| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What am I doing wrong? | Field Report | ExquisiteGrowth | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Is the Art of Seduction worth reading? | Resources | ExquisiteGrowth | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | How to be a better dom? | Resources | ExquisiteGrowth | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thank you | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:34 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]What’s r4r | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What’s it mean when she gives time she’s available to talk then when I try to schedule she doesn’t respond?Leave her alone. Problem solved | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women?You’re human and are literally wired to feel attraction to women. Don’t worry about it | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How to get with a materialistic woman?Don’t support shit for her. It’s not worth it no matter how hot she is. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 41 | [deleted by user]^ correct. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 2 | FWB[20F] and I[19M] agreed to go on a break. What now?Do what you feel is right. I may be wrong here but I think the point of FWB is that you don’t have to stress as much about what the other person thinks. So if you need a longer break then take it. If you hit her up again after your break and she’s not down anymore then so be it. Side note: as a guy I always assume a girl is fucking with multiple dudes (or at least has the option to) because in most cases they do have multiple guys trying to hit on them. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good luck 👊 | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]I’m 5’4” bro, don’t even worry about the things you cannot control. If you’re dealing with a girl that thinks height is super important, you should leave her alone anyway. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I get IN the friendzone?It’s easy to become friends. Just make no moves whatsoever in a sexual direction. Eventually they’ll give up on u sexually | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 11:56 AM |
| 4 | I (20 M) never had sex... Need advice on having first time sex with a virgin girl?Good luck | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 33 | I (20 M) never had sex... Need advice on having first time sex with a virgin girl?Lubricant can help, and going in sloooowwwww. By slow I mean: Put tip in very slightly and take it out. Repeat a few times, then go in a little deeper. As you reach a new depth, keep taking it out and putting it back in to the SAME depth, until it feels like you can go in a bit deeper. Soon enough you’ll be in balls deep having a good time :). Just make sure you do this all slowly. Slow in, slow out. Until you’re fully in, keep going slow. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 32 | I (20 M) never had sex... Need advice on having first time sex with a virgin girl?Just chill, make sure you’re both relaxed. It’s gonna be really new to both of you. As another commenter mentioned, be able to laugh through the awkwardness, it really helps to make both you and the girl comfortable. I can guarantee you the 2nd time will be 1000000000x better. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:31 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Ask yourself if you want a guy approaching the girl you’re on a date with. The answer should be No. Common courtesy. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middleI don’t think it would hurt anyway | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middleBody weight workouts such as pull-ups, push-ups, crunches etc. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 12:26 PM |
| 14 | Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middleIt is all possible my friend. But it seems like you need therapy, especially for childhood issues. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 12:25 PM |
| 44 | Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middleYou’re not gonna get a girl if you think of yourself as “looking like shit” and generally low of yourself. Go workout, quit porn, quit smoking, build some habits you like to do and then you can think about women. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?She wants validation/attention. Just leave it alone. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I let him know I wanna give him head?No guy will ever turn down head from a girl he’s interested in. I’d bet 100$ that if you approached him and said you wanted to give him head, he would gladly oblige. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?Yes, many women have let me know that I smell good. Do not cheap out on cologne. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Im 20 and don’t have a drivers license. Is that a dealbreaker?I think what he meant is “Americans who never had to use public transport”. Rather than who never had it period. Because yeah there’s definitely some form of public transit in American cities, even the most car-oriented ones. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Im 20 and don’t have a drivers license. Is that a dealbreaker?Bro stop listening to these guys. Yes a car definitely helps with girls, maybe because they can see ur a little more independent in terms of going to and from places (they’re likely also thinking about some rides they’re gonna take with you too). But a car isn’t 100% necessary, if you got good game a car doesn’t mean anything. The fact that you live in Europe is a good thing actually, they’re more likely to have increased transit ridership when compared to Canada and America. So just keep your g… | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Im 20 and don’t have a drivers license. Is that a dealbreaker?I disagree, The way most American cities are built, they almost always favour a car, whether it’s the layout of the city or just how fast (or slow) a journey can be completed with transit. In almost any case in America, a car is necessary. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | First time having sexHonesty I don’t know if you should tell her you’re a virgin or not, it may relieve some of the anxiety you have if she responds nicely. But there’s no guarantee of that. Whatever you do, wear a fucking condom. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?I think everyone likes someone who has status and has the capability of acquiring resources. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Should I Flake More Often?No. Do not flake. What you can do instead is make backup plans in case she flops. It doesn’t have to be with someone, just plan something for yourself so you’ll have a good time either way. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.If you guys weren’t talking at the time how could she have known to reserve herself for you? Life provides a different prescription at times and I think you should be glad that you found her at the time that you did. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Polite way?“That sounds like a you problem” | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Fuck buddy acting crazyAdiós. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…My little bro has had many more hookups than me. I just asked him how he did it and now I’m getting similar success. I don’t know your relationship with your brother but if you guys love eachother he will be more than happy to explain | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?I’m giving you an award for that. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | I(21M) have gone on dates with a girl(20F) for about a month. Is it weird if there’s been no physical affection?Leave her and move on, she’s likely using you for validation and money. Keep moving soldier. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | To the guys who are successful and actively offering advice here.The single biggest step that has led to success for me is having self worth. Having self worth has given me so much success because I no longer “beg” or am desperate for a convo or a situation to workout. If a girl doesn’t want to talk to me, so be it, she’s the one missing out. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 12:02 PM |
| 6 | How to approach a chick at the club for a one night standYou want fuck? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.Seems like she just wanted the attention real bad | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Leave him then. How committed are you if you’re willing to do these things with other people? | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Going out as friends, should I?Wing woman wing woman wing woman. Having a female friend is extremely powerful in showing women can feel safe around you. If you believe the friendship can work then definitely do it. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?I would say to her that that shit needs to stop if we were going to move forward with a relationship. But you CANT force her to change. If she willingly changes then it’s good, if you force her, she’ll just do it behind your back. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 12:34 PM |
| 2 | What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dormWith direct eye contact “You wanna make out” hasn’t failed me yet. Obviously say this after you’ve had some flirting and touch accomplished. Hope last night went well for u | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Does Comics Improve Social Skills?To a certain point yes, it teaches you new words and how to use them, but often times comics will not be grammatically correct, or will use unprofessional/vulgar language. So be wary of what you are absorbing. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 07:21 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]I do it out of habit now, I feel like you gauge where the person is mentally just by a little glance. I don’t stare, I just look long enough. Edit: typo | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Remaining mysterious while answering 'what did you do today?'I think you can be a bit more forthcoming when you’re in a relationship. After all, it’s a relationship for Pete’s sake. It might turn the other person off if they can’t figure out in the least what their partner is up to. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 07:31 PM |
| 9 | How do you guys feel about screwing the neighbour.This could be a “don’t shit where you eat” situation, so if say wait for her move | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How to get over flaccid insecurityYour brain likely attached eroticism with masturbation instead of sex with another woman. You need a hard reset. Don’t masturbate (especially to porn) for a couple of months and see how you feel. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 06:03 PM |
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