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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 83 | Girl lost interest after I asked for a kiss | Inner Game | Expensive-Damage-914 | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 02:43 AM |
| 14 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrow | Inner Game | Expensive-Damage-914 | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 02:48 AM |
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| 1 | Girl lost interest after I asked for a kissDamn. Thanks again for the advice man. This is amazing and you’ve made me rethink a lot. I went ahead and sent her a similar message as what you suggested and we’ll see what happens. Either way, I’ll probably see her again in real life 1-2 times a month. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Girl lost interest after I asked for a kissThat runs completely counter to most advice on this sub-Reddit. However, I actually respect this type of strategy and I feel it actually does have merits. What I did was I wished her luck, blocked her number, and deleted it. I still have it saved somewhere, though. However, I’ll still likely see her in real life so this probably wasn’t the best decision. Although I didn’t say anything negative against her, I still acted from a place of anger instead of calmness. There are indeed many merits to b… | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 04:15 PM |
| 31 | Girl lost interest after I asked for a kissThanks for all the replies everyone. I already know what the problem was and I'm over this girl. I'm just upset at myself, but even that shall pass. Here is what I learned from this date: Just go for the kiss and definitely never on the cheek. Just go for the lips. Even if they turn their cheek or back away, I'll be able to respect myself better by knowing that I was man enough to go for what I want. I never want to feel like such a coward again. I've been having coffee dates, but I realized thi… | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowThanks a lot for the encouragement and positivity. I'll go and check out the mystery method and I'll apply your advice to talk to almost anyone as I go about my daily life. I'm an introvert so this will be an adjustment but I'll do it anyway. I'm going to write down my experiences here, mostly so I can use this for feedback and analysis, as well as adding one extra reason for me to do this. I'm not a big drinker and I'm mostly doing day game right now. As for people telling us not to do cold app… | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowThanks for the encouragement!!! I already approached today and got rejected. It was a great learning experience, though. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowThanks for the advice. You’re right and I’m also doing this. Book club + dance classes + misc events. I have to work and study so I don’t have that much time. That said, what hobbies do you recommend? | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowThanks man. This is really good advice and I’ll look for a way to add it to my routine. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowYes, you’re right about not setting unrealistic goals. I plan to build up the number of approaches I do slowly. I actually already did the approach today and got rejected. I’m going to do 2 approaches next time and I’m going to slowly build up and challenge myself incrementally until I get to at least 10 approaches each time I go out to do this. I live in a smaller city (120,000 people) so I’m going to be somewhat careful that I don’t catch a certain reputation for doing this at local venues lik… | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowI read the game years ago, but I don’t remember much in it. I’ll reread it when I have time to see if there are any takeaways. Honestly, though, I feel that approaching indirectly is mostly a waste of time. I’m willing to do it once I get more comfortable, though, just to try it out for myself. I believe it’s not the best because women know strange men coming up to them want sex unless she’s completely oblivious. Therefore, why not just stop “beating around the bush” and approach directly? Also,… | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowAlright, I went to the mall today at approximately 11:00 AM. Honestly, I felt that what I was doing was actually somewhat humorous. Anyway, I entered the mall, walked around hesitating, and even sat down for a while. Eventually, I worked up the balls and approached a woman I found attractive. She had green shorts, white shoes and a white top, and blonde hair. I’d say she was a 6-7 out of 10 in looks. Me: “Excuse me. Hi, I’m ____. I thought you were cute so I thought I’d say Hi.” My voice came ou… | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Starting Cold approaches tomorrowNo, I’ve heard of his name but I haven’t watched any of his content, at least not in years. Maybe I watched him when I was a teenager but I don’t recall. This phrase was just the first thing that came to mind when I wrote this post. It’s really not that deep. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 08:42 PM |
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