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DiscussionExotic-One3381/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:25 PM
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no i have a boyfriend now. but I can see the usefulness of periods of celibacy to focus on other things . yes. in the convent the focus is on God. thr silence of the monastery is respecting the interior dialogue with God in prayer. custody of the eyes is looking at the ground to not be distracted by created things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:45 PM
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no it is not a need.i was a nun for a decade . despite the scandals not everyone celibate goes insane and rampant. you can redirect the psychological urge to more useful things like science and spirituality and altruism . you can love people more deeply in general than if you were insular with one partner. physically you can reduce the need by sports, meditation and cold bathing or hair shirt wearing like in monastery . but much of what we think is physical need is actually psychological and als…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:12 AM
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men can't judge n# since most women won't tell them or be honest and it's rude to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:41 AM
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you see I don't get this. those same men expect to bang her but not wife her. so if she doesn't want kids before marriage what does she do, if pregnant, get an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:35 PM
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no many dudes looking to milk a cow will rather milk a 6/10 than marry a cow they haven't milked. many dudes don't want to marry at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:01 PM
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OK but what if one cow isn't giving you any milk but thousands of much more attractive and better cows are walking around with their udders out giving milk for free . the no milk cow will be left to sour
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:44 AM
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your post is too long. please condense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:13 AM
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yah but most men will just smile and say yes just to get in her panties by date 3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:12 AM
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OK but most men won't commit to a relationship without sex. they think you're not attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:11 AM
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yah but most men will not date women without sex. they will string you along for a while, while dating others. unless you are both religious and young
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:10 AM
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usually the men who leave placeholder girlfriends, leave them for women of similar attractiveness. not significantly more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:04 AM
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some men WANT a forever girlfriend and don't want to marry due to the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:03 AM
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no man. if a woman doesn't do sex before marriage, the man will usually ghost her after a while, since many men think no sex. = no relatiship date her for a while, while getting sex on the side and dating other females, just to "wait her out" while never saying the magic word "boyfriend" or "exclusive". waiting to see if she will drop panties after 6 months of dating the number of men who will date seriously without sex and living together is around 1%, and they are all very religious or in cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:03 AM
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yes. lots of RP men never ever think of this scenario. they imagine that emily would marry at age 25 and have kids in marriage. they will blame her for aborting or becoming a single mom if she gets pregnant like Emily did. but 99% of the women I know over 35 who are not married are Emily's. they aren't hoeing. some have kids. many have been with their man for years. others had long term relationships which did not work out. this is extremely common and those same men that say "find an emily to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:58 AM
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I've had this happen to me. I dont do sex on the first date and I insist on paying for myself or for half. sometimes the guy will insist on paying and won't let me pay. but then when i am not down for stuff after he says "but I paid for dinner" and I say "I offered but you said no". it's uncomfortable. men need to understand they can't buy rights over your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:38 PM
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99% of men on this thread do not know what allosexual and demisexual are. allosexuals do not " sleep with anything with a pulse", they find people sexy, get to know them and have sex, often within a few weeks of meeting. they also watch porn and find it sexy. most people are allosexual and only a few will bang anything with a pulse. but many will have sex with people they have only been on a handful of dates with. Demisexuals need a deep emotional connection to feel sexually attracted. Many /all…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:03 PM
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OK don't tell anyone you're willing to get a phd. it means you're broke and boring. and yah I have dyspraxia but no one cares​
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:38 PM
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um what? no. look at your females around you. the average woman isn't dating a young arnold. schwaznegger. being fun and interesting and kind is more important, as well as chemistry and personality. physically I like the stocky strong build of south Italian men. natural. hairy. no six pack but you know he is manly and strong. and broad. but I would never look twice at a gym. bro with shaved chest and six pacc and gym attitude. if you follow tayo ricci on social media, you can see so many women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:16 AM
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idk i would definately date these gentlemen they seem nice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:35 AM
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depends why. stemlords who finish a phd layer in life, or general dorks like the film 40 year old virgin are OK and sometimes cute. incels who have attitude issues and play WOW all day are not ok also a lot of vigens later in life are extreme Christian or Muslim or Catholic who wanted to wait until marriage. if they are 35+ and not married they could still be a vigian
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:04 AM
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he would tell you if you are dating him and wondering why he is bringing you flowers and asking to hold your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:56 AM
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OK but please could you explain your other comments? I am not disagreeing, I just wanted to understand so I can be aware when dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:21 PM
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re (4) how is the average late bloomer man who hasn't dated going to get a woman half his age to date him when average guys and even some Chad's find this difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:02 PM
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can you explain this more? I am a female and for some reason I date a lot of stem guys. although maybe I picked the extroverted ones since we met at social finctions I am not stem (law/finance). why are stem guys generally bad prospects? why do they have a chip on their shoulder and how is this projected when they go intimate with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:00 PM
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why don't they date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:57 PM
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Can you please expand on (2)? Why is it wrong to date STEMlords? I know a guy, very cute and smart, with a PHD in STEM who works as a research scientist and moved back in with his parents. He is now in his 50s. I don't think he has had many relationships. Perhaps none. But he is very respectful and good looking. I think all my ex's were STEMs Is it that they don't like women and only like science? Or that they are no fun? Or they hate mere mortals?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:41 PM
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you could sure have lots of separate contracts and wills but people want a one stop shop to do all of the above at once and celebrate why they are doing it as to marriage being a step in life, that just generally how people thing. same way they have kids because it's expected. doesn't mean you have to do either. it's just generally what people do and expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:53 PM
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if one dies, the other inherits all the others stuff. if you have kids, they get stuff when you both die. it keeps your wealth in the family. If one of you goes to hospital or goes incapacitated the other makes all their medical choices some people feel a lot of joy and stability in declaring their forverver love to the world. If you're in your twenties, or early thirties it's a generally accepted "next step" in life. graduate, marry, buy house, have kids. having a big poofy wedding dress and ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:27 PM
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if one dies, the other inherits all the others stuff. if you have kids, they get stuff when you both die. it keeps your wealth in the family. If one of you goes to hospital or goes incapacitated the other makes all their medical choices some people feel a lot of joy and stability in declaring their forverver love to the world. If you're in your twenties, or early thirties it's a generally accepted "next step" in life. graduate, marry, buy house, have kids. having a big poofy wedding dress and ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:27 PM
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thanks for explaining honestly. I see a lot of guys string along women and I always wondered why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:57 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:20 AM
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why wouldl they know that you were strigning them along? why did you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:38 PM
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depends. if you are in a country like America or Europe or Australia then most likely this will not go well. if you are a man, the woman will be creeped out or think you have something wrong like weenie doesn't work. if you are a woman, most men will date you for a while to see if it's true, they will continue dating you but won't say the magic words that it's exclusive. because they will carryon banging behind your back with other broads. while putting pressure on you and saying "it's been 6 mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:20 PM
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wow good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:43 PM
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marital status is also an indication of being taken more seriously at work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:41 PM
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when I started self studying for professional exams, my boss assumed it was because I was single and childless and must have loads of time on my hands being bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:40 PM
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they notice if you are always single
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:39 PM
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ABSOLUTELY SINGLE WOMEN ARE TREATED BAD AT Work. MARRIED WOMEN TAKEN MORE SERIOUSLY op yes I get what you mean in the title - you mean single women who aren't in any obvious serious long term relationship or are single for a long time. Yes people know women's marital status, because if the outdated terms of Ms and Mrs and changing their last name uk chick here, mid thirties, white collar professional I recently took on some hard professional exams that I study in my own time. my boss, and also m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:37 PM
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dude you seem pretty angry. what's the end goal? if you want a nice wife you don't need to act like that. just stay in shape, be groomed and actually speak to girls. especially ones who aren't insta models with their azz out. if you want to bang loads of hoe's just talk to the girls letting it all hang out in bars and clubs. being a late virgin isn't a big deal. I don't think my partner had many prior ones and he is like 70. but that's OK and aokmetimes it's better, no psycho exs or kids in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:03 PM
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does anyone know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:20 PM
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yeah in big cities and white collar jobs the women stay looking 27 from all ages between 24 - 38+. partly getting work and help done and being high maintenance but also because of the peer pressure and appearance focus. look at Megan markle and compare to the average 40 "year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:38 AM
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yes youre right. in big cities like NYC there isn't much difference between smoking woman in their early or mid 30s and one in their 20s. but in rural areas and small cities they don't have access to 24 hour gyms and beauty tweaks to keep them young. so they age terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:39 PM
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This is what came to mind. A higher quality guy generally is in a relationship or looking for one with other factors. Not just preoccupied with increasing his n count with a string of pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:36 PM
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There is a whole ocean of women between porn stars and virgins. Many pretty but loose women have a lot of decent guys and get married and such
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:26 PM
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No way man I literally know loads of pure virgin girls in their 30s,as well as over at the r/catholicism sub, and they can't get a date because guys get put off to have to wait until marriage. Many of these girls thst I know in real life are reasonably attractive , slim, they get first dates but no follow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:49 PM
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In real life most men do not care, and of the few who do, most do not want virgin women. Many female posters have explained this. It's only here on ppd that it seems to attract men who prefer virgins. It's weird. You're normal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:03 PM
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Even a handy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:55 PM
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Look up n count in the dictionary, it's not there. Look on this thread. Most say for heterosexual it is piv sex. So yes Bill Clinton, handies, bjs, anal are a type of sex but do not contribute to n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:18 PM
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Dude read this thread. Words have meanings. N count does not include bj even if you thinj it should
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:19 PM
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Maybe it should be that way, but that's not the definition of n count. If you want to know bj count you have to ask that separately. A bj doesn't mean you had sex with the guy eventually. But if you ask your date how many bj she did as well as her n count she will think thus is a red flag or lie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:06 PM
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Doesn't matter. You're the OP. do you include bjs in your n count? N count is how many people have you slept with. No one counts bj in that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:47 PM
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Of course it does not count. No one counts it. Do you could the number of times someone has done thst to you in your n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:24 PM
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Muslim girls as well. Hymenoplasty is not uncommon among rich in some countries but also anal among unmarried ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:22 PM
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Head over to r/weddingplanning to see pics of average couples
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:12 AM
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Rishy is 5ft 6
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:45 AM
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Lol well spotted!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:07 PM
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You won't get a "top 20% girl". Firstly ALL hymens are perforated otherwise how does the period blood come out? And the style and degree of perforation is different that she is born with. Also even she does not necessarily know what her hymen looks like or how perforated it is. Have you ever seen one? How would you even know? Why would she see her own? Those who maintain the hymen they were born with use grandma pads and not tampax or mooncup so her vag is gonna stink like a sewer during her per…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:29 AM
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Do you know the difference between culture, race and ethnicity? Did you even read the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:05 AM
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So racially she is 100% caucasian but ethnically and culturally she could be 100% Latina. I agree although I assumed this guy was referring to the 23 and me type tests that say you are 10% Spanish and 40% American or whatever. But when it comes to racism, her race is Caucasian. So this dude isn't going to face racism for an interracial relationship because her race is Caucasian just like his
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:06 AM
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Culturally and ethnically perhaps she is latina But if her genes are 98% European she probably looks like any other white girl. Most white people are not 100% white. And if she looks like a regular white girl, then it's unsurprising she hasn't encountered any racism for the interracial relationship since unless she jumps up and down shouting "I'm 2% Latina " no one would ever know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:27 AM
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Men: " uh oh lads. Deal breaker. third date went by with NO SEX. Not even a bj. All I got was a kissy, hand holdy and she complimented my knowledge of photography and called me a genius. Not seeing her again! Waste of time! There must be something wrong with her that she hasn't spread them by date 3,maybe she's frigid or asexual or a lesbiaaaan! I've invested my time in this chick, three whole hours, and I'm not committing to being exclusive with her until I've sampled every orifice to be sure w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:23 PM
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Most ppd guys look like Walter white
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:56 PM
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"digital content creator" "model" "business owner"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:46 PM
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They aren't talking to them or having a relationship with them. They are just using them to diddle their fiddle and plunger the drain. It isn't a substitute for a man because man brings snuggles, cups of tea, tummy rubs, listens to how horrible your day was, opens jars and kills insects, always knows what to do, looks handsome, has a unique and cute personality, has hot and sexy smelling pheromones, can plan secret surprises and be romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:08 PM
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No I was replying to your post above.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:21 PM
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Well if she was doing good business with many potential customers and had a ton of money then she would find it easier to just open her crotch and pick up another customer than chase a salt daddy through the courts. Do you know of a single published case of a sugar baby successfully suing a salt daddy? Please post the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:20 PM
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Sorry to hear about your mom. At least you've learned from it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:49 PM
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Childbirth might change how it looks though. Look up "epiostomy healing" on Google
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:52 PM
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No one said it is fair. Life isn't fair. Let's use your example because you seem confused. You run a business. You deserve to get paid sure. if someone doesn't pay, is it wrong? Yes. Does the fact of it being wrong entitle you to a legal remedy? Not unless you go to an attorney or ultimately to court to seek your remedy. If your business can't afford an attorney and you aren't willing to do it pro se, then how tf are you going to enforce your legal right to get paid through the court system or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:25 PM
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Practically, your civil rights are only as good as your means to enforce them. A young girl who believes her most lucrative asset is her hoo haa which she rents to strangers on the Internet, is hardly gonna come after the OP as a pro se litigant. The only way she can afford an attorney is if the OP actually pays her. And then, she wouldn't be able to sue him!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:14 PM
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These are college girls who can barely buy their own drinks how tf will they afford an attorney? And explain this mess to the attorney? "I thought this guy was a millionaire so I agreed to have sex for money but he was not as rich as I thought, please bring in front a judge!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:54 PM
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Not at all. There is a third category of reasonably hot guys who are very career minded and also very boring. Usually those aspiring to be partner in law firms or accounting firms, or be company directors of well known large companies. Even though these guys are sometimes hot af and probably rich , and you wonder why they are single, they just work a lot. The types who are at their computers from 5am. The types whose wives dumped them for working too much or becoming too boring. Rich. Sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:56 AM
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My sample is white collar workers in finance, medicine, law and banking. So it is distorted by high earning career minded guys. But I would say its maybe 10-20%, but a lot of the rest of them actually married people they worked with, perhaps another 20%, then the others are single and dating, or married their college girlfriend. You may say 10-20% isn't a lot but compared to the average population it is. Also when you have a demanding career sometimes you have to put dating on the back burner ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:51 AM
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So you've never had a long term girlfriend and you don't know how a vagina works. Have you ever had any girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:47 AM
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OK doctor, how do you think these things work? Have you even seen a mooncup or speculum? Look at how wide the top is. She's gotta squish that mooncup into her vag, in and out probably 5 times a day for a week each month. That's gonna wreck the hymen. Oh and the alternatives to tampax and mooncup are gross stuff that no one really uses nowadays like pads (like wearing a stink waddy diaper) and THINX (basically hi tech nappies that catch all the blood inside the panty). Of course if you'd ever had…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:41 AM
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Depends why though. There are a lot of dudes who focus on career and are workaholics until age 30 then they have a good job, house and then they start dating to find a wife. Those serious guys saw thots and insta hoes and temporary girlfriends as a waste of time and distraction. Many of these guys are very Normal intelligent, handsome and now rich although often boring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:34 AM
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You do realise that a grown woman probably doesn't have a hymen due to mooncup, tampax, medical inspections like wand ultrasound check for fibroids or speculum for smear tests. Or did you think vagana was just for male entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:24 AM
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Plus needs to be under 25 years old and 50kg or under
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:44 PM
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😭🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:22 PM
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Again, if you read my post, you would see that I've pointed out that the majority of female manager hires are more experienced and/or, better qualified. In most places there are no need for diversity hire of women because the quality of female applicants is so good compared to the men. But If you are working somewhere where the majority of women managers are, as you say, hired with no experience and can't do their job, you have to ask yourself why you you stuck working in such a sh!tty workplace…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:12 PM
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Dude not every female manager is a diversity hire. Most are not. Most are simply better and more experienced or better qualified than the males
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:00 PM
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I said normal is the average wage based on your location. No idea where you are and don't care. If your female managers at work earn more than you, that isn't an example of sexism or gender wage gap. It's the fact that you are doing a lesser job which means you earn less than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:44 PM
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Dude this is 2023, many women including myself outearn many men. I personally have no need of a rich guy because I have my own money. Most couples are from equal socioeconomic and educational status. It's only here on Reddit ppd that they tell you women want money from a guy. Look around your workplace at your managers. Some are women right? They are out earning you. They do not need a. Man for money. Also I've had a lot of guys bragging on the first date how they own their own family size house…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:21 PM
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Google is your friend. Depends where you are. The reality is most men are neither rich nor conventionally hot nor much older. But they do still marry. Look at any of the wedding subs at the couples pics of who is actually getting married. They are similar age couples of similar income and generally average attractiveness It's only here that they tell you men hit 30 and are a magnet for women who look like 18 year old models. It's only here that they tell you men have to be rich and look like Jas…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:14 PM
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Average income
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:08 PM
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They aren't rich just normal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:50 PM
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Idk a lot of my friends husbands look like this. On the wedding subs lots of husbands look lot like thsi. It's normal and some women do marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:27 PM
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The uk and French prime ministers are tiny men shorter than most females. Also many smaller ladies would bang a short guy. I prefer the logistics of handy holdy and kissy and face to face rumpy pumpy and playing with each others pipi with similar height guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:04 AM
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Chris pratts dad bod was OK but his face was ugly Jason momoa absolutely hot and would still be hot with a dad bod Simon Cowell has a dad bod and no six pack. Just manly with a healthy layer of fats and decent body hair on the chest. Would bang before his face melted. Leo dicaprio. Dad bod. Probably would bang but his face has aged badly. Body is OK, nice and hairy and manly. Face is bad but amazing eyes and hot personality. Women prefer a slight dad bod to these 6 pak or 8 pak gym guys with "hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:00 AM
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Just checking in with my p*ssdar, I would bang The old guy The fat guy The short guy That's all though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:02 AM
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Nope. You're just sour because lots of women will take the hot guy over the rich guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:45 PM
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I think I made a big mistake moving my baby mom's in with me. It'll be so much easier to have some peace and not have to deal with her everyday. Why? Is she expecting you to help raise your own child?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:54 AM
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Not really. I'm just looking at which guy is the most bangable. More precisely, my hormones are looking. He is a reasonably hot masculine man. Ever heard of Jeremy meeks, the felon? So many ladies drooling over him but he is in jail and is no good. See gif below if you don't know who he is. Most ladies probably would drop panties for this guy and his mugshot went viral with the females. Hot men who are no good is the reason there are so many baby mamas around. Brain says "hell no" but body says …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:32 AM
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Is your partner much younger, or same age?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:00 PM
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How many 25 year old girls are looking to settle down though? Assuming everyone is educated and in a big city. Most 25 year olds don't want to get married, they are exploring life, dating and having fun as a single. When I was mid 20s and a 30 year old guy hit on me looking for a wife it freaked me out because I wanted to explore stuff and not have kids and a husband right away. Same for my friends. Most married at 30ish (all are educated and most in big cities) Also I don't know if this is spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:57 PM
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For every lady that thinks this is a turn off, there are probably equal numbers of women who would marry a guy like this. He has good self control and probably traditional values. Good for you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:33 AM
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Victor. He has a masculine face and a hot body and moustache. He looks like a good leader. The other guy might be a president but he has a soft feminine face. I would date Victor and I think if both men had equal wealth and intelligence and interests and a other factors being equal Victor would be the president not the other guy. Because he looks like a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:23 AM
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Why do men enter into these arrangements? They just need to go on a regular dating site and see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:42 PM
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Not only is she ugly and fat, but she has the sex drive of a 120 year old Catholic Pope who lost his balls in a car crash at the age of 20. r/rareinsults
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:36 PM
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I agree. Why are they like that? Please, even nine inch size is too much for many women. Girth not length is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:33 PM
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Annoying af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:16 AM
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Dude it's 2022 be diverse already
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:30 AM
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Ask any woman if that valentines date video of idris Elba makes her lady parts tingle. He definately isn't saggy. He's got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:08 AM
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C
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:28 AM
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🤮 No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:37 PM
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Well common good looking characteristics dont include being old or wrinkly or saggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:48 PM
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Why are all of the options Caucasian men? Can we add in a little idris Elba or a cutie k pop guy in there? https://youtu.be/vHfdla3I9do 🔥 😍💕
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:12 PM
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Why are all of the options Caucasian men? Can we add in a little idris Elba or a cutie k pop guy in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:09 PM
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Chris pratt is not attractive. Even afterwards he is too skinny and has not aged well. Women like different things.also women's idea of attractive men differs from men's idea of attractive men. I'd rather date Michael cena than chris pratt any day. He looks less vain and more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:05 PM
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I really respect that a lot. As a 30s female I know some men and women in their late 30s who are still virgins. All are Muslim or Christian though and waiting for marriage. I knew lots of virgins in the under 27 range but most got married. They got engaged about 6 months after dating and got married about 6-12 months after that. They are all still married and have kids now. Its very common in religious places. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:33 PM
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How do you know your dating partner is one? I mean they are pretty rare in he English speaking world and you can't ask on the first date. Or are you in a religious community?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:12 PM
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No not really. But I've had the experience of being the main carer of a disabled relative and also of my parent getting sick and dying. So the physical doesn't bother me. I would be more upset if his mind went with alzeimers or dementia. With a baby, as long as he has decent life insurance then I can afford childcare and won't be busting myself as a single widow. I wouldn't be dating anyone else until the kid(s) are grown, and maybe not even then. But he has another 25 years statistically and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:49 PM
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No I have generally liked older men since I was early 20s. I met a hot guy who lied about his age, but when I found out I was already very attracted. around 10-20 years older is my preference. I find they have the dad energy, they are calm, assured, know what to do in life generally and are emotionally more aware and emotionally intelligent, I also find a slight salt and pepper look hot, and I like the chunky dad bod look. Older guy 1 is my ideal type. They also have more refined tastes and are …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:08 AM
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Even if the op was an attractive cultured guy looking like Oscar Isaac (older guy 1), as a female who loves older guys, I would avoid him totally. Older guys who only date much younger women usually have insecurities around their aging body, or are looking for a trophy for validation of their attractiveness "Im dating a 25 year old".... Once the 25 year old is not 25 anymore they will replace her faster than you can say Leonardo Dicaprio. Who wants to be treated like a disposable girlfriend? It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:02 AM
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Exactly the same here! And the man telling you what 20s females like is a 50 year old dude whose only evidence is that he has slept with 4 20s women in 2 years. Like, what? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:57 AM
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You are arguing with all of them about their preference unless they tell you what you want to hear. Correct. I don't believe they are actually attracted to Cera physically. They like the "goofy kid" image. That's my belief. Most young women here want young men including weird looking ones like Michael cena. No. Women are telling you what they are attracted to and you are arguing with them. Riiiight. A tiny number here (30s femalesl want a slightly older man (40s). Somebody should tell the 4 girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:55 AM
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Why are you ignoring all the women on this thread who have repeatedly told you the contrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:52 AM
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Calling out a guy as gross and ugly when young, then unknowingly calling his older picture basically a "trophy hot guy" is the very definition of ironic. I don't think you know what ironic means. Young guy 3 is only hot when he is old because when he has worked out so much that he looks like a different person, he is hot IN SPITE OF his age. If he had worked out when young, he would be hotter than both pics. Wait, I'm "insecure about aging" because I created a simple "this or that" thread and pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:50 AM
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But it isn't though. You aren't asking women what they prefer. You are arguing with all of them about their preference unless they tell you what you want to hear. Why not listen? Most young women here want young men including weird looking ones like Michael cena. A tiny number here (30s femalesl want a slightly older man (40s). Most women going for the older guys are late 30s to 50s and wanting an age appropriate mate. . If you want to know about women's preferences read the responses without ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:04 AM
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If you are so comfortable in how you look and what you are doing, why did you make this thread, and then proceed to invalidate all the young women's experiences when they tell you they would prefer a young guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:00 AM
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She might herself have been older than all of the guys. To her, old guys 1 2 and 3 could be young guys as well! Anyway the average guy over 40 does not look like this. Most are balding with a beer gut. The fit ones have wrinkles and grey pubies. Why is he single and 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:58 AM
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Yes. Can confirm. When I was early 20s all my friends except 2 would go with a 20s male than a 40s male. The two who would go older, one was mentally messed up and the other met a hot rich married lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:54 AM
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Actually she is right. Young Women are telling you they find the young guys attractive and you are telling them they are wrong because it makes you feel better about being old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:49 AM
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It isn't ironic. I said, as a mature woman now, that guy is not attractive either as young and fat or old and slim You didn't answer. Would you rather bang a 20s obese frumpy female or the same woman in her 40s with a glow up and banging bod like J Lo? People prefer fit. Women do not care about what is virtuous. Your question wasn't about virtue. It was about who you would bang. Young Women are telling you. They want young men. Being fit only improves your SMV so much. They aren't that intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:47 AM
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You have a whole thread of women here explaining how this is an attractive man to many women and you think because some of your peers are unsuccessful with women and you think they look sort of like this, that it invalidates the female experience? It is you that is disconnected from the reality of what women are telling you is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:41 AM
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So what? If I was young I would date a guy with a square jaw and six pack to impress my friends. But now I wouldn't either old guy 3 or young guy 3. Your question was about who you want to f**k. Would you want to f**k some frumpy obese femme in her 20s?or would you rather to bang the same girl in her 40s after a decent glow up and diet regime leaves her looking like J Lo?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:10 AM
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No Micheal cera is totally a type that is very popular with the 20s ladies. He has this sort of quirky romantic artistic look that drops a lot of panty. He would probably never be single even if he wasn't famous. Loads of girls like this look. It's modern and metro. I'm not into it but loads of my friends and peers would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:04 AM
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It's interesting what you say, I'm a similar age to you and I feel closer in proximity to 20s than 50s guys maybe in terms of stage in life? I feel like most of my guy friends are 20s and 30s. But I love older men for my bed. Mid 40s guys at least. Current fux is almost 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:52 AM
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As a mixed race female in their 30s these are my preferences. These preferences would have been the same for me since maybe age 28ish. Old guy 1 Oscar Isaac ( gorgeous face and hot body. gave me a serious lady boner and panty dropper. He is hot af. He could ask me anything and the answer is yes. I want to marry him. Yum yum yum ) Young guy 1 (very handsome face and nice body. and could see myself dating this guy as well as porking him) Young guy 2 Michael Cera (nice looking face and OK body. Wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:46 AM
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OK well smile at her and if she smiles back that's a good sign. Then make some random comment about anything. If she chats back its a good sign. If she freezes you out nothi g ventured nothing gained. I've had random approach me in the street and just say along the lines of, I hope you don't mind me saying but you are very beautiful. Do you work around here? Etc. As long as its polite and respectful I don't mind. Then they ask for my number after some general chat. I don't feel dangerous because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:16 PM
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Read the body language before a cold approach. Is she staring at you and twirling her hair? Smile and if she smiles back its OK to chat to her. I met the love of my life on a cold approach years ago and dated a few guys from cold approaches in daily life like shopping, commuting, etc. I wouldn't rule it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:55 PM
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Men: must have sex by date 3 or will leave or get it elsewhere. Also men: must have a gf or wife with a low n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:17 PM
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yes this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:05 PM
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But both have 24 hours a day. If she is working the same hours as him as a paralegal on a tiny wage and he is a director of a big company on a giant wage, both only have say 5 hours free a day. So why should she spend all her time doing chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:36 PM
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It doesn't matter how old we are. If I was married we are family and a team and yes I would stay with them and look after them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:38 PM
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No ripped is not comfy or snuggly feeling in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:18 AM
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Not really. The type of chubby to post a duck face bum selfie in pink butt scrunch leggings is not the same as the type of chubby playing world of warcraft and eating pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:23 AM
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The point is you neither have to be 25 or ripped to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:36 AM
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I find that chubbies do well in relationships together because they both live a similar lifestyle and are realistic about their attractiveness The problem is girls like the one in your pic. Who are dressed in butt scrunch leggings and think they are the next Ashley Graham think they are curvy and hot and therefore deserve a hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:19 PM
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Oh OK I meant the guys who pretend to be the good guy and will wait for as long as it takes and date you for months getting all cutesy and hand holdy while getting his wiener seen to elsewhere by strange poons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:22 PM
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🤢 My point exactly. These guys arms can't even reach around to hug a woman. Also. Chest stubble = booby burn. Gross. And you're trying to dress for a date while he is posing in front the mirror while downing a protein shake? Nope nope nope. Also imagine you date one of these guys, how do you think the conversation will go? Also steroids leads to small wee wee. No thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:20 PM
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No one ever said they had to be exclusive by date 3,only that men expect sex around that time. Reread my post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:11 AM
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@op, a lot of the men on this sub seem to be 14-20 age range and talk about finding nice modest girls etc. In real life, the average man expects sex by date 3 or maybe within 3 months if you are a virgin. Otherwise he will cheat while waiting or think you don't like him. A lot of men buy dinner for a female and think she owes them sex. I think this sub has placed modest women and low n counts on a pedestal that doesn't exist in real life. How many times have you been dumped or cheated on for not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:40 AM
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It's unique to age gaps since the sort of 40 year old man chasing a 21 year old woman is usually after hotness, youth and fertility, all of which fade with age. If he was chasing a 40 year old woman he would be looking for other more lasting qualities. So this type of guy is more likely to replace the 21 year old than a guy dating a same age peer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:13 AM
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They don't have boundaries because all the much older males in their life have been authority figures - daddy, boss, teacher, grandpa Also all these men talking about hotness and fertility will get a nasty shock when she gives birth and has idk stretch marks and eye bags and the general life pressure of work and keeping babies takes its toll and she becomes a spit up covered mombie. Suddenly that same guy is chasing fresh young cooch again because his wife has aged and sagged out. Time to replac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:41 PM
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What? I'm female and I see lots of my friends dating dad bods. I love the dad bod, not a beer belly but a strong broad guy with a good amount of muscle and good amount of fat. I'm not into visible muscles. When a guy is strong and healthy you can see it from how the fat sits on the muscle. I also like chest and body hair. The average stocky strong hairy dark 35-40 year old South Italian guy absolutely my type. Look at David Gandy or idris Elba. Old guys but still smokin.you don't have to be a 25…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:40 PM
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This is absolutely true. People want to know WHY you are single then they put you into a box like "focused on career" or "likes the single life" or "is very picky". But I also find hot girls tend to be single more often and longer because guys assume they are taken or the guy will not be good enough. Then when you date these guys they become very controlling and focused on if you are cheating or where you really are. Also the guys they attract tend to mainly care about sex or arm candy and are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:20 PM
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Absolutely agree. There are loads of lawyers at no name firms working a lot and earning modest amounts and you don't have to be too bright to become one. The ones with top jobs in finance and law rarely have the time for a normal relationship. I worked in one of those places and a lot of them married their Co workers. Also a million isn't a lot anymore. I've dated two guys who were multimillionaires in my 20s who were around my age. Both due to family business. They were awful and had the attitu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:41 PM
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Rishi Sunak is tiny 5ft 6 and is uk prime minister and has a billionaire wife
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:10 AM
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r/rareinsults
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:47 AM
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Have a look at the photos on r/weddingplanning There are plenty of average Adams marrying plain Janes every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:58 PM
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They don't make any difference. Get a pair where the style and colour suits your face. If unsure bring a female friend or relative to help pick. Guys I know with glasses that suit them look equally attractive and in fact I never notice it as a plus or minus. Some men look better with glasses because it makes the eyes look larger ot draws attention to the eyes, nice frame compliments eye colour, some styles look wealthy and intelligent, some look studious or cute. But please do not wear the geek …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:38 PM
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Perhaps so but walk in the street and look around. It is the reality for most happy family types
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:57 PM
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Around 80% of guys are average adam. But in their 30s many are wifed up with Average Amanda and to her, average Adam is the most amazing, most stunning, most funny, cutest ever guy! Why? Generally they are equally attractive but to average Amanda, she love average Adams quirky sense of humour, his slightly crooked teeth and his shared passion for star trek and his cute grey blue eyes. She overlooks his soft belly and weird neck hump and modest office job because the other stuff because she is wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:06 PM
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I'm 5ft 3 1/2 and my preferred man height is 5ft 5 to 5ft 8. That way we are the same height if I am wearing heels, but he is the right height for hand holdy and kissy. Any taller and I get neck cramp and handy holdy isn't comfy. I have dated taller but it was not as good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:37 AM
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She wants to hook you into subscriptions to her onlyfaps account
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:41 PM
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"uncommon" is not the same as "does not exist" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:53 AM
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I agree especially with the last part. The OP has neglected to think that the woman might be looking for some rare thing that not many guys have. Like a vegan guy. Or a guy who shares a nomadic lifestyle. Or a guy who is OK with no sex before marriage. Or the guy who is of the amish culture. Or some religious type. They will be on the shelf for a long time and might never meet the right guy. Also especially with older women, they aren't gonna jump just because some guy is interested. If he doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:54 PM
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One of them truthfully told me, in her mid 20s, that she truly could not say how many guys she had slept with. She tried to remember but she couldn't. The average age of first sex is around 14/15, and if you add up all the, holiday flings, random club guys, guys you met at a party, drunken college house parties, first or even third dates with new guys, revenge shagging everything that moves after a bad breakup or ex cheating, a quickie with your friends bf even though it won't lead to anything, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:41 AM
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Look at all these men ignoring the point and just talking about the Kardashians. I can assure you. Maybe men don't actually know what a woman with no make up looks like, or how long the "no makeup look" actually takes to achieve. I saw a clean girl makeup tutorial that took like 25 products mainly for skin. I thought fml no way am I doing that. Also bear in mind if you showed up on a date with greying salt n pepper hair or mousey brown hair, wrinkles or acne or uneven face colour, or dark eye ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:55 AM
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I actually think this stat is for women who've been sexually assaulted. Yes I think it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:24 AM
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I'm very big on this. I'm dating a guy 30 years older than me, in his late 60s, and a big part of it was his gentlemanly ways. Strong etiquette - yes. Please consider please, thank you, being polite to waitresses and service people, be gracious to young or less accomplished people and never let anyone feel bad. Do not discuss undignified subjects when you are still getting to know the lady. No perverted behaviour in public or public displays of affection eg open mouth kissing in front of people.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:54 AM
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Good for you if you can handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:02 AM
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Mr fantastic has no need to act like a f..kboi
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:28 AM
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Yeah but Mr fantastic probably wasn't around for them when they were younger either so now they would rather be single than settle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:40 PM
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That's what the guys posting on this thread don't get. They keep talking about how unhappy women are if they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:38 PM
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Guess what. Its not the 1950s anymore. Its almost 100 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:27 PM
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The female in the couple ends up doing 80%of the tasks for both of them. The man above's first thought was about offloading his own work only
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:26 PM
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Uhhh they are also right here telling you they are happy while you mansplain their sources of happiness to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:04 PM
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Nope. Married MEN are happier than unmarried men. Single women are happiest. Unsurprising given the division of Labour. It's the same reason why older Widowers want to remarry but older females are more into living together apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:03 PM
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Someone already said this above and someone else already posted all the studies to show 5his was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:49 PM
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And add to 5his that single childfree women are happiest, they have no need to be desperate even if their similar age guys are wearing themselves out chasing 23 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:38 PM
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But if you read these studies in addition to the ones above you conclude that men prefer younger women, but women are happiest as single and childfree Unsurprising because they are landed with all the heavy labour of the relationship, childcare, household, emotional labour etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:36 PM
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Actually its also a lie that the good men are taken early. The finest men know they can get any relationship for as long or as short as they choose. They rarely marry young and are often unmarried into their 40s. It's the men who are desperate and struggle to get who hang onto the girlfriends they can get by popping out a ring to secure regular sex . And no, those fine guys who are long unmarried aren't sad or lonely. They are plagued by women of all ages all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:34 PM
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OK I don't really know, but I remember when I was on the contraceptive pill for hormonal probalms I read the leaflet and it said those were abortifacent, so I assumed it was the same for the morning after pill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah I knew a lot of girls who did that but actually ran out in a panic to get the morning after pill the next day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:25 PM
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No one talks about this but a lot of the girls I know use the morning after pill pretty often! if they can't be bothered or don't have a condom or if they didn't want to use one with a guy in case I he thought she had std or it ruined the moment. Morning after pill is an abortifacent, and often the same ingredients as some contraceptive pills and the abortion pill (no, not all abortions are by suction or whatever) . Read the leaflet inside, thats what it says in the small print. Same as for many…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:23 PM
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The op is right. In my previous church it was very strict and a lot of girls wanted to become nuns, lots of guys wanting to be priests. Several actually did. But I would say the Ops stats of about 50% virgins is about right. Maybe even 50% men and 70% women. But they were waiting for marriage and against contraception and abortion. Not sure about the op comment about animal shelters. Those types with all tattoos and animal rights and feminist activism are generally open minded to experimenting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:59 PM
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Have you ever seen a dick pic? Ugly at best, amusing at worst. That's why naked men aren't in magazines as much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:05 PM
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I don't think it's that simple. Another factor is that some males like to be the leader of the relationship and being more intelligent is one of many things that the female can admire in him. Just as the female enjoys looking up to a manly intelligent leader , the male enjoys her flattering attention to his intelligence and leadership. For me I love intelligent men and the type of men I like wouldn't be interested in bimbos for a long term relationship. They want a mental equal. There are plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:01 AM
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A double standard is where one standard applies to one party, and a different standard applies to another party ON THE SAME ISSUE. if you are asking both parties THE SAME QUESTION, or alternatively, asking neither party THE SAME QUESTION then there is no double standard But I do understand why you need to ask the question now since it's obvious you wouldn't figure out the answer of your own accord. Instead of wondering what women can bring to your table and why your love life is a disaster, how …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:53 AM
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You don't know what a double standard is, you refuse to tell people what you do for a living, and you don't want to answer the very same question you insist on asking women who agree to go on a date with you, despite pretty much everyone's advice to the contrary. I think it's pretty self evident what you do and don't bring to the table. And guess what? I didn't even need to ask the question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:55 AM
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For me, the issue is more that the man becomes insecure if the woman earns more or even if she is equally or more accomplished or educated. This tends to play out in the relationship as he tries to take back power in an uncomfortable or harmful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:34 AM
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the reason "what do you bring to the table is not acceptable is because it is who you ARE". One does not know their qualities unless relative to another, and it isn't possible to list all of them since people value different things. What I think is important about who I am is not the same as what you think is important about who I am, and I might judge myself to have one characteristic but you may disagree. The only way to know what someone brings to the table relative to what you want is to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:31 AM
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And you'd seriously determine that based on how she answers your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:22 AM
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Spot on, it is those exact men. Look in the comments. Men asking this question arethe same ones refusing to say what they do for a living if asked by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:21 AM
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Explain why you think it's a double standard to ask what A MAN AND A WOMAN does for a living? Do you know what a double standard actually is? It's your question, you think it's a great one to ask on a date, why are you so uncomfortable to answer it? I've already explained my POV
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:15 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:16 PM
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Nope. No double standards. I'm female and if someone asks what I do for a living, I tell them. Most women do. It's you with the double standard - nowhere did I say the doctors or lawyers have to be men, just that a female of those occupations will generally have more in common with others like that than with a janitor, due to the lifestyle and motivation. So when men like you refuse to answer a normal question like that, I know there is some sort of major problem and walk out. The reason "what d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:07 AM
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The fact that many people in NON DATING situations and in VERY NORMAL SOCIAL situations will ask "so what do you do?" shows that it is a ordinary question and an average person won't be offended at it. It would be weird if someone was offended by this question. Most working people are spending most of their day at work every day except weekends. It defines your routine . You do have a good point about people whose jobs do not define them and they work to live though. I guess people who work in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:40 AM
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That's because at that age women value quality not quantity. They are OK with being single if they don't meet the right guy and they don't care what other guys think because their self esteem is dependant on the compliments of men. Women at that age have their own life and friends and interests. They don't NEED a guy. They can see right through the guys seeking an easy lay and will slam the door in his face with no regrets. Whereas young women are impressed by any guy with a car and apartment, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:15 PM
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Great post, I will award it when I get some free ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:18 AM
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Can we move away from the "women want money and assets" and "men are the providers" stereotypes? This is 2022. Only single parent and insta-thots and "I wanna be a famous model or actress or celebrity" types need male providers and rich guys. Average Women without kids have their own careers and income and are more or less equal or even earn more than the male
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:56 AM
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Well your job is a big part of your life. Why should it be secret? It says a lot about how you spend your time, your skills, what you enjoy doing, etc. A farmer probably has a different lifestyle and timetable and interests than a middle manager office worker. People generally will ask this when they meet you , not just women in dating situations Asking how much a person earns is rude but it is not the same as asking someone's job. If you are insecure about your job and career why not fix that b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:19 AM
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No. Men and women should not answer. It is rude to ask. If they ask "what do you bring to the table" There is one answer. Get up and leave. If they ask why, say "if its not already self evident then I'm wasting my time. Have a nice life"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:14 PM
9

Op is not bringing manners or social skills to the table.... Don't ask this question in any situation except maybe interviewing a candidate for a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:04 PM
8

Agreed. No one should ask this question. It's rude. Love isn't a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:01 PM
2

Another thing to consider is the high maintenance hot women who work out every day, get fresh highlights in their hair like clockwork every 6 weeks, nails, waxed, facials, tanning, "natural" makeup etc are spending a lot of time on how they look. (No, men, it is rarely natural) . those types think it's a good return on investment of time and money because it gets attention from guys. But those same guys act shocked that she is dating a lot of guys a d has a colourful past. Think if most people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:56 AM
6

What? Women have their own jobs and stuff now, this isn't 1950
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:48 AM
4

Absolutely. Most of my friends hoed about a ton in college. But a lot of them also met the guy they eventually married home they were at college or soon after They lived together for a 5-10 years in general then married. If you want to find some who aren't like that, then there are some of those too, mainly library types or religious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:14 PM
0

Actually it's very easy for them to lie, perhaps forever. Because how many times in a relationship with you seriously discuss numbers? If you think you'll catch her out five years from now when she says a different number (which won't be vastly different to what she said before because she remembers the acceptable ballpark) she will just say "honey it was a long time ago, does it really matter? I can't remember because I only think about yooooooouuu"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:22 PM
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This is trash. Most men won't find out because ladies with crazy pasts generally lie when they are ready to settle down, or like an ex "fun girl" friend of mine, they tell the truth which is they genuinely do not know how many dudes they have been with. I went to college with these girls and saw some things and they told me things. Now they are married stepford wife types and their husbands have zero clue. The answer is, ladies do not sh* where they eat. They want to settle down after a crazy pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:43 PM
-1

The issue in your 20s is there is a huge life experience gap with 30s males. they have good jobs, apartments, they have dinner parties. You are still figuring stuff out and not really adulting very well. But a gap of 5 years or more once the younger person is in their 30s is totally fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:04 PM
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Only the types of men who live on Reddit believe this to be true. In real life and in most other relationships subreddits, virginity over a certain age is a "red flag". An attractive woman has many opportunities. The average age to lose virginity is in their teens. If she is still one, there is likely to be a reason. Or is the op only dating teenagers? Also men like the OP tend to expect the woman to have kept herself for many years but drop panties just for him as soon as she meets his "as a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:52 AM
2

Well in that case marriage is evolution and societal pressure to be monogamous has long overtaken cavemen sowing their seeds to any and all takers. Or maybe insta and onlyfaps is also social programming as well as widespread contraception and nothing means anything anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:14 PM
9

But that is social programming not evolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:14 PM
21

If men are strong to provide for offspring then why are they "biologically programmed" to spread their seed far and wide with tons of women? And what's the evolutionary basis for men's fixation on n count? If it really mattered to evolution there would be a visual change when a woman had a high n count
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:01 PM
6

Uhhh what? Investing time into a woman is a pre payment for sex? Nope. A woman wants to know who she is letting inside her home and body and risking her health for. She is the one faced with a choice of killing a child or carrying it for 9 months and risking death either way. Are you seriously suggesting people drop their pants and hump strangere like animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:26 AM
0

Man-hoe, f*ck boi, ladies man, playah. None of these are good when ladies are talking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:29 PM
2

I agree. How will the man ever know unless you tell him or you live in a tiny village where your exes know each other? All the ladies I know who had a colourful past in their 20seventually snagged a long term partner and most married in their late 20s/early 30s. All have kids now. The ones who were virgins or very low numbers mostly found it harder to get guys. Why? Because the virgin or low n count girl isn't likely to have sex on the first or third date. Girls go on a lot of dates. If they fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:18 AM
3

Well if he doesn't then who is using all the hair conditioner, and why does it increase when you're not having sex? Surely it should decrease since less showers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:54 PM
1

Can confirm re fapping . My friend has spoken to many celibate Catholic priests about this issue and they also said they fapped, including some in strict religious communities, but it is frowned upon and many wore hair shirts and cold showers to try to discourage it. Some also fapped in the shower. Pretty sure everyone does it. Re porn though I'm not sure everyone does. I don't like to watch porn. I'd rather read sensual romance or listen to asmr than watch a pronhub video of some strange overmu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:44 PM
2

I also agree, I'm in a similar social group as this poster, and mosr of my peers and friends and work mates are in long term monogamous relationships. The single ones arent humping around madly like the normal trp men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:45 PM
1

They are already taken. Easier to meet men in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:39 PM
0

Do you think the average middle aged balding pauchy guy who hangs around local college bars for dates and only dates 23 year olds is really looking to find a wife and mother? Is that really why he doesn't date over 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:55 PM
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They are not solely dependant though. That's the point. Where you have a woman age 35 and a man age 55 where do you think the majority of issues will come from. Besides. The guys looking for women half their age aren't looking to have kids with them. Quite the opposite actually. They want a constant stream of 22 year old in and out the bedroom with no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:52 PM
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These men aren't thinking of the health of the woman though. Do you seriously think the majority of healthy 35 year old women will die giving birth in a normal western country?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:49 PM
3

Absolutely agree. I love much older men at the moment in their 60s but I can see many of them will only date women 40 or 50 plus. Meanwhile I appreciate energetic and hot 25+ guys but would not be interested in dating one because mentally they feel too much like a child to take a leadership role
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:22 AM
11

Honey it's called negging look it up. You look good now and will continue looking good if you take care of yourself for another 10 years at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:19 AM
0

Men love women 20 years younger. Guess what. To a 50 year old you are very young. Why not date older?, come over to r/datingoverforty or r/datingoverfifty and there is plenty of guys dating women aged 40-70 and actually prefer women around their age due to maturity, they don't want kids, shared life experience . I'm not in that age range but I like men in their late 50s to late 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:52 AM
3

Why does no one talk about the risks of older fathers? Sperm does get old and there are big risks even though men are not bearing the baby. Or do those men just blame the woman. Quite aside from the fact that these types of men are not looking for wife or mothers. They are looking for a harem of 22 year old women to rotate in the bedroom with no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:39 AM
1

Oh! Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:47 AM
1

No one is telling you not to. Just that when you walk into the college bar with your baseball cap on backwards, people including women probably don't think you are as young as you do, and probably can spot what you are doing . I personally do not go to college bars at all nor do I hang out at college desperate to be accepted by the college crowd. That does not make me insecure, it makes me a normal adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:15 AM
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How does that detract from the truth of what I'm saying? Surely you should listen to my wisdom and learn. I can only assume you know I'm right because you have taken the time to scour my post history to make personal attacks. Any female in their 30s has had ten years of being a female in their 20s so maybe you should listen to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:08 AM
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Nope but even if I was 40 or 50 I would still know more about the lived experience of college age girls, and their thoughts about creepy old guys than you ever will. Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:04 AM
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You mean he settled for her because she was by far the most desperate for him? What do you want me to say? Is that something you aspire to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:43 AM
1

Looking at the comments, the married generally regard themselves as having "succeeded". They are here to feel smug and superior and gawk, and tell people what they are doing wrong. They forget that many married people have simply settled. The high n count woman who felt the music stopping in the musical chairs of dating and settled for the nearest beta provider, unattractive and boring but safe and stable? The man who married his long long term girlfriend after 10 years of cohabiting while waiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:19 AM
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Being married doesn't necessarily make you successful though. Many just got bored, desperate and settled. It's possible to be lonely and unhappy in marriage and in many ways, that is worse than still being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:52 AM
1

If the old guys were in a college bar dressed like teens and shaking their stuff in the middle of the dance floor to modern music, but in the 1970s style of dancing, stiffly shuffling because their back hurts and joints hurt and they feel embarrassed that loads of kids are watching them while they're old enough to be their parents, then yeah it would be mockable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:24 PM
0

No thanks. Something creepy about middle aged guys who want to normalise hanging out at college bars. Not interested in engaging with you at all. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:56 PM
1

If you are middle aged and want a night out why are you in a college bar dressed like a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:52 PM
2

Yeah but you are OK for dating college age girls if you wanted because YOU ARE AT COLLEGE. you have that lifestyle and they are your peers. When I was in college we did go on nights out with older students on the same course all the time as though they were one of us. But a lot of these guys are in full time jobs hunting out college girls at their student bars. That is totally different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:50 AM
1

Nope, only you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:47 AM
2

Actually no. In our 30s we would not be spending a night out hanging out in a bar full of college aged kids near the college. Do you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:35 AM
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We were laughing at them because they were obviously in their 30s hanging out in a bar full of college aged kids.they looked 30, the only good thing was their clothes were better and more expensive. Hanging out in bars full of college aged teens in your 30s doesn't make you cool or young or edgy. It makes you sad. And don't think they don't notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:34 AM
2

Actually no, it isn't like your example at all. Because racism is wrong and it never matters what colour the anti racist person is. If you must bring race into it, it is like black people saying how racism makes them feel and what experiences they have had, and white people telling them how they ought to feel and that they were mistaken or lying about their experiences and feelings. But actually it is completely different to racism. a young woman stating that she does not want to date old men is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:30 AM
6

If he was a 20s man he wouldn't be protesting and arguing such ridiculous points while ignoring the very honest and numerous opinions from the women of the age range he wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:05 PM
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This isn't anecdotal. This is many if not all women on this thread, including many who ARE in that age range describing their own lived experiences and feelings. What makes you, as a middle aged man, think you know better?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:42 PM
2

Absolutely this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:33 PM
6

Not at all. But most 30 year old men do not look 22,and those who look good or young, once they start talking it is game over. Why would you want to live the boring 9 - 5 life when you are at college?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:32 PM
9

He doesn't want to listen to what women who have lived this actually have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:30 PM
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Actually no. Women here including myself are posting based on their own lived personal experience and observations. It does not matter if a guy is amazing looking. A 30 year old living an average 30 year old lifestyle with average 30 year old mindset isn't going to have much in common with a 20 year olds life, state in life, etc. And a 30 year old living like a 20 year old is just not attractive to anyone. It is a huge lifestyle gap at that age. Oh, and I hate to break it to you but tinder is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:30 PM
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He doesn't have to have done anything wrong. He isn't entitled to date her, he is privileged to date her. And she is entitled to her feelings about dating him. Let me guess. You're one of the old creepers trying to justify why college girls ought to date you even though all women here are telling you no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:25 PM
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Well most 30 year old guys do not look 22. Let's say there is a 30 year old guy who does look 22. He approaches the girls, buys a round of drinks and starts talking. Within five minutes everyone will figure out he is not a college dude nor a recent grad. It isn't all about looks. It's the overall lifestyle, stage in life, how they think. Also a lot of these creepers who hit on college girls will put on a baseball cap or whatever and tell themselves they feel entitled to date college girls becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:18 PM
11

At 18-22 most are in college, most of my friends had college age partners of the same age range. A small number had partners maybe 24 or 25. But 30+? Heck no. We actually laughed and mocked 30 year old women in our bars and clubs. Those guys age 30+ were worlds away from our college dorms, ramen noodle dinners, assignments, getting into trouble with your parents and nights out. I know only two people who had partners in that age range. Both very transactional rich dudes, one was married. We were…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:07 PM
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Yes when I was 18 at school, even girls with bfs in college were considered being with "older men" .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:01 PM
1

This is absolutely true. It only attracts Chad's and guys after your body and looks who want a trophy or to gawp at you or gross modelizer types. Oh and married rich guys. The normal guys always assume you are taken or married even if you've been single for years avoiding the above types. They always assume you are lying about your n count even if it's low because you attract the bad types. For a very weird reason, nice normal but unattractive guys will gawp but on a deep level feel uncomfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:40 AM
9

Why do men get to decide if their sexual ignorance is better, or whether it is better for them to try all vags of all sizes? What if women think men's sexual ignorance is better? What if sexual ignorance of both sexes is better? Why do you think you are the expert? Or are you sexually ignorant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:56 AM
7

What about men? Why doesn't anyone say the same for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:07 AM
2

Uhh no everyone gave him the side eye and eyeballed him like a creep. He looked shifty and uncomfortable and got outta there as soon as my friend came out of class.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:27 PM
3

When I was early 20s, and certainly teens, me and my peers all dated people our own age range and stage in life (college) . Guys aged over 25 with jobs and apartments were "too old for us" because they were adulting and why would they be hanging out with college girls. Guys 30 were definitely old and creepy. We used to hang out in bars in the nights out and see 30 men and women and laugh at them saying they were too old to be there and the only thing going for them was they had money and better …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:35 PM
1

Single childless women are happiest. Married men live longer than married women. Women do 80% of the childcare and household tasks. Men enjoy having a mommy bang maid. Women up and leave and vow not to marry again. Ever heard of married single parent? That's the woman of many marriages. That's why she wants to divorce
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:59 PM
3

Well I think the disappointment and wanting a replica etc is specific to your gf, but in general yes people do compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:30 PM
3

I think the comparison is normal. Don't you do the same? I think everyone compares but never talks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:18 PM
8

This is garbage. 20s women generally prefer 20s men. Think about when you were in college or at work in your first jobs. Pretty much all those in ltrs were similar ages. Pretty much all those married had major no age gap. Not saying all, but most. For me and my friends in early 20s, a couple of them dating guys in their 40s. It was gross and we laughed at them. These guys were in shape but had wrinkles, grey hairs, and just were OLD. it was creepy. You hit 30 and the musical chairs panic hits so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:07 AM
1

What? Firstly yeah the vapid insta bimbos and Tiktok types will like all of that, with you and every other chad. But as a stem major would you find that attractive for a relationship? Stem major men might have a lot with stem girls, or women in professions like accounting, actuarial sciences, finance, those with advanced degrees in academic non practical subjects like classics or medieval languages, computer science, those involved in data analysis. Not a girls want bad guys. Personally, and I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:48 AM
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Absolutely not. I would never cheat on a partner, either you break up or be faithful. But I'm not afraid to be single whereas a lot of ladies line up the next guy while still in relationships. You can't control your feelings but you can control your actions and it all depends on their individual values and morals and self control . Would you /have you cheated? Oh and hypergamy? That's some red pill nonsense. Some women are happy to meet a guy they love, settle down, and just stay with their guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:08 PM
3

Balding isn't a huge issue but I have to make a counter-culture comment that I love male chest and body hair. Sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:37 AM
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Because in their early 20s college days a girl is impressed by a guy who owns a car and takes them out for frozen yoghurt . In their 30s,the woman owns her own car and home and can buy or cook a decent meal on her own. She expects the guy to be down with adulting a d have his life together, just as she does, as a bare minimum. 20s girls don't have a minimum since they are still living in dorms and have a more casual life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 AM
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Well if that's all you want then why go through the charade of dates when you can just pay a prostitute and not bother with dinner and dating and talking? Or go on only fans or tinder and get it for free without the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:24 AM
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Anyone wondering if you are a high value woman can simply look at your post history which has post after post of you offering to flash your rat for cash on snapchat and desperately begging strangers to look at your only fans. Says it all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:12 PM
20

It's bad because your primary value is in your looks which will fade and those types of men will trade you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:03 PM
2

Absolutely! What about people you meet through work or college? Being a friend or work colleague doesnt mean you will be friend zoned. Sometimes the chemistry is right and stuff happens. You can't help who you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:57 AM
1

Bro have you seen her post history
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:34 AM
0

"Excessive" and "inappropriate" are relative terms. Would you wear a ballgown or bikini to work in an office? Would you wear fake eyelashes to the laundrette? Perhaps you would! But it isn't appropriate is it? I wouldn't because I am comfortable with my self and my clothing is appropriate to my context. As for being easy, is that a bad thing? Some men want that and some ladies are happy to provide it the first time they meet, and that is their right and freedom. Why are you judging? And yes, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:24 AM
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Not really, it is only derogatory if you think that lifestyle is bad - in which case it is you making the judgement not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:43 PM
3

Chances are a man dressed like a lifeguard everyday is a lifeguard. how do you think a tramp stamp tattoo got its name?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:41 PM
1

Actually these women do exist, many of them. The average middle class person from a decent (not necessarily rich) woman with decent genetics, who has been raised properly and values her education enough to continue to pursue it, can have all of this. Then, once you are in that environment with that mindset, the other things come from it and it becomes normal for your social group. I am talking about within Europe, no idea for Asia or America. The other points on my post illustrate why op's types…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:37 PM
1

I thought everyone knew this? It's nothing new. If that's what you are after, this is how to spot it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:32 PM
4

This is really interesting. As a woman I know some females who sleep with guys they just met and those guys are nothing special. Most are just flattering to the woman and up for it. Where does the guy meet such women? I suppose bumble or tinder or bars, and clues that the woman is easy is inappropriately revealing clothes, lip filler or inappropriate fakeness or excessive makeup in daytime, age under 18-25 (many don't have proper boundaries and are not looking long term), excessive smoking, drin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:38 AM
1

There is nothing bad about cold approaches. I think it is good and much better than tinder. I had a wonderful relationship with a guy who cold approached me once. But if you don't know the guy socially (to find out if he is a bad guy) , making him pay for all dates will weed out a guy doing what the OP suggests, spinning plates and baby mamas while waiting for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:18 AM
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I don't think you understand. A high value woman who is dating to evaluate a long term partner or potential husband is assessing and vetting everything. She will find out about baby mamas and plates or suspect it and go with her gut, and ghost you. Not many people talk about this but I do think women mess up their gut instincts by sleeping with lots of guys. A high value woman is someone who has the whole package. She is conventionally beautiful, and also has class, intelligence, education, is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:42 AM
1

The ops point is that many bad guys will wait, while having sex with a bunch of girls on the side in secret to get their needs met so it isn't a filter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:42 AM
5

Great post. You are right. It seems totally crazy that women are risking pregnancy and baby for 18 years, their health, careers etc for half an hour of fun with a guy on the first date or third date who they may never see again. They need to stop this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:39 AM
1

Actually most of the women I know have an n count of under 10 before they settled down, usually marrying their boyfriend from college after a 5-10 year relationship. I guess the leftover women that you are going after probably are those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:34 AM
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Low value women and desperate women will settle for this behaviour. But high value women will not be fucking you or giving you anything at all while she gets to know you and she will find out about your rotation and baby mama and soon ghost you out because a high value woman does not need a guy with baby mamas and "plates". Not all guys who behave decently are simps and betas. Some high value attractive wealthy men do have desires but also have self control and a sense of long term priorities. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:32 AM
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"pussy" is cheap but many guys will do what it takes for as long as it takes when they have made up their mind that they want to have one particular girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:28 AM
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This is a great post. I understand now the logic in making men that you don't know organically pay for all dates. The guy looking to revenge fuck a woman who wants to wait until she is comfortable for sex, and the guy who sees any attractive woman as a "plate" to spin on his dick rotation, is not going to hang around 3 months paying 100% for all dates until she has sex. Why would he pay all of that when he can get it for free from some less selective woman? Or when he already has five plates on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:27 AM
1

Google is your friend. Use it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:53 AM
2

No idea why this is a big deal. Many players will say they want to be exclusive after maybe 3 dates or so just because they think they will get some sex or at least a blow and will drop you after a couple months. They don't want a relationship. They want a series of temporary bang maids. The point is,many guys will say they want to try being exclusive and will give the woman the labels just to get to banging her then drop her like a used condom when they are done trying her out. The op is only 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:50 AM
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What exactly is the "whole committed relationship" you refer to? You stop banging three girls at once to have a chance at one only. Could be for a week. Could be for three months. Could end up married. But in any case the relationship can end with a snap of your fingers. Or hers, and I would recommend she dumps you to be honest. You just aren't ready for a relationship with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:41 AM
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You are 23 and waiting 7 months to class anything as a relationship. So exactly how many long term relationships have you actually been in as an adult? Relationships in your 20s are not like those in your teens. Sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:50 PM
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Oh my word. You say you and all your friends are high value males and yet you are only 23? What is this. A high value male isn't just good looking. He has money, a job, a house that he owns, class, experience (not just sexual), emotional intelligence, culture. Why is she wasting time with you she she could get a guy who is maybe 26-28 who has all those things and actively wants a long term relationship and wants to settle down? You say you make all girls wait 6 months for vetting for a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:44 PM
3

I feel bad for guys but honestly it is awkward and difficult to say that you don't want to see them again because they get mad and try to convince you otherwise . Then the more you ghost the more psycho they get so you have to block them. But then again if a guy left me a load of messages I would probably reply to one and text to say that I didn't want to see him again. But also, she knows that you know where she lives and could easily turn psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:38 AM
3

You enjoyed the date. But are you on her level? Some beautiful smart lady like that probably has a ton of first dates with guys. Join the line. I guess her default position is to ghost while she decides who to see next, or to ghost all guys unless she is interested in seeing someone again. That's the easiest way to manage large numbers of first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:36 AM
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Dude. Saying you are not a harasser doesn't make it true. You went on one date, and after a few unreplied messages you are seriously considering turning up at her apartment to demand an explanation? Women ghost because many men go psycho and/or will harm you if you are honest and turn them down. Same for the "yeah let's just be friends" turn down. We wanna get the heck outta there but are afraid to say it. Of course, it sometimes backfires and the dude thinks he can argue with you into why you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:33 AM
1

Maybe this is the type of guy who will cheat not just because he has to wait for sex, but he will also cheat if the sex is bad. Or if the novelty wears off. Or if he gets bored in the relationship. Or if his wife has just given birth and can't have sex for 6 weeks. Or if his wife is no longer attractive and gets fat and he needs new sex. This guy values sex more than a relationship. He should just be single and sleep around, why be in a relationship at all if you don't respect or love the person…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:57 PM
5

Absolutely right. Men complain the woman is too tired for sex, her vag looks like a hamburger, she put on weight and has mom face and walks around in comfy tent dresses instead of sexy panties that match. Guess what, pushing a watermelon out your body then working a full time job, doing most housework and barely sleeping due to nappies and breastfeeding will do that to you not to mention perenium tears and leaky boobs and saggy deflated belly and being covered in vomit most of the time. While th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:12 AM
1

No, you say you aren't interested. He says why. You say, I'm busy. You are too young. I'm going back to my ex. He responds with some long expla ation why your reason doesn't really count and you need to see him. You say, I really don't think so. He continues arguing. Then you block him since he isn't listening. Then he goes around mystified saying "some b* just blocked me, I don't know why because we had a nice date?" ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:45 PM
1

No, it doesn't matter. Why is he lying to her? If a girl has a spicy past, does she deserve to be lied to? He should always be honest and own his decisions. It is then her choice to open her leg, have an open relationship or dump him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:42 PM
21

Honestly, if she is beautiful and has an OK to great personality they will overlook it. Also she could be on medication and seem fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:24 AM
3

It isn't wrong that he can't wait. It is wrong for him to "cheat" and hide it. Cheating involves lying and betraying trust, while she thinks he is being exclusive and she probably is also exclusive. It is wasting her time. Why doesn't he just move on to the next crotch since he clearly doesn't value her as a whole person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:51 PM
5

Usually it's that you told the guy you aren't interested in pursuing things. He doesn't accept this and starts arguing with you. The only way to get rid is to stop responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:40 PM
2

Why is he cheating though? You want to justify a year of lying and sneaking around behind her back (not to mention lying to the other girls too) ? She is waiting a year to be sure he likes her for her, not just for sex, or because sex means something special to her. Why is he staying with her at all for that long? He should be honest and dump her because he can't deal with the no sex thing. Cheating is not OK. Obviously if they agree an open relationship during that time, it's open and known so …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:23 PM
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