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Existing-Command2122/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 02:52 AM
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I don't buy it. More likely she wanted to fuck up so that you would fuck up - so that she could point to that and be free from your marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 07:15 PM
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Thank you for the insight, and for taking the time to respond so thoroughly. I know first hand how a SO that likely has bpd or other cluster B traits can make you question your sanity. I'm glad you're on the other side of that. I wish you happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 05:58 PM
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That's very interesting. My wife was really sensitive to me telling my daughter to always choose very carefully and not fall for the first person that chooses her. I found out later that it's because my wife felt like she 'chose' me - like a predator. How would you have spotted her? What will you look for in the future?
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 03:31 PM
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No. I'm saying you'll see a lot of men whose partners lacked accountability and empathy - the same way you expressed that the love of your life lacked accountability and empathy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:59 PM
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You actually have more in common with the men in this subreddit than you think. Lack of accountability and empathy are a common theme.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:34 PM
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Yes. Yes. This. 100% This. Every damn word. And what did they gain? Nothing. Everyone is miserable. Everyone's life was turned upside down. It didn't solve any problems - only introduced new ones.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:18 PM
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The game was rigged. She needed for things to be your fault. Had you not done what you did, she would have likely manufactured a situation/escalated a problem to elicit a strong reaction and some event she could point to as the straw that broke the camel's back. She was done long before you touched another woman. She didn't want your fidelity - she wanted your guilt.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 01:51 PM
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There's a saying out there - "If you don't fix what hurt you, you'll bleed on people that didn't cut you". Good for you for putting in the work, but it's time to move forward. The glass has been shattered, and there's no putting it back together. Buckle up because the pain is coming for everyone. If you are still civil with your wife, maybe you can arrange a trial run for everyone. I think it might be your best bet. Arrange for her to be without the kids for a whole week. Cut your expenditures i…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 01:00 PM
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How long has it been like that, and when did it become like that? I think it's probably a behavior common to all women that have checked out. I'm not sure, but it seems like there's no coming back from that. Everything you say - even simple facts - will be twisted to portray you in the worst possible light, and they will always assume the worst.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 12:37 PM
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I'm starting to think you're right. Just hard for me to believe I got fooled for so long.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 05:24 PM
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This haunts me too. Did she become this way with everyone or just you?
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 12:59 PM
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Sorry for posting the title and not much else last night. It just seems like these women transform into the same monster. Their behavior and tactics are the same. It's eerie how they all become so similar. I thought my wife was a good woman and a good mother. She would never take what wasn't hers. I trusted her with my life, and I'd give mine defending her. I had no doubt about any of that. I just can't believe that this is her and not some psychotic episode. I find myself waiting for her to bec…
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 12:16 PM
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