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7	Venting and feel hurt		Expand__	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 12:36 AM

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–	Venting and feel hurt Agree. Big difference on genuine feedback from someone you are actually dating, close with and actually want to help support you .^	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 11:14 PM
1	Venting and feel hurt Well we weren’t dating. We had a few nice hangouts over a year ago that ended with a bit of a blowout . We don’t know each other very well, we met on a dating app initially and I felt the connection wasn’t explored fully.. I value feedback from close friends and family no doubt . But we weren’t dating , we only met up as friends / benefits because I am more comfortable getting to know someone that way , I rarely date .. This was a bit much after a first time meeting in a long time . I felt rejec…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 11:00 PM
2	Venting and feel hurt Yeah I want to try strength training . Not necessarily weight lifting but resistance , etc. Also get back into swimming which I haven’t done in a long while, that is a great overall and enjoyable workout . Thanks	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 05:26 PM
3	Venting and feel hurt Yeah I agree there are men who are attracted to bigger women. This guy was apparently one of them Before, and even made me feel good about my body. To see that mental shift in a year is a bit jarring. Feels manipulative. 8/10 is a good healthy size & medications can definitely affect the process. I’m glad you found your guy 🙂	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 03:00 PM
3	Venting and feel hurt Thank you . it feels bad since weight is more of a problem for some people and not always “eat less” The irony is I’ve maintained a stable weight and don’t even over eat that much. I think if you’ve dealt with weight issues most of your life , your body adjusts to a certain point and you have to eat so few calories it feels like starving . I will likely have to try an approach like keto & intermittent fasting. . I’ve struggled with eating disorder in the past so stable weight , albeit larger is …	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 04:48 AM
1	Venting and feel hurt I am feminine & active but full figured yes. We met before a few times, had good times . I was the same size .. he was so different but also apparently now ending his relationship he had been wanting to for a while and even reinforced saying that to me the other day when he explained more about what he meant and that he ended it but the woman wouldn’t let him leave. He’s confusing and I am confused in the process so I withdraw. also feel he is projecting a lot of stuff on to me regarding his exp…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 03:55 AM
4	Venting and feel hurt He mentioned he has given up on relationships, we didn’t get into the why much during our first (likely last visit lol) but he also mentioned emotions being weakness. I study a lot of psychology for my work and suspect he has a really avoidant attachment situation going . I don’t think he has necessary communication , conflict resolution or negotiation skills so I can imagine relationships feel smothering or a trap in that case. I can kind of see why looking for these red flags superficially mig…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 01:29 AM
1	Rich Cooper from 2014-2015 was actually a well spoken, empathetic kind and likable person I met up with a man who I hadn’t seen for two years . Suffice to say he’s been following this guys teachings since then and was a different person. Demeaned me even. It was humiliating and sad	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/23 03:48 PM