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Ohh no I relate to that. "She's different, she believes in me" *gets ghosted :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:18 AM
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iv been a victim of "Nooo not my girl" a good few times. Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:02 AM
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Validation that their shortcomings are results of being gaslit into believing that one day a woman will love him for who he is and those girls getting with the bad boys (read loud) are just bad girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:27 AM
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People getting together because they are horny/lonely is why relationships are falling apart. Also because of our crazy levels of consumerism, it becomes much easier to get turned off at any minor inconvenience and fall for the FOMO trap of the grass being greener elsewhere. With that being said, I only have a religious marriage in mind as the end goal, fuck western marriage laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:58 PM
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I was wrong, talking to multiple suitors is allowed, but when a proposal is accepted is when it becomes sinful to propose without the prior proposal being dissolved first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:27 PM
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All I gotta say is thank God for religion making it sinful to talk to others if someone is courting you. Let alone sleeping with others big yikes. Besides, it's not the breach of trust that makes the idea of sleeping with others sickening, it's the sleeping with others itself that is yucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:19 PM
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I do not discriminate. I am not like the rest of you. I am Better. 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:32 AM
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It's a necessary evil and I'm willing to take on the burden of looking down at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:27 AM
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Eeeehhhh.......
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:25 AM
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No thanks. I've decided to consolidate all of my human physical affection into my romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:23 AM
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The get a haircut and shower advice is legit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:03 AM
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🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:09 AM
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Im acc serious and im very biased because I watch his stream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:56 PM
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Lmfao the fact that ur Turkish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:55 PM
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Rate this gigachad glowup https://gyazo.com/99d982b3250442b4c69454ce6c4ddb58 https://images.app.goo.gl/mALcRPCcQfLaAeQ58
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:53 PM
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And I look at western society like that because I would beat up/ kill a rapist that tries to harm my family, that's how it is in my culture, heck the person that brings up marriage eligibility might also get beaten too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:22 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:56 PM
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Yeah what about it? You're responding that those relatives beating up and killing the rapists did it because she was ruined for marriage and not because they genuinely loved their relatives...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:54 PM
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How dare you question the zeitgeist?! To the Gulag with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:45 AM
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I look at western society and just think do yall really not love your loved ones?? Marriage eligibility doesn't even cross my mind when I think of someone harming a family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:40 AM
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The general sentiment that I'm familiar with is with regards to locking down an attractive man. I don't think I've ever seen anyone say "it's your fault because he was attractive". Usually it's more along the lines of "it's obvious someone that attractive wouldn't settle for you" And when talking about abuse more specifically, the victim blaming that I'm familiar with is "You filter for these qualities because you find the other guys boring/ ignore the red flags because of how attractive he is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:33 AM
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"Confidence" = I don't need no man attitude. Basically female version of self proclaimed Alpha men. Reeking of overcompensation, especially if they're loud about how confident they are. I don't entirely blame them given that the #1 advice for low-confidence is to fake it till you make it. Confident women (without quotes) on the other hand are very attractive imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:09 AM
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I'd love to shift the blame to everyone else, but these men also wanted to believe the lies because it would be easier to just do nothing and wait for someone to fall for you instead of doing the work. They're not entirely free from blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:41 PM
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Idk about attractiveness, but I definitely have had some maybes turn into a yes due to confidence. It's almost as if they look like a different person when at first glance I was eh about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:02 PM
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That birth control pill is a bit too effective at preventing pregnancies 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:00 PM
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Or do it till you find the one that makes it worth, but honestly you're running out of time, so maybe don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:47 AM
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Yep, people often believe that opening up means being transparent about your thoughts and feelings about everything. No filtering whatsoever, the real you, all that stuff. I don't blame them and tbh it does feel good to find someone you could confide in everything, but it's simply unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:40 AM
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I brought the Israeli dictionary: -Children playing on a beach = terrorism -Hospitals = terrorism -Schools = terrorism -People praying in a mosque = terrorism -Exposing the genocidal apartheid state = terrorism. The list goes on. As per the above, make your own judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:10 PM
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Yep, I've noticed this phenomenon as a religious man. The more pious and less interested in women I am, the more interest I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:02 PM
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What are you doing step-bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:42 PM
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It's mostly about weighing physical attractiveness with cultural compatibility. I play video games, and now I've officially become the adult and know how it is on the other side. Whilst I am very compatible with some of my younger friends, there's just that thing missing that people my age have and they don't. Although it could just be the bias of growing up with my generation because I haven't made new friends my age in a while so idk what strangers my age are actually like...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:44 PM
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That's a bit extreme. While yes you can only go for virgins, you can also go for someone that values exclusivity through their actions. You may not be able to exactly specifically draw the line, you could gauge their behaviour and attitude towards sex and significantly expand your dating pool with minimal compromise. The past is still a turn off, but it's less of a turn off if exclusivity is demonstrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:28 PM
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Im with your sister on that one. Those dudes are unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:43 PM
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16 year old army generals spinning in their graves rn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:50 AM
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CMV: Self proclaimed strong women are the female equivalent to self proclaimed alpha men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:10 AM
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Pretty sure I've seen the term alpha widow several times here, which describes that phenomena, or at least similar to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:32 AM
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I completely forgot adobe was used for other than pdfs and was confused at your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:32 PM
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Confidence is attractive, it's harder for a dependent to develop confidence, but I think she should prioritize the relationship if she wants it to work, because her time and affection are infinitely more valuable than whatever money she makes. The cure isn't making women independent, that's a temporary bandaid, it's raising better men that provide safety nets for women instead of this hyper individualistic society where everyone lives by the "fuck you got mine" model.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:56 PM
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This is no different from just trusting my gut tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:51 PM
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Even if there is a shared activity where you both are at a similar skill level, who tf wouldn't want to be in such a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:47 PM
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Ngl I understood your agreement as being inclusive of the other poster saying they get paired with 3s. The council deems you Cancelled for the crime of misleading men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:49 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:25 PM
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I'm talking passion. I simply cannot see someone being passionate and not wanting to look their best for the person they're passionate about, at least from time to time. They can love them in a similar way they love their children/ family, but when passion is involved there's some pro activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:39 PM
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It's not okay to be bothered by talking because people talk? That can be equally applied to cheating. It's not okay to be bothered by fucking because people fuck. It should honestly be the other way, if she doesn't have a rational reason to talk to other guys, then that should be called out. I believe this gets to your point of intent much better than blaming a guy for being bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:38 PM
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I noted in my first comment that some men become way too aggressive instead of finding a balance, I agree with what your uncle said. The reason I asked you to define rational justification is so that we can get on the same page, you seem to have baked it into the definition that cheating counts as rational and talking does not count. But that doesn't answer much, it only asserts that cheating is an acceptable reason to get bothered. Why draw the line there, why not call out men for being irratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:15 PM
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Sounds like an unrealistic scenario, if she's that passionate about you, she'd also want to be her best self around you. Anyway I'll go for first one, why would I want to be with someone that doesn't want me, sounds abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:51 PM
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I am curious at how you define rational justification here. How would your scenario change if we swapped "talking to another dude" with "fucking another dude".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:46 PM
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Being masculine requires effort, people usually pick the path of least resistance. A lot of guys will cling to the false idea of "girls falling for who you are" that they don't realize how much they need to change. There's also jealousy, in the west, jealousy is demonized and men are called insecure for being protective. So when people are given a cop out, they tend to go for that easy option instead of doing heavy lifting (literal and allegorical). Hence the few men. On the other side of the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:54 AM
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Yep totally agree. It's women and the "cool, friendly" guys that push this rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:01 PM
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She needs to feel like you’re talking to her just because you’re a cool, friendly guy. I love how this advice is lauded around here, but then people will call guys insecure for not wanting other men being "cool & friendly" around their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:18 PM
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Duh, if she makes a false rape accusation, it's because YOU did something wrong. It's actually fascinating to see some people unironically exhibit that phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:10 AM
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Never mind the rest of my comment I take it all back, I just am repulsed by men. I would also be repulsed if she sleeps with trashy women. I think it's got more to do with women being a different category. I could compare myself to men, but not to women. It's easier to feel replaced and not enough when it's someone from the same category as you. If a woman left me to be with another woman, while I would be upset about the breakup, I don't think I would feel insecure about myself. As opposed to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:08 PM
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Welcome to the world of human bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:40 PM
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What's unicorn about the 2nd guy's standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:28 PM
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What don't you understand about it extending to the past? It just is gross as a concept
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:02 PM
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I could try to point out some factors that I find gross, instead I'll cut the middle man out and just call it gross in of itself. The idea of my partner being with someone else is itself gross, if it wasn't I'd opt for an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:54 PM
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Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:32 AM
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Yep it had the opposite effect of what he wanted to convey lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:30 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:12 AM
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It simply doesn't follow and it's stupid advice. "Hey you're inexperienced so why not throw yourself at a bunch of non-committal dudes to avoid the heart break of a committed dude."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:00 AM
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Everyone loves to appeal to what's natural till you point out a natural example they don't like, but the truth of the matter is no one values nature as the pinnacle, it can be used to argue for easier/smoother less cognitive dissonance but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:43 PM
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I looked at the second link, and the chart on there seems to say the opposite of what you're saying, as in 5 days where it's unlikely to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:29 AM
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5 days? Do you have a source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:51 PM
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People who travel often tend to be wealthy/ need to present themselves well groomed, and people who travel rarely, tend to make it an occasion that they'd dress well. But I like yours more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:53 PM
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There's different perspectives, it can be seen as a warning group for undesirable traits, and in that case it would be analogous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:12 AM
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Just free publicity tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:07 AM
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I think it's more of a don't ask don't tell rather than being unbothered by it, at least that's how it is for me. I don't plan on asking because best case scenario would simply be the status quo, so why rock the boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:04 PM
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I agree with you, the key detail here is the promotion. One must demonstrate that there is a very real chance of promotion i.e. self growth/ moving beyond being bare minimum lowest pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:48 PM
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This is a great post except for the last part about being someone's dream job. I admire the optimism but I think it's better to recognize that sometimes we are the bare minimum most tedious lowest paying job and we gotta work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:04 AM
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My friend are you okay? I looked at your post history and you've been very active here so I gotta checkup on your well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:22 AM
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Bonk! Horny weeb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:15 AM
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Smdh? Suck my dick hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:08 AM
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I am curious about this, what if a low n didn't make Chad wait? How does that affect your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:44 AM
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For me chastity is a state, doing oral sex or fooling around defeats the point of waiting... Otherwise yeah no sex till marriage* *Islamic marriage, fuck whatever western law's definition of marriage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:42 AM
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It's totally the women going there "just to have some fun with the girls" that are paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:37 AM
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The tides are slowly changing because the nerds are finally learning how to communicate. Don't you see everyone trying to hop on the cybersecurity hype? It's gained a bit of status. And work from home??? Major status on that too. If a woman would rather complain about me being away everyday for the sake of social status, then we probably aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:28 PM
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I come here for people's contradicting opinions :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:23 PM
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I'm not sure if I'm autistic but I am pretty damn certain that one girl's flirty is another's friendly. Like how tf is anyone supposed to navigate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:46 AM
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Definitely nowhere near the net neutrality thing. Maybe closer to the "housing bubble popping".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:26 PM
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Have you ever met your looksmatch? I feel I've only met girls that are either more/less attractive but none that I would consider my match.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:51 PM
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We can't judge how playful your teasing was however what I can tell you, is that the more a girl is into you, the more fucked up shit you can get away with saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:34 PM
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Because being bigger is an advantage. And all throughout their life, the shorter people have been the people in lower grades i.e. younger so they were by default stronger, it just carries over until they get into a couple scraps to challenge that notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:33 PM
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No shit?? Mayne even 100%. Do people just shitting on simping categorically and not because it fails?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:29 PM
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Do you think having principles is encouraged in your society?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:26 PM
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Wait no it actually does wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:23 PM
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Then 3 years later they start staying out too late and ur back to baby cant sleep so i cant sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:16 PM
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Men have their own contradicting mating goals as well. I am curious elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:08 PM
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Naahhh you need to get to the bottom of this lmaoo I also for some reason get horny when we're having an intellectual debate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:53 PM
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I am curious, does he have a regular textured tongue or is it fissured?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:03 AM
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Yeah definitely, the floor for taboo has been collectively raised. And will keep doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:02 AM
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Widespread is because of the internet, lots of things get widespread because we're all connecting our shamelessness together instead of in being in small very limited groups, however, those kinks were most definitely present throughout human history. For example, cross dressing/ anal/ period sex / sexual violence/ gangbangs / cuckolding, are all condemned in Islamic scripture. There's a passage in the Bible describing someone hung like a horse with donkey emissions. This stuff goes waaaayyy back…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:56 AM
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It's the latest trend lil bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:35 PM
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I feel that might be where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:58 PM
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Anyone else feel weird seeing themselves with someone? It feels so surreal to see a picture of me with a woman, it just doesn't feel real, I can't see myself with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:54 PM
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You're not addressing what they actually want. You're talking about what they can do. "I want a harem but I can't handle one" Following that logic, they want the r*pe but for some reason can't actualize the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:48 PM
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I see the "conversation" point getting brought up with this topic and I would like some clarification. What conversations are you expecting to have with someone your age that can't be had with an 18 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:26 AM
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I understand the gut feeling but I'm not seeing what would make it unrealistic. What do you mean by what are you going to talk to them about? What conversations are you envisioning with someone your age that simply cannot be had by an 18 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:16 AM
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I don't get this line of thought. The only thing I can talk about with people my age outside of mutual hobbies are the big trends that I honestly couldn't care less about. What is it that people your age have over other ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:57 AM
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Eh, the lack of women's preferences apparently drives men in relationships crazy. Idk how much of the stereotype is true. As for opinions, then it's a case by case basis, some opinions she might hold I couldn't care less about, while others may be very important. Lastly disagreeableness, what point is there for it? If we reach a point of no compromise then it might be time to start contemplating compatibility, otherwise we could simply voice our concerns to each other and figure something out. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:41 PM
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I hope this mentality is common because I'm starting to value making less money in favor of better working conditions. I don't want to have to choose between a career and a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:31 PM
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Kids are crazy are crazy impressionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:34 PM
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Do you have stats to back up that first point? I often see people complaining that women still marry up sometimes equal, and I've seen women justify it by saying I make x amount of money so I want him to also make x or within that range+. Same thing with education. I think I've seen 2 users here that wouldn't mind a stay at home husband, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:30 PM
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Yes. Watching your loved ones having sex makes you cucked. However, maybe she doesn't love you and only sees it as entertainment, like when slave owners made slave porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:26 PM
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First of all 70 lbs is a big oof, especially when there isn't convenient handles like weightlifting. The thing with individual abilities is that often people's abilities are enhanced/limited by their sex, especially if we start making population generalizations such as cultural norms. Your sex is part of who you are and what is expected of you, sure it's not exhaustive and there will always be outliers but it's significant enough to help make useful societal-wide generalizations. Yes I am very a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:22 PM
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That would depend on how "inferior" is used. I've seen people argue women lacking some responsibilities men have as being sexist... It ties in with the issue of having more responsibilities granting you more power. I don't think it's possible to accept the differences without being called sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:30 PM
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Tribalism will never be solved. Because of that, there will always be a cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:24 PM
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I fear running into so many women that use me that I end up mistreating the one woman who actually values me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:32 PM
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Ma'am that is a closed loop environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:42 PM
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YOU WON'T TAKE MY VIRGINITY WENCH!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:15 PM
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The best ones are when the disclaimers of the research paper explicitly contradict the point the OP is trying to make 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:07 PM
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I acc don't know what ur referring to 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:35 AM
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Less developed boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:31 AM
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Women have boobs, men don't. Check mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:27 AM
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She's got me listening to glimpse of us on repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:26 AM
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It's not the roundedness of the number, it's the leagues, there's the 5 ft league and the 6 ft league. Similar to how stores will price something at $99 instead of $100, to give the illusion of a major difference, and evidently, people fall for it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:51 AM
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Dark eye circles are an attractive thing?? I mean sup bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:03 PM
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So is it "wt knight" or "wtk night"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:02 PM
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Fr how can you NOT spend every waking moment arguing with strangers across your screen??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:42 PM
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Imagine thinking 2014 was 8 years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:09 AM
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I was being haunted by ghosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:34 AM
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"e" for "everyone that disagrees with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:29 AM
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I got some good advice for my complaining yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:28 AM
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Does anyone else assign sexual scenarios to certain excercises? It doesn't have to be obvious to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:36 AM
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It's about values. High N is indicative of hedonistic values. Hedonistic values make it more likely to prefer pleasure over loyalty. I'm not sure what you mean by the term "sociosexuality".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:34 AM
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@mods please explain how the block does that??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:02 PM
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I appreciate the honesty, we not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:57 PM
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I think pegging has more to do with the position. As in the hip movements. Getting pegged is akin to getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:46 AM
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Ive always wanted to try but also very scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:39 AM
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I've never heard of that before thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:31 AM
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Preferably something affordable to a broke college student. So maybe 50-100$ a month
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:31 AM
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Bro all these wisdoms omggg If you're unclear, you're actually crystal clear, they are not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:29 AM
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I'm looking for a new hobby with high adrenaline, what do you recommend for a newbie? Literally any piece of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:01 AM
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Thanks. I truly appreciate your hard to swallow pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:00 AM
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You know what i agree with you, they're lazy naysayers. "I can't give her what she deserves so I have to settle for watching even though I want to be the one that gives it to her."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:57 AM
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I didn't have social media for the longest time, and now that I do, I'm still not social on those apps lol. What's weird is if someone complains when you stalk their social media. AND THEY STALK OTHERS' SOCIAL MEDIA TOO!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:54 AM
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I wish i was in a ghost rn tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:48 AM
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Yes it serves no purpose, especially when people started tying their bank accounts to it, they literally completely gave up all anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:46 AM
2

Sure, what's your explanation of that phenomenon? Convincing their wife to have sex with others instead of having sex with her themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:45 AM
1

That's a hot take, what's your opinion on the cucks that try to convince their wife to get into the kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:43 AM
1

I choose r/egg_irl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:41 AM
1

Snapchat usually deletes messages after 24 hours of being seen unless you pin the message. I didn't screenshot it, and the she can unpin it if she wants. I don't know what she expected, that's why I asked. My female friends tell me it's flattering to save the pic in the chat, so I did that, and well she kept having a very nice conversation with me afterwards. I don't talk about nudes with my male friends lol. But the 2 girls are bi..... and may want ALL the details.... idk bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:37 AM
1

LMFAO I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:32 AM
2

What's messing with me is that she came back to life when I moved on the first time, this is just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:27 AM
1

People like making excuses. They'll either make excuses to spend time with you, or make excuses to avoid you. So do whatever you feel, if her opinion of you is influenced by who pays, then you're building a flimsy foundation. That being said, the one who invites should pay, but that's just my culture we like paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:22 AM
1

Do girls just ghost without unfriending/blocking? Like does my notification just show up and she hopes I move on? So I'm trying to understand why this girl ghosted me. We texted for a bit and all seemed good. She ghosted me 2 days at first then apologized she was busy. And now she's ghosted for a week. What are your opinions on saving a nude in snapchat chat (not screenshot)? My friends tell me it's a good thing to save them, and she didn't ghost me right away when I saved, but she did on the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:12 AM
1

I 100% agree with you and your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:06 AM
7

I relate to that. Especially finding out that women watch anime and play video games. Very weird considering that when I used to play a lot, women almost didn't exist, but now they're everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:06 AM
1

Does that book provide a source on this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:05 PM
1

Sure, "The Action Lab" channel on youtube has a video titled "How Hot Are The World's Darkest Clothes?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:02 PM
-1

The black clothes being hotter thing has been disproved. The color doesn't affect the heat of the person wearing it. Clothes protect you from the sun...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:22 PM
-1

People deserve to be divorce raped because they want hot partners? The crux of your post assumes that she is equally as likely to be a great wife or terrible wife by virtue of being young. You threw around the term self actualization. And yeah this post is a mess, please organize it a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:53 PM
2

Clearly you're not dumb enough to start believing ur own lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:34 PM
2

I feel like you can be the bigger man with a witty retort that doesnt stoop down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:08 AM
2

I gotta stop dating women one at a time. It's just not sustainable. Gotta do overemployment but with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:02 AM
1

It's more that men do not want to deal with and finance unintended pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:29 PM
2

1 cat ok, 2 is when it gets murky yellow flag territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:18 AM
3

People having the audacity to even think they can be with me is such an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:02 PM
1

Points at cancel culture... Shame is extremely prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:00 PM
2

Lmfao how would that conversation go? "You removed my link!" "Yes."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:34 PM
1

Generally yes, but boy have I seen some highschool crushes go downhill in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:42 AM
1

It's not about having a fake confident personality, it's about pushing yourself beyond your comfort zone to build confidence. Chances are you won't be fooling anyone with your fake confidence, but the more you put yourself out there, the more comfortable in that state you become, making it your new comfort zone. Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:40 AM
1

I'm sure someone would fuck my fresh corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:31 AM
2

Just because I'd be happier with more doesn't mean I don't like what I have. You could say I'm not 100% satisfied, but then again who is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:22 AM
1

I tried and it works
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:04 AM
2

That's what I'm trying to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:29 PM
1

Say it isn't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:20 PM
1

Dont forget to share experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:19 PM
1

Is it possible for a girl to send nudes early on, yet not be into hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:17 PM
-1

Do you have any argument/ study to support your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:29 PM
5

Sure I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:38 PM
9

I didn't say anything was unrealistic. I just gave you a solution to your question. But it sounds like you really want to argue about women's competency. I'll bite lol. Men are less likely to look at guys through rose colored glasses, especially if they genuinely value your well-being. Men can also pose a nuisance/threat to a guy that only wants to fuck around. As opposed to a girl by herself. It's just a strong filter, you can opt out of using it if you'd like, but that seems silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:47 PM
7

This is some black and white thinking. You're either only valuing yourself or only valuing others. I don't think that's realistic at all. There has to be some balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:40 PM
6

I'm giving you a realistic answer to the question of choosing better. You don't need to do everything yourself, it's okay to ask for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:30 PM
8

Get a trusted male relative to vet him for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:27 PM
1

W
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:54 AM
1

Just give women a safety net if you don't want them having careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:43 AM
1

If it ain't family friendly, don't do it without your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:40 AM
1

They're doing the luxury market tactic. The whales will pay any amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:10 PM
2

Q4A: thoughts on the saying Equality in value does not mean identically in roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:09 PM
1

Narcissists may not engage in good faith debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:36 PM
1

I mean you might feel some sexual tension, but still have some aversion towards going all the way. That's my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:46 PM
1

Not inherently. Guys with a bigger dick will feel more confident because it's societally encouraged. There are shy dudes with big dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:44 PM
1

Cognitive dissonance can be one explanation. Maybe STI aversion too, like getting the benefits of intimacy without those risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:35 PM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:21 PM
1

Yeah that is the red flag, idk why OP focused on guys not having social media. I can understand having a gut feeling about that because it is out of the ordinary, and tbh always trust your gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:18 PM
2

Explains me. I have all sorts of symptoms but I don't think any are strong enough that they become obtrusive to my daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:12 PM
1

Yeah but that requires being extra marriage material. Fathers have a more stringent criteria than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:10 PM
1

I swallowed it and it dissolved too quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:09 PM
1

Her red flags are a problem for future me 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:08 PM
1

I have predicament ppd. I want fuck, but no fuck till marriage. I am not marriage material rn, what do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:47 PM
1

Vibrant dating life*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:44 PM
1

Like fuck buddy, but without the fuckening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:43 PM
1

A red flag? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:38 PM
1

I've seen some gilfs...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:36 PM
1

Regular dick size exists in homemade porn? I always thought the guys with porn dick would be more willing to record themselves, thus saturating the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:51 PM
3

No I meant only do it once and keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:28 PM
2

Is it me or has there been an increase in cuddlebuddies? Like people are looking for cuddlebudies more than FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:22 PM
1

Marry young and maximize ROI.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:21 PM
1

Hi hungry, I'm chicken please eat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:50 PM
1

Bro there's a whole ass fanfiction naruto sub??? Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:48 AM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:40 PM
2

If children are out of the picture, I can't see how the answer would ever be no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:32 PM
1

How attractive are the men? It could be similar to a case of rose tinted glasses, and the fake confidence just gives the woman something to work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:11 PM
1

Even if they're not advertising on their profile, some dudes will message them to send them money and they take it that way. So rarity wise, it's pretty common it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:57 PM
2

Imma be real with you, I understand how frustrating it can be to get mixed signals, but if you're saying you HATE her over it, then I could sympathize with why she may have wanted to avoid giving you a clear direct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:44 PM
1

"You too?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:41 PM
5

You can’t have friends? This is actually hilarious 😂😂 "Wassup girl I'm trynna hit." "I'm taken" "Wtf bro I'm just trynna be friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:37 PM
1

It's not about respect. When you say no, he has to admit to himself that he isn't as attractive as he thought he was, that he was shooting out of his league. Guys that are constantly approaching, have an ego problem and probably seeking validation so that would be tough for him to accept. But when you mention there's another man in the picture, he can shield his ego. Other times, it can be about convenience, if you mess with a girl that has the protection of another man, you're going to risk hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:34 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:13 PM
2

I can trace back my sexual diligence to one religious lecture, in it the teacher mentioned something along the lines of: Do not approach your wives like donkeys, send a messenger first (foreplay). And ever since, that's been the only way I could see abrupt sex as lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:10 PM
2

Why would anyone want to have painful sex for their first time? Idk, I'm trynna make mine as best as possible. I'd like to find my matching partner sooner than later, but I'm not desperate to lose my virginity which is what I think the other guy thought was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:53 PM
2

While I agree that the schooling system is awful, I don't think he was taking pleasure into account. It sounds like he was talking about purely losing your virginity. I'm not sure if you ever claimed to have had trouble with losing it tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:42 PM
20

Women have a lot more on the line, whereas the man is just nutting. Even if we were to pretend that men and women were equal, women cannot afford to be more irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:16 AM
2

Not all proud misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:14 AM
1

It makes sense that people are different, but I struggle to accept it due to the reinforcements that I encounter. I don't want to see women like that, but the most recent 5-10 women I had gotten to know have all been like that. And the ones I'm friends with, talk to me about their friends and they seem like that too. I'm not upset that they're my friends, they've been good friends to me, but they're still like that which reinforces this mindset. Maybe my luck just hasn't been the best or maybe I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:18 PM
1

I guess I need to get to know more girls then because every girl has been branch swinging. Either they're doing situationships or hopping from one relationship to the next with no cooldown period lol. Where do mentally well adjusted girls exist? Because clearly not at school/gym/videogames. Maybe I just gravitate towards unstable people idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:06 PM
2

I'll ride this high till the next time I get lovebombed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:37 PM
3

Tell me I'm pretty!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:32 PM
3

Of all my traits, you picked the one I'm most secure about lmfao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:28 PM
4

ESH This is why sex should be a relationship privilege tbh. She's trying to shorten the gap between you two while maintaining plausible deniability, and you're being so explicit with maintaining where you both are that you turn down helping her out. I find it so weird to be so intimate with someone yet be cold towards them, but maybe it's a culture difference because I'm down to help the people in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:27 PM
3

Simp for my insecurities, then after I trust you, leave abruptly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:19 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:07 PM
2

I was criticizing your reduction of sex down to skin contact. Intentionally causing harm is an example of something immoral and I think we can largely agree why. Not really, it depends on what moral framework you're using. What makes it so bad that we put it in the same chategory as intentionally causing harm? Also, things can have varying levels of bad, some are worse than others, so not quite in the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:35 PM
3

I don't think it's accurate to represent sex as skin to skin contact even if it is part of it. Otherwise one could say the same about rape being skin to skin contact...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:37 AM
3

I'm just not a sapiosexual, so an above average intelligence just isn't on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:17 AM
2

To be fair, for the person to appreciate your skill, they'd need to have some interest and familiarity with it. Although I will admit that looks are far more of a decisive factor. The confidence and status that comes with skill can at most turn an "idk" to "maybe I'll give it a shot."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:04 AM
2

I agree that the more experienced person should take care of their field of expertise, but it's very simplistic to refer to the difference between men and women as having/lacking a dick. Men are not just women with dicks, and likewise, women are not just men without dicks. We just are built different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:12 PM
7

In my experience, people, not just women, love to offload responsibilities onto others. Sometimes they don't even establish proper trust beforehand. I'll take on the responsibility of deciding what's best for our relationship and also enjoy the benefits of dual income until she gives birth or just can't/ won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:42 PM
15

Better to have the option than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:54 AM
2

For the longest time I didn't know rack could refer to more than a dish dryer, so I would get confused.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:58 PM
3

Sounds like you guys are communicating pretty well, which should be a testament to how much he values your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:46 AM
9

The word rack just seems so archaic, so ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:42 AM
3

I'm pretty sure the guys that complain aren't the ones moving from girl to girl. Also for anyone out there, if you're looking for a serious relationship, then draw your boundaries early and be firm, otherwise you come off as a desperate simp, which is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:24 PM
0

It sounds like an edgy joke, like that trend of only racist homophobes having buzz lightyear pfp so everyone in the comments had buzz lightyear pfp. Take internet opinions lightheartedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:21 PM
3

You can't just call other moral frameworks "obsolete" and "invalid" because they're not utilitarian lol. It's good for rhetoric, terrible for any kind of fruitful discussion. You can definitely be coerced into doing the right thing. For example you are coerced into doing what's beneficial because you don't like harm. You have no choice but to obey the order of the universe. You replace the word "universe" with "God" and all of a sudden it's rules you are forced to follow and can't be moral...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:27 PM
1

They are a negative consequence... unless you want STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:20 PM
1

Promiscuity falls under attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:47 PM
1

As in a secular case? If we're working within a hedonist approach, then the best bet would be to show some personal gratification from engaging in or avoiding. It's very easy to see self gratification from engaging so it doesn't need a case. As for avoiding you'd need a strong principle to achieve higher gratification from avoiding than engaging, such as religion or a spouse because it would prove to yourself how much you value them. Similarly, a strong punishment such as STD can help one avoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:43 PM
1

She did it, she actually fkn did it. She took my wok to Poland.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:07 AM
2

Good work soldier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:06 AM
2

Are you proud of this accomplishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:03 AM
2

Yes kinky people are mentally fucked, and they own that fact too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:15 PM
1

I believe it'd be more effective if people were doing work they actually believed in instead of grinding to pay bills. But oh well idealism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:10 PM
5

What is sexual polarity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:50 PM
1

Mutually delete our accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:44 PM
4

Maybe it's the way that the boundary is communicated that gets interpreted like that? I fully concede that women are expected to be bubbly little things 24/7, and breaking that expectarion by giving a succinct response may be perceived as cold, whereas for men it could be excused as professionalism even if it's the same words used. I consider both cases to be cold tbh and would want people to be more joyous even if they're saying no, but oh well, it can take a mental toll on some people. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:41 PM
4

Convincing people that media doesn't affect them is the best way of keeping them consuming more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:35 PM
2

Yep yep yep full agree, I have to start building my own healthy hobbies to be ready to introduce them to those and hope they derive more entertainment from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:32 PM
2

Was there a point where you told her you didn't like it and she still did it before you threatened violence or did you start off with violence? I get it that if the genders were reversed it would be pretty much rape so the violence would be justified, but equality is a myth, men and women are different and we as a people react differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:31 PM
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It's more that it lowers their confidence to approach girls because it could be harrassment, which then leads to gaps of experience between those who approached and those who did not, and that is what would feed into the lower self esteem, the after effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:27 PM
-2

Yes very much so. I know of a girl who got upset with her bf because he let her walk away when she was upset with him and deep down she wanted wanted a romance/porno scene where he slams her against the wall and start making out.... but apparently respecting her boundaries was the wrong move according to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:25 PM
2

Yep, maybe it's just me but I can't watch horror movies because it affects me that much, I can understand that it's not real, but my brain will still absorb this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:19 PM
1

I agree with you that the intimacy is very important. However maintaining a level of pleasure is alien to me, when something feels good, I get greedy for more. I can understand edging to prolong the climax, and doing other things before, but I can't understand maintaining a steady rate. Maybe it's a man thing, maybe it's an individual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:18 PM
1

🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:06 PM
1

Ofcourse I'm not a stalker, I just do my research on everyone I interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:04 PM
2

Yep, it becomes very problematic when propaganda is involved, especially when schools and other such public institutions start telling children what values to adopt. And movies have a strong influence too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:03 PM
1

"Delete" button deletes in front, as in the opposite of a backspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:57 PM
1

Why else am I going into cybersecurity than to hack my unborn child's electronics to make sure they're not getting screwed over. At the very least I would know when it happens and be ready for the conversation instead of him bottling it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:56 PM
1

Why not both? Get your body ready for when you do the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:47 PM
0

I thought orgasms felt good? Especially since women can have multiple ones... isn't that the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:45 PM
1

It's varies on person by person basis, however I can say that I generally prefer women with (head) hair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:21 PM
1

3×5 sets of Squats 3×12 sets of hip thrusts 3×12 sets of RDL 2-3 times a week, bake over a year or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:17 PM
0

I was referencing the advice that women often give that when she says she likes something, it means do more of that same thing, same rhythm same intensity same everything. Whereas for men increasing intensity would feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:07 PM
2

Sure it may be getting more and more unrealistic to find a woman that's abstained, but that doesn't make it less repulsive, it doesn't make people not want to foster a culture that promotes chastity especially for the sake of their daughters. It's two people with different societal values screaming past one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:53 PM
1

What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:50 PM
1

What's harmstering?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:46 PM
1

I don't think experience is relevant here, moreso familiarity with healthy boundries which can be learned from other people like what you're trying to achieve here. We should emphasize critical thinking to not blindly accept such conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:59 PM
2

🥳🥳🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:51 PM
2

That's just how humans work, give someone enough opportunities and they'll be likely to act on them. Especially if society encourages hedonism. Which is why we have to take precautionary steps to avoid being presented such opportunities. Or we can all slut around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:49 PM
2

I don't think so, it's not like these proxy wars are a new phenomenon for them, they're just doing what they've been doing for decades, but now there's more media coverage because the victims are white so the threat feels "closer to home".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:43 PM
1

Lebanese people are too social to be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:38 PM
2

Yep and depending on how good/bad that thing is, putting in the effort can be laudable or horrendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:36 PM
1

Idk about bigger scale, it looks like the superpowers are expanding their proxy wars from middle east to european countries. As long as no side is heavily winning/losing I don't think nukes will be pulled out because they'll make winning be meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:34 PM
3

Ugh women want one thing and it's disgusting! What about all the effort and sacrifices that I've put into perfecting my evil laugh?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:57 PM
0

Correct me if I'm wrong. Women during sex are binary, you are either hitting the right spot, or you're not, there's no hotter or colder. Also building on that, the non-hotspots are there to build anticipation only.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:52 PM
2

This is why I consider the rationalizations surrounding n-count as things that come after the fact to justify being unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:54 PM
3

👁👄👁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:49 PM
1

It's getting there, I'm slowly but surely gaining weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:47 PM
4

It happened to a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:26 PM
3

You wouldn't know unless they told you later on they were fake moaning. And then there would be trust issues because you'd have to keep checking if every moan is real or fake... how are you supposed to go off of body language if they're faking it smh. I'm not an expert nor a harsh judge with women's moans so I know I wouldn't be able to tell from the moans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:22 PM
5

You forgot the part where they fake moan so you think you're doing well which makes you do more of the same thing that they are faking enjoyment about and it's your fault for not knowing the moans were fake...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:12 PM
1

Eh idk about weird but I would definitely prefer to have someone accompany me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:54 PM
3

I thought the majority of women get hundreds maybe thousands of matches on OLD and get hit-on/ harassed in public very often? Sounds like the bar is very low to get a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:51 PM
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Sleeping around isn't necessary to having standards and avoiding toxic relationships. If it was, we wouldn't have all those PSAs about abuse and viral social media videos about couple goals, we would just tell people to sleep around more. Sleeping around encourages disposable treatment of people, while caring about keeping n count low encourages maintaining higher standards for who you let in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:49 PM
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I'm not sure if anyone suggested ONLY evaluating based on n count, I'm asking you to demonstrate why n-count is unimportant. It's as verifiable as any past, including cheating, if cheating is important, then being verifiable is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:21 PM
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If we start off with the assumption that n-count is unimportant, then it's trivially easy to claim that one shouldn't care. It isn't pathetic to care about important things. You haven't demonstrated why it's unimportant/negligible. Replace n-count with anything you consider important and the flaws in your argument become apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:44 AM
1

It depends on how we're defining "work" here. Would I want to be productive? Yes Do I mind being financially dependent on my wife? Not for necessities at least. Do I want to sit in front of a screen and/ or stress my body for huge periods of time for minimal pay and only serve to make someone else richer? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:52 AM
1

A very literal big cock. I'm talking about your chicken 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:44 AM
2

I didn't say you didn't :P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:28 AM
1

Damn you have a big cock! I agree comfort makes all the difference, I'll keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:17 AM
1

Thank you for this! Always looking to learn more especially with something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:05 PM
2

r/thanosdidnothingwrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:21 PM
2

Very moist words. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:14 PM
3

I'll admit that I may be a bit insecure because of the way that people talk about how sex with virgins is an awful experience, but I genuinely don't think that it's guaranteed for it to suck which is what pushed me to ask this question. The way that I'm looking at it is that even if it may be a bit awkward at first, there's lots of room for it to be an enjoyable experience, doesn't have to be the best, but at least a would do it again type of thing. As for consent: May I insert the phallic repro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:59 PM
2

Avoid engaging the issues raised ✅ Anti-smite accusation ✅ Blame Palestinians for resisting colonialism ✅ Palestinian Erasure ✅ Israeli propaganda at its finest. And if we argue enough, he'll admit to genocide and point at other colonial countries to claim that I'm being anti-semitic for speaking out against Israel's genocide but not other countries'. I pray that God blesses you with a soul one day.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:41 PM
1

Because it wouldn't be the first time then. It would be a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:34 PM
1

It's not just about reading books, it's about reading people too which is a skill that many virgins have access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:24 PM
1

Yep thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:39 PM
1

Women only show interest in me when I swear off women. Not swearing them off out of spite, but moreso taking a break and focusing on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:34 PM
1

Sure, everyone has their own specifics, but there are things that just generally feel good, generally are enjoyable. So generally can having sex be enjoyable with an empathic virgin that read a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:23 PM
2

You compared having sex to riding a bike. Riding a bike can be made easy using training wheels. I'm asking if you think there is something analogous to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:18 PM
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Yep, empathy seems to be the secret ingredient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:13 PM
1

What would hold him back?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:11 PM
2

Riding a bike with training wheels is really easy, what do you think would be the equivalent of training wheels for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:11 PM
1

Enjoyable looking forward to doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:10 PM
4

but I can make a splash in that pussy tho what's What do you say if she asks how would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:09 PM
3

That is my current impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:08 PM
5

That's an interesting analogy but I am not sure how comparable having sex is with skiing. Because with having sex, it's people skills that you can already train by being social and empathic, and then read some books to have an idea of what to try. Maybe the equivalent with skiing would be snowboarding? Or skateboarding?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:00 PM
3

That's very wholesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:45 PM
5

I figured it would still be a highly valuable way of connecting with your partner, especially if it is their preferred method of connecting, or since they're a virgin, something that they are eager to get into.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:24 PM
4

When you were figuring out what felt best, did it take long?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:21 PM
3

Can you elaborate on the mechanical baseline?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:18 PM
5

All you care about? Fair enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:16 PM
3

Enjoyable looking forward to fuck again kind of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:11 PM
1

Karen is just someone having things be out of control so they freak out. Sure sometimes their underlying assumptions need to be checked, but that's all there is to "Karenhood". I had a karen moment a couple months ago because my application for something important got refused for a reason I thought was negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:05 PM
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Capable is different from it being easy, the more it gets re-inforced, the harder it becomes to see past it. And when someone goes through a traumatizing experience, they probably find comfort in relating to other people that went through something similar thus breeding echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:18 PM
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Aren't you contradicting your previous comment here? You said she's going to compare you with guys regardless of being with them or not, as if her n count doesn't matter, yet now you're saying it matters if she's had relationships. It sounds like the more intimate, the more relevant it is. And believe it or not, fucking someone is definitely a very intimate thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:16 PM
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It sounds like insecurity is synonymous with being unsure and risk tolerance. Idk bout yall, I have a very low tolerance of risk for romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:12 PM
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As long as the sex is consensual, legal, and ethical (no cheating) judging people for how they have sex and with who is pretty fucking messed up tbh. I don't get this tbh. You're saying it's ok to judge, but only according to your own metric, anyone that uses a different metric is fucked up. Philosophy of Absolute truth has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:58 PM
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The manipulation effect comes from it being repeated over and over as something that you shouldn't have. You know those studies where people choose the wrong answer simply to fit in with the group? It's similar. Even if the answer is ridiculous, people can be manipulated into adopting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:54 PM
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It's simply a manipulation tactic to bully someone into doing what you want. "Let your girl sleep with others, bet you won't, haha insecure"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:42 PM
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I think humans are more complex than that. Someone might cheat under the right circumstances, but manage to not cheat if they avoid those circumstances in the first place. I genuinely believe that the door to cheating can be opened/closed. Ofcourse there would be people on both ends of the spectrum, but I feel that people would more or less fall somewhere in between on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:41 PM
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Or it could be because it's an apartheid state that engages in one of the most intrusive forms of surveillance and silences any criticism by weaponizing anti-semitism. There's so much wrong with the state that circumcision can't even get on the list.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:27 PM
2

It depends on the company, if the sole purpose of the company is to churn money, then sure. But if the company is aiming for more than just profits, then it would make sense to foster a certain company culture and cater to it.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:23 PM
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might even come off as desperation Definitely this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:57 PM
0

I feel like everyone knows that they should workout. It's not enough on its own to motivate someone that isn't already working out. Maybe invite them to workout together or broach the topic. But just telling them to workout? Probably won't do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:30 AM
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Taller women tend to have a bigger structure so they have to compensate by being more fit because I don't find big and bulky attractive. Also not too short so like about half a foot shorter is the lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:49 AM
2

Bro said (that)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:24 AM
2

Could you give me a specific example to work with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:23 AM
1

Like ending a call for example. I know we should go our separate ways but I just don't end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:00 AM
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I don't think that's relevant. I'm not saying that some validations aren't worth pursuing, what I am saying is pretending that you're not chasing validation is simply mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:58 AM
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The stunner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:52 AM
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I can pick up on social cues but I avoid acting on them. Is this autism or just extreme people pleasing combined with fear of messing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:52 AM
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Validation feels good, doing things for validation = doing them for yourself. I can see this line of thinking, but there's no point in denying that you are chasing validation even if it is about making you feel good ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:48 AM
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I think I've seen vs models before, but I literally can't remember them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:45 AM
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The only difference I would have is that the outfits be only for me, so basically renting a private island. Other than that I am curious about this social survival thing, can you elaborate on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:39 AM
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Sounds like the ideal compromise!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:51 PM
2

Feeling cared for is definitely pleasant, although I feel there would still be some feeling of missing out, but maybe it is outweighed by proper communication and consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:39 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:35 PM
2

Not necessarily, but in the context of compromise I'd imagine it wouldn't feel pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:12 PM
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Compromise would have an effect, communication and values would determine how strong the effects are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:08 PM
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There definitely is a smaller pool of girls I'd approach, but I would be open to those who value modesty as a concept and maybe build on top of that foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:05 PM
2

To avoid tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:58 PM
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There's different levels of modesty, like with family members it wouldn't be immodest, but in public yeah. The general guideline is hiding the figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:48 PM
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I'm sure there are actions that someone can do and the other couldn't care less, but when someone cares about something, I feel it implies that there is a certain expectation on how to act about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:01 PM
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Idk about ample time, especially if it was a warring tribe, children would be taught how to fight ASAP to be used as extra man-power to leverage wars in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:55 PM
1

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:50 PM
1

What percentage of early 20's would you still consider boys? How many have been mature enough to be men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:45 PM
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Lmao I was raised in a western country too so I relate to the degeneracy. Sometimes it feels like I can go either way, and I decided to go for the path in line with my religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:43 PM
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I can't pinpoint it but it's definitely my upbringing. Modesty is highly virtuous in Islam. I'm middle-eastern, which means very jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:35 PM
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Wouldn't everything she does in the relationship affect the both of you? As long as one party cares, it will have an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:32 PM
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I like modesty. Sometimes it feels like it's becoming rarer. So the opposite, a girl that dresses revealing turns me off, or at least I cannot see her as a serious partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:27 PM
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But do you not find them attractive? Would your relationship suffer if she was a VS?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:24 PM
1

What does the candy is sweet part mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:48 PM
1

Yep reddit is just an echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:38 PM
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Ofcourse, that's the first thing I do when I buy new products.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:44 AM
2

Wow what a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:43 AM
3

Does anyone here know how to use an electric toothbrush? It just makes me feel like im at the dentist drilling my teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:41 AM
1

CMV bulls are cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:39 AM
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Now that you mention it, you're absolutely right! She gets to fuck with the bad boy, then a niceguy fixes her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:22 AM
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No one's obligated for anything, she could have genuinely turned a new leaf and avoids casual sex. But only she can judge her intentions, other people can only look to her behavior to determine her values. So what would be apparent is that she's the type to jump onto someone attractive enough, and you just aren't attractive enough for her to do that with you. The more promiscuous her past is, the harder it is to give her the benefit of the doubt for turning a new leaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:19 PM
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I don't see how they're mutually exclusive. Obviously there are fetishes, stealing someone's "loyal" partner is simply a form of validation for one's ego and a flex/humiliation for the one being cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:27 PM
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Music, porn and any other media that focuses on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:59 PM
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This dude was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:50 PM
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The target demographic isn't most men, the target demographic is most men who'd watch this sort of media in the first place. People interested in romance movies tend to fantasize about romance. The core common fantasy is showing a girl what she's missing, everything else is simply catering to the demographic that would consume the media. Whether she's missing good love/sex/material, whatever it is that would get her hooked on this new guy enough to even leave her man. They're all different flavo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:27 PM
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The fantasy is showing a girl what she's missing that she leaves her man. The character of the protagonist is only there to make the fantasy more relatable for the targeted viewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:08 PM
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Yep, it's a huge disservice to yourself to listen to what other people tell you to think about others. Observe and make your own conclusions about the people you're most going to be interacting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:30 PM
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The fantasy for men of stealing a girl is real, you can find it anywhere that a guy wants to flex they'll say some line about it. OP's point is that these are real desires that women have. So you bringing up an example of a real desire men have, only reinforces OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:26 PM
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And I'm saying the opposite. I'm not looking for a roommate to care about, I'm looking for a spouse, which requires attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:20 PM
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A roommate bestie is cool and all, but that's not all I'm looking for in a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:11 PM
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I can't understand how someone having sex with others can pass the vetting for someone that values exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:49 AM
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What happens next? I'm invested in this saga
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:23 AM
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What should a guy do if he wants to split the bill but she didn't bring her purse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:21 AM
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If you're dating someone and you're okay with them fucking someone else, then why add monogamous constraints to your relationship instead of being in an open relationship since you're already okay with that person having sex with others. Why make them promise to not sleep with others when it isn't something that bothers you? That's where my confusion lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:14 AM
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All immediate red flags except for the last 2, I can see some wiggle room there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:00 AM
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I'm trying to wrap my mind around how it can be no big deal while dating, but a very big deal after making it official instead of moving onto a non-monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:56 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:52 AM
1

Basically something like that. Like I really want it to workout with this person at first glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:47 AM
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Question for casual sex havers, why would you get into a monogamous relationship if you're already okay with that same person sleeping with others prior to "making it official"? What changes that makes you no longer feel ok with them sleeping with others?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:35 AM
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Idk about love, but a strong infatuation at first sight that might be a good spouse? Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:30 AM
1

That looks wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:29 AM
2

Guess I'm learning more than one thing today, what's aerial hoops?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:54 AM
1

What's lyra?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:52 AM
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I'll help you understand how the average redditor thinks, I didn't even read past your title and first sentence. People love to be right and use their intellect to defend the emotional views that they hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:53 PM
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Yep, no safety net for women, and a huge lack of reliable men leads to women having to choose between safety and raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:49 PM
2

Will keep note of that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:52 PM
0

I dont use skin/ hair products because im a conspiracy theorist. There is no way you can convince me that the beauty industry wants to provide permanent solutions to their target demographic. The more reliant you are, the richer they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:17 PM
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7 at most, 7.5 with makeup Anything less attractive causes ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:51 PM
1

Movies targeted at certain people want their demographic to relate and identify with the movie, and give them something surreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:50 PM
1

I don't know about attraction developing over time, but people can get more desperate, and value convenience more over time. Also I'm pretty sure there's many testimonies of men saying that they knew they'd marry the girl from the first time they met. It sounds romantic when said at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:41 PM
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I'd like to take this discussion one step further and claim that there is nothing immoral with power imbalances. As a matter of fact, imbalance is a pre-requisite for trust. No two people are going to be matching in every part of their life at all times, so there will naturally be imbalances in all relationships. What matters is how the people use that imbalance, some people will abuse it to their advantage. That's what's immoral, abuse, not the imbalance itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:52 PM
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I mean a hot pocket is too far, but I can see a pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:13 AM
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I second this, how does that happen? Do they say "back in my day, red heads were all over me."?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:12 AM
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Neat. Pretty cool to be open minded to other people's perspectives. It is something I struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:08 AM
1

Because it's a pretty big topic, Sharia to all of the above. However, there are some point we can discuss: Safer for everyone involved. What's the biggest barrier you see? There's already more than a small percentage world-wide interested in women-only spaces. Which point would you like us to focus on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:34 PM
1

What do you find interesting about them? Single middleeastern.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:26 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:50 PM
1

I don't have a plan for it, is there something specific you would like to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:38 PM
0

Fair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:47 PM
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I don't drink, but I get the jist of your question lol and I don't think the relationship would last that long. That's more friendly than professional, and guy friends is a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:39 PM
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The reason it's a yellow flag is because I recognize it as a necessary evil in our current society. I would hope to live in a segregated society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:34 PM
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Yes, i just don't like men being around my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:33 PM
1

Good question, Co-workers can make or break the workplace, so I don't expect it to be realistic to maintain purely professional relations with your co-workers. The more men the more the yellow turns red. It also depends on the distance. As in the easier it is to maintain a purely professional interaction the better. Green flags is more of a positive thing, but I would say that the secretaries were neutral to yellow depending on how much interaction with men there was and how professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:28 PM
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Her having male co-workers gives me pause. It's not a full on red-flag, but it is a flag that doesn't sit well with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:22 PM
5

What's hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:04 PM
0

Yellow flag for male co-workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:00 PM
1

I find that I don't retain the information while listening much. I've listened to probably hundreds of hours worth of podcasts while doing various activities and I don't know if I can recall that knowledge when I need it, or if I just overwhelmed myself because I remember a therapist mentioning that if you don't give your brain enough time to absorb the information, it would be overwritten by the new barrage of information that I'm exposing myself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:11 PM
2

LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:35 PM
3

If masculinity is attracted to femininity and vice versa, then does that mean sexuality is fluid and depends on how feminine/masculine someone is for attraction? Is everyone somewhat pansexual? It would seem to explain part of why femboys are such a big deal these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:31 PM
3

I definitely need some of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:14 PM
2

Thank you. To whomever replied to me, your comment didn't get through.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:07 PM
5

It's called emotional intelligence 2.0 Edit: I just realized the book attached was a suggestion, thank you for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:06 PM
2

That's a really good idea tbh, I already do that with podcasts, however my only issue is that I don't retain any of the information, I feel that I do it because even video games don't give me enough stimulation so I add podcasts on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:05 PM
2

I don't believe so, haven't been diagnosed, although I do have friends that think I might be mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:26 PM
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A) is a work in progress so I haven't been going out of my way to meet women. For specifics, fixing my overall physical health, I plan to address my mental health when I'm done with this. Certifying myself to expand my career options. I struggle with reading books however I want to read the emotional intelligence one, and others like it to improve my foundation for human interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:37 AM
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Men don't want to be the roommate, they want to be desired. What men complain about is that they feel like they haven't been properly taught how to be desirable, or that it wasn't stressed enough because "some day someone perfect will walk into their life that they deserve and will treat them right". The sooner that men realize that it's BS the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:41 PM
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When you stand up, your booty cheeks clench together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:29 PM
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It's security/ protection. When younger, jocks provide the security they're looking for. When older, the nerds provide for the security especially when living during peaceful times. Both the smart cowards, and dumb jocks get outclassed by the smart jocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:18 PM
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Exactly be a man and eat those blue balls up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:15 PM
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Sex? Trivago
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:13 PM
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Anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:12 PM
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How tf do you not smear shit all over standing up??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:11 PM
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Depends, if that's my friend I'd spank him, if he's not my friend I'd slap his balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:06 PM
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Since a good portion of you seem to have lots of free time to waste on here, I would like some recommendations for some easy work from home jobs Or talk about your hobbies, I'm looking for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:03 PM
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Idek what bluepill really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:54 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:52 PM
5

I get that for relationships, but casual sex too? Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:35 AM
9

Idk bout you, but from my experience with other guys, pretty much everyone would skip the dates if they could when it came to casual sex. And the guys that wouldn't skip the dates only do it because it is foreplay for the girl. The only difference between casual sex and prostitution is the ego boost one might get from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:23 AM
2

I genuinely believe that the infidelity rationalization is just post-hoc. It's people trying to theorize about why they feel a certain way. Sex with others just is unattractive, even repulsive. No matter when it happens, whether before, during or after the relationship, the idea of your significant other being with someone else just is repulsive in of itself to different degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:04 AM
5

I choose all of the above. Men are lazy, Porn is awful, low testosterone is bad, and feminism preaches equality, when men and women are clearly very different. None of the above are ingredients of a healthy longterm relationship. Honestly, I blame godlessness for all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:51 AM
6

You twat twiddler
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:41 AM
1

yes, I guess you're good enough for right now What's the difference in a guy saying that same exact thing but one where he makes the first move and one where you make the first move? Maybe you have a certain context in mind for this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:28 AM
1

Not having an easy way of finding out if someone did x doesn't mean that I'm okay with x.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:40 PM
4

Nice try female
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:23 AM
1

Yep. I don't do casual. Bit I understand that if I did, then body count wouldn't matter as long as there were no STIs. Body count is a bitter thing, some bitterness is tolerable, but the more bitter the more ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:14 AM
1

I've seen some very enthusiastic glue on cardboard action.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:09 PM
4

Lmfao gg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:05 PM
1

Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:04 PM
1

You haven't seen those crazy makeup transformations? Even guys can look like pretty women with makeup and a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:53 PM
1

That's not true lol. There are several examples in this post of people claiming it's predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:42 AM
3

Good on you for standing up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:59 AM
5

Lmfao, they were worried you were a pedo but then after finding out her age they called her hot???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:29 AM
1

I don't think you can do that with regular reddit. Maybe a special app or a browser extension.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:08 AM
1

SEAmaxx? What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:24 PM
2

You aren't a "shy-introvert" you are a person. Stop identifying with a limiting belief about yourself. People greatly under-estimate the Placebo effect of just believing things about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:23 PM
2

Go watch the KSI weigh in of yesterday. A girl pretty much put her whole reputation on the line when she tried to kiss KSI without consent on live cameras. They do approach, you just have to be the right person at the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:22 PM
1

That's a work bestie. I don't even want friends of the opposite sex let alone a "work spouse".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:31 PM
2

You always have drunk girl energy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:02 AM
1

Faster recovery? Yes please!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:43 AM
2

The Islamic way of doing it is to gradually perceive it as an obstacle to your core values. For example, you can limit yourself by saying you won't do xyz activity that you like, while drunk, and keep adding until drinking becomes a nuisance. You need something(s) that you deeply care about in order to achieve this, you have to care more about it than your drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:40 AM
1

That's a simp's best case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:31 AM
1

Low self esteem and you see yourself as a 6-7/10 at your lowest??? Ur either hot or narcissistic without even realizing. Also if you look better naked, you're probably on the hotter side. People with low self esteem wanna hide it all out of shame even if they looked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:27 AM
1

Maybe it isn't so painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:21 AM
1

People that didn't follow their societies trends were always seen as the weird ones no matter the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:15 AM
3

Imagine you've been on reddit for almost a decade and see someone else that's saying and doing the same thing for a decade. I use throwaways to avoid that shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:03 AM
1

People are dopamine junkies. If short bursts of video gives keep you stimulated, then people will overlook the side effect of having a lower attention span, until it starts seriously negatively affecting their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:02 AM
1

Seen with my eyes? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:43 PM
2

What do y'all think of the show "Five Guys a Week"? The premise is: 5 guys move into a woman's place at the same time to live with her for a week as a dating show.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:42 PM
3

Are you asking if he'd rather be the man forced to provide for a child he doesn't want, or the woman that wants to have a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:35 PM
3

Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:28 PM
2

Relevant flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:24 PM
1

Like cmon girl, do you think he stops at 69? I did that with a video game in terms of hours spent because it looked clean on my profile. I kept playing the game on a different account 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:23 PM
2

I am genuinely bored. Anything I look at, looks like a chore. Anyone else relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:39 PM
1

Coming 2nd isn't always bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:36 PM
1

Disclaimer: I don't celebrate christmas lol. Something hobby related. Like going to a trampoline place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:27 PM
1

The Canadian Dollar! I didn't want to believe it, but all women chase after that CAD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:10 AM
2

Is it also a match type of thing? If so, then there's no point in taking yourself out over a hunch. You won't know what kind of friends they want without asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:12 AM
3

Post pandemic life is odd. Pre pandemic I was convinced girls didn't even know what a video game was, then lockdown happened and now they became cod pros...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:36 AM
1

You callin me a dickhead fam? For wanting to cuddle?? Nah you're moving mad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:30 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:29 AM
1

A whole ass plan? I just want to be ready to seize the oppurtunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:28 AM
1

You're right about the puberty point. Don't make predictions about life, just tell them the realities of how the world works. "Yes looks matter and this is how you improve them." Tell them the things that matter, teach them early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:30 AM
1

That distinction seems pedantic, the adults are trying to say something without explicitly saying it, and the kids understand the message that was said without being said, the message being looks don't matter, as evidenced by kids who grew up thinking this is what they were taught. Why not give them reality and hope they end up being both good looking and personable people? You can also give them advice to help them, including teaching them how to cope with their struggles. I'm not saying to tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:17 AM
5

Yep being easy going comes off as conflict avoidant which comes off as being spineless and lacking confidence. If you can do something to cement their perception of your confidence, then easy going becomes an attractive trait, because now it's seen as a special privilege instead of you being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:57 AM
1

I feel like people give kids hopeful answers because we don’t know how things will be What does this mean? Could you keep the context specific to the example of telling kids that looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:44 AM
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Humans will deny their own perceived experiences to fit in with the status quo. 1- Those feel-good sayings are reinforced over and over by society at large. 2- If someone already has low self-esteem then accepting that looks matter is very scary, thus incentivizes to believe the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:56 AM
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Humans regularly deny their own perceived experience to fit in with the status quo. If the status quo is "girls don't care about looks, they only want someone with a great personality" then it would be pretty reasonable for the child to believe that, especially if this message gets reinforced over and over throughout their life. I'm not taking all the blame off the men because obviously, they really wanted the lies to be true since it's easier than doing hard work, but pretending that it's all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:46 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:44 PM
1

Security.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:43 PM
5

When you said 10/10 I thought you were exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:35 PM
2

I wasn't asking for specific examples, but more what template would the discussion take? How would the discussion be relevant? Because the only thing I can think of off the top of my head is "Race A is fetishized" Which I mean sure, but doesn't seem useful much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:33 PM
1

Could you give an example of how you'd go about discussing race?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:27 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:26 PM
1

I did, what I'm trying to figure out is what about the first statement indicates that it is about physical body?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:25 PM
1

I get that, however I can't help but think that she derived some ego boost from being pursued at all. She was "continuously rejecting him", tf kind of circumstance is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:16 PM
1

I appreciate your detailed reply, however, I am curious to know why you assumed it was about her physical body?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:12 PM
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Well you see, they aren't logically choosing the best man, they are emotionally attracted to the best man through biology. This started out as a joke but I think there might be something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:03 PM
2

Ghosts scare me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:00 PM
1

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:59 PM
1

Good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:59 PM
1

I always thought that experience was the underlying factor behind age things, do you think it just is inherently an age thing full stop regardless of experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:58 PM
0

Fair, I was reading threads from last week when I came across this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:57 PM
2

I compliment myself everyday. My mental health is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:50 PM
0

A: "A woman is affected by her n count" B: "No, women literally do not change with n-count" A: "Ok so preferring virgins should be fine" B: "No that's predatory" Does person B hold two contradictory positions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:46 PM
1

Ma'am wants to take it outside like a proper gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:46 PM
1

I don't doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:24 PM
2

Thank you for introducing me to this field! I've been very lost in the world of IT career wise and this might help me greatly narrow down my interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:17 PM
1

What do you do for work? I was scraping together a quick makeshift list and I love your analysis!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:12 PM
1

No. I did not want to know of this. No thank you sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:06 PM
1

I meant the cars thinggy would be the public transit system.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:04 PM
1

Maybe, however it doesn't seem far fetched to me besides, it doesn't change how I feel about people driving, everytime I'm in a car. One of the Gulf countries could pull it off relatively soon I bet. Saudi Arabia is trying to build a line city, so that should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:02 PM
1

What's stopping it from being well-funded public transit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:55 PM
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The point is to lower accidents because people are unpredictable drivers, and be able to transport people to their destinations faster because of it. The self driving cars would all be working in sync with one another to achieve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:53 PM
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I imagine the traffic would be a non-issue because the cars would all be in sync and keep moving fast, although yes there would need to be some sort of side road for passengers to get on and off the car. Definitely a bus would be more efficient at transporting people, but it lacks the comfort/convenience and private safety of a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:51 PM
1

I mean it's basically that but with smart cars and more privacy/convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:44 PM
1

I like this idea. Cars in cities Pros: Comfortable, convenient, safer from public. Cons: Dangerous, polluting, obnoxious. This is why I think a smart car grid would be a neat solution, best of both worlds type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:41 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:37 PM
4

Obviously men are individuals, every man has his own story and is very interesting to talk to. Women on the other hand, I've had my heart broken by them so that's what they all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:36 PM
2

I was thinking more like a better uber system.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:34 PM
1

It did. I saw Goku do one handed pushups and that was all the motivation I needed. Till I realized how unrealistic that body would be to even get close to naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:29 PM
1

That's the thing, if you look like an adult, then sure i guess, but if at first glance you look underage? Das a nope! Being told the age isn't going to suddenly make the underage look fade away. Idk bout other people, but my sexual desires do not stem from numbers, rather from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:08 PM
1

I definitely agree, however, the self driving cars are the public transportation, and they could go pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:04 PM
2

That's a good question, other than airports and docks, maybe have some sort of garage for cars outside the city and you can go drive normally there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:02 PM
1

Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:00 PM
2

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:00 PM
2

If I was a girl in my late teens/ early 20's with a baby face, I'd consider everyone intetested in me sus. Why would you want to procreate with someone sexually attracted to child-like features??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:33 PM
2

Women poop? 🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:30 PM
2

CMV People shouldn't be allowed to drive cars in cities. Cities should just have a system of self driving cars only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:28 PM
2

I am curious what that would do for age gap relationships. Especially considering what we already see from the loli community where they say "she's AKSHUALLY 3000 years old so not weird"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:15 PM
1

Yes. It gives the illusion of pooey buttcrack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:02 PM
1

Tf is a private friend of the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:22 PM
1

Yes man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:21 PM
1

That's a boring way tbh. I was never a fan of the silent treatment myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:08 PM
2

Fair enough. But I did chuckle at the "I'm a violent person it's in my nature but I'm the most chill according to my neighbors" 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:01 PM
2

Where do you believe I implied that? Because I didn't but I am curious how my words come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:40 PM
1

Yep, confidence in knowing your stuff. That's what's attractive. Not giving the definition of kinesiology as if you were a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:29 PM
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I go out of my way to make sure I'm as understandable/ relatable as possible. Almost like when a doctor visits a doctor and pretends to be a regular patient that doesn't understand. It definitely ties in to my anime fantasy of revealing some hidden power.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:27 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:24 PM
0

Straying from God's light.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:11 PM
1

Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:09 PM
1

Feminism is the symptom. It's pointless to try and blame the symptom without fixing the root cause. It does make for good clickbait however because it's a buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:08 PM
7

Isn't that the point of mating? You find someone whose features you love so much that you have kids with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:03 PM
1

Are there ideas that you are sure of but also think you should be open to being wrong about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:35 PM
21

This sounds like a different side of the same coin. Why is beating someone's ass even an idea in your head for being taller than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:00 PM
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They can choose to not approach, but they can't choose to not be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:26 AM
-3

I meant that men choose who they interact with whereas women get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:21 AM
-2

misandry is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:07 AM
1

Ofcourse they can, but how often does it happen? Directly not subtle hints that guys are usually oblivious to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:03 AM
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Approaching people out of your own volition. Being constantly approached by strangers you want nothing to do with sounds terrible tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:56 AM
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There's an easy answer to this where you are both right. Pretty looks will make building a rapport with the professor much easier, and thus have them be slightly more lenient towards your grades. I'm talking more like turning a D+ into a C kind of leniency.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:33 AM
2

They're going to fuck me for thinking otherwise? I'm going wirh A, it's not like I'm a stranger to double speak :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:52 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:42 PM
3

In some cases it's more soothing to believe that someone has been indoctrinated to hold certain beliefs than to accept that there are magnitudes of people that genuinely think this way. Other times, it's validating, because if a huge number of people reasonably disagree with us, then we might be in the wrong, which we totally can't be, right? So they're definitely brainwashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:04 PM
1

Whats a factual relativist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:53 PM
1

It depends on the relationship dynamic, but in general I agree with you, fucking a girl that's giving it out to others is cuck behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:52 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:57 PM
1

I have noticed situationships being on the rise lately, and tbh in my experience they have been damaging, however I am curious about your experiences if you dont mind elaborating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:56 PM
4

In this consumerist and secular society??? Who tf would arbitrarily deny themselves pleasure that they can easily acquire? Certainly not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:50 PM
2

It sounds like you're open to sleeping with situationships. Tbh situationships are FWB without the clear distinction/ expectations or are one sided FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:47 PM
1

Quality response👌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:42 PM
4

-1 I went back in time and stopped myself from making that one mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:18 PM
1

I appreciate your candid input, it's got me questioning things. I'm still not sold on the idea that provocative clothing with intent of provoking sexual interest is a fringe minority. They could be showing off for men not only to flex on women. Leveraging sexual power isn't exclusive to simps, she could use it to get with guys she's attracted to, or other ways to get validation. I don't have any stats on this, but it seems likely for it to be common, or at least not a statistical anomaly for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:04 PM
3

Are you saying that no / only a fringe minority of women would wear revealing clothing to attract men (whether it be gaze, compliments or just asking out)? Because if you answer other than a yes, then it would be reasonable for men to assume that she may be more open to being approached than other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:00 PM
1

It means he's not actually gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:49 PM
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It isn’t for you. Wearing clothes that closely fit their body does not mean they’re in heat begging for a mate. The problem is that this is not always true. And men won't know without making a move. I'm all for making male-female interactions strictly professional in public settings tbh. Maybe even have women/family only spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:47 PM
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I agree with you but I don't think that's because of consequences, rather general context (it is understood that this specific action is clearly not allowed) the consequences are there to enforce it. But I feel that we may be getting into semantics, what I'm really interested in is the following question. How would you go about making harrassment clearly not allowed? The issue is that harrassment is hard to define because it's not one specific action but more of an umbrella term for making someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:18 PM
1

I disagree, consequences wouldn't change the interpretation, it might change behaviour but not interpretation. Societal upbringing and experiences could change interpretations. And even then, I don't know how much we could do when it comes to biology. It's reasonable for someone to assume a girl dressed in revealing clothing is looking to draw eyes and maybe even compliments, especially if certain body parts are emphasized in her outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:44 PM
1

Obviously deterrents deter people.... Your murder example doesn't work because murdering you is unacceptable for the most part. "Harassment" can be an action that is sometimes acceptable. Here's an example more analogous. We can take your murder shirt and replace it with "hug me". I think it would be reasonable for people to assume that you are open to being hugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:58 PM
2

I'll take bullying from jealous male in exchange for good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:18 PM
1

But overall I think pretty much every guy wants a woman that other men want. Attractive people tend to attract people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:02 AM
1

A scenic view with a combo is a cheat code.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:17 PM
3

CMV Weed breath is horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:57 PM
2

They have been more rare recently. Heck I even forgot about them until I saw several iterations of the cuck thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:53 PM
1

Dam bro just kamikaze'd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:48 PM
1

I've flex sealed people in my past, it makes them stick around much longer I'll tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:46 PM
1

Is this a challenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:37 PM
1

Keke
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:45 PM
3

Of all the things I've seen on this sub, this is the one that made me rethink what got me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:19 AM
1

Gauche I've never seen that word in english before what does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:11 AM
4

Lone wolves are fucked. Especially the ones spending all their time on things that don't improve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:29 PM
1

That's pretty cool. I am wondering if that means you should avoid trying for a baby with a certain someone if it doesn't happen fast enough since the eggs seem to think it's a really bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:09 PM
2

Kim k underrated??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:05 PM
1

Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:04 PM
2

I don't think about the past much, but if you're asking if teenager me would have loved to sleep with a hot teacher? Then duh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:59 PM
3

Social sentiment doesn't happen in a vaccum, it has its own effects, and we have seen examples that range from cancellation to gen**ide. We definitely should care about social sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:38 PM
2

The only way for unconditional love to exist is if someone had no standards. Otherwise there always is a line that someone can cross and you'd stop loving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:49 PM
2

Hard work for things you care about is fulfilling. Passion projects. Hard work out of necessity is not. Especially if you work a low paid job where you exhaust yourself and barely make ends meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:38 PM
1

What's a word/ term someone can use to instantly turn you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:29 PM
2

I'm actually curious about this. The general sentiment that I've seen on the cs subs is that the self taught thing is a pipe dream these days, what do you think of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:33 AM
4

I was thinking of the engineer point and STEM field that men in general go to according to OP. However the point also applies to developers. I was under the impression that HR did the recruiting for most companies and they usually have a checklist to go through and can't really judge a portfolio. That's if we don't include the companies that use an auto-filter for degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:09 AM
17

Many companies hiring developers or engineers have started to say “fuck this degree thing” Where have you seen that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:55 AM
1

fucking mother and their lover. Seems like a redundant statement 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:32 PM
1

I believe it's malleable enough like a steel beam, but some people will swear up and down that it is more rigid than a concrete building.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:59 AM
2

Why do you need to express those urges sexually? Have you tried other ways? Monastery is a thing, plenty of people preach freeing oneself from their natural urges. The claim of porn being the only thing keeping men sane seems farfetched to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:31 AM
2

what's the outlet for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:13 AM
3

I'm trying to understanding why you think porn is a good outlet?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:01 AM
3

How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:45 AM
5

Even if we assume the effects of porn are negligible (which they are clearly not). It doesn't mean that people should stop standing for what's right and speaking out about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:44 AM
14

Sorta, some guys think that they can only provide that safety by being intimidating or they have such a short temper it might aswell be nonexistent. I don't entirely blame them because there are guys who are terrible at understanding boundaries and need to be shut down very early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:40 AM
2

She might also have friends or other women convincing her to leave her bf/husband. They tell her she should have “wild” or “hoe” phase and isn’t living her life to the fullest by having him be the only guy she was with. This is what's dangerous. Bad company. Bad upbringing. Not virginity. If she had a good upbringing and good company, those things would be irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:34 AM
1

Sure, not finding the man reliable enough for her to let her guard down. I.e. feeling secure. She can have a plan B just in case something happens, but it's stashed away to the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:13 AM
-1

I see it differently, I consider the independence to be the temporary change that gets undone with the right partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:27 PM
-1

Fair enough. In my case a woman that chooses to be agreeable is a bigger turn on than one that has to be to find shelter, however that's not a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:07 PM
1

Not that I disagree, but how do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:48 PM
13

You can try to mine for justification all you want and we can talk about certain desirable things that are correlated with virginity. But at the end of the day, it just is attractive. It's like asking "why [insert attractive trait] is attractive to you?". People are motivated emotionally, not rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:29 PM
16

It's obvious is it not? People see themselves as trustworthy and reliable for their spouse, whilst they are distrusting of strangers that their child might marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:17 PM
4

women will fuck a short fat bald dude way before they fuck a guy who they feel threatened by. If you're ugly sure, but if you're attractive, then they'd feel you're protective rather than threatening. Rules 1&2 people!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:34 PM
1

People are afraid of being labeled the "bad guy" even by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:03 PM
1

Speak for yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:58 PM
1

My favourite is when you bring it up and they say they need time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:54 PM
2

Why even use sentences? Might aswell just abbreviate the conversationg 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:42 PM
3

At first it was women hiding their past, now it's women hiding their present? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:41 PM
1

This has been my strategy so far. Step 1 get adopted by some one with freinds Step 2 get friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:58 PM
1

It might look good if she uses some sand-paper to clean up the goopy edges...Maybe a sanding belt...or just throw the whole thing into a grinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:56 PM
–

You're capable of crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:54 PM
3

How to socialize after college? Do you just go for another degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:18 PM
20

Like bro I just want something stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:00 PM
1

Fulfilling careers especially doctor can help with confidence which is very attractive. Also if she's gonna overwork herself it better be for something purposeful and not just making someone else richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:19 PM
2

Apparently taller women want even taller men 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:24 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:16 PM
1

Goals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:52 PM
1

The testosterone will hit eventually mid fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:29 PM
1

It's the package that's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:24 PM
1

Nothing worse than ...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:42 PM
1

The trick is to say "this is amazing beautiful I love it" to the first option and keep moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:39 PM
1

Sometimes the sweeping can have a nice calming sound and I like that too. But I definitely am more visual. "Follow the light" is one of my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:17 PM
1

Recently I've been getting instagram videos of satisfying things like sweeping dust and fitting them into a certain shape cleanly and that's been my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:14 PM
1

I've seen some pull off the mouth sounds but it was in a context. Mouth sounds standalone doesn't do it for me. I like the medical exams ones the most, and artist measuring / drawing face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:04 PM
1

Ripped, I plan on swimming anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:02 PM
1

Sometimes I do. I don't like the sexual/ intimate ones tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:01 PM
2

People should communicate more smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:53 PM
2

Lightweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Fair. How about in terms of noticing the guy? I ask this because I see people echo the sentiment that women are more interested in taken guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:49 PM
0

Guys think a woman's vagina is as good of an excuse as zionists think anti-semitism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:47 PM
0

Do you think it also applies vice versa with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:41 PM
1

I thought so too and got curious to see if anyone here had similar experiences/insights to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:25 PM
2

Frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:19 PM
3

You fucking smell Fabulous!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:17 PM
3

My friend told me that I do a good job of warding off guys at the gym when we're together because of the way that I act. What do you think she could mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:16 PM
3

I just found out i'm dyslexic. I was so confused why you would say "your fears tool no one"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:13 PM
2

It depends on how effective you want your explanation to be. Here's an example, gaining weight. You can boil it down to: more food = more weight. But you would have no clue how any of it works and you might eat the wrong quantities of food, you might gain too much or even too little depending on how your body responds. Maybe even poison yourself. So you would need to attach caveats to that very simple idea and make it complex i.e. composed of multiple parts. You can't have someone understand a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:10 PM
1

You're asking how to become a monkey for women. You want to do aggressive dances to impress women. That will only get you manipulated and used for entertainment because people can feel the fake-ness of your aggression. It won't get you closer to your goal, and even if you do manage to impress a woman, it won't be long till she finds out the real you is a pussy and leaves. First and foremost do some soul searching and find out/set your core values. Then set some clear boundaries that you wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:17 PM
9

"Wish" may be too strong of a word. While virginity may not be at the forefront of their thoughts, we can do some deductions to get closer to reality. Other than cucks, no man wants even the thought to cross his mind of his wife having had sex with someone else. For most, it's a "don't ask, don't tell". All the rationalizations people give for having a past are copes. (Knowing what she likes and doesn't, doesn't know how to duck) As if those aren't things you're going to have to figure out and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:09 PM
5

So, in your mind, a relationship includes the right to control the biological functions of your partner? Idk what you mean by the biological functions. Most people wouldn't want their partners reproducing with others...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:58 PM
1

How does that account for r/deadbedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:58 AM
2

Something being hard =/= praiseworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:14 PM
0

I'd say there's 2 sides to this. The person committed rape, but you didn't get raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:49 PM
6

Rape is about not wanting it. Rough sex can be hot with someone you want and also be horrifying with someone you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:39 PM
2

Only 60%?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:30 PM
1

Right?? And I was only getting back into the groove of swimming again. I might just swallow the pill and hope I don't swallow poop when I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:37 PM
3

Peepee is manageable poopoo however is very much not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:36 PM
2

You are pure on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:36 PM
4

Only correct answer. Somebody ruined swimming pools for me because they mentioned how some people will get in with pieces of poop in their assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:29 PM
5

Hot take? You mean clean take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:28 PM
2

There are a bunch of trans that identify as lesbians in a man's body that want feminine women. I guess you can't get any lower testosterone than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:16 PM
2

Oh no I agree they're definitely more picky online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:03 PM
1

Even then, if someone in your social circle is unattractive, do you approach them for a relationship? Looks are the barrier to entry whether OLD or in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:02 PM
3

When's the last time you thought about approaching someone unattractive in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:56 PM
5

I hug my cat without consent and I'm willing to pay the price everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:51 PM
3

Blocked🚫🙅‍♂️🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:44 PM
1

Good!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:43 PM
10

In my experience with people who claim to make "intellectual criticism" it's usually been the opposite of intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:39 PM
4

I can understand having the desire to see more content, that's not mutually exclusive with understanding that they need time and support. The selfishness starts when you feel entitled to their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:38 PM
1

What show is Hotd?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:25 PM
3

We go jim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:23 PM
2

Where's the spoiler?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:19 PM
1

So if somebody leaves a baby at your door step you think it's ok to do nothing and let them starve to death because you don't consent to spending energy? Ofcourse you won't do nothing! Which is the point I'm making about babies rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:02 PM
3

😀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:13 PM
2

What about the portfolio?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:12 PM
2

Welcome brother! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:08 PM
5

When did you realize you were mentally ill? I'll start, when I realized I was making inside jokes in my day dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:05 PM
0

How perceptive of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:59 AM
1

Babies do have that right. If someone leaves a baby at your door-step it would definitely be immoral to do nothing about the baby and let them starve to death because you "don't give consent". Anyway, that's not the contention that pro-abortion people should get caught up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:55 AM
0

I thought they did better at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:50 AM
3

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:49 AM
1

Average big tiddy goth gf enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:37 AM
1

Lmk when you become mayor or something so that I know to boil my water before drinking it. You sound like the guy who'd put chemicals in water to turn the frogs gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:35 AM
1

Youtube/ influencer boxing is something like that, and it's pretty enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:29 AM
1

You're going to be training everyone how to treat you right in a relationship, the difference is in how open are they to accommodate for your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:28 AM
3

Do you want to expedite the process with camps or do you just sterilize/ castrate them and let them die off?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:52 AM
3

Saving money translates to efficiency, which should be a goal of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:39 AM
2

Who would cancel you for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:36 AM
1

Frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:24 AM
1

What would be the appropriate reaction for a pat on the ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:24 AM
1

Sparring?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:05 AM
2

Overrated?? Please elaborate!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:02 AM
1

How would you implement that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:09 AM
1

🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:05 AM
3

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:05 AM
1

What are your spicy hot takes that would get you cancelled?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:44 AM
1

I read that in Kevin's voice lmfao I can’t stand that nigga
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:37 AM
3

"She's one of the good ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:31 AM
1

Who would want someone that's inflexible to their needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:22 AM
1

Fair enough 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:17 AM
2

I don't think it's that big of a stretch. I've started considering slippery slopes more seriously when I saw people saying there's nothing immoral about incest. So society considering teens capable of healthy and safe sexual relations would make it only a matter of time. We could have sex ed while encouraging abstinence but that's not the direction I'm seeing society heading in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:16 AM
1

I'm not talking about needs. I'm stating that it isn't wrong to want a romantic blank slate. It might needlessly limit one's dating prospects as opposed to filtering out specifics instead of a wide net but I don't see much wrong beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:03 AM
1

It doesn't. I used that term because I often see men being accused of "molding" when they express not wanting to deal with baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:17 AM
2

Yes they should be abstinent. The concern is that acknowledging/normalizing that they can have safe sexual relations opens the door for pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:15 AM
1

I feel we might be talking past one another. Usually people have to communicate their needs in relationships. Do you date actual adults? Physically, yes, mentally, I wish they communicated better, I'm not that mature myself anyway though so can't blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:10 AM
0

What I meant by "mold" is that you have a partner with a clean slate that you can immediately jump into learning about how to be the best partner for each other without unlearning the bad stuff. I see men get accused of wanting to "mold" by wanting to go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:06 AM
-1

Given how sought-after beautiful women are, it would be fair to assume that she'd gotten into some failed relationships in the past. And why are you the oh so exceptional one Because I'm ExpensiveShoulder duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:00 AM
2

I appreciate that. My concern is that instead of people saying that children aren't ready for sexual relations full stop. They swing the complete other direction and say since they're ready for sex with their peers, they're ready for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:55 AM
0

Every partner needs to be taught. You learn how to be a good partner to your partner by listening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:49 AM
0

One partner is busy, and the other starts feeling like they're cheating because that's what happened in the past with their ex or rather they see some similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:48 AM
2

Not in the way I'm using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:46 AM
0

Pedophilia and grooming is not the topic. It's about wanting to skip the part about unlearning the bad stuff before teaching the good stuff in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:44 AM
1

I put "molding" in quotations because I often see that specific term used to demonize men who don't want to deal with baggage. You could say it was clickbait or the "hook". As for the binary post, I am genuinely concerned because it's only a matter of time until people realize the inconsistency and wanted some push back against that idea. Lastly, I like a bit of controversy with spicy topics because I'm bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:41 AM
0

"Molding" is a loaded term that people like to use to stir emotions. It's why I put it in quotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:30 AM
-1

Imperfect analogies can still be useful. I didn't mention anywhere that you can single-handedly teach a human being how to be human nor do I think anyone's going to deny that life is baggage. It's important to note that not all baggage is equal, especially intimate relationship baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:25 AM
0

Why assume that I'd have baggage? And even if I did, it wouldn't be wrong for her to choose to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:12 AM
0

Good thing I didn't say that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:10 AM
1

Are you talking about the binary post? Because I'd love to have someone else's perspective on that but it was deemed too controversial for that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:06 AM
1

It is pretty disheartening to discard such a bond. However I can sympathise with the instances where they genuinely feel incapable of providing adequate care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:04 AM
1

My youtube has never recommended a video with 65 views idk what's happening over there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:02 AM
0

I'd be surprised if I wasn't tbh You could try your hand at explain why it's wrong to prefer avoiding baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:59 AM
0

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:50 AM
1

I've seen a lot of healthy and non-abused cats in my life. It seems like there's something missing from your extremes to account for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 AM
1

How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:42 AM
-2

There's nothing wrong with "molding" someone to your preferences. Especially if you don't want to deal with the baggage of women that know the "red flags". My analogy: Abused cats vs kittens. It might be virtuous to be patient and work through the trauma of the abused cat enduring all the triggers their previous owners caused them even if it's how you would like to show affection. However, there's nothing wrong with wanting to skip that step of unlearning the bad stuff and going for a kitten tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:30 AM
7

The more you learn about fingers the more horrifying it is to do anything without immediately washing prior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:17 AM
2

Can confirm I am man that wants Bradley Martyn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:43 PM
2

Later could be as soon as a couple months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:38 PM
1

Both. Strong in my absence and dependent on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:12 AM
3

Government printed paper makes people spend 10 hours everyday doing something they don't enjoy......
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:07 AM
1

👁👄👁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:04 AM
2

Giga Chad is both combined
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:00 AM
5

That's a silly proverb. The oldest profession cannot have clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:52 PM
-2

Even the hot 40 year old women admit they looked hotter at 20 and try to maintain that youthful look with whatever they can do including surgery. Why is it weird to accept that fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:45 PM
3

They both sound active He wants you. He wants your qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:37 PM
1

So it's gotta be a stat-tracked factory new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:23 PM
1

You are fatherly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:21 PM
0

LMFAO STERILE SURFACE They should just pee on a girl to make her a sterile surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:20 PM
1

Math bff got me through highschool calculus. Other than that, I struggle with female content creators outside of asmr, to be fair I only watch like the same 5-10 guys anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:18 PM
1

Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:15 PM
0

I think both scenarios are true. It's a lose/lose situation to expect someone to change after getting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:09 PM
3

False. "Manosphere is very simple, AWALT & AMALT." Men are complex beings and women are understandable sometimes. I think it depends on how comfortable someone is about introspection and fully spilling their guts for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:22 PM
6

This just is the answer for both men and women lol. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:30 PM
5

PSA for those girls: If he thinks he has a chance with you before changing, then you won't be the one he changes for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:25 PM
13

What's the difference between being worthy/picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:19 PM
2

King 👑💪 As long as you keep showering bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:43 AM
1

What have you done after that realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:42 AM
1

Where are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:40 AM
1

What happened next? I'm invested in this storyline.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:37 AM
2

Go take a cold shower. Can't miss your ex if ur too busy freezing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:44 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:37 PM
1

where I could date/fuck someone I actually wanted. Rip
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:11 PM
7

She's not wrong. When in history has there been a monogamous man in power who could have any woman he wanted? No I'm actually curious on if we have stats for monogamous vs non.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:04 PM
1

Smaller stuff like Massage wands feel good. On a bigger scale however, I forgot, I'd have to try again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:02 PM
1

Idk why I didn't know that women can also simp this way look at the comments lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:57 PM
2

OP you're a bit all over the place. You threw around the terms: "Ugly/ Old/ manipulative/ predator/ delayed maturity". I'm not sure who exactly you're addressing. A common point people make is that you need to date around to learn to pick the right one/ you can't expect people to pick the right one first try. From that, we can deduce that getting into the "right" relationship first try is preferable to getting abused/ going through a bunch of failed relationships. There's nothing wrong with want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:02 PM
4

I'm curious about this idea, can you elaborate and give examples of what someone can learn that they do and don't want in a partner only through being in a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:12 AM
1

!?!!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:59 PM
1

Fr wtf is up with that I just wanna squeeze them like a teddy bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:55 AM
4

My toxic trait is believing I can make every girl I fumbled regret her totally rational and fair choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:28 PM
3

SharkPilled is best pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:27 PM
4

Women want a protector/leader/ someone that makes them feel safe/secure. Jee Jee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:10 PM
9

I would say she’s not looking to be a mommy to an adult man. Bro just uno reversed the op lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:08 PM
3

L +ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:53 PM
2

I love pets, but I'm allergic to responsibilities. I'd rather not. Not sure if it's a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:31 PM
1

Shocked UwU noises
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:25 PM
4

Was he wearing socks?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:20 PM
3

How far did those experiments go?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:18 PM
10

Just turn the whole sub into 5 megathreads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:15 AM
2

Lmfao this reminds me of the story where a psychology major girl accused her bf of being a pedophile because he wanted her to shave her pubes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:25 AM
1

Masculinity being under attack isn't the problem, it's that non-masculinity fails to get genuine attraction from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:45 PM
1

What do you find inspiring about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:37 PM
1

I'm not disagreeing. Having the confirmation that you aren't the best helps speed up the process of finding someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:33 PM
1

Agreed, it's a pretty common thing for people to just be gifted/talented/ quick learners for a certain thing and I don't see why sex should be excluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:27 PM
1

That's the point. It's just a bigger blow to the ego when you know someone else did manage but you're just not good enough for her. The idea of someone being sexually better than you for own relationship is something only cucks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:24 PM
0

I have to make a conscious effort to not look more than once at an attractive woman. That's my measurement, make of it what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:20 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:32 PM
2

What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:41 PM
3

Yet? If it's on an internet connected device it's already in some server.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:21 AM
7

Years?? Yall have been doing this for years??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:19 AM
3

What a fancy ó
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:18 AM
1

That's a good example. No, dates should not count towards n. Hmmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:32 PM
1

Idk, there's more than just regular texting that can be done without wifi?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:26 PM
2

Canadians, they're getting absolutely fucked in the telecom industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:21 PM
1

If you think it's cheating if done in your relationship, it should count towards n-count, I think that's a better standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:37 PM
2

Your standard seems to imply that porn contributes to n-count. And at the same time doing sexual activities without the purpose of orgasm doesn't count. So you can have a bunch of non-virgins who've never touched a woman. And a bunch of virgins fucking each other as dares without orgasms. The standard might need some tweaking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:24 PM
2

Sure, I think some people go through the hookup thing and realize that something is still missing. Being religious makes it easier because it's like a cheat code for the answers, the stakes are higher and morality is grounded in God.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:06 PM
9

That's a really good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:48 PM
4

I'm religious. I want wife. I want trust. Good sex needs vulnerability. I can't truly be vulnerable with a hookup. I'd like to avoid the following. STIs, rape accusations, unwanted pregnancies, condom sex, no one to cuddle with, superficial sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:45 PM
1

90%?? Is that actually a real number? If so, then Holy shit Americans are getting shafted so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:38 PM
1

How would you even begin to quantify that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:32 PM
3

If they marry for the bucks why would they divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:28 PM
1

That's literally how every law works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:27 PM
2

Making money is a neutral trait. It can be attractive if the guy would struggle on a single income. Otherwise, making money is fairly inconsequential, would even be a negative if the money making takes away from her time and energy. Although I would like to point out that by making more money, a single girl could afford to live in nicer areas and take better care of herself which would make her attractive, but post marriage it's inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:55 PM
1

Women can use VR for POV porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:38 PM
3

I mean I was thinking more the higher level dudes with special priviliges in the company, but that works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:37 PM
1

If a guy is going around hitting on every woman he sees outside clubs/bars, I'd consider that a form of harrassment tbh. Imagine you go to a restaurant and every few minutes a waiter interrupts your meal/poop/whatever to ask for tips or something you don't wanna give. Maybe not a criminal offense, but definitely something that needs to be dealt with somehow because it's negatively affecting people's everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:35 PM
4

who needs to be told this in this day and age? Probably not the guys that are required to show up to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:31 PM
1

Would rather not. Especially if she starts fantasizing about the dudes on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:29 PM
1

Huh so that's what it's called? I thought that was just the doctor strange move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:27 PM
2

A woman that makes more money is just more attractive. Full stop. Sir please avoid spreading misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:26 PM
2

I don't disagree with you, which is why sincere bonds are worth so much because of how rare they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:44 PM
2

Lmfao the comments are creative. Dipping your dick 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:37 PM
0

Eh, luck is not all there is, you have to be a good catch yourself so that when the oppurtunity arises you are ready for it. Even if you get lucky enough to be adopted into a social circle, if you're not desirable enough, you won't last. Both looks and personality wise. There's also sincerity, even if you can hop between various circles with ease, you will still be lonely if you don't have a sincere bond it will all be superficial. Sincere people are worth so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:35 PM
2

Yes-ish. It counts for something, but there is still room for that first time experience if they are still piv virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:05 PM
1

Sexually active is a very wide term.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:01 PM
7

Why is your gf in the other room with your dick and your hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:49 PM
3

If a girl is looking for an "alpha". I can come off pretty intimidating sometimes which might attract the wrong type of girls when they find out how I really am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:48 PM
1

The only difference I see here is that she wanted sex more than the guy wanted a date. Neither managed to leverage that opportunity for their bigger goal. It would depend on if they would take the oppurtunity if they knew it wouldn't lead to their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:42 PM
12

Absolute filth. A breakup isn't enough for her, she wants to use him as much as she can, make him question himself and THEN breakup by telling him he was worthless/not enough for her. Really fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:33 PM
0

This makes sense logically speaking, but it doesn't scratch the superhero itch. There's always a main character that people will focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:24 PM
2

I'm too lazy to upvotemyself but we do a bit of trolling yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:22 PM
2

they just didn’t get to USE sex as a way in if they feel jilted Isn't this the opposite of success? Same way guys didn't get to use dinner as a way in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:20 PM
1

You're the real heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:14 PM
1

Actually, do you think their children would take the cuck seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:07 PM
1

Who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:43 PM
3

Might've been her demeanor. Masculine guys want feminine women generally, which means that the the guys that do want her are the feminine men who might be very shy. I love that I just completely made all of that up on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:27 PM
3

and having normalized pornography, some women have developed dick fetishes. So what you're saying is we should brace for unsolicited nudes from women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:23 PM
2

Based flair. Based name.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:20 PM
1

PP in, PP out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:30 AM
1

Fair enough, I've no interest in these activities because I'm religious so that wouldn't change before/after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:25 AM
1

100% convinced that's a company shill trying to sabotage under the guise of woman empowerment. It's not like popular ideas don't get used as political/ profiting tools lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:46 AM
2

Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:13 AM
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This idea is crazy to me "living life to fullest before marriage". I guess different strokes for different folks because marriage is part of living life to the fullest for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:10 AM
1

Fair enough, I get where you're coming from, but I still don't understand how knowing someone has an eating disorder is a burden. Anyways I appreciate your elaboration!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:04 AM
0

You pointed out that if it changes how your husband interacts with them then it ends with you. That's what I'm trying to get clarification on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:16 PM
1

I'm unfamiliar with eating disorders but I don't see how it would affect your husband's relation to niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:13 PM
0

Can you give an example of confidential information that you would withhold that would impact your husband's relation with said person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:01 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:58 PM
1

scale is tipping 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:44 PM
5

You have to manually call? Could never be me. It must really suck to live a non-harem lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:43 PM
1

Cucking do be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:41 PM
2

"Ay bro you a real one for saving me from that ho!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:32 PM
2

Swimming >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:11 PM
2

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:10 PM
1

Definitely better than nothing, I just don't know what the health effects would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:04 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:03 PM
1

Teasing is fun, however it would be much more tame in front of others that it might not count as teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:02 PM
0

Idk about that, they'd start doing it for female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:00 PM
2

Those guys have simply been mislead and told that they can afford to be lazy and that a perfect woman will walk into their lives and take care of everything. No one's choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:59 PM
1

Something I often hear about multivitamins is that they are supplements to your diet and shouldn't be the main source of nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:51 PM
2

There's a simple equation for this. Whore = woman n-count > man n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:05 AM
11

Less attractive: maybe, depends on your genetics,diet and activity lifestyle. Undesireable: not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:08 AM
3

Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:40 PM
1

True, don't nag, just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:29 PM
1

Yeah on that she should've ended it instead of accepting a reluctant proposal to find her hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:24 PM
8

Yeah, the worry is that her sensors will get desensitized to the chemical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:21 PM
1

I don't think we know enough. They've been together for 2.5 years, when do you think she brought up marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:59 PM
1

I agree it improves accuracy and can help point you in the right direction, what I disagree with is that correlation is good enough for accurate predictions. Accurate predictions require certain assumptions before factoring in the correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:57 PM
1

Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:51 PM
1

Sounds like that person was fed up and vented a bit. Otherwise it's not really a bad answer. The first couple of sentences get the point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:06 PM
1

That's only in specific cases and where there can't be other explanations. Correlation indicates some sort of link, that's all. It might factor into some calculations depending on certain variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:02 PM
2

Disagree. It depends on the reasons why she's resisting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:56 PM
1

L post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:52 PM
–

"Hey we're already talking and having fun, why not record it and see what comes out of it?" I think it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:37 PM
36

I dislike promiscuity and I recognize that I just feel this way. I think all the explanations presented are post-hoc. With regards to the oxytocin thing, I agree it does seem very simplistic, why is it that the woman only gets desensitized when switching partners instead of simply everytime she has sex even if it's with the same partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:33 PM
1

Respectfully Idk and I don't care about "some figures". I follow what Islam says.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:24 PM
2

I had a list of things I found attractive, then I met a girl that literally matched none or very few, and my list flew out the window because of our common interests. That being said, I wouldn't mind looking like a supermodel :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:12 PM
2

Yep it really is the biggest erogenous zone!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:06 PM
1

Dam that sucks. Were there moments you felt lustful towards him or was it just alright everytime?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:02 PM
1

Yep, it's corruption all the way down/up. Greed greed greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:00 PM
0

I’ve had sex with someone who wasn’t attractive. Can you elaborate on this? How it happened and how it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:56 PM
6

This concept applies to everyone, not only simps, I realized that a major reason I didn't care about forming friendships was because I was always listening to podcasts or watching a pretty cool twitch streamer, which tricked my brain into thinking I have those awesome friends who are always have something interesting to say with minimal input from me. It can be very entertaining but be careful of making it your main form of socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:54 PM
4

I'm against shamelessness in general. I don't think they specifically target children, but moreso they cast a really wide net and try to advertise wherever they can. If a child wants to lookup porn, there is no barrier to porn other than a single button saying im over 18. I'm guessing that's how they justify not caring about where they advertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:51 PM
1

I was bored once so I started flipping through streams and I came across a stream where the girl switched the gameplay with her camera. So the game window was really small and the majority of the screen was fixated on her chest. They will push the limits as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:45 PM
3

they not popping ass LMFAO BIGGEST CAP I've seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:42 PM
0

It's daydreaming vs watching a movie. The former is fantasizing, the latter is more direct entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:32 AM
1

Tragic accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:18 AM
3

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:17 AM
2

If I like her, everything she says will come off as charming which is a mix of smart/funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:27 AM
1

BlessedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:01 PM
2

True incels want genuine love. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:48 PM
1

I'd love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:32 PM
1

I'm getting ready to move to saudi I'm REALLY curious about this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:32 PM
2

slug verb (2) slugged; slugging Definition of slug (Entry 4 of 4) transitive verb 1: to strike heavily with or as if with the fist or a bat 💪🏏🏏💪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:42 PM
1

I once was stunned irl because a tall queen brushed past me. It's never happened with shorter girls idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:36 PM
3

I really enjoy engaging this community however I want to diversify my time-wasting. What similar subs are there to this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:28 PM
4

I'm suing you for meowbel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:27 AM
15

Bro wants to larp attack on titan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:40 PM
12

I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:38 PM
21

Broke/poor men not wanting women who make more than them. This is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:36 PM
1

u/Ineedmymommies Alt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:05 PM
2

Gotta know your audience. Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:01 PM
1

SENTINELS FOR LCQ!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:51 PM
6

Wym? Top G's never come.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:45 PM
1

A month? I thought it was a one time payment thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:35 PM
2

Apparently some want to share their opinion without interacting with everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:35 PM
2

Seems like the tate wave has died down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:34 PM
2

Seems fair enough. Would you feel comfortable being with someone into that offensive humour but doesn't make a big deal out of you not enjoying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:32 PM
1

It's not even a daily thread. What would you call it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:29 PM
2

Oh no I agree with you women definitely behave differently for guys they're attracted to, but then again so do I. The only difference is that I don't play games if I see no future, I cut it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:27 PM
2

Idk about their specific justification but here's my hypothesis. Man Cheating is more socially repulsive than naturally. When it comes to reproduction, men are built in a way that 1 man can impregnate multiple women but not the other way around. A lot of societies allowed polygyny throughout human history. There is some basis to it not being inherently repulsive. I will emphasize however, Breaking your promise is bad and in some cases can be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:24 PM
1

I dont even wanna know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 PM
2

Lmfao I forgot trucknutz was a thing ewewew
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:06 PM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:05 PM
2

Idk, a girl I was into did both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:04 PM
3

ة
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:02 PM
1

<\3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:52 PM
2

If you're completely out of your depth, then sure be very cautious. My advice applies to seeing things you're familiar with from a different perspective such that you could agree with some of what they're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:49 PM
3

"Imma bully some random kid on Tinder" I hope her toilet paper rips when she wipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:39 PM
3

Name a red flag that would give you the ick. Disliking cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:33 PM
1

If she's emotionally well adjusted, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:33 PM
1

I prefer clear skin, I might be open to something simple/elegant/discreet if it's clean enough. From what I've seen tattoos tend to feel out or place more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:20 PM
1

Even if someone is biased, take the good and leave the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:16 PM
3

r/birdsarentreal Explains why some people call women birds/chicks. It's all coming together now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:12 PM
2

Whale Watching party No way you just said that LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:00 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:02 PM
8

TeacherPilled. Absolutely Based [W]oman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:37 PM
6

I tried that, it's only a viagra for my superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:35 PM
2

Even parenthood is conditional. Humans are incapable of unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:27 PM
2

Oh definitely, I just had this very thing happen to me with a twitch streamer. I didn't care about his content at all, but once he joined a certain team, I quickly started to enjoy his stuff. I think it's also because one of my favourite streamers approved of him which swayed my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:26 PM
2

Kanye ain't the type to touch himself to Kanye. Definitely fucks to Kanye reflection. Maybe in front of Kanye cardboard cutout.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:22 PM
1

Not sure. I've definitely been turned on tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:20 PM
2

I ageee wirh your sentiment, people should know their worth but I feel that there's layers to this example. People on the subway have places to go, they're not even trying to be in the present in the subway, and based on their previous experiences, rarely is it the case that they come across something extraordinary. So it would be fair to assume that they won't run into something extraordinary as per usual. As opposed to people that are deliberately going somewhere where they expect to be impres…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:18 PM
1

Female morph? Not enough narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:00 PM
2

It's kind of like the letter "t". The same letter has another variation ت .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:56 PM
3

There's an arabic letter that looks like a surprised face ة
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:34 PM
2

Untapped? Tf? He had a somewhat new take on an old market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:29 PM
1

The man can do whatever Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:27 PM
2

Fr they should be churning out babies round the clock. If you've got time to lean, you've got time for the peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:04 PM
20

What's the viagra for personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:02 PM
6

As a virgin I don't know why sex is so complicated given good communication. You try something new { If (she likes) do more; else Return } Is it that they communicate past one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:43 PM
1

What's FTO?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:18 PM
1

In that case yes, women as well. I don't think anyone can be assured of outcomes. Hope for the best prepare for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:06 PM
3

Freud is the guy that let his intrusive thoughts win everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:03 PM
-1

It depends on how you're defining insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:00 PM
1

:0
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:32 AM
2

Lmfao I wanna start using pee pee ironically in an unironic manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:30 AM
0

Amalt. There now 2 dudes have said it. Even cucks have possessive love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:29 AM
1

Are you talking genetics or grooming?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:25 AM
2

One sentence heartbreaks. </3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:24 AM
1

Why is it okay for secure men to draw the line at cheating but not the club?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:51 AM
2

Are there really people saying otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:47 AM
3

I aspire to be this Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:45 AM
1

What are red flags in someone's reddit history? Are there green flags? If so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:28 AM
3

Would you get into a relationship with someone else from this sub? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:27 AM
1

More of a dislike than a deal-breaker. But if we can eat quite a bit of food in common then it's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:21 AM
2

I sympathize with wanting revenge after getting hurt. But I realized that no amount of harm to any other girl will feel adequate. So not only is it immoral, it's also a waste of time. We go jim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:19 AM
2

With the rise of deepfakes, we might have to learn how to work around this, because everyone will be a pornstar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:14 AM
5

Yep both the high n count woman and man are in it for the stability. And in both cases the low n counts are getting shafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:11 AM
1

You can also massage your scalp and face with your fingers!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:07 AM
1

TRP is if diabla and vindicta had a male child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:06 AM
1

It's acc filthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:02 AM
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It is an eye for an eye. So why tf are you taking your revenge from someone innocent? It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:04 AM
2

Let's test that theory I don't want her having even 1 male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:05 PM
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If you do end up with a girl you like, you being surrounded by women may be an issue for her. Very Honesty Pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:34 PM
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GG
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:23 PM
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Based sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:20 PM
2

That's beautiful! May God grant you what and who you need!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:12 PM
2

Yep you're right. Children learn by example much more effectively. Why is a SAH husband ideal for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:51 PM
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That's a typo It's actually 1-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:46 PM
2

but...the default takes kind of say a lot. I am curious what do you think it says? I think it indicates that those children took their mothers for granted. I would say that's a mix of society valuing money making as valid careers and children being short-sighted. Unless the mothers literally did nothing which is hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:38 PM
2

Like a nice shiny quiet submissive object you show around. We don't do the cucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:33 PM
1

Don't women do that already? Status is a measurement for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:58 PM
1

Always have been
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:26 PM
3

Nah that ain't the price for halal, that's the price for showing off. I would take a text message from the girl saying "I do" and that's my wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:33 PM
8

MarriagePilled. W
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:26 PM
6

How did you find out your ideal circumference?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:25 PM
4

I see kink as an expression of deeper trust and more vulnerability. For some people, vanilla sex is as vulnerable as they get, others, well maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:26 AM
1

Yes absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:58 PM
1

Ok now you've crossed the line! read my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:54 PM
2

Not really. But when I was 20, some people definitely treated me as a child, others wanted to fuck me so idk maybe they were pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:50 PM
2

Noooo it's totally the impoverished refugees that are the problem definitely not the people with all the wealth and power because 'Murica is the land of the free ruled by justice herself!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:47 PM
2

Arguing about pills with internet strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:36 PM
1

I like to watch people named Hamza, so I accidentally stumbled on this Hamza's channel. From my brief overview, he seems to be transparent and candid enough about the things he says. Something about him feels off/awkward. Maybe I'm just not used to his pace. I played the video at 2x speed, better, funny at times lol. I agree with weaponizing male aggression to improve yourself, I agree with his views on wasting time/ social media/ video games/ porn. He's a bit harsh on the whole men being femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:26 PM
1

What is anomized?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:26 PM
1

I've strayed so far I started arguing about pills DAILY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:28 PM
2

The ppd girlies have been lovely but alas, they were all non-muslim 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:00 PM
1

Any tips on finding the mature girls? Yes very.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:41 PM
1

Because I am SaplingSexual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:04 PM
1

Fret not king! For we are strong in numbers against this fiend!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:58 PM
1

Isn't that the whole point of the blackpill tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:56 PM
1

I'm too immature for the mature women, and too mature for the immature ones... Who tf do I date? Where can I find immature girls that are mature at communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:55 PM
1

I am and my boobies are wife privilege and random dudes in gym lockers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:52 PM
1

Based af. Maturity for sex should be binary. Either you can consent to sex or you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:50 PM
1

Smh everyone wants my nudes sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:48 PM
1

I wish they'd learn some self control instead of victim blaming us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:22 PM
2

It's so gross!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:20 PM
3

Fr I just wanna walk around without being eye-fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:19 PM
1

Yes officer, this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:47 PM
2

Just water your feet like plants every night
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:45 PM
1

Cheers m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:43 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:42 PM
1

Because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:37 PM
2

I just worked out my chest, I feel like I might need a sports bra soon. Are there any manly totally cis sports bras?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:33 PM
1

Lmfao no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:32 PM
1

I'm glad you're doing better now. However, with all due respect I call cap, nobody figures out sexuality, there's always room for malleability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:30 PM
2

I was talking about u/2baloons lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:27 PM
2

Is she your friend irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:22 PM
1

I love reading stories thank you for sharing! I'm so sorry I can only imagine the confusion you were going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:20 PM
1

What would you tell her if she wasn't your friend irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:10 PM
1

The conservatism is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:27 PM
2

Ever again? Story time pls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:25 PM
1

Now im confused Are you reminding them of things that actually happened or not? Ur gaslighting to their benefit as perceived by you :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:19 PM
1

I got confused when i saw your notifications saying thank you and you're welcome lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:15 PM
1

Is this gas-lighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:05 PM
1

No smoke! Smoke bad Only burnt thing ppl should inhale is bbq
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:56 PM
1

Lightwork you pass the exam blindfolded ezpz
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:53 PM
2

This isn't even a humble brag lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:44 PM
2

How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:43 PM
3

You've done what before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:29 PM
1

Well yeah checking in is pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:23 PM
3

Have you been noticing more tall people lately? I swear it feels like 6 feet is average for women!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:17 PM
1

Hello I'm ExpensiveShoulder and I am pro-ponytails. If anyone says otherwise it's fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:07 PM
1

How did u know she was Arab? I swear i will see the whitest couple walk in front of me then hear them speaking Arabic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:03 PM
2

Because your husband doesn't want you with another woman silly. But fr, I'm going to give it a proper listen when I can because I know I need to work on my shallowness thank you for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:00 PM
2

A cashier handed me change once and I fell for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:56 PM
1

W wife. W husband. L world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:52 PM
1

Dam you right eye contact is paramount. But that girl from The Ring tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:47 PM
1

You don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:36 PM
2

LMFAO at the wrapping it up and presenting in front of family. Idk bout you but I'd love to unwrap my wife. (In private) There's nothing wrong with enjoying the gift yourself, you don't have to cross your limits nor keep score. Also I wouldn't say acts of service are entirely cost-less although it might feel that way because of how much you love your partner. I don't think it's the gifting analogy that's an issue, but more so a sense of one way entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:31 PM
1

I personally prefer a well groomed taint.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:54 PM
2

I understand and relate to the enthusiastic thing, and I don't think I'd want it if she didn't want it enthusiastically, ( it doesn't have to be equal cuz idk how I'd measure that, but knowing she's enjoying it), at the same time I also have no qualms in prioritizing her wants and needs over mine from time to time. I wouldn't explicitly state that it is a gift, nor would I with other gifts, maybe more of an "I've got something special for you". I've got an example, let's say your husband surpris…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:46 PM
1

I keep forgetting that's an option
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:24 PM
3

Oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:19 PM
2

Yep I just walk around with it like it's in fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:19 PM
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