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| 5 | My partner is red pill , how to help him ?Why on earth would you willingly get into a relationship with a man like this? Please develop some self worth and move on | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/26 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Worried I will never get out of thisWelcome to life as a woman lol. Nearly every woman I i know has experienced what you’ve described atleast once in their life, myself included. But if it makes you feel any better or lessen your anxiety, I’ve never met a woman that has done those things to a man. Not saying they don’t exist or that it doesn’t happen, but I have yet to see it occur in a real life | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/26 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe men have a peak?Humans objectively “peak” at the beginning of adulthood, before the aging process starts to take place. So around 20-25, give or take. Some individuals experience a subjective peak at a later age due to weight loss, finding their style, plastic surgery etc but even then, had they been attractive in their early 20’s, they would’ve inevitably peaked then. Ofcourse money and status is attractive, but we’re talking about physical and sexual attractiveness here. So no, men don’t automatically become … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/26 12:20 AM |
| 12 | How to desconstruct the toxic idea of "She's settling for you but really wants the "hotter/alpha" guy who didn't commit to her"I’ve never met a woman that thinks this way, and I am one myself so I know them pretty well. If we date someone it’s because we like them. I have never once had this way of thinking. Whenever I get into a relationship I am enamoured with him, regardless of whether or not there are objectively better looking men. I have however met men who do think like this, so I feel this belief that men hold may contain a bit of projection, to be honest. Regardless, you need to better your self esteem to ever … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’?Most people start visibly aging in their late 20’s to early 30’s, some earlier & some later. Women 25 and under want men their own age, some will be open to older if you’re established and make good money. Your fixation with young women is disturbing. You clearly have low self esteem | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/26 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’?Ofcourse youre going to lose objective attractiveness in your 30’s, it’s a part of aging. Young women are attracted to men their own age | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’?These are the types of men that do not experience the typical “sleep around and then settle down” phase that men that are more social do. They isolate themselves, don’t date, dont have friends and then in their late twenties or 30’s come to the realization of what they missed out on. They blame women their age for this failure on their part and have a deep desire to “punish” them by telling themselves (and women) that they no longer have value due to their age. It’s a just a bunch of cope. The f… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Why do older men like 40+ who are “happily married” still spread redpill stuff online?Because they’re not happily married | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?Oh give me a break. Your life won’t get better till you hop out of that perpetual victimhood, take accountability and take the necessary steps to better your situation because clearly you are miserable af. You have no idea what I or other women have been through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Idk. Plenty of people are still meeting on dating apps. Whether they are or not doesn’t really change that fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Most people meet on dating apps and through mutual friends. A lot of people meet on Instagram too as weird as that sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:32 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameThere are signs, I can assure you. I was driving with a man I wasn’t even dating yet and he was driving quite fast and recklessly, I told him to slow down and his whole demeanour shifted. He was extremely pissed. These types of men have anger issues, whether this anger is directed at you or not is another story, but the anger is absolutely present and pretty obvious. But I don’t blame women as men can be manipulative and sweet talking as hell. But even if a man only started acting this way after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?You just said it yourself, you struggle to bond non romantically. That’s why you need sex to encourage you to want to be around a person. Sex is a cheat code to feeling comfortable around someone as it produces a feeling of pseudo-closeness, but it’ll never replace genuine emotional connection. Obviously you can bond emotionally after the act, but it’s understandable that women that have been used for sex (aka most of us) would be weary because the pseudo-closeness can mimic the feeling of love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?Yeah it was definitely one of my best relationships as well. We got to know eachother on such a deep emotional level which is why I would never tolerate a man that has no interest in who I am as a person aside from what I can do for him sexually. We also started out as friends as well which I thoroughly enjoyed so I’m quite adverse to love bombing as a result, which is a plus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?But that’s not because you’re biologically hardwired to bond over sex like the comment I was replying to was insinuating. And while you’re 100% allowed to want sex that early (I would too) as well as end a relationship due to not receiving it, I don’t like when men try frame it as some sort of need that’s imperative to his ability to bond with another person. That’s insane. Men can and do frequently bond with a wide variety of people, plenty of whom they feel no sexual attraction to. If you stru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?And yeah they are popular, but not because of the way they look or how much money they have. They just have good social skills and are charismatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?Oh yes, let me go post half nudes photos on Instagram so I can get negative attention from men that only want to use me for sex, what a wonderful idea! If you have such little self respect, to each their own. I deserve respect for who I am as a person, not my body. And by the way, not “all” women have that option. Men will complain till they’re blue in the face about how much they hate fat & ugly women yet here you are saying that even they have the capability of getting attention on the interne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?I would never in a million years date a coworker or a person that has any type of relationship (platonic, familial) with anyone I work with. I hardly even befriend coworkers. Coworkers will betray you for a 60 cent raise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 06:42 PM |
| 3 | You can't expect people to like you if you dont work on your social skills and self-awareness.Nobody has ever said pretty privilege isn’t a thing. It very much is. But pretty privilege doesn’t mean you will never struggle. Do some narcissistic people use the fact that they have pretty privilege to manipulate others into getting what they want out of them? Absolutely. But it isn’t a gendered thing. Assuming that someone is a manipulator because they are attractive is just down right insulting to say the least. I’ve had men assume I was manipulative and took it upon themselves to try to ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 06:08 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameThe ending statement is so funny to me because there is no way I’d ever be attracted to a man if he behaved like this. He’d only be shooting himself in the foot 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?I know plenty of women, myself included, that are well acquainted with social isolation. I don’t even use social media. And I know numerous men that can’t be alone for longer than 5 minutes and constantly need to be in a relationship or partying or with their friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Do men not seek companionship out of a relationship ? If that's the case, what's the reasoning ?I dated a guy for three years and we didn’t have sex once. Of course the urge was there but we were very much in love with one another. If he wasn’t Christian and waiting for marriage I would’ve 100% jumped his bones as often as possible. And yes, he was very much attracted to me and 100% straight. He is happily married now to a woman. Men don’t need sex to feel love or belonging. Stop with the bs. These are just excuses for men to not overcome their monkey brain and think rationally for once in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:50 PM |
| – | Socializing IRL is overrated IMO especially if you are ugly/neurodivergentThis isn’t true at all. Hence why autistic women frequently find themselves in abusive relationships. They also have to learn to socialize or they befriend other autistic women and date other autistic men where being able to “properly” socialize isn’t necessary and they’re able to find common ground in other ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Do you think physical appearance matters?Yes. Idc if I’m superficial. I’m not having sex with someone I’m not attracted to. Most people will read this and assume it means you need to look like a Greek god but what I’m attracted to may not be what someone else is attracted to. Everyone likes different things | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/26 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you know any women who are protective of their husbands, not possessive, or who take the lead in the relationship?I have yet to meet any women with stay at home husbands though if that’s what you’re inquiring, although I know they exist out there | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/26 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Do you know any women who are protective of their husbands, not possessive, or who take the lead in the relationship?Yes they have jobs and and education and make the same amounts as their husbands do and work the same number of hours | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/26 08:52 PM |
| 20 | Do you know any women who are protective of their husbands, not possessive, or who take the lead in the relationship?Most women I know are the leaders in their relationships tbh. They just allow their husband to take the title of leader when they’re in public because it makes him feel good about himself. In most cultures, especially traditional ones, this dynamic is the norm. Have you ever heard the saying “the man is the head but the woman is the neck”? It just basically means that the man is the head of the household, but behind closed doors the woman is the one directing him and NO it does not mean their re… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/26 08:20 PM |
| 2 | If men are 40% of DV victims, why are 90% of arrests male?Probably except I’m a woman so maybe not lol | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/26 09:04 PM |
| 13 | If men are 40% of DV victims, why are 90% of arrests male?Go watch TikTok’s of women that will openly and proudly admit that their hit their boyfriends or TikTok’s of men who admit their girlfriends hit them. There will be hundreds of comments from men saying their relationship dynamic is the exact same and that they’re “right where they want to be”. I’d go as far as to say that some men like these dynamics or at the very least they THINK they do. Is the criminal justice system not taking female abusers seriously or are men not taking female abusers se… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/26 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Do you know any women who love their stay-at-home husbands? I'm young, 17, and I'm coming off the red pill.You’re only 17. Why are you intending to be a stay at home husband? You have your whole life ahead of you to have any career you want | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/26 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Being vulnerable is badYou need to be able to be vulnerable in order to emotionally bond with others. It’s not optional if you want close, fulfilling relationship in your life - platonic or romantic. If you’re scared of being judged or mocked for your vulnerabilities, learn how to spot the red flags early on that will indicative of a person judging you. Also remember that you need to be capable of holding space for their vulnerabilities too and when we fear expressing vulnerability within ourselves, we need to lack th… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/25 04:06 PM |
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