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Male suicide is reducing over the last 50 years is good progress irrespective of the female suicide rate.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 05:44 PM
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You were mutilated as a child without your consent. You like your penis, and that's great. But you have to understand that not everyone likes it that way. Maybe they might have liked it more without being circumcised, but that's not an option they'll ever get.
/r/MensRights20/03/19 09:05 PM
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I see, I'm not there yet but noted. Thanks!
/r/MensRights27/02/19 11:55 AM
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Hey, I wanted some advice, I am fairly well off but not sure how to use that to get more online dates though. Any tips?
/r/MensRights27/02/19 10:33 AM
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Lol I'm a short Indian in India. Not exactly ideal.
/r/MensRights27/02/19 06:25 AM
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You're probably good looking, I have had a decent experience on bumble but not nearly as easily.
/r/MensRights27/02/19 05:28 AM
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Also boys are probably less likely to admit being hit by a girl. We have to look past those biases or assume the study took them into consideration, else we literally cannot trust any study done on anything in any situation.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 10:02 AM
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Studies in Europe have shown 80-90% of rape accusations to be full of shit, Could you give me a source on that?
/r/PussyPass06/09/18 05:24 AM
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Yeah I need a citation for that as well
/r/MensRights25/08/18 04:19 AM
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Set the timeline to between 2015-2017 Look at the by country breakdown of the female teacher ratio right below the graph.
/r/MensRights17/08/18 07:16 AM
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Yes it's completely normal here. Except for my school apparently it continues until 11th and 12grade as well. But the problem tends to disappear in college with about 60-65% faculty being male. Maybe this post is about US stastics but it isn't hard to believe that it could be the same or even worse in other countries.
/r/MensRights17/08/18 06:25 AM
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She's not that off. I didn't have a single male teacher until 11th grade. From India here.
/r/MensRights15/08/18 08:23 PM
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I agree that parents can control children and that sometimes they don't raise them in the best way possible. However why is this an excuse to let them get away with another way of mistreating their children? And that’s NOT why I’m saying circumcision is ok. That's true circumcision is fine as long as the person fully consents to it.
/r/MensRights14/08/18 04:37 AM
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You can't make the argument that doing something bad is okay because something else currently happening is worse. Feeding the wrong types of food would be considered malnutrition and would be fair grounds for CPS to intervene. The difference is that cutting off a piece of skin is completely voluntary and provides no significant benefits. There have been studies showing how exposure to immense pain at an early age restructures your brain. Also the implications of circumsision are not relevant bec…
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:56 PM
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But in and of itself, there is nothing wrong with circumcision We can agree on that. The only problem is doing it to someone who isn't capable of fully understanding the far reaching implications of circumsision. Do you disagree with that?
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:41 PM
6

Why not compare it with female genital mutilation?
/r/MensRights13/08/18 08:37 PM
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Fortunately that's not for you to decide
/r/MensRights11/08/18 07:51 AM
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I don't think being shocked and broken about 25 boys being burnt alive is overdramatic
/r/MensRights02/08/18 08:11 AM
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You should take a break from Reddit and other social media. The situation is crappy but rage is addictive and you really do not want to go down deeper that hole.
/r/MensRights19/07/18 09:39 AM
1

Father's day is a day that gets wide spread attention from all sides. Not utilising this to bring to light issues fathers face is a wasted opportunity.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:23 PM
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Thanks, I was wondering why it was taken seriously this time.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/18 10:48 AM
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Perhaps we all know it's a shitty thing to do except that mother's usually don't get reprimanded for it. However in this case the dad is getting reprimanded. Whether it's shitty or not is a personal opinion.
/r/PussyPass01/06/18 03:23 AM
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The point isn't what the parents did. It's how Reddit decided to react to what was said. If the roles were reversed then Reddit would have been more understanding to the mother.
/r/PussyPass01/06/18 01:57 AM
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Perhaps but soon there might be a protest that girls are earning more donations and boys are benefiting from it.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 09:10 PM
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Just to give an example what about support groups for people with anxiety about speaking to the opposite gender. Those should be restricted to their specific gender. There could be support groups open to both genders, but having gender exclusivity in some groups certainly helps.
/r/MensRights29/04/18 06:27 PM
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I understand your point of view, and I choose to disagree with it.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 07:22 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights22/04/18 10:00 AM
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Will this be on YouTube after the talk?
/r/MensRights22/04/18 05:00 AM
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That is where I disagree with you. I though we were past the point where the value of a man is determined by the way they die. Calling a suicide honorable is the same as encouraging it. This used to be standard practice in feudal japan, a culture famous for placing no value of men's lives and little value on their deaths. So what I'm saying is that you are saying he should commit suicide. But you are not bold enough to say that so you are calling it "honorable" instead. And hoping he gets the po…
/r/MensRights21/04/18 05:52 AM
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Fair enough, I made that comment because you make it seem like assisted suicide was the "honorable" choice. Not as a last resort.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 08:22 PM
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We'll if she's being immature, then I don't see the problem with treating her as immature. I mean, going for the high ground is fine but one is always free to do as they please. Unless you decide to play god and claim that ghosting is objectively not as bad as splitting the bill.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/18 05:43 PM
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Oh, you don't know me. I didn't mean that to be defensive. I am not a person against altruism completely the opposite. But I am always going to put myself first(family and friends are exceptions). I will never be taken advantage of. However I also put a very high value on the morals that I set for myself. If all that makes me a bad person by your definition then so be it.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 03:28 PM
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Tragedy of the commons pertains to an zero sum economy. We are perhaps the first few generations to live in a positive sum economy. What I mean
/r/MensRights20/04/18 02:51 PM
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From the beginning of humanity men have been using their resources to woo women. Going Dutch would automatically have reduced the chance of having a relationship. Every man knows this and as we want relationships we don't typically go Dutch on the first date TBH if he's the kind of guy that thinks buying dinner makes her obligated to respond to him, then I'm not surprised he got ghosted. So by your logic the woman has absolutely no obligation in dating. That's simply a flaw. Are you willing to a…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/18 02:47 PM
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Fair enough. But what would you expect as an alternative? I get that the person needs to live their own life, but isn't it too harsh to expect that the wounded to be completely abandoned? In that situation I would expect the victim to at least be put in a hospice or a retirement home, if the other person cannot afford a hospital. And there is nothing suggesting that, that isn't exactly what happened. It's just what I thought from how it was worded.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 02:58 AM
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You dont know why they got married... Even if your arguement is that males protecting females is a societal implication, it cant be applied to this or any individual's situation. Fair enough. Didn't think about that. I dont personally believe jail is a good place to rehabilitate people, so I like to suggest alternatives to jail time for violent crimes. I certainly dont have the answers, so if you think putting the assaulters in jail for a few years is the best idea possible, just keep doing that…
/r/MensRights20/04/18 02:49 AM
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Agreed, because that's your call to make. Not hers.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 08:55 PM
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If it was due to the accident, then you can't blame her in the slightest. For example of she suddenly lost memory of him, or she thought that he broke up with him. But if she was in control of her actions then there's no excuse for her behaviour.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 08:54 PM
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Doesn't mean that she should spend her life making up for something she never asked for. Being in a relationship with a man is asking for protection. It is implied. Look at it this way, if he didn't try to protect her, how long would it take for her to dump him? If anyone should be expected to care for this man for the rest of his life, it's the people who DECIDED TO BEAT HIM TO NEAR DEATH Yeah and in the ideal world the murderers should pay for the funeral as well.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 08:50 PM
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Nah, this is a pretty good subreddit in that sense.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 08:44 PM
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By that logic we as a society should cull the weak. It's a core part of anthropology that a society is judged by how it treats its weak. What would you do if your child was in an accident and paralysed for life? Would you suggest that they kill themselves? That would be too harsh. So would you expect others to tell your child to kill themselves? That's simply inhumane. These people cannot still live a meaningful existence.... If you give them the option.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 08:41 PM
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Fortunately you can change what you want to be. I realised fairly early on that being just a good person isn't getting me anywhere. All the best!
/r/MensRights19/04/18 08:32 PM
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He still has no obligation to let shitty behavior go. I'd say he did the right thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/18 07:01 AM
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What were the effects actually? After you got out?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/18 02:04 PM
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I didn't follow, You can always go into the negatives on both those things And I fully agree with this: It takes more than having confidence and asking women out to have success as a man, Didn't understand who you're referring to: Pretending that it's all their fault is stupid.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 02:51 PM
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Than shame him for being weak. Not for being less of a man.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 05:47 AM
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Not really. Being a nice guy doesn't attract women. It'd be nice if it did, but women as always expect the man to be strong and confident as well. It's just biology.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 05:01 AM
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I complete agreed with you until you started questioning his masculinity. Don't do that. It's one of the shaming tactics used by feminism to silence men. We can't afford to turn against each other.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:58 AM
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Agreed, I didn't realize he had some issues to sort out. So I assumed that he didn't have the courage to talk to girls.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:08 AM
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I'll be overly harsh. He doesn't seem to have any confidence or self respect. That's what I meant by having nothing to lose. And aren't we all losing time in one way or another?
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:06 AM
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I wasn't thinking that far ahead. He clearly wanted to be in a relationship, and wanted to work towards that goal. So at this point when he's not in a relationship he had nothing to lose in that area.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:04 AM
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He was equating success to having a relationship.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:01 AM
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Sorry to hear that, and I realised that I contradicted myself. I don't think getting into a relationship is a solution. You should definitely focus on yourself before you want to put yourself out there.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 07:15 PM
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Well now that you're a man you're going to have to deal with it. Stop living for women. Practice going up to a random woman and having a conversation. You have nothing to lose.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 07:07 PM
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Cool I had no idea
/r/MensRights02/04/18 09:50 AM
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Oh, I wasn't referring to that at all. I do not support mgm in any way. I just meant that sex feels good for guys and we shouldn't compare it to how it feels for girls.
/r/MensRights01/04/18 09:44 PM
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¯\_(ツ)_/¯ you can't miss what you don't have. Also men orgasm much more often than women do so we have that going for us.
/r/MensRights01/04/18 09:19 PM
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My speculation is that women don't need sex but need to feel sexual. Hence, the provocative and sexual way many women dress. They like to feel sexual and get attention but the sex part is not as important. Men on the other hand don't need to feel sexual but do need sex. Traditionally this was recognized in the expectation that married women provide their husbands with sex. Until recently marital rape was unimaginable. In most parts of the world it still is. It is considered a wife's duty. Howeve…
/r/MensRights01/04/18 09:18 PM
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No, even an uncircumcised man can never experience the pleasure that a woman can.
/r/MensRights01/04/18 01:26 PM
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There's a difference between enjoying something and having an urge to do it. Makes enjoy sex and have the urge to do it, while women in marital enjoy it more but their libido decreases. That's why there are these sex starved men. When women aren't married the amount of sex stays constant. All the above are facts. This is speculation but perhaps not being married gives more power to men. Thus if the woman keeps refusing sex, he still has the option of moving out. That's why sex doesn't die down i…
/r/MensRights01/04/18 01:17 PM
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Sorry, I got sidetracked by life, wrote a response and closed reddit like a dumbass. I just checked, you were active after I wrote my comment. I agree defamation and libel are a problem, but they are not this problem. They absolutely are pert of this problem. When a rape accusation is made, it wither ends with the accused going to jail or the accused being socially ostracized. Defamation is literally half of the story. If someone is assaulted it is their right to speak about it. Absolutely, just…
/r/MensRights30/03/18 09:27 PM
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but is the alternative just to continue to let people get away with assault? If you want your voices heard give people a solution. I cannot agree with any group that fights for something without a clear solution to the problem. I'm glad you asked, I've been thinking about this for a while. How about having these cases dome privately without releasing the names of both parties until the case is settled? This way if the person is found guilty then they deserve to have their reputation destroyed an…
/r/MensRights28/03/18 05:38 PM
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Not just because I don't assault women, but I don't associate with people who would be so low as to falsify information to hurt me. You said your not afraid, but you are consciously avoiding people who might accuse you. A large number of people testifying is not a verdict. The entire guilty until proven innocent is a fundamental part of the judiciary, but is being completely subverted by these accusations. reasonable doubt, and I don't think their lives are automatically ruined. They can be kick…
/r/MensRights28/03/18 04:09 PM
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I never called you retarded. Ok I was wrong about the facism. You said avoiding repercussions for your actions is not a right. But the women who are falsely accusing are not facing any punishment. How do you justify that? I acknowledge that authorities sometimes don't give Justice but does that give me permission to go outside the law and get justice for myself? Of course not. But for some reason we're allowing it in the #metoo movement.
/r/MensRights28/03/18 03:17 PM
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I too am afraid of the #metoo movement. Does that make me a creep? Shaming a person based on their opinion is utter facism. Giving that much power to women with absolutely no checks and balances is ridiculous. These women don't file reports instead publicly accuse the man and automatically that person's life is ruined. I'm not the perfect person so occasionally I will cross some woman(not sexually), does she then have the right to ruin my life? I'm sorry if I'm offending actual victims, but this…
/r/MensRights28/03/18 02:54 AM
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Fair enough
/r/MensRights25/03/18 03:31 PM
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Thanks But it definitely shouldn't be hidden. They should be showing pictures of baby boys crying and their penises' bleeding.
/r/MensRights25/03/18 03:21 PM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights25/03/18 03:19 PM
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What's wrong with using images of victims?
/r/MensRights25/03/18 03:09 PM
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Ok
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/18 04:08 PM
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Alright but what about conscription?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/18 11:49 AM
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Agreed
/r/MensRights23/03/18 10:58 PM
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Nope, conscription laws, in some countries retirement laws, in India there's funding for single mothers that doesn't apply for fathers. I'm sure there are many more. But I agree that each case should be handled individually and that graduation rate doesn't have anything with how a case will be evaluated.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/18 07:09 PM
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My point is that courts don't consider women equally capable. Which they are. Therefore they hugely benefiting from a biased court system.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/18 06:13 PM
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*facepalm I know that's why that part of my reply was gender neutral.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/18 02:55 PM
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If they are considered equally capable then why does alimony even exist? Because the spouse who chooses to stay at home is sacrificing their potential future earnings for taking care of children. Now if you make that choice then you are basically living off your earning partner and getting to spend considerably more family time. Men are okay with this, somehow. Now when you break up why do you have to continue to support your ex and not get to spend time with your children? Isn't it basically th…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/18 06:40 AM
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Force an acknowledgement of change in topic or category. Do not let them change the topic until they concede defeat on a point. Tell them that it'll take forever to discuss various topics so don't let them shift. If they acknowledge that a point is conceded only then do you shift to another point to destroy them in.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 10:39 AM
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I took a week off Reddit. I was getting really riled up and started thinking about it all the time. When I realised that it was unhealthy I took a break. Now I still see that there's a lot wrong with the way the world works but it dosent affect my peace of mind. Try it, it actually helps .
/r/MensRights15/03/18 02:21 PM
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Yeah, autocorrect. I fixed it.
/r/MensRights04/03/18 03:51 AM
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Without men who will die for us? Sometimes I feel so sad that my role, determined by society, is to be a disposable shield. But then I realised that I can refuse this role. So fuck the world, I live for myself and those that I love.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 09:28 PM
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Suit yourself, if every single human we're to unanimously decide for that, I still wouldn't agree. For the simple reason that I am a human being.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 06:00 PM
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women lie as they breathe. I'm not trying to change your mind, just saying you should be careful not to get bitter and resentful.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 10:39 AM
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Some of what you've said is true. But do not hate all women for the actions of the majority. Be careful not to get radicalised by the posts here, it's too easy, believe me.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 10:32 AM
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Do it, put a disclaimer without taking her name.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/18 02:34 PM
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Ouch, don't worry about me though. I know how to handle those kind of people. It's just that this thread didn't escalate to that level yet.
/r/MensRights28/02/18 08:01 AM
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You're doing God's work at the expense of karma. No good deed goes unpunished huh?
/r/MensRights28/02/18 04:16 AM
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How can she slap? Lol, should have realized you're a troll. Next time is the /s. It's too common to see people who actually have those opinions.
/r/MensRights28/02/18 03:02 AM
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Damn, I was hoping you were joking. Take a look at this. Now if biological women are natural care givers why are they more abusive than biological fathers?
/r/MensRights27/02/18 11:29 PM
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Wow thanks, had no idea.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 05:03 PM
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Suppose i have 100 problems to fix, it can be disheartening. If I had someone to bitch about it with, it honestly helps deal with it. Maybe you're stronger than I and can do it without getting pissed. But I find it easier to deal with when I have company. Also there are support groups already in place for things like recovering alcoholics, felons and drug addicts. We could extend this already working practice to others in need of help.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 10:28 AM
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Oh wait, I never said it fixed the problem. I said it makes us more resilient and able to fix the problem ourselves.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 10:04 AM
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Are you editing your comments to add points after replying?
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:59 AM
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I never said we don't deal with problems. In fact I said exactly the opposite in my comment. You misunderstood what the role of support is. It isn't about creating a public pity party. It's about helping those in need and getting, help when you need it. Personally I have an amazing group of friends, whenever one of us needs help we support each other. If one of us has a major issue everyone helps out. Why are you against that notion? And also are you saying we are unmanly for it?
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:49 AM
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So having emotions is the opposite of being masculine? I have issues, I deal with them, but why am I not allowed to feel sad? Sorry for using so much rhetoric. Suicide usually happens when we feel despair beyond what we can cope with. Support can clearly help cope with suffering in life and enable us to do more. So why are you against support for men?
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:41 AM
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It's because her mother was probably a terrible, emotionless and isolating woman. She probably wasn't even aware of the abusiveness of her behaviour that caused him to despise her. Now do you see how many assumptions you are making?
/r/MensRights27/02/18 08:38 AM
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What you've listed are some of the other problems that men face. We men do have feelings, if you think you don't you're just deluding yourself. Suicide is a clear example of us not having balance in our lives. When you're more in tune with your emotions you'll realize how much support actually matters. Lack of support is one of our problems and one that this subreddit is helping fix.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 07:51 AM
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Retroactive consent removal? Wtf that's a thing now?
/r/MensRights27/02/18 07:40 AM
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Wow that sounds awesome. Could you make it a post with a progress flair? I had absolutely no idea.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 07:35 AM
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Why
/r/MensRights26/02/18 06:03 PM
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Cool thanks
/r/MensRights26/02/18 04:38 AM
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I had no idea that it was so bad. Thanks for letting me know. When I said check if they are sympathetic to men I meant actually call them and ask if you can get an appointment as a man. Other than that what would you suggest a man do in a domestic violence situation?
/r/MensRights25/02/18 07:32 PM
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I didn't get what you were asking. I would definitely ask a man to seek a domestic shelter and to make sure they are sympathetic to men.
/r/MensRights25/02/18 03:28 PM
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Listen I know you're there for him now, and that you love him. But please, no matter what, don't become like this Please
/r/MensRights24/02/18 01:43 PM
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First of all you sound wonderful for being there for him. You should probably contact rainn but make sure they are sympathetic to men's issues before you bring him there. I've heard horror stories of them assuming men to be the perpetrator which further alienates them. But before you do any of this ask him if he wants to talk to them, otherwise he might feel like you're giving out his secret. All the best, I'm sure he'll recover.
/r/MensRights24/02/18 11:51 AM
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Why didn't you address the fact that Terry crews can't name the perpetrator because he has to fear for his career? Or the fact that he has been threatened to drop his lawsuit else his career might be "damaged". Matt daemon had made a completely reasonable argument. Is it wrong to try to be the moderator in a witch Hunt? There was a petition signed by around 300,000 people to get him off a movie for what he said. Is this what you want the #metoo to be about? For men to shut up and listen?
/r/MensRights24/02/18 07:45 AM
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Because it's expected?
/r/MensRights23/02/18 01:03 PM
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Oh didn't you hear women want male bosses
/r/MensRights23/02/18 10:40 AM
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The use of serving in the article was actually what got me angry. It implied that the ideal man was selfless and expected to serve society(everyone except men, because selflessness). What you're saying is completely different. Your'e saying that men living their day to day lives are automatically contributing to society. Now that I can agree with. I dislike the notion that men are supposed to work to serve society(everyone except men). I love that the passion of man simply working is not being o…
/r/MensRights22/02/18 08:01 PM
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That's because of how social dynamics have shifted in the past 50 years. The invention of the pregnancy pill allowed women, to be able to have sex without any repercussion(not counting disease). The article is about how human society used to function. Conservatives agree that this way is tried and tested, and that this would be the ideal way to progress. However now we are in an age where the role of man and woman is under question. Women no longer have to grow up into womanhood, she doesn't hav…
/r/MensRights22/02/18 07:50 PM
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If the boy doesn't learn these things, then he is not likely to become a good, selfless, serving man This was in the article. I completely agree with you, that we feel fulfilled by doing something on a larger scale than our lifetimes. Believe me, I am proud to be a man. Where I can't agree with you is that these men have provided so much value to society and have been internally fulfilled. But, using your own words, lived without recognition and without a penny their entire lives. I can't accept…
/r/MensRights22/02/18 10:15 AM
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Yep, but it's not optional for a woman. Men can go their whole lives without learning manhood.
/r/MensRights22/02/18 07:54 AM
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Somewhat misleading title. This is basically how human communities used to function, where being a good man is the same as a selfless and serving man. Luckily the situation had turned around enough so that men don't have to be selfless and serving anymore. We are allowed to have needs wants, and we're tired of serving. So it's finally time for society to change and give us men an actual reason to stick around. You can say I'm irresponsible or selfish, and if that's what it takes for me to have a…
/r/MensRights22/02/18 07:53 AM
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Ok I have a great idea. Make sure your presentation is the most through, lengthy and generally the best one around. Now there is a good chance that the teacher will get triggered and give you a bad grade. Save the last page of your assignment for studies showing inequality in education (grading). If he teacher is female and gets triggered then and that would be the perfect time to reveal that. You might want to save it until the presentation is over for maximum impact.
/r/MensRights22/02/18 06:28 AM
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Man that's really hard to read, you might want to space out your points.
/r/MensRights21/02/18 09:01 PM
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Read my other comment on this post, please.
/r/MensRights21/02/18 11:47 AM
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She has proven that she's more than willing to lie to save her own skin. If a group of black men happened to be in the vicinity they would undoubtedly be arrested and put in a lineup. Now she liked once so there's no reason to believe that she's suddenly honest, she would have picked some random 3 people and they would have rotted away for years. https://news.sky.com/story/amp/man-freed-after-wrongly-spending-45-years-in-jail-for-rape-and-kidnap-of-nurse-11128002 She wouldn't even spend the time…
/r/MensRights21/02/18 06:39 AM
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10 years per rapist? And if they raped 3 people then 32 isn't too far off. Also you know that parole would probably comes in around 10 or so years after sentencing.
/r/MensRights21/02/18 05:36 AM
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Normally I would agree with you ,but in this case as there was no evidence and no conviction the man's name wasn't put up publicly either. Honestly this is a win for due process, I'm not condoning what he might have done but if it wasn't proven then there's no reason he should be presumed guilty and publicly shamed.
/r/MensRights20/02/18 06:14 PM
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There are a variety of reasons. Rejection is actually very common. Just think of any reason you would reject anyone
/r/MensRights20/02/18 07:42 AM
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Be that as it may, we now have his support. We didn't before, even if only because it's actually affecting him now.
/r/MensRights19/02/18 06:20 AM
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Where is she blaming a man?
/r/MensRights19/02/18 05:39 AM
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If you're not talking about child support we can debate the need for alimony. If you are talking about child support, you cant debate it without talking about the disparity between child custody distribution. If child custody is 50:50 then there shouldn't be any need for child support. But despite being an equal carers the man is forced by the court to pay the woman. Now this assumes woman wants to take care of the child. If she dosent the man can get full custody and still pay the woman for no …
/r/MensRights18/02/18 02:27 PM
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Alright, then why don't women have to pay child support?
/r/MensRights18/02/18 11:20 AM
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Actually I agree with you that women should be equally welcome to propose to the man in the relationship, there's no reason that the man should have to propose. The only point I wanted to make is that men shouldn't feel any pressure to accept unless they're completely ready. Because like others have said it looks like the men here are completely blindsided by the proposal and accepted even though they were having second thoughts. So in short women proposing isn't actually a problem in my view, i…
/r/MensRights18/02/18 06:44 AM
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I agree that's it's a men's problem of not being able to refuse, and that needs to be fixed. But women seem to be taking advantage of the fact that men are afraid of upsetting them, and forcing them to get married. So if your fiance were to order an expensive ring and put it on your tab after proposing to you. What would you be able to do? Short of calling off the wedding
/r/MensRights18/02/18 06:29 AM
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The problem is that power corrupts. So even if we have a great number of women who want to live on equal terms, what do you expect to happen when you give them absolute control over any man they choose?
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:32 AM
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The would have their fair share of unfollowers which should outweigh whatever clicks they get
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:15 AM
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He said 18 years, he meant child support
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:13 AM
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You might have missed the /s
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:08 AM
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That's fine, its that there are two problems I can think of related to it: Men not being ready to refuse because they are too afraid of hurting women. It's only symbolic for the woman, while taking control of the marriage while the guy still has to buy a ridiculously expensive ring for her and pay for the whole thing.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 04:53 AM
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Don't we need all the help we can get? It would be meaningless to ignore support from someone just because they don't agree with us on other aspects of life. Case in point: Donald Trump. Complete asshole but still POTUS and supports our movement.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 03:34 AM
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I agree with what zulu127 said: Women are the gatekeepers of reproduction. This is completely true as advocated by Jordan Peterson. However we as a society have come far from the original humans social structure, and as more and more men are choosing not to play the game, the ball is falling in the womens' court, to give us men a reason to stick around. That reason used to be sex, as it is a huge drive for males to reproduce. But with the combined effects of sex robots and the rising dangers of …
/r/MensRights16/02/18 07:12 PM
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If you count kids as family it can be both.
/r/MensRights06/02/18 04:53 PM
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You're right. Don't know how I got to that frame of mind, thanks for the argument btw
/r/MensRights02/02/18 01:30 PM
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Girls definitely should get more encouragement, but why should it be at the expense of the boys? Why can't both genders have boards?
/r/MensRights02/02/18 06:21 AM
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I guess I was looking at it as a worst case example of how some men are viewed in society. But it's more like just a sad situation we can't do much about.
/r/MensRights02/02/18 04:35 AM
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Fair enough
/r/MensRights02/02/18 03:20 AM
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Perhaps we should find a middle ground between making a fuss about something and just accepting it the way it is. About picking and choosing your battles, I actually happen to think that devaluation of life is a critical problem. Maybe you don't agree with me, maybe you believe we should focus on something else. In that case go ahead and raise awareness about that issue, but don't tell me that the issue I'm trying to fix isn't worth my time. This is a very specific example that probably never oc…
/r/MensRights01/02/18 09:03 PM
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Yep, I agree with you. But if we don't make a fuss every time it happens wouldn't we be propagating that kind of behaviour? And in this case she's being very thankful but only to the woman, so she's not exactly an asshole. I don't think there's any other way of interpreting that message other than she dosent care in the slightest about the male. If this were a news article and the genders were reversed we would find it laughably strange.
/r/MensRights01/02/18 03:38 AM
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This sub isn't only about rights it's also about the problems men suffer in society. This comes under the disposability and dehumanization of men.
/r/MensRights31/01/18 12:12 PM
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Wow so much respect for what you chose. Sorry for this but, if his mother's as bad as you portray her there's a good chance you'll have to help him out when he's grown up. He might not fully develop with her as a sole parent.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 11:04 AM
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Sorry man but that argument dosent work well in the long run here. - uncle ben
/r/MensRights23/01/18 10:06 AM
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The problem is that someone can say something almost exactly the same and be completely serious. So we can't assume that someone is "just kidding". Also we didn't actually take any action on this tweet it's up to the police to take action. If a man we're to say the same thing he would probably be ostracized and arrested why should we allow the same speech to be made by a woman.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 10:02 AM
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We're a long way from that point
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:59 AM
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To be honest we don't care we just want to make a living
/r/MensRights23/01/18 12:55 AM
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Why is this surfacing now? Almost 8 years after the incident? Also why isn't there an update after 2010?
/r/MensRights23/01/18 12:43 AM
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What's a heterosexual bin woman?
/r/MensRights22/01/18 03:30 AM
3

Are you okay?
/r/MensRights21/01/18 01:09 AM
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Sorry you feel that way man, but don't make your life only about staying away from women. There are a few good ones out there, I personally don't believe in marriage the way it is right now, but there's more to do than just romantic relationships.
/r/MensRights20/01/18 06:19 PM
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I think you're mistaking politics with equality. In the 19th century there must have been some man who was fighting women's rights, would you have expected his wife to join him in this because "love is more precious"? No, you have to fight for what you believe in if your love is based on your SO fighting you despite being in the moral wrong ground then this love might be misplaced.
/r/MensRights20/01/18 02:16 AM
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Even if you were to decide that hitting a person in the face 5 times is okay, OP's main problem was the complete lack of concern by the police. Please don't think that resorting to violence when mildly provoked is an appropriate response.
/r/MensRights19/01/18 12:42 PM
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For no reason, why should it matter?
/r/MensRights19/01/18 12:36 PM
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I can't agree with that, you have to stand up for what's bothering you. Women expect men to read their minds, we can't, so why should we expect the same of women? We should acknowledge that women have their issues while also advocating issues faced by men in society. We can't depend on a small minority of women to fight our fights on their own.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 10:05 AM
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