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People have probably said it, but in the Case nobody have. You are putting a lot of pressure on her to carry the conversation. You arent giving her anything to answer, she doesnt understand why you are talking to her. With a Hi and how are you on daytime from an unknown, she probably expect you to try sell her some shit or want something from her. She is not gonna talk to you if it comes of as a possibly awkward situation. She'll give you a chance to give her a question so she can help you or di…
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:52 PM
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He was painting you a pic of how it might look like for a girl if you asked her out. Would it be different for you if a girl was a bit awkward and not attractive. Would you find it bad if she still came over ad asked you for coffee? Thats how if might be for a girl if you asked her out. But it might also yield you a date. She might even find you attractive and want to jump your bones. You never know.
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:25 PM
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Knowing that you are enough is the only thing you need to focus on. If you try to impress them they will feel you are needy and not one of the guys that are getting girls.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:32 PM
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Work on you internals. What you believe is whats gonna make the girl uncomfortable. You dont have to know some cool stuff or be able to do anything to be desirable. All you have to do is just to work on seeing that you are desirable. If you believe it, she will believe it.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:24 AM
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Just try to sit next to her and talk. Try some hidden flirting like stroking her hand so nobody can see it and such. Since you are quite the small group, its gonna be quite obvious if you try to isolate her away. If you guys end up moving to another location with more people, try to get her alone to escalate further. My best advice is just dont make it obvious that you are flirting or such. If she has plausibel deniability or an excuse as to why she left that doesnt scream that you guys hooked u…
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:11 PM
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Yes, I figured as much. I thought you were such a guy. Ggs, keep being dens bro.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:08 AM
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Flesh and Blood doesnt count in the same. I'd leave my wife in a heart beat if she ever hit me. If my kid hit me I'd tell him how wrong it is. Your argument doesnt hit the point of this.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:06 AM
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And I believe you are not seeing the similarities due to society and also the part of you being a dude, so you dont think its as bad when a guy gets hit vs when a girl gets hit.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:04 AM
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Violence shouldnt ever have to be expressed as a boundry.. How could violence be ok? Please tell me, I'm genuinly interested to know. Also which part of the world are you from?
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:02 AM
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Its also for his self worth. People suck at creating boundries for what they will tolerate, but they should be stricter with cutting people out who violate their boundries. Especially if they have made it known that this is a boundry for them. Violence shouldnt ever have to be expressed that it isnt acceptable. Violence is never acceptable. The cultures that believe physical violence is acceptable in family relations and such are just freaking stupid. No civilized society would ever find violenc…
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:52 AM
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People who hurt other through physical violence or psycological manipulation and harrassment doesnt deserve a chance. Maybe with someone else if they mange to change their ways. This guy has been hit by this girl. If it was the other way around. Would you still think the girl should stay with the guy that is beating up the love of his life?
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:40 AM
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The person is just putting more investment into the relationship by asking for a change. The abuser is going to agree, most likely, but then maybe change at first to just revet back into old habits later. For him to invest more will just make the break up even harder to do, since the energy and investment makes the brain find a reason as to why the person is doing this. And thus fool the person into believing they actually like this person.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:57 AM
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You should leave. You might not consider it a big deal atm, but this is a really bad relationship. Men dont consider it as a big deal being slapped or punched, and other guys might laugh at you for being hit. This is still illegal and you probably wont get much societal approval of your situation, but you need to leave this person.
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:02 PM
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You are massivly overthinking. Always presume they want you and if things turn out different ly then just move on to the next. You mot likely could hav gotten ome fun with her but you were thi king she was testing you. People arent usually that manipulative.
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:52 AM
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Same reason why people will rather go to a restaurant with a lot of people.
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:19 AM
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It shows you value someone EXtrinsically. Initially everything boils down to looks, everybody bases who they want Initially by how they look. But if that is your only criteria she isnt going to feel that she is special to you. She isnt the only girl that looks good. And you are Only wanting her body for sex, not her as a person. Of course you would, most guys would. But how you would like to be courted isnt the same as how girls would. I'd love if girls would right off the bat go around and just…
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:56 PM
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But if looks is your only criteria for judging if a girl is worth it, she is not gonna feel so special. "Oh, he only likes me for my looks and body". I agree that looks is important, but if its the only criteria then you'll not make her feel special and you might come off a bit needy.
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:19 AM
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Are you meeting girls on a regular basis and getting dates and fucking some strange every now and then? If not I would say your goals are not gonna give you much joy nor pleasure. If you rather just keep on meeting girls and dating plenty of different girls, your attitude will change and you will meet 9-10 that are girls you like and you want to Sleep with. In stead of trying to get a 9 or 10 just because she is a 9 or 10. Because so much bad mentality will come from your frame on her being a ho…
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:22 PM
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You are boring to some persons, to others you are perfect.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:39 AM
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You can get out. Be flirtatious, ask her to grab a beer at some point, hinting at something more. Keep eye contact a bit longer with a sly smile. All the things you would to indicate you are interested in something more. She will pick up on it and decide if she wants this or not. Yo run the risk of losing her from your life, but it depend on what you want. You'll most likely never get her by not rising it. Being friendly and not showing her you are interested in anything more puts you in the fri…
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:58 AM
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Yes, for you.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:16 PM
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That shit isnt true. I dont look good and still have gotten tons of results from cold approach. This is all in your head. And you know the cool part, since you believe it its true, For you.
/r/seduction19/12/21 08:49 AM
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Its all in your head. I live in the eastern Europe as well. They just act that way, you just cant let it affect you and lead by example. You can still do all you want to flirt, touch and make advances.
/r/seduction19/12/21 08:47 AM
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The material things and looks dont count for much. Its good to be good looking, but that doesnt meen you'll get girl. They might just be a bit more receptive to your Advanced at the start. Its all about how you act, what you believe about yourself and what you do to the girl.
/r/seduction19/12/21 08:43 AM
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I agree. Why waste time trying to game the girl, when you can go find another girl which is so much more fun to talk to?
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:48 PM
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Best is to get the number once you are on a high note or if you find a good reason that you like the girl. The girl know why you want to meet up again, instead it seeing like you only want to get in her pants.
/r/seduction12/10/21 08:53 PM
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Sounds like a lot of stress just to get some. I think I'd leave. At least for me I feel better knowing I dont sleep with whoever. I sleep with the ones I like.
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:50 AM
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What you say is really not important. You can open with just about anything, just have the frame that its just a means to getting to know that person. Ask what they are studying for. Say they look like they got this studying thing under control and if they could recommend some studying tips or what not.
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:39 PM
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Travel. Travel and meet New people. Go out of your comfort zone and meet much more people. The sooner you dont fear rejection and see it as a blessing for not wasting your time on that girl. And learn that the guy you are when you re comfortable are perfect for the girls you fit with. Just meet much more people and always try and see if she is comfortable on taking things further.
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:36 PM
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But good on you for stepping up, dont worry about one of these who dont add you back. If it keeps happening the next 100 girls you get the contact off, then take a look at what you are doing.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:46 PM
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That can easily sound like something you would say to just get in her pants. Not actually giving her a reason to why you would like her besides her looks. You probably didnt do anything wrong. Next time try asking her about things that you like in girls. Or just talk about whatever is on your mind. Dont worry about she not adding you back. Could be many reason as to why. Could be she has a very hectic life and just forgot.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:44 PM
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He actually gave you quite solid advice. If you dont act on it, you have just proven to yourself you are not willing to do the work.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:10 PM
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Hit her up with a conversation. Using the IG sounds like a bad excuse for not wanting to experience something unpleasant. Dont complicate it, its not complicated. You try to talk to her, if she doesnt respond well then fuck it. Its no problem if you dont get this girl, there are so many other girls who will be into you that is equally hot.
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:01 PM
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You are just conclusion shopping. No matter what anybody tell you here will change your mind, only reinforce what you already believe to be true. And you want to know the magic with this: you are absolutely correct. Whatever you believe will be true for you, your mind and more specific all, your reticular activating system, make this true for you.
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:39 PM
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I used to do it quite a lot earlier, I still get to know people in the day time, but now with a bit different intention. I know a few people that base their dating life on the girls they meet during day time and if you are doing it for a while you can meet quite a few girls this way.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:49 PM
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The psychology say this is a way of reprogramming your brain into a different set function. If you act a certain way your brain will find a logic to why you act that way and reprogram your subconcious as to why this New you is the actual you. It is a high chance for it being uncomfortable and you will probably chase away a lot of people, but its people who isnt worth your time.
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:44 AM
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I'm not sure if you posted this to just get it off your chest or to get some advice. But I'll share some advice if wanted. I' ve heard there are several ways the theories of psychology say to work with this. One is on the logical level, working through why you think the way you think and behave the way you behave. This is hard to work on alone since your thought are kinda hardwired, albeit rewarding if done with a professional. Another way is to work on how you act and your behaviour. Act the wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 11:17 PM
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I'd say it doesnt have to have any impact at all. It all depends on how you choose to think(at the moment you dont seem to think to highly of yourself) and how you choose to behave.
/r/seduction24/09/21 03:38 PM
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