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No, its just American cultural brainwashing of women. There’s alot of countries you can do the 2nd option in and it’s not treated like you are a piece of shit for doing so. It’s only the conditioned misandry of gynocentric culture that treats the 2nd as inherently hostile and extremely negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:33 AM
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In addition to everything else. He is a raging hypocrite. Dude is in Miami tricking on girls on seeking.com and telling dudes to not dating hoes and he’s literally doing this to get the girls he gets. I think some of his general points are right and I do enjoy him getting bitched around by white nationalists because I know he won’t go that hard on white men or he will Lose his audience lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:43 AM
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My experience yall both beg. You all have education and opportunity and still beg or demand for patriarchal provisioning so I don’t understand this gotcha you think yall have when trying to reduce third world women to only caring about money, when yall do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:08 PM
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And so do women. Only one has social backing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:34 AM
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It’s predatory what women do here lmao 🤪 two exploiters swimming in different ponds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:21 AM
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We live in an era where the plain Janes are told they are Stacies, sold they are stacies and served a never ending line of thirst. Essentially validating every reason to be a passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:17 AM
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I disagree in so much as it’s not the only option, but it’s about needing to get access to other women so you understand holistically that women are not worth what their egos are trying to project to you in the west. It’s best to be a PPB develop a core of confidence and competence and work on yourself so you value yourself and don’t listen to/patronize doomscrolling egotistical western women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:11 AM
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There’s literally no difference between a begging, “I deserve to be provided for”, 1st world western woman and a begging, “help me papi” 3rd world woman. Both beggars, just have to choose which is the better deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:08 AM
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The thing is those things said about single moms are in general true, it’s only worth it if she’s attractive and willing to have more kids. A lot of guys (myself included) don’t want mid/average looking single moms who expect a lot, but a hot one? Plenty of guys will ignore the problems in order to secure her. The manosphsere guys found other solutions, not dating, PPB, or only making exceptions for the attractive single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:53 PM
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Millions upon millions of men are saying the same thing about women worldwide. That didn’t just come out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:12 PM
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It’s this weird Dance of ego and projection. It’s a lot like how Sugar Daddy’s swear up and down it’s a real relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:38 PM
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To make $30M I think a lot of people would ignore that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:40 PM
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Yes. You have to value yourself above all others, everyone wants our utility and resources, protection and love is a slightly distant 4th from those 3. So in order to take your frame where you are in control, network with other successful people or communities where successful people discuss things. Intake all knowledge you can so you be a well round human being who has empathy, but values himself and has value he knows he can trade for resources. Then once you have that leave to an environment …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:07 AM
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Good you’ve accepted it. Skill up ñ, get a remote job or business and get your passport and leave. It’s what I did and I’ve never been happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:59 AM
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Because any policy that ends the exploitation and going of hetero men’s issues gets no empathy AND the Gynocratic feminist ideology of the middle and left woukd re-brand anything designed to help men as sexist. Ex. - liability suits for false allegations or mandatory DNA tests at birth to determine paternity. Watch the gaslighting and dismissal of that type of agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:41 PM
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That still isn’t hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:30 AM
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If she has enough value to him to override it he will do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:21 AM
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Because I wasn’t defining hypergamy when I listed “attitude, disposition, energy, demands.” I was answering what men may mean by “better” in dating (compatibility/behavior). Hypergamy is a separate, narrower concept: marrying/dating up in socioeconomic/educational status. Wanting a more pleasant, cooperative partner =\= more money than her” and =\= hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:20 AM
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Hypergamy is largely based on socioeconomic status that carries most of the weight in women’s calculus - it does not count going the other way. So hypergamy isn’t an accurate term here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:52 AM
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That’s certainly one reason why, a lot of men overlook a women’s promiscuous past if it means he gets access to her. That’s why the final form of a promiscuous girl is a religious good girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:33 AM
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High demands and low reciprocity, or high demands when you yourself aren’t offering something of equal value
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:40 PM
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<image> This is the definition and this isn’t what is happening overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:39 PM
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Hypergamy means dating up in status/resources. Most guys going overseas aren’t seeking higher-status women to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:27 PM
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Attitude, disposition, energy, demands etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:35 PM
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It usually was more advantageous back when you weren’t scrutinized for any and everything. It’s a scam now depending on the type of woman you’re taking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:43 PM
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I’d like to measure who is more gaslit about their experiences in dating, men or women, and the follow up would be the political leanings of the person doing the gaslighting. I would do this in the hope of getting more mental health resources for those who suffer most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:24 AM
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Why is it assumed that after step 1 if you fail it’s the guys fault? Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:03 AM
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Yeah I had this thought exercise and it creates so many damn problems 1st world nations I’m not sure would be able to account for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:01 PM
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It’s not the same pre covid, I’m not arguing that it’s not valid but I’m saying I see the same men complaining that won’t go to those things/cold approach etc and too reliant on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:25 AM
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I have not, why the recommendation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:12 PM
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Because alot of men came up during Covid when women changed their standards - pre-covid I was never hearing talk about provider and 50/50, and how height was everything and all this toxic escort/sugar baby logic that they’ve tried to mask as “standards”. In addition to this because of Covid restrictions men main way of getting women was via dating apps and we all know how that has warped dating for the worse. So less men ( and women) went out to the usual places you’d try and meet. Many men bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:35 PM
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Also this. This is admitting weakness IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:42 PM
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Def some AI there but I don’t understand how the angry young right thinks turning into some Christian purity society is going to help you get laid…or find relationships because it’ll be so conservative it will be the Christian version of sharia law. What society needs to do is change the divorce laws, add liability for false accusations, and legalize prostitution so this way average every guy and chad can be free of having to entertain mids’ delusions, entitlement and arrogant for access to what…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:00 PM
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First I think we need to let go of the idea that dating app results reflect our true value, that entire ecosystem is engineered and rigged and not a real reflection of our value as men. It’s designed for dopamine hits and attention seeking. If you find love great but it’s not a real indicator, because I can take my perfectly above average self over to Cali, Colombia and get dozens of matches. Did I do anything different? No i just went somewhere where male value isn’t viewed as disposable, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:28 AM
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Because you can’t sit on your ass and expect girls to show up - it’d always been hard relevant to the era for guys - but obviously now being drastically harder it doesn’t change that you still have to do something in order to get anything out of it , even if it’s not in your personality “repertoire”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:23 AM
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The thing is why is the introvert complaining about not getting it, if they aren’t doing what’s necessary to get the outcomes they want? You can obviously get sex if you’re introverted but an extrovert is going to have more opportunities to bat. It’s no different than fat women who complain they can’t get high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:03 AM
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“Closed mouth doesn’t get fed” Is and will always be true no matter what the introverts says. If you know you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:59 PM
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Dating apps aren’t a real reflection because it’s a person who is engineered to evaluate you vs there dozens, hundreds, thousands of options THE APP gives them, not real life. If the app doesn’t exist they can’t leverage you vs so many others because the communication methods are limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 01:37 AM
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Things aren’t equal if the person who’s supposedly equal is pandhandling and begging for provision despite making the same amount of money. 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:05 PM
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The one where you begged for rights and equal money - got it- only to then turn around and ask for 1950’s provisioning while not abiding by what you have to provide for that provisioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:30 PM
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Nah women haven’t adjusted the social contract, men never changed it largely, but it’s a diminishing return problem because women are trying to make men abide by traditional standards while they are benefitting from modernity and can negotiate what they will/wont do. It’s what breeds resentment and why you have men delineating from women politically across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:21 PM
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3 things: This is why some men should be passport bros/digital nomads/ FIRE and get out. This is a textbook example of a power dynamic that involves a certain level of exploitation but because it’s the first world, it’s acceptable under false equivalence. So this is why any conversation of power imbalance when you date a foreigner in their country is hypocritical coming from blue pillers and western women who’ve normalized their own power dynamic (none of it built upon equality) Also men should …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:36 PM
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Both genders shouldn’t be broke and dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:28 PM
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Yes. I just think you should say that you expect that upfront that way you can filter out who’s not interested or serious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:24 PM
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If you were hot enough you’d know OP and be able to get that on demand. If you just want it to feel validated it you should just say you expect it and the guys who don’t want to simply won’t go out with you and you’ll be left with the guys you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:52 PM
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I’ll keep saying this Covid fucked up our socialization so bad, especially for Gen Z. We were all trapped in that online world since then and it was ripe for all sorts of grifters. Women got grifted and fell for the lies by stealth Sugar Babies/Escorts inserting their transactional dynamics into civilian dynamics/lifestyle content and guys got captured by dating gurus that completely turned a lot of them off of modern dating dynamics and subsequently made Women the enemy IMO that’s why there’s s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:20 AM
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In reality Option B will win if he is perceived to have more money and looks better doesn’t matter how much that looks/money gap is between option A or B they will choose the one that maxes out attraction. Typically the younger the woman is the more you have to max out her attraction sliders for her to consider you. The older they get the more lax they are n some of those in which option A will receive preference depending on what he offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:20 PM
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How is a woman being attacked for something that is real that they literally do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:11 AM
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I just meant why dangle something nice to do for your partner? It just comes off as coping for past trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:18 PM
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Why would you dangle something nice to do for a partner like candy on a stick? It comes off like you’re incapable of giving it without incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:18 PM
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Why would dangling something you should do for a ring? It comes off like you’re incapable of giving it without incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:32 PM
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The amount of blue pill gaslighting on this is insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:39 PM
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Yep, it’s one of those what men say vs what men respond to scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:28 PM
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Yes I agree with you. From my experience they are better at knowing how to harness and play on a man’s attraction and devotion and know how to make men feel like men, so that’s why they end up having the skills to get a man once they’re done. I don’t think they struggle that much - getting top tier guys might be a struggle but other than that they can get most anyone they pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:02 PM
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I know from firsthand experience - dating/being in a relationship with a slut is amazing just keep your emotions in check and you’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:55 PM
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what I’ve seen in real life -and how things have unfolded in the pill spaces….. Men absolutely love sluts. ESPECIALLY Christian devout men/Christian Chads. Who you think is wifing up these retired OF/pornstar girls once they say they’re committing to god? Lol. For a Christian Wifing up a “saved” slut is a win . He gets a devoted Christian wife and a freak in bed that will let all that repressed sexual energy out. Sluts get married and don’t have a problem because most guys despite what we says, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:35 PM
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No because she is an obvious monkey brancher
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:42 PM
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Lmao. That is quite the conundrum as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:25 PM
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This is kinda funny ngl. Tbh if she fucked Nick Fuentes the internet might legit explode into singularity of hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:55 AM
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“Ragging” is part of male communication culture
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:46 AM
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Just because you want it doesn’t mean anyone or society has to care or owes you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:42 PM
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Until women have the results that match the expectations….then nothing is going to change lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:32 PM
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What service are yall providing since a lot of you think and act like them? It’s literally cheaper for me to pay for escorts than to try a dating app in America and search for a girlfriend that I’m attracted to lol. It wasn’t like that before covid but to be fair men were not the same pre covid too. We’re dealing with drastic behavior changes since then for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:43 PM
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It doesn’t matter what you specifically did, the problem stems from a general problem women are displaying. Hence “yall” if you not apart of it that’s cool, but the problem starts there with the sugar baby/escort logic women have absorbed into their brains since COVID
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:11 PM
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I see a lot of women offended that men are valuing themselves and questioning the return on investment women give. What women have isn’t self esteem it’s arrogance and entitlement. It’s so funny it’s right on women’s face and yall refuse to own up to it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:04 PM
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Well yall have the most freedom you have ever had economically and societally yet are constantly begging for the patriarchal provider dynamics to come back and trying to excuse that hypocrisy under the guise of “progress”. What’s wild is yall are 1st world women doing all this begging, yall actually have money and are expecting a provider to drop out of the sky and pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:58 PM
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It’s attitude. 100% attitude and the way you interpret . what men say they want
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:56 PM
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I don’t think men’s problems from the dating market are at all tied to women’s achievements but rather their interpersonal behavior. Women changed so drastically they priced guys out of the market. When you have the most average built woman who thinks she deserves to have a guy who pays all her bills and won’t accept anything less, essentially wanting 1950’s provisioning you just create an environment that’s toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:55 PM
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Right never taking accountability 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:46 PM
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I’ll say this the fact that you went immediately to dismissing men’s experiences especially millions of men’s experiences with how women move is what gives the red pill power and influence. The catch is, you don’t have to be red pilled to have experienced any one of these toxic negative behaviors women do in dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:37 PM
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Because you don’t have to be red pill to have experienced women’s negative behaviors in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:35 PM
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That’s pretty ironic coming from the gender that blames men for everything and blames men for their own failed relationships and choices instead of taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:33 PM
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It’s pretty obvious especially to men, hence why Single moms get shit on so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:18 AM
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It’s more like men have discovered how misandrist American women/blue-pill are and now they aren’t playing along with the script and women are mad that it’s not working as well as it used to. Red pill would disappear overnight if certain factors changed. It would become potentially obsolete
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:24 PM
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It’s pretty accurate - look at who single moms get pregnant by and who they end up seriously dating or settle down with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:21 PM
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You can’t beat the red pill if the entire reason red pill is valid is due to the behavior of women in dating. 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:19 PM
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Oh yeah if she’s just average but has the right attitude and dedication towards making me happy in a relationship then she’s the same in my eyes as the hot girl I’d approach. I’d give her the same level of high attention to detail and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:20 PM
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I’m going to add a caveat to your logic: At a baseline level - yes, her looks which “looks” in this case doesn’t mean how attractive to others or how attractive she thinks she is, but rather how attractive she is to me specifically. If she is higher on that end then yes I will put on more effort especially if her personality is not entitled or insufferable. However, even with looks, she still has to get the chemistry, and other things besides looks right to get max effort out of me. A lesser att…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:13 PM
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Bro it’s even more vile than that. Saving these heaux’s for this Christin Virgin Chads/Simps fulfills all the Christian internal moral compass wishlist: Redeeming a lost soul, saving a lost soul, and the Christian self righteous group moral clout that comes from saving said person to later use in those sermons & testimonies ? 😵‍💫☠️☠️ See the baddie with the body prostitute wrapped up in the renewal of Jesus Christ and you know she’ll drop that freak if it’s in the name of our lord and savior Jes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:06 AM
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I’m trying to understand how a girl who simped for a dude and got scammed is a pick me? Men with scamming intentions don’t care if you’re a pick me or not lmao matter of fact you women that say you hate men, or talk about how you’re this and that and better than men and yall STILL get scammed by certain types of men. No matter what you think of yourself, Sweetheart, you’re a fucking mark to men like that regardless. Anybody remember Derrick Jaxsn? ☠️☠️☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:49 AM
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Speaking as an older millennial who’s completely checked out of Western dating, I say this not as someone who “can’t get a date,” but as someone who’s just exhausted. Dating in the U.S. has become so shallow, egotistical, transactional, and exploitative—it’s monotonous, draining, and frankly… selfish. I now live and date exclusively overseas, and I don’t plan on coming back. But here’s how I see the inability to form healthy relationships taking its toll—especially on Gen Z: Isolation and Echo C…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:35 PM
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Hey as long as you know you’re not fooling anybody with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:05 PM
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I’ve traveled to different countries and dated and what I learned is that people against international dating who are from the west are the biggest dumbest hypocrites you can imagine. It’s built off of internalized misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:58 PM
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You do know your entire argument is being done in bad faith ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:55 PM
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It kinda is. As an American woman you have an “unfair” power dynamic similar to what PPB enjoy when they leave. Neither of them are based on equality and first world privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:50 PM
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It’s the only strategy a lot of times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:24 AM
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This is undeniably true however women are completely different when it comes to approaching in person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:24 PM
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The women know what kind of guy they are choosing. Simply look at the men that they chose as their first BD vs the man they settled with, 9/10 they are not the same guy. So women know they have access to that 2nd guy they just don’t choose him for first dibs on her womb because he isn’t good enough for the first time around. So this idea they never know is cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:55 PM
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Because the “lucky to be in my presence “ energy mixed with you getting all my time and money and your part in this is optional….it comes off as transactional with bigger steps. At that point I might just save the $400$500 I spent providing experiences to court you on 1 hr with an escort with a better body than you. Yall expect this without giving anything in return so it’ds ggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:00 AM
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Everyone is only as faithful as their options. Dating changes entirely here if social media and dating apps are disappeared
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:13 PM
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The question was centered around why are single moms shamed…this is the answer. When You act like they are the prize and front load arrogant expectations and you wonder why men feel the way they do or shit on them so bad ? This is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:32 AM
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The shaming happens because you become single mothers and project your baggage, delusion, trauma and painfully egotistical idea of your self value out there to everyone else as if inheriting another man’s kids and your financial situation for access to you is somehow in any way shape or form a good deal for men. Many men won’t tell women this because they still want single moms for sexual/relationship access if they don’t have other options, trust, they are not thrilled at all about the prospect…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:57 PM
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Obviously, but part of that is Liberal Leadership merging itself with 3rd wave feminist paradigms becoming too collectivist too intersectional and dropping its masculine support. Feminism is now more about power and holding leverage and pretending that having power means equality when it just means having power and leverage, if you want to see this in real time- look at how Feminists frame Passport bros and the idea of going to another country to date- they complain because they immediately take…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:20 AM
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Well how do you get guys to come back to the club and make it more enticing than being on a dating app? You got free entry because that would attract men to spend and if they ain’t going well…that math has to math.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:11 PM
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Feminism has done more dehumanization to a gender than TRP has. At least TRP acknowledges you’re human beings with desires and wants and the human nature of how that plays out, feminism doesn’t even grant its own championed gender that level of humanization.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:42 PM
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Many of us would love but what woman is going to realistically offer that or even allow that? Let alone make enough money for that to be the case? Like the women who make enough and are satisfied with it (that’s the key issue SATISFACTION) are very very rare, because most women will eventually have an issue with it if the Mann isn’t making as much as her. Women like Jeff Bezos Ex wife don’t have to care because she’s got $97B dollars so it doesn’t matter what whatever guy she likes does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:08 PM
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You’re confusing a legal process with “power dynamics.” The waiting period exists to prevent marriage fraud, not to trap anyone. Immigrant spouses can already divorce, file independently, or even self-petition under VAWA if abuse happens. Citizenship taking years isn’t some form of “punishment,” it’s a safeguard that applies to everyone equally. Trying to spin this into a gendered power issue, again is just misandry spilling out because you can’t cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:03 AM
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What about “they have the same rights as you” in a marriage do you not understand? Anybody who’s an immigrant has the same rights in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:50 AM
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This is straight up projection lmao. You’re assuming the absolute worst case because these women aren’t like y’all and these men aren’t playing in your sandbox. The reality is no one is forced into anything—immigrant spouses have the same rights, legal protections, and options as anyone else. Just because you don’t like the choices these women are making doesn’t mean they’re victims. You’re not actually worried about abuse you’re mad these women aren’t throwing men to the side under the guise of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:45 AM
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No there’s really not. Look up form I-865, AND look up how prenups work. These women have the same rights as you in a marriage. That goes for any citizen marrying an immigrant regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:49 AM
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It seems like abuse scenarios are constantly brought up in these discussions as a way to derail the main point. Do you have actual evidence that this is more common in these relationships than in domestic ones? Because from what I’ve seen, it’s often speculation used to discredit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:44 AM
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Why do yall manufacture these fake scenarios to deflect from the fact that men you don’t like get women you don’t want them to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:15 AM
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Feminism really drilled misandry hard into the heads of women. how can you be that concerned about men you wouldn’t piss on if they were on fire dating more attractive women than they could get here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:53 PM
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That’s what we tell men to do and it’s being said to be misogynistic….
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:37 PM
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There’s not but because both are “traveling” it’s easy to get lumped into the same basket, and you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:09 PM
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I think it’s easier for them to assume the person doing it is doing so for morally reprehensible reasons rather than understand the dating culture they’ve helped contribute to here is obnoxious and tedious for a lot of men. However, in fairness, there are alot of sex tourists who use geo maxing, they just try to rebrand themselves to act like that’s not what they’re doing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:57 AM
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As you can see, the automatic assumption is your a sex tourist if you go somewhere where your only options aren’t nothing or entitled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:19 AM
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Lmao 🤣 You think men here are excited to ‘win’ entitled 5s, 6s, and 7s who believe they’re 10’s? Or happy to finally get attention from single moms who wouldn’t look at us until they had 2 or 3 kids? You think we enjoy dealing with women who dismiss our needs, pretend sex isn’t important, and act like they’re too good for a simple coffee date? That’s not happiness, that’s settling, and the guys with means are taking their chances elsewhere lol. The only reason this bothers you is because abroad,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:31 AM
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They are just not to the extent yall are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:43 PM
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Oh and suddenly women don’t generalize men all the time? Lol 😂 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:43 PM
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Obviously I mean women in general. Men generally don’t have a problem with hypergamy in and of itself, we understand this is normal for women. The complaint is that it has spiraled out of control due to artificial factors and has had harmful downstream effects because it’s gotten absurd. Any man with a spine does want women to have standards. If you are a fan of Sex and the City, I encourage you to go back and watch the first season, eerily similar complaints about dating today were still made b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:39 PM
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It goes back to my first point, yall choose to be that way because you can - because there’s nothing to easily supplant you for men. Whereas you can easily replace us because of a smartphone or for whatever frivolous reason you choose because there’s some guy out there desperate enough. The equivalent for men would be a guy making above $250K or someone at the top end of available men. Women here can replace men and they don’t have to be anywhere near that category, men’s lack of available optio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:13 PM
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Nah, the economies in 3rd world countries aren’t at scale for there to be opportunity for everyone period. Men have it hard and women have it hard as well. Theres not enough jobs to go around in the first place like here and besides even the working class women aren’t as extremely picky and spoiled for choice just by how the dynamics are different. So it’s not a question of exploitation but practicality. For example they aren’t (at a macro level) going to obsess over height like women can over h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:03 PM
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Women hate on it because they live in a bubble of privilege and leverage here and think that means they are living in equality and the reality is it’s not equality, it’s privilege and leverage. They think that because women in other countries can’t be as hypergamous/shallow/vapid/entitled as they are, then that means they are oppressed. That’s it. Any rebuttal they have stems from these facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:56 PM
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It does that’s why it makes sense to not date those women. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:27 PM
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lol. I swear to god the only reason this is litigated is because of feminist dogma and indoctrination. It is a need yes, certain groups of people don’t want to admit it because they are misandrist or try to extrapolate to some goofy ass patriarchal BS to deny its importance. You can guess the gender and political affiliation of the person who tries to deny this like clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:36 PM
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Jesus Christ the femcel energy is so pervasive with yall today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:38 PM
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Hate to break it to you but even with 1st world privilege women are still out here begging to be provided for. All that panhandling and “I deserve” talk they do happens whether they are in 1st world or 3rd world. You have to provide either way, so may as well get the best ROI.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:23 PM
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2 reasons: Because we live in a gynocratic country where it’s sacrilege to admit how toxic American women’s behavior in dating has become thus influencing this behavior. Blue pillers refuse to admit it as evidenced by the comments on this post and in general on this sub. It’s amazing to watch in real time as they do anything to not hold them accountable for their role in this. So the reason PPB get pushback/shit on is because they shit on Women’s sense of value and their leverage here. The other…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:20 PM
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I don’t see how because I see Feminism and Blue pill gynocratic beliefs losing huge ground politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:46 PM
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One thing lost on this is burnout. I think that is greatly underestimated in this debate. The dating process here for men is largely time consuming and exhausting especially given what you get out of it. Overseas is an entirely a different set of challenges but it’s not exhausting like it is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:13 PM
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Ok weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:10 AM
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You and women like you is who tf I’m talking to. Problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:06 AM
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You guys do it to yourselves every time lol but hey go off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:04 AM
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Women are most certainly capable of picking better / just go look at the father most single moms chose and the guy she settled with after lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:03 AM
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That person selects you based on their options and what you have to offer them, hence competition lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:49 PM
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It is a completion - otherwise everyone would stand the same chance but they don’t, what sets them apart from others is what gets them the results with the target of their affection. Does the person liking you impact this choice? Yes, but we don’t have equal odds at getting people like that - hence, competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:56 PM
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Which would mean you couldn’t compete to be their best option otherwise everyone who approaches would have a chance but it doesn’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:53 PM
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If it’s not a competition then why can’t anybody just get a Victoria secret model? Or better yet why can’t a woman just walk up and get a millionaire ? If it’s not a competition then surely anyone can just walk up to either types of people and “pick” them and get them right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:07 PM
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Do you literally think it’s as simple as hey we go and “pick” whoever and just hope for the best? Dating is a competition and it always has been lmao it didn’t start just now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:34 PM
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When you say “pick” what do you mean? By which outcome - securing a relationship, sex, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:10 PM
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You (women) take advantage by exploiting a power dynamic that’s heavily slanted in your favor in the west, your “choices” are simply the result of said dynamic. That isn’t equality - it’s just a power dynamic. One that exists the opposite way when someone becomes a PPB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:59 PM
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Western women don’t see themselves as advantage takers. Though that’s what they are. What they experience here in the US isn’t equality but rather leverage and privilege masquerading as “equality”. This DOES allow western women to take advantage of men in a baseline way that women from other countries can’t always do. Ultimately both the first world woman and the 3rd world women are both beggars for a man’s provision no matter how they dress it up they are begging - the calculus becomes what do …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:22 PM
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Women already have this it’s called “the sisterhood” or “feminism”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:32 PM
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Yes lmfao wtf. You said find a man, that is certainly possible - is he old af ? Probably, unattractive to you? Probably but you will find some guy willing to take that deal. Would I personally do it in exchange for sex? Only if she gets a new phone and blocks her ex. The. It’s cheek clapping time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:18 PM
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Absolutely not. 80% is fantastic given what bullshit is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:11 PM
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Because dating an OF model has implications Men have to deal with - The constant “competition” if you’re good enough. Especially if you’re not her “content” partner - how does she juggle making content and then satisfying you? Does she actually enjoy you or is she just saying that to keep the peace? You’ll never know the truth. Women who have OF often adopt a persona designed to mimic sugar babies and escorts and bring that with them to vanilla relationships. having mild or any success in OF ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:58 PM
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Then go make money off it. You’ll just be another transactional woman and there’s no shortage of you out there lol. This isn’t new lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:35 PM
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So the only reason you’re justifying this is because you might get cheated on or hurt…running to being an escort -lite isn’t going to heal you sweetheart. You need therapy. This is woman’s go to, to protect yourself from hurt you justify being a sex worker which is fine. Just save everyone else time and say you hate men, and want revenge by commodifying your body. Then everyone can treat you for what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:28 PM
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Raising standards doesn’t work because people have figured out that’s women’s excuse for not going to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:48 PM
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In my experience, the women who are best at snapping back after having kids are women in Latin America - like Brazil, DR, and Colombia. The Single moms over there are just like you describe lol. Now for Americans, it could be food, work or something else I don’t know but on Average I don’t see SM’s snap their bodies back. Though I know plenty do exist out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:25 AM
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Single moms - often want a man who can financially contribute for serious relationships and want Emotional/Personal/Financial labor and investment from the stepfather because she wants his protection and provision for her child. It’s basically a lot to ask for not much in return. A single mom can’t even sell you on what you get in return besides thankless demeanor or the attitude that you should be lucky she chose you. It’s insulting and disrespectful. You’re not getting her at her best more oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:17 PM
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Because for some reason, it’s not presented like that - it’s always presented as if a woman is a victim almost all the time or whatever choice she made was someone else’s fault, and come to find out she did it because she’s human and did it on her own volition like everybody else NOT a victim/etc. that’s the crux of problem because at a larger point, it keeps women from actually taking accountability and moving on if there’s built in excuses that give you a pass or pass the blame onto someone el…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:33 PM
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Women ultimately expose themselves as Humans beings who are just as selfish, egotistical and opportunistic as anyone else but present as if they are never in the wrong or are perpetual victims too stupid to be aware of their own choice. It’s a level of internalized misogyny I didn’t think was possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:59 PM
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That is racist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:48 PM
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Some of them do and shiiiddd it’s some women that love them a jailbird. You haven’t seen love after lockup have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:06 PM
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They literally say that and act like that on all social media platforms in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:58 PM
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Fairness isn’t the problem, it’s when girls fuck the guys in the top 20 and think they represent all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:43 PM
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If course it was. Every women in this thread couldn’t wait to spin these women’s as victims with no shred of proof
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:21 PM
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If this is the case they should go 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:33 PM
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If you want to visualize it just ask how many average women would give their best to a guy making $65K with an average build. I guarantee there’s a whole lot of stipulations and six figures talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:42 AM
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I love this. Modern feminism and culture constantly Infantilizes women. Simultaneously propping them up as independent and intelligent, then when it comes to their dating behaviors they are suddenly children who don’t know what they’re doing or they are being taken advantage of. Like it is so fucking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:14 AM
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