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External-Jaguar2127/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 10:51 PM
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Hey brother, misery loves company we know it all too well. You should be happy for your friend and support him. You are owed anything because your friend is happy. I was good with females too tough time I couldn’t imagine being in spot 20 years ago and having choices of woman man did I get chewed up through that process prior to divorce being final final? She wasn’t raised of them all and she had some work to do because I probably put her through the ringer and finally I can see for the first ti…
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 08:47 AM
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Thanks for the note brother! While I’m trying to manage expectations, my goal isn’t to create suicidal psychopaths that’s why I am upfront and very clear. I did meet a nice lady this afternoon. I look younger than my age I guess maybe that’s why she finally talk to me what a difference in all around poise immaturity. F buddy I haven’t hardly spoke to any females in over 15 years. Didn’t know how to get with the times I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 04:29 AM
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Heck yeah, my wife and I both got since elementary and we never experimented evening at the thought of having one. people nowadays just don’t care.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 04:26 AM
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It’s been instilled in my head for over 40 years to wrap it up I don’t even let them blow me without a Rubber on
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 04:02 AM
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Not my in my experience. At least I am honest and upfront about what my expectations are. You shouldn’t be on a dating website or reaching out to be with somebody if you’re not, there are present in your head. I’m not gonna take the blame for another adults decisions. I don’t take it advantage of these people either. But don’t offer to blow me. And then threaten me because you’re not getting what you want a sweetheart .
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 03:13 AM
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Thanks I do appreciate this. I don’t always think clearly in the situation. I’m just so depressed.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 03:11 AM
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Sorry I didn’t address what you said I understand what you’re saying about giving them a benefit of the doubt, but these are grown woman. They’re clearly emotionally very unstable and are putting themselves at risk if they can’t understand what I have been upfront and honest about from the very beginning.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 02:59 AM
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No way even I’m not that dumb her Twerking and flower power down there isn’t worth wasting.. specially finding out how many people are on the sugar daddy websites. I don’t know if my seller even qualifies for it. Lol I’d be a poser.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 02:58 AM
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That is so awesome! I’m a kid in the candy store but it’s short-lived and very expensive lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 02:55 AM
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First of all, if you’re 27 years old, you have no excuse to blame me if I’m honest, you consented to just a good time and no commitment. Thanks for the blow job and the invitation for the threesome with your friends but I don’t want that going forward. That is not for me. Been there done that. I’m not gonna be labeled either buy a non-medical professional set. I have some type of disorder either because I didn’t parent to child. She’s an adult she’s hot she’s dating a man that looks younger than…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:57 AM
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I had a vasectomy brother wife refuse to do it but I always use protection, especially with the crazy ones lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:37 AM
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If I’m clear, and I’m upfront about what I’m looking for and not lying just to get some I’m not doing anything wrong. I just have to stay away from the crazy ones that gossip all day at their jobs and start talking I’m falling in love with me within a few days not happening. Go talk to your parents are good therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:35 AM
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Agreed props to you for holding some of it together. My kids became distant and didn’t want to deal with our drama. It didn’t matter if we didn’t argue they just knew we were both unhappy which made them unhappy. I think they wanted us to be together and will always want that, but they want to come home and be happy. They want me to be happy. Apparently I didn’t show that and I’m a D You’re lucky though you really are. I spent my first Christmas New Year’s Valentine’s Day, my birthday all right …
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:25 AM
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If you care about her and your relationship, if you feel that it can still be salvaged honestly be open to learning each other again . Try buddy. I gave her six months, but she had already checked out two years prior or more now looking back. I was pissed off. I started the dating apps, knowing that she cheated she hasn’t been back. I’m trying to fill a void right now I feel sick looking at her wedding pictures around the house, knowing how much that &@$/? day costed me
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:17 AM
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Lol well, all these young bunnies are on hinge but the hook ups are on Tinder. At some point I might consider another avenue but I’m not ready right now, and I don’t want to be that man that breaks someone’s heart, because I was too coward to be upfront and honest or selfish. I can only imagine the fist I would put in that man’s face if I ever found out, he was leading my daughter on later in life
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:09 AM
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Love is a choice. Are you not interested in putting any more effort in? My wife used to get my twins involved in so many activities. I couldn’t even get her to go on a date with me I think date nights are so important and adult time. The kids were 24 /seven and once they grew up it was too late to rekindle that Romance. Somebody else said it perfectly women start leaving emotionally years before they come at the act of infidelity or wanting a divorce. I see that so clearly now.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:07 AM
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Edit- I get the dream I had as freshman in high school of the girl that put out first - but then after a couple days, I’m blindsided by the idea of their dream wedding and love danger danger danger !!! No thanks
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:01 AM
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Well, specifically the ones I’m having issues with lol are around 25-30 years younger Again, I’m very clear what my expectations are and what I’m looking for. I’m certainly not looking to be their therapist from their childhood traumas at my age. I do not want the drama. I had that for too many years in my marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 11:58 PM
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Reconnecting with some female, friends old friends from high school, who are single moms now I regret being hard on my way with her responsibility on the inside of the house because she had two kids there while I was constantly working in building our life financially. The kids are a lot of work. The house was clean compared to some of these houses I’ve seen of other woman. (Unreal some of these women who invited me over their house on the first date) I give credit where credit is due now, and l…
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 11:25 PM
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I guess coming to this realization I was numb for a couple weeks I couldn’t move and I was sick to my stomach. I have been trying for months to turn things around but nothing worked. Right now I’m still not in a good place every major holiday birthday kills me. I try to fill the void and find some immediate satisfaction in dating. Hopefully this doesn’t blow up in my face.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 11:23 PM
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I know it might be something fun to do, but I would never do that because not desperate. I just wanna have fun after so many years of solidarity.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 11:18 PM
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If dinner is catering to their needs and them taking care of mine, knowing I was upfront about not wanting any children. What’s the problem?
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 11:17 PM
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I guess I’m not as savvy as they are they have different numbers they text me from, and it annoys the hell out of me. I even told one of them that I was just looking to have fun and then I was stringing her along. All the sudden, these hurt feelings come out but all over the place these young women act like they’re so mature they’re fun, but their issues are so dramatic and childish
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 11:14 PM
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I married my wife, and together we sent to kids off to college without that and built a beautiful house. I was completely blindsided when I found out from a mutual friend she had cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend. I never knew about before me. And I did what I could to salvage this, but it was never enough. She ended up doing it again while I was celibate jacking off 3-4 years to remain faithful.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 10:44 PM
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