ExtremelyDubious Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazy It has everything to do with what we were talking about. That community is the sole subject of discussion in IncelTear. The vast majority of posts in IncelTear are screenshots of posts from websites like incels.is.	/r/AntiFeminists	15/01/23 08:20 AM
-1	The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazy Have you ever visited any incel forums or websites? The incel subculture absolutely does exist. You may prefer to use a broader definition, but it's not 'disinformation' to say that there is a community of angry men who blame women for the fact they can't get their dicks wet.	/r/AntiFeminists	13/01/23 10:36 AM
-2	The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazy And you are the one who said only men are incels No. This discussion started when you claimed: There is even an entire subreddit about saying that ugly or short men should kill themselves. I was pointing out that "ugly or short men" is not synonymous with incels. what does it have to do with the current topic? Although it was originally coined by a queer woman to mean anyone who is sexually frustrated, in modern usage 'incels' are a particular subculture of people who hate women and blame them f…	/r/AntiFeminists	13/01/23 09:27 AM
-4	The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazy Well, yes they are. All ugly and short people (why do you only say men?) are incels, and all incels are ugly or short... or disabled. Nonsense. I am both ugly and short, but I am not an incel by any definition: I have had sex many times and I don't hate women. Meanwhile many incels are average-looking (or better), tall, and/or able bodied. Being a hateful misogynist with poor social skills is not a disability. (why do you only say men?) Because you claimed that IncelTear was about ugly and short…	/r/AntiFeminists	13/01/23 08:30 AM
-2	The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazy You've obviously never actually read IncelTear. For a start, encouraging or celebrating suicide is banned. Secondly, IncelTear is dedicated to criticism of incels, not ugly or short men. Most ugly or short men are not incels. Many incels are neither ugly nor short.	/r/AntiFeminists	13/01/23 12:40 AM
3	Is the Concept of Virginity toxic? more likely to pair bond That's a made-up thing. It isn't real.	/r/AntiFeminists	12/01/23 09:08 PM
1	I don't know if this is exactly feminism per se but let's talk about momsplaining. When an older woman acts like she's your mother because you're younger. I'm not convinced that there's anything particularly gendered about older people being condescending to younger people. It's very easy to assume that someone younger than you is also naive, unworldly or inexperienced. Doesn't really have anything to do with gender or feminism.	/r/AntiFeminists	29/07/22 11:19 PM
2	Liberal feminist men are getting vasectomy’s. She probably believes the common misconception that vasectomies are easily and reliably reversible. They are not. It seems unlikely that she genuinely wants you to get yourself permanently sterilised as soon as you turn 18. Hopefully if she realises that reversing vasectomies is difficult and not guaranteed, especially if it has been some time since the original procedure was carried out, she will see sense.	/r/AntiFeminists	12/07/22 01:39 PM
1	What do you think of this ''moral'' concept in brewing in my head? Everyone gets left to fend for themselves in their 20s; that's what being an adult is. I don't see who you think is supposed to look after you when you're an adult. You don't want to be responsible for kids, don't have kids. You don't want to provide financially for a stay-at-home wife, either marry someone who wants to carry on working or don't marry at all. Most people don't have a choice; raising a family on a single income is impossible for all but the very richest people these days, so your…	/r/AntiFeminists	07/07/22 01:18 PM
1	What do you think of this ''moral'' concept in brewing in my head? Who is supposed to be 'taking care of' these young men? Whatever happened to being an adult and making your own way in the world?	/r/AntiFeminists	07/07/22 10:43 AM
8	What do you think of this ''moral'' concept in brewing in my head? A man isn't obliged to provide for anyone at any age unless he has children, in which case he and his partner are obliged between them to provide for those children. How labour, both domestic and paid, is divided between a couple in a relationship is up to them: it's fair to expect both partners to pull their weight in some way, but that doesn't necessarily mean that their contributions need to be identical. But surely basing your contribution in a relationship on whether you were 'appreciated' …	/r/AntiFeminists	07/07/22 12:43 AM
2	Don’t get married Yeah, lots of men do have those kinds of requirements or expectations. Most people would agree that they're delusional, sexist, entitled douchebags. I don't think it's entirely unfair that this woman should be similarly criticised for exemplifying the flip side of the coin. That a lot of the criticism here carries an unsavoury undercurrent of both misogyny and racism is regrettable, but what do you expect on an antifeminist sub? Nonetheless, the fundamental theme of the criticism, that people wi…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/07/22 01:47 PM
-3	The comments speak for themselves Couldn't possibly mean the person realizes your headspace is dark and it would benefit you and your health to look on the bright side. Maybe I've had a shitty day and I'm fed up with it. Maybe I just got some really bad news. Maybe someone I know has just died. Being sad or angry or frustrated are legitimate feelings to have and having to maintain a façade of carefree happiness is not, in fact, healthy at all. Or someone implying a smile looks better on you than a frown. Like someone saying blue…	/r/AntiFeminists	05/07/22 02:49 AM
5	The comments speak for themselves Yes, as a man I really wish I received weirdly patronising 'complements' more often.	/r/AntiFeminists	05/07/22 12:34 AM
1	More data about increases in celibacy That doesn't mean that prior relationships preclude intimacy. It just shows that people who aren't good at making relationships work are more likely to have a history of lots of failed relationships. That really shouldn't be surprising at all, but it doesn't really tell you very much else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/21 03:22 PM