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Few, very few guys give the signals that guarantee the sex will be good and the social interaction hassle free. Its like diamond in a rough. So when they do meet that guy they know they can trust him with the whole process and so they throw caution out the window. Remember when you used to think geez if i was a woman i would throw myself at every guy i met ? They too want to do that. But they know that most guys are not ready to receive them gracefully. If you go in with an aura of "i can handle…
/r/seduction23/03/26 01:38 PM
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Yes something like that. Anyway since you asked about men, if i put myself in his shoes, nervousness would totally explain why i would throw such a clumsy statement. If you want to get specific about him then take his whole personality into account and wonder whether this explanation makes sense in that context too.
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:58 PM
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I think he was nervous. Beautiful women can sometimes makes us reflexively and irrationally nervous. Usually we re not aware of it while it happens neither can we end it once it starts.
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:49 PM
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you mean like in a non black and white manner ? cause if nuance is what you re after you will not find it in any pill. not the colored ones and not the ones that begin with "anti-". i do applaud though your need for nuance and id tell you to just be the change you wish to see in this world and dont worry about the ripple effects of that. let the chips fall where they may. in this day and age we all have to be purists and virtue signallers and go out of our own ways or do mental gymnastics just t…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 02:11 PM
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all of this is true. i ve run all the experiments and im not being poetic here. i actually tried different demographics and different approaches as well as spent quite some time observing other couples hearing stories from friends, you name it : INSIDE a romantic relantionship the man has to be the leader and the container. its an aprhodisiac for women. modern men couldnt care any less. but women do and they are also not allowed to say it out loud. but they will admit it to you if you do a good …
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 01:53 PM
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You have fetishized something that probably isnt suitable for you in the first place. Are you a person that gets it ? (Her lifestyle) if not are you willing to transform into that person ? And if yes, would you do it just to sleep with her ? Are u into this just for the story you ll be telling yourself if you succeed ? Is this all that matters to you ? To get "the thing". Do you not like women except if they are influencers? Start wondering whats YOUR type of 10 / 10. The one that suits you natu…
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:09 AM
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the vibe was fun and with zero expectations up until she left. if you had just let her go with no expecations of her coming back you could have picked it up from there, with texting, flirting, vibing etc. instead you turned the second date into something "she has to" do. a "contract" that she is now bound to. next time this happens to you make clear first of all you didnt do anything wrong to cause it (rarely the case) and let her know immediately that she can go without you taking it personally…
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:01 PM
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Start with mixed groups. Dont hit on the girls at first. Get good at introducing yourself, not taking value, not being needy, adding to the fun... use these groups to get out of your shell ... do this for 15 days and after that start experimenting with approaching female sets as well. Still with the frame of the social guy at first, and with your newly acquired skills at striking up conversations. Become more and more man to woman as the night progresses and youre beginning losing your nerves. W…
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:38 PM
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stillness eye contact and presence are your friends if you are quiet. if others fuck around the periphery be at the eye of the cyclone, intensely, with zero thoughts about your self (i exagerate) and highly observant of the flow of energies. also let your style and skills do the talking.
/r/seduction14/11/25 08:38 PM
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Trust me bro men feel the same way about women. Sometimes its because of the buyer seller dynamic other times because of shyness. In the case of men its mostly the second
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:27 PM
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this is such a hard rule that you can detect women with personality disorders that deviate from that (or to put it more accurately "that push you to deviate from that")
/r/seduction27/10/25 12:40 AM
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yeah its the lover versus provider frame. the thing is lovers dont commit. so she goes for the low hanging fruit. but it is you that she wants ( i mean for as long as you dont entice her with material goods or with reason )
/r/seduction17/10/25 11:07 AM
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Psychologists have concluded that shared emotional journeys increase romantic attraction - according to chat gpt..
/r/seduction10/10/25 09:35 PM
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Yeah one would THINK that what you re saying is truer but im saying these things from trying things out, observing others, having conversations with women and also with guys about their issues with women etc.. What im saying can be performative up until it clicks. Then yes you can look back and say to yourself "i was peetending to be dominant but i was just performing" and cringe really hard at the observation. But that mature non competitive type of dominance in 85 % of scenarios is the way to …
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:34 PM
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Maybe instead of being snarky you should try what OP did ( interacting with women ) so that it stops being a mystery to you too. To be completely frank with you theres both logical and psychological explanations behind this paradox and lots of people who were raised with a cautious personality but then discovered online dating advice go through this stage but this conversation is better served for people open to comversation. Not psychic vampires like you for example.
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:16 AM
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You need to lead hard. So that you force her into your own pace. And your dick leads YOU in terms of how you lead her. You need to USE her to keep you hard. At least thats what worked for me. Think of her like a bouncing ball of energy and you as a building holding the crazy ball inside the concrete walls. Thats how it should look. Once i started unappologetically USING her not only did i not have erection issues they started getting addicted to my dick too. But when im saying these things i mea…
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:11 AM
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only if she is friends with benefits first
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:05 PM
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its sad we came all this way as "youth culture" and yet posts like these are still needed for folks to figure their shit out. you are correct. but its sad these things are not treated as obvious. cause up until 2017 they totally were.
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:45 PM
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bro if these girls know nothing about you the only thing they have to work with is your looks and the way you carry yourself. ofcourse you can work on both. and especially in the second. but trust me as a guy who has both of them down these two will get you nothing tangible without you knowing how to turn them into something. rarely a woman will risk her reputation or even be into taking you by the hand and leading the interaction towards sex. thats your job. so learn game.
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:43 AM
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short answer is yes ive tried it i failed at first it took me almost a year to be non-cringe when at my worst and a superhero at my best days or nights. from then on the validation i was getting made me lazy and the frequency of getting laid started slowly decreasing but the vibe i was cultivating was getting more grounded more human and more believable. there isnt any trully helpful advice left online anymore to help you turn your failures into lessons to learn from, but struggling at first was…
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:10 PM
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probably you need something from them thats why. aka you re in "value taking mode" trying to join THEIR fun. you should go more with a "check this out" vibe or "value giving" as they call it. please dont ask me "how do i do this". you need to break down why ARE NOT this. and then BECOME it.
/r/seduction16/07/25 12:40 PM
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By all means do both in parallel. If you just learn how to get with women without improving yourself you will never find the motivation to improve your self. And if you wait for your self to be improved in order to feel good enough not only will you never feel good enough ypu will feel worse and worse and worse...
/r/seduction08/07/25 05:34 PM
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Does this question imply that this is your first time discussing these subjects or googling them ? If yes you need to educated your self on all the unspoken rules of flirting and until you can have that on autocue do not get so close with beautiful women so that they dont have the chance to consider you a friend. Unless they show you signs of interest.
/r/seduction08/07/25 05:18 PM
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Thats a more balanced and clear view than saying " "she belong to the streets ya all".
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:27 AM
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she would probably have sensed the incogruency before you even open your mouth and dominate the shit out of you. and i know this reads as "good thing you didnt pursue her. keep being a pussy from now on" but im not saying that. im only telling you theres a way out of the guilt you feel and thats by understanding game deeper than you already do. until now in the way you perceive and present yourself, you were not good enough yet, for the level of confidence she had when these events occured. and …
/r/seduction24/06/25 06:32 PM
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this guy gets it
/r/seduction20/06/25 02:47 PM
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Ok which means you re asking the wrong questions and although your concerns are valid and i empathize and wanna help you lets not confuse OP or trigger any overthinking regarding HIS situation. My short tldr reply to you is that you get your shit together before introducing women to your life. But lets discuss this elsewhere if you re dying for more. ;)
/r/seduction15/06/25 05:44 PM
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If it isnt and "the move" get explicitly rejected you back off and say "my bad. I didnt read the situation right.". If jts a type of move that gets implicitly rejected you back off again and make a move another time. Until you hear a definite no. My experience is that if you re not needy about these things and dont act like the girl owes you anything, making a move only increases the respect she has for you. But rejecting yourself before she has the chance to reject you is a surefire way of her …
/r/seduction15/06/25 02:47 PM
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Dude dont give it time and dont pedestalize her. The boner means the vibe is right. Whenever you get it thats your cue.
/r/seduction15/06/25 10:01 AM
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If they give u shit for no reason. If they give you the anime eyes.. or submissive body language. If you feel a particular type of awkward around them. Like everything looks normal but its also charged with meaning type of thing and that acknowledging that now means you got to play... this types of things. Im sure deep down u know already when its on and when it isnt. But theres inner resistance
/r/seduction15/06/25 01:05 AM
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Yeah. As i told you. Do not only make sacrifices. Spoil your self once in a while. Let loose.
/r/seduction09/06/25 04:27 PM
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These videos are not on any official platform any more. But you can find them on reddit through google drive links etc. Just google " old rsd deleted videos" . Or "old rsd julien videos ". Theres always someone willing to share them. So my interpretation of what rsd meant by the bubble is to be a bit slow focused on her and unpredictable. Always be 1% more of a pervert than she is but do calibrate that according to her own temperature. A girl that gives you the anime eyes is more or less around …
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:10 PM
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well yes. in other words the whole bet is "will you stay present during the whole thing" . it doesnt matter what you say or do while staying present. as long as you keep your senses open and your head clear from noise you will see all the cues and opportunities lie there in front of you. she is your pick up teacher. you just need a clear head in order to hear the microlessons.
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:59 PM
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maybe you re being too much of a good boy. especially the thing with the church... bro dont take it as an insult. if thats your connection to a higher sense of meaning by all means keep doing it. but lets just say that if i had a vagina it just dried up. i hope you re not talking about these things with women. i mean they are all things that can elevate you from a 9.5 to a 10 if you let them find out about them organically but you need to first and foremost be the person who doesnt take life too…
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:47 PM
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wish id see more posts like this one
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:38 PM
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dude you need to find old videos of rsd especially julien for outer game and tyler for inner game. just dont let them get into your head. they used to be very manipulative with their sales approach back in the day and alongside good advice they also try a lot to make you feel small and elevate themselves in the place of God. thats why you will see a lot of infield that is cut out of context to make them look as if breaking every social norm constantly and acting like a sociopath is the only way …
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:30 PM
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are you sure you re not making the vibe too platonic ? id advise you you show sexual intent faster and be always concious of what rsd coaches used to refer to as "the bubble". this means the bubble of electricity you guys feel between you two. once this begins its your job to keep it going and to lead it to you two having sex. for this you need to feel the conversation aesthetically. not logically. and be really honest with your self. dont be like "all i said was x and it was the perfectly ratio…
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:22 PM
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if you are legit working on yourself. not the instagram version. your own personal version. if you make a point of turning your uniqueness into its 2.0 badass edition, then all it takes is to be mildly gregarious in front of her and vaguely approachable and lots of them will take the bait. the two things you re going to need in order to not crumble afterwards is a) learn how to keep your nervous system relaxed when you re getting triggered b)having worked on your healthy masculinity in order for…
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:14 PM
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as hard as it is to have a good meditative session each time you sit. in other words, depends on how strong are your let go muscles and how intentional you are at strengthening them. to be more precise its about staying exactly in the middle between letting go and being in control. so on the one hand its pretty fucking simple. if you get it once you understand it forever. but its fucking tough cause its a battle with your own self. and at some point you get so validated that this whole "game/sed…
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:09 PM
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Try to remember the simplicity you felt after the point "the anxiety faded away" and transfer it into your life.
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:02 PM
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ask the pseudofeminists of hollywood and internet culture. you cant. they bent the whole internet over its own self just to make sure you wont have access to useful information.
/r/seduction02/06/25 04:15 AM
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yes thats the mentality. i wish more people posted stuff like you. people who sell you courses online want to make this look difficult but its actually easy: see bad interactions as feedback that teaches you stuff about yourself and keep being in a pro-social mode and dont let your ego get in your own way. the perfect opportunity comes only to those who do these things.
/r/seduction02/06/25 03:51 AM
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stuff like that will happen even if you re doing great at game. awkwardness arises even if we didnt do anything wrong. just keep pulling girls home.
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:19 PM
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yeah please send it ! thanx in advance
/r/seduction23/05/25 12:43 PM
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Dude 35 to 45 is a mans golden age. Especial a guy like you who didnt let go but actually worked on himself. If thats not obvious to you you should really take some time to understand womens sexuality. Its very different than ours.
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:49 PM
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this means one thing for some another for others. as a rule of thumb dont beat around the bush. but once you become advanced and are able to maintain your sexual tension indefinetly by all means experiment with taking your time because the fact that you have the balls to escalate is not something you need to showcase anymore. they already can tell.
/r/seduction18/05/25 04:40 PM
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perfect number 8 could be misnterpreted by socially anxious people. what OP means is that YOU suck at detecting / admitting when you re in someone elses frame - understandably so - so in comparison women are very good at it. but once you start getting good at this you can get better than them. dont waste time thinking "do they know how i felt my heartbeat rise for a second before delivering that line" ? they re not psychics and they re not THAT MUCH focused on you the whole time. if you start ge…
/r/seduction18/05/25 04:37 PM
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momentum helped me. and pushing through the first few awkward days. dont go too much past the point you re comfortable with at first. but every day do push it a bit more and a bit more. in a few days your comfort zone will expand. and at some point you will learn how to synchronize with people and adapt to their social cues and what not. you see the ability to have "extroverted chit chat" is based a lot on how frequently you do it. no need to complicate things more by breaking it down into formu…
/r/seduction12/05/25 09:38 AM
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well first of all dont be too serious with them. learn how to vibe. vibing happens outside the sphere of things like "reason" "logistics" or "personal identity". vibing happens when you approach conversations artistically, playfully and improvisationally. the reason "cool people" look down on "nerds" is because usually these people (nerds) take everything too seriously or too literally and they cant just kick back and joke around with the "rest of them peasants". few people might hate nerds beca…
/r/seduction05/05/25 11:22 AM
1

i mostly became a person who had poor social skills because when in school i found little to no one to relate to. my school was an accurate micrography of the general populations likes and dislikes. when i moved to college the stakes were stacked in my favor and i instantly became super popular, but that wasnt an actual representation of how society looks like outside my musicology department. its more like school. so if you want to become good at cold approaching you have two options. either fi…
/r/seduction03/05/25 11:33 AM
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its not about how soon you sleep with someone. that never worked on me. i can convince you with details of my past if you want but lets keep this short. what you actually need is to select a person that besides the attraction you would easily be friends with. which means same values, the ability to vibe and have fun with just being with each other, a romantic first month of dating, deep conversations... all these things. and always ask them what they look for in this stage of life. are they open…
/r/seduction20/04/25 11:18 AM
1

:) i can see you re going through something.. wish you get back on your feet soon
/r/seduction19/04/25 09:17 PM
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thats 50% accurate 50% a product of your own lack of improving something (or thingS) that you can improve and are below AVERAGE (not just "not optimal") which happen to ruin the first impression. (see looks, body language etc) it can also be a good ol shit test but that depends on the severity of the "fuck you"s you re getting it can also be that you are going for the divas - and i get it, every one is. but they themselves are not for everyone you know ... stereotypically, porn like, "hot" and "…
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:04 PM
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which means you care too much... you want the same level of not giving a fuckness while sober ? social repetition, social callibration and extreme vulnerability. and you need a specific type of social callibration. then one that makes any "low class / second grade " thought you might have, sound charming. this comes from having strong neural pathways that handle social interactions. you strengthen them with making social interaction a big part of your waking life. this will give you the spider s…
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:10 AM
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i dont know where you re at, mentally speaking or in terms of style, how you carry yourself etc... do you even approach ? give us some context... to answer your question yes its entirely possible. ive not only seen it in myself i have prepped up people that were doing this first time in their lives and it worked. but i dont have any advice that works for everyone. i need context. in terms of how good looking you are, how would you rate your sense of style in an objective manner, how many approac…
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:05 PM
1

just say one word the first that comes to mind and stand in tension while she absorbs t. convince your self to relax inside the discomfort and LISTEN instead of planning ahead. use her response to figure out what to say next. dont block her out and start getting logical... she is full of cues on how to seduce her as long as you pay attention and stay in the "love bubble". regarding your self, focus only on responding with a deliberate pace. jerkiness will arise and thats ok but you dont have to …
/r/seduction11/03/25 12:16 AM
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its about staying present. which is ruined by you trying to micromanage everything that you re about to say or do or anything positive or negative that happened 5 minutes ago.. you re not taking her in, letting her tune to a more real vibe instead of the surface level "talkingt at her" or "reacting to her" level chit chat. signals are "energetic"... if you too speak that language not only you will notice signals you will now how to respond too
/r/seduction04/03/25 07:37 PM
1

sacrifice the cow
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:51 AM
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Do all the things you dont like guys doing to u. Ne creepy. Be overt about liking them. Sexually overt. Theres a reason we come off so creepy. We do what would have turned us on if a woman had done it to us. Nudes, cheesy compliments, sexual statements, groping and general disregard for physical boundaries.. it would be better if you increased the intensity slowly. But if you feel totally uncalibrated and rusty just shoot your shot either way. Even if for whatever rare reason he tries to shoot y…
/r/seduction18/01/25 11:03 AM
2

No dont do it. His dad did sth creepy. If she finds out you encouraged it too you ll be the creepiest of the two.
/r/seduction18/01/25 10:46 AM
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all people are sluts. some hide it better than others.
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:32 PM
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women are shy as well. with the excuse/safety-net of relationships both those of us nerds who "study seduction" and those poor fellas' GFs have plausible deniability and freedom from outcome so they can push it further without feeling any risk. try to get direct with them and see how fast they get into their shells. sexual chemistry happens on its own when you are just being yourself with a girl and a girl with you. single people are never being themselves around the person they like. they eithe…
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:14 AM
1

Tyler is neurodivergent
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:09 PM
0

aamen
/r/seduction24/07/24 04:17 PM
8

perfect example of "in vitro vs in vivo" opinions... yours come from life experience, theirs are just something they read online and then convinved themselves its the truth..
/r/seduction24/07/24 04:15 PM
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The only way is to stop giving a shit. Fuck with their heads. Be unpredictable. Dont let them win the status game. They know what they are doing and you will fast stand out if you dont give in. Maybe at first they be brutal but if they see you being intact they will start chasing you. Until you internalize that its going to feel as if you are playing games. This not a game. This is you being self actualized. And once you get it you ll no longer be tested so much. Start by being unapologetic. Wit…
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:04 PM
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Your ideas are naturally geared towards increasing the depth of the friendship when apparently thats not at all your weak spot in this. Quite the opposite id say. If this miracle you hope for happens it would only be because of increased sexual tension. To the point that it becomes as intense as the platonic-chemistry you talk about - ideally more. For this to happen you need to able to create that in women you like in general. Not just her. And then hope she likes you enough that you have somet…
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:06 PM
1

You need to either be so delusionally convinced you are the shit and that women beg to fuck you or more easily get prepared to get into situations where you will have to extend that dominant demeanor towards other males as well. In other words be with the chance of getting your ass beaten and handed to you. Which at least to me it also means have some fighting skills so that you can have that certain demeanor that says "think twice before fucking with me". Then you should begin trying becoming m…
/r/seduction18/02/24 04:25 PM
1

If you are stylish and act natural the opposite would be true. Bonus points if you also intimidate younger guys.
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:52 PM
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Only if you enter and leave at your own schedule physically and mentally dominating her / bdsm style abusing her while doing so. She will then play the "falling for you" card and you might be tempted to stay but please remember to break her heart and then block her on all social media the second she becomes unpleasant to the slightest. Sooner than that if that takes too long to happen. Ofcourse wear condoms. Always. Never forget she uses her pussy as a negotiation tool. So you have to drive the …
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:48 PM
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You should try lose your virginity first. Judge later
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:59 PM
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This is a very mild take compared to how people nowadays represent it in social media. Like fresh n fit for example..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:52 AM
3

Yes. Lately. The so called manosphere once upon a time had changed my life but now i dont see any reason for sticking to it. The message " be more of yourself and less afraid of coming off as misogynistic" became " become misogynistic ".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:58 PM
1

First of all you won't solve all your issues with women in a month. Consider your progress to be huge so far and pat your self in the back a little bit. Second you need these failures cause these are going to drive home stuff that you now have to think about. Its this time distance between low value impulse, gamey thinking and gamey action that screams not only lack of authenticity but also that you "need the sex". Maybe its not that obvious that they know what is it that bothers them but its ba…
/r/seduction16/02/24 10:50 AM
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No usually ( non toxic) ltrs kill sexual desire very effectively. And i say usually because there is people who know how to work around that too. Women love to be used and seduced into meaningless sex, especially with men that will later on feel embarassed for "letting in". Basically the more of worthless stupid slut you make her feel the wetter she is going to be. Its not an overstretch to say that you could very well end up being her new favorite bad habit and the guy she makes all the excepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:51 PM
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It is work if you think like a robot and pretending to be sth you arent is your only option to get pussy. If you think like a woman ( or like a guy who fucks ) its infuriating and almost a turn off how much sexual attention they can demand from you. Basically everything women hate being done to them by men, they ll do it to you 10x more embarassinlgy ( clinginess, fighting with competition, constant demand for sex, insecure reactions when you need space etc ) if they categorize you as a member o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:47 PM
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If you dont start getting sexual you ll never know. And if you ever find out, move on. Ive been called bro from chicks that worshipped the ground i stepped on and ive been called bro from chicks who would better eat shit than let me kiss them. I took the latter as a boundary to not cross and the former as a shit test. Because i try my best to be sexual from the first handshake and dont blame anyone but myself when i chicken out and consequently she ends up losing attraction.
/r/seduction10/02/24 07:03 PM
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You mean magnus carlsen and the botez sisters ?
/r/seduction10/02/24 12:08 AM
1

Certainly less self sabotage. More spontaneity. Better chemistry... you see im pretending to not understand your question which basically is you indirectly asking me, "how do I simulate lack of fear" ? You cant. And if you manage to do, you dont want her to fall for it believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:50 PM
1

You need game only if you are scared of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:02 PM
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every time i got cheated on with, it was with someone significantly less good looking... if they like the thrill of being with a hot guy, you can last anywhere from half a night to a month tops... it soon fades out and then its your ability or your innability to keep her into the dynamic where you are the dominant energy and she is the submissive cause thats the only way you can avoid drama, ask any woman you want. yes a lot will go with the flow and stay with you even if they hate your guts but…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:40 PM
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they maike the offer less or more appealing but its not the deciding factor. i hear so often about how attractive i am / look yet before RSD i had the worst dating incidents in the world. and it wasnt because my personality was in any away unpleasant either. people and women the most, always loved being friends with me. i have all the qualities one needs in a friend. yet i can tell you my life story and give you second hand PTSD from all the rejection and humiliation and backstabbing ive dealt w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:01 PM
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you will never gather the balls to collect all the experience you need to affirm what im about to say, but looks without game still equals to zero pu$$y u know. whereas bad looks with stellar game, will open doors for you man. dominance combined with social grace beats the race everytime. go and field test it. if you feel brave enough that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:04 PM
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search for old rsd videos, subscribe to hoe_math youtube channel, read the way of the superior man by David Deida ( https://ia902200.us.archive.org/19/items/pdfy-TIGwEuUmNnQVm7x7/The%20Way%20Of%20The%20Superior%20Man.pdf ) and check some the last video of owen cook and the channels of ToddVdating and the JeffyShow. both former RSD coaches ... its sad that despite non toxic advice works better than the things you now find online, theres no one anymore left to defend these positions, instead we tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:02 PM
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i personally love sluts. but only those who are not shy to let the world know. they usually have emotional intelligence, good social skills and high self esteem. not the best for falling in love with obviously but i dont expect that from every single woman i meet. nor does it make me feel averse towards them. i feel averse towards desparation and egomania. and sometimes or most of the times these two categries overlap with "being a slut". but its not always like that. some girls are just sex pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:04 PM
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If you cant shake a womans head from her social conditioning you never had her in the first place. It means she is still in day to day living autopilot mode. The moment you shake her put of that you become irreplaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:20 PM
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if you have a good penetration game and know how to turn her on and tease her during foreplay, you are good to go. ive actually been through my flashy period and looking back to it seems like such a overcompensation. there more i fucked the less i needed to impress. i guess thats why your girl reacted like this
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:10 AM
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seems theory made you too rigid and you fail to act on your social instincts.. try to express instead of trying to impress. nice guys who end up in friend zone, are codependent people pleasers who try to impress the girl by how submissive and undecisive they can be. iternet PUA's try to impress by how alpha, or entertaining they can be. rich guys try to use their money. jacked dudes try to impress with unnecessary suprophysiological muscle mass to fat ratio, vasodilators and tight clothing. all …
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:18 AM
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second that.
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:13 AM
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if tyler and julien are YOUR deffinition of awesome i wouldnt want to pay a single dollar to them.. think about it ;)
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:43 PM
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he had to choose between two possibilities, spend his entire night ACTUALLY socializing with people at the bar which would probably end up being with JUST YOU TWO guys, because lets face it, you would be interested indeffinetely and he is damn good at keeping the vibe interesting too, or stay proffessional and with his eye on his students' interactions which is what he was supposed to do in the first place. he was WORKING. and he kept things shallow for a reason. he was giving you exits you didn…
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:39 PM
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PIMP alone & the AMAZING first videos they ever posted (back in the golden era when it was tyler, todd, julien, alex, TIM and BRAD) got me laid more than i have gotten laid both before and after this period. i had nothing else on my possession besides PIMP and the youtube videos - and the worst break up of my life keeping a fire under my ass. infield was a bit confusing though back then. made you think you had to be in god mode 24/7 and lift girls up in the air or negging them and trolling them …
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:35 PM
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I ve read some good advice here. But let me tell you something i personally prefer. I prefer strong investment and to have her in a emotional state before kissing her. I want her to be open before she receives me. Cause then everything else is going to fall into place. Sure she can always " allow you to fuck her " but most women will not do it and those who will do it will either regret it or categorize you unfavorably ( "yet another horn dog i can manipulate for my gain" ). You ve put yourself …
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:15 PM
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Feminism has caged a very problematic attitude which btw wasnt any more real than todays day and age nice guys. Macho guys and nice guys are the exact same in different circumstances. "Real men" were always the same. No matter the circumstances.
/r/seduction25/08/22 03:29 PM
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SHE IS NERVOUS SO TRY TO MAKE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TATTOO this on your arms guys. It will help you tremendously.
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:54 PM
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Its just that your training is almost over. Concious competence has been achieved. Now you need to build unconcious competence. So keep going out and meeting people but stop "playing the game". Be a man. Also add some personality in there. Things you value more than sex. Find women who vibe with people like the person you have become. Apparently you wouldn't be friends with any of the women you go home with. Thats why it seems transactional. If they slept with you it was real from their part. Be…
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:45 PM
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Psychedelics
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:45 PM
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Then I think you should send her waaaaay more mixed signals man.. waaaay more...
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:54 AM
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Oh don't make me brag it's not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:37 AM
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Are her boobs as pretty as her face ??
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:28 AM
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Confidence gets you nowhere without chemistry and no one controls the second one. So if they don't have chemistry with her you wait for them to get themselves blown out. If they do and you don't then you should for all reasons move on. Also avoid mixing the ego with your love life. I know as a guy you ve been conditioned to do so, since.. kindergarten but it doesn't work and women hate it. And you will also get tested about it. Search for genuine mutual attraction with women you naturally connec…
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:10 PM
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If I was a fighting champion I wouldnt be out there fighting with amateurs. I would already know the result. I would in fact prefer to fight with people on my level because they would give me the motivation motivation try my best. Now imagine the champion fighters are women. They know they induce these feelings in you. They induce these feelings in every guy. Why would they be with you instead of everyone else like you ?? At some point they need the challenge. If you cover up the 120% of probabl…
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:39 AM
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Mess with her. Make fun of her. Do shots. Smoke weed on the bed.
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:37 AM
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Sex needs comfort end of story. Both men and women need to feel relaxed and fully there. This way you ll never lose sleep over your dick "not working". No matter the age.
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:07 PM
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i dont just think i observe first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:59 PM
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are you on the spectrum ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:58 PM
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you just listed all the things that would ve put him into friendzone if wasnt playing games with you as well. thats literally every guys furstration "we have natural chemistry we share so much we are same level of attrctiveness even and im being decent to her respect her and everything. she just doesnt see how god of a match we are." instead you guys prefer dating any guy that will treat you like shit and then u rationalize your decision backwards. usually it doesnt involve common interests. non…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:18 PM
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"to keep a woman happy"... ..is the sole thing i STOPPED doing which made every NLP and PUA tactic practically excessive and useless. just stay within the vincinity of a goddess and DONT kiss her ass no matter what she does to you. treat her like equal. its not so easy as it sounds but field test it, and come tell me..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:09 PM
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I also think that. You re right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:31 PM
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Every relationship was with a person that either was very similar with me or with a person who was pretending to be. I'd say "never again" because it never works out but I know I'm lying. I'll find my self doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:28 AM
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I've met a handful of girls with BPD. Some were deranged trash even. Ofclurse you can shrug those off easily. But a few of them had a depth you rarely find in people. Immense empathy great social skills sexual experience great sense of style interesting social circles you name it. Put the manipulation the mirroring the love bombing and the constant appraisal you get the first months and you have quite the addictive mix. Just imagine the most amazing woman you ve ever met ( well it seems so at fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:25 AM
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slut defense
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:05 PM
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i agree with the general spirit but putting my self in his shoes i believe its physically impossible because you ask too much investment on the other hand girls get wet when getting ordered around they respond strongly to it. plus it "breaks the pattern" whatever the pattern was. you get in her head for a second. but they need to hear your balls in your tone. pure masculine conviction. no aggressiveness no softness either. just "boss to employee" type of deal. "this guy fucks" is what you need h…
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:03 PM
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(guy to girl) - " TURN AROUND.!! " she does. you kiss. boom. done.
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:00 PM
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you spend too much time here and dont realize how much attraction you create just by having the balls to do that to a stranger. my guess is you keep kissing and grabbing and needing stuff communicating just that. that "this dude doesnt know his worth". when i kiss i "shit test" them immediately. nothing flashy i pull back, and say something challenging, start screening them, make them chase in general. so that she feels she is winning you over as well. i mean here you are being the shit, every g…
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:50 PM
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Stop trying to make people boo you p. Stop trying to steal the groups good feelings or approval. Be your own island of feel good or fun. Be the one who provides the approval. And watch them coming towards you.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:01 PM
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She likes you for cuddles. It's a thing. It is also very emasculating. Tell her "I don't think this friendship serves my needs anymore. You don't want me for a boyfriend so you can't monopolize my attention. I think we need some space. " and then politely but firmly stick to it. She will get mad at you but she will respect you at the same time. She will then try to seduce you back. I count on your intuition for that. You will know if she is sincere when she becomes sincere. First attempt will be…
/r/seduction24/10/21 12:57 PM
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Start going to raves instead of clubs. Thank me later.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:35 PM
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Dude you cannot learn social intuition with tips and tricks you learned from RSD Tyler of the zeroes. Actually your intuition is pretty strong already since it is potent enough to prevent you from making the social mistakes you call physicality. I'm getting somewhere... stay with me. These moves are for loud venues. You cannot be the same person in the club and at class. You will look like a clown. What you need to learn is to either stop looking at the IOI glass half empty or to elicit stronger…
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:09 AM
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you should play both and be honest with at least one of them. perhaps the one who took the initiative to ask you out should know about another woman being in your life. it will come off as mature as you not being an idiot and giving in to every woman who chases you for a second, knowing what you want, having boundaries ..... all sorts of good stuff.... like a text at some point when she is trying to escalate that looks like "well you should know something about me though..." "its not that i dont…
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:38 AM
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be thoughtful next time. let silences drag out a bit without showing any uneasiness. transfer the uneasiness towards her if you will and make sure in this time to come off as comfortable as possible with every line you deliver. dont make it too obvious. like "heeeeeyyyy babyyy..." this would be creepy. you only need a slight deviation from polite conversation. a slight hinge of a turn on. a certain smirk on your face that there might be more to you. that you know something she doesnt. and if she…
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:30 AM
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solid advice. this mentality always wins.
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:22 AM
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its emotionally challenging. most hot/slutty girls and lots of young extroverted people like to put others in their heads and lift themselves up in the process. its abusive but most party people are used to it. so you are fighting a double battle. one is with your own projections and the other is with these vampires. the trick is to have helpful projections. reframe everything (ofcourse not to the point that you look like a weirdo. be smart about it) as indications of interest. if she is teasing…
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:19 AM
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for inner game watch RSD. for outer game, go out every night. stay congruent while expanding your social circle and make strangers like you. after you get the hang of it try to introduce playfulness a little bit and make people reactto you instead of you reacting to them. especially if there is girls around having them asking you questions or qualifying themselves can make you look as if you god damn know what you re doing and put you on a whole another level compared to 99% of men around. pro t…
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:13 AM
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be more playful
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:24 AM
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you need to increase investment until they get into your reality instead of theirs. be a bit more mysterious and dont jump through hoops when not necessary
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:24 AM
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1000%
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:21 AM
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this is such a fucked up scenario, but you both seem so depserate to make it work that you cant blame any side. any healthy person would be like "dude you cant have your cake and eat it too" except in this scenario the cake is him being "your man" without actually having sex with you which makes it 10 times worse - and also not your man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 12:27 AM
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just fake it until you make it. try to gauge her interest levels and match them. thats how you know you can proceed. and if you feel ballsy see if you can move things forward a little bit and if it doesnt work, take a step back and continue with plan A
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:36 PM
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discovering about ones neediness goes like this. first you are like "i feel needy emotions they re almost too hard to resist" then you are like "i dont feel any longing for anyone anymore" and then you close the circle by thinking "lets give her some more of my time and attention i think she deserves it"
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:47 PM
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