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| 1 | Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear?It’s a really scary thought to be alone with some random ass man. …do you leave the house, at all? Being alone with a man in a space is a completely normal occurrence for the vast majority of women, be it at work, in public, at the gym, jogging, pretty much anywhere. The only stories you hear about a woman in the woods alone with a strange man are scary stories of men following, attacking, raping, and killing women there. I regularly go hiking and I‘ve seen tons of women hiking solo in the mount… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:12 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?Is it because you assume different views on intimacy? Would you date someone who had lots of casual sex in the past but decided it’s not for him and now shares your view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?It’s different because you are from that culture. You have value for these woman and their families because you offer a visa and cultural similarity. They can immigrate without losing their culture. No moroccan father will give his daughter to some random conservative loser who can’t attract women simply because he‘s American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:49 PM |
| 0 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?You see the problem is people assume anyone who does not hold progressive liberal beliefs as bad... But progressive isn't always good... Change isn't always good... Sure but that’s not what conservatism is about these days. It’s about reversing the status quo to what came before, which was usually bad for anyone who’s not a straight white man. Right to abortion has been a thing in the US for 40 years, why is it a conservative position to change that? Literally the opposite of conserving somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:45 PM |
| 2 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?Yeah that’s not going to happen. Dating women from conservative cultures is not necessarily easier, they also have standards, you need to convince their fathers etc. Chances are if you can’t attract western women non-western ones will also not be interested. Unless we are talking about literal mail order brides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How is approaching random women out in the streets any better than online dating?It’s definitely a thing for women 30 and up. By then the dating dynamic has shifted as they are past their prime and they aren’t approached anymore. Well, they are, but not by people they want to be with. I know some couples that started because a co-worker or friend (usually a woman) connected them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:22 PM |
| 3 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?What‘s the incentive for women to become more conservative and religious? There is none. Men who become more conservative and religious will be rejected by most women and have to compete for the tiny number of tradwifes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:14 PM |
| 4 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?Bi women mostly ending up with men is definitely a thing and you don’t need to be biphobic to acknowledge that. A lot of bi women start exploring their bisexuality after frustrating experiences with men, basically as a healing practice. Once they are recovered and found a man who‘s not shitty they go back to the comfortable heterosexual life that is still open to them, unlike to bi men who are usually stuck with men once they come out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:02 PM |
| 2 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?Suggest anything to do with self-improvement to an incel and see what happens. A lot of men think their existence entitles them to sex and a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | When will very authentic looking and affordable sex bots become a norm?It’s impressive but still many, many generations from being indistinguishable from real people. They are not close to passing a Turing test of some sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 03:06 AM |
| 3 | When will very authentic looking and affordable sex bots become a norm?Idk man the level of technology that can produce a terminator-style robot that looks and acts exactly like a human just isn’t there. We can barely make vegan burgers that are authentic we won’t see a fully fake woman any time soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:37 AM |
| 11 | When will very authentic looking and affordable sex bots become a norm?It‘s not going to be a thing on a large scale, ever. They‘ll mimic the 1% of the time you stick your genitals somewhere, and even that will feel totally different compared to an actual human being that reacts and acts accordingly. Maybe they will also listen to what you say and generate a chatGPT-style answer that feels hollow and meaningless. They can’t experience life with you. They can‘t show true empathy, affection, love, anger. Unless you are a complete psychopath a sex robot will not satis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 02:18 AM |
| 0 | How sexually fluid are men?You‘re clearly not arguing in good faith and mischaracterise what he and I actually said so you can "win" the argument. This behaviour won't get you anywhere in life. I‘ll leave it at that, have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:40 PM |
| 0 | How sexually fluid are men?No historian will argue that ancient Rome or Greece was gay friendly in the modern sense. That is a complete strawman by you. Homosexuality and heterosexuality as concepts didn’t exist back then. The point is that today any and all sexual acts between men are taboo, which was not the case in other societies in the past. So yes, male sexuality is also fluid in the sense that where we stick our dicks in isn’t just biological and predetermined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What impact will SORA have on Hollywood? How will things like this affect wider political and sexual views?You missed the point. Most people these days don’t consider LGBT or black people simply existing in movies "overtly political" so it’s not the inverse. The gap is tiny and won’t sustain a film industry. Yeah, some people will roll their eyes at certain things Hollywood does but it’s not that deep for 90%+ of the target audience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:06 AM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.Unfortunately most men speak lowly of any women they don’t want to date/fuck so yeah, I‘ve seen it. But I haven’t seen hate from men towards women who do porn. Most are self aware enough to understand that these women do a job and are actual people. Women, on the other hand, are often downright nasty towards women in sex work. Or any women they consider to be "sluts". Men will joke around and disregard them for a LTR, women will make sure to exclude them from anything social. I‘ve seen it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:00 AM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.Again, it’s dangerous. Do I need to explain why? I also don’t want to date a soldier or someone working in a mine. It also clashes with monogamy as most people understand it. If someone I date tells me they want to get into sex work I would wish them good luck and respectfully end the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:53 PM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.I also don’t defend a right to consume porn without judgement and turn around and think lowly of/denigrate those who make porn. Not wanting to date someone who does porn is not "thinking lowly" of them. It’s a dangerous activity that isn’t sustainable long-term and incompatible with monogamy (for most people). I don’t hate sex workers but I would highly recommend my sister to find a different job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Artificial womb in the next decadesLiterally every statistic about same-sex parenting disagrees with you. You are just homophobic. Your children will despise you once they realize what a close minded person you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Kinda hard to be strong and independent while being inexperienced and broke. That’s the whole point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 08:09 AM |
| 14 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?…you‘re replying to a comment that explains it. Can you read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 08:05 AM |
| – | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?You're neglecting to mention that marriage rates have done nothing but drop since then. In 2018, only about 53% of men were married. Well that is to be expected since people marry much later than before (precisely because they choose their partners) and divorce is no longer stigmatised. Some couples also choose to not get married. What is the percentage of people who have never been married or in a LTR at the end of their life? I‘m pretty sure it’s in the low single digits. That's not how harems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:56 PM |
| 19 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Yeah I don’t think we want to emulate India‘s gender dynamic or marriage practices. Arranged marriages require a strict patriarchal society that doesn’t give a shit about women’s rights and agency. And they only "work" because society completely ignores the interests and problems of women in arranged marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:57 AM |
| 18 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?unrestrained, female sexual selection leads to harems forming around dominant males. this is natural for mammals, but doesnt lead to a successful civilization as the 80% of left-out/excluded males have no reason to support such a culture. We don’t see that in the real world. "unrestrained female sexual selection" is the status quo since the 60s, at least in the west, and almost all men eventually do marry and start a family. Most women are not interested in being the third wife to some rich busi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 07:57 AM |
| – | Some thoughts while abroadImagine living in a country where potentially everyone has a gun on hand and every police interaction puts your life at risk. Imagine living in a country with insane incarceration rates, for-profit prisons and three-strikes laws. Imagine living in a country where greedy pharmaceutical companies and corrupt politicians allow an opioid crisis to develop. Imagine living in a country where large parts of major cities are unsafe. Imagine living in a country with insane racial tensions that permeate e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:07 AM |
| – | Some thoughts while abroadMost american post I have read in months. You realize that the world is not divided in "United States" and "abroad"? There are hundreds of countries with thousands of distinct regions, cultures and levels of wealth/security. It’s been abundantly clear that dating abroad is 10000% better than dating in the US. Every dude who goes abroad experiences this. Because being foreign makes you interesting. It’s a perfect icebreaker and makes you ideal for a flirt and maybe a hookup but at the same time y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:18 AM |
| 1 | AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAs a gay man I can tell you that you are not nearly as accepting of gay people as you think you are. I don't really use gay as an insult, but there have been many times where I've suggested that someone on here might actually be gay because I've believed it was something for them to genuinely consider. No, women often use homophobia to police straight men. Asking a straight-identified man to consider if he’s gay is a thinly veiled attempt to emasculate him in front of everyone. You are weaponisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 04:55 PM |
| – | One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women ageThere is something seriously wrong with you (and I guess Leonardo DiCaprio) if you consider 19 to be "peak age", unless you yourself are below 25. Have you talked and interacted with the average 19 year old? They have a nothing to say, don’t bring anything to the table, are bad at sex, immature, no life skills, the list goes on. They look pretty and are easy to manipulate, that’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Why do women generally view sugar daddies less creepily than older men dating and marrying younger womenThe same way many men are attracted to MILFs. It‘s a nice fantasy but ultimately no self respecting young woman/young man wants to date a sugardaddy/older woman with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Can feminine men be in a relationship with feminine women? can masculine men be in a relationship with a masculine woman? or does there always need to be balanceThat sub and the general yaoi community is like 90% straight women, it actually proves my point. Gay men don’t read or write that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 10:48 PM |
| 10 | Can feminine men be in a relationship with feminine women? can masculine men be in a relationship with a masculine woman? or does there always need to be balanceNah that’s just a stereotype straight people believe because they are uncomfortable seeing a relationship without the husband-wife dynamic so they assign that dynamic onto everything they see gay couples do. In reality it’s the opposite, gay men are especially known for dating guys that look like their twins. It’s extremely rare that a fem guy dates a hyper masculine guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 12:18 PM |
| 2 | how “male feminists” embody toxic masculinityPlenty of gay men call themselves feminists. Doubt they want to abuse/rape women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminists just stick to dating male feminists?If RP ideology is such a lady magnet why is the Venn diagram of Incels and RP men a perfect circle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 09:56 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?And how would you know they're straight? Because I talk to them. I know so many gay and bi women who go to gay clubs. I go to gay clubs, queer men usually outnumber queer women 10 to 1. There absolutely is a lesbian hookup culture and many do meet when clubbing. Not nearly to the same extent as with gay men. Which is why barely any bars can make a profit off that. Straight women don't want to go to lesbian clubs because they don't want people to think they're not straight or for women to hit on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:52 AM |
| 15 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?No, there are barely any lesbians in gay clubs. The women in gay clubs are usually straight. Lesbian bars/clubs close for 3 reasons: 1. Women don’t spend nearly as much as they should to make a profit. 2. Lesbians don’t have a hookup culture so they rather meet other lesbians at the book club or other places without alcohol. 3. Similarly to gay bars, lesbian spaces are routinely taken over by straight women who want to party without straight men. Straight men will follow them because "bro it’s g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standardsYou do know there are plenty of liberal men in America? The only place where you will find significantly more liberal men would be western/northern Europe. And that advantage gets eaten up by the fact that many (probably most) men will not even consider dating some fresh off the boat American women who doesn’t speak the local language. There’s a reason moving abroad to find "love" only works when there is a huge wealth gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menDon‘t bother, they are not going to listen. They do not care. Threads like this are the reason why I as a gay man always vet women who „love having a gay friend“ by asking them about bi men. 90% of them fail and reveal that they essentially don’t view gay/bi men as men. Their homo/biphobia is just more underhand than men‘s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menDon‘t bother, they are not going to listen. They do not care. Threads like this are the reason why I as a gay man always vet women who „love having a gay friend“ by asking them about bi men. 90% of them fail and reveal that they essentially don’t view gay/bi men as men. Their homo/biphobia is just more underhand than men‘s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Are women more biologically predisposed to homosexuality?Men doing stuff together is a huge turn on for many women. Women love anime gay porn, gay smut stories, etc. "F*g Hags" are often kinda turned on by their gay besties. Many women love gay porn for the same reason men like lesbian porn - it's all dicks. Most straight men also watch all kinds of porn but would never date a women who does porn. I‘ve talked to many bi guys and I can tell you that this fetish doesn’t translate into dates for them. Women (even bi women) might enjoy these things but wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Are women more biologically predisposed to homosexuality?I think that WAY more women than men are bi, and about the same (small) numbers are exclusively homosexual. Absolutely not. Every gay hookup app I‘ve used has been overrun with bi men. And that’s just the ones who act on it, there are tons of bi men who don’t and never talk about it with straight people, while many bi women do because it makes them more interesting/progressive/cool etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 08:50 AM |
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