking for a man to be all those things. Like literally they want an actual emotional/physical companion. Like I said I literally kno no woman who thinks like that. I feel like the opinion that they want all those things comes from guys who spend all their time on tiktok/Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:43 PM
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Lol....or maybe not all women are actually like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:37 PM
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Lol i get it, admitting that your little shoebox of experience doesn't explain all women isnt a fun feeling. But its okay, keep working at it you'll fins rhe right woman :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:28 PM
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Yeah so it might be better not to make sweeping generalizations about what women what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:21 PM
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I literally dont know any woman that thinks that way, like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:18 PM
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Is it? How about the plenty of women that date men with with the same income, age, etc.? Is this really an issue, or just something people on reddit are saying is an issue? Most women and men statistically date within their economic level, what r u talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:57 PM
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Where the hell do you guys come up with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:55 AM
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Statistically speaking most people marry/enter relationships within their age range so nah whoever told you must of been on reddit for too long lol. Sure plenty men love 20 year olds but its not like every dude is sitting over here craving a woman in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:19 AM
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I misspoke a bit. Of course its not outrageous to expect your partner to cook/clean, what I mean is that there are guys who want their partner to exclusively cook, clean while not requiring it of themselves (my dad for example). This is just one example of course but the point you get people with outrageous demands on both sides; thats just the nature of people. Theres no reason to think this is an exclusively woman issue nor any reason to think its even an issue at all. Theres plenty of women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:18 PM
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Nope. Every dating situation I was in my date insisted on paying I kid you not. it ended up being where sometimes I paid, sometimes they paid. But we never made a fuss. And never did they ever demand I invest money in them or else I couldn't get sex. That is the dumbest, stupidest thing I ever heard. Literally never had that issue and no male friend of mine ever had that either. Sure, theres some women out there like that, but are those really the women you want to invest your time into? And you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:05 AM
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Sure some women do. None in my experience have. Literally every woman I either dated or had flings with ever "dangled" sex. They were up front, to the point and we had a good time. Maybe you should stop generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:48 AM
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And plenty don't. Why is it worth making discussions about if its generally known theres variation among every group?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:52 PM
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How many women do that tho? No woman in my experiences dangled sex in front of me as they're trying to play games with me. Why yall acting like every woman does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:44 PM
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Honestly, like seriously, most dudes here know nothing about women. Their concept of women is a caricature derived from the internet/YouTube/etc. Tell anyone of these guys that not all, or even most women are hypergamous gold diggers who dont care about their own orgasm, and they'll lash out like you physically hurt them. These have this hilarious line of thinking -- women dont want as much sex as men do, therefore women dont desire orgasm as much as men because women are the gatekeepers to sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:34 PM
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Or maybe men just suck as pleasing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:27 PM
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Most guys here are oblivious to this fact, hence the comments blaming women for it. These guys are so oblivious to their own anti-women biases that they actually they sound smart when they both complain about women and act as if women are below them. Dudes arent living in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:25 PM
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But this is purple pill, not twoxchromosomes. We are talking about issues on this sub, not TwoX.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:24 PM
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Lol. Get the hell off tinder. Thats already your first mistake. The problem is people like yourself are so adamant being in a relationship you seek out the wrong avenues to find meaningful relationships, attracting the wrong people in the process. I'm not sure why yall feel so pressured to be in a relationship, when many of you have your whole lives to develop yourselves and figure out who the best mate is for you. All these problems you claim are really just issues for guys who dont realize tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:20 PM
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Yes your right, its incredibly flawed and childish if your only concept of women and relationships comes from social media. In the real world, where it matters, its true as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:13 PM
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Hell yeah. If you honestly don't think so then I don't know what to tell you. I see plenty of guys engage in life long relationships with great women, all the time. You're either stuck on social media or really not trying hard enough if you think this is some kind of distant fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:12 PM
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Ok, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:43 PM
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Literally every woman ive been with except one insisted on paying on the 1st date. Honestly men propagate the "men pay first" stereotype more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:28 AM
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Oh boy, be prepared for thousands of downvotes and people telling you you're a troll. Seriously, I swear most dudes here live in a weird dystopian fantasy where only men with tip top genetics and washboard abs, and oh yeah at least a million in their bank account can get the "best" women. Must really suck to live in your head so badly that it prevents you obtain normal/healthy relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:16 AM
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Humans are sexual animals. We all to some degree desire multiple sex partners for most of our lives, hence why in my opinion most people cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:12 AM
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Here's an even deeper one for you -- how about masculine and feminine dont even exist? But are just artificial constructs we create to describe males and females? Things just exist, and we give them labels. Males are males, females are females, there is no masculine or feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:10 AM
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Or idk maybe, because women actually like sex? Is that a wild concept to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:08 AM
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Lol. This whole fucking sub is a monolith. Constantly complaining about women and all these imaginary problems. Just because you may have had difficulties doesnt mean getting a woman is difficult. This entire sub likes to act like their specific problems applies to the majority. Every fucking thread the same fucking complaints. Someone like myself comes and says "not all women are like that" and yall go absolutely nuts. There's a pretty valid reason to why lots of people think many of the dudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:04 AM
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Lol seems to strike a nerve with yall whenever someone suggests that women arent as bad as yall like to make them. I dont get my opinions and perspectives from dudes online. If you actually have experience with women in real life you'll find what I'm saying is true. Women come in a mixed bag like men do; finding someone who is on your wavelength isnt easy but its also not as hard as you guys make it. I've been with different types of women and most have never fit into the mold you all have creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:58 AM
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Pretty every opinion i see on here ive never actually seen in the real world. Women are varied and finding a respectful, fun and awesome woman is much easier than these dudes like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:06 AM
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To your last point -- the problem is these guys are getting their information/advice from YouTube red pillers (like Kevin Samuels) who only reinforce their ridiculous ideas for money. And because they lack the sensibilities to properly discern good information, they end up worse. Like you said, they lack a sensible figure to impart good knowledge so they get it from toxic people on YouTube
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:16 PM
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You have lived a very short life if you think any of this represents the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:57 PM
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How is this pussy pass denied? Yall happy cuz womens racing is barely watched by people? Goddam I swear this sub....pretends to be a fair/equal rights sub but praises any situation where women are demeaned. Yall need to do hetter if you dont want people thinking you're not just a womans hate sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/22 04:27 PM
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No argument there friend. Its very very complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:05 PM
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Its no different from theocratic countries with religions that make women 2nd class citizens.....those same women reinforce those paradigms in different ways..... because thats the world they grow up in. You talk as if desiring toxic masculinity is just inborn and not a product of living in a social paradigm where said toxic masculinity is considered attractive, better. Nurture is a powerful thing my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:53 PM
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I know more women who prefer to do the "handy work" themselves than let their partners do it. So again, stop generalizing. Stop assuming your experience is the majority experience. Edit: you gotta love how im getting downvoted because a punch of dudes hate that someone else has an experience that does confirm their ignorant worldviews
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:23 AM
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I have never a woman that thought like this. Maybe consider your environment and dont generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:25 AM
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Plenty of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:03 AM
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Except these arent general tendencies and purple/red pill represents a caricature of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:33 PM
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OP proving he lives inside of a bubble of his own experience and thinks it's everyone's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:01 AM
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Lol. You used one example and try to make a general statement about all women. This sub, like, jesus. R yall living in bizarro land or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:46 PM
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You dont know who he is and why people are talking about him -- what was the purpose of replying then? Clearly his rent is significant because him lying about it demonstrates the fake persona he created and used to gain an army of followers. Him misrepresenting his income/rent/etc. is how he played up the lie of his status.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 12:00 PM
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Just scrolling through this thread I'm really glad most of these ideas are (seemingly) confined to internet groups; everyone here sounds so miserable. Yall really just sound you hate the fact that women aren't subservient housewives. Lots of imaginary problems here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:10 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:09 PM
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OP spends all his time on the internet, hence the weird post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:17 PM
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Humans by nature are emotional animals. Lots of dudes forget that anger is an emotion too lol. This post is ridiculous amd ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:16 PM
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Yeah because in my personal experience ive never met a dude who wanted their partner to be a virgin. Its so strange to me, hence why it makes more sense as a mindset among certain religious groups and online communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:16 AM
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This is why i cant take much of the posts here seriously. I don't know any guy that prefers a virgin partner. Like literally none.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:12 AM
1

This is exactly why none of the shit spoken on here isnt taken seriously.....none of this reflects reality in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:21 AM
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Question -- how is this pussypassdenied? Did they use being women as am excuse?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/22 02:29 AM
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Immean im calling out hypocrisy. Key to making things better in a sub is not being afraid to identify ones problems and self improve, instead of saying things "yeah we're not as bad as those other subs tho!". Keep thinking that way, and that's exactly how subs like these become hate subs without realizing and then fall into am abyss of denial. Best to catch it now before it gets too deep.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/22 11:13 PM
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Literally the last few posts ive seen werent pussypassdenied in the least and most of the guys responding loved it. this sub most definitely has an incel problem and like every other man or woman hate sub it gets viciously denied
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/22 10:59 PM
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Literally the last few posts ive seen had nothing to do with pussypassdenied and was literally just women being hurt for no good reason. And dudes here loved it. Yeah, the guys here like to pretend that this sub is solely about one thing but you can easily find posts that dont fit the sub's premise and dudes loving it. Unfortunately this sub falls to the same pitfalls as fds, rp, etc. Claims to be one thing but then reading through the forum it says otherwise. And of course they'll deny it and c…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/22 10:49 PM
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Reading this entire thread has lead me to only one conclusion. Most dudes on here don't live in reality. Majority of the issues are non existent save for a small niche group of men. Red pill ers claim true red pill is self improvement and not making women the focal point of their lives yet all they talk about is women this, women that. I realize that much of the issues spoken about here belong to a small but vocal group of internet users whose use their particular life experiences to make genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:27 PM
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Nope. More proof this sub just wants to see any bad news as long as it involves a woman even if it doesn't fit the sub's point.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/22 10:02 PM
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How is this pussy pass denied tho? Was she trying to use her being a woman as an excuse to be shitty or escape punishment? Yall literally proving my point that some dudes here just like seeing any negative news if its involves a woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/22 10:01 PM
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More proof alot of dudes here just want to revel in seeing bad things happen to women. This isnt pussypassdenied because she doesn't try use her pussy to escape punishment. These guys just hate women.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/22 10:46 AM
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a whole bunch of people struggle with dating -- men and women. But at the same time the stuff said on here and the RP talking points really aren't as widespread as they're claimed to be. Being able to obtain a healthy, mutually beneficially relationship is not easy, because dating takes time, but its something many do without a massive struggle, but many guys make it seem as if everyone woman is out for blood and only want one thing from a guy. It's just not very reflective of real life dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:58 AM
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Most of the guys on this sub subscribe to red pill because they lack basic social skills that most people in the real world have. And because they are so far removed from the real world, anytime someone says something that is contrary to their understanding of dating, they pass it off as "not the norm". Normal people don't have the problems people on here have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:05 AM
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Lol dont you love how you can say that but literally half the talking points in this whole sub is thst women are a monolith hive mind who only want one thing from men? Do i detect a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:30 AM
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Men made the laws, decide what they should say. No way around that bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:42 AM
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These corny jokes ignore the fact that men made these rules lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:26 AM
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You should of said "its generally true for the women ive experienced", then saying that its generally true which implies you mean all or most women. Next time be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:48 PM
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In your experience, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:12 PM
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Eh, i know plenty of mature people that are 18-24.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:13 PM
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This entire does nothing but generalize all women and its ridiculous. These guys either have extremely limited experiences or base everything off a tinder experience lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:11 PM
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I argue all the time about this. These dudes keep throwing around these generalized statements and im like literally everything they say goes 100 percent against my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:54 PM
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I just responded the same. This sub indeed has this weird view of dating that doesn't at all reflect the real world. Its like every guy posting here take all their knowledge from internet forums and base their entire points on that. Or maybe they go to superficial places like tinder and base their opinions on tinder experiences. In the real world couples are getting along just fine; men and women are getting along just fine. The issues here really arent as widespread as they make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:36 PM
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The real world is vastly different from the internet world because what you're saying is simply not true, when applied to real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:32 PM
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No cuz this is the internet and based on how the post is worded is likely fake asf lol. Not good to use potentially bogus internet stories as some standard of experience.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:45 AM
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Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:31 AM
1

Nah. Not really. Not in the real world. In the real world people fuck like crazy, commit like crazy. People are lot more multifaceted and varied than these internet forums likes to admit. I just call it how I see ma dude; literally all the experiences here that get claimed to be usual for men and women, I see the exact opposite of. Like I said, in real life its a lot different.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:31 AM
1

Male dawg.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:26 AM
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Man get out here with that ole bs lol. I kno plenty of average dudes that get girls/sex easy. I swear this is that redpill/purple pill bs lol. Come on man, sure women have it a bit easier in the sex department but its really not as hard as yall make it to bed a woman. You don't need 6 figures, you dont need all the weird shit yall talk about. Seriously in the real world its not as hard.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:14 AM
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Explain, please.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:09 AM
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Tbfi dont its even real i cant imagine not wanting a woman just because she has had sex with lots of guys. The very fact that she goes out of her way tk name her body count in the very beginning just screams fake asf lol
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:06 AM
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Eh, just some random chick on the net man.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:02 AM
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Just dudes shaming women for having and enjoying sex. If it was a dude, they'd be cheering.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:00 AM
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Or, crazy thought, let people fuck who they want and not make a huge issue of it.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 01:59 AM
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Seriously i swear this subs sole purpose is to shame women 4 literally anything. Like this women has had sex with lots of men, ok? Why is that a problem? Would it be any different for a guy to have a high body count? Why are people shaming each other for who and how many people they fuck?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 01:58 AM
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Idk how many "average" girls youve met but this has never been my experience. Every girl Ive date only had reasonable expectations -- being respectful, considerate. We clicked, had fun. There was never any of the thing you are talking about. And that isn't the experience of my male acquaintances either. I think it isnt good you generalize all women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:58 PM
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wat women are you referring to here? I've seen women give men thousands of chances, and men the same. Why are you generalizing? Did you personally have a bad experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:39 AM
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again with the over generalizing. Literally the point I keep making. Stop thinking everyone u see on one platform is the majority. I continue to see "average" women with "average" men., very good looking women with "average" men, and so on. Your shoe box of experience isn't representative of the whole. Instead of being mad about what some women and men are doing, focus on what you want and go after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:47 AM
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This sub is nothing but dudes overgeneralizing women, fitting them into boxes of their own creation. Women will go for slender guys, obese guys, muscular guys, etc. Men will go for slender women, obese women, and muscular women. The variety paradigm of attraction is extremely understated in this sub. But in my opinion its all projection. most guys here really just like one type of woman, ignore the millions of men who like something different, and every single post/complaint is just focuses on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:00 AM
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The problem is that he's acting every woman is like this. There are unpleasant people on people sides, but to act like it is solely a woman problem is absolutely ridiculous. Furthermore, none of my experience in dating were anything like he says. They were enjoyable and my partners were great people. You and a lot of people keep making tjese generalizing statements but don't seem to realize that it doesnt accurately reflect everyone's experience.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:20 PM
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Men and women are human, and therefore are prone to unpleasant behavior. Not shocker there.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:13 PM
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Fuck yeah its pointless. The amount of things being said in the OP that doesnt at all match my experiences nor experiences of people I know puts a big needle in his whole talking point. Idk dudes here like to make these weird claims and pass them off facts when in reality there is some much variety in the dating world that their "why do most women have high standards" or "why are most women want chads" just comes off as ignorant and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:51 PM
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Idk why you guys make these posts as if they are the norm everywhere. How about just talk about with respect to your experience and now try to make it like its all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:00 AM
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Except standards arent binary. One can simply have "reasonable" standards. In the real world, thats a normal thing. But in OP and your fantasy world, these are only two options. Strengthening my point about purple pilled/rp not living in the real world. Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:18 PM
0

But immean you post implies that women have higher standards than men, how have you determined this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:13 PM
1

capitalism monetizing any and everything.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/22 07:57 PM
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immean, what women are you talking to that are demanding a lot from men? No women I've dated had high standards like you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:53 PM
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Its weird because me and my peers experiences are the complete opposite of what you're saying. I kno plenty of gorgeous women who arent searching for the 6'6" chad. I think that a lot of guys here spend too much time on social media and following trends to realize that the real dating world isn't actually like that. Its so weird to narrow down women's attraction to one archetype when literally that isnt how it goes in the real world. Thats why a lot of people here don't take it seriously; its li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:11 PM
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To lump all women in this is just ridiculous. Plenty, plenty of women are NOT like this. You are generalizing like every RPer and its stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:58 PM
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No deep down everyone is looking to be loved, appreciated and respected by someone. Unfortunately, humans are an eccentric jumble of good and bad experiences that fuck us in some way or another. As a result, we often times seek after our deep desires in poor and non conducive ways. We aren't perfect creatures and often times we do things to hurt ourselves than help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:17 PM
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Ok and give me evidence that hypergamy amongst human females is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:38 PM
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I think TRP has a very misguided understanding of women that doesnt reflect reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:11 PM
2

45+ given up on dating? The hell did you get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:37 PM
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Most guys here seem like they've never actually had a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:28 PM
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Pwned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:23 PM
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My friend you need to evaluate your life if you actually think this. Women don't take tons of effort to get and keep unless you have a shitty relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:21 PM
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Who told you that all women are hypergamous? How do you explain all the women who are in solid relationships with middle class men? This sub's idea of is like wtf lol. Like im really not sure anymore if all these threads are posted by aliens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:17 PM
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Who told you that all women are hypergamous? How do you explain all the women who are in solid relationships with middle class men? This sub's idea of is like wtf lol. Like im really not sure anymore if all these threads are posted by aliens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:16 PM
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I kno plenty of dudes that arent misogynistic that get laid no problem. Here we go again with some dude on here complaining about some non existent problem in the dating world. The only ones who can't have an honest conversation are the guys on here who blame women for all their problems in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:28 PM
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Nope. A lot of guys here are too caught up with weird ideas about women to realize that they arent aliens lol. On top of that, a lot of them think women are just supposed to fall 4 them. Dating isnt necessarily easy, but its wayyyy easier when you learn to accept rejection, and not develop vindictive feelings to those who didnt want you. When you do that, you're confidence level will soar to esoteric levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:19 PM
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Sex can be whatever it is to be who it wants to be. There is no problem here. People should and will enjoy their lives because life is short. The only issue here is someone who is made people are enjoying their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:16 AM
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All your points are christian points and therefore subjected to your worldview. I have seen the complete opposite in my experience. As a former Christian, i understand the heavy focus on monogamy and strange reasoning used to validate it. Dont take it the wrong way but ill be damned if i let someone who follows an unhealthy, sexually repressed belief system lecture me on how im supposed to enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:13 PM
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Youre talking about reckless casual sex. Plenty of people have sex that is safe and enjoyable for all involved parties. You're making very strange claims here. I'm not really sure where you get any of that as I know people who come from stable families and have all kinds of causal sex. You don't have to have family issues just to want to have sex with people lol. No one is required to make a commitment - you speak as if its something that is morally right. Theres nothing wrong with it of course,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:57 PM
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Wtf r u talking about. Men love women period. I kno men attracted to 40yr olds, 19 yr olds, even 60 yr olds. Stop lumping is into a single category. I most definitely prefer a woman in her 30s to one in her late teens -- visually and in terms of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:35 PM
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feeling don't work they way most dudes on here think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:48 PM
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most mature adults have casual sex, enjoy, and also get into relationships when they want and how they want. Everything this guy is saying just sounds like the complaints of someone not taking part in the fun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:47 PM
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none just like every other guy on this sub. a bunch of weird and unrealistic claims backed only by what some other dude said on TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:45 PM
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what this guy is saying sounds very christian. it parrots this idea that casual sex is bad for people and is done as a way of coping with some greater internal struggle. as if having casual sex can't just be a fun enjoyable thing. This guy has been sold the lie that women aren't supposed to enjoy casual sex unless its with their partner. then complains about being lumped in with incels
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:44 PM
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By mainstream pop culture you mean reddit right because i only ever hear those words here, outside in the real world people arent using them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:26 AM
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Jesus this sub. Im looking at all the comments and the amount of opinions with little to no basis in everyday reality outside of reddit is just amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:23 AM
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Shitty actions by women are not being addressed? Whose job is it to address them. Im confused because im my negative experiences with shitty women, they were called out. Why do you need people online to call shitty women out? You just keep ignoring what I'm saying -- if nots common if the experience differs across many men and women. You're doing exactly what I said your doing. You're ignoring the myriad of good experiences guys have and only focusing on the bad ones, and then saying "see, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:13 PM
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you claim that this forum ignores men's negative experiences, yet you and those with negative experiences will ignore the positive experiences of the men and women here. Ive seen so many threads where guys will sit and tell women and men that what they their experiences dont count or aren't the majority Ive had countless dudes here tell me that my experience with women, which contradicts with theirs, is a minority experience. So again, TRP makes generalizations that ignore the millions of differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:27 PM
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Its weird because plenty of guys on here will say their experience is completely different from what the TRP says, yet you're still claiming that their generalizations are more valid. Like, yes millions of men have certain experiences, but millions have the opposite as well....so the generalizations trp makes are poorly formed, and ignore thousands upon millions of different experiences. Literally every single thing trp claims ive observed the exact opposite. So what do you say to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:55 AM
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This guy n most of trp dont live in the real world at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:10 PM
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Nah because im not spending 90 percent of my time on tinder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:02 PM
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Red pill makes perfect sense for the fictionalized version of dating it supposedly prepares u 4. For real life, its just a useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:00 PM
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Thats fine but the problem is they make generalizations that are completely inaccurate. Its one thing to say some women are a certain way, its another to say theyre all that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:05 PM
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Heh? R u serious? As if the internet is the only remedy to ones dating issues? How do you think dudes did it before the internet? Literally proves my point -- yall so stuck on Internet dating advice you dont even realize its possible to get help outside the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:55 AM
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Your last paragraph is just false. Being forced into marriages, subjected to belittling religious laws, and being on the received end of honor killings, rape, sexual assault, etc. In higher numbers than men is not "pampering". In many countries women dont even have access to a decent education. To this day men still control just about every major institution, have more money than women and are still seen as the "leader" in many countries. Again, your thinking too much of 1st world countries. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:17 PM
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Hell yeah. Its not 1952 anymore mane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:26 PM
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Get off the internet, stop getting advice from the internet, and go out and live life, which yes, entails getting in shape, socializing, etc. Too many dudes have their entire idea of dating shaped by internet forums and not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:46 PM
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Man you're in another universe. We literally live in the best time in human history. How much we enjoy our lives depends on a lot of things but to act as if men dont enjoy life as much is ridiculous. Life is awesome and sucky at the same time, for many different reasons. Really, even if I entertained that thought, I would say the opposite is true. Women have far less rights in most countries compared to 1st world ones. So no, I dont think that men are struggling by being men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:04 PM
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I think you should listening to internet personalities for dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:55 PM
2

Except ive seen women get with men who make less than them. This simply is the case the way you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:53 PM
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Most men here: women have it too easy, they can get any penis they want, meanwhile every woman denies me. Theyre such fucking bitches. Why dont they want me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:47 PM
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No its because in real life at its actually not as hard as men here make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:44 PM
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From what ive seen most of the men here parrot RP ideology and mostly all of it is rooted in a completely unrealistic notions about women. Its really a joke tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:43 PM
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While men on here are complaining they dont get sex, women are complaining about being raped, sexually assaulted, and being subjected to laws that work against them (anti abortion, etc.). You cant really think that not being able to get sex/partner is the worse thing in the world, when women have far more pressing matters to give discussion to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:42 PM
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Makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:40 PM
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They need to get off the internet and learn to accept denial, take it in stride.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:36 PM
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Seriously lol. I honestly wonder if most men here have so little experience with women that they have this weird expectation that women are supposed to want to have sex automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:34 PM
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Lol -- have you actually seen an escort or going off of what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:28 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:08 PM
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Op just hates life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:59 AM
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While I agree with the gist of what you're saying telling people they should just ignore their desire to have sex and focus on other things is weird advice. You can work on your own betterment and still pursue sex. Sex is a human need, you cant just wish it away. What these guys need to do is work on themselves, and stop expecting women to give them their bodies when want it. They need to be more realistic about their expectations and learn to take rejection in stride. We can't impress everyone,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:31 PM
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How about, just be and enjoy you? I think really we're moving away from the notion that we have to fit into some box just because we're a man or a woman. We can just be who we want to be, and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:13 PM
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Well said. The real world is a whole lot different from the online dating world/tinder/pof/etc. Humans have an innate desire to have sex but also to love and have companionship. Relationships that last one are one with respect for each other, compatible life goals, and common interests. The stuff you see in online dating is fleeting, artificial; doesnt have a strong foundation. Most of the opinions here are by people who have no real life dating experience, or very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:09 PM
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This is the correct answer. Dating isn't transactional the way ppd/red pill would have you believe. Sure, some relationships are very shallow based on fleeting things, but a long lasting relationship is one characterized by respect, mutual and common interests and compatible life goals, as you said. And that isn't an easy thing to find. Lots of people here just have unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:00 PM
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Yup. Dudes here are complaining because their access to women isnt as easy as they wish it would be. Really, how I see it, much of the sentiment on this sub is just a larger part of a well established anti woman paradigm propagated by years and years of women being dominated. Now that they have options and can exercise them, lots of men expecting easy sex are getting disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:50 PM
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But did the statistic explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:47 PM
1

Most men I interact with are much much more varied. Some prefer fit Some prefer skinny Some prefer fat/bbw (like myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:46 PM
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Not even close. Most of the talking points in this stuff hardly represent real life dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:45 PM
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Exactly. This sub is really a terrible representation of real life dating. Almost everything I read here, every complaint, is contradicted by what I see in the real world. This sub would have you think men and women are hive minds but in reality are multifaceted and varied and not subject to dating laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:44 PM
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This is really it. Hence why every post here is some guy complaining about non existent problems in the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:04 AM
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Most guys here, on this sub I mean, seem very young and inexperienced and get all their dating advice/knowledge from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:58 PM
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My god this sub, full of a bunch of 12 year olds thinking they know shit about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:05 AM
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Except he didnt just do that. Stop lying. He told women their place is in the house; he constantly berate them; he would interrupt several times but threatened to end calls if they did the same; he literally told a woman who wanted to go back to making money that its not her place to since her husband makes good money. He was a traditionalist with viewpoints not compatible with todays culture and spouted these viewpoints like they were gospel. Stop pretending like he was an innocent dating guru …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:04 PM
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Im pretty sure you describing people with real socio neurological issues like autism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:20 PM
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Social paradigms take time to change and we are in the midst of seeing that. You're comparing 100 + of concrete gender roles to a more progressive social structure which started not long ago. Women in a lot of places are still expected to do housework. These things take a while but they are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:08 AM
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I swear this is is like a bunch of 16 year olds who get there dating stories solely from the internet. Its like none of y'all have lived in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:30 AM
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The biggest issue is people on this sub having no idea how relationships work in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:32 AM
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Like the one commenter said: most of the accounts here are by a tiny minority who doesn't reflect the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:53 PM
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Its even funnier considering what you said isnt accurate. Kevin Samuels spouted traditionalist viewpoints that a lot of people simply dont follow anymore. He had a knack for constantly cutting off women while they were talking but would shout and hangup if the women did that to him. He has told women that their place was best in the house. He questioned a woman on her decision to have a high earning job when she had a husband who made the same amount, suggesting she drop her good job because her…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:15 PM
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Most of the views on this sub dont match reality tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:35 PM
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My god this fucking sub lol....all the dudes on here based their entire understanding of women off a social media. ....sorry bub but literally everything you're saying isn't consistent with any reality. You need to get off the computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:40 AM
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Not sure what you seek to demonstrate with this.... Under male ruled societies, men typically pursue females more aggressively than the other way around. Social expectations dictate men be the one that pays for dates, courts the woman. These are social/gender norms not rooted in biology. I kno guys who literally wont let women ever pay for dates. Whatever you point is, the issue is with men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:11 AM
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Americans have been sold the lie that higher standards of living, access to basic stuff like a working wage, healthcare arent worth it because "socialism/communism". Sprinkle in the cantankerous politics, out of control capitalism, greed and what you get is a nation of people unwilling to cooperate to make life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:54 PM
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Men are oppressed by the very institution they created. Thats what I think is funny. Redpillers complain about women but fail to realize much of their complaints are the result of living in a society where historically men deemed women unfit for basic rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:48 PM
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I have no clue how to determine that but that wouldn't be my first thought. You're coming at with the bias that overweight people are naturally unattractive; so naturally you assume that people who are attracted to them are just dudes who dont want to put in work to date women they find attractive. What about the opposite? What if theres a bunch dudes and girls who actually are attracted to overweight people but dont want to admit it? Like i said the point is, is that its not really as black and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:53 PM
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Im not so sure about that. I see plenty of men with larger women. I myself actually prefer large, far, overweight women. I know tons that do too. And Ive seen the same with women, but mostly men. I really think OP is vastly undercutting the sheer variety of types that humans can be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:22 PM
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This sub in a nutshell Essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:19 PM
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You got to be trolling. I swear all of these posts are made by aliens who build their entire understanding of earth off of redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:03 PM
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If this is a serious question you have, I feel truly sorry for you. Your view of relationships is so fucked up you cant fathom the possibility of a woman loving someone for who they are rather than their money and social status? My mans you need to see a therapist. Someone must of really did you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:38 PM
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Yeah. But none of the guys here seem to understand this. All I see here is a bunch of dudes complaining about stuff that in actuality is the product of living in male dominated society. These dudes need to start looking within instead of blaming women for fucking everything. Edit -- the point of my post was to make these guys think a little harder about the whole idea that marriage is a one sided deal favoring women. Its like, men essentially created the rules, why would they make the rules not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:55 PM
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No one is saying "screw men and their problems" but people on this sub like to act like all of mens problems are womens fault, or that people just forget about men in favor of women. Im saying what you need to do understand your frustrations are the result of social paradigms made in a man-dominated society. Instead of complaining about how women get more favor (despite women being the most oppressed class in all of history), try working on a solution. All people do here is complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:23 PM
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Oh god....so men are the true oppressed, and women are the oppressors? You really want to go down that route?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:05 PM
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Manipulated? Historically speaking men made laws that gave women these protections (and also laws that limited their rights and freedoms). I think every guy here is missing the point that all of this is due to living in a society where the rulers saw females as the weaker sex. 1000+ of these social paradigms will cause all the issues dudes complain about. Blame men for that shit ma dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:11 PM
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The majority of laws surrounding marriage that guys here love to use as proof of marriage as oppression towards men were created by men before women even had the right to vote. Yes laws have changed since then but their core elements have not. So you're issue is with men bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:04 AM
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What? You realize that in the times when these laws were crafted women couldnt vote right...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:59 AM
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Then why did men create all the laws that govern how it functions? Why did men create a system that doesnt benefit them whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:04 AM
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You have to take into consideration for a large portion of world history, especially western, marrying a well off man was a woman's key to financial stability. Women didnt have nearly the access to job opportunities they have today. And you have to remember that this new age of opportunity is relatively young compared the years of history where there were no such opportunities. Social paradigms can remain in generations even after they become irrelevant, hence why you find some women still prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:02 AM
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Immean im pretty sure both men and women typically want the same or similar thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:58 AM
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Except the data doesnt support any of the notions redpill pushes. Like I said, everything on here tends to be an exaggeration that doesnt happen in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:36 PM
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Lol, Instagram is full of self obsessed men. Wtf heck are you talking about? Do you only search for women and then make those statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:55 PM
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In 2022 EVERYONE is obsessed with social media. You make it like its just a woman problem, its a people problem. Everyone has become self obsessed because of social media. Wtf r u talking about. That said, a whole lot of people also dont do social media. Everything you say is an exaggeration of what happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:48 PM
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But when you look through the redpill, and this sub even, youd think all women were a hive mind who only dated tall, famous, rich men. I just cant comprehend the notion of this false oppression these dudes feel from not being able to get the girl they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:29 PM
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Most of the guys here only understand women based on Internet accounts and not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:13 PM
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Your delusional. Plenty of good looking guys I kno have no trouble getting women of the same level of attractiveness. They dont have to "work for it" like you claim. The red pill got you seeing a false reality. Like wtf dude, you have a very weird idea of women. I swear every guy on this sub says stuff that never actually happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:12 PM
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My experience of women has literally been the opposite. Women arent a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:01 AM
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This sub, mostly all the guys, seems to think that if some random girl on tiktok describes what she or "all" women likes, it must he be true for all women. So from a small, pretty insignificant study as this, its no surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:54 PM
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Wats more funny is thinking every woman is like this based on a tiktok video.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:05 PM
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To put it more specifically -- theres a flood of horny men mad as hell the chick they adored didn't want them. To make themselves feel better theyve created this idea that all women really just want one type of guy, because obviously the problem wasnt them.... ....we call them redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:36 PM
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Red pillers live in a fantasy world; most of their stats dont reflect actually reality. Most of the things they say, Ive barely ever observed in my life, and other's lives. The more I visit this sub, and redpill, the more I realize most are just a bunch of guys still stick in a high school mentality, spending all their time on social media than the real world, and completely lacking the ability to handle rejection like most people. At this point you gotta look at redpill as a parody sub because …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:14 PM
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imagine thinking you know anything about these people's personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:44 PM
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Lol what......so lemme guess -- men cheat and they face consequences right? But women dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:46 PM
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Most guys here have a very high school level understanding of women and relationships. The whole hypergamy thing is so dumb because in real life most people in general are marrying people who are of the same income/education level, and for companionship because that's one of the biggest human needs. Women arent obsessing over the richest, handsomest man out there; they're going for a variety of men -- some good looking, some average and more; some rich, some middle class, some poor as fuck. Ive …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:34 AM
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These guys really wear their women hate on their sleeves and cant even see it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:20 AM
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What about men who fall for shitty women? There's shitty people in each sex, why get hung up about it? Humans are flawed creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:19 AM
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Except most women i observe in my life, friends lives and so on arent "hypergamous". Its lot smaller subset of the population then red pill claims. Furthermore, most people in general marry people of the same income and education level. So, statistically, hypergamy isnt a widespread thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:16 AM
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I been saying this! Most of the stuff I hear here doesn't reflect the norm for most people. The hypergamous woman, the hive mind the redpillers claim all women have, etc. I keep saying that the people here overly focus on situations that honestly you only really see among some celebrities and in Instagram culture; it really isnt the norm. Most people marry others for wide variety of reasons, but tend to marry people of the same income and education level. Women are NOT en masse flocking to the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:09 AM
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The whole chad thing is made up fantasy by guys with a high school understanding of women and relationships. Women arent just a hive mind who go for one thing. The vast amount of variety in what women go for in my personal experience is enough to disprove pretty everything red pill says.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:44 AM
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Most women want to marry a chad? Really? Incel much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:41 PM
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Or, how about, women realizing being married to an abusive husband and being an eternal housewife aint worth the squeeze? The more educated women are, the less likely they are to marry and have kids. Which is absolutely a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:42 PM
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Ive seen women choose a massive variety of men. Some wealthy, some poor, some in between. Absolutely no way is it a hard and fast rule of thumb that most women do what you say. Hypergamy is a lie and honestly only people saying that are people who spend too much time on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:39 PM
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Sorry but I cant cosign on that one. You sound like you were traumatized by relationships and now only see them one way. If you have some relationship trauma then maybe you should vent, or see a therapist because how you're thinking doesnt reflect reality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:21 PM
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Honestly I feel like this sub is a majority dudes acting like they know women better than they kno themselves, and acting high and mighty when women tell them they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:10 AM
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while I agree that testosterone is the main ingredient in sex drive, you seem unable to comprehend the notion that women can be highly sexually charged, and in fact are, even though women on here are telling you they'd be way more likely to seek out sexual encounters if they knew they were getting an orgasm consistently, but they don't. Are you a woman? Do you know what a woman feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:38 AM
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Lol. Highly unlikely based on the things you're saying, but like you said -- agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:03 AM
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Immean, in general people seek out mates theyre attracted to. Thats nothing new. Women mostly chase the same small percentage of men? Negative. Big negative. How old are you? Perhaps you haven't lived long enough to realize this isn't true -- AT ALL. Again, I see far more variation than what you're claiming; its laughable to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:57 AM
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So youre telling me these are only type of relationships that exist? Like of the millions, this is the only and main kind of relationship most have? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:54 AM
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Nah. Thats not my experience at all. Not sure where you live, but this doesnt reflect my experience and observations at all. You sound like your only experience of relationships and women are instagram, seriously. Im telling this isnt true. At least, I dont see this often in my experience. I see way too much variation in relationships to cosign on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:51 AM
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Lol, and howd you figure this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:25 AM
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See this is the shit im talking about. What the hell r u talking about dude? I swear you guys literally go for one type of girl and then make these broad, generalized statements about all women when you dont get that specific girl. Quit spending time on reddit and oggling at instagram models all day. Seriously -- have any of yall actually lived outside of reddit? Women go for literally all types of men. None of what your saying have I seen en masse the way you describe it. Ive seen gorgeous wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:30 PM
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All these different groups have very grim ideas of relationships that in actuality dont reflect reality. They all dont seem to realize in the actual real world most people enter relationships for companionship because its one of the core human desires. As a result, different types of people form relationships with different types of people. Their social laws dont actually work in the way they all like to think of them. I can't tell you how many relationships ive seen that complete go against all…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:49 PM
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honestly this all just sounds like something someone would think if their only example of a relationship is the internet. the whole women only fuck the hottest guy thing is fucking stupid. humans are sexual creatures and typically fuck a whole lot of people; not every has to be "the hottest in the room". Seriously this is some high school level thinking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:56 PM
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hence exactly why the red pill narrative is bleak and frankly, unrealistic. most men and women get into relationships out of a mutual attraction/compatibility and there is no rule of men always pay for the meal -- immean its up to the couple. And honestly I don't know of any couple personally that functions that way at all. Most seem to function in a flexible manner. Sure some women are one way, some men are another. Red pill likes to pretend like their fantasy reality is the only reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:53 PM
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Reread my comment. I said gender roles are a social construction, which is absolutely true. Cooking and cleaning arent inherent to women; its dictated by the society women are living in. Don't confuse gender with sex. I firmly believe in biological sex, which I clearly state in my comment. Theres no science saying that women fixing cars is "masculine"; fixing cars is just an activity, not a function of being male or female. If you actually think that then perhaps you dont actually understand wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:01 AM
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Yes, and that is just as ridiculous. Fixing cars isnt a masculine nor feminine thing, inherently. Feminine/masculine are illusory constructs, they aren't real. I am male ny nature of having an XY chromosome; a female is female by nature of having an XX chromosomes. Anything else, is just society creating false association. Theres nothing masculine or feminine about fixing cars, cooking, cleaning, leading, etc. They are things that humans can do. I guess what I'm really getting at is that I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:43 AM
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But what does that have to do with being a woman, exactly? Other than the fact that you like to see women working in the kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:31 AM
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How do you define feminine? Cuz the way you say makes it sound like your saying that cooking is womanly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:29 AM
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What does it mean when you say "its feminine"? What is feminine about a woman cooking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:09 AM
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Fantastic point. Hence why I believe that our concept of monogamy and relationships are very flawed/outdated, furthermore another reason I believe that open relationships are better than monogamous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:06 AM
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You sound like you were hurt in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:33 AM
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Thats why i really cant take the guys on here seriously. They have a very high school level understanding of women, and yet think they're so intelligent because they get women better than women get themselves. Furthermore, in my real life experience ive seen all kinds of men and women with all kinds women and men. Like, variations exist in the wild, theyre just to ignorant and immature to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:27 AM
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Except red pill isnt just guys putting time in the gym... ... just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:14 PM
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Honestly -- RP just sounds to me like a group of guys who didn't get the girl of their dreams in highschool, because she liked someone else. So now they developed this toxic mindset of "most women like only one thing, and to be that thing I gotta do a bunch of unnecessary shit that shows I don't get women nor relationships". Theyre literally just stuck in high school and as a result can't comprehend how the adult real world actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:16 AM
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Dont say that, too many words for the RP. Seriously tho, most of these guys will just stay in their boxes hating women forever not realizing the problem is them; they probably dont even realize how they come off to other women, yet complain they cant attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:09 AM
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The funny thing about RP techniques is that Ive never actually seen them successfully demonstrated in real life. What I have seen is guys with different personality nab different kinds of women, no RP necessary. Plus, you sound really mad that women arent giving some men their vaginas. And very proud of the notion of men being able to manipulate women to do so. And dudes on this sub wonder why they can't get girls. This shit writes itself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:07 AM
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Yet OP has no proof most women like personality A. I know plenty of people who have girlfriends who don't fit into the "type A" mold. OP needs to stop complaining and understand that no one is owed him sex. Once you can actually get past that, everything else becomes a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:03 AM
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Most guys won't understand this because they live in an alternate universe where attraction is purely evolutionary, therefore its just not possible for women to like anything other than rich, successful men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:59 AM
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most RP doesn't live in the real world, but in this weird fantasy world where women only date rich, successful men in good shape and shit on any guy that is "beta". In the real world, attraction is far more varied and nuanced. But they wouldn't understand that if all you ever do is cry and complain, on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:53 AM
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I swear most guys here have didn't get the girl in high school and now think every chick is the same. Jesus. Its funny because 90 % of the frustrations I see guys talk about here I don't actually see in real life. In real life I see women go for all kinds of men; some with money, some who are toxic, some who are antisocial. A lot of these guys I swear have never actually socialized with women, so all their information comes the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:39 AM
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I think the user you responded to perfectly sums up everything wrong with RP. I'm not criticizing his relationship arrangement; if it works for him and her, cool. But the reality is, is that RP is so deep in this "relationship is a tradeoff" mindset that they are unable to conceptualize of the notion of a guy and a girl acting equally in a relationship. The RP ideology is too much based in what I believe to be a poor understanding of evolutionary psychology. Mix that in with a bunch of guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:36 PM
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Seriously, it really is starting to occur to me that a lot of guys here have a very high school level understanding of women sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:55 PM
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Most men dont? Evidence please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:53 PM
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For a woman the chances of receiving an orgasm from a one nighter is far lower than for man. You say, "why dont women teach men?". Immean, when your in the heat of the moment, do you really feel like teaching a lesson on how to be pleased? Immean, i get it helps, but really, be honest with yourself, is it really practical? Ultimately, casual sex is a far riskier proposition for women then men. But, women still do it because like men women enjoy sex. Of course, im sure to you women having less te…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:42 PM
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Honestly, this entire sub can be summed as "why won't women fuck me?".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:27 PM
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Immean, idk understand what your saying. Would you consider casual sex encounters worth it if you knew am orgasm wasn't promised, nor likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:20 PM
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Please. First off, traditional male gender roles are created by men. Ive made this clear before; all the stuff guys here complain about can be derived from the patriarchy paradigms deeply rooted in our socialization. Blame other men, not women. Furthermore, your overstating your point. Men can definitely show their emotions without being shamed; is not like everywhere you go men must be stoic statues. I get what you're trying yo say, but again it's a bit of an exaggeration. Lastly, I'm a guy, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:52 AM
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Not shocking, AT ALL. dudes cry and complain women are too selective but fail to realize most guys cant give women orgasms. And then they think that women have far less testosterone so therefore they're less sexual. Immean could you imagine if most men were good lovers? Hard to get excited when you have no guarantee youll even get an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:24 PM
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When you say modern women, are only talking about women you see IG or something? Cuz how trp describes modern women ive never seen outside ig/celebrity circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:20 PM
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I swear TRP have some skewed stats. I would say a large majority of career women are married with kids. But of course it doesn't fit their narrative cuz then it means there are women out there with financial independence and are married, and doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:14 PM
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More red pillers, more kevin samuel supporters will arise with new justifications for why its unnatural and try to bully women into going traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:10 PM
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Accept rejection. Not every woman will want you and thats okay. Theres no need to come up with a million justifications for why you weren't accepted. Just accept it and move on. If more people, mostly guys, understood this you'd see a whole lot less red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:37 PM
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Finally, someone with some sense. Its like everyone here only sees relationships from an evolutionary standpoint. I swear this is a mentality I only see on the internet, specifically these kind of subs. In reality, like the reality outside of reddit, most relationships consist of 2 people who love each other, enjoy each others company, and work together to ensure one another's happiness. Ive actually never encountered anyone in the real world who thinks like any of these redditors. Its so weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:22 AM
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I honestly think a lot of people just dont comprehend certain things because really thats just how social conditioning works. We become so used to deeply embedded ideas about ourselves, which are socially constructed, that we become oblivious to them. If you explain to people that literally its only been a relatively a short amount of time that women have had the same rights and opportunities as men (and thats just in western countries), it seems to not really compute with them. They just fall b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:26 AM
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I have been saying this in the Kevin Samuels subs. 100 percent agree. Living under a paradigm created by men is a product of men ruling the world for pretty much for all of human history. As a result, even in the modern day, across all cultures, male created social paradigms continue to influence our thinking, and way of life. Not to sound hateful of men -- im a man myself -- but really its just calling a spade a spade when I say the most of the ills of the redpill, mgtow and the manosphere, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:30 PM
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I really feel lots of this stuff just reinforces itself. Its like the more people spend time talking about it on the internet the more they see it in real life. I myself regularly experience the opposite of everything talked about here i really wonder if most people just have created fantasies they live out via online communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:01 PM
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What a 1st world problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:33 PM
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"licking county"
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/22 11:02 PM
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I think you are misunderstanding what I'm saying. Im not trying to say that women are blameless angels and everything wrong with society is men's fault. What I'm saying is that the core issue that kevin samuels and the red pill community make their main talking point derives from a cultural paradigm that originates from male rule. Of course, women contribute to gender roles the same way the women of Afghanistan contribute to their gender roles. Its natural to echo and reinforce the social paradi…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 03:40 AM
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Female improvement? Lol ok. A male caller once asked him why is he so venomous in his cricitism of women. They argued about it. Kevin Samuels basically said that being rude and vitriolic was his platofr8, its what people (men) want to see. And if he stopped, he would stop making money. The guy is making entertainment. Not education lol.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:29 AM
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Its just traditionalist thinking. Womens sexuality has been misunderstood ny men for, well, forever lol. Immean go back far enough, and men thought women didn't orgasm.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:26 AM
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Its all just traditionalist thinking. A submissive wife is easier to control. Thats all they want. Control. Its no wonder he rails on women so hard. Living in a time where women have unprecedented freedom and control over their lives hits his male ego right in the kisser.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:24 AM
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His content is primarily criticizing women. A few videos doesn't compare to the loads he has railing on women.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:23 AM
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Its really funny everytime a guy says "we dont want women to be submissive, just know their place and role" its basically the equivalent to being submissive. Having a lower social role. Letting a man lead. Lemme guess, men and women are equal just have different roles, and of course womens role always puts them in a position of submission to men. If your leading over your wife, than you as a wife are submitting. Bull fucking shit. You live in the modern day world cuz. A grown man shouldn't be hu…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:17 AM
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Yeah I just cant understand how this guy can keep making content about the same thing. Immean, he calls himself a dating expert but pretty much all he does is tell women how they'll never get a *high value" man. He might just be a sadist lol.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:08 AM
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All the things your saying is actually mens fault. Men created a society where by seeing women as weaker and less capable, gave them certain social advantages. Men, being the sexual aggressors/pursuers, are the ones that gas up good looking women, being willing to do anything for them. Men are the ones that created laws the inhibited women's rights and forced them into a position where pursuing a men with good money was nearly the only option. It wasn't that long in America that women couldnt dr…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 10:04 AM
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He's a chauvinist. Plain and simple. Dude tried to discourage a woman from pursuing her career and instead remaining a house wife while her husband continues his high paying job.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 05:26 AM
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Classic example of someone not worth their salt. KS likes to make arguments that he spouts as correct but whenever anyone debates him on it he goes on the attack and starting interrupting and muting. He revels in shitting on women. He just proves he has no interest in engaging in a real discussion.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 05:17 AM
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Kevin Samuels idea of a relationship is one where there would never be any real happiness. Like you said, its very transactional. The only things he focuses on are very superficial. And while theres a natural superficial element to any relationship, its not the end all be all of everything. Why doesn't he talk about building character in men and women? How about working with your partner? Doing things that make a relationship strong and long lasting? "You are dress size 14, so yeah you definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:08 AM
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His base likes to say hes not rude just speaking the truth. Bullshit! Many women call in being friendly, amiable and yet he speaks to them in a very condescending way. Its so unnecessary but the reality is his base wants that. They get a high seeing women get spoken down to. Really pathetic if you ask me.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:46 AM
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Kevin Samuels is just your average red piller who has created a successful business out of making insecure men feel better about themselves by disrespecting women who make it really easy for him. Hes not teaching the world anything, hes not uplifting or helping anyone. You've got bad apples in both sexes. Attracting all the bad apples and shitting on them for the viewing pleasure of dudes is honestly weird. The whole platform he tries to sell is ridiculous. Guys need to stop getting mad at women…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:41 AM
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Samuels is a pretty bad dating coach lol. Immean, hes talks about a lot of the superficial aspects of relationships but never the stuff that actually makes them last. I never hear him talk about character, personality, compatibility. Things like "do you respect each other, enjoy each others personalities?". "Is my partner a pleasure to be around". Follow Samuels method and you are guaranteed to be in a short winded relationship
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 06:24 PM
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I agree with your sentiments. I'd ramble more but im tired. You make a good point about constructs. We create constructs to make sense of a world that doesnt really give us give us easy answers. This is a fantastic point. Constructs are survival/coping mechanisms. They helps us navigate through a seemingly silent universe, and in a way give us meaning. Sometimes illusions are useful. Have a good night.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 03:56 AM
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Yes exactly. Society (men, to be frank) took certain base truths about our physical capabilities and used them to form rigid social constructs that limit men and women, unnecessarily. Kevin Samuels likes to say "men built the world". He forgets that men also didnt allow women participate, believing them to be inferior. Immean, women can work out and develop strength but for many years strength and femininity were considered oxymorons. And so really thats my main point with all this. I think as a…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 03:05 AM
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You and everyone that commented make great points. I just want to add my own 2 cents. I definitely think both communities are toxic, misguided and engaged in a fruitless battle of sorts that only reinforces gender roles/social constructs and in the end helps no one. Sure, we can find reasonable ideas buried within each groups ideology but it really seems like each group's idea of a happy relationship is where they (either the red piller or fds) have power and control over the relationship; they …
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 09:22 AM
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Ive really come to the realization that the entire manosphere is really about holding power over women, largely because such power would grant them power over their bodies. I came across a vid where essentially the guy said that women are being brainwashed into being financially independent. It dawned on me that lacking independence is a great way to have control over people. Thats what its all about for these guys. They want power, they want control and they use shitty reasoning to validate it …
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 12:44 PM
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Right!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:33 AM
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Samuels like to ask "name me a female inventor". And when no one answers he uses that as a reason why women's rightful place is behind a man (his words), since clearly, women are no where near as intellectual capable as men - except you know women literally weren't even allowed to pursue those careers and were stigmatized when they did. By men of course. Its like trying to make the argument that the reason why there's less black people in powerful positions is because they're simple not capable …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:30 AM
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Thats the funniest thing about the red pill/manosphere community. All the so called oppression men are under is really the product of men. They claim women have all these unfair advantages; that men have to work harder for things women get easier and so on. They claim that feminism is assaulting "masculinity". Give me a break. They ignore the reality that in our patriarchal, western society women were deemed weak, inferior and incapable, only good in a submissive role. As a side effect to this, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:13 AM
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He told a guy in one of his streams that the way he speaks to people and overall presentation is the core of his business model. He has no need to give people actual legit dating advice. His primary audience pays him to berate and insult (mostly) women. He isnt changing this because it would stop making money. He has said this. That really says it right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:57 AM
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A relationship is more than just looks and money. Theres also compatability, character/personality, likes/dislikes and so on. Its the stuff Kevin Samuels completely misses in all his videos. Following his kind of advice will lead to a very unfulfilling and unhappy relationship. Once you get past looks and money what makes a relationship last are things like "do i enjoy this person's company", "does this person respect me, appreciate me", "do we have fun together, is my partner not a bore", "can …
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 08:30 PM
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Red pill lacks the "wokeness" is claims. Call society gynocentric is just laughable. All of the so called advantages of women in society are directly the result of men. Men created a society that gave women certain advantages and removed accountability because men saw women as weak, emotional and intellectually inferior. Mind you it was but a 100 or so years ago that women couldnt even pursue higher education and they were stigmatized when they did. All of things red pill complain about in regar…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 07:29 PM
2

Yeah for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:59 AM
1

The problem is that he says some good things but muddles it with a bunch of rhetoric that only appeals to RP and doesnt do anything for the larger community. His ideology is too heavily based on archaic religious and traditionalist views. Immean, when you have ever heard Samuels mention anything about compatibility? Happiness? Getting along with your partner? The crux of his statements are usually centered on telling women why they don't deserve "high value men" and explaining why their place is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:04 AM
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Lol im not sure what you mean. "We" let you. Yeah No because black people had to fight and die to make change. Had black people done nothing we'd be still living in Jim Crow. And you, you're just one person living in the modern day. You didnt let anyone do shit lol. Why are you trying to coop the perceived accomplishments of your ancestors?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:49 AM
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Getting insight on how some women think. Don't let yourself be led to believe this is all representative of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:46 AM
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Samuels has a very traditionalist view on marriages and frankly its outdated. He's not bringing anyone "together". Hes only creating more hostility between the sexes. Don't kid yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:44 AM
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False. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:35 AM
1

And yet those women bag rich men all the time. You really shouldn't even care tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:17 AM
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And yet, Kevin Samuels isn't proposing any real "solutions". What is he actually doing for the black community? How is he breaking down the still existing racist social structures that continue to affect black people? A red piller telling men about how men need to get back into power and women need to know their places aint solving shit but jerking off other red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:10 AM
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Lol please. Imagine feeling oppressed as a white man in America. Sorry but calling out racism and racist social structures is not oppression. No one takes you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:38 PM
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No im a man. Dam I butchered my last sentence. I meant to say that I dont think most women think this way, at least not the ones in my experience. But I am a familiar with what you are talking about I just don't think its representative of the modern day woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:13 PM
1

Well i agree to a degree but its not solely men that hold up society. Both men and women contribute to society in a way that would if either were absent society could not survive. I think its pointless to turn this into a war. If some women feel that society can be survive without men then let them. I heavily doubt most women, even modern ones think this wat (but I do know where you are coming from).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:26 PM
1

They want a housewife and a pornstar. And those kind of guys are all Samuel's appeals to. Ive always said Samuels and his fans are just mad that women are the ones with options now; its like they're vengeful against women for escaping their housewife role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:07 PM
1

Lol women want to run the world without men? What women have you met? From my experience most women just want to work *with men*. You talk about all the physical labor intensive jobs that women don't do. Keep in mind that for a good part of human history, women weren't allowed to. Do you understand that it is men that created a world where women could not pursue higher education, vote and get physically intensive jobs? Did you forget that women are capable of getting strong, conditionining their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:21 PM
1

Men and woman are not equals in the biological sense for sure. But when it comes to intellectual capacity, men and women are equal. Both are capable of leading, and both are capable of leading together. Working together can be a mutual effort but its difficult for a lot men to understand because for a large part of human history women were told that the differences between the sexes made them only fit for secondary, submissive roles. Its only ego that makes a man think he can't lead together wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:07 PM
2

Kevin Samuels sees relationships as transactions. I can't see him really being happy in a relationship when to him the most important thing is how much money you make and how willing a woman is to let the man "lead". Not things like compatibility of character, mutual interests, likes and dislikes, etc. Its just weird because I think most relationships base on these things and no where near what Kevin is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:55 PM
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Without a doubt some of things he says has truth to it and he makes good points. Like you said most of the stuff he says is just his male superiority complex doing the talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:03 PM
2

they all just want 1950's housewives. thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:52 PM
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Kevin Samuels is really just a standard red piller who tries to hide his male superiority complex under the veil of dating advice. I guess he doesn't really even try to hide it because he has said outright to his female callers that men should be over women and women should know their places. Immean honestly the only people that truly benefit from his advice are insecure men who want to feel powerful. Problem is that it seems that Samuels is overly focused on the superficial when it comes to rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:43 PM
3

Havent heard the name Tai Lopez in ages
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 08:42 PM
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Ayeee thsts Wawa
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/21 02:03 PM
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9/10 black women. Stop watching worldstar lol
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/20 08:19 PM
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Its pretty much, "men need to accept us as who we are or they are trash". This is why they will always struggle with finding the kind of men the so desperately want. Its the ultimate lack of self reflection.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 01:29 PM
3

Its basically "watch women, innocent or not, seriously injuried"
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/20 05:23 PM
1

Perfectly example of how differing ideologies can cause people to lose all empathy. Im just sitting here smh wondering if theres anyone with a fucking heart. Jesus.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/20 05:21 PM
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That's fucking hilarious lool
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/20 01:29 PM
1

Is every black nation on Earth improverished tho?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/20 02:08 PM
1

Jesus, it's like a good majority of people of here get there understanding of men and women solely from Reddit. Getting outside more would show that men and women vary pretty wildly with respect to what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:42 AM
2

Yeah. I'm an ssbbw lover (and know plenty of men that are also) and this all confused me lol. Id say men generally have far more variation in what they consider attractive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:33 AM
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Yeah, no. They are like any other group with an extreme perspective. They all have bad experiences with a particular type of male and assume that all men are terrible. Its like if a black man robbed your family and now you live thinking all black men are out to rob you. A casual reading of their sub shows they pretty much think of all men as sleazy and "low value". Now, I do think that they make some good points, and I can see where parts of their philosophy could be potentially used in benefici…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:42 AM
1

It's not me! It's all the guys Im hooking up with!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:46 PM
1

Sure, but at the end of the day having a lot more testosterone is a major contributor to the male sex drive being higher than females', and as result you'll find that most men have a higher drive than women, even considering the other factors. I don't know why that point needs to be contested.No one is saying that women are just completely sexless beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:40 PM
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The scary part is that I don't think either side truly understand a loving relationship. In their minds, it's only loving when one side is doing disproportionately more than the other. They live by an unrealistic paradigm of "relationship rules" that in reality are more like business relationships than actual real loving partnerships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:02 PM
1

Funny how a group whose whole point is about empowering women over men, focuses so much on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:57 PM
1

So we should value women higher because of their reproductive struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:55 PM
1

On my first date with my current gf we both split the bill n were happy n had a great time. Is this a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:34 PM
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Regardless of the context, that was a clean takedown.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 01:17 AM
1

I agree, it is icky.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/19 12:48 PM
1

Does that make it objectively right or wrong?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/19 02:42 AM
2

Hey brainlet, did you forget you were on Reddit? And now suddenly being 15 is being an infant, got it.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 12:05 PM
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No one said it was, brainlet.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 11:55 AM
1

I was referring to teens in general, specifically begining at the 15 yrs point, and made the point of the age of consent of 16 in some states to address the universal opinion it seems on this discussion that anything under 18 cannot consent to sex and therefore is rape (I'm sure everyone here see no difference between 15 and 16 in a statutory rape case), which I disagree with. Next time actually try to read what I'm saying and understand it, pretty sure everyone else in this thread understood th…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 04:31 AM
3

15/16 barely a difference in my opinion. It's no different from 17/18. Nice try.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 04:21 AM
1

Will check this out, thanks
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 03:40 AM
1

At least you understand that isn't necessarily a universal, objective opinion. Heck in some older cultures it was completely acceptable for kids to have sex. Yes, kids. I think the power dynamic aspect can apply to almost any age. And just because 15 years old can't legally drive doesn't mean they lack the capability nor the mental faculties to do it. I think we are just raised under a particular paradigm that conditions us to think that because we are young we can't consent to sex as though sex…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 03:30 AM
1

Oh I see. I think that formula is bs but yes you understand the double standard in sex crimes. Still, I honestly don't think a consensual sexual encounter between a teacher and 15+ year old is necessarily bad.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 03:15 AM
2

That's utterly ridiculous. That formula you have is completely arbitrary. Your just feeding the negative stereotype that when it's the man is the older one it's automatically a terrible crime. Let's not forget even when all things are equal, men still get the harsher punishment for sexual crimes.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 03:01 AM
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How is it wrong if the genders are flipped? What kind of double standard thinking r u trying to suggest here....
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 02:44 AM
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I simply disagree. You realize the age of consent is 16 in some states right?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 12:13 AM
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If it's consensual, its not rape, tbh.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 12:03 AM
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Thinking the same thing!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 12:01 AM
1

Seriously, people need to start understanding that it's not just about learning how to be restrained, it's about learning not to provoke people. Sorry but punching back is a reflex and in this situation he was justified. You don't know what life experiences this guy has had, maybe he's been attacked before and this is his reaction developed from that; immean could you blame him? Regardless, the point is, if you don't want to be put in a coma, don't starts fights, especially ones you can't finish…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/19 02:21 AM
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