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Sexuality is a broad spectrum. Strict heterosexuality is just one point on that spectrum. Not sure why we need to analyze it any further than that. As long as all of the points on the spectrum involve consenting adults it shouldn’t really matter to anyone else 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:18 PM
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It would be silly if it wasn’t the excuse that far right wing / white conservative Christian nut bags are using to try to force women back into lives of baby making servitude from their teens. They openly lament that decline in teen pregnancy, advocate for child marriage, revoking women’s rights, preventing women’s educational and employment opportunities, standardizing “biblical marriage” with no divorce etc. So yes, on the surface it’s silly, but the underlying motivation is scary as hell for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:09 PM
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Bet you a donut it’s some version of “society needs attractive women (and girls) to sexually sacrifice themselves on the altar of dry-dicked men’s misery and propensity for violence and laziness”…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:00 PM
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Initiating failure and initiating divorce are 2 very different things. In addition studies overwhelmingly find that women fare financially far worse after divorce than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:52 PM
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Oh goodie, another post mansplaining women’s sexuality 🤦‍♀️. Source: Trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:46 PM
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The average annual income for a 42 year old man in the US is $73,944. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:43 PM
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So essentially you’re saying that women who advocate for universal healthcare and equal rights have an obligation to personally offer universal access to their bodies in order to be morally and ideologically consistent ?🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:34 AM
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Ah, the good old days, when women were women and men got to own them…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:22 AM
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“Wanting to have sexual access to” =/= love…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:21 PM
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Who feels more negative emotions and feelings has zero to do with anything. Women internalize and process negative emotions and feelings, men externalize and express negative emotions and feelings in the form of anger and violence (yes, sweeping generalization, but generally accurate). Think road rage, punching walls, reacting badly to rejection…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:18 PM
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I wouldn’t want anyone to choose to be with me if their life is better without me. As for what determines that? That’s up to them. As far as I can see, that’s the opposite of “extracting value”. Would you seriously choose to be in a relationship with someone if overall your life was better and you were happier not being in a relationship with that person? If so, why? I’m honestly curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:10 PM
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You have been very clear that simply being in a relationship is absolutely a life or death need for you personally, in and of itself, so someone fulfilling that need IS improving your life even in the absence of bringing anything else to the table. That’s not the case for people for whom “a relationship” in and of itself isn’t a need or even a high level want. For those people that relationship could easily be less desirable than no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:27 PM
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You have been very clear that simply being in a relationship is absolutely a life or death need for you personally, in and of itself, so someone fulfilling that need IS improving your life even in the absence of bringing anything else to the table. That’s not the case for people for whom “a relationship” in and of itself isn’t a need or even a high level want. For those people that relationship could easily be less desirable than no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:27 PM
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People can have intrinsic human value without having individual sexual romantic value to another specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:20 PM
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Why is deciding not to be in a relationship that makes your life worse than it would be staying single “purely transactional”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:19 PM
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Omg no. I mean a real lumberjack who’s not a trumpkin. I heat my house with wood and split and stack 6 cords myself every year. I definitely don’t want some soft handed neck beard with a JCrew flannel and loafers 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:03 AM
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I used to be, but at my vintage the longer hair gents are much more likely to have a Benjamin Franklin thing going on rather than mature Fabio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:58 AM
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Disagree on the 3.5 guy. He’s definitely not a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:52 AM
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I vote for liberal lumberjack! 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:46 AM
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I’m so scared to ask what “hot drip” means 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:45 AM
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And again, he should have tested the waters when he first started getting tingles, and if there’s any difference weren’t clear signs that she was also interested, he should have shut his crush down asap. If she was “taken” (interesting word choice implying that you would respect her boundaries as another man’s property, but not as herself…), he should have shut it down at the first tingle and never allowed himself to get that deep into his fantasy feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:41 PM
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That makes it even worse! Wtf? The friendship should be over because that selfish self indulgent man was never a friend in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:34 PM
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Do you mean like the one sided covert contract of acting like an actual trusted friend while being “in love” with someone who has zero idea and conditioning that friendship and trust on them reciprocating your emotional bombshell?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:31 PM
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Why would anyone jump from “we’re friends” to “confessing that you’re in love” without testing the waters with a little bit of flirty vibe behavior and seeing if there’s any reciprocal interest? Maybe suggest some one on one activities and see if there’s any difference in how you relate to each other? If there’s no reciprocal interest, keep your “confession” to yourself. Seriously, that’s insane, immature, and frankly really inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:27 PM
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Unfortunately “normal” for men is the behavior in that survey. “Boys will be boys” after all😡. They are often far more concerned about plausible deniability than enthusiastic consent and will perform Olympic level mental gymnastics to avoid admitting to themselves that they’re doing anything wrong as long as they aren’t dragging modestly dressed strangers into the bushes and violently raping them at gunpoint. Women know this. Most of those coercive behaviors are so common that we expect them - w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:07 PM
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I think it’s telling that men only clutch their pearls about the “birth rate crisis” when they think solving it will involve them having lots of sex with their very own submissive dependent woman and achieving their own “genetic legacy”. Meanwhile single mothers are excoriated, financial abortion is championed and nobody is suggesting that men should sacrifice their autonomy or careers in order to do the hands on work to raise all of these children that they think we should have for the good of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:04 AM
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Most men will readily accept that other men are the problem. They can’t accept that they might be a problem (even if they absolutely are) or that they know any men who are a problem (even though statistically they absolutely do). How many men will end a friendship with another man if they know that their friend mistreats women? Some, but certainly not all. How many men freely (and unknowingly) associate with men who are predators? Hint: all of them. How many men instinctively resist knowing? Mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:23 PM
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It’s generally being pointed out as a “problem” by the people to whom those people are not attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:19 PM
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Can’t imagine why she didn’t choose you…🙄. Quite the mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:17 PM
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What else would it depend on…?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:16 PM
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They understand, they just don’t care. For a group of people who insist that they want to be “genuinely desired”, they sure are comfortable relying on technicalities and insincere confusion to justify pushing to have sex that they know the woman doesn’t actually want. Isn’t there an entire pillar of RP about “overcoming LMR”? Last Minute Resistance (LMR): The belief within these forums that a partner's hesitation or wish to stop is not a genuine "no," but a final test of confidence or a routine …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:34 PM
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No, men who “can’t pull” and base their entire personality around being the bitter guy that “can’t pull” while blaming and insulting women for not being willing to be “pulled” by them are moral failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:42 PM
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FFS, do you go up to strangers and ask to be their friend? Have you ever actually interacted with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:31 AM
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Someone has been overdosing on manosphere podcasts…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:16 AM
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What, in life, has led you to believe that women don’t care about being attracted to their romantic partners? Seriously, were you raised by wolves? That’s just basic information that people learn starting in grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:47 AM
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Well duh, again, do we really need to add the qualifier “of the men that we are attracted to” before every single thing? Women are VERY unlikely to approach a stranger just because he’s attractive. If he’s attractive AND “seems interesting” ( which implies that she knows something else about him above and beyond his appearance), some women will approach. And no, of course nobody, other than a desperate horny “numbers game” RP turdblossom is going to approach someone romantically that they don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:39 AM
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Do you seriously not understand the difference between networking, going to events around hobbies and socializing etc and interacting in an open, friendly and nonsexual way with everyone (men and women, regardless of sexual interest) in order to make friends and sexually approaching women you are attracted to, don’t know anything about, and asking them to date you?🤔. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:33 AM
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I know, I just figured that nuance would be lost on OP🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:46 AM
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Aren’t you working as a line cook? Sounds like you’re just mad that white collar, professional, high earning women aren’t “seeing your big ideas” and swooping you up🤣. Nobody except your mom is emotionally invested in your “potential”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:44 AM
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Assuming that’s true, it’s 1 day in 28 and the other 27 days they are more attached to their partner. There’s zero evidence that this is something that women act on or choose. There’s zero evidence that these women are treating their partner as “less than” for that one day. There’s zero evidence that they “like” anyone other than their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:32 AM
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So for 27 days out of 28, they are more attracted to “less masculine” men and for 1 day out of 28 they are more attached to “more masculine men”? Sounds like the less masculine men are winning big time 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:56 PM
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Did you miss the part about nobody approaching strangers? Cold approach is ridiculous no matter who it is that you think should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:10 PM
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There is literally no “sign of interest” a stranger could exhibit to make me approach him. I don’t care at all if a stranger finds me attractive. They don’t know anything about me, I don’t know anything about them. The only thing they could be interested in is what I look like which means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:48 PM
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Bad, unpleasant, and harmful are literally parts of the definition of “negative”…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:27 PM
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What makes you think that the men who struggle to get women’s interest when they’re approaching would ever be approached by women, much less the women that they wanted to approach in the first place? The number of women who would have any interest in cold approaching is near zero. Why would we want anything to do with a stranger, regardless of his appearance? Suspending disbelief re/ all of that, let’s say a woman does approach a man just because he’s good looking. Then she quickly figures out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:20 PM
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So…women need to deliver sex so that men won’t harass them for it? How about men just don’t do that in the first place?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:07 PM
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I don’t want to date anyone who lives more than a 20 minute drive away from me. That’s an “immediately disqualifying factor” Does that mean that everyone outside of my area is somehow bad? Of course not. That’s just goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:51 AM
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Just get an inflatable gf. You can always under inflate her🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:53 AM
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And in the next excerpt from “Diary of a Serial Killer”…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:47 AM
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Try actually being kind and see 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:44 AM
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So you’re sensitive to your own feelings but have zero consideration for the feelings of others?? That’s not what “sensitive” usually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:40 AM
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Pretty sure they mean “having zero expectations or personal boundaries and being deeply and behaviorally appreciative of any absence of obvious abuse”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:47 PM
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Men don’t consider anger or frustration to be emotions 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:59 PM
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Did your text give her anything to respond to? Did you address what she said and ask a (non sexual) follow up question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:56 PM
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The definition of “a friend” doesn’t change based on whether their genitalia is internal or external…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:01 PM
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More than a few are probably actually men🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:46 PM
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Ride wherever you want on the bus, just don’t expect to be in our lives or beds🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:24 AM
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Contribute what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:19 PM
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Funny, nobody ever asks men to “do it all” or to step back from their careers to raise children. Men never have to choose between careers and family and men with families are rewarded professionally while women are penalized. Men are never questioned about whether they can be effective in a role because they have children. How many men have to avoid jobs that involve travel because they have children? How many would even think to question that? How many men are expected to choose a less demandin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:06 PM
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Anything that excludes the man whining about it🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:07 AM
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Or be happy single 🤷‍♀️. If being with someone isn’t better than not being with them, why would anyone want to choose that person?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:05 AM
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Women don’t dislike men more than in the past, we just don’t have to pretend any more in order to survive in society the way our ancestors did. Something can be true whether it’s said out loud or not. I get it, losing institutional coercion has meant that the inherent privilege and power over women that men enjoyed historically has eroded and that doesn’t feel great for men. Consider the upside though, you all rage about women settling for men and not being viscerally attracted to them. The odds…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:03 AM
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Here’s the thing. You absolutely don’t need to match whatever standards you have 1:1. You have to meet whatever the standards are of the person you want to be with who meets your standards. Or be ok being single. Different things are important to different people. Some are gender related, some aren’t. As an example, by your logic, if I want a tall man, I need to be a tall woman. But most men don’t value a woman’s height so that doesn’t make sense. If a man wants a curvy woman with long hair, doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:01 PM
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You do realize that sane, reasonable, responsible women wouldn’t have anything to do with Charlie Sheen, right? Crazy attracts crazy. Money absent character attracts gold diggers. Fame attracts groupies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:35 PM
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The only one of those that is a question I would entertain would be debt and only if we were contemplating marriage. Other than that? Even having the idea that asking is acceptable is a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:30 PM
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Repotting a bunch of indoor plants and setting up a jellyfish tank - so excited 😃 (raining here too). Enjoy your peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:03 AM
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That’s not what decentering men means. Decentering men means shifting your focus away from male validation, opinions, and relationships as the central measure of success or self-worth. It is a psychological and social shift where individuals—primarily women—prioritize their own needs, goals, and happiness, treating romantic partnerships as an enhancement rather than the core purpose of life. The practice aims to dismantle the patriarchal conditioning that teaches girls and women that being "chos…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:01 AM
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If provide = control maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:14 AM
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If women got to have male “ wives” to take care of everything the way women are expected to and be “dads” to children raised by men the way women are expected to, I’m 100% sure far more women would be enthusiastic…unfortunately for all of the outrage about birth rates and male loneliness, that seems to be a bridge too far when men talk about “solutions”. The discussions are always about how to force women into those roles, never about how to force men into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:14 AM
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Being single IS an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:07 AM
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Please explain deadbeat dads…only 45% of child support is actually paid. Seems like an awful lot of mothers are making money to benefit their families… And before you claim that they are all supported by men’s tax dollars: Specific government assistance breakdown for single mothers: SNAP (Food Stamps): Approximately 38% receive SNAP benefits. Cash Welfare (TANF): Less than 5% currently participate The majority of mothers, both single and married work full time to take care of their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:03 AM
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Idk how to tell you this but…old people date😱. They also fuck!!! I know, 🤢 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:07 PM
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Guess you should stop doing it then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:12 PM
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Are you saying they did deserve it?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:15 PM
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That’s denial not true ignorance…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:14 PM
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Idk, all of the men who blame women for men’s behavior seem pretty confident…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:12 PM
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That’s your opinion. Obviously many women disagree 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:58 PM
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If women need to coddle and nurture men like a mother would a child in order to love men “for who they are”, then “who they are” is overgrown children. So do men want to be desired as men and partners or given maternal coddling as overgrown children? Pick one. If it’s mothering, nature has taken care of that for you. You have mothers already. Live in their basements forever and they will make you nuggies and remind you to floss and pick up your crusty laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:09 PM
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That Morgan Stanley study doesn’t say anything at all about loneliness nor does it say that those women are failing to secure long term relationships with the men they want. It does say that women are choosing to focus on education and career, are choosing to remain single or delay marriage, are choosing to have fewer children or no children at all. It does say that women’s economic independence is partly a result of increasing influence in business and global politics. It does say that gender d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:00 PM
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It doesn’t work for whom? Brutish selfish rapey men? Gonna go out on a limb and say that society’s success shouldn’t be measured by the satisfaction of the lowest element.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:33 PM
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So…everything started going to hell when women were falsely recognized as actual people and gang rape started being frowned on? That’s what you’re going with here?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:08 AM
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Here’s the bar: Women want to be in relationships with men when their lives are going to be better with those men than without them. When the positives outweigh the negatives. That’s pretty much it. Why would anyone choose to be with someone if that’s not the case?🤔. That’s what’s so confusing about this kind of rant. Having someone / anyone is not, by default, better for most women than not having anyone. Why is that not the case for men? Dating and relationships are optional. There’s no requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:06 AM
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You are wrong. I’m going to bet that there are very few women who have never intentionally made sex noises in order to expedite a man’s orgasm to get to the end of sex quicker. It’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:13 AM
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Never happened. Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:06 AM
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I still remember how sick I got from the smell of hamburger cooking when I was pregnant. It was immediate and dramatic. Even driving by a restaurant could make me instapuke. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:16 PM
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🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:09 PM
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A lot of liberal women may prefer someone who earns at about the same level that they do, but that’s not “providing”. That’s looking for their equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:50 PM
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Literally the only characteristic you listed that’s actually “conservative” is the whole “providing” thing which is the least likely thing a liberal woman is looking for. Testosterone, work ethic, body type etc. are not political 🙄 This seems like another case of ignoring the obvious first filter of “from the group of men I find physically potentially fuckable”. C’mon, do we really need to specify that every - single - time??? So yes, if you are unattractive, “soft”, introverted, and autistic, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:13 PM
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Certainly face to “face” contact with a stinky winky could cause trauma, and I suppose the stink could be a woman’s fault, but in that case she should really see a dr asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:37 PM
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Sounds like someone has a stinky winky 🤷‍♀️🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:08 PM
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“Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely” Power often acts as a mirror that amplifies a leader's true character while attracting individuals already prone to Machiavellian or narcissistic traits. Power disinhibits individuals, removing social constraints and allowing their inherent, underlying tendencies—whether benevolent or destructive—to surface. Corrupt or power-hungry individuals are disproportionately drawn to positions of authority, meaning the corrupt don't always …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:37 PM
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Before the introduction of no-fault divorce (which first became law in the 1970s), a spouse had to prove that the other party was guilty of specific marital misconduct to end the marriage. These fault-based grounds traditionally included: Adultery: Engaging in sexual relations with someone other than your spouse. Abandonment (or Desertion): One spouse leaving the household without consent for a specific, continuous period (typically one year or more). Cruelty: Inflicting severe physical or menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:07 AM
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Oh child…this seems like a high school level bizarre pseudo moralistic humble brag. That said, it sounds like you have been either lucky or oblivious thus far, not special and better. Yes, more attractive women get more attention so their odds of running into asshat men earlier and more frequently is higher, but don’t worry, odds are you will encounter more than a few in your lifetime. Give it time…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:46 AM
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Let’s be VERY clear about something here. Let’s put aside the cases where there is a history of adultery or a non-monogamous or very new relationship etc. where paternity is in doubt, obviously that’s different. In the case of a long term monogamous relationship or a marriage where there is no reasonable cause to doubt paternity, asking for a paternity test is not just an accusation of infidelity. It is saying that you believe not only that she is the kind of person who would have unprotected se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:06 PM
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And good golly that falling birth rate thing is quite the mystery too…🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:03 PM
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If it’s that easy, why don’t men do it?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:01 PM
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Men are to blame for feeling like they are in deadbedroom relationships. What’s considered enough sex is completely arbitrary. Men generally have a higher threshold for what they consider “enough sex”, that’s why men are to blame for wanting more. Women’s tolerance is compared to men’s lower on average. You have sex when you are horny. It takes significantly less femme to get horny which is why they want sex a lot more frequently. That’s not women’s fault. You don’t choose at what point you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:55 PM
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That’s absolutely not what you said in your OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:43 PM
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Reread what you wrote. Do you see it? The woman is bothered by her partner giving attention to or pursuing other women. The man is bothered by other men giving attention to or pursing his partner. In both of these cases the men are the ones causing the “problems”. In the first, the man is being held responsible for his own actions, but in the second, the woman is being held responsible for the actions of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:45 PM
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No, he doesn’t. He may choose to, but when he chooses the behavior he also chooses the consequences including being called out as a creep. Pro-tip: you can’t annoy someone into desiring you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:37 PM
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Unless a woman is immediately and undeniably enthusiastically reciprocating your interest, walk away politely. It’s that easy. Politeness is not indicative of interest and looks very different from enthusiastic reciprocation. But what if she’s playing hard to get? - walk away politely. The odds that she’s doing that are infinitesimal compared to the odds that she’s not interested. Men are prone to assuming interest where it doesn’t exist. On the slight chance that she is playing games, walk away…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:36 PM
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So buying and selling other people’s bodies, often against their will, is more ethical? Also gay sex workers exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:56 PM
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Beautiful! Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:32 AM
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Soggy wallets…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:31 AM
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There’s a fairly large % of women who absolutely don’t ever have sex on the first date. Zero exceptions. Not even a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:31 AM
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Women give birth to…all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:29 AM
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So you’re mad that women aren’t proactively making themselves attractive for your dating / fucking pleasure? Don’t they understand that you want a bigger pool of pussy? How selfish of them not to consider your desires!😱 Please tell me that you understand how completely absurd and egocentric that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:27 AM
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So…women who want to have anal, or don’t like gagging giving bjs, or don’t like getting their cervix bruised during doggy style should select for men with smaller penises? Wow, what a pubic service you’re doing here!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:26 PM
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People need jobs, they don’t need relationships. Jobs provide a mutually agreed upon benefit (a paycheck). Unless someone is independently wealthy, having a job is better than not having a job. Having a relationship is not necessarily better than not having that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:03 PM
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Why are you complaining about women you don’t want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:58 PM
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So…since size isn’t changeable, what exactly is the point?🤔 Pretty sure folks either know or will figure out what works with their specific situation 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:39 PM
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Why? I would assume that couples would be able to figure out what works for them without your porn tutorial…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:13 PM
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You would think if they believed it, they wouldn’t be whining ad nauseam about paying for a cup of coffee on a first date 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:25 AM
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Holy non sequitur Batman🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:19 AM
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So you admit that some segment of both men and women will get with someone that they aren’t attracted to for other reasons 🤷‍♀️. Are you claiming that a man having sex with a woman he’s not attracted to just to get his dick wet is somehow morally superior to a woman having sex with a man she’s not attracted to to get her lifestyle funded?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:18 AM
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Sure you do. I believe you call them slump-busters, wolf traps etc. Fairly common I think 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:13 AM
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He can get a very specific type of 10/10 woman who is willing to feign attraction to get her fingers in his pockets. You don’t actually believe that they are sexually attracted to him do you???🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:08 AM
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To be VERY clear, the vast majority of women are not physically/sexually aroused by men’s money. A few are and that is a very specific kink. Yes, a financially secure man is far more attractive as a potential partner than a hobosexual man, all else being equal, but that’s on a wholistic basis, not a “desire” basis. There are also women who will gladly feign sexual attraction for an unattractive man because he’s wealthy - we call them gold diggers, just like there are men who will feign commitmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:05 AM
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These men actually believe that leveraging their buying power in a third world country is going to get them “genuine desire”? Seriously? Surely they know that isn’t true…. Can they get an impoverished woman to pretend? Of course, but that’s the exact opposite of “genuine desire”🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:41 PM
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Are you the same guy who was posting all of those “women are all actually lesbians” stuff before that topic got banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:37 PM
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Funny, women are criticized for this but I don’t see huge numbers of men wanting to get married and have children in their early twenties. Nor are most early to mid twenties people financially stable enough to afford kids in this economy. In the United States, the median age for a first marriage is 30.8 years old for men and 28.4 years old for women. This reflects a long-term trend of Americans marrying later in life, heavily influenced by a focus on education, financial stability, and changing …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:28 PM
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Do you really honestly think that these below average men are getting “genuine desire” from beautiful women just because they’re in a different country? Seriously? You can certainly make the case that they can get a gf / wife because of the economic disparity. That’s pretty obvious, but “genuine desire”? C’mon 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:40 PM
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Idk, are they taking credit for the accomplishments of men of the past?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:29 PM
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Try putting that on your post divorce resume and see how many interviews you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:49 PM
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And this, gentle reader, is an example of toxic masculinity…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:47 PM
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Careful…a non-zero of the men here get all sweaty and giddy fantasizing about doing that🤢.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:45 PM
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If there was an island with 98 men and 2 women, both of the women would be raped to death fairly quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:56 PM
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Not true. That’s been a thing for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:57 PM
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And for all of history it’s been eligible bachelor / man about town vs old maid / spinster / leftover woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:05 AM
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Which parts of love, honor and cherish is he sticking with? The vows are based on the premise that both people are contributing and working towards the success of the union.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:59 PM
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Maybe his investment in the relationship and level of attractiveness has decreased…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:08 PM
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There are many reasons that some women are comfortable “hooking up” and others aren’t. Potential slut shaming is only one of those reasons. And yes, some women care and some don’t. Some women wouldn’t hook up with anyone. Some women tried it and decided it wasn’t for them, for any number of reasons, and stopped. And there are almost certainly some women who have hooked up in the past and wouldn’t have hooked up with their boyfriend for any number of reasons (he’s introverted and took a while to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:40 PM
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League based on what? Age? Education and professional success? Intelligence? BMI? Goals and priorities? Social skills? Symmetrical facial features? Height relative to gender average? Socioeconomic background? Relationship style? Hobbies and interests? Political affiliation? Do tell, what is it that you have determined makes people in the same “league”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:10 AM
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So you want a woman to be forced to be with you, whether or not she’s repulsed by you. Do tell, are you kinda excited by the idea of fucking a woman whose skin crawls when you touch her? That’s what you’re suggesting 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:03 AM
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Probably referring to penguins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:33 PM
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Their fair share of PEOPLE???🤢 So sorry…women aren’t a resource to be distributed to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:40 PM
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Throughout history women have been the caretakers and nurturers for the young, the elderly, the sick and injured regardless of gender. Throughout history men have absolutely sacrificed themselves to war and protection of hearth and home and women have sacrificed themselves bringing life into the world and being the victims of the wars of men and of the whims, lusts and tempers of men. People sacrifice themselves in the service of both loved ones and strangers every day. Women are uniquely requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:52 AM
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Women express dissatisfaction with their words. Men express dissatisfaction with their bodies. Punching things / people, road rage / reckless driving, breaking things, self injury, substance abuse, risk taking, domestic violence. So…emotional intelligence you say…🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:06 AM
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Perhaps address the significant % of men who ask for 50/50 (to reduce or eliminate their child support obligations) and then rarely actually see their children for their parenting time…I assure you that’s a far more common scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:30 PM
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Which part do you disagree with specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:19 AM
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Idk, based on a lot of the comments here, committing paternity fraud is absolutely diabolical and the behavior of a true evil sociopath. If that’s true, then what should the punishment be for men who demand paternity tests, which IS absolutely directly accusing the woman who just had their child of being diabolical and sociopathic, evil, manipulative, irresponsible, undeserving of motherhood and deserving of the punishments put forth in this and other threads, and the paternity test proves that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:58 PM
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Men who physically abuse their wives are granted parenting time and custody of their children all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:06 PM
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Just out of curiosity, what punishment do you think should be imposed for men who walk away from their own children and don’t even pay child support? How about men who rape women who are then legally forced to have the child? How about men who molest their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:07 AM
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Men don’t have to do anything 🤷‍♀️. If men choose not to police themselves and each other, they certainly don’t have any right to object to women being wary of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:37 PM
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Here’s where you’re getting confused… individuals get to decide what makes their partner valuable to them. If their life isn’t better with that particular person than it would be without that particular person, they probably shouldn’t be with them. That’s probably going to be a different standard for everyone and likely changes over time and with varying life circumstances and the only person who can determine what specific qualities meet that threshold is the person deciding. Why would that not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:32 PM
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Surely you, of all people here, understands that successfully masking socially abhorrent behaviors and beliefs yields better social results than not successfully masking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:47 AM
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Consider that those incels aren’t as good at masking their misogyny and hatred of women as those outgoing charismatic men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:12 AM
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Key triggers for oxytocin release include: Positive physical contact: Hugging, cuddling, kissing, holding hands, and massage. Intimacy: Sexual arousal and orgasm. Social bonding: Meaningful eye contact, laughter, conversation, and sharing a meal with loved ones. Pet interactions: Petting and making eye contact with dogs and cats. Biological processes: The physical stretching of the cervix and uterus during labor, as well as the sensory stimulation of breastfeeding. Relaxation and mindfulness: Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:46 AM
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That’s not pair bonding, that’s socially reinforced sunken cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:43 AM
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Holy cow! Reading all of this is like watching a bunch of brain damaged, blindfolded monkeys trying to figure out a giraffe based on what they can reach🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:24 AM
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That doesn’t mean that people are “settling”, it means that most people aren’t compatible and it’s often hard to tell that from the jump. Time reveals those differences and people and life circumstances change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:05 PM
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So you’re just making up words now? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:15 PM
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I suppose you may be right if the person considers a relationship as a requirement and has a fixed and immediate deadline to fill that necessary person shaped hole in their life. In that case, sure, “I can tolerate this person” might be the bar. It must be frustrating for those people to be faced with rejection from those who view relationships as a want, not an immediate / urgent need, and prefer to wait and screen for a potential partner who is actually better than nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:51 AM
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You guys always gloss over the fact that those men also have unlimited choices of women to pursue…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:25 PM
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Congratulations. You are her baggage…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:35 PM
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There is a clear statistical correlation and ignoring that would be foolish and dangerous. Of course it doesn’t mean that most suicidal men are going to do that🤦‍♀️. It does mean that monitoring for the murder / suicide possibility in suicidal men with a history of domestic violence is a reasonable thing to do. Do you think that they should just ignore the possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:19 AM
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I absolutely did not say or imply that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:49 AM
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Because husbands never behave like asshats?🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:48 AM
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I don’t know if you just haven’t noticed the millions and millions of women who voted against Trump and protest him at every turn. Trump is the most mocked man in the world. Do you discount the brave women who have fought tirelessly to bring Epstein and his ilk to justice for decades. The millions of women who brought forth the “me too” movement, that you love to hate, to hold powerful men accountable for their crimes against women? The women who fight every day against the men who are so powerf…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:11 AM
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To be clear, I’m not saying that you’re wrong. Based on the men’s comments, they agree with you. If the standard is that men shouldn’t be able to, or expected to, mitigate their sexual expectations based on other inputs, then women who can’t enthusiastically perform sexually on command, and can’t commit to a static libido level forever, regardless of any other inputs, definitely shouldn’t get married. Ergo, the overwhelming majority of women shouldn’t get married. It should also follow that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:48 AM
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The only time women notice these men is when they try to make their issues women’s problem to solve. Yes, when “unselected” men post silly dickpocalypse threats, they are ridiculed. When “unselected” men try to rally support for restricting or eliminating women’s basic human rights, they are excoriated. When “unselected” men whine ad nauseam about not being able to access easy casual sex with the women they desire, they are called out for their entitlement. When “unselected” men claim that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 AM
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My point stands. Men are 100% comfortable being a total asshat all day / week / month, being mean, being rude and awful and still wanting sex. According to your logic, women who wouldn’t be happy to have sex under those circumstances shouldn’t get married. Ditto for having sex when you have the flu or a migraine or are exhausted from getting up every hour with a sick kid? Or being enthusiastic about being expected to give unlimited head immediately after giving birth, assuming we can reasonably …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:56 PM
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If we are going to accept this premise as fact and all agree that the man’s sex drive should be the only thing that matters, I think a better way to put it might be that women who aren’t able to effectively and happily separate sex from desire, emotion, mood, health, and relationship health forever shouldn’t get married at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:27 PM
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Again, nothing in your article suggests that these men are being put on criminal suspect lists or that this information is being proactively shared with police.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:09 PM
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There is nothing in your article that even mentions these men being put on criminal suspect lists…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:08 PM
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How is increased coordination between agencies and higher level monitoring “pushing men past the brink”? There’s no mention of these men being denied services, detained, criminally charged or provided with lesser or different services. It seems likely that increased vigilance would be potentially lifesaving for these men (and their families) by ensuring that they don’t fall through the cracks of the system. How, specifically, is trying to ensure that preventing both parts of “likely to harm them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:16 PM
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Research estimates that approximately 60% to 80% of family annihilators are suicidal men who intend to die, or do die, by suicide following the murders. Studies show that a significant subset—ranging from over 20% to roughly 40%—of suicidal men have a known history of perpetrating family or intimate partner violence. One study on male suicide and intimate partner homicide-suicide incidents found that about 21.9% of perpetrators had a known history of domestic violence. Other research highlights …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:03 PM
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And yet you still won’t be chosen🤷‍♀️. Funny how that works, huh? Stay mad I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:48 PM
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Here’s the thing, I don’t think women care what happens in your head. Literally zero women care. We certainly aren’t going to change our wardrobes to coddle your crazy. Now, if you decide to make your crazy our problem you will face the social and legal consequences of doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:42 PM
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Yup. Men who lack the motivation to floss regularly are going to organize and take up arms 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:30 PM
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I don’t interact with shallow or desperate men who see me as a one dimensional sex object. 🤷‍♀️. Easy peasy. Y’all aren’t generally very good at hiding your misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:29 PM
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I think this is just a reaction to the fact that there have been several “looming dickpocalypse / grand incel uprising” threat posts this week. Some of these guys are very certain that we’re on the cusp of societal collapse and women should voluntarily surrender their bodies to the great unwashed in order to prevent the mass rape that will inevitably occur. The posts are silly and tend to be deleted by the OPs when they get flamed, but the threads also have a fair number of other men agreeing, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:18 PM
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So women should accept and celebrate that men crave us as one dimensional “beauty” objects and that is a privilege. And once we “make peace” with that we will understand our unfairly privileged place and will willingly make ourselves available to “loser men” so that all men can experience us? But just to be clear, that’s totally not objectifying, patriarchal or sexist, right?🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:05 PM
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No, but they regularly rage at the universe for not supplying them with a hot submissive virgin to fuck them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:40 PM
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As far as I know, subscriptions to OF are entirely optional and I’m unaware of any societal pressure that men face to subscribe…seems like you’re kinda flailing here…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:59 PM
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Women generally have the same “looks” requirement for sex as for relationships / marriage. Men are generally willing to lower their standards for sex and have higher standards for relationships / marriage. Seems like men are just big mad that women don’t see any reason dumpster dive for sub par unpleasant sex with unattractive men. Too bad, so sad. Consistency is a feature not a flaw. Maybe men should raise their standards for what they’re willing to stick their dick into🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:55 PM
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First of all, more than half of 25 year old women are married or living with a partner. For women in their late 20s and early 30s in the United States, the average (median) number of lifetime male sexual partners is approximately 4 to 8. A woman who had sex with a new partner every week from 18-32 would be incredibly unusual and would have racked up 780 different partners. Women who report 40 or more lifetime partners comprise well under 1% of the population and typically sit several standard de…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:41 PM
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Right? “I’m a short thin man who can’t grow a beard, why are short thin women who can’t grow a beard rejecting me? They’re my looksmatch”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:51 PM
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And apparently all they believe she should need is to know that he finds her attractive 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:15 PM
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And what % of those men are spouting nonsense about how women with n-counts higher than (pick a misc #) are ran through and for recreational use only but also unless a woman has immediate sex she’s using him for his “resources”, single mothers are trash and also the birth rate crisis😱, blah blah land whales / ham planets, women hit the wall at (somewhere between 25-30), unless women do everything sexually with them that they’ve ever done whether they want to or not…and faster than they ever have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:23 PM
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Well it’s almost exactly the same as the number of men who are still virgins by the time they’re 30🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:52 PM
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So then what’s the goal of this “revolution”? What happens when it’s over and you’ve won the battle and all lay down your inhalers and official authentic replica samurai swords to enjoy the fruits of your victory, hmmm? What does the world look like? Weeping women kneeling at your little hobbit feet, begging for a chance to fondle your scraggly neck beards and bring you chicken nuggets? Rending their clothes in grief over their previous poor choices and vowing that it was you that they really wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:21 AM
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Ummm…what???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:08 AM
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Ah, it’s been at least a few days since the last “looming dickpocalypse” post! Well ladies, I guess now we really need to implement that Pity Sex Tuesdays program we have been keeping in reserve for a true emergency. You heard him! The incels are girding their pale pudgy loins for battle. Any day now they will cast down their gaming controllers, dust off the Cheetos dust and emerge from their moms basements everywhere to claim the virgin baddies that are their BIRTH RIGHT AS MEN!!! Run ladies, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:25 AM
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That’s 1% per year. When you look at it as “during their lifetime” the numbers are different. Also this is just the number of men who are convicted of a violent crime during their lifetime. It doesn’t count unreported crimes, men who aren’t caught, commit the crime but aren’t convicted or plead to a lesser nonviolent crime. Approximately 5% to 7% of men are convicted of a violent crime during their lifetime. While precise lifetime figures are difficult to track globally due to unreported crimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:38 AM
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They’ve been married for 30 years. How is it HIS money and assets?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:30 AM
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Women tend not to want broken toys that aren’t fun to play with 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:12 AM
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What “study” is that? Are we still trotting out and deliberately misinterpreting that old OK Cupid chestnut?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:07 AM
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But…if genuinely / generally undesirable men want to feel desired, what possible solutions could there be other than trying to become desirable or looking far and wide for the woman who does find him desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:02 AM
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You’re missing the point. Physical attraction as measured by women is largely binary. Either a man is possibly fuckable or he’s not. If he’s not, nothing else matters. If he is, everything else 100% determines his desirability. Again: a no (not fuckable) is a no. It is always a no. There’s no coming back from a no. A maybe (possibly fuckable) can very easily become a no once more information is available. It can (far more rarely) become a yes once more information is available. There is almost n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:48 PM
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Not sure how many ways there are to explain this but here we go… Women aren’t “upset” because sex workers remove our “bargaining chip”. Women generally don’t want men who view sex and consent as something that can be purchased. They are rightfully viewed with disdain not desire. Those men seeking out sexworkers (who actually get something out of the interaction) is actually a boon because hopefully it means that those men will leave non-sex workers alone. And yes, women can absolutely believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:33 PM
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lol. The funny thing is that you really believe that🤣. Yes, of course there are women who are voluntarily submissive and want that but it’s certainly not most. Life would be so much easier if the men who want to be in control or dominant would just fish from the pool of voluntarily and enthusiastically submissive women instead of trying to impose that kind of behavior on the rest of us. Unfortunately they never will because there are far more men who want to control a submissive woman than there…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:43 PM
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Funnily enough, that’s the hard part to find! There are FAR more men who are physically attractive enough than men who would be a net positive🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:28 PM
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Nope. Many women (and societal expectations) have just figured out that marriage / being in a relationship / dating is absolutely 100% optional. That means that unless we are truly attracted to a man and believe that our life will be better with him in it than without him in it, we would rather just not engage. That’s it. Very simple. League’s have zero to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:18 PM
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I think part of what you are missing is that even women who eventually want children generally don’t want to have unlimited numbers of children and don’t want to have children when they aren’t ready and able to care for them and / or aren’t with a partner who also is ready and wants them and will be a fully participating parent. Some women who do want children don’t want to be forced to carry and give birth to children who will have serious or life ending issues. Yes, birth control exists but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:04 PM
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If that makes sense then women should have the right during the same time period to terminate the father’s rights and responsibilities regardless of his preferences. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:29 PM
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Men are angry and feel that it’s unfair that women reject them before sex. Women are angry and feel that it’s unfair that men reject them after sex. Welcome to a fundamental difference that will never be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:01 PM
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So, if the argument is that men who don’t have sex (aka the opportunity to create the need for an abortion) shouldn’t care whether women can access abortion care, wouldn’t it follow that men who have had sex, even once, should care? If that’s not the threshold, what is it? How many sexual partners or events justify caring? Or does the man actually need to impregnate a woman and want to avoid responsibility for himself in order to care? Is that different than the number of partners or events that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:02 PM
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Was he manipulated or was it just that his attempt to manipulate her failed? Depending on the specifics it could go either way. Tell me, do you grant the same “victim” status to women who voluntarily have sex with men who say they are looking for casual dating and then get upset that he doesn’t want a relationship and claim to be victims? What about if he just never specifies and strings her along? Pretty sure we would see a lot of blaming her for not knowing her league, for trying to manipulate…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:27 PM
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Assumes facts not in evidence…(bullshit)🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:04 PM
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Modern men are neither being punished for a past they didn’t create, nor credited for the creation of a society they didn’t build. Men of today are evaluated by the behaviors and achievements of men today. Seems fair to me🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:43 PM
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Idk, it could also mean he’s a turdblossom or an fuckknuckle🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:59 AM
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FFS!!!! Not allowing a random sad man to penetrate you in the most intimate and vulnerable way possible to “help” him is not sadistic or narcissistic. The idea that you think this way is truly frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:21 AM
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Not sure if you know this, but refrigerators have casters now. Easy peasy. No penis required. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:10 AM
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Meanwhile women and girls go through life thinking “be careful, don’t make eye contact or smile or this guy is gonna think you want him and start being weird …”🤣. I guess it’s two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:20 PM
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Be careful, some guy here will take your comment to mean that you’re claiming that looks don’t matter at all. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:25 AM
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Idk, do women get to choose the 20%?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:11 AM
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We tell you that so you won’t feel too bad about yourselves…🤷‍♀️. More of a kindness or act of charity than gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:35 PM
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Why would these women keep dating these men once they got here and earned US wages? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:46 PM
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Where did I say anything remotely related to that?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:44 AM
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What, specifically, do you think feminists (or women in general) are supposed to do about “the male loneliness epidemic”? Please give concrete examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:26 AM
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It’s actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:24 AM
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Almost all men like shapely pretty women…that’s not exactly a news flash 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:23 AM
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Think of attraction almost like a bingo card. There are squares for face, hair, intelligence, humor, character, height, build, personality, financial ability, social circle, values, similar political views etc etc etc. Different women have slightly different bingo cards they are trying to fill out, BUT there are definitely going to be a minimum number of squares that need to be filled. Some women require ALL the squares to be ticked, some women require fewer. Very few to zero women will accept a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:51 AM
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Which men’s issues are you referring to, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:48 AM
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For people who meet on dating apps where both people are proactively trying to connect, absolutely. 50/50 should be the default AND the choice of venue should be mutual and both parties should be sensitive to their relative cost contribution. For men (or women) who approach (men or) women and ask them out in the wild? Mmmm, not so certain. In that case I do think that the person who approaches and asks should expect to pay. Should the other person offer to split? Maybe, but not obligatory. You’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:01 AM
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Your definition / examples of “power” are absurd and not grounded in and legitimate meaning of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:32 PM
1

Men tend to have a general / generic sex drive. Women tend to have a specific / personal sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:30 PM
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Not sure where you’re getting that idea. We absolutely did. That started when dating websites started which was way more than 15 years ago. Match.com started up in 1995…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:23 PM
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Ah, so now we’re making up new elastic and self fulfilling definitions of words?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:09 PM
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Try it this way: In cases where the parties disagree The woman can choose to have an abortion or to give birth. If she gives birth then both parents are financially responsible for that child unless both agree to adoption but the woman is physically responsible. If the woman chooses abortion, the man can choose to have the fetus collected, wear a pregnancy impact suit (weight, ungainliness, etc.) for the duration, pay all of the expenses for it to be brought to term in an artificial womb and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:55 PM
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Women aren’t saying the RP men are lying about what they want, we are saying that it’s abhorrent and a big part of the reason that they are losers🤷‍♀️. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:32 AM
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Several people have asked you to specify what you are referring to re/ “traditional gender dynamics” and you don’t seem to have done so. Is it the TikTok tradwife aesthetic? Some nubile avaricious women with perfect veneers in a sundress with an unnatural attraction to sunflowers, sourdough bread and subscribers? Actual historical division of labor? Are you planning on working 15 hours a day 6 days a week and turning over your “pay packet” to your wife to maintain the household ledgers? Will you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:28 AM
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So…propaganda is what keeps women from wanting to serve men with a smile? Why would anyone want to “serve” like that? Just say it out loud. You’re looking for a servant, a bangmaid and you somehow think that that is what’s naturally “feminine”? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:17 AM
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Please provide evidence that any materially significant % of women has ever said that they don’t care about looks in a romantic or sexual partner. Seriously, ever. Yes, many women care about height. That’s pretty clear and if you’ve somehow gotten through life without understanding that…idk. Do all or most women demand men be 6’ or taller? No. The vast majority of women do want a man who is taller than she is which shouldn’t be earth shattering since the average man is 5” taller than the average…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:11 PM
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Of course not but to assume as a straight man that you speak for women re/ intimacy choices while also dismissing what women say about those choices is a bit presumptuous, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:01 PM
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So you aren’t bi so you have no dog in the fight…you also aren’t a woman, so why do you feel entitled to “correct” women re/ their real reasons for anything? Why would you, as a straight man have better insight into the root causes of women’s dating preferences regarding bi men than those actual women themselves do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:39 PM
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It’s the same as the % of 30 year old women who are virgins🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:43 AM
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The same applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:41 AM
2

Statistically similar to the % of women…takes two to tango 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:03 AM
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Male adult virgins are actually an incredibly small percentage of the population. At 30, only 1-5% of men have never had sexual intercourse. That includes significantly mentally and physically disabled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:57 AM
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Because women were legally and socially prohibited from publishing throughout much of recorded history, communication has primarily been passed quietly from mother to daughter, sister to sister, friend to friend over eons. Oral history is a powerful legacy…witness what it’s reaped…men have ignored, disenfranchised, oppressed and undermined women since the beginning of time. Women have persevered quietly and built on their foundation year after year, decade after decade, generation after generati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:37 AM
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That is so incredibly male centered. You are assuming that because men spent centuries comfortable in their (lack of) knowledge about women, that women don’t and didn’t know the truth about themselves and their own capabilities and strengths? The world has always been bigger than the narrow, self congratulatory vistas of privileged men. They were (and many still are) too blind to see it and too arrogant to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:10 PM
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Male coming-of-age ceremonies mark the transition from childhood to adulthood. These rites of passage globally involve tests of bravery, symbolic physical alterations, and community recognition. Depending on the culture, young men may endure physical trials, undertake spiritual vision quests, or engage in civic and religious milestones. Physical Endurance and SurvivalMaasai (Kenya & Tanzania): Young boys, known as Moran, undergo an initiation process that includes circumcision. Traditionally, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:21 PM
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Why would we? Seriously, what possible reason would there be for women to go around lusting after miscellaneous average strange men? Most women don’t “lust” after incredibly attractive strangers. We may notice them, say to ourselves “wow, handsome man” and go on about our day, but for the vast majority of women there’s no actual “lust” involved. Are we supposed to get all hot and horny about the possibility of having meh to uncomfortable sex with someone we know nothing about? Yippee! Gotta get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:59 AM
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Didn’t you say that you would have sex with strange men if it were the only way to keep them from committing suicide? How does that square with not intervening if you see a child or elderly person being harmed on the street? Thought experiment: you are walking and see a man having an apparent heart attack while walking with his toddler. You’re the only other person around. The toddler starts to wander into a fast moving river. Do you risk your safety to retrieve and look after the toddler until …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:51 PM
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Personally a fan of nerdy guys as I’m a total nerd myself, just not that particular flavor so likely not a great match. Now if he was interested in self sustaining aquaponics aquariums, closed loop hydrogen fuel cells, minor characters in Tudor history, and permaculture gardening…😎😍 “Liking nerds” is similar to “liking pizza”. Yes, it’s all pizza but pineapple fans, pepperoni fans, and anchovy fans are not the same 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:43 PM
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Would you care about children’s safety or elderly or disabled people outside of their families or would they need to provide sexual services to be deserving too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:09 PM
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Wow! He really does look like a Who!🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:38 PM
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This feels like it might apply to selected middle school or possibly high school situations…I can’t imagine it being a thing for actual adults…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:17 PM
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A 28 year old high school larper! My goodness. Yes dear, these poor boys…tragic really. They will never know the true joy of being considered as someone’s temporary cum dumpster. Poor poor dear lads…tragic, really. Weeping right now 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:12 AM
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Has it not occurred to you that women also sacrifice their life of comfortability to partner with men (arguably even more so)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:05 AM
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So…are you mad that successful women are looking for successful men or that women aren’t lowering their standards because, according to you, men don’t value women’s success and thus these women should be willing to fuck (you) unsuccessful men that they aren’t interested in…?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:58 AM
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Let’s postpone this debate until there are sober women trolling bars specifically looking for drunk men to rape and posting content coaching other women about how to successfully do this. Maybe also wait until female Uber and Lyft drivers sexually assault drunk male passengers en masse. Maybe wait for all of those women who rape unconscious men and are found not guilty because the unconscious men “didn’t say no” to be found. Perhaps when sororities routinely participate in female led gangbangs o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:55 AM
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Sounds like a win / win. Maybe consider having him haul up a few sacks of fertilizer (ya know, just to feed his kink!).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:43 AM
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Please keep posting! I’ll be living vicariously as I weed my garden, nurture broody hens and build stone walls!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:31 AM
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Is it the kinky vampire???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:02 AM
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I got clubbing out of my system by the time I was 17🤣. Back in the NYC hay day of clubs when dinosaurs roamed the earth and leather skinny ties and mini skirts with baby socks and pumps with o-rings as bracelets were the height of fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:00 AM
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How many of the guys fearing that actually have any “resources” that would be worth a woman (of the % of women who would sell themselves in the first place) wasting her time on someone she doesn’t even want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:28 AM
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Because the majority of men are dating or in relationships / married. The (cyber) vocal toxic minority are the issue being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:54 PM
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Women are 100% of maternal deaths. Total maternal deaths are significantly higher than men’s workplace deaths. Globally and over the long term, hundreds of thousands of women died annually from childbirth complications. In contrast, while men historically account for a vast majority of occupational fatalities, the global cumulative number of maternal deaths is vastly larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:49 PM
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If these men were choosing to remain single and happy, we wouldn’t be having this conversation. The problem is that they aren’t. They’re raging at women. They’re threatening societal collapse and prophesying the looming dickpocalypse. They’re harassing women and getting giddy about taking away women’s rights as punishment for being unattracted to unattractive men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:38 PM
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Oh honey, bless your heart. I think we’ve figured out why you’re struggling with women. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:11 PM
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Of course. Some people are born into incredible wealth and some are born into poverty. Some are born with heartbreaking birth defects. Some people are born with conventional beauty or incredible intelligence. Life isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:26 PM
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Here’s the thing… Professionally? The more attracted to you they are, the less they respect you for your actual achievements. You could very easily find yourself losing a merit based promotion, not because you don’t deserve it, but because there are now extra requirements or you aren’t taken seriously because you’re too attractive or aren’t good enough at balancing on the near impossible tightrope of rejecting inappropriate advances and not offending those men. Any drive you exhibit as a man bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:20 PM
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Think of attraction almost like a bingo card. There are squares for face, hair, intelligence, humor, character, height, build, personality, financial ability, social circle, values, similar political views etc etc etc. Different women have slightly different bingo cards they are trying to fill out, BUT there are definitely going to be a minimum number of squares that need to be filled. Some women require ALL the squares to be ticked, some women require fewer. Very few to zero women will accept a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:10 PM
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Men don’t have to approach. They choose to because they want something from those women that they aren’t necessarily going to get otherwise. Yeah yeah, “women don’t have to approach”, but here’s the thing, if women wanted to they would and some do…you know why? Because they want something from those men that they aren’t necessarily going to get otherwise. It’s like complaining that you have to go to the grocery store because you want food. It really sounds like you’re just sad that you can’t jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:49 PM
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I don’t suppose it has occurred to you that for the first time in history women have the freedom to have a voice…to express themselves out loud? Turns out that when women aren’t forced into silence and submission for survival, we actually speak out. These aren’t new feelings or thoughts. We are just finally able to express them out loud. Can you imagine what women whispered about historically and would have said out loud if they had that freedom in the past? Forced silence never equals willing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:46 AM
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Here’s what I think you’re missing: They don’t want women to “open up”. They don’t want women to feel safe or trust them. They don’t care about women or what women want or need. They don’t think of women as people, merely as anonymous servants to provide sex, ego validation, domestic labor, and most importantly a way to measure themselves against other men. RP only exists because they are legally (and socially- although that’s not as important) prohibited from actually owning women. If that was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:11 PM
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I think the disconnect is largely because unless it’s a violently brutal “stranger” rape with other significant physical injuries (which they consider to be the “legitimate” trauma), a lot of men believe that rape = bad sex and in their minds bad sex is still better than no sex. Think about all of the men who don’t understand that a rape can be devastating and traumatic when the woman was drugged or unconscious and cannot remember it. Often it’s the same men who believe that men can’t be raped (…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:59 AM
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Women know that the way to create real lasting change is through soft power. Influencing hearts and minds and norms over decades and centuries. Violence only works until someone with a bigger stick shows up. Influencing behavior patterns and subconscious beliefs tends to be slower but far stickier. 3 steps forward, 2 steps back. Enduring forward progression. Men treat everything as a nail. Women endure and nurture fragile seeds of change while the roots grow almost invisibly and become stronger …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:26 AM
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Or…people occasionally change their mind! I know, shocking, right? Sometimes that’s good and sometimes it isn’t, but everyone - men and women - does that in every aspect of life every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:14 AM
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So…a helpful way to assess compatibility? How is that a “shit” test?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:13 AM
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What is it testing for?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:05 AM
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FFS…obviously I was referring to the large age gaps the OP implied, not a couple of years 🤦‍♀️. C’mon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:17 PM
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Pretty sure the “younger women” get to choose whether or not they agree and fyi, they overwhelmingly don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 PM
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We freely acknowledge that women not being forced to be with men has resulted in fewer women being with men. Perhaps you’ve also noticed that abolishing slavery and indentured servants resulted in less multigenerational free labor and abject servitude. Maybe the abandonment of serfdom when the nobility was disempowered? Amazing huh? When you remove men’s boots from the necks of “others” those others step away… The "Pedestal" Effect: When privileges are removed, the loss of unearned elevation can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:19 AM
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So you admit that f2f sex is a very personal thing and still try to shame women for not being willing to be very personally penetrated by random unattractive men’s penises as an act of charity so that those men don’t run the risk of feeling sad or having to pursue mental health treatment? You truly don’t see women as people do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:06 AM
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Ah, so now we’re supposed to feel obligated to proactively fuck men who might someday feel lonely who we aren’t interested in or attracted to just to make sure they don’t potentially feel sad? Like women should be obligated to be volunteer universal healthcare preventative treatment providers by providing intimate access to our vaginas to any and all potentially sad or sexually unsuccessful men? Here’s an idea, how about you set up walls of glory holes, staffed by men, to service all of these me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:00 AM
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Being sex positive doesn’t create an obligation for women to volunteer their vaginas to “save” random men who have decided that easy sexual access to uninterested women is more important than life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:12 PM
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Wow. Every day we see men here talking about how they wouldn’t step in if a woman they weren’t fucking was being assaulted, some wouldn’t even call the police. We see men here threatening societal collapse and mass rape if women don’t lower their standards and fuck lonely men. We see men here gleeful about women losing their rights because they aren’t nice enough to men. We are inundated by men who threaten all kinds of harm to women for not fucking them. And now you’re asking women to volunteer…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:36 PM
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You’re assuming that whoever it is that you want weighs things the same way and that whatever you prioritize about your own achievements will creat actual attraction (or you don’t care whether they are actually attracted?). In addition, while you tacked on that this applies to both sexes, we are all told every day that men don’t value a woman’s education, social status or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:10 PM
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So you think it’s reasonable to be resentful that people didn’t find you attractive when you weren’t attractive and do find you attractive when you are attractive? Or that it’s reasonable to be resentful that people are more attracted to attractive people? People are welcome to be resentful about anything they want🤷‍♀️. Seems a bit like cutting off your nose to spite your face but…go ahead I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:32 PM
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Nope. Thats why I avoid RPbroskis, trumpkins, and trad-dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:05 AM
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Sounds like you should definitely marry an RPbroski! Dreams DO come true!🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:04 AM
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Men are free to up their standards 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:01 AM
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It’s certainly possible not to meet the threshold of the people you want. It’s highly unlikely that you wouldn’t meet anyone’s threshold. Women have been very clear that they don’t want to date men they aren’t attracted to. That’s not some huge secret. The point is that men can absolutely be physically attractive enough and still be rejected because they are asshats and turdblossoms or just really awkward or boring etc etc etc. In those cases, it definitely IS their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:54 PM
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Ok, I get it. You’re trolling. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:49 PM
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Clearly you have a type which differs greatly from any woman I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:48 PM
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Did you seriously assume that I meant every single woman? Wow🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:16 PM
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Obviously not all women avoid criminals and asshats. The point is that a lot do and the ones who do are typically the responsible, non crazy women who make good decisions and good partners… A man could be a total Adonis and I don’t personally know a single woman who would have any interest at all if he’s a trumper or RPbro. I know that there are women out there who wouldn’t care, I just don’t know any…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:44 PM
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Here’s what you guys refuse to understand… Basic baseline physical attraction can’t be negotiated, either the person meets your baseline threshold as a maybe / yes or they don’t. That’s true AND what might at first or otherwise be attractive can and is OFTEN completely negated and made unattractive by behavior, attitudes, personality, social skills, etc. Some of those behaviors, attitudes, personality traits and social skill deficits can definitely legitimately have moral judgement attached. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:23 PM
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Idk, what would you call a man with the same number of previous sexual partners?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:15 AM
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That’s not humble bragging, that’s economic fact and has been well documented. Are we supposed to ignore facts to make men feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:03 PM
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No, calling women “ran through” is shaming and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:59 PM
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That phrase itself is slut shaming…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:03 PM
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What, specifically, does that look like excluding access to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:50 AM
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Of course it is. It creates an unrealistic expectation of what men should have, creates a “pay for play” system to potentially achieve that unrealistic expectation, creates a common enemy to blame for failure to achieve that unrealistic expectation and enables a false feeling of belonging in a “community” of similarly oppressed people who are victims of the common enemy. It’s a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:48 AM
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What exactly do women miss out on by being self supporting, building lives that bring them joy, and only associating with men who are a net positive in their lives? How is that a negative for anyone except the men who want to drag those women back into servitude instead of being worthwhile partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:45 AM
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So…DEI but for NEETs but with access to women’s bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:41 AM
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Women don’t “like” abusive men because they are abusive. Women initially like men who appear to be kind, considerate, and respectful and try desperately to escape those men who end up being abusive once they have sufficient control over that woman. Some / many women are able to detect and avoid those abusive men who lead with that behavior. Not all women are able to identify those men who successfully disguise their abusive tendencies initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:35 AM
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Plenty of ugly men are abusive. Check your local police blotter. It’s not exactly a fashion show…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:29 AM
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It’s not that abusive men are more attractive. It’s a that some % of attractive charismatic men are abusive. Likely the same % of unattractive un charismatic men would also be abusive but can’t find as many victims. In general, abusive men select their victims very carefully (and are discarded by non-victims early on). They seek women who are insecure, victims of previous trauma, and have weak or nonexistent support systems. They don’t come out of the gate as abusive. They are charming, funny, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:26 AM
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Nothing. We’re all just hypergamous, materialistic harpies. Probably better for you to just GYOW. Happy now? Good. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:56 PM
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Do those women in Islamic countries have a choice and the opportunity to not marry?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:17 PM
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FFS, they aren’t judging the boys. Did you even bother to read the article? They are talking about the potential impacts it could have on the boys development and social skills and expressing concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:16 PM
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Zero chance. Absolutely not. The very principle is abhorrent and smacks of sexual slavery and ownership. Want to see marriage and birth rates go to zero? Try that. It has nothing to do with whether or not I would want a specific sexual frequency, it is because nobody should have legal title to my consent. You’re suggesting that women agree to be legally raped once a week. As a side note, we all know that women become far less enthusiastic about sex when it feels like a duty or a chore. Can you i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:15 PM
5

And let me guess, you don’t think your personality is contributing to your lack of success?🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:02 PM
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Did you note that the articles you cherry picked to link about women were about grown up professionals and the articles about men were actually specifically about boys under 16? Did it occur to you that the difference in how the issue is discussed might be more about the age and social skills / life experience than about gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:02 PM
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Try reading again. Online misandry doesn’t have real world life or death consequences. Online misandry doesn’t contribute to the loss of legal rights for men. Online misogyny on the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:51 PM
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The real question is why are you defining male sexuality as the default “correct” or legitimate form of heterosexuality and women’s sexuality as somehow broken or wrong? Why not consider women’s sexuality as being the default correct form and question why men obsessively crave women’s bodies to the exclusion of anything else about them? Maybe men are broken and wrong…or maybe men’s and women’s sexuality manifests differently and neither is the “right” or “wrong” way to be heterosexual (or homose…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:36 PM
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Men have always sought to “own” and subjugate women to sexually and domestically serve them and sought to punish women who resisted. The “manosphere” is just one of the latest iterations of misogynistic propaganda. If it stayed in online spaces complaining or caused men to decenter women, it would be comparable to what OP is upset about. Unfortunately misogyny causes real life (and death) harm to women and girls everywhere every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:24 PM
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Nobody is insulting OP. He is choosing to go out of his way to watch women he doesn’t know (on social media) talking (for clicks) to each other and choosing to interpret what they say as being an example of a link between feminism and misandry so that he has something to feel mad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:24 AM
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Why should women need to justify wanting equal professional opportunity, justify owning the financial fruits of their labor, justify escaping being financially dependent on the whims and desires of men?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:33 AM
2

True. Baby goats cavorting can feed your soul!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:30 AM
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I encourage everyone to read (or listen to if you prefer audiobooks) “Normal Women” by Philippa Gregory. 900 years of normal average women’s history. It’s really very interesting and educational, especially regarding women in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:02 AM
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Maybe consider a hard reset to your algorithm… I’ve never seen this. I see veg gardening, British farmhouse renovations, baby goats cavorting, some guy with a pink guitar playing and singing to all kinds of wild animals (highly recommend - so cool), how to get rid of string algae in a pond, dog training tips etc. My feeds make me happy…yours seems to make you angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:56 AM
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Do you really believe that anyone would willingly sign up to “pretend” to love someone and have sex with them and have children with them and live with them for life if they had literally any other viable choice? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:16 PM
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What, specifically, are you suggesting that women need to “held accountable” for and what does the implementation of the accountability look like to you? Please provide specifics and examples so that everyone knows what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:12 PM
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Self-Reported Data: In population-based studies of male behavior, approximately 9% to 14% of men self-report having used physical violence against an intimate female partner in their lifetime. And before anyone complains about “self reported data” and it’s accuracy, do you really think it’s more likely that men are over reporting their own violence towards women or under reporting it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:02 PM
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Wow! You just proved all of her feelings about men to be 100% accurate in one comment. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:07 PM
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Why does the fertility / birth rate crisis need to accommodate men getting sex? If the issue is replacement level birth rates, why does men’s sexual access get a vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:07 AM
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Battered Immigrants and U.S. Citizen Spouses Study: This foundational research highlights that abuse rates are often higher among immigrant women who are married to U.S. citizens compared to those married to non-citizens. It identifies specific immigration-related tactics of abuse, such as withholding legal papers or threatening deportation. You can access related overviews on VAWnet's Immigrant Communities Page.Systematic Review on IPV and Immigration: Published in the National Institutes of He…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:49 AM
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Research indicates that immigrant women married to citizens are disproportionately vulnerable to domestic violence. Studies show that foreign wives face higher rates of abuse compared to the general population, largely due to systemic power imbalances, economic dependence, and the husband’s control over their legal immigration status. Immigration Status Vulnerability: In marriages involving international matchmaking, a foreign spouse's legal residency often depends entirely on their partner. Abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:32 AM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7452000/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:55 PM
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Based on how a lot of men change after marriage, clearly some believe that this is, or should be, true and get very confused and upset when their wives get fed up and leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:24 PM
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Married women’s life expectancy is less than a year longer than never married…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:20 PM
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Hypergamous (adjective) relates to or practices hypergamy—the act or practice of dating or marrying someone with a higher socioeconomic status, wealth, or social standing. It is commonly referred to as "marrying up". Historical and Social Context: Historically, because women often lacked legal property rights and financial opportunities, they relied on hypergamous unions to secure their economic survival and elevate their social standing. In some cultures, hypergamy was a strict traditional prac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:48 PM
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Why do some men think that strangers (or red pill gurus) are going to give them the secret squirrel double awesome cheat code that will grant them entry into the magical world of “effortless casual sex with insta hotties who thirst after short broke basement dwellers”…🙄?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:42 PM
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That’s not hypergamy 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:38 PM
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I think you’re confused. Being progressive means that you believe that people have the right to exist as their authentic selves and not be persecuted for that. The people you are attracted to not being attracted to you is not persecution. You can be a femboy if that’s your thing🤷‍♀️. You can be straight or gay or any variation that feels right for you. Nobody should be able to attack you for that or prevent your access to the same legal rights, opportunities, and responsibilities that everyone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:14 PM
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There are approximately 146,000 US oil rig workers. There are approximately 105,300,000 US men of working age. So…0.0014% of US men work on oil rigs. 350,00. - 400,000 US men work in HR. 0.0038% of working age men. Almost 3x as many men work in HR than work on oil rigs. 34 million US men work in traditional office environments. That 233 x as many US men work in “air conditioned” offices as work on oil rigs. Seriously, enough with the oil rig ridiculousness 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:42 AM
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How many of those men’s hobbies are video games and porn?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:53 PM
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Check 16 Candles. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:40 PM
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Did you miss the BUT? Not being respectful makes someone unattractive. There is absolutely nothing that will make someone attractive if they don’t meet a woman’s initial basic threshold. There are multiple things that will make a person absolutely unattractive even if they originally did meet that threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:00 PM
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Think about it. Obviously being respectful doesn’t make someone more attractive if they’re not meeting a woman’s basic threshold for attractiveness in the first place BUT not being respectful can and will make self respecting women walk away from men who do otherwise meet that threshold. Let’s say there are 10 women who see a man and think “hmmm, maybe…”, if that man is respectful and a decent person, all but the most damaged of those women will stay interested. If he’s disrespectful and assholi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:48 PM
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Exactly. RP selects specifically for women who are insecure, easily manipulated and have weak personal boundaries and no self respect. Those women make far easier victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:30 PM
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Pushing boundaries is the opposite of respect. Sounds like you’re intentionally selecting for insecure women with weak personal boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:26 PM
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Did it hurt when the point flew right over your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:24 PM
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So why aren’t all of you guys complaining ad nauseam about not being able to be professional athletes or billionaires or astronauts and having to work a regular 9-5 job instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:32 PM
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If men became actual partners in home and childcare (all aspects- no more “default parent” assumptions) women would be far more willing to endure the physical imposition of pregnancy and childbirth, the professional “motherhood penalty” would disappear. If *mandatory” parental leave was required for both parents, affordable onsite childcare was available, safe & affordable housing was available, universal healthcare was available and full time employment required a living wage, families would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:12 PM
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But when that “real pain” is rooted in not being automatically granted a submissive woman to serve you domestically, sexually and biologically it means that the cure is in resetting pain tolerance, not in resurrecting the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:28 PM
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And…a lot of these men advocating for easy “paper abortions” are the same men clutching their pearls about falling birth rates and not having easy access to casual sex🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:25 PM
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Here’s the thing, if women employ these “communication tactics” when talking to men, the men lose their everloving minds! Women spend their lives coddling men via gentle messaging so that they don’t spin out entirely. Since you can’t handle women speaking to you that way, why do you think it’s acceptable and “normal” to speak to us that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:51 PM
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Maybe save some of your outrage for the actual government officials who are forcing literal children to give birth to their rapists babies and refusing to outlaw child marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:31 PM
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When people say batshit crazy or unhinged hateful things or just spew their own bitter bile about their “sour grapes” of the day enemy, other people are going to have and voice opinions about it regardless of who the target of the crazy is. If the spewers don’t like the pushback, maybe they should keep the crazy inside their own heads instead of sharing it to try to increase their crazy-hatetribe.🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:13 PM
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Governments can’t even provide affordable daycare 🤣. You think governments and robots are going to raise these pod kids?🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:09 PM
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Putting everything else aside… Ok, now single men can have a newborn baby…now what? Who is actually raising these babies / toddlers / kids / tweens / teenagers / young adults? Are they going to be happily taking the professional and financial penalties that mothers do? Seriously, if men in general were willingly taking on anywhere close to half of that actual responsibility now the birth rates would be just fine. Now they are going to do it all alone?🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:22 AM
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How about if they outlawed non-medical circumcision, did away with the draft registration entirely, enforced mandatory parental leave and universal healthcare (including mental health services, suicide prevention initiatives, and life skills training for senior gentlemen). Life skills training for all high school students (financial, domestic, automotive, basic maintenance, baby and childcare, household management). Comprehensive sex education and birth control education starting in middle schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:04 AM
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Well bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:45 AM
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It can. Sad to say, but shutting down the interaction HARD is sometimes the only way to snap the guy out of it. Help him to understand that this isn’t going to be fun or worthwhile. Being nice or polite can be seen as being weak and vulnerable or actually interested. Sometimes of the more predatory or bullying men count on the fact that women are raised to be agreeable and polite and they take advantage of that. Sometimes the utterly clueless really don’t understand anything short of a verbal 2x…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:30 PM
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Absolutely. No matter how polite the rejection, there’s a not-small segment of men who will be triggered and behave badly. Sometimes very badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:18 PM
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Sounds like you’re part of the reason women don’t want to be approached at all. You ARE the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:14 PM
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When women are telling you very clearly that they do not want to be approached, you’re really wanting to have sex with them isn’t going to change their minds. Your sincerely held desires do not create an obligation for women to meekly tolerate unwanted advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:11 PM
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Because how else are YOU going to get what you want from women, right? Are you saying essentially that women can choose to do this the easy way or the hard way but it’s gonna happen either way because it’s what you want so why don’t we just “lie back and enjoy it”…🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:05 PM
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Can we assume that you are patient and kind and receptive when telemarketers repeatedly interrupt your day and don’t want to take no for an answer? Are you chit chatting with the god squad of the week wanting to discuss your personal relationship with their deity? Your “honest attempt at showing interest” is basically you interrupting a stranger’s day. Trying to force them to listen to your penis sales pitch. You are the one imposing because you want something from them. You don’t get to be salt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:02 PM
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Ok Cupid is NOT a “study”🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:07 AM
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FFS. This is just the newest manosphere trend / excuse that undesirable men are clinging onto like little slimy barnacles to make their romantic failures totally not their fault…yawn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:55 AM
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Women are straight and attracted to attractive men. If you’re not experiencing that…🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:53 AM
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Men tell us every single day that what they really want is sex. Out loud with their whole chests. Should we not believe men? Is it “not all men”? Tell me, how many of the men who cold approach strangers aren’t primarily looking for sex? Are they interested in being buddies? Going bowling? Deep conversations and yard work? Maybe a farmers market and brunch then a friendly handshake? If I’m a stranger, literally the only thing you know about me is that you find me physically attractive enough to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:49 AM
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What did I say that isn’t true? News flash: women have ZERO obligation to make it easier for strange men to try to have sex with them. We are not here to be your entertainment. We are not here to be your sexual validation. We are not here to be your helpmeet, your mommy, your bangmaid, your servant. We are not here to make you comfortable in your unending sexual pursuit. Some men seem to feel that women exist for men’s pleasure and that women having the ability and inclination to decline to do s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:11 AM
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🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:52 PM
5

So…as long as the men don’t actually murder us too often we should be happy with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:25 PM
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So…you’re saying that men should look at relationships like hiring a mommy?🤣🤣🤣 No thanks. Keep your money and your mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:01 PM
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Read your own source. Lightening deaths are 10% of strikes and the strike odds % was for an 80 year lifetime. So over the course of an 80 year lifespan the odds are 1/153,000 Homicide rate was annual odds % of 1/17,241. Please explain exactly and specifically how often and how bad the consequences of women rejecting men need to be for you to consider it a problem?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:46 PM
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The vast majority of women have had more than one bad experience caused by a man not being happy about being rejected. Those experiences range everywhere from verbal abuse to death. Far more likely than a lightening strike…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:23 PM
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Golly, we also ruined marital rape, forced marriage, being sold as chattel and (most) child marriage. Btw, we’re working on ruining sexual harassment and stalking too so brace yourselves for that. Too bad, so sad 🥲.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:15 PM
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Nah, just have to give the edge a little bump on the counter. Don’t actually need a penis for that…🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:27 PM
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Well the only “issue” you mentioned was “male loneliness” , so do tell. What equal rights are women specifically preventing men from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:48 AM
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Ok, peeing standing up and jerking off…🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:31 AM
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Mmmmmm, ok, I’ll bite. Please explain how miserable bitter men, who can’t get attention from women as it is, fully and “radically” embracing misogyny and hating women even more will convince women to have sex with these men…that IS the “men’s issue” that you’re referring to right? C’mon, what’s the strategy? What does the action plan look like? Be specific…surely you have an end game in mind, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:28 AM
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The idea that any man is inherently better than me at anything other than peeing standing up, simply by virtue of having a Y chromosome, is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:14 PM
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If it was “natural”, men wouldn’t have to keep trying throughout history to force it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:28 PM
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Why? Why should a woman be submissive to you? By what objective measure are you more competent, able, accomplished purely because you’re male?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:27 PM
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If you claim to love the woman, you would never want her to be uncomfortable with having sex with you. You wouldn’t get all tingly and excited at the idea of her feeling like she has to do things sexually that she doesn’t like and doesn’t enjoy. Reveling in someone else’s discomfort and coercing degradation is not love, it’s sociopathy and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:39 PM
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Again, 90% of IPH are committed by men against female partners. That’s pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:07 AM
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The headline of your linked stats: The percentage of females murdered by an intimate partner was 5 times higher than for males
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:19 AM
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How do you not understand that “90% of intimate partner homicides are committed by MALE perpetrators against female partners” means that women are FAR more likely than men to be killed by an intimate partner. 90%!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:53 AM
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How about this from the UN: Female Victims: Around 60% of all intentional homicides of women and girls worldwide (totaling 50,000 out of roughly 83,000 global deaths) are perpetrated by intimate partners or family members.Male Victims: Only about 11% of global male homicides are perpetrated by intimate partners or family members, with men being far more likely to be killed by acquaintances or strangers in the public sphere. Perpetrator Gender: The overwhelming majority (roughly 90%) of intimate …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:16 AM
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Women experience the highest rates of severe, repeated, and injury-causing domestic violence. Globally, about 1 in 3 women experience physical or sexual intimate partner violence in their lifetime. Women are also overwhelmingly the victims of intimate partner homicide and stalking. National Institutes of Health (.gov) While some studies report that women and men engage in minor physical altercations (such as shoving or slapping) at roughly equal rates, the data clearly establishes a gendered dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:41 PM
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Hmmmm, who wants to bet that the Venn diagram of men who “want to be valued for their penis and sexual ability” and men who actually know (and care) how to find the clitoris are 2 very distinct circles…🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:56 PM
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Did you even read your own source?🤣🤣🤣. It doesn’t come close to making your point!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:49 PM
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Gosh, a man would be happy to have life outside of work completely taken care of for him? He would like to be THE priority and be catered to? He would like to have a 24/7 maid, cook, social secretary, sex worker, nanny, general servant, and not have to lift a finger outside of his work day (work which he would have to do either way…). Wow - shocking 😱🙄. Can’t imagine why more women aren’t signing up for that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:34 PM
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Average Scores: Historically, national averages for both genders are statistically tied. However, some studies (like Experian Insights) have recorded women averaging slightly higher, at around (675) compared to men at (670).Debt and Accounts: Women generally hold fewer overall debts and lower average loan balances, but they tend to have more open credit cards on average .https://www.investopedia.com/average-credit-scores-by-gender-5214525
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:22 PM
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If a woman isn’t happy in that lifestyle, why would she want to give up her dreams and subjugate herself to a man just to endure it for longer?🤔 Just like if the opposite was proven to be true, would you expect women who have picket fence / baby dreams to forgo them just to live longer without what makes them happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:43 AM
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Is it just me or does this sound like something that primarily happens in middle school “relationships”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:38 AM
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Why do they need to “tell their preferences” and trash women who don’t align with those preferences instead of just not dating them? Also, maybe try not having sex with people who don’t meet your preferences instead the first place 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:04 AM
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How is that valid? If you are allowed to have whatever preferences and standards you want, so are they. If either doesn’t meet the other’s standards 🤷‍♀️. In other words, they don’t have to want you back…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:01 AM
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The overwhelming majority of women aren’t regularly interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:11 AM
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The piece of the puzzle that you’re missing is that (many) men actually hate the women who hook up with them even more than they hate the women who don’t. No, it doesn’t make sense logically since they profess that they “need” sex (without strings) and crave being valued as a sex object without preconditions, so one would think that the women who are willing to satisfy that “need” would be revered, appreciated, and respected, but nope…their deep self hatred gets transferred along with their ejac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:55 PM
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I literally can’t think of any positive reason that I would want to know. I try very hard to accept that men’s and women’s sexuality is fundamentally different and that men aren’t all inherently perverted, predatory, morally and ethically broken, and deviant just because they’re so different. Knowing what they actually consume might well smash that effort to slimy smithereens…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:31 AM
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What “rules” are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:41 PM
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The claim that "all women are gay or asexual" is an increasingly common, extreme talking point in the "manosphere". It stems from the "hypergamy" theory—the idea that women are hardwired to only date the top tier of men. When men in these spaces struggle to date or secure relationships, they cope by shifting the blame. The rationale behind this extreme manosphere talking point includes the following elements: Distortion of Asexuality: Because these communities view women as hyper-selective and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:57 PM
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Boldly assuming that the only “real” heterosexuality is men’s sexuality… Not surprising, but disappointing nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:52 PM
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Think about what you just said…and then explain why it would ever be a good idea for any woman to be alone with, much less physically intimate and vulnerable with, any man who is or has the potential to become unbalanced enough that he would choose anger and hatred towards women and / or commit terrible crimes because women don’t give him what he wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:10 AM
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Yes, we are all well aware of your delusional repetition re/ this fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:53 PM
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Isn’t that entirely dependent on how many first dates lead to exclusive relationships, how long those relationships last, and how long he stays off “the market” after one ends before he’s ready to try again? Man A could go on one first date, meet his perfect match and never date again. Man B could already be in a relationship from when he was younger and never go on a date again. Man C could have a terrible picker and end up on 100s of first dates that never go anywhere. Man D could be anywhere …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:51 PM
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Plenty of women are attracted to and in relationships with average looking men who are kind and fun and interesting and compassionate. Far fewer are attracted to average men who are assholes or significantly socially challenged or lazy or mind numbingly boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:10 PM
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But now we don’t have to which is why some of y’all are so cranky 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:38 PM
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Gallup surveys show that among Gen Z women (ages 18 to 26), about 20.7% identify as bisexual and 5.4% identify as lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:44 PM
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They’ve apparently shifted from blaming boogie man CHAD to blaming boogie woman Charlene… conveniently removing any possible responsibility for their own “romantic” failures🤣. It’s funny I had a conversation today with a friend (who had just been “accused” of being a lesbian because she rejected a man) and we both agreed that it was a terrible shame sexuality isn’t a choice because everyone we know would definitely choose to be lesbians!🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:39 PM
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Idk, it sure seems as though a lot of men want to recreate it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:21 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:18 AM
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Short term maybe, long term? Absolutely not. People who don’t grow together grow apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:35 AM
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How very Sharia of you🙄. So women are now morally responsible for the actions (or thoughts) of men they have never met or interacted with. And are also somehow deserving of being “punished” for the thoughts of those strangers by their partners actively pursuing other women (who are of course at fault for tempting those men with their feminine wiles…). Guessing you believe in “original sin” too… I guess men aren’t really the rational, logical leaders if they are so powerless in the face of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:33 AM
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Ok, and?🤷‍♀️. Not sure why they’re announcing it but that’s fine. Sometimes people just want to share. Also not sure why I would care…Carry on and have a good life I guess…?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:08 PM
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If relationships were mandatory, you might have a point. Thankfully that’s not the case and each person gets to decide what makes it worth it for them. Here’s the thing, you get to decide what is “enough” for you. You get to decide what and how much you want to contribute. You do not get to decide whether anyone else agrees that what you want is reasonable to them or that what you contribute is enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:33 PM
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How, specifically, are misogynists victims?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:31 PM
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Maybe if fewer of them were vocal misogynists that wouldn’t happen as much. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:57 PM
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Are you really asking why women would be offended by “compliments” that are basically saying “compared to the rest of your genetically inferior group, you aren’t completely laughable. You’re still substandard, but not as much as the other losers in your shallow pool”… Golly, can’t imagine why that would be offensive… Btw, why do men get so cranky when women say things like: I mean size doesn’t really matter that much…on a completely different topic…have you ever heard of *penis sleeves”?🤔 You’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:10 AM
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Loyal = renegotiated her pre-nup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:44 AM
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Because he’s no longer an obnoxious, insecure, hormone driven, overgrown teenager with more opinions than functioning brain cells?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:19 AM
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Idk if you know this but an awful lot of late teens/ early to mid twenties guy are absolute idiots. They behave like they’re 14, live like bears with furniture, and follow their penises around as if they are holy divining rods… Those same men sometimes become civilized adults and people that women can stand by the time they hit their late 20’s / early 30’s. That’s not women settling, that’s men maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:16 AM
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99% of men ARE taller than women… The fact is that whatever immutable traits the guy is blaming is rarely the only reason he’s being rejected. Short men have girlfriends and wives, ugly men have girlfriends and wives, quadriplegics men have girlfriends and wives, bald men have girlfriends and wives, men with whatever frenula, maxilla, canthal issues these men are clinging to…have girlfriends and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:09 AM
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Having an unfavorable view of men is not misandry. It’s the direct result of men’s behavior and attitudes towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:04 AM
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Definitely. They brag constantly that men “love” women “for themselves” because they may not want to know her name but they will masturbate into her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:52 AM
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I’m guessing that’s the % of men who are straight and think women have some usefulness as sexual outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:51 AM
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Women experience men harming them. Incels experience women declining to give them the opportunity to do harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:50 AM
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They are still hopeful that it really isn’t “all men”…they’ll get over their naïveté.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:48 AM
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Sure it does. You think it’s about power. It’s not. It about disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:21 PM
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Women aren’t “getting angry” at all of the posts about how women should cold approach men and men are tired of all of the rejection and just aren’t going to do it and then we’ll be sorry… We are shaking our heads… Do you really think that we are scared that the men that we wish would leave us alone are going to…leave us alone? Do those men imagine that we will somehow be forced to “give up our power” and pursue men that we aren’t interested in? That’s not how supply and demand work. If you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:11 PM
2

The don’t complain about dead bedrooms, “divorce rape”, kids who want nothing to do with you, societal alienation etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:16 AM
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Sure. Aren’t men always saying that women are attracted to abusive men? If we’re going totally amoral here, being himself would tend to attract women who are interested in abusive men and eliminate women who aren’t. Obviously, what should really happen is that he gets into intensive therapy with the goal of breaking the cycle and learning how to not be abusive and stay away from potential victims until he learns more productive and less dangerous ways of expressing his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:13 AM
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Ok, I see where the disconnect is. By “yourself” people are talking about your core personality. More quiet or a loud life of the party type. Interested in nature and art or extreme sports and drinking games. Are you generally more interested in cerebral topics or sitcoms and WWF? Motorcycles or marathons. It’s about not pretending to be a totally different person. You can get fitter and healthier without changing anything about your core personality. That different than pretending to be into hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:08 AM
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“Courtly love” was entirely performative and was not about actual romance or sexual intimacy. It was a game played by the upper class idle rich. There was zero expectation that it would result in an actual romance or liaison and it would have been a serious breach of etiquette to even consider that it might. The idea of being “strung along” and pining with love was the whole point…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:56 PM
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I don’t think you understand how statistics (or basic logic) work…that doesn’t make any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:56 PM
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Has it not occurred to you that it’s probably BOTH. Unattractive physically and unattractive personality 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:11 PM
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Men don’t need to do anything 🤷‍♀️. If they’re happy with their lives and who they are then what’s the issue? Or…is your argument that men are being unfairly denied sexual access to women that they have decided that they deserve and are entitled to? Are you asserting that women have some obligation to distribute themselves to men that they aren’t attracted to or interested in because those men have decided that they should be attracted to and interested in them? Are you implying that women are u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:44 PM
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What you’re missing here is that women have no obligation to date or have relationships with a man if their life is worse with him than without him. That’s a pretty simple and logical threshold and it’s fairly binary. It doesn’t matter is it’s “less” worse than it would be if he was more abusive etc. “D - none of the above” is a valid choice when none of the other options are a good fit. Dating is not a mandatory game of musical chairs. There’s no requirement that anyone (man or woman) scramble …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:41 PM
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Then, in your scenario, you - the man who caused the damage to the “woman car” is the one who should be held accountable for the impact his actions had on the next man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:06 AM
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“Romantic” doesn’t mean the same thing as “horny”… Wanting to have sex doesn’t mean the same thing as caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:53 AM
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Men (all people) should have whatever standards and preferences they want 🤷‍♀️. How is that anyone else’s business? They will either find what they want or not. If they can’t find the person they want who also wants them, they have a few choices: Keep looking. Improve themselves to be more appealing to the people they want. Adjust their standards and preferences to better align with the people who do seem interested. Find happiness in being single while open to opportunity. Whine, get bitter and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:49 AM
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We have all known that since we were 10…we just don’t understand why men didn’t also figure out that life lesson early as well 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:34 AM
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Assuming he expects her to be more attracted to him, and have that attraction based purely on his physical appearance, than to anyone else ever…yes. If he’s not exceptionally attractive, why would he think that’s likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:32 AM
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Scenario 1: A man cheats on his girlfriend or wife? Biology - spreading seed, dead bedroom, she let herself go, neglected him for the baby, it didn’t mean anything…blah blah blah Scenario 2: A man beats / kills a woman? She provoked him, she wouldn’t just shut up, she knows how to push his buttons, what did she expect was going to happen? Scenario 3: A toxic violent man targets vulnerable women with weak boundaries and poor self esteem and treats them like garbage after systematically isolating …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:12 PM
1

Just googled it. I got the type result for free. The “full report” had a fee so skipped that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:31 AM
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Got a firm type 1. Description is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:30 AM
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Amazingly, the same men who say that suggesting that they patronize escorts isn’t a real solution because they want to be wanted are apparently fine with paying for a machine that is literally required by its programming to “want” them. I guess threatening to unplug your girlfriend (when AI develops the ability to reject icky men) will be the new version of the historical financial control of women. What happens when the AI robot women can self generate power AND reject repulsive men? Will we ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:13 AM
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Being “real” doesn’t mean going full raised by wolves, lizard brain / id based cretinism. Basic manners, hygiene, and civility are baseline human requirements for interacting with other people, not “being fake”. It means don’t pretend to like things that you don’t like, don’t cosplay at being a totally different person (city mouse if you’re really a country mouse, life-of-the-party club guy if you actually hate noise and chaos, fancy foodie guy if you’re a beer and burgers guy etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:07 PM
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That guy should be ashamed of himself. That’s inappropriate and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:48 PM
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Flirting is an interactive activity. If only one person is “flirting” without reciprocation it is harassment. Sexualization can be mutual / consensual and part of sexual appreciation and interplay between partners or prospective partners. Sexualization also be offensive and gross, ie/ people who are scandalized or sexually stimulated by a woman breastfeeding a baby or the way some men act if a woman happens to eat a banana or a popsicle etc. Objectification is not mutual and is inflicted on one …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:47 PM
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So I guess you’re willing to be a fully involved and financially invested father for any babies that occur? Diaper changes, round the clock feeding and walking the halls when the baby’s croupy, preschool interviews, well visits, shopping for school clothes, school supplies. Taking time off work for snow days, sick days, holidays? Financial support, soccer coaching, college tuition, Etc etc etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:16 AM
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Please be far more specific. What are you giving m, what is she giving?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:11 AM
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Just look at what men say…”she must not have been satisfying him”, “she probably let herself go”, etc etc. it creates the illusion that the men are actually victims of women’s bad behavior and absolves men of any responsibility or blame. Women aren’t free of blame either. I think (some) women want to believe that it must be the woman’s fault because that implies that it’s something that women can control if they just do the “right” thing. It’s a coping mechanism to mitigate fear. If women can ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:08 AM
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So please explain what behaviors (outside of birthing babies) are “love” to you and what you and all of these other men who understand “love” truly want. What is the “right thing” (actions) that women don’t want to give that is real “love”? What are the “right things” (actions) that men do that women fail to appreciate as being real “love”? Please be very specific and provide examples for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:54 PM
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And a not insignificant % of the “un chosen”, the very ones who are on this and similar posts getting sweaty chubbies at the thought of women getting ”what they deserve” for not fucking them are actually just jealous that they don’t have the opportunity to abuse and cheat on women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:29 PM
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Why, specifically, would women want to make it “easier for any type of men to date or have sex with them”? What possible reason would there be for women to facilitate their own debasement and misery? Women already make it easy for the men they are interested in and attracted to. Women aren’t “equal opportunity” sex dolls that should be evenly distributed to any men who want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:15 PM
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Let’s say you do that. Men get “radicalized” and intentionally hurt women as a strategy to “win”. What does “winning” look like to you? What, specifically, is the settlement that you think men should achieve? What specific problems would it solve for men? What would change, who would have to do what in order to fully implement that settlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:49 AM
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It’s not meant to. It eliminates those people from the pool of people who aren’t looking for that. It’s a time saving win / win for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:12 PM
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If you don’t want to pay for a first date, don’t. If you don’t want to ask someone out, don’t. Plenty of women are perfectly happy not to be formally “asked out”. The best relationships don’t start with a cold approach or a formal “first date” at all. Plenty of women are happy to go 50/50 financially as long as all of the other tasks are truly 50/50 as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:45 PM
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Idk if you know this but…women also have jobs and money that they work hard for…shocking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:24 PM
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Women’s preference: Our lives are “net” better with you (any specific man) than without you. That’s pretty much it. If that’s unreasonable, then I don’t know what to tell you and I’m not sure why you would expect anyone to settle for less than that. Why have sex/ a date / a relationship that is not better than not having it?🤔 Good relationship > no relationship > bad relationship. Good sex > no sex > bad sex. Absolutely don’t see how anyone could argue against that🤷‍♀️. People DO justifiably get…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:26 PM
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Then what is the “men’s issue” that you are arguing about re/ women “overrating their value” and not “being aware of their true standing” if it’s not about dating and sex?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:20 PM
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You’re confusing women not being interested in providing those services, or dating men who require them, with women demanding that men change their preferences. You can want whatever you want, just like women can. People either find it or not but it’s not really up to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:15 PM
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Not being able to choose who women date is not a “men’s issue”. There are real men’s issues that you dilute and minimize by trying to draw any equivalence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:08 PM
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Some men still want that🤷‍♀️. They are absolutely free to choose not to date or have sex with women who aren’t that way. Nobody is demanding that they change their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:06 PM
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But how is it a problem then? Dating is completely optional. Shouldn’t everyone get to decide who they want to date (but not whether that person wants them) and what their conditions for wanting to date at all are (but not what anyone else’s conditions are)? Boundaries and demands are two different things. Women have boundaries around their own decisions, as everyone should.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:03 PM
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None of those have anything to do with men not liking that women are choosing who they want to date…and not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:58 PM
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And they can choose not to be with those women, just like women can choose not to be with men who they feel are too demanding. Dating is 100% optional 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:28 PM
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What kind of empathy or sympathy are women supposed to have for men who want to date and have sex with women who don’t want to date and have sex with them? What is the “issue” that we should all be “dealing with”? If it’s something other than men being unhappy that they don’t get to decide who women date or have sex with based on who those men feel they should date and have sex with, please let us know. If that IS the issue, then please explain why that’s an issue at all. If that’s what we are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:24 PM
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Women aren’t “demanding” anything from men. Seriously, zero demands. Men are free to be 100% exactly what they want to be. We are choosing to either date men who are compatible with us or choosing not to date at all. Neither of those choices place any demands on men though 🤷‍♀️. Seems like you’re interpreting women not automatically making themselves easily sexually available to whichever men want them as “making demands”…that’s goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:31 PM
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Generally they are required to get a permit to sell things outside of regular retail establishments. Maybe men who want to cold approach should be required to be bonded and insured and get a permit which can be revoked if they make a nuisance of themselves 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:58 AM
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There is zero chance that I will ever date someone who cold approaches me. That said, if men insist on doing it and are respectful and take no for an answer gracefully, I will be kind and polite in my declination. If they don’t take the no gracefully the first time, I will say or do whatever I feel will end the encounter most quickly, effectively and permanently. That may well not be kind or polite. Either way, please know that even if I’m kind and polite, I will be privately annoyed at the unso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:54 AM
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They despise women because they can’t own one (or more) of their very own. They despise women because women in some parts of the world can actually choose who to be with instead of being chosen and owned. They despise women for not desiring them and only them, despite the fact that they are entirely undesirable. They despise women for being the mirror in which they are forced to see their own shortcomings. Instead of addressing those shortcomings, they want to smash the mirror. They despise wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:05 PM
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So women should be far more appreciative that more men don’t rape us? That self restraint is the only thing preventing all men from dragging women around by the hair and taking what they want? Should we all live our lives in abject gratitude that not ALL men indulge their baser instincts? Maybe bake cookies every day and hand them out to celebrate the “self restraint” that prevents every man we meet from brutally raping us? Or maybe preventative blowjobs just to take the edge off for those who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:41 AM
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I didn’t misinterpret anything. Words have meaning and the language we use tells the listener the truth about exactly how we feel about the topic of discussion. Instead of offering a passive aggressive non-apology, I sincerely suggest that you look at the words you used and really think about the reasons you chose those words. People mock the phrase “rape culture” but subconsciously assigning the blame onto women, through the words one uses, for “enabling” or failing to prevent their own rape is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:49 AM
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Holy passive aggressive condescension Batman. Telling a woman to “calm down” because you don’t like what she’s saying, and then icing the crapcake by mansplaining “objective” discussion techniques tells us all that we need to know about why you are having difficulty relating to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:40 AM
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Do you not see that the language you are using clearly communicates that women are untimely responsible for men’s bad acts? Do you not see that framing women as “enabling” that behavior removes the responsibility from those men and places it on their victims? That’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:46 PM
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I’m going to make this VERY easy for you going forward. Unless a woman enthusiastically agrees to something from the very beginning, she’s NOT INTERESTED. If she claims a prior commitment but doesn’t offer an alternate date immediately, she’s NOT INTERESTED. If she doesn’t follow up, she’s NOT INTERESTED. If she doesn’t reciprocate your level of interest in clear, non ambiguous terms, she’s NOT INTERESTED. If she doesn’t call / text you back with an equivalent level of communication within the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:42 PM
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“Avoid enabling men to take advantage of them”. Wow. Way to put the responsibility of men’s crimes onto women. And yes, comments like this make you part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:31 PM
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I certainly hope that you are jumping all over those men who show up in every thread about men’s dating problems/ loneliness to threaten women with the looming dickpocalypse. The men who wax psychotic about “what happens in society when there are large numbers of disenfranchised young men”, who suggest unironically that women should voluntarily have sex with angry sexless men because it will go better than waiting to be forced to do so… Then you can go after the men who advocate for women to los…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:25 PM
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So what, specifically, is the reason that men rape and sexually assault women? How do you suggest that issue be fixed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:18 PM
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Man hires nanny…for himself 🤣🤣🤣 Oh honey, bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:18 AM
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The terrifying part…so is he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:45 AM
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With all sympathy, according to post history, you are 5’6” and weigh 105 lbs as of 12 days ago, both of which are well below average. That’s VERY slender, hardly “filled out” and you may want to think about bulking up a bit so you don’t appear frail, especially since you’re on the shorter side to start with. I’m sure your height is holding you back some, and in combination with being so skinny, it’s going to be incredibly tough. To add to that, you apparently don’t ever want children. There are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:19 PM
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The reason that women aren’t sexually attracted to a plurality of men is because a plurality of men aren’t sexually attractive, not because those women are gay… I know it’s probably tempting to grasp at that straw, but the vast majority of women are straight. Some men just struggle to understand that women aren’t attracted to every penis owner and desperately look for reasons that women aren’t attracted to them that somehow isn’t actually about them. Interestingly enough, those same men are rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:36 AM
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It’s not about pregnancy and child birth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:29 AM
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Men romance, invest time and attention, future fake and push for sex…then they get “post nut clarity” and lose any sense of investment in a relationship. They conveniently see all of the flaws once they’ve gotten what they want. Women are skeptical, guarded, eventually start to believe the version of him that he’s showing is probably true. They get post sex opacity and give undeserved investment in a relationship. They are suddenly blind to all of the previously suspected flaws and get their hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:25 AM
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So many men don’t even wash their sheets every week, some don’t even wash their own asses. Can you imagine the absolutely disgusting condition of their sex robots 😱🤢🤢🤢. It’s more likely to be found because of the smell than the size…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:35 PM
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If women got to be “dads”, we’d want more children too🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:32 PM
2

Why are men so shocked that women don’t offer men advice on “how to trick hot virgin women into having immediate kinky sex with you before they figure out what a horrible person you are and that you hate women”? That’s the advice they seem to think we should be doling out🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:54 PM
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How does your god feel about your post history?🤢🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:49 PM
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Being wanted doesn’t give those men the opportunity to exploit women and exercise coercive control tactics. They want women to “want” them sexually because that’s an ego boost but they want women to “need” them for basic life necessities and lack the ability to leave so that they can behave any way they want and still keep their bangmaid on a tight leash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:46 PM
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This is a great way to end up as “that creepy guy…”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:13 AM
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Baking cakes isn’t religious or addressed biblically either but the religious liberty lobby spent hundreds of millions of dollars on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:49 PM
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Rewriting a 30 year old law isn’t a practical solution. Law doesn’t work that way. What you CAN do is start a grassroots movement to outlaw circumcision. Write draft legislation and lobby politicians to sponsor it in committee. Gather signatures on petitions nationwide. Encourage people who share your views to contact their local and state politicians to advocate for your legislation. Provide interested people with scripts / email templates and contact information for those politicians. Gather t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:42 PM
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This is one of those circumstances where I think therapy could be very beneficial for you. There’s something very twisted in the way you view yourself, women, sexuality and relationships and it seems to be making your life much more difficult than it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:30 PM
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How are you doing your half of childcare and household duties if you can’t be depended on? What happens to those duties when you disappear without notice for a WEEK??? That is something that is very broken and I would be amazed if anyone would trust you as a parent or partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:28 PM
0

And how, specifically, did you decide that it’s performative? And how did you decide that interest other men get is also performative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:27 PM
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If it makes some men feel better to think that the reason they don’t get any interest from women is because all women are gay…go ahead 🤷‍♀️. Denial has its place as a self soothing mechanism I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:15 PM
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Not into unattractive men🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:09 PM
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Banning circumcision would never have passed. It still wouldn’t today. Not because of women or feminism or FGM, but because “religious freedom” is a tremendously powerful lobbying group and the vast majority of the population identify as being affiliated with some flavor of Abrahamic religion. Abrahamic religions don’t advocate for FGM so they didn’t object. I’m not saying that it’s right, just that it’s a fact. If the two had been tied together, nothing would have been accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:08 PM
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That not ACE, that’s discernment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:03 PM
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Women not being attracted to individual men, or even most men, doesn’t mean that they are attracted to women 🤣. It just means that they are normal heterosexual women and those men aren’t attractive. Oh honey, bless your heart. If no woman has ever been truly attracted to a man, it isn’t because all or most women are gay, it’s because that man is entirely unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:36 PM
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Women aren’t fighting for the right to circumcise their sons. Your fight is with Abrahamic religion (which is led by men btw). I don’t think anyone outside of religious freedom types would object (but there are a LOT of them and they lobby hard,,,). It does sound like you’re paving the way to claim that your belief that men are “expected to fulfill the provider role” means that men (aka/ male workers) should enjoy some sort of preferential treatment in the workplace. If that’s where you’re going…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:22 PM
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Yes but that’s how these guys get a reputation for being “that guy” which poisons the well for the possibility of actual interest from other women in those social circles or venues. It’s also how they cause the super harsh personal rejections that damage their confidence far more than would happen if they accepted the “soft” rejection of disinterest and walked away instead of pushing until they are pushed back hard. Repeated harsh personal rejections (and believe it or not, most women really don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:09 PM
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Referring to interest in getting to know the person in the first place…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:57 PM
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Continuing to try to engage when there’s a lack of CLEAR, ENTHUSIASTIC, and CONSISTENT reciprocal interest (not just politeness or tolerance) from the woman. That’s what gets labeled creepy, cringy, annoying, needy, aggressive etc. You will never really “win someone over” by wearing them down or “being persistent” so don’t try. Move on and save your energy for those who ARE interested and if you aren’t 100% sure, they aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:41 PM
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Women are far more likely to volunteer their time to help those suffering from actual problems. Volunteers are predominantly female, making up roughly 64% of the volunteer population, while men make up 36%. Do you think men’s aversion to actually helping those in need, when it doesn’t involve women they are attracted to, fulfill their own fantasy scenario, and result in their own sexual satisfaction, is biological or societal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:41 AM
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So…in your mind, women need to earn basic human rights by offering sexual access to all men who want them, regardless of interest, attraction, or those men’s behavior. Is that where you’re going here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:48 PM
0

Try not sugar dating 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:21 PM
6

I feel like someone should be calling the humane society about this…🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:17 PM
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12 year olds are being poisoned by that misogynistic drivel…most of the fanboys are too young to really date in the first place and are non ironically making themselves undateable by blindly believing what those grifters are selling. Key findings on the age demographics of the manosphere include: Adolescents and Teens (12-18): Content targeting young boys is widely consumed by those aged 16 to 18. Research indicates that boys as young as 12 or 13 (7th grade) may turn to these online spaces to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:52 AM
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The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman (Over 20 million copies sold) Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray (Over 15 million copies sold) Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller (Over 3 million copies sold)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:09 AM
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And good looking women get more matches too. So are you admitting that men are hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:42 PM
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They were banned for repeated instances of incitement of violence…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:31 PM
2

Are you saying that women are “causing harm to people around them” by not dating and having sex with men they aren’t interested in or attracted to?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:08 PM
2

Amazingly women manage to care about the problems of others without fucking them. Maybe try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:43 AM
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Circle of life beats cycle of despair!🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:00 PM
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Most is them have removed themselves from the dating pool because they are in committed relationships 🤷‍♀️. It’s funny that you posted this when women are absolutely not believed when we say that we are happier and more content and see no reason to date or have relationships with men. It usually goes “something something pump and dumped by Chad…antidepressants…old…obese…lying…blah blah blah…dickpocalypse threat…etc etc”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:51 PM
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I guess the question is, why would we care? People who don’t want to date, for whatever reason, and remove themselves from the dating pool are not hurting anyone 🤷‍♀️. Follow your bliss. Maybe don’t go out of your way to shit on the people you don’t want to date, but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:28 PM
3

This what happens when people binge watch Bridgerton and manosphere content at the same time…(neither of which are representative of real life).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:23 AM
1

I think we need to understand what you mean by “defensive”. Are you talking about women covering their drinks in bars? Refusing to go to a man’s house on a first date? Not getting into an elevator alone if a strange man is the only other passenger? Give us some examples🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:49 PM
44

Idk, I see toxic men posting here ad nauseum about how they can’t get women 🤷‍♀️. That’s pretty much the whole premise of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:54 AM
1

lol. Funny guy. Amazingly I have found that I don’t actually need a penis to do any kind of work. There are actual tools that work quite well. That said, if you decide to use it for electrical work…let us all know how that goes for you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:53 AM
2

If they are that unattractive to you, why complain? You don’t want them, they don’t want you. Perfect! Live and let live 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:30 AM
3

Why is that a problem? People sort for compatibility. Whether that’s lifestyle, availability, interests etc. If that’s not there, the relationship wouldn’t work anyway. Look for women who are compatible and wish everyone else the best on their journey🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:29 AM
1

So if I, as a woman, do electrical work for a man and he cooks bolognese sauce for me as a thank you, does that mean that I’ve been lured into a trap?🤔 Would it matter that it’s my 87 year old neighbor?🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:21 AM
4

I believe she mentioned cooking this food…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:07 AM
2

Does he “deserve better” or does he “need someone who doesn’t know better”… Also, if he’s happy, who are you to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:06 AM
4

Why do you think that the number of sex partners per man would be equally distributed (while unironically using the fact that it NOT distributed per woman to justify your argument)? People who have a higher numbers of partners generally have sex with other people who also have a higher number of partners. Everyone else of both sexes just muddles through. These women aren’t handing out wrist bands for access…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:04 PM
9

FYI, SSRIs aren’t narcotics, not even close …but I get it, you’re definitely a more reputable source for statistics than published peer reviewed medical studies 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:21 PM
7

Prevalence is 0.46% of SSRI users. Less than half of 1% and that’s for men and women…. Hardly an entire generation 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:12 PM
8

Oh goody! Mansplaining menopause 🤦‍♀️. Now excoriate men for Viagra use…after all ED is a normal thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:01 PM
4

Then you can rest easy because women don’t benefit from being cold approached, aren’t complaining about the decline, and will not miss it if it really stops😃 Funny, we never realized that those men harassing us were really just being altruistic and sacrificing themselves trying to help us 🤣🤣🤣 Whew, guess you were worried about us for nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:21 PM
1

Young men (and all men) should definitely stay away from young girls…🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:18 PM
11

OP is apparently literally a door to door salesman so I’m not really surprised that he doesn’t want to understand that people hate solicitation🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:16 PM
1

That’s probably true and explains the hostile responses that they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:12 PM
8

I really wish you guys would educate yourselves before you spew this garbage. SSRIs are widely proscribed off label for perimenopause and menopause because they mitigate the physical symptoms (hot flashes in particular) very well and because a lot of people are still scared of HRT for symptom relief because of previous studies that erroneously linked it to increased breast cancer rates. Studies have shown that >39% of women who consult with a doctor for menopausal symptom relief are offered low …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:10 PM
4

And I’m saying that’s fine with most women. Most women aren’t complaining about that. We generally don’t want men to cold approach us and we don’t want to cold approach them. Sounds good 👍 The people complaining are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:53 PM
6

Ok🤷‍♀️. Frankly many women would be happier if more men refrained from cold approach. As far women approaching ? Put it this way, if we wanted to approach we would. Some women do approach some men (generally warm approach). The thing is that it’s men they’re already interested in, not random strangers on the street. Very few women are complaining about not being approached by strangers. That’s really not a thing, far more women are complaining about being approached. If your algorithm is telling…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:42 PM
4

What would the result be if instead of a (presumably adult) woman, the other survivor was a teenage boy, an old man, a very young child of either gender? Would / should Cedric leave all of them to die because he couldn’t get his dick wet as “payment”? What if, after a while, Cedric got hurt and needed help to recover and survive? Would Fredericka be justified in walking away and leaving him to die? If she stayed and helped him recover would she still be obligated to have sex with him afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:07 PM
49

They just refused to take no for an answer. wife-beating was legally condoned as a "right" of husbands for centuries, it became illegal in all U.S. states by 1920. However, effective enforcement was rare until the 1970s battered women’s movement, and federal, legal recognition of domestic violence as a crime was not secured until the 1994 Violence Against Women Act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:21 AM
91

Do you understand that they didn’t have birth control in the 1800s? That’s why women had so many children, they didn’t have a choice, not that they were so sexually attracted to their husbands that they had more sex🤦‍♀️. Seriously, this has to be satire…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:52 AM
28

The main “men’s issue” most men seem to complain about is not getting as much sex as they want from the women they want. So yeah, women aren’t really interested in helping men have sex with women who don’t also want to have sex with them. Most actual “men’s issues” are perpetrated on men by other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:52 PM
13

Why do men care about “the bear”? Why do men get so mad when women call them incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:05 PM
0

Here’s the thing though, even the lowest of those men still ruled over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:58 PM
7

So…unless the definitions have changed…negging is designed specifically to damage a woman’s self esteem and make her more vulnerable to predatory sexual manipulation and “shit testing” is designed specifically to “test” men’s behavior under artificially created circumstances (aka vetting albeit in a very immature and manipulative way). So both are bad but I certainly wouldn’t say that they’re the same. One is calculated to be damaging, self serving and predatory, the other is immature and obnoxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:00 AM
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But why? Why should women have to be with men we don’t want in relationships that make our lives worse? Why? How is “being better with a specific man (or any man) than without him” an unrealistic standard? Why should women degrade our lives to satisfy the sexual wants of men who don’t meet that minimum standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:06 AM
4

No because women aren’t doing anything to compel this behavior from men and actually are often actively dissuading it. How is that “power”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:20 AM
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So it’s women’s fault that undesirable men don’t have the easy access to casual sex with attractive women that they want? It’s women’s fault that so many men create a net negative in women’s lives that women choose not to fall on their swords in order to make those undesirable men feel better? It’s women’s fault that so many men are clinging to archaic ideas about “leading”, “submission”, chastity and gender roles and responsibilities for women while also behaving like NEET adjacent, sex obsesse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:01 PM
4

Because women aren’t compelling men to pursue. Men are freely choosing to do so because they want something from the women they pursue, not because they’re altruistically taking on the task or because anyone is making them do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:43 PM
6

Most dead bedrooms are the result of trouble in the relationship. Some people need to feel comfortable in their relationship to be enthusiastic about, or even willing to have sex, other people’s sexual urges aren’t impacted about the health of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:32 PM
5

And yet we hear all the time that: A man wanting to have sex means absolutely nothing, less than nothing. Women are making a huge mistake if they think that men having sex with them means that they care about them at all. That they find them attractive, that they are anything more than an outlet for men’s insatiable urges. Men have sex with women they don’t even like, much less love. So which one is it?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:26 PM
8

One is telling women what they can and can’t do with their own bodies. The other is telling men what they can and can’t do do TO women’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:50 PM
5

That’s true, but what’s more likely? What happens far more often? And what kind of man can be convinced to kill that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:22 AM
5

So the real problem is that men have created a culture over thousands of years, which is actively and aggressively perpetuated every day by men, that sexual contact with men is ruinous. Are you really surprised that some of that has rubbed off on some women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:44 PM
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We are well aware that some men will masturbate into the bodies of women im whom they have no real interest. That’s not the moral virtue that you seem to think it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:41 PM
9

So do what more and more women are doing who have decided that the cons outweigh the pros, stop. Live your life and embrace your joy. If you want to stay open to the possibility that it’s possible for being with someone to be better than being without them, keep an open mind but FFS, stop torturing yourself for something you clearly don’t enjoy at all for a result that you don’t actually want. Why fight it? Why complain? Just…stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:39 PM
9

A crazy man can kill you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:35 PM
5

A lot of men stigmatize women who have sex with men too🤣. They claim that women loose value with every man they have sex with. They claim that women get “ran through”, are whores, some actually believe that women’s vaginas get “stretched out” but having sex with different men 🤦‍♀️ etc etc etc. The only reason men don’t stigmatize bi women is because they think it increases their chances of participating in a threesome with two women. Tell a man that he absolutely 100% won’t get to participate (b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:33 PM
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Do most fat men prefer fit women?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:38 PM
3

If both parties are operating in good faith and have the same goal, an honest and fulfilling relationship. Otherwise it can just provide a very specific road map for a manipulator to pretend common ground and play act at being everything you want until they get whatever it is that they want (notice that that’s not a gendered risk).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:44 PM
3

There are a few possible situations: 1). It’s a comforting fib to let a “wrong” guy down easy. 2). It’s the absolute truth and isn’t flexible no matter how “right” the guy is. And yes, this is a thing. 3). It’s a feeling but is flexible (aka worth a chance) if someone too good to pass up comes along. Any one of those could be the case in any individual situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:39 PM
7

It always amazes me that you guys can’t connect the dots that there’s no reason to believe that a similar or perhaps greater percentage of men who have trouble attracting partners would be abusive if they had a woman to abuse. The only reason they aren’t abusers is that they literally can’t be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:59 PM
1

Women finally having a voice in their own equality doesn’t constitute the “brutal oppression” of men…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:57 AM
2

How is that arrogant?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:57 AM
4

Equality is not discrimination although I can see how it would feel that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:55 AM
2

I think that’s called sugar dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:53 AM
1

Auto safety standards are based entirely on male physiology leading to disproportionate deaths and serious injury for women. Drug testing has been predominantly or even exclusively done with male populations leading to disproportionate health risks for women. Disenfranchising women in the demographic process is currently seen as worthy of widespread debate, no such debate would ever be considered re/ men. Men are revered for aggression and ambition, women are excoriated for those same traits. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:52 AM
7

Welcome to the experience of life on planet earth as a woman since the dawn of time. Now do you understand why women embrace feminism? You guys had thousands of years as the arbiters of the default state of life. We get how that inherent supremacy being eroded feels like oppression but you had a pretty good run. Maybe sit back and suck it up for a minute?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:04 AM
6

Deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:05 PM
18

Here’s what you guys struggle to understand (I get it, it’s different than how you function, still real though): Many (most?) women go through their days without really noticing strangers unless there’s something exceptional about them (obviously crazy, potentially dangerous, physically abnormal in some obvious way). We may notice exceptionally attractive men in an abstract way, like one would notice a beautiful piece of art or a really cool looking car or an adorable puppy. That doesn’t mean th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:40 AM
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Mmmhmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:23 AM
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Bro? Really? How does that work exactly. How do people reject those who aren’t interested in the first place 🤔. Granted that seems to be the root of most manosphere content but it still hasn’t really been explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:26 AM
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OMG🙄. Enough already. We get it, men of all sexualities are big mad that the women they want don’t want them. Luckily bi guys have the choice to be with other men if women are determined not to be shamed into fucking men we don’t want to fuck. Another day, another example of men wanting to fuck the people they hate and being confused about why women don’t embrace the opportunity to be hate fucked…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:22 AM
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Think about it…what’s more likely here, idiotic misogyny or a sense of humor…it’s probably not a humorous zebra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:17 AM
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When women say it’s not because you’re short/bald, this ⬆️kind of idiocy is what they mean. We may not spot ALL red flags, but some are too big to miss…🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:15 AM
9

I hate to tell you but cleaning sinks and changing diapers aren’t part of women’s “female nature”. They’re unpleasant jobs that need to be done frequently. The fact that women have “traditionally” been stuck doing them isn’t “nature”, it patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:27 PM
21

As far as I know, women aren’t approaching and harassing men on the street asking them to do chores. Women aren’t kidnapping men in parking garages or spiking their drinks and making them scrub grout or dust baseboards. Women aren’t obfuscating their intentions to get men to come over and do laundry or load the dishwasher or threatening to remove men’s right to vote because they don’t do chores for miscellaneous untidy women who need their foyer vacuumed…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:35 PM
2

If we did what I suggested, it would have broader benefits, be less damaging to boys, and eliminate any need for any of the bitter rooted manipulation that you’re suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:51 PM
10

Why does it matter? Is forcing women and girls into unwanted marriages and raping your wife more acceptable if society says it’s ok than if it’s just legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:44 PM
6

How about we teach all kids the difference between wants and needs? That might be a good first step. Then let’s work on critical thinking, media literacy, and delayed gratification. While we’re at it, it probably wouldn’t hurt to unplug kids from the internet and electronic entertainment entirely outside of educational uses. Under 18 can only have phones that make phone calls. No apps, no texting, no internet, no games. Bored kids will be forced to go outside and interact with other kids, learni…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:43 PM
10

This sounds suspiciously like a veiled threat… “Hey women, we don’t care what you want. We want to have easy sexual access to women. We can do this the easy way or the hard way but we’re gonna do it either way. You’d better find a way to make it easy for us (whether you want us or not) or we’re going to make life miserable for you…”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:26 AM
7

OMBs are traumatic to young women. lol fe shattering. Nothing can make up for that horrifying glimpse into the future. Having to actually touch them????🤢.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:49 AM
17

There’s a difference between pretending to be a woman’s friend for months and spending some time getting to know her and deciding whether you even like her as a person (and allowing her to get to know you) before pursuing her sexually. Most women aren’t interested in having sex with men who don’t even like them. Try to understand that just as men want to be wanted physically above all else and appreciated as a person later, most women want to be wanted and appreciated as a person first and wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:34 AM
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Whoever is more interested should be the one to travel and pay for their own flights and hotel. Traveling on someone else’s dime is a bad idea because they are likely to expect “payment” via sex even though they shouldn’t. Sex is absolutely NOT a guarantee and shouldn’t be an expectation regardless. If one party is willing to invest the time and $$$ travel to see if there’s a connection, that’s on them. The only caveat is that if either person goes into this situation knowing they aren’t interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:11 AM
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Preferential treatment, no matter how historically embedded, and the opportunity to sexually harass women without consequence are not fundamental rights…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:01 PM
11

While we’re at it I guess we should send our bank account information to that exiled Nigerian prince to facilitate the transfer of our millions and also invest in that groovy mlm on TikTok, every one needs essential oils, right? And maybe if that biopsy doesn’t look good we should try laetrile and green juice instead of chemo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:11 AM
5

lol. Of course they will🤣. Who are you trying to kid here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:10 AM
2

Just refilled all of my thistle seed feeders today. Love the little golden nuggets!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:10 AM
6

So your argument is that women should have sex with less attractive men who are more likely to use them for sex repeatedly instead of just once(since it’s harder for them to find new women to use)? Wow, so how is that a win for women?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:27 PM
12

Women, aside from street prostitutes, are not typically wearing clothes and makeup to “advertise” themselves or solicit men. Perhaps consider that women you don’t know don’t think about you at all and absolutely don’t care what you think of their outfit or makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:14 PM
4

Sure. As soon as “lonely” men stop saying that they need easy access to regular casual sex in order to not be “lonely”. These same men claim that women can’t be lonely because they can always find men who are willing to have sex (aka use them as a masturbation tool).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:09 PM
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This is a man who can’t tell and gets big mad because he mistakes common courtesy for sexual interest and blames women for his lack of discernment. Tell me, should women refuse to be friendly or kind to any man that they aren’t willing to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:55 AM
6

Has it ever occurred to you to get better at sex instead of looking for women who don’t know any better?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:38 PM
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So you think you should treat women who aren’t enthusiastic about you better than those who are? Interesting…well, play stupid games, win stupid prizes I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:34 PM
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It’s a first date. How is she supposed to know if she likes you or not? You’re probably a stranger…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:32 PM
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Speech is an outward expression. OP is talking about his internal feelings of lust or the lack of it and apparently wanting women to know that he’s aroused and because of his personal feelings of arousal, what women wear “matters” in a big picture way. Nobody has ever triggered a riot through their internal feelings. Men (and women) do have the ability to influence the behavior of others through their words and actions. Feeling horny tingles isn’t a word or action. Btw, women also aren’t respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:56 PM
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The idea that men have the right to “forgive” women for exercising their own sexual autonomy before they’ve even met, much less entered into a monogamous relationship is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:28 PM
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Again, if men want to be treated as fully functioning adults they need to manage their own internal reactions to external visual stimuli. Why should women have to know how they affect men’s internal reactions? Unless you’re arguing that men are either unwilling or unable to control themselves and their behavior. If that’s the case, they really shouldn’t be allowed to wander around unsupervised much less have access to any position of power in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:23 PM
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How about men just agree to not actively try to make women’s lives worse and we’ll call it a draw🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:18 PM
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Brush, floss, crest white strips, check for stray hairs (nose, ears etc)., clean smooth fingernails, clean well kept clothing, smell good up close but not strong enough that strangers can smell you. Consider rubbing one out before you get ready (apparently that can help clear your mind according to men I know 🤷‍♀️). Remember that, while you want to put your best foot forward, the real goal of the date is to have an enjoyable time and decide whether you like her, not worrying about whether she li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:24 AM
7

You do understand that your personal reactions are absolutely and exclusively yours to manage, right? Women aren’t responsible for proactively managing the personal feelings of random men (or any men).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:12 AM
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And amazingly (not really 🙄), no mention of women at all. Not once. Women are the interchangeable, anonymous, prize for gaming the “market”… And you guys wonder why women aren’t interested 🤦‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:11 AM
2

There’s a difference between the conversation you’re describing (personal complaints without a clear sexist theme) and a conversation that sexualizes or misogynistically disparages or disrespects a female colleague, client, boss or subordinate. In the first case, that’s not impacting the workplace, may or may not be indicative of a larger issue, and isn’t really actionable. Leave it alone. In the second case, it’s absolutely impacting the workplace dynamic, may be creating a hostile environment,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:18 PM
2

And you think that if those trends reversed, women would choose to have romantic and sexual relationships with unattractive, socially isolated men instead of either choosing partners that aren’t unattractive and / or socially isolated or choosing to be single? Why would they? If anything, those economic challenges would facilitate coupling up for survival regardless of attraction, not prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:19 PM
3

Reread my comment. I explained the logic of why the men are struggling (their own lack of appeal) and asked you how that is a result of structural issues (the assertion you made in your title), or “societal decline”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:33 AM
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The questions that never seems to have answers is: Why would women choose to be in a romantic / sexual relationship with unattractive, socially isolated men? Cui bono? What would make that a better choice than any of her other choices including choosing to be alone? How is women, en masse, not choosing to make their own lives worse in order to satisfy the romantic and sexual desires of universally undesirable men a “legitimate grievance” of those men. I know it sounds harsh, but if someone can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:29 AM
4

He selects from the pool of women who are willing to sell themselves to the highest bidder (not typically women of great character btw) and then pretend to himself that they aren’t repulsed by him? Basically prostitution with an extended warranty. That’s “alpha “?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:56 PM
3

Oh honey, bless your heart. I strongly suggest that you listen to real women. Your mindset is a material part of women’s choosing to opt out of marriage, children and relationships. Or leave your head buried in the misogynistic manosphere sand and keep raging about birth rates, divorce rates and the “male loneliness epidemic”…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:46 PM
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Reason 5,542,327 why women’s standards aren’t high enough. Men who seek out women that they think they will be able to control, manipulate and mistreat should be alone and miserable instead of making women miserable. Just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:51 PM
9

Men want women to want them indiscriminately. Women want men not to want them indiscriminately. One is asking for intimate access to other people’s bodies , the other is asking for autonomy over their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:41 AM
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So…you’re asking the public to donate tax dollars to subsidize men who are not only romantically unsuccessful, but also apparently professionally / financially unsuccessful (otherwise they would ppb themselves), so that they can get laid and then also subsidize the women and children they want to import (that they also cannot support)? How does that serve the greater good?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:53 AM
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Sounds like another “looming dickpocalypse” threat… “Know your place, submit or we will MAKE you submit” stuff. Oh goody, new tell us how we only have rights because men let us. Maybe mansplain about how we’re not being respectful enough to deserve autonomy. Let me guess, you thought it was cute that we wanted our little “jobs” but we’ve gotten too big for our britches now…🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:43 AM
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