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| 1 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsSome people here don't believe other people have different inclinations than themselves and thus are susceptible to different behaviour than them. Some are even denying children are easily influenced by media. It is what it is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/25 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Boys to learn difference between porn and real life to tackle misogyny in England’s schoolsThey already do in the UK supposedly. They are laws against consuming many of the harmful content online. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/12/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the motivation behind all the attempts to erase domestic abuse and sexual victimisation of men?I wouldn't say that it is seeing people as human that is evil as much as there is worry about misanthropes who believe that everyone should be good and pure due to the nature of certain ideologies. At least that's been my observation. But I suppose it can be boiled down to it being a bad thing. And it is definitely tied to the whole belief that men as a whole are right wing or whatever and thus have bad intentions. There's this belief I keep seeing coming up that there are a ton of slippery slop… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/11/25 12:11 PM |
| 2 | What is the motivation behind all the attempts to erase domestic abuse and sexual victimisation of men?Honestly, beside malevolence (competition for resources or high positions/access to harm others freely, "supporting women's wrongs") which I have seen is one though rarely in my experience, is that a lot of women are terrified that if men see women as evil something very horrible will happen to women on a large scale at the hands of men, for this reason there are feminists and women's activists who are deeply invested in pushing what you all and some others call the "women are wonderful" effect,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/11/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Resending due to NP rule. https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/qz3pri/oc_share_of_individuals_under_age_30_who_report/ This was one. https://np.reddit.com/r/GenZ/comments/1h7cpfs/apparently_almost_half_of_gen_z_teens_never_dated/ This was also one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I'll look for the actual study and percent sometime later if I am able to and reply with it but I don't have the free time at this moment to get the answer for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Is the p-rn debate a red pill or blue pill thing? Does everyone hate p-rn but most people watch it...or...?I wouldn't call them crypto but in part. Mainly radfems and those who partially agree with radfems. I wouldn't say these ones have a specific label, at least not that I know of but there are some who pick parts from different branches and don't really have a main branch that they are on that is well established, some consider themselves the new wave. Womanists, were who I was thinking of that lean radfem in the second instance but there is debate about if they'd be labelled feminist since there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.That was one of them, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is the p-rn debate a red pill or blue pill thing? Does everyone hate p-rn but most people watch it...or...?Some feminist women on the left (two specific branches mainly) and men who share their views care about it along with NoFap (this is where some redpillers come in), Christians and Muslims, to my knowledge, are the ones caring about being anti-porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Some studies posted on Reddit state that ~30% of adult Gen Z have never dated in the US and UK. Whether that is because they are incels or not is up for debate. Other studies seem to say that they don't date by choice. Reasons for not dating included living with parents, not enough extra money to spend on dates (such as traveling to and from, for the activities &/ food itself) and not having the mental health for it. I'd find them for you but I am lazy. Check the generation sub it is in there so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What's the reason behind this wave of extreme hatred against men on social media by feminists and women in general?This is why no women answered him and clocked that he is not seeing what they are saying nor does he plan to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for itThe entire sub can be summed up as "people are individuals" vs "trends/generalities/averages are more important than individuals". One side believes you date the individual the other believes you date the average. So I dunno what you are surprised about. ETA: This is why blue pillers, white pillers and purple pillers tend to fight with red pillers, pink pillers and the other pill. Also, this sub ran to its conclusion several times over. Only those who refuse to accept that conclusion or were not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:17 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way”What exactly are you getting at? Sexuality being somewhat flexible does not mean it will likely change in any way anytime soon across a vast swat of people. How is knowing it can change going to do anything when it is unchanged? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:07 AM |
| -1 | A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way”It doesn't matter why you think that is so, only that it is so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way”This right here is the issue. Women are not gonna have sex with you just because they are straight. Some of you in here would sleep with any woman. Many women are not that way. When a woman says she is straight it only says that the type of person she is interested in is a man, not whether he is tall, short, fat, fit or whatever else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itI am quickly learning persons, if you all are even regular people, who interact with this sub now don't read. Thanks. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/07/25 02:40 PM |
| -1 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itI was not replying to you, MYOB. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/07/25 11:49 AM |
| -2 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described it"Most religions" no. That is only 5. Abrahamic religions (Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Bahai) and Buddhism. But anyway, that pressure definitely varies from place to place. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/07/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itFFS, I have literally participated in this sub for months now and only last month typed up a whole thing talking about how some women develop misandry due to trauma and/or constantly consuming negative news about men and/or assuming men are inherently evil but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I definitely said and hold the belief all misandrists are terminally online women fighting in retaliation against misogynists who are equally terminally online. Definitely no real world women who murder young boys! D… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itThank you for confirming you have no interest in reading or interacting with the sources I sent nor any future ones I was working to put together, I will no longer be wasting time replying to you since as I stated, Going over and arguing about everything without reading properly is a waste of my time If you took the time to read them you would have seen relevant information to address your question. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 05:50 PM |
| -1 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itYou ask for sources and then don't read the material? Tell me clearly now, are you asking because you genuinely want to read and know or because you want to make a half hearted attempt at refuting what I sent? How it is related, persons having access to computers and the ability to have hands on knowledge translates to familiarity and easier use of computers to access and interact with the internet. It is basic cause and effect, and has to do with well known technological progression. As I said … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itSee, this is the thing, you have a whole different definition of "gender war" just as I had mentioned in the OC. But then again the whole assertion there is a "gender war" is silly. There has always been conflict been some of the male and female population with one another. Guys out here fighting and don't even know what is going on or where the women who are being hostile are coming from. Also you asked about the HISTORY and that is what I am providing sources for, where the whole thing started… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 12:47 PM |
| 0 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itWhy are you interact this thread when you fail to read what is going on here? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itDigital Suffragists: Women, the Web, and the Future of Democracy (2021) https://mitpress.mit.edu/9780262046015/digital-suffragists/ | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 12:42 PM |
| -2 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itHere is one source: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/history-human-computers-180972202/ And another: https://www.npr.org/sections/money/2014/10/21/357629765/when-women-stopped-coding Relevant to the two: https://www.jstor.org/stable/25147356 https://studentorgs.kentlaw.iit.edu/ckjip/where-are-the-women-a-detailed-history-of-women-in-computer-science-and-how-it-impacts-the-modern-day-industry/ | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 01:46 AM |
| -4 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itI'll have to get back to you on that since I don't have links currently on hand. YouTube has a lot of video essays with sources you can use. I had a few on hand on how separated female flash gaming sites were from male flash game sites for instance and the fights that came out of that but the creator one day up and deleted the channel. I'll try and reply by next month the latest with links. Edit: If I don't reply back I probably forgot. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 01:09 AM |
| -9 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itWhat do you know of the history of the internet when it comes to sexism and gender division? /gen | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/07/25 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itHave you tried talking with blatant misogynists/misandrists online? It is like talking to a brick wall. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/07/25 11:22 PM |
| -4 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itDisposable in the sense of sexual relationships is likely what is meant, this is in reference to men feeling pressure to have a high body count. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/07/25 11:21 PM |
| 9 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itHonestly, I am wondering if it is that there are more hateful people online or if it is that the algorithms push it more, possibly both. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/07/25 11:20 PM |
| -10 | Apparently every single male hates women exactly the same way she described itOP I find it funny that you seem to not notice your assumption that men as a whole are actually involving themselves in a gender war when it comes to the OOP. Also your assertion of what the "actual gender war" is while there are multiple things going on as a means to devalue the existence of ongoing back and forth. "The gender war" isn't between random men and random women, it is between a subset of men online who are specifically targeting women online and a subset of women online retaliating.… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/07/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsWell, at least we can agree on the third world needing feminism. I think it would be a mass waste of time to try and inform you on why there has been long since a consensus that women are not better off in these parts. Agree to disagree once more. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/05/25 12:18 AM |
| 0 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsTo correct your assumption, ethnic minorities in my comment refer to in the specific nations. As well as global minorities such as the Druze. Though one can argue they are more of a religious group than an ethnic one. I also was not speaking primarily of women in the US, I only mention them since you seem to be American. You clearly have your mind set but at least it seems to be set primarily for the US and nowhere else. I am glad you had a laugh. I believe this is the end of our discussion as o… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/05/25 03:48 PM |
| -1 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsThis is quite hilarious and proves my point exactly, for all your claims of being taught and lectured you do not get it. And once again the reason you do not is because you have the privilege of easily distancing yourself from such topics and I doubt you have an interest in how a healthy population is good for a nation or else despite you'd be more considerate and understand better. Also your assumptions about women not knowing about men's issued are inaccurate for myself and many women in the w… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/05/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsFirstly, I never said the only thing is sexual dimorphism. This is why I mentioned transgender persons and women who do not menstruate in my comments. There is more to it than simply "this person is cisgender and therefore is a good representative". One person cannot represent 4 billion people. As for why women would care, self-centred behaviour, they'd seek to make availability for their own comfort and to adhere to their own female experience which would mirror the experience of other women. T… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/05/25 02:17 PM |
| -7 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsBecause men do not know what it is like to be in a female body and often times do not cater to persons living as women. Have you ever stopped to wonder, for instance, why only like 2 countries provide time off for women who have bad menstrual cycles? You probably have not. Of why maternal leave is so short in many countries despite pregnancy being very traumatic for the body and taking more time than that to recover? Many things in society had to be amended to include female bodies and what woul… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/05/25 06:20 AM |
| -7 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsHappy I could provide you with a new definition/perspective. I am convinced one person won't matter such as a president (we've seen proof, there have bern female presidents) even dictatorships require other people to carry out the plans of the dictator. Military and police who are often involve in government takeovers are mainly men globally so balancing power won't be easy. IMO power always flips, one now and another later, this is if I don't get into spiritual beliefs and the like, sticking to… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/05/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsFair enough. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/05/25 07:36 PM |
| -19 | One of the Worst Content CreatorsPatriachy is not about supporting men as a whole it is about ensuring the person in power or with the most power is always a man and thus things will be carried out, top down from a male perspective. Thus men who are not in power are expected to be the enforcers much like with capitalism and the potential to be rich yourself because "that could be you some day, being a man and all". It is also the way White supremacy, racism and chattle slavery worked. "Us White people need to stick together." M… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/05/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women?For women, I'd say the reason there is separate criteria for a good male partner (for me) and a good male friend (for me and other women) is to do with how intertwined each will be in your life. A male partner is often times, if you are in love and love him, on your mind and considered, you are freely expressing your romantic attraction and feelings with him, you invite him physically into your life, often times this includes sexually too and the expressions of sexual attraction. You are with hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do daughters think sons haveOkay, you are not trying to make a statement of one struggling more than the other just that there are different struggles, then we agree. Turning it into a competition diverts efforts and focus that can be better spent resolving problems. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/03/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do daughters think sons haveIn some cases they do. For instance, in one of my cultures the girls and women have to take care of every thing (food, cleaning, maintenance, reunions, dependents, care giving of elderly/kids) and the most the guys ever have to do is move things like chairs or organise travel. In some instances they contribute money mainly or partially, or do the whole "male role" of maintaining vehicles, the yard/landscaping, electric and plumbing but that rarely needs to be done as frequently as the female rol… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/03/25 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Women how dehumanize men online should be called out tooI try but every time it is downvotes (to the point I realised some are actually bots because what do you mean I got __ downvotes in 1 minute when the post and other comments don't have that much engagement?) or an instant ban. And on other platforms you will get mobbed. I do get it easier in a way being female (ETA: if I disclose) but sheesh. I've seen the same thing with politics, you will get banned if you say something in a certain line which is why when left or right say they get banned I be… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/03/25 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Its apparently now sexual coercion /assault to express your dissatisfaction with the sex in your relationshipSo we are ignoring the line "that I was abnormal and I as his girlfriend should want to do this with him more" in the third line of paragraph four? How is telling your girlfriend she is abnormal and saying how she should behave "complaining that your sex life is not satisfactory"? The OOP's BF may not actually be trying to be manipulative, they could have poor communication skills but the fact of the matter is, he does not consider basic things like human individuality instead he is comparing hi… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/03/25 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Stuck up people sounding like conspiracy theoristsThe hypocrisy that goes on with AI has been the most sadly hilarious topic I've seen TBVH. It is the same way among advocates against porn addiction you'll see some arguing that women are more justified in their addiction. SMH. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/03/25 12:19 PM |
| -16 | Men will never understandYou know what is funny, you are talking about women holding two views in their mind that oppose and yet there are men who do the same, all this in everyday misandry. Consider. Plently of people fear things but still interact to try and overcome said fear, so it is not as opposing as you think. Also to be a victim of systemic power is not to be dependent nor weak. That's like saying people killed by communist parties were weak and dependent that is why their state party killed them. People can wa… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/03/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Being a heterosexual man is disrespectful, weird, gross, and creepy.No, it's a case of "don't masturbate to anyone, just masturbate" but when this topic comes up most men say they can't do that despite there being men saying it is possible so there is conflicting information. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/02/25 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?I personally never had this. I have always been into the stable type mainly because when I was younger I was the type to do craziness and needed someone to be the opposite and now that I am older I just have an interest in the same type because I have enough chaos as is of a different sort. Sure, I've been attracted to guys who would fit "bad boy" "emotionally unavailable" but at the same time I was attracted to other types too including the "good boy" "boy next door" or whatever. I like guys (i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 11:54 PM |
| 1 | That's a whole Lotta femcels for one comment sectionWe are in agreement. I am not trying to communicate that it isn't a concern, in my comment I also stated I am concerned because it isn't the way these topics should be handled for one and for two, there are women who are seriously saying these things. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | That's a whole Lotta femcels for one comment sectionThis comment is not meant to say it isn't a crappy method but to provide some context. Since people here seem to be out of the loop, the comments are making commentary through sarcasm and mockery, they are imitating the comments that were made in past by some men such as in relation to the Tiktoker whose husband murdered her over her trying to divorce him. This is not meant to laugh at the guy who was murdered (I am seeing a comment that this is a fake article as well which honestly backs up my … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/25 03:05 PM |
| -2 | Downvoted for saying common sense, these people have lost their mindsThis is common in some subs. People will downvote you for stating the obvious because they think you are wasting a comment and essentially wasting their time by having them read your comment in the thread when they could have been reading a different comment. Not every downvote is about disagreement. Also the comment below yours and the upvotes indicate that is what is going on. I don't doubt there are probably people who do disagree about men hitting anyone but in this case it doesn't seem to b… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/02/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What would your response to be to your date/partner opening up to you ?People, men and women generally feel like they can talk to me about anything and often do. A number would be hard to give but honestly something like 60, mainly male friends. As for why some women don't like men opening up, many reasons really, I think it has to do with gender roles and lack of empathy due to difference in experience mainly. I've heard a lot of "that's what this guy is crying/emotional about?! He wouldn't make it a single month as a woman." I've had some female friends ask me be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:19 AM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societySo you say, and yet here you are proving that wrong because you clearly do not know the half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Unless its family, youre not getting unconditional love.You can still love someone and leave them, unconditional love is about wanting the best for someone always, them to be their best selves, get good things and such not putting up with abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone recommend me feminist content or even just show me discussions that talk about female and male sexuality being different and how to navigate that?Most of that content can only be found in books OP. I doubt you'd be okay with reading them, they tend to be quite doom and gloom. Almost all of them advocate for either educating or separatism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 03:00 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyYeah, I am sure you have the uterus to know fully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 02:44 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyGenerally it is not good to speak on subjects you do not understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 02:30 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyThere was a question for men post that might help you with that answer. It was about divorce. A lot of men here do not see women giving birth as anything beside what we are supposed to do so we don't deserve anything for doing it. Same as providing love and companionship it has no value and therefore nothing of monetary value should be associate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 02:20 PM |
| – | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Okay, so to try and make people more considerate. Cool. Wish it had worked more but it seems only a few care about good faith here and not jumping the gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Heterosexuality is not sustainable by red pill logic.This is reminding me of a book I once read about how homosexuality is about being attracted to sameness in power and heterosexuality is about difference in power. It was an interesting read if it were not for the inaccuracy of common definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely.Put in the effort until you get a compatible and healthy relationship. Otherwise, yes, it is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Why make this post? I am curious, is it to try and have people be more considerate and deal with the content instead of jumping the gun? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.It is also the rise in cases of sex and porn addiction that are making people reconsider encouraging persons to do a highly addictive activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenThey are. They have low relationship value but high sexual value. Most red pillers on here will argue that sexual value matters more for men and relationship value matters more for women. Nevermind that they are often also low quality which is another separate factor. The only high value there is sexual. ETA: OP is probably also thinking of income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:20 AM |
| – | Subtle misandry is rampant in feminism and it really does contribute to gender divide.Yes, I agree with the title. Most feminist theory has some prejudice involved in the works. It is the same way a good amount of race theory have some amount of prejudice. It takes a critical thinker to pay attention and notice when a writer is speaking their mind and not using research. There is also that few people factor in that persons economic, cultural, etcetera background will affect things and make allowance for it. Having read out the post, I agree with OP but will state, there are femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:45 PM |
| 11 | Most marital problems happen because men love their wives.This is a time to state, "Touch grass." And not just grass outside your house, grass far away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 02:59 PM |
| 10 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipThe classic, "Ride or Die". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?If I were the male equivalent of myself right now, absolutely. If I were a random man from any random place in any random country? Probably not. A lot of places are horrible regardless of sex. I remember reading one area literally has contaminated water that gave all the residents cancer and not many of them at all can get treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 01:56 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:13 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSome people just aren't good at getting over other people, it's that simple really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:44 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNeither. It is not wrong nor right to reveal your own feelings towards someone (in this context). Calling a friend evil and a fraud for updating you about their feelings towards you is wild. Were you all even friends if you can't speak freely (without getting hella offensive)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity"Some intersectional feminists truly hold that view because of works towards reducing stigma for gender nonconformity & some also ally with men's advocacy groups but yeah, a lot of performative stuff is online including the claim by some that men are included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity"There are multiple branches of feminism and terms like Radical Feminism, Liberal Feminism, Eco-feminism, Intersectional Feminism, Womanism, and so on exist for this reason. Feminism never began as something that involved men so frankly, I am of the belief claiming it in general includes men is kind of silly. Some branches do include men in this day and age and others do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:55 PM |
| 0 | 4B: bwaahhhaaahhhaaaahhhaaah!!!!!People on here are deluded into thinking 4B is some kind of strike against men when really it is just a separatist movement where women remove themselves from relationships with men because they feel that they are fed up dealing with misogyny from men and believe in being childfree. 4B is a lifestyle not a temporary thing. Of course as well there are claims of it being bigger than it is both in Korea and in the West where it has gained attention. Four B is Four Nos in Korean and The "Four Nos" a… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionWanting to be close with the person in every way possible & wanting to have children with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Give me a reason to get marriedSince I don't see it here, I'd recommend looking at Asian Boss videos on South Korea's Birth Rate and Japan's Birth Rate, you can get marriage to ensure a stable environment when having children to maintain your country's population and produce new human resources to ensure the existence of the next generation of humans. It is a civic duty or whatever. That is why you are being pressured. Not because of legal benefits or love but for transaction and lineage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?This place still has good laughs all these months later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionSexual attraction is rarely at the forefront of my attention and primarily is tied up with romantic attraction, if the romantic attraction goes, the sexual attraction starts going too. 🤷♀️ If the other attractions go, sexual attraction is completely gone for me. The stronger the romantic attraction for me, the stronger the sexual attraction. IDK how it is for other women when it comes to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionNo. I would say it is more romantic attraction and other attractions compounding with sexual attraction. ETA: for some women it is definitely similar to being sapiosexual so it would turn them on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionSince OC used a musician, I'll use that, I am musically inclined, for me it adds to the attraction. The person does not get uglier, them as a whole person just is different, a difference of being. Looks are one aspect of a human being and my attraction to that won't change. Now for celebrities, I think, if anything, the idolisation/pedestal aspect is what goes away so you see them as human and reachable, for some that immediately turns them off because it was the distance of the celebrity that d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Most Gen Z men have trouble enforcing clear boundaries in a relationshipSounds like cheater's projection to me but I am reaching in this instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Are there any forms of toxic femininity?it should be the same definition (a harmful trait that is socially accepted as masculine or feminine). Is it different from this? I was under the impression it is in fact this but not so much a single trait or behaviour/view but multiple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Are there any forms of toxic femininity?Toxic is the only common word there. Anything else will be different because they are two different things. Are we on the same page with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Are there any forms of toxic femininity?Why would it have to be an equivalent? And why approved? You and I live in different societies so it will probably be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Is "desperate guys don't get girlfriends" complete bullshit?Persons who don't want to meet someone else's standards are the first to try and rid other people of standards all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 03:27 AM |
| – | Men that complain about "asshole dark triad" are just mad they cannot be assholes, manipulate women, and still get laidIt is almost like unhealthy women who are not well-adjusted seek out unhealthy men who are not well-adjusted and complain because a sick person will feel sick if they are not getting better and start to complain about their symptoms until they get a diagnosis and a cure/treatment(s). Dysfunction attracts more dysfunction. (A saying.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:48 AM |
| – | Men that complain about "asshole dark triad" are just mad they cannot be assholes, manipulate women, and still get laidAmoral folks for you. At least immoral ones are at one side, amoral persons try to rationalise which side is better at which time based on perceived benefits to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:20 AM |
| – | Men that complain about "asshole dark triad" are just mad they cannot be assholes, manipulate women, and still get laidIDK, not going to jail, not losing social status, not being shunned, not being judged as evil by God, not hating yourself for being evil, not ending up the target for revenge, having a good relationship with fellow humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Men who are sure their woman is loyal, wouldn't let their woman be hit on in a bar, by Chad, as an experiment.I love your flair! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Are there any forms of toxic femininity?At least not murder of men or physical harm to them in the same volume as women experience with men. I've had women try to injure me on multiple occasions. And set up situations that could lead to death. Some women go as far as to put you in a position to be SAd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Are there any forms of toxic femininity?Of course, have you never heard of "dark feminity" it is the entire spirit of spitefulness (ETA: And vindictiveness). Have you never heard of Jezebel? Or "boy moms"? An unhealthy woman presents an unhealthy state of being womanly. Likewise, an unhealthy man produces and unhealthy state of being manly. These often fit in categories that exist due to past unhealthy women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | At what age would you find it weird if an adult had zero romantic experience?I would not find it weird at any age. Not everyone wants a romantic experience, not everyone takes the opportunity to have one and not everyone gets the opportunity to have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:14 PM |
| -2 | Why is it that the most outwardly sexist guys I know that do the best with women?Some women like to have all the cards on the table. Better an open misogynist than a secret one. Some women like special treatment for being women. There are multiple factors for different women. Varies by individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/24 05:48 PM |
| 2 | The phenomena of single women dating married menI keep hearing this reasoning as well and it still is bizarre to me, if you knew you wanted variety, why did you propose and go through a whole wedding? ETA: Just to lock down a specific woman out of selfishness? Is it just having your cake and eating it too? It is still so alien to me to go to that extent. It is unsettling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?Once again, I am reminded that many people here do not read news in other countries or understand relations outside of their class and neighbourhoods. The ideas never die with them, things won't get better and that is not me saying that from religious PoV that is me saying from an atheistic PoV. An evolutionist will argue that we will evolve past it or whatever but I am no evolutionist even from an atheist PoV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?On a global scale, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?Misogyny is still rampant globally, and in the cases where it is not hatred, abuse does not stem from love, that is for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4Everyone - Facial HairWomen - do you like facial hair on men? A good beard, yes. If it is like you described, sometimes. I still find it odd that more women don't like a nice full beard or stache. I can watch beard grooming compilations for hours. I like watching competions for longest beard too, as well as most creative design. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:03 PM |
| 7 | Do your partners identify as feminist?Honestly I don't understand the complaints about women catering to the male gaze, if you are attracted to men and want to attracted them you will cater to the male gaze in some way deliberately if you aren't already catering in a way that you did not do deliberately for that purpose. Sure, I get the people who say you shouldn't solely focus on attracting who you are attracted to but at the same time, most of the time, at least online, persons are acting like attracting and catering towards the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?They are still around, only the other day one of them killed people again. I think you just aren't looking (because you have to actively look for these information). Most people don't look so they just take in what the mainstream shows them. Right about now the mainstream is ignoring a lot of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] In which cases do you try to set up your single guy friends with one of your single girl friends?E) When they have common interests and fit each other's "type". Also a bit of B). It is always risky to friendships so I consider multiple things. For the bonus: Yes, it is weird to me. If I have a friend and I think it will work out I will set you up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your children struggling with dating?My parents also have an issue with me being single now that I'm a young adult, it is stupid to me because I remember them screaming at me the whole time before that I should never focus on dating or boys (hence why they're oblivious to the fact I was not single for a while). Now that I am single, they worry I'm gonna turn into a hermit, which honestly doesn't sound all that bad but it makes me irritated given I am not gonna be struggling. Personally if I do get kids, I wouldn't be down on them f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How many times in your life have you became attracted to an "ugly" guy AFTER he opened his mouth? And how about the opposite?5 for the former. 0 for the latter, reason being, I never am attracted to men who open their mouth and say things that are off putting to me, maybe I just have a good radar but men I'm attracted to are attractive personality wise to me, I believed it is their presentation that gives it away, the way they walk, act, the people they are with, the way they dress... I will also state, I didn't find those guys (for the not conventionally attractive part) unattractive, they were neutral in my eyes, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | What are good examples of the female gaze in media?Josei | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how uniform and consistent do you find women's preferences to really be, when it comes to men?The only time me and other women around me agreed about a celebrity being attractive was with Dylan O'brien. Otherwise we argue constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | What do women think of a girl who is always dating tons of guys but never picks one and complains about being lonely?I don't think anything, sometimes it is like that. 🤷🏽♀️ You can't force compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | At what number of bad dates/relationships does one become “jaded”?A person can endure as much as they can recover from. Relationships aren't the only thing that can break a person's spirit, you're expected to recover and continue on with everything else, it is the same here. Being jaded is partially your own fault and the fault of circumstances out of your control in most causes where you can't recover. No number decides that. After then it always leads to being a total doomer, hopeless and nihilistic, you eventually become depressed and suicidal. It is why ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Newbie Question: Why is "Romantic Love" so important in English Speaking countries/cultures when it comes to "dating"?u/Adelrick_Cadeniux I'd also add English is a language that focuses a lot on implicit meanings, double meanings and metaphors so it is definitely one of the reasons why it is expecting for things to not be said explicitly, out of politeness too. A lot of jokes, sarcasm and banter also include implicit meanings. This is one of the things I've heard from persons with ESL that it isn't translatable often times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | do you feel the need to walk on eggshells when you turn people down ? if so why ?No. I have protection if anything goes sideways. If I get shot or something IDC so for that whatever. YOLO, I refuse to be constantly scared of unhinged people, a coward dies many times, so I am only gonna be scared, if at all, when I face such a situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Why are you here?Indeed. For me, so to my understanding, the purple is some disagreement in observations put forward by the red pill, and blue pill is more of a complete disagreement with the red pill. Purple represents agreement with some blue and some red. Red is observations and possible things you can do based on those observations to reach the largest population. Blue is more focused on every possibility existing and not focusing on the majority. I choose purple because I agree with both in certain instance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are you here?Lately it has definitely been more of a barrier. Recently I've just been focusing more on imperialism by powerful countries but to be fair, the positives from that aren't really worth it. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Why is it a bad deal?Where did I state there is a problem? Or are you trying to say there is a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Does unconditional love truly exist?Maybe. I often hear this from the few who I've spoken with who had a similar experience to mine but with multiple persons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Why are you here?I tend to focus more on bad things/outcomes but I try not to convey that all the time in my messages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Does unconditional love truly exist?Yes. Unfortunately, for me it was one-sided. Also I don't often admit this because people will clown you for having "oneitis". On the brightside I wrote lovely poems about it and people were in awe, they said, "how did you imagine such a thing and write it so well? It is so beautiful", to which I said, "I didn't imagine anything, those are my actual feelings." Thing is, I knew this guy most of my life, we're childhood friends, went to the same kindergarten, primary, everything. He went through p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Why is it a bad deal?It is a bad deal to some people because they want both sex and love quickly and to last long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | What is the most intimate way someone can show you they care?Why one? Anyway, B. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Why are you here?Idleness. Looking to share. I do get angry sometimes. I don't feel sad here often. I waste time here, it isn't the best decision when it comes to usage of time. I'm a doomer, I have a rather pessimistic outlook on life, it is very realistic but I focus more on the negatives. That's my sharing. A lot of people in here are unrealistic optimists that is what irritates me the most. I feel sad about those who get the short end of the stick in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?"Okay, have a good day." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?I would say, how pure and noble of you to let your love lead to faith in your wife. You aren't a clown nor a fool. Don't feel bad for your wife's flaws, that isn't your flaw. /gen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have DNA tested your child, do you plan on it if you have kids?Humans aren't completely trust worthy by nature so I wouldn't be offended if my partner asks to have a paternity test. Not to convey, I would have kids with anyone else, but to convey, it is always better to verify in the ways you can than have faith in humans. I'm not God nor do I wish to be deified. But even paternity tests could turn out wrong, some guy had a paternity test by court order, it said the kid wasn't his then years later the kid did a 23&Me and turns out, it was his kid. 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, let's talk about....hair!Not for me. I love long hair on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | (The elephant in the room) Why a fun sex life and a stable long term monogamous relationship can't occur together. The madonna-whore complex applied to IRLIn RP and BP views you can have someone who is both AFBB so wrong. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Are claims of entitlement usually deflections that allow people to not have to take ownership for their behavior? Or the party they are defending?Taking ownership won't change anything. Only the legal system can help you with that and that is never guaranteed. In that kind of matter the legal system doesn't care either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Do women need to have a hoe phaseSome people need to get the left over hormones from puberty and adolescence out their system and have their reckless fun as a young adult. People often say that one should be married by 30 and possibly also have kids, that is why it is expected. They do not really have any other choice if they want to meet the societal standard of being married by 30. Yes, some of those webpages put out things of that sort. A lot of the things they post are stupid but that's just my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried to approach a guy you had interest in? How did it turn out?Once IIRC. Went perfectly fine. I was not nervous because I didn't give a shit if I got turned down. He def got nervous after I asked. YOLO. Did it for the exp. I'm good at reading IOI so I always know if I should ask, most times I wait but with some shy dudes you just gotta straight up ask because they are either oblivious or too scared to ask themselves [the instance I mention above was an IRL interaction, most times I just do through calls/voice notes/messages]. We broke up eventually but it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Is it easy or difficult to be just friends with a person you are attracted to?I relate so much to this. My morals will scream at me to keep me in check easily if they are taken. The switch will turn off and I won't be as attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is it easy or difficult to be just friends with a person you are attracted to?A and B. If I really like the person it will be hard sometimes. If I kind of like the person it will be easy all the time. The main thing I struggle with in any way with either is not being jealous. It is easier when I am not very attracted to them. If I am really attracted to someone and close with them, I honestly rather have some kind of relationship than none at all, none is worse than the pain of lack of reciprocation in other ways. But at the end of the day, gotta let go eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | The pros and cons of being a pick-meInteresting take, I'd see it personally as a pink flag at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | The pros and cons of being a pick-mePro: Highly likely to get chosen by some guy. Con: You will burn out fast and develop strong hatred, probably depression too, feeling stuck and hopeless. I have not seen anyone pull it off long term, they always lose the person because they begin to hate how they neglect themselves and project that on their partner. I don't ever call anyone a pickme because it is misused a lot and I rather point out they're being a doormat and that isn't healthy long term. Am I a pickme? No, I am not a doormat f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | The pros and cons of being a pick-meExcuse but having a profile photo and using pronouns is being a pickme????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:45 PM |
| – | If women were genuinely concerned for their safety with men, they would avoid alcohol moreI don't know what to tell you. I personally don't drink for the same reason I never used drugs, bad for the mental. At the end of the day, people take risks, that's a them problem but in this case, it isn't mine. I don't even visit bars so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:10 PM |
| 5 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.What is the point? There are still women who find them attractive. Like the comment stated, it is niche. For men and women niche groups who like different body types and facial characteristics can be found. Unfortunately those groups are smaller than the people who have those characteristics most times so you aren't likely to find your target demographic to choose a date from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Which gender role is easiest to fill?Being a leader is always harder than being a follower, that being said, most men do not fill that role but seek to be given the power of being leader when they aren't responsible enough for it, and often they do get that power. Most relationships past and present are dysfunctional and do not use the ideal form of either gender role so I suppose one can argue both are hard though it is likely because of failure to fill said roles (likely the leader, foremost), that leads to the other not being fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?All over the world? ABSOLUTELY NOT. You all in here need to touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?The loving husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do you women want romance in life?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do you women want romance in life?It is because people love to farm outrage. People don't pat others on the back or highlight positive things often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Has any body had a hard time getting back out and dating since Covid?Mods gonna come and get you for "no advice posts". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 5 | Can a man/ woman recover from cheating?Yes. It will just take a very long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 5 | What's the weirdest attraction cue you have?I like hands... if you have slender large hands that's already +10. I'm not sure why but I like staring at those kinds of hands. 🤷🏽♀️ I have a wide range of hands and nailbeds that I like to stare at aside from those too. Apparently there is a significant amount of other women who like specific kinds of hands too so that's nice to know, helped me not be as scared to mention it. 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 11:58 PM |
| 8 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Hi, advice, maybe see if you can date Indian men as they are vegetarian most of the time. If you are open to religious persons see Hindus or Christians (Adventists) as they are the most likely to be vegan/vegetarian IME. Most of the men I've met as a fellow vegan who are vegan were religious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Can you expand on how that is hypergamy? I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessDo you have close friends? Or do you mean that you feel lonely even with close friends? Just trying to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 03:29 PM |
| 11 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessThe reality is NOTHING IS GUARANTEED, you can get screwed over at any time, you can lose things that are necessary for you to live and/or remain sane and so forth. Hell, no one can guarantee that an asteroid won't hit the earth and kill all of us today. 🤷🏽♀️ Or that the sun will have a flare so big it scorches half the earth. Everything is up to luck whether you believe that luck is just the universe working, is controlled by God or whatever else is up to your chosen viewpoint. [I am agreeing w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Is Andrew Schulz correct about this?For most people, yes. Not many people are open to dating unattractive people whether they can develop attraction later or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Is Andrew Schulz correct about this?That isn't to do with "brutal honesty" that is just how your attraction and dating standards are. Not to mention males also can develop attraction to someone overtime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Why women have counterintuitive delusional demands in datingI think it is too late to call out a lot of this. Many of the people who have that kind of mentality seem to be very set in their ways. Only the few who do question give me some hope. I've seen from those few about half grow out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doI'm thinking which women is OP around??? I'm so confused. Maybe my area is just not like that but damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are people often possessive and judgmental when they date?I mean when you need something you will feel like you will die or you will die without it so people feel entitled because they constantly hear they DESERVE to live, and if that is untrue, one could argue it is fine if you live or die, it doesn't matter which would lead to nihilism and lack of value. 🤷🏽♀️ Humans do have predispositions to many things, some people crave sweet things some crave salty things, some people have low libido and rarely crave sex, some people have high libido and can't g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 34 | Isnt this deception? (Fuckboys x bf material)Thank you for taking the time to explain this properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | A man’s voice, personality, and confidence do matter a lot. Even if to varying degrees based on physical attractiveness.I thought OP was gonna mention having a deep voice. 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you prefer to get asked out directly or indirectly?Yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.Playing hard to get is one of those "as a woman you shouldn't be easy, you don't want to seem like a s---" moments for some women, depends on what background the woman is from, does she care about status or her image?? ETA: You commented you go for edgy young women, well there is your answer, unfortunately a lot of women in those circles tend to also have a lot of issues they use that edginess to cope with, same as a lot of men in those spaces, especially when they're young as they are more lack… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl.These are possible answers. 1 Clingy, they see you as clingy, stalkerlike and obsessed. 2 I have no idea. I'd think they don't care about that or maybe they are showing they can distance themselves if need be. 3 A lot of women aren't brave like that, they have to make sure you're safe before anything. And my personal answer, I am not DTF, I have touched wild cats before, almost got bitten and strangled by a snake before among many other things most people would look at me like I'm crazy and/or r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you prefer to get asked out directly or indirectly?I like both A and B but TBVH, A is more "I know your intentions so I can decide on mine now to see if we are compatible." And B is more "I have time to decide what my intent is & understand yours so no pressure." I suppose it depends on if I know the person beforehand too. If I do A would be better because it will save everyone more time and figuring out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?I always found that interesting as well. I always subconsciously knew they just don't have that class mindset, I think that is why nowadays class and income are more separate when it comes to culture surrounding that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?Similar experience to you except I'm mixed and I date outside of my race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?I understood this right away coming in here, anyone who mentioned guys like Fresh and Fit, I knew right away what kind of background they are likely coming from. Only the other day I was contemplating how people who grew up in various classes compare when it comes to situations like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best size?Playing piano? I'M IN. 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been romantically/sexually attracted to a man who you’ve only had platonic conversations with ?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.I'm not referencing the wage gap, that isn't a thing here and frankly I won't be getting into its validity elsewhere (as I haven't looked at info on that really). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Absolutely. There are people who got over their trauma as well instead of surpressing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?I would have not issue, I'm already involved in those types of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If sex is so unimportant, why is monogamy so important?The fact y'all ask questions like this in here really shows the state of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 6 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Many of the women out there are terrifying when you think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Because men aren't allowed to constantly live in fear the way women are. Men won't hug each other and go "that's so bad, we should stay inside a bunch" they go "life goes on, get your ass up and get going". Some of you in here talk about male socialisation then ignore the obvious like this. Men are pushed to keep going regardless of fear, or anything else. Women are allowed to sit in and with their emotions among each other and in some cases among men. A lot of men don't even understand some of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Nice flair 🤣🤦🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.I think a lot of women still angry over how they were treated in past and present so they take it out on men. That's what it seems like from my observations and research. Sad thing, highly depends on location. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | What do women think of guys who grow up in constant adversity and turmoil?Honestly, I'm not sure how to answer your question. I understand what you mean but I'm not sure I have much of an answer. I suppose it could be because I am used to just being pessimistic in these situations instead of just fighting back and wanting the rush of overcoming & so has every guy I've known who grew up in constant adversity and turmoil. I suppose it would also mean looking at too many factors for me, too, such as the meaning of life, if one should have specific views on life and so fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt means I've seen Twitch frogs in here multiple times. Y'all real touchy as always. If you watch Twitch, you likely know of Overwatch and xQc, if I must spell it out. Also why we see a bunch of weebs and Tate watchers in here too. 🙄 Gamers + Weebs + Twitch is always a common combination. Right now Tate is making his rounds on Twitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?I don't feel flattered [In a positive mood because of a comment or action which causes one to feel proud of oneself.] by anyone asking me out. But I do feel flattered [to praise someone in order to make them feel attractive or important] on a lower level and have respect for that person having the courage to ask whether I think they are unattractive or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 02:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: how many compliments do you get per day in real life?Good to see that I'm not alone in having a pretty good circle, career wise and family/friend wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: how many compliments do you get per day in real life?If I go outside, d. If I don't, b. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy am I not surprised to see Overwatch players here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standardsI mean, I wouldn't say rot, because I think being healthy and exercising improves mood and is something you should do but you gotta be okay and make peace with the very high probability you will be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 3 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticNo problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 7 | The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standardsI always say, stop deluding yourself and believing being single is the worst fate, make friends, get a support network. 🙄 And yes, you can make friends, I've seen many ugly people with friends. Also props for correctly using ugly instead of incorrectly using it like so many here, I think this is why you see people giving that advice, because people with low self esteem claim to be ugly when they aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 5 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticI know what OP is discussing and it isn't that. It is the way they discuss their male friends, spending money in them, carrying them out to events, saying things like "I only do X for the homies". And X happens to be spending a lot of time with them, hugging a bunch and so forth. Some of these people have straight up said they only kiss their male friends and only see women as a hole or sex object. They say they don't like looking at women's face and things of that sort, some even hate boobs. Pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticThis is actually related to them suppressing their emotions. There was a post about it in MensLib. Also a lot are seemingly aromantic too. Wouldn't say most but a significant amount it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Easy friendships with women but few sexual relationships, friends partners feeling "safe" around them. Are women friends with ugly guys?This. I keep getting irritated by how people just throw around ugly around here when most of them are just plain. My one friend used to think & claim she was ugly because she was in my friend group which is mainly Stacy tier women, when it is like Gal, you are a HTN you just don't put in effort to look nice and don't look as pretty compared to us. 🙄 She only realised this after dressing nice and getting a BF after going out on her own. Ugly doesn't mean unattractive. Unattractive doesn't mean ug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Easy friendships with women but few sexual relationships, friends partners feeling "safe" around them. Are women friends with ugly guys?My friends are physically attractive to me and in general, I just don't find any of them sexually or romantically attractive, they are to other people, just not me. Ugly is not the same thing as sexually unattractive. Ugly & plain is under sexually &/ physically/aesthetically unattractive but it isn't the same thing. I will once again recommend usage of the split attraction model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:35 PM |
| -1 | Most girls are conditioned to think that what's most important about them is how they look.I mean, maybe it is 50s-60s% but I wouldn't say most as in 70s-90s%. Which is why I wouldn't say most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsIt is all making sense now. 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Most girls are conditioned to think that what's most important about them is how they look.Most women in the world don't wear makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Are men inferior to women, are men more biologically oppressed?Also periods, PMS/PMDD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Who is the most charming/charismatic person you've encountered?My dad is also the one that comes to mind, seems we have similar dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:23 PM |
| -3 | Are women the reason "toxic masculinity" exists?Yay! Ableism! 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the big contributors of the "gynosphere" ?I was going to genuinely answer but then I reread and realised you aren't asking what I thought you were so have this non-answer. I always find it funny how many persons on here don't know any woman pill spaces or creators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?Don't worry they'll catch reality soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?Yeah, most people who have no one else would want to have a partner to fill the most roles. This is why I always advise people to try and make friends first if they haven't, it seems for some that is far harder, finding true friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?I don't think I personally may get it because the men where I live have close friends and won't be called a slur for that or told they are gay and they seem to be fine. 🤷🏽♀️ I've only seen "loners" have trouble being single, typically they have either dysfunctional relationships of all kinds or zero relationships. Maybe it is a high libido for some and a feeling of missing out but I rarely see that one TBH maybe it is a bigger issue where you are in which case, yeah, that sucks a lot. Aside fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?So what I'm getting again is, "I rather stay in a bad relationship than be single." Go for it then. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 04:55 PM |
| 26 | Women only play hard to get with men who have no options, dating her is easy when she's actually interestedTHIS 😂 Everytime I see guys posting this nonsense and I'm just like... they don't like you or they like you, it isn't some rocket science. The correlation of women liking men other women like is not the causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?This for sure I'd say, as someone else who never lost attraction over a man crying or unburdening something that was bothering him. I honestly think a lot of guys may not be going after women who genuinely care in the first place but who the hell knows at this point, some people lie too, it could be the women lying, the men lying or it is a case of "there are 3 sides to a story". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Did I miss out on hookupsThis is what I thought after reading that post. What will crying over something already past and gone do besides help you get it out of your system? That isn't your life past and it isn't present, face reality and deal with reality not could haves and should haves. Life could and should and would many things but that doesn't mean it DID happen, WILL happen or IS happening. Face facts. It doesn't matter if you had the cards or not because it did not happen either way, that potential/chance wasn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Relationship timelines?Depends on what you mean by love. In some ways, immediately, in others, there isn't a set time, typically when you know them well enough, I'd say, a year or two depending on how much time you spend with each other talking about yourselves. Actions > Words but to answer, same as above. As someone else stated, at least 6 months. One or two years depending on how much time you spend getting to know each other. Not always but some people would want (and may need) such a thing for peace of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Women who had a promiscuous past in their 20s and now are no longer that was in your 30s... are you more reserved about sex with your current partner?For sure, Christians in the US definitely are a different story all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?Or maybe it is a situation where they actually have enjoyment from it the same way some people enjoy pineapple on pizza or black coffee? Not everyone has the same reasoning for their actions even if some are more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Womens body countEverything in life is dangerous if we are going to use your logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-ThreadMeans care about your appearance, dress nice (most known by persons is that you wear suits but this isnt the only style you can wear, typically well fitted clothing is the most important thing, that it suits your personality/work), take care of your skin, hair + health. Things like that. At least from what I've seen. A guy who is metrosexual will have a skin care routine, hair care routine, goes to the gym and things like that. Kind of like looksmaxxing/gymmaxxing but without going to extremes, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-ThreadI also tend to give long responses. 😆 Like, yeah, I'm interested, I like conversing with people. Most times I always have to point this out, like you may never be able to tell the difference between me being friendly or flirty because compared to most of the population I am way too nice. I'm the kind of person who will randomly tell you "good morning, I hope you have a wonderful day" when walking outside. To the point every morning once when there was a building being constructed where I passed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-ThreadI mean I've noticed women like that but sometimes, I genuinely think they must not be like that all the time. I think sometimes I try to give people too much benefit of the doubt. Some of them are like that almost ALL the time to the point it might as well be all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Womens body countNo, it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Describe your ideal partner then describe your ideal selfIf I were to give a most genuine answer it would take up more space than my pros/cons comment. I almost no one will want to spend the time reading all of that. And I honestly don't want to write a novel here. I'll give a simpler answer that will have the trade off of being less genuine. Frank Churchill / George Knightley from Emma (2020), Mr. Bingley / Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice (2005). Jane Fairfax / Emma Woodhouse from Emma (2020), Jane Bennet / Elizabeth Bennet from Pride and Prejudic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularI'm watching all of you Twitch viewers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | is day time cold approach a viable way for men to meet and date women in 2022?Location dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Any conservative country. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?Doing the response the way the guys did in their post. Also, disclaimer, I don't think anyone SHOULD think I'm a catch or whatever else, they can do whatever they want but these are the things others have pointed out to me including exes. Pros I will do all hobbies with you if you want, including, gaming, hunting, fishing, camping, fixing things like plumbing, electrical, woodwork, etc.I do not argue in my relationships, I usually sit and have a mature discussion on how to approach the issue and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | UNethical Purple ResearchUnethical Yeah, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | If you had $10M that could only be spent on improving your dating/sex life, how would you spend it?I'd invest half, donate quarter (some to family/friends and the rest to varying organisations and the community) and use the other quarter for travelling so I can get the professionals of different regions to give me advice and improve my appearance, things like counselling, therapy, coaching, clothes, hair, make-up, diet, exercise & get my dream property and vehicles. I also would be doing the donating to people outside of family and friends anonymously so no one knows how much money I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Typically, anything involving artistic expression, such as music, painting/drawing, writing (prose, poetry, articles). Niche or whatever but I like bone collecting (not necessarily human bones, more animal bones and fossils). I also like car guys/outdoorsy guys, so camping, off-roading, doing anything handy like wood work or whatever. All of those are common hobbies (as in ones I also have) except, doing car stuff, I def like going to the mechanic and adding mods buuuuuut... I don't know shit ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | In your experience, what are the signs that someone is unhappy in their relatioship?Unless they had a baby and are recovering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Most people online are teens and persons who are middle to upper class because more free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Those aren't cons to me but oh well guess it is where you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I think the idea that everything bad about men is something they learn as kids is just not correctI think you aren't understanding. Ants are not humans. Humans have roles, you are an accountant, he is a fireman, she is a bartender, etc. "Gender" Roles, are/were understood to be roles designated to someone on the basis of their biological sex/assigned sex, some modern understandings include "gendered behaviours" which has to do with behavioural patterns a person follows because of their biological sex but this was not always the case. The only "gendered behaviours" are things like male humans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man?Why won't you find the top 5? My top 5 are basically a ~1.25E-8% chance of spotting at the right place at the right time and a far smaller chance of me pulling it off and us hitting it off and getting married. The higher you go the worse the odds are to the point it may as well be that said person doesn't exist at all. Also, given how I currently understand the world having such relationships/ideals in my life right now would not work out well in the long run. What about your lifestyle and lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man?My ideal man? My ideal man wouldn't be interested in having multiple wives. Now, second most ideal, probably, I wouldn't mind if I get along with the other wife/wives and they don't/won't have a problem getting along with me or each other. Do keep in mind, one of the reasons being I definitely vibe with Abrahamic Religions in general. Now, would I realistically find this man? Probably not. Would I, given my life path right now, say yes to my second ideal in my mind? No. While it is not a dealbre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?There is overlap in some cases but most times it is not used as a synonym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?I don't care about that personally as I'm not in the situation where that gap is an issue for me, I have free health care where I am and I know how to spend money so those other things won't be much of an issue either. If you care about being independent, that includes being able to fetch the expensive of living on your own, and if not that, then the government should do something, like free health care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Are some males infatilized/desexualized because they look childish?Similarly to what u/DatingVX stated. I wouldn't say it is that they look childish alone, it is all about the energy you give off, if you seem non-confrontational and wishy-washy you will be infantilised and women will baby you whether you look buff or not this is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?Hot take. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 5 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?Some women are genuinely just bitter and loveless. I know some of them have good intentions but why they always have to jump to some wild conclusion like "you are being their maid". Ma'am, you don't know my relationship, mind your own business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:58 PM |
| 10 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?And they're the same ones screaming women should have freedom but the moment you open your mouth to disagree with anything they start wishing the worst things on you. Also the "I hope you get picked" line always cracks me up because I see these same women crying later about being single and not finding a BF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:42 PM |
| 14 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?Can't agree with that 50/50 thing, never will, I'm paying for what I order and you are doing the same. Can't agree completely with point 2 either because there's more to it than that. I agree about inactive/less active v. active/more active though. I agree with everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:34 PM |
| -2 | What common takes from women do you disagree with?You sure are clueless but I have a feeling that's because you don't care about theology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is marriage still the dream?Between A and B. A because I definitely think about it a lot. B because I try not to put it as a priority. I know it is only a few of us here but I believe in fate, if my fate given to me by The Divine isn't to get married I will have to be okay with that and not force against that fate and end up with bad consequences. I have looked into all the pills for women and most for men. I think I lean a tad more red than blue mainly because it is only the blue pill that has no red components and I agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is marriage still the dream?There are literally legal arrangements you can do where your money does not have to go. Unless you live in... 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?Exactly, women will know before being your boyfriend or being your husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?I can't in good conscience say no because people where I live have no manners, they will talk constantly and when they talk eventually it will get to you so, yes, I would second guess, does that mean I will leave because of that? No. The kinds of guys I like aren't always attractive to my friends or family, they may know they are conventionally or objectively attractive but they may not be attracted to that guy. So basically, if no one is rude enough to constantly mention what they think, I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestYay. No, expansion. Just yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestI think what you are describing is more true of people with anxiety, many of them usually hyperfocus on small changes because they worry about possible harm they may face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Why are young women so picky?You're welcome 😀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Why are young women so picky?I'd say that young women are attracted to young men but that isn't the only standard so there is a lot of trouble there. As for attraction alone, I suppose other than the internal compass there is also the effects of exposure to nicer faces especially online, saw that there was a post about this here. I think someone worded the thing about sex drive here better as well, they sent something along the lines of "Men are hornier when it comes to women than women are when it comes to men". Reason bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Why are young women so picky?I'll share my observations and second hand information from the women in my area and perhaps it will help. A lot of young women truly believe they rather have their ideal man or remain single, a lot of them also later on realise they don't want to remain single in truth. When you don't mind remaining alone, you are free to make whatever kind of standards you want for being in a romantic and sexual relationship. Also, I know it is mentioned sometimes here but a lot of posts, books, comments onlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.Short girls can't tell the height difference but I guarantee taller girls can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:45 AM |
| 10 | Is it weird if a guy asks a woman about her sexual past?Once you are open to answering about yours too, I don't find it weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Do women have any logical reasoning behind who they fuck?"Physically Attractive". Not attractive as a person or overall. And some people find fat people attractive. Hell being into extremely overweight people is a thing too, even if they are a far small percentage of the population than those who are into fat but not obese people. ETA: Judging by the other comments from that person your comment is more understandable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?I think OP means the [redacted] pill people in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?So homoromantic and heterosexual? So varioriented not straight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBI am not out of touch, the same context for upper middle class families here may just be different than yours. Also being more involved doesn't necessarily translate to being adequately involved. You live and you learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Long-Term Relationships: Ideals vs SubstanceAAHHHHH so you are on the asexual spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Long-Term Relationships: Ideals vs SubstanceGoogle will give a better answer but a-spec is short for asexual &/ aromantic spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 3 | What does lack of emotional connection really mean?It means they are getting more, "I'm not really interested in you" and they want more "I'm interested in you as a person and value your company". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Long-Term Relationships: Ideals vs SubstanceI wouldn't say this is a common view but know that there are others like us out there OP. It is uncommon for people to value spiritual connection the most because most people do not experience that spiritual connection. Also, sometimes it just doesn't work out so some don't use that anymore because they had to part ways. This has been my experience discussing with those who share our experience. Also, there's some overlap between this and people who are a-spec so you may find luck getting simila… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Long-Term Relationships: Ideals vs SubstanceTrue. I've had so many people doubt me over this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Lurker Welcome Mega-Thread100k, more people to debate with and watch arguments? This will be interesting. Welcome new members and new debate watchers! 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men.....That is the case where you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateOr, get this, the people here aren't lying, they are not the same people you meet outside. But I get it, some BP people here are def trying to doubt others' experiences. Common, easy patterns to recognise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men.....I think it comes from modern culture destroying the concept of "averages" and making things out to be one extreme or the next. That is indeed likely part of it, now more than ever you have to pick a side and most people don't want to be on the side that is getting attacked a bunch. A lot of people realise they are automatically not on one side and don't even consider that they may be in the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks..but....I know what this is but I don't think I'm allowed to say here. Some of the rules give me the belief that I shouldn't state it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram modelsSome women view it as cheating (you're only supposed to have eyes for me type thing). That is about it. I personally don't exactly care. Matter of a fact in some cases, I'd send photos and videos and we'd gush over how pretty or not the gal/guy is. No double standards in this regard and extra bonding time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is not about women, it never was. Treating it as such is the Blue Pill thing to do.I think a lot of people who were part of the original red pill just checked out from the online sphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men.....I'm the same height as you, I also know guys who hook up with women taller than them but I have never seen such lack of care about height when it comes to dating where I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 8 | Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men.....In my area, I am above average height overall (I'm 5'8"), many of the guys shorter than me were fine and our relationships was fine until eventually every day they'd complain about me being taller, it was weird and definitely made me feel uncomfortable about our height difference than I already was because random people would always comment about me being taller. Honestly, it is like dating someone who isn't seen as attractive by a lot of people or at the least plain looking, everyone will comme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 4 | What attracts you to men's faces, in the most analytical way you can describe?Not the most analytical I can get (I can go more fine than this but I don't have the time to type it all out rn, sorry) but... Eyebrows (I like kind of thick (not to the point of looking like big caterpillars) angled eyebrows, though I am not opposed to ones that aren't), eyes (once you don't have doe eyes or downturned eyes, I like your eyes more, I also really like hazel eyes), lips (thicker side), jawline (sharp like in diamond face shapes, again, not opposed to others), beard (once it isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: how often do you give your number out when cold approached? Follow up question, how often do you follow through when he texts you?Yeah and other things but I'm not sure if it is safe to detail on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?More bi men for me. /hj This comment sums up my additional views.People stereotype bi men a lot, things like "they are secretly homosexual and not interested in women", "they must be having anal sex", "they must be promiscuous", "they must have STDs/STIs". No. Some of these things can be true for some but it is not true for all nor most. Just because statistics are higher for them that heterosexual men in some ways does not mean that all are like that it just means they may make choices based on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What would you/ will you teach your daughters ?Given this person watches Tate, I'd say he means the man should die for her, her defending herself should be the last option where available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women have to choose two out of Comfort, Freedom and Life?Actually all three situations could have life, comfort and freedom. The single mom could be financially well off enough to have comfort. The housewife could marry a man who isn't going to control her enough to have freedom. But I suppose we aren't discussing the instances that oppose this kind of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingBecause people will ban them eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Swinging? Would you or wouldn’t you and why? Is there a gendered component to this?Could I? Yes. Would I? No. Why not? Because it isn't ideal for me & my lifestyle. I can't say there is a gendered component to that, I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | When can you say “I love you” in a relationship? Who should say it first?I think declarations of being in love shouldn't be as valued as they are. Unless you're one of those people who are all about sharing your feelings of all kinds there is no need to say you are in love. I find it akin to saying "I'm so excited" this is obvious just as you being in love is obvious, it need not be verbalised. I tell people I love them because I love them not because I am in love with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: how often do you give your number out when cold approached? Follow up question, how often do you follow through when he texts you?I only was cold approached once [as in, the guy was respectful, came up to me and was like, I think you're very pretty can I have your number]. I gave out my number (one of them anyway) because I like talking to new people. I responded the one time I gave out my number. We messaged back and forth then eventually we ended contact. I still have it in the back of my mind "what if this stranger ends up being unhinged?" I do look for the earliest sign of them being unhinged and have things in place j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships?Interesting. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships?So you are going to debate what I typed and not my intention? Have fun typing to yourself then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships?Playing video games isn't some abhorrent thing, that is what they would change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships?As I said, I know women who would, you didn't specify they have to be hot, and even in that case, some do meet the criteria, the ones who are willing to change won't change unless they really liked the person. Unless you mean they were unrealistic in that their chance of getting said woman is low then sure, I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships?I don't think that is unreasonable, I know women who meet those criteria or would change to meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Men and women here, how many actual options do you have? Early 20s, female. I think it is also important to note, I haven't been socialising much because of the pandemic and neither has anyone else. 10 men per year ask out with seemingly genuine interest in me as a person, 25 men per year hit on me with seemingly genuine interest in me as a person IRL if I go out once per week (from "IRL" is the qualifier for both parts). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Men and women here, how many actual options do you have?I feel that. With the pandemic I just stopped socialising, I can't do it. My anxiety just keeps screaming, "What if you get sick and die?" "What if you get other people sick and they die?". I know eventually I'll be fine going out but right now, I'm still not ready. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?I follow xQc... oh no... 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?It was made by a US conservative. I saw it yesterday. He created it to weed out modern women and what he considers misandrist modern feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?It is a comment from a US conservative, I saw it yesterday when watching a US conservative YouTube channel that was discussing how modern feminism is bad. The comment was based on finding out the woman is a modern woman, misandrist and not inclined to be trad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?So you watch Think Before You Sleep? I also saw it in the comments there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | If "men want only sex" why do you then shame them for paying for it and not getting in relationships?In my personal experience IRL, only women who desperately want to hurt a man or get a specific man shame men, I personally am not interested in doing either so I don't care if they have escorts, see prostitutes or whatever else. If you don't want me that isn't my problem. There are also some women who end up getting used for sex alone and get upset and lash out. I don't believe in lashing out because it won't help much but there are your answers OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Imagine your most controversial reddit account, posts and comments become publicly linked to you. How would your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend react, as well as friends and family? Would you lose any relationships?My close friends and family wouldn't be surprised, they probably wouldn't care either, but the ones that aren't close would probably freak out and may stop being in contact with me. I would feel irritated but that's about it. I don't have a significant other right now but going by my previous ones, they also wouldn't be surprised and straight up wouldn't care (they tend to have some of the craziest takes you'll ever see even though most of the time it is ironic). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Are there any Chads in the purplepill subreddit sphere?Some people who fit what a Chad is do visit this sub and usually go online that is what I mean. Hell, busy people like Elon Musk usually go online, there is always a reason to go online whether you are successful or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Are there any Chads in the purplepill subreddit sphere?You'd be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Woman of PPD: can you give an example of a man who is overweight or obese who you find attractive?Yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Woman of PPD: can you give an example of a man who is overweight or obese who you find attractive?Borderline, but I wouldn't say overweight at least not according to those medical charts that go Fat -> Obese -> Overweight. Close to obese at some point but nowadays he is just kinda fat (currently losing). TimTheTatman. Literally one of the only guys I've seen carry their weight and not look terrible to me at least. Only one who I can easily remember off the top of my head. [Pic. 1] [Pic. 2] [Pic. 3] I think it is reasonable to not want to date someone who is overweight/obese. I personally wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Why Are You On PPD?Relatable with being non-confrontational IRL 😂 it is sometimes nice to voice things you normally wouldn't and even get into disagreements over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Why Are You On PPD?Ideally, I'd like to discuss, I try to, however, I am mainly here to observe. I swallowed and used each pill once, pink, red, blue & some of the offshoots. I tend to just observe to see who actually understands the pills or are just spewing random opinions and views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violenceMurder and assault are two different things. Maybe what is considered assault is different where you are but where I am, just pelting someone with an object or smacking them is considered assault and you can go to jail. So regardless of force it is assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?Because it is believed to lead to the young virgin being groomed by the older non-virgin. As such some people associate it with being predatory. This is one take I've seen. Ah.. OC gave a similar response, didn't see the comment before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | What do you think are the ideal personality traits (for the genders you are attracted to)?I don't have a specific ideal when it comes to this, different things go well for different people. I can share what won't be included, for instance, the less narcissistic and self depreciation (I mean, GENUINE self depreciation, not jokes or whatever) the better. Those two are the main ones for me TBH, I rarely consider anything else unappealing, even people who are cold to the point of being borderline sociopathic are appealing to me. I like guys who are very caring and warm too.🤷🏽♀️ TLDR: No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violenceThe force isn't equal but the action is. Assault is assault, whether it is most harmful or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?Most of the populations are Catholic, so it isn't just elderly people there and more likely to have more diversity in members. A lot of people are culturally Catholic more than believing & practising Catholicism too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 3 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysYes, and? A lot of women want to feel a lot of emotions in a relationship not calmness and security. Ideally, healthily and realistically it is better to have a calm and secure relationship but what do most people see? Dysfunction everywhere. They start to think it is normal and that becomes ideal. I personally don't mess with that unless I'm looking for a short term relationship. Long term it is better to have stability and predictability. Point is there are women who are interested in genuinel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?As a person who has been in church all my life, most men leave because of issues with lust. The women don't have this issue as much so they stay. There are more members staying than there are women joining. But then there's a bunch of McChurches and MegaChurches. 😬 They're the ones with those "born again Virgin" nonsense. Evangelicals... the most yikes denomination. I'd say avoid Catholics unless you are in Latin America, avoid Orthodox unless you are in Europe and avoid Anglicans unless you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | The only people having fun in dating is men with optionsThis is also my view, however, I would argue over wording of the title, I'd use "have the most fun" instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:34 AM |
| 9 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?I think what some of the women here are stating is that weeding out these options leads to the same end point that some men start at, having no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingI don't owe you proof of anything, especially not with the cost of posting personal information on here. If my explanations of my life experience isn't enough of a proof (and having pretty privilege) for you, fine. I don't care about you enough to sacrifice my mental wellbeing and physical safety for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Men have a hard time attracting women nowadays due to a lack of opportunities to showcase functional strength.I was done with the conversation, don't know why you are making something out of nothing and am still done with the conversation, regardless of your issues with my previous comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingI was rated based on the decile scale and true rate me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Men have a hard time attracting women nowadays due to a lack of opportunities to showcase functional strength.Sure, compared to the billions on earth because most countries don't even have strip clubs, but that wasn't what we were discussing, eh, maybe it is what you were trying for regardless of OC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:57 PM |
| -1 | Men have a hard time attracting women nowadays due to a lack of opportunities to showcase functional strength.Some do go to see male strippers. Y'all seriously don't remember how women were fighting over tickets to Magic Mike??? I think it depends on the women's demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Men have a hard time attracting women nowadays due to a lack of opportunities to showcase functional strength.There are videos too but unfortunately, during a recent crackdown (and by recent I mean 2-3 years ago) on a certain website, all those videos are gone. Now I just watch camping and offroad videos. Sometimes car restoration videos too. All available on YouTube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 9 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?How'd you know?! I thought I was hiding well!!! /j | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.I'll be agreeable today and not nitpick and presume you mean that men have more experience and feelings of being horny because a lot of spaces cater to male lust and basically throw it at you hence the struggles with addiction being more common for men than women. :P /hj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Lack of Sexual/Relational Attraction Isn't Attributed to a Lack of Self-Improvement or Concurrent ValueI agree that people have value regardless of their value to their fellow humans. The value of potential. Humans do not have to work on themselves and be of value to others but it will give them favour from their country and fellow humans if they choose to do so and will reduce having negative treatment from their country and fellow humans. Nothing is absolute, even if you are a good citizen, co-worker, employee, employer, friend, family member and so on you can still end up getting a bad outcome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Women, what happens when a man refuses to make a move?Some women aren't good at keeping distance so they overcorrect by being cold and ignoring as to not seem interested anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Generational differences in hotness standardsI won't dispute that. A lot of women especially online like to engage in "punching up" aka I'm going to discriminate and be prejudiced towards men because they hold systemic power in the form of the patriarchy. I keep telling people they need to stop this because when their mindset spreads it will turn into a societal power and become systemic in that way. So many people advocate against hatred and then do the same thing the group inciting hatred did before they got widespread. ETA: A lot of peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 0 | The idea that “you can’t control who you’re attracted to” is disingenuous, and fails to recognize the variable of relativity in women’s ability to be incredibly selective. That is, a persons “standards” are fluid and fluctuate quickly in the absence of options.I think you can tell within the context which one it is each time after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Generational differences in hotness standardsMany women's standards are high. Most men on the dating market do not and may never meet that standard. A lot of women know this but still struggle with being single, some decide to go the hookup/FWB only route like MGTOW instead of settling down and being a housewife. These women are typically under WGTOW even though they may not identify as such. They rather be alone than deal with the average man past short term even if being without a partner can be unbearable at times and is not ideal. ETA:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Generational differences in hotness standardsSee, this is what I hate, how liberally and incorrectly people use the word ugly in here. You have it spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:19 PM |
| 4 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?In general, no. Within fandom, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:11 PM |
| 0 | The idea that “you can’t control who you’re attracted to” is disingenuous, and fails to recognize the variable of relativity in women’s ability to be incredibly selective. That is, a persons “standards” are fluid and fluctuate quickly in the absence of options.This sub is never dealing in absolutes (unless they are quoting something), no one here means all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingI've seen people here with their rating in their flair, it seems like an okay idea but I doubt most people will be interested since they already don't have such things in their flair even though they are free to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:37 PM |
| 5 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?Many people ignore the simple fact, life is not fair. Communism, socialism, capitalism nor anything else will make it fair for everyone nor everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What does it cost to be a top 1% man?Way too much, if you are going to end up famous, if you are one of those incognito ones, it won't cost much beside grinding hard to get investors and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingHonestly, if was mainly initiating conversations related to dating and sexual stuff, and then trying to spend one on one time more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Status is the best proxy for a man's dating potentialYes, that is the case. They understand each other far better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingAll I’m saying is all the times I treated a women like a guy friend it ended horribly wrong each time, which is what I assume is what “treating a women like a human” means. No. That isn't what it means. People who tell you to treat women like one of the homies are literally only trying to sabotage you, you are just bro-zoning her. LMAO. (Source: I have been "one of the guys" and I have never seen any of them as anything other than a brother. Only the guy who was on the fringe of the group made a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingUgly people know they're ugly just like pretty/handsome people know they're pretty/handsome, people in-between always often feel confusion because they don't know which side of the spectrum they lean towards, many see they don't have pretty privilege and then assume they are therefore ugly which leads to insecurity and self depreciation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingGiving me flashbacks to "amen & awomen". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingAt least not in English anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinking... if you believe ancient people, that's just how things played out from creation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 01:59 PM |
| – | There are tons of guys who self-identify as ugly but why aren't there many women who self-identify as ugly?Because women understand the definition of ugly and it does not apply to most of them and to those it does apply to, they typically do not go online and start crying about it because it isn't a gradual realisation that you're ugly as a woman/man/person, contrary to TRP belief, YOU ALWAYS KNOW WHEN YOU ARE UGLY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesThen gonna tell me I don't understand. I don't understand that most of the answers on Google will be from small sample sizes used for estimation and not actual data from all the billions in the world? WILD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:47 AM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesDo these statistics work in a different way than what is taught where I am? Are they not used to see trends in smaller groups that are then applied to a larger population? What am I missing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesFinally someone who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesMore than 50% of all people are in committed relationships. Source? Also I hope you are aware 50% of all people is ~4 billion humans. You speak of assumptions yet you are assuming why people are in relationships and how they begin. Also you say most of the other <50% have had relationships, can you also provide a source for that? You say the average number of sexual partners for <50% is 7, can you provide a source for that as well? For the ~1 to 4 billion people? Incorrect assumptions -> (usua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesIt's the idealists. They think the world works on ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesYou could argue against most equal rights and support women attained in the last 50 years that way. If you are ignorant when it comes to history, sure, but otherwise, no. It's still a seveire hit to most peoples quality of life to be alone against their wishes. Yes, and like every other bad thing in life they have to accept it is what it is and get over it. And who says they have to be alone, not having a partner isn't alone, not having a partner/partners, friends, family or a social circle is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 6 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesGo out and look, you may find someone or you may not. If you don't want to change to meet someone else's standards, don't but also don't expect it to be any easier to find someone. Not everyone can naturally be gravitational nor can everyone have the potential to be gravitational nor can everyone have the potential to be even more gravitational than they already are to many people. Sometimes you are the person who is only gravitational to one person in the billions, sometimes you meet that perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Even if it is true, (I don’t think it is) Why is being BBb considered such a bad thing?YIKES! Oh how horrendous! /gen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Q4WOMEN: has a man ever lied to about wanting commitment just to get sex? Tell your storyCaribbean, specifically Anglo-Caribbean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Even if it is true, (I don’t think it is) Why is being BBb considered such a bad thing?I have to know, are these women stay at home wives/mothers? And I agree you aren't stating anything absurd or unfair. Some people really don't care about their marriage vows or relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | if men have to commit to women to get "wifey" behavior from women (cooking/cleaning nurturing), do women have to earn husband behavior? (financial providing, protection)🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:52 PM |
| 10 | What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women?Level up your existence, that's it. It is all you can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women?Men treat each other differently than how women treat each other therefore what treating each other the same looks like to each party is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why don't the AFCs (average frustrated chumps) just go to Asia?People have this ideal version of greener grass elsewhere, yeah, maybe it is green, maybe it is just a bunch or grasshoppers blending in with the few blades of grass there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Why don't the AFCs (average frustrated chumps) just go to Asia?No, what I want to know is if they are going to have a meltdown when they can't live up to the standards there either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Q4WOMEN: has a man ever lied to about wanting commitment just to get sex? Tell your storyYes. No, he did not get sex. My standards are like steel when it comes to this, tricking me won't work because I'm not shifting my stance. He was kind of thin, short (5'5"), 6/10 in the face (if we use the decile system) but given the area he is from probably an 8/10 comparatively, kind of rude, funny, def entitled and an assistant manager. Only reason I found out was after a while he was like, "so you are really serious about this thing" I said "yes, of course" he said, "that's not for me" then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individualsPlus there is now global comparison happening instead of local comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individualsThis is a good point. I agree there. It has been already documented the effects of leaving social media, be it for a week, a months, months or a year. And the effects of remaining on it constantly. (Forgot that I have to reply under AutoMod to agree. Oops.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Over-socialization from social media has skewed the idea of conventionally attractive individualsExactly, you can even see this in South Korea with many persons opting to get surgery to look a specific way and meet a beauty standard constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | if men have to commit to women to get "wifey" behavior from women (cooking/cleaning nurturing), do women have to earn husband behavior? (financial providing, protection)You are unaware... As expected of a sub with mainly Americans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Even if it is true, (I don’t think it is) Why is being BBb considered such a bad thing?But you just never want sex? You can't understand that your spouse wants it and it's part of a healthy relationship? This screams "I'm asexual or on the asexual spectrum.", "I'm not attracted to men." and/or "I am not attracted to my spouse." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for ignoring texts or delays in responsesI always call. If you know them IRL, call. Why bother texting? They have to talk to you if they answer. And for context, this is if I know the person well. If they don't answer and don't call back or text back, so be it. Keep it moving. Also if they don't reply after 24 hours and we don't know each other well I will get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer online dating or in person dating?Both have their pros and cons for me & they don't outweigh each other so both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?Is it the thrill of the challenge? Wanting the reward of feeling special because you're different from other women? Yes and yes. I personally do not talk myself into thinking I'm the exception because doing so defeats the purpose and experience of being the exception, when you talk yourself into it, you aren't watching yourself be the exception, you are deluding yourself into thinking you are. It is more fun to see it happening and more realistic than imagining that is what is occurring. Persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Even if personality matters more then looks, that doesn’t make things betterI'm happy you took the time to type this. I was considering typing out something similar seeing as part of a hobby of mine is reading into personality types, super ego, ego, id and these kinds of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?Because people still believe the world can be fair. People still rebel against as many orders of reality as possible and try to do more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 3 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?Maybe changimg someone's mind? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 7 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?For sure. I've seen some wild posts here and this is coming from someone who has seen the darkest corners of the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 5 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?This is my hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:18 AM |
| 4 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?I mean I get the appeal of dissecting and noting behaviour. I could make a documentary/book myself on guys. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:18 AM |
| 3 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?When men do it... it sure is a sight to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?We do. We just get brushed aside as "pick mes" and "self hating". And you are right most overall don't, most don't because they already used to the new status quo and are scared to speak out because they don't want to seem like they hate themselves or are siding with the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menFor sure. People are getting worse self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menSometimes I genuinely get a headache from this place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menI never found dating hard personally but I have always been aware it is for others (how many others was always up in the air to me).>! I know I have it nice because I'm attractive conventionally in my area and I'm attractive unconventionally too from my experience with persons outside of my area. I know I can be more attractive if I put in a lot of effort when it comes to my appearance as well. I know what to avoid and what not to avoid. I also have a very nice personality IRL so that makes it e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How do all the men/women here find peace of mind when dealing with what they consider to be negative aspects of dating?I find peace because I have little to no issue staying without a partner. The option to just drop out all together is there. I have a kind of functioning support network so I'll be good with/without a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?My favourite is doing each other's hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?I agree though I wouldn't consider it universal but it is pretty close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:52 PM |
| 10 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?No. Most times I go to parties it is for my friends not to find a partner. Most women I know also have no issue going to a setting with only women, we don't necessarily have as strong an assumption that parties will always be a mixed crowd & to my knowledge in my region no one cares too much about actively finding someone, it more so focus on having a fun time with friends, if anything else happens, it happens. We would get upset if we were prioritising looking but I doubt we'd be as upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?Once it isn't grey earl, I always just feel like vomiting every time I taste it. Also love that for you! I also usually have tea times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessnon-neurotypical Neurodivergent is the word you are looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Yes, advice vs. just a listening ear. Some people need one or the other depending on the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?This is something that is starting to be on the rise and I find it absolutely disgusting. Why on earth would you think being prejudiced or discriminatory in any form is a good idea? I just know most of the people pushing this haven't thought things through. It comes from a revenge mindset and unhealed trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 3 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?I wish more people would read bell hooks. She has very insightful works for those who are ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Question for woman: Who is the "highest value man" who has pursued you?I'm not looking to reveal much. As other people here stated, if you are in the circles, you are in the circles, if not you likely won't even be on the radar to be considered. I had a similar experience as u/06534956 but no one asked for sex because that's straight rude in the culture, you get the relationship then that will follow, most are looking to get married however so... relationship -> engaged -> married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’a woman cannot simultaneously believe you are average and the hottest man. Noone can. I get why you'd type this, because it is next to zero in possibility but it is a possibility and has happened before, you don't have to trust my experience, however, just wanted to let you know, not get hopes up that you or anyone of the billions can be that lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 0 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?My weak prefs. (for guys) 6'0" | Reason: I like wearing 2-4 inch heels & I dislike people complaining when I am taller than them with or without heels. Taller dudes less likely to complain. Toned/Stocky | Reason: Nicest to hug and cuddle, also more likely to be able to do things that require muscle. I'm small boned, my S/O should be able to do things I can't ideally. Shoulder Length Curly Hair & Beards | Reason: I just think you can almost never go wrong with those. And I like taking care of cur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Mental health issues between men and womenThat sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 04:14 PM |
| 9 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?My opinion on this. You can/could get a date. Will you get more? A lot? None of that is promised so yes, I'd say there is talking past. /gen Also it is pretty obvious to a lot of people that there are differences and trends, it is why people say persons are "out of your league". Sure, you could get lucky. Not sure why most people's starting point here it seems is that "I will get a partner/many opportunities for partners and they will be ideal." No. You won't. Nothing in life is guaranteed, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | my advice to menIt is always miraculous how some here have never seen parts of the internet. There already was one. It was short-lived, more like a trend. There is also that SIMP was used in a specific community and was not supported there but as usual... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:02 AM |
| 5 | Mental health issues between men and womenDid you report them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | [discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man??I'd rather be the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | [discussion question] Would you rather be being a EXTREMELY attractive and rich woman or a EXTREMELY attractive and rich man??I have officially seen it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Am I Red-pill? Why does Red-Pill have such a bad rep?Have you ever visited red pill women spaces? What are your thoughts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolThis is what many never understand, none of us "have it easier" overall, in some instances, sure, overall? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolAnd even now you are wrong, some asexual persons want sex as there are different kinds of asexuals, they just don't have sexual attraction to specific people or anyone at all. Libido is not the same thing as sexual attraction. There are sex-averse/sex-repulsed low libido asexuals who are the most likely to never engage in sexual activity, and then there are asexuals who are sex-neutral or sex-favourable, they may have low, medium or high libidos and are more likely to be open to engaging in sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | What exactly does ‘expressing one’s sexuality’ mean?People here are too funny! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Regarding age gap relationships, it’s meaningless for women to say they would never date youngerThen there is me who likes all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Are you aware of any red pill/purple pill content creators who are females?Mrs. Midwest but her content has never mentioned any pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?The word you are looking for is self-absorbed. And no shit people in social situations and relationships of any kind won't like someone self-absorbed because they don't care about the group and the individuals, they only care about themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?There is always a reason. Maybe it is that you have a sour personality you don't mean to change or maybe it is because the person you decided to date is using weaponised incompetence to act like a child instead of being an adult and responsible. Honestly, I think naggers aren't too smart, don't waste your breath begging and complaining, leave. They aren't shaping up any time soon. All that will happen is that your partner will end up cheating or leaving not changing. IF THEY WANTED TO DO IT THEY… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?How are you misinterpreting and twisting this whole thing up? No one is saying they are forcing anyone to do anything. They are stated what you just stated, take into account others views and then decide. They don't personally want a woman who is taking the lead as you stated you have before, they wish to have that position themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: You’re out with a male friend and your purse gets snatched in a mall, do you expect him to chase after the thief?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Q4women: You’re out with a male friend and your purse gets snatched in a mall, do you expect him to chase after the thief?No. The thief could be armed. Where I live most thieves would kill you so no, neither of us are running behind any thief, we report to the police immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Okay, I was under the assumption you were only using the common usage I've seen which is "they gained a few pounds more and their body looks different". In that case, I am more inclined to agree, it will be stressful on the relationship to neglect your mental health and wellbeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Never said it isn't important but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI mean, I wouldn't call myself pro-choice, I am more neutral when it comes to this topic, partially because I def believe in cutting your tubes, if you want kids, adopt. Anyway, I think people should be able to not die from pregnancy, they should be able to decide in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadYou want to understand why I stated what I did, or wonder on the topic at hand TBH. Edited because I confused your sentence structure for a sec. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadIt is just the usual othering behaviour, guilty by association. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?I remember reading a book on this very thing and I thought wow, to be in a relationship like that where it is give and take and never take for granted or exploit, must be nice. The probability of getting that however is so low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Honestly, I will never get the "partners let themselves go" reason. For me and a many others, though we are few from what I can see, when you love someone as a human being, as they are, you don't give a rat's ass how they change physically or otherwise because you love them, them as a changing human being, not a static idea of them. You are attracted to them, not a static idea of them. I guess what I'm stating might seem just as odd as how I view "partners letting themselves go". I agree with ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:37 PM |
| 12 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?In the words of a Chad I talk to sometimes, "Stacys are more abundant than Chads." So I agree with what you have stated, however, I personally am fine remaining as is, if I try hard enough I def could pass for a Stacy. As a guy you get more respect for sure but you also don't get the safety of being vulnerable, so depends on what trade off you want. Personally, I don't think it is worth the trade, would I be fine trading? Sure. I mean, you'd get same high maintenance either way. But I like being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how true is this statement......I have different standards for the different kinds of relationships I am willing to have that aren't platonic. Depending on how things go I will use different standards accordingly. ETA: I, like others stated, am not willing to compromise my standards, none of them factor in preference so all are not things I'm willing to compromise on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 3 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?Well stated! Also I think confidence comes as well from knowing you can be competent in the future and knowing that even if you can't be competent in one area, that is okay, you are competent in others and that can be used instead. Confidence is about I'd say accepting your competency, accepting what you can improve competency in and what you cannot and realising it is OKAY. My 2 cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Why is a successful man attractive?A successful man is more likely to dress well, take pride in his appearance and be competent. That's the simple answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?True. I know of a woman who is 6'6" here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?Yeah. 😄 That is a highly probably reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?172cm so close to 5'8". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?Yes, I'd say being taller than the average of your ethnoracial group helps. Also if any of your grandparents/ancestors were tall there is a significant chance you will be too. I have my height genes from my maternal great-grandmother and my paternal grandfather, both are very tall 6'2"+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?As a tall woman, at least in my region & worldwide, I can definitely agree on that, a lot of guys are all happy about me dating them even though I'm taller because I don't care then get pissy about me wearing heels and being taller than them as the relationship progresses. Not to mention, other people can't seem to STFU if they notice a woman is taller in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?5'6" and below. 5'10" because a lot of people won't notice. 6'2" because they are tall enough for people to be like yeah, they are quite tall. Between 6'6" and 7'0" for most people. This is similar to the other answers so yeah. I think we all got the same idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How do people on this sub view queer and gay relationships?Then the response would be "you are the exception not the rule", I suspect even in the case of KPop stans this would be the answer as while a lot of women like them they aren't most women hence not the rule even though they are a significant amount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How do people on this sub view queer and gay relationships?There are quite a few bisexual persons here. I've also come across fellow a-specs here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Shy and extroverted Women, how far have you gone to simp/get the attention of a guy you liked/want to have sex with?I'm more shy and I did a lot for my childhood friend. I definitely was extremely obsessed at one point. I'd spend most of my allowance on him, for things like games and so on, I'd make things for him (cooking, crafts, edits with his favourite music, etc), I studied a specific subject because he said it would be good to study and actively worked real hard to get a high grade in that specific subject, I'd go to his games and music events where he'd play instruments, I remember at one point I exerc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: No one should drop their standards for any reason whatsoever, and high standards are eminently reasonableI'm not the person you were originally responding to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: No one should drop their standards for any reason whatsoever, and high standards are eminently reasonableI think you missed something, "THAT THEY ARE REALLY KEEN ON" I believe it was. This is where desirability politics comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceHere's the thing though, rarely straight up go, "Yeah, I'm not interested." It is either lie through your teeth, do something roundabout and/or ditch. Like a simple no would suffice. 🤷🏽♀️ I've heard some guys don't like seeing the gal cry if he outright says no or worry people will get the wrong idea if they see the gal crying. Eh.. it's a hit or miss honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?I wouldn't call 101.68 males per 100 females a lot more than women, that is 2 more at most. In 2022, the number of people in the world has increased, that calculation as of today, is off. Anyway, I've made my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceThis sub speaks in generalities. When they state women, they mean many/most not all. They hold to "you are the exception, not the rule", "you cater to the rule not the exceptions". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?You might want to update your statistical evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menYes but results may vary more. Or at least so I've heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.I'd beg to differ on the frequency as well. There are far more male dominated spaces online so when discussing issues as a woman you 100% have to factor that in. Yes, if you are in a mixed space with a lot of women, almost 50/50, you will get a mixed bag. But if you mean in regards to this specific subreddit, I cannot say because I'm not here often enough to detail the frequency of either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.That ain't how that works but good luck and Godspeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.I beg to differ. It depends on the group you are in. I've seen women put disclaimers that they aren't being misandrist before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?For sure, you just learn to put it to the back of your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:21 PM |
| – | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?It is very telling that they don't use protection. And if they are, they are really THAT worried about a 1% chance. The horny really made some people's brain stop functioning well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:51 PM |
| – | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Yeah generally it is until 18 and I think that should be the case for this too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Women: Are you more attracted to a status-driven man or a purpose-driven man?What gives you this impression? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Age Gap RelationshipsYou aren't understanding what I have sent. I am not saying you can't date anyone you want as an adult or whatever. I think I may have not explained well so I will try again. It is known that children start puberty and adolescence from anywhere between the age of 10 to 15, as a result it is also known and concluded that a teenage/pubescent boy or girl can make a baby, therefore they are old enough to have a kid biologically, this doesn't factor in if they can have a healthy baby or if it can be c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap RelationshipsThat minus 7 and then multiply by 2 thing does make more and more sense. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap RelationshipsTrue 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Age Gap RelationshipsI mean it depends on the country. Outside of America 10 is the max limit to my knowledge. Mostly because past 10 is into the ages where teen pregnancy occurs so "old enough to be your parent" is at play, ESPECIALLY when it reaches a 20 year gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Personally, I like assuming it isn't sexual because I def feel sick thinking about some stranger wanting to have sex with me. It feels pervy to me but I get that it is just a normal thing for a lot of people. So while I'm not gonna go "eww you're disgusting", I'm definitely going to save myself the trauma of letting it register in my brain that they want to have sex, I just go with "they think I look pretty", or "they think I am a wholesome person" almost never will I go with "they want to sleep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?I'm here to randomly divert by stating, green lipstick absolutely is a thing, so is blue lipstick, purple lipstick, brown lipstick, black lipstick, pink lipstick, orange lipstick, yellow lipstick, there are MANY different colours of lipsticks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?I genuinely used to rarely leave the house for this reason (not to the point of EVERYONE but too much for me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?And you may also want to look into the Asexual Spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?You may want to look into the split attraction model BTW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now?Agreed however as I grow older I become more apathetic towards persons whose morals don't align with mine, the majority, nor the objective moral theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now?Moral relativist I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Maybe where you are that is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Men nor women like some weepy person who is always crying over things. That is for children not independent adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do women believe they get to decide on what constitutes a real man?This comment is making me feel very red pilled right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women believe they get to decide on what constitutes a real man?From what I know, many of them see these guys wanting to be masculine and claiming they are masculine and use their understanding of masculinity to call guys out where as they don't care about being feminine so they don't have rules they care about following. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Boys need Older Male Gurus....okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Boys need Older Male Gurus.What does this have to do with the comment I was replying to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Boys need Older Male Gurus.I also agree about Charlie. I think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Boys need Older Male Gurus.Markiplier? CinnamonToastKen? Mizkif? 🤔 Elon Musk? Jeff Bezos? 🤣 No but I'm serious in regards to Markiplier, I think he's a good person to have as a role model. The rest not as much but they def can count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Q4WOMEN: What are the clues a man can use to tell if a woman only wants to string him along and not sex/commitment?You're absolutely right best way to know is if they aren't reciprocating. I personally understand why the guys would give nice things, they just value your existence like that (in the case where they are aware they will get nothing really in return, or nothing at all). Other times they try to win favour by giving you gifts. It works sometimes but then there's the high risk of you setting the expectation that the persons will continue to receive gifts, and they may see that as a primary thing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What makes women want to enter into a casual relationship?And here in lies the problem, overgeneralising promiscuous women as baby mamas, most promiscuous women are childless but continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What makes women want to enter into a casual relationship?Somehow, I'm not surprised it turned to this. Good luck with that. I'm not in the mood to have a debate over policing people, as if most people care about people excessively drinking in the way they shame (to the point of straight up bullying and verbal abuse) and tell women to self harm over being with multiple partners. As if contraception isn't a thing and as if women don't regularly screen people they go around with in any way because we almost always have to worry about possible risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What about love?Relationship Market Value. This and other acronyms can be found in the wiki of this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | What about love?People really out here believing that RMV isn't something discussed in RP spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.I personally wouldn't. I'd presume it would be equal or that more women do based on some research I've been doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.Okay. Some people usually have success in temporarily moving to a different area then returning to where they have had long term residence if they are looking for a LTR and typically they and their S/O usually live together in the area of choice. Just throwing out an idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 0 | anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrongI figured as much. Some people don't understand that, it seems, and it has caused some issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 07:06 PM |
| 0 | anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrongI figured as much. Some people don't understand that, it seems, and it has caused some issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.Have you tried moving? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.There are, tooturnttony is one example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.Are you referring to people in the United States of America? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrongBecause no one takes that other stuff seriously. Who thinks about "humans like salt"? Who follows a whole philosophy built on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:09 PM |
| 0 | anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrongPrecision is necessary. Like you have shown. Include "likely" "many" "some" "commonly" "in my experience" "in this area" and so on. But I get that many here just send offhanded comments. Too quick and easy to type exactly what flew out of your brain the moment it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 3 | What makes women want to enter into a casual relationship?No one is saying to praise women for sleeping with men. They are saying stop shaming women. It isn't that hard to comprehend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 05:21 PM |
| 5 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingExcept the red pill never says the only thing(s) women/men will be attracted to is something shallow, that may be one of the initial things but you can become attracted on a deeper level after. (At least to my knowledge that is how it is.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?In case no one is aware, some people 1. Have low libido, 2. Are asexual or on the asexual spectrum (if you are on the asexual spectrum you can also be heterosexual, bisexual, and so on because you still have some amount of sexual attraction), 3. Experience sex-repulsion or are sex-averse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:54 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel like sex is a need? If not then why?The fact you cannot see how some of those things would lead to death is rather alarming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Are platonic male friends for women the equivalent of f**k-buddies/ONS for men?Generally, for women, no, you are just a friend, a friend can be female or otherwise. Only people without a support system seek validation through making many friends, having many lovers, ONS and f-buddies. When you have a support system you already receive validation therefore you do not need to search for it desperately in other ways that won't actually give you anything solid, just a fleeting feeling. I'd also add there are different kinds of validation. Some people want all but at the end of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive WomenYeah, definitely one of those moments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive WomenHonestly. They dipping their toes in every pool and getting some people's expectations rising. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?I wish more people weren't socialised how they are, they'd have less division. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?I pressume you mean as in listening to some random women online? Well, sometimes it just seeps into their subconscious and sometimes they just have no one else to listen to and seek advice from or whatever. Women tend to trust other women a bit more because of how they grew up, hearing that women should stick together and what not and small things like going to the bathroom together, walking to places together because it might be unsafe and being weary of men because they could possibly be an ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?For sure, pretty privilege absolutely is a thing and so is unconventional attractiveness which is more subjective than a general consensus (as in the case of conventional attractiveness). It can be hard to find those who are attracted to you but you can even if you don't meet conventional standards. Makes me wonder what OLD would look like if they filtered for far more things so smaller subgroups who are attracted to specific kinds of people can find each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?The point is, the guys being told not to view women as sex objects DO NOT HAVE THE LUXURY TO DO SO. Some women will view an exchange of time with a guy who stimulates their senses as worth it even if it has a ton of draw backs, if you aren't that guy, you better make yourself tolerable at least. Those rules may not apply to you because you are desirable but it does to those who aren't. You are the exception, not the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:47 AM |
| 0 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/patriarchy https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/matriarchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.It is bizarre to me that people make these things solely one-sided when they reciprocate feelings, maybe they don't reciprocate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.So what you are saying is, the people you speak of had genuine worries instead of solely blaming women and feminism and got downvoted? And called incorrect names? I guess I can believe it. Now what? Why isn't MensLib banned? There are spaces you can discuss freely and organise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Unattractive WomenLonger lifespan and health is more than just about X chromosomes, it is also habits and deciding to take care of your health and appearance, I've observed guys before posting and arguing about how taking care of your health is an emasculating thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?Honestly a lot of the time it isn't even their own experience, I've noticed quite a few women ingest enough stories of other women getting cheated on they start thinking the same thing will happen to them and that they have the same guy and/or are that same woman. Hell, in smaller groups there are some absolutely toxic women who will start filling their "friend" who is taken with a bunch of information on "red flags" that are not at all red flags just to manipulate her into believing her BF is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menYou are right OP, I bow to your omniscience! 🙇🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menYes, come cancel me, I'm self hating! /s Just say you don't get what I'm jesting about and go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menRight. I keep forgetting you all here don't lighten up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?I see you also have heard of Hasan. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides moneyUnfortunately in this world many people will try to get an advantage at any cost. I'm happy that you are no longer in the position of being exploited, I hope you are finding some joy at least being free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides moneyBarely filtered message: !Their (the men that were in a relationship with you) incentive to not leave you alone is easily accessible sex (even if it isn't PiV). You don't prioritise that as much so of course you will turn down "free things" and not allow for one-sidedness without being completely transparent about it being one-sided. I think a lot of guys just don't mind getting things without reciprocating. You want reciprocation, they only do with certain people if ever.!< !My advice, if you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?Comment number 269, Markiplier, HasanAbi, Toni Mahfud, xQc, Sodapoppin, Mizkif, NymN, moistcr1tikal/penguinz0, Blaustoise [Twitch], ItsSliker, Jackson Wang, CrankGameplays, Cyr [Twitch], TimTheTatman, JonZherka, Greekgodx, Vinnie Hacker, Maluma, Yung Gravy, J. Cole, Cloakzy, CinnamonToastKen, CDawgVa, Karl Jacobs, Oscar Isaac, _metelous [IG], Rome Flynn, Idris Alba, jarred_evans [IG], isaiahxavier [IG]. Those are the ranges for me. I prefer longer hair. Shoulder length is ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menGenderfluidity has entered the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menOf course not (though I disagree about never understanding), they do not share your mindset. You value being attractive to men, you care to attract men and that isn't the case for every woman. What a shocker! Individuals having individual experiences?! The value of many things are subjective, you place a high value on something many others do not and that is quite understandable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Okay, thank you from answering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | q4w which way youd prefer to be treated by men?From reading the other comments it does seem like OP did not express what they wanted to properly in their post. I can see how you'd think it is a sad culture but from studies that isn't really the case. It was indeed a failing on OP's part for not adding that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | q4w which way youd prefer to be treated by men?Hmm, the typical "we owe you nothing", now to recall, "they owe you nothing" so rescind expectations and standards. Unfortunately life doesn't work consistently like that, I suppose in a way that's why some stop talking about it. This is merely an observation and comment, not an agreement or disagreement. Good day or night to all reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | q4w which way youd prefer to be treated by men?You fail to factor in that there are different understandings when it comes to this particular thing in varying cultures, to some, it is empathetic to not help because the person being helped won't have to wonder if they now owe something to the person who helped them nor worry about it. I do know that some people won't think of such a thing and worry about it so they can accept that they owe nothing but that isn't the case for everyone everywhere. Edit: It seems that OP was referring to their b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What are the chances the men in your lives are hiding their “true selves”?Likewise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?We certainly do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.My question is this, why are you attracted to your female friends? Do you not become friends with women you are not attracted to? Or are you just attracted to every woman you meet? I find this out of all things the most interesting. What is going on there? Is it that because you're friends you think they are attractive? Feel free to not reply if you want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 10:17 PM |
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