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Right, but the first guy is closer to the female ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:46 PM
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Thanks my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:14 AM
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I'm not basing it on feels, I'm basing it on logical deductions predicated on the words you say. I know you hate being judged by your words, but I'm afraid that's what's happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:13 AM
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I did assume you were a woman and that was wrong. Of course, you threw me off by not using logic and intelligence Really doing a lot here to undermine my perception of you as a misogynist, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:59 PM
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judging ME on my words Why does that part confuse you. Because you said you didn't want me to judge you on your WORDS. That means you DO want me to judge you on something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:35 PM
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you should stop judging me on my words you, an hour ago Judge my words--cool. you, eight minutes ago. Directly contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:20 PM
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Judge my words--cool. Judge me--not cool. Okay - but you understand that you haven't been clear or consistent on this point so far, yes? You have, in fact, directly contradicted it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:12 PM
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You know when you said: You are wrong and not capable of understanding why you are wrong. That was you judging me. And remember when you said: You calling me a sexist is proof of who you are instead of proof of who I am. That was you, judging who I am. And remember earlier when you said: It's interesting that you are TRY to superimpose your preconceived notions on what I am saying rather than judging my actual words. First you want me to judge your words, then you're offended by the idea that I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:00 PM
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Are you ready for the most radical thing you will hear: Don't fucking judge me. You don't have the right to do so. Yes. I do. Everyone has the right to judge everyone. You have the right to judge me. I have the right to judge you. And you can't stop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:54 PM
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Since we are different, you should stop judging me on my words/language. What the hell else am I supposed to judge you on if not your words or language? Your words and language is all I can see of you. I communicate differently than you and you calling me sexist is actually you projecting your perceptions on me. Calling anybody anything is projecting your perceptions onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:48 PM
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Yes, we can agree that men and women are different. We can also agree that the sky is blue and water is wet. Are you done being patronizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:40 PM
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WAIT, I accused her of hating men because her answer was that I can't understand feminism because I'm a man. There are things men can't understand about being a woman. There are things women can't understand about being a man. That is not sexism, it is not hatred, it is the obvious truth. Your issue is pretty simple in regards to feminism. If you don't believe it is perfect then you hate it. You're wrong. Know why? Because I don't think feminism is perfect, and I don't hate it. Oh, and one other…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:36 PM
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You accused a woman of hating men because she talked about being molested. You accused another woman of hating men because she said men didn't understand the female experience. You clearly immediately assume that anyone who identifies as a feminist hates men, and interpret everything they say in that light. Whether or not they are actually saying anything hateful (which these women were not).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:25 PM
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Dude what are you talking about. PPD has a crazy active mod team. Women's comments get removed all the time. The only reason they're less likely to be removed is that women are less likely to call people names or get super nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:19 PM
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I have read it. There's no context. You just sound paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:39 PM
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No though it's a proven fact. No it isn't. That's not how science works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:37 PM
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I read the thread. I didn't see you excoriate anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:36 PM
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A weak man will allow his friends to sway his opinion. A lovely sentiment, but not really what I was asking for. I wanted to see you excoriate a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:34 PM
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WHY do you use "quotes" and CAPITAL "letters" on RANDOM words?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:27 PM
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WAIT, you need to read my history. I fucking damn sure will jump someone's ass for calling a woman fat, stupid ugly, slutty, conniving, lazy gold digging whores. The moment I see evidence of this, I'll offer you a heartfelt apology. You can read so try reading 10 days of my post history. No, that's not how any of this works. You're the one making a claim, you can go ahead and substantiate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:23 PM
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Furthermore, if I wanted to be "mean" I would point out that feminism didn't teach that, but Jung taught her that. It's weird that when you're doing your fake nice thing, you come across as very mean. But when you actually try to be mean, you're really bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:19 PM
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And passive aggressive to boot. You really do have it all, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:14 PM
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Nice. That's a really nice way to respond to a victim of child rape. You really are a nasty piece of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:11 PM
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Every day in this sub I see women described as fat, stupid, ugly, slutty, conniving, lazy, gold-digging whores. Never once seen you object to any of that. But a woman says that men don't understand the female experience, and THAT you find objectionable. Reveals a lot about the kind of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:09 PM
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Like this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_bias_in_medical_diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:06 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_bias_in_medical_diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:06 PM
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What was the context that made you so sure "loser" actually meant "ugly"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:00 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:59 PM
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Context, context, context, is what tells me that you mean ugly when saying "loser". I see. So you have personal baggage linking the concepts of "ugly" and "loser" so closely they're interchangeable, and you assume everyone else does as well. Very rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:57 PM
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Fair enough, that does look pretty damning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:50 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:45 PM
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There is plenty of stats of rape in Sweden and Germany to corroborate what I'm saying. Okay. Show me a stat clearly demonstrating that immigration to Sweden and Germany has inflated the rape statistics in those countries. I gave you the sources you asked for, now it's your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:40 PM
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Nobody said anything about ugly men? And what does this: This is why men mistreat and disrespect some women, not because misogyny. even mean? What is why men mistreat women? Jesus, this comment is a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:31 PM
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Do you have any evidence that mass migration from these countries increases the incidence of rape? Or are you just basing your opinions on blind racism and xenophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:27 PM
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But what does concern me more is that with more and more progress feminism accomplishes, women's general happiness declines. Post hoc fallacy. Correlation is not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:25 PM
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Well, now you have one less reason to dislike it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:21 PM
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Well, you didn't change your opinion in light of new evidence; but you are certainly the first redpiller I've ever seen accept any degree of culpability, so you are still to commended.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:19 PM
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There go those goalposts. I knew it couldn't be long :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:10 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_the_United_States#Prevalence_and_number_of_incidents https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/showing-women-how-to-resist-sexual-aggression-reduced-chances-of-rape/2015/06/15/3935ba14-1067-11e5-9726-49d6fa26a8c6_story.html
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:09 PM
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Here you go, you smart and honest person. I'm sure seeing facts and evidence will totally change your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:00 PM
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Has rape decreased drastically? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:55 PM
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I love how he promised you "evidence", and provided anecdotes. Then you came along with actual evidence. Hahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:39 PM
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Absolutely. Women like all different things. Most of them will tell you openly what they like. It's silly not to believe them when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:20 PM
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I think they guys arguing for muscle - are not picturing my Olympia. Some muscle is good but there is a law of diminishing returns. You're absolutely right; but there are men here who genuinely don't understand that, and who call the women here lying bitches when they to try argue otherwise. Really. There are. Quite a lot of them. Most of the incel guys are either skinny fat or just plain fat. They would do well to put on some muscle. Fully agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:12 PM
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Yes, some of them probably are; but some of them literally think that packing on more muscles will make them increasingly ever more attractive to women, and that's just not how it works. There's an optimal amount of muscles for most women, and it's less than most men generally assume. Some women don't like muscles at all, and actively prefer skinny men. There's a lot of resistance to that idea in this sub though. I've literally seen men in this sub call PPD women lying bitches for saying muscles…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:00 PM
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Read the fucking OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:36 PM
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The thing is though that it's still a good strategy for men to get pretty ripped because it decreases competition. They'll be catering to a smaller pool of women, but those women will have way fewer options. There just aren't that many super jacked dudes out there, and the women who like them really like them. That's why so many men in this thread are saying their success with women went through the roof when they started lifting weights. Getting really huge disrupts the typical male/female powe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:21 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:14 PM
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Oh wow, a gay joke. You're as funny as you are intelligent and sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:45 AM
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You sure? I looked at their comment history, they really are consistently presenting as a woman. he spiraled a few times yesterday about the terrible affliction of having no sex life and how awful we dreadful women are. This sounds fucking hilarious and if you have a link I'd love to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:44 AM
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I have, in fact, read the science on transgender athletes. It doesn't say what you would expect it to say. Turns out, the human body is more complex than just "sex hormones". Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:40 AM
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Good idea. While I'm at it, I'll have a beer, and pour a second one out for your husband. He isn't dead, but I'm sure he wishes he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:38 AM
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Women tend to get more into muscles as they get older. You probably found these women just as their tastes were shifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:27 AM
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Not at all, I'm impressed. Very rarely have I encountered a woman who talks so much, yet says so little. You elevate vacuity to an art form.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:57 AM
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Jesus Christ, your comment history. You really did win the trifecta of low intelligence, shitty personality, and unwarranted smugness. At least tell me you're hot so I don't have to lie awake at night feeling sorry for the poor bastard who married you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:41 AM
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Sigh. Look at the OP. Read it once. Read it a second time The question is, do women like men who look like this or like this? The contention OP is making (and it's one that is backed up by research) is that most women prefer the former. He's muscular, yes, but he's not ripped. He has lean muscle. This is what most women prefer. There's definitely a following for the second type of man, but it's not as big. Do you understand the conversation now? There's a nuance here that you weren't getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:07 AM
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Women, statistically, are into lean muscles. Not huge muscles. That's what the research says.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:53 AM
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I love how you gave her like, eight examples that undermined her point, and she just ignored them and persisted with her inane fantasy. It's like someone built her in a lab to reinforce redpill stereotypes about women and their poor reasoning abilities. It's kind of embarrassing...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:28 AM
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To be fair to her, I think she might be brain damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:13 AM
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They hate it because they're a bunch of hypocrites, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:07 AM
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They hated her because she told the truth...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:05 AM
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When did she say women were completely altruistic? What the fuck are you talking about? What are you EVER talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:45 AM
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Sorry I pointed out that you appear to be a wine mom who makes bitchy comments impugning other people's intelligence even though she can't follow a simple conversation. That was very wrong of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:43 AM
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MOST of them like fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:39 AM
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Yes. They like fit men, not jacked men. That's the entire point of the thread. Read the fucking OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:38 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Literally half the comments I've seen you make are some weird, catty non-sequiturs. Are you high? Nobody's "demanding" anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:37 AM
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Yeah. So? You seem to not understand the thread you're in or the discussion that's being had. Nobody's arguing that women don't like attractive dudes, sweetheart. They're arguing that women don't like super jacked dudes. Women in general like pretty men with a swimmer's physique. You're an idiot if you can't see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:36 AM
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Buff and lean like Brad Pitt in fight club Agreed, that's about right for most women. Too big for some, too small for others, but catering well to the majority. Most women will tell you exactly this. I've genuinely heard a lot of guys in this sub argue that bigger = more attractive to women, and that women who say otherwise are lying. Literally, they will call PPD women gaslighters and hamsters when they say they don't like huge men. The level of paranoia you have to be harboring to think that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:19 AM
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Statistically, most women are attracted to guys with lean muscle, not super ripped dudes. Some women like the Schwarzenegger archetype, but not most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:10 AM
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Women definitely like eyebrows, you're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:05 AM
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Studies show that most women prefer men with lean muscle to men who are super jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:04 AM
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Studies show most women prefer lean muscle, not guys who are super jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:02 AM
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This is such paranoid redpill horseshit. Most women don't like super jacked guys, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:59 AM
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The point is, most women prefer this to this. A lot of redpillers think that bigger = better, and it's just wrong. Some women definitely prefer the bigger guy, but not most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:57 AM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:56 AM
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Even most older women aren't into super ripped dudes, ime. Most women prefer this to this. Some women definitely prefer the bigger guy, but not most of them, and those women who do tend to be older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:54 AM
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Yeah you can be a body builder and appeal to most women as long as you don't go crazy with it. The point is, most women prefer this to this. Some women definitely prefer the bigger guy, but not most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:50 AM
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I don't know why we insist on lying about this fact. We're shallow. It's so clear. This doesn't even make sense. Why is preferring super ripped guys more shallow than preferring guys with a swimmers' build? They're both equally shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:45 AM
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This guy explains it well. Most women aren't into super jacked dudes, but the women who are into that are easier to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:42 AM
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What did Christian Grey look like? Christian Grey looked like this. Good muscle definition but not super massive. Smaller than either Jason Momoa or Henry Cavill. Christian Grey is a pretty good illustration of the body type the average woman finds optimally attractive. A lot of guys around here think that more muscles = better. It's just not true. Most women aren't into this. Christian Grey > dad bod, but also Christian Grey > super ripped bod
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:39 AM
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It's absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:28 AM
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Spittin' straight facts over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:26 AM
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Sure but I have yet to meet a huge bodybuilder who got turned down for having too much muscle or being too big. I have. There are far more women into big, muscular guys than there are women into fat guys. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:24 AM
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This guy explained it well. Most women don't find super ripped guys hot, but a small minority find them very hot, and those women are by far the easiest to cater to. It's a good strategy in terms of pulling pure numbers, but it's still not what most women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:22 AM
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Right, but the point is they're all hot white guys who aren't ripped. That seems to be the ideal archetype for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:20 AM
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It's like this guy said. Most women aren't super into muscles, but a minority are very into muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:18 AM
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It's not that muscles are attractive to a majority of women, it's that women exist who are consistently attracted by musculature. This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:17 AM
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Completely serious. I value science, redpillers in general seem to value anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:39 AM
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It's true. There's no actual study showing there's a problem here, just mass hysteria fueled by anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:18 AM
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it's you doesn't understand how shitty the average sample size is and how significantly large the OkCupid one is Yes, the OKC study had a large sample size. That's a strength. It also had a biased sample. That's a weakness. By comparing the strengths and weaknesses of various different studies, we can construct a holistic picture of the population in question that probably at least somewhat resembles reality. This is how you do science. Isn't learning fun? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:02 AM
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considering most people who are in college are single, I think it fucking applies Yes, it applies to people who use OLD. Not to people who don't. This isn't complicated. Why do redpillers never understand how science works?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:41 AM
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It applies if we're generalizing the findings to the population at large
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:19 AM
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I'm just telling you what I've noticed, bro. Redpillers are bad at engaging with personal responsibility. I just had two separate slapfights with a redpiller who accused me of trolling and harassing him, but wasn't able to take the simple step of ending the conversation. He had to get the mods to nuke the thread in order to feel comfortable walking away. Another redpiller just accused me of trolling to wiggle out of an argument he was losing. He couldn't admit that he was wrong, and he couldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:03 AM
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It applies if we're generalizing the findings to the population at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:52 AM
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Maybe half of the population at large. Definitely not half of PPD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:48 AM
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Either you"re married or you're lying So you agree there is at least one subset of the population that doesn't use OLD. So it's a biased sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:46 AM
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I never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:44 PM
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It's not an assumption. Dating sites provide a biased sample. It's a fact. They're still worth studying, but the limitations are obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:39 PM
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This is something anyone with a three-digit IQ didn't need to be told.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:37 PM
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Yuuuup. They won't like hearing it, but it's true. One thing I've noticed about redpill men is that they're generally allergic to personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:35 PM
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It is why transsexuals are sweeping women’s sports to the point that controversy can be created. This is propaganda. It isn't happening. The controversy is fabricated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:30 PM
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Quelle surprise...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:01 PM
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No, he/she would have lost just the same. I read that source for the lolz, and it doesn’t back up his/her point. Please, do elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:55 PM
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Because it isn’t embarrassing nor is it “scientific illiteracy“ Sure, of course... And yet, op quickly submitted to me when I said the source wasn’t useful. He/she didn’t fight me at all over it period. Yes, OP is clearly too nice for his own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:27 PM
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I mean look at you, you are being quite rude yourself. Arguing things like “ It's... kind of embarrassing.” Why does my rudeness bother you when you are rude yourself? I'm not being rude, I'm reacting authentically to the moment. I, personally, would feel embarrassed to demonstrate this kind of scientific illiteracy in public. You clearly don't find it embarrassing, and I think that's great. I wish I had your confidence. Nope, I just dislike digging through trash to find the source when op is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:12 PM
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The studies are what is needed, not the interpretations of said studies If you don't trust PD's interpretation, then go find the raw data and interpret it yourself. Providing an accessible source is a courtesy made on your behalf, it's rude to ignore it. It makes the data from the studies a second hand source and those are the worst to pull data from. So you dislike science journalism generally, then. I've noticed a lot of redpillers do. I think it's because it tends to report things that dispro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:42 AM
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Notice Sid ignores the Psychology Today link, because he doesn't understand the difference between a University conducting a study and a pop psych rag reporting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:32 AM
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The third link is psychologytoday, so I am not going to even bother messing with it. Psychology Today is fine in this context. They're not performing the science, they're just reporting on it. This is a pattern I've noticed with redpillers. They don't seem to understand the difference between science and science journalism. If they can spot a flaw in an article written about a scientific study, they think that makes the study itself bad. It's... kind of embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:28 AM
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You were telling men what they should want or need or what is “enough”. He just factually didn't do this. You're responding out of emotion, not out of logic You’re all like that. Strange, I'm a man ...and that's why you blundered into this embarrassing little exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:15 AM
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Isn't it funny how he constantly accuses women of dismissing men's experiences, and then does the exact same thing to men who aren't like him? Almost like he's some kind of hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:00 AM
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If you tell a man all you want from him is sex, that is a good thing. Not bad. Good. I have a male friend who is currently experiencing the worst depression of his life because his FWB doesn't want to pursue a relationship with him. He's broken-hearted. Multiple other people in this thread have described men who had similar experiences. It's funny how you like to accuse women of dismissing men's experiences, then immediately do the same thing to any man with a different perspective to your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:58 AM
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Right, of course you don't. Because you're male, and therefore incapable of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:11 AM
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This is very insightful and well-researched. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:50 AM
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"Wow, I can put myself in your shoes, man, and I can understand where you are coming from. I can understand how difficult that is. I can understand why you take the positions you do and why your life looks as it does. I can understand why you are/do what you are/do." Every adult I know can do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:17 AM
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Wow, such empathy. Men truly are the superior gender <_<
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:15 AM
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That's awful, I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:13 AM
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Shh, don't point out the double standard, you'll make his head explode...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:19 PM
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You’ve encountered bottom 80% men. But you don’t see them, notice them, know them, or understand their lived experiences. I've literally heard multiple men in PPD debate admit that they view women in exactly this way lmao The special pleading of redpillers, my God.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:19 PM
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This is the case for women in general, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:09 PM
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Why is evol psych not "respected"? Because it's by and large a collection of unfalsifiable just-so stories. What is the authority in question that suggests evol psych disreputable? There's no "authority". It's just other scientists. People in the sciences generally don't respect evo psych. As far as I can tell, it's largely politically correct nature of peer review culture which has, as of late, ruined science altogether in a post-truth world Boy, this sure is some words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:29 AM
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I don't understand what point you're trying to make. We're discussing who's more forgiving of baldness, men or women. What exactly are you discussing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:26 AM
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Why don't you tell me what you're unclear on, and then I'll see if I can explain it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:25 AM
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I just explained it. Literally what are you confused about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:22 AM
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What do you need explained to you? Evo psych is not evolution. Evo psych is not a highly regarded field. What are you not getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:19 AM
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lol, typical redpiller. Can't handle that the science disagrees with him, so he starts writing revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:18 AM
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That's not evolution 101. That's evo psych, a clown field. For clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:17 AM
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No, that's the overwhelming majority of older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:16 AM
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Evo psych is not evolution 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:11 AM
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And hypergamy is part of the natural instinct of women. This is what evol psych states You are aware that evo psych is heavily derided by scientists in all other fields, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:08 AM
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This is the reality that a lot of redpillers just don't want to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:51 AM
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See what I mean? Instead of offering a logical rebuttal to my argument, you downvote it reflexively. Redpillers do this kind of thing a lot, because they aren't able to reason through their emotions and see that they're being illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:44 AM
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I've noticed that redpillers do this a lot. I think it's because they have trouble distinguishing between fantasy and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:33 AM
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Yeah, this is called a double standard. MGTOW = brave independent Kings WGTOW = filthy entitled shrews This is pure cognitive dissonance. You can't see it because, like most redpillers, your thinking is based on emotion rather than on logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:25 AM
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Great but you didn’t address what I was talking about in this comment chain. Like I said, the desperate post-wall hags meme is also provably false. Science just doesn't back up what redpillers believe. Everything in your philosophy is counter-factual. The name calling is not a good look. Do better. Don't tell me what to do. I don't give a shit if I look "good" to you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:09 AM
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Right. So the conclusion here is that men are less forgiving when their partners go bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:06 AM
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I shared this, actually. Are you illiterate? Is that the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:03 AM
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I just did share data, actually. I guess you can't read?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:01 AM
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Right, but that's beside the point. Is going bald more like getting fat, or is it more like going bald? We have a perfect 1:1 equivalent here, there's no reason to bring weight gain into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:01 AM
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Look at people who are considered attractive to women and they all have similarities. No actually, they don't. Everything you believe is provably false. The science is in, you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:57 AM
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The incel part is hilarious because it’s a boogie man that you can use to discredit otherwise logical argument. Incel philosophy isn't logical, it's provably false. The desperate post-wall hags meme is also cope. The science is clear, that's not what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:53 AM
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This conforms to my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:12 AM
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Women can go bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:03 AM
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Right, but you do want a celebrity. You're hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:59 AM
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If a bluepiller is anyone not taken in by provable redpill bullshit, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:15 AM
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Chicks over here, they're all loyally married to at least half a dozen of "Chads", each of them ultrachadding AF TF out of at least one of their live needs. Given that women in general have more options and higher standards, this is what you would expect to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:14 AM
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There is no top 20% of men. Women disagree on what makes a man attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:03 AM
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Is it reasonable for them to reject men who are clearly their equals? LOL, this from a MGTOW. The sheer, naked hypocrisy of redpillers, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:54 PM
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Yes, and the point is she's saying the kind of thing that men on this sub insist isn't said in mainstream media. I agree. My point is that the host herself isn't saying things she actually believes. She knows it's all bullshit. So to be clear, "Women don't like men who are too nice or who other women don't want, they want men who have options and aren't overly available" isn't true and men shouldn't believe it? With few exceptions, no maxim about what women find attractive in a man is ever gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:46 PM
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Yes, the host is regurgitating racy and controversial maxims from the cultural reservoir in order to entertain and titillate her listeners. That's showbiz, toots. Don't believe she believes a single word she's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:33 PM
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Women are actually much more okay with dying alone. A majority of older women (71%) say they aren’t looking to date right now, compared with 42% of men 40 and older. source: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:30 PM
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LOL what a pointless and irrelevant distinction. The point is that when men opt out of the dating market you're all for it, but when women do the same thing you get offended. Because you're not rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:22 PM
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No, but apparently it's from Wake Forest University.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:19 PM
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...you know that Waiting by the Phone is scripted, right? They're all actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:09 PM
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Funny how when men go their own way they're brave and independent, but when women do it they're selfish and entitled. Almost like this mindset isn't rational...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:01 PM
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yep :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:32 PM
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80/20 is a myth. It's true that women are attracted to a smaller percentage of men, but it's a different 20% for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:32 PM
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What you'll see is the 80/20 rule applies pretty much across the board Yes, but it's a different 20% for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:21 PM
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It's true that women find a smaller percentage of men attractive on average, perhaps even as little as 20%. What repillers won't tell you is that it's a different 20% for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:19 PM
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Did you get stuck on the formatting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:06 PM
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Go on, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:00 PM
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You can't just admit that this is an elastic term that exists entirely to soothe redpill cognitive dissonance, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:58 PM
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Like most redpill terms, the mening of "hypergamy" shifts to mean whatever redpillers need it to mean in the present moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:55 PM
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No you don't, because every woman doesn't have her pick of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:50 PM
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Funny how creative redpillers are getting with their definitions now that you've brought actual facts to the table, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:49 PM
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That makes even less sense then. Everybody wants to date someone out of their league. If redpillers had any intellectual honesty they'd say "humans are naturally hypergamous" but of course that kind of common sense talk doesn't allow them to demonize women as efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:48 PM
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Way to demonstrate his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:44 PM
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who's denying that though? The conventional use of the term "hypergamy" implicitly denies this by being applied only to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:44 PM
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The hypergamy is most clearly expressed by the large number of women choosing to opt out of relationships altogether rather than accept what is available to them Yes, all redpill jargon is true if you define them creatively enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:41 PM
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That's the MGTOW line, yes. "Men are opting out of marriage rather than dealing with modern women."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:39 PM
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Some women do. The majority of women prefer average-sized men. This has been investigated scientifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:25 PM
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I'm actually very interested in this , I just assumed most women liked big and muscular dudes It's been pretty well established scientifically that men dramatically overestimate the extent to which women are drawn to muscle. Men think all women think more muscle = better. In reality, most women want average sized men, and a small minority of women want enormous, muscle-bound men. This observation also aligns pretty well with what my female friends claim to find attractive, fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:24 PM
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Mark of the Beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:56 AM
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That's rough, man. I'm really glad things are going better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:13 AM
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How exactly do you propose we solve this problem? Women have higher standards and that's just how it is. Nothing's ever going to change it. I don't see the point of complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:48 AM
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80/20 is objectively not true, and definitely not going to turn into 90/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:06 AM
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Well sorry, that just isn't how life works. There's no approach that works for majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:43 AM
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Eye color isn't masculine or feminine, that's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:06 AM
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On these platforms you'll see things like I don't want men to ever approach me, and in the same scroll see the opposite It's almost like women are individuals who all want different things. I know that thought is scary to redpillers though, no need to dwell on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:04 AM
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That's a blatant cop out, you can't do anything about any of the problems facing black men. You said something ridiculous, uneducated, and provably wrong. Own up to it instead of deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:41 AM
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How do you define rape? Because it seems in New Zealand that the rape is 25.8 per 100,000 which is somewhat lower than the U.S.(where rape is taken very seriously, in most states anyone convicted of it automatically gets 5 years in jail, no expectations ), and women in new Zealand aren't really shamed for reporting rape compared other countries like UAE(rape rate:1.50), where women can't report rape or they could risk going to jail. From your own damn link: It is estimated that approximately 35%…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:01 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:45 PM
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Allow me to blow your mind: satire can be cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:40 PM
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Right, but lesbian relationships don't inform the male-female dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:00 PM
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Rape is actually fairly uncommon in nature. Primates are unusual in their propensity for sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:56 PM
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Just because it's concern doesn't mean it happens ( frequently at least) or even that it's a justified/rational fear ...Your language is so incredibly telling. Yes, rape is absolutely a justified fear for women. This is not a matter of opinion, sorry. Also I don't know why you're using the fact that I participate in this sub as an insult because you're on this sub too. So what does that say about you if you're also on this sub like me? It says I creeped on the profile of somebody in /r/fatlogic …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:27 PM
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I have so many questions. What kind of deranged crackhead vomited up this nonsense? In what universe does this pass for human conversation? Has this writer ever met a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:12 PM
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A significant number of them do, in college at least Also why do you think most women don't do it? (Maybe because the threat of rape isn't as big as feminist exaggerate it to be) Most women don't carry pepper spray as a fashion statement. A huge number of women carry pepper spray, because believe it or not rape is a pretty salient concern to women at large. It's really weird that you think fashion is a primary motivator behind women in general carrying pepper spray. It tells me a lot about how y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:28 AM
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Women have told me this themselves. I know women who got pepper spray just because all the other friends had pepper spray. Most women don't do this. Most women who even get the pepper spray never even use it. Obviously most women who get it don't use it. It's a contingency measure. There's a big difference between ideologies like astrology which were made in the 2000 BC off of pseudoscience and followed by white girls on Instagram, and Democratic laws(protective orders) that are enforced heavily…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:12 AM
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You're right, it's not an argument, it's sheer incredulity that anyone with internet access could be this ill-informed. Restraining orders wouldn't exist if they weren't effective? Yeah, great argument. That's why homeopathy, reiki, and astrology exist as well. Because they're so effective. And you think women use pepper spray as a fashion trend? Yes; so chic, much fashionable. Jesus Christ. You're so ignorant it's actually offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:07 AM
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Oh my God to all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:41 AM
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To get security you can 1.Buy a gun with proper defense classes 2.Use police (if you live in a first world country) 3.Get a strong partner to protect you when possible Also most things that relate to security in terms of dating are things like rape which are pretty rare You are terrifyingly ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:13 AM
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I still get the chance at a relationship, which is way more important since we are social creatures who desire intimacy and connection Security is objectively more important than intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:54 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:01 PM
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Why would they settle down after marriage? They're still attractive, they still have more opportunities for adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:55 PM
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So attractive people cheat more, but divorce less?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:50 PM
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What about casual settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:44 PM
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Your argument that attractive people have a lower divorce rate seems to be contradicted by your comment here that attractive men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:25 PM
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You're saying hot people have lower divorce rates? Do you have any evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:01 PM
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and that modesty pretty much goes away in the bedroom lol. This just isn't true in all cases. I spend a lot of time in r/exmormon and r/fundiesnarkuncensored, and it's very common for women there to report that going from complete chastity to full intercourse in the span of one night was very traumatic for them, and caused lasting sexual dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:52 AM
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What's OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:25 AM
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:)
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 09:30 AM
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This makes me really sad to read. I'm so sorry things are hard for you. I've been very lonely at prior points in my life as well, so I can empathize. If you ever need a friend or someone to talk to, you can always message me <3
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 04:57 AM
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