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I remember back in the day when I was just newly introduced to MM, I used the same opening “real quick, who lies more…” then one of the girls just said “oh I’ve heard this before!” LoL. That really opened my eyes that all MM’s lines have been overtly used by tons of guys out there. That actually happened in the book as well lol. They realized they had gamed virtually all the chicks in their LA area with the same lines&tricks and they wouldn't fall for them anymore. But it's been a generation and…
/r/seduction02/08/26 11:34 PM
2

immediately after the date, yes, needy as hell. In any case, you could have done it during the date. You should have waited a day or two. There's nothing wrong with texting in between dates, as you mentioned.
/r/seduction31/07/26 11:33 PM
1

Sending a message already trying to make plans after the second date was needy. That might have been the fumble, sorry. I hope you can still get it your way.
/r/seduction31/07/26 11:00 PM
4

what was the context of the woman cheating on you? I think I know but I'd like to hear from you.
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:39 PM
0

yes they care
/r/seduction21/07/26 03:33 AM
17

they do have unlimited options. However, out of those unlimited options, there are only quite a few that are remotely decent. I have a friend who gets over 100 likes in her stories, DMs, and complains that most are low quality men
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:43 PM
9

There's no explanation bro and you will never know what you did wrong. I was recently ghosted after a first date where we made out in the car and I sucked her tits. 20 minutes later I dropped her off and she stopped replying that same night. It just doesn't make sense and you will be better off if you try to stop thinking about an explanation. It's just how women operate.
/r/seduction08/07/26 09:21 PM
1

read the book
/r/seduction07/07/26 07:31 PM
1

Getting her IG is actually BETTER than getting the number. You can scan her completely by looking at her profile. You can know in 10 seconds if she is a hoe or a decent woman. Also, you must have a decent profile and actually do stuff to showcase your life. It's a shitty game, but there's no choice but playing it to maximize opportunities.
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:44 PM
1

You are trying for us to help you find sense. But women don't make sense. She might have wanted to kiss you at some point but then not anymore for whatever reason that no one will ever know, maybe not even her. Don't expect much and don't text her anymore. Keep living your life.
/r/seduction29/06/26 01:08 AM
1

I have a 30yo friend who lives with his mom and his old "nanny" and he still brings women to fuck in his house frequently. The mom knows and doesn't care that much. The nanny doesn't have a say but her room is next to his and I guess she can hear the drill lol
/r/seduction26/06/26 06:09 PM
1

Insta is not only about photos of yourself. It will sound shallow, but it is what it is. It's to show off content about your lifestyle. And to be present on the women's minds in a way. It also gives you a chance to interact with them naturally and casually by replying to their stories, and a chance for them to reply to yours.
/r/seduction22/06/26 05:21 PM
1

literally insta is the best tool
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:56 AM
3

didn't you get her insta?
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:05 AM
3

He has many disadvantages in Paris. First of all, Parisiens are assholes. Second, he is American and they don't like them very much. People in Europe don't like being filmed (except Czechstreets women). He has no status because he is a random, no one knows him like they do in Miami. Also, he is nothing special because European men are very handsome, especially the mediterranean ones. All the looksmaxxing in the world that Clav can do will never beat a random waiter or police officer from Madrid …
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:23 PM
2

on the other hand, if you are unattractive and rich, you don't even need game at all
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:13 PM
50

Unfortunately you are at a disadvantage, they will listen to the Karens. For now just stop approaching at that specific department store for a while. You could also experiment with a less direct approach to avoid this from happening again soon.
/r/seduction20/06/26 08:53 PM
12

it was before him
/r/seduction18/06/26 05:05 PM
1

Simple: she was horny and approached you. She was horny and messaged you. She isn't horny anymore. Might reach out later when she is and that's when you have to strike by asking her out immediately. Don't chase or she will lose any interest.
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:54 PM
2

Why would she see you as a fuckboy lol you have a friend and you are going to the concert with her, end of story. And yes, it is positive that women see you have options. My advice is the following: go to the concert and only invite your FWB if you actually enjoy the company of the girl you are going to choose. Don't bring her just to get the other one jealous, because it will distract you from having a good time. If you don't think your night will be better if you invite a FWB, then just go by …
/r/seduction12/06/26 05:16 PM
-5

never compliment
/r/seduction10/06/26 06:31 PM
13

yeah that was a weird move lol I would say never take your shirt off yourself, let the woman do it.
/r/seduction07/06/26 10:59 PM
1

First of all, your approach was bad. Second, even a guy with a good approach could have been rejected the same ones.
/r/seduction07/06/26 07:33 PM
23

women are never truly single
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:46 PM
8

And it's not your fault. Having sex and making out is not an indicator of anything in the early stage. They can dump you at anytime for any reason, especially at the start. Most likely, there could be another guy in the picture. Not necessarily actively present, but she could still be thinking about him and just can't feel the click with you that she felt with him.
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:38 PM
1

It's just at the beginning. It sucks but women are ruthless if you come up as needy.
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:58 PM
6

nah, hospitals are something else. There's something about them that makes people horny for some reason. I've worked in hospitality with young people and sure there are some hook ups and relations between coworkers, but at a normal rate. In hospitals literally everyone sleeps with everyone.
/r/seduction26/05/26 04:14 PM
3

you are right, to take advantage of nurse promiscuity you basically have to work at a hospital. Preferably as a doctor, but any male gets laid there.
/r/seduction26/05/26 04:08 PM
1

Wether you are rich or poor, handsome or ugly, women don't care about your feelings.
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:55 PM
1

Yes you can, but you have to calibrate your approaches really well. You can't use direct game because, as people have told you, it will take 1 woman calling HR to get you fired. So what can you do? Just regular chit chat and banter. Be friendly and fun. If someone is interested in you, they will let you know.
/r/seduction24/05/26 07:34 PM
2

I used it a few times and it worked lol
/r/seduction22/05/26 05:29 PM
5

Sorry bro but it was a bad approach. Don't say "you are cute" "you are beautiful". It's a huge mistake. Instead, you could have approached directly making a comment/question about the book she was reading. She could have been more receptive. It probably would not have changed the outcome, but you would have had better odds. Or could have at least became her friend and then you could meet other women through her, don't undermine that option ever.
/r/seduction20/05/26 08:13 PM
0

dew it
/r/seduction19/05/26 09:57 PM
9

it's always a 50-50
/r/seduction18/05/26 04:14 AM
2

don't bother
/r/seduction06/05/26 05:32 PM
34

My gym coach is strong but not jacked jacked, doesn't have a six pack and his body fat must be like 24%. But he has HUGE biceps and a decent looking face. Women throw themselves to him, legit daily he receives DMs on Instagram from women hitting on him.
/r/seduction02/05/26 09:01 PM
2

Too bold and she was lazy to ask. Should've asked her out directly instead.
/r/seduction27/04/26 08:20 PM
7

Yeah sometimes very low tiered women will be disgusted by you for any reason and a total 10 will randomly like you. Think about this the next time you get rejected by a mid girl. There's a 10 somewhere who would be willing to date you. I remember a mid girl from Bumble who I could see was instantly not into me when we met for coffee and blocked me right after she left the place. But I also had a very pretty millionaire girlfriend who told me she had a crush on my ever since the first time she sa…
/r/seduction26/04/26 08:26 PM
0

yes but most women already have their day planned and won't change it for you. Most of the time not even if they really like you, only crazies will drop everything for you.
/r/seduction24/04/26 04:05 PM
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2. Go for an insta-date. Don't plan far in advance. In my experience, this is not good. It makes you look weak because it means that you have no plans and you are not a busy man. Also, women are less likely to accept a date within the same day, they need time to process. At minimum, you should ask with 1 day in advance. Ideally, no more than 3 days in advance or 4, with girls who are very social and have tons of plans with her friends.
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:44 PM
2

I think the female psyche has a real hard time with permanent, enduring bonds when they don't feel good in the moment. It's because women are selfish by nature. A man puts his family first and himself last. A woman puts herself first, maybe her kids afterwards and the husband last. And it has a reason: for milleniums men used to die in fights, skirmishes and wars for the sake of protecting their families, while women hid. Human women are one of the few if not the only species where females don't…
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:00 PM
1

You have bigger problems than this flakey girl.
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:41 PM
0

they do but you don't see it because they are chasing the top 1% hottest and richest men. Which is statistically unlikely for you to know one of those men.
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:41 PM
3

Get a wing definitely. I would say to not go out specifically to approach women. Just go out with a friend to eat, to do something and approach if you see someone you like. That could lower the pressure I think
/r/seduction20/04/26 02:21 AM
45

Go to a motel. You don't have to suggest it directly because most will act prude and say no right away. While you are intensely making out in your car, ask her if she wants to come over to your house. She will say "but what about your parents?". You will say "I don't care just don't be loud". She will hesitate and then you can say "well, I know another place we could go and be completely alone...". She will be horny and likely to say yes, unless she has strict values, which some girls do.
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:09 AM
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You have to be one of the jacked guys of the gym. The more jacked you are, the more status you have in a gym. A weakling has basically zero status in a gym. He could outperform a jacked guy somewhere else, but not there.
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:59 PM
4

I mean yeah haha a man doing this would mind blow the woman and make her more attracted to him. But a woman doing this to a man is painful for the guy.
/r/seduction16/04/26 10:48 PM
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It's just how women operate nowadays because they feel they have unlimited options. They have became way too picky and can ghost you for nonsense shit such as that they didn't like your shirt or you accidentally made a sound or emphasis in something and they found it awkward. They know they can have another date the next day.
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:50 PM
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They don't even have to be on dating apps. I have a friend who gets dozens of follow requests on instagram daily. While most of the men who follow her are complete garbage, there are occassionally decent guys and she is open to at least chat with them.
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:47 PM
2

I understand. As I said, don't overthink and be cool. Next time you run into each other just say "hey how is it going?" and she will do the rest of the job if she is interested, just as the girl I told you did.
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:44 PM
2

You are overthinking. I also had a gym crush and we shared machine a couple times. She asked me once, I asked her the next time. Didn't exchange many words at all, I was focused on my training and rest times. Then there was a time that we both went to the boxing class and she started talking to me at the end of it. Then the next day she said hi to me and now every day we greet each other and hang out at the gym. I decided to take it slowly because I really like this gym and if something goes wro…
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:06 PM
1

that's not a funny line anymore btw
/r/seduction14/04/26 04:54 PM
3

what is the success rate of this direct approach? Not specifically talking about lays, but about interest reciprocrated or openess on their end.
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:05 PM
2

most common opener?
/r/seduction13/04/26 05:39 PM
2

beard
/r/seduction13/04/26 03:18 PM
4

all right, you asked for tips and I gave one.
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:48 PM
2

You can always try surgery. I have a friend who had a shitty nose, he had surgery and now he looks way better. Also, there are ways to become attractive personalitywise. I also have a friend who is not attractive but still gets women throw themselves at him because he has an attractive personality.
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:42 PM
2

Usually at school or through their social circle. Sometimes, their workplaces (and if they work at all). Truly hot chicks are a weird phenomenon, they usually get in relationships with men they have known for a while. They rarely date someone out of their social circle unless the guy is a top 1% in looks/money or is famous. Hot chicks' social circles are more exclusive than 7-8s chicks. So everyone knows each other in those circles. There are guys who chase them for years until they get finally …
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:25 PM
0

Yes it means something. There's at least curiosity on their end, which is a good start. Usually the ones who follow me back are the ones who are responsive if I DM them.
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:59 PM
3

You are cooked, should never have done that. Should have talked to her and eventually asked for it. Move on and don't think about it, focus on new girls.
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:56 PM
141

Truly hot girls usually always have a boyfriend or don't go out a lot.
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:51 PM
1

How to keep her around? either become really close friends or pay for her drinks and she will be happy to stick around. In Mexico we have that kind of female friends who we invite to the club and they don't have to pay for anything, their only job is to look pretty and be with us all night. They can, of course, go dance or be with other guys if they want, but they very rarely get approached. They are useful pre-selection tools and we also actually enjoy their company. It's much more fun to have …
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:21 PM
1

you made me giggle
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:05 PM
1

Positive reviews for giving compliments are irrelevant. What is relevant is your lay count. I've shared many comments here over the years. I might post something soon.
/r/seduction09/04/26 04:24 PM
16

that's not the W you think it is sorry
/r/seduction09/04/26 03:46 PM
1

It doesn't matter for that, but it matters when you have sex. I enjoy sex more after not masturbating for days.
/r/seduction08/04/26 03:47 PM
1

It's ok, I can get fat and still pull.
/r/seduction08/04/26 03:41 PM
1

you made me laugh
/r/seduction08/04/26 03:40 PM
1

go back to relationship advice where you belong
/r/seduction08/04/26 03:39 PM
6

Realistically, you will very likely never be around a true 10. Even if you somehow are, the greater majority of 10s only have looks to offer. You missed nothing other than just sticking your penis inside of a good looking body. You shot your shot, didn't work, whatever.
/r/seduction07/04/26 10:22 PM
15

It's possible. A few weeks ago, I approached a fattie because, for some reason, one of my friends likes fatties and said he liked her. I said all right, I'll go bring her and her friend to our table. I went and she rejected my approach lol I was doing her a favor setting her up with my friend and had the audacity to reject me. She probably had not been approached in years. Why didn't that hurt my ego? Because I know I have much more value than her and I don't care. It's her loss. A couple hours …
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:56 PM
1

Use your judgement. When in doubt, just don't approach.
/r/seduction07/04/26 04:06 PM
7

It's important for logistics. I still live at home and I can't bring anyone. Most women in my city still live with their parents as well, so it gets tough, only options are motels and hotels. But that's when they are already dtf. I have had women that wer not openly dtf but could have fucked if I lived alone and brought them to watch movies or something, but I didn't because I couldn't.
/r/seduction06/04/26 10:44 PM
2

you are halfway there already. At least you got balls to approach, now you need to work on game and looksmaxxing
/r/seduction06/04/26 07:39 PM
1

Ambiguous answers = no Unless they give a specific reason of why they have to confirm later like: "let me check because I think I was going to take care of my grandma, need to check if my sister can cover me. I'll let you know". Actual situation that has happened to me. Only when they give an actual reason that sounds credible, it means that they are geniuinely going to check something to confirm.
/r/seduction03/04/26 09:59 PM
1

1 week is like 1 year in women's time perception. Things can change a lot so you need to take some action before the date.
/r/seduction03/04/26 05:00 PM
1

needy would have been trying to constantly overtext daily. You need to calibrate
/r/seduction03/04/26 04:59 PM
34

I have a friend who is bald since he was like 21. He gets tons of pussy and he doesn't even really have game at all. He is sort of jacked and handsome and that's enough for him to do well. Baldness doesn't really matter. You will be fine if you are jacked and handomse. Edit: I forgot to add that he is like 1.73m (5'8'') tall. Some guys just have it. As long as you have a pretty face you can make it regardless of hair or height.
/r/seduction02/04/26 08:12 PM
2

Some women are what is called "prickteasers" They will flirt, dance, grind on your dick but will back off from kiss attempts and of course won't sleep with you.
/r/seduction02/04/26 03:27 PM
2

rent an airbnb and get them together there, organize something fun non-sex related
/r/seduction01/04/26 03:10 PM
8

Get them together at your place with some excuse and perform the "Dual induction massage" technique that is described by Style in his book "The Game". Look it up and that's all you need. No mind games, no need to bring it up.
/r/seduction01/04/26 05:03 AM
25

Don't go to places you sit accross from each other. You can do a coffee shop/ice cream and something else, try to go to 2 different places within the same date. Don't overextend the date even if you are having a great time. Be playful, kino escalate, and if you did it correctly and sense positive response, try to end with a goodbye kiss. Make sure that the second location is a really fun one. Could be an arcade, escape room, mini golf, karaoke bar, bowling, a county fair, some shit like that. Th…
/r/seduction31/03/26 04:36 PM
5

Bad response in the last paragraph. You should banter attack her back instead of justifying yourself
/r/seduction30/03/26 04:34 PM
5

It's peacoking 101. Do it. I used to peacock a lot. I was known for the eccentric designs of my shirts and always caught attention and comments especially from women. Peacocking is a great tool for the game.
/r/seduction30/03/26 04:31 PM
2

Ok so do this: only go when you know she is working, check if she is doing the New York Times crossword puzzles and do the same while you eat grilled sandwiches. Eventually you will do the crowssword puzzles 10 feet from each other, you will catch her looking over at you and that will be your chance to start conversation "excuse me? 14 across? Seven letter word... may I ask what you wrote down?" and things will naturally follow from there. Then one day she will cry when you tell the story in fro…
/r/seduction30/03/26 04:09 PM
1

your girlfriend is not a date you are getting to know
/r/seduction29/03/26 05:55 PM
7

I mean, things can happen. I would give her the benefit of the doubt and meet her anyway. The guy already wasted hours getting ready, arriving to the place early. 30-40 minutes more don't hurt. Then evaluate once I met her and if I smelled the bullshit, then go next.
/r/seduction29/03/26 05:19 AM
2

Indeed. You should give women the least information possible. I also remember when one asked my body count and I told her the truth and she was very conflicted with it. Always tell them what they want to hear, not the truth. I learned.
/r/seduction29/03/26 05:03 AM
16

I am naturally a very honest person, but I have learned that honesty is unforgiven by women. And I have seen people get forgiven for horrible lies and things.
/r/seduction29/03/26 04:50 AM
56

Yes. The most important thing that I have learned is that women do not value honesty. They will rather be lied at and discover the truth later than have the truth straight away. NEVER be completely honest with women. Hide things that are better hidden. For example: - Did you sleep with a friend of hers in the past? DO NOT TELL HER. She will very likely ditch you if you tell her at the start. On the other hand, if she discovers ir later, she will eventually forgive you for not telling her and wil…
/r/seduction29/03/26 12:43 AM
1

I agree with you but it's sadly the world we live in. We have to adapt to maximize options. It's a simple evolution principle: adapt or die. I identified that I had a problem, I wasn't getting dates. My online presence was minimal. I did something about it, sort of what this post talks about, and I started to gain traction. I don't like posting shift, I find it cringe, but I have to do it if I want to reliably get women. And as I said, it's not about Instagram DM approaching. It's about reassura…
/r/seduction27/03/26 07:42 PM
12

So basically she picked you. You lucked out. "Being yourself" is not good advice. Being themselves is what has many men being losers and they need to change themselves because no woman will magically pick them. You will say "but it happened to me", yes, but you are 1 out of 100.
/r/seduction27/03/26 05:21 PM
133

Dude you literally almost have her naked in your bed. It's very easy: don't fuck it up. How? Be chill and non-needy, you don't have anything to prove or to attract her. Escalate physically and she will do the rest.
/r/seduction27/03/26 05:16 PM
1

it is not a particularly predictable way to get a date. I've gotten many dates thanks to Instagram. It is not THE way to get dates, but it helps A LOT. Not only by cold approaching women through it, but if your profile is good it can reinforce and enhance the interest of someone who you meet IRL.
/r/seduction27/03/26 04:29 PM
2

Man Instagram is not meant to be professional. If the profile is too tryhard, the women will notice and it will be detrimental for success cause it's kind of weird. Being casual is key. But ok, it looks like you might be a guy who is very meticulously organized and that's not wrong, that's your personality.
/r/seduction26/03/26 11:32 PM
2

I partially agree with you with the trying too hard part like segmenting the stories in categories. But every little thing counts on a woman getting attracted to you or potentially losing attraction.
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:18 PM
13

Good guide but I think that the highlights are too much. You can just dump whatever in them as long as you showcase all the traits you describe in your pictures, they don't have to specifically be arranged in their specific categories. I disagree with the age and school in bio. No need to imo. Usage of emojis is not wrong as long as it's not girly ones. You can put emojis that describe you like a sports ball🏈 🏀 or golf club or idk. Disappointed on the people here that put excuses instead of taki…
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:09 PM
18

It's an useful guide, it is as long as it needs to be. If you want to improve you have to put the work in. If you don't want to read 5 minutes there's a you problem.
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:02 PM
7

It's low value, indeed. You don't need as many pictures as "posts" you can post them as stories and that works too. Many people have 0 posts nowadays, specifically because they are ashamed of not getting many likes. As men we should not be ashamed of that, don't give a fuck about likes or number of followers. But we have to adapt to women's social rules sometimes and they are very judgamental on that.
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:00 PM
4

I mean, you don't have to textbook follow everything. If you have a job where people take pictures at events or meetings you can use that instead.
/r/seduction26/03/26 08:56 PM
1

For sure. But I think dating is harder than converting to GF. To convert to GF you just need to not be needy and not want a relationship.
/r/seduction26/03/26 03:16 PM
0

The way to get women want a relationship with you is you not wanting a relationship with them (but not saying it outloud).
/r/seduction25/03/26 09:02 PM
1

it's over bro, sorry
/r/seduction25/03/26 07:18 PM
1

I then made the big mistake of taking it too slow and stopped escalating sexually so I wouldn’t overwhelm her. Absolute mistake and I'm glad that you are aware of it. For anyone considering this DO NOT PROCEED THIS WAY, you will sabotage yourself. I made the same mistake last year with a girl who I thought was very special. She needed time to cool up because she found out I used to fuck a friend of hers in the past, but still wanted to see me. I decided to "give her space" and stopped any physic…
/r/seduction25/03/26 07:08 PM
6

I met this girl on Reddit of all places 💀💀💀
/r/seduction24/03/26 06:43 PM
1

I usually know by the first date if she is worth it for a relationship or not. I don't think there's a method, as men we just know
/r/seduction24/03/26 04:19 PM
2

what do you prefer: a girl who confronts when conflicted or one who keeps everything for herself and takes her time to tell you things?
/r/seduction24/03/26 04:14 PM
2

Ok bro you are 18. You have many years ahead. The advice now is simple: hit the fucking gym. That's all you need to focus on right now. In the meantime, go read The Game, Models, No More Mr. Nice Guy and The Mystery Method. In 8 months we can talk again. There's something you need to understand: you must be patient because this is a process. You won't magically get hook ups in 2 weeks. I want you to go to the gym this afternoon, no excuses.
/r/seduction24/03/26 04:11 PM
2

haha that's a good motivational talk but not enough unfortunately. But sure, putting yourself out there around women is a start.
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:21 AM
1

as a foreigner they are more open to meet you
/r/seduction23/03/26 01:03 AM
2

Yeah if she lowers the intensity it's a really bad idea to pressure back because it shows neediness. She stops replying for a day? Instead of replying within a couple hours, you take 2-3 business days to text back afterwards.
/r/seduction22/03/26 11:11 PM
1

It is as simple as that while in a club's dancefloor, even if you are not very good looking. A few weeks ago I saw a funny fat guy in a club doing that and they followed suit, but as I said, they were not interested and fled in 5 seconds. Was it awkard? Not really because the guy looked like he was having fun and didn't give a shit if they rejected him. Some of the girls who rejected him actually stayed around him afterwards. If you take it personal then yes, it's a hard hit, but if you are havi…
/r/seduction22/03/26 11:05 PM
1

it was too soon. Be cool and learn to manage communication and excitement. Instead of asking for a call, you could have asked her out. A call nowadays is something you usually do with people you are already comfortable with.
/r/seduction20/03/26 07:43 PM
2

literally just dance and grab women's hands. They will usually accept your hand for a quick turn and if they are not interested they will just flee in 5 seconds. That's ok, move on and try again with another one. If they stay around dancing close to you, good. How to dance? You just need to move along with the music. If you need a graphic example, just do what Drake does in this One Dance video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kU56R-1KFLc
/r/seduction20/03/26 06:37 PM
1

if you just want to date her casually go ahead, reply to one of her stories, start convo and ask her out. If you see her as relationship material, I would not do anything other than friendship so I can meet her hot friends because she will probably break your heart either by getting back with the ex or telling you that she isn't ready for a relationship 2 months in.
/r/seduction17/03/26 05:12 PM
2

You didn't tell us what was the last thing she said. That's important to see if you can say something naturally 1 day before or if you should just wait til the day of the date. Context also matters. Are you from the US? Latin America? Europe? Where is the woman from? Texting works very differently depending on your location and origin of the woman. I am from Mexico and texting everyday with latinas before a date is literally a must do, or the date is off. With white women it works differently be…
/r/seduction17/03/26 05:09 PM
6

Most important things for Instagram game are: pictures, followers number, stories. You need great pictures. I suggest investing in traveling to some iconic places like Paris, Rome or at least NYC and get pictures in the highlight places. The followers are not a big deal, but you need to have at least 200 to be taken as not a loser. Also, make sure to not follow 800. Following to follower ratio has to be balanced. Like for every 200 followers , 300 following, no more. And instagram stories are al…
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:19 PM
3

I disagree. The bill should not be for you to demonstrate anything. It doesn't matter if you are on the "I don't care if I pay" side or in the "bill should be splitted" one. The bill, in my opinion, is better used as a test that you apply to the woman to filter her. I am very observative about the moment the bill arrives. The woman who starts checking her phone, goes to the bathroom or starts staring at the ceiling is not relationship material. The woman who takes her wallet out and offers to pa…
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:30 PM
1

That she is crazy. A decent regular woman will offer to pay her half when the bill comes.
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:24 PM
1

I am a talker but tbh it has been detrimental to me a lot of times. Sometimes the more I speak, the more I screw up things. Girls analyze sentence you say. I have found out that the best strategy is not "saying the right things" but learning to listen instead. Let women speak, vent whatever is on their mind, they will be more comfortable with you as they open up and share things from their world.
/r/seduction15/03/26 08:02 PM
1

I've started doing this lately. First off, I traveled specifically to strengthen my instagram profile with stories and good pictures. Then, I follow random girls that show up in my suggestions. Not everyone accepts my request, but the ones who do and follow me back, I usually text them saying that I think I know them from X place and just chit chat. Some have liked one of my pictures right after I accept them, and that way I know that I have free reign to text them saying whatever. Don't focus o…
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:48 PM
1

She actually was high quality. The only girl in years that I have pictured as my wife. She had attachment issues because of an present/absent father in her childhood and that's why she stayed even though I was a giant red flag. But in the end, her woman's nature prevailed and she lost interest when I went full good guy and lost my frame.
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:05 PM
1

nope, it's not that simple as I wrote it here. It was much more complex than that, she really tried but the friend's fling thing was a dealbreaker she thought she couldn't handle. To try to fix it, I went all in to be a good man but it didn't work, only pushed her apart. I should have remained neutral and let her think I was an asshole and she would've fallen eventually, cause she wanted to keep seeing me indefinitely despite the friend's thing.
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:02 PM
4

It's true in some way. You don't have to be a complete asshole, just don't be kind. Make them earn your kindness. I went out with a woman who was mad about me when in the first month we met and when it seemed that I was a complete red flag. I sent her in an uber home after the first date, I had fucked a friend of hers and she knew, I matched on Tinder with a friend of hers and also knew and thought I was going out with other women as well and that I didn't want anything serious. I seemed to be a…
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:20 AM
1

Not over bro, go hit the gym TOMORROW. Work on yourself that's the only way. You don't need to focus on seduction tricks right now. It's a process, so get visually appealing first, focus your energy on that for now.
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:31 AM
1

yeah like I said to the other guy I consider this more of an indirect flirt rather than normal flirt. To be more specific, I suck at flirting with words so I'd rather use other indirect techniques
/r/seduction13/03/26 11:05 PM
2

Tell her you like her so she can reject you already and you can start healing bro. Sorry, but this situation is not promising. You have oneteitis with a girl who has a boyfriend and has clearly friendzoned you for months.
/r/seduction13/03/26 09:16 PM
1

when I decide to randomly follow some woman on Instagram and talk to her, I say something like "hey I saw you on suggestions, it's been a while since we met at Xplace. How have you been?" Obviously, I don't know her, I just followed her because I found her hot. They will usually reply because will be confused and curious, they will either say they don't remember or that it wasn't them. Then you can say "oh well, nice you meet you now I guess" and some shit that you come up with.
/r/seduction13/03/26 09:12 PM
1

all right but it's more like "indirect" flirting. I consider flirting flirting, words.
/r/seduction13/03/26 09:05 PM
10

I think that the problem is that you are afraid of getting rejected. You just have to lose that fear and don't give a fuck if they reject you or even if they accept you. You will probably be rejected dozens of times before you get someone that is actually interested in you. I dare you to pick up your instagram, follow a random girl and DM her once she accepts you. Don't think, don't give a fuck, just act.
/r/seduction13/03/26 09:01 PM
4

I am terrible at flirting but I still do well with women. There are other ways like humour and proper kino. A newbie flirting is a recipe for disaster. At least this guy already has female interaction, I'd recommend him to learn how to kino escalate.
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:52 PM
17

"No worries. work comes first. We’ll do it another time when you’re less worried about classes. Enjoy your Friday." That was too much for her shitty response. When women are not interested in you, they cringe at you being courteous to them with stuff like "Enjoy your Friday". Should have been dry and said "Work comes first" or no reply at all. I don't think the problem was that you didn't escalate, it was hard and actually dangerous to do so while in campus. The girl is just crazy, don't think t…
/r/seduction13/03/26 06:53 PM
10

I mean yeah it's AI but it's not useless anyway. I've seen many other AI posts that were usesless and shitty.
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:31 PM
6

I went to a club in Europe recently. I saw a few guys approach and get rejected. But they didn't care that much, they kept their good attitude up and moved on to the next one. Eventually someone agreed to dance with them at least. I somehow dropped my Apple Watch without realizing it and two women found it. I coincidentally saw them asking around who's was it. I approached and said it was mine. I was so happy they found it and started a genuine conversation thanking them and demonstrated it was …
/r/seduction06/03/26 07:14 PM
3

“so you want me to fake it that I love you then leave you hurt?” Yes that's what they want lol. I have been very honest so far and I don't really get results with honesty. I decided that I will start toying to see how it goes.
/r/seduction04/03/26 04:29 PM
10

dude I live in a small city and was going out with 2 at the same time last September and I was freaking out. I was afraid that either of them would find out and every time we went out I felt like I had to literally hide. I had to take them to places that no one goes to just to avoid being seen. I can't imagine handling 4.
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:57 AM
2

All right then do that move, looks like it could work. That's the safe opening without risking anything, you don't even need confidence for that. You need the machine and you are just asking to share. Easy and no risk of looking like a weirdo or potentially getting rejected in front of everyone.
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:00 AM
3

I mean, you already have the peackocking and "passport bro" advantage. Even if you were mid looking, all the women have already their eye on you for sure. I believe that playing it slowly at the gym is the way. Just wait until she is on a machine that is part of your routine and say "hello can we share?" but in spanish. She will find it funny and say yes and if she is interested (which she probably is) she will be open to chit chat for a bit (will very likely ask if you speak spanish). Then the …
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:09 AM
6

It's just something they do bro. Don't be hard on yourself, I don't think you did anything wrong based on what you describe. Maybe she felt you were needy and opted out. She likes "arrogant" guys. It means that you could have said that you felt no spark and she would be more interested than you trying to see her again right away.
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:03 AM
2

Yes I was a douchebag with a coworker once. We were friends and had regular interactions. But I used to tease her a lot, most of the time playfully but sometimes I went too far and was a complete piece of shit. She ended up becoming my girlfriend. I am pretty sure that had I been a regular friendly guy, she would not have been my gf.
/r/seduction31/01/26 06:40 PM
3

Through social circles is the best way. Approach women who are attractive but that you don't actually like or aren't your type with the sole intention to befriend them. A mistake many men make is to want to fuck every woman they interact with, and that's detrimental for their social relations. If you are friends with attractive women, opportunities can come in many ways.
/r/seduction30/01/26 05:20 PM
2

At least she was transparent and told you that. I would have been more mad if I had found out later. If I was you, I would have called her out on that. If she apologized, I would have still fucked her anyway and not text her again.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:07 PM
1

The thing is that they are experts on examining men. They don't have to worry about you examining them, because if they have a pretty face, ass or boobs, they passed your test. So they have all the time of the world to examine every detail about you.
/r/seduction19/01/26 01:49 AM
7

I mean if you get to bang because of that (and it's the only thing you want), it's ok. It's just a tool.
/r/seduction16/01/26 04:24 AM
1

Yes. The Game and The Mystery Method changed my life. I was a virgin at 22. Managed to have sex only once before reading them. Then, in about 3 years, I managed to get in bed with 8 different women.
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:48 AM
2

can you explain the "you qualify" with an example?
/r/seduction09/01/26 08:13 PM
3

PUA lingo is gold
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:30 PM
4

plot twist, OP is the cuck guy who got his crush stolen by the new chad at work
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:24 PM
14

guy probably had a crush on her for years and was salty as fuck that this dude was boning her within a month lol
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:22 PM
3

Women have changed in the last 20 years. You could not get away with some of the routines anymore.
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:37 PM
4

This is typical. Women view nights out very differently than us. After a passionate party night with a woman, we want to keep seeing them to get laid again. 90% of the time, women don't want that, for them it was just a night out where "oops it happened" and want to forget about it because they don't want to feel like sluts. This also comes from an options POV. Lay opportunities for men are scarce and women have unlimited opportunities. So once we hook up with a woman, we naturally want to keep …
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:05 AM
1

If I only valued her for sex, I would have kept her around. Because I did not, I was honest. In a world where women complain about dishonesty, yes, I wanted a trophy for that. But now I understand that women are not logical, but emotional.
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:22 PM
9

Boring. Don't ask questions, make qualifying assumptions instead. "Based on your accent I can tell you are from Wisconsin". "Looks like you are having tons of fun tonight". You can also make exaggerating assumptions "I thought you were British" (when they clearly were not), this will usually make them laugh, fun mood will be set and they will start asking why you thought that, conversation will ongo. You can also do the best friends test, idk. You have to set a fun vibe to open them up. If you j…
/r/seduction02/01/26 08:38 PM
4

I will also point out that being a host of good events gives you the respect of other men, which strengthens your social network and builds a positive hierarchy.
/r/seduction02/01/26 07:24 PM
45

don't reply and she will pursue later
/r/seduction01/01/26 05:54 PM
3

No bro it's too obvious when someone is using an AI generated picture. Plus, many women hate AI for no reason so it's just not worth it.
/r/seduction31/12/25 04:45 AM
3

Excellent post.
/r/seduction27/12/25 05:42 PM
2

I can assure you you have a better body than 90% of the men in the market. You are fine don't overthink it. I've seen fat guys pull the hottest chick in the party. Focus on social skills and make money.
/r/seduction25/12/25 09:36 PM
0

Indirect is king with super hot babes that get hit on directly all the time by losers. Direct is better for women who don't receive much attention or you can tell they are dtf.
/r/seduction25/12/25 08:24 PM
3

If the only thing you want is to get laid, literally just go to Colombia, Costa Rica, Panama. It will be much cheaper than Miami (where you are not actually guaranteed to bang). If you don't trust me, download Tinder/Bumble right now and use the passport function. That's all you need.
/r/seduction24/12/25 01:54 PM
8

Yes, don't share everything. Women don't value honesty.
/r/seduction23/12/25 11:05 PM
1

Not worth it bro. My biggest fear with women like that is getting them pregnant, so I don't even bother. You would get giga fucked in the ass by tying yourself for life to someone like that because of a child.
/r/seduction17/12/25 10:38 PM
2

Only experience will tell you. I have a recent example. I started seeing a woman once right after a situationship that could not be. We hooked up for a couple weeks but she wanted something serious. I liked her, but decided to be honest and told her that I could no longer see her because she wanted something serious and I could not deliver that at the moment cause I was still thinking about another woman and didn't want to play with her feelings. I thought she would value my honesty but she got …
/r/seduction16/12/25 08:17 PM
9

Women don't value honesty, not even from an attractive dude. They will rather be lied at and find out later than getting the truth directly.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:46 PM
16

People here will tell you that you are insane. But hook ups happen all the time in work conferences out of town. You are not going to get fired if you have sex with a coworker. However, I would not try to actively hit on them directly. Just be cool, chat, dance, have fun and wait for clear signals.
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:02 PM
2

At absolutely no point. YOU NEVER "CONFESS". "Confessing" is the weakest thing a man can ever do and will turn off any woman.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:33 PM
8

A friend who I used to fuck with met her boyfriend at a "reading circle" that he organizes. He doesn't spend a dime, just looks up short stories, shares them links in the group chat, sets a date and time in a coffee shop/cheap restaurant to talk about them and people show up. He is the moderator/leader or the group.
/r/seduction05/11/25 07:31 PM
2

tempted? should have asked that
/r/seduction05/11/25 07:11 PM
1

she takes 1 day, wait 2 days to reply
/r/seduction05/11/25 07:10 PM
6

lol this happens everytime, you don't need to overthink. It's easy: women are present oriented. They just live flow of the moment, whatever happens in the moment is like "oops, it just happened". They are aversive to making rational decisions and they make emotional decisions. This girl was having a great time in the party, was probably horny and targeted you. The high of the moment passed and now that she would need to make the rational decision to see you again, she will rather avoid it by not…
/r/seduction03/11/25 07:35 PM
10

well, no one sets dinner dates with a shit dad anyway
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:17 AM
16

having sex as a priority is not a healthy lifestyle and will paradoxically result in less sex.
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:16 AM
108

Regardless of anything, one should not cancel plans with their dad for a woman. Or any plans at all. It's extremely needy and it becomes a bad internal habit. Your life, friends and family should always come first.
/r/seduction30/10/25 02:56 AM
6

start with the Mystery method
/r/seduction23/10/25 04:02 AM
4

You could keep track of your text conversations, record in person conversations and even propose the woman to record sex tapes.
/r/seduction14/10/25 09:25 PM
3

Legit. They would rather hear that you cheated than that you got cheated on. Never share experiences that make you look weak. That's why I'm against the "vulnerability" shit Mark Manson says.
/r/seduction09/10/25 07:51 PM
25

That's great, she sounds like she is a good person. Also, being seen with her gives you a shit ton of pre-selection value.
/r/seduction26/09/25 07:24 PM
4

Yes bro, put limits since the early stage. If you allow them to get away with stuff, they keep pushing for more and more, and you won't be able to say no. That's the reason why I denied the expensive restaurant and wine. Never comply just to keep them happy. Me not granting those requests actually hooked her more.
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:20 AM
10

Happened to me the same recently. By the first week, she already asked to go to expensive restaurants (request rejected), to buy her expensive wine for a beach date (bought a much cheaper one), was a drama queen and also said we would only have sex until we were in an official relationship. Hot babe, but I don't want drama in my life, so I ended things on week 3. She is still texting me.
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:33 PM
-2

It's not the same
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:37 PM
1

I think what OP means is that he wasn't interested and it's implied that didn't do anything during the date. The women he is complaining about, flake after kissing you, making plans for other day during the date, etc.
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:32 PM
1

I had this happen to me a month ago. Rarely happens, like 3 times in my life I have experienced this. A friend of my female friend basically threw herself at me after I met her at a bar. Very pretty, nice body. However, I knew it was too good to be true: she is crazy and also would only have sex until we were in an official relationship. So I had to end things after the third date. At least I got a handjob. She is still texting me.
/r/seduction19/09/25 03:20 PM
5

298 were femboys
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:00 PM
10

Cringe message, you should have just banter replied to a story of hers in the following days or saying "Hi how is it going?" normally to try to spark a conversation. Just a "thank you for coming" is nothing, she has nothing to respond to that so just liked the message. Go on to the next one and don't repeat the same mistake. A "thank you for coming" message yells nice guy. Don't insist, don't interact with her. If she ever replies to a story of yours, you can re-engage. For now, abort mission.
/r/seduction15/09/25 07:10 PM
5

Ok you have gotten numbers. And what else? The MM is not only about getting numbers, is about closing on the spot.
/r/seduction12/09/25 06:54 PM
6

there's a fine line between demonstrating interest and acting needy
/r/seduction12/09/25 06:22 PM
5

Sorry but that sounds very needy and she will find another excuse to cancel. You don't plan something special for a first date, she has done literally nothing to deserve it. Listen to me: ghost. Call a friend and go out tonight, approach other people.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:58 PM
3

I'll tell you the best way to try your shot: ghost her. Women are used to ghost, they don't like being ghosted. IF she had some interest, she will reach out later. If she doesn't, she wasn't interested at all. Stop acting like she is your only option and don't let her disrespect your time. She cancelled 1 hour before the date and responded 4 hours before the re-scheduled one saying you should bring a friend. It's a disprespect that you should not allow no matter how hot she is. Ghost and move on…
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:43 PM
13

You are correct, she probably didn't take well the "my car is nice and warm" even if she apparently laughed. She got uncomfortable over that comment and just cancelled.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:38 PM
4

I say that I am a compulsive ring stealer and that I will try to steal it at any possible moment. That way I have a justified reason to touch her hand at anytime without it being weird, but fun instead
/r/seduction11/09/25 08:12 PM
3

doesn't matter had sex
/r/seduction10/09/25 05:43 PM
1

A roomate had a party with his coworkers in our apartment. I vibed with them for a while but went to bed cause I had to work very early the next day. I was on my phone while I was about to sleep when, suddenly, one of the girls came to my room and asked to use my bathroom cause the one in the living room was occupied. I said sure, go ahead. After she did her drill, she came to sit on my bed to chat with me. She was being very obvious and I could have banged her right away, but I had seen her mak…
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:57 AM
1

I had a friend who was a master of asking for nudes and actually getting them. And he was not handsome. He was the best texter I've ever known. Unfortunately, I never learned his secret.
/r/seduction02/09/25 07:17 PM
1

I approached gently, super confident, super positive vibes, big smile and nothing over the top In his mind he was being all that. There are tons of times when our perception of things is very far from reality. I remember a meeting at a workplace once where I thought I did great, that I was being honest, kind, vulnerable and reasonable. Turns out that management's POV was that I was defensive, interruptive, making excuses about everything and slightly irated. They were probably right because it w…
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:20 AM
2

I agree with you, but making them pay sometimes, gets them invested on you. You don't have to ask for them to pay, but just concede if they offer to pay for something. I know dozens of guys who borrowed money from their women and they are fully invested on them. Of course, that's an extreme case of douchebagism, but it shows that if women are invested on you, they will do anything for you and won't leave you.
/r/seduction26/08/25 10:10 PM
3

Reply tomorrow just with regular talk, if she wants to go out with you, you will know (if she replies quickly and with good energy) and you can propose on Tuesday, Wednesday. It's not needy to propose another date after she couldn't, it's needy if you do it immediately.
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:04 PM
3

Don't do anything. Some women like to flirt but have zero intention of more. They just love the feeling. If she has no intention of more with you, it could be detrimental to your situation at that job. If she likes you, she will let you know. But she hasn't for months. Make your conclusions.
/r/seduction22/08/25 05:52 PM
20

He can probably beat her up and she will still be obsessed with him.
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:30 PM
9

Don't think in absolutes. I had that happen to me before. Some women are just not ready to kiss yet at a given time. There could be a million reasons, but that doesn't mean she is not into you. A girl I was seeing in January did this to me after we went to a club and danced all night. It was pretty obvious that she was interested, but was a nice girl and just wasn't ready there. I kept my cool and in the next date we finally kissed. Then a couple weeks later we were already sleeping together. Do…
/r/seduction16/08/25 07:20 PM
4

I had a roomate who was a lifeguard at a pool's hotel and got hit on by his coworkers and guests all the time. He was neither muscular nor handsome and was gross as fuck, he didn't shower and used to sleep on his lifeguard outfit and went back to work dressed the next day. He later got married to a german girl and lives in Germany now. The only motherfucker guy I know who made it lol. I honestly don't know how he did everything. Some guys just have the aura.
/r/seduction14/08/25 10:09 PM
2

nothing wrong with dinner if you go to a casual place. Expensive dinners or fancy restaurants are bad.
/r/seduction08/08/25 04:17 PM
3

Date other women. She likes you but is not sure about what she wants or might have her doubts about you. Don't make the mistake to try to make her like you more or demonstrate that you are worth it. If she keeps texting you, you can keep her around for now. But don't ask her out again and be a bit colder in your responses.
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:38 PM
22

She wanted sex and you didn't take it. Yes, you fumbled. But you can still recover, ask her out this weekend or invite her to your place. Then just do it.
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:10 AM
37

A chain of dumb mistakes. The main one was posting stuff just to get her attention. You should live your life without needing attention from any woman. I can tell because I've done what you did and it's not worth it. And if you want to be genuinely active on stories, do actual things in the present instead of posting old stuff, they always smell the bullshit.
/r/seduction29/07/25 06:24 PM
63

It's standard manners for me, imo. Anytime you have a chance you can do it, same with regular doors. Doesn't hurt doing it and it's minimal effort. When I pick up a woman, I get off from the car and just wait for her leaning on my car with my arms crossed or hands in my pocket. But to be honest I just do that specifically for aura farming. Flowers on a first date? Absolutely not.
/r/seduction29/07/25 04:54 AM
2

how?
/r/seduction29/07/25 04:49 AM
10

Who cares? Hot women are not in that app, that got demonstrated with the doxxed files. Maybe only a few crazy hot ones.
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:09 PM
37

You should see that she doesn't want to go out with you because she stops replying. Doesn't reply to your reactions on her stories. She is avoidant. I can assure you that she doesn't avoid the guys she likes. You don't see her date anyone, but women are never truly single.
/r/seduction25/07/25 06:32 AM
74

It's over before it has even started. Focus on someone else
/r/seduction25/07/25 06:22 AM
1

I used to wear unconventional clothes. Like really weirdly shaped printed shirts. It worked because I used to get many comments. I'm in my 30's now and I don't think that suits me anymore, but if you are young, that's a good start.
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:04 PM
2

I'm going to be very honest, your conversation topics were boring for a text conversation. Also, you shouldn't be texting a random girl on a Friday/Saturday night for two reasons: it makes you look like you are not doing anything about your Saturday night and paints you like a loser. And number 2, because she certainly has plans and is busy on them, so will definitely not follow up any conversation, might forget to reply later and just leave you with no response because she is embarassed about f…
/r/seduction21/07/25 06:18 PM
4

Bro just live your life, just as she is doing. She is hours away. Next time she replies, wait a week until you do.
/r/seduction21/07/25 06:02 PM
2

right it would be weird why would you need to disclaim that in your bio lol
/r/seduction21/07/25 03:50 AM
2

I see your problem now. And the fact that she rejected you didn't mean she wasn't attracted. She wanted a fling and you gave her a standard safe date. She doesn't want to invest more time in you because of it, you pussied out and didn't fuck her.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:14 PM
45

You should actively try. Don't underestimate having hot friends by your side, it has tons of benefits. I have a female best friend who I've been friends with since we were 16. Very pretty, green eyes, great body, super fun person. I have never been attracted to her because of a very specific reason (a personal weird physical preference of mine), so I can purely be myself around her and don't have to worry about anything because I have zero intention to seduce her, so she opened up to me as a fri…
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:54 PM
1

because women don't care, she can have someone else at her doorstep in 20 minutes if she wants.
/r/seduction17/07/25 04:43 PM
1

I reject you and your post. How did you feel? Does my rejection change anything in your life? Rejection won't change your life for worse
/r/seduction09/07/25 11:05 PM
7

we are in a seduction sub and OP's question was about a seduction book. Do I really have to specify that I'm talking about seduction books?
/r/seduction09/07/25 11:02 PM
3

you can certainly read all seduction related books in your lifetime.
/r/seduction09/07/25 06:11 PM
1

This is it. Many women talk to other guys because they get bored of the same interaction with their boyfriend. They need fresh interactions sometimes. And that doesn't mean that they want to hook up with the other guy they talk to.
/r/seduction09/07/25 05:45 AM
42

Any book is. Read every book you possibly can, it doesn't matter if it's trash. Books will always leave you something or at least make you question whatever they say.
/r/seduction09/07/25 05:42 AM
8

I had one girl messaging me 15-25 lines each time she would reply. I could barely keep up with her conversation. She was fun to be around and very talkative, but ended up ghosting me after the third date lol.
/r/seduction09/07/25 03:16 AM
23

It's not the same. Majority of men would love what you describe because most men don't get attention from anyone. On the other hand, women are constantly getting attention from their female friends, orbiters, many also speak regularly with their family.
/r/seduction09/07/25 03:15 AM
9

Once she replies just leave her on seen if she doesn't ask you a question. And keep watching her stuff for a few days (do not react to or like their content) and letting her watch yours. You will build familiarity that way. They will also find it weird that you asked for their insta and messaged her, but stopped replying. You will look non-needy and will make them curious. After a week or two, you can reply to a story or just message her again, build a comfortable conversation and ask her out th…
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:03 PM
3

If you "take things slow" and don't push for a date in person in 1 week she will completely forget you and she wont ever remember your name. By that point the connection is dead. 1 week? more like 3 days
/r/seduction08/07/25 06:56 PM
3

tell them "if I wasn't gay you would be mine"
/r/seduction07/07/25 08:36 PM
-1

Sex talk should not be initiated by you. Let them do it.
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:28 PM
2

Whatever. Anything counts. Paying a bill, gifting you something, picking you up somewhere, changing her plans for you. Some women even give up career opportunities for a man, any man who experiences that has that chick locked in
/r/seduction01/07/25 04:22 AM
5

Women don't care about what you do for them. They care about what they do for you. They value the effort they put on you much more than the effort you put on them. To make a woman fall in love with you, you gotta make her do things for you.
/r/seduction30/06/25 05:09 PM
1

you are so right. This guy took the offense and lost. A girl I'll take on a date tomorrow, told me last night: "I'm so tired because I actually work (she is a nurse) not like others who work from home (me)". I replied: "Haha direct attack. I like it.". Then she said "Right. I thought you were a staid person, but you are chill". Had I taken it as an offensive comment, I would have looked weak and stupid, because she was clearly joking.
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:09 PM
125

Women nowadays are non-confrontational. They become confrontational on later stages of the relationship (especially after marriage). But in the very early stages of meeting someone, they will avoid confrontation at all costs.
/r/seduction26/06/25 07:40 PM
26

This made me remember James Bond in Casino Royale when he is in the cab with Vesper checking their fake script and at the end he tells her "don't worry, you are not my type" "smart?" "single".
/r/seduction23/06/25 04:53 AM
7

you don't need a bunch. Just a couple of decent looking ones are enough.
/r/seduction20/06/25 04:20 PM
3

Bad move. She won't take it well and women are unforgiving, she will just drop you and talk with someone else. You don't have to talk with her 24/7. As long as in person she is fine, how long she takes to text back doesn't matter. Don't be needy. Live your life and don't let it revolve around texting someone.
/r/seduction20/06/25 03:25 AM
8

Well, she doesn't owe you a chance just for approaching her. It's ok, at least she talked to you for a bit and didn't tell you to get lost immediately. Sometimes a woman rejecting you has nothing to do with you specifically. Maybe she was on her period, just broke up, is obsessed with someone else, or has tons of family or work issues. In some other night, maybe you could have scored. Don't let this affect you and don't stop approaching.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:51 AM
59

Right lol this woman is a pathological liar snake. I listed here all the lies she told OP: "the relationship was over for the last 2 years" "took a year to focus on myself with no dates" "you are the first guy I've kissed in years" "most men she's dated in the past didn't do things like that for her" "I am not using the app anymore" "I have some things I have to do for work and around the shop" "I didn't see your text" And then in the end she reversed things and justified herself ending it becau…
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:31 PM
1

You don't need to waste money on cigarrettes. Just a lighter is enough. Women usually don't carry one and they ask around for it. I realized that and started carrying one even though I don't smoke.
/r/seduction16/06/25 02:21 PM
37

Ok I agree with your main point. You never "confess" how you feel to a girl. But you forgot to mention that instead of telling her you like her with words, you have to do it with actions. And then wait until the woman brings up the talk.
/r/seduction15/06/25 08:07 PM
6

you love what you hate but you don't realize it
/r/seduction15/06/25 08:05 PM
3

only if the woman initiates it
/r/seduction10/06/25 07:19 PM
2

PUA say to not buy a drink to women you just happened to meet at the bar. Which is correct, in my opinion. You just met her there and she is not entitled to get free drinks just because she decided to speak with you. But when you are inviting a woman out, it is basic courtesy to pay for her food/drinks/ice cream, whatever.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:50 PM
3

If her break up was recent, you don't want to be there. It was a long relationship, so other guy will still be around for a while. She is doing you a favor by ending things now in this way, and not by cheating on you later.
/r/seduction31/05/25 04:18 PM
12

The key is you friendzoning them, not letting them friendzone you.
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:29 PM
26

End of the date is fine. Sometimes it can be at the middle. When you do it at the end of the date just say "it was really nice to meet you" or "well, see you later" or just let the woman say whatever she wants.
/r/seduction30/05/25 04:53 AM
26

alpha male of the group. amoged means that you got out-alphaed
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:43 PM
125

Get yourself another girl to hook up with, let her know everything and see how she reacts. That's the only way.
/r/seduction10/05/25 02:36 AM
1

how do you say goodbye in your country? In my country is very easy because we kiss each other's cheek when saying hello and goodbye. So, whenever I go for a kiss. I usually give a slow goodbye cheek kiss to build tension, then I back off a little while she turns her head back straight and I just kiss her mouth again.
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:42 PM
2

browse the internet looking for stuff about fastseducion dot com. I had Mystery's complete original post log from that forum but I lost the USB where I stored it.
/r/seduction01/05/25 06:32 PM
8

I did she was a South American beauty queen with like 40k followers. I hosted her at my apartment for like 5 days and in the last day we finally had sex, after flirting a lot. How did I do it? I treated her like she was a normal girl. Was even a little mean at times, like joking that she had some belly fat and asking how did she win the pageant like that and shit talk like that lol. Women like her are used to men giving them everything in silver plate and treating them like queens. So by being i…
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:01 AM
1

I'll give you an example Last Saturday I went to a bar with a group of friends. Behind me, there were tables with women around ours. In front of me, a table of like 6 chicks and 1 guy. They looked young (around 22) and a bit shy, because they weren't standing up and dancing or anything, they were just sitting drinking and chatting between themselves. Behind me: 3 chicks (looked in their 30's) in their own table, standed up drinking and dancing. Who would you approach? When danceable music starte…
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:27 PM
2

Don't focus on this woman. You got her instagram, that's fine. If you regularly post interesting content, she might reach out later. If she doesn't, it's fine. Now, about the dance, someone already told you. No one will judge you because you are a bad dancer. They will judge you if you pussy out, which is what you did (and made her leave). I am a terrible dancer and still try my best. It's even funny (in a good way) for some women seeing me dance my heart out even though I don't know what I'm do…
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:50 PM
13

Well, whenever I have a case of oneitis I just try to date other women until it goes away. Sometimes it makes it worse, though. Nothing like having oneitis, start dating someone new to forget that one and then getting ghosted by the new one. Combobreaker.
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:32 AM
1

I understand you are by yourself, right? If so, it's going to be rough. You need to find at least one dude to hang out with. I used to live in Cancun and it is not going to be easier, I consider Playa is better for hook ups and a better place to move around if you are by yourself. If I was you I would just hit Tinder/Bumble and hope for the best. If you are foreing, there's a good chance that you will get matches with locals.
/r/seduction24/04/25 07:48 PM
28

If it has happened twice, next time perform a test and be uninterested immediately after having sex. You might hook the woman this way. However, the situation you describe usually happens even if you don't show high interest. Women are just weird. You can pick up a woman in a club, have a great night, amazing talk, end up having the best sex of her life and she will still ghost the next days.
/r/seduction23/04/25 09:00 PM
59

It was the alcohol. Try to drink less. I assure you this experience would have been much better if you weren't that drunk
/r/seduction22/04/25 04:33 AM
6

You don't ask for a kiss. You gotta just feel when you can do it and go for it without saying a word. I went on a first date with someone last week. We had texted occasionally for about a week before, nothing compromising. I picked her up at her house and we went for drinks, had a regular talk. I didn't try to do anything outstanding or use any attraction tactics, I was just on autopilot. Once we were leaving the bar, I had the intention to just drive her home but I jokingly said "so now to the …
/r/seduction21/04/25 09:13 PM
1

bro literally going to school gives anyone a chance to befriend women. Most of my current female friends I know them from high school or uni.
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:55 PM
30

The friendzone is great when it's on your terms
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:48 PM
6

Absolutely. I recently had a situationship of 3 months with a very tough to open girl. She only agreed to go out with me because my female friend gave her very positive references of me. And I went out with someone new on Wednesday, who another female friend referred me with. I didn't do anything outstanding and we ended up making out. I am pretty sure that would not have happened if I wasn't referred.
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:41 PM
1

You can be yourself and get someone within your league, if you are ok with that. OP doesn't want to settle for someone from his league and wants to aim higher. Then he needs to work to achieve that. 0.1% of the women from the league he wants will like him just because of his feelings, and good luck finding that one.
/r/seduction16/04/25 05:01 PM
15

I know that you really want to get in her pants, but do you think it's worth it even as a fifth option and losing your self respect? I'd take my self respect. Maybe if you choose that, you might have another shot in the future. Right now, if you keep pushing, you will just be one of many more options that crawl to get her attention.
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:13 AM
3

Easy. Get gym girls somewhere else. Join a running club, there will be gym girls there for sure. They will be more open for conversation.
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:38 AM
1

If you know that, start trying to lose weight now. Not tomorrow. Now. Then tomorrow donate your Dorito bags and Coke cans. Being fat is not the end of the world in dating, but being in shape is a huge advantage.
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:30 AM
6

it's definitely not a benefit but with the right attitude / game you can overcome that disadvantage. I've seen tons of fat dudes with hot girlfriends and they are not even rich or anything.
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:27 AM
1

It depends if you are very hot or not. You could get away with it if you are. If you are just a decent looking or average guy, would probably be too agressive.
/r/seduction16/04/25 12:09 AM
1

The "what if?" sucks, but take the L and learn from your mistakes. Don't get too drunk again. Don't let her do so neither. Push a bit more towards sex. As someone else said, if you pulled this girl you can pull a similar one later and this experience will help you to seal the deal with that one.
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:59 AM
17

No. As long as you don't use the knowledge acquired to talk to other women with sexual intentions, you are not doing anything wrong. Game can also improve your social skills overall, which you can use to non-sexual purposes. You can also try to game your girl ocassionally. And game can give you tools to be a better man, which will help you to keep her around.
/r/seduction14/04/25 12:04 AM
3

Your text was vague. She might have understood that you wanted to hang out in group again. However, the fact that she proposed a plan is a good sign. Go play tennis and then ask her out after that, but actually directly this time, sort of like: "do you wanna go get something to eat tomorrow? I know this delicious place"
/r/seduction12/04/25 06:54 PM
7

Well she took it well. Don't be weird and be cool with her. You can still go out with her as friends and she can be helpful for pre-selection vibes.
/r/seduction08/04/25 06:03 PM
1

Even while you were seeing her? If so, why doesn't it bother you? I don't care about a woman's past before me neither, but I care about their present once I meet her.
/r/seduction08/04/25 06:25 AM
13

Women don't usually respond well to words. They respond much better to actions. I don't think I've ever said anything before a first kiss. You don't have to say anything, with just the dance + a look you can get her in the mood for her to want you to kiss her.
/r/seduction03/04/25 05:12 PM
4

There's no clean way for you to move. The question is: do you care about having them in your life? Or about potentially ruining their friendship? If you do, don't do anything and wait until the second girl makes a move. If you don't, just ask her out. Or you could also talk to girl 1 first and ask her if it would be ok. Best case scenario: Girl 1 will say she is fine with it and Girl 2 accepts. Neutral case: Girl 1 freaks out and they stop talking to you. Or Girl 2 rejects you and they stop talk…
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:24 PM
2

Get her Instagram. If you have a fun life, you will post stories and she will see them, keeping you on her mind and might even react to them. When she is back, she might hit you up again or you could reach out yourself. Or you could remain in touch via IG, who knows.
/r/seduction27/03/25 09:59 PM
20

lol bruh you just assumed things and ghosted the girl without knowing for sure. You were probably right, but should have at least replied to the "Sweet Dreams" message and see if she would reach out again. You stopped texting her and of course she never reached out again. She might have had something personal going on, some women are secretive and won't tell you things. You assumed she wasn't into you anymore and ended up ghosting her.
/r/seduction25/03/25 06:26 PM
5

Same for me, but I ask for their Instagram instead. I just want to know they are legit by looking at their Instagram. Once we speak through there, the meeting rate is much higher for me.
/r/seduction23/03/25 08:21 PM
0

Ok then just be born again with godlike looks and I promise you will not have to do anything
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:03 PM
3

You don't ask anything. Women prefer action rather than talks. Your actions will dictate her intentions.
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:15 PM
21

I'd give up all the women I have been with to have forever the 1 woman I've loved. You are blessed my friend.
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:04 PM
0

I mean, this "if she wants to be with you she will be with you" might be overreacting. Maybe she would have liked to go but had work and couldn't. The issue is that she didn't let him know. That's shitty, women just hate saying no to dates.
/r/seduction15/03/25 05:53 PM
3

Don't reach out, let her do it. If she does, she might apologize for not letting you know or something. If she doesn't mention anything, you could give her a chance to do it in person.
/r/seduction15/03/25 05:51 PM
11

Worked at Disney, not specifically true. Hotties are scarce. Great place for gay folks, though.
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:24 PM
1

Holding the door is not chivalry lol it's just common courtesy. Don't think about chivalry, just be decent.
/r/seduction12/03/25 06:17 AM
3

First rule of women: what women say is not necessarily what they want. Do the opposite of what she says. If you are doing well, don't change anything.
/r/seduction04/03/25 01:26 AM
4

You are correct, but you can still open up a bit while looking strong. I don't like the "vulnerable" concept because I think it's a concept that Mark Manson elaborated just to "shift paradigms". But opening up a bit sometimes, without being a little bitch, can benefit in some cases. While my mom had cancer I didn't tell anyone in my life, legit no one knew other than family. Now that she ended treatment and is much better, I only bring it up with specific women until it's the right time and I te…
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:07 PM
1

Literally don't do anything. She is coming over to your house, just have sex. That's enough reignition. If you want something serious, keep it cool for a while and wait until she asks.
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:36 AM
3

Don't say anything. If you say something now she will back off. If you want to keep her around, wait until she is hooked and asks "what are we?". Only then you can tell her you don't want anything serious and she might accept.
/r/seduction24/02/25 07:35 AM
1

You taking up courage is not enough to turn around anything. She already rejected you and will do it again. Move on and meet other women who value you.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:53 PM
42

Sorry but you did this to yourself man. Waiting 2 hours for a low value chick and then making a terrible joke.
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:44 AM
4

Or from a hot guy in Italy who wants to meet her up. He is a direct threat. Happened to me with a NYC guy that randomly followed my ex-girlfriend on Instagram, who ended up coming to meet her, just when we were resuming talks to renew our contract.
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:34 PM
6

I was hooking up casually with a woman and she suddently ghosted me. Some weeks later, I saw that she had gotten a boyfriend. I was a bit upset, but decided to keep her around in socials. Months later, she broke up and we ran into each other at a club and we had sex again, then I ghosted her for a bit. Weeks later, we started chatting again, even though she came back with her boyfriend, and one day I saw a very pretty coworker of hers in her insta story. I asked her about that girl's situation a…
/r/seduction24/01/25 04:30 PM
2

main yasuo 2m mastery for extra wetness
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:01 PM
18

Any advice that a woman gives you is the worst advice you will hear.
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:14 PM
24

lol you are wrong. Many don't care if they like you. I usually give them the choice: "I can pick you up and we can go to X place, or we can meet there if you want. You tell me." Most of the time they ask me to pick them up, even if they have a car of their own.
/r/seduction07/01/25 10:24 PM
1

If she liked you, you would already know. And if you liked her, you shuold have flirted since you met her. Now it could be too late. The Office's Jim & Pam plot doesn't happen IRL.
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:59 AM
3

Female friends are important. They offer things that male friends don't. Like social validation, for example.
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:45 PM
1

Lol bro for that amount of money you can go to a live seduction bootcamp or something like that. Don't waste your money on this.
/r/seduction27/12/24 09:42 PM
2

AI will only make the models much more money. They will be able to chat with men all day without having to do anything or pay someone to reply to the messages, as they currently do. And there will be folks who will still believe they are talking to the model. I don't see AI generated models taking over. But I guess the AI industry is advancing quickly and they might come up with something unimagined yet.
/r/seduction26/12/24 06:38 AM
3

haha if you are caucasian literally just buy Tinder passport, fly to Mexico City, Bogota, Lima or Rio de Janeiro and get a wife. Doesn't really matter if you follow rules 1 and 2 at all.
/r/seduction17/12/24 11:14 PM
5

I mean, me and other friends have hooked up with Americans, British, Norwegians, Australians. Just a one night thing. They don't ever try to reach out again and if we do, they ignore us lol. Female Mexican friends who hooked up with foreigners catch them on the spot and they don't ever let them go. The poor men naively fall in the trap.
/r/seduction17/12/24 11:09 PM
19

Sexually, yea. Not for long term, though. At least in my personal experience and what I have seen with friends/acquaitances.
/r/seduction17/12/24 08:26 AM
46

For them, yeah it's an easy ticket out of the violent shithole lol. For the boys is way harder. I can count the ones I know that married a foreigner with just one hand.
/r/seduction17/12/24 06:03 AM
198

Tons of vultures looking forward to marry you so they can escape their countries. Source: I live in Latin America and I know dozens of women who get foreign boyfriends in order to go live with them.
/r/seduction17/12/24 05:33 AM
1

lol no
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:57 AM
1

Don't message her again. She ignored you, have self respect. I've been there in a similar situation bro, it's not worth trying to brute force yourself into her DMs. And absolutely do not plan a visit just to see her. Keep going with your life, post things and actively look for women in your area. Her loss.
/r/seduction05/12/24 06:00 AM
5

Then you have relevant information. Do you really want to hit on basic women?
/r/seduction05/12/24 05:36 AM
8

right, but this is a generic opportunity that anyone can seize right now and where folks can get general advice
/r/seduction05/12/24 05:34 AM
1

If you like them as a person, why not? I asked for a fattie's Insta last weekend lol she was fun and had hot friends. She was also pretty, so hopefully in the future she will get in shape and be a potential hook. However, I did not try to seduce her, of course. Just a friendly interaction. I usually ask for women's Instagram in general, btw. In my country is more personal and interactive than just the number.
/r/seduction04/12/24 02:08 PM
11

Approach women you are not interested in. That makes it much easier because you will have no fear to get rejected. That should help you get loose and in a good mood to comfortably approach others that you do like.
/r/seduction03/12/24 08:04 PM
13

Don't try to be a nice guy
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:11 PM
19

Keep up king I just started hitting the gym and hope to get there soon as well.
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:15 AM
7

Damn that guy Okan Serbes is ridiculous. He is also very handsome, to be fair. Even if he didn't have that body, he would still get looks.
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:11 AM
4

Keep up king. I just started hitting the gym with a personal trainer this month. I was in a skinny-belly shape. Slowly losing fat cause I follow the diet strictly. Hopefully in 6 months I'll be able to have gained some muscle. I don't do bad with women, but I am sure great shape will open me many more options.
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:06 AM
1

and what did you do? hit the gym and something else?
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:30 AM
51

My father used to tell me "how they see you, they treat you".
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:30 AM
1

No disrespect, but I was having a rough day and you made me laugh my ass off.
/r/seduction26/11/24 08:10 PM
1

Just try to schedule a date as soon as possible and hope to regain momentum there.
/r/seduction25/11/24 06:50 PM
1

It doesn't matter. She has or probably will date someone older than you at some point. Just make sure that she is truly 18 and go for it.
/r/seduction25/11/24 04:24 AM
2

I mentioned to her that a friend from work recognized her because they’d matched on Hinge but only exchanged a couple of messages. I asked if she knew him by any chance, and she started gushing about how attractive she found him. She went on for like three minutes about how much she liked him and even told me she deleted all her dating apps after he stopped replying. It completely killed the vibe. They banged. Why would to bring that up in the first place, btw? Lol There's nothing wrong with bei…
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:26 PM
2

Usually, I would find just one diamond in the rough every few months. With Premium, I got 3 hook ups in less than a month and also used the travel function to other nearby cities and got plenty of matches there. I could not keep up with replying to all of them, there were more than 25-30 at a time. That said, I am not sure if it's still that good and I honestly don't think it's worth it for the price. But if you don't care about the money, you can try.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:24 PM
13

I paid Bumble premium in 2022 (just because they offered me a really good 3 month promo) and it worked for me. Got tons of matches and visibility. I don't know how if it's still good tbh. I saw it's very expensive.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:18 PM
2

Yes bro, some mean even peak in their 40s while some other ones peak in highschool and then just go downhill from there.
/r/seduction28/10/24 04:36 PM
0

the best friends test is fabulous.
/r/seduction28/10/24 07:11 AM
7

I disagree, the PUA style is very begginer friendly and a great start. I got instant results with basic PUA teachings when I discovered The Game. But I also agree that Models is the most important book.
/r/seduction28/10/24 07:02 AM
12

You never ask. Don't give them the chance to make a rational choice. Remember that women are emotional beings. Just start talking to them and if you feel she might be attracted, kino escalate by holding her hand up and giving her a turn. If the response is positive, then keep dancing.
/r/seduction28/10/24 06:06 AM
2

What the hell were you doing all that time? Were you with other friends at least? Sounds that you took her for granted and were too passive. She had to take the initiative and you didn't do enough to close the deal. You should have immediately left the club after she said that line. Also, if you notice another dude approaching just walk there and AMOG him out of your date. Take the lead with women, they usually don't like to carry men.
/r/seduction28/10/24 06:02 AM
2

Talk to women without the intention to get to date them. Make female friends that genuinely like you as a person and want to be in your life. That helps. And they don't specifically have to be hot. Edit: also, don't purpusefully use them for this. Be genuine in your friendship intentions as well.
/r/seduction24/10/24 07:49 AM
5

Do you give them something to work with? I have a funny bio and they usually open with comments about it.
/r/seduction24/10/24 07:40 AM
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Brother, you are in the deeply friendzone already. It's almost impossible to escape. Let it go, ask her to help you find a suitable woman to date. A true female friend is good to keep and you will certainly lose the friendship if you stupidly "confess".
/r/seduction21/10/24 05:47 PM
0

I'm glad it worked out for you in some other way. But "confessing" is the worst thing a man can do. Folks, never do it. It works only in the movies.
/r/seduction21/10/24 05:42 PM
1

Where did you get the 90% stat? lmao It's a terrible idea. Women are not rational beings, you can't ask them that because some will back off and say no, even if they do want to kiss you. You don't want to ask them a yes or no question. You gotta take the lead and go for it. "99% of the time" if I go for the kiss without saying, anything it works. Of course, you need proper calibration to know when you can do it and when you cannot.
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:25 PM
1

The friends route is outdated. The world is much more dynamic right now. You gotta act fast or you lose.
/r/seduction18/10/24 06:35 AM
1

That's correct my friend. Don't be afraid to go too fast and take the risk. If you are going too fast, she will let you know. Nowadays, the world is very dynamic and men have a brief window to act. If you don't take the chance ASAP, time will freeze the window and you won't be able to enter through it anymore. I know this and I still fail to take the shot sometimes, so don't worry much about it if it happens. The important thing is that you are aware of it.
/r/seduction18/10/24 02:50 AM
1

Rookie mistake. You don't message chicks you pick up while partying. They will very rarely follow up. You just gotta wait til you see them again out partying and hook them up again.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:42 PM
3

in other words: strike when the iron is hot. Also: if you meet a new woman that will be around in your acquaintances for a while, make a move as soon as possible. While you are new in a woman's life is when you have the better chance to score. If you don't, once they get used to you being around, you will not be as exciting for them anymore and the odds of banging plummet.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:39 PM
1

I went out with a Tinder girl once that I found pretty hot. But had tons of daddy issues, kept talking about how fucked mentally she was because of her father and her previous boyfriend who diminished her and made her insecure, that was depressed and had suicidal thoughts sometimes. Still banged her on the first date and a couple more times, but there's no way I would formally date her.
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:13 PM
13

yes but you need to have them both at the same time in a private place that preferrably has a bed, which is not easy, usually.
/r/seduction11/09/24 08:06 PM
1

If she does not reciprocate you, she is not the girl of your dreams. The true girl of your dreams will do everything to be with you.
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:01 PM
6

sex usually feels good, but sex with love is very different, it's an upgraded experience. I haven't had sex with love in 4 years and I miss that feeling. The sex I've had is with women I find hot but I don't actually like or feel attracted to at all. And that sometimes feels void. Like the void post nut clarity makes you feel whenever you masturbate and it's over. If you have sex with love, you don't feel that. And you probably didn't feel tightness because well... she isn't tight anymore.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:12 PM
3

"Oh cool. Well, I'm actually married btw" Or you can just let her go. "I see. Nice to meet you, anyway." Then on to the next one.
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:06 PM
24

Don't do it unless you want to risk getting throat HPV. Only do it until you are completely sure she is clean.
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:23 PM
1

Preselection is about how other women perceive you. You can't build your own preselection with your own words because, for all she knows, you could be lying. Seeing the preselection in action is how it works.
/r/seduction09/06/24 10:58 PM
1

That's just how women operate nowadays. It's ok. Move on, at least you had sex with her. Honestly, if I have sex with someone and they never reply to me again, I don't care, I completed the main mission. I just get salty if I didn't get to do it haha.
/r/seduction29/05/24 12:41 AM
5

No, the girl wasn't a bitch. In her POV, she tried to defend herself from a potential threat and I respect that. And no, being lenient to a potential attacker is even more dangerous for you. If that woman lets a threat to walk with her out of the station, she can be attacked at anytime. So she decided to neutralize the threat immediately. When you suspect an attack or get attacked, you need to get aggresive, especially if the attacker is unarmed. Attackers pick victims they think are an easy pre…
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:25 PM
75

That's even worse. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine there's a guy who you saw get in the train with you, coincidentally gets off at the same station and starts catching up towards you and then says you are cute. It's very creepy, you will immediately assume he doesn't have good intentions. You scared the woman and got told to fuck off as a defense mechanism. Another one could have pepper gassed you. Had you started a natural conversation in the train or before, things could have been differ…
/r/seduction19/05/24 09:33 PM
4

nice poem
/r/seduction17/05/24 06:19 PM
1

Honestly, almost all of my first dates end with a kiss or I get it mid-date. I'm an average dude. It's not what you do, is how you do it. You can't go for it out of nowhere. You gotta prepare the field during the date and pay attention to every single detail about what she does or says. And you will know if you can go for it or not. When do I know I can go for the kiss at any time? Most of the time, when I take their hand and they respond well. And I usually have a modus operandi for that, I lea…
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:56 AM
1

It doesn't work, I've gotten rejected on purpose only to regret it later lmao
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:07 AM
6

peacocking works
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:48 PM
1

and do you think the average man has pro numbers?
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:06 PM
0

Every man has fumbled at least half a dozen of women. It's natural. You are meant to learn from those fumbles
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:48 PM
1

Dunno. Probably OLD
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:44 PM
15

Won't be the last 3 to do it, my man. This is dating nowadays, 90% of women just ghost even after successful dates. They just have so much power and so many options in the palm of their hand that they don't care about men's feelings. It feels like dogshit being ghosted, but you gotta move on to the next ones hoping that you will find a decent woman. There are a lot of diamonds in the rough.
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:41 PM
3

He said they didn't show up to the date
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:37 PM
1

message her through LinkedIn and acknowledge to her that this might be weird but that she got your attention when she invited you to connect and you wanted to get to know her. The worst that could happen is that she won't reply or will just delete you from her contacts
/r/seduction23/04/24 11:49 PM
9

OLD is a complement of real approach. Some guys like me don't have the time to go approach women daily, but with OLD I can get potential options all week, instead of just waiting until the weekend to see if I can find someone I like who is available and open to meet me upon approach.
/r/seduction23/04/24 06:55 PM
1

lol rule #1 never startle your objective. It's ok, now you know for the next time.
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:20 AM
1

improving
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:04 PM
1

My answer to the title: yes. But in your specific case seems that the problems are others. That girl is just not stable. You don't want a relationship with someone like that. She did you a favor. It sucks, but it is how it is. On to the next one hoping she is better
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:28 PM
7

not rare for a white guy in an Asian country
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:17 PM
0

Tell her: "if I was straight you would be mine"
/r/seduction14/04/24 07:23 PM
35

It's clear in the part where he said he brought it up to his dates and they said it was clever. Real women will get weirded out by that
/r/seduction11/04/24 11:55 PM
2

OLD apps are dogshit. They are the worst part of online game. When I was talking about online, I meant putting effort in social media profiles, as it's part of the new life.
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:11 PM
3

It depends. Is there a real purpose to sit there? If it's a food court and you are carrying a trace, it will be rare that they say no. If it's just you with no purpose other than trying to get into their pants, they will get defensive and say no. Still, I wouldn't ask. If I had a trace with me and there's clearly no table to sit on my own, I'd say "hey, I'm sitting here to eat, hope you don't mind company for a few minutes.". Very unlikely that she kicks me out when I'm already there and with th…
/r/seduction06/04/24 12:55 AM
15

I disagree. Still, if someone has already mastered cold approach, it will be much easier for them to stick to that than to put work into online game. Both are tools and can work wonders depending on the man's abilities. Online is easier in my opinion since it requires less time investment than cold approach, can done at anytime and some women will walk themselves into your DMs, sometimes down to directly sext.
/r/seduction06/04/24 12:47 AM
43

Competition is fierce nowadays man. Young men gotta adapt to the digital era or keep themselves dry for months while the ones who put the work on this shit get their women.
/r/seduction05/04/24 11:43 PM
1

Peacocking still works. Not with Myster's outfits, but if you find your own style, it works.
/r/seduction06/03/24 10:41 PM
3

Man, I've seen them. Me or some friends have brought them with us to the club and they don't have a single drink. Some women don't like alcohol, believe it or not. I've made out/had sex with sober ones (I actually don't have sex with drunk women) and then nothing happens later. I've seen friends in the same situation. I have women friends who have done the same to random guys. They've said they did nothing wrong but they see them as a fling of the moment. Ask your female friends, if you have any…
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:37 AM
3

You don’t need to explain anything to me. This post isn't for you bud. I'm glad you've gotten hundreds of numbers and hook ups. You blame alcohol and drugs but it has happened to me (and to many people) with sober women who are just partying. Alcohol plays a part, but it's not the main reason.
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:09 AM
10

Good post. Seems that you got the self proclaimed "gurus" upset because they think everyone knows this. But we get posts asking the "whys" every week. This is a sub to help newbies and this post will give answers to them.
/r/seduction05/03/24 10:57 PM
4

This sub is for newbies who don't know this. A newbie will pull a girl from the club for the first time, get excited about his success and will message her later. Then wonder why she didn't reply or wasn't as excited about him as she was that night. You seem to know why. Cool. But don't assume everyone does. And I got you news: common sense is not common.
/r/seduction05/03/24 10:51 PM
2

any recomendations of some that have the advanced stuff? (apart from the Mystery Method, I've read that one like 3 times lol)
/r/seduction03/03/24 09:50 PM
4

I use the same opening every time: "hi **** how is it going?" *send* and right after, in my language I use slang in a sentence that goes sort of: "I'm very attracted to you, how should we proceed next?". 95% of the time I get a reply and it's always positive. And I'm average looking.
/r/seduction28/02/24 12:06 AM
1

Lower the texting to no more than a couple replies a day. What are you doing in the other country? You can tell her you are going to go signaless on a trip somewhere for like a week, at least. Avoid to stop replying at all for no reason that entire time because 3 weeks is way too long. If you completely stop messaging her, another guys can meet her before you and she will completely forget about you and won't honor the plans you made. You need to still be present, scarcely, but around. Ignore th…
/r/seduction20/02/24 05:00 PM
6

I could see myself inviting her to a shared interest like a concert, festival etc. just the two of us and trying to incorporate seduction into that Big no. Not going to happen. Your best bet is to slowly lose contact with her while you see other women. Then she might FOMO and contact you for hopefully something else. But there's no guarantee. Getting out of the friendzone is a long game where you are at disadvantage. And rule number 1: You shouldn't EVER confess you have feelings to a woman. Rea…
/r/seduction19/02/24 06:59 PM
4

Don't overthink, it's not something you do, women are just like that. Even if you have sex with her, the odds of seeing her again are less favorable than a coin toss. That's their modus operandi when on club nights. Best thing to do is to try to F-close that same night and then don't text them until after a few days. And the text needs to be straight to the point. If she replies, good. If she doesn't, well, if you closed that one you shouldn't have too many problems closing a new one later. The …
/r/seduction13/02/24 07:26 PM
3

at least she told you
/r/seduction08/02/24 11:21 PM
4

don't spend a dime unless it's with a 100% proven guy like Mystery. That said, if I was you I wouldn't waste money unless you don't care about 2k. You can go from zero to something by just reading material. Books such as: Models, No more Mr. Nice Guy, The Game, The Mystery Method. That should give you a base to start to give you a general view of the scene and do some instrospection about what have you been doing until now.
/r/seduction08/02/24 11:17 PM
34

Of course. You ever heard stories about a rich wife cheating on her husband with the gardener? It happens a lot. But in most cases, when a woman hooks up down, it will just be a secret affair, nothing serious. There are certain exceptions like when a rich girl meets some random dude in uni and they start dating. Sometimes they last, most of the time they don't because of the dude's insecurities regarding her status and his (Walter White comes to my mind lol). So long story short: yes, an average…
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:59 PM
2

Your place is always better cause you have full control. In her place she does, she is less invested and can ask you to leave at anytime if she suddenly changes her mind or something, and you have to comply. It's harder for her to make the decision to leave yours cause she is already invested. And if she tells you she wants to leave, at least you have the power to try to convince her to stay.
/r/seduction07/02/24 04:20 PM
3

Nothing specific I say will help you more than encouraging you to lurk into the subreddit's post history and check the ones that will answer everything you need, which only you know what it is. Neither the guys who replied nor I will change your life in a single answer to this post. Investigate and read books, posts, field reports, and they will all add up.
/r/seduction03/01/24 12:14 AM
6

"How do I seduce girls?" That provides nothing to the purpose of the subreddit. An ideal "forum" would be: experienced guys posting advice, field reports, stories, plays, sharing articles or shit like that. Then newbies like you lurking, asking questions in those posts, and actually investigating old posts where you can find answers to whatever is on your mind. Every day there's like 5 guys posting "how do I get laid?" "how do I seduce girls?" "how many sex to please a woman?" and that does not …
/r/seduction02/01/24 09:31 PM
40

literally: join the forum read the posts stop spamming so good posts can come up an you can actually read them and not all the spam (like this)
/r/seduction02/01/24 06:54 PM
1

sorry to ask but did you have a present father?
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:45 PM
14

Men have always had low standards and been simps. Ever since the start of civilization. Men had to court the women with visits, gifts, walks and be a gentleman in order to gain her trust and her parents'. The problem is that the simp trait did not evolve well into the modern days. Women have changed and can no longer attracted by romanticism aka simping. They are now driven by their sexual desires and will be attracted by the men who awakes their darkest passions. Men were simps for centuries ca…
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:40 PM
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