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See you’re equating dating app life to real life. Men far outnumber women on dating apps and a lot of women and men turn to them for easy hookups. Most people don’t meet in dating apps. It’s like 20% or less. Most people meet through work colleagues, church, friend circles, and chance meetings when out an about and in those cases there’s not 1000 offers to every mediocre woman so there’s significantly less comparing and men who find women this way do just fine. I don’t know a single normal avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:54 PM
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Disagree completely. Things like having a good relationship with and how he treats his family speak volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:53 PM
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That’s assuming every man wants to be in a relationship at all times and also ignores homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:52 PM
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If someone isn’t a fully functional complete human being without a woman doing shit then he shouldn’t be in a relationship. No one disagrees that partner shouldn’t love and support each other in whatever way they want/can. That’s not the situation your own scenario sets up and not the rebuttals you’ve had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:46 PM
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Since I already have kids yes. I prefer someone who just works his 40 as long as he has enough to live comfortably he doesn’t need to climb any ladders. I prefer more time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:03 AM
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Technically can doesn’t mean fertility isn’t impacted. Also I don’t care if you fuck around forever just don’t commit to someone and cheat. If is not committed and exclusive it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:15 AM
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That’s called gold digging/using someone and not something to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:26 PM
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In their 30s!? You realize male fertility issues are more prevalent then women’s and absolutely age matters if you want a family. Also you don’t care if your partner finds out?! Narcissist alert. Stop being a terrible person. 95% of people will avoid you not just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:24 PM
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Exactly the man being described is a walking red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:13 PM
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If you don’t mean it that way none of this makes any sense. I seriously don’t even understand what you’re trying to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:10 PM
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It’s not an argument for why she should let him. You’re arguing she either has to let him or he’s going to be bitter and never get over it. That’s emotional manipulation. It’s toxic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:07 PM
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But you seem to be arguing why women should change their will and do things they don’t want. Maybe someone should act like an entitled ass who can’t handle the rejection if you don’t let them peg you. They’ll clearly never get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:06 PM
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I would argue it’s not depending on the person and what you’re trying to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:51 PM
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Or you can just live without b or you can be upfront with a and let her decide if it’s okay for you to get b elsewhere or if she’ll do b but if she finds out you’re getting b elsewhere then you’re going to be single anyways. It’s also very disrespectful and no one should be treated like that. You’re the exact kind of person I avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:50 PM
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Okay well it sounds like everyone is just going to leave the relationship with you because you’re too difficult in your rationalizing why others should do things they’re uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:48 PM
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See you keep saying within her boundaries while suggesting she go outside them. If some man tried to rationalize anything with me in this manner I don’t care what it is I would be single. I’m not putting up with this nonsense. I’m also married so it’s not like I don’t know how to have a happy relationship, I don’t give 2 shits if I get presents. I’m an adult with my own money. If my husband wants to get me something that’s great and I’ll be appreciative but he doesn’t get punished for not I’m no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:46 PM
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Honestly if some man tried to rationalize boundary pushing like this I would just break up with him. Then there’s no issue. If you can’t be happy with what I want to give then let’s just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:37 PM
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Nothing you’re saying makes any sense whatsoever. If your partner doesn’t want to do what you want just find another one and stop acting entitled to make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:36 PM
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I mean by man logic sexually experienced women are lower value. The scenario paints a picture of some older man who never had luck with women who’s settling for some used up woman who’s low value or something along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:35 PM
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Lmao. Please just don’t ever get into a relationship. Most of the highly successful people I know never cheated or manipulated anyone. Only people without actual skills need to do this. Shitty people trying to climb higher than their skills allow do this. If you can’t respect your partner, then don’t ever say you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:33 PM
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Okay and none of this is at all making sense with what you’re trying to suggest. If everything he wants to try is within her boundaries then there’s no issues. It’s only if what he wants is beyond her boundaries and no is the answer that’s what seems to be your concern. You seem to be suggesting she should move her boundaries for him because he never got to do something and can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:27 PM
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Also if he can get side chicks why is he so inexperienced to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:25 PM
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Well integrity would be something you seem to be lacking. Clearly there’s nothing stopping him from getting a side chick but a man of integrity would just look for another woman all together. If 2 people are incompatible they’re just incompatible. Don’t try to force relationships and push boundaries when you don’t want the same things. Just move on. Find someone else. Why try to stay in a relationship that doesn’t give what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:24 PM
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But sex is a consent activity. It’s not like he’s asking to be shown how to do the dishes. Usually couples are exploring each other and what they like and within boundaries yes she can “teach” him what she likes. That doesn’t mean he’s entitled to things outside her boundaries just because he wants to experience them and never has.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:22 PM
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I just don’t know what tf you’re even saying anymore. Tbh it sounds like you’re trying to convince women they should compromise their boundaries while at the same time refusing to outright say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:18 PM
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No. Just no. She should discuss with him what her boundaries are and if HE is going to have some sort of issue with that then he can get lost. No one should feel pressured to do anything they don’t want. If one partner says no that’s it. She doesn’t build a better relationship by compromising her own desires. That’s how you build resentment. I also don’t know what being inexperienced has to do with anything. Boundaries are boundaries. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:15 PM
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But you’re arguing in favor of benefits one by exploiting the other. Sex is a mutual consent only activity. You don’t get try to try things unless someone is willing. You never getting anal or a 3 some or whatever does not entitle you to it from your current partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:06 PM
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Even if she wasn’t experienced if she doesn’t want to try something she doesn’t want to do it. If you need a freaky partner go find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:04 PM
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What do you consider to be at someone’s expense? If someone doesn’t want to do something and you’re pushing their boundaries and making them uncomfortable that is at their expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:02 PM
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What you original wrote sounds like if he never got to do like anal or something that she should let him do it even if she’s tried it before and knows she doesn’t like it because he wants to try it and can’t get over never having the experience. That is not at all the same as what you’re writing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:00 PM
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One woman. One. Also she didn’t personally invest because of the marriage. If they hadn’t been married she could have been rich with her own investment. Supporting him made the money “his” but it was hers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:45 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a bad thing if they’re just friendly but she laughs about how much she’s able to get him to do and left him for absolutely no good reason that’s she’s provided thus far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:56 AM
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So you think just because the woman booked the vacation or bought the furniture that the man didn’t want it? I know a lot of men who care more about those things then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:48 AM
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Most of them are looking for domestic slaves hidden behind the guise of “traditionalism”. There’s different men who do this. Some are actually nice guys who are just mostly ignored by US women for being unattractive and not able to provide a certain lifestyle and they find wives and have successful relationships but then there’s the “high value” men who can’t get a US women because no one will put up with their assholery and they want someone who won’t question them. These are the ones who get l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:36 PM
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I mean he’s doing too much like mowing her lawn and shit he doesn’t need to be doing. Kids like 15 so it’s not like he’d be paying child support for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:05 PM
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The problem is a man who dates “down” can still get what he most wants from a woman. Men don’t care if the women contributes monetarily because she’s going to contribute more in free labor, emotional support, and sex. Men largely are not doing this so women want more of the money and sex appeal because they’re realistic that he’s not going to contribute at home anyways. Men who are very emotionally in tune and good fathers can date “up” in terms of socioeconomic status without issue because real…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:57 PM
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40% of global wealth seems pretty good since they don’t have equal rights on a global scale and consumer purchasing is heavily skewed by things like grocery shopping and purchases for children. It’s not like women are just buying that much more for themselves. Typically men don’t want the responsibility of household shopping so women are spending his contribution as a favor to the man. As for where each individuals money comes from? Well a lot of women earn more than their husbands. Its becoming…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:49 PM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:17 PM
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Well everything’s not even and most makes men look bad but you’re clinging to the one and only statistic that makes women look slightly bad. Have fun denying reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:01 PM
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70% are filed by the female partner. This does not mean they were initiated. A man can move out and in with another woman without filing. You can abandon your marriage and partner without filing for divorce. Also, the less the women has to gain from the divorce the more likely the divorce is to happen. You’re also acting like 70% is some huge number when is really only skewed up by 20% when lookin at breakup statistics so it’s very likely a lot of those men wanted divorces but just didn’t file. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:49 PM
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This data is based on who files not who caused or wanted. If a man cheats he’s the one who broke his vows but the woman filing in this case would be blamed if we count “fault” by filing status. Men’s suicides rates are more a systemic mental health and societal problem in the way we treat men. If a man can’t handle a breakup that’s not the woman’s fault. Men need to have spaces they can reach out and get more help without being told to “man up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:29 PM
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I can see the phone thing for a while due to how the contracts/payment plans work but just because someone’s on the plan doesn’t mean the person is paying it and with steaming it’s not like it costs any extra so it’s pretty whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:04 PM
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I know one who’s a pushover but they were married and have a kid together so there’s reason to keep communication open.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:03 PM
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I mean that’s what I was disagreeing with is the “all women”. I do acknowledge that exploitation happens. I just disagree that women as a whole unit are doing it so prevalent that it’s causing a systemic sex obsession in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:26 PM
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And? That has nothing to do with anything. If anything with the data showing that women are severely disadvantaged by divorce this would make me wonder what these men are doing that’s so awful women would rather live in poverty just to get away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:22 PM
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For the most part yes I do treat women who are “exploited” this way because most women know when a man is just after sex. If you hang out with players then they do what they do and women know it. If a woman is advertising her only fans she is advertising the exploitation. You know exactly what you’re in for. No ones making out partake in it. The only time I think someone is truly exploited is when it’s sneaky or hidden and that’s rarely the case. I do think some small percent of men and women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:20 PM
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Custody is 96% decided mutually between the parents. The most common reason women get primary custody is because men either don’t ask for it or aren’t in a position to be able to comply with the child’s schooling and care needs due to work. Having primary custody also isn’t exactly a “win”. Most women would like to have 50/50 so they have more time to actually work and not be a parent. Kids are a huge responsibility and extremely financially detrimental. You can argue it’s a joy to have them but…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:50 PM
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Only when the man has significant assets or makes a significantly higher income but again, these marriages are less likely to fall apart. The ones with the least to gain are the ones with the highest divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:23 PM
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But if you have money you’re more likely to marry a woman with money and less likely to get divorced. Sure there’s a small percent of women who are gold diggers but you can’t talk about “the figures” which are about averages and not one off situations and act like that proves anything. The average marriage is 2 people making relatively equal wages and the women doing significantly more of the domestic labor. Marriage is more often than not a benefit to the man and this is clearly reflected by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:08 PM
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I know a lot of nice average men in relationships. Maybe don’t associate with extremely shallow friend circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:56 PM
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Disagreeing is not gaslighting. I never said no man ever had been taking advantage of by a woman. I disagree that women as a whole are out to get men. If you can’t handle a discussion you’re the problem. You want me to agree with your very awful opinion with absolutely no evidence yet can’t handle my position which ain’t even gaslighting yours because I’m not even saying it never happens but it’s just not happening to the levels you’re saying. Also why are you on here and not out there using men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:43 PM
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Lol I’m not gaslighting you, I’m disagree about your position and being realistic that men are exploiting women too. This is solely your opinion and not a fact supported by any data whatsoever. Your experience is anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:22 PM
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Someone needs to change your flair because obviously you’re a man who lacks deductive reasoning and feels taken advantage of by women. Not actually a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:58 PM
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For every woman who actually acts that way and actually manipulated a man there’s a man doin the exact opposite and dangling a relationship in front of a woman for sex. Stop blaming entire sexes as a whole for the shitty behavior of a few. Men are not that stupid. They’re not victims in large quantity. Their adult human beings capable of assessing the personality of potential partners just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:55 PM
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The thing is your looking from the male side ignores the feelings of women and ignores the side of male behavior you don’t see. Usually it’s the guys that other men think are “good guys” that are actually doing the most things that make women the most uncomfortable. Alpha men are usually pretty open about their personality flaws which are typically being aggressive and mostly uncaring/unattached. The ones who are seen as good guys are doing more subtle psychological things that are much more dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:41 PM
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You’re taking all accountability away from men and presenting them as literal lesser beings incapable of critical thinking. Most men who are being exploited know it and they’re okay with it because they can’t or won’t do what’s required to build a genuine connection. Sorry but we apparently don’t live in the same reality because in my world only like 1-2% of women actively participate in any sort of sex industry and while a fair chunk (maybe 20-30% if I had to guess) have to some extent at some …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:37 PM
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The men that women are exploiting with sex are getting sex, they’re not making them sex obsessed. You going online and willingly paying for content isn’t exploitation. Men exploit themselves in this way. Women utilize sex to get physical objects form men who know they’re going to get sex in return. This is also a small percent of women. The average women does not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:25 PM
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What figures exactly? The figures don’t support this women getting rich off divorce narrative. Women typically fair slightly better during the immediate divorce on paper but they fair so much worse once it’s done that they’re disadvantaged in literally every single metric including finding another partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:19 PM
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This assumes that you even have wealth or that the women contributed nothing. This isn’t a reality for an average marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:57 PM
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Most women care a lot about sex. The difference between men and women is for women sex is about the whole experience of foreplay and being attracted because a lot of the pleasure is mental. Men would fuck a willing armpit. Also women being willing to exploit sex doesn’t make them like or want it less. Being opportunistic says nothing about desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:56 PM
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It’s still a risk assessment of personal safety. There’s pros and cons either way you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:50 PM
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I disagree that betas are generally going to be the “safe” category. Men with plenty of options don’t take rejections personally. They may be more pushy and aggressive but they’re not psychotic. A beta seeming male might think he’s super nice but he’s more likely to fly off the handle and do something he later regrets. Serial killers ares betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:09 PM
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I grew up in town of 700 in Alabama and it was almost an expectation in that social circle but that’s a very tiny fraction of our society as a whole. A view large cities hold a very large percent of the nations population and in those cities attitudes are very different. So it’s possible you had that experience but it’s also not the most common thing being experienced socially and in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:20 PM
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I don’t think there’s genuinely not women who want that, I think they get socially shamed by other women for accepting it or conditioned socially that it’s not manly. If people just made their own decisions in a vacuum without regard for others options or past partner experiences I don’t think you’d have anything that looks anywhere near the same. Most women I know want friends and deep emotional connection primarily more than anything. They want men who contribute but that can look different fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:52 PM
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A lot of women would love a man to do this. One of the happiest couples I knew the man was retired and alway doing stuff at home and the woman worked a 6 figure job. It’s not thankless just because the other person isn’t doing anything. It becomes thankless when the other person is giving you 0 recognition for your efforts or actually downplays those efforts or acts like you do nothing. I see a lot of men working easy 40 hour a week jobs and the wife works part time and does 100% of the housewor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:12 PM
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Stay at home anyone is looked down upon today. Women have been freed to enter male spaces but it’s gone to the point it’s expected not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:50 PM
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Normally when having kids this puts a great physical risk on the mother. You need to be married many times to make medical decisions for her, if she unable to work you need to be married to carry her on her insurance, and if she’s not going to work you get a tax benefit because you can claim her standard deduction despite her lack of income. You can have a long term partnership but as a woman I would not carry children for a man who wouldn’t marry me. It’s too great of a risk and too much of a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:43 PM
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We loosened it for men but it seems they don’t want to accept the trade off. Women are giving up thankless work for freedom and their own money. Men are being asked to give up their own money and freedom (head of household decision making status) to do more thankless work. Who in the right mind would want that? Some men are and taking on more home roles but most are resistant so it will take longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:39 PM
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I think you nailed it. If men were great partners we would have never fought for change. Women don’t despise staying home. They despise being unappreciated and controlled. Men act like if they make the money they also make the decisions. They think it’s okay to treat a partner like a child. Women aren’t children and we want to be heard and respected. We would prefer to work and earn our fair share money wise if that’s required but it seems even then men still try to maintain that “breadwinner” p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:36 PM
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I had one on one chats with some of the people there. It wasn’t in the general posts. I’m not saying it doesn’t go both way but for sure some percent of fa men are that way due to being overly picky. I also spend a significant amount of time online gaming a space which is full of lower attractiveness men and they’re all openly picky as shit. They complain they get no attention from very pretty girls while ignoring and rejecting the ones interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:18 AM
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I spent a few minutes over there out of curiosity and had 3 women tell me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:06 AM
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That’s not necessarily because they’re not wanted. Women are more likely to do subtle things to try to draw a man’s attention than they are to outright approach and offer. I also never said it wasn’t rare. I’m sure it happen only a handful of times in the average man’s year and maybe only once or twice in some men’s lives but for ever man complaining he’s completely alone there’s a woman crying because she’s completely ignored. Literally go on over to the forever alone woman subreddit. You know …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:17 AM
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I’m not arguing men get a ton of interest or interest in nearly the same quantity as women but the same men I see complaining get no attention I’ve seen completely ignore or be oblivious to the efforts of a woman or two in the course of maybe a year. I think woman attention is also generally much more subtle and overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:06 PM
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It’s very difficult when you look at the situation sometimes to decipher if someone falls into this category. This man would never tell others he was this way. He was super popular among the same friends he complained about. People are vastly different behind closed doors and will misrepresent how they truly behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:04 PM
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There was a mix bag of people I associated with before picking my husband. A lot of socially awkward not so attractive ones and some really attractive ones. Some of the ones who came on to me were really attractive some were not. My evaluation of them as potential partners was not based on my desire to procreate. It was mostly based on how much I enjoyed spending time with and talking to them. I dated a man who was considered very unattractive for a man (short scrawny and not a horrible face but…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:57 PM
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A lot of the men I have rejected in my life I would consider to have superior genes. I simply wasn’t into their personalities but they were intelligent and good looking. If anything I would consider them better than me. I like to be a bit lazy, someone who’s doing too much doesn’t vibe with me. I disagree with this view completely. You’re assuming every woman wants the same thing in life and makes decisions solely based on pure instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:40 PM
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Yeah I mean in the social circle I plucked my husband from there was 4-5 other guys actively pursuing getting to know me better. These are advances that I consider appropriate because they had some relatively idea of my personality and relationships status and they were all respectful and if I had time to participate in that hobby again we would be cool to continue as friends, there’s no rejection issues or blaming. They were interested and I wasn’t and that was the end of it. When advances are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:22 PM
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It’s not always pitiful or inappropriate but it can be and in my experience men are guilty of this more often. I never blindly hit on anyone. I’m into video games and anime so I hang out in spaces where I was able to make male friends and went for one I already had a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:03 PM
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Also you gain perspective by talking to others with different experiences so I don’t see how a discussion is ever irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:44 PM
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Actually I made the moves on the man I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:43 PM
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I literally dated a guy who seemed nice but would be considered unattractive (short scrawny) and he literally complained to me about how unattractive his friends partners were as if he was any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:41 PM
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I’ve seen it myself happened, and I’ve heard men complain about it and say this exact same thing from a twisted perspective of them not getting any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:28 PM
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Also I’d like to add a lot of the advances men make and get rejected for are incredibly inappropriate I got approached while pregnant because I couldn’t wear my ring due to water retention. With pick up lines that we’re basically like “how’s your marriage” or “I noticed you’re not wearing your ring” and by one man with a clear pregnancy fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:19 PM
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I mean the whole reason there is discussion around the issue is all we can do is speculate on some issues. I do agree that women have the upper hand in getting attention but I don’t think the average dude would have as many issues as they claim if he wasn’t only going after very beautiful women and completely ignoring the ones with no makeup and T-shirt’s and jeans as if they’re not even women. I’m probably like a 7-8 in attractiveness but I won’t get randomly approached if I’m very casual at ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:53 PM
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Some men standards for fucking are low. Some men have fetishes for fat women. Some men will date down. If you spend some time in the forever alone sub you’ll realize a lot of dudes who are perpetually single won’t accept a women who is of equal looks to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:37 PM
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Mine was around 16-17 but because I went to a small school I didn’t get hit on until I started working with men who didn’t remember me being a huge autistic weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:32 PM
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But most guys are wanted by someone, just not the people they want to be wanted by. Men want beautiful pretty women to flock to them. They don’t even notice when someone of relatively equal looks and status is into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:25 PM
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Pretty much my experience exactly. 17 was my glow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:20 PM
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Even if a man wants a long term partner that doesn’t mean he’s not also willing to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:12 PM
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Body language implies in person. Men understand what gives the vibes and don’t use those photos on their dating profile if they’re trying to be deceptive about their intentions. I think a lot of men are looking for that special someone but also willing to just fuck while they look and that throws things off even more because you could be that someone or you could just be another notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:07 PM
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Some men will actually throw all their red flags into their bio but most won’t. I’ve seen dudes in prison, dudes ranting about women openly, and dudes who openly just wanted sex for the weekend or whatever but most profiles do seem fairly normal and the only hint you have that’s it’s not a legit dude looking is that they seem “too good” based on their profile. If they really wanted a partner they would have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:06 PM
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It’s like quitting your job because you have a huge salary but your employer keeps trying to pay you in fake money and you have to sort through all the bills each day and constantly go back and get them to replace them more which might also be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:04 PM
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It said questions for women. I’m a woman. What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:58 PM
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I mean, I feel like communicating with words is probably the best way to tell a guy what you’re looking for and what you expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:42 AM
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Probably depends on how hot the guys is, how much money he makes, or what his standards are and where he’s looking. Too many variables to give it a this or that answer. Will be different for each dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:40 AM
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POV from a woman. You sign up. Look at profiles and swipe for about 15 minutes then put the phone down. You don’t have any matches at this point because the men you swiped on have yet to see you. Then they all start swiping and suddenly you have a million matches and 3 million likes and they’re paying for premium shit to send you messages and whatever. I signed up for a dating app once and I had 500 likes in 2 hours. I delete it the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:21 AM
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But it’s not even the most likely scenario women choose to stay home. I know a ton of middle class 50k earning folks who’s wives stay home when the kids are little because it’s best for the kids even if they have to live on a tight budget for a bit. Based on your information women with careers would just prefer to pay someone to care for their kids instead of giving it up since it doesn’t seem to be affected by the husbands income. Your own provided information does not align with your beliefs. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:15 AM
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A woman who’s salary is a “small fraction” of her husbands is in the top few percent of household income. That’s not the most likely scenario at all. I don’t think you have any idea what type of women general stay home or why. I’ve never seen a husband want to go part time or trade off nor does that make sense. Typically one person needs to be full time to provide benefits like insurance and retirement and both people gaining half the career progression seems stupid. The average number of hours …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:32 AM
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First off no one said that a single person can’t make a home. That’s not what the point is. Also not all women stay home out of necessity. It’s extremely beneficial to child development and many people realize this and prioritize the health of the children and family in making these sorts of decisions. Housekeeping also isn’t what makes a house a home. I don’t know why you’re arguing against what those men themselves have said. They specially credited the stability and support of their spouse to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:10 AM
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I mean I’m 33 and I collect plushies. I see it no different then my people in my parents generations who collected dolls or glass figurines. I never once implied that it’s a requirement for being a woman but it is commonly a more feminine interest and women are more likely to collect even in adulthood. Very few male plushie collectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:09 PM
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I mean obesity in itself isn’t the only defining attractive trait of someone and some people have preferences for it. I do agree people are trying to date up in looks general and that’s why I said it will only prevent partnering if people are doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:05 PM
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Women haven’t changed necessarily they’ve just been given freedoms to actually exercise choice. In the past they were forced to behave a certain way either with dire consequences of actions in being treated like actually property. You can’t take actions under those conditions and think that’s how women naturally wanted to behave. And I do agree some women are creating their own issues but I think those women are also heavily benefiting from that behavior. I think it’s actually harder for women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:02 PM
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Women don’t just radically change innate preferences because they grow up. They just become more refined.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:00 PM
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I guess I never worried about my partner caring, I recognize it’s my own personal issue. My husband was chosen for personality. I didn’t know how tall he was when I choose him. I just happen to really like his being slightly taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:51 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:20 AM
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Yeah your head, not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:12 AM
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Okay apparently these people by your own admissions don’t exist then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:05 AM
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Well you said something about your body being the issue and the something about surgery. Scoliosis will affect your body shape. That’s what the women I know who have it are struggling with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:58 AM
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Not to any mass extent. I’m well aware of the space and not seeing the influence at all. Where are you finding these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:56 AM
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I was just curious since you said it’s your body you have issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:54 AM
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Yeah I don’t see to that happening at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:54 AM
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I think social media explains the dating imbalance much clearer. Used to be people met face to face. Women had to choose from the maybe 2 or 3 dozen guys who would hang around whatever establishments they frequented. Online dating was something only weirdos did until about 10 years ago and people only saw the lives of those closest to them. Now women can select from every eligible dude in the entire country and sometimes other countries. People care more about how nice their family photos will l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:51 AM
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I know several women who struggle with the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:43 AM
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A lot of guys seem to not mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:39 AM
1

Do you have scoliosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:38 AM
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The only red pill woman I know who has any actual space on social media is justpearlythings. What women are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:37 AM
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The only space they occupy in social media currently is bolstered by paid views. Only fans isn’t main stream enough. It will just be kink porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:36 AM
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Sorry but no one actually listens to Pearl and most people think she’s an idiot. She just has super rich parents who are funding her current hobby. She’s at the end of her red pill career and I don’t see any other women caring about it. Destiny has almost single handedly dismantled the entire movement by pointing out the glaring holes in the logic. Red pill won’t last the rest of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:35 AM
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No you prefer defining others experience by your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:32 AM
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That’s very true I don’t know how your life is but unless you literally don’t have a vagina which I guess is possible then some dude is willing to fuck you. They might not be willing to date you but they are willing to fuck. They’ll fuck drug addicted 70 year old prostitutes at a truck stop and they’ll pay for it. My husband would fuck my armpit if I let him. Dudes will stick their dick in anything. This is why I say I do completely 100% understand if you don’t want to just have random causal se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:30 AM
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You seem like you think everyone receives gratification in exactly the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:04 AM
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This isn’t a rational or reasonable conversation at this point. You don’t get the point of what I’m saying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:03 AM
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You can get sexual gratification from someone you don’t care about or see any sort of relationship with. An “option” as used in this context is simply someone willing to sleep with you or date you. You seem to think by option I mean someone you would realistically want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:52 AM
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I feel like we are talking about 2 different things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:50 AM
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Never suggested it would be out of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:48 AM
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For me personally it makes me self conscious. I’m right on the edge of sort of being tall/big. As a woman it seems you’re most desirable if you’re super small or super tall and a model. So it’s it’s like a self conscious I don’t want to be the larger person in the relationship thing. If I was like 6 foot and had a model body I might feel different but I’m super curvy (not fat just like tits and ass) and I’ve always just wanted to be like small and cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:46 AM
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Lots of women have sex with dudes they care nothing for all the time either because they just want to fuck or they want dates and gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:43 AM
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I mean I see men resorting to paying for it. Like you wouldn’t have to do that if you didn’t want it to be with someone you actually care for, you could just pick whoever was willing. That does mean there is an option should you want to take it, I understand that not being an option you want to take though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:42 AM
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I mean, that’s fair. I’ve never had causal sex before. It’s very emotional and personal to me. Just throwing out there that the option does at least exist for you being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:25 AM
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It is for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:23 AM
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Seriously you don’t even need to “look alright” to just fuck. You just need to look slightly better than a gorilla with a human vagina. A relationship might be a different story but you could go on tinder and advertise you want someone to take you and have 100 offers tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:22 AM
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I mean, I’m it sure what your goal or morality is like but at least you’re a woman, you can find someone to fuck as long as you’re remotely decent looking and really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:18 AM
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By definition they’re still an option because the offer is there for you. Whether you would take it or not is irrelevant. They might not be quality options but when a large chunk of men would get rejected by a woman in the bottom 20% it’s a whole other world. Personally I wouldn’t consider those men who wanted to at all but I do recognize I never had to be alone, it was purely my choice. I held out and I went after and married the man I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:16 AM
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I’ve always been high libido and the older I get the worse it gets. 30s women are supposed to be some of the most horny. As long as whatever your libido is you make sure it’s compatible with your partners then you’re fine. The only issues are when one wants it more and the other isn’t willing to oblige. You do need to be willing to meet your partners needs to some extent. Women are more selective but this isn’t due to lack of desire. Men would fuck a donut if it had frosting tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:11 AM
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Ugly will only prevent partnering in itself if you chase after those significantly beyond your own attraction. You can make yourself more or less attractive with socioeconomic status or personality but your physical look very rarely if ever will be the sole determinant. Look at Myron on fresh and fit. He’s ugly as shit but he’s surrounded by women because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:59 AM
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I don’t think women looking for providers want to “live off” their resources necessarily. I think they want to add to them and want to know their children will be properly cared for. A woman who makes a house a home and supports her husband is invaluable. Basically every multi millionaire or billionaire today will say that once they got married and had the stability of a wife their work skyrocketed due to that stability and support. Someone who just wants to date a rich man for what he can buy h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:48 AM
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It actually kind of is. There’s a lot of primate studies around types of toys and females almost always prefer soft toys. Even now with my kids I have a 5 year old boy and a 3 year old girl and my son couldn’t care less about them but my daughter loves them. It’s definitely something women are more likely to like or want but I wouldn’t say it’s a prerequisite to being feminine like it’s not a negative if you don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:19 AM
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They want some anime childish woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:17 AM
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Exactly. The question should really be is it wrong to want your adult partner to act like a child? To this I would say it’s very boarder-lining being inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:15 AM
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I don’t think women realize these men aren’t getting laid. It’s so easy as a woman to find someone if you’re in the top 90% looks and social skills that the vast majority of women have 0 idea what it’s like to have to actually work for a partner. I have always in my life even as a minimum wage worker had more options than I cared to deal with and I don’t wear makeup or do my hair or anything special. I never wore revealing clothing or anything attention grabbing. I was just a nobody trying to bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:08 AM
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I think they know that they just don’t want to admit that they like assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:05 AM
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I’ve definitely had guy friends who I thought were cool as friends and who were attractive but that they didn’t have special something that made me want to be with them. I also came on to my husband and I had never seen him in person. We were just playing games online together 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:30 AM
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I’m 5’7” my husband is 5’9”. I’ve never understood the tall thing. I get taller than the woman but I don’t understand gloating as if it’s some sort of status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:49 AM
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