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Projection is a bitch
/r/askMRP09/11/20 07:19 PM
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Well you got what you expected. Fuck off now.
/r/askMRP08/11/20 07:27 PM
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Don’t look at your salary as an anchor. Look at the value you can bring. Betting on increases or spelling them out in a contract looks weak and needy. If you have the goods and you know it make them pay. If they don’t someone else should. Make them bet on you. Don’t bet on them.
/r/askMRP03/11/20 04:14 PM
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The kid is a year old. They’ll be fine for the weekend. Stop listening to your wife’s hamster.
/r/askMRP02/11/20 12:17 PM
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You want strangers on the internet to give you permission to do what you already know needs to be done. If your mom dies and doesn’t get to see your 1 yo you won’t be resentful at your wife. You will be resentful at yourself. And you should be because it will be your failure. Make plans to go. If your wife doesn’t want to give the kid formula. You have to be brave.
/r/askMRP01/11/20 06:32 PM
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Decide how long you are going to continue accepting unacceptable behavior in your life.
/r/askMRP22/10/20 11:55 AM
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I had to manage... Careful with that. You didn’t have to do anything right?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 04:20 AM
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Where can he send your $40? Do you take Venmo?
/r/askMRP17/10/20 11:36 AM
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This might help Horns -- To op - My condolences for your loss. I won't pretend to know what it feels like, and won't give you more advice. There are men here who do know what it's like, and can help you. They have walked through it ahead of you. I'll pray for you and your family. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 11:11 PM
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I agree with the post above - it is pretty selfish to string women along. They have a shorter window to find love/marry/have children. I am not moralizing here - I think stringing women along is immoral, but you can even take the selfish approach. You will feel better doing the right thing, and it seems like you really want to do. Also if your relationship is struggling during med school how are you going to get through residency? ​ You seem like you want out, so I suggest you get out. As for ho…
/r/RPChristians11/10/20 07:45 PM
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He sounds hot
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 08:30 PM
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Don't forget the Russian hooker piss tapes. talk about abundance mindset.. -- I hope Parscale enjoyed his turn. Looked like a fun ride while it lasted.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 07:05 PM
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MOMMY MOMMY PLEASE LOVE ME! why do you need the validation of your wife, kids, other random dudes at physique competitions and strangers on the internet? get up, go look in a mirror and tell yourself that you're a man of value. is it true?
/r/askMRP09/10/20 07:03 PM
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Johney - You missed “literally hitler” Seems pretty comprehensive otherwise
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 04:12 PM
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Don’t think that’s true. It was confirmed he got Covid in a Melania/Hope Hicks 3 way.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 12:17 PM
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The other piece is that when some chick is being a cunt on a phone call and trying to put you in your place, everyone sees that. Everyone on that call knows exactly what is happening - that woman (or guy) is just a bitch. It is actually a pretty low status move to call someone out on a phone call with a bunch of people - especially if the person is being a bitch to someone who is their parallel or subordinate. You can rest assured that as that woman is doing that on the call everyone is rolling …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:12 AM
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It is weak minded to let anyone push you around and think you are a victim. This doesn't mean to tell your boss (or subordinate, or coworker, or customer, or plate/ltr/wife) to fuck off and get fired and become homeless (nuke career/go to jail/any alternate). Don't do that. But if you need the job, and you're being pushed around and there is nothing you can do about it you still aren't a victim. You put yourself in a situation where you need the job more than you need your autonomy. That is subo…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:12 AM
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Then don’t take shit. I wouldn’t. I own the company though. Can you deal with the consequences if it doesn’t go your way?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:33 AM
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Either you are outcome independent or you aren’t. If you can’t afford to lose your job then you need to eat shit and take it while you build skills to be marketable. Either way this is not the “bully’s” problem. It is weak minded to let anyone push you around and think you are a victim.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:28 AM
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You should print out JA's response and read it every day. Reread what he said and answer the questions he asked. Hint - he asked why, you answered what. You sat around for a year and did nothing. Why? > Mentally I have failed because I haven’t put in the work to really understand and internalize the sidebar, especially NMMNG, and how it applies to me and my situation. My ego tells me how smart I am and how I know better than my wife and kids and that they should just listen to me and everything …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/20 04:38 PM
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Also straps Harbinger Heavy Cotton Lifting Straps (Pair) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001181RSY/ Literally tie it to your arms so your hands aren’t the weak point. There are others with more experience than me as well, but the answer is it depends, and probably do both. Like everything in life, find the weak points and improve and continue to build your strengths. One other thing - and this might sound really stupid. Just grip it like crazy. You can probably pull 275 overhand if you get out of you…
/r/askMRP03/10/20 06:22 PM
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I literally read this my first weekend of finding mrp by scrolling all the way down and back up. It’s great you put this in a digestible format w cliffs notes. I’ll give it another read later on. This was helpful the first time around but I had no context. Reading peoples’ journey through oys was very helpful in the beginning. Your and u/weakandsensitive doing the weekly oys video is helpful now. Thanks for all the help.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/20 12:02 AM
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Goals - So you didn’t accomplish your goals last week and your goals for this week will take about 2 hours. I judge that you’d benefit from building your MAP and lining out a path to take your reds and yellows to green. Three pomodoros to do what? One book chapter? If it’s not meditation then great. It sounds like your lifting is on point. If it’s not more school then also great. Decide what you want to do. MAP it out. Execute.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/20 02:26 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. https://www.trp.red/p/redpilllegion/950 Don’t dig through the trash
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:49 PM
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Welcome back - it’s good to see you
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 03:56 PM
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OYS 22 - 35 yo, 6'2, 205lbs (IF cutting - Down 10lbs), 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids (2.5 and infant) Lifts: SQ - 325 x5, PR - 137.5 x5, BP - 235 x3, DL - 335 x5 Things are still going well here - I have been on a pretty solid cut for 3 weeks, and I am seeing results. Going to run this out a few more weeks. It has stalled out my lifts, but that is ok. Back is feeling better deadlifting, and I am back off to the races there. I will hit 1000 lbs club this year, which was my int…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:37 PM
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Nbd. I just didn’t know. 106 lb deadlifts is shit for a guy your size. Is there a handle or mechanism to stack them together to continue progressive overload?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/20 12:47 AM
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I misunderstood - So you are holding onto a 106lb kb in each hand when you deadlift?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/20 12:34 AM
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Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 11:40 PM
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Are you in a part of the world where you can’t go to a gym? Can you build a home gym? You will do better barbell lifting in my experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 10:26 PM
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This is a great point and post - Lift, sidebar, STFU is the best early stage for this idea. You practice, and fail and start to see payoff. You hadn't ever lifted or lifted in a while, and you're starting to get strong. You pass a few shit tests, you get some knowledge. Then you get to a kind of intermediate stage where you need to start really internalizing what you read. This is where I am working (and re-reading.) I have taught myself how to do a couple of trivial things in my adult life that…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 07:26 PM
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You didn’t get anything out of the mountain biking section?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/20 12:05 PM
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Go home and look in your room at your mom's house. THPS will still be there. I promise. Turn up the soundtrack please.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 11:52 PM
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That is interesting - "Fasting-mimicking diet holds promise for treating people with inflammatory bowel disease" https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/03/190306171247.htm Either way - glad you are back on the mend.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 09:40 PM
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In American please
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 09:05 PM
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I had no intention to follow that advice. A huge part of mrp is finding the advice that fits and applying it with rigor. Good to see you are already learning this. You are already following the best advice for oys1. Sidebar, lift, stfu. Do that for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:54 PM
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What do you attribute to such a dramatic turnaround on chrohns? Or does you condition often ebb and flow?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:48 PM
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OYS 21 - 35 yo, 6'2, 206lbs (IF cutting - Down 9lbs), 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids (2.5 and newborn) Lifts: SQ - 315 x5, PR - 137.5 x5, BP - 235 x3, DL - 335 x5 Work - Still working long hours and very busy. This is the shit I need to own this week - I am still not setting and enforcing boundaries at work - I have 2 client restructure conversations that need to happen - one I have been putting off (the guy is fired, he just doesn't know it), the other I keep telling the clie…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:41 PM
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I finally got a mini split for my garage about a month ago. Would recommend 100%
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/20 05:39 PM
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Counting calories works for everyone - it is math. It is a horrible mental model to map the future onto your weak self - that is why I am challenging you. If you do the work you won't always have to be as weak minded as you are today and have been in the past. I couldn't keep it up long term and gained a shit ton back b/c it wasn't fucking sustainable (typing this for the third time somehow) for ME. Was your wife force feeding you bear claws? Did you lose your calculator? Take some ownership. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/20 04:54 PM
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Mods - please ban this guy, or just ban me. I don't care anymore.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:44 PM
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I can track my calories, but I am choosing not to. Been there done that with calorie counting and I don't find it a sustainable model for me. However, I should still be tracking my macros to ensure I'm getting enough protein and not eating too many carbs. Time is my most precious commodity. I won't be wasting any more of it. Why do people come in and pick the most dumb fucking things to argue about? No one gives a shit what is sustainable for a fat loser ADD pothead. This is what you are doing n…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/20 03:42 PM
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I am running a cut myself. Counting calories it is unbelievable how much I was eating. Probably 4K a day. Losing weight steadily on 2,700 calories. Use tdee 3.0 Another note - with your lifts and weight etc you seem like you are set here. If you want to push further that is great. You should. Maybe attend to yellow/red areas of your MAP with your energy. Take it all with a grain of salt - your physique is ahead of mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 08:15 PM
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Nuke my marriage Well that is freedom also. No time like the present. It's all good man.... stay strong... no matter how hard you think what you're going through is, you can totally get through it! Yeah man. I have got it easy. Not complaining here.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 04:13 AM
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Your positive health prognosis. I suppose you were always free- not the best phrasing. I was happy to hear your good news.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 03:48 AM
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10-4 I also have no idea how discord works - We can figure it out. I honestly think it is worth getting out of reddit. This thing is a cesspool and these people hate us. How does freedom feel by the way. Have you gotten used to it yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 03:31 AM
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Apparently we can't say faggot, faggots. Gay I’d definitely be open to moving this thing off this hell hole. Would you dm me if you find the way out? Thanks sir
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 03:11 AM
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I don’t want to talk out of my ass here. I strained my back and my coach put me on rack pulls. I could do them without pain but not the full deadlift. I worked my way back to the ground over the past 6 weeks and didn’t lose strength and I feel pretty good now. Re the coaching. Try barbell logic. There are some other options. If you have the cash it is worth it. They have done a lot to fix my form and give me programming. I am stronger than I have ever been and I have been through a few program c…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 03:08 AM
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If the right decisions were made that is great. You can update your business plan. — I see the confusion. I am trying to distinguish between feelings you should listen to and abide by, and garbage that flies through your head that should be ignored. Trust your gut, make decisions, stick to the plan, and reevaluate.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 12:21 PM
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I have had success w back pain trying heavy rack pulls and working my way back down to the floor (stand on stacked weights). It helps to not have the second hinge. Put your chest up, arch your back, point your dick at the floor. You can probably work up to lifting more with shorter range of motion. The cut isn’t going to help the matter either. Have you looked at hiring a strength coach or posting a form check? Even just video yourself and watch your own form. You’ll find it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 03:18 AM
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Did you go 2 / 4. Don’t leave us hanging.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 03:05 AM
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Write about shit that actually matters in OYS, then go into the real world and act differently. Then repeat.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 03:04 AM
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Oh good. I looked briefly through your comments and didn’t see you. I have been reading less oys the past few weeks. Fucking busy.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 11:36 PM
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Don't apologize - Do get to work. OYS #1 is Tuesday. Worry about your shit and you'll get better. We all come from somewhere. Follow your own advice - "The work is mandatory"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 10:00 PM
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I wasn't totally clear - I hired a lawyer to consult me on what would happen if I did get divorced. It's pretty standard redpill advice. The attorney gave me good advice based on her personal experience - not all of it was right on target, but she did shed some light on my wife's mental state postpartum. She was pretty fucking smart so I listened. Not getting a divorce right now, so don't need to go to more than one.. ​ You just had a kid BE A FATHER to both of them Handled On another note - I r…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 09:14 PM
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OYS 20 - 35 yo, 6'2, 209lbs (IF cutting - Down 6 lbs), 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids (2.5 and 12 weeks) Lifts: SQ - 315 x5, PR - 137.5 x5, BP - 230 x4, DL - 335 x5 (back to pulling off the ground) Really busy at work, and I am going to keep this short. Got in touch with a divorce attorney recommended by a colleague. It was past due - I had been putting that off (was recommended to me at oys 3 or 4 by u/rstonept). We had a good conversation - bottom line I'd give half, be requ…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 11:51 PM
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You seem wishy washy. Pick a work out plan and stick to it. Learn to trust your feelings but not your whims and emotions. Same goes w business. Did you just make a fuck up and chase away business that you needed? Are you trying to justify your mistake to internet retards? Maybe not but I don’t hear you talking about anything that sounds like a business plan. It seems like you are shooting in the dark, losing money and spending money. Be honest with yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 02:36 PM
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There’s two things that I pretend don’t affect me anymore - Crohns and my sons death. But they do. I have been thinking about this the past couple of days since you wrote this. When did your chrohns hit? There was a scientific article re chrohns and ptsd (as it related to chrohns..) Not accusing you of being a “whiny fibromyalgia Karen” - just that your unexpressed grief can play out physically. Keep looking at the body, but don’t stop looking at the grief. Especially notice if drs keep going ‘u…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/20 04:01 AM
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until one day, I said fuck it and let the panic just take me wherever I’ve been preventing it to take me. If I’m going to pass out right here, be it! Thanks for that. I was happy to “bring myself down” next time I’ll try to “bring myself through”
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 12:00 PM
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He is the protagonist driving the d/s story line. Fair enough. Thanks for the explanation.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 11:54 AM
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illusion of oneitis Maybe this can be your flair ​ Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 01:21 AM
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Horns and inchargeman are the d/s experts, and maybe this is all going over my head. I don’t understand how coming in here every week and writing 90% about your dom sub relationship is not at some point a rule 9 violation. I know you keep saying everything is in your frame, but it doesn’t read that way to me. What else are you really trying to accomplish in your life other than fucking your wife in the butt while she wears headphones? I’d like to read about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 09:58 PM
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OYS 19 - 35 yo, 6'2, 216lbs, 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids (2.5 and 12 weeks) Lifts: SQ - 310 x5, PR - 137.5 x4, BP - 227.5 x5, DL - 335 x5. Still rack pulling deadlifts - getting stronger there and going lower. Back still hurts, but fuck it.. STFU - Doing pretty well here. Noticed talking to seek validation. It always makes me feel like a bitch and remember that it used to be my default. Mission - My mission is to become the type of man that has a real mission - This means g…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 06:27 PM
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She’s your ltr. You’re her plate. Edit. 6th grade English.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 02:09 PM
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Not before he promised himself he would post every week for a year. I remember when a promise to myself meant nothing..
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/20 02:46 AM
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Start light(ish) and work your way back up - run a linear progression and you will beat all of your PRs. But still lift 3-4x a week. Start your squat at 175, add 5 lbs a session. You will be at 250 in 5 weeks and you'll keep going. Add 10 lbs the first few sessions and you'll get there in 3. Once a week isn't even lifting - you know that..
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 08:29 PM
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Action: Lift Heavy 1x, Run 3x, Cycle 2x What do you accomplish by lifting heavy 1x weekly? Are you running a program?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 12:48 PM
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There are many teachings here. None of those say wrestle her, flip her upside down and bite her ass in the middle of a shit test. The saddest part about this is I can’t even really say you failed it! Bahahaha! ...I do have to say, Sir, you are a retarded ape for opting to do that out of all the options you had. Jesus. We are just men swapping notes here. Maybe this works and eventually makes it to the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 09:00 PM
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Looking back at my post - as I wrote in my fugue state I never specified if I care or not. RStone talks about how you are the only one who wipes your own ass. Lately more and more I have been acting like I care. Lifting, taking care of my diet, not looking at porn. Everything someone might do if they cared. The more and more I take care of myself I reinforce the belief that I am worth taking care of. It makes it easier and easier to make sure nobody fucks with me, and makes my life better and be…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 08:57 PM
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OYS 18 Mid 30's, 6'2, 212lbs, ~20%bf, BP - 225x5, SQ - 300x5, DL 335x5, PR 132.5x4 Reading The Rational Male and MMSLP I wrote my whole post out in the original format and ended up deciding to scrap it. It is just checklist stuff. The checklist has helped me, but it is really not all that important. I am lifting, I am working to STFU, Doing well with my kids, my wife is fine. One major shit test this week - I passed. Initiated a few times, she initiated once. After writing my post out and all of…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 02:45 PM
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What are you doing to fix your commute times and get a new job. Your situation is untenable based on what you said in previous oys. It’s affecting your health, sleep, relationships. Fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/20 07:02 PM
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Why don’t you try passing at least a few hundred shit tests (and gauge how much respect that commands) before you start throwing tantrums about it? Very good point. I spent a lot of this post celebrating my wins. That is great and all, but a lot of those wins are basically internal. I have been running my own program - My wife doesn’t really know the difference. The covert contract is that doing all this work will ever make a difference to her. It also means I am doing it for her and not for me.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/20 02:41 AM
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A good guide from a while back by u/threekindsoflucky ​ Again, post about shit that actually matters. Don't fill your post with a load of things you say you're 'going to do'. You aren't 'going to do' shit, so don't bother writing it. ​ You just did OYS one. Don't worry about this shit. Your goals: Sidebar Lift STFU OYS 2
/r/askMRP27/08/20 07:33 PM
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Your oys are some of my favorite to read and have helped me a bunch. Thank you. Re your triceps - it seems like you went to the dr and they told you that you are fine, so now you are going to wait for it to tear off just because the other side did? That is a strange defeatist mindset. I have noticed that as a recurring theme with you. Mostly with your wife’s historical cheating and playing Hamlet.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/20 12:47 PM
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My wife offered me ice cream every night for 2 weeks before she stopped a couple of months ago. It’s a basic shit test. She also out of nowhere asked me what my lifting goals were the other day in a shitty tone. Has repeatedly said she like how I looked better when I had less muscle. The less I listen to my wife the better my life gets.
/r/askMRP27/08/20 12:50 AM
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On vacation, I got an idea. I rented a cabin and their website is old and outdated. I have made a few websites before. I small talked with the cabin owner and then I pitched my idea to her. I would build her a new website in exchange for a # of free days at her cabin next summer. This is really good shit - follow up and execute.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 03:32 PM
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Are you ready to get down to business and Own Your Shit?
/r/askMRP25/08/20 10:07 PM
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OYS 18 - 35 yo, 6'2, 212lbs, 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids (2.5 and 9 weeks) Lifts: SQ - 300 x5, PR - 130 x5, BP - 222.5 x5, DL - 335 x5. Rack pulls on deadlift to get my back better. I am hitting modern era PRs or actual PRs on everything else. STFU - I caught myself being a validation whore to my wife. Made a joke about it and moved on. I have no doubt she caught it as well.. Mission - My mission is to become the type of man that has a real mission - This means gaining disc…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 05:26 PM
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Serves me right.. But how’s he going to fuck his fat wife now? Edit. Fat wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:52 AM
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disclaimer I know there is the AskMRP subreddit but I have never seen a post addressing sexual denial this early in a marriage. Delete this and go to r/askmrp Ask your super unique one of a kind question over there Once you figure it out come back here and enlighten the masses with your wisdom Edit. This is the correct place to post your first OYS tomorrow morning. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:02 AM
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Roosh is somewhere in the MA side of DC and is orthodox. Send him a superchat and get his feedback.
/r/RPChristians25/08/20 01:11 AM
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Don’t you know anything about manifestation bro? If you speak it into mrp the faggot fairy will grant your wish. Say it with me W&S - “I will create a rule”
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/20 03:15 AM
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Thanks for the observation. I really don’t care that I don’t like sci-fi and I definitely over use self deprecation (or whatever that was). I don’t have to DEER why I never watched game of thrones
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 06:12 PM
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I googled the reference. I am such a retard that sci-fi and fantasy bore me. Beta orbiting white knight hits though. Validation seeking and neediness is also accurate. I don’t shy away from rejection. I just got rejected 10 minutes ago. I tend to not push enough (if that makes sense) and not really take my initiations seriously. We both know the rejection is coming but I need to give it a shot. And sometimes I get through. I don’t really go for hard no’s ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 03:16 AM
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I totally get where you and johney are coming from - and I appreciate the words of caution. It is something I definitely have to watch and stay aware of - nice guy scorekeeping and cognitive dissonance are both bad options, and you are right that I am pinging back and forth. I think the oak is in the middle? The right action taken for the wrong reason doesn't work out. It is tough to say - My wife physically can have sex with me. But we are both under stress, and she is doing all the wake up wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 09:22 PM
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OYS 17- 35 yo, 6'2, 213lbs, 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids (2.5 and 8 weeks) Lifts: SQ - 295 x5, PR - 130 x5, BP - 220 x5, DL - 335 x5. Strained my back last week lifting. Took Friday off of heavy DL, SQ day and took a light squat session. Back at it this morning and feeling good. It is getting heavy for me. STFU - A good week here. Finally beginning to learn how to STFU. Mission - My mission is to live in congruence. To say what I mean and mean what I say. Why am I here? To g…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 11:38 AM
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For more context without going through my old oys we have an 8 week old that doesn’t sleep. I will specify at the top going forward. Also breaking news - be ready Tuesday for a 1400 word blow by blow of how I finally got it in Friday night.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 12:01 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. The pregnancy has been good in that I have just been running my own map without worry. I think I need to keep doing that for a while and give my wife space to work it out. It’s just been a moving target - I can see the development even without my wife’s feedback. My wife’s feedback isn’t what this is about anyhow.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/20 12:20 PM
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I would recommend someone very competent and detail oriented. We got off track but my dentist was very conscientious and did a good job. Only found one that seemed competent and likeable at the same time. There you go. One of the dentists was such an omega that I considered choosing him to study how not to act and be) He will fuck up your work and blame everyone but himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 11:08 PM
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I did a few years ago - I think it was 3,500 bucks and it took about 6 months (I forget the exact details. They did a really good job and my teeth were pretty fucked up, I always thought they wouldn't be able to fix without braces. I would definitely do it again - regardless of $$ I would recommend using a doctor who knows what they are doing. My dentist was doing it and we lost some time because they seemed pretty inexperienced. The process was foolproof because they stuck with it..
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 08:25 PM
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OYS 16 - 35 yo, 6'2, 220lbs, 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids under 3 Lifts: SQ - 290 x5, PR - 120 x5, BP - 215 x5, DL - 335 x5. Lifting is going well - still plugging along on 4 day split. I have been getting worn down while trying to IF. STFU - I am improving here. I caught myself deering to my wife about how I am intermittant fasting to lose weight - It was so cringy pathetic. It is nice that this behavior stands out today - Insecurity and validation seeking from my wife. Not…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 08:18 PM
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This is something I have been working on for a while - Trimming the fat. I have six employees - I worked up from a one man start in the last 3 years. You are right about 15/5. I think it fits into price increase, delegate, fire. Point taken re changing my business from one anonymous opinion. I have been given thaT note before - we are just swapping notes. I can be pretty left brained so I have to watch black and white super literal thinking. That is how I go Rambo. (But do know that I understand…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 02:52 AM
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Thanks for the advice Johney - about this and customer churn. The churn and conflict (and anxiety on the other thread) all fit together. No response necessary btw - I am mostly typing this out the following to help clarify my own mental models. If you read it and see something wacky please straighten me out. -- The world is what it is - My dissonance between what I want the world to be and what the world actually is causes conflict. My behavior has been rather than bringing this conflict to ligh…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/20 04:52 PM
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90/10 is probably right for me too. You guys have both been very helpful. I have spent lots of time and energy feeling bad for feeling bad. (Cue u/rstonept saying, “your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them.”) What he is saying is true and in line with what you guys are saying I think. There is nothing wrong with my anxiety - it is what it is. It is either a useful tool telling me something is out of whack, or it is just there. It doesn’t need to be feared or changed. I just …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 02:08 AM
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And? What's the big production? Your bewilderment isn’t lost on me You never fired a client before? Short answer is yes but always with much handwringing and worry. It’s nice guy stuff. I won’t upset anyone and my life will go smooth. I am one of the nicest guys you’ll ever meet Johney I don't understand. First, why do you refer to email as gay? Seems silly and unnecessary. Second, it would seem that you emailed a client you no longer want to work with that you were referring him to someone else…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 01:37 AM
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Thank you for this - This is very very helpful. I need to read it 5 more times and digest it. You seemed to be focused on using this anxiety as a deterrent...saying that IF you feel that anxiety, THEN you know not to go there, that something is "wrong", or that you need to "fix it". But this isnt true at all. Anxiety is not intelligent. All it is is a signal. I had this experience last night - initiated with the wife before bed, hard no, now what to do? Thought about jacking off on my couch and …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 04:08 PM
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I think about that too. I bet they are archived anyhow - not sure you can really delete this stuff. Not sure anyone really cares anyhow. FWIW I have read your oys and it’s been helpful to me. You are at 1 year. Maybe review your oys and edit to redact personal data. Or nuke it
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 11:51 AM
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My body looks a whole lot better and we started to slowly have more sex and more passionate sex. The chemistry was fan-fucking-tastic (holding my biceps kind of stuff). I fucked like a man who knew he was attractive and it was entirely not about getting validated. I had OI and oozed abundance. I’m sure you can tell where this is going. She’s fucking pregnant. The sex has vanished. I am over the moon at the prospect of being a dad again, but I won’t lie, I’m gutted the hot fucking period lasted l…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 09:35 PM
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And go buy a set of fractional plates - microgainz are not that expensive - cheaper than a gym. You may find that you end up just buying more weights for your communal condo gym once you surpass 200# - that is what I would do today.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 05:05 PM
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OYS 15 - 35 yo, 6'2, 220lbs, 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids under 3 Lifts: SQ - 290 x5, PR - 120 x5, BP - 210 x5, DL - 335 x5. Lifting is going well - still plugging along on 4 day split. Still moving up every week. Felt some feelings that I was getting bored with lifting and wanted to do something else - disregarded feelings and lifted. It is really nice to have the garage setup. STFU - Dancing monkey this week. Trying to get laid. It is pathetic. Ever since I set this sectio…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 05:02 PM
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“Don’t worry - I’ll make it up to you after dinner” Quit being autistic
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:03 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. The same could usually be said for jobs as well. Move on.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:49 AM
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At 136 lbs if the argument became physical she might beat his ass. He might literally be fighting for control of the thermostat and she just won’t let him at it. 2 more weeks of wall sits and he can hopefully take her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/20 07:07 PM
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Going to be tough with a newborn, but if you don't Rambo I think it's safe to be a man again who likes to fuck. Thanks for the feedback and congrats on your career moves ​ I think taking it slow is smart, but I still need to get in the game. I have been running very passive dread in the background (lifting, diet, getting hot.) I honestly think she is in a sort of hormonal hell, so I think that is part of my reservation in booting up. I also have a history of avoidance, so I want to remain accoun…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 09:23 PM
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OYS 14 - 35 yo, 6'2, 208lbs, 20% bodyfat, Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids under 3 Lifts: SQ - 280 x5, PR - 117.5 x5, BP - 205 x5, DL - 330 x5. Moved to 4 day split - really dig the shorter workouts and added upper body volume. Still progressing on my lifts. Intermediate goal is 1000/lb 1RM club. STFU - Still struggle with STFU - I see everything in hindsight, and I see my success, but my failures suck. Saw a few times where I try to talk about the book I am reading to my wife (pussy drenche…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 03:56 PM
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One area I need improvement in is getting more sleep. I work 10 hour shifts and commute about 5 hours a day. I either have to a) get to bed earlier or b) change my living situation/job A is easier at the moment, so that’s what I’ll have to do, for now. For me this would be a top priority 24 - 10 - 5 = 9 and you want 7 hours of sleep and to exercise? Sure you can work to effectively use your commuting time, but this is still a recipe for a pretty unbalanced life. You are on a hamster wheel and ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/20 05:58 PM
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made me laugh Have you read Presto by Penn Jillette? His ego might be bigger than yours, and you'll like the strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 06:58 PM
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Was hoping you could coach me. You seem to know everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 05:28 PM
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Why do you keep resisting here? You came in with your idiotic eat nothing strategy. Everyone told you that is a dumb fucking idea and it wouldn’t work. It didn’t work. How long is it going to take you to start following directions? You would have already lost 10 pounds if you had a better strategy. What is the most you've ever lost? Set down your ego and get to work. Or go to r/relationships
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 01:15 PM
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removing attention and time from SO The fact that she is pulling you into arguments could be a good thing. She might sense you exiting her frame. What if you treated it like a comfort test and ignored the words, addressed the feelz.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 02:41 AM
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I think I dated her in high school
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 06:52 PM
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noted - it's been a good read (25% in or so), but it is not core content like WISNIFG for my development right now. Will kick it down the list and pick it back up later. Thanks for the feedback
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 04:08 PM
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OYS 13 - 35 yo, 6'2, 208lbs, 20% bodyfat (u/sbiii method), Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids under 3 Lifts: re-running 3x5 novice progression Current lifts SQ - 3x5 275, PR - 3x5 112.5, BP - 3x5 200, DL - 1x5 325 STFU - Observed several times this week when I should have STFU - Where I am in the middle of explaining something stupid my wife doesn't even want to hear and I have an out of body experience where I zoom out and see some cringe autistic faggot trying to run really weak game. On the…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 03:48 PM
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wouldn't buy us but another week or two of continued non-acceptance of reality. Good job waking up. Do the best you can by him if your failure to lead has cost him. But first do best by you. He will be fine either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/20 07:28 PM
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What was the result of your meeting?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/20 11:41 AM
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My extended family will (perhaps rightfully) shit on me for abandoning my daughter for a year to move my career across the world. What I'm certain of is that I will grow emotionally by being in another country, even if I lose out on a relationship with my daughter. I'm trying to frame this as me being in control of myself and when I board that plane I will at the very least be in my own frame. This is really a tough decision. You should get yourself a copy of eat pray love and decide what type o…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/20 11:48 AM
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I don't understand why this comment is upvoted. It is a bad mental model to compare what you, a faggot, should do as opposed to a famous person. Think of celebrities as women - if your status was so high that people (women and men) would not know what to say when they were around you and throw themselves at you in your every day life you could use self deprecation to become more 'relatable'. I am not there in my development. I listened to a podcast recently with Tucker Max discussing his life pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/20 05:11 PM
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It really would be ironic if covid took you out
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 09:28 PM
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When I am finally looking hot I'll have you to thank personally
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 06:35 PM
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Yeah no shit - thanks for pointing that out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 01:05 PM
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I didn’t want a name that cut myself down. Didn’t understand that when I first picked it. It was a suggestion someone pointed out that fit. Today seemed like time to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 03:58 AM
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OYS 12 - First post - old account was u/PaperAlpha 35 yo, 6'2, 210lbs, 20% bodyfat ( u/sbiii method), Married 8 years, together 13, 2 kids under 3 ​ Lifts: re-running 3x5 novice progression Current lifts SQ - 3x5 270, PR - 3x5 110, BP - 3x5 195, DL - 1x5 320 ​ STFU - Still an issue. Hitting the anger phase. Mission - My mission is to become the type of man that has a real mission - This means gaining discipline in my life. Why am I here? To grow up and take responsibility. To learn to be attract…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 02:29 AM
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