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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Splitting Asset Advice?		Extra_Bed7419	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 04:09 PM

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2	Let’s be honest with each other….did alcohol contribute to the divorce? Mine is actually opposite… I mean prior to kids I wouldn’t say I was a heavy drinker but more than occasional. My STBX came from a drinking family the signs were there I didn’t pick it up because it was fun at the time.. fast forward some years and 2 kids later she never grew up and can’t handle hard conversations, and coping skills the last 3 years have been absolutely miserable once I figured out what the hell was going on… she had been hiding drinking and I had no idea then it became uncontro…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 03:32 AM
1	D-Day Thank you!!! I actually needed to hear this!! I’m holding on to nothing in hopes she will change well it’s been 3 years same addiction riddled liar… I believe the fear of starting over was holding me back, but realizing I have so much to gain/offer is still ahead! Thank you for the post!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 05:22 PM
1	How do you guys dissociate? I found I’m at peace when I’m not home. Although not divorced (yet) we live 2 separate lives barely speak unless it’s about the kids. I spend a lot of time working on my kids baseball field. Just very relaxing and rewarding some excitement I haven’t had in years! Keeps me calm and motivated	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 04:13 AM
1	The Kids Currently in the same position… in a stale “marriage” sleep in separate rooms… can’t stand each other and just here to manage the household and try to keep it together for the kids… 8 and 4 year old the 8yr old would be devastated but it’s also better than the constant arguing, the lying and the resentment Parents were divorced when I was 10 and it still haunts me as well but I’m on the same exact track and nothing can save it at this point.. but I also don’t deserve to be treated how I am I’m t…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 02:17 AM

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