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| 1 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?That's why the "and liking it" part matters, I think a connection can be built over time between two people that have good hygiene and are in shape, even if they're ugly. One time I saw this stupid ass post on some Christian form about how men and women are drawn to each other's energy. My first instinct was "that's BS they all want Chad" but the more I've lived the more I've seen. I think there's something to that. If you take two young people (or old people) who are clean and in decent shape, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?I'm fat because I just don't see a point in giving a shit about my body anymore. Like I'm not going to get laid anyway, so I find comfort in food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?Well once they start having sex and liking it the "settling" isn't so bad lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | If two guys go for a woman at the same time, what could you do to make her choose you?Because people are not always rational actors. They have the capacity for rationality but they don't always use it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?Well yeah he's not a woman, we actually have to put effort into life. We just just show up and show out and have everything work itself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?I tried therapy and it just didn't work. Same with the chiropractor, if I dump 30 bucks a week into something for 2 months and it doesn't work I lose all will to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?I'm 23 and I'm in exactly the same spot. Like anymore shit is so fucked, I just don't have the fight in me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?The news made everyone a whiny little piss baby. We are in the most peaceful time ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?So what are they supposed to tell you to do? Self-delete? You can scream into the void all you want, it won't listen. And at least this guy gets to fuck crazy chicks. I don't get to fuck fat, ugly, or crazy chicks. I get nothing. You need to appreciate what you have more. Keep the high standards, but at some point you either compromise, or the world does. Guess what, the world won't break. The heavens won't shift to save you. You will die alone with your stubborn pride. Ask me how I fucking know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?The market decides what is reasonable. Keep your high standards, but if you die alone don't be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?Bro, welcome to the real world. Most dudes don't get to be the quarterback. Look at how many incels there are, be glad you get any pussy at all. All of PPD needs to accept that you're not Chad or Stacy and you don't get to live their life. Even Chad and Stacy don't get to be them forever, after 20 lbs and a divorce or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?1 and 3 you probably need to budge on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?It's reality. He's not a woman, he's a 30 year old looking for a high value partner in the bargain bin. He's leftovers looking for leftovers. I'm the same, but I'm in my 20s. I hate to use crass language, but the feller needs to wake up and find someone that's good enough, or he'll have nobody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | If two guys go for a woman at the same time, what could you do to make her choose you?Because there is always someone better? It's impossible to be the best ever, all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:03 AM |
| – | Men of PPD: Do you really find casual sex appealing?See I don't find clubs or bars fun at all,just anxiety inducing . It's like you're from a different planet to me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:31 AM |
| – | Men of PPD: Do you really find casual sex appealing?Not everybody has the opportunity to "have fun." I can't fuck a girl without falling in love, so I don't do casual stuff cause I also get jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:28 AM |
| – | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?I gave up on getting casual sex. I'm 22, and still basically a virgin but for whatever reason stuff changes. I don't just want to fuck the hot cheerleader anymore, I'm at the point now where I would be lucky to have a girl that I'm attracted to at all. I'm one of those people that doesn't really want to play the field. Maybe it's because of the ridiculous amount of effort casual sex takes me, but I would rather just have a girlfriend that I don't have to worry about constantly seducing. Someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Being girlfriend zoned is worse than being sex zonedI hate wowben so much it's unreal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Population collapse and datingThat wouldn't work. Imagine if nearly every single guy was an incel. The braver ones would orchestrate a revolution and the cowardly ones would follow along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeIf you throw a rock at a bear, is it okay for it to eat you? Maybe, maybe not, but it's a bear, it's going to maul your ass either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Maybe man whores. This is why you need to have a discussion early on about what you're both looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Pretty girls don't have it as easy as you think (although they definitely have it easier than most men)No, wanting to cooperate is like me wanting women to not care about height and social awkwardness. That's just not how life is, it's just not how women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Where are they? LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How does hypergamy explain things like gangbang fantasy?You like sex with tall, buff guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How does hypergamy explain things like gangbang fantasy?This is why they just took women's rights away in the past. Y'all are too confusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:22 PM |
| – | Love exist only when you are young"true love" doesn't exist in the first place. Love is mostly based on sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Pretty girls don't have it as easy as you think (although they definitely have it easier than most men)Okay then be a lesbian. This is like me saying "I hate how women get the ick when I stutter 😡". That's just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Pretty girls don't have it as easy as you think (although they definitely have it easier than most men)See I don't agree that 10s exist, or 1s. They just exist to define the upper and lower borders of the attractiveness scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.I have a hard time believing you can't find a good guy, cause I know plenty of good guys who can't get laid cause they're dorks. That's why my first instinct is to say "well you just want Chad", but there's probably more to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Well I guess I must just be a massive piece of shit lmao, cause I'm my experience women find the sad sack shit pathetic and gross. This is the main problem with PPD, basic shit some people take as a fundamental part of life is completely different according to different people's experience. Humans always default to experience over logic. Like to me, in my life, on a base level acting desperate is a one-way ticket to being an incel forever, but in your world, it's somehow the opposite. I'm not di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Women think you're a loser/pussy if you don't want to choke them during sex. My biggest issue with Radfems isn't that they're wrong about societal organization, cause you're actually not. But what you're wrong about is the basic fact that the vast majority of women are attracted to outwardly masculine traits, because you have different preferences. Look at "the ick". A guy loses a fight, or is scared of a bug, and women lose attraction immediately. The reason why men are toxic is because women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Yeah like I like kinky sex, but I would rather do "boring" missionary honestly. You can always jerk off, but you can't give yourself intimacy. Of course I'm technically a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Women are attracted to men that are capable of violence. Men are more violent because it's a sexually selected for trait. Women don't like shy, quiet men that act like women. Ask me how I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Men aren't socialized to enjoy caretaking like women are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.I feel bad for fat chicks. It's their fault but you could argue that bad social skills are my fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatHot guys are entitled too, they just so very rarely get told no that you don't see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?This is just so backwards to how men think. The FWB guy you're fucking is someone you trust and have known for years but the guy on the date is some dude you just met. Which, okay, that makes sense, but why not date the FWB? What makes a FWB not boyfriend material? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Yeah, Chads do. But this guy doesn't sound like a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Yeah if he's 6'4 and ripped with a big dick, but most guys don't look like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Because you didn't make the tall buff guy wait but you made the guy you claimed to like wait. How do you not see that as a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Let me guess, he also just happens to be tall and muscular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Yes but women are far pickier about who they have sex mean, meaning there is a higher proportion of guys who want to fuck girls that don't want to fuck them than the inverse, meaning that most of the time women are the gatekeepers of sex. Not every time, but most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Most of what gets called “manipulation” and “grooming” seems to be just seduction people don’t likeWomen want men that are better than them is the main issue. When you're only attracted to people you perceive as better than yourself (more confident, more capable), there's bound to be some manipulation occurring eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:17 PM |
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