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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Divorce Effect My ex glows up after a divorce. No wonder, she found a new guy half a year before the divorce happened. On a plus side, I get to play videogames.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 01:32 PM
3	Seeing the Children You hired the attourney to get an advice, right? Sounds like you have an advice. I'd follow it. I can relate to the urge to make you wife freak out and enjoy it. But you are fighting a long fight. It's not about having fun, it's about losing less.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 01:16 PM
1	Divorce isn't a failure. I like how keyword based your comment is.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/26 01:42 PM
5	Divorce isn't a failure. Ending up in a marriage that is a hellscape is a failure, no? I don't know about you, but when I married my goal was the opposite, love and trust and all that. And I failed to achieve this goal.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/26 12:17 PM
4	Divorce isn't a failure. If you bought a stock at $100 and now it's $50, you have a loss. That's a failed marriage. You invested into something, it didn't turn out the way you hoped. If you divorce, you sell your stock, you realize your losses. You have half of the cash you spent, and it's a done deal. It's not a failure in itself (the failure is the stock going down), but it's a realization of it. That said, the stock you bought might be $25 tomorrow. It might become -$100, because marriage "stocks" easily go negative.…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/26 12:14 PM
3	Worst thing I could have done I think the goal is to reach a state in which looking back is unnecessary. Not to avoid it because it might mess you up. But you should let the wounds to heal. 2 months is too early, even in the mildest of divorces.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/26 04:12 PM
5	I need a sense check - second guessing myself and spiralling Answering as a fellow 47yo recent divorcee. Moved out in August, 1 kid, 12 years. Sounds like you have a lot of fears about your future. That's normal. Life is changing. It's okay to be scared, the unknown lies ahead of you. It was always there, but you didn't have to deal with it, and now you have. should I have tried harder Focus on what to do next, today, tomorrow, in a month. The past is immutable. It's worth considering, but later, when you are out of the divorce. Will I be alone forever. T…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/26 12:07 PM

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