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| 1 | What do you do in your free time?I read, dabble in wow with my paladin and DK, various lol kid stuffs. 6-8 hours of pointe a week which is way more fun as a friend to the choreographer/artistic director/teachers than a company member! I get to claim being old and give them the finger when they tell me I'm "too fat" for the pas de deux I used to do. I still guest teach their pas de deux related intensives so they can kiss my "fat" ass. One of the things I'm most excited about is helping a friend with an occupational therapy busi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/19 03:13 PM |
| 5 | How tf are women supposed to trust their husbands when Married Red Pill and TRP are all about how to cheat on your wife?I'm old enough to remember when "eat my ass" was an insult. The idea of actually doing it is just... no. I read about a peanut allergy person having a reaction after eating a supposedly clean asshole 🤮Tounging cornholes is just too edgy for me until every starfish wrinkle can be spread flat and bleached. Gl with that millennial scientists! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/19 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How would you treat a bastard boy your husband brings home to the Castle?Yeah I think a bastard would be a lot safer if older legitimate sons were present. Knowing the moms identity would give an adult target to hate instead, and that's nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 05:46 PM |
| 4 | How would you treat a bastard boy your husband brings home to the Castle?I wanna say I'd be okay with the kid and hate the husband, if it were a fucked up time travel situation I could. I'd have much bigger problems, but I wouldn't suddenly hate kids for being born. If I had the mind of some medieval woman I'd likely hate the husband and the threat the kid represents. Especially in Catelyn's position, she doesn't even know who the mother is so she had nowhere else to focus her rage. Which was probably even worse for knowing The Honorable Ned Stark wouldn't stick his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 02:37 AM |
| 5 | If marriage is such a bad deal for men, why do they keep getting married?No joke, my husband had an old co-worker that decided to he was a woman after climbing high on the corporate ladder. Made tons of comments and "me too" worthy grabass moments that made HR faint, then would joke they were untouchable because of the inevitable discrimination lawsuit. Men who think women in the workplace are bad should be stuck in a office working for an ambitious douche that got a wig and tits to go along with his dick. Dream big! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 01:50 AM |
| 8 | How would you treat a bastard boy your husband brings home to the Castle?This is the only right answer. Wouldn't want to be double cucked 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Why do women fake orgasms or lie about men concerning quality of sex?Despite the measured tone of your response, you're not hearing the answers to your question. It's not as simple as "avoidance of deep conversation." It's avoidance of curb stomping a fragile ego. When it comes to their dicks, ALL of their egos are fragile no matter what their mouths say or their fingers type. Further, sexual compatibility isn't such a rare and magical aligning of the planets that it's worth forcing that curb stomp of a convo. It's perfectly reasonable to assume he'd be more comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 04:25 PM |
| 13 | Why do women fake orgasms or lie about men concerning quality of sex?The effort to be direct isn't worth the drama it can potentially cause. Early on I'm not invested enough for a sex therapy communication project. It's not every woman's dream to talk everything to death. Cut him loose and let him find the faker of his dreams with his ego intact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I think dating/marriage can be fixed in 3 easy steps. Criminalize adultery (in marriage), provide men with a "financial abortion" option for when women get pregnant, and enforce Prenups by banning judges from throwing them out.Nice, it's potent enough to fizz without watering down like crazy. If you do it let me know what you think because it was life changing for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 01:18 AM |
| 2 | I think dating/marriage can be fixed in 3 easy steps. Criminalize adultery (in marriage), provide men with a "financial abortion" option for when women get pregnant, and enforce Prenups by banning judges from throwing them out.You can get it at Walmart and Mexican food marts! It makes every drink better pretty much I love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 01:14 AM |
| 3 | I think dating/marriage can be fixed in 3 easy steps. Criminalize adultery (in marriage), provide men with a "financial abortion" option for when women get pregnant, and enforce Prenups by banning judges from throwing them out.Sweet I will tell you my secret in case I die in a cat or goat cuddle puddle accident: it's Topo Chico. Extremely fizzy mineral water. My favorite mule is blueberry juice, pear vodka, and ginger beer topped off with topo chico and a little lime juice. Oh shit I can steal my husband's method of infusing vodka and bring that too. He'd totally understand why it must be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 01:02 AM |
| 6 | I think dating/marriage can be fixed in 3 easy steps. Criminalize adultery (in marriage), provide men with a "financial abortion" option for when women get pregnant, and enforce Prenups by banning judges from throwing them out.Where do I petition for a pygmy goat pajama party barn? I also volunteer as tribute to make amazing Sangria and Moscow mules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN ONLY Would you be offended?Same, not that I'd likely know I guess, but I've never met a MRA/TRP talking points guy irl so that pov is fairly new. Also have no personal experience with paternity fraud through friends or family, so it didn't cross my mind at all except to think it was fucked up when seeing it online. I wonder how prevalent paternity concern is outside of manosphere circles. Is it something just accepted, or is that acceptance covering some lingering sliver of worry? Idk how I'd feel about it in a man's shoe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN ONLY Would you be offended?Dude I know, it's so cringe-lol thinking of it on those terms! But it was me who initiated and bought it for her project he just went with it. It never occurred to me that he might have an interest in confirming what I knew to be true. As a distinctly male concern I get it, it's just a very foreign one to me. When I think about it, our daughter is obviously his on sight, she's his mini-me. Our son looks exactly like me, my uterus is more of a copy machine than a genetic blender 🙄 Lol @ how terri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4MEN ONLY Would you be offended?Probably lols, but fwiw I did this for a genealogy project my daughter got for school. It was during a 23 and me sale so we all did it. My solipsism is so great it never occurred to me that my husband might be interested in the results for more than funsies. Not in a paranoid way, but as a man not having the ironclad knowledge I do. Now I'm curious if a part of him was thinking along those lines because he certainly never said anything or acted worried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Q4MEN ONLY Would you be offended?Not a guy, but had a weird situation similar enough to share. The same week the Gardasil vaccine was approved for 26+ I got an Rx for it. HPV being a huge Cancer risk it seemed like a no brainer. Well. Turns out my husband has paid attention to pap smear results, and knew I'd never had HPV. So he tried and failed to innocently ask why I wanted the vaccine. He wasn't mad about it, but it felt like he was actively resisting assuming I was protecting myself from random dick danger. Like his logic c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Sacrifice and affection should be reciprocal only. Giving is a mistake.Because score keeping is tedious and boring, and maintaining that over time potentially spanning years would be exhausting. I don't see how it wouldn't be a slow death to authenticity in giving or joy in receiving for both people honestly. These things have an ebb and flow depending on circumstances as well. When you have a kid you may not have the mental capacity to be enthusiastic about taking or notice something worth giving. If your job becomes stressful, or someone loses a job, or any rando… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 02:57 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Sacrifice and affection should be reciprocal only. Giving is a mistake.Those who care, give, or help in an unsolicited manner feel more positive, alive, and have higher self esteem. There are studies on this, but it bears out irl I think that sincere giving makes the giver feel good as well as the receiver. It's an authentic extension of goodwill and care that is hard to suppress. By actively stifling an urge to give because your tally would be off, you could be causing yourself unnecessary emotional stress. Weinstein and Ryan 2010 https://psycnet.apa.org/record/20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/19 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN ONLY--Was this kind of post from men intended to elicit compassion?I agree, and I strongly suspect men do too they just don't want to talk about expressing pain. They're usually happy to upvote a guy who does though, I could be wrong but I doubt it's women throwing karma at gotchas of the "laydees hurt me and it's all your fault!" sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN ONLY--Was this kind of post from men intended to elicit compassion?We weren't born as iron clad halves of a mated pair though lol. The inner workings of the mind of a single woman aren't foreign to us, they're a lived experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Q4MEN ONLY--Was this kind of post from men intended to elicit compassion?Same reaction, I'm wondering if a woman has ever invited him anywhere. He'd definitely have shown up, and if he didn't he might get mild shit in the form of the great time he was dumb enough to miss out on. Maybe curiosity about what he was doing instead...but an ass beating? Loool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Is taking your pre-teen sons to hooters bad parenting?Hooters was an "edgy" titty experience 20 years ago, kids see more revealing outfits online, in video games, out on weekends if they don't live in Podunk-ville, tv, etc. Anyone getting stupid about Hooters either doesn't have kids and is imagining how "perfect" they'd be, or never leaves the house with their kids, or watch TV for that matter. Objectification is actually something they understand from a young age if you give context. I can tell my son "Hooters is a type of restaurant that lures s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Under what conditions would you be in a non monogamous relationship?Yeah but that's logic, I'm readily admitting this is a personal dumb fear that overrides logic. It's enough to keep me from non monogamy, but I'm not so caught up in it that I don't understand or judge why other people don't care. That plus selfish = a fate of monogamy for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 09:05 PM |
| 13 | [Q4W] Are you personally capable of AWALT?The funniest part of this is you could break up with someone as congenially as possible, for perfectly valid incompatibility reasons minus cheating etc, and you're probably still AWALT because you didn't continue to fuck the guy after which we all know is what "empathy" means! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 08:18 PM |
| 10 | [Q4W] Are you personally capable of AWALT?I gotta say "Liking a guy with a good physique" is my favorite. What bison-man hybrid is making all the panties wet today in the manosphere? Mamoa? Hemsworth? The Rock? Women are obviously capable of all these things, and many aren't woman specific. I don't see how this proves or disproves AWALT if that's the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Under what conditions would you be in a non monogamous relationship?I don't believe you can read then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Under what conditions would you be in a non monogamous relationship?Nope have never had a sore upstairs or down. I blame a sex ed class full of graphic pics for making me mental because I have no problem with n-counts, enjoying sex, etc but the std front scares the shit out of me. Guys talk about murderous rage over catching a wife cheating, my murderous trigger would be getting a disease off some random. As it pertains to non-monogamy it's hard to ignore that people who think they're "playing safe" end up with herpes. Even here on Reddit the swingers guide has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Do women want children with a specific (type of) man or do they just "want children" in general?"His" babies. I've always liked kids but never imagined my life with kids of my own. When his baby rabies became known that changed with shocking ease. Previously I'd have noped out at the very idea of marriage let alone kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 02:04 PM |
| 7 | Under what conditions would you be in a non monogamous relationship?None. Idc how common and treatable herpes is, I've never even had hpv and would like to keep even worse shit far away from me. May sound paranoid, but the internet is full of stories about how symptoms, viral loads, and testing schedules don't always align for accuracy. Something about STD's ticks my "absolutely fucking not, not now not ever" box in a way that doesn't care if it's rational or not. I already know if I end up divorced or if he has the nerve(! /s) to kick the bucket before me I'm g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Q4Men: would you go down on your wife if she asked you to? Would you try to make her sex pleasurable? [NSFW ish]That's why I said unless the woman specifically says it's not going to happen, she's the expert on it so ask if you have to. Women who can aren't benefitting from the cuddles = orgasms trend so I have no personal stake in perpetuating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 02:38 AM |
| 15 | Q4Men: would you go down on your wife if she asked you to? Would you try to make her sex pleasurable? [NSFW ish]+1 Any guy assuming cuddle feels sex is success because of the "orgasms are nice but not necessary for women" wide brush myth on repeat is doing so at his own peril. Unless a specific woman says it's not happening, her getting off is a goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: would you go down on your wife if she asked you to? Would you try to make her sex pleasurable? [NSFW ish]I agree, if you're married to someone who doesn't consider pussy a food group ya dun goofed. Cheating as a fix is some bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | What is with this sub's obsession with the "UMC/UC"?Yeah but men of that social class don't care and also have their hedonistic or shallow mating habit "isms." Youth, beauty, being the star of their own show with a woman who rarely says no. When money isn't needed to survive they love a focus on it because they have it in abundance. It's on the woman to see it as worthless relationship currency and put a focus on time instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: would you go down on your wife if she asked you to? Would you try to make her sex pleasurable? [NSFW ish]True. I didn't think of that, which reminds me of the class thread that's up currently and how it plays into my assumptions/solipsism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 06:53 PM |
| 8 | What is with this sub's obsession with the "UMC/UC"?UC women born to it don't need a provisioner, but they might go after a rich guy as part of her "high value" starter kit. They have an extensive safety net in the form of their UC family, and their social circle/dating pool are typically people in the same situation. Add to that the doors that open based on connections/nepotism they don't even notice and they're pretty content to chase status or hotness without regard to money. Edit: that's not to say it's ideal or doesn't have similar patterns … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: would you go down on your wife if she asked you to? Would you try to make her sex pleasurable? [NSFW ish]I'm curious if he did it before too. If not, why didn't she next him? Whatever his reasoning is, she can't make him do it, did she ever ask why or just jump to "guess I'm a cheater now!" People who avoid hard conversations are lol for marriage jussayin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | (Q4All) What would bother you more about the last ex of a new potential SO? If they were very attractive, or if they were an uggo?Maybe, to my knowledge I've never lived the ghost of uggo ex past so idk. I've only met one, and she was the basis of my answer being hot but looks nothing like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | (Q4All) What would bother you more about the last ex of a new potential SO? If they were very attractive, or if they were an uggo?I'd prefer a hot ex in a way that's not like me at all. Different body type, ethnicity, etc. Something where we're so different it's not even worth hamstering over. I do think men can be authentically attracted to lots of different types, but I also appreciate standards, so hot it is. Fucking uggo strays wouldn't give me the warm fuzzies, dick isn't charity. I'd assume he blew up some non physical trait of hers to worship status and lost his mind temporarily, meh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?No, they aren't divorced/continue to swing because they DO communicate. They don't compare because people aren't sexbots "building skills" minus feelings and that is such an apparent trap. Getting the sex you want from someone does require that you communicate + motivate them in a secure way, that's the root of my shock. Rating is such an easy way to allow contempt and insecurity in, I don't see the value but the danger is so obvious. It doesn't need to be that way, people and bodies are differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Ohhh no you don't with that "you can't grasp non monogamy" thing. We have never discussed it. It's not exactly rare anymore, you are not my first exposure to it. I can't grasp rating your spouse. That is where my lack of understanding begins and ends. Even the people I know who swing, hotwife, whatever, have never casually thrown their spouse into the "meh, you could be better" heap because that would be the end of either the "lifestyle" or the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Is your current SO the best sex you've ever had Yes, but it has a lot more to do with being in my head than in my holes and they don't teach that in porn. Do I ever fret? No, it's never been a goal to fuck exactly like every idiot on pornhub or every ex whose potentially "best sex" pussy wasn't good enough to keep him around. They can exist in oblivion where they belong with no hamstering from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?How did you talk this woman into swinging? "Hey soooo you kinda suck at sex but divorce is hard and messy with kids, and you keep it tight enough to bring to parties as an arm charm. How about we fuck other people and you take notes and keep trying kiddo!" And she was like "Thank you for the opportunity to wallow in suckitude, anything for your dick though!" Are you not her best either and swinging is some edgy way to hurt each other over it? I'm dumbfounded and can't picture this playing out in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (17 March 2019)Ugh don't even get me started on Texas teams, I'll never replace my Cali ones with them 🤮 It was really fun watching the Rams beat the Cowboys at their "world headquarters" there were tears from Cowboys fans, delicious. Then of course the worst Superbowl ever happened so I guess karma is a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (17 March 2019)Lol no that's Fort Worth! Dallas isn't quite LA but it's got its own blend of stupid money, bored people, and weird shit 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Q2women: would you sell your eggs if someone paid you enough?Green eyed ginger here, recessive gene supremacy! You're still good looking, we all knew what was up with sunscreen back then haha! I remember the SSN thing too!! I complained about it to a prof after my parents flipped out about it and he chewed me out. I started just writing the last 4 digits and he acted like I was the very worst troublemaker to ever sit in his class 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What was the moment you knew you were in love with your SO?+1 for punfuckery, which I love and hate in equal measure! I got the L-word dropped on me 2 months in after being gone for 3 or 4 days. When I got back I barely said hi to him, I was yanking his clothes off and he wouldn't shut up, so in case he got a head injury while I was gone I start taking mine off so he could see where this was going. And that's how it got dropped on me in horny slut mode with my wrists in his hands and my tits hanging out. A love story for the kids 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 06:10 PM |
| 4 | When should you have sex? Depends on if you're him or her?Am team woman, didn't wait but commitment wasn't the ungettable get PPD makes it out to be in the time before Tinder. So maybe waiting is a useful strat that we didn't need in the dark ages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Q2women: would you sell your eggs if someone paid you enough?Happened at my college too, they we're after the science and athlete undergrads. If you were both they went full gift basket of info. Colleges were shockingly free with student info back then, I think it was 2000 or 2001. I was creeped out at the whole "Gattaca" feeling targeting process. It made sense but still felt weird. Didn't do it for the same reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What was the moment you knew you were in love with your SO?TRUE ROMANCE 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 05:29 PM |
| 7 | CMV: the SAHM was disrespected by men long before feminism.+1 SAHM's still do normal people stuff like that, the helicopter mommies all flock together obsessing over kid art project Pinterest and WebMD diagnosing their 12yr old "baby's" sniffles as Autism from vaccines or a gluten allergy. But like a "REAL" allergy, not like that bitch Jenny's kid (she lets him eat wheat bread!) whose always been a sickly drama queen. Edit: My favorite helicopter mommy story is when my daughter was 7 and just starting down the dressage lesson path. I'd done all this res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 07:18 AM |
| 3 | [Discussion] How true is the phrase "for a relationship to work, the man has to love the woman more"?Right I don't see any third eye awareness majicks or whatever ..and I've had a LOT of tequila tonight so if spiritual knowledge was ever gonna slap me in the chakras now's the time 😂 Fwiw I'd say me and my husband are equally obsessed, a permanent imbalance on anyone's part is relationship cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 05:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the SAHM was disrespected by men long before feminism.Or: their kids grow up and they go back to making themselves priority one. Kids don't stay kids forever but villainizing the women who raise them is the gift that keeps on giving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 03:20 AM |
| 7 | CMV: the SAHM was disrespected by men long before feminism.I will never understand the need for this place to make 50's housewives out of modern day SAHMS to try and make a point. I mean I get the whole "it makes me feel better about myself to imagine them destitute dependents with no value" or "my ex was a SAHM wolf-in-unicorn-clothing who AWALTED into a branch swing I never saw coming" angles even though they're boring, but jeez. Isolated with no access resources, friends, cars, phones, hobbies, education, extended family is not what's happening with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Do you prefer environments with mostly men, mostly women, or a balance?Lmao that's pretty awesome, officer GoodGuy ftw! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 01:23 AM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Do you prefer environments with mostly men, mostly women, or a balance?Unless the slang has changed, growing up Stag party didn't specifically mean bachelor party. It was a derisive term for a gathering of unfuckables doing stupid things women aren't impressed by. I already covered that they aren't for me and the reasons why, there's really no need for a "no girls allowed" sign in front of a place women don't want to be lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (17 March 2019)We only just now finished the hell that is taxes and there is NO VODKA in arms reach while we await the damage of what we'll owe. Horror. Edit: got tequila instead of vodka and an indecent swingers proposal while we were out. Turns out Dallas is freaky on Thursday nights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Do you prefer environments with mostly men, mostly women, or a balance?A sausage fest social gathering is one I'd avoid just because I don't think it would be fun, and I don't/didn't do casual sex so that reason didn't exist as a lure. Specifically, I grew up with a lot of brothers. The guy notion of aimless fun is not a mystery. So going all Steve Irwin observing strange men in "the wild" wasn't tempting. Loud, obnoxious, potentially dangerous, add alcohol and being one of very few fuckable targets, hard pass. Though when they're gathered for a purpose, or are exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Do you prefer environments with mostly men, mostly women, or a balance?I like balance, it's more interesting and banter-ish. Most of my environments over my lifetime have skewed female and I like that too. All male is an eye roll, the boys club is usually gross and boring unless they're gathered for a purpose. Stag party sausage fests are the butt of jokes for good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 06:22 PM |
| 6 | What red flags did you ignore in a lover simply because they were attractive enough?This is what every non-sperg male has said on the obsession with youth and/or virginity irl. If these things are a must or every woman non virgin over 20 is a dumb whore, the actual issue is a damaged guy striking out with "normies" looking to twist someone naive and pliable to his broken will and call it success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (17 March 2019)Yup I use the nailtek line, I also use cuticle oil 8655 times a day too, sigh. They get and stay long for months but something always happens and then it's regrowth time for months! I'm going to use builder gel and a nail form to sculpt the one that breaks from now on, I hate cutting the good sisters because of a one nail tragedy! I can't buy this line because I'm not a pro, but everyone seems to really like the IBD builder gel. Beats using tips imo, which in my heartbreak I was considering lol.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (17 March 2019)You've got me beat on length, but I understand your pain!! These are mine before the great February breakage event of 2019. That's craft glitter on them with a peel off base coat lol. http://imgur.com/a/gUNT9Oh I got nexgen because like you I'm too inept to human with nubs. It was a mistake, the tech drilled a trench in my nail bed that now has to grow out 😭 If you go that route tell them no drill!!! Buffing alone works just fine, I just didn't know better. I'm currently YouTubing how to do my o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Reporting and Complaints (16 March 2019)Same, I'm quoted in the op as the "bitter bitch incel bait" comment author that didn't report. I don't see the point, I enjoy someone making an ass out of themselves. I don't bitch about mods or report because their whole lives would be modding if they had to pay attention to every bitter bitch and incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 06:47 PM |
| 3 | How much do women care about their partner's earnings?My sister and I were talking about this earlier, she said it better than me lol. "I'll stroke a dick OR a permanently bruised ego, but never both on the same guy. Gross." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How much do women care about their partner's earnings?That's how it came to mind, I'm very familiar 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 11:12 PM |
| 3 | How much do women care about their partner's earnings?This is not a birth to adulthood absolute. My daughter and son came to work with me when I did because they were little. Then they grew older, discovered interests and talents, and aspired to be more than being my personal work accesory barnacle. I am lucky to have the flexibility I have, they only grow up once and I feel no guilt at my front row seat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 11:08 PM |
| 33 | Because we haven't talked about sexbots enoughfleshthots I laughed way too hard at this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How much do women care about their partner's earnings?Men taught me to care about their earnings actually. I have money that I didn't earn tucked away for school and living expenses, but I'd go on a vacation or two a year, and if I paid for the guy to go it was all good until it wasn't. Some kind of weird provider small man complex emerged every time I ever spent money on a guy, so I stopped because it's gross and unattractive. And now I'm married to someone who is butthurt I won't let him get me a new bougie car because mine is a "shitbox." But it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Those who indentify as women, what makes you feel feminine? Those who identify as men, what makes you feel masculine?Lol your dad and mine sound similar in teaching random outdoorsy stuff. How to use a compass, fish, but no shooting so I feel cheated. Seriously, I would've enjoyed that I think, probably because success depends on effort and time put in rather than fishing which sucks because you just sit there. The thing I liked most was a horse drive we went on every October in Mammoth. He owned a bunch of land up there that a ranch used for a winter pasture and we'd go drive a huge herd of horses across Mamm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Those who indentify as women, what makes you feel feminine? Those who identify as men, what makes you feel masculine?+1, same. I get the answers for people who can answer it so no shade, just a head scratcher of the same sort for me. I have bobs and vegene, am femme seems like a boring answer rofl Edit: growing up it was winning, getting good parts, getting A's, not pussing out when injured that got rewarded. Girling was framed in the same way. Only slobs are fat, idc if you're on your way to practice/rehearsal there better be a leave in conditioner in that bun so you don't have dry hair from showering, girls … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: To what extent is your femininity influenced by a man’s masculinity?It's influenced by the guy/environment. I actually never would've been aware of this except for my husband telling me when we were dating, not using "you're more feminine when" language though. It was related to my dad and how sometimes I'd completely change my mind or actions based on what he wanted. Obviously I don't want to fuck my dad, but he definitely set the tone for men worth listening or deferring to, which isn't many hence my lack of awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Do women really blame themselves?Right, every time they go off about "empathy" or "blame" all I see is "fuck all the guys you stingy bitches!!1!" Also them: eww high n-counts are icky!! The strategy of ignoring the unfuckable being correct for all involved confirmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?Lol I hear you on the great relationship with mom despite criticism front. We're still close, but honestly her and my grandma's bullshit could've backfired hard. I give the credit for it not to me and my sister for not buying into it. I hear her voice when I put on shoes with an ankle strap haha. Your dad sounds "awesome" in ways my own was, though the methods I saw were different for my brothers. What did your mom say about all this? I had a lot of criticism for my mom as a teen over what looke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 06:15 AM |
| 13 | Q4W: Could you be in a LTR with a frugal man?No, not a interested in a joyless guy that probably still expects enthusiasm in the sack. You can be frugal and have interests and create fun times and memories, it doesn't have to be one or the other. Hell my husband doesn't drink (he prefers the devil's lettuce) and he still finds restaurants with interesting drinks because I do. You don't even need to share the interest or vice to participate in small meaningful ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What is falling in love like to you?Sounds like a man consistently disappointed women aren't men with bobs and vagene problem tbh. Shit personalities are an equal opportunity attraction killer with no gender preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:49 AM |
| 5 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?Funny 'cause it's true. My experience with my mom's bizarre picking has definitely made me think before letting no filter criticism fly with my own daughter. Edit: my dad was a total asshole the my brothers though, they didn't have it easier that's for sure! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?Yup my mom AND my grandma gave me shit about my ankles of all things. On top of that, they'd compare them to other people's. The ankle thing stands out because it was actually insane and I'd flat out tell them so. Their favorite thing to do was compare me unfavorably to my little sister. We both had braces, her smile was always better than mine. Both had long hair, gosh it's too bad mine turned out red and fine and dry compared to her amazeballs brunette wonder-hair. It never made things weird b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?Agreed. People who say it's not everything are right but not having chemistry is a surefire way ruin everything. Either eventual DB or cheating, neither makes for a great LTR/marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Should women learn game to keep the man they like interested?Yes, but generally young women aren't forced to learn game early by virtue of usually being approached, and guys dealing with it over either the lure of or regular sex. The ones who don't have game get hit with that reality when they get a guy they really want to stay with but can't seem to make him care as much as she does. It's an adapt and overcome life lessons thing, as she ages and the men around her mature too the quality ones don't stick around for a cumrag/bore. There are naturals though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 March 2019)I'm sorry :( Someone's already said it but get as many different opinions as you can! My sister in law went through this..I want to say it was over a damaged ovary and/or PCOS but an ovary was involved. It took about 2 years but IVF worked, they have 2 kids now. But being an eccentric childless couple has it's charm and attraction too. Devoting your house *entirely* to hobbies and random stuff is something I very much envy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What do you think inspires women to think they can say this? And why do we never see mainstream media articles like this by men telling women off?They're all laughing and nodding "yes" ...at least in a son's teens and twenties. The thing they're afraid of is the first time their sons get their hearts ripped out. Edit: buzzed idiot fixing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: What do you think inspires women to think they can say this? And why do we never see mainstream media articles like this by men telling women off?Mmkay I'm out with my husband and his friends+wives and gf's so I'll go with the male response after telling them what I said. Their response: pussy worth getting privilege is alive and well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 04:51 AM |
| 14 | Q4W: What do you think inspires women to think they can say this? And why do we never see mainstream media articles like this by men telling women off?Lol why would women call this out? People online often take for granted (at the convenience of their argument) that men are generally risk takers in every arena except sex and dating. Well, irl that is false and low risk men get low pussy rewards. Wallflower men gonna wallflower, and they're stuck trolling women's mags for a way to blame women instead of getting some ass. And before anyone potentially gets all asshurt, I've never been pissy about sex asap. If as a man you can get it more power t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?There's a range for normal, it honestly depends on the lab that does the testing but my OBGYN specializes in hormones rather than childbirth. I sought this out because my husband and I are done having kids. I don't recall the measuring unit used but my T was at 12 and "normal" was within 75-150 for a woman my age, my doc kept me at 100-ish but I recently went to 125. My job is (was, kids got older and busier) highly physical and things that didn't make me sore before were killing me. Plus shitty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?+1 for this, except not at transition levels. I have a bio-identical T supplement to keep me in the top 25th% for my age. I wouldn't recommend it without a reliable GREAT source of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: If a man is going to lose his penis and wants to die is that wrong? Is it wrong for others to make him feel like he has to live a life he does not want?Hahahaha I agree. There's actually dick mold kits...like to make dildos out of actual dicks, which I've never used but found out about on Reddit lol. Total save in this situation (assuming it's a troll) if not, yikes Rl poll of this issue got guys going with death over dicklessness too though, so there's that fun nugget of info! I'm shocked, I'd rather live but I'm not a guy so it's likely true 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 03:29 AM |
| 6 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?I believe it. I'm super buzzed off brewery samples and drinks so I'mma over share but literally first date fucking my husband was off chemistry. Everybody wants to believe in consistent polarity between uber-sluts and virgins but fuuuuckkkk chemistry can't be beat. That is why he can say shit like: http://imgur.com/a/mLyT1VE and get an enthusiastic response. Not his status/wallet/whatever-the-fuck but literally being a sure thing minus an instruction manual. Anyway related but not relevant I got… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 03:14 AM |
| 19 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?Individual libidos vary, but it's very fair to say men want sex more. That being said, I think a lot of "her orgasm isn't muh responsibility" types probably use that as a crutch, while men who are into getting women off are more likely to think women in general love sex more than commonly thought. As a woman all I can say is chemistry definitely plays a part in how much I personally want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever wife a former pornstar?That would be a bridge too far fosho. I didn't know him then and probably wouldn't have even if we were the same age because I was not about that life. But as a means to an end? Meh, college kids gonna party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: If a man is going to lose his penis and wants to die is that wrong? Is it wrong for others to make him feel like he has to live a life he does not want?You started it! I'm just a problem solver that happens to follow a gross but lol relevant IG account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: If a man is going to lose his penis and wants to die is that wrong? Is it wrong for others to make him feel like he has to live a life he does not want?I had a whole Challenge Accepted! scenario involving bad taxidermy in my head after reading this. I feel gross and like idk if I need more or less coffee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | If there are so many nice and good guys out there that women are ignoring for assholes, why is getting a good man so competitive?THIS. Everytime she answers with a "trp taught me this" response I die a little inside. It's always guy trp, who the hell constructs their virgin status around what a bunch of niche, apparently mostly bitter, non naturals sit around stroking each other to? Or clings to the notion that an old timey virgin worshipper will be pissed if she buys idk, tampons or makeup with "his" money after marriage and having his kids? All delusional mra shit she's taking to heart or trolling with got me like 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 01:42 AM |
| 3 | If there are so many nice and good guys out there that women are ignoring for assholes, why is getting a good man so competitive?Seriously. Unless you're on a religious commune or part of a cult an enthusiastic fuck > virgin The virgin worshippers are weirdos with "all women are 100% mindless sluts" complexes that are equally out of touch with reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever wife a former pornstar?"Now let me ask you some questions: how about a drug dealer turned engineer?" Drug dealer turned COO with a bunch of stemlord certs- married him College is expensive man, he went to one that is part of that rich people admissions scheme before the scheme existed. Drugs were the hack on the SoCal party scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Insecurity claim is so overusedMarkdown has gone full retard on me, and I had proof of the abuse and mistreatment poor Mr Redditville endures due to my many huge insecurities! Oh well, he's rarely brought up anyway. 99.9% of the time I am a dumb old hag who can't haz chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Childfree women just want all the benefits of sex without any of the disadvantages of having a child.Well if things go Mad Max in my lifetime I'm gonna be more pissed I don't have a monster truck than birth control. I do have a blood bag though looks at O negative husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Childfree women just want all the benefits of sex without any of the disadvantages of having a child."Childfree women just want all the benefits of sex without any of the disadvantages of having a child." Yes. And so do women who are done having kids. I'm not sure what's to be discussed here because the bc genie isn't going back in the bottle regardless of what happens with abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Insecurity claim is so overusedI'd feel cheated at being called insecure just because all the best flair comes from revenge fantasy fee-fees island. "Insecure" isn't much to work with. I've been told I have a huge ego, am a garbage person, old single cat lady that couldn't lock down Chad in her youth, and other stuff I can't remember in just the past few days because of an open disdain for fuckbois. It's like flair option bukkake up in here because of one fuckboi whiteknight hero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Second fiddleThe one I remember specifically was some control freak version where the guy was like "Teehee they're jealous of one another! But I'm so honest I get all the awards for good boys and they do as I say even when they travel, which they ask permission to do!" No mention of some Dom/sub dynamic, just pure unadulterated Alpha fux amiriiiite??! Your version sounds much more like a sane and plausible reality! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Second fiddleYeah you're probably right, the field reports are probably getting the "alpha treatment" to look much more sordid and domineering than they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Second fiddleI hope you get good answers! I went automod because I wasn't sure if you meant plates or mistress or what but the answer was the same. I just have an added curiosity about the all equally unmarried, equally jelly, equally doomed to shared spinsterhood plate situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 08:14 PM |
| 7 | Second fiddleNo, and the idea of it is viscerally repulsive. Though I have a sick curiosity born of rp "plates" knowing about each other and the bizarro-world jealousy juggling they willingly endure. Like rubbernecking a car crash, or that "this is fine" meme with the house burning down around the dog, it's not enviable or desirable. I just wonder what happened to them to go outright modern day harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Lying is an important part of sexual strategy. I think all women should lie about their N count, in order to improve their chances in the sexual market.No indeed, the ones who can are rare enough to be a non-factor is what I'm left to believe. Now that I think about it I didn't say anything to anyone about sexual stuff growing up or in college because they ALL had big mouths, so I never bothered to categorize gender specific ick factors. Until, ironically, I met my husband who gets to be a special snowflake for not caring. Though...he had 7 more years to be a disgusting deviant than I did and fucked around in the LA after hours freak scene so i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Lying is an important part of sexual strategy. I think all women should lie about their N count, in order to improve their chances in the sexual market.This point is exactly what I come to PPD for. I had no idea what a big deal this was for men, and I still find it odd and neurotic, but it is what it is. My husband doesn't care, I don't care, but I married young so never learned from experience that "experience" is offensive. The feeling I get is that some guys say they don't care but can't help caring, so why tempt it? Something to pass on to my daughter to consider, unless she wants to potentially inadvertently create a hamstering mental case… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think a guy should do to age like wine?Sunscreen, skincare (dermatologist just because as you get older you have to stay on top of any damage from your youth), watch your hormones, don't eat like you're still a high school athlete, keep active in either gym or physical hobbies, don't smoke or drink in excess, find a tailor (my husband has to dress up for work and can shop better than a lot of women lol, but he regularly finds stuff at Target and makes a cheap alteration that makes all the difference), keep hair only as high maintenan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: what’s the most romantic thing a man has ever done for you?Our whole proposal process wasn't very romantic. We had some things to hash out due to age and expectation differences. This was fine, I don't see how it could've gone any other way tbh. So when I got an actual PROPOSAL it was a shock because I had no reason to expect it. He flew in my parents, siblings, and had the 2 friends of mine he cared about there along with his family at the opening of the second location of the restaurant our first date was at. My brain actually shorted out, I can't rem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?Ew, yes I did and it made me cringe so hard my asshole puckered all the way up to my diaphragm. Speaking of 17yr old girls and dads, my daughter turned 16 last week and is allowed to date now. She went to Disney World on a school team trip and was sending back random pics without her in them, her dad made fun of her for not being selfie proficient so she sent back a pic with a guy as a joke. I was shocked when he didn't immediately run to Reddit claiming to be cucked by a broke teenage boy, shoc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?This really isolates the nature of the disconnect on the topic of moms and sons for the aspiring Chads here. There's more to being a wife than making sure to demonstrate "what that ass and mouf do" on demand (shocking!) and plenty to teach sons about what makes a woman worthwhile outside the realm of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 08:45 PM |
| 3 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?Agreed, kinda like how a lot of the men who post here claim insight about what the men we fuck and marry want despite not being those men, just because they happen to be male. Funny how that works out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?I eagerly anticipate the "Men: do you realize you've been cucked if a man-child comes out of your woman's vagina??" thread, because that's about the level of care and consideration seen here regarding fatherhood! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 3 | What science has to say about changes in the SMP for women (what RP calls “The Wall”)This is exactly how the FSM works too though, even if a woman has no reason to get married in her early 20's (educated, own money, etc) but gets a really fantastic prospect then nobody cares about her age. It's "If you're gonna do it, do it now because it won't get any better!" and "Kids, you better know what the deal is before agreeing to anything." from the women who matter in her life. There's another thread here about "whyyyy won't women admit they're after resources when they say security?"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 08:20 PM |
| 2 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?I wasn't assuming, I was answering the question as asked which didn't specify single motherhood. Even so, the majority of kids under 18 live with both parents so as far as assumptions go it wouldn't have been off the mark. https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2017/08/majority-of-children-live-with-two-parents.html Though if we are talking about single mothers, the stats there are much more dark where it comes to poverty. I doubt they're concerned with their son getting laid if medical care and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | What science has to say about changes in the SMP for women (what RP calls “The Wall”)For the fetal blood facials, to hold off the wall naturally! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 07:09 PM |
| 7 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?Here on planet PPD we throw fatherly competence under the bus casually to make sure women know they suck and ruin their sons by existing as moms! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 09:09 AM |
| 15 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?I think a lot of things about my son, none of which is about his "hotness." I don't understand why this is on mom anyway. Basic self care and hygiene on us sure, but distinctly male style and grooming seems tailor made for dads. That's how it goes here anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 08:10 AM |
| 2 | There's almost 0 LTR with regular active sex without the man applying (consciously or not) RP principles.I've been ??? at this for awhile now, because it's so often a point made by the "I'm not all men, but trust I speak for all men here!" crowd. The surest way to turn my husband off is to come on strong like he's about to get the fuck of his life. He can be turned on, but that route ain't it. Which brings the next lol thing: "dread" at what appears to be hot willing sluts. I never feel more secure than when a woman is being sexually predatory. He's either going to see how dumb he can get her to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/19 11:23 PM |
| 7 | Playing hard to getI don't care about teasing me and flirting with other people, but hot-then-cold and the pretend busy thing just seems like a giant neon lit "not that into you" cue card. I would take it as such and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] You're walking down the street with your man, a wild stranger appears.This has never happened, I've seen my husband fight a few times but it had nothing to do with cat callers or me directly. In real life this requires discernment, which is a thing honed over time so an element of maturity is at play too. I worry more about dumb fights with my son than my husband. He's got a big mouth and a kid size sense of justice (think as big as the Marvel universe 🙄) so the struggle is real. Edit: now that I think of his highlight reel, it's men that encourage him to act or g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/19 08:15 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] You're walking down the street with your man, a wild stranger appears.Well, approaching women is "scary" to men here lately, so an aggressively obnoxious guy? Where's your EmPaThY???! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/19 08:05 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "too eager" in your opinion?Because I don't revere fucboi advice and consider it enemy recon at best? That's called "being a smart woman." Ego has nothing to do with it, your need to make it about that is some badly calibrated team man defense mechanism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "too eager" in your opinion?Simmer down Dr Phil, your need to whiteknight fucbois isn't my lack of self reflection 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "too eager" in your opinion?It's advice worth hearing and assimilating into the trash human profile heap, not advice to internalize and follow for meaningful relationships. That's the distinction here, op was being directed to a generally safe source of male advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 08:16 PM |
| 11 | Q4Women: Do you have sex with other men whilst making the guy you like wait?No, it sounds exhausting and like playing with peoples feelings. They say it's their dicks, but I'm pretty sure it's their feels. The last thing I want to do is constantly have a "status of the relationship" conversation disguised as thirst or use some random hotter dick stand-in as a commitment hostage tool. I'd literally rather just fuck myself than potentially fuck myself over trying to manage a stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Thread: What does PPD look like ? (Free attractiveness boost edition) March 09 2019It is I, Amy Paffrath, here to enjoy being called an "ugly bullshitter" by the incel hordes! /s We should all be posting our favorite insults along with this for the full experience. I have an avatar pic and have posted before and after of microblading, trt stuff for women who are like "but won't I look like a man?" in pm's (You won't) so secrecy isn't in the cards for me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/19 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Thread: What does PPD look like ? (Free attractiveness boost edition) March 09 2019I got Amy Paffrath(??) at 48% http://imgur.com/a/q3Vmcuc and Rachel McAdams at 21% http://imgur.com/a/EtwlhGj Definitely more like Amy than Rachel, so the percentage is right but I don't feel I look like either. 91% feminine face Edit: After doing my husband's pics I'm 99% sure it goes off hair rather than face shape. He got 62% Lewis Tan with his hair short and 51% Keanu Reeves with it long rofl. Both my result pics hair corresponds to how my hair was in the pic used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In general, women want to date guys who don't follow the rules. That's partly why you shouldn't listen to their dating advice.It's true. I saw John Stamos having dinner with Woody Harrelson in Malibu like 10 years ago, that motherfucker is (was?) beautiful irl. Never cared one way or the other about his Full House ass, but in person, dayum! Champion fisherman no doubt. Edit: fixed the city, it was at Taverna Tony in Malibu. Go there and look in awe at all the pretty Hollywood manlets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/19 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Do you think a woman is better or worse off for not engaging in "hookup culture?"In the hurt more than help camp. Commitment came before sex, and it was easy to suss out bullshit artists because they have no sensitivity to where you're at mentally or emotionally, the least clue about the reality of where the relationship is at, how much attraction or sexual tension is actually present on the woman's part, etc. They just wanna stick their dick in you and only get excited at the prospect of an opportunity to do so. It's not rocket science, men (especially young ones) are not s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Are men more "all or nothing" than women?No worries! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Are men more "all or nothing" than women?I wasn't disagreeing, I was expanding on your point from personal experience. I'm not sure where you saw disagreement but 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Are men more "all or nothing" than women?Yup this is common, you aren't in a good place to make snap judgments mid labor. That's why you make a birthing plan with the doctor/hospital and make sure your husband/mom/bff know it and hold them to it in every instance except an actual emergency where the plan goes out the window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Why do women make so much noise?All these guys acting like they've never stuck it to a cervix before just to get a scream. NOT FOOLED! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 07:32 AM |
| 5 | Why do women make so much noise?If women were compelled to shriek and scream through sex as loudly as possible there'd be a tardy category excuse for kids kept up all night because their parents were fuckin. It's definitely controllable/for show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?You are the champion PUA communities didn't know they needed😂👌 Labia should be a banned word too though. How do I petition our new SJW "stop ear hole violence" community? Gluten free ear candles that are actually clever scrolls with the request written on them I think. That feels right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?Let's be word SJW's campaigning to rid the world of "moist" "moisture" and "womb." Speaking them is violence to ear holes, which men have too! Uniiiityyyy!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?I feel better for getting it out of my head though, and that's nice right??? Sorry lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Beauty Habits That Aren't Makeup?Microblading is the biggest difference maker of all these I've tried. I'll have to dig up an old "baldy jack Nicholson brows" pic for a before and after. Bleaching teeth, used to do it once a year, I get them cleaned 4 times a year. I cracked a canine on a pork rib (worth it!) and said fuck it, capped all of my teeth from canine to canine. Hair, cut, condition, blow dry. All of the attending products. Sometimes I do weird color extensions and that's fun. Lotion, Cetaphil, CeraVe, Epionce, for fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?I always knew my uterus was more of a wonky human crock pot than a life giver! Now they're creepy killer crock pots, it is known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?Expand on this, I need a reason for the word making me wig out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?Ugh "womb" is my "moist." The word gives me the creeps for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV. Going for sex fast better for men than waiting for sex?high five yup we ordered a bunch of food to go and had the same days long fuckfest. In the future if my daughter ever tries to act serious about a guy that doesn't light her up or have me wondering if she died because of sudden no contact, I'm going to have questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV. Going for sex fast better for men than waiting for sex?Why would married people be mad at this? I fucked my husband six ways to Sunday our first date, 18 years later still do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Do men misinterpret the root of nagging?It was the spiciest of times, so it's a funny story. I don't have "worst husband" stories, if high school and college taught me anything it's that your gf's will nod along with you and jump in the fray just to fuck your ex as fast they can when you break up. Advertising issues is a recipe for drama I take a hard pass on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Do men misinterpret the root of nagging?It's totally reasonable to take care of my things if he's going to use them, and replace them if he's going to ruin them. You're throwing words like "lazy" around blithely disregarding that his laziness was the root of the problem, and that when I'm around/use them I wash them. Nice dishes don't survive repeated cement-like dried food encrusted attacks without a shit ton of extra (and extra careful) cleaning, it's a shitty and needless task. He was VERY free to walk if he thought he could ruin m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 08:03 AM |
| 5 | Do men misinterpret the root of nagging?He did a similar thing when we were dating. Not weight gain he was hot af, but he tore up my kitchen fucking around with his friends at my place. He was supposed to be there, not the whole bro club. This happened for a week straight, my dishes all unrinsed, cooking utensils etc, shit all over my counters. Just a wonderful scene to find coming home from work. The 5th or 6th time I told him I'd throw out everything in the sink and he'd be replacing it because I wasn't scraping dried food cement ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Do men misinterpret the root of nagging?I do our flowerbeds because I like to, but mowing, gutters, stuff like that we have a landscaper for. Our kids wash the cars because child labor force is fun. But ime it's the "masculine" stuff that gets serviced out first. It makes sense because the "feminine" stuff is a never ending list of tasks that would require a live in maid rather than a weekly service or one off pipe fixing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 07:21 PM |
| 16 | Do men misinterpret the root of nagging?I have husband goggles firmly in place, I don't disagree with "getting away with trivial stuff" in that scenario. When he leaves his dishes unrinsed in the sink (my major trigger) or doesn't clean up after using the entire kitchen for scrambled eggs I think something important came up for him and handle it myself. Having said that, it's safe to assume it and not get pissy because historically this is true. It's also true that he actively seeks to not complicate my life by being a slob, he's apol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 March 2019)I have an obsession with testosterone 😂 obgyn keeps me in the top 25% for my age, makes the gym and recovery so much easier. I don't know how men deal with having so much of it without raping and pillaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisibleYou're confusing being introverted for being a weirdo still. If you are interesting to an introvert, nothing will stop him or her from talking to you. Especially in a situation they were expecting to suck. It's very common for entire groups of people to be shocked at hearing "x" is an introvert. They never stfu and are the center of attention when they're engaged. On the other hand when they aren't, they just kinda blend into the background and do just enough to get by and not make a bad situati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 03:51 PM |
| 9 | Different Sexual Peaks Between The Genders100% this, I'm not even mad at it because I did the same thing lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 03:37 PM |
| 10 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisibleOr: they don't dance for the sake of dancing. They dance when they feel it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 10:02 AM |
| 9 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisibleBroad generalizations here. Extros have giant mouths because they have to sell themselves because their abilities can't stand up to scrutiny; and they love drama because they're always yammering anyway so why not shit stir. They pass out their number freely and go to bed dreaming some guy will stuff their mouth with a dick if only to get away from the sound of their own voice for a split second because the emptiness of their brains is scarier in silence. I can generalize out of convenience too, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:59 AM |
| 14 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisiblePlenty of introverts are social though, they just put themselves in places with people they find interesting. Assuming they're too clueless to attend seems like extrovert self soothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:48 AM |
| 15 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisibleThey run away because the conversation is pointless or boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:42 AM |
| 6 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisibleThey're definitely not the same thing though, why pretend that they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:28 AM |
| 49 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisibleAll of this is predicated on socially retarded being the same thing as introverted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:23 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If you are a middle class man in a first world country, you are a high value man.Fish bike better come with pedal powered dildo action then? 🤷 I'm done, no more vodka shit posting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If you are a middle class man in a first world country, you are a high value man.I was making a very relevant and AnGrY point or something! Tbh I was just like "lol what comment did fish bikes come from?" Though they may strike me down, I blame the mods for making me wonder things damnit 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If you are a middle class man in a first world country, you are a high value man.Cuz we buy our own bicycles and ride commando. Strong independent fish-bike wimmin unite! Damn the man and his tartar sauce! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Women objectify men as much as men objectify women, and women care about men's looks just as much as men care about women's. But people only care if it's men who do the bad thing.What fault do "PPD females" need to admit? That we like looks? Guilty and have never said otherwise. Do we need to admit that there are many attraction triggers and what matters to us depends on what we value most? Have done that too. As far as I know none of those links have PPD women objectifying men, not volunteering to be the whipping girls for hurted feelings here isn't a failure to admit something. Objectification isn't even something we all give 2 shits about. The most scandalous pictures… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Do you know whether you want to date someone or not before having sex?F Yes, sex was only an option for someone I'd date. My relationships started from friendships. It's easy enough to appreciate a good looking person without fucking them, especially if they have a glaring personality flaw that vets them right out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?Lol I know the rut feeling! Keto is a high maintenance pain when things get busy and chicken with broccoli is just so easy! I still have carbs around because we have kids but they actually prefer the keto stuff. Pediatrician is like "they're healthy, do you!" so all good there. My husband was the wild card in this change and he was the reason for it, because of course. If you look good and are active but have borderline shitty blood work you want to hug your carbs and ignore it if you're him 😂 L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | "A friend"I've seen the opposite extreme of entertaining overly friendly women on social media. Like guy gets gf, suddenly doesn't understand old jokes when they come up because they came from a woman they aren't banging. It's so noticable that their guy friends break out the whipped jokes and commentary. Wedding jokes, kid jokes, it gets brutal. Regulating who and how a bf talks to others is dicey, if their inclinations aren't their own it's obvious and becomes a target to mock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?They're really good with almond butter too! This is my favorite keto dessert though, it's very quick to make which I love! I've made it with erythritol, monkfruit, and stevia glycerite and they all taste great. https://www.myketokitchen.com/keto-recipes/low-carb-keto-chocolate-mousse/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?Yeah keto for like a year and a half now? Maybe a little bit longer? I got bored too about 6 months in and bought a bunch of cookbooks because I didn't know how to get much variety out of it. It was good though I learned a lot from it and found there is a way to eat kale that isn't disgusting. Sauteed with a little bit of coconut oil and pork fat and garlic. Breads have come a long way too since keto first became a thing thankfully! This is the peanut butter cup recipe: https://www.wholesomeyum.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?I agree! It gets a bad wrap as manipulation or "wiles" too but that's silly. That's where the fun is at even if you're aware it's happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?3 net carbs! Lily's dark chocolate is my best friend and I use it for everything I can. I can eat around 70 carbs a day and stay in ketosis but I usually stay at around 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?Women figure this stuff out too, there's nothing like changing a subject because you needed to stretch juuuust the right way after getting out of the shower or something. But men catch on to that eventually too. It's a very fun arms race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?Women could use their bf/husband's dicks as attractive weight divining rods but they get oneitis and become totally unreliable. This is totally a feature and I'm not binging on keto peanut butter cups right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?I just use a tape measure on myself like every 4-6 weeks since I'm not trying to lose weight currently. Bmi is like weighing yourself, you get a number minus context. I'm happy if my clothes fit 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 04:26 AM |
| 22 | Guys what is something you wish girls knew about men?I'm not knocking the "don't be fat" advice but 16 bmi is downright skeletal. At my tiniest and most physically active I was a size double 00 and still had a 17.5 bmi. A bmi of 16 isn't a goal, it's some kind of genetic outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Man faces backlash after sharing his 12-step guide for womenThat was my lol too, I have exactly 2 pink things because it looks stupid with red hair. One is a Peaches concert tee that says "Whose jizz is this?" and the other is a Cobra Kai tank. Is i CaN b a GuRl nOw plzz innernet MAN??? This guy is a total twat with his color nonsense, death before pastel which is what I'm sure he means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:32 AM |
| 16 | How Women Experience Sex: What Do You Wish Men (As A Whole) Knew?What the fuck did I just read lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 10:11 PM |
| 19 | How Women Experience Sex: What Do You Wish Men (As A Whole) Knew?...but it would be much more enjoyable and I'm sure I'd do a better job if men would like... moan a little bit? Respond in some way? I legit thought I hated blow jobs and considered them high effort, low reward, and frankly just boring. Turns out an active participant made all the difference. If the recipient appears as into it as an inanimate object it's not hot, and when it's not hot, you're not only not into it, it's kinda gross. When they're into it though, fuck man...lemme get my jaw stretc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersI'm gonna pull some gratuitous team woman shit here and say PFFFFTTTT you're a guy of COURSE your hair is easier to make look good! I mean God bless ponytails but women have to have skills men just don't when it comes to hair lol! And the success of those skills is largely determined by the cut and products. It sucks, but whaddayagonnado? Besides get the best hair cut lol. I'd never mock a fancy laptop though, I've learned to just smile and nod when it comes to dropping money on tech and cars. E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 09:40 PM |
| 3 | How Women Experience Sex: What Do You Wish Men (As A Whole) Knew?Yeah for me it's stress, but it's not a regular occurrence. Hormones can be a bitch though so I get that. On that topic I kind of laugh internally about the best laid plans of the >25 crowd here thinking they'll be horny horndogs forever. Your body will betray you eventually, and if you think dinner is expensive, wait until you see how much regulating hormones are! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Which sex do you think become more jaded about love/relationships after a divorce?For real, those "decades of training" are called "teen years" in countries where you aren't pulling plows. I follow up with my teenager to make sure she's minding every applicable timeline for activities in her life but I don't manage it directly anymore. That sense of personal responsibility will be a sense of shared life when she's older because she's capable of chipping in and seeing a task through. It's as you say, a contribution. Good lord if he can't trust his wife with that how the fuck i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 09:31 PM |
| 5 | How Women Experience Sex: What Do You Wish Men (As A Whole) Knew?+1 It's definitely the goal here too unless some extremely rare circumstance prevents it. But I'm getting mine! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Which sex do you think become more jaded about love/relationships after a divorce?Lol, this comment doesn't make women look bad, it makes you look like you married a helpless woman-child from some 2nd or 3rd world population. If "tougher and smarter" means ill equipped to deal with modern adult human requirements, it's gotta mean literally able to pull a plow and idk....haggle with street vendors over the price of spices? It does explain why you thought Atlas' husband's joke came from a scary person though I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersNot 2, one. The one who doesn't find it worth it to do himself nevertheless reaps the benefit of the other doing it so he doesn't get all pissy or stingy over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersIt's not getting ripped off. Paying for someone's time, training, high end tools, continued education, product knowledge, and products themselves is getting what you pay for. People may like cheap haircuts but they don't come with all of that, there is a trade off. But if you don't care then it's absolutely a waste of money. Having an opinion on what people pay for haircuts is like having one on what they pay for art. Except it's also attached to you which factors into how people perceive you an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersSchlubby bi/gay guys are at risk of being in the shame fucked category, they just don't care if sex is all they're after because it's easy to come by. But the twinks and muscle bound gaybros are very looks conscious. They'll sit there and tell you all about how dropping $700+ on juverderm in their lips is worth it just to make blow jobs spectacular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersYou are the worst for reminding me of that infomercial omgggg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersSigh, yes those were the days! The specialty polish has gotten a lot better though, I'm obsessed with thermals and holographics. Speaking of which I found out about Color Club holos at Walmart here on Reddit, they're like $6.50(?) and are really as good as claimed though the brush is kinda wonky. I have nexgen on my nails for the first time right now because I broke three freaking nails a couple of weeks ago and needed them to look good for something. I can't wait to take it off, but I'm pretty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersFor sure I totally get what you're saying and I in no way want to come across as disparaging your wife!! A lot of this really depends on genetics and age and how good you were at using sunscreen etc. For me skincare is easy because my mom made us bathe in sunscreen and it's a habit. That and I have a shady dermatologist who said I have acne so insurance would cover my retin-a, and Cetaphil/CerVe are cheap and wonderful moisturizers. Makeup application is so much easier on kids coming up. The pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 06:37 AM |
| 19 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersOoooof this is low balled. A good haircut (in SoCal or Dallas) starts at around $50, more if your hair is longer. If you color and/or highlight and do any kind of salon deep conditioning treatment add more. My hair is almost waist length, I sometimes do highlights and lowlights and always deep condition while there. For everything it's around $200 before the tip. Shampoo, conditioner and home hair masks are around $130 every 8-10 weeks because I buy the giant size. Nails I do myself, but a decen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 05:58 AM |
| 2 | If you man is overly affectionate towards you does it become a turn off?No not at all, bring on the shmoop. As a matter of fact I think it's necessary and a major part of why we're compatible, because we also talk shit like it's a competition. It's the obnoxious or deviant rather than cruel kind and we're both thick skinned so it works. Edit: actually he has to lay it on pretty thick just to hold off the disgust of his punfuckery. I thought it was just a phase but the reactions are too good I guess 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men (and more-vocally,a lot of RP men) sh*t on the looks of 30+ year old women?Heh, I made a wife goggles comment earlier and got "Goggles, ew. It's a Mrs. Me monacle." in dramatic snotty girl voice 🧐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men (and more-vocally,a lot of RP men) sh*t on the looks of 30+ year old women?Lol mine failed at grooming too, tell him not to feel bad! My dad is 13 years older than my mom, he failed as well. But the grooming failure rate seems to bode well for marriage longevity if they're any indication so there's that! The pseudo divine commandment attitude is weird I agree. Acceptance of what is generally attractive and having preferences is quite enough. With that in mind this was a commandment I asked him about for the lols. I got a "what?" and a confused/disgusted face until I ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/19 08:47 AM |
| 11 | Why do some men (and more-vocally,a lot of RP men) sh*t on the looks of 30+ year old women?I think the bigger issue is most people posting that sort of thing are probably >25 and mentally not able to think about having sex with someone much older than them. I think it's this or this in combination to not having access to who they want that makes them outwardly obsess. My husband and I were 20 and 27 when we got together, he doesn't look at old pics and go "Ahhh yes, when you had that new ovaries smell. Those were the days. Now make me a sandwich, hag!" Youth is definitely attractive a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)Yeah she did, I'm really hoping something comes of it. It's one thing to speculate but irrefutable truth is a different thing entirely. Tbh I'm hoping if tax return and financial evidence of him being a lying cheat come out it will be accepted by his supporters. He's spent a lot of time courting nutty evangelicals though so I doubt evidence will sway that particular group much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: In a LTR, do you think you're demanding more and more commitment and giving back less and less through time? If yes, what did you do to make sure you kept being a good deal?My next burning Q4M question for the Purge: Do you hate happily dating and married men as much as you hate women with standards who are happy in their relationships, or do you hate them more? "Nuh uh I don't hate them I'm too busy spinning 234 HB5 plates!" doesn't count as an answer. You got there over a evil woman somehow breaking you and destroying your capacity for untarnished relationship happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 09:02 PM |
| 11 | Q4Women: In a LTR, do you think you're demanding more and more commitment and giving back less and less through time? If yes, what did you do to make sure you kept being a good deal?Yup this is incel/bitter beta bitch bait. Incidentally, posting about what my husband values gets more bitter bitch dv hate than posting about standards. I think they hate happy men more than women who possess clarity. That's a scrubs of "team man" problem disguised as a Q4W. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women exclusively date men way older than them, but men don't?My husband is 7 years older than me rather than 10+ but I'm gonna answer anyway. Age doesn't necessarily denote stage of life 100%. I moved out of my parents house when I was 17 and started the whole college, job, independence thing. Which is where most mid to late 20's people are at or were at recently enough. By the time started dating my husband I'd been doing it for 3 years. Not a ton of time, but really how much time does it take to prove if you're shitty at it or not? It's very much a sink… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Women process break ups during the end/decline of the relationship, men process breakups afterwards.It taught me that as long as it's "comfortable" people are quite happy to remain in a familiar holding pattern. Expect it to last indefinitely even! It's no good for anyone involved though that's for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)LOL your description of Kratom is me with every drug, I'm a very rare recreational user. I hate the sleepy + hungry feeling most weed gives me. It reminds me of being pregnant where if I didn't eat I'd puke and if I didn't sleep I'd be a raging bitch. The stupid giggly high where everything is funny is where it's at for me but it's rare. I was more of an upper person in my heyday, and was prim af until I married my bad influence. I remember spouting a full on drug abuse speech mixed with my own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Women process break ups during the end/decline of the relationship, men process breakups afterwards.That I can totally understand as a branch swing. Staying with you for comfort and leaving at her convenience are hallmarks. I totally agree it's cowardly and selfish too. The experience that came to mind for me was with an ex in a meh relationship that we both openly talked about. We were both busy and it was so easy not to see each other that when I said we should just be done it was "nah lets talk when I get back from x" or "you're just stressed about finals" or some such thing. No to both of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 05:51 PM |
| 21 | Women process break ups during the end/decline of the relationship, men process breakups afterwards.I wonder what portion of perceived hypergamous branch swinging is actually a dead relationship a guy was blind to and refused to accept the end of. Until the woman got with someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)Lol! It was absurdly one sided. I very much enjoyed AOC's turn at questioning Cohen! https://youtu.be/SRK3FwmjH-Y | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 07:27 AM |
| 6 | have you/would you reject an opportunity to date someone you're attracted to because it's "not the right time"?Yes, it worked out fine, no didn't get another opportunity. It wasn't about low interest though. Just the timing being wrong in such a way that starting something would likely end badly. If anything it's sparing the other person your bullshit because you like them enough not to put them through a doomed experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | (Discussion) How true is the phrase "men will treat you as bad as you let them"?What's the n-count devaluation on Boipussy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy?Word, I exploded my abs by doing leg lifts on a pull up bar. Grew up doing those as part of conditioning for different activities, but after pregnancy it was a nope I found out the hard way. I wish there was a connective tissue quick fix in the mommy makeover. The tendons and ligaments in my hips are questionable at times! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy?That was me a week after my first kid. One giant blood clot that required a d&c after redrum elevator hemorrhage. You aren't kidding about how graphic and bloody it is! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 10:49 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy?Tummy tucks are good for more than aesthetics and vanity, they address structural muscle damage that working out doesn't. I don't have a gut but my abdominal muscles stretching out through pregnancy caused me to tear them 2 inches vertically, it wasn't fun and if it happens again I'm getting them sewn back to some semblance of normal since I was told it would help. It's been years though so I'm not very worried. I had no tits before kids, but if I did and pregnancy ruined them I'd absolutely fix… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)Yeah he was really caught up on the Trump saying of racist things deal. I'm not surprised he threw out that Lynne Patton is a black woman who doesn't think Trump is racist so therefore he can't be racist. It's right up there with "Sweaty, I have a black friend I can't be racist." Impenetrable defense 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV The Manosphere Misses Two Crucial Parts Required for Girls to Get Sexual: Comfort and TrustI was reading about that last week and how women have much lower disgust and risk thresholds than men because a)being smaller b) the possibility of pregnancy and c) avoiding sickness and injury while pregnant. Men have it reversed to show the kind of craziness/illness they can survive or overcome. Also to show they'd be a valuable ally or a pain in the ass adversary to each other. Anyway I could see how a higher disgust threshold would likely come with a lower inhibition woman. Her lizard brain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 07:26 PM |
| 4 | CMV The Manosphere Misses Two Crucial Parts Required for Girls to Get Sexual: Comfort and TrustThey don't though, it's just vaguely acknowledged as a thing to do if you want repeat sex at most. The majority of what's visibly discussed are all the things they won't do, and why who they're after for sex isn't worth those things anyway. Of course women know what men will do for sex and in various other scenarios, it's not a secret. They just don't seem to talk about it or acknowledge it in depth with each other. Is it a "trade secrets" thing? Or I'm not beta like those other guys!! posturing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 06:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV The Manosphere Misses Two Crucial Parts Required for Girls to Get Sexual: Comfort and TrustI'd add "fun" to comfort and trust. Not merely the absence of neuroticism, but someone who can sell a thing or activity as an obvious good time and deliver. That's a guy getting giga(whatever). People who actually obsess irl about picking up the check, n-counts, entitlement, etc are the enemy of fun and therefore wonder if they're "getting her best" instead of making it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)Anybody else watching the Michael Cohen shitshow? Here's part of his opening statement https://www.newsandguts.com/video/video-michael-cohens-opening-statement-to-congress/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)Good question, was wondering the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)Same, I'm rooting for Ruth! She's not "likeable" but she's written and acted so well that it's easy to understand her influences and motivations. She's tragic because her many talents we're wasted on her shitty family. But she's so aware and such a striver to do good by others even if she can't "be" good that she's hard not to love. Wendy is a special brand of awful fosho. She really explores the space in season 2 lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do most extremely beautiful women end up in modeling, entertainment, or sex work?Forever ago one of my brothers married a woman who looked like blue lagoon Brooke Shields. She was gorgeous and awesome and fun and ended up fucking her therapist. Not exactly a feel good story but I agree she's pretty hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)I took kratom without knowing what it was because my husband gave it to me. It fucked me up HARD. This happened with brownies way back in the day, I ended up on the floor in the hallway, pretty sure I was drooling. Hot. I remember him laying down next to me laughing and recovering after an hour or so to a normal high. I'd stop taking what he hands me but it usually ends up being a remarkable memory in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 February 2019)I love that show, the redneck blonde girl (forgetting her name!) is a savage. It's one of the few shows I've felt actual stress watching, my husband noticed and now I'll never live it down lol. How far into it are you? I don't want to say anything spoiler-ish! Edit: just saw you finished season one. All I'll say is the wife and daughter annoyed the shit out of me in season 1, in season 2 it just gets worse ugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | A woman's personality matters just as much as her looks. Strong/alpha personality women get the better men.He took his nuts and ran, I for one am SHOCKED 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Is buying an expensive engagement ring just a trap propagated by the diamond business or are you a cuck if you think rings shouldn't be expensive?LOL hey as long as you say you're Vegan and recognize 78765567 genders illegal ivory towers are forgivable I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is buying an expensive engagement ring just a trap propagated by the diamond business or are you a cuck if you think rings shouldn't be expensive?Those are needs I understand because you don't need a reason to want beautiful things, people or places. Just the means. People know this, it's just fun to dog pile when it's about "the enemy" or virtue signal like conflict free diamonds whose origins are known from mine to setting don't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Is buying an expensive engagement ring just a trap propagated by the diamond business or are you a cuck if you think rings shouldn't be expensive?I just saw an engagement ring pic in another subreddit with a mention of a dowry ceremony of some sort. It's rings *and* dowries still in some parts of the world lol! I'd link it but it's a happy thread I wouldn't want to be responsible for ruining by brigading. Someone did ask her what the dowry is, it's any combination of things her family approved. Cows, goats, money, clothing and jewelry for her, and furniture were mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/19 07:55 AM |
| 4 | Is buying an expensive engagement ring just a trap propagated by the diamond business or are you a cuck if you think rings shouldn't be expensive?Yet many of the men PPD men use as alpha stand ins to make their points when convenient wear jewelry and have cars that would be illegal to drive to their fullest potential and houses with many more square feet than a true monk of rp stoicism would require. The point of any luxury item is to signify status, engagement rings are just a fun target for "women are icky" crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/19 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong for not having sex with my GF?I've been married for many years and it still shocks me that a shitty work day for him is as close to "marital rape" as I've ever been. Stress kills my libido so I get that, but as you say it's definitely the cure to stress for some 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 10:53 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: Have you ever blamed yourself for your dating problems?It doesn't, he's just using PPD for laydee revenge as incels do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 08:46 AM |
| 13 | Single motherhood partially responsible for the resentment towards womenFor real. If they're ever having a bad day or craving parent validation all they need to do is IG a video of putting a kids hair in a ponytail and the world collectively swoons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Married men are the best option for casual sex. His marriage is not my problem.Your failure to understand the FSM, it's assorted socioeconomic levels and weaponry, or that my original post was the possibility of payback rather than a guarantee isn't my need to "calm down." Maybe you deal with bottom of the barrel women who punch each other in the face when wronged, who knows. As I keep saying: your reasons for your pov aren't my problem, and your attempt to be all encompassing in your opinion just shows you for the narrow view bystander that you are. Feel free to get the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 05:06 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Married men are the best option for casual sex. His marriage is not my problem.Right, women are terrible and vicious bitches only when it's convenient for you in a nice lady-hate circle jerk. I'm sure whatever happened to you is devastating enough to pretend that's how 100% of the world lives to get by, but again it's not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Married men are the best option for casual sex. His marriage is not my problem.Because there's nothing between some sad sack that cries for days and fucks off into the sunset and a far fetched movie plot involving contrived bullshit and murder. People (this includes women!) do horrible shit to each other daily for less than fucking a spouse. The basis for your need to pretend otherwise at your convenience isn't my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 02:08 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Married men are the best option for casual sex. His marriage is not my problem.They might be a "better" option for casual sex but certainly not the best. Why risk the wrath of a married woman? A wife of means, spite and social connections might enjoy fucking you harder than her husband ever did. Why have potentially blowing up a marriage on your conscience? There's so many men that come without these drawbacks for casual sex that it seems like risk might be part of what gets you off. If that's the case self preservation won't cyv I guess, but it's certainly something to ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Tales From The Filter (23 February 2019)Yup for sure cartilage is the worst compared mucosa or lobes! Idk if I'd do it again tbh, so I'm glad they finally settled down for the most part. I love dermals and nifty piercings in other people but the healing time factor is finally outweighing the "oh that looks cool!" one for me lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Authoritarian patriarchy vs. Liberal feminismOn the SAHM thing, I think it's rarely agreed upon outside of tradcons because until there's a need for someone to be home it's not a thing. It's definitely still an option, it just doesn't become one until it makes sense for the situation. Financially feasible, multiple kids(?), how busy those kids are, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Tales From The Filter (23 February 2019)The healing factor is always the sucky part, it's a crapshoot. My forward helix piercings took 8 months to heal, and even now I feel them if I sleep weirdly on the ear they're in. It's almost worse if they look fine but hurt, people touch them and don't get the ouch factor because nothing is apparent! Getting my hair done was a lesson in pain for the longest time with all the hair brush scraping or incidental rubbing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 07:40 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Most the complaints from the men here are that they can't take advantage of womenThe irony is the ones who post most victim-ish about not getting laid easily should thank their dear and fluffy Lord they aren't in that mental state. They're exactly who a predatory woman would suck up resources from and break just because she could. I bet it wouldn't even take sex in a lot of cases. Just some tit squishy hugs and running her fingers through his hair while they bond over the cruelty of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 04:24 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Most the complaints from the men here are that they can't take advantage of womenThe angry ones get their heads all hurty at reading men with standards can remain married and get laid on the regular. Rp tells them this, but when it's from a lady mouth well...that's not true, that's impossible!! It's fun. Fuck me up with your non logic daddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 04:02 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Most the complaints from the men here are that they can't take advantage of womenI love posting about standards just for the asshurt downvotes. The incel invasion is good for my PPD kink 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 03:39 AM |
| 51 | (Discussion) The female perspective equivalent to women are wonderful, "Men are Simple"I don't understand how either of these myths get taken seriously in a world full of imperfect parents, siblings, and friends. We have so many interactions with the opposite sex before sex and dating that "Women are wonderful" and "men are simple" as broad truths should be laughable, and yet... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many blue pillers believe men do not value female virginity?Bro, do you even virgin? It's not for everyone okay? First of all their tits, lashes, cut crease, and hair are 100% natural. No exceptions. I mean you can't fool real alfalfa men with this stuff. You gotta verify their virginity with their parents (thanks for the heads up that one guy on PPD!) and escape the house without getting your legs broken and your virgin covered in a sheet or rolled in a carpet or something. If you're just lifting without cardio you're fucking done at that point bro. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or is there a disconnect between what men think women want and what they actually want?I think the disconnect between what men think we want vs what we want is in the social aspect of trp. Boiling everything down to a shit/comfort test to "pass" to get laid seems pretty easy. But it doesn't teach men that women can very often tell if you're in her space strictly to get in her pants. All the test passing and "Amused Mastery" or "Agree and Amplify" in the world isn't going to hide the intentions of a man who is incapable of calibrating to the stage and progress of an interaction or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Why do so many blue pillers believe men do not value female virginity?Men with money and no sense do stupid shit all the time. I seriously doubt it's about the inherent "value" of virginity rather than an ego stroke. It's a trophy of the rich and bored. These women should offer their hymens as a keepsake to drive the price up. And by hymens I mean some crusty bit of turkey jerky they can mount on the wall next to their very manly canned hunt animal heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or is there a disconnect between what men think women want and what they actually want?True, it's too hard to tell what's bs and what's not. It's probably fun when you're into whose asking, the train wreck I saw he was very clearly not! She was all over him and when he took her hands off of him and put them on the table she went for conversation with "what are you?" She got escalation, it was just the r/murderedbywords kind 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it me or is there a disconnect between what men think women want and what they actually want?+1 for non-white indeterminate guy hotness. This was my focus group in my Chadthropology studies. One of the very first things I saw in a uhhh field study was a woman crash and burn spectacularly for asking outright what indeterminate Chad was though lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 08:27 PM |
| 6 | A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this?That's super interesting considering I'm a woman and heard it all the time. Invalidate harder 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | What actually makes a woman good at sex?I can't believe I screwed up my box terms 😢 Shame! Whatever will my father say? Who will want me now?? faints | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/19 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Have you known a 'red-pilled' person before and after? Can you describe the changes?If you think negging is a term known and done strictly by guys who are card carrying PUA members that all know the secret manosphere handshake then you're adorably clueless. The shit houses, negging, desperation and thirst have been around since before the "PUA community." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Have you known a 'red-pilled' person before and after? Can you describe the changes?What about anything he said indicated a "bottom tier bitch house?" The bottom tier bitch houses are the ones college women avoided because their parties were aggressive PUA's negging everyone like that's fun and thirsty dopes. Not the ones with guys who actually had fun and got laid as a byproduct of not being angsty and uptight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 07:18 AM |
| 9 | A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this?I think this goes for women as well. Find the "nice, stable guy" ooohhh gurl, don't get with the hot ones, they fuck anything you know how "men" are! Then wonder at dead bedrooms. Funny enough I heard that one from everyone except my own parents. Shallow runs in the family I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Declining Sperm Count may be a MythLol I can imagine!! I'm here for you 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Declining Sperm Count may be a MythDear God he was next to me seeing this. I got a show rofl "THANK YOU. I've been telling Exile for YEARS Depo had no chance but she thinks she knows things!" He promised to point his "baby cannon" elsewhere before falling asleep and walked to bed flexing. I thought he was over it but any excuse to relive the depo smiting is a good one I guess! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate.Totally gross. I don't mean to call you personally weird, but there's a lot of standards butthurt here, and that one was non-negotiable for me. I'd 100% rather be a happy high n-count sexcapdes seeker than chained to a bad lay because "marriage." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Declining Sperm Count may be a MythNope, as someone who got pregnant while on bc I'm totally with you here rofl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate.The only reason I have a low n-count is because I didn't have sex when something was off about the whole interaction. Call it chemistry, compatibility whatever. If a guy kissed like he was trying to chew my face off or drooled or something that ticked a weird, gross, or wtf box, we were done. If the pre game was great but the sex was meh, it had about 5 times to not be before I was out. I don't think there's much room to negotiate libido mismatches. Some, but you're never going to transform a pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 04:59 AM |
| 3 | What actually makes a woman good at sex?Thanks for the inspiration Leyla! It was very recreational, none of us even knew what a queef was at the time either rofl. Just another stupid human trick. One that she could somehow do standing up, she was our edgy kween. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 02:15 AM |
| 3 | What actually makes a woman good at sex?Number one is a natural bonus of growing up in sports. I remember hearing "kegel" and thinking "way better name than: core to ass clinch when you're trying to not fall off a beam." And, gross story but I'm gonna tell it anyway because it's also lol. When I was like 11 or 12 our whole team was in the locker room getting ready to leave when we hear this loooong fart noise. It's fucking Leyla, and she's standing there smirking saying "that wasn't my butt." We had no idea what sorcery this was, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 01:59 AM |
| 5 | What actually makes a woman good at sex?I don't get the obsession with it here. It's not something I've ever heard idolized from men who get sex on the regular even when anal is on the table. But, I don't get tongue punching assholes either and that's all millennials ever talk about so 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate.Word. I'll take garam masala, coconut + lime, wasabi, Sriracha, tarragon, rosemary and curry over mayo and paprika any day. I can't do a spice rack, needed a cabinet my daughter calls the witches brewery. Culinary lavender is a favorite too, I can't wait for summer and lavender lemonade days now dang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate.Take you fear-mongering and bland food somewhere else. Kill all mayo with fire, burn all recipes that call for 1/8th tsp of pepper for 4 fukkan chicken breasts or some such nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate.Why do women need different dicks to learn what they like? Why can't it be done with the same dick? What u/yasee said, also compatibility isn't proven until you have sex with someone. You can very much be into them and find out you 2 fuck horribly together. Sometimes people's likes and/or anatomy just don't mesh well. It happens, and then it's a very good thing neither is chained to the other in marriage. Men aren't interchangeable dildos any more than women are more complicated fleshlights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: the stages of decline of women's sexual attraction to their partner in the context of a relationship.I've thoroughly enjoyed all the LARPy goodness of the replies, but I'll answer honestly. Just keep in mind the 20th Annual Laydee Online Answers Quorum hasn't met yet so this is only my experience! I imagine random boners are super annoying to guys. Getting them stuck in your waistbands, smashing them down, your mom walking in on you with morning wood, etc. Pain in the ass, you have shit to do and there's your dick going "HAY BRO YOU KNOW WHAT WOULD BE GREAT? SUM FUK!" Especially if you need to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Q4 People in relationships, why are you even here anyways?What brings you to this sub? A link from another sub. I imagine that if I were to be in a happy relationship, I wouldn't even have the time or incentive to debate the very fundamentals of Red vs Blue pill. I have a lot of time between the things I have to do during the day. My husband works and often travels, we don't have many of the same hobbies at all. We do a lot of stuff together, but much of what we talk about is the separate interest stuff. Is there any reason why you're interested in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdWell that plays into what TGP was getting at. You have online resources your post history proves you know how to use to get assistance with what you care about. TRP or any of the other subs he listed for self improvement might not be such a bad idea if you don't have anyone irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdSelf improvement, personal best, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdYeah but who cares about those people. Who do you know that is about that life, and do you engage their help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdYes they do. The myth of no/low effort as the standard needs to die. Plenty of men care about their hair, clothes, skin, diet, etc. What happens is they aren't predisposed to helping others without good reason, so if they get lost cause vibes they take the hint and give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.LOL! I sent this PPD gem of a post to my lying liar. His response is "Huh? Men don't lie, that is harsh and unjust! We just enable likely outcomes based off opportunities we create. Yeah!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Question for those in relationships with a libido imbalance: How do you both cope?Sixteen years here. The biggest thing, assuming you're happy together still, is to be proactive about not letting yourself go. As in gym, diet, hormones, etc. Depending on your age, or if you've been together for years, don't pretend time hasn't passed and it's impossible your libido could take a hit. If you wait around for a problem there your spouse could end up feeling like shit over something easily fixed. No bueno. We've never had prolonged libido mismatch, but everyone has a killer. Mine i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Were you ever played by the women you committed to or just met? What shape did it take?Lol that's a good mix of reality and idealism I'd say. Full on cynics and/or born yesterday types are as boring as the "fitness as a lifestyle" people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 08:49 PM |
| 3 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.Oh man, yours is a perfect beginning as well, I salute you✊ Spaghetti is a classic pound town dinner (had that one!), and the arm of the couch classic doggy style location! Risky with a belly full of pasta and wine, yet reliable. It screams "live dangerously with me, it'll all be ok!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 08:45 PM |
| 5 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.I have one: "Do dinner with me later, I won't even touch you, don't call it a date." when guy got intentions side-eye. 2 hours into not-date holds hand, it gets yanked back. "That's not even touching you, that's holding your hand. Do you need a demonstration of the difference?" I took the week long demonstration option because I don't pay attention so gud. And then we got married later. I make fun of lying sex liars on tv, and he makes fun of women who fuck on the first date. TRUE ROMANCE! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 07:58 PM |
| 7 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.Honestly because "the truth" doesn't require a heaping side of temporary anger phase or permanent misogyny. Or a giant chip on the shoulder. Our dads don't tell us we're hypergamous uber sluts who will destroy our own happiness for tingles and deserve misery. They encourage standards and letting them vet out the weaklings easily, while also establishing expectations on their daughters so that if we'd rather be alone it's a great option. Guys who bemoan the downfall of traditional family structur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Were you ever played by the women you committed to or just met? What shape did it take?Chad gets his soup served in a pussy bowl and nobody yells at him for slurping even though he's been giga-utensiled! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 06:19 PM |
| 10 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.That is a very comprehensive list, throwing in the variants of "What's worse on women: high n-count broken pair bonders, or daddy issues?" and "How badly damaged are alpha widows?" Both are totally actual concern for women and not thinly veiled circle jerks at all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 06:06 PM |
| 4 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.Nothing wrong with not being that guy! If you do want sex though it's a very valid deal breaker. The whole honesty thing definitely works that way, I've heard it up front before and didn't find it insulting or presumptuous in the context of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Were you ever played by the women you committed to or just met? What shape did it take?You have interesting hobbies and whatnot, you were talking about a dream of opening a Steiner-esque school right? I don't think I'm confused but I might be! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.Dude, what's the story here that sucks. If you go full relationship status it should definitely come with ass. Be up front about that for sure. Were you very young or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.My bad sorry! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Were you ever played by the women you committed to or just met? What shape did it take?Yes, I approve of this imagery! My original post came from a guy like I described who rear ended me when I was 17. A busted Celica with leopard print upholstery 😂 Guy had spray painted hair and a leather jacket and got out of his car screaming at me like it would make me admit fault or something. Didn't work out for him! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 14 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.Got this too, and quite a lecture on negging and the importance of leaving inconstant fools. If my dad ever thought I was with an idiot he wasn't "mogging" the guy, he was looking at me like the idiot rofl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Were you ever played by the women you committed to or just met? What shape did it take?And then she probably blamed your lack of commitment to the soup on being horny for the sandwich combo you were too scared to approach. She saw how you were looking at the Chad club! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Were you ever played by the women you committed to or just met? What shape did it take?MRAFAG better be the custom license plate of some balding fat guy's custom paint late model Celica. Or Miata, either works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 03:40 PM |
| 14 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.Holy shit I can picture the "watch what they do, not what they say." heads exploding. Will PPD host the RP man summit deciding if posting this was an action, or just liek a laydee talking through a keyboard? STAY TUNED 😂🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Women have frauded their way to being high SMV and men have fell for it.Those things aren't "required" of anyone, they're bonuses to the standard human package. If women around you aren't these things, do what everyone else does and look somewhere other than where you are or how you are. The bigger problem to me looks more like people don't consider the downside to their standards, and there's always a downside. Maybe you get that funny, confident, interesting woman. Can you deal with people hanging on her every word? Laughing at all her jokes and talking over you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women have frauded their way to being high SMV and men have fell for it.Get specific, what standards are you talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Women have frauded their way to being high SMV and men have fell for it.And plenty of guys think the women with standards are stuck up, prudish or slutty (pick whichever works best for their brand of pissed) super bitches. We're supposed to be offended by this, but there are plenty of men who are into it so who cares about the rest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women have frauded their way to being high SMV and men have fell for it.Why do you think women don't have to continually prove themselves? If we want to keep what we have best believe we do, wife goggles are great but every advantage is added insurance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Women have frauded their way to being high SMV and men have fell for it.It's not the same as men because we aren't men. We definitely have our own intrasexual competitive games though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Women have frauded their way to being high SMV and men have fell for it.The world is unfair, quick blame women! Ignore that men will throw each other under the bus gleefully to get what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4W That have cheated or left their ex to be with another guy, why did you do it?I left someone to be with who I eventually married. It wasn't a big deal to me at all because the previous relationship was circling the drain and we both knew it openly. I have no regrets. Previous relationship guy thought it must have definitely included cheating because of course! and tried to start drama but nobody cared. I was actually cheated on once and obviously broke up but I wasn't pissed. Good for him letting me know he'd dig out any available hole at a party I wasn't at, enjoy. If yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Why should women lower their expectations to the level you find suitable?If a man is enough of a man to be desirable then he has some kind of brain over his shoulders. It is likely that he is smart enough to realize when he is pushing his luck and is risking losing a valuable and rare person in his life. If a man is pissed at a "no" because he finds it a bad deal... maybe it is. In that case he is right to leave. Oh he can be smart enough and push his luck anyways just to push. For a lot of them no doesn't mean no, they view it as a starting point of negotiation. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Why should women lower their expectations to the level you find suitable?Yes it's bad if you're a woman dating a desirable man. There's always something more to want, they are compulsive and habitual boundary pushers. I don't mean just sex, I mean owning your free time and trying to manage your schedule to include what they want. Often at the expense of something you value they could care less about. Do it once for something interesting or fun and watch them get pissy when you say no because it's not a good trade. People have limits, especially when simply dating, de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:33 AM |
| 8 | Would you say women are as disgusted by male sexuality as men are of “sluts”?We're posting about the same blue, I remember that! We see very eye to eye on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Would you say women are as disgusted by male sexuality as men are of “sluts”?Yeah it was a level of gross that made me feel like I rolled in shit. The level of offense at telling him factually a young girl is at an unfair disadvantage with a horny old lech was mind blowing. His need to not feel judged for covering kid molesting in a match making wrapper was some choice entitlement. Edit: mobile is hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 01:46 AM |
| 17 | Would you say women are as disgusted by male sexuality as men are of “sluts”?Completely agree. We have another poster who wants to find girls "nice older men to explore their sexuality with" as soon as they have their periods. Because all girls are sex crazed after (wtf) and they'll be able to snare themselves a good husband. I choked down my mouthpuke to engage on the basis of power imbalance and grooming vibes and he got all: "I'm sOrRy Ur oLd n DoN'T gEt iT! GYNOCRACY STRIKES AGAIN strawman omg here's a medal for attacking my great idea!" <--that word salad is a surpr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 01:38 AM |
| 3 | TRP Debate - Debrief ThreadThey are now the Red Spot in my mind, bunch of manginas guy-raggin with each other on how to mimic masculinity in their unclean! quarantine corner. That was an informative PPD detour despite how much it diverted from original intent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | What is considered clingy-ness?WhichbladeN really nailed the whole definition of clingyness, so I'm only going to address if it's "something you need to fix." On the whole I'd say no, that's a denial of some emotional need you have and repressing it or denying it will not make you happy. It might even make you bitter. Have you looked at the 5 love languages? Quality time and words of affirmation both would satisfy "clingyness" in different ways; whereas non-sexual and sexual both get boxed into one category, physical touch. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - Convince me why a woman who’s not a virgin should even bring up her sexual history to a man? Why wouldn’t she downplay it?Ummmmmm posting foul for not linking this hilarity! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 05:27 AM |
| 5 | ”Traditionally Feminine Women”No that was /s at the notion of cleaning as a highly specialized lady specific thing like tradfem comments suggest lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 February 2019)Ahhhhh the classics! Beats listening to the ongoing minor teen drama after my daughter's all day practice lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 04:48 AM |
| 8 | ”Traditionally Feminine Women”Who doesn't remember getting their very own sponge and first mop in elementary school sex ed? The boys probably thought we were trying on bras and rolling gluten free tampons but nope! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - Convince me why a woman who’s not a virgin should even bring up her sexual history to a man? Why wouldn’t she downplay it?True, true lol. I've never met anyone who cared about n-counts, if they faked it they fooled me! My husband and I actually met each other's SO's socially before we got together and neither of us had anxiety about it. But we didn't keep exes as friends so I figure throwing them back to the void definitely helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Debunking the 'women teaching men to be chivalrous is a convenient but false terper tall tale' narrativeUgly is bad! I KNEW I was right to want hotness! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Question for MGTOWS, TRPs MRAs and other such leaning men...Was curious about this as well since "women" and "single moms" were being blamed(?) for a boy's manners; yet my own dad expected the same of my brothers. My husband expects the same of his son. I'm very curious about what this sub thinks a present father figure actually does sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Q4M - Convince me why a woman who’s not a virgin should even bring up her sexual history to a man? Why wouldn’t she downplay it?Would you say being around the former n-counts is more or less bothersome than the actual number? Being bothered by the number or people you'd never meet doesn't make sense in my lady brain, but having to actually be around them? I could see that grating enough to next over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Debunking the 'women teaching men to be chivalrous is a convenient but false terper tall tale' narrativeHonestly the harsher expectations on how to treat "mom" come from my son's dad. You DO for the people that make your life possible because duh, and that starts with family. What is your best, and are you giving it? I don't see how that's not a lesson in masculinity. I'm not half the taskmaster my husband is when it comes to how my son learns to human. Do the people blaming(?) women for a boy's manners within family think it goes so differently when dad is around? That dad is magically absent unt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Debunking the 'women teaching men to be chivalrous is a convenient but false terper tall tale' narrativeMen taught this should follow the "Disney" narrative through to conclusion though. It's the "nice" girls/princesses getting that brand of treatment. The witches and evil stepmom's and bitchy sisters are not getting the fairy tale endings. There's a vetting parable in there somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women still want to be led by men in relationshipsYes I love this, especially the intrigued/stimulated part. I very often see inefficiency in a process and am a hack-n-slasher where my husband sees the point of politicking or delayed gratification. If we were offended by the others pov rather than interested we'd be having a really bad time! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | (Discussion) What does a woman have to do to secure commitment from a High Value man?Ahh okay, my bad. It's hard to tell on PPD these days 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women's standards aren't too high. Men are just losing these days.I keep seeing "valued as a human being" and its oh so romantic variants thrown around. What does that even mean, and how much weight does it deserve? From the female perspective and a simple example, my huband values me as a human being. We do a lot of fun and stupid stuff for the lols. He would still be grossed out if I got huge. Very likely fake it and try to get over it, but definitely not happy. Do I get to bust out "I thought you liked me as a human!" over him not wanting to fuck huge? Does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | (Discussion) What does a woman have to do to secure commitment from a High Value man?Lolwat. Women decide who is high value to them, not other guys. My degree is a "useless" art one, and I married someone heavily involved in business administration and finance. Guess what he doesn't want to do? Have stuffy business dinners with people who want to rehash interest rates, the dollar value of data and the best network vendors, and upcoming legislation that may impact his field. He has a place for that, it's called: work. When he's not there he'd much rather be doing low value arts a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | what is your personality type and would you prefer you were a different one?I did the long ass corporate questionnaire and got a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 02:23 AM |
| 2 | what is your personality type and would you prefer you were a different one?INTJ with an ESTJ, I wouldn't change my personality but I get the feeling other people would if they could. PTA mommies are not my friends, I'd rather stab my eyes out than do carnivals or book fairs. Literally. If there was a self surgery youtube tutorial and I had to choose between that and caring about putting together the school fun run...I'd go with self surgery. Actually I think all of my personality friction is related to being a parent, I don't bubble wrap my kids and get a lot of pearl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/19 02:14 AM |
| 2 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYWell I worded it badly because I was in a hurry but I should've said "glam = high maintenance to SOME men." What I mean by it is a trans woman, no matter how short the actual time span is, spends 100% more time growing up male than a cis woman. So it's interesting that they act surprised at this. It's my favorite conversation with them because of the irony involved. Also because if you're glam you're never gonna make some guy looking for "cool girl" happy, and he's going to make you miserable to… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 February 2019)lol! 99.9% of their stuff is ill fitting garbage, but they make the perfect sports bra. I'm pathetic enough to wait for Vday people watching to go buy them in bulk once a year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 February 2019)Happy V day to you too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 February 2019)SALTY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How much cash did you shell out today for your Valentine's?I woke up to chocolate and a Cobra Kai tank top for the gym lmao. Unfortunately he moved my phone (aka alarm) far away to leave these things and our son fell asleep on the couch and was late for school! He's a trickle gifter so it ain't over til he's proposing something gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 09:29 PM |
| 0 | The Atlantic: The Bored SexNo no, that requires acknowledging something and acting which is (general) PPD man aids. "Sexy" is whipping their dick out and then running to the internet when that gets an eyeroll. Edit: Ohhhh I got a lil Cinderella the shoe fit for! Happy V day and enjoy the obvious rage bait 😘🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 08:17 PM |
| 3 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenBc pills made me mental too, tried Depo and it didn't work LOL. But if you're stuck on IUD's copper as mentioned doesn't have hormones, Kyleena has less than Mirena and also lasts 5 years. I currently have a Kyleena and no crazy is involved thankfully! No periods either which is awesome, but that isn't as likely as with Mirena. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 February 2019)Happy Valentine's day PPD! I just got done with one of my V-day guilty pleasures: doing a lap in Victoria's Secret. Confused men, young male ooglers, women giving them side-eye and trying to judge stuff as secretively as possible, irritated women practically snapping the ooglers in the face with the nearest thong. Love is in the air 💗💕💋 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (10 February 2019)Yup! I take it for granted that anything I post, especially in a Q4W, is going to get destroyed. It's the new normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYThey're more likely to have to glam to appear as feminine as the average woman! Some are exceptional at it, I imagine it has a lot to do with where they're at/how they respond to hormone treatments as well as individual effort at hair, clothes, and makeup. Honestly in the age of YouTube tutorials anybody who wants to look femme can. One of my more girly hobbies has many trans women participants. My absolute favorite conversation is when they figure out glam = high maintenance to men, it shocks m… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYGay men and trans females are probably more confused and/or interested in femininity compared to the average straight young woman for whom it's not a mystery. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 03:26 AM |
| 5 | The Burning Strawman Debate is Open!Omg I can't believe I read those alfalfa-est responses with my own lady eyes. I refuse to believe unbroken men aren't nuanced and caring humans. The contradictions of that and having a dick/roaring sex drive would be interesting to read. But that's probably low-T beta musing 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 11:35 PM |
| 3 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYMy favorite is that when they bring their pissy and snap for no reason it's always at a female poster. When you ignore it and carry on they try to go all "HYPOAGENCY BOYOS AWALT IN ACTION!!" When really it's just a giant skidmark of misdirected anger phase blathering. Edit: mobile formatting weirdness | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:30 PM |
| 5 | The Burning Strawman Debate is Open!Not-so-embarrassing-confession: whenever I see the Kant and Nietzsche quotes I totally wonder if they ripped it off The Good Place and Chidi's school of philosophy. I was never drawn to it as a topic of study so it's my only exposure to it. Shakespeare on the other hand I do not bite my thumb at, British Lit was my jam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Something interesting I read.Well it doesn't have to be gay motivated to be the utter depths of male on male vanity crimes! His hypermasc gym motivation was an international meeting where 95% of the American guys in attendance were in his words: "embarrassing fat fucks." I'm not sure who a good "gay masc underwear model jock" would be either, but now I'm thinking about it. I know who to ask in an hour or so if I come up short lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attractionDefinitely not as a rule, but as always it depends. I got sick of the hype around virginity and approached the guy I lost it to purely off looks, but also because he didn't go to my school and I didn't want to deal with the rumor mill. He checked my boxes and only had to not screw it up by being weird, game on. The second time was a much touchier situation because we worked together. But we were definitely going to bang. I think passive gets an unfair low effort assumption too often because shre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Something interesting I read.Well, I never thought of it in these exact terms until PPD. The pretty part is he's better at clothes/tailoring potential than me, always had a skin routine, is very specific about who cuts his hair in addition to how it's supposed to look, wtf is a magnetic collar stay? Idk but he does. Men's fragrance was always a department store thing in my head, I got an education there. Slumberhouse, Creed, etc. Edit: we actually make fun of each other with clothes. The difference between us is he will sty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Something interesting I read.I like them hypermasculine and pretty because I was very sure they didn't exist. They do, curse my eyes! Rip n-count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYBeta tears with a fudgy atm receipt ripple. Ehrm I mean mint chip. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | The Burning Strawman Debate is Open!And how much they like truly and honestly like the oldest teenagers in the house. They're on their best behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Male power in the SMP has never been greaterThis reads like a mean prank on low SMV men. The SMP isn't fair, "men" and "women" don't have all the advantages accorded to the top tier(s) of their gender so advising a power play as if they do is kinda cruel. At best it's endearing and aspirational, but doesn't reflect reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 05:32 AM |
| 3 | From whom do you value compliments the most?Woman 1st- A compliment from a woman I know. Specifically my mom. It's not that they're rare, it's that she has her shit together and doesn't compliment without meaning it. 2nd- A compliment from a woman you do not know. She has no reason to tell me my skin/hair/makeup/outfit looks good unless it really does. 3rd- A compliment from a man you know. For the most part this is some kind of functional duty noticing that defines "this is fine." Sometimes it's clearly a step up which is great. Related:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Hey old geezers, how has the dating landscape changed since online dating/social media got big?I'm pretty curious about this too. Especially the part where it's them pricing themselves out. Someone made a photofeeler thread here awhile back, something where people rate your photo for attractiveness and a couple other things. I did it with a friend since we didn't have to actually talk to anyone. Set it to men rating it. I put my age down, a 38 yr old post wall walking corpse got 8.2/10. And a whole lot of "smile more" critiques 🙄 No boost from the "sisterhood." Men are downplaying the rol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 05:19 AM |
| 7 | Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating?I'm not mad at clarifying or elaborating. It just seemed obvious enough that a distinction between "knows sex ed" and "knows how to fuck" wasn't necessary in my original comment. Prostitutes, I just picture some steely experienced sex pro telling a guy "you got this!" after treating him like an ATM and him believing it because she didn't run screaming. A prostitute knows all the sick shit a man wants to do to her. Her job is literally to make it a reality. Making a non sex pro of 18-20 not only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating?Or she'll just take his money and tell him he's great. Porn can tell him where to stick his dick, it's not going to teach him awareness of nonverbal cues, how to react or give a sense of confidence that comes from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating?As a girl who was into older guys, it was because they weren't boring and knew how to fuck. This requires experience or at the very least ease with women I'm not getting from the op. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Do you believe men are more romantic than women? Why?Absolutely, yes in general. But it's not a "standard feature." Men as romantics was something I had a front row seat to growing up, my dad was an extravagant party thrower and gift giver when it came to my mom. The men that aren't are flawed to me, dead inside in some way I don't feel compelled to fix or fuck with. Which will probably garner internet rage, but it's not so different from caring about n-counts or broken pair bonders so 🤷 I don't believe in the afterlife or mystical bullshit, so I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenSpeaking for myself: I knew women who found it endearing provided the guy was attractive to them. I personally didn't like it. Guy virgins have a tendency to go all sex crazy and catch feels based on putting pussy on a pedestal rather than the reality of who they're with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Guys that were completely ignored in your 20's by girls when you wanted friendship and datingNobody deserves shit, news at 11. People have to work on themselves in a world that's unfair and act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Can women solve the Black Pill Crisis?Right but before it got removed the op looked (to me) to be suggesting charity sex to stop incel sadness and or rage. I don't think it would work because they want more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenLuckily I think most people know the truth isn't in the extremes. Hopefully... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Can women solve the Black Pill Crisis?Fleshlights and prostitutes exist 🤷 And if that's not enough then benevolent Stacie sex angels aren't the answer. They want relationships, which nobody is owed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Do you think most of the problems in the SMP come from people trying to punch above what their SMV can handle?Yes. You want to turn a nice, hot guy into a mate guarding glowering monster with no chill? Take him in vacation and pay for it. Watch him act like everything you do or say that isn't prim and proper is a personal insult because he's got insecurities he didn't know he had. Have boring walking on eggshells nice girl sex. Take someone who can return the favor and watch him laugh his ass off when you say or do something crass and one up you. Not even notice average harmless flirtation that comes fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 11:28 PM |
| 8 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenThey want it both ways. Women are frigid bitches too timid to even exist with males and will cry rape at "hello" and women get 100's of dick offerings a day from strangers that we are just so compelled to say yes to because we're all dumb sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 07:57 PM |
| 3 | I'd like to apologize for the previous post that I had submitted earlierIt looks like "sorry not sorry" deep thoughts meant to salt perceived internet lady wounds. It's really funny to read as a post wall 38 yr old hag that just got railed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids?Same! Kid enthusiasm and excitement really makes that holiday. I'm decorating and cooking all the holiday stuff for them, adults can enjoy it or buzz kill elsewhere! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Slut walks are as stupid as if men had virgin walksLol I believe it! I have friends in Quebec, Ottawa, and Toronto and what they wear in their winter pics makes my tits freeze off vicariously! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids?Yeah and fwiw Christmas with kids is so much better than with a bunch of adults. Adults are dieting, have idiotic family feuds, and have to act like presents are meaningful or something they couldn't just go out and get themselves. Meanwhile kids are like "I'll have 10 cookies, grandparents smell funny but fuck it they give me candy, oh look there's uncle so and so, dad gave me 10 bucks to punch him in the leg and run, YESSSS I got a SW pez dispenser in my stocking!!!" They're hilarious whether … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids?It doesn't happen all at once thankfully. A part of you knows the point is for them to grow up and leave and be independent, if you don't allow their wants to fully engulf your life you'll be alright. They'll always have needs but the wants are where couples forget they're married and shift focus too drastically imo. I mean you don't become dead to them when they go unless you're total parental fuckups. It's starting to hit home here for my husband that our daughter will be gone soon and he is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)I still haven't tried it lol, I think everyone has forgotten about it here so I can escape the food dare my son brought me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 12:52 AM |
| 7 | How would you feel about a man in his late 20's with an 18 year old wife?On what grounds? I had a marriage and a kid before finishing college. Still finished. Still got a job. Never went into debt or lived in a trailer. Is this some kind of self denial thing? Because in my view I got everything I wanted early and am glad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 10:40 PM |
| 9 | (Discussion) Is becoming a top 20% woman as difficult as becoming a top 20% man?There's a major eye of the beholder component if it's all about looks too. If you're a "type" even if you're meh to a lot of men the ones that are into you are often reeeeaally into you. And if you're overall good looking then the difference between 8,9,10 is largely a preference for your type thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 0 | How can male sexuality and female comfortablity coexist?If you're not going out of your way to make the women you approach uncomfortable, then who cares? Maybe she's the rare actual raging man hater, in a relationship, been assaulted before, is a lesbian, etc etc. None of the above are in your control or even known on the approach. People have feelings you aren't responsible for all the time, brush it off and move on. I don't think any woman with firing synapses expects male sexuality to be anything less than predatory. That is hot, that is fun. From… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 09:40 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel about a man in his late 20's with an 18 year old wife?I'd definitely wonder but I wouldn't ask or be a jerk about it. I wouldn't envy them their naysayers though. We got our fair share at 22 and 29. Never came from family or friends so it was nosiness and concern trolling. I found it tedious, he thought it was hilarious and would do overtly obnoxious stuff to make the pearl clutchers gasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 09:17 PM |
| 17 | Slut walks are as stupid as if men had virgin walksDepends on if a celebrity was slut shamed on Instagram while it's good weather for a jaunt in lacy underthings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Discussion - Study shows that women, even feminists, are attracted to men who are benevolent sexists.It's a legitimate bone to pick with the feminists who harp on it. It's very worthy of an eye roll because who doesn't like help when they need it? I can see condemning the weirdos who think there's some social contract of help for sex but that's an individual idiot thing. To make being a decent human a patriarchal boogeyman (but for like guys only!) just makes the people shrieking for it look dumb. It won't stop decent humans from helping each other out when they can. What a world! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 06:25 AM |
| 7 | Discussion - Study shows that women, even feminists, are attracted to men who are benevolent sexists.The same stuff, having your hands full and struggling momentarily isn't a gender thing. I held a guys car door open earlier this week at Costco so he could get a giant box in the back seat without the crazy wind slamming it shut on him. He didn't even try to rape me! But he did say thanks and we carried on like average people do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 06:13 AM |
| 11 | Q4W: Do you think that manflu is a real thing?This. I was a size 00 when I got pregnant with my first kid and the epidural fell out. It was the kind of pain that transcends fear of death. I mean I'm glad this guy's wife had it easy but her experience isn't standard rofl! Edit for clarity: later in pregnancy hormones make your pelvic muscles, ligaments, and joints looser to allow a baby to pass through the birth canal. But if your hips are small they're small, it's not a full on metamorphosis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 05:40 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Why is it considered not manly to use skincare? And why don't more straight cis guys do it?I'm way too happy reading about the men on the skincare bandwagon here. I've always thought of it as part of hygiene and being an adult rather than a gender thing like makeup and was more shocked by the men in denial of the benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 03:27 AM |
| 13 | Q4W: Do you think that manflu is a real thing?Yes, and judging by the doctor stories I hear the men that are also terrible about procedures are epically bad. Women horror stories tend be of the pushy/bitchy variety while the men's are "...and then he RAN, passed out, and pissed himself!" <--- the explanation for drama I was in another room for and heard play out. Over a blood draw lol. I'm not mad at man flu, it is what it is. In my world it's rare so when it happens I'll play nurse. If I had to deal with it all the time or the "patient" wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Under what conditions, if any, would you share a partner?"Stop talking and fist my pouch before my boner dies already!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?You didn't even make a case for your little fantasy, just a bunch of assumptions about me and some weird "woe is me, nobody sees my genius" rambling like what you're doing now. I don't feel badly that you can't defend a bizarre notion, but I should get a medal for being polite despite it's creepiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Under what conditions, if any, would you share a partner?Animal, definitely animal. Why bother without the full immersive furry experience 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?Good because the whole notion of periods meaning beacredwhine's matchmaking fuck school for girls is outlandish nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | The conformist school system leads obedient followers to false beliefs about status in women's eyesLol I had that very same conversation with my son until I was blue in the face. He had no fucks to give about those story/article tests and his teachers were all over me about it. Classwork, homework, great. Benchmark and State tests? Those were a total mixed bag depending on if he thought it was stupid or not. We ended up tapping because by itself it's not terrible, but all the time spent prepping for tests at school made him want to stab his eyes out. It took forever to find a non religious pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Under what conditions, if any, would you share a partner?Gaaaaahhhh what I want to say to that is just too mean to the furry orgy neckbeard incels 🤐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?I see the point you're trying to make but I'm the wrong audience. Low n count, grew up with money, have money, lost my v-card at 17, dated who I married at 22 when I was 20. Kids in my 20's etc. I have no regrets, because these were all MY choices. What you're talking about is focusing a girl's life on sex the moment she bleeds in some odd matchmaking attempt to make her a specific man's child slut because some girls take a larger interest in sex earlier than others. Controlling "how many dicks"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Men that would go on to abuse their wives and children SHOULD die alone.They're all pieces of shit. The only fight I've ever been in as an adult was with a woman cussing her toddler out for wanting something at a Kroger. Kid was 2 or 3 crying in the cart and when she walked over to him he reached for her and she smacked his hands. We had words, she acted like she was going to smack me too, and I was with it. Employees grabbed a manager and called the cops, it was a mess. I still think about that kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Under what conditions, if any, would you share a partner?If he decided he couldn't live without a furry orgy or someone taking a dump on his chest he'd have to go do that elsewhere. Otherwise I'd cut a bitch 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you share nudes/intimate pictures of your partners?The closest thing I have done to taking a nude is one time when I was getting in the shower, the light made this weird 3 tit shadow in profile. It had to be shared because it was lol enough to document. I've never taken a serious nude of myself, and after reading this thread I'm glad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender?LOL you think you're some edgy not PC maverick rather than a garden variety keyboard racist 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?There was nothing bizarre or extraordinary about the words I chose. You aren't speaking to a child you want to help with Reddit "exploration." Mental maturity and the power imbalance would matter to someone who actually cared about the girl's development as a person rather than a sex object. Allowing what a select group of very young girls do to excuse what stunted grown men would like to do is perverse and backwards. These are not sainted patrons of marriage and sexuality. They're opportunistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 08:07 AM |
| 9 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?Post menarche minors have more to do than become child brides to old men to legitimize their youth fetish. It's dishonest to call it exploration if it's coerced with a non peer. There is a clear power imbalance set up so she can only assert herself a) if she knows how and b) if he allows it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 07:13 AM |
| 11 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?Even a legally blind adult should hear the difference between a 12 and 19 year old. If not her voice, her word choice should demystify things beyond doubt. It honestly looks like he's an opportunistic, predatory pos that did only what he was dumb enough to think he could get away with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 06:37 AM |
| 14 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?Yeah justice was technically served: "Under the law there is no defence of mistaken reasonable belief in age when a sex offence complainant is under 13." A 28 yr old too dumb to recognize a child before taking pics and jerking off is exactly who should be on a sex offender list since it's on everyone else to watch out for and avoid him. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/uk-england-manchester-47162764 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman being raped and convicting her rapist, is far, far worse than a man getting a fake rape allegationDo you mean "rape" fantasies? They're badly named. Submission to the illusion of danger isn't the same thing as a coerced act with very real danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | If a man wants a lot of sex, he should love carousel riders.I've never claimed that, I'm an out and proud looks snob and have always owned it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | If a man wants a lot of sex, he should love carousel riders.I agree with him. With the caveat sex is crack with a guy who doesn't choose partners like a toddler in the candy aisle; or fuck like it's purely an act of sloppy, greedy, selfish consumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 05:23 AM |
| 4 | How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender?Way to try and hide being a racist troll badly by acting like "most men" would agree. Gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the "Mike Pence" rule?I get why people do it, but I'm too lazy for it/refuse to dedicate brain space to it. My husband works with a lot of women, I know them, they're great. He travels for work with a very social job so I'd go insane policing his habits. Nothing about them makes me worry about this, and choosing to would complicate his professional life in an unnecessary way. I follow this rule technically, but it's because I don't have guy friends that are uniquely my own and I'm a busy introvert that doesn't want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender?Lol, why ENTP's? My daughter is ENTP and laughing like she knows why. Is it because "we never shut up and devil's advocate even the dumbest stuff?" <--- her guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?Many of the worst who can't probably view it as some kind of manosphere bro code violation to relax with a lady person. Sucks for them. My poor BB misunderstood husband of many years will tell his guy friends trying to lead him elsewhere to piss off if he's interested in what wymyn are doing at an event. He got bothered by 2 that wouldn't give up during the holidays and snapped "There's plenty of room here for you 2 to suck each other's dicks without my help!" What a Benedict Arnold! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?Okay to be fair, I think most of the women here are here because we were once super chill on AskWomen or CMV or something and a random TERP appeared in the wild spewing craziness and so we went down the rabbit hole of discovery and landed on PPD 😂 Lol, accurate here! Whereas many of the guys here are in crisis and perma-enraged. Also they’re shockingly more sheltered than most women I know. I agree, the rp guys I enjoy here despite not agreeing 100% with are the ones who've been outside. Despi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:23 PM |
| 12 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?All of this happens so much I'm sure the men who partake have a shared script. They also go from talking about "women" to talking directly about you, to playing stupid about the subject switch when you correct them about their personal assumption/ad hominem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?Truly a unique and special culture! I bought my viewing glasses and popcorn for when the Red giant passes through on the 13th. I'm hoping for a truly celestial experience I can lie about later teehee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Why is there still such a huge gender imbalance when it comes to Valentine's Day spending?Nope, that's the joke. Blowjobs would get me a very festive and lame Happy meal. But they come with a toy! I told him I'd IG my Valentine's gift last night and he started playing "Dare to Be Stupid" from his office, but I'm sure that song had nothing to do with what I said 💅💃 (in case it must be said, that's joking for us, it's stupid lols) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 04:50 PM |
| 14 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?I've never gotten into a heated debate with a fellow PPD woman because their perspective might be different but it doesn't threaten or invalidate mine. They to acknowledge "what works" for couples/families takes precedence over hard and fast rules to live by. Call it the FSM, but sensibility doesn't arouse internet rage. I actually take something away from their input pretty often. In contrast even agreeing with some men* here is a minefield. Men: Women like looks, money, status. Women: Yes. Men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?Alien from Zorp 😂 My flair is from a friendly incel who insisted I don't have human DNA because I'd sooner cat lady than "share a high quality man" in modern times. Our natural state is a harem that pays for itself by livestreaming our lingerie pillow fights. Bonus: it allows our innate lesbian tendencies to come out between Chad dickings that we are helpless to resist. Pretty sure Zorp is located in the cum rag nebula of the wet dream galaxy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Make her feel SOMETHINGLol no, you've got me confused with someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is there still such a huge gender imbalance when it comes to Valentine's Day spending?I think they overestimate it too, but at their convenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:44 AM |
| 7 | Why is there still such a huge gender imbalance when it comes to Valentine's Day spending?Indeed. I've even had bosses fine with bringing friends to swanky company events and insisted on paying for them as well. Guys here agree on status being attractive, but go full retard on how flexing in all its forms plays into status. Oh, they do it with money ? One of the other things they insist is attractive? I simply won't believe it!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is there still such a huge gender imbalance when it comes to Valentine's Day spending?You answered your own flexing question by acknowledging the pressure/demand on men. Men and women can IG vomit flex at the same time, it's not an either or scenario. But I doubt at least half are faking as it seems high when you combine the notion that men are thirsty and the pressure/demand of the day. Not to mention the manosphere notion of our 20 orbiters eager to please.. I'd say no more than a third. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:26 AM |
| 5 | Beta Buxing is a mostly dead phenomenonMmmmhmm. A favorable currency exchange rate is a boost to their SMV with zero cost in dignity somehow. Sexpats are intrepid carousel explorers, not Western Tinder failures, gosh 🙄 Edit: forgetting my /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:10 AM |
| 6 | Beta Buxing is a mostly dead phenomenonMoney is a resource, but not all of them. Beta bux are also emotional punching bags routinely denied sex. Many women with their own money may prefer cats to a "substandard" man (raises hand) but a woman afraid of being alone would let that fear make it seem like a good idea to cling to a BB she's not attracted to. His availability and proximity being the valuable resources rather than his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:00 AM |
| 6 | Why is there still such a huge gender imbalance when it comes to Valentine's Day spending?Definitely a flexing opportunity. I'd bet all the roses and fuzzy pink handcuffs in the land that a decent chunk of girl v-day social media gift posts are guy flex fueled. Look at this thing I got you, I am amazing. You may brag. No seriously, brag. Edit: I knew I was tempting the limp dick dv rage of the social media validation obsessed nerds but you guys are QUICK tonight! Bravo👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Make her feel SOMETHINGSo much yes to staying away from cruel stuff! Good banter zings but has an element of trust. It's not fun or endearing to take the gloves off just to get a verbal falcon punch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 07:10 AM |
| 14 | Make her feel SOMETHINGBanter? Teasing? Pranks that don't end in bodily injury? Sure! But I want manufactured butthurt disguised as "passion" about as much as most guys want alligator tears masquerading as feewings that they must take seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 06:20 AM |
| 5 | Why is there still such a huge gender imbalance when it comes to Valentine's Day spending?Agreed, it's just not that deep from the guy expectation side rofl. Valentine's day is a very entertaining fucked up sex dare here. I just yelled "YOU'RE GETTING A BLOWJOB FOR VALENTINE'S DAY!" at my husband and got "AWWWW, YOU'RE GETTING A HAPPY MEAL!" I tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?Lol, don't they teach that when they separate boys and girls for sex ed?!? /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many manospherians conflate femininity with cultural decadenceI can't quote on mobile which is super annoying, but re: women having more social responsibility and being capable administrators I agree. I'm not sure if we haven't done as much with it as we could because of copying the male workplace power structure playbook, being too busy fighting over minor details like defining feminism in a 100% agreed upon way, or losing endurance when our circumstances change like demanding careers and/or having kids for instance. Things are probably too in flux still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 01:35 AM |
| 2 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?Of course you haven't seen it. This thread is a shit show of triggered alfalfacels reporting and mods doing heavy lifting. The female perspective on PPD is bullshit and worthy of brigading, policing, and invalidating. But as long as the mods are here to clean up after those who do it you get to make "dumb women" posts and tell yourself it's all in our heads 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?"Don't grab my ass you fucking creep" generally suffices in random party situations and it's not worth escalation. I don't see how that equates to an invitation unless you like living dangerously. Escalation is always possible. My comment is specifically about the pointless kind we have no control over. Preferring the least dramatic option doesn't mean I'd put myself between an ass grabber and a punch 🤷 Edit: word derps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 11:16 PM |
| 15 | Announcing: OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAY* WED 2/13 : "The biggest brawl of ill-conceived multi-colored pill metaphors baked into the biggest smackdown medicine cocktail since John Belushi discovered heroin."Reasonable PPD terps have ruined my rp angst, but ill grab my popcorn for the incel/rp clash. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Male attractiveness in relationshipsAttractiveness isn't a bad LTR sign by itself. Fickle douchey asshole behavior is. We're just more willing to overlook it in attractive people, and then blame the thing that we used as a crutch to overlook it all when it blows up. Plenty of attractive worthwhile people in the world though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 07:57 PM |
| 7 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?Sweaty your ex boyfie knew how to take bras off and that makes him an expert silly! (I'm totally kidding, and I'm glad he had that realization at least for the sake of his next gf!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?I would love to see your goats!! Goats crack me up. We have horses nearby but they're boring in comparison. That's partly why we have the HOA supposedly, it's weird mix of lake properties and horse properties and the city is beholden to the army corps of engineers for some of the lakefront. HOA is supposed to streamline all the property requirements. Supposed to! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?That sucks you've had to be the step in guy, honestly I've never met anyone damsel enough to enjoy it. But also props for being step in guy when you did because it's a wall ---> head situation for the other person involved! Idk what would fix situations like this, I wish it were as simple as empathy! One thing I forgot to mention on lowest form of life point: The actual process was for him to forward the paperwork to the ARC committee, and his questions were to be directed at them. Our only cont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?I honestly can't think of one. We've never gotten an HOA violation notice and our dues are paid in advance every year. They didn't know who we were until I went to hand in the initial project paperwork for the ARC review. I wasn't familiar with the process beyond doing whatever follow up they requested after seeing the project. The HOA president made me sit while he went through it page by page and had commentary on everything down to the screws being used. I just smiled through it not to kill t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Men: how often did your women actually tell you to open up emotionally? Women: how often did you actually tell your men to open up emotionally?Its kind of funny you say that. I don't feel emotionally stunted, but when we were dating my husband would stop my world (in a nice way) if I wasn't being as forthcoming as he thought I should be. It wasn't a purposeful thing, just a product of my upbringing. Previous bf's were very okay with it so it was not even on my radar. But I also was totally fine breaking up with them. Vulnerability as a thing is absolutely tied to my husband specifically. And because it's PPD and we know what "actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 05:27 PM |
| 11 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?I answered in good faith before skimming because I knew it would kill my desire to participate. Sure enough, the usual cast of "nuh uh laydee, it's ackshully" bois are hard at work making sure we know they know more about how to woman. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Men: how often did your women actually tell you to open up emotionally? Women: how often did you actually tell your men to open up emotionally?I don't, and it's not "cool girl" or pointed avoidance. I just didn't grow up with feelings in a premier place of consideration. My parents were about achievement and dedication, which is more strategy than feels based. Feelings were something to weather and get over so you could handle your business. I'm totally fine with feelings in other people though, including my husband's. As it works out he generally tells me the "bad" after the fact. I know he gets stressed or fearful or angry, but when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 05:04 PM |
| 7 | What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience?That being stupidly aggressive or starting a fight with drunken ass grabbers you'll never see again is not a panty wetter. People get hurt, drama is started, and ass grabber will probably not even remember what he did to get fucked up so it's pointless. However, when you make us to go to (whatever thing) and one of your friends starts snide "you had to bring your gf/wife didn't you" jokes that aren't jokes and you shut them down: panty wetter. One is a dumb over reaction performance bit of mascu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partI'm more relieved than you know to see this understood by men when it happens. That projected gender-wide incel thirst is annoying as fuck to deal with. It's just to bad tool to invalidate "disgusting femoids" with no basis in reality. I can't decide if they're terribly hurt men with standards women will meet exist, or if they really think they can speak for their entire gender with absolute confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)Ack I can't milk. I was scarred in my childhood over my mom assuming I needed to drink it all the time because I broke my arm twice lol. As an adult I got a comprehensive allergy test done and I'm mildly allergic to it, you bet I texted my mom to rub it in 😂 Camel milk is gonna break me. It's the dot on the "i" that is my personal chocolate Jeremy Bearimy and I'm Chidi trying and failing to comprehend and get over it. https://youtu.be/RFm9ClqlGuo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you wish women understood about men/the male experience?Hah, that's gold. This one is my life at least 3 times a month but it generally has something to do with Vikings or Mongolians. I'm 99% sure if I get left it will be for a yurt and a golden eagle. " I'm not staring at you, I'm zoned out thinking about how I'd start a brewery in medieval England whilst my eyes just happen to be facing your direction. " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partNope, rp doesn't own the low value man market, I said what I meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 06:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partThose South Park kids did them a homage spoof clearly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)Idk what freaks me out more: that it's milk chocolate (dark 4 lyfe) or that it's made from camel milk. Fwiw I hate all milk. My son has been waiting for me to try it the past few days and I keep putting it off because I'm pathetic. http://imgur.com/a/j3gYcFo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partI used my Google-Fu, and yes very similar! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partI only said "low value" to not leave anyone out by labelling further tbh! Some women do price themselves out, that's reality and I won't argue against it. The potential to get burned by our preferences doesn't mean we don't recognize the masculine traits we prefer or men we're attracted to. Yet we're never short helpful PPD types who will tell us our preferences as if that supersedes our entire dating lives. Because they are male men who just know everything about lady people attraction* Everyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's part!!!!!!! https://youtu.be/u31rcRkiZKA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Fear of aging has women in their 20s stressing about wrinklesHave you tried telling him you've always wanted to be with a woman with a dick?? /s You keep up the good fight! Skincare is a battle worth having. I will put sunscreen on my husband if I have to. And by that I mean smear his face with the extra on my hands. Because love. Maybe a massage with his nice lotion? Make him a helpless to resist moisturized skins sweet siren song, he'd have to feel a difference! Especially if it's winter where you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4 People in relationships in this sub, how do you feel your interests in gender relations affects your relationship?Yes!! The hypotheticals without explanation are entertainment gold. I usually ask in our rando work day chat to avoid my voice giving away what I think. I gave him one of SGRUM's(?) (I can't remember the acronym lol) goofy nice guy hypotheticals. Didn't even mention PPD. Got this back with the message "What fucking dork sniffed glue and went agro on PPD? For making me read that you must post this to whatever sad sack came up with it or DIVORCE" (NSFW) https://youtu.be/_CIYR_XgBSY You really shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?Yes it is generally terrible these days, but its always had a high cheese factor that's part of why it's entertaining. You can totally make fun of it and it's still a lol conversation. It's really not a "bad" interest, especially if you're into the history and hell the family dynasties that made the industry. These are interesting people that did crazy shit. Idk, there are much worse interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?Lol I've heard the greatest day in wrestling story 77544 times at least. The day Hulk Hogan went heel according to my husband. Our wedding cake had Stephanie and HHH action figures on it. Pro wrestling is not a Sahara maker, bonus points if you can pull off that it's totally real and in no way fake 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Q4 People in relationships in this sub, how do you feel your interests in gender relations affects your relationship?Mostly it's stupid jokes that come from this stuff. He went to Abu Dhabi for work last week and when I refused to go he gave me a lot of "strong independent woman in great need of some male dominated culture" flak of the joke variety and took our son instead. I did ask about (what to me is) weirdness around marrying a younger woman as we got married when I was 22 and he was 29. I was curious to see if he was on board with n-count paranoia and looks worship. Tl;dr version: I got a no on the forme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Q4 People in relationships in this sub, how do you feel your interests in gender relations affects your relationship?I'm having an "are you me?" moment 🍸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Fear of aging has women in their 20s stressing about wrinklesYup! Usually lasts 3-4 months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Fear of aging has women in their 20s stressing about wrinklesToo much Botox can freeze your face and make it look like an expressionless mask, but it doesn't change your face aside from that. I get 9 units at the dermatologist for a forehead wrinkle from "concentration face" and all it does is smooth it out and make it disappear. I can still lift my eyebrows and otherwise emote, it's all about the skill of the injector honestly. If I had to guess, my money is on facelifts done when they were relatively new still changing her features a ton. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 4 | People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent.Anecdotally can confirm with my older daughter and younger son. It's not a "dumb" thing or "better than" contest either. He's staying kind of silly and innocent in comparison to her at almost 11 where she started getting shrewd to people at around 8-ish. It makes sense to me given puberty for girls begins on average 2 years earlier than boys. The consequences of not interpreting interactions correctly + lack of physical size are pretty major factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Fear of aging has women in their 20s stressing about wrinklesAmen, my daughter is almost 16 but had to wear makeup for competitions at 12. She thought that meant she could just "wear makeup" and got the "oh honey, no." speech. She wasn't touching it for fun until at least 14 and after she demonstrated she could follow through on a skincare routine and sunscreen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you want to be "the pretty one" in the relationship?Are you gonna make me say it's a sex thing? It's a sex thing. As in: caring about how you look as a guy doesn't signal a sterile and boring fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partAgreed. It's pointless to get mad at, and the SMP is cruel by nature. Some will always find a way though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partI just had an angry virgin tell me "nice way to talk about your husband" because I called him "disgusting" (with quotes) in a sexual context that unsurprisingly went over his head. Our poor, sad, misunderstood husbands! They're on a dv spree defending the honor of a man who may as well be an alien to them and it's great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you want to be "the pretty one" in the relationship?Nice way to miss the quotes. He's absolutely filthy in all the best ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Fear of aging has women in their 20s stressing about wrinklesI don't see it as "worth more to appear young" so much as "I take myself seriously and want to feel good about how I present myself publicly." We all know there's no substitution for the beauty of youth, but it's not an excuse to throw in the towel and give up after an arbitrary birthday declared post-wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Fear of aging has women in their 20s stressing about wrinklesI agree, got told "women don't reward male lotion use because women don't want to date a woman with a dick." Crusty is manly to 100% of women obviously 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 08:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partYup I fully agree. I don't have the nose piercing but I had the tattoo and owned my place halfway through dating my husband. It was very clear he wasn't a wallet, and somehow he didn't come down with a case of terminal nut shrinkage at me not being economically disadvantaged despite our age difference. Edit: part of me does wonder if guys here know that it's not entirely uncommon for Dads to intentionally make their daughters look "high maintenance" to scare off the easy pickings low effort crow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partIn past threads similar to this one lots of guys wanted a woman with an education who made a good income. I'm sure a lot of men do want this and I get it because it makes sense. The sperg-lord contingent of PPD though doesn't value consistency. Heaven help you if you're a woman who *looks* like she makes money and is self sufficient. You like clothes and jewelry and makeup and can afford it, well. The jokes on you because you should be marketing yourself in a ponytail and yoga pants and not be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 06:48 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partI've said a version of this before and been flat out told I'm wrong by the legion of angry bois. Ok my dude. Men have no standards of their own, especially not high ones, and will accept whatever any thot that can slap a sandwich together and get him off is offering because "men are built that way and wymyn look up to it." Not every guy is a beast of relationship burden, this is somehow controversial. But saying my husband would hand me divorce papers with a smile if I turned into a dumpy, low l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partYup. The problem is it doesn't jive with their need to see all women as piss poor at selection or shitty thots. Maybe I'm optimistic, but imo most people are average and up. The myth of the high value unicorn nobody ever encounters is the height of self soothing. Just yesterday I had sparkling conversation with a lively PPD gentleman (who made sure I knew he was speaking for "men", natch) who accused me of "bullshit and double talk." I legitimately didn't see it. My husband took the day off yest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 04:49 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men here want sexual submissiveness, not actual submissiveness, because that would require responsibility on the man's partThis is the sad sad ballad of the low value male. What I find most intriguing about it as it relates to PPD is these are the guys who will outright post "at" you that they speak for "men" as if we've never been in the presence of high value masculinity let alone with a man of quality. Despite acknowledging women are the higher standard having disqualifiers even. What do they have to contest the real life high expectations of these men who earn it by being high value in return? "Chad" fantasies m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else grew up thinking shared interests were a major cause of attraction?I definitely did, and +1 for not finding it necessary if attraction is there. Now that I think about it the discovery part of a new relationship was always more fun and interesting when our interests were wildly different. It's fun learning about new stuff from someone who is enthusiastically sharing. Especially when you're already into them. It can also lead to how they or you deal with conflict sooner, but that's not a bad thing. I talked about horseback riding and jumping with my husband earl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on datesLol! Edit: You're a pretty swell PPD guy u/reluctantly_red . We don't always agree 100% but you always take a post at its word. You know what you want and what you're out to avoid and I can respect that. Cheers 🍻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on datesHuh? You should take this knee-jerk response to someone who actually said men should pay for how women look "on top of everything else." No woman is going to apologize for looking exactly like what her standard of living can afford + what makes her happy. That's the only type of woman I'm describing. Don't like it? Approach someone your speed browsing the dollar menu at McD's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on datesThis can be chalked up to being up front though too. Women who go to the gym and doctor regularly who like makeup, clothes, and shampoo that doesn't make their hair look and feel like straw are "high maintenance" to some men. It's a way for the guy to avoid that if he's not about that life as much as it is to look great for someone you want to impress. If he's just looking to get laid then it doesn't matter, he's got an agenda where long term isn't a factor. If not though then at least he's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you want to be "the pretty one" in the relationship?I like "pretty" I guess(?) if that means a man with good hygiene who cares about how he looks and gets dressed with intent. But not drawn out routines or androgyny. Most of what my husband does doesn't involve me at all, he doesn't consult me on his choices or compete with me for bathroom time and space. What I do see isn't excessive. I'm not fooled by the packaging anyway, I know exactly how "disgusting" he really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you want to be "the pretty one" in the relationship?+1 on hand maintenance. I do my own nails so I often end up grabbing his hands while we're watching TV or something to push cuticles back or get rid of hangnails. He tolerates it, but will get mock offended if I do my own and ignore his because they're fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 11:23 PM |
| 23 | Men with unhealthy views on women are out of the dating market but women with unhealthy views on men aren't?They're all here doing God's work policing Q4W post answers 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?I thought I was pretty clear last time, this is me leaving nothing to chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?I think trash sitting around is gross*, and I don't mop my floor to leave trash around to potentially leak on. Chores for kids are also about more than doing the task * it's doing your part in the larger family unit. *I THINK, NOT ALL WOMEN THINK. Figured we'd skip your "gotcha" of choice in plain words this time since last time it didn't make itself plain enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes.I explicitly said "it's very positive here" not "all women love x" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Out of all romantic/sexual relationships you've had, how often were you the one who did the initial approach?None, but my relationships grew out of friendships in all but one instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4women. Why do you nag?No. Men do care if a woman is deadweight, you can confirm that on any relationship subreddit as they complain about it and break up over it all the time if reality doesn't serve. How each couple divides and handles things isn't a set standard of value no matter how badly you want it to be. It's very simple: are you doing what you agreed to or slacking? Low value men who are desperate to cling to mediocrity may not care if they objectively do more. Any worthwhile man isn't happily awaiting doorma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4women. Why do you nag?From where I'm sitting I made a general point on the matter, you wanted to get specific on "man pays for everything" scenario without knowing that's my life. I can speak on that and it agrees with the general point I made. We each have responsibility we're beholden to. I not only disagree it's a gender thing, I reject it fully. Any shitty human is capable of being deadweight. Is there some other point you were trying to make? Because it looks like you want to make this a all male responsibility … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Lol yes, lived in experience is absolute bullshit. Another day another LIAR accusation from a man on PPD. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Are we operating under the assumption the man pays for everything? That's just my game! Have you ever run the household of a man who pays for everything and is legitimately too busy to care about day to day stuff? Not videos games, never ending bro downs, or permanently lazy but actually working? I have. You think he doesn't know what it takes to maintain a house, cars, kids, pets, and property? Or doesn't appreciate not having to care? Or that I somehow think less of him for not having to? Or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Father welcomes baby girl, loses wife in the same dayI don't envy him such a terrible choice, all the feels for his situation. Truly awful 😞 But I think he made the "right" choice by his wife. And probably the harder choice, to lose someone you love for someone you don't even know. Just gut wrenching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Women can do this and be happy though, the phrase "holding it down" comes to mind. I know what my responsibilities are, and they aren't a distraction from things I'd rather be doing, they are essential to the functioning of my household. I'm happy when things are humming along without a hitch, this is fulfilling. Many women feel this way it's not unique. If I failed at these things my husband would probably assume I'm sick and pick up my slack because that's what partners who don't take each oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes.It's very positive here! I love it actually. It's a positive sign of self care, especially sunscreen. One thing to think about too is if you're hitting the gym often you're showering often. That shit is drying! Women know this, if they get dumb about it I wholeheartedly endorse shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?He stops what he's doing to take it out. Sometimes it can't be helped, it's nbd to do it myself when that happens. Like if he's at school and I'm cleaning out the fridge and fill it, that's on me. If it's a random Tuesday and he's screwing off on his quad without checking first then he's gonna hear about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Umm okay sweatervest but I'll have you know thats not water coming out, that's a dewy lewk. (I had to, blame r/muacirclejerk) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 06:24 AM |
| 5 | Q4women. Why do you nag?😂😂😂 I literally can't wait for him to prioritize a girl over an expectation. He will, and I'll have to not tease him mercilessly over it. His dad better be ready for it because I'm gonna be lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes.I can totally get behind that, it's very possible it's flexing I don't see! On your Gucci hoodie I probably wouldn't hate it as long as it wasn't paired with 57886 other giant logos 😂 it's definitely a "me" thing, I don't hold others to it but I might tease 'em if we're close. My best friend gets a lil Chanel logo crazy and I definitely poke at her but she gives as good as she gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Q4women. Why do you nag?PREACH. This chore is my son's job at our house. Finding out the trash is full mid meal prep doesn't get an "aww shucks, he's just 10" it gets the "when you don't do your job it impacts more than you and holds up the lunch line" speech. Nobody at his future place of employment will care about his excuses if he fails in a way that impacts them. Neither should his wife if he fails on a set expectation just because. Excuses got to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes.Whatever their reasons are, seeing a guy in <random hoodie/t-shirt combo> and jeans that mostly fit and skin that's seen way too much sun is more common than the other extreme. I hate logos and purposefully avoid, it just feels gross and vulgar. If the thing looks good and is quality then that's what counts! I don't see tailoring potential in items like some people can though, I totally rely on my husband for that lol. Since you bring up China, if you ever go to Thailand they will make the crap … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:32 PM |
| 21 | Q4women. Why do you nag?Nagging usually comes after the discussion. In any case I agree it's not worth it, a guy who isn't good on his word and requires a mommy is a "next" level offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes.Yeah there's a difference between fashion and style. Like skincare though too many "manly men" consider it gay to care or beneath them or whatever block they put up. Regardless of what you're born with there's a bar to entry for higher status jobs and/or quality women. A visual representation that you either know who you are or take yourself seriously is going to get you further than a slob or someone with money and no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 09:25 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes.Very well said +1. I was prepared to disagree with the "show weaknesses sparingly" because I know my husband's, but when it comes up it's usually tied to relief and/or success after the fact not during. On the looks thing, guys tend to give themselves "man points" for stuff that we don't care about or is outright gross. Like calloused hands being manly, so a few hangnails just add to the "manly" right? No. Gross. Nobody is looking to get a snagglesnatch souvenir or have their tits look and feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How should a woman figure out whether a man will be a decent sexual encounter?It all just adds to my lying liar vagina having tendencies! It couldn't possibly be that successful men "man" in different ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)I'm for the Rams and fuck the Patriots. A lot of feels. Watched the Rams knock the Cowboys out at their "World headquarters" in Frisco, TX. The tears, actual literal tears, were glorious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How should a woman figure out whether a man will be a decent sexual encounter?Lol :) I'm so used to being told by men what women are here that seeing 'relatable' is a shock. Then again I don't see any of my husband's characteristics in any except maybe 2 male posters here so 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women love virtuous men, not "moral" menThe best part is all the previously "trp is amoral" people now clamoring that virtue and morality are "liek, the rp sidebar bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Women love virtuous men, not "moral" menI just had a really embarrassing snort laugh ugly noise thing at this 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How should a woman figure out whether a man will be a decent sexual encounter?It's for the best probably, I consider that guy the one glaring mistake of my youth. Avoid! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How should a woman figure out whether a man will be a decent sexual encounter?I gotta disagree. I'm no expert on ons, but the only super R conservative I fucked was the worst and expected me to do everything. Zero intuition or creativity, I gave it 3 tries and was out. Flower children on the other hand have a much MUCH better grasp on pushing boundaries without being jerks and giving you what you need based on observation rather than what porn told them women want. Or what their preacher told them they're good for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 04:52 PM |
| 5 | What's up with how sexual frustation not taken seriously at all unless it happens in a relationship?Yeah man, idk...the dark side of their hivemind is dark. Shit like that is a big part of why people say they hate women. They go from rape pregnancy torture porn stuff to "I just want someone to talk to and cuddle" and expect people to lean in and empathize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 03:30 AM |
| 6 | What's up with how sexual frustation not taken seriously at all unless it happens in a relationship?Oh man you're not missing out, it was wretched. It swung from telling each other rape breeding farms would be awesome to wistful envy of pictures of people hugging. Sex isn't enough for them, they want feels and breeding so they're too good for prostitutes. They don't know or won't hear that every moment as a couple isn't a Nicholas Sparks novel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 03:10 AM |
| 5 | What's up with how sexual frustation not taken seriously at all unless it happens in a relationship?Nobody does but that's not the point. Their fantasy world is a hellscape they can't figure out why nobody will get behind. It's not obvious to them somehow that nobody is willing to replace the reality where incels can get hookers with the rape-ocalypse because a statistically small group of men are virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | "Are you fat? I don't really do fat girls."Fosho me and samosas are super tight. Same with empanadas and dumplings. If it's practically bite size wrapped goodness I'm in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What's up with how sexual frustation not taken seriously at all unless it happens in a relationship?You're not wrong, but I can just picture incels itching to tell women to deal with it if they ever get their rapey Utopia because bodyguards exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | "Are you fat? I don't really do fat girls."Some guys are into that so I didn't touch it lol. Her torn up room is where I got judgy, pick your shit up before selfies dang. I suppose we can make pig jokes for different reasons! Your flair cracks me up btw, my best friend Sungina in junior high introduced me to chicken tikka and Indian tea. It was life changing in the best ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many male friends do you have?Then let's just leave it at good chat, it's entirely possible lines got crossed but I'm on airport pickup slave duty now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many male friends do you have?Your inability to remember your own thread is a Q4W not answered from guyville perspective is not my failure to relax lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Women expect the business market to bend to the same rules as the SMP.The dynamic you mention is a really good point! I haven't worked "corporate" since....2002? Maybe 2003? At the time it was very much about flexing what you knew, and who you knew wasn't broadcast until the "higher up" was sure you weren't a waste of time. Closed door meetings and the like, things that would likely not fly today even though they weren't untoward or unprofessional in content. Mere association was just a major thing in the politics of the time. It would shake down into the "people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many male friends do you have?Well you're a straight guy I'm assuming so imagine not and more to the point: I'm not a straight guy, this was your question, I'm surprised I need to remind you of any of this since it's Q4W by your design. Women talk and share rather than study porn, news at 11. PPD conveniently stupid and prickly as fuck lately jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Women expect the business market to bend to the same rules as the SMP.Lol I do the same thing with mentee, I blame Jimmy Buffet concerts and all the people with parrot and manatee tattoos. I hadn't tied it to the smv but now: lol! Really do think these things are best when they just happen and forcing it is iffy territory. Companies can create a larger group collaborative culture and then maybe more mentors and people not too scared to ask questions or share what they know pairing off will happen on its own. Browbeating them into doing what "women" want or deserve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Women expect the business market to bend to the same rules as the SMP.I've been on both sides of mentor/mentee with men professionally, and it's always been an organically occurring thing without expectation. Men and women who are drawn to the role(s) find themselves there. If anything I'd say forcing it is sketchy, not an absence of it the company culture. Smashing people together at random with an expectation to make each other better when they have no desire to seems pretty risky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How many male friends do you have?All kidding aside, the gayborhood is a magical place for straight women. If you're tagged in by gay guy friends, you're gonna learn things. They can and enthusiastically do tie absolutely everything to what it does for their dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: How many male friends do you have?Yes. One cuts my hair and the other cuts my husband's, then we go brunch in the gayborhood and laugh with our mimosa flute pinkies out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How many male friends do you have?2, they're a gay couple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Are introverted and inexperienced women missing out?Getting with an extrovert who is enough fun to get over yourself solves that problem. Edit: ooohh did I poke a early 20's femcel whose got it all figured out in the feels? Fun. I'm an introvert with no chill with an extrovert who is fun enough to get over myself. Opposites attract, etc. Groundbreaking stuff I know ☕ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | "Are you fat? I don't really do fat girls."My thoughts are why do people broadcast their shame and that "sexy" selfies taken in a room that looks like a tornado hit it are literally trashy as hell. Nothing says fuck me like showing off your rat's nest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | "Are you fat? I don't really do fat girls."That was my reaction too, her need to broadcast her shame is what's gross not her weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Differences in eating habits between men and womenI'm an unrepentant food snob, but I suffered for it having to learn how to cook for myself on short notice when I moved out. My mom cooked all the time, but I was busy as a kid so I only really helped during the holidays when she went big and had parties. Not exactly life lessons in how to feed yourself day to day. My dad's business is heavily tied to restaurants so we went to openings and stuff like that a lot. Overall though we grew up with the idea of food as fuel, so we didn't have gogurts a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Incentives for women to learn relationship skills (anger phase rants)Yeah when I was growing up it was a splotch of red in the blue that is SoCal, not sure how true that is anymore. Though those "values" come into conflict when combined with money often. I don't live there anymore no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What part of redpillwomen is the 'hard to swallow' part? Here's what I think about the name, and tradition family units.No worries! I'm not RP so the 2 rp "truths" came with an explanation. That "education doesn't enhance attractiveness" and "men need respect." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Men: Under what circumstances will you enter a relationship with a woman?Yeah it's the same actor. I love Guillermo Del Toro's whole aesthetic but....that movie was just 😂🐟🍆💦🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Men: Under what circumstances will you enter a relationship with a woman?People seem to either love it or hate it. I'm a hater, but I won't spoil it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Men: Under what circumstances will you enter a relationship with a woman?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 06:39 AM |
| 4 | Men: Under what circumstances will you enter a relationship with a woman?That's not a hypothetical woman, that's Shape of Water with tits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Incentives for women to learn relationship skills (anger phase rants)Hahahaha that author never met my Dad. Grew up in OC Cali, was not allowed to do a lot of the standard external motivation things. He called the dance team at my school (who were legit) "a bunch of precocious pageant dolls" and forbade it fully 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Married and divorced men of PPD--red, blue or other....Lol. He put on a good show so we didn't know what to expect. Remained quite jolly throughout the divorce. He's still with his 2nd wife who is way more fun and pretty hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Married and divorced men of PPD--red, blue or other....My brother felt the same way fwiw. His first wife blew the fuck up after their second kid and was generally confrontational and tedious. I got into it with her as a 14yr old because their daughter kept asking me to braid her hair of all things! I put it off forever and when I finally did she wanted to stop half way through so she could go watch a cartoon. I told her no, she had asked me to do it forever and I was almost done anyway. Well his wife heard and flipped out like I'd told her she could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Married and divorced men of PPD--red, blue or other....I love you but I'm not in love with you - I think 😞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 11:45 PM |
| 3 | What part of redpillwomen is the 'hard to swallow' part? Here's what I think about the name, and tradition family units.I finished college (UC school) in 2003 pregnant nearly the full year. I started in girl power mode doing it for myself with enthusiasm. When I got married and pregnant I was still doing it for myself. I was not poor, struggling, in bad health, or lazy. There was no cause for actual concern. Yet the loudest judgers and naysayers were my female professors. I went from doing TA work and field studies with them to getting disappointed comments and side eye. One day I got told I couldn't go to a fiel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | What part of redpillwomen is the 'hard to swallow' part? Here's what I think about the name, and tradition family units.On top of that, if people are happy they assume their way is the best way and it will stay like that forever obviously. It's typically engaged or unattached people asserting this so hard you can picture the sweat on their brow. Put 5, 10,15 years on that and get back to me with the relationship success of extreme rigidity. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: it's time to retire the "revenge fantasy" deflection tacticI never said they were homicidal psycho maniacs obsessed with violent revenge fantasies. And if I did, the response would be "They're just phase 2 calm down" so there's no point. Outlets for what you're being critical of exist for men, with naked women being filmed for their viewing pleasure even. I don't see them rising up in anger any time soon that it isn't being glorified for the masses if they can't even get their boy Elliot Rodger's manifesto a nuanced glance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: it's time to retire the "revenge fantasy" deflection tacticWhy would "men" need it in their fiction when they already have it in their porn? You think they're passing on Jailbait slut gang rape BBD 5 or whatever because it wasn't at Cannes this year? Elliot Rodger's manifesto was all over the internet and discussed at length. Nothing about him was compelling enough to make a feature film over obviously or it would've happened. Go ask the manosphere why they didn't rally and make a production company for this cultural gem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men...The excuse really depends on the "pill" they subscribe to but there are many. I'm up way too late because of a different time zone phone call and have no chill when sleep deprived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 09:46 AM |
| 2 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men...I know they work, but the guys here bitch about it all the time like talking to a laydee person like a human instead of a hole is a fate worse than death that we'll all never understand. Suggesting making friends with more successful guys is somehow also teaching the controversy too 🤔 I totally agree they have no idea how socializing works! Though when I see the top comment (at the time) says make friends with those more successful guys, but mine was posted first, it just proves the point. Take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 09:29 AM |
| 4 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men...Exactly, idk why this is a difficult concept for some. Cold approaches suck, but making friends is too hard? Do they really think talking their way into a woman's pants is easier than broing it up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 09:05 AM |
| 2 | In defense of Chad and women's sexual preference.Shots fired! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men...It could turn out that way sure, but people make new friends all the time. College is a rotating cast of people at different events, and who you know can be the difference between "Ew, another random" or "Ohhh you're so and so's friend, right?" Edit: I just saw I missed the "post" on the post-uni part! Derp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 04:32 AM |
| 5 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men..."I have next to zero female friends" Based on his own words who is he going to date within a social circle that includes next to zero females? Expanding his social circle to include people who do seems like an obvious course of action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 04:26 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.I'm sorry I couldn't help you with your gay quota | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.It's true, I'm gay for head shrinking. AWALT for trophies, especially the necklace kind! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 04:11 AM |
| 2 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men...Those beta soyboys are hanging out with women who party. You want to know them. Expanding your social circle to include guys with female friends and coed social lives can only be a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 04:03 AM |
| 2 | 'Dating is easiest within a social circle' - well that's challenging when most women don't hang out with hetero men...Befriend the guy(s?), ignore the girls, watch them wonder if you're gay until they can't stand it and come to you. You may not get laid immediately but it's practice and different than what you're doing. But if they're out partying being noticed is expected. They'll either not care, get butthurt, or get curious and 2/3 outcomes involve talking to you. It is safer to hang out with gay guys and soyboys, they're a meatshield that won't try to fuck us. Maybe also good judges of guys who approach, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 03:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.True enough lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 03:43 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.Well peg my mouth and turn my face inside out, I just had to have a punchline explanation linked. That literal trophy interpretation, you're a Savage Salty Bastard! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 03:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.Well now you have to start that conversation! What is Tsantsa? The MSM/FSM rabbit hole got a little too real, I need a break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.And if they don't outright flirt they'll talk some kind of pussy-whipped shit as a "joke" just to see if he turns into a sputtering mess of denial. Or worse, owns it proudly while making puppy dog eyes at her to acknowledge he's such a good boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 02:27 AM |
| 3 | If a man leaves the seat up and a woman falls in, who is responsible?I've seen some of them, I agree oddly addicting lol. Mink are hardcore, it's very much like falconry it seems. A relationship built primarily on the human having food utility as a way to not get fucked up for expecting natural behavior on call 😂 Sort of kidding! One of my friends in Canada rehabs them. She gets super pissed about fur farm do gooders opening cages and running. Most of the mink get caught because they're clueless, some die slow deaths, etc. It's disruptive, but doesn't save the mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 02:10 AM |
| 2 | How normies usually escalate/chat with women?As long as he knows he has to! Whether it's just to increase his chances or avoid an accusation, discomfort with it isn't enough of a reason to avoid it. Awkward > accusation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 01:57 AM |
| 18 | CMV: It is better to marry an uneducated/unemployed beautiful woman than an average looking career woman.According to rabbit hole I'm currently down on the MSM, a woman doesn't boost your status all that much. If she's hot, you have the respect of the men in the room already, and it's assumed your fucking her it's a slight boost. A trophy, a demonstration of your own (and known) worth. If she's way hotter than you and nobody knows who you are the confusion it creates doesn't elevate you. It could even hurt you as people will likely assume it's a glitch in the matrix that's going to bite you in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | How normies usually escalate/chat with women?Glad you worked it out :) Increased sensitivity and leading to a more dramatic response totally makes sense, I think most people would get that. If he's got a severe reaction he's going to need to come up with a way to warn her or explain it. It would be pretty terrible for all involved if a flail was mistaken for a smack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How normies usually escalate/chat with women?What does "I really struggle with physical contact" mean? You don't like being touched or touching other people? If you don't like being touched, what's the severity of your reaction? Do you act like the toucher is gross and recoil or screech or start slap fighting or what? Because all of the above are going to kill any chance you manage to create. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityAhhh okay, our lines got crossed! I agree on ostracizing and would personally jump on the ridicule bandwagon. Outside the system punishments would be great for child molesters too. I do agree with skepticism and wouldn't argue against the benefits of it societally when it comes to crime and punishment. Only if it veers into cynicism masquerading as skepticism would it be questionable. For clarity's sake I'll include the definition of cynicism I mean from the Oxford English Dictionary: “A person … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityWhat punishments outside of the Justice System do you suggest? My post didn't go into a comprehensive evaluation of the system as it is because nothing you said warranted that. It would also take longer than I have. Your response was that belief is enough when I said anger is a powerful motivator. It was brief enough that I don't think I misunderstood but 🤷 The obvious response is to highlight why anger is useful, and rather than feels I used a case relevant to the topic. The judge doesn't need … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityI wouldn't say it speeds up due process, more like it doesn't hinder it with expressions of doubt. It was easy to believe Brock Turner sexually assaulted a woman because of evidence and eye witnesses. Justice was assured, express disgust and sit back to watch due process play out. Except for the Judge Aaron Persky, who just didn't see it that way and gave him 6 months out of a possible 14 years. In actuality he served 3 months because he was a good boy who managed to not assault anyone while ser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityWe agree on the potential pain factor for sure. If we could get our collective shit together and address things without needing to go to extremes that would be great. Now we're stuck in this morass of regulating while not minimizing the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityI said it badly, I mean anger adds a sense of urgency to the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.Wow I cannot imagine having 6 kids period let alone by 26! She sounds tough as hell. I wish I'd known mine. All my grandparents were insufferable snobs but one, they were a sorry replacement for tough as hell types with fantastic stories. How old were you for your first marriage? You've got good stories I bet! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | If a man leaves the seat up and a woman falls in, who is responsible?Lol true! Hybrids require a lot of stimulation or they turn into assholes, luckily they're highly food motivated! I had the bright idea to tie a frozen rat to yarn to run him ragged figuring it would last long enough to get the job done. That little shit bit straight through it! I've upped my game since then. It's all about guinea pigs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Passionately Kissing > Sex when it comes to assessing a woman’s raw sexual desire.Also this post reminded me of a quote from 'A Wise Man's Fear'. It was a male teacher using being an overeager idiot with girls to describe why smart doesn't equal success in matters of finesse. "I am trying to wake your sleeping mind to the subtle language the world is whispering. I am trying to seduce you into understanding. I am trying to teach you.” He leaned forward until his face was almost touching mine. “Quit grabbing at my tits.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Passionately Kissing > Sex when it comes to assessing a woman’s raw sexual desire.Agreed. Making out with someone you're attracted to is vetting. If it ain't good no reason to escalate to the D. And you don't need to be isolated with grand expectations practically assured. There's generally a graceful exit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityWhat you're saying is logical, but anger is a powerful motivator in people. I would argue especially men. It triggers an urgency to act. The skepticism has always been present, it's the follow through that's lacking. Whether a man views believe her and/or metoo as women saying "we've been hurt and angry about this for a long time, be angry about this with us." Or a blatant manipulation depends on his already established pov probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Believe all women VS Treat women with equalityI agree with you on the extreme pendulum swing, but would like to point out that's what it took to get any traction on recognizing and giving attention to the issue. Lesser measures didn't work. Why are only extremes effective? I'm leaning towards the "powers that be" being generally old and male, they were comfortable with how things were because they liked it. They didnt know how to squash the awareness boost granted from social media because vcr timers were hard for them. It's the simplest an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What is your definition of being "too needy" when it comes to dating or relationships?We're the same. It's silly shit with no pressure to respond but it usually goes somewhere lolstupid, dark, or disgusting. Basically everything we wouldn't share or say in front of our kids lol. Though I will say it's annoying as hell when we can make fun of some Darwinism death in the news in a rapid fire way, but then something serious comes up only he can answer and radio silence. That holding pattern has rage timer for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Sleeping with guys before "officially" datingI saw no mention of the weight loss benefits of a steady diet of captain cummies* which made me doubt RPW. Creeped the profile, he's an INFJ poet philosopher come to drop wisdom on dense lady plebes. Better or worse than RPW? I can't decide. I hope that wasn't TMI teehee I'm so bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | The Wall is a Class IssueFunny how the description of "low class behavior" fits UC so well. Educated men with money and options marry early 20 something's every day there. It's a sign of legitimacy, which is somehow indicative of "low class" behavior how? Married people are now the decaying rot of communities who don't understand obligation? Or is that only when "poor people" do it? None of this makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping with guys before "officially" datingIt was kind of like this before online dating just flipped. Sex was serious and vetting was the long casual process. You were dating and technically with the person you were having sex with. The lesser "fwb" role was someone you met and clicked with, attraction made that friendship a low key vetting process. There was no reason to wait to have sex because the getting to know you stuff was already handled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 04:38 PM |
| 2 | How cognizant are you of the amount of eye contact you give to men?It depends on the environment and my mood. A strange place or somewhere for a purpose I'm eyes front and disregarding randoms. Random stuff about town, eye contact and polite surface level pleasantries don't bother me at all. Parties, concerts, etc, randoms are part of the fun, and it's never gotten creepy or gross. So far anyway. My resting bitch face game is strong and I have no shame though, if someone came at me like a freak they'd find I'm good for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.I get that, there's no guarantees when it comes to people. Even the ones you make! It's a risky endeavor there's truly no shame in choosing not to have them. A great grandma at age 52?! That sounds daunting but also kind of badass. I'm biased though kid at 22 cough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The Wall is a Class IssueThat's a rare and special thing to see on Reddit considering how this place generally feels about kids! I'm sure lots of moms feel the same. Though I think in her case I was more of a gestational 3D printer than a pregnant woman because she is her dad down to her bones 😂 And because this is PPD, I should come clean and admit she knew to use boys for their resources from the time she could crawl. AWALT, etc. (/s) http://imgur.com/a/wNs8huy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 03:59 PM |
| 3 | The Wall is a Class IssueShe is, I would relive that forever to know her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | The Wall is a Class IssueNope I am the gingeriest of the gingers, but I sometimes have truer dark red lowlights put in because it contrasts better with green eyes. That color theory college class was good for something! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The Wall is a Class IssueI think it may have been before the pain tolerance thing was known, but I'm not sure when that was discovered. I remember first hearing about it and feeling vindicated, when I was very young I had to have cartilage bits vacuumed out of my knees and the doctor then went so far as to assume I had a sensory processing disorder because I should've been more bothered by them way before it got to cartilage vacuuming lol. Thinking about this is bringing back fun memories! What else...me and my cousins … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The Wall is a Class IssueIt's cool, but also shitty. The bad part is that pain is often the first sign something is wrong and is pretty useful in that way. The worst was the epidural I had for my first kid completely didn't work, and none of the hospital staff believed me. I got the natural childbirth I never wanted! A week after going home I had a bad hemorrhage due to a small piece of placenta being left behind. A huge blood clot had formed around it, and was big enough to block the bleeding. One day I moved in a way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What should marriage-strategy be for someone who REALLY wants to scheme/plan/strategize, REALLY wants to think long-term, and REALLY wants to optimize their big-picture life-results (get the BEST spouse they possibly can and OPTIMIZE their potential)?I'd go to a different doctor, the "normal" range is huge so the decision making on their part seems discretionary or on the whim of their preferences. If you have symptoms and room to elevate the numbers safely then it's worth a shot. I'm a woman, but my hormones have been monitored for years now by a doc who actively looks to keep them in the top 25% of normal. So far I supplement thyroid and testosterone to stay in that bracket despite technically having normal levels. It can be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.No, it doesn't. Sigh. It's almost more fun to watch the show when the older one is over it and the younger one thinks spraying them with the hose for their annoyed attitude won't get him put ass first into a soapy bucket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.True, and I'm sorry to hear it. I get it more than it seems because my husband's mom was the same way with him and I've heard about it in depth. He acted like his dad more than resembled him, and that made her rage because they were on the outs for years before they finally got divorced. She was able to hide her crazy well because his dad was a workaholic. He also is not crazy about his mom, and is pretty short to downright rude to her. He really likes his stepmom though. I guess now that I thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | If a man leaves the seat up and a woman falls in, who is responsible?shudder stuff of nightmares. I have a ferret/polecat hybrid that would love it though, he thinks water is fun and rats are delicious! http://imgur.com/a/Fj4qg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.Lol I'm stealing that! Have the same problem though. In the past 4 months my almost 11yr old has shot up to nearly as tall as his almost 16yr old sister. It's insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A "Career Woman" would be one of the worst type of people to date.When I see this topic come up it totally makes me laugh at myself and what the future holds. My husband and I both worked until our oldest was in 6th or 7th grade, I can't remember. Just that her opportunities had massively expanded, plus having a 6yr old sibling, and all the day to day stuff, it made sense for one of us to be home. It's not daytime tv and chocolate I can say that much. Also that he was sure as hell not going to quit his job, it's his dream job that we moved out of state for and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.I wasn't either, but I've always liked kids a lot. That changed with my husband, but it was a future thing I wanted to put off. Then I became a Depo failure statistic lol. At 22 no less! It definitely messed up my imagined timeline. In all honesty I'd probably have been a mess if my husband and family was anything less than "fuck yeah!" over it. We weren't struggling and it was going to happen anyway, so it was a celebratory thing even though I was not initially on board with the party. But now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 8 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.Child labor force is the best! Make those monkeys wash the cars while mom and dad...hug vigorously 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etcI appreciate the response, it's refreshing to hash out an opposing view with someone who doesn't have a giant chip on their shoulder. Using misogyny as a delivery mechanism I could get if it began and ended at shattering the Disney lady pedestal. I'd never "like" it, but for the intended audience and purpose I get it, grudgingly. The problem is when some of these guys internalize and broadcast this view for all women all the time and broadcast a delivery mechanism as some kind of irrefutable hat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Something RP and BP should agree on; childfree is the way to go.This isn't my experience at all having kids. We never had attraction issues, our kids make us happy, and happy people are getting it on. Our sex life is r/thathappened at times to me, and I was there! Privacy is easy if you set boundaries, it's not a hurdle unless you're spineless and get into power struggles with tiny humans. The reasons not to have kids are valid, but not set in stone. Your situation being what you make it very much applies. If anything I'd argue not settling on who you marry … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 04:07 PM |
| 3 | If a man leaves the seat up and a woman falls in, who is responsible?What I really want to know that's toilet blame adjacent is: if a man dares you to eat the million scoville rating hot sauce and ratchets up the "prize" for if you do until you'd be an idiot for saying no, is it his responsibility that your butthole is now a phoenix that's been reborn 3 times? Asking for a friend! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 02:24 AM |
| 7 | If a man leaves the seat up and a woman falls in, who is responsible?Droppin' bowl knowledge from the grave, can't let that wisdom fade away ✊ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 02:13 AM |
| 2 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”IT'S TOO LATE FOR ME, DO IT! Frankly I'm a lil pissed at myself for not having gummy-cummies at the ready for my alfalfa-est male child's middle name. The plates should know the important things up front, that's just responsible and not weird at all. I am a failbot womyn. Also I'm glad you're back! I made a purge week dingleberry of a "friend" so I switched accounts and isolate this one to PPD and silly stuff. LooksSafeFromFarAway is decommissioned for the mental health of said friend 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 02:09 AM |
| 8 | If a man leaves the seat up and a woman falls in, who is responsible?I'm pretty sure reading that made my urethra clench, I didn't know that was possible! Seriously rethinking my toilet habits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”Omg I can't even... "Huni if you're just sucking his dick of course he's mad and probably has a gf or 3 on the side! You have to tell him his cummies taste like gummy bears and skip dinner because you're just soooo full. You'll be back to your pre-wall apron size in no time ♥️ Try it, you'll thank me 🧸💦" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etcI knew it was too reasonable in some way! That's not a dig at you, more of an lol@myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etcI'll check out your link later, I'm about to be in kid chauffeur mode. The offense isn't that I'm not the target audience, I have considered it. It's how much and how often the target audience dips enthusiastically into pointed and purposeful misogyny. I get the whole "toolbox" analogy and understand a lot of men use rp principles in that way. But the revulsion for the ones who don't is real, even if ultimately pointless. The real learning in this consideration is figuring out where the high con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 09:41 PM |
| 3 | What are you willing to sacrifice for a partner?At this point the harder question is what wouldn't I do/sacrifice for my partner. That sounds all kinds of Mary Sue lame, I realize that. After nearly 20 years together he's consistently been who he said he would be, and every decision along the way has been with the larger goals of the family in mind. I don't feel like sacrificing ever became a suffering contest or stomping all over the other person's needs and ambitions. Sacrifice to me has power connotations on the surface, but if you're "in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”Dear God lol 😂 I lurk, and it makes me feel like a pig snorting through shit for truffles often. I know that's on me because of a perspective difference though so I don't participate or rain on that parade. It's really weird not having a problem with what they want to offer (do you boo) but the mental torture they go through and what they're encouraged to give up and tolerate tests sanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 08:46 PM |
| 8 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etcAre you an endorsed contributor to trp? You should be, your ability to make sense of what I often find revolting makes me vaguely uncomfortable. I like it +1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”Ahhhh that rings a bell. She's pretty practical and straightforward without endorsing doormat status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 08:37 PM |
| 5 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”As a lurker I agree. I've very nearly rage posted at the first 2 over the heavy ick factor surrounding all of their advice and input. I can't recall anything luckylilstar has posted, but Whisper doesn't make my eyes bleed and brain melt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 08:25 PM |
| 13 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etcResponses like this makes rp sound downright reasonable. I'm beginning to think my manosphere irritation lies mostly with incels and angry mgtow's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 08:20 PM |
| 2 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”Yeah that age gap is pretty big, I don't blame you. My advice would be to go mid 20's where possible, someone just old enough to be nearing the end of flagrant sex (if they're so inclined) and hopefully with enough maturity and/or wisdom to know what he wants in someone besides sex. I gotta be honest, at 20 the most compelling thing about a person outside of their looks tends to be potential rather than achievement. You just haven't had enough time yet to rack up a list of adult goals met. Which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’?Reality doesn't agree with the notion of people advertising what they are right off the bat and people being perfectly calibrated to pick up on and deal with it flawlessly. That's not an opinion, it's known. Acknowledging that and backing it up with personal experience is an emotional argument to you, which means you need to believe what you do for whatever your personal reasons are, which makes debate pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | “Well, in the future I’d like something serious, just not right now.”What age range are these men not looking for something serious, and how are you meeting them? Online, in person? If they're early 20's too they probably really aren't looking for serious, and if they aren't into monogamous relationships online dating is probably netting them good results in no strings attached sex. If you're up front about no sex before commitment with men who can get laid easily elsewhere you're setting a high bar for yourself as well as them. Is your reason for waiting religio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What have you learnt throughout your 20s?I learned about people outside the "bubble" of my own experience. It was a gut check and forced a change in quickness to label. It was also practical experience in vetting, I could understand a perspective and not endorse it. It's okay to reject what doesn't jive well with you in friends let alone partners. Unlike your teens it doesn't need to be a big show either, you're not trapped in the fishbowl that is a hs campus so it's nbd. The flip side though is you can make excellent friends and do st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’?It reminded me a lot of the thread asking if they'd warn a close female relative about dating an rp man or some such thing. This type were all trying to outdo themselves in saying "not if she's a slut" "women don't listen, not worth it" and "she's obviously stupid, get pumped and dumped." The woman I worked with was an eye opener, it was my first "real" job. She was very soft spoken and the 3 super bitches of the office were all talking shit on her non-stop because all the guys there lurked arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’?Yeah that's the only reason I posted it. I wasn't looking to debate what is known but I didn't see it included in the responses at the time. Damaged people looking to hurt and take advantage of others don't come with labels, male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’?I really wanted to stay out of this thread because so many of the replies are manosphere revenge fantasies with no basis in reality. If you've ever worked with abused kids or in women's shelters, you'd know how stupid the fantasy is no matter how good it feels. "Bad boys" don't wear signs. They aren't all hanging out luring only those "bitches who deserve it." Very often they're white collar "good" guys. They want what every man inclined to relationships wants. A high quality woman. They will di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’?Goddamn. 💯👏 Edit: above times a million, butthurt feels over this of all things brighten my Monday "hun" 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys who do not have abundance mentality in happy relationshipsThey may not have it in the sense that they can fuck anyone at anytime or some great peace with the idea "she's not mine, it's just my turn." But they can definitely have it in the sense that they deserve the good things and people in their life, and being genuinely happy for other people who have good things. It's not a guaranteed loss of attraction to be easy going and content in this way because that's someone who appreciates that effort earned the good results they currently enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of male feminists?I've been married to my husband for 16 years, together 18. We're on a sort of staycation until Monday, he brought his laptop to the hotel and has been on it off and on because yesterday we mostly did our own thing. He was supposed to be catching a nap while I went to the spa, but instead I got this text: "Check socmed before crawling under the covers and resting, what could possibly go wrong? Oh hey, a racist troll trying to throw up the white supremacy argument as a way of trying to explain tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herShe's saying her posts are unified in the complete denial of men as caring and complex beings. I mean she's wrong, but she also hangs out in places where it's most likely to be true and is in her own echo chamber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herFor the record my contribution as a woman on this sub is that hotness > status > money. We can and often do out-earn men, status runs the risk of some seriously shit personalities, but hotness? That is the gift that keeps on giving. Bonus: pretty people with great personalities exist. Winning! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?You tried to high and mighty slut shame me out of ignorance, got caught, and when I provided all the ammo for you to come at me from a place of knowledge you doubled down on being a squirmy shitweasel. I'd pretend I'm drunk if I were you too rather than this sad display of rubbing shit all over yourself rather than wiping the shit off your shoe after stepping in it. This is such a sad novelty of an interaction. Are you a guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?I'm confused by you as well. Men don't care about women's standards despite evidence to the contrary both here and in rl? It will remain a mystery as I'm in travel hell. You said "I don't know what men you know" in your previous post re: what "men" want. I told you the kind I know want more than that. They create an environment where it is given rather than demanded. Pretty straightforward I thought given the whole concept of "frame" but 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?That's a lot of words to say "I wanted to call you a slut because it's easy and generally accepted here, my bad." My response made perfect sense acknowledging the miniscule possibility you weren't trying to play dumb "slut" games. But you were, color me shocked. I'm truly tickled that you DoNt UnNeRstAnd EnGriSh when it comes to women with non garbage men and male influences in their lives. Even when it agrees with RP, I mean are you really shocked I'm attracted to and fuck hot, or just jelly of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?Yeah yeah, TRP is a "toolbox" and "amoral." It's devotees are very often the drawback just like religion. The men I know want more from life than that, and create an environment conducive to getting what they want. They want it in exchange for commitment much less marriage rofl. Something something frame. It's interesting you think men don't give a shit about women's standards. You lot on PPD do go on and on about them if the best of PPD is any indication 🤷 http://imgur.com/a/M5A18ch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?I guess it was slightly open to interpretation, but if you wanted to comment accurately you would've asked for clarification before jumping to what "you" thought it was important "I" know. Here let me help you. I had parents that were present and are still together. A dad that didn't groom me to be some idiots mommy-slut, and a mother that made sure I grew up knowing such cringe gems as "don't ever eat or have sex because you're bored" and "Watch out for only children and absolutely no men of si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?True, but it's when the norms are defied that trp goes batshit rationalizing it as hard as they can back to the fucked up nature of women. Even if it's something men swear up and down that they want women to do like "lower their standards." Edit: to be fair, it's incel/MGTOW's I see doing this more than trp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?Is it promiscuity to only have sex with who you're very attracted to in a monogamous setting? I love how a woman's standards always boil down to "whore" here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?Yes, exactly! And they look at it like she must be ugly or broken or fundamentally flawed in some way. Not "my standard in the area (finances) has been met, other factors take priority." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 10 | Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception?I wasn't worried about money either, rp would still point out the endless hypergamy of only banging people I found exceptionally hot. Actually like the guy? Doesn't matter to them. It's a no win thing. As a woman you're either gold digging or soullessly shallow. They tell you taking the pill is "accepting" it, but lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Men are more attractive than women. CMVBut do they shape them like true dick connoisseurs? Do they know dick molds are a thing? Come to think of it our gay friends are dudes. This is some bullshit. Bring on the lesbian arts and crafts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Men are more attractive than women. CMVGive a woman a marble block and she'll chisel out ass, tits and vagina. HAH! The jokes on you buddy! I don't have any marble laying around but I won the great Snow Dick neighborhood war of 2015! It hasn't snowed since or there'd be new dicks on a few cars. Checkmate athetits! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Men are more attractive than women. CMVConfused?? Lmao I'm so not confused about what I'm attracted to and who I want that I don't comment on a lot of topics as an outlier. C'mon. Don't start with assuming every woman here is a wide eyed ingenue with born yesterday perspectives on everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are more attractive than women. CMVWhere are all the non-frigid, exclusively heterosexual women? Here. It's not like we don't say so when applicable. I don't even see as much bisexuality as you describe tbh, but I don't really care so maybe that's a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 06:59 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowLegend has it that the cats of Alpha Widows are the spirit guides to Mr High Value's sex lair. In hilarious twist of fate they appear as unicorns do, to only the highest SMV virgins. "And the pussy shall lead the...pussy unto her undoing, but fear no dickings, for as she is weak she cannot help herself. The wetness below shall only be outdone by the wetness above, as 100% of wymyn require tears and spit and confusion to get off. Lo does she then cum hard, and is discarded as is her role." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 06:41 PM |
| 10 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowa guy is ‘hot and valuable’ (as defined by themselves) Mr High Value according to men of PPD is forged from the internal molten mechanism of the very center of the planet, launched from a volcano eruption (totally not a secks thing, it's hard as hell not gay ok??) whereupon the men who view him tremble with envy, and alllll the women sluts fight to sit on his dick. He doesn't age or "want things" from life, he has his choice of holes and that's all Mr High Value needs. At the exact time of his c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Ahhh so it's an open marriage arrangement I take it? One of our couple friends does that as well, the guy has a much easier time of it than the woman! They don't lie about their married status, and women don't seem to care as much as men. Go figure lol. Your choice of words is interesting to me, when you say "girlfriend", do you mean you date her and whatnot rather than just fuck? Near the end you use "fwb" for other women so I'm curious about what the difference in status means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Guy is concerned with how he is making his girlfriend upset and gets called "manipulative".In that situation, the top response is correct to me but requires more context to not look overblown. I think it's pretty normal to have levels of "care" commensurate with how close you are to someone. If I was in a store picking out (whatever non emergency item) with a friend that said they felt sick or had a migraine coming on, I'd ask if they want to leave. If they need anything from the store like advil or ginger ale or something. Their declining state would take priority over the non emerge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?haha I remember guys talking about the girlie makeout obsession in hs, I did not get it because I didn't see it in action. Graduated in 98, stepped on a college campus and was like "oh.." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?That sounds like what I'd expect in a sharing scenario that isn't polyamory or a formal agreement. A sneaky thing that burns one or all in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Like full time live in sharing or ships that pass in the night sharing? I'm honestly curious, it's incredibly far from my own experience(s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?"some sort of education" for a "marketable skill" = / = college at the institution you probably have all picked out for the sake of creating an argument on something that's conveniently a matter of opinion. Think what you will on the thirst of men and the shrewdness of women I'm totally fine with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV- What women like in terms of a mans body is not attainable for a lot of men.Lol that's dark, but as long as you're laughing at the abyss 👍 Anything I say beyond that will sound trite and lame, so I'll just stress my original triteness: we all have flaws, whaddaya gonna do? Gym anyway! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?My husband will in one breath comment on how all our pets will be old or dead by the time our kids are gone like that's celebratory; and in the next baby talk the shit out of them. He's usually got an animal in his hoodie taking a nap while home. Or he's bear hugging our big ass dog while giving her treats. I'm like sure dude, you're really looking forward to not having them. But I keep the knowledge that he's a sappy sucker to myself because it's pretty cute to watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV- What women like in terms of a mans body is not attainable for a lot of men.You can rationalize not doing anything if you try hard enough. Otherwise, accept the gym you is a better version of you and that is a worthy goal in itself. Those thicc girls squatting? Super hot, will never be me. Still gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Uh-oh... are you posting from a plane that left Boston?! If so, you're still dumb for wearing a Rams hat there lol. Seriously though pet life is the best life, I grew up in a museum where anything but my mom's purse dog was strictly verboten. My husband didn't even get the purse dog. We're making up for our sterile childhoods lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Wow lol, I was interested in genealogy for awhile but there was nobody as interesting as that in my family tree! Was this in the US or elsewhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Whoooaaaaaa there's more to this story, spill! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Lmao that would be the best neighbor! I can imagine your dog wasn't thrilled though. Outdoor Pyr's totally smell gamey, the first time I came across them was on a friends ranch who had cows, horses, and sheep. It's pretty rural so coyotes are the main threat. She said catching them for vet visits is a pain in the ass lol. My Pyr is a indoor one, she rules the backyard for bathroom breaks but that's about it. Her bark when the coyotes are out and about is pretty intense though, she doesn't play. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Me. We have a prenup for premarital assets, assuming it's honored I wouldn't be stopped in doing what I want. Funny story about bucolic retreats though, when my husband and I met I was in college with roommates. I think he thought that was out of necessity rather than choice. I grew up in a noisy house full of people and didn't want to live alone. Moving to my solo college bucolic retreat when my roommates decided hookup and then break up with tons of drama was an eye opener for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?She's seriously one of my favorite posters. We obviously wouldn't share a man but I'd share a goat with her! Her funny and Atlas' rage are the high points of PPD for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I 100% agree. I've seen it asked before if prostitution is a turn off for women when it comes to a man they're interested in. It's not for me if the man in question is too busy for entanglements. Prostitutes aren't ghosts of girlfriends past that's for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Exactly, but if the choices were harem or ho, ho wins imo. Both are presumably fueled by what the man provides but one allows freedom so is the obvious better option for the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:25 PM |
| 10 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Maybe the dumb, fuglies, or hopeless, but not "women." It's already been said but bears repeating: any modern woman 5+ with an internet connection can sugarbaby her way through some sort of education, gain a marketable skill, and not be tied to this situation. There is no upside to this scenario for those of us who prefer monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:16 PM |
| 15 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I guess all of the women here who disagree have alien DNA. We're space unicorns, the secret is out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?The only exceptions I'd acknowledge is out and proud polygamists and polyamorous women. But, since the OP was about what we as individual women would accept that is my answer. A shared dick in my view is a novelty, a blip, a gag bit in the joke that is dating. It inspires nothing but passing amusement and arouses no "sisterhood" feelings in me. What I'm saying is I do not want commitment from the owner of the dick, nor friendship from female participants. I reject this scenario utterly as lifelo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?My PPD account profile pic celebrates this 😂. Who shares men when there's "MAN" wine? It was a white elephant gift exchange, that "man" knew he was the prize. Edit: Strictly gag gift worthy. It did not validate my need to taste top tier wine and activated my vino hypergamy immediately 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?I have a "pocket Pyr" right now, she's only 75lbs. I'd like a pack of the full on behemoth Pyrenees but it would have to be in an outdoor space. Mostly because I'd love having goats and they're livestock guardian dogs. Man. I'd watch goats all day and hang out with my giant dogs and call it a life well lived. I'm allergic to cats so no cat island for me 😢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?My house is a zoo. I hadn't thought of it as prep for when my husband inevitably trades up when I splat on the wall until now! Really though if we split or something it would be 1) get the kids grown up 2) hermit life in the mountains with a shit ton of pets and the ginormous Great Pyrenees I've always wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?LOL, I totally read this in Eeyore's voice. "I'll deal with the shits and try again tomorrow, nobody will notice if I succeed anyway." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men chase, women choose, men are chosen, men are the prizeOP should clarify that a man's load isn't the entirety of the prize from a woman's pov judging by some of the responses. It's a whole package thing. It's very possible to bust a nut in or on a willing woman who doesn't view the guy as a prize worth gaining commitment from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men chase, women choose, men are chosen, men are the prizeI've seen her come to that conclusion when finding a bizarro-world need by a male user here to be a passive object of desire. Too much porn + wishful thinking regarding who should initiate makes some guys wish they could replace reality with a femme fantasy. Can't blame her for having a go at that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Oh God I remember that in the 90's. Chicks making out for attention because they thought it was hot and subversive. An attention grab or one time experimentation thing is way different than actually sharing a "life partner" as the OP describes permanently though. She's supposed to get her attention or bisexual jollies and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 05:00 PM |
| 8 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?The closest scenario I can come up with is staying with a serial cheater, and many women won't even do that. The ones that do partially rationalize the choice by telling themselves it's cool because at least it's a parade of skanks she'll never have to know. To think we'd knowingly enter into a modern day harem is absurd. Why? Because he has money? Any 5+ with an internet connection can be a sugarbaby through college and then make her own money. It doesn't benefit us at all to share, it's not a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 04:54 PM |
| 44 | Would you rather be alone forever, or have to marry a man who has 3 other wives?Alone. There is no sisterhood in shared dick. It would not be orgies and pillow fights and braiding each others hair. Idk where men get this fantasy that women will share a top tier guy in this day and age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?Bacon is indeed delicious. We've succeeded at the extreme environment that is PPD by agreeing and are now bonded 4 life. Don't die on me anytime soon I still have a lot to do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?Cool, my post was very specific to old married COUPLES. Not pets, not friends, not fuck buddies. I also don't recall saying they have a monopoly on loss in death. You say "no" and then proceed to peer it again by saying the nature of the loss is irrelevant. Do I really need to link studies to sex and intimacy in relationships? Because I haven't had coffee yet and your flair is asexual/aromantic so I assume you know and abstain and are just feeling contrary because this topic is like a vegan read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 01:30 PM |
| 2 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?So you're peering the death of an animal to the death of a person and saying all deaths create exactly the same amount of devastation and loss because a bond is a bond and they're all the same? Reality disagrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 01:21 PM |
| 6 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?Absolutely not. The value of romantic love can't really be quantified; but have you ever been around a very old sweet couple where one died? Seen the impact it has on the survivor, just how devastated they are and know you're only seeing the visible bits? That the inner turmoil is so much worse? Reverse all of that, make the visible bits happiness and the inner parts joy and contentment. There's no way to assign value to those things, but the longer you're together the more happy memories you ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:50 AM |
| 5 | How that they caught the man responsible for raping that woman in the hospital do you still believe the search was wrong?Probably all the same ones who are so pleased a woman ended up having no choice in having a child that the crime of rape is a minor detail. I mean "obviously he's a pos but that's not the point." is a funny way of saying "just let us enjoy this okay???" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How that they caught the man responsible for raping that woman in the hospital do you still believe the search was wrong?Let's not be hasty guys, his lawyer says his rapist client could've had a jerk off kleenex stolen by Hacienda House Elves to turkey baste the victim with or something. Disgusting. "There's no direct evidence that Mr Sutherland has committed these acts," Mr Gregan told reporters. "I know at this point there's DNA. But he will have a right to his own DNA expert." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Why do women have a tendency to "learn" that they don't like Chads and "fuckboys" at around the same age?Assuming this is true and not just selection bias, I'm going to break out my cane and mom jeans and make a sweeping generalization based on my observations. The combination of tolerance and acceptance of everything/everyone + "dating should be fun!" keeps parents willfully sidelined at crucial social teachable moments. We will helicopter Susie's dance class, but not explain hard truths in friendship let alone dating. Much easier to redirect, say nothing at all, or hand her something shiny. There… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why so few young women have short hair?Real talk I definitely noticed my husband's hair right away, in the same ways I'm reading men notice women's. It was long-ish and shiny and people used to touch it without asking all the time which he hated. I also always notice guylashes. Especially in photos. It stirs a deep jealousy within me that keeps me hooked on latisse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Why so few young women have short hair?I'm fucking d-e-d 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Why so few young women have short hair?I pixied my hair on a Geology field study (17 or 18yrs old) because it was in Death Valley and I wanted to die. Kept it that way for awhile before growing it long again. It required too many maintenance hair cuts and having to style it sucked. Minus weather or circumstance extremes, longer is easier for styling and variation is possible when you're feeling it and have the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 08:36 PM |
| 5 | If your sister, a close female relative or your close female friend was interested in a guy who employed TRP hookup tactics, would you voice your opinion on the situation?I didn't even particularly like my dad growing up. He could shut me up or make me reconsider my life choices with a look. My feelings didn't make him (or my mom) any less right. He was easy to learn from without heavy handed performative demonstrations of discipline. Idk where TRP thinks loyal, strong women come from even as they lament the death of society through the breakdown of family. Perhaps our fathers just used Schick instead of Gillette. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 02:40 AM |
| 3 | If your sister, a close female relative or your close female friend was interested in a guy who employed TRP hookup tactics, would you voice your opinion on the situation?No worries at all! I was confused only because of the contrasting answers, promise. My family does have some dark side dynamics, but they're parent related rather than siblings. And they contributed to us being built not quite as weakly as the manosphere would prefer 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 01:07 AM |
| 3 | If your sister, a close female relative or your close female friend was interested in a guy who employed TRP hookup tactics, would you voice your opinion on the situation?Telling a sibling that could handle it and managing it with one that would be destroyed isn't all that interesting. Especially in a thread with "she's a big girl" and "how big a slut is she?" responses. Frankly I'd take my siblings over the "fuck it, she's a big (maybe whore) girl" ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 January 2019)LOL! I'll always have love for the REAL I-TAL-IAN for getting me through the days where my roommates ate all my stuff in the fridge. Sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 January 2019)Happy birthday! I used to live off the endless soup and salad at Olive Garden in college rofl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 11:22 PM |
| 5 | If your sister, a close female relative or your close female friend was interested in a guy who employed TRP hookup tactics, would you voice your opinion on the situation?I'd only bring it up if I heard something horrible directly or saw some fucked up trp Reddit post by him involving her. If it were my older sister I'd tell her and grab popcorn. She'd give Samantha from Sex and the City a run for her money, her feels are quite safe and not stored in her vagina. I imagine she'd be more offended some idiot thought his strategy worked when she was just dtf and probably approached him. She'd make it her mission to rip his heart out through his dick and then tell him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 January 2019)That happened to me recently. Absolute downpour with no umbrella in a shitty college town full of one way streets I wasn't familiar with, fun! Was supposed to be chaperoning an elementary school field trip, instead I chaperoned a battery replacement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Would you rather be seen as cute or sexy?Sexy, I don't have the extroversion or demure presence required to pull off cute. I like pretty disgusting and/or harsh banter. Physically I hit some cute notes, I've gotten the bamboozled commentary before with people not getting what they expect. Young men prioritizing sexy generally I can agree with; but from what I've seen older men have dropped the pretense of going for what they "should" find attractive (whatever current sexy trends are) in favor of what actually turns them on. They are mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are your political beliefs and how do they fit or conflict with your pill?I just choked on very hot coffee, worth it lol. Just say no to windmills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | There are plenty of sources in the world telling men what that should not be. What should men be? Rather than constantly explaining what makes men shit, what is admirable in men?Things I admire in men, though a lot of this is people in general. Assertiveness and the ability to be direct. Not to be confused with rude or overbearing. Saying what they mean, not dodging questions or waffling on answers. Looks directly at people in conversation. Bonus points for not using the word "whatever" and considering shrugging a valid legitimate response to anything more than a joke or actual confusion. Polite. Not doormat m'lady shit, but a baseline level of manners applied to everyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:11 PM |
| 14 | [discussion] Danny DeVito is reportedly very successful with womenYour pre internet point is a very good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:14 PM |
| 2 | [discussion] Danny DeVito is reportedly very successful with womenExtremely charming or funny or naturally exceptional in some way will always be attractive to enough people to get laid. It probably helped him to have an older sister and be surrounded by women because of his unique blend of character and social traits, I wouldn't assume it's a given to create a "true player." I watch the little brother/older sister dynamic play out every day with a 10 and 15 year old. It might (?) give boys an advantage in recognizing when a girl is actually sick of your shit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There is a shortage of eligible, "good men" who are family and marriage orientedI'm not religious, hardly the same thing as undereducated. There was no Esoteric Biblical Names 101 at my sorry educational institutions 🤷You have an impressively hard line view of things, I won't bore you with my thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on "last minute resistance" "being coy" "token resistance" and "no doesnt always mean no?"Okay I gotta ask. Why is it that on LMR and "does no mean no" topics everybody knows what non verbal sexual communication is; but when I've posted about it as a priority in response to sexual compatibility threads it's "lolwut do u even mean?" dv city 100% of the time? Is it offensive as a vetting tool but not as a rape accusation avoidance skill? Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is a shortage of eligible, "good men" who are family and marriage orientedAre you rp? Asking because of the name, not some weird gotcha. Though if you are how do you reconcile rp with marriage goals? What do you mean by "nothing" if family doesn't pan out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:02 AM |
| 6 | What is your opinion on "last minute resistance" "being coy" "token resistance" and "no doesnt always mean no?"This is the only male perspective that makes personal sense to me on the topic of LMR. It avoids both legal trouble and being in the position to negotiate lukewarm desire for unenthusiastic sex. Seems like a hard pass no brainer but that's easy to say as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There is a shortage of eligible, "good men" who are family and marriage orientedThere are plenty of "good men" and "good women" around if you don't expect them to be pumped out like a factory product and shipped to you via Am(an)azon* Who grows up and moves out with their shit completely together? Not most people, certainly not in their 20's and perhaps early 30's. Who is grinding away specifically for that family they may or may not have like a robot? Hardly anyone. Most people are hustling for what they want for their own reasons, and when you cross paths you're either co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 07:45 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Shaming women about their standards for men doesn’t workOh it's definitely attempts to shame and PPD generally loves it. Until you call it that, then it's just "pointing out hypocrisy" duh! It's a topic that won't escape butthurt, and if you can't farm pussy use that rage to farm karma. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t know what childcare entails because they let mom do the heavy lifting. That’s why there is so much confusion around it. Men can’t parent like women. They don’t have the paternal gene.I do think men can't parent like women, and that's a good thing. My weaknesses are my husband's strengths and vice versa. But day to day stuff and what they require? He's aware and can take over at any time if he has to. I do the heavy lifting by design, it doesn't mean he doesn't know or appreciate what that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What are your love languages and how does it affect your attractions/dating life?My husband is acts of service and quality time/touch came in damn near equal. Mine are words of affirmation and touch. Acts of service get words of affirmation, so this works out nicely. Touch is easy, I know this because of how often our kids eyeroll at us. We even get the occasional "gross." Success! Quality time would be damn near impossible to come by without doing things he's into, over the years I've learned I really like PvP and how to do my nails while acting really into football. But fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Ideal Weight: Our Perception+1 for this. I was 5'8" and 130lbs up until month 6 with my son and my doctor brought it up constantly despite every test being normal. I bit his head off for it repeatedly because God help whoever came between me and food and I was sick of hearing it. It wasn't pleasant, he still did it. Just used a BMI calculator, mine was 19.76, so I can't imagine 16 not getting some kind of medical intervention after the lectures almost 20 got 🤷 By the time I had him I was 146, he was 7 pounds. I was talking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 06:00 AM |
| 13 | Ideal Weight: Our PerceptionWomen's bodies don't exist strictly on a spectrum of high BMI or heroin chic with no in betweens. I guess maybe if they rely strictly on diet/starvation without going to the gym; but that's ignorance on their part in the information age or some kinda psychological issue very worth sorting out. 90% of why I go to the gym is because I like to eat and don't want to become Jabba the Wife. I couldn't tell you what my BMI is, but I know my measurements, my clothes fit, I can open the pickle jar, and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/19 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Do women have red pill moments?Ohhhh this is a good one. First one was in 8th grade. Was at this graduation dance, it wasn't a date situation just typical kid awkward fun with friends with chaperones. One of my very good guy friends (grew up together) said our friends had snuck off to life sciences wing to play with the newly hatched chicks and we should go. I did, friends were not there, and got his face smashed on mine. I didn't feel assaulted, just surprised and pissed. He got flipped out on in a "lol wtf was that?" way, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How old you are and how many times were you in love?38 and once. Could've been more I imagine but I married young. It wasn't "love at first sight" but he was hot in a way that wasn't "omg so nervous I'm gonna fuck this up" more like "you have a snowballs chance in hell so go ahead and rip those farts and blow your nose hard for those allergy season brain stringer boogers." I didn't actually do those things, but there's an automatic ease in the certainty you aren't on their radar even a little bit. And it wasn't based purely on physical hotness. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you accurately determine your smv?Yeah credits you pay for, I didn't do that either which meant I had to vote. Photo based intelligence rating was weird for me too! I started looking for actual evidence of what I'd perceive as dumb. Popped collar as a dating photo option? Dumb. Picture of person in the snow with a t-shirt and shorts on? Also dumb. Stuff like that, idk. But generally I answered somewhat since nothing really jumped out and screamed "smart" to me. My favorite pic was one of some guy in a "I ♥️ dick" shirt looking i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you accurately determine your smv?Did you do credit or karma based voting? If karma did you find higher attractiveness meant lower intelligence or trustworthiness in how you voted? It did for me, usually intelligence took a hit. On mine trustworthiness took a nosedive the higher attractiveness went up. After being on PPD this doesn't surprise me at all lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/19 12:06 AM |
| 2 | What do you think would happen to the dating scene if Androids that could mimic human came out?I really loved Battlestar Galactica too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Men can and should vet their partnersLol they do it here all the time! "n-count bad" followed by "must fuck sluts" followed by "wymyn r dum AWALT fuckholes" followed by "but whyyyyyyy do I gotta be mean to pick up women??" is practically formulaic for the angries who can get their dick wet just not at the SMV they think they deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 13 | Men can and should vet their partnersThe standards part is the kicker. Pretty much everyone can laugh at cheap validation by thirst trap social media thots because it's obviously cheap validation. We all know the accidentally on purpose nip slip + camel toe has nothing to do with "had to post my good hair day teehee!" Yet when men stick their dicks in 1-3's they think they're better than, or crazy, then whine about high n-count skanks not worth more than a pump and dump we're supposed to gather round in sympathy and ignore that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the idea that compliance with women gradually lowers their sexual attraction?I think so too. For his part he gets along with practically everyone, being a prickly pain in the ass is entering my brand of awful 😖 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 05:05 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the idea that compliance with women gradually lowers their sexual attraction?It's true! Well, can confirm here. Requests aren't my brand of awful because our responsibilities and schedules have always been so different. So him anticipating something and handling it is hero status. Though once he forgot toilet paper the night before snow was due and said "My failures as a husband are actually golden opportunities for you to be a better wife!" as I grabbed my keys. He had the decency to laugh through it and run when I walked back in the room lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the idea that compliance with women gradually lowers their sexual attraction?I'd say it's bad if compliance is taken for granted. If the request is not urgent and clearly to see how much they can inconvenience you, it's a power play in disguise imo. Good compliance is acknowledging a need and coming through. That's dependable, not doormat. Anticipating a need and circumventing the request altogether even better. Initiative + awareness + problem solving is rare and basically priceless. Edit: how much is too much or too little is hard to say in general. Depends on the indi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 04:11 AM |
| 8 | What would bother you more with an (almost) ideal partner: emotional or sexual unsatisfaction?Sexual dissatisfaction since monogamy is my deal. Emotional outlets are a dime a dozen but there's only one sexual one. If it's not right then next. I'm assuming by the "almost ideal" distinction we're not talking about anything that could be categorized as abuse. If that's the case I'd for sure next over that even if the sex was amazing. Edit: F and unsatisfactory sex could be anything from mismatched libidos, who/how initiation weirdness, or just general "meh" main event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?I'm a sports elitist when it comes to martial arts and gymnastics for that reason. Ballet too though it's technically an art, but it gets much meaner faster than the former two if you pursue it seriously. I wish my daughter had stuck with TKD, but she was very into competitive gymnastics before the lure of HS sports pulled her away. It's pretty awesome how far both your kids are in it though, wow. Back atcha on raising fine humans! Poor Bob is getting beat down as I type lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What constitutes healthy femininity?I wish I had this explanation when I was growing up. My friends all thought my dad was scary despite him only throwing indifference their way 90% of the time. The other 10% being noticing if they were great at or achieved something. They were correct, it was my mom they got all wrong. Just because she gave them cookies and smiled at them didn't make her the "safe" one. I could never make them understand never to tell her anything. They were all little lessons in how not to be, and they gave her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/19 12:34 AM |
| 2 | In 68.4% of divorces in my country it's the woman who files for divorce. The average child support rate is 1/3rd of what a child costs. Why do you think the % of women who file is so similar to the US then?No worries I figured I'd ask in case you knew off the top of your head! I'll look it up later. Healthcare and finding ways to supplement for those that need it is an active interest of mine irl. Lots can be learned from turning successful programs inside out and assimilating what we can here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | In 68.4% of divorces in my country it's the woman who files for divorce. The average child support rate is 1/3rd of what a child costs. Why do you think the % of women who file is so similar to the US then?I think that's a great program, but did it for sure cover orthodontics or just dental? I only ask because the orthodontist my kids see participates in what's basically donated services as charity. Orthodontics are hard to get need based state program coverage for even when it's medically necessary. Stuff like bite problems or anything that affects eating and breathing. Dental is a separate thing and much easier to get care for apparently. It could be our state though, it's very anti bc and pro f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 07:38 PM |
| 0 | It's actually a much smarter decision for women to market themselves as "bad girls"Yeah it's totally possible. It's very open to interpretation and depends on a lot of variables. The op wasn't even feeling compelled to decipher their own neurotic word vomit so I'm gonna choose going to eat instead of fleshing out their late night ramblings for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 05:39 PM |
| 2 | It's actually a much smarter decision for women to market themselves as "bad girls"We're not defining "bad" here, just fakery per your op. It mentions lack of morality and leaning on bad reputation specifically. If one isn't actually doing amoral things of dubious character, how is that "bad" reputation manufactured? Talking weird shit about made up scandalous events? Staging salacious non happenings? People would catch on and think it's somewhere in the range of odd/nuts/crazy. Unless you're talking about straight up lying to one night stands who'd never know better, but you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 09:04 AM |
| 1 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?Insanity, I'd have a heart attack and shit myself drunk or not lol! At 80 though? Damn, respect. I agree on few healthy outlets to express anger or manage testosterone filled emotions. I pulled my son from a few places that coached or taught sports from a "sit down, shut up, listen for 2/3 practice time" perspective when he was very little. He sits in class all day, and uhm I'd also like to wear him out 😂 Boxing is a great outlet, especially with Dad! My son does taekwondo and is dying to pick u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 08:38 AM |
| 10 | It's actually a much smarter decision for women to market themselves as "bad girls"If you're posing as "bad" but keep a "good girl" circle of consistent friends, long term employment, and family it's not gonna take Sherlock Holmes to figure out a game is afoot. Then the question is why? Damaged upbringing? Paranoid? Tons of relationship baggage? It's not a sustainable ploy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?Lol it is random, I was struggling trying to figure something out that fit the criteria. It was annoying that I couldn't! Did you do the skydiving with your friend? I didn't, I keep my happy ass on the ground or in the plane! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 11:58 PM |
| 2 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?LOL! Nah the skydiving thing was an idiot friend for his birthday and the punch...that's a longer story but it's worth telling. I have done the divorce consolation thing though when my husband's best friend went through his. He stayed with us and didn't really move for a week, it was bad. I didn't participate much though aside from standard house guest stuff for obvious reasons. I was glad when he came back to the land of the living and he spent the holidays with us when custody agreements would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?I would say the closest thing I can think of is doing dangerous stuff in haphazard and cavalier ways just because. Skydiving drunk because you have idiot friends that enable it comes to mind. BuT iT wAs AwEsOMe!!!! I've seen a guy goad a pissed friend into taking a swing just to get it out of his system so he could talk like a rational human. They then sat talking while icing their hand and face like nbd. Is that the guy version of Oreos, Kleenex, and Netflix? It very much had nothing to do with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 06:02 PM |
| 6 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?Backyard tree houses with "No gUrlS AlOud!!" signs don't count. Kidding, if they exist and are helpful then I'm sincerely glad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?That's the thing, I (and most women) have plenty of opportunities to see male on male social suicide (that was a joke, no triggers plz) without it being sexually charged. The problem is it usually serves some purpose in establishing the hierarchy as they see it. Which is tied to to status, attractiveness, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 05:43 PM |
| 4 | What are examples of intra masculine competition that are either useless or self defeating re: romantic attraction in women?I can think of things I find absurd or pointless that men do, but they'd be technically considered part of being "attractive." It's hard finding one that is completely about how men interact with men. Thought it would be easy with as many siblings as I had but nope! Edit: organizing itself rationally around the gynocentric rat race makes more sense the more I think about it. It's would certainly explain the rage around when unsuccessful, and also why men have built everything but a male-driven s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the gillette advertisement?We can agree there. I'm having embarrassing flashbacks of getting into a word slap fight with someone over them saying SG:U was better than Battlestar Galactica. Trigger identified 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the gillette advertisement?I don't get the outrage. I get the "lol" and side-eye response by men but not the outrage. It's come up at my husband's work with people I know well, but the men closest to me don't give a fuck about a company working an angle to get money. The triggered reactions from rl people fall into the hard right political spectrum which is entertaining. I want to be clear when I say I don't get the outrage I'm not dismissing it. Women get hit with "how to woman" ads 24/7 and I don't care. It's just marke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the gillette advertisement?Star Trek Discovery is amazing. Angry nerds better not fuck it up for the rest of us. 😡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 04:09 PM |
| 2 | (Discussion): Why does mainstream messaging focus solely on improving men's problematic behavior in furtherance of a better world? Is it A. Women don't have sufficient problematic behavior to correct, or B. Society only cares to regulate men's behavior? Or something else?Probably how feminism even caught on with men. They heard women were gathering for (thing, lol who cares) showed up for a chance to score and got blasted with mindblowing equal rights rhetoric. Which is pretty cynical, but looking around..I mean *shrug* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 05:45 AM |
| 7 | (Discussion): Why does mainstream messaging focus solely on improving men's problematic behavior in furtherance of a better world? Is it A. Women don't have sufficient problematic behavior to correct, or B. Society only cares to regulate men's behavior? Or something else?It's interesting to hear it confirmed. I do place more importance on lived experiences than broad social movements, tbh that's why AWALT and the knee-jerk "LiAr!" to women's responses generally seen around here are so damn irritating. Anyway, I've definitely seen solitary/tribal regarding men and business that's for sure; and in that light I can see how the notion of instructing men to police each other would be in the range of lol to pissed. Though I have seen and experienced policing by men, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 05:38 AM |
| 10 | (Discussion): Why does mainstream messaging focus solely on improving men's problematic behavior in furtherance of a better world? Is it A. Women don't have sufficient problematic behavior to correct, or B. Society only cares to regulate men's behavior? Or something else?I was wondering what a female < anything > would know about the male experience at dinner tonight. Casual business thing made easy because they brought up the 2 guys triggered by Gillette at the office who won't shut up about it. Specifically I wanted to know: where is the male support structure? Women have the body positivity movement, feminist organizations, clubs, rallies, women's studies, etc. What is the male equivalent to this, a group that can voice the lived in experiences of what it is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/19 03:57 AM |
| 9 | How many rp men refuse to use sdx toys on their partners?Sweet cheesus this will be fun 🍿🍿🍿 Edit: "Ever since Gillette took my masculinity, I....I've had to use a vibrator on muh wife. Do you know those things ruin laydee parts forever? Pretty soon I'll need a jackhammer to get the job done. Goddamn you to hell Gillette, now sex toys are the best a man can get." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Redpill Women is toxicYou ever seen it blow up? My best friend is a corporate lady boss, her husband is a SAHD. I'm pretty sure there was a mushroom cloud the day it went to hell. He took his PlayStation (I had to try so hard not to lol when she told me) and went to his mom's house. They worked it out but daaaaamn it got ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Redpill Women is toxicYou tanked the SAHM hate well. I've worked and am currently SAHM. My only dream is one day people process and understand that best parenting practices are not one size fits all. I only have one thing to add for emphasis: kids are often busy because a parent is available to allow them to join an activity. Competitive club sports and school sports/teams have a huge parental expectation in both time and money. My daughter is on a team and does Academic Decathlon, I have to tell one or the other I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: How many PPD Practice Kink?When I think "kink" I think formal club like stuff idk why. I don't do that, but don't have strong feelings against it. My marriage is pretty down for whatever so technically I've participated in kink, though it's not a dominant theme in our sex life. The only thing I think that applies to the question is actually an intense dislike I have. The thought of calling my husband "daddy" makes me want to hurl. No DD/lg here, though aggression or dominance in other ways doesn't make me blink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Can women be feminine while with a masculine man and not be dependent on him?"can a person be primarily nurturing, supportive, empathetic, people focused as opposed to things, social, wanting to help and not lead..." People are what they do, and if those are your strengths and motivations across the board then you're submissive. If it makes you feel inferior to define yourself that way that's societal conditioning, upbringing, etc. Maybe it's negative association with the word "submissive" itself. I admit it makes me sneer on the inside. As far as making you feel bad, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't TRP see negative media as the ultimate 'shit test'?I'm trying to see this side, but it's just not there for me. I get that their motivation isn't pure altruism, they sell shit after all. That's my only cynical critique. I just don't see the insult in men being good examples for boys. Plus so much of the "criticism" is throwing stats at Gillette about communities with active fathers being better in a bunch of ways. Not seeing the contradiction there, the commercial directly agrees. Yet there's a lot of "owned the lib" back slapping after because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Redpill Women is toxicI agree, bizarre. Who takes the lead on something like that before establishing how it's paid for? I wouldn't do that with a friend let alone a bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 03:52 AM |
| 3 | To what extent is physical beauty individual? Can beauty standards be changed?I don't think beauty standards can be changed due to these things being measured (it is known) but individual preferences certainly can change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't TRP see negative media as the ultimate 'shit test'?Good or not it was a springboard to a better discussion than what resulted. Wasted opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn't TRP see negative media as the ultimate 'shit test'?I don't think it's anti-masculine either. The advertisement calls out bullying and toxic masculinity, and shows fathers stepping in to stop sons from doing those things. It's focused on having men teach boys to be respectful of others. What masculine "values" does that attack? It challenges the attitude that men are violent brutes that aren't allowed to be caring, complex creatures. We see men lamenting being "shackled" to gender norms as women shed theirs here all the time. So instead of going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Male sex robots are coming soonDamn your superior Google-Fu! I was just about to update lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Male sex robots are coming soonI read somewhere about a phenomenon where the more human-like a robot is the more it creeps us out. I wish I could remember the name of it, I'll have to Google I guess. So it will mirror reality the better they get at mimicking humans. Orgy toy Chadbots and the legion of creep-bots ready for basement action from the lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Putting more effort into something that other people get effortlessly makes you feel bad and resentfulThis is a great way to be. People get caught up in where they're at and condemn or congratulate themselves accordingly and it's a trap. You end up wallowing or stagnating. We all suck at or struggle with things, hiding it or diminishing what it takes to succeed ends badly. I've never had a person who is good at a thing look down on me for picking their brain for tips. People generally like being looked up to and find interest irresistible when related to something they shine at. If not that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%More streamlined than weird. I don't smash square pegs into round holes. It works or it doesn't, easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - Would you want a daughter to date/marry a beta(BP) or alpha(RP) in the current/future SMP?I'm not him so I can't say what he's thinking, but I think the same about my daughter when considering men in these pill terms. She's intrinsically motivated to the extreme and has high expectations of herself. Most of parenting her is reining her in and making sure she doesn't crack because everyone has limits. She seems determined to find hers. It's less about her "taming" anyone else and more about someone who appreciates these qualities rather than looking for a bang-maid-mommy because that'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Does Red Pill Value "Thoughtfulness"?Overt is underutilized imo. Idk if it's assumed women hate it or if men are chickens, but if you're in a good place with a sure thing then it's both funny and fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%I hadn't really thought of dickmatizing as pair bonding until you mentioned it, but yeah. Entirely possible if it goes both ways! Especially as rp phrases what they want in a partner and how sex heavy the requirements are. There's stuff I'd only EVER do in that situation. Like say exhibitionist stuff. Some guy who can't get the job done isn't going to be fiddling around like a noob in public. The risk has no reward. A guy who can though, well that's just fun. The rp obsession with n-count and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%It's also hard because I'm being purposefully vague. I feel I'm on the edge of TMI which makes things hard to spell out. I agree with u/reluctantly_red in that it's a lizard brain thing primarily. If our lizards don't play nice together dickmatizing isn't in the cards. It's a fundamental issue of compatibility rather than so-and-so sucks in bed. I know what works for me, I'll orchestrate it if it comes to that because I'm getting mine. If I always had to "get mine" the relationship had an expira… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%Right? What a cringe and awful conversation the more you have it too. "You know how you know I like that thing you aren't doing? You wanna tell me if you're brain damaged or selfish because wtf?" Or is it supposed to be begging? It's not a road worth going down. Edit: oOhHhH tHiS wAs sO oFfEnSiVe ApParEntLy. I don't lick assholes either, I'm consistent in hard passing all kinds of avoidable shit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%Personally mechanics had a lot to do with it I think, maybe it's individual. I'm unashamed to admit I thought I knew (did know?) things about myself sexually but I got taken to school. I was not into casual sex and my hotness thresholds were met or exceeded every time yet results varied. Dickmatizing definitely has a mind component to me. It's pathetic but when even the thought of someone else touching you is revolting or you find yourself in a gas station bathroom scrubbing off a friend's colog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%the female orgasm is preparatory I initially read that as "predatory" lol. Too much ppd for one day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%I can't really explain dickmatizing. I mean from my pov I had sex in the context of relationships with people I really wanted to fuck. If it were just a matter of attraction then it should've been guaranteed every time. So anatomy too probably, but it's not always bigger is better like men seem to believe just because size queens exist. I think the secret to the dickmatizing is some magic blend of attraction + anatomy + innate sexual compatibility. I think more sexual openness on women's part wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%That would probably depend on what the woman's end goals are. If she's young and wants kids and (presumably) doesn't have the SMV/RMV to lock down Mr. Dickmatizing then the kindest thing for all involved is to be content through ignorance. Or BB until the kid(s) is grown and go nuts looking for an AF later in life chasing that piv O. Maybe even talk BB into an open marriage later in life. If she doesn't want kids and is after strictly sex, I'd go with men 5 years older who are less likely to req… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%There's definitely some things that have to be spoken about. I don't mean sex as a verboten topic, I just mean not having to do a full on speak-and-spell narration of a guided tour during, or always having to take control because who you're with would spend forever doing the wrong thing and ignoring every cue. It's hard to explain since it's so situational and personal, but yeah it boils down to just getting it. And not getting it doesn't mean someone is terrible at sex, it's just incompatibilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%By "not communicate" I mean to the standard I see online now. I never had a UN summit "serious talk" about sex with an SO. Would never ever go to therapy with an SO, sex or otherwise which is something I see a ton of especially here on Reddit. Why? Just next. I'd communicate them in initiating what I like or saying so in the moment. If it was "meh" or not caught on after a few times then yeah I moved on. Having to teach and reteach someone what you like because they can't or don't want to pay at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%True. And we can/do hold onto shitty prospects who deliver sexually. I'm curious to see how the piv stats change as women get more open sexually. I hope they don't stay at 30% because that's depressing. But as it becomes more common it might lower rates of successful dickmatizing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%Hahahaha I brought my Swiss army fuck knife 'round my parents. Shameless! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 11:04 PM |
| 8 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%For real! Basically assuming an attractive guy has passed vetting well enough to bang, if he's a Swiss army knife of orgasms sane women aren't looking to upgrade. He'd have to mess up in some other way, and the convo with your gf's goes like this "God he was an asshole, but goddamn he could fuck." But upgrading a stellar sexual experience due to some weird sexual greed? Never heard of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 10:59 PM |
| 11 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%The whole topic is speculation. It's literally speculation about why of women's orgasms. As I own a pussy I feel very comfortable speculating in this random speculation. Unless this was a question for the sausage fest to get autistic over. If not getting fucked well, break up or call it off. It's not unheard of idk why the assumption is cheating is a default around here. If you are getting fucked well you lock that shit down, that's not something people generally want to lose, especially as a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 10:43 PM |
| 11 | Are women who find their primary sexual pleasure/source of orgasms through PIV more promicuous? Let's discuss theories around the orgasm gap and the 70%No I don't think they're more promiscuous. If you're getting fucked properly you're not looking to upgrade. I didn't do that "communication" thing that's so popular now to fix what wasn't there upon trying. Sex was good or it wasn't and if not chalk it up to incompatibility and move on. I think a big factor not mentioned here is it's only recently been acceptable for women to openly seek out and enjoy good sex in the grand scheme of things. Having said that a lot of girls are still brought up to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The bluepill bubble: am i right or wrong?It's like you didn't even read "in my experience" my post started with. But sure, your post totally negates the experience of growing up where and how I did. How silly of me. Lol you got butthurted. Just checked: downvoting doesn't make everyone's experience exactly the same, but I'm sure it made you feel better 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | The bluepill bubble: am i right or wrong?In my experience people with money and who revere wealth are some of the most naturally rp people around. Some of the stuff my mom said to me when I was dating used to comically shock me, she'd crack up and leave it at "you'll see." as I sputtered like an imbecile. If you aren't with the program by nature, you're the one who stands out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 08:17 AM |
| 3 | PurplePillDebate users and relationships to other subreddits based on user activitySephora points, delicious! Did you get House of Lashes lashes? I love those ones, and their glue. Was super stoked to see them at Sephora! Velour lashes are great too, my daughter got some for Christmas that very nearly went to my stocking instead of hers lol! I hear you on the work no makeup rule thing, it's kind of a buzzkill. BUT if you want to do temporary nail polish, get some UNT ready for takeoff peel off base coat. It's legit. If you wear it for the weekend it peels right off in one piec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/19 12:34 AM |
| 4 | PurplePillDebate users and relationships to other subreddits based on user activityYou aren't alone! My vapid doesn't extend to The Bachelor but I more than makeup for it with my makeup/nail polish obsession. I don't even buy tons of makeup, just learning how to play with what I have in new and different ways is fun. I buy a shit ton of polish though! When my daughter moves out I'm gonna get polish divorce raped, she's gonna try 😂 Cooking stuff, GoT, and literature subreddits are fun too, but I do that on my "serious stuff" account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women use sex to manipulate their man?This. And I'm positively dying at the notion of holding out being a question of manipulation. That's an attention whore. If he ever meets someone who fucks his brains out with flair on the regular... that's where the real lessons in potential manipulation and how to maintain boundaries are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Women who date assholes in their youth don't deserve sympathySrs this sub needs some modern equivalent to 'The Wonder Years' or 'Boy Meets World' or something. Run go tell Netflix. There's a whole coming of age genre because everyone goes through it, and everyone is awkward or socially bombs 98778765 times, male or female. We don't all stay in that phase thankfully. Using those experiences to share a mistake to relate what you learned from it to someone it could help seems totally normal. Somewhere in this arguing aims and opportunity there has to be room… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Women who date assholes in their youth don't deserve sympathyDo men not like women who don't "get it" either, or is their clamoring for accountability for every squeaker their men let out disgusting in some way that is more serious than LOL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicI totally agree, I wouldn't bail either. I mean even if it was a friend I was with let alone an SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicWell let's be real some guys aren't into confrontation, I mean Smoogs linked an example of Deuce Banner shitting himself and running away instead of hulk smashing. I'm not really sure how what I posted challenged the notion of a man thinking the way you do, it just provided experiences that would lead to a woman not in cheerleader mode over it. me? Pass the pom poms, I'm not with an idiot that smashes indiscriminately. Edit: Awww Deuce Banner hulk smashed my dv arrow <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicDid you hide that you were aware of what was happening or were you made aware later lol? I'd never manufacture a confrontation, it's not in me. I'm pretty sure if it were in me, he'd catch on and become the guys best friend and serve looks at me all night. But I can definitely see the hot sex thing. The time my husband beat the shit out of a guy it was actually my crazy ass sisters bf. We thought she was over her crazy period, so I was trying to have a relationship with her which meant she knew … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicI'm just making the distinction to soothe any adversarial assumptions due to where we're posting, not at you specifically! It's really in it's basest form not a princess bitch expectation. We agree, it's a thing, why fight it? You can not take advantage of it, or not exacerbate confrontation, but it's always going to be a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicIt's not a feeling of entitlement though from our side, not in a princess bitch way. It's the freedom to be comfortable because ultimately you are safe. As far as expecting goes, yeah that's likely there but honestly we learn that from our dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicHey whatever works man. Transactional sex borne of weird circumstances: I don't hate it. I'm at a disadvantage being married though, so if he ever has to use force I'm gonna have to tell him this is a one time thing and it's never happening again! If he's not bruised and bloody it's duty missionary though /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicI agree it is what it is, but as far as women allowing men to absolve themselves of it I honestly don't think we could. Not with allll the shame studies or "enlightened culture" articles and assumptions in the world. The only way to achieve not having this aspect is by actually living in a world where it wasn't needed, and even then it would still be present just hidden from view as it's not necessary. I've been with my husband 18 years, and 2 times he's redirected someone physically, once rough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: APA says Traditional Masculinity is toxicMy husband sent me that post yesterday, we were dying. Everyone should read it just for the entertainment value if not how the content relates to the topic here. I've seen the studies on this saying women prefer protector behavior, and I count myself as one of them. But only because men are (in my experience) good at discerning when it's needed. I've never been with a "what even are eMoTiOnS?" angry wall puncher or idiot who starts a fight over a minor ass grab by drunken fool. I could see why a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | “I’d rather be the woman he wants when he has it all than be the woman he needs to help him because he has nothing” female beta buxIn my mind that's literally how it plays out regardless of who does it. The unbelievable thing to me is reading Reddit where someone posts about their cheating partner and they get advice to go to counseling and work it out. Even the ones where the cheater posts saying they sat down in the kitchen and revealed their affair to their spouse got me like "I'd have my thumb over the emergency call button." but maybe I have an overactive lizard brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | “I’d rather be the woman he wants when he has it all than be the woman he needs to help him because he has nothing” female beta buxI don't think that's a very realistic response. A dutiful gf/wife you set up to become ragged as the only reason for being replaced, who is presumably great in every other category, doesn't get "disgusting bitch quit looking at my bank account!" from her husband over disposable income spent on looking better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 08:25 PM |
| 5 | “I’d rather be the woman he wants when he has it all than be the woman he needs to help him because he has nothing” female beta buxI'm interested to see how often that's the first marriage. We know 4 doctors socially, the only one who is still married to their original partner has a husband in finance who owns the place and sets his own hours. They're also in an open marriage, so that probably helps take the pressure off each other to be around. The rest "traded down" their high status partner later in life because they never saw her or him. Obviously that's anecdotal but I'm curious what the norm is over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Women who date assholes in their youth don't deserve sympathyIt's like they think we can't remember general trends in posting once they say "rp is a toolbox" or "we teach it's always the man's fault." Using The Force for Reddit commentary isn't in the rp toolbox but they really think it is. The "take responsibility" kicker for me is how on RPW they aren't even allowed to suggest male fault. They just gather round and decide if a man was in a bad mood because the crust wasn't cut off his sandwich or if the woman didn't get naked fast enough without veering… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 4 | The saying, “I prefer you with no makeup on” or “I prefer girls with no make-up”This to me is the right way to be. I didn't go out with guys in suits that smell like a fairy tale and then suddenly wonder why they weren't flannel wearing lumberjacks reeking of "real man" bo. Any guy bothered by makeup can pry my eyeliner out of my cold dead hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Q4Women: What would it take for women to be like Mary Poppins sans the magical element? I am referring to her demeanor, her charm, her wit, her compassionate empathy but also her clear hardheadedness. To many men, incl. me, she's the ideal mother or even wife figure.Same, but it's fun to picture Mary Poppins getting laid. Claps hands and covers parrot umbrella head "Time for sex, hurry up now and hit it from the back, spit spot! Let me know when you're close and aim your dick please, we are not a whale's blowhole." Breaks into song about appropriate cum shot manners with fun animated dicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | I've reconsidered, the wall is real, I was relying on outliers before.Not gonna lie I was pretty fascinated the first time I heard about it. As a cishet female I was not familiar with the wide range of normal in how vulvas look for obvious reasons. I don't do sharp objects in the region but am glad the option exists for labias gone wild because some of the "before" pics had to be uncomfortable! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Would you date someone like your father?What's bad about him? He let his 4 sons from his first marriage terrorize my mom's son Mike from her first marriage. He was much younger than them too. It drove my mom insane and they loved it. My dad's solution? Send him to a military boarding school, keep his feral pack. Sidenote here since I know rp has a bone to pick with dads not getting kids: Mike's dad wanted him, my mom might have played ball. It's my dad that enjoyed that particular game of keep away. I don't mean feral stupid, they wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I've reconsidered, the wall is real, I was relying on outliers before.Hahahaha I just said "franken-pussy procedures" to a doctor 😂 Sorry. I'm easily amused. Unequivocally yes. My libido was great before, idk if that matters. But I can't imagine guy levels of this stuff. I'd be levelling cities and raping and pillaging. With a lady beard. Half the stuff on consent within marriage on Reddit that makes people clutch their pearls has me head scratching. If you aren't on the optimization train with your wife you better have other outlets or things could get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I've reconsidered, the wall is real, I was relying on outliers before.I was referred by a friend. When I looked him up he was 5 stars across the board so I went. He uses BioTE as hrt, and also does a bunch of vanity franken-pussy procedures. Absolutely look for BioTE. Hardly any of these things are covered by insurance, so as cringy as it is to say look in snobby areas full of women with disposable income. O-shot, Diva vaginal rejuvenation, DaVinci robotic surgery, NovaSure endometrial ablation are his primary services. They also do BBL and Botox. A place that doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Would you date someone like your father?Possibly. Though he's 83 and defines spry and mentally acute. He's got money enough to stay that way so long as no critical sudden issues pop up. I think (hope) he's learned from the ass kickings of life and the epic trail of destruction in his wake. That and the knowledge his time is finite tend to make people reflect and change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 04:17 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: Would you date someone like your father?Nailed it. He was fantastic at business and a great husband, terrible parent. All of us were mini extensions of his will and success, beyond that he didn't much care. Not then anyway. Everybody liked him, he was a "pillar of the community" and he could play the game in public but he rarely returned favor let alone friendship. He wasn't even around much when I was little, a lot of what I knew of him was fucked up snippets I overheard but wasn't able to understand. By the time I was old enough to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Would you date someone like your father?Absolutely not, at least not as I knew him as a child. His primary trait was ambition, he only spoke if he really had something to say, and he was a taskmaster who provided for and expected perfection. He's chilled out a lot as he's aged and my kids would never believe me if I told them of him as I knew him. It almost kills me to see how different he is with my son than he was with my brothers. I married someone who wouldn't wait until 70 to appreciate the intangibles that make life worth living… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | I've reconsidered, the wall is real, I was relying on outliers before.I never would've thought of it on my own after the IUD, all credit to my mom. Was 28 or 29 and still thought I was immortal rofl. It's nbd too, just a blood draw at your yearly visit to monitor. I started replacement just before 38 to stay in optimal rather than normal for my age range. The other hot tip from my mom was to get leg veins checked for reflux because pregnancy can mess those up badly and you won't even know until you're covered in spider or varicose veins. Both greater saphenous vei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 06:08 AM |
| 2 | I've reconsidered, the wall is real, I was relying on outliers before.Word. I think having a spouse let themselves go gives people a lot of leeway in their own minds to do the same. I had my kids in my 20's, shut my babymaker down with an IUD, and found an OBGYN who specializes in hormones and doesn't deliver babies. Staying optimized there keeps the gym/diet effort humming along like clockwork. It's not cheap but putting off the decline there definitely helps massively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 05:39 AM |
| 4 | I've reconsidered, the wall is real, I was relying on outliers before.It's absolutely vanity, and it's a good thing. Seriously, who doesn't like to fuck and eat? Not being a sedentary swine goes far in both categories. And definitely money too, but money won't ever make up for a lack of movement or fetishising food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: what does it mean to be a masculine man? I was raised by a single mother around mostly elderly women. I [20M] have no idea what it means to be a man or what it means to be masculine.In seeing my husband's interactions with our son it seems they're heavy on the side of explaining yourself, owning when you're wrong, breaking down success so you can repeat those steps where appropriate, and not being lazy or a spazz. The explaining one stands out because our son used to do the typical little kid "shame show" when busted. Looking away, foot shuffling, mumbling, grudging acknowledgement of the screw up, etc. At seven his dad stopped the show. He tried and got "I'm not your mom. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Agreed, she sounds goofy as shit if she goes off about celeb fuckability to the point her husband picks up on it. That's some basic bitch nonsense. But he could leave her just as easily. It doesn't read like a hostage situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?The ops story is like a guy telling a woman to smile instead of saying something funny to make her smile. One gets you sneered at, the other gets the desired result. It works both ways too. I don't snap my fingers and expect an erection from my husband. If a man or a woman wants desire quit being simple and lazy and generate some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Your logic is sound. Make sure you blindfold her, she likes that shit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Oh noooo you just bird boxed your dick through your ears, that's 2 inches you're never getting back! You could always find a crazy to tell you that it's beautiful perhaps? (I'm currently a Netflix hostage watching Bird Box with my daughter) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Oh waaay before then, you ever hear Savage Garden? You'd know if you have, I'm pretty sure blasting it is how a vasectomy is done! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?I'm betting it's not that he had that problem or that he voiced it that's off putting, it's how he did it. He got a babysitter and blew being kid-free to have a dramatic feels reveal rather than...idk... getting blown? He's been turning her down for sex in some weird passive aggressive payback thing and now he's gonna take his ball(s) and go home unless she can pillow princess him to his satisfaction? Or something? Whatever it is, it better be worthy of gurl talk friend jealousy or she's clearly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Yeah that corner of pop is all teenybopper auditory porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Ahhhh okay, makes sense. Sounds about right for the guy in question. The part where he was whining about what she says to her sister/gf's made me mouthpuke. Like was he eavesdropping eagerly through a thin wall like a hs girl, or straight up there frowning through braiding their hair and fetching mimosas? Asking for the explanation brought out the downvote brigade initially lol. My dv arrow is now a passive object of nu-male desire. Finger it good app users 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?Wat, you don't get inspired to conquer the world and slay pussy to the musical stylings of Drake, that one guy that's always on the radio...Shawn(sp?) Mendez, and Ed Sheeran?? HeReSy!! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Q4women: How would you feel if your long term partner voiced a need to feel more sexually desired by you?1&2 I fully agree with, what's your reasoning for thinking porn is making men wish they were women? In my head I took that to a gross and dark place so your explanation is gonna be brain bleach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 02:04 AM |
| 10 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.But then they'll tell you if you want an admiral, marry a lieutenant. Or bemoan the tendency of wymyn to "aim too high." Turns out if you aim "lower" and are present for and help enable a man's success, well! Aren't you a shrewd whore with finely tuned wallet potential feelers. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Why are younger guys a turn off?Agreed, they can stfu, read a situation, and have a great time. Giving directions or hearing someone say "am I hurting you??" is the worst. Once I went older I never went back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Should you focus on men and women's commonalities or differences as far as having better game goes?No, but it's a sort of running joke because our first "date" (we were friends for a year before) was dinner I was late to. My apology was met with being told to order whatever I wanted because I needed to keep my energy up for after dinner rofl. We made up a whole cost in ass category and basically ordered enough food to barricade ourselves indoors and fuck for a week straight. So now no restaurant dinner plate is safe in a throwback to that night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Should you focus on men and women's commonalities or differences as far as having better game goes?"Women may love sex, but they won't respond well to overt communication like men do" I need to hand in my woman card, I fell for this: http://imgur.com/h4uUabu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?Okay we'll stop beating the dead horse, I mistakenly thought we were having a conversation. I'm not trying to change your view, but you had a bone to pick with mine hence the responses. There were enough deliberate deceptive choices made by her that I don't care if she deliberately got knocked up or not. If you're fucking multiple people, bc or not, you don't know who the dad is. She chose to believe what allowed her to escape accountability at the time. I'm perfectly willing be seen as unreason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?I don't even need to go as far as knowingly getting knocked up. She definitely deliberately cheated, and knew 2 men were blowing loads in her. Knew she was married to money bags, so it's all good! Whether she and the guy she was fucking knew condoms aren't 100% effective or not doesn't absolve her. As a matter of fact I'd question even the condom usage as she's a proven liar just for cheating part. Hell I'll take it a step further and wonder out loud if she's not revealing the father because she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?I had to google the rate of effectiveness, this is what PP says. "If you use condoms perfectly every single time you have sex, they’re 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. But people aren’t perfect, so in real life condoms are about 85% effective — that means about 15 out of 100 people who use condoms as their only birth control method will get pregnant each year." https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-effective-are-condoms I mean at this point we're giving a cheatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?Right, he hasn't been named publicly and the ex husband has no clue, I'm wondering if perhaps the boys know privately. Kind of hoping they do, but maybe they don't want to. Whatever works best for their own sanity is good at this point of the shitshow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?Ahhh that's right, there's twins I forgot. Still, 98% effective when used correctly seems pretty great to me. I wonder how many years this went on for the two failures. Still risky af to get yourself knocked up while having an affair. Even if she didn't confirm the father and know, she knew she was having sex with 2 people and bc isn't 100% effective. she gave herself the "gift" of plausible deniability to spare herself accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?Totally possible! Do they know who their actual dad is, I hadn't seen that mentioned. I hope they do, even if it isn't the entire world's business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:37 PM |
| 15 | If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it?My current FWB college campus party towards the end of it, some retard I'd want him to say "lol, what a drunk idiot, you good?" and me, as a not crazy person at a college party would say "lol yeah." and roll my eyes and carry on. Retards aren't worth drama or fwb bloody knuckles, just let them retard off into the sunset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?My original comment was that I had no idea what made them turn on their "dad", not that he is incapable of giving them reason. I followed it up by saying divorce alone is enough of a reason in my own brothers so I don't need to be convinced that this is many degrees worse, it absolutely is. Money, education, "status" none of that is a shield for kids in a divorce. Neither is living with dad, mine took all 4 of his sons with him when he left and they *still* hated him for leaving their mother for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:14 PM |
| 6 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?Concealing an affair is one thing, but screwing up bc that badly? She says they were using condoms but what kind of failure rate is 2 pregnancies? I can't believe it was just her (their) bad luck or that their combined stupidity was enough to not leave a reservoir tip or not open the wrappers on razor blades or whatever idiocy they were at. Edit: 1 kid, one set of twins so 2 pregnancies derp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?Clarity on the timeline would help a ton, I'm looking for it too killing time between appointments. I'm fascinated by how someone could think they'd get away with something like this, it almost seems pathological to me. The amount of deception it would take to pull it off with those closest to you. Especially being wealthy and having access to abortion and morning after pills when your affair knocks you up. Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?I can see that pov. Reducing a relationship, especially a parental one, to a dollar amount is crass. But it wasn't crass in the divorce settlement, it was a fair necessity at the time. He came through when it was on him to pay up in good faith. Now it turns out it wasn't in good faith through no fault of his own. If the sons are grown surely they can see that? Personal experience has taught me boys of divorced parents do grow up with very strong feelings on the matter though. Between my brothers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 04:35 PM |
| 78 | Should this guy get back his 4 million dollars for the wife paternity frauding him?He should get paid back, and this woman should be on her knees begging for her son's forgiveness over blowing up their entire known history. At the very least. I have no idea how this made them turn on their "dad" but assume the divorce was perhaps ugly or their marriage volatile in some way that she's used to twist the situation. This is not a "team woman" thing where we all rally and defend a woman capable of this. It's viscerally disgusting to some. Edit: to explain viscerally disgusting: wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Men hate duty sexI'm coming at this from a married 16yrs pov, so grain of salt and all that. But "duty sex" is a thing when you've been together that long and have kids and separate schedules. The trick of it all is to not hate it or inadvertently train your spouse to hate it with a bitter or abrupt attitude. I'd say 2-3 times a month I actually say I'm not into it and it's all him. If he takes that information and wants to try and get me off anyway then that's what he feels like doing and it's all about him tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/19 12:26 AM |
| 12 | Why do men continue to date women who don't put out on the first date?They think they're "getting back at" women and so called betas through getting laid somehow. I can't c/p the comment on the Reddit app but it's above. They're awarding themselves edgelord points for successfully fooling women into a sense of security that grants them sex while telling themselves it's cool because awalt and hypergamy. Or Stacie didn't fuck them in high school or whatever scapegoat that allows deceptive/vengeful motives to be seen as "strategy." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the following marriage traditions.The first one I feel is outdated in the sense it's some kind of barter, but as a parent I'd like a heads up before being sprung with the news. Not permission, because I don't feel it's my place, but a declaration of intent before an actual proposal would be nice. It's how my own proposal went and nobody was shocked or unhappy so it was easy to enjoy the moment and not have to explain anything. On names, I didn't care about it but my husband and his family very much did. Since I didn't have stron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 06:36 AM |
| 13 | Sexual freedom favors women and their loversShe's absolutely right. Many, if not most, women aren't promiscuous because randoms are either not attractive, risky, or we're just not horny for strange. Stop putting man preferences and imperatives in laydeee heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: To what extent should a man pay for a woman on dates (and beyond)?There is the Spring Ball which is a lot like a debutante ball. Except all the girls wear white, there's a dress code. When you're very little the Spring Ball is an excuse to wear "shoes that click" and eat cookies boys have to remember to fetch for you 😂 They hated that and would step on us dancing in revenge lol. Most of Junior cotillion is learning how to be polite to teachers and authority figures regardless of how you feel about them. Teen cotillion is much more focused on vetting, dating, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: To what extent should a man pay for a woman on dates (and beyond)?I went from when I was 8-14 in California, it definitely exists there! My kids go as well, but we're in Texas now so the classes are much bigger compared to SoCal when I went. NLJC has classes everywhere though! They've upgraded the lessons to include not leaving your whole life online as a child which is great. Kids like to rebel against parents so having the message repeated to not own yourself later in life with dumb pics and vids makes it worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/19 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: To what extent should a man pay for a woman on dates (and beyond)?That's not how etiquette works at all. The class dottywine is referring to is cotillion, and I hated those years, but it's all about courtesy and how to act. Part of it is accepting and learning how to handle people without the same level of etiquette gracefully. Not expecting things of them, not embarrassing or shaming them. The goal is to have positive social interaction, not some adversarial manners contest. A personal standard of conduct not put on others. It's also why people get so offende… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | All you women here will slam into the wall hard! Deal with it!I don't even wear makeup because I know the brushes will just hide my pores by dragging off my 38yr old cadaver skin! 🙄💀🧱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/19 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Is my coworker a cunt or just jealous?I couldn't keep a straight face while reading this, my husband is now demanding to be called "Daddy dom farmer captain God King" and described all the ways "I'm sorry" tattooed on my ass will kill his boners forever 😂 Happy New year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Red WineWhat kind? I have a chocolate port that actually tastes incredible. Most taste like Hershey's Robitussin to me so this find was a shocker! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/19 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Is my coworker a cunt or just jealous?Oh my goodness Penny you are TOO FUNNY! My eyeliner is running and I'm not even getting throat fucked to orgasm just like I do when I'm putting out giga anal!! However will I explain this to my daddy-dom-farmer-captain? 😂😘🥕🥕🥕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/19 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Is my coworker a cunt or just jealous?Dick carrots > commitment obvi! You and your forever boyfie-captain are gonna show all the dum marrieds what's up! And 700 calories during the holidays? Hunni👏 you👏are👏an👏 inspiration, your co-worker is just jelly 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/18 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Is it okay for women to complain about objectification while engaging in behavior that might solicit it?I went to a Dita Von Teese show and before it began the announcer act guy did a bit on this since objectification is so frowned upon in general. It was a humorous "please feel free to objectify" bit, because duh clothes are coming off. Irl I've never seen scandalously clad women react to jokes about it, but generally people read the room and situation well enough to make it a non issue. It's probably a bigger deal for the tragically socially inept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: How widely do you read?Same. I love Brandon Sanderson most out of fantasy but don't have a sci-fi favorite. Patrick Rothfuss could edge Sanderson out but STILL waiting on book 3!! There isn't a more gorgeous writer than Rothfuss imo. I hate it when TV shows go preachy metaphor too, it's becoming super common. SJW and virtue signaling in media is right up there with listening to a vegan tell you why they're vegan for the 76557th time. Hold your principles or don't, but aside from how you act or vote the rest just isn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/18 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t girls hang pictures of old rich powerful men in their rooms?They do, but it's usually related to achievement the teen relates or aspires to rather than dollar signs. My daughter has a picture of Elon Musk standing in front of a Spacex rocket. She's never gone off about how hot he is or expressed any attraction to him, but I think it's safe to say innovators and risk takers have an element of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you find old, powerful men attractive?Same, but I gotta disagree on unlimited power being unattractive in Palpatine's case. I'd hit it just to watch the force lightning. Would it be true love? Nah, but I'd bucket list the Emperor with a smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?LITERALLY SHAKING RN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 05:02 AM |
| 2 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?Who says there's no brotherhood among men?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 04:44 AM |
| 2 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?Oh it's spoken! When he's given permission to speak freely... It's okay though, it's fine. He won his fantasy football league and I didn't even keep the money when he stuffed it down my shirt. So he's got the resources to leave, he just doesn't. See? Fine! Edit: he says if he ever wants to escape he'll just turn on both bathroom taps to hot and cold while I'm wearing thermal nail polish. I'm so distracted by the changing color he'll even have time to pack. It's true. He's thought of everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:49 AM |
| 3 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?When he gets out of the brig for his home office looking like a Ferengi shit heap and not maintaining ship air quality (buying AC filters) /s. This is why I don't challenge the notion that PPD women are "weird" 😂 But whatever, been married 16 years. Maybe the male PPD youth could do with a lil more weird and a lil less "strategy." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:37 AM |
| 3 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?Gonna have to keep that rp costume in my head for later😂 I've been abusing my role as captain, my husband is ready to join #metoo. I'm a monster. But he should know if he's gonna mock my perfectly nice red long sleeve dress by getting me a next generation Star Trek costume for Christmas then I'm gonna get the captain pips. And him the Wesley one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?Oh by that definition I'm already there, I just gotta keep this gurl gaem as tight as my ass and fool the ensign, err husband. I mean clearly he's only going to the gym to dread me and my boundless hypergamy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.I think it can change, as long as it's from a simple lack of awareness. If it's fueled by bitterness that can't be let go of then yeah. It's a slow but sure death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:41 AM |
| 3 | What are your PPD-related goals for 2019?Omg you ever want help with shit posting let me know! Personally I have no goal aside from that as I recently attained "captain" status through an expertly reversed husband joke and my life is complete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:39 AM |
| 41 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Sex and/or emo maintenance done without expectations support the continued effort of the other. To me the very term "relationship" describes an easy and happy flow of both between people; and how willing the couple is to make sure it stays that way. If you're going full quid pro quo and doing a tally you've got bigger problems than "equal effort" and something is either missing or fundamentally broken in the relationship. The most insidious in a happy couple being taking each other for granted o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:33 AM |
| 11 | Woman tries to convince her husband to let her use a sperm donor because she wants her kids to be more attractiveLol this is so fake, but I'll bite. Marrying without being child free up front gives your spouse dibs on your baby maker, so maybe choose wisely? Plus if she's making this idiotic looks argument her own better be on point before going all Gattaca. 6/10 is not solid enough, her husband should tell her that her e-z bake oven of a uterus can't make a Michelin 3 star human with her egg contribution and see how well that goes over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Women pretending to be dumbNo, never done this. I love organic conversation that flows and detest people that are "too cool" to own what they're into or know about. Playing dumb is detestable as well because shared enthusiasm is crack to me. It's better than a chiseled jaw or no limit credit card. Women who do this are replacing candid experiences with calculated bullshit and cheating themselves out of life. I'd pity them but they do it to themselves so I feel no particular way about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/18 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: If you chose to not hold out for a man who wasn't in the top 20% of SMV... why?The main issue I have with these questions is that people don't freeze in some kind of relationship or married stasis. Nobody is locked into attractiveness, income, or rate of sexual activity once paired off. There's a series of choices constantly being made to improve or degrade each category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Would you rather be a 21 year old who slept around between the ages of 16-20, or a 28 year old virgin?Oh no, no low libido here. I can think of 3 other women here who are the same. Where this strains the average male PPD users suspension of disbelief is the cases of high libido women who are married. We're all supposed to be committing carbicide while torturing some fat beta bux in a ongoing db war or something. Especially if there are kids involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 05:31 AM |
| 2 | What is your view on a father marrying his daughter's best friend?Makes sense, I would absolutely encourage it to go that way in the daughter's shoes. Edit: now that I think about it in this way my husband is seven years older than me and didn't give a single fuck about my friends. Aside from putting names to faces of the 2 I hung out with most. I imagine a 20+ age difference just makes that inclination stronger, but would still cringe internally at anything horrible the friend might say to my dad about stuff that happened prior to them dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 02:39 AM |
| 3 | What is your view on a father marrying his daughter's best friend?I'm so sorry, that's the nightmare scenario right there! Work or relationship ties that you have no control over and loose lips. Jeez! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is your S.O physically unnatractive?We DO do things irl! But nowhere is it written my interests or my husband's need to be 100% the same or interlinked. Reddit is actually useful for that reason as I find genuine enthusiasm and shared interest necessary to delve into topics or activities I care about. It certainly spares my husband! Though I do sometimes bring up PPD topics if someone is making "men" blanket statements that are too dumb, despicable, or outlandish for me to take at face value. Those are lol conversations. As to why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What is your view on a father marrying his daughter's best friend?Yup, been there! It wasn't work related but while I was in hs my dad had season tickets to every team in OC and LA that he regularly used for business. When he didn't he'd let me or my brothers use them with friends. Once this guy Jack (friend of a good friend) I hardly knew came along. Somehow he and my dad hit it off big when we all met at my house. Whenever I got tickets after that he'd tell me specifically to invite Jack. Okay, whatever. Well one Angels game we all got beer because someone h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 02:08 AM |
| 6 | What is your view on a father marrying his daughter's best friend?It's minor, but if the friend is still active in the daughter's wider circle it could be weird having your dad around all the time. I couldn't imagine my dad being around my friends as a standard +1 rather than extremely rare host. Not because of what he might do or say around them but because he'd analyze and ruin them one by one in conversation with me given enough time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Is your S.O physically unnatractive?"Actually dating Mr Perfect"😂 Many of us married him and in a lot of cases had his kids. He's so perfect he doesn't even make us power down when he takes those kids ice skating so we can get an hour or so of blessed silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 11:01 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel if you found out that your SO had significantly more sex with their ex than they do with you?Don't care about sex that predates me, wouldn't stay with someone I was having bad sex with. Not even a blame thing either, sexual incompatibility is a very valid reason to move on amicably. As a matter of fact, if the sex was bad that explains the lower frequency so it's not like the Scooby gang needs to be called in to see if his ex is haunting his dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men Why would I want to get married young if I can’t be a stay at home mom? WITH ALIMONY protection if I get divorced.YES I'm glad I bothered to scroll the 87365347856 times to get to the automod for this. Her whole outlook on men is colored by post divorce manospherian or scared MGTOW bile. It's like she hasn't put in the time to actually get to know men irl and form her own opinions from experience at all because the internet says there's a ton just waiting on very specific traits she's cultivating. But now time is "running out" and they don't gather in a PPD coffee house for her to select from so frustration… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M : How would you react if you have doubts / find out you've been lied about being the biological father of your children?I don't know why he's doing the careful approach at all, fuck that get the DNA testing. I have a hard time believing she brought up that friend's story to do anything more than test the waters for her own big reveal after seeing him notice the resemblance at the party. The timing seems like more than coincidence, and combined with her over the top reaction...man those tests would be on the way. Family heritage exploration time kiddos! Honestly I wonder how a woman's sense of self preservation is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 December 2018)Eskie puppies in a sleigh with reindeer antlers and rudolph noses. It was a whole scene, and it was freaking adorable. I couldn't compete with cute, so I mean crass was the only option really! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 December 2018)Yeah it's so stupid. I thought his sparkle balls were festive and Chadly. Definitely an improvement on the real ones, he was quite the exhibitionist with them🙄 Anyway posting the controversy was fun fake drama while wrapping presents. And he gets a ribbon and a rescue gets money. Winning! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 December 2018)True, I shoulda grabbed one those icicles and completed the look! Fun story about shaft: lots of people post pics of themselves kissing ferrets on their "belly button." That's actually the peen stash and always a bad idea rofl! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 December 2018)I entered this into a pet Christmas photo contest for a charity and got yelled at for it by one of their fb admins. I guess it didn't fit in with kids in ugly sweaters riding pissed looking dogs in Santa hats. Found out today it got 2nd place so at least the judges had a sense of humor 😂 http://imgur.com/a/hxhwcWm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Psychopathy and being Red pill3.5 and 2.8, purple pill. Both are much higher than I anticipated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Division of Labor at home?Hahahaha mine does that about the steam press thing for clothes. I'm beginning to think if it belches "smoke" it's worth becoming the manly subject expert 😂 It couldn't possibly be because I committed crimes against clothes with an iron out of ignorance 15 years ago he can't let go of lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Division of Labor at home?Right? I find this question hard to answer with specificity because so much of it depends on whose around at the time and frankly who cares more. I'd fall over dead if my husband vacuumed, not because he doesn't pitch in at all but for some reason floors don't trigger him the way they do me. It's totally fine though, our triggers are complementary and not held against the other. All things kids, housework, pets are my deal but he helps out quite a bit if I'm bogged down. Plus our kids are old en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | NOW ACCEPTING ORBITERS, APPLY WITHIN!!Do tell! You've come this far, may as well spill to PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | NOW ACCEPTING ORBITERS, APPLY WITHIN!!Forget orbiters, get a man. How old are you willing to date at 35? Do you have very narrow requirements or a type that's making things hard? I've honestly never met a 40+ man who was finger fucking his phone thirsting over thots, especially if an interested woman was around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Why can’t we be friends?None, that's what unrequited feels causes. Apparently unrequited feelings throwing a wrench into a normal friendship dynamic is a mind blowing concept here. Bloop bleep bloop how do humans even relate, does not compute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t we be friends?I think they can be friends, I don't think they should stay friends if one is attracted. It's an imbalance of power that flies in the face of friendship. The person that's not returning feelings can too easily take advantage of the other (knowing or unknowingly) and the one who is attracted is vulnerable and getting curb stomped to the feels while going "this is fine. We're FrIeNdS!" It's not good for either I don't think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Marriage and kids are two very valid dealbreakersIf you can't laugh through the bad/cringe then you're doomed lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Marriage and kids are two very valid dealbreakersIdk what you mean by "to each their own" but I agree? "Edgy" is having a kid moment, I swear I've heard it every 10 minutes for the last year or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: What would be your dream job? (15 December 2018)I've been waiting to respond to this when I had more than 5 minutes away from Christmas stuff, was so excited to see a former gymnast here lol! It was amazing, and out of the blue! I was all set to become a stemlord. I'd kept in touch with my former head coach, he was at my graduations, wedding, even came to the hospital when I had my first kid. I spent a lot of time at the gym with him while he was coaching and we'd brainstorm the setbacks or challenges with particular athletes while talking ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Marriage and kids are two very valid dealbreakersLOL! My husband and I have kids, when they were toddlers having a "best of child-free" moments we'd hold hands and say "Let's make another. Right now. Idk how we didn't drop a litter so much sooner!" Now that they're older we say similar things in the face of teen angst or insanely immature ignorance that can't be broken through with logic. Arguing with a 15yr old is for suckas, they never shut up when they're on a roll. "Is this reminding you of how smart we were to have kids? Lets go make anot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him?The neurotic, risk averse, and paranoid men would do well to note that men who are all in aren't under some evil wymyn spell making them do stuff to prove it. It's real or it isn't, and half measures are not a sign of real. Cosplaying commitment with a fake wedding reception certainly isn't real rofl! That part cracked me up hardest. Begging for legitimacy not earned in front of all your family and friends, lol. Oh wait that's harsh. Celebrating your non-vow of "I'll love you forever, but just i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What do people get wrong when it comes to love?That it's only legit if overwhelmingly present and frantically needing to be expressed in huge ways. Sometimes it is! Though it's not gone just because your focus is elsewhere momentarily. Having the space to put "love" in your peripheral when you need to is often an act of love in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him?Omg you're having a c/p Reddit tantrum at the thought of a man doing and taking what he wants being attractive to a woman. Did I break you? I'll leave you alone now to get the last c/p in. Just to be on the safe side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 12:17 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him?The premise is totally predicated on this guy being the woman's dream. Hand wringing chickenshits only capable of acting in partial measures (but like he really means it!!) aren't my dream. Sorry not sorry. Edit: More specifically since there's saltiness. It's not about shaming your partner into doing what you want or what the "gynocentric masses" demand. It's basic bitch 101 even: someone who isn't brazenly fearless and acting with conviction on planning a future together isn't going to be comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 12:07 AM |
| 20 | Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him?So he's granting all his feels, inconstant, changeable feels, the weight of manly integrity to go the distance of "eternity." Yet that same integrity shrivels at the "paper" part of marriage. "We can have kids! A fake wedding! ANYTHING BUT A PAPER THAT SAYS WE'RE MARRIED DEAR GOD NOT THAT!" Huh. Well, a guy like that sounds bitch-made and afraid of getting what he thinks he wants. Not my dream, next! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] How much do looks and "personality" matter relative to each other?Looks, sexual compatibility, personality in that order. The first makes the second possible, the second not being good makes the third irrelevant. I'm cool having a nice/pretty friend but have no interest in being friends that fuck badly and calling it a relationship. Especially in a LTR or longer. Hot people with excellent personalities exist, pretending you have to choose is laziness or virtue signaling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: Would you rather your wife cheat on you, or file for divorce?There's a MRP field report up right now about just this thing. My favorite part: "I typically keep to plating married women. (Yes I’m reasonably happily married too, and do this mostly as an insurance policy, for obvious reasons. Fuck your judgements if you have them)." "Reasonably happy." Here I thought frigid nagging bitch fatties are strictly what make our hapless married male victims swallow the pill. You know, to fortify his honorable, loyal, "true understanding of love" efforts to fix the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 04:54 PM |
| 4 | "If You Don't Marry A Past Slut, Then You'll End Up In A Sexless Marriage!"Why? What's so terrible about finding sexual compatibility with someone you give a shit about rather than paying for enthusiasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: What would be your dream job? (15 December 2018)I had it for years, my old head coach opened his own gym in SoCal, it was perfect. We built their team from the ground up, I brought my daughter to work with me, found out I was really good at coaching bars and vault (hardest events for me, go figure I'd remember every trick used on me) and taught our Optionals ballet and did their choreography. Made nationals very quickly, then we moved to Texas and I did it at an internationally competitive gym. This time I got to also make the program that pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Once I got over the shock it was! David (brother in question) reminds me very much of an anger phase rp guy. Prickly, hair trigger, can distill any problem down to the nearest vagina. He has good reason for this, never got over our dad divorcing his mom, hates my mom, his wife divorced him after 6 months of therapy for issues with her own family and started fucking the therapist. As a good looking successful guy things weren't supposed to be this way, and he's been banging rando women ever since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP reducing women down to math problems?Sign me up for a table at this fine charity event! I'll fill it with the best of the deep pocketed purpz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP reducing women down to math problems?All of PPD should book the same floor, if we break the 696969 (repeating of course) barrier it would change incel life as we know it. DEAR GOD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 04:22 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP reducing women down to math problems?2(Louboutin) + Pencil Skirt ÷ D = 696969(repeating of course) I'm pretty sure I just channelled Stephen Hawking, my work here is done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 04:07 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?This is correct. Being given everything you need to succeed at a thing and then a nod when you kill it and "shame to the family" looks or speeches by being average is just great. Normal people differentiate between "excuses" and "reasons" UC not so much, it's success or failure. Girls have it easier on the looks front though if you count moms portioning your food and letting you know what specifically looks atrocious on you and what you should be showing off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | "Familiarity Breeds Contempt", why women can't seem to make up their minds.Yes, this! I share this view. I've been married 16 years, and even though I'm not into everything he is, I'm gratified he enjoys it because why shouldn't he? I have things I do that he's not into as well, but he's the same and doesn't ruin it or sulk. We are very good about entertaining ourselves apart from the other and don't need to have a thumb in each others asses. If anything hearing about it later is great because I'm learning things about him I don't witness first hand, and his enthusiasm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:34 PM |
| 4 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?"See son, she puts up with it cause I'm high value! Bitches, amirite?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?For all the stereotypical and obvious masculine reasons sure, but also because he doesn't endure or avoid shitty people or situations. He honestly improves them. It's a talent I don't have. I put off him meeting my parents and brothers forever over old family drama. He had my angstiest most butthurt brother straight up confiding in him the same night. I never would've predicted it truly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Yup. Though the "princelings" as I called them often had very valid and fucked up stuff to deal with, it was not the stuff I wanted to deal with personally forever. Or even until 18. I moved out at 17, left with my clothes and my car (I bought it) and started college with nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Who, my husband? Fuck yeah I do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:07 AM |
| 11 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Same on ivory tower lack of attraction. I grew up in private schools and cotillion, the princelings were not attractive. I eventually married someone who went to a great college, but mommy and daddy weren't holding the reins or financing his existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Who's sexier to women: Rambo or DraculaExactly, we mustn't hog him forever. His value is naturally only gonna skyrocket with every scar and gray hair, and I don't want the job of beating the swarming jailbait and 20 somethings off him. Shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Who's sexier to women: Rambo or DraculaI promise I won't ask where all the good men have gone when Dracula eats the village 😂 ...unless he's just restricting my unchecked hypergamy, in which case: help help I'm being oppressed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:15 AM |
| 19 | Who's sexier to women: Rambo or DraculaThe only answer here is to Alpha fux Rambo until you get tired of helping cauterize at camp fires. Then Beta Bux Dracula who knew you were going to hit the wall anyway. Mortality is a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?True, idk why disappointment in myself makes me forget this temporarily. All better! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 December 2018)Sweet I'll check it out! Love Ninja Scroll. So quoteable! Although one time we were watching a different show where a woman was talking about yeast infections, husband is glad they don't happen to men. I told him if they were contagious I'd be his Monistat Kagero (sp?) and it was the one and only time I grossed him out. I'm quite proud of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 December 2018)Ninja Scroll (movie) Death Note (series) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:16 AM |
| 33 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?Concern tears are super kinky lube. I feel gross for typing that out loud, I'm so sorry interwebs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?I'd say it's about the same as triggering a woman's maternal instinct. So... someone you consider "high value" but can't or don't want to fuck knocking up or marrying a hot mess. Now that I think about it I remember my mom, aunts, and probably every woman they knew by extension going full wall-o-matriarch with one of my cousins over this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Q4Women - What is your stance on high n-count men?If that's what they're into good for them, but if I knew they were high N-count I was not about hooking up with them in my youth. At the time I considered it a sign of poor discernment and a health hazard. I would prefer an N-count similar to my own, but if I had to pick between high or low....high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Why are still there men who do not want women to work?Because some people have kids like mine (son just got 7 stitches, wonderful!) and need to be permanently on call. Bad jokes aside, if you can afford to, and it works, then there's a lot of convenience that comes from having a parent available. Sometimes it's not as deep as traditional gender roles or whatever, it's just what makes sense for your life and the people in it. My job didn't align well with anyone elses schedule, so it became more of a pain in the ass to keep than not since it wasn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you rather date a man who has hired hookers/escorts/prostitutes, or a man who has had one night stands?Neither is ideal, but assuming there's attraction there of course, I'm gonna say escorts. First because when I was dating I was busy. Work, school, family, homework, finals ugh. Had no business being in a actual relationship but fwb wasn't my deal. I understand being too busy to have a relationship. If that's the case I could see the best thing about a sex partner being knowing when to leave with no feels involved. I said escort specifically because in my mind they're hotter/safer (clean) than a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?Whatever my innermost thoughts are is beyond the scope of the original point, which was that trp and bp view each other as extreme opposites often. I'm watching the Rams, I have no other deep thoughts currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?Hyperbole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?I had to find my bifocals and almost burnt myself on my newfangled oil lamp but I see it! I'm familiar, we were just born tougher. Who didn't engage in a lively game of dozens while trudging to the schoolhouse uphill both ways in the snow back then? Kids these days munches dentures furiously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?I'm a post wall hag but idk what this means, educate me 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?True but it's often men's imperatives vs women's and personal experience vs awalt. Nobody wants to feel shitty. Much of what is discussed is deeply personal or judgemental depending on the person its filtered through. Combined with relative anonymity that makes it raw and real, which is valuable. Or at least interesting, which is more than it would be if people were focused on being polite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said she's attracted to danger.I mean I know all women can't have an orgasm without getting the shit kicked out of them, but it shocks me every time! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?I don't disagree on any particular point, but trp often has the distinction of being "discovered" through personal relationship dumpster fire experience, and bp's are tragically sheltered Disney kids who've never known relationship hardship. There's gonna be fireworks. Hyperbole aside, there's no real separating life experience from a larger cultural view in casual conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend said she's attracted to danger.Are you as shocked by his response as I am 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 12:30 AM |
| 10 | Is there a place where there are no or less bitter people?Maybe, but it would make the conversation very academic and boring. The heat is in the sauce of the pill-jerk, and the sauce is personal experience of the commenter. Besides, people link studies all the time. The opportunity to shove your glasses up and have dazzling stats conversation is ever present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Are You ExperiencedI don't either. Looks like we're going to be in detention with the OP together after class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Do women really wear revealing clothes to ''feel good about themselves''?Yup that's a thing fosho! When it's done purposefully or there's a story behind it then it's a fun quirk or story to tell. Reminds me of dragging out friends studying for finals and barely remembering to eat in whatever they were wearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: Should there be stricter and more gender neutral dresscodes in the workplace?Ugh I can imagine! What problem is being solved with requiring them? Nobody ever has an answer it's just a "thing" that needs to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 5 | How would BP respond to these images of CDC divorce data?I agree with his comment because there's been a shit ton of not getting laid rage disguised as sluts r bad "science" lately. I mean this week has been dissecting club wear and grinding. His reasons might be different for writing what he did but 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: Should there be stricter and more gender neutral dresscodes in the workplace?My favorite /s dress code rule for women came from a friend in the banking and mortgage industry where heels are a must. Wearing panty hose with open toe heels. Not slingbacks or sandals (those are verboten) but regular old peep toe heels. Like that smidgen of toe is such a health or boner hazard it must be contained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Q2RP: artificial uteri, yay or nay?Ohhhh don't get mad about automod shit posting like the uteri and robo-waifu revolution aren't really about showing wimmin what's up for 99% of those eagerly anticipating it. We haven't had machine all the women week in awhile but it's been done. The only butthurt that matters is what would be fueling the single parent family revolution. Taking a wild guess at what that would be...🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Q2RP: artificial uteri, yay or nay?Does it come with a built in giga Fleshlight? I can't even finish this thought. I mean I'm not a guy, but sticking your dick in women is fun I hear. Even (sometimes especially) when they're pregnant with your kid. You can punish that cervix like a speed bag with no worries. And 2-3 months in the titty fairy comes and grants ginormous boobs. The day "uteri" come with those features women might begin to care. Once they stop laughing at a robo-uteri cream pie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Do women really wear revealing clothes to ''feel good about themselves''?Well I got out tonight and hilarity ensued. I had us put at the table where a girl we know (I'll call her Kate) was at with her bf of (2? 3? 10? years..idk he was lying out his ass and answering different depending on who asked) AND had her friend Amy who just got engaged to Preston sitting there. I mean so newly engaged she still twirls her ring around because it feels weird. Kate is itching to get married. I thought it was just gonna be me playing mouthy old married lady. Well Preston fucking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 05:31 AM |
| 12 | Do women really wear revealing clothes to ''feel good about themselves''?This is all true, but men hate it when women demonstrate poor social aptitude too. Most guys aren't looking forward to babysitting a woman socially, and I doubt they're even thrilled to pump and dump the clueless chick amongst the Stacy's. Edit: this comment is a goddamn karma rollercoaster and it's funny because alcohol. Everybody knows I'm not talking about the dudes who think the one girl in their D&D group is Isis reborn because she proudly free bleeds bloody pussy prints onto chairs (it's f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 10:05 PM |
| 9 | Do women really wear revealing clothes to ''feel good about themselves''?The women seem to have variety and awareness covered, but every single guy posts from this social perspective. "My only ice breaker is buying drinks I resent buying, and the only mating signals I recognize are projectile vomiting and grinding. But why are there no nice girls at bars and clubs?? I bought drinks and grinding didn't turn into fucking! How does she not see how Alpha I am, the dimness and noise highlight these things right? Should I get my T levels checked??" People: get an interest,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 09:55 PM |
| 12 | Do women really wear revealing clothes to ''feel good about themselves''?I swear to God PPD lives at clubs and bars. Believe it or not, some men go to events with women, or to meet them. Formal ones even! Where there's no grinding! And you'll never believe it but: women can wear short and/or tight things and look hot at these places with OPEN BARS. It's not even about tricking some beta into buying drinks, who knew?? It's almost like even when it's not a meat market scene men appreciate gf's and wives who look attractive! Commitment doesn't come with a burlap burqua … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchAhhhh I should've included divorced in the breakdown of response wondering. I wonder how often their transactional relationship views with emphasis on sex are from the beginning and when it's in response to the shit hitting the fan. Sometimes I answer stuff (like this post) and think "huh, that sounds kinda rp" but it's not from a transactional know-your-role place. It's always from schmoop 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchI wonder what the single/married/LTR divide is on the responses, and how much personal situations are factoring in on the parts open to interpretation. For instance I read it as a man-centric heads up for a generally happy married couple with intact attraction that enjoys sex. There was no controversy. In my head it was implied that this is about a 'take it or leave it' attitude about sex only and making the choice to take it happily because in general you are happy. Not denying a visceral physi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchLet's blame emojis and autocorrect, that sounds like a good plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 03:39 AM |
| 9 | (Discussion) Is grind-dancing cheating? How about drink buying/acceptingDrinks wouldn't bother me depending on the circumstances, grinding would. Technically it's not "cheating" but the attempt to ride that technicality is gross enough to next over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Are there alpha and beta women?Say no more, I submit to your benevolent authority. Halp! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Are there alpha and beta women?Is this no holds barred otherwise? Hair pulling is a must, but I draw the line at yanking earrings. Mostly because I can't get the bastards in the new piercings out. So maybe going for them would be doing me a solid! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchI wasn't attacking you I just couldn't ignore that part. I thought emoji faces we're supposed to convey that, I've been bamboozled and will now step 12 dread my phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchThe other response you got to this was like reading the flipped version of the men who shriek LIAR! when a woman posts their truth. Everyone wants to be wanted, everyone would rather avoid the sting of rejection. Wanting these things in a marriage isn't a tantrum or rapey, it's the goal. Why people agonize and apply "strategy" when it's not present. I can see the ego perspective, I've seen that play out in my own marriage. At some point just going out of your way to give a shit in a nonsexual wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchLol maybe. As a atheist woman I obviously err on the side of it being a handicap to her girl game. Her husband has a "worldly" job, so I'm not surprised he liked her wardrobe update, which we heard from her. I don't know him and we don't usually talk about our husbands on anything more than surface level. If we're looking at it from a trp perspective, they got together young and she was likely negative n count (lol) but man is she pent up. He should thank his dear and fluffy Lord her book friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchNo, she's 100% a tragic case of failure to girl thanks to religion but she does go to the gym. In a big ass t-shirt and sweats. I say failure to girl because she very often confuses utility for vanity or vice versa because she's clueless. Like nails. I have medium length natural nails because even filed they're extremely sharp, when short they're worse because I can't angle my fingertips to get them out of the way. The easiest way to blunt them is to keep them painted, even just a thick clear to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchWe did so much worse for lols... we had our own baby shower for her with her last kid. There may have been butt plugs and vibrators involved. It was priceless. We're all friends I swear! She lost all the baby weight immediately so we took her shopping because her clothes were swallowing her. Slutted her up a bit (by her standards) while we were at it. Her body is a marvel tbh, kids didn't ruin her. Anyway she's loosening up slowly, when we call her homeschool she slaps us in the tits. It's fun. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchThis attitude isn't unheard of and doesn't breed resentment irl with women. Maybe online, or at a radfem conference it would but in general no. We give each other shit for lack of sex or boring sex among close friends. There's a woman at our book club with 4 kids that acts like sex is dirty, we're fascinated by her. She says incredible stuff in denial about frequency or variation in sex, and she believes it. Eventually we were just like everyone knows you're not a virgin Karen, you aren't guardi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchIf a guy is looking for that orgasm and applying years worth of knowledge to get it then 👋💯 If I'm incredibly stressed out about something it won't happen, but I'm up front about it. Sometimes he's like "bleh boring not interested" in an exaggerated joke way, sometimes ignores me and goes right ahead. A lie isn't really necessary if you've communicated possible barriers to mutual satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so muchDon't have a CMV for this one as I agree. The closest comparison I have is guys doing gf/wife centric stuff enthusiastically so as not to ruin it. Like brunch. The best brunch place near us doesn't do mimosas, this is fucked because I love the coffee-mimosa balancing act, but he doesn't drink. When we go to mimosa place he's thorough in making me a believer and not ruining it even though I know he's wishing he was eating the other places chorizo omelette. It's all worth it once buzzed me goes to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Women settling down with a beta bucks: Is it a carrot or a stick?I honestly wonder how many of these types are just pissed they aren't into guys. His level of laydeee hate is comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, men with higher levels of Autism Spectrum traits are better at analyzing people according to their behaviors rather than by how they look!Ahhhh that explains a lot actually, til! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on?You guys saying we lie or edit looking to fit in are assuming we give many more fucks than we do. I've disagreed with regulars here, it's nbd. Most of the women are pretty chilled out despite differences. A lot of us have been downright graphic when it comes to preferences or hard no's so it's not like there's a book of laydeee secrets we're sworn to protect. I'm guessing if our husband's or SO's said what we say from their perspective it would suddenly make sense, but they aren't on Reddit to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Apparently, men with higher levels of Autism Spectrum traits are better at analyzing people according to their behaviors rather than by how they look!It's always seemed bizarre to me that everyone knows autism makes social functioning "normally" in society hard, but the burden is on autistic people to mask it for their comfort. It seems to make more sense for neurotypicals to accept it and move on with grace if their social skills are so much better. So backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?The ones I know irl do unless they're sick or otherwise incapable. This notion that women in general are one hundred percent asexual prudes over time is bizarre. I don't see it playing out like that irl. It dovetails nicely into the online assumption that LTR/Married people only fuck when all of their comfort and attraction needs are met and in perfect stasis while Mercury is in retrograde though and that's nice. People accommodate or seduce each other way more than they're given credit for in g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 3 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?I wasn't sure exactly what to address since DB isn't an issue here, but that incident came to mind quickly at the phrase "playing house." Looking at the other comments it seems how to avoid the dreaded DB with kids. I've posted our kids aren't allowed in our room unless they're broken or bleeding before. Noise monitors are a wonder when they're little. They also believe in Santa and the tooth fairy. Any parent incapable of running distraction on them while little has a crippling lack of creativi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:14 PM |
| 3 | (Q4 People with kids) Adulthood or Playing House?Two kids, married 16 years. To me the things that scream "playing house" are a total disconnect from being what your partner needs, and not recognizing or appreciating your partners efforts to meet your needs. These are deeply personal slights between people who have committed to doing the opposite. Especially if they've put in the time and effort previously to be experts on the other. Giving up or weaponized spouse knowledge is as personal as it gets. "Studies" and assumptions don't capture the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Men dropping out of societyWow. You got a r/childfree reference for saying you find having kids awesome and worth it in the first response! I wonder if he thought you'd "see the light" and drown them in the bathtub or something so that you too could be Reddit cool. I find them awesome and worth it too. ArE wE nOt EdGy?? Horror! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 06:58 AM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later?Mmhhmm. And every time I read the whole routine of acting like new and different sex is owed and see all the rage between the lines I die inside for that man's wife. Women don't think "that sounds fun!" we think "so...sex has been this boring chore you've endured" for however long and go into duty mode. I get wanting variety. I don't get how contempt for where you're at or where you came from sexually seems like a winning strategy to expand those horizons. New stuff means vulnerability. Who want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later?A lot of the failure to replicate imo has to do with men who are obsessed with who is putting in what exactly and acting like ass and date accountants. Hot. They should try being fun. Chad isn't always 10/10 looks, sometimes that motherfucker is just fun and creates a wallflower approved sex kitten environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 11:44 PM |
| 6 | In all honesty, what was MrDeadMoth actually supposed to do?One of my husband's friends did this when his wife (whose first husband was physically abusive) was slapping the shit out of him. He had no idea what to do and was shocked. Her daughter from her first marriage called the cops on him. What ended up happening is his wife getting arrested because she'd scratched him up. He ended up having to comfort the daughter for calling the cops because she'd never considered her mom would ever be at fault after enduring her dad. Kids are a massive x factor in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | In all honesty, what was MrDeadMoth actually supposed to do?Yeah I'd be mortified if this was happening around innocent bystanders let alone a slew of people specifically watching me/us. I'm guessing that's partially generational, and I don't mean that in a condescending way. Broadcasting your life on the regular and potentially from a young age likely lowers your inhibitions. Comfort isn't freedom from consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 05:51 PM |
| 13 | In all honesty, what was MrDeadMoth actually supposed to do?This is a great answer. My husband games and very rarely I do too, because literally everything else is more important to us. If your house is in chaos turn off the goddamn rig or console and handle your business. I'm not supporting the wife in her bullshit but as an overall method to living burying your head in a game fails. It would be just as nice if she didn't resort to five year old attention grabs and annoyances that escalate to physical. Spouses have interests that don't always include yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with cunnilingus?!!!! Speaking of rappers bragging about hating going down or not having to do it for them hoes, you remember the 1999 song Put it in Your Mouth? It was a great rebuttal to the norm at the time. I'm gonna find a link, it's 👌😂 Very NSFW and gloriously crass. https://youtu.be/vLk9NMQks7U | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: are school dances intrinsically sexist and homophobic?Kids that want to bang don't need a school sanctioned event to do so. Also the heteronormative thing is still a thing, but schools generally don't want to be put on social media blast for imposing or enforcing a straight aesthetic or couple pairing so it's dying off. Hanging on in Bible belt-ish places but a lot more rare. There's strictly LGBTQ and friends dance options in Texas for kids who go to shitty schools who "allow" LGBTQ couples and attire as policy. Well, they make them extremely unco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 05:05 AM |
| 3 | This Christmas, give your wife a cheat pass?!Sixteen years here. Put me in the "I get why people would/do open up marriages but it's not for me." camp. Though as I get older and the idea of only living once really starts sinking in, I'd be okay with him doing something reeeeaally sick and depraved that I have no interest in with someone else. Or if I got cancer or something banging someone else. But I have no interest in getting strange myself. We've talked about the idea of passes, he's got a much harsher view of them than me both in issu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Omg that's both hilarious and disturbing! There were swarms of tiny jellyfish in the water when we went to St Lucia. Harmless thankfully, but so tiny I can absolutely see how this could happen. Still though, how random lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Everything is better when it's illegal! Tounging ass is only okay in water because the negatives cancel each other out or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Oh no lol! We've never been walked in on, but I can imagine the horror 😂 We used to spend Christmas break on vacation and only see our parents for meals. The least fun part of being an adult is now knowing those were parent flagrant fuck-fests. My mom talks waaay too much. I try not to cringe but it only encourages her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?I blame hair. The water from it goes directly to my eyeballs. Seek and Destroy ( u c wut I did thur?!) Non sex showers are very nice though, someone else to back scrub is a yesplz. All the gratitudes come after the shower though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Right?? The whole thing ended up being comedy. It started (forever ago) because I used to be sheltered and didn't know it was a thing. Husband is like lolol and shows me fisting porn. There was shock, horror, fascination in that order. Turns out anatomy is a thing, and bones grinding sucks. I honestly wonder how it works if you succeed and can get a woman off like that, like how does the guys hand not get dislocated or broken? Especially if you've been hitting the kegels. There's some pretty int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 04:50 PM |
| 2 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?We think alike in this! That video is perfect 😂 The "false rape allegation" crew is hopefully not into casual encounters of that nature rofl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:47 AM |
| 2 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Yup I get it in that context fosho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:45 AM |
| 4 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?That I totally understand! I'm not even against roughness, just really weird how online you aren't fucking unless you're fucking the woman's face/head up somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:44 AM |
| 2 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?It's the best, get right on that! No family/wedding pics in there or tv. It's blissful clothing optional peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:40 AM |
| 3 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Oh one of the very first things our kids were taught is our bedroom is invitation only unless someone is bleeding or broken. Nudity is very safe beyond our door, though turning the shower on is a decent sound muffler! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:21 AM |
| 10 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Yes, literally every partner I've had has cared if I got off unless circumstances made it clearly about him. I don't fuck people who I don't enthusiastically want to fuck, or someone that doesn't enthusiastically want to fuck ME instead of a collection of nearby holes. I get that you're trying to paint some "ascended sexual being" picture, but you can have everyday sex that isn't about you(!) without slapping the shit out of/scalping someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:16 AM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?I feel that way when I'm beyond the shore and it's horizon as far as the eye can see. Especially at night, my ass is not jumping in. Shoreline not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 05:03 AM |
| 3 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Same. The closest I've come to surprise violence or pain is being bitten hard, but I'm very into that so it worked out. I'm wondering if it's more of a casual sex thing? I honestly don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 04:58 AM |
| 2 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Yup the lubrication is a lie and the chafing you feel later is real. Speaking of which: beach sex and/or fingering should be a strict "no" for sandy vag reasons, but I'm an idiot who will do it and live with regret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 04:54 AM |
| 6 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Shower sex: it's overrated. Slippery, water flying everywhere. More trouble than it's worth. Being a ass eating recipient. Once a tongue has been in a dumper it's out of play. I don't have a problem with anything else in or touching my asshole it's very specifically a tongue thing. Edit: I can't believe I forgot this one, it's at the very top of my never again list. Fisting. Not with lube, not with neoprene gloves and lube, not after or before an orgasm. It's a NO. Honestly, I think my husband j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 04:43 AM |
| 21 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?+1 for this. If Reddit is to be believed no woman is having sex without getting slapped or throat fucked and can't get off without at least 3 fistfulls of hair being ripped out. Idk if it's posturing or how the cool kids fuck, but anyone slapping me better be sure there's no sharp objects in my reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Many of the couples who argue over division of household labor could afford a maid, and no good reason exists to avoid doing so for those couples who can afford it.Wow you built furniture?! That's awesome, as is the flooring, I'm impressed too! I've replaced lighting fixtures, painted the house, put in a laminate plank flooring in the room our pets "live" in (allergic to cats so we have ferrets and they have actual food fights with mice), and stained cabinets, so I was surprised too when he freaked out. It was the saw, he was sure I was going to lose a hand and bleed out between our kids rofl. It was legit anxiety or I would've done it anyway. I did turn t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Many of the couples who argue over division of household labor could afford a maid, and no good reason exists to avoid doing so for those couples who can afford it.We don't hire anyone for house cleaning, but we have a landscaper/mower and a handyman service for random stuff that comes up. The second one comes from the time I bought a compound miter saw for replacing baseboards. Husband was in Ottawa and thought I was kidding. I told him I'd watched all the YouTube videos on how to do it and mount the saw blade. That convo went from text to my phone ringing quick. Now I have a useless saw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If some freak accident happened to your vag, what would you do to keep your man?Learn how to apologize. jk jk, per spouse jokes I'm only required to do that if I maim my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why Do Women Keep Denying Their Own Hypergamy?"I am a woman, and I feel the mindless desire to acquire goods that maximize convenience in my life. I know this about myself, and I feel ashamed to admit this to other men, because so many of them think giving women shit is TRUE ROMANCE. I'm coming clean about this, because it's better to confront that materialism =/= hypergamy." FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Everyone wants to be a slut but no one wants to date a slut.It also looks more to me like women want a man who is not a virgin. She doesn't mind that he's fucked a couple other women; but she doesn't want to be the one he cuts his sexual teeth on. This is accurate for me and many of the friends I had in the dating years. Unpopular opinion or changed general standard perhaps, what with all the current emphasis on enthusiastic consent (constant checking in/permission version) and seeming trend of dating very closely within your age range. Back then older +… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the real divorce statistic?Nothing. My niece has told me of her cooking "skills" so I maintain she sucks a mean dick. Certainly not career accomplishments, education, or earning potential either. It's not her looks or he wouldn't be directing her to every needle, stylist, and squat rack to make her into his ex rofl. I am confounded in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | What is the real divorce statistic?Yup! It happened way before the divorce too. He's part owner of a clothing line, and spent a lot of time in NY to start his own. It "just made sense" to get a place there. A very nice place with a fantastic skyline and river view. My husband and I visited them there when they bought it and went shopping with them to decorate the place. At some point on that trip my husband told her it all looked very suspect, like he was prepping his fuck hut. This is saying a lot, because my husband and him wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the real divorce statistic?In a weird way I'm glad I'm not alone in that lol. The ornament wasn't even the focus of the shot, I wonder if his daughter has seen or noticed it :( There's lots of feel good petty to be had here though fear not! He MARRIED this skank and she immediately put on 30 pounds and decided to become a body acceptance IG thot. I only know this because my niece is old enough to recognize icing her dad out if we were to suddenly abandon all forms of communication and he's worse on social media than his n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | What is the real divorce statistic?Yeah this was the most brutal divorce I ever saw, it shocked me and I've seen a lot. My own family is blended, grew up with friends with divorced parents that acted out in bizarre ways, etc. I agree with you on the observable holding more weight than numbers and studies, if anything it's more surprising and keeps you better prepared than some sense of statistic security. Shit, according to stats I should be divorced 500 times over. Reality being what it is makes me pretty firmly purple. In thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 03:41 PM |
| 5 | What is the real divorce statistic?We all are sheltered in some way. I knew about my sister in laws husband cheating so their divorce didn't surprise me as a result. Then I saw a pic of his Christmas tree my niece posted. An ornament that had the sidepieces name and his with 2014-2018 on it. His divorce was in 2017. Lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 01:22 AM |
| 3 | What is the real divorce statistic?My husband has 4 siblings that married, so do I. Out of nine couples only us and his stepsister are still together. All of his guy friends he grew up with are divorced, and only 2 of the friends I still have from childhood are still married. When I take my kids to friends houses it's pretty likely the location will change last minute based on custody schedules kids don't pay attention to. The stat seems high, but divorce is everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Sorry guys, but your n-count standards are up for criticism.So many "field reports" are exactly this. The most memorable ones anyway. MRP seems the least tolerant of it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very differentCouples behavior that ranges from awww to mouthpuke inducing. Me and Penny had a couple posts about it in the Julia Child thread yesterday. Anything happy not born of "strategy" is aids and obviously fake online, so between not being offended by schmoop and the bitter bitch dv's I'mma keep it is flair for awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very differentWe're near Dallas, it's legit huge here. They don't have time to make anime club interesting by itself because they're all in football, band, cheer, etc and those are huge time sinks. But they got the band director to do a Halloween halftime show this year that combined band, drill, cheer, color guard, etc in costume. If you weren't in the Tokyo Ghoul or SAO group it was OVER. My nieces go to high school in SoCal, they're much more into animation and the art behind it there and have some pretty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very differentYeah it's one of those things that gets like a year or two of actual backlash before you just gotta accept it if you hate it or can openly like it without people trying to shame you. I remember when online dating first came out, it was immediately presumed to be for losers and creeps. People didn't even admit if they met online for the longest time. Now it's almost weirder if you don't! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very differentLol indeed. I see a lot of shitting on anime and gaming here but they're not the loser/ dork/autist things they're made out to be as far as high schoolers go in California or Texas. All the stereotypical cool kids are in the anime club and if you weren't invited to the group theme costume thing it's social suicide or whatever. 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very differentIt was too perfect, I swiped it! It's a schmoopy time, our 16th anniversary was recent. Here's some gross schmoop tea: our daughter bought us Jack and Sally dolls at Disneyland when she was 12 at around the same time. Came home and put them in a display case lol. She's added to that collection consistently and this year it was Kirito and Asuna. People that don't know us probably think our house is a freak zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman in my husband's office meddling in our relationshipMe too!! Real talk though in my case she always had her shit together and was great at her job. Just VERY opinionated and bossy. I found that if I honored her professionally I could poke fun at her suggestions and she could take it. Only to her face though, never give the office GOOP Goddess back stabby drama and she'll be there to save your ass when you need her. My husband's office GP is a lady boss. Hits her spots professionally and is frankly a subject matter expert on a lot of things. Her s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/18 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very differentI'm reminded of the 2011 cinematic classic 'Your Highness' in which the hero asks "What exactly would it take to tame such an adventurous slut?" while watching Natalie Portman bathe in a thong like a creeper. As a real answer though I think some women mean "I like to travel" and some mean "let's fuck" and some mean "let's travel and fuck." Some level of discernment is required based on the rest of her profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL, but mostly women. What makes a timid man disgusting?Timid people are very often insecure, ask permission/need approval before doing basic stuff, and are too busy overthinking to be spontaneous. This may come off as "mysterious and aloof" at first but quickly gets boring. Even annoying and disgusting if timid guys need for approval puts you in a mommy role you didn't ask for or want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Did this couple settle?That's understandable, having and following a preference makes total sense. It's the preemptive shaming by internet randoms that's weird to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Did this couple settle?Yup, we just danced at Costco because the right song came on and still took up less room than all the soccer moms and their broods 😂 People are free to avert their eyes! Gotta kill time waiting on a pizza, ain't nobody got time to cook on Vikings night between kid homework help and activities! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Woman in my husband's office meddling in our relationshipMy comment was more about addressing that family and kids do come up in the office environment since yours was about what not to talk about at work in general. People put pics up at their desks, leave early for kid stuff, talk about being pregnant, complain about kids or humblebrag about kid achievements and that's all off the top of my head. Sure he could muzzle himself, but it would only be self imposed exclusion whenever the topic comes up. Wouldn't affect office busybody in the slightest. He… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/18 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Woman in my husband's office meddling in our relationshipThis is easier said than done. Co-workers often bond over family and kid stories and such. Closing off that avenue of discussion could handicap him and make things awkward. As much of a busybody line crosser that this woman is, him establishing boundaries rather than a full retreat on the topic would likely be enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Did this couple settle?Word, I don't. The interwebs is often too edgy for me in this area. I'm completely and truly into happy couples, it makes me stupid. Especially if they're my friends! I encourage public displays of weirdness and affection. Edit: I didn't anticipate this being such incel dv bait and would like to add not being a bitter bitch about happy couples isn't even the grossest normie thing I'm into 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Did this couple settle?This can't be underestimated. They were so uniquely able to understand and support each other in an environment of secrecy, violence, and hope. That kind of bond + risk is very likely nuclear powered sex and relationship fuel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 05:41 PM |
| 18 | Discussion: Did this couple settle?💯 this On a related note, Reddit (relationships, ask women/men) often says "Don't do x around your friends as a couple, it makes people uncomfortable." It always makes me die a little inside because it's usually something silly that merely implies a strong bond. An inside joke or hugging for more than 5 seconds. Not exactly flying your freak flag stuff and yet people upvote the shit out of stifling advice. More bathtub v-day cards and long hugs imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Did this couple settle?I don't think they settled at all. I think they got tremendously lucky and found their oddness was complimentary and reveled in it rather than trying for appearances or what they "should" be doing. Those Valentine's cards are fantastic lol. Frankly I find them to be enviable, or as the kids say: #goals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 2 | What is the female sacrificial equivalent of a man giving up porn?Ehhhhh I can understand being anti porn addiction as in: guy who death grips and can only get it up to midget furry fisting scat play or some such niche shit. But porn in general for your average fucking enthusiast? Why not. The porn industry is providing a service. I don't have the bandwidth or creativity to come up with what they do, but we all have the same equipment. The question of sacrificing equally seems beside the point. Unless you're a Chatsworth approved Swiss army fuck hole slut why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 03:57 PM |
| 13 | Woman in my husband's office meddling in our relationshipThis is great advice. All I have to add is there always seems to be a self appointed "office matriarch" in every office, and this chick sounds like his. A woman either older or happily married or both that wants to be THE source of how to live for everyone. The office Gwyneth Paltrow will try to GOOP snail trail everyone in her path and assert herself as the professional lifestyle standard. She can look scary or worth falling in line for because she's typically great at her job and appears to ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What are your dealbreakers? Please include your gender as part of your answer.Female Introverted (only room for one of us), Extrovert with no boundaries (be situationally appropriate), religious, unhygienic, smoker, secretive, non-functional drug use (handle your shit, no heroin, nothing but 420 on the regular), animal and kid hate, scared to try new things/default answer to novelty is "no" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: at what age should a woman stop exploring her career options and settle into a job and have a family before she becomes too old? Would you support your wife making large career decisions? [Advice AND General question]You don't have to agree to participate in a relationship with that dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: at what age should a woman stop exploring her career options and settle into a job and have a family before she becomes too old? Would you support your wife making large career decisions? [Advice AND General question]Go on dates. Lots of them. Regardless of where you think you're at with the wall, meeting people sounds like it should be a higher priority. You could do this while making positive job or education changes too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: at what age should a woman stop exploring her career options and settle into a job and have a family before she becomes too old? Would you support your wife making large career decisions? [Advice AND General question]That's not guaranteed, and if you don't like that financial arrangement don't agree to it. I don't work currently but have have in the past, am SAHM'n it up. Honestly the only time I've ever seen such a harsh division of income and whose responsible for contributing what is on Reddit. In actual young adult human life and not random internet wishes and aspirations, the higher income person was very often either supported by their spouse or stunted the career growth of said spouse with kids and al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: at what age should a woman stop exploring her career options and settle into a job and have a family before she becomes too old? Would you support your wife making large career decisions? [Advice AND General question]If you're miserable in your job why not change it for your own happiness and sanity? A sense of purpose or fulfilment and general happiness is only going to do good things for being attractive and who you attract. Being 24-25 isn't on the verge of menopause or the old folks home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Radical feminism and traditionalism: a snake biting its own tail.I agree, both are extremes meant to serve the "movement" they represent and annoying/detrimental in their own ways. Neither seems capable of self examination to evaluate the worth of ideas they push. I don't think most people fit neatly in either extreme camp though, so a lot of it is shrieking to stay relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Radical feminism and traditionalism: a snake biting its own tail.The sane people of feminism. There's a rabid segment that will tell you you're holding women back by having kids at all. Essentially that means you've submitted to the enemy. I've run across them and been told verbatim that participating in marriage and family is actively holding women back. Edit: I didn't realize calling paid maternity leave sanity and shitty things self identified hcore feminists say was so offensive. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | I see people here say women avoid players/hot guys for relationships because of the risk. I see little evidence of that in real life.Fair enough, more coffee and reading for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I see people here say women avoid players/hot guys for relationships because of the risk. I see little evidence of that in real life.Men can and do hide their antics or past in light of this. It's popular to assume men flaunt while women hide or lie about their past but it's not true. I found out some sick shit (what passed for sick shit to 20 yr old me) about 8 months to a year into the relationship that was eventually marriage. Was not a "cool girl" about it, but too invested by that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What score did you get in this social intelligence test?For sure!! I definitely noticed it in dancers. You get a tactile sense of who they are just by looking at them. One of my best friends growing up was my neighbor and ballet student with me. She never turned it off and could break a heart with a flick of her wrist. Haxx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How much attention would you want from your wife?My husband is like this, and it's not as terrible as it sounds on the surface. If I have a conflict he doesn't freak out. And it's not just for purposes he decides. If we're swamped and the only time we have is errands he doesn't need to go for he'll offer to drive just to be there. That usually turns into other more interesting things like going somewhere just to go instead of errand drudgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women will sleep with a swan if he is a Chad.Right? A literal God...the swan D would be the least weird thing in the scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women will sleep with a swan if he is a Chad.Droppin that swan knowledge, I feel personally attacked curses the chickencels she's currently feeding http://imgur.com/a/xWIOXn7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What score did you get in this social intelligence test?Very true. The whole body tells a much more accurate story, I guess just the face is hard mode for testing purposes. I'm retaining my intuition card for average body language accuracy! Your observation regarding shoulders and where a person is looking reminds me of a time in ballet where we got screamed at over head placement in relation to shoulders. I'd totally forgotten about it, but yes, it's a big part of conveying emotion accurately according to angsty choreographers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Changing Appearance for Him or for myself?If you both are drawn to it, why not? I love "unnatural" color. Have fun with it. Derp, hit enter on my phone. Anyway if you want to try bangs, fold your hair into bangs and clip/pin them down to see what it does for your face. You can also get human hair extensions online pretty cheaply to try out the color. I have blue, purple, and pink. When I'm done with them I take them out, no color care or maintenance required except washing them every few months. I'll see if I can crop a blue pic. Amazon… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 09:39 PM |
| 3 | What score did you get in this social intelligence test?I thought the same thing! "Blue Steel" in heavy eyeliner doesn't scream "aghast" or "pensive" to me. Plus some of the pics were grainy af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 06:57 PM |
| 2 | What score did you get in this social intelligence test?29/36, handing in my "women's intuition" card | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Husband BragThank you! I'd been eyeing it for awhile but was a chicken, I'll put the link on the bottom. It's so much better in person! There's a full on structured dress beneath the dress, I'm pretty sure it's hard to impossible to look bad in it lol. Though getting it on is rough once it's on it's so stretchy and comfy. There's no zipper so they say to step into it, but if your husband or bf is there to man strength it down you can totally put it on over your head 😁 The other fun thing is that you can pul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The DeclineTotally agreed! I've commissioned art right off Instagram, I love it. I actually like the music my kids listen to because they're so much better at finding these absolute gems online than I ever will be. It's a great time to be alive for artists and people who are willing to dig and discover new and beautiful things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 03:57 PM |
| 10 | Husband BragI bought a dress for Christmas parties and despite taking measurements and smugly ordering a small with certainty, I could NOT get the thing over my hips. It's supposed to be tight, but not smudge my nail polish pulling it up tight. I gave up. Was sad. Re did my sad ruined nails in defeat. Am on my laptop next to him in his office this morning and he sees I'm looking up a return policy. I explain I have to return a dress because they don't have the next size for an exchange. He's like "I bet I c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In some cases, casual sex is far better than relationship sex from a purely physical standpoint (woman POV)Preach. She probably hates it because low hygiene standards makes all sex awful and this position(s) has the added bonus of sucking for skipping leg day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 10:43 PM |
| 4 | CMV: In some cases, casual sex is far better than relationship sex from a purely physical standpoint (woman POV)I feel vindicated. I read this post, mouth puked, and got fiercly judgy in a "what a disgusting lazy person" kinda way but with much more colorful language and disgust. Then felt a little bad. After reading this post history of purposefully revolting and downright shady shit I'm back to mouthpuke but letting the judgy flow freely like a Sith's hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many Incels hate sluts?Was sitting here thinking the same thing. Oh no! Someone who acts situationally appropriate and isn't a prude, horror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Do women tend to prefer younger men after a certain age? Are Twilight moms (for example) just exceptions or more common but maybe some just don't say it out of fear of judgement?Oh she was popular in the 90's with the girls anyway. And people who had their identities caught up in not being mainstream at all lol. That was her downfall I think, she was a UMC white girl terrified of being labeled a poser, extremely nervous and inconsistent at live performances both in presence and performance, and her music videos were garbage in a time when Mtv was a thing. By the time she realized avoidance of mainstream and fitting in was killing her it was too late. I do love her thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 09:02 PM |
| 15 | CMV: The reason women yell and complain so much is because it works for themI've found this to be true irl. In practice giving people the benefit of the doubt and addressing things in person to get resolution or assistance works best. Pretty sure people like the OP would view that as hypoagancy or playing damsel or whatever other derogatory term they can make work for simply not being a screechy bitch. I only use anger when I don't care about the outcome but feel wronged enough to make it known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Do women ever really love men?I'm gonna ignore all the "love me like a child" or whatever stuff as it's been covered. Imagine someone came into my life and provided for me, took me out to dinners, gave me new experiences. Was charming and funny to me. Don't have to imagine thankfully. Whether it's giving time, things, or experiences these are all choices made and actions taken by the man. Speaking for my relationship, actions on his part are everything, we don't need to have a hour long conversation about the feels on his pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Do women ever really love men?hahaha damn! I will write the inevitable conclusion of the Porch Pill instead which is totally not based on Back to the Future. LRM (Lamp's rights movement) generates 1.21 giga(T)watts of electricity through light fixture carousel whore Moth wing beating. They then go back in time to when Lamps were Lamps and Moths stayed wingless on the bulb where they belong! The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Do women ever really love men?I had like a whole RP Moth/Lamp theory typed out way too fast to be normal before I hit backspace furiously in shame. I'm mother of the Porch Pill. Brb starting the new hit blog | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Do women ever really love men?I blame Moth hypoagency for the downfall of porch society all over the West. Lamp was just providing light like he always do and Moth just couldn't shut her whore wings and land for more than a flap or 2 to the bulb! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Do women ever really love men?That Alpha moth dick 2 gud :( Edit: You know you PPD too much when you derp on who was widowed at first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Do women ever really love men?If you don't love lamp the way moth loves lamp is it really love??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 05:16 AM |
| 2 | MGTOWs are looking for an answer to prove them wrong, but that will never comeAnd that disqualifying behavior has inherent risks for a woman looking for LTR/marriage. She could miss out on a great relationship, or end up single having written off too many men in her youth either through fear or overestimating herself. Nobody gets a guarantee is the point. Tapping out of the SMP entirely and unhappily seems to be an overreaction to inherent risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | MGTOWs are looking for an answer to prove them wrong, but that will never comeI get that for the ones who are MGTOW 4 lyfe with no doubts and happy. It's the ones who choose it fearfully while wanting a relationship I don't understand. A fear based preemptive strike against your own potential happiness is actually very sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Do women tend to prefer younger men after a certain age? Are Twilight moms (for example) just exceptions or more common but maybe some just don't say it out of fear of judgement?Yes indeed, Exile In Guyville should be on the sidebar 😂 Especially Fuck and Run and Divorce Song. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 01:21 AM |
| 4 | MGTOWs are looking for an answer to prove them wrong, but that will never comeRelationships are a gamble for everyone though, not just MGTOW's or men. I've been with my husband 18 years, 16 of those married. He could eviscerate me if he felt like it, he's not the powerless creature RP and MGTOW describes merely existing at my pleasure. I guess I don't understand the conflict with dissatisfied MGTOW's. Success isn't guaranteed in very much at all in life, it seems like for MGTOW's who want relationships they're getting caught on the risks rather than rewards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 01:09 AM |
| 7 | MGTOWs are looking for an answer to prove them wrong, but that will never comeI get what you mean by saying "people in long term relationships feel as though it's effortless." But its not exactly like that. It's more like what comes from the effort is so fulfilling that the effort itself isn't the focus. Even in the beginning when everything is all honeymoon-ish and new and fucktastic it was still inconvenient, time consuming, and exhausting. Between jobs, school, sleep, friends and random commitments outside of the relationship you're juggling you just don't care because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Sex doesn't "ebb and flow" in a relationship. Sex is on a ratchet, it only decreasesIt's very easy to sound clinical on PPD because people tend to speak in general or link studies. And that's fine, but it's also not how life works with 100% certainty. It's like macro (PPD) vs micro (RL) sex economics lol. But I agree with you on cozy and happy being aspirational, like why bother if that's not the goal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Sex doesn't "ebb and flow" in a relationship. Sex is on a ratchet, it only decreasesOne of the other things here is parents cave to shaming once kids pick up on why they're being thrown outside. They aren't dumb and they have what they think is hilarious commentary. My dearest daughter is (was) big on that, but she learned her parents will tank her jokes and play the escalation game until she runs off shrieking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Sex doesn't "ebb and flow" in a relationship. Sex is on a ratchet, it only decreasesHahahaha I was the "so he can pass out and I can finish watching Sabrina" poster 😂 It's true though, there are so many reasons to bang that aren't "I'm horny" or deep emotional connection intimacy requirements. They're all valid! My favorite reason that isn't classical "ReLaTiOnShIp 😍♥️😍" reasons is when he's in a shit mood with no discernable cause, or one he's not explaining to me because it's work related and I can't do anything about it anyway. This is very rare though, and he's never an ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 November 2018)Man that sucks it's so far away! I don't think they're done either, you have time to make it work for sure. Speaking of having time though, I'd never seen The Cure in concert or had any particular desire to. Then I found out they'd be here and mentioned it to my husband in a "maybe we should go, I didn't even think they toured anymore" kinda way. I didn't think anything would come of that but we were front and center at the biggest venue in Dallas, and it was off the chain. The lights and sound … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 November 2018)You should totally go if they're playing near you! They've been covering all kinds of random great stuff on different dates and playing all the classics except for Closer. Idk why they hate Closer now but whatever, Reptile is way more vulgar hah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 November 2018)Dude the Cruz call out was the BEST! We were hardcore Beto supporters, sigh. I love that they asked who voted for Cruz and had the lights turned up before shitting on him with those people's hands in the air rooofl. It was beautiful I'm so sad I fucked up recording it. I got I'm Afraid of Americans only because I noticed I screwed up though so there's that. It's the only thing I recorded and I'm SO GLAD. My husband's name is John (it's common enough I don't feel this is a startling reveal and I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 November 2018)Saw NIN last night with my husband, I talked about the upcoming concert with some users here on my old account. u/philomexa had my phone out to record Trent going off about Ted Cruz, but I didn't have it on video. By the time my drink ass figured it out he'd moved on to talking about dearly departed musician friends. I got the whole Bowie Tribute 😍 I'm Afraid of Americans by NIN. The video is meh (alcohol and focusing don't mix) but the sound is quite good enough! https://vimeo.com/303330485 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men get commitment widowed just like women get 'alpha widowed'Ugh I knew there'd be a terrible name for it! I mean I still talk when I need to normally while doing stuff I just avoid anything that might make me snap. I have a horrible, horrible mouth when put to many purposes, my default is pretty disgusting except around kids. Anger is not a good place to be with the brain mouth connection I have! I know the stress withdrawals too, they suck! Dancing around is way more fun, but life loves it's little roadblocks! It's nice to know your normal is cherished … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb?She's 15, and has a very subversive sense of humor. When she was little she colored Thanksgiving pictures of pilgrims and Indians with smallpox and I almost died. Someone pays attention to the more terrible aspects of history! She's always kidding though, there's no animosity behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 08:27 PM |
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