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12

Get a job. No romance without finance.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:02 PM
1

She's just being cordial. Don't open yourself to angry emails from HR. Move on.
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:04 PM
1

I don't know why I didn't think of this before. I'm gonna be a total pos to women like Chad does. Being nice to women has never gotten me anywhere with them.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:06 PM
3

I don't know what any of that means, lol
/r/seduction08/11/25 02:46 PM
1

I don't understand number 2. Talk to her about what? That's where I'm stuck.
/r/seduction08/11/25 12:31 PM
2

Right. You don't just wake up in the morning and you automatically have it. It totally depends on your life experiences. If you had nothing but negative experiences, especially with women, that will negatively affect your confidence and self-esteem.
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:57 PM
-1

Write to you? What is this, 1850? 😂
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:35 PM
1

I hate that word.
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:32 PM
4

How would you know if they wanted you for sex or just for attention and resources? It's very easy to misread signs.
/r/seduction01/11/25 11:19 PM
1

No, it doesn't. If you're a goofy at 5'6, you'll be a goofy at 6'5.
/r/seduction31/10/25 03:21 AM
1

In my experience, it's not. I see baddies with shorter guys almost daily. I'm tall, and haven't touched a woman in ten years. Women don't fall over you just because you're tall, that's ridiculous. I tried talking to a woman several months ago and she was tripping over herself to get away from me. And I'm tall.
/r/seduction31/10/25 03:18 AM
-1

I'm 6'4. No. It's not an advantage. AT ALL.
/r/seduction30/10/25 07:12 PM
0

If I'm not obligated to sex, they're not obligated to my wallet.
/r/seduction29/10/25 01:43 AM
1

I'll take "Things That Never Happened" for $1200, Alex.
/r/seduction29/10/25 01:40 AM
1

I want an answer to that question as well. What do these guys say to these women to get their interests?
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:46 AM
2

Anytime a woman has a bigger entourage than the President, your chances are very slim. Move on.
/r/seduction17/10/25 03:57 PM
7

It's like a man dying of thirst watching another man drown. Just shut up and enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction17/10/25 03:54 PM
2

Idk how anyone could meet someone off those apps. AI generated profiles. Inactive profiles. 105:1 male/female ratio. Waste of money.
/r/seduction16/10/25 12:07 PM
22

Save your money with the apps. Very slim chance of meeting actual women there. Total sausage fest.
/r/seduction15/10/25 12:45 PM
-1

Then what's the point if dating is all one-sided? She gets everything while you get nothing. Just like how divorce laws are structured. So you'd actually shower a woman with gifts, attention, and dates, and expect nothing? Sorry, but you're making it harder for men with your simping.
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:06 PM
0

You sound like a woman saying this. If you are a woman, do you really believe a man should give you free attention, free dates, and free time and get nothing in return? He should do all the work of a boyfriend but get none of the benefits?
/r/seduction14/10/25 07:44 PM
0

I'm sorry if our reality is pissing on your fantasy.
/r/seduction14/10/25 07:40 PM
1

With more and more men having less and less sex, this problem will eventually get to a level where you won't be able to simply cover your ears and pretend the problem doesn't exist anymore.
/r/seduction14/10/25 05:15 PM
2

You have the money to move to and live in an expensive city like Madrid. So.... there's that.
/r/seduction14/10/25 04:38 PM
0

As men, we can only do so much. We're human, not gods. What you call "incelification" are most men's reality. No matter what we do to ourselves, we still can't make the woman date us, like us, or have sex with us. And when we see them engaging with other men who didn't put in a fraction of the work or effort we did, I guess that's where the "incelification" comes from.
/r/seduction14/10/25 04:30 PM
0

What man do you know is gonna spend time and money on women out of the goodness of his heart and not expecting anything?
/r/seduction14/10/25 04:06 PM
63

So women can tell which men is addicted to porn, but can't tell which men are gonna be good fathers to their children?
/r/seduction14/10/25 03:47 PM
37

You dodged a bullet. Be grateful.
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:11 PM
1

Women don't know wtf they're looking for. I don't know why they waste their time and ours on these apps.
/r/seduction06/10/25 12:17 AM
0

AI response.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:20 PM
1

No. It's not.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:05 PM
0

For most men that struggle with women and dating, "being yourself" IS ACTUALLY THE PROBLEM. See that tall, incredibly good-looking, jacked, rich asshole that has the hottest women tearing each other's hair out just to smell his farts? Him. I wanna be him.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:04 PM
2

I'm just responding to the title of the thread that YOU created. "Be yourself" is the worst advice I've ever been given, and it's a lie.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:40 PM
52

"Be yourself."
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:24 PM
2

Height has absolutely NOTHING to do with your success or failure with dating. I'm 6'4, and can't get anywhere with women, while I see much shorter guys having great success.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:00 PM
1

Unless you're 6 feet tall, 7 figure salary, 8 inch penis, and look like George Clooney's little brother, you don't have much of a chance in the dating world. Better to get a dog and a Playstation and go with that.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:11 AM
2

It's just how it is, a dating lottery. You got a better chance winning the regular lottery though.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:50 AM
-4

Just don't. No matter how hot she is. If there's an all-male gym in your area, go there.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:45 AM
1

Because women are bullshit. Most men are frustrated with them just like me. We spent our whole lives putting in the work with them and have gotten little or nothing, and we're tired of it. The effort is energy draining and just not worth it anymore.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:39 AM
1

I'm at a level where it's not even worth trying anymore. I'm too old for that.
/r/seduction23/09/25 11:23 PM
1

Most men don't have the time, patience, or money to do it. Hell, you can go through all those motions with women and still go home with an empty wallet and a hard-on.
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:38 PM
1

Why am I a beta?
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:18 PM
1

Either online or offline, your chances are equal.
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:22 AM
1

An 8 what, out of a hundred? My time has passed.
/r/seduction21/09/25 01:50 AM
-1

I'm tired of you people getting on your high horses condemning porn. Stop blaming it for everything bad. To most men, porn is the only sex lives we have. If it wasn't for porn, we'd be talking amoeba.
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:28 PM
1

That makes sense.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:47 AM
3

The Daily Chad Chronicles. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:23 AM
32

Damn. I'm 0 for 6.
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:41 PM
1

Women are great liars. They're being approached all the time, just not by the ones they want.
/r/seduction11/09/25 09:36 PM
5

Whatever, bro. 😂
/r/seduction08/09/25 01:54 PM
6

Cap. This is a fantasy out of an old porno. 😂
/r/seduction08/09/25 01:41 PM
7

Cap. Foh.
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:47 PM
1

Way ahead of you. I don't.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:16 PM
1

Most of us can't. That's why we don't approach. It's a waste of time.
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:51 PM
2

Of course we're not, and there's many reasons for that. I'm pretty self aware as I'm a fat guy myself. I know about the social stigma that surrounds us. In movies, we're usually the "comedy relief" that never gets the girls. I know I need to lose weight, and I won't be approaching any woman until I do. It's just a sad reality.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:40 PM
1

You're either making that up or you're one of the rare lucky ones. The only fat guys I see with women usually have a lot of money, as money instantly makes you more attractive. But usually when I'm out in public, I see ugly guys with women, skinny guys with women, I even see short guys with women. But I almost always see fat guys alone.
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:57 PM
2

To go home.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:51 AM
2

You must have a ton of 💰, because I only see fat guys out alone.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:49 AM
-2

They are both equally a pain in the ass.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:45 AM
2

Most men don't look like models. What else can we do other than wait to be settled for?
/r/seduction06/09/25 05:50 PM
0

This doesn't happen to men who aren't the George Clooney type. In fact, most men just get ignored like we don't exist. You say hello, they say nothing. They don't even look at you, UNLESS you're the George Clooney type.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:48 AM
1

Wow. If he's all that and still can't get women, maybe he's not the problem.
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:09 PM
4

Either your cousin is George Clooney or you're making this up.
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:20 PM
-6

It's been eight years for me. It will hurt the first couple years, but you'll eventually get used to it and won't miss it anymore.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:00 PM
3

Idk. These field reports always sound like AI generated nonsense.
/r/seduction02/09/25 03:11 AM
8

That's why I'm not buying this crap. Probably AI generated anyway.
/r/seduction01/09/25 05:25 PM
4

All cap. 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
/r/seduction01/09/25 05:07 PM
1

Take your own advice and stop making up shit for engagement, views, likes, whatever.
/r/seduction31/08/25 01:37 AM
1

Everything on Reddit is made up. All fantasy.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:38 PM
3

This is cap.
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:23 PM
0

🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:55 PM
1

They don't even know. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/seduction18/08/25 10:49 PM
4

You're probably not being approached by the men you want, but you're still being approached. Just like profitable untapped markets don't exist, neither do attractive lonely women.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:51 PM
1

Practically anything. You have nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:00 PM
5

Since when did this happen? 😂 I'm almost 50 and been alone FOREVER. It's like pulling teeth to even get a polite kick in the face from women ANY age.
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:22 PM
-5

This kind of advice is perfect for younger men with stables of women. Rotate them like most people rotate tires. But this advice is useless if you're old, lonely, and only date on a blood moon.
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:46 PM
-4

What does morality have to do with dating?
/r/seduction17/06/25 07:09 PM
0

Not when your success or failure depends on her.
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:49 PM
2

It doesn't matter if you're chill or obsessed, you're gonna get the same result. It's totally up to the woman to accept or reject you, your mindset don't matter.
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:48 PM
-2

And starve. 😂
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:43 PM
-4

As a salesman, it's the outcome you're dependent on or you're not gonna eat. Right?
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:26 PM
1

If he wants to pay his bills he will.
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:24 PM
4

But getting the appointments is how you pay your bills, not the calls.
/r/seduction17/06/25 03:26 PM
1

You sound like a Chad anyway. You're one of the top 10% of men women want. Of course it's easy for you. I'm just a regular guy trying to eat. Who do you think women is going to choose?
/r/seduction10/06/25 05:40 AM
0

I'll take, "things that never happened" for $600, Alex. 😂😂😂
/r/seduction10/06/25 04:55 AM
1

There's lots of handsome and masculine guys that aren't assholes.
/r/seduction09/06/25 04:33 AM
0

I have too much pride, dignity, and self-respect to do that. It won't get me any dates, but I'm willing to pay that price.
/r/seduction09/06/25 04:28 AM
1

Because I'm not a Chad. Following your advice could get me arrested, while it gets you laid.
/r/seduction09/06/25 04:18 AM
1

I wish I could say stupid crap like this to women and still get what I want from them. Only Chads do this.
/r/seduction09/06/25 04:06 AM
0

Just saw your profile. Looks like you're a total Chad. A Chad bragging about women. Not surprising.
/r/seduction09/06/25 03:55 AM
1

I call bullshit
/r/seduction09/06/25 03:23 AM
1

If you're gay, you're already ahead of the curve. As a gay man, you have a lot more in common with women than straight men.
/r/seduction08/06/25 10:44 PM
-1

46 here. I got my confirmation the other day when I tried approaching a woman for the first time in years. She was tripping over herself to RUN from me. I'll never do something that stupid again.
/r/seduction08/06/25 10:29 PM
1

This advice will get you another platonic hang-out buddy, not a romantic/sexual partner. Nice try, though
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:39 PM
3

AI girlfriends
/r/seduction06/06/25 04:21 PM
5

Sounds like you're complaining.
/r/seduction31/05/25 11:24 PM
28

Bro, it sounds like you're having more success than 80% of us. Stop trying to screw it up with these kind of questions.
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:12 PM
1

That's one thing I noticed especially with very attractive women. They usually have a bigger entourage than the president.
/r/seduction28/05/25 06:19 PM
1

Just don't do it, bro. Leave them alone.
/r/seduction28/05/25 04:53 AM
4

8 months? Try 8 YEARS, pal. 😂
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:50 PM
11

The hell I need female friends for?
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:55 AM
5

Women are worse than men when it comes to dating. Fuck the bad boys at their best, marry the nice guys at their worst.
/r/seduction21/05/25 11:29 AM
12

This is true. Women are a big confusing mess. Sometimes I wish I were gay. 😂
/r/seduction20/05/25 05:51 PM
2

Try not being laid for eight years, pal.
/r/seduction19/05/25 07:39 PM
170

"Brain surgery is a piece of cake!" -Brain Surgeon
/r/seduction14/05/25 11:30 AM
3

Move on
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:40 PM
2

I gave up awhile ago. Serious people don't play games.
/r/seduction21/04/25 11:33 PM
1

He's loaded. Women don't let men treat them any kind of way if he's not loaded.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:57 AM
0

Friendzoned.
/r/seduction20/04/25 10:38 PM
10

Someone wrote a subreddit on this, and they called it "Hoeflation". It makes 2's and 3's think they're 9's and 10's, while the 9's and 10's are elevated to untouchable status.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:59 PM
1

How do you tell a woman you want sex without her blasting bear mace in your face?
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:26 PM
1

Why does the fat man have to change physically to get women, while no other man has to? Why do we gotta work ourselves to look like The Rock? Whatever happened to "be yourself"?
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:57 AM
71

6'4, 330. Not successful. At all.
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:57 AM
2

North America is the hardest by far.
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:32 AM
-1

What will this change? Even if she resisted Chad with all her willpower, Chad will get three more to take her place. He's not worried.
/r/seduction13/04/25 04:03 PM
-2

Can she? Yes. Will she? Experience says no.
/r/seduction13/04/25 03:36 PM
-3

Yeah. She'll TOTALLY put Chad on hold... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction13/04/25 03:31 PM
21

This is a HUGE list.
/r/seduction13/04/25 01:56 PM
0

These are observations from the reality I live. Sex is getting harder and harder to get. Getting a woman to even date you these days is like pulling teeth. I don't like where modern dating is going. At all.
/r/seduction11/04/25 11:33 PM
0

I don't live in a bubble. I live in reality. What makes you think I live in a bubble?
/r/seduction11/04/25 11:22 PM
4

Join the club.
/r/seduction11/04/25 07:32 PM
3

Those kind are going the way of the unicorn. More and more women aren't feeling for sex these days.
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:52 PM
3

So... what's your problem?
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:59 AM
35

Women don't have to do much, if anything at all, to seduce men. We're VERY easy to please. Women on the other hand... holy shit.
/r/seduction04/04/25 10:39 PM
-12

Stop lying. Women don't do that to random guys. Not unless they're celebrities.
/r/seduction31/03/25 12:42 PM
0

Video games always work for me.
/r/seduction24/03/25 06:04 AM
1

You'll be less successful running around pissing them off. I'm trying to figure how to get them in bed.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:04 PM
1

Thanks, but I'd rather have sex with women than piss them off.
/r/seduction07/03/25 02:26 PM
1

So you mean to trigger NEGATIVE emotions. Let me guess. You went home alone that night.
/r/seduction07/03/25 02:09 PM
2

But you mentioned emotional triggers. I'm a logically thinking, non-emotional man. I don't do emotions. The only people that can trigger emotions are other emotional people.
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:46 PM
2

What if she was being racist to him and he was just calling her out on her racism towards him?
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:42 PM
1

You have to think like a woman to accomplish this. I'm a man that can only think like a man.
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:10 PM
19

That's one thing the assholes know... how to speak woman. I wish I knew what the assholes say to these women to turn their brains into mashed potatoes.
/r/seduction24/02/25 05:07 AM
74

Those are common traits assholes have.
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:47 AM
8

If I were gay, I'd be writing articles to Reddit and making dating videos on Youtube, all in addition to having a high body count. When I'm talking to men, I'm very confident. The conversations I have with them flows naturally. I can be myself and say what I feel. I don't feel pressure or anxiety when talking to them since im not trying to impress them. But with women, it's the opposite. My conversations with them are usually very short, awkward, and torturous. It's the same anxiety you feel whe…
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:02 AM
8

I'd say the experience with women is a lot more important than a body count. Never go into a marriage or relationship without the proper experience. Experience will show you if the girl is right for you to marry.
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:39 PM
1

Bro, shut up and enjoy your blessing.
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:56 AM
0

Based on my luck with women, I'll hit the Powerball jackpot before I get laid.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:43 PM
1

How?
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:40 PM
1

I watch porn. Hell, it's the only sex life most of us have.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:39 PM
0

That sounds like playing the lottery. The difference is you have a much better chance at winning the lottery.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:35 PM
0

Wish I were that lucky.
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:14 PM
1

How do you know they want you to approach them? Women almost never give choosing signals.
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:13 AM
1

Bro, 6 months and you still haven't closed the deal. You're wasting your time at this point.
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:34 PM
1

She's not into you. Move on.
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:18 PM
3

She's not into you, bro. Her "work trip" is getting stretched out by some dude she really wants. You should've kicked her to the curb after the second date.
/r/seduction18/01/25 03:21 PM
3

She's not into you, bro. Move on.
/r/seduction02/01/25 02:58 PM
4

I'm confident af talking to other men but that same confidence often goes out the window when I'm around women. When I'm talking to men, I'm not trying to impress them or prove anything to them. I can speak my mind to them freely and I'm not judged. With women, I'm very uncomfortable. I always feel pressured and stressed to say the right thing. And when I do, a lot of stupid and awkward comes out. Is this the "myself" I have to be?
/r/seduction29/12/24 03:52 PM
1

You should have your first date after a million more approaches. Conversion rate for face-to-face approaches is EXTREMELY low. Even lower for dating apps (I hate those).
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:24 PM
0

I don't blame you. Women are scary people.
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:05 PM
2

Oh. You're a doctor. No wonder.
/r/seduction28/12/24 04:00 PM
2

Pull her close to you (preferably by her waist), whisper in her ear how smokin' hot you think she is, then look her in her eyes...and wink. She'll get the message.
/r/seduction24/12/24 04:08 AM
3

"I feel like a man dying of thirst watching another man drown." Krillen, DBZ Abridged
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:57 AM
1

Answer: just don't.
/r/seduction20/12/24 02:11 PM
1

You sound like a young fool. The cold water known as reality hasn't hit you yet. It will.
/r/seduction18/12/24 03:08 PM
4

Women would actually be pleasant if they were like this irl.
/r/seduction18/12/24 03:34 AM
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