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After you've read Models, I would highly recommend you give The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion a read. While this one doesn't get into the nitty gritty of dating but is rather a broad, generalized look at seduction from a more philosophical angle
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:58 PM
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Definitely agree. Feeling confident is a whole different ball game
/r/seduction13/10/22 10:43 AM
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I have ADHD and I'm probe to rejection sensitivity. Had some major blow outs when I was rejected when younger. But over many years Ive been rejected many times. It gets easier. It's part of the process. Once you've been with several women and realize that your capable of being with amazing women if you keep moving forward, then rejection stings a lot less. It still ain't zero for me, but it's very manageable. On average, if you talk to 50 people, 30 will be meh, 10 will be kind of interesting, 8…
/r/seduction13/10/22 10:34 AM
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Look man, I've been reading through this thread and I agree with the other guy. You have built up this massively negative mindset around yourself and dating that, if not taken seriously and dealt with, will destroy your life. You should seriously consider therapy. A lot of life is simply how you view things, so much less than you think is objective, bit it can often seem that way from your subjective viewpoint. I've fallen into this trap many times myself. If I were to wait for obvious signals b…
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:45 AM
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Honestly these days The Game will likely do you more harm than good. There's definitely some timeless info and ideas in there but much of it is potentially very damaging. Models is an infinitely better read for beginners. I would classify it as a must read. Gives you everything you need to get started
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:36 PM
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I usually get laid first date, so I must be doing something right. Even went skinny dipping with a date before
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:45 PM
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I have two go to moves I use regularly on first dates. The first is to ask her if she has ever been skinny dipping. This is great as not only does it show your thinking about her naked, it often gets a good story out of her. Bonus points if you have a good skinny dipping story too The second is to ask her about her piercings, presuming she has any. If she doesnt ask if she ever had. The way I make this sexual is by then asking a little later in the conversation if she would ever get her nipple p…
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:25 PM
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One thing I'd add to this is there is sort of a shit test element to it as well. If she says something like this then you immediately go to any variation of "Aw, why not? I thought we were gonna bang" whiney behaviour it would be an instant turn off for her
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:48 AM
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I was in Barce a few months ago and did some daygame there. Women are incredibly open there, it's really easy to get a Convo going. I even got a lay there, but that was from night game to be fair
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:29 AM
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I like this saying, definitely gonna steal it
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:18 PM
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Sometimes people genuinely can't make it. That's life. I'd give her one more chance and if that falls through then leave it at that. I'd probably just go for drinks again ya
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:07 AM
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This is the answer, whichever one of these jumps out at you. I did some daygame in Barce during the last year and people were so open and friendly, amazing place, might move there. Budapest is also very high on my list
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:50 PM
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This video really helped me to understand this
/r/seduction01/06/22 02:44 PM
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I'll give it a go, thanks for the exercise
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:21 PM
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And my axe
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:39 PM
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One dating coach I follow who's big on stretching, meditation etc suggested it took him about 3 months to have it fully locked in where he didn't have to think about it anymore
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:41 PM
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When I do daygame I'm usually very direct on the opener but I see the value in drawing it back a bit. Usually I'll say, "you look cute, I wanted to get to know you a bit" or something along those lines. New line I want to try is "I like your style, I wanted to see if your as cool as you look". Any other suggestions that might help draw it back some?
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:34 PM
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"What's with the Orange jacket? You look like an orange"
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:21 AM
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Great stuff man, it's amazing to hear your getting out there and putting it on the line. A few things that helped me (although I still have a long way to go) include treating every open as a success and whatever comes after as a bonus. You showed up as a man, and for now that's all you need know. You will back out of many, many approaches. That's ok too, it's going to take quite a while to train your mind out of the fear. But at the End of the day this is like exposure therapy: the more you expo…
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:39 PM
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What up fellow Amorati ;)
/r/seduction16/12/21 03:02 PM
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Exactly the road I'm currently walking, great reply
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:12 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I get some approaches in during my day to day but it's inconsistent. When I put time aside it's far more effective
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:15 PM
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I'm actually doing a degree in psychology right now, but honestly I've stumbled on dating advice that seems a lot more useful than anything I've learned in my degree so far regarding seduction. However, your definitely right in saying that being extremely direct is the way to go, has worked like a charm for me so far
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:28 AM
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I'll check it out, thank you
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:24 AM
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Haha yeah, I think I just gotta take more of those 6's and work my way up. I always go for the 8 and above when I'm approaching
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:55 PM
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Yeah I've watched some of those guys, got PWF course, they are beast. Havent put it into action as much as I would like and got shadowbanned on tinder which doesn't help. Gonna make an all new account and figure it out though. Todd V is good too.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:54 PM
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That's where I'm at now. Recently started approaching and really enjoying the process.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:52 PM
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All very true. Good touch is one of my weak points at the moment. I try to remind myself to be conscious of it but often fall into old habits. I'll get there though.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:51 PM
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Any advice or resources for improving communication skills?
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:50 PM
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I re-read it again recently. For someone with no knowledge of seduciton, it would be pretty monumental. But having done a lot of inner work a lot of it just seems natural.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:49 PM
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True that, I'm happy to just pump the numbers for now, see what comes my way and see what I can learn by luck
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:48 PM
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More honest feedback would be amazing. I'm pretty socially free but just gotta get more approaches under my belt to really tell where I stand.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:46 PM
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Thats very true man. I don't take rejection too seriously but I do try think about the fine points a bit too much. I think I'm just going to simply take action for a while.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:45 PM
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This is where I'm at now, I've read a ton of material, now I'm doing approaching. Need to get out there more though.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:39 PM
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