ExcellentNatural Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Q4W: Would you prefer to be a man instead of a woman? Ahahah, let me tell you, as a man I only had this problem when I was fat and had huge thighs because I did not have enough space between my legs. If you are of a normal weight you should have enough space there between legs for your testicles and penis (unless they are humongous)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 10:14 PM
1	What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences? I would not say women are not entitled to men, just express it differently. Like, one of my friends had her hear broken last summer and she is still whining about it. This is very much entitlement. But women and men grief by expressing different emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 07:46 PM
0	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? Damn, can you stop shaming other people for what they are attracted to? It's not like it's something anyone can consciously control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 07:35 PM
1	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? That is why I said her body is unrealistic, most likely surgeon or photoshop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 06:59 PM
–	What are some blue pills? Also, can't really blame ugly men and women for trying to date up. If they are not attracted to people below certain bar, what can they do? People can't just change who they are attracted to, best you can do is work on yourself, which means losing weight which alone makes most people more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:58 PM
–	What are some blue pills? Is actually incredibly toxic and lost me many years of my life. Like, don't go to the gym, just focus on your career and you will find someone because women care about security. I am almost in my 30s, I could easily support a family with kids since my 25s~ but wondering why I am still alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:50 PM
–	Men, can you explain the urge to sacrifice your life for your woman? I can't explain it but it just feels like the right thing to do. Like, when a spider mates with another spider knowing that she will eat him. Idk why but if I was a spider I would be totally fine with it, in fact, I would be totally fine with it as a human. What I find weird is why women don't feel this way toward men. It must be a revolutionary thing, no? Like, when I love someone they are more important than me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:42 PM
1	Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for? So, I would not date someone who political views differ too much from mine. 5 is also a must because if you are doing all the talking then what is the point? To be fair I hear both men and women complain about 5 about equally and it leaves me proper flabbergasted; if everyone is so talkative why you never match irl? 2,3,4 are all very common for women my age unfortunately, but I do have to say that my preference for 4 is a bit skewed because the more thought woman put into her look the more unap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:36 PM
1	What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectiveness I think the reason it works is because it makes you actually talk to a women, while a lot of people don't even want to make that step. If you don't know how to start a conversation, a cheesy line is not necessary a bad start, just make sure it's authentic from there on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:22 PM
1	What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences? I was thinking about this recently and I think I know where this is coming from. A lot of men think they are on a higher level because they are told incorrectly what women find attractive. You can see it on a lot of incel forums "I have a degree and a job, why no one wants me?" - it's because looks matter to women as much as men but most men were told this is not true, so men are not taking care of their own looks and as a result women find most men waaay below their level. So, you have a lot of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:07 PM
1	What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences? To be fair, coming from blue pill this one never played well in my head, like, if a dude is a virgin himself, it makes sense that he wants his first time to be with someone on a similar experience level, right? Why is this soo weird to people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 02:52 PM
1	Men’s insecurity about sex toys Did you even read what I said. Yes, you need to learn how to be good at sex. This includes learning how to work with sex toys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:38 PM
0	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? Well, he gave that women 8+/10 which suggests that 20% of population or less looks like this. The reality is that maybe one in 1000 person looks like this (maybe it's just a thing in my area, idk), that would make her a strong 10+ definitely not 8. I struggle to imagine how would 10/10 look for this guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:13 PM
2	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? Yep, my closest friend starves herself by eating one meal a day and she does not have hips like women on that picture. Maybe you could say that a reeeealy good genes could do it but I think it's still too unrealistic. Everything about her body looks too perfect, nothing is out of shape, you just don't see that irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:00 PM
1	Men’s insecurity about sex toys About not able to pleasure another person at all? Yes, unless you are now to the game, you probably only care about yourself if you can't pleasure another person and that is a reason to be ashamed. But sex toys make the entire experience much better, it's not about achieving the bare minimum, it's about taking it above and beyond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 11:18 AM
1	Men’s insecurity about sex toys I think the difference between porn and a toy is this: if you are watching porn then you are fantasizing about having sex with that person on a screen. If you are using a toy you can still imagine you are doing it with your gf/bf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 11:14 AM
2	Men’s insecurity about sex toys My friends gf got him a toy because they did not see each other for a while and I think that was reeeealy cute. But any women that uses a vibrator and denies men toys are definitely creating a double standard here. Not sure how common this is in real life, from what I've seen people IRL are much more down to earth than people on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 11:09 AM
1	Women you have 5 points to create your ideal man. What are you picking, Haha, if you believe that then you are deluded. Ask any close women about it (gf and strangers don't count). This the answer I most commonly get: "I wouldn't say it does not matter, it's just not the most important".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 11:06 AM
1	Men’s insecurity about sex toys Porn vs toy are not equal. Porn is much closer to betray, you are looking at other women, not using silicon imitation of a pussy for pleasure which does BTW exist and feels great 👍.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 11:01 AM
1	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? If that women is only 8 then you need to touch grass. You realise that is a fairly unrealistic expectation to have of anyone? Unless you are not working, and hitting gym for the most of the day then you can't have that kind of body. Take a rib or 2 for a good measure and a good plastic surgeon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 10:52 AM
2	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? As a guy, I aggree. I think the biggest problem is that both B and C need to apply a bit self care, hair, makeup, clothes and take a photo in a park or some better setting and they are all attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 10:50 AM
1	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? All of these pictures are taken in different contexts so this comparison is really stupid. A is smiling and the photo looks somewhat professionally taken for social media, Instagram maybe; the smile alone adds at least 1 point to her attractiveness scale so there is that. A is definitely very attractive and I would love to squeeze her in a bed :) B. has a very attractive shape of her head, we don't see the rest of their body so can't comment on that but it's a passport photo style so she is not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 10:45 AM
1	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? To you maybe, she is definitely 8/10 in my opinion. That stomach if anything makes it better 😋	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 10:35 AM
1	Men’s insecurity about sex toys Men are insecure because they are made believed by the society that they should be able to pleasure a woman by themselves. Of course a dick can't match a vibrator so it's a no starter, the sooner men realise this the better. Men should not feel insecure about sex toys in the bedroom and women should not give up on sex toys because their men feel insecure about them, it's about your own pleasure as well, so use that vibrator. TL;DR; Men ego is soo out of this world that they will be annoyed by a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 10:32 AM
1	Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive? I don't know what women think about it but I actually paint my nails have manicure because the gel on my nails feels so nice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 02:35 AM
1	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. This makes a lot of sense. I think the reason men just swipe right on anything that goes is because unless something happened before, we don't even think that something could go wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:58 AM
2	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. Not true, I live in London so we have all of these going on and somehow finding someone to date is a nightmare. I was a part of a squash team for 4 months and most people just come and go, no one ever had a time to meet outside of games. I went for a London walk last year and miraculously met my 4 best friends there 3F/1M. They all agree and it's became a running joke and in our group how unlikely it was that we all have just met there. Reality is, unless I am really exhausted I don't spend time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:54 AM
1	Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards. Why won't I date down? I can't help who I am attracted to, I'd rather die than settle down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:35 AM
0	I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about. I don't think they play games, it's just that different when want different things (surprised? Humans are not hivemind). So you learn that one woman wants a confident guy, then you try being confident with a different woman but she does not like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:21 AM
-1	I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about. Because for a women not beeing fat does not take a constant effort at a gym? Most of my friends are deliberately starving themselves because they want to stay slim. I think a lot of people here miss on crucial point before they start accusing people of being lazy and it's that it takes a lot of time and effort that most people don't have. Most of us are working 9-5, clean and do laundry, travel to and from work not to mention gym membership costs money and a lot of people are already struggling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:17 AM
1	It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymore All of that is true with the exception that women don't do these things. At least some of the things listed women reflect back at men. This is why instead of being all pissed up at each other we need to address the root cause of these issues which is Patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:01 AM
1	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. I live in London and it sometimes feels like 90% of the city is single 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:48 AM
1	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. This is all wrong. Incels are absolutely aware of this and that is how many of them end up in "friend zones" and then getting all pissed up about not getting a women to like them more. I have also met a fair share of women who say unless they are obsessed about you from the start then nothing will make you attractive to them. One group of women is punishing men for trying to appeal to the other group of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:26 AM
2	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. Yeah, the problem is. While women like to brag that they are better at social skills, in reality they are not. If you look at them critically, most women on dating apps have terrible profiles. 80% of dating app profiles are 1 photo in a mirror, 1 photo drunk with friends, 1 photo with heavy filter on, some cheesy question that I would not even know how to answer. Yeah, dating apps are terrible. But here is another problem. If you live in a culture where you are discouraged from taking to strange…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:16 AM