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| 1 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenTrue it is just great and boosts your game as you become more comfortable with them | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 11:00 AM |
| 2 | I Got My Gym Membership Suspended and Banned from the Shopping Mall for cold approaching women IRL. muh "just try offline bro, online is not real life is huge cope. online is real life."Just your Personal experience. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 09:55 AM |
| 7 | Anyone here a loser who turned it around?You cannot go from introvert to extrovert. Your depression just held your etraversion back. It was the same for me. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 06:39 AM |
| 14 | Attraction fundamentalsVery much agree with what you say. The big difference between high status and low status is beeing relaxed and under tension. Also the holistic approach is important. However i recommend releasing techniques to actually let go of the negative feelings | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How Often do you Reset Your Dating App Profiles?What do you mean by reset? If you really want to reset tinder you need: a new device, and new phone number, a new email, a new credit card (in case you want to pay, of you use your old one they will still connect your acoounts and give you your old rating) | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 12:51 AM |
| -1 | When did you realise that, as a man, nobody has cared, cares or will care about you and your well being? And that you will only be used for the resources you can produce and be immediatly thrown away like trash if you yield fewer resources than previously?Never because it is a lie. My friends care about me, my familie cares about me, and also other people i meet here and there definetly care about me. How about thath: do you only think of others as that what you described? Propably no. And nor do otherse see you as that. We all want long, deep realtionships | /r/MensRights | 05/09/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Your answer is full of false accusasion. Approaching a strange person on the street isnt harassing. Asking somebody for direction isnt a problem either What does having decent to do with beeing able to make a good profile? Decent means honest, loyal, polite etc. Beeing able to make a good profile means are photogenic, take alot of fotos and are able to tell a story. Propably you have alot on Instagram and those people arent that decent as they care alot about status and approval I guess you are … | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 06:16 AM |
| 5 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Creating a profile on a dating app is a very unique skill that is totall unimportant in a relationship. Why would you want a man that is good a creating a dating app profile, which means be good in story telling and look good on fotos. Dont you prefer a man that goes his own way, stands his ground, is a good listener? No you want one that is good on datings app ok good luck. And daygame works. If you do it for long enough you get 1 out of 30 | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 2 | does it all come down to the Numbers game?It is not just a number games, you have to reflect to improve yourself. I cond talked to a pick up coach who approached about 20k. He told me he had to approach 300 women to get his first lay and now he approaches betweent 10-15 | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?First of before you do anything else you need to learn to accept and to love yourself. Also you can forgive yourself for what you did in the past. You did the best you can in this moment, even if you dont believe that now. Honestly your post is so full of self hate. Loving and accepting yourself is nothing that happens from one day to another. It is a process which can take years sometimes, but the first results will show up after a few months. My recommendations is that you start reading books … | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | In defense of cold approach (TLDR at the bottom)I agree with what you say, especially for myself. I see no other chances then cold approach. However there is one thing i want to say. I didn't read the comments critisising cold approaches, but i think there can be other ways. E.g. social clubs. I never did this but i hear that it is a way to also meet girls by starting doing things where you meet alot of girls. Like dancing classes, yoga courses, going to comedy shows. Instead of going out 3 times a week for an hour, you go to this events and … | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:59 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Bro if you really dont fell attractive you are very far away from beeing arrogant. You are worrying about something that is very far away from. Its like somebody who is starving worrying about getting fat. First of work on how you view yourself. Maybe you will get also (but not only) a bit arrogant from this but then you can also work on this and go to the next level. In my eyes when you dont feel attractive and want to see yourself as attractive it is part of the journey to be arrogant for a ti… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:49 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]The best way i build a social cirtcle is through hobbys/activities. Right now i am alot into pick up so most of my social circle are Pick-uppers. In the past i went to alot of clus and fesitvals with psytrance music, so my social circle was made from people who also enjoy this kind of music Name a Hobby you really like to do and then go to a club which offers that. If you dont have any hobbys, then you can easily start something you never tried. Theses days most of the sports clubs have an activ… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Maybe cold approach works really well for some, and not for others. I've seen posts recently either criticizing or supporting cold approach. But the question's not "Is cold approach a good way?" The correct question should be "Is cold approach a good way FOR ME?"Love this post, thank you | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | I completely let myself goRespect my friend. Going to a club alone while develop some personallity skills that help you in diffrent aspects of life. Keep going | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 5 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?true it is not that easy. it is just one thing you can try to better your chances. all i wanted to show is that you advice is wrong and not helpfull at all. Of course you can plan it and try to make it happen like everything else. Play numbers game, read into the topick, optimse your looks etc. Your advice is like "Hey i want more trees in my garden" "you cant plan that or make it happen, it is just happening by nature" awesome, you are filling the cliche of a women giving dating advice to men. … | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 5 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?I am very suprised that you still give this totall useless advice "be yourself". For you, beeing yourself leads to ons, but for op it doesnt. So beeing himself just will not lead to ons in the future. He has to change something in his behavior. Please read the rules | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:17 AM |
| 5 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?Then you for this comment. It really shows what i already know. For most of the girls "its just happening" but we men want and plan it | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?a ONS can be alot of fun. only because you dont enjoy doesnt mean the that can be applied for the rest of the world. Following that is is clearly not creepy to look for a ons when you are sober. You must not be drunken to enjoy sex | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:08 AM |
| 2 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?There are a bunch of different opener, especially when you are going for a same night lay. Google them, there are probably english forums with this information, i only know german ones. Those are often very sketchy so you can just start with saying high | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:05 AM |
| -2 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?useless advice. Of course you can make it happen. Sexualise the conversation | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | New to this sub but just want to point out some tips from what I’ve read so farWhat you dont understand is that becoming this kind of person was either hard work for your, or you got it from you childhood. However telling others guys to "be themselfes" because your self is working very well for you isnt a good advice. Here the advice for this guys is to become the best version of himself, where he has high self esteem, doenst avoid eye contact etc... | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | New to this sub but just want to point out some tips from what I’ve read so farGo read the rules again. This kind of comment is actually unwanted (the fish stuff). The thing is that often women dont know how men feel in this situation of approaching. So they give advice on the basis on how they feel. You´re comments arent helpfull at all (in this post). You are beeing disrespectull and you dont want to help anyone (as you said "here for entertainment") | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | How to be confident - when there's no reason to be confident?Okay here is what my recommendation What brought you in this situation is not one big decision, it is the decisions you make on a daily bases. And that is what you have to change. So first off you need to accept the situation you are in. This doenst mean you are not going to change it, it just means you accept it, get further and dont waste energy into creating a wrong reality. I cant explain this fully so i recommend this forcefull thing: Books. Read them. And then do what they say. First off r… | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yoursI basically agree with you but i think you are making it a bit to easy. If you have none experience with texting women you will always wonder what to text and you have to go through this process to come in the state that you describe. | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 14 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.I basically agree with you, but i myself just meet so little girls so i don't think that will help me. Lets take 2020 for example, until today i meet 0 new girls no phone number nothing. I didn't approach them too, what for sure is my bad. The point i want to make is just that if i had 3 cool hobbys/passions that would have had brought more girls to me, would it? Cheers | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub?Basically you can think of it yourself. There are just less women in this subreddit. If you have any question about women game dont hesitate to ask. The women and men in this subred will try to give you the best answer they can. But still if there just aren't so much women caring here about their game, there is obviously not that much content. Simple statistics. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedThank you for sharing your experience. It is a huge inspiration | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Daygame in present timesSo i am just starting to approach women and my first target is just to talk to them. So i just walk around and ask random women question like "what time is it" That is something you can still easily do if you are shopping or going for a solo walk | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How to Pose for PhotosI think it is a good idea to do a shooting. Those arent that expensive and you get a feeling for good pictures | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 10:56 AM |
| 6 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)You went for alot (if all of this is true) and i respect that BUT you already had a girlfriend and even lifed together with her even before your really bad times That is something me and others just dream about. Never having a girlfriend and starting to approach women and actually once having one is something quite different. Your story is inspirational and hopefully it will help the people here but i think you still differ from what others are going through | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | 10 year life lesson (what I would tell myself when I was 16 about attracting women)For me this sounds like an advertisement. I dont really think that working out is changing that much. Ofc it can be helpful but there are alot of other things you have to check first | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | you're good enough when you stop asking the questionI once read in a book that the Alpha male is a person everyone respects and everyone feels very comfortable around. As you descripe it is not the asshole guy, it´s the nice guy everyone wants to hang out with. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Reminder for you guys that it’s 80% looks 20% personality and seductionThat is far away from beeing true. You can be good looking af if you miss self condivence girls wont really notice you. I mean yes you should invest time in your style/body whatever, but the main reason some guys arent getting girls are not looks. You can see that on the fact that out there are alot guys who are not that hot and still have (also not that hot) girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 08:17 PM |
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