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Every single thing you mentioned is a by product of bioligical processes. Differing beauty standards are still beauty standards. Human behaviour can differ from society to society but the basic"s of life still remain. You can lecture me all you want but we are biological beings, plain and simple, everything we do comes from that biological function. If you think we have a soul or some type of supernatural spirit, prove it. You said a lot without saying anything that proves your point. I majored …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:05 AM
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You resulted to insults because you couldn't answer my question. Thats the fundemental biological inperative being fulfilled right now, my gal. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:53 AM
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Not that I think biology is anything but amazing and I don't think human beings are simple brutes but my question is once again if not biology then what? Even learnt behaviour is a biological process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:34 AM
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I realise you don't accept biology as an explanation and I'm not trying to provoke you anymore than I need too, I just don't understand how you can separate biology as in the chemical/ electrical action that are required for conscious thought to occur. I mean if your religious thats one explanation,but conscious thought didn't just appear from nowhere. If not evolution then where?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:19 AM
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Sounds sensible behaviour to me but where do you think these instincts come from if not biology? The instinct to be successful and survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:35 PM
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Never said it was some sort of oppression, in fact it's a sensible approach in biological terms. As a women you need to be able to put your faith in a man to not need you in times when you are pregnant. You need to know you can relie on a man in these times. I'm also not talking about mental illness. It's everyday needy, a man being tall to protect, a man earning enough money, all that stuff. Men don't need to consider these things hence have less needs from a woman other than the opportunity to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:04 PM
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Of course as a woman you would say that, thats my point. Men deal with needy women all the time, it's not unusual. It's just the way it works. It's biology. We accept it as normal. Women need a lot from us for them to even considered us a viable option. Not blaming anyone, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:42 PM
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Let's face it, it's all about biology. Women in general don't want a needy man. They want a man who doesn't need them but wants them. Hence a man must find a purpose other than a relationship, whatever that may be, before he is able to be fully accepted by a women. It's just nature, part of the selection process.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:37 PM
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Your right it's not complicated, men shouldn't objectify women. Where it gets complicated is why do they still do it? Why do some women objectify themselves? How can we change attitudes? Or we could just say men bad. If you aren't interested in mens experiences then how can you expect men to care about yours. The only way we solve these problems is together. If you have a better way then let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:00 AM
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Honestly who do you hang around? I was in the military, and I know heaps of blue collar workers, tradies, construction workers and laborers and maybe two of them are women. I wasn't the one dissing on women, I respect what women have to offer, but I also know as many women who are still at home at 30 as men. I just assumed they are saving for something. It a pity you feel so judgemental towards men today. So much for empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:20 AM
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Dudes don't understand it because most have never felt objectified in a sexual way. Obviously to women who get unwanted attention all the time, this sounds like a good thing, and I totally sympathise but imagine never getting attention for the way you look even when you're making an effort. No wonder men and women are having such a hard time getting along, our experiences in the world can be so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:14 AM
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Who's still the major sex in the military, doing manual labor? Not sure this hits like you would have hoped. If a women doesn't want marriage or kids, cool, don't. Honestly most men these days don't seem to want that either, they are in survival mode too. As for backlash and harsh criticism, it's okay when women do it to men, right, maybe like how you talk about 30 year old men living in their parents basement. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:34 PM
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I don't disagree with what you have said and don't think two wrongs make a right but what you have mentioned are the extremes of RP and is no different to blaming all feminists for the extremes that exist in the various forms of feminism. Unfortunately the most unhappy people tend to scream the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:43 AM
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I totally understand. That's when you need a break and go out and appreciate nature. People are entitled to their own views but yes befuddling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:22 AM
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I thought women wanted men to show their feelings more. These older guys were taught not too. Which is it? I'm confused. What do you want? Do you even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:26 AM
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I LOVE it, people are hilarious and they don't even know it. Constant double standards, thinking they are better than each other. I'm just grateful that people in my real life are awesome. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:17 AM
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That's because men have become weak. He's a legend, nothing phases him. Something to aspire too. He probably thinks if worse comes to worse he has some protein at hand. Genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:59 PM
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More good advice. I can take or leave sex, so I'm good. Thanks for your concern. You trying to drum up some business. Clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:47 PM
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Honestly I don't take anything on here too seriously because I am happy. I just like to argue a bit for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:41 PM
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Wow, that's encouraging, so a dude might as well skip the trials, worth proving and simply pay a professional for sex. Now that's good advice. Same result without all the effort. Just as well I think of woman as human beings and know they are much more than you portray them to be, other than you of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:34 PM
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It's not as much fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:18 PM
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I understand, I used to design those surveys but even with all these safe guards, people will only tell you what they want to tell you. We are all human and the one thing I learnt was if people are able to lie to themselves about things, there was little to no chance the results would be more than an educated guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:58 PM
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The reality when it comes to social sciences is it's more often than not about guess work because people are rarely totally honest about anything. These types of studies have to be approached with an extremely critical mind. Believe them if you want that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:59 PM
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The problem is you never truly know when a study is valid. So many ways to manipulate the findings, even the way you ask the questions can shape your results, especially when it's based on self reporting which is anecdotal by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:30 AM
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For sure. Guess we should be talking about aholes rather than genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:37 AM
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It never feels like settling if your with the right person though. You accept the whole person faults and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:35 AM
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This. All my good looking friends are extremely picky. Idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:29 AM
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Honestly this is my experience as well. My bc is way more than these men and I'm just an average dude. As an ex sociologist take it from me studies are full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:26 AM
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Unless all 4 are chads and they are part of her roster. Don't really care but it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:22 AM
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To be honest most dudes I know date down when it comes to looks but the women are normally extremely cool and fun, which is way more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:21 PM
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Totally understand what your saying, men shouldn't be like that, but some women take pleasure in rejecting men as well. Always going to be aholes. Not sure why people are even surprised that these things happen. I think the best policy is let the woman approach. Works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:28 PM
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How about a sociology degree with three years of gender studies? Discriminating to solve discrimination is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:31 PM
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You mean like DEI policies? Actively discriminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:26 PM
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This is because men and women have different experiences in life. We tend to value different things based on how difficult they are to obtain. Men value sex because it's difficult to obtain and women value commitment for the same reason. Hence men look for sex in almost all situations with women because they need to take the opportunity. It's not valued by women because they pretty much could get it when ever they want it, just not with the men they want. They can afford to look for commitment.A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:04 AM
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Cool, damn then whats the point of negging, sounds more like nagging neither is a great strategy, more like emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:17 PM
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That's not negging that's being an ahole. " you've got beautiful eyes, but man your breath stinks". With a smile. That's negging. A compliment with something that is not. Stupid I know but slightly different from what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:01 AM
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I hate to agree with you and she does have a higher smv, but I think that's the point. At this moment in time mens standards are at a rock bottom. That's our fault not women's. Who cares anyway how many dudes she gets, they are dudes. I don't want to be unkind but I wouldn't go there, these dudes are welcome to her. Why is this even an issue? Also comparing men and women is a waste of time. We want What we want. Be what they want, go where your wanted, or just be happy on your own. That's the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:35 AM
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Are you in a ltr? From my experience it's mostly how you make people feel, than anything. Looks fade, Rizz becomes old, passion is an act, just a game, it's not real. In the end, honesty, trust,empathy,humor and communication are the only things that really make a difference. Who the hell wants to be with someone pretending to be something they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:16 PM
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To be be honest my partner had a huge body count when I met her and it's never bothered me, mines not so low either but I still can't see the problem with it mattering for other people. If that's something they care about then who am I to tell them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:56 AM
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???z
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:55 AM
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To a certain degree I agree with you, but a person's past behaviour is the only predictor we have of their future behaviour. If I was looking to hire someone for a job in my company I'd be checking their history for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:49 AM
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Not sure why you think it's a loaded question and I also don't think a person needs to be a feminist to answer it. Me, myself would say it's a bit of both, just like when it comes to the radicalization of men. Both can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:15 AM
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Do you believe men radicalize women? Or does feminism? Just interested in your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:36 PM
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My partner started watching rugby with me because of the hot dudes, now she's learnt the rules and actually enjoys watching the sport and the hot dudes. Don't get why it's such a problem. She knows if she ever took it further I would be gone, no questions, non needed, just gone. I'm sure she feels the same way. Strange but I trust her and until she shows me otherwise, that is my default position. Not sure why this is so hard to understand. I refuse to spend my life worrying about what my partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:13 AM
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I would help anyone but don't like the double standards. I would be upset at cat people if they actively made one standard for themselves and another for rescuing dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:16 AM
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To be honest I'm not going to judge anyone on a decision they are making that isn't violent. I also think there's a real difference between not helping and actively discriminating. A lot of Feminists are hardly helpful towards men ,and men in the general sense, does that make them bad woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:08 AM
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Hey I fully support freedom of speech but I'm not going to get much sympathy from people if I'm abusive towards them. IRL I might even get a fat lip. Most people watching on wouldn't probably rush to save me either especially as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:01 AM
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Protecting women isn't an indicator of whether a man is good or not. Isn't this whole concept a bit old?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:42 AM
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I never said it was but judging people on the privilege of an education, "uneducated" and how much money they make "broke" is hardly a guarantee of a healthy partner. Trying to make people feel bad about themselves is never the answer and whether a person uses degrading terms or not is meaningless when we know what is being implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:25 PM
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Your not wrong, but is that the same way women look at men? I really don't know anymore. I hope so otherwise it's over for the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:32 PM
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That's the whole point, it's not degrading women, it's just not something that would make or break a womens appeal to a lot of men. Other things are more important. I have a couple of degrees and actually wish I had done a trade instead, I would have earnt way more money. A women with a trade now that's appealing to me. I'd be impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:19 PM
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To be honest most women think they are out of their man's league, that's half the problem. They start off thinking they are better than their man. Obviously men need to listen but so do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:55 PM
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Society is becoming more accepting, but we have never been so divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:00 AM
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Obviously friendship is important if that's what you want but it's not important to everyone. I think for a lot of men it's not about being lonely, as was said before, they just want to get some and can't. This is nothing new. The problem for young men today is they have no irl men who tell them the truth, go where your wanted or become what they want or don't even bother. These are your only options, choose and make your peace with your choice. Stop blaming women it's not going to get you anywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:03 AM
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W3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:37 PM
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For a lot of men that's all they can expect. Just the difference between a lot of men and women. Men have become socialised into accepting the bare minimum. Women have always expected the man to be better than they are. Not sure if this will ever change. Maybe as more people spend their lives single things will change. Lots of things have to change on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:46 AM
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I appreciate your experiences but I don't know a single man who hates single mums, they are just not interested in them, even some of the most desparate dudes I know. Nothing wrong with single mums,just the circumstances. Just trying to make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:18 AM
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As a dude I say choose whoever you want, I don't care. Your life. I just wish you would stop blaming all of us for the shitty dudes you find yourself with. Surprise, surprise, we are all different, just like you women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:00 AM
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Lucky you, I don't mind paying for things, in fact I enjoy it, but would have at least have to know the women first. Also hope they would do the same for me. I'm in Australia sounds a little different here. Hope you have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:05 PM
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Do dudes still pay for things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:58 AM
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I have made less than my partner on a number of occasions, neither of us care. We are just happy to make more money. To be honest the work/life balance is more important than the job/money to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:15 PM
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Actually your right nobody likes angry losers just depends on what you think makes them a loser as too whether your shallow or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:12 AM
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Fair enough, honestly I'm not here to fight with you, and I'd really rather be friends. Life's to short.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:20 AM
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Wow, so because I think people are more than than what they look like and I am willing to get to know them before I really know if I'm attracted to them, I'm douche canoe, whatever that is. I guess I'm a douche canoe. It's obvious what your problem is too, your a sad person and I hope you get better bc not everyone see life like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:09 AM
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I wasn't talking about a try hard and I think you know that. If you think someone making an effort is a try hard then you've been in that cave way too long or your privilege is showing. Maybe your looks have meant you never have had to make an effort, you have never needed a personality. Nothing lasts for ever and as I said you reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:45 PM
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So you choose shallow and that's all good. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:11 PM
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Honestly your story proves the point that the only way to be is yourself. The minute you start playing games you lose the plot. If you have to manipulate someone to get them then they weren't the person for you. Sorry but I think you dodged a bullet. Good luck for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:11 AM
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Sometimes the effort makes people more attractive. Peoples personalities can even make them beautiful if your not a shallow person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:36 PM
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I not sure it's worth it for a lot of men anymore, men are over the chase. Not sure they are failing because they aren't even trying. Many dudes I know aren't interested in the games, being a man women want in the modern world is rough. Obviously there's good reasons for that, considering how shitty some men have been and are to women, but to some men there's better things to do with their time. Shouldn't moan about it however if you choose this option. Life's too short and we need to take respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:59 AM
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Good for you. I don't think I'm that type of Chad like. I'm more have my own space and Fwb type Chad. Each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:06 AM
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Actually I was just thinking I'll stay being Chad like. It's way more fun than being husband material. That's how I choose to adapt to this change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:32 AM
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Women have been forced into marriage's forever, for social and financial reasons, or so we have been told as men, and all of a sudden men are expected to believe otherwise. I think that's the hurdle we are struggling with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:14 AM
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Hey, I was a manwhore when I was younger and can't understand why, but it definitely wasn't because I was hot. Some mysteries should be left undiscovered. Don't know why we even care what other people do when it has nothing to do with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:58 AM
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To be honest I don't think women's standards are too high, you want what you want. I actually think men standards are too low. Men settle way more than women do. Hopefully that will change, cause mens standards are in the sewer, and we wonder why things don't work out for us romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:54 PM
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The fact the you are surprised that men can admit that they want female friendships (non sexual) is sad. Why wouldn't we? Firstly not all of us are obsessed with sex and secondly I see people as people first. I think to a big extent I do decenter women but I still make people a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:17 AM
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Sure we can. You make a choice not to make your life all about women, doesn't mean you have nothing to do with women, just they aren't your priority. I don't want kids which makes it simpler for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:39 PM
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I think my point was, if you need to advertise what you are doing there's more than likely some reason your doing it. If your going overseas to find a partner then do it, if your living an independent life and don't need no man, cool. Why do you feel the need to blurt it out online. Who you trying to convince? Are you trying to inspire other people or is it just your insecurities showing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:54 AM
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As a person going overseas your also put at a disadvantage because they have the support of their families and friends whereas you have no one. Not to mention the law is often less understanding for non citisens. I think theirs actually more disadvantages in doing this than positives. I've lived in many places in the world and it's not easy. I think your view has it's points but these passport bros are taken advantage of way more than the other way round. The people overseas aren't stupid you kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:33 AM
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I don't disagree with you, making a point that you are a passport bro definitely is saying something, bitterness or I don't know, it gives me that, I don't need no man vibes that is prevalent online. I understand it is unnecessary but that's the internet for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:07 AM
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So by your logic a rich man in a western country should never date a poor woman in a western country either, or is that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:28 AM
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Of course I understand your point but I also can see other peoples points of view as well. The boogeyman is different for everyone for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:12 AM
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Actually I'm not attacking anyone, I'm just saying that it's okay to disagree with someone else, and that we all have our own bias we should be aware of before we say the people opposing our position are delusional " boogeyman in the head". 3 years gender studies at uni, for a sociology degree. where do you want me to start?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:32 PM
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You can disagree with an ideology without hating. Feminists disagree with each other all the time. I've known many feminists in my time and they have been very passionate about what they believe, however it could be said they are also chasing that boogeyman in their head. If we disagree we are always going to think that about the other person. This is often used when the person has no argument left. It's called gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:02 PM
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I understand what your saying but it's feel like shit that your not that guy for her, your the safe option. Not the exciting one. I'd rather be Chad or single than settled for. Getting someone to love you is easy, getting someone to desire you is difficult for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:59 AM
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For sure, this whole debate is silly. We want What we want and most of us aren't thinking about it in such black and white terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:53 PM
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To be honest I think your correct.I'm actually looking for a woman who is a provider, don't care about looks. Haven't had much luck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:47 PM
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I understand but still other men who read this may have insecurities that your comment reinforces. I'm average height, and have never felt insecure about it, cause what's the point, can't do anything about it. I'm also gorgeous so that helps. Gotta work on my humility however. Only love from Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:10 AM
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I was with you until you fained curiosity at the end. The reality is attraction is attraction and we are all different. We all have our preferences in looks and personality that we don't need to justify to anyone. I think the problem comes when we purposely use those preferences to make other people who don't meet our wants to belittle them. There's no need. I would rather make someone feel good about themselves which inturn makes me feel good too. Win, win situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:52 PM
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Most people don't like pineapple on pizza? I was with you until that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:47 AM
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Unfortunately in the real world vulnerability for a man is usually used against us. It's fine though, I don't feel the need to burden other people with my problems. We are all different not knocking those who do feel the need, just saying I prefer it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:48 AM
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It is totally reasonable, in the same way a man might want a younger woman because she is more able to bear healthy children. Does it mean other options can't work out? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:06 AM
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I like how you said high quality rather than value, there's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:21 AM
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You do realise your on here too talking? Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:49 AM
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Firstly, I responded to your comment, and secondly I enjoy a good argument sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:44 AM
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What do you think your doing when she requires you to pay for her drinks and dinner? Like I said u b u but I'm doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:01 AM
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Honestly man you do whatever you think is right I just don't want to pay a woman to be with me and I don't want her to feel obligated because I paid. Not a good start to a relationship if you want both partners to feel equal within that relationship. Lot's of good women out there. This place is not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:48 AM
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If you want an escort, just pay for one, at least you know what your getting. The funny thing is lot's of women are quite happy going 50/50, so whose the one being played.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:25 AM
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Of course, it's about my values. Are you for real? 50/50 is about respecting other people as equals and not expecting something from the other person they don't want to give. IF they want to give then that's fine too. What would you do if you turned up to a date and the woman was unkept, dirty and smelly, would you still pay? What about a gym bro who spends hours making h i s body look good should he expect a woman to pay for his date?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:49 PM
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I'm doing neither, I'm going 50/50 because it's her choice to present anyway she wants, I'm not forcing her to do anything just like she's not forcing me to do anything. If at the end of the date I want to pay in full I would but it shouldn't be expected of me, just as I don't expect her to do all those things you mentioned unless she wants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:27 PM
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She doesn't have to do any of that stuff for me and if she does, that her choice, like I could rock up in a track suit, runners and haven't showered. As for makeup, no need, I want to appreciate what she really looks like. All these things you mentioned are nothing meaningful, not important to me. I'm not interested in encouraging anyone to pretent they are something they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:12 PM
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Hey if you think they are putting more effect in than you and deserve to be treated like a princess then good on you, I'm just saying I'd rather a more equal arrangement. I try to look good, they try to look good and we both try to partisipate equally in our date, in all ways. Why is this difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:51 PM
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I'm not adverse to sex, I'm just not obsessed with it. Us atypical folks don't take life that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 AM
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Yip, now you know how we feel about feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:01 AM
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Lucky men don't want to do that stuff anymore then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:57 AM
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Really? So your not trying to look your best for a date, wearing things that are not your usual? And remember she's doing this for herself not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:52 AM
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Your totally correct but someone should also inform the feminists as well as the red pillars. Obviously not all feminists think this way but neither does all red pillars. I guess you must be generalising, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:43 AM
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Bitter, really? Well that's definitely going to get them a date. Honestly us humans are idiots. We want What we can't have and we bitch about what we could have. Never been on a dating app and don't plan on ever going on one. It's not that hard to meet people in real life if your not constantly looking for someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:04 AM
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Them breathing is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:36 AM
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Your the one that mentioned women who are out of mens league aren't you? The fact that people have to put it this way is telling. Honestly I don't know men who whine about the friendzone, being real friends isn't a game, and if people are playing games it's got nothing to do with friendship by either person. Should be called something else. Why do they keep these orbiters around? Maybe theres a bit of ego play on both sides? As for expecting something sexual is a waste of time, you miss out on s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:43 AM
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What league are you talking about? Even people I don't respect or aren't attracted too, I see as my equal. Thinking your better than other people is crazy. Not liking other people is totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:17 AM
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Your not wrong, I think this is the problem we face. Things have been forced and now the backlash is as forced. I'm happy though hope you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:53 AM
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And men don't have social expectations as well, not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:57 AM
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What mistakes does feminism take accountability for? If anything RP tries to get men to accept the way things are and to make decisions based on reality that are best for them. As someone who studied feminism for three years at Uni I appreciate all the good things it has done but it is never wrong. Of course this depends on the type of feminism but in general my statement is my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:48 AM
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People change and so does the times. RP has changed with it. It's no longer just about getting some. It's about what type of man you want to be and accepting the consequences whatever they are. If anything it's about being a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:26 AM
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The fact is she probably does like the other guy but who cares, until she divorces you and take your shit when she realises you don't want to be him. There's more to worry about than just sex these days dude, relationships of any type are a risk, and if that means only going for what you want then what's the problem? A lot of men these days prefer peace over phuntan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:09 AM
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Of course, but it is also true that maybe your not that guy and your being settled for, and who wants that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:06 PM
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If it affects you you should diffinately think about it, not in a mean way but if you want to continue on with that relationship or not. Sometimes it's better to not get involved with people going thru things. Not healthy. Depends on the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:19 AM
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Fair enough. I'm just saying that most women have this option where as most men take what they can get, but they shouldn't. I'd rather be alone and my self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:35 PM
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Poor women had to settle.🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:44 AM
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Oh that's all good then. You should be whoever you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:21 AM
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Sorry not quite sure what you mean but I'm just saying friendships with women are great, and I see them just like my male friends. Romantic relationships are too much work. Just my opinion. I'm going to be a cat gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:11 AM
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What else have they got to do? Work their ass off to prove themselves to a women. I understand that's life but is the returns worth it? Let's face it women have the one thing men want, all the sex they want, if they want, and we are jellious as hell. I actually blame men with low standards, not women. I think men are starting to see this however and mostly from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:59 AM
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I love my women friends, but the problems comes when you get romantically involved. So I just avoid commitment and that's been working pretty well. Too much to lose these days, divorce rates and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:30 AM
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So your not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:18 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:15 AM
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You mean because I've actually spent years of my life studying gender dynamic's. Been involved in studies on these topics. Actually spoken to people who have been affected by this topic. Am I an authority, no, but unlike those dudes you spoke to I do have experience in this area. Are you an expert in non- verbal communication because I have also taking subjects such as communication. Your entitled to your opinion, but you don't have to be a dick about it. I thought this was supposed to be a disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:50 AM
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Take it from a person who did three years of gender studies as part of my sociology degree, men should be very careful about this stuff. Sometimes it's too late when you actually experience it first hand. All the social skills and non- verbal communication you speak about will get you nowhere if you happen to come across the wrong women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:47 PM
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I don't know why your amazed because we all fear different things. Some people fear heights, spiders, whatever. Sometimes it's because they have had bad experiences and want to protect themselves in the future. If you've been in a bad car crash you're probably going to feel more apprehensive driving in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:39 AM
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Women have always settled and still do. Not all women, but a lot, because they haven't got what it takes to get the men they want. When it comes down to it it's all about survival. Given the right situation most women and men will do whatever it takes to have a better life. Those friendzoned men become pretty appelling when your options start to dwindle. Not everyone but enough. It's different for men because mostly we have always settled, we are used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:40 AM
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I know you didn't ask me but I honestly don't see why men need too. Those standards are women's standards, I can't speak for all men but if I'm happy with who I am, and that's not good enough for women then that's their progative but it's not the end of the world for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:17 AM
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I don't disagree with you but my point was that idea's that are thought of as logical today, even essential, maybe frowned upon in the future. The social engineering going on today may in the future be found to simply not work. Why are birth rates dropping all around the world? Men and women with all the strides made in equality don't want children, don't want marriage, quite often can't even stand each other anymore. Yah progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:04 AM
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It really doesn't even need to be even on your list if you don't think it will be good for you, finding a purpose in life can include a partner but by no means has too. You can devote yourself to animals, art, music, the environment, making money. The list is infinite, all these things you can do without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:30 AM
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I personally think that there are way more important things men should be concerned with than making a woman's pussy wet. That's why we are in the situation we are in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:21 AM
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Some things are more subjective than others however. People in the past were educated in many things that today are frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:15 AM
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If you like slow dramas. I only lasted the first season, then I started to watch paint dry and that was fantastic in comparison. Just my opinion, we all have our own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:10 AM
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Obviously all women have their own idea of what a high % man is and if it's anything like how I see women you don't know until you know. Lots of people are beautiful for their own unique reasons that's why I don't understand this high % stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:51 AM
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What do you consider a top% man or women. Me personally I don't think of people in these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:14 AM
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Damn, I think your experiences are with the top 20% of men. I believe everyone has value and have amazing friendships with women who I'm not attracted to romantically. I just think men and women are struggling with trusting each other at the moment. We all just want to blame the other sex for everything. Things could be worse however there's more to life than a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:11 AM
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To be honest I agree with you, this problem is made by men who have little to no standards at all, creating a society that has made them all but irrelevant. It is time for men to be less obsessed with women and just look after their own interests. It's just not a good deal anymore. Such is life. Lots of beautiful things in the world that don't require being in a relationship with someone that doesn't have your best interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:13 AM
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I agree with you, as a dude if I can't find a woman I connect with, I'd rather a situationship. I honestly couldn't stand the idea someone was settling for me also. You also have to consider divorce nowadays as well as women seem to like that. I have no ill feelings towards women's choices I just wish more men had higher standards too. Simping dudes have made it bad for everyone. On that note these a lot of plus in being single so to be honest life can be great either way. We really don't need e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:00 PM
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I don't believe the obsession with sex has as much as a hold over men anymore however. This is definitely making a difference in how men approach life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:03 AM
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Your not wrong, you can't help who you have or don't have feelings for. I believe most women have stopped settling and I actually believe it's about time men do the same. Far too many men are in relationships with women they barely even like let alone love. It's sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:23 PM
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Damn I'm so sorry these things happened to you, but false accusations happen too.Both can occur at the same time, there are truly horrible people out there. All the best I hope you are getting help because life can be beautiful and you deserve to experience that. Only love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:18 AM
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For sure it changes behaviour and if it makes women feel safer then that's definitely a good thing but men are going to protect themselves as well by not putting themselves in situations that could open themselves to accusations. This might mean no unnecessary interaction with women they work with for example. Mentoring, travel and so on. Is this an over reaction, of course, but hey it's better to be safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:51 PM
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Fair enough and I'm not saying it happens frequently, I'm saying it doesn't hurt anyone to set boundaries that prevent's accusations from even happening. This should be good for women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:21 PM
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You assume that women can't have bad intentions too. It only takes one. I choose the bear just in case. I don't put myself in situations that I could be accussed. This is the only way to protect yourself and them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:27 AM
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The only men who are afraid are men that would never consider hurting someone in that way. This is the paradox of the me too movement. I totally understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:06 AM
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For sure, I don't care what my partner wants if I can't respect myself afterwards. Not shaming others I just wouldn't want that. Hell I don't even like bj's because I don't want to hurt her throat. To much information????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:53 AM
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For sure, I don't care what my partner wants if I can't respect myself afterwards. Not shaming others I just wouldn't want that. Hell I don't even like bj's because I don't want to hurt here throat. To much information????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:49 AM
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27 years here and to be honest the childfree part is the secret to LTR. Also laughing, lots of laughing. Pet's as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:39 AM
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If your in a healthy relationship you should be able to ask each other anything. You also don't need a reason to want out, if you want out that's good enough. Why is this so hard to understand? Kids obviously change things but that the only thing that should influences your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:39 AM
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You don't have to be a feminist to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:15 AM
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Honestly I understand what you meant and don't disagree. I also however know people who love video games, it gives them interaction with other people and is escapism for them. In the big scheme of things my art and music would probably be seen as a waste of time as well. I gave up selling it years ago because selling it made me hate it. Even now sometimes I wonder whats the point in doing it. This is how ingrained things become in us. Anyway thanks for the interesting conversation. Only love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:52 AM
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I appreciate your point of view but not everyone needs these things to be happy. I've traveled the world and done everything in life I've wanted too but as I get older have realised I did these things because that's what I was supposed to want to do. I honestly don't think I needed to do them, I don't need community, I haven't really felt the need to achieve, be better. I've always been happy with myself, just did these things to impress other people, mostly women. My fault but I think I would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:10 AM
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This us already happening, testosterone levels in men are dropping and men are less interested in sex as a result. This is why men are happy to play video games and are less inclined to want to to work these days. Is it a good thing I don't know but it's something we are all going to have to get used too. A lot of men have been motivated by getting a partner, without that they are happy to do nothing. I would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:30 AM
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I think men's initial drive is sexual, and by taking sex out of the equation it would result in us all just being friends. Sounds good to me. I quite often wish I was born asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:14 AM
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Honestly, this is how I feel sometimes with my wife. I'm not a machine I tell her and she things I'm joking. I have to fake illness sometimes because it feels like a chore. I LOVE her lot's but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:49 AM
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This not true, I LOVE going shopping, are you crazy, what's not to like? Spending money, getting new things, having something to eat and maybe getting a massage is my perfect outing. Not bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:44 AM
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