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| 1 | Many people here talk about how well women have it, how men are judged by so many things, status, etc. but what can be done about it? What can you do if, for example, as a man you envy women for their power and options?Pussy might not fix his broken life, but it will certainly make it better. Females really cant understand the value sex has for men. My confidence shot through the roof once i could attract decent looking girls. Every part of my life got exponentially better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Young men are not being "radicalized" by random men on the internet; their views/opinions are much more so being forged by what women themselves directly say on social media and other public forums.Lol, all the data shows that the people doing well in dating are a very small %. Most people these days hate dating, both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to marry eventually need to raise their standardsI would say women often disguise the language to make it seem like something else besides boredom. Usually they complain about a particular characteristic of their husband. The problem that often occurs is that even if the relationship is great the other 95% of the time, people will believe the partner is a bad person because that is all they heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | 30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you.Casual sex is completely overrated. It has a lot of risks like stds. You both dont know each others preferences. You always have to wear a condom. The list goes on and on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Do people put enough effort into targeting the types of people they want as partners?Yeah just be rich and famous as a short guy. You will get a hot girl than. Idk how short you are, but in my entire life i can count on 2 hands the amount of short guys who slayed. They were pretty boys as well. Compared to the amount of tall men its insurmountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually like men?I saw that Ted Talk. We can be honest and say she isnt the typical woman though. Her list had the entire crowd laughing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 6 | "Looks matter" needs to die on this sub.A lot of incels have autism. They are literally hopeless because of mental issues. Not because of some perceived physical traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating.Traditional dating made sure that the woman you were courting wasn't sleeping with other guys. It gave people roles they could fulfill while being respected for those positions. Nowadays, you will lose respect instantly and get ghosted if you don't follow a unique script a person has for you. Traditional dating wouldn't get you flaked on 3 times in a row, by different women. You know she is smiling gleefully behind her phone screen. She got attention/validation from wasting your time and playing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 05:20 AM |
| 1 | TRP is a sexual strategy for Narcissists to have wild sex with females with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)The reason this happened is because being a good person isnt attractive. You seduce someone through cunning, charisma, and temptation. If you think about it those are all traits of a villain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | General dating advice from ANYONE is rubbishHonestly depends on the friends. Women only give good dating advice if you show that you are clued in on the game. Only players who have been at the bottom can give real advice. Even then they have to be the same race and be attracted to the same types of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?Its funny because the 2008 global recession was predicted by people 2 years before as well. At the time, they were considered crazy because everyone was getting in the bubble. I think there is a simple solution to this problem though. It is full legalization of prostitution. There is no real argument against it from the left and feminism. Women would have to change their mindsets towards men REAL quick because this will dry up the attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Do men have fifteen years on women?Its the lazy fat types that this happens to. A growing epidemic among Americans though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | AF/BB is perfectly natural and normal for both gendersYou perfectly described why MGTOW is the future. I dont think most people realize how MGTOW is exponentially growing even though most men havent heard of the term. Modern dating is literally a part time job for a man these days. He has to be a dancing monkey to entertain a woman. He is competing against 10 other guys in her DMs. Its a waste of time because most likely the woman is going to end up leaving him anyway. Lets just hang out with the boys who won't flake or ghost me. We get along reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 2 | "looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true.I actually find this to be true. Most women have higher standards as they get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 10:59 AM |
| 1 | The red pill only teaches you how to attract Stacy, which does not work well on average women, and warps your perception of women.What did he explicitly do that made you feel super insecure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | The red pill only teaches you how to attract Stacy, which does not work well on average women, and warps your perception of women.The guy you are talking about simply applied too much dread to the relationship. A core tenant of RP is balancing a womans level of security in the relationship. No girl should be waking up paranoid with low self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism?Feminism is teaching women to behave like men and for men to behave like women. It reverses the natural biological inter-gender dynamic of polarity. Most American women are very masculine compared to women in other places in the world. Especially, if they are very attractive they treat most men as beneath them because of all the attention they receive. It's only when they are fat, old, or ugly do they develop feminine attitudes. Even then a lot of those types still have negative mindsets towards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.This is well said and its particularly the worst when dealing with younger women. Bread crumbing is something I know a lot of my single guy friends expect to happen when talking to a girl now. Men are simply adjusting to female behaviors in the SMP. I've seen some new dating strategies involving men setting up 2/3 dates on one day all at locations near each other. They want to save time and if a girl happens to show up they'll flake on the others. Its crazy what dating has come to because no one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.I know women IRL who use men for foodie calls and my Mother has admitted to me with a smile on her face to doing this. You go on the date fill her stomach with food and she gives you a peck on the lips. One of the girls has a roster of guys that she rotates to take her out to places. I have never personally dealt with this because I don't do dinner dates unless she's my girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.My own mother has admitted to doing this in the past when she was broke before she had me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themYour sentences dont make any sense. How are people willing to walk away from bad relationships, but so many are in bad ones? Majority of men in the US do not have options. Your partners might not be Chads, but they are definitely in the top 30% of men. The average guy walking around struggles consistently with constant rejection. I would know i used to be that guy before i got muscles, nice clothes, and my own place. It really shows your own solipsism that most men are simply invisible to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Very common scenario: guy in his mid-twenties commits to his first girlfriend with a body count of 20+. How do they usually fare?You guys overexaggerate. Im with Mimox on this one and i generally dont agree with her. Im in many different social circles at my College. Everything from party animals, to nerdy studious types, and basic hangout smoke weed people. Most of the girls werent excessively whoring unless they were in the hipster crowd, party people, or tattood casual sex types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 01:10 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themThey are usually inexperienced and naive as well. Unfortunately, most modern western women arent like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 10:22 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themYou clearly dont get it. I am a man who has options. My friends rate me as a male 7. It took me about 2 years of grinding to be in this position. I know tons of above average guys financially, physically, and socially who have had 2 partners in their life. Most men do not have any options. Average guys and slightly above average just take what they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 10:11 AM |
| 3 | Don’t hide who you are to attract women, you will never know who will love the person you hideI'm tired of women telling this bullshit be yourself advice. If TRP and games didn't work men wouldn't use them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Alpha-Beta Dichotomy 2020 outdated?It is incredible how much has changed in the past 5 years. I know girls in my classes who are complaining about guys being mean to them. It is so socially damaging to be called a simp that no guy will be friends with you. She belongs to the streets has affected female behavior as well. All the girls do not want to be labelled as a street girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are you guys so cynical?It honestly depends on how short he is. I know guys who have dwarfism and they have understandably given up. They just use prostitutes as a 4'3 guy is not gonna be able to get a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | What type of negging works best for you/on you?It really should just be renamed to teasing. I do it all the time and it works on guys and girls alike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Why do you still seek out LTRs?No RP men hate how women have been treating men as utilities. They play childish mind games to manipulate men. I literally see it all the time around me. Most people (men and women) see it as normal to do so because society is engraining it as acceptable behavior. RP men have decided to play back because of how women have treated them their entire lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Does red pill philosophy prey upon common female pathologies?I agree to a large degree. Its a reason why I'm purple pill. I'm a man who prefers relationships and spinning plates has never appealed to me. Although my relationships ended, the women I dated weren't nearly as bad as TRP often describes. However, there were definitely situations where I needed to maneuver using TRP tools. Shit testing is universal and I have never met a woman who doesn't do it. Holding frame is something everyone should do, man or woman, in a lot of social interactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:58 AM |
| 10 | Do women lie more than men?This is the truth. They are better at navigating social situations that make it so they aren't really lying. It is covert communication tactics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRsA common shaming tactic is "are you gay?" No, I just don't want to have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are you surprised that looks matter?I agree with you. I know a ton of players below 6 ft. Girls cant tell what your height is as long as you are taller than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Women wouldn't have a problem with men leading them on and using them for sex if they just waited until marriage to have it like in the past.Most people lie about their sex lives unless you are really close. I have done it because i dont want people knowing who i am banging. Especially if the girl is in our social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4 long time members of PPD - how has the sub and the topics we discuss/debate here evolved since you first subscribed?I would agree with your assessment. Im really worried about incels. No civilization in history has survived with a large group of young celibate men. That is a recipe for disaster and society simply doesnt care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 09:16 PM |
| 4 | What separates men who get laid, from men who rarely get laid?Social skills, strong body language, confident voice tonality, good fashion sense, and experience with women. Guys who get laid a lot know how to escalate. They are adept at navigating different social dynamics when interacting with women. | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...This has happened to me a couple times throughout my life as well. I was very confused and just passed it off to the girl being a bitch. I talked to other guys in real life about this today and they all agree they have had this happen to them. Some of my buddies are Chads too, so you can be a high value male and still experience this. It is becoming socially acceptable for women to behave in demeaning ways toward men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 12:39 AM |
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