Exuromei Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Struggling to escalate a conversation out of friendship territory with a girl I matched off tinder Personally for me it is common that unless the girl is super into me it's hard to escalate via text. If I'm in person it's easy for me to get a number and if i can get the girl to go out again it's normally smooth sailing. Escalating is easy in person. If you do it over text it can be interpreted as douchey. My plan is never act like a friend over text but just get them to hangout. Ask what days she has free and then take her out that day. Escalate in person is my personal rule because I general…	/r/seduction	16/12/15 05:18 PM
1	Sedditors, What was your best pickup? What was your worst? My best was around Halloween. Me and my mates were down in the city. I saw this hot chick that was dressed as buzz lightyear. My line was "hey buzz you wanna light up my year?" I was very proud of my quick wit.	/r/seduction	16/12/15 05:10 PM
7	Going home with girls, but it's not leading to sex. Either you are incredibly attractive, incredibly rich, or you are new here. If you are new, name tags are on the table to the right. Enjoy your stay	/r/seduction	17/10/15 11:25 PM
1	What is the best way to deal with aggressive people? What's that quote? "Never argue with stupid people. They will drag you down and then beat you with experience." Like the comment above. Just change topics or something.	/r/seduction	16/10/15 12:38 AM
1	Got a date and then this message a few days later. How/what should I do? Live and learn man. If she really is upset and you actually care then it never hurts to say sorry and that you didn't mean to be rude	/r/seduction	16/10/15 12:30 AM
1	Got a second coffee date tomorrow with an amazing girl. HOW to escalate exactly? I agree you needed to kino earlier on. You want to make that happen before you number close. Or if you do a mid convo number close, " before I forget what's your number" and then keep talking and get a kino in to blast away buyers remorse	/r/seduction	15/10/15 07:58 PM
1	someone explain club game This is a great answer. Only thing I would add which is kinda already implied but bring a high energy in a club.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 07:56 PM
1	Persistence or give up? LAST text of this girl I like so much. With the way you ended that if you go back it's gonna come off as needy. I would have responded with a tease about her moving to fast thinking about relationships. Moment is passed and hind sight is 20/20. My advice learn and move on. There are plenty of others man. Positive take aways are: you approached you were able to talk. And now you know how to handle this situation the next time you are in it (which you will be at some point). -Exuro	/r/seduction	15/10/15 07:49 PM
1	The Author of the Game Says It Is Nonsense In the context of that paragraph, he is answering the woman and is saying that pick up artist moves aren't tricking the women. The women know they are being hit on. That's what he is saying. " If someone likes you, he says, chances are they like you despite the pickup artist moves: “so they go along with the nonsense you’re doing. Most people kind of know.”	/r/seduction	15/10/15 07:34 PM
1	The Author of the Game Says It Is Nonsense Op what a misleading click bait title you have. All he is saying is that 1 humans are fucked up. 2. He is giving his reasons while he stopped being a pua. He wants to settle down. He never says his methods or teachings were false or don't work.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 06:01 PM
2	I feel like I've read so much and understand more, but have made zero progress. What do I do/how do I improve? For me with the confidence thing... If you are saying you are trying to be confident you are already failing. It's a switch like so many other things in the male mind. You gotta find it and turn it on. There is probably something you are really good at right? Like a sport or video game. Trivia. Whatever. Something that in any situation in that field you are like " I got this shit" take that and how you feel and try to apply it in the field of women. Last couple things. 1. Who the fuck cares if y…	/r/seduction	15/10/15 05:54 PM
1	Got a date and then this message a few days later. How/what should I do? I don't know why you are getting. DownVoted. I agree the only mistake is doing this over text. A call or in person is the way to go. If someone wants to be serious about pua and their game. Then you can't just prance around.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 05:49 PM
1	Got a date and then this message a few days later. How/what should I do? This is the way of the AFC. If OP wants more than friendship this is not the way to go. No offense to you. We just have different opinions.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 05:46 PM
2	Got a date and then this message a few days later. How/what should I do? Hey mate, so I am not an expert pua BUT I do know a thing or two about it. For me a red flag first popped up when you said you got her to agree to hangout. It might just be because its how it was written but getting someone to agree seems forced. Like she really didn't want to but you are a good negotiator or something so she said yes, ya know? After reading that I expected that she was gonna back out. The response /u/SinSlayer gave isn't a bad response...IN PERSON saying something like that ove…	/r/seduction	15/10/15 05:41 PM