ExpertChef2420 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
928	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….	SCROTATION REPORT	ExpertChef2420	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 10:13 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Pick me! I’m cool! I don’t need a man to put in effort! Pick me!! I’ve been in that situation and it’s honestly the worst feeling ever to be not included in anything, when all you wanted to do was love the person and they just put you last in line for everything…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/21 10:46 AM
1	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. True, this hasn’t happened in a long time where I date someone and we’re all in the same friend group. However, from now on I’ll be avoiding that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 09:50 AM
1	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. For sure! There’s no way I can be my best self while tolerating that. A potential relationship where there’s no trust sounds like torture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 08:07 AM
2	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Yes, I’m glad I had the strength to cut it off and stop talking to him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 08:06 AM
2	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Definitely a boundary issue, I don’t even know why that’s a thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 08:02 AM
6	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Yes, we were just talking about our experiences back in school, which was a few years ago. And just talking about the friends we made, then he brought up the girl. I’m sure it went like this: “So how did you and her become best friends?” He said, “well (girl’s name) is attractive, but we are just best friends,” and he continued saying something after that. See how random that was?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 05:54 PM
31	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Yeah, he has some guy friends, but never speaks about them. The only time he mentioned his guy friends was when he said he was going to meet them for a day out, and that was it. I remember on the topic of girl bffs I said “you would date them if you could though, right?” And he went quiet for 5 seconds. I’m sure he said something like “well they’re just friends.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 05:37 PM
24	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. I really should have left as soon as he said that. I agree, I feel like if you’re genuinely interested in someone, the thought of telling them you find another person attractive shouldn’t come to mind	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 04:28 PM
93	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. It seems to be a common thing for men to want to make it clear to me who they find attractive. Even the last guy I was seeing did this. I tried to talk about a different guy to see how he would like it, and he just cut me off mid sentence. So clearly, he knew what he was doing.. Even if this current guy tried to make me insecure, he failed. Things like that don’t effect my confidence, it’s just disrespectful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 04:24 PM
236	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. I didn’t even notice he was trying to triangulate… I’m glad I didn’t get caught in that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 04:17 PM
12	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Right? Think the last time I had a sleepover was age 10	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 03:50 PM
23	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Yikes, huge bullet dodged. I would never want that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 03:09 PM
18	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. You’re right, I definitely don’t mean I should be his only friend. I would want a guy to have other friends too. I just don’t want him to have girl best friends, it felt like he was rubbing it in my face how important they are to him. So that idea put me off	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 03:07 PM
21	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. We’re both 20. After the good dates I thought that maybe I should trust him, but I just can’t, especially if he finds one of them attractive. Oh I will definitely be strong if he comes back. I’ll stick to my word	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:43 PM
185	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Woah I can’t believe I didn’t think of that too. I did actually find it weird how one of the girl bffs kept asking me “did he ask you out yet?”, “how did the date go” “where did you decide on going out?” Questions like that. And In a relationship with him, these 2 women would be more prioritised than me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:31 PM
94	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. This type of situation very much sounds like insecurity from the guy. I completely agree that men want a jealous reaction. Luckily, I didn’t give him that, I wasn’t even jealous, I just felt confused and disrespected	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:21 PM
89	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Exactly, he didn’t even try. It’s not like I asked him to completely block them out of his life. But this way, I found out I wasn’t all that important to him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:13 PM
21	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Good, I’m glad.. wth his exes too?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:11 PM
44	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. That was my thought exactly. Does he really like me if he’s fine with my having a sleepover at a guy’s house, and it’s just us? Never heard of that…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:10 PM
92	The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. Thanks for letting me know I wasn’t being sensitive. Sorry for the typos, I was in my office working and was rushing (I edited them!). Whenever I talk to a guy I’m interested in, I would NEVER bring up another guy. I never talk about other guys. I don’t get why men do this to me…? Once again, I’m happy that I’m in a good mindset to leave when something doesn’t feel right. The old me would tolerate this due to the fear of being single, but I don’t have that fear anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 02:08 PM