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Yea that’s only if you’re trying to infiltrate her friends, I like to call that the “Gate Keeper”.
/r/seduction25/06/19 10:12 PM
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For sure, usually girls see guys as too friendly, when they offer too much help. Try to let them know by joking around with them about taking them out to eat, hang out, etc. I can give more advice but need to know how your approach is first. Picking up girls for me has never been hard, I always help my friends out, and enjoy the process.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:37 PM
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Maybe you come off as too friendly, and brother type?
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:26 PM
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That’s nice to know, I wonder why there isn’t a ceremony or day to celebrate like Breast Cancer Awareness?
/r/MensRights14/04/19 01:01 AM
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I understand what you’re trying to say, because there really is no wrong or right in this kind of topic. I’m Asian and 5’10, I’ve never really had problems getting girls unless I had some sort of doubt or didn’t try hard enough. I have a lot of different type of nationality friends, and have seen them all pull in girls, but by stats I have seen shorter guys struggle most. Main reason is girls want to feel like girls, and dating a shorter guy doesn’t make the guy manly, make them feel safe, or be…
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:33 AM
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I’m telling you based off experience, I’m not short or had problems getting girls, I’ve had many female friends, and I’ve picked their brain about things like this. There’s even times when my shorter friends would try to compete, and when it came down to winning, I’d even ask the girl the main points why she chose me.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:29 PM
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It does matter, and always will, depending on the places you’re trying to pick them up. Shorter guys will always have a problem, not to discredit them, but having female friends, I was always told if they ever ended up with a shorter guy, it would have to be for a lot of reasons compared to a guy who is taller. For one the shorter guy has to be a Prince Charming, rich, huge dick, etc. But when it comes to dating someone taller, they just want looks, and personality, not as much expectation compa…
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:00 PM
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Anyone who hits children are fucking losers, I remember getting kicked in the back of my head as a child maybe “5-7 yrs old” as I was walking into the basement carrying my bicycle. My moms bf was maybe 40 at the time.
/r/MensRights21/12/18 03:36 PM
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Yea I did that in high school, but I wouldn’t do that now. Those times were great, but now if I want to filter through my dates quicker I bring them to coffee, desert places. Not places that can take hours.
/r/seduction10/12/18 04:42 PM
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Skimmed through really quick, but I’ve always told my friend, if you want to impress a girl, take her to places she’s never bee , good never tried, or wanted to. Don’t ever bring her to boring places like movies on first date.
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:45 PM
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She gets a D for her performance.
/r/PussyPass03/11/18 06:29 PM
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I got friend zoned once, and she introduced me to her sister, and that was how the cookie crumbled. Being friend zoned isn’t a bad thing at all, just know that a friend has a friend that has a friend.
/r/seduction29/10/18 07:04 PM
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Truuuuuuuu (2 Chainz voice)
/r/MensRights24/10/18 05:18 PM
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Back in high school, there were these group of girls that would attack, punch, and steal from guys, but no one wanted to be known as a woman beater. They did this for a few years, and one night at a party, one of the girl’s was trying to fight a guy, and he ended up fighting her back. Everyone that was watching just stood there, and cheered the guy on during/after the fight. All I remember was seeing her cry begging for help, but everyone just walked away and left her there. Ever since that she …
/r/MensRights30/09/18 03:59 AM
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That’s the first thing I’d say it “stop doubting yourself” you need to feel comfortable with who you are, and be confident. The best way I’d say is to just be out in public, starting with malls, shopping centres, events, etc. I would just start conversation with people working at the stores, cashiers, helpers, etc. Asking how their day is, and go on from there, and eventually when I felt comfortable enough, I’d ask for “free” samples at ice cream stores, food places, etc. When they’d give me fre…
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:52 PM
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Number two is if she swallows.
/r/seduction23/06/18 11:02 PM
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No tips, but they’re probably insecure that they can’t approach girls like you? Not sure, but I use to sleep with a lot of girls or approach them to get it out of my system until I found someone I knew I’d want to be with. Now that I’m in a relationship, I’m happy I did all of that, and don’t have any “what if’s”. Also have a group of friends who are still doing this, because they’re also waiting to find the right one too.
/r/seduction17/06/18 06:57 AM
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She’s just insecure like someone else said. Usually girls like these are easy to break down. Always need someone to compliment them, make them feel special.
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:47 AM
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Truth is, I get feel the same when I get rejected in public, but remind myself that I got more balls then most to do it in public. So when I see someone else rejected for trying I feel compelled to ask the girl where he messed up on lol. Unless it was a guy who tries to pick up a girl and trying to hard, I laugh.
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:02 PM
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Here’s some key rules: Conversing: learn to talk about subjects that interest the both of you, or her. Don’t ask too many questions about her past relationships. Places to go on a first date: coffee shops because a coffee is quick, and cheap, and you can ditch on the date easier than if it were at a restaurant. When to text/call after first date: if you drop her off, and you feel a connection, she would tell you to text/call when you get home safely. If she doesn’t suggest this. Tell her you’ll …
/r/seduction24/03/18 11:06 PM
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After each dye, always message to see how they’re doing, and then follow up with complimenting them.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:26 PM
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Definitely missed it on the list even though I read it a few times.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:35 PM
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You forgot to mention toothbrush in case she stays the night, and wants to have morning sex without the morning breath. Pack from Costco helps.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:27 PM
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I’ll add to this since I talk to a lot of strangers daily, whether it’s to say good morning, how are you? Or crack a joke. Because of this it’s gotten to a point that it doesn’t feel like I’m hitting on the girl, it just feels like a normal convo, and they love it because they don’t feel like you’re trying to hit on them. If the girl you’re trying to talk to sees you conversing to a stranger about some random things, and you talk to her after, she’ll be easier to talk to, because she won’t feel …
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:47 PM
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I’m talking about being able to talk to girls without depending on looks first, because let’s be honest guys who depend on looks first barely know how to talk to girls, I can’t say this for everyone. But what I mean is getting someone interested in your intellectual talking skills. I’m nowhere near batfaced, but I enjoy trying to pick girls up online before they judge me by looks.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:47 AM
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Yea these videos are kind of weak, I don’t really bother watching, I feel like they don’t target the typical person. I’m thinking I should show people how to pick up girls online without looks. A basic video on how to get them interested without seeing you first.
/r/seduction22/02/18 07:09 PM
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Good luck, and if you need any advice let me know.
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:22 AM
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Not trying to bash you, but you know what happens to people like you who don’t suck it up and take the risk? They lose out, I knew a few ppl in same situation as you, and they lost out. Simply because someone who was brave enough to approach her that wasn’t even on her radar took the chance. When that happened all I hear is “oh I had a chance, she was checking me out, blah blah blah”. You literally have nothing to lose. Stop being a chicken shit, and anyone who downvotes me is also a chicken shi…
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:18 AM
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Sometimes even if their shy try to stick to the same kind of topic, and come around to the main question again after you feel like you eased them up a bit. Sometimes they’re just hesitant first time to talk about something.
/r/seduction16/02/18 10:11 PM
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You’re right it does depend, but the convo wouldn’t end there for me, if she didn’t know what she wanted to do. Ask her what her what she thought she wanted to do when she was a child, and then that’ll bring up more convos.
/r/seduction16/02/18 06:16 PM
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Also depends on situation, you definitely wouldn’t bring it up if it’s a random on a street, but if you’re on a date it works. I’ve never had problems getting a girl to open up to me. The shy ones seem to be the best to open up, because once they trust you, they will do anything for you.
/r/seduction16/02/18 06:14 PM
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If you come across a shy girl that doesn’t open up much after that question, you should ask her what she really wants to do for a career. Most likely she’ll open up, and go on about her dreams and passion. Bonus points if you’re able to advise her on how to get closer to her dreams. That always works for me, and it also opens them up more because they have someone who is willing to listen.
/r/seduction16/02/18 04:10 PM
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Or he’s a pro tip. Get her to ask for your number or give you hers. If you gotta ask most likely she’s not that interested.
/r/seduction12/02/18 05:08 AM
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Don’t look like you’re trying too hard when dancing, and make sure you’re actually having fun.
/r/seduction30/01/18 09:32 PM
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I can confirm that, I’ve kissed or made out with a lot of girls, and a lot didn’t lead to sex, second date, or anything at all. Usually spur of the moment, like a hi and a bye.
/r/seduction27/01/18 05:45 PM
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Very easy to create mystery, I like to use tell less ask more. The rest is a mystery.
/r/seduction27/01/18 05:43 PM
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Looks aren’t everything, but it is something to be paired with other attributes, I use to hit on girls online or by text before they saw me just for fun, and see if I could get a date with them. First response when I deny giving them pics is “Are you fat? Ugly? Fake?”
/r/seduction22/01/18 12:01 AM
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Move on, it won’t make it any better if you keep asking. Unless you can bounce back and make them laugh a few more times after. Then ask again.
/r/seduction13/01/18 11:13 PM
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Well other than having the same interests, the real question is what do you do to carry on the convo? Do you add a few jokes in, here and there? Are you too monotone when you’re talking?
/r/seduction13/01/18 09:21 PM
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Works.
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:51 AM
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What do you mean work really hard? If your personality is a natural “I don’t give a fuck attitude” or could a person who isn’t boring. Then it’s pretty easy to get girls, I’ve never had to spend a lot of money or be rich to date any type of girls. It is true about “thrill and excitement” they rather do something fun and new. Not the same old asking about what they want to do in life, or have dinner at expensive places. Usually if you’re the one doing that, you’re getting suckered, and that’s whe…
/r/seduction23/12/17 01:33 AM
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Be motivated enough to spare 13 minutes about motivation.
/r/seduction19/12/17 09:25 AM
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Just buy purple shorts.
/r/seduction19/12/17 09:25 AM
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Or just being out in general.
/r/seduction06/12/17 06:12 AM
3

Take some viagra
/r/seduction11/11/17 09:12 PM
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I'm pretty experienced in this, its all because of the field I work in, and personality. One tip to expand your social circle is read a lot, and do a lot of random hobbies, or things in general, people don't want to hang out with you if you only talk about what you like. People like to talk, and want someone to listen, if you have the same interests, hobbies it's very easy to connect. A lot of people have offered me jobs because they say that I can easily connect with people. You can PM me if yo…
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:36 AM
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Ppl who get feelings easily tend not to take advice from others, they're too caught up in their feelings.
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:40 PM
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Nahhhhh
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:54 PM
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You just do it, it much to it, and by that you'll find your pick up style.
/r/seduction07/08/17 09:15 PM
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Just keep in contact with her without expecting much. Fuck her when she's here, fuck her when you're there, because most likely she'll be fucking someone in between. So don't fall in love or get obsessed, and let it be.
/r/seduction31/07/17 04:53 AM
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I'm 5'10 and weighed about 170 before working out, and attracted girls still, but when I started working out and weighed about 190, I noticed Id get certain type of girls. The ones that like guys for looks only, and didn't care about convos much, just for hook ups. All in all girls will always like guys who look fit, I wasn't super fit with abs etc, but had the big arms, chest, shoulders. Girls love to grab arms.
/r/seduction18/07/17 05:18 AM
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Here's the thing, stop worrying about online dating of its not working, move on. It's strange, but you can't expect someone to like you based on a picture, it's rare. Don't expect "girls" to like you when they photoshop pictures themselves to try and get guys out of their league to like them. Have you tried talking to girls different ways? Through friends? Going out? Social gatherings etc? Technology is behind this, and times have changed. The fact that you keep bringing up online dating, you mu…
/r/seduction09/07/17 05:23 AM
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I do get it, I have many female friends that have told me the same thing. Don't bother with online dating stuff if you're not a photogenic 10/10 or have expensive cars, house, jewelry, etc in pics. In the world of people being so judgemental just by pics really annoys me as much as it annoys you, you can get girls, you just need to know the who, what, where, when, and how's. What I can tell you for sure is that practice make perfect.
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:13 AM
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You shouldn't assume that I post pictures online to get girls, I'm actually opposite, I don't have any social media with my face pics. Being photogenic isn't for me, and using looks hasn't always been a first option for getting girls. It's all from trial and error, being able to build up the courage to go for it even if I know my chances aren't that good. Trying to use pick up sites doesn't work for me, even when I decide to post a pic of me for fun, and see if I get a match etc. Females are col…
/r/seduction07/07/17 08:27 AM
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For that to escalate you need to make them laugh, and see how they react when you nudge them, poke them, etc.
/r/seduction07/07/17 07:14 AM
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Nothing is better than practice, and having female friends. All you need to do first is be able to carry a conversation.
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:55 AM
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Yes and no. If the girl is clearly wearing headphones the whole time, and isn't paying attention to anything but the work out machine, and phone, then no it's not appropriate to try and pick her up. When is it appropriate? When she looks like she's not really there to work out, and has wandering eye, or purposely working out near you, asking you for work out advice, or straight forward come up, and talks to you. I've been too several gyms, and have been picked up before by girls, and have lot of…
/r/seduction06/07/17 07:50 AM
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Been thru it all, it's either she has a man, and just wanted a night of fun, or she's really busy, but even if she is "really busy" think about how often people are on their phones. Also could've been what you texted her. What have you texted her so far, and her replies? Usually if you've tried several times to get a good convo going, and she's still taking time to reply, I'd say just move on. Message her in a week or so, but don't expect anything.
/r/seduction06/07/17 07:44 AM
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Practice is all it takes, being out a lot, and the company I work for. Helping ppl with their social skills has been interesting for me, because I feel like everyone just needs to do it, instead of over think it.
/r/seduction06/07/17 07:40 AM
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How old are you? Honest question, I wouldn't mind helping you out. Not a PUA or anything like that, but I like to see guys get girls. My friends often pay for my night out, expenses. As long as I help them get girls, wing it for them, share.
/r/seduction06/07/17 07:37 AM
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Don't listen to that bullshit about, 1-2x a week. See them whenever you want, or when you both want, and can't wait to see each other. Unless either one gets annoying, then it's probably not going to last, I would see my gf of 4 yea as often as I could before we got serious. We always did new things, and grew together. Depends how compatible you are together b
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:32 AM
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I tell my gf that she's sexy, and that's why guys hit on her, but I'm the lucky one cuz I get to bring her home, and fuck her.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:28 AM
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Majority of the times I hear why guys can't pick up girls, or meet new girls, is because they don't even go to meet new girls! You know how annoying it is when they bitch and complain, but don't put effort, it's like complaining why you're fat, and not fit without going to the gym.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:27 AM
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Read, hang out with different ppl, do random things.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:22 AM
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What is difficult for you? Approaching? Conversing? It just takes practice.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:20 AM
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Getting a girls number has never been a problem for me, it depends on my mood, location, timing. Success rate would probably be 80% if I tried, sometimes id ask a girl for fun when I'm bored, so I don't keep track of that. Getting a date would be s high as if I were to get the girls number, because usually I wouldn't ask unless I knew I had a chance. Getting laid would depend on how hard Id want to work for it, after getting a date. Not saying I always get laid after going on date, but I try to …
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:14 AM
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Being fit should be a bonus when getting girls, I would still get them whenever I tried. When I started working out here and there, I got even more girls without trying. My friends call me fat and out of shape right now, but I still don't have a problem getting them. You really need to talk to someone who knows how to get girls. Not saying I'm a pro, but my friends would pay for my night out, drinks, hotels, etc. As long as I picked up girls for them. Sometimes they'd even get me to text the gir…
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:43 AM
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I'm Asian 5'10 medium build, and have never given off a weakness vibe, but I do know what you mean by that. A lot of Asians look frail and zoned out.
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:39 AM
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Or let alone anyone that even rates themselves seems kinda douche.
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:34 AM
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Usually when people tell you "you're trying to hard" is when you don't get the signal that you're not gonna get them, and keep trying, or you already got them, and keep trying to impress them.
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:31 AM
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Start reading books, news, go out more, meet new people, learn new things. Share your experiences.
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:28 AM
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They're bullshitting you, when my friends can't get a girl I usually know right away what the reason is. They might be too embarrassed to tell you, or not your real friends. Answer those questions I asked you earlier, and I'll try to help the best I can. Getting girls or hooking up with them hasn't been a problem for me since I stopped caring about what people think, a long ass time ago.
/r/seduction30/06/17 09:26 AM
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Growing up Asian in a mainly white suburban area, I faced some of these problems too. Getting told here and there from Caucasian girls that they didn't like "Asians" saw it more of a challenge, and dates as many as I could for fun. What I want to know is why don't you ask your friends what you're doing wrong? What are the things you talk about when you're on a date? Do you engage in conversations that are interesting? Are you even funny, and know how to control a convo?
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:18 AM
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