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It's not what people are allowed to do, it's about the message. Men are pressured to stay and "be a real man" and sacrifice. We're told to keep quiet and "happy wife happy life". Women are told to get out of the marriage, keep the kids, and take half his stuff. If you are loyal to your husband then you are some weak woman and a part of the patriarchy. The messaging is exact opposite and the statistics prove it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 02:10 AM
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Again, that's not the same message. "Don't get married, be your own man, you don't need to treat women like queens" is V-E-R-Y different from "leave your marriage, abandon your family, you don't need a man, and focus on you"
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 01:37 AM
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It's not anti women, it's anti messaging. How does something that is destroying millions of families and has emotionally and financially crippled an entire generation effect me? Are you being serious?
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 12:18 AM
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And that "choice" is what exactly? I would argue the big difference is women are encouraged to make a DIFFERENT choice than the one they already made that completly disregards the lives it destroys. Where as the male choice advocated by [the movement] is to make no choice at all. Rather, stay away from marriage and being tied down. That's a huge difference.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 11:34 PM
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I mean obviously. The nuclear family is the bedrock of our species. But it's only the female sex that is being promoted as it maybe some how beneficial to break up your family in the name of self. As if self sacrifice is a burden we should all be striving to avoid as opposed to being held as a virtue.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 10:47 PM
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Sad but true. I've been in 2 years prep mode. No way in he'll I was going to be another fat bald divorced dad sitting at the bar.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 09:38 PM
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This implies you have some control over your partner. That there is some magic equation that if you could just solve everything would work out. You keep telling yourself that you can set things up and she will see the how just and right the relationship is and will fall in line. Again, this is male logic. Women don't think like this. Spending your remaining healthy years with the small hope you can figure it out is a fools errand and only benefits the woman. You can only control you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 09:15 AM
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Idk... this sounds like the "just try harder" weak talk. This is what men want to believe: 1 + 1 = 2. This is rarely ever the case. Women don't think like this. Sooner men realize this the better.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 12:42 AM
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This is iraq war pre-emptive strike in my opinion. She is a good woman and there isn't abuse, drugs, alcohol, or infidelity but there is a very clear path the last 3 years and it's getting worse. Status quo only benefits her. I think that's critical. It never should have gotten this far. She hit menopause, started making more money, and slowly flipped a switch. I was happy for her at first, and still am. But the confidence turned into competition and aggressiveness. My success was our success. B…
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 10:06 PM
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Idk, I wouldn't out right discount EVERY single mom. But if there is a track record then I would avoid her. Obviously if you are depositor number 3, 4, 5... you are just asking to get burned. Some guys just think they are different and it won't happen to them.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 09:57 PM
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Mid-life BS. Decided she needs to stand up for herself and tired of me being controlling all these years. Which is of course not true. (She actually makes more money than me.) Everything is met with an eye roll or sarcastic comment. Everything is overwhelming and few things are good enough. Great mom, good woman. 99.99% sure when kids are out of the house she would leave and she's content riding it out till then. That's a good benefit to her, not me.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 04:03 PM
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