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| 16 | "The last vagina you will ever touch"The best response would be to grab her hand and say ”I Don’t see a ring on this finger, do you?” | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/23 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveHaha okay. No confidence: Women: He’ll ask me out Men: You’re fcked No money: Women:he’ll pay Men: you’re fcked No friends: Women: he doesn’t even ask Men: you’re fcked Quiet: Women: “I’m submissive” Men: You’re fcked Bad in bed: Women: just lie back Men: worthless man! Dump him and find someone who can satisfy you! Don’t play sports, go to the gym or other “cool”extracurricular activities: Women: not expected to Men: Girls think you’re a loser Hit your spouce during an argument: Women: he’s a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveWhat would I want? I don’t know a perfect world where people could truly be themselves and be accepted for that. Maybe a world where more people are willing to take a chance with someone they see potential in, instead of looking for a finished product. A world with fewer double standards maybe. And yeah tiktok is crazy but a lot of that stuff is just to get a reaction out of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveOh okay, glad he beat cancer. But yeah my point is that monkeybraching exists in both genders there will always be opportunistic people that use you as a placeholder. Far from the majority tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveThen why do you think he would leave you if you “helped him get successful” ? I’m confused lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:59 PM |
| -2 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveI agree with the fact that men need to be more than just providers and of course they should chip in with household chores and raising children. A progressive household with two working parents is awesome and of course they both need to help each other out in order for everything to work. However the “protection” bit was just about the fact that many women seek men who constantly display masculine energy even though they themselves preach acceptance and claim to be progressive. He might be a per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:27 PM |
| -11 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveDid he leave you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:10 PM |
| 8 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveI was just using the same rhetoric you where using. No a traditional wife is not a child. Neither is a traditional man who provides for his family and gets meals cooked for him or whatever. And it was just an example of how many women who are progressive often want men to remain in their traditionally masculine role. Like most women would probably cringe if their man didn’t chase a thief who stole her bag down the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:06 PM |
| -9 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveSo you're not willing to help him through hard times yet you deserve his loyalty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveFair enough, what bothers me though is the fact that these very same women often want a man to provide for them the same way he would provide for a kid. Also they want to be protected by him the same way he would protect a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 05:30 PM |
| 5 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Amen to that bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?Interesting story, I’ve learnt to never use logic and reason to get sex with women. That never works (and it really kills the little attraction that she has for you) When i am in a situation like this i just pull away all of my non-sexual attention from her and focus on the sexual attention. That should give her a hint and at the same time show (with your actions) that you are ready to leave. This usually works if she considers you a good enough catch, but may sometimes lead to starfish-sex so b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | I love my girlfriend and we get along but shes not that attractiveI know bro I’m not gonna lie it’s hard out here and finding a girl with those attributes is really hard. But you’ve been seeing her for 2 years now and you’re still thinking about this… I just know personally if I was in your position that’s what I would do. I seek the same qualities in a woman that you do but I still refuse to settle and I don’t mind being single until/if I find the one. But you just gotta ask yourself do I wanna put all my eggs in this basket? If no then you already know what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:50 PM |
| -1 | I love my girlfriend and we get along but shes not that attractiveMy honest opinion… don’t settle. You owe both her and yourself that. If you really were that deeply in love with her you wouldn’t care about what other people think but just the fact that you wrote this means you do, so stop stalling it, get your abundance mindset on point and go find yourself a 10/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male?Wealth is a powerful tool but it’s just that.. a tool. It’s not your personality. There are plenty of wealthy simps out there that have very little to offer other than money and sadly they get used by women. However for the right guy it can work wonders. Wealth is just one attribute that attracts women and the other attributes are just as important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers?You become and incel and spend the rest of your days on Reddit. No but really you don’t need to be that attractive to have FWB relationships you just need to work on your social skills a bit more. Be a cool guy to hang around and women will start to gravitate towards you and keep doing it after a ons. But if you’re only able to get ons I think it says a lot about your personality. Work on your charisma and people skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | women are not more red pilled than menThere is no such thing as a red pilled woman lol. The red pill ideology was born from the fact that sex is hard to come by as a guy and requires effort and ”finesse” to attain. This is simply not the reality for most women as they have to pick and choose amongst the abundance of men that try to have sex with them. The men with the highest Sexual market value are still no match for the average woman when it comes to getting sex. So no, the red pill does not exist for women simply because there is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerAlso because women will always get sex (commitment is another thing) but guys who are deemed “losers” don’t even get that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerI agree. That’s because right now society tells women that they “don’t need a man” and partly because women love to sugarcoat things lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerLosers in the dating scene have a habit of blaming the opposite gender. This goes for incels as well as women who can’t find a partner over a certain age. Men get judged by their ability to obtain quality women. Women get judged by their ability to keep a quality man. Anything less than this and you’re a “loser” and the next step is, of course to blame everyone of the opposite gender for your disability instead of working on yourself and your disabilities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?to me taking care of your health is the bare minimum of “taking care of yourself” and should have little to do with your value in the dating market and more to do with “do you wanna stay alive?” and dangerously close to “letting yourself go” I guess it depends on where you set the bar :) I think it’s a subjective thing. However since this is a subreddit discussing the dating scene I choose to use “taking care of yourself” in the context of dating and that does include some of the aforementioned … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?To me taking care of your health is the bare minimum of “taking care of yourself” and should have little to do with your value in the dating market and more to do with “do you wanna stay alive?” and dangerously close to “letting yourself go” I guess it depends on where you set the bar :) I think it’s a subjective thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Wealthy? I know plenty of girls that spend time and money on their appearance ( hair, shaving, working out, getting their hair done, getting their nails done whatever) and are dirt broke. I would argue that the wealthy women you talk about are more likely to be career-driven and might be even less inclined to do the stuff you mentioned due to time limitations or are you perhaps talking about spoiled sugar-babies? I’m confused… Also let’s not get caught up the term ”taking care of yourself” it co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you.Multi-dating in itself is not a problem, it's about timing. First few dates? who the hell cares. But if someone thinks it's a good time to multi-date at the late stages of dating I feel like it says a lot about them and I would think twice before entering a relationship with them. I might be wrong here but from my experience these tend to be the type to want to be in a relationship simply for the title and do not appreciate the hard work that goes into establishing trust and mutual respect in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 07:45 PM |
| 10 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?It's not something I think about often, I've been with both women who do and don't do it, and tbh to each their own. It's your body at the end of the day. However I can't lie and say it's not a turn on when women take care of themselves when it comes to things like shaving, weight management or just their appearance in general. It exudes femininity which is a turn on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 07:27 PM |
| – | Would you break up with a great panther if didn't like having sex?Yes, sex is one of the pillars of a relationship. Without physical intimacy everything crumbles and falls apart. The only reason I would be ok with it is if my partner has some sort of condition or ailment which prevents us from having sex, if I really love the person I would stay otherwise there is no excuse really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | pumping and dumping male vs femaleYou don’t owe men shit lol same way they don’t owe you a LTR. Glad we’re on the same page! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 0 | pumping and dumping male vs femaleMen say the weirdest fucking things. Sure bud. It's so traumatic. The mean, mean womens, taunting you with their evil pussy, dancing just out of reach. So traumatic. And women love to make guys pay full price for something someone else got for free But back to the topic at hand my point is being abused mentally is on the same level as being abused physically, hurts the same way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | pumping and dumping male vs femaleI view my money, time and attention as an extension of myself. I have spent lots of time working on myself and getting to where I'm at and yes someone taking advantage of me by dangling sex in front of me is traumatizing, I would argue that it could be more traumatizing than someone dangling a LTR in front of you Regardless sex is a beautiful act that happens between two consenting adults and should not be used as some sort of bargaining chip. I really dislike women who do this and it shows that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | pumping and dumping male vs femaleIt’s wrong for men to dangle LTRs in front of women the same way it’s wrong for women to dangle sex in front of men to get them to spend their money, time and attention on her. Manipulation is nothing new and both genders do it, so there is no reason to demonize one gender for this issue as it often goes both ways. Women will always be able to use sex as a bargaining chip while men will be able to use LTR as a bargaining chip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 0 | The notion of "unconditional love"I highly doubt that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Women love it when men impress themHe is right, a woman having kids from previous relationships is different from a single father, sad but that’s the way it is. He doesn’t even have to be a rapper or actor, there are plenty of regular even below average men with plenty of baby moms that have no problem getting women. Let me put it in a different way so that you might understand. It’s waaay more common to find a deadbeat dad that gets women than a mom that leaves her children to go date men and does so successfully | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women love it when men impress themOf course this is coming from a woman…haha No but really small things matter to women like remembering her favorite wine or that gift she really wants but is too embarrassed to tell people about. Doesn’t have to be expensive, it’s the thought that counts however don’t be a simp spending ridiculous amounts of money on a girl to impress her, too many people doing that. Be different! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:08 PM |
| 3 | “Lower you standard”, is the worst possible advice a person can get, when it comes to datingI mean there are standards and then there are “standards”. Nothing wrong with opting for a partner you really admire and think highly of but some of these standards are really crazy like some people wanting their partner to have a hug e salary and be super successful while they themselves are average at best, good luck with that! However I am not one to judge since I myself apparently have “ridiculously” high standards set for my future partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible adviceI think attracting women is a hobby in itself tbh lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedI really think that Will is a genuinely good guy. I don’t know why he did that tho… especially considering he was laughing at the joke at first, then I saw Jadas reaction lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What’s PPD think about Voluntary Male Celibacy?I think this is a very good thing to be honest and I practice it myself. I don’t think it will be detrimental to your future relationships if you have “enough” experience to know what you need and want from a future partner. On the contrary it can be empowering. Knowing that you have the ability to date whoever you want but choose to stay celibate, it’s a powerful thing. I think it sends a powerful signal to the opposite gender given the hyper sexual trend that we have today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Yes, let’s not get caught up with the terminology. Simply mean the guy she is thinking about for the moment, a guy who is only looking for sex and is willing to lie and manipulate to get it. And also I might as well add that (and I did say it before) not ALL women will fall into this predicament, it has a lot to do with self-worth and the ability to establish boundaries and stick to them. Some women have this and won’t really be affected by a high n-count but if the woman is not sure of herself … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Are you thick? Yes I understand why men want a woman who hasn't slept around, but it IS hypocrisy if he has slept around. There literally wasn't a contradiction here at all. No. What i am trying to say to you is that ”hypocrisy”doesn’t exist in the dating market. In the same way that a woman is attracted to a man of preferably higher social status, economical means and higher smv this is not wrong even through many people in the red-pill community struggle with accepting this. But this is human … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:25 PM |
| 31 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I think the effects of society’s current lenient view on n-count rears its ugly head in LTRs. The widely discussed topic is usually the physiological effect the n-count has on women and I truly believe this is used as a smokescreen to justify that having a high n-count as a woman has no consequences. However this is false and high n-count involving the “right” type of men definitely has an impact on SOME (not all) women. Only type of guys who truly fall for trope that there is physical “damage” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.This is from your first reply stating that it is wrong for a man with a High body count to desire a woman with a low bodycount. Because it's hypocrisy and shows a lot about you if you have a standard for your partner that you can't meet yourself. Weakness, lack of impulse control, entitlement being a few. But a few posts later you state that you perfectly understand why men (including men with High bodycount) desire a woman with a low body count. No, I don't wonder why men desire women with low … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Dude, what is hell if not you trying to hold it down while a young girl whispers something like "oh father I've had sinful thoughts last night about me deepthroating your bwc and gargling the sauce..." I can only imagine The man is full iron-made with rock balls. You sent that guy naked to Ukraine and he will come back with a russian tooth necklase and a bear as a pet. Hahaha the mental image is killing me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Because it's hypocrisy and shows a lot about you if you have a standard for your partner that you can't meet yourself. Weakness, lack of impulse control, entitlement being a few. Sounds a lot like something called hypergamy. Using your own logic that would mean that a majority of women are weak, lack impulse control and are entitled, right? Sounds like this is something that only is ok when it benefits you, but when it benefits me.. now that’s a problem. Women don't view virginity as an achievem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 3 | How important to you is a woman’s relationship to her family, especially her father? And women—how important is a man’s family life to you?I understand that this is something out of her control however the father serves a very important role in the development of a child’s self-image, ability to establish boundaries and ethics/morals in general. There is a a lot of reason behind the saying that fathers keep daughters off stripper poles and sons out of jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsLol well Ghengis fucking Khan is not some kind of Diety he belongs to the very same spieces the modern men belong to and I think people who have similar views regarding their sexual partners should not be shunned just because it’s the “hip” thing to do right now. They should be viewed at from an objective standpoint and respected the same way you would respect someone who is into cuckoldry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsAll I asked was a simple question I don’t understand why you are playing this game. From what you have learnt about Ghengis Khan, do you think he fits into your description of a weak man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsSo you have no idea about who Ghengis Khan is? Should have payed more attention back in high school. Let’s just agree to disagree I don’t think we will be changing each other’s views anytime soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Hahah sounds like a blast! Ultimate restraint shown by the gentleman. God is great! xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsI don’t really think so, this chad you speak of only exists in your mind. As a man you should strive to be fit and obesity ( or being severely underweight) should not be socially accepted. The attraction towards a physically capable man is a byproduct of evolution and serves an important function: being able to protect yourself and those under your protection from harm. Women don’t really require all of the aesthetically attributes you describe, simply being fit is enough. You’re other attribute… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?Are you practicing voluntary celibacy or involuntary? You don’t have to answer if you don’t want to I’m just curious. It’s somewhat relevant since you mention you have fomo. I myself practice voluntary celibacy but have plenty of past experience so there is no fomo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Has there been any adverse affects to female sex positivity in your opinion?I dont really think the incentive for guys to get into a relationship has changed that much since as you say these women will most likely sleep with the ”most attractive guys” guys like this were getting laid anyway but i think this might lead to guys (the ones who get to sleep with these women) having higher standards when it comes to a LTR since more and more women are willing to have sex with them without commitment. This means that there is more pressure on the Female counterpart to have thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsIf that the case why do women hesitate to reveal their real bodycount to men and other women whom they are not in a relationship with. They only reveal it to close friends that they know wont judge them. You could walk down the street with a microphone asking random guys their bodycount and they would probably tell you the truth (most). As for the weak man analogy, the ancient ruler of the Mongol empire Ghengis Khan is said to have added 30 virgins to his harem every year. Let me guess, oh yeah.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to hold frame so that if someone like Dan Bilzerian came knocking you'd be able to keep the girl you're seeing?Yes, it’s called turning around and walking in the opposite direction. Did this once with a girl I had met at the club, next thing she did was literally shove the guy away from herself (he had his arm around her) and run in my direction. She was wearing high heels too! xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsI think the logic behind that is flawed because of one reason. Women rarely open up about their insecurities (the ones that actually reduce their smv in the eyes of men) like her previous promiscuity, body count, the lengths in which she went to please a man that is not hers and stuff like that. So why are we expected to open up and be honest and vulnerable and reduce our perceived “smv”. I say you tell me your insecurities and I’ll tell you mine, simple So using your logic.. I think women shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanHuh? His view: pua and TRP overcomplicates things. And following pua/TRP might not be the answer My view: agree that pua TRP might not be the answer for everyone or all the time then proceed to explain why. Like there are other aspects of attraction that TRP and pua does not cover, such as having charisma and personality I mean those are mainly the basic components of a person, there is no “magical force” that governs if a girl is into you or not like some people choose to believe.( “just be you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?Yes and no, depends on the person. In a “perfect” world everyone would be able to have a hoe phase without any problems, learn from it and make use of this knowledge in future relationships. However wether this is appropriate for the person in question or not depends on the amount of self-distance a person has. I’m gonna try to keep this as gender neutral as possible but let’s just say sometimes we call something a hoe-phase but it’s not really a hoe-phase. It’s us throwing ourselves at people w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanVery interesting post! I think what you’re trying to get at is that the pua-advice/redpill philosophy rarely focuses on improving charisma and certain parts of your personality and people-skills that are vital in retaining a womans attraction. I can take myself as an exemple as it would be simpler that way. The red-pill philosophy considers phone calls with women simply as a way of setting dates and a phone call for more than 10 mins is considered beta-like and a waste of time. This might be the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What benefit do women have being more emotional than men?I believe expressing anger is different from other emotions and the label ”emotional” as it is closely tied to asserting dominance. The ability for a man to express anger at the right moment and given the right circumstances is likely very benifitial. It can also be a double-edged sword and not so beneficial in certain social situations. But i think anger is in some ways very different from the other emotions, atleast when it comes to the male gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.I dont see how that is relevant. Womens and mens view on Virginity differs alot. A woman being a virgin is often regarded as an achievement, a sort of accomplishment if you will. However a mans virginity is universally regarded as a liability as it might be an indicator of passiveness or low SMV. Why is it like this? There could be many reasons to be honest. Could be the typical ”rockstar persona” that we grew up admiring, you know the man with fame (social status), money and charisma this image… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:44 PM |
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