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Women imagine intelligence in losers/dirtbags and people often point at the intellect instead of the vitals. Edgy sacks of garbage tend to talk a lot and seem well spoken. But if you point out their toxin levels you get peel a chick off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:09 PM
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Yep. I just was flirting with a crush for a few weeks and I wasn't doing any sex math. I'm 35. That was so much more sustainable than closing off to women out of spite or being like "no friend zone ever". I did ultimately back off from the friendship but I feel great and have no bad memories now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:05 PM
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Anti-feminist is different than misogynist. Feminism is in part an academic construct that employs many university professors and will never start upping the stakes in what women deserve. So by the raw definition I might be a feminist but I don't think women should trash men either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:55 PM
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It's Reddit knowing the reputation for manic mods it's arguable that the people getting posts across and not getting banned are too much like the mods to understand dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:08 PM
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That's exactly what it is. I'm dating fleabags and Karen moms are going "well I'm not like that?" And then they're dating passport bros and going "well if you make less money than me it's a dealbreaker". I'm comfortable in my economic niche and independent, I shouldn't have to make enough to support a wife in 2026, I should be able to find someone comfortable in their niche like me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:04 PM
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They do the same think arrogant men do but they flirt. So like calling me sweetie and insulting me, you happen to get a gendered comeback, its because "sweetie" is one of them microaggressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:59 PM
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You could also get attacked by another woman. Practice environmental safety period. It's not victim blaming, I organize travel groups for myself too, I wouldn't walk down an unlit street
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:34 PM
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Some... And what I've seen is like pastors who think it's a sin to masturbate fearing their own intrusive thoughts. It's an internal struggle imagined to be a tornado when its a dust devil
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:51 PM
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You see old pastors and imams saying that crap. They don't speak for me. You can't provoke me to SA someone period, when I think I being "teased" I go rub one out, most guys are like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:43 PM
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I mean women should prepare, that doesn't absolve bad men. There are creeps out there who feel entitled to speak to you, they won't accept "I don't know you go away" without offense, and they escalate until someone physically checks them. As a man when that happens I have a ton of options after the fact, a woman might need male 2 to step in and the HE might feel entitled. I can get between you and a predator if he's been identified, I can't impose my protection on you without knowing that's the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:38 PM
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Attractiveness and loyalty are just not the same vector. Age is a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:19 PM
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The manosphere is like a visceral reaction to this academic blue haired feminism. It feels like all women are like that because only women like this seek out low impact social environments like bars
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:14 PM
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It's the same variance as you. You're telling women not to be smutty but really you're starting at the Brazilian swimsuit model
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:04 PM
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You're in the manosphere. Take a step back, not towards the feminists, just think. Are most women really like that? No, you got a psycho cat lady trapped in an academic industrial complex and she's screaming in your ear. The other chicks already blocked her on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:02 PM
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Most guys aren't ready but all the rhetoric makes talk of "sowing your wild oats" chauvinistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:00 PM
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I don't care about raw numbers, i care if you're inclined to get drunk and make mistakes etc. if it's the opposite and she's all like "I'm being careful I'm saving myself etc." I'm 35, I expect women with little brats running around, don't be insecure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:58 PM
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Not sure how it states any of that. Two different things happening. Guys like to be pathetic about being pathetic, and dating sites mission statement was to fix that, they instead exploited it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:46 PM
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I've said that before. "I'm lonely and need a partner now" is a bad mode to be in, guys are not attractive when they're presenting as lonely. Dating sites make more money if you don't outgrow them, theyre designed to not be as effective as caimed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:07 PM
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You cant raise kids on a single income. The stacking comes from the fact that we replaced social gatherings with the internet. The type of women you meet at bars or on dating sites are bad news
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:10 AM
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This sub is full of word salad "why everyone, as in just me and my echo chamber, is having this problem". Go look up some of those videos your mom told you not to watch, being single is not so bad, don't make your love life about the world's timing, you are the one you will have to live with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:46 PM
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Its not "women" its how society has reframed dating to make women feel safe. Im guilty of being a creep until proving otherwise. Dont think i learned to do that before 23 and its not even as easy for them as it was for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:08 PM
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"my generation" im not a zoomer. I dont really personally have trouble, but you act like gen z isnt dealing with getting called a creep for making eye contact
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:33 PM
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Ahh so its one of those boomer logics. Divorce rate is 100% among people i know, and dating was easier when you were allowed to approach women offline. What you "had to do" was go to organized social events where women were asking for guidance before the smart phone age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:38 PM
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Some of what his "mentor" said was healthy outlook on dating but the life stuff is just wild. I have the same attitude towards dating, im not gonna impress anyone so be confident in what i have, but i guess hes screwing with his career over his junk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:30 PM
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Lol have you seen the married 40 year old dudes? Pathetic and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:26 PM
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Thats what im doing too. Its not really redpill, no one is casting judgement in the way women are, i have a very small amount of things to offer and ive accepted that, women who want nothing are common, but you dont get to "call your targets" without being a miserable blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:25 PM
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If a woman reveals herself to be a loser stop trying yo impress her. We need to start walking away from stranger judgement and shallow statements. Had stinky middle aged women say "men are gross" when i clearly sm showering and washing my bum better than them. I know how you women talk and glass houses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:27 PM
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Male problems dont matter cause mens fault, female problems do matter cause mens fault. -some chick with a septum ring, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:21 PM
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Thats not hyperbole. Ive seen women pat themselves on the back for team lifting one reel and then just leave on time with the job 20% finished complaining they already did enough that day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:29 PM
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Then go look up some words and figure it out im not your daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:23 PM
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Im isolating myself right now. Problem solving is a cerebrum thing and not a hormone thing. men are better on average because estrogen is more psychoactive than testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:13 AM
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Its not problem solving, its herding. We have an instinct to look after our group like a shepherd. This is a lit easier to coopt than the maternal drive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:08 PM
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I mean historically thats how joan of arc happened
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:06 PM
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Responsibilities. Why would i shirk my responsibilities to give a woman a chance when shes going to think shes still a special little girl if she leaves the job in disarray
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:18 PM
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They arent willing to put work in to relinquish rights when women dont even step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:05 PM
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Im not flaired for red pill but yeah this reads like someone wants to diminish the physical reality of men being relied on for work, defense, and motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:03 PM
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Septum piercing, face tattoos, generic tattoos they cant explain on their arms back or neck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:58 PM
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I threat profile women more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:32 PM
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What do you hope to gain out of this conversation? You thought i was lying, i got the message that you didnt want yo hear about my personal life and said good night. Keep gabbing if you want i dont mind having this stupid argument with you if you find it entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:57 PM
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Ahh i see so youre just being a bitch to see if ill argue. Good night
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:46 PM
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Yep same standards for chicks. Need someone who is capable of splitting rent and isnt on the verge of some physical or mental crashout
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:41 PM
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Yep nut up and use the literal and metaphorical prostitution that once barred you fro the dating pool. Getting chicks is not hard just let go of this hope for a soul mate or partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:39 PM
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Yeah you do know what a snaggletooth is right? She was missing half a tooth because as a kid she was gnawing on her thumb too much. I aimed laterally and my mom was like "you could get a prettier girl than that" when she didnt say that about everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:34 PM
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The semi-hypothetical radical feminists that think all men of military age need to wear shock collars to avoid the temptation ofSAing every woman the see. Ive met those, ive. Never seen the other feminists take their side
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:16 PM
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When i was redpill/mgtow i was under the impression its about being your own man regardless of what the women in your life are doing. The manosphere always devolves into bitter incels because they cant get their hormones under control and leave the women alone for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:08 PM
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Yeah as an actual average guy i dont get women because i font try, i dont try because i banged my head against high standards from chicks whom i cant even describe to my mom because theyre so plain. My gf in highschool had a snaggletooth with a removable cap telling me her friends said i was too short. I learned to just be mean and rely on porn over the years fuckem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:00 PM
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Its a feminine quality but not a "women are like this" situation. Youre definitely never calling them out on their bs if this is still your impression. They arent going to force you to listen to them, most of them fear men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:41 PM
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It all boils down to the "price" being too high for what a man gets out of a relationship. I do want kids, but not if theyll get taken away and raised by the next man. It keeps getting easier and more justifiable to leave a marriage, the women on tiktok proved this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah i dont know how its a power play on a dating site. Its a power play if you go on a hysterical rant and i say "shhh". I also get away with that because im actually listening and know when theyre just being immature because they had no one punching their arm as a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:23 PM
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Yeah its honestly listening problem. Caused by women rarely checking themselves on airhead rants. Not all but enough that ehen you hear a chick straining over mundane things you go "oh here we go again"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:20 PM
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If a girls idea of the weekend is drinking with males, shes trouble. Best case you get something that can be fixed with antibiotics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:10 PM
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Im gonna use the same argument that women call victim blaming. You shouldnt be out there with a stupid bimbos who get drunk with men for fun. Society treats drunk women like drunk children and blames YOU for not watching your lady friends liquor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:08 PM
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You went "men do this too" when a guy was sincerely trying to ask women. Thats the same vein as "not all women are like that". Factually accurate but signifies you are going to ignore my concerns and make it all about you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:50 PM
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It doesnt bug me it just shuts down the discussion and im telling you why guys may kind of roll their eyes and redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:38 PM
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"i see men doing it" isnt really constructive. Makes me feel you dont understand ops frustrations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:54 PM
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Fight club
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah people dont change out of highschool dont try any of these bullshit "you dont have real experience" arguments when im simply stating the time i went through what people in this sub are going through. Go talk down to your pets if you feel the need to be that wsy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:12 PM
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Yeah those should have been granted with suffrage. Post office holding people back is a whole different issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:06 PM
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As a "bad boy" it was hilarious how women fell for "you wanna be bad?" In highschool. Ylu point blank offer the option to cheat theyre always tempted, do it to a guy and hes like "i like the lady at home better"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:23 PM
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Feminism should have concluded with suffrage but all of these lifelong academics would have had to find new fields of study. Equality is there, men are bo less equal to women in general than they are to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:20 PM
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Men cant express the same outrage the feminists did without appearing pathetic and unworthy of female attention. thats why theyre all blackpilled in here. I dont want to complain about what kind of men women like or hows its usually not me, dating was never the highlight of my life qnyways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:15 PM
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They say the royal "women" to talk about the 20% they notice. I remember girls being invisible in highschool because its like a candy store. Some guys dont learn how to look passed selection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:23 PM
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Awkward and since were sort of in the woke "dont hurt anyone's feelings" age people just let their grievances go unanswered. I dont know how to tell ocd, adhd and autistic people that they cant make their lack of time sense cost others time. Im sure i can get a diagnosis to explain i get stressed if im held up at work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:33 PM
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Dont "mask" its actually the bane of my existence being blindsided by this, opiate addiction, and adhd so bad theyre actually taking therapeutic doses the size of recreational ones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:24 PM
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Did i say yelling? I said stfu and it was a paraphrase. Dont worry i wont mention my mom again this moral advice from the peanut gallery is wild. My mom and i have no problems and you latched on to the one perception of superiority like barnacles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:50 PM
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No but i dont like the way people are using this so i deleted to be safe. My mom has a small handful of misandric quirks like saying men cany multitask or women are classier. When she offered dating advice to me as a houng man she used the happy wife happy life mantra like i live to see the smile on karens face, i was coming to her about dumping a long term gf because she made demands frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:43 PM
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Shes not abusive she says crap about men and i tell her im not accepting that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:28 PM
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Shen hou scowl into the abyss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:27 PM
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I had a cat i was struggling to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:26 PM
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Lol q lot of negative arguments for "the best thing there is". You clearly have never been to an orgy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:20 PM
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Not "evil" just small minded. "One of the best things"? Find some adult videos and fix your head
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:53 PM
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Huh uhhhh durrr. No excuse for that noise in text. It was a typo on a touch screen. The dopamine hit you got* not expecting you to understand if you couldnt crack the typo and made a tard call
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:40 PM
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Ive heard that from the most miserable and unpleasant married family members. Genuinely cant stand my brother or his eife because he lets her adhd dominate the relationship and then tries to make me his half assed project because he thinks hes happier than me. He looks exsanguinated, not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:37 PM
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Told my mom to stfu and that i wasnt planning on getting married just because she said that when i asked for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:33 PM
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Thats what ive been saying. The posts are about how polite and patient they are but the prime motive is still getting their stick wet. Dont be polite be helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:31 PM
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30 40some women shouldnt be going to mikes dirty hole or whatever that one bar in hour town is called
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:25 PM
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"i want to go dancing," not a day of ballet in their life just air humping going "yeahhh dancing is fun" well maybe you can do that st a kareoke bar drinking diet coke instead of at the casual sex pvp zone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:12 PM
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Problem is bar people ghink theyre living in the same society as library people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:09 PM
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Its for the single friends but the ritual where the pressure the bettothed to get a lapdance would have me uninviting people out of anger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:06 PM
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Nah its usually like their personality doesnt match their appearance and the fopamine hot you hot from talking yo her didnt hook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah she was looking for a guy who comes to church and meets her pastor. 90% of christian men attend because of an unspoken dating vlub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:47 PM
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Ive seen self-proclaimed "nice guys" who hold the door for women with their hips out like they want a brushing action. I will presume if they gotta state the niceness its broken vulnerability, like a lion being nice to you when its got a thorn in its paw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:20 PM
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Honestly its because most women want the dominant hand. The abuser is doing everything right when gf is stumped, and gf feels like temper is rare and managable until he just kerps going at it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:17 PM
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Well im quiet because i want to make sec comments non stop. Found out gross=\=creepy to most people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:26 PM
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Stuck in couples therapy to work on his toxic masculinity to overcome his wifes cheating with said therapist. Beta cuck boys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:24 PM
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I beat my head against the wall about the difference between active entitlement and passive magnetism. Once you stop caring, the women will communicate with you. The state of "i want something from you because youre pretty" makes her feel your eyes on her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:19 PM
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Doesnt matter. My kindergarten teacher slaps a worksheet on my desk at my adut job im telling her its private property
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:44 PM
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I hear it at work when its like my name will be on the paperwork when the customer gets it. Honestly id rather they say "f you" and rectify their own mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:24 PM
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Because the "no that means yes" is usually her pulling me towards her and saying it and other men have witnesses but not experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:41 PM
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Yeah I have a protocol where i tdy to bang the bff if im subjected to confidence tests. More fun than dumping her for manipulation and moping about women for 3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:38 PM
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Gotta lose your temper at tests or theyll do it again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:28 PM
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Never apologize its an annoying and selfish gesture to make you feel better about making mistakes. Gen z childishly uses it to avoid learning and now its offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:26 PM
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Kid will keep bawling over a scraped knee if he gets a lollipop every time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:00 PM
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"the patriarchy" as its taught in gender studies is a dogma conduit. A devil to blame for all the complexities and individual motivations of people. Women werent oppressed in the manner that gets described, they were coddledlike children and barely tried to fight that until the 20th century, and societies response was pretty fast, women got the vote 30 years after non-land owners, and for those 30 years and beyond we had selected service cards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:57 PM
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Its not a single patriarchy, its millions of family units defaulting to male leadership
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:16 PM
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Ive seen the misogyny feminists complain about and need a balanced take. "The patriarchy" is dogma but we also tend allow women be immature by not holding them to a mans standard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:26 PM
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I think its a minority using food stamps and staying online all day. Irl in any professional environment you dont see these people, but find the people notin classes on the college campus and bam, wokeageddon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:38 PM
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Youre wuoting things ive only seen in radical feminist echo chambers. One redpill tends to make all those look foolish and they end up back here sauing men aremt trying hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:33 PM
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Its usually beta males who believe in patriarchy who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:52 PM
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Just dont be like "men only wsnt one thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:17 PM
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For example i was walking with my friend and this attractive woman drops a stack of papers and hes going "hey baby whatcha doing today?". That was bizarre testosterone behaviour, she almost had important papers blow away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:16 PM
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Yep ive seen religious types randomly go off on the misandry like theyre trying to earn social credit with the females in their family. they do this in avenues where men cant debate them and im guessing when women hear it they dont realize the man who is quick to speak talks a LOT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:07 PM
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Sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:18 PM
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Polite and nice arent the same thing. A self-proclaimed "nice guy" is egotistical, worried about ehat people think of him, has to be seen doing good, worries about their own needs first but only pays attention to what everyone else is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:10 PM
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Doesnt matter if hes better than you in every way if youre not intimidated or insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:25 PM
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I once got into a womans pants simply for putting myself between her and a dog barking through the fence. Im also 5'8 so im not a strong burly protector, but i think she understood id put her and the baby on the lifeboat at that moment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:35 PM
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Yeah notice how the patriarch of a tribe is always the wisest and most experienced, not the biggest. Its about not letting a low iq with body mass intimidate gou
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:32 PM
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You can find chicks who understand they need to identify as "yours" to have a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:20 PM
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I think "nice" is a construct and when men apply it to themselves its like a moron calling themselves smart, a tone deaf person describing all the songs they can sing. If youre "nice" you dont concern yourself eith such things like finishing. Thats toxic athleticism, and it often vomes from fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:34 PM
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Maybe, if you complain in good faith maybe their boss will talk to them properly, if you "try to get them fired" youre overstepping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:02 PM
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Takes a toll to put on this romantic performance and in the 50s a woman would be making me pie once a week if i was bringing flowers as often as i do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:00 PM
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"racist"? Hi karen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:58 PM
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"getting him fired" for "making people uncomfortable" hi karen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:44 PM
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My dad was the only one who bullied me into treating women with respect. Learned later my natural courtesy levels are completely tolerable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:42 PM
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I think op is talking about how the onus of impression is on the guy. Why do unremarkable women demand to be swept off their feet by remarkable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:40 PM
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You are a woman and do not know what mean are think. Explain your own gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:23 PM
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Yep therapists are not infallible, theyre petty and take sides
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:02 PM
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I had a situation where i was in a relationship that wasnt working due yo her trauma dumping about separation anxiety with a leaf that blew away or something. I resorted to complaining about work before telling her she was the problem because it took a while to realize i didnt feel like crap until after i got home
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:01 PM
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If thats happening weeks into a relationship something is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:53 PM
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Problem is its quantified by the person who has the emotions and big feelings dont reflect big heavy loads of work. Worst thing is coming home from work keel over hungry and having to come home to one upmanship instead of dinner, and its like "i had to clean one of your mustache hairs out of the sink" type bullcrap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:52 PM
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I mean you need to just have better intent, clear or not. why are you hanging around women after the "we want different things" convo happens? I told women "im not interested in your friend zone" and they just left me alone, they arent gonna slap you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:56 PM
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Im wondering why these dudes care so much. Its not like a woman is the answer to any of their problems. I see confidence blindness more crippling than any ick from karen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:46 PM
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Its a place of banging my head against the wall as they reduce and paraphrase any help gou give them. List of excuses i dont care about and negative self talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:37 PM
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Have you tried not treating it like an objective? These are all effort after effort to get something out of a woman on her terms and with her guidance. I get feminism instruct men to do that but its bs. You gotta show a woman something new if she isnt attracted and you gotfa move on if one doesnt like you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:32 PM
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Guys cant hold anything over your head, thats the whole reason we complain about this phenomenon. its awkward in the ugly way to say "im not buying you the 150$ lobster" and the waiter will be faster than me etc. can end up in a restaurant that serves lobster by accident because she does a location change on me. Have to act in a rude way ad a defense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:00 PM
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Movie dates are the same. No talking in theater, no hitting it off, no second date. I need to take them to a quiet park where its all talking. If shes too bougie for a picnic shes a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:47 PM
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Yeah. I always do that first and if i decide i want to start paying both ways its my power play and not hers. I would also be thrilled if a woman did the same power play on me first
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:41 PM
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Parasitic lifestyle. Just because you can manipulate simps and cuckolds doesnt make it okay. Also most chicks like that try the same act regardless of mans econ
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:00 AM
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"patriarchy" is equivalent to god in the radical feminist dogma. Its a vague concep that "everyone should know is true" but ultimately gets used to assert dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:12 PM
3

Their financers over in iran are systemic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:10 PM
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Wtf you defending sugar babies for you just lost credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:08 PM
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"me me me" they only imagine themselves and the ruler in this analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:07 PM
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It can be bended to be seen that way but I cant think of any specific event where a female petitioned a ruler for a valid reason and got patronized. I seem to recall a certain revolution in france instigated by an army of women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:05 PM
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I think its that, bit the perception that men need women more is predicated on the fact that women don't notice that most of them turn to their closest male confidant when stumped by something. My latest ex came to me to talk through a lot of problems in ger hard times. She didnt register that because when i had hard times "im gonna go talk to my friends while you cool off". Why should she have to comfort or nurture me when all i did was take a snarky tone and explain why the person bugging her …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:21 PM
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Yep i got called an abuser because my ex refused to leave after cheating and i started treating her like a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:46 PM
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Lol if anything ive been scolded for expecting women to act like women. Its a no win. Men are to blame because most women have narcissism. Theyre raised like theyre the most precious possession of their parents and men are raised to not make too much noise or mommy will scream for 2 hours and start taking unrelated stuff away from you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:05 PM
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Yep, a lot of men not dating is because they dont know how to achieve balance with modern women, who have been empowered to always make demands and never concessions. You have to pretty much gut a woman to get her to stop bullying you and then its like dating a beaten dog
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:47 PM
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Because johnny somali and all those idiots who harass the public in japan are also passport bros. How tf can such low iq people afford to be on vacation for life? How low iq does a woman have to be like "yeah thats a real man has a dwindling foreign bank accont and no skills"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:36 PM
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Its really not worth it, family men are impossibly miserable and most of the pressure i got was because the rugrat ran them ragged and they dont know how to talk about anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:31 PM
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What families?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:56 PM
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One guy with small wang making a lot of noise doesnt account for the same %
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:55 PM
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Yeah and i doubt theres numbers on whats frivolous. Just anecdotally ive never seen a dude repaint a freshly painted room because the colour didnt vibe, ive seen women insist it will ruin their life looking at it. So industries that rely on interior aesthetics rely on women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:23 PM
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Not needs even. Its all a lot of sociological bs where you think youll be seen as a creep if youre single and spending too much time at home. Once i started admitting how much porn i watched it completely alleviated suspicion. The people who insist on knowing what you did over the weekend are actually tbe oddballs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:37 PM
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Women also are more likely to want frivolous appliances and lay down money because they want to repaint a room because they dont like a colour. Guys will use that stove with 2/4 broken elements until all 4 stop working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:26 PM
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The tiktok karens been saying lonely men need to step up and cover their spending hqbits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:17 PM
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Theres no professionalism to marriage since traditionalism went out of style. Used to be taboo to complain about your husband to other people, same with wife but i can keep the other men in check and women have doubled down like theyre experiencing the worst abuse of their life. To keep another dude in check i literally just go "id love to have a wife who cooks for me" and he instantly keeps his wifes behaviour out of the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:25 PM
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Actually men say exactly what they want. Its overwhelmingly not raising another mans kids and not getting herpes. Easy women are appealing if i decide to get drunk off my ass but i dont do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:13 PM
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You didnt listen either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:09 PM
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You generalized based on this sub and thats not even what i saw in this sub. Youre not listening to guys enough to make statements about what they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:29 PM
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Cant opt out and not free to surrender to art and nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:27 PM
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Thats what im saying. When strangers go "why font i just kill myself" its like i stumbled into slime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:26 PM
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Women like to decipher what men say instead of taking it at face value. we dont control sex so we jump when its offered. Like rain. Its also a benchmark. If she wont touch me at 35 shes probably not cuddling me or coming to me with problems etc. Sex isnt the point but if i aint having it she doesnt like the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:03 PM
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I dont care about having a family unless theyre happy to see me. I see a modern wife making sure thats not the case if i dont buy her some useless crap she can buy herself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:53 PM
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What nature? Gotta pay up to visit parks. Its a rich privilege to go build a cottage and pursue your creative passions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:50 PM
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My question is why youre trying to decipher the male struggle like that. Theres no questions or appeals to men, youre womansplaining what you think is the problem with men. Women like you do this all the time. Guys gotta deal with potential partners who dont communicate and talk loads of crap to the ether.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:48 PM
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They could cry and emotionally blackmail to see if anyone listens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:17 PM
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And they cry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:52 PM
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I doubt that. I had some of my most imbecillic conversations with these fake chicks who think theyre classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:52 PM
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Not me and i dont lets fat guys off easy. If they whined when i called them fat they would be fighting me a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:44 PM
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Most women arent healthy bmi? Sounds like feminism has a real concern to address
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:27 PM
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Is healthy bmi and no body art sticking out of their head top 20 now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:18 PM
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Lol you read about the autistic guy popping benzos and then coming here to adk wtf the escort sent him away? Incels sabotage themselves on purpose so they can cry. Common bipolar trait
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:13 PM
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Comparing dating to paying an escort is what redpilled me. Same body count and i dont have to come pick them up every time they engage in clubbing senanigans
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:10 PM
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Its 100% on women having standards like "your money is our money, my money us my money" so a good guy is now generous to strangers to the tune of a 50 to 150 dollar dinner and wont even express interest in sex unless she asks him to come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:05 PM
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Its not very good coercion if youre aware you can get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:58 PM
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Ive seen it happen to the neighbors. Step dad used to only beat the oldest because that wasn't his son. He had adhd or something so hed do things like get hs bike on the roof. The dads reaction was like "all because your mom fked a moron before meeting me"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:55 PM
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Staying together for the kids is worse. Its all pretty moot, you cant force a nuclear family and you cant cobble one together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:49 PM
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Think of it from a step parents pov. You had no say in how this kid was raised and its on you to set ypur own boundaries. This kid probably isnt keen on you, and youve been putting down cash to support this kid. Mom should be like "respect this man and make him feel welcome" but instead she goes "dont cockblock me" and grosses the kid out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:44 PM
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Its not force but a lot of coercion. Society gets mad at us for targetting women 10 years younger to avoid some other dudes offspring. If a woman is selfish in a relationship because of her kids im the bad guy for deciding i dont like the kid and this is over. Ive see guys coerced to stick around and become abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:40 PM
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I hate fake confidence in people and women do it more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:26 PM
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The girl bosses are more from the academic construct. The only thing you can do with a gender studies degree is to teach gender studies. Its an easy credit so all girls take it, guys get told they will be bullied and deserve it so they drop the class. So when a woman is smart and educatedi may be thinking she took that with a grain of salt when really she learned how to not take a joke and still dish out jokes about guys being dense and not taking hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:22 PM
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All the girl bosses in media make me think its a more pervasive thing. But gwn z is witnessing the army of cat ladies and blaming feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:10 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:25 PM
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Uhuh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:24 PM
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I personally always picture cave people. Its not as distilled as the 50s housewife image. women excel at resource management and men at acquisition. Thats not a logical way to do it right now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:30 PM
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Because where we men will feel dirty and need bloodwork if we bone strange women, women can have a dirty little bastard baby from the same encounter. in my experience with girlfriends they keep going and going when they like you and its awkward to stop them when youre on number 3 firing dust
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:20 PM
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I wouldnt call them professionals, theyre the definition of medical and psychological amateurs. I solve my own unique problems one way and others must make their own way. My life coach stance is to use your own terms and not compare your life to thers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:12 PM
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Bringing negative energy into your life as the hippies say. Even without the dating success im still eating well and sleeping fine, i could seek out a relationship like a bonus feature and not a need
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:05 PM
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The life coaches are right, they just dont choose your timeline and act like its do or die
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:00 PM
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Is this bot to prevent all the brigading done by red pills who get annoyed by the "put words in red pills mouth and make a post" format?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:01 PM
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The trend here is the excuses in response to advice. Hear the advice and apply it at your own pace. No one wants to babysit you through introspection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:57 PM
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That's the conclusion a lot of my coworkers and I came to. There's no obligation to maintain a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:15 AM
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