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| 2 | 20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable'People talking about their sexual encounters needs to end, the discussion should be between eachother. If it's a rape, You cannot know if it's rape or not if you don't talk about sexual encounters. If I lined up all my male friends and asked them if they were ever sexually harassed, most if not all would say NO, when in reality I was present in half the situations where THEY WERE sexually harassed. Why do they think they weren't? It's because they don't know what exactly sexual harassment is, be… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 09:03 PM |
| 13 | Looks like the UK is following Sweden limiting Marriageable foreign womenThat's not a complete win.. they are successful to stop men from marrying out. They aren't. If a man wants to marry who he wants and you take that right away, you get a displeased man. There is a certain amount of displeased men where society would just crumble. China had the 1 child policy and if a child was female it was aborted. It spiked the population of men, and that meant more displeased men that couldn't find partners. As a result, the crime rate spiked. A man is a tool for society as lo… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Layoffs are coming for a lot of womenYou think they'll change just because there is AI-gen porn? 🤨 OF girls will be fine. Yes, they will change. They won't pay for OF, they will pay for the program that makes AI porn of whatever person on the internet they want. OF girls wouldn't be "fine" even if AI wasn't a thing. It's porn. Eventually things change and the amount of money gets closer and closer to zero. The only ones that will benefit are those that don't care about love/husbands and also open up some viable business with their … | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023.No it isn’t because it doesn’t solve the inherent problem on loneliness and lack of physical touch in incels. Why is it supposed to? Why is it expected to? It's like saying a painkiller is bad because it only eases the pain and doesn't heal everything. Also studies have shown porn is harmful in a multitude of ways And so is every kind of medicine. Everything has side effects. The reason anti-porn studies are pushed for and funded is because porn is bad for society and the current system. If men … | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023.Second best is into a woman. Social conditioning is such a terrifying thing. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 01:55 PM |
| -1 | Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023.You don't worry about someone seeing what your watching, you can look yourself in the eye in the mirror or keep eye contact durring a conversation. ????? This just sounds like a problem with your sexual confidence and your perception of kinks.You have a pretty unhealthy view of sex if you are ashamed of watching porn. If you like watching certain stuff, you most likely want to do those certain stuff as well. Not watching it will not make your kinks disappear, it will only repress your sexuality.… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Porn has damn-near become a medication for men in 2023.What kind of psycho would watch pron for the lore? Idk man. I like watching those lemon-stealing whores get what they deserve. It feels like when the hero of a shounen manga wins the final battle against the villain. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/23 01:46 PM |
| 42 | Paternity tests now illegal in France unless ordered by a judge: offenders risk up to a year in prison and €15,000 fine, even for tests taken abroad.If that was the case, the French wouldn't exist anymore. Infidelity there is so high that if you don't suspect your partner you are probably an idiot. "I trust my partner" is a thought that every person cheated on probably had at some point. Why do you think your trust is more valid than theirs? | /r/MensRights | 18/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 5 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Most likely because a lot of anime oversexualize women a lot, And men too. The reason we focus on women's oversexualization is because Shounen anime (For boys) is way more popular. Open a few Shoujo anime and you will see that every male main character (and love interest) is a woman's fantasy, which is a tall, calm prettyboy with abs that most of the time has quite a bit of power in his surroundings. Each and every one of his flaws is always something that can be spun to be attractive. In other … | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Our school no longer allows male high school students to go to the restroomNah. It's just that girls have no bathroom. They don't poop. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Women telling men to uplift each other is a red herring, men do uplift eachother.The real question is if it's happening at bigger rates, or is it more easily diagnosable? How do you expect to get proper numbers when people barely even cared about mental health in the past? The guy with depression was just lazy to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 12:26 PM |
| – | Why are women so oblivious to that fact that men provide a much, much more inclusive and wider range of what's considered attractive towards the opposite gender?Also not saying porn is entirely bad but just with everything else moderation is key. Porn is bad, but it's the best most guy in today's world have. My opinion is that if they can be content with porn without letting others influence their decisions with shame and fear, they can live a healthy lifestyle. EDIT: Being content with porn also means not being bitter towards the opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:30 PM |
| – | Why are women so oblivious to that fact that men provide a much, much more inclusive and wider range of what's considered attractive towards the opposite gender?Are you sure that's true? What if only stuff you barely like is available? That is a hypothetical situation that might happen somewhere in Africa, but we're talking about first world countries here, with internet and all. If you want to watch porn, it is literally impossible for you to have a lack of options. Consider all the fake incest, for example. You are completely right, but what you are talking about is the exception, not the rule. Just because there is one exception to something, it does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:25 PM |
| – | Why are women so oblivious to that fact that men provide a much, much more inclusive and wider range of what's considered attractive towards the opposite gender?Porn is literally one of the best ways to prove sexual attraction. No guy watches porn with pornstars that he doesn't like, and most guys have a favorite pornstar (even if it's one of the only three he knows). You don't jack off to stuff you don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 8 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Women still have a disadvantage even with birth control, but society helps negate that disadvantage partially for now, and that is with pregnancy leave (where the company is at a loss for a minimum of few months), but they have to adhere to it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 16 | Men here don't chase "all types of women". Otherwise, they wouldn't complain about one type of female.You don't need OKCupid data. Anyone with a pair of eyes and at least one braincell can see that while they were growing up, most guys got no attention at all, while a certain minority had multiple girls at disposal. On the other hand, only the ugliest of girls got no attention and relationships, and even then they would eventually get one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I'm not worried about that. I just find it odd that many men dislike materialistic women, when those women are probably nice, they just like to look good. You're misunderstanding what we mean when we say "materialistic". "I want to look good" is not a materialistic mindset. You can get clothes that are very cheap, yet look perfect for you. When we say "materialistic" we mean the mindsets of: - "I have nothing to wear, I already wore this 2 weeks ago" - "I have to get that brand name clothing, ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 3 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitMy point was that the reason a man is spending on a "hot crazy girlfriend" is because that is his way of getting sex, sex that isn't given to him by his wife when he spends on her. It's a dead bedroom situation. Him treating the "hot crazy girlfriend" better than his wife is a result of not being treated good by his wife. The "unfairness" in this situation is very different than the "unfairness" in the situation OP describes. Also, there is this stereotype that "homely" girls aren't sexual. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:54 PM |
| 3 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitthey go to great lengths to splurge and spend on the "hot crazy girlfriend" and do whatever she wants They spend money on the "hot crazy girlfriend" because they know that is what will keep the sex going, and she isn't going to stick around if he is shown to be tightwad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:45 PM |
| 21 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitCasual flings don’t receive love, solicitude, sacrifice, or family. But a guy receives none of those things at the start, regardless if he is a fling or not. Unless of course you are one of those delusional Disney "love at first sight" type of person who doesn't understand what actual love is. In the first 3 months of dating, she will not be giving you love. It's too soon. She will not be giving you solicitude because she will be too busy testing you, and whether you are a spineless beta. She mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you rather?If it's only the sex I'm after I can get that from a prostitute That's not the point though. The point is that while you are in that relationship, and you're not married, you're either sexless or a cheater. For some people this can literally be a timespan of 10 years. Even for the guys that are planning to get married very soon, they need time to vet her, unless he wants to get divorce raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you rather?Those are 3 very unrealistic expectations. Depends on your age tbh. As a 22 year old, I am not sure if I want to get married, but even if I did it would be no earlier than the age of 28. That's 6 years of either being sexless, or cheating on your partner, which is a lot. Also, there is no guarantee that the relationship will work out. You might date for a few years and break up. You might hurry to marry her after only 1 year of relationship just to have sex with her, and then she doesn't even wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Founding Fathers of AmericaI don’t give women money and there is no man tax. No, but you are a man who works, and therefore is taxed on that work. 70% of taxes are paid by men, and when there is a choice where those taxes go based on gender, the overwhelming majority of taxes go towards women (and children too, but I am more lax about that), while men are left in the mud to die. Overwhelming majority of homeless shelters are for women only, and they chase away men, when men are 4 times more likely to be homeless. Guess wh… | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/07/21 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Founding Fathers of Americabut men in general are in a better position than ever In a position where everything a woman benefits from (whether it is a good or bad woman) is on your expense and the government will make sure that is true, whether you like it or not. I wouldn't say we're "in a better position than ever". | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.You only have sex with him when you want to have sex. And you think it's any different in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.That's wrong afaik. I saw a video where someone makes water hydrophobic, making it hard to join together with other droplets. This means that water sticks to itself, and is therefore wet. For water to not be wet, it needs to be a single H2O molecule without any others H2O molecules binded to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | "Men are not 'more visual' or more easily turned on than women are, a study finds"I got hard while eating cereal, and no, I didn't want to fuck the cereal. The sexual stimulation needed for a man to get hard is minimal. It doesn't mean that he is more turned on than the woman, rather he needs less to activate his genitals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 06:03 PM |
| – | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveFirstly, looked it up again, and it's 63% who are overweight, not obese. The obesity rate is 27%, which is still huge. It's lower than the national average for sure, but it's still too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 12:05 PM |
| – | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveAnd why are you doubting it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 11:41 AM |
| 7 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveFirst of all, no. That's what women do. If her friends think you're a chump, then there is a 9 in 10 chance she is dropping you, even if she likes you. Most men don't get deterred by friends, even if they are made fun of about the girl. Second, the whole premise of this post is stupid. "Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive", yeah no shit sherlock, it's like men find most women physically attractive and only find the worst of the worst unattractive. Most of the women that men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsFalse view noted. Ask yourself in which circumstance does it suffer. Ask yourself whether you try to kill yourself every time you suffer. Ask yourself whether disabled people, homeless people or street urchins have the right to live. You pro-choicers are fucking psychos. "I'll kill them so they don't suffer" is a serial killer mindset. Suffering is a part of life. It's better to live and suffer for a while, and eventually living a normal life, than to get killed by some idiot who thinks they're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on skincare?Do you also only shower when you smell? No, but you should know how long and how much activity it takes for you to smell bad. Showering more than that is bad for your skin and hair, and it wastes water and money too. Do you only put gas in your car when you've run out of gas? I put gas in my car when it starts getting low, or when I know I need to drive bigger distances. I don't try filling my tank up when it's full. My point is that you shouldn't fix what is broken. If you're prone to dry skin,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.That was never the point of the argument. It was whether it infringes on your bodily autonomy, and it does. You have to use your body to work for that child support, and you have no way out of it, while a woman does. Also Child support exists for the benefit of the child, not the parents. Child support exists for the benefit of the government. They take a good cut of it for themselves, otherwise it wouldn't be enforced at all. If child support was for the child, the government wouldn't take a pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.Paying child support doesn't infringe on bodily autonomy any more than a mortgage. It does, because a mortgage is a contract you sign that both parties have to agree to. Child-support is not any kind of contract that you sign. The mother is the one that chooses whether that child exists or not. She has all the rights, and you have a responsibility to pay child support unless someone else decides to sign for being the childs father. If you don't pay child support you go to jail. In my eyes, that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.he NEVER gets to see that child, even once that child becomes an adult and he can’t contact the child or the woman he impregnated EVER without going to jail for violating the restraining order. That's not how this works. Once the child is an adult, it's their own choice whether they want to have any person in their life. If you deny that, you're denying them their rights just because you want to punish their father. Until 18 years old would be enough of a restraining order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on skincare?Skincare only matters if your skin is bad, and even then you should just do it minimally. Moisturizer? Use it when you feel your skin is dry. Use it after a bath/shower, since your skin is more likely to be dry after it. Exfoliating? Using it once it a while can be a good thing to remove dead skincells, but never that "daily skincare" bullshit that is just meant to take your money and give you minimal results (or negative, as some skincare products can literally make your skin look worse). Sunbl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there any country at all in the world that is a good place for men in general?That doesn't mean it's a good place for men, just that it's a bad place for women. I don't really get a lot with being able to do that. I'm talking about the actual problems men face. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/07/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | I could actually live here... a little extreme. But thoughts on minimalism?No. You don't shit where you sleep, and considering the "minimalism", you will also have to shit where you eat. You need to realize that bathrooms are unclean no matter how much you clean it. There are bacteria all over. Your bedsheets will pretty much absorb moisture and also odor from when you have diarrhea from those tacos the other night. You really don't wanna sleep there. Minimalism is fine, but Bedroom, Kitchen and Bathroom should always be separate, no matter how small they have to be. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?It's night impossible for a woman to "suck in bed" to begin with. Most women suck in bed, and most men will never know it because they never had good sex. They're so desperate that a handjob would be enough for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Are men actually the more logical gender?Maybe your country’s different, but in the USA, 60% of first marriages dont end in divorce. That's still 4 out of 10 chance for it to end. For a man, those are horrible odds, considering: Mothers get primary custody. Those children of yours that you made and loved with all your heart, you barely have any rights over them. You might get to see them every second weekend if you are lucky. That's if your ex-wife wasn't mad at you. Parental alienation is a serious thing and if she is mad at you for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Women need men for survival?Men are literally the reason we can’t walk alone at night. Without men we would be safe. Men created a society so safe, that women think a man is the only creature they would have to worry about. Trust me, the reason any predators aren't around to hunt you is men. If it wasn't for men, you would have to worry about bears, or tigers, or any other predator. But men created the infrastructure so we don't have to worry about such a thing, so of course a man is the only thing you will fear. Until men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 03:44 AM |
| 11 | Why aren't folks having sex?Because they aren't getting married out of necessity anymore. Back in the old days, you get married at 18. The man starts working for 10 to 12 hours. The woman takes care of the house and the kids, and if possible also helps with the work as well (a lot of people worked from home). But those are just the main responsibilities. Another responsibility of marriage was also having sex, so that combination is what made people have more sex than people are having today. Today people marry at 30, some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 9 | A realisation I had about “did you get home safe?” messagesAbductions happen to both men and women, and most rape and sexual assault happens in parties(roofies), and behind closed doors by someone that you already know. My point definitely wasn't "Women have it easy and they are privileged because their risks for actual violence are lower". As I said before, even though I don't think the risks are that dire as women and society makes them seem, the risks are still serious, and they should be taken seriously. My point, and the source of my frustration is… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 39 | A realisation I had about “did you get home safe?” messagesIs it? Not that it's impossible for women to get hurt. Someone can definitely hurt them if they want to. But an overwhelming majority of the women who get harassed are just harassed and that's that. I am not trying to minimize that struggle. They still shouldn't be harassed and it's a problem that should be addressed. What I am trying to say is that 90% cases of where a man gets harassed, he also gets physically assaulted right after. The actual serious danger is on men, not women. The stats the… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 100 | A realisation I had about “did you get home safe?” messagesI always tried to explain this to my female friends, and they could never understand me. They always tell me "We are afraid of the guys catcalling us and following us when we go home". And I understand them. Being afraid in that situation is normal as anything is possible. But a majority of those assholes are doing what they are doing because they like you, and they want to get your attention. You will get home safely. When a guy walks in the street and someone shouts at him or follows him, it's… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Does making one wait for sex actually help anyone? If yes, then how long?And why does demisexuality matter in this case? According to google the number of people in the USA identifying as LGBT+ is 4.5%. These are the ones that are out of the closet. Lets pick an aproximate number that there are an additional 13.5% in the closet(3 times more than the ones out of the closet), for a total of 18%. - How many genders are there? I don't know, but there are at least 20 of them minimum. What chunk of the 18% are demisexual? I'd assume the majority of those 18% are gay, lesbi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | If you were a woman, what would your dating strategy look like?Assuming you mean a heterosexual woman, my strategy would pretty much be asking guys out that I like and: I'll take it easy and slow, not rushing into anything. That tests boundaries pretty well and will show me the kind of person he is. Communication is a huge priority. No "he should know what I want without me telling him", cause that's basically self-sabotage. We both set clear boundaries. No games, and if these boundaries are crossed then we just stop meeting at all. No expectations of him b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How Come Men Are Not Pushing For Plus Size Models? [Serious Question]Being in shape is what makes you look good, not the clothes. Trust me, there isn't an amount of time in the gym that is going to make you attractive if you dress like a slob. "Just lift" does not work on women, it works on other men, and that's why most of your compliments will be from other men who also lift. If you want to actually get a woman who likes you and not someone who settles for you, you have to have it all, and that is height, physique, money, fashion, and social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about the "mutual phone access" rule in a relationship?Here's the thing.... It doesn't matter if you have access to someone's phone. Social media itself is on the side of the cheaters, as both Facebook and Instagram have "secret chat" where with a single swipe you can make every message not be recorded and be quickly deleted afterwards. On top of that, the other person cannot easily take screenshots by normal means. This is no different for Viber, and I assume it's the same for Whatsapp. If my partner wants to see certain things on my phone, she is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Aside from single-parents-by-choice, why is it that there's so much hatred for single mothers but complete adoration for single fathers?Could you talk a little bit about what prenups get thrown out ? The minimum that needs to happen is for her to have her own lawyer present while reading and signing it, otherwise it's automatically thrown out. Another important thing is that you cannot include future children (one that don't exist yet) in the prenup, meaning you can't get out of childsupport with prenups, and having that there will get it thrown out. Also, in some places a prenup that is signed closer to the wedding is more like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?- dress correctly for the occasion (or at worst, over-dress a little bit) Do this with a grain of caution. Where I am from, we laugh at people who overdress. Overdressing is just as bad of a mistake as underdressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Do women actually sexually assault & harass men as much as men to women?But you never know because men very rarely report it, lest they be seen as weak by their male peers. I think there is a pretty big misconception here, and it is that men only fear other men's criticism, or that it's specifically "being seen as weak". First of all, the problem was never "being seen as weak", the problem was "being seen as a homosexual", and it's by both men and women. While being homosexual is not inherently bad, there is still a stigma with it, and people will laugh at you for e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 4 | Do women actually sexually assault & harass men as much as men to women?As for the frequency I’m leaning towards women experiencing it more but the underreporting is definitely an issue for men. On average, I'd accept it as if they're pretty close. Here is the thing, a lot of guys experienced sexual harassment/assault once or twice, but the overwhelming majority of sexual harassment in men is towards conventionally attractive men, which are the minority. When it comes to women, the sexual harassment is spread out because men have low standards for physical attractio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever noticed shows and movies making a female "antagonist" to not be the antagonist and instead to be victim of a bigger male antagonist?I haven't seen Rent-A-Girlfriend, but I'm pretty sure I remember that Esdeath was taught to be like she was by....her dad! I watched Akame Ga Kill a few months ago, and from what I remember: In a way, you definitely have a point, but then again, it was also said that Esdeath is the way she is simply because she is evil by nature and nothing else. I think it was when she is talking about how she got the symbol on her chest (the Imperial Arms), and someone said that when they witnessed it, they kn… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/21 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?There's still activities in a college town. Martial arts for example. Maybe you'll meet a buddy who has a cute sister He already has thousands of buddies in his college which some have cute sisters. It's not going to happen. No guy is going to go "Oh, you're a cool guy, let me introduce you to my sister". It's not happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 10:05 PM |
| – | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?If you were a woman, would you date the male version of yourself? Stupid question. There are only two ways it can go: He's a man. He thinks with his male brain. Unless it's bad hygiene, he had no problem with dating socially awkward women. He had no problems dating a broke women. He just wants companionship, so obviously he would date someone like himself. In a hypothetical scenario, his brain would turn into a female brain, and he has no idea how that works and why women don't want to date guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating MarketIt doesn't matter what the "average" is. The fact that men are bigger than women is a lucky coincidence for us. Women still won't date guys that are shorter than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating MarketAmong couples married in the 1990s, increases in wives’ relative earnings were no longer associated with an increased risk of divorce and the risk of divorce for wives who outearned their husbands was not significantly different from that of other wives. Married in the 90s? It's 2021. Even if they married as early as 20 years old, and that was in the year of 1999, they would be AT LEAST 40 years old, but it's safe to say that most who got married in the 90s are pretty much at least 45 to 50 year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldAlso now some governments trying to different approach and trying to eliminate prostitution by criminalizing buying sexual services not selling them. What is the "different approach" here? It's the same thing that happens all the time nowadays: Blame men and give them responsibilities, while women get special privileges with no responsibility or a slap on the wrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 11:35 AM |
| 8 | An experience tonight while on the job.You need to move out of that country asap. As a man, you have no rights there, and it shows. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/06/21 09:41 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doswear some people on this sub stay looking for reasons to be hopeless. Women are literally telling you what they want in bed by saying “just listen to your partner” And then they fake moan and fake orgasms..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?Exactly what I meant with "lose opportunities for a better life". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 08:24 PM |
| 14 | Sex is higher pressure for menVasectomies aren't fully reversible. Go to any doctor and tell them that you want a vasectomy as temporary birth control, and they won't allow you to do it. Vasectomy is considered permanent birth control, because there is a chance of complications where it would leave you infertile. This chance increases every year that you don't reverse it, and after a few years it's no longer reversible, leaving you fully infertile. If every man had a vasectomy until they were ready to have kids, technically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 05:22 PM |
| – | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?The pressure is greater on women, but the consequences are greater on the man. If a woman doesn't get married, she will be called a "cat lady" or something similar. If a man doesn't get married, his masculinity, trustworthy-ness and competence will be highly questioned, to the point where he will be massively shunned, ridiculed, and lose opportunities for a better life. You can argue it's the same for a woman, but it's on a way smaller scale. To society, you're not a "real man" and you're worthl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:26 AM |
| – | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessResistant, but not immune. Even so, it's mostly the top 20% of men that is like that. On top of all that, Men's relationship value doesn't lower with age or with multiple partners. Assuming the guy isn't a total loser, his value would increase with his age, and having a high n-count is basically social proof for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 12:22 AM |
| – | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessPromotes attention seeking behavior and getting validation from thousands of followers, to the point where she can no longer get that validation from a partner alone. The fake validation they get online also makes them think their relationship value is higher than usual, so they fuck around, until they get older (and less beautiful), and are stuck with no good choices for a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?If you tell me women are happy/find attractive the 68% of men who are overweight or obese you're deluding yourself. They don't, but that doesn't mean that if that man gets in shape he will suddenly get attractive enough for women. It's the face and height that make you attractive. If you have those then even being overweight can be overlooked. If you don't have those, you will just be settled for, no matter what your other good traits are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?it’s not way higher than the average man, men have 7 sexual partners in their lifetime on average. that’s only a difference of 2, and even if it was 10 that’s still not much of a difference. I think you are misunderstanding something. I said AVERAGE MEN, not MEN ON AVERAGE. When I say AVERAGE MEN, I mean your every day normal guy doesn't get close to that number. When you talk about average, you mean ON AVERAGE. You fail to account that the most attractive men get the majority of sex while other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?It's not the controllable characteristics that women find attractive in the 20%. If you don't have those, then you can't get them. It's face and height always, and not something you can change. Even if you get plastic surgery for the face, or a horribly painful knee lenghtening surgery, the woman will automatically dismiss you if she ever found out about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?Yeah, but my point was: It doesn't make it impossible, it just makes it nearly impossible. It's not much of an improvement and it still matters a lot, to the point where some people are right when they think about giving up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 2 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”Lol dude in real life if you have a vid of a chick sucking you off or anything else that's pretty much a wrap on it. Filming them is illegal. The fact that you filmed them without their consent works against you, since it's both a separate crime (that she can sue you for if she wants to) and supports the idea that you don't care abour consent. And you can't ask her to video her while she gives consent, because she can literally take consent away in the middle of sex. The legal system shits all o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:34 AM |
| 2 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”Nah. She's safe cause she did say "no". She didn't mean it. She will still tell you that you didn't try hard enough or get disappointed when you respect that "no". But the legal system doesn't care. It's simple, it's direct, and it favors women. Also, filming someone without their consent during sex has separate charges and is a form of sexual harassment, and you are going to get charged for that. So the best thing you can do is start having standards and weed out the women who try to act as if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?Peter dinklage could get any woman. Cause he is a celebrity, and overwhelmingly better than the majority of men. It makes his height way less of a problem, but this is not possible for others. The overwhelming majority of men could only dream to have what Peter Dinklage has (fame, money, his level of status). Actually, I think it should be taken as a way to see that you need to be extremely special and high value if you want to make up for your height, because it is that big of a deal. It's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?When people make petty shit a requirement, they're more likely to get into relationships they wind up hating later. I'm fine with that. What I am not fine is shitty women trying to lump me in with the bad men they chose, and saying that we're all bad. In the end, I seem to pay for it one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 0 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?Black is significantly worse because that's the discrimination that they show you directly. The discrimination for being short is more covert, and probably even subconscious to them. You're way more likely to be heard, taken seriously, get hired/promoted if you're a tall person. It's not just dating. Short people are disrespected generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?women, on average, have less sexual partners than men I don't mean to come off as antagonizing, maybe I am just stupid, but I cannot get this. The 2021 estimate for men and woman ratio is 101 to 100. With this information, and the fact that the gender ratio has been pretty equal throughout the recent ages ( always nearing 50/50), who are these men having sex with? How can women have less partners when the ratio has been pretty much always close to 1:1. You can add gay men and their promiscuity i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | “Women end up ignoring me and go for the guy who treats her like shit” concerns me.Absolutely what part of my comment even suggests this? "None of these things are equal to self esteem. Children can have great self esteem, but the above would still apply to them." The guy was saying that low self-esteem leads to those things, not that you can't be those things if you have high self-esteem. My point is somehow he got the idea that self esteem is the equivalent to being feeble and unable to make your own decisions. I'll assume you meant to say "low self-esteem" instead. The thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Dating women forces men to be superficialNo disrespect, not to add more fuel to the fire, but I have to add that you're also more likely to get cancer, as you have more cells (meaning higher chance for cells to get cancerous). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Dating women forces men to be superficialguys are starting to become more looks obsessed. It's pretty common to find multiple dudes on steroids throughout the day And once again, it's because of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Dating women forces men to be superficialI think men are impressed by well-dressed, sexy, attractive women, whether or not they understand a thing about accessorizing. Except we find a normal clothes just as attractive as designer $10 000 [insert luxury brand here" clothes. They just need to fit well, not be from the shittiest material, and match colors. Same goes for accessories. Most guys would just not even notice an expensive accessory, because to them it's no different than the $5 one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating women forces men to be superficialMen are visual creatures, they like things to look good But men are also simple creatures. We don't need something that costs a fortune. Something that you spend minimal money on can look pretty good to a man, and what is important is that it looks good specifically to us. I've gotten criticism about my weird style (which at a point included a baby pink hoodie with a camo parka), yet I didn't even bat an eye, because I myself liked it. When a woman chooses what looks good, it's often that others… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”The ones who are most fucked up end up going towards the women who have some psychological condition or insecurity or low self esteem to put boundaries Pretty much it's 99% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 04:46 AM |
| 8 | “Women end up ignoring me and go for the guy who treats her like shit” concerns me.None of these things are equal to self esteem. Children can have great self esteem, but the above would still apply to them. But we're not talking about children, we're talking about adults. Now you are the one who is strawmanning. Nobody here (except you) said that self-esteem is the ONLY thing needed to make adult decisions. What he said is that there is a minimal level of self-esteem needed to be a proper adult. What he said is that if women have such self-esteem issues where they cannot make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”Therapy won't help you get women either, assuming you even need it. Usually the most fucked up ones are the ones who actually get girls, not the one who are mentally healthy and with morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”Get in touch with your feelings man. Feelings is what chased away girls in my life. The only way feelings are useful is if you become as sociopathic as women, and use them to your advantage when you know they will be useful (even though showing them too much will make her run the other way at full speed). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 04:30 AM |
| 4 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”The difference between you and your friend is that he knows a woman will act embarrassed as to not be deemed a slut. I avoid these women like the plague, because if people find out and confront her about it, it's going to result in an allegation (because she is ashamed of what she did), even if she was moaning my name in the middle of sex. I don't wanna get MeToo'd. P.S. I also avoid it because having sex with someone enthusiastic is the best thing there can be. To settle for sex with a "You wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menUse surveys, but factor in women's dishonesty. If you don't, surveys are useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Declines in drinking, increased computer gaming and growing percentage who live with parents all contribute significantly to the decline in casual sex, for menDid you factor in that women lie on surveys? Because women lie about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markThat is his point, but you don't get mine. My point is that they are all thinking they are making the right choice. That she is different than the women who would use him and throw him away. At least I don't know anyone who gets into a relationship with the intent to get fucked over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:37 PM |
| 19 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markBut all the gainfully employed men I know are conveniently paired with gainfully employed women. Most of the time it's just correlation, not causation. It's more easy to connect with people similar to you, so education is a big factor. A lawyer can't connect with a waitress as much as he can with someone more educated. The money she makes is a good bonus, but a man is wired to provide, both by biology and society. As long as he can make enough money for both of them to live comfortably, he could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 7 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markEvery man that that is going to get fucked over is getting married, thinking he is smart and made the right choice. What makes you different from him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about vasectomies?A sex-worker(positive term), prostitute(somewhat negative term) or whore(negative term) are transcriptional money for sex people They're all words for "money for sex" people, except some of them have double meanings. A prostitute is specifically "money for sex" and nothing else. A sex-worker can be a prostitute (money for sex), pornstar (money for sex while filmed), onlyfans creator (money for nudes) call girls ( money for role-playing sex over the phone), etc. A whore is more informal and has 2… | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/06/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsThat's very odd that you would be equally upset by a woman you have never met having a miscarriage as you would be if you heard about a child on the news being hit by a truck. I'm equally upset by a child dying in both cases. I didn't know them, I didn't know their parents. Obviously the one hit by a truck is worth more to the parents because they spent more time with him, but I spent no time with either, so they're both the same to me: a life lost needlessly. These lives are not the same. Most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 01:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about vasectomies?Once they know you cant be baby trapped, or pay child support, women will lose interest in you. And that is bad...why? I see it as a win. Weeding out the bad ones that appear. If all of them are the bad ones, then even better, as being alone is better than being with the right person. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about vasectomies?With all due respect to you, I'd use the word non-prostitute. That woman pretty much seemed like a whore to me (I reserve the word for such people), considering she tried to trick you into raising a child that is not your own. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/06/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Experiment where women rate men in a lineup, then explain their reasoning.But saying that only the married guy was facially attractive. Facial attractiveness> hight. The married guy was 5'6", and he married a 5 foot woman. Maybe his face had a bit of effect when she chose him, but it's mostly that she is still 6 inches shorter, which is a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsIf you think that a woman having an abortion is the same as murdering her 6 year old, then you should also be just as upset by a miscarriage as by a 5 yr old getting hit by a Mac truck I am. Sometimes I am very saddened, sometimes it's "Fuck it, bad things happen. Don't let it get you down". But to me, it's a life, nonetheless. It's in the same way I don't see a child's life as less important than an old man's just because the old man has more experience living. It's just a matter of age. Sadly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsIf a parent loses a 6 month old they are no less devastated than if they lose a 10 year old. No. Just no. I don't know any kids who have died of cancer, but I sure think their deaths are more tragic than the millions of miscarriages that happen every year, as would most people. As I said, they are devastated because they care less, not because the life is worth less (though they do think that). In general, people are less devastated when homeless people die. Doesn't mean the life of a homeless p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsThat has nothing to do with whether the child in the womb is worthy of life or not. The reason they get over it more easily is because they spent less time with the baby. It's worth less TO THEM. If they lose a child they raised and cared for, of course theyre going to be way sadder, because they actually are commited to the child, unlike when it was in the womb where complications are way more likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Level 5 MGTOW... you are basically isolated from the rest of the world. Too Extreme?What you are describing is just being a hermit. It's been there from the dawn of time. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/06/21 07:08 PM |
| 5 | The rate of male virginity rising is due to modern society weakening men, not hypergamyFundamental problem here - nobody is entitled to happiness. Happiness is something everyone has to earn for themselves. Nobody is entitled to happiness, but nobody is entitled to society either. Society is an inherent contract between humans that promises happiness and safety at the cost of following rules. But when society is the one that gets in the way of their happiness, it's in their right to stop adhering to it, if they want to do that. That is why revolutions existed since society was a c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 07:06 PM |
| 3 | The rate of male virginity rising is due to modern society weakening men, not hypergamyHonestly I just thought he was dyslexic and that is why I didn't wanna say anything as it would look like I am judging him for a disability. But guess I am judging now that I know he is actually retarded, and not dyslexic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | The rate of male virginity rising is due to modern society weakening men, not hypergamyYou mean decline? No, decay. Go to a graveyard, dig up a body, and enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 7 | The rate of male virginity rising is due to modern society weakening men, not hypergamyThen the actual "real men" will have to put them down. The difference between the "real men" and "not real men" is men who got what they want, and the men who didn't get what they want. There is no "real" or "fake" man. There is just man. "Be a real man" and the similar are a phrase used to control men into being useful to society and women. It's a manipulation tactic. Those who gave up on women gave up because the effort is not worth the reward. They saw that path is shitty, so they didn't wann… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How Come Women Like Feminine Men But Men Don't Like Masculine Women?Tomgirls? You mean regular feminine women? Or femboys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | in situations where a parent must pay childcare are they then entitled to a complete record of purchases made with said childcare? and if so should they get a say in how it is spent?Cable bill and video games are luxuries. Depending whether the child needs it or not, an exception in court can be made towards a car (especially car repairment), if the child needs to be taken to school by car. EDIT: Also, while cable and video games are a luxury, you can use the money to pay for internet, as that is pretty much a necessity for education nowadays, and the child can still use it for entertainment and video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | in situations where a parent must pay childcare are they then entitled to a complete record of purchases made with said childcare? and if so should they get a say in how it is spent?It's not a logistical nightmare at all. You don't need to be super specific. You can't make the situation perfect, but you can make it better easily, it's just that people don't care. It is the easiest thing to do. Just make child support require a special debit card that is used specifically for that (this already exists in some places). The only thing you would be able to buy are things that would specifically benefit the child. The list of things to buy with it can contain : food, kid's cloth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | in situations where a parent must pay childcare are they then entitled to a complete record of purchases made with said childcare? and if so should they get a say in how it is spent?Oh right I forgot. Because if something requires effort how dare you ask ppd men to do it. You said it yourself in the next line. It's not about the effort, it's about the money. A father paying child support does not really have the money for a good lawyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsBiology doesn't treat men and women equally when it comes to who does what as regards reproduction. But this is not about biology, this is about law. Biologically a man is not responsible for the child at all. It's the law that forces him to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 10:25 PM |
| 3 | What good is a woman withholding sex as a strategy if she's not withholding until marriage?Most guys don't have A LOT of money, but they do have money. Some women literally use Tinder for "foodie calls". After she drained you of that little money you have, she will move on to the next chump, and to the next, and to the next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsThere are also vasectomies that can help you never impregnate a woman in case you didn’t know. The more I learn my rights as a man, the more it seems like a viable option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsMaybe don’t have sex if you are too immature to understand the risks or consequences that come with adult activities You have no idea how right you are, you are just saying it to the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsOnce again, it comes back to the man, and the responsibility he has to the society, while women get special privileges and then call themselves oppressed. A man has no say if a woman aborts a baby or not. He has no rights in that situation, yet he is given responsibilities. He is being told "If you didn't want it you shouldn't have had sex", when it is considered rude and bigoted to say the same to a woman when it comes to abortion. The double standard will continue, until society stops being gy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:07 PM |
| -1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsIt seems you are right, I was wrong about this thing in particular, because I specified USA. Even so, In first world European countries, medical insurance is an actual right of the people, and abortion is provided to little to no cost because of it in the more developed ones. This includes countries like the Netherlands, France and Slovenia. This means that abortions are actually paid with taxpayer money, because medical insurance exists because of tax money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsHmmm. So if the mother is abandoning her baby through safe haven laws....doesn’t that mean that baby’s father has also abandoned it? Well, maybe, but maybe not. If anyone knows better feel free to correct me (with sources/references if possible), but from what I know about it: Safe haven is a law where a mother can leave a child somewhere (usually in front of a police station, firefighter buildings, or other designated spaces). This is done unanimously, as most of the time the child is left and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsYes, you did. But now that you invited it , it cannot leave without dying. Actually, it cannot leave at all as it's not able to. After that, you started cutting it into pieces inside your womb, and discarded it piece by piece outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsIt sounds like the sole purpose of this sci-fi hypothetical is to make abortion seem more like the heartless murder of a baby in attempt to make women who abort seem just as bad as men who abandon their children. ...But it is... Abortion is the murder of a baby, and abortion is worse than abandonment. And pro-choice people do say quite a lot of things to make themselves seem like they're not ending a life or they're justified in doing so: "It's the mother's body, she needs to have bodily autonom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsIt's not tresspasing. You invited it by having sex. It didn't will itself into existence out of the ether. It's your responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsI don’t believe a fetus is a child. It's your right to believe or not if a fetus is a CHILD, but scientifically a fetus is HUMAN from the moment of conception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 0 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsI’d prefer the baby daddy suffer that burden than taxpayers. Pretty much a lot of abortions in the USA are payed with taxpayer money. The luxurious trips of politicians are payed with taxpayer money. Everything is payed with taxpayer money, except the important things that should be. The real mindset we should be having is "Stop wasting taxpayer money and use it on something useful, like children or nation-wide free contraception". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsWould you really? Because no child support will have a very negative impact on both of you. You can't afford full time work and the insane childcare costs so you would need welfare monies and that would mean living in poverty. What's your point? A big reason why abortion is legal is because of financial responsibility and resources. The parents sometimes can't afford that baby, so they abort it, otherwise they would be risking poverty. Why is it any different when it comes to a single parent? If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:52 PM |
| 11 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsYou say that yet safe-haven laws exist. Women can financially abort by abandoning their baby and give it up for adoption. No consequences. It's only men that get held to a higher standard and get actual responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 15 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsHere's the thing: It doesn't matter. The "kid" is not a "kid" anymore at 22. Sure the father can come and try to be "best friends", but that is all he can be. For 22 years he wasn't a father. For the most important part of the kids childhood he wasn't there, meaning he will never be seen as an actual father in the kids eyes. I talk from personal experience (my parents are divorced) and from what I know of other kids I hung out with that had divorced parents. My mom left my father when I was 3 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 9 | Financial Abortion and deadbeat dadsA father's responsibility to support his children isn't an obligation to the child's mother. It's an obligation to the child. So, as long as that child exists, the father is obligated. The father is no less obligated than the mother. If we give a woman the right to literally kill the baby without consequence of the law, we can give the man the same treatment when it comes to abandoning that baby. Otherwise we make abortion illegal for women as well. The whole point of the post is that when it co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 2 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?At that point your god was pussy. That's what you actually believed in, any other religion was just a front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?The problem with 5 is that it's just that. Average. Average inspires no feelings and it's just borderline ugly when it comes for guys. I am saying this as a 5 btw. For a woman on the other hand, even if she is a 5 there will be someone who thinks she is gorgeous. For guys that is less common. It means you have to compensate for it with other amazing personality traits if you want attraction, you need to put in considerable effort, and the pool of women you get is very limited as well. Mainly, at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesGetting to the same end result as the guys intentionally manipulating her, without actually engaging in any immoral behavior, is a win in my book. Or at least it isn’t a loss. Honestly, as someone who experienced such a thing (and saw others who did), I'd say it's actually a loss. Because it's a misunderstanding of who you actually are, and eventually your true character is revealed, she starts losing attraction, and you get hurt because you get ghosted or you find out she starts messaging other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesThat would be fine with any fully confident man. But men are not really confident in general. From a young boy you are taught that you should be masculine. To be a strong boy. You are taught that your worth is two things, how much you can provide for your family and society, and how much pussy you can get. People around you will shame you for being a virgin or sexless (it's the go-to insult for women against men usually). On top of that, nobody teaches a guy HOW to get girls. He is given stupid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:07 PM |
| 3 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?I don't think partying is masculine or feminine tbh Not the point here. They are called "feminine virtues" not because all of them are feminine things women do, but because it's what is found a virtue in the feminine (women). Not partying is considered a virtue because partying is associated with alcohol, drugs, sex and all kinds of other stuff. It's safe to assume if a girl is frequently partying, she is more lax with alcohol and sex (if not drugs) than a girl that doesn't party. You can say it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:52 PM |
| 5 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?No, they're not. They're after a very kind person (and also submissive). Are kind and submissive people often taken advantage of all the time? Yes, that is true, and that is why we have the saying "Nice guys finish last". But that is not the point here. Just because kind people are easy to take advantage of, it doesn't mean everyone that likes that kind person is an abuser looking for a victim. Most men (unlike women) find kindness attractive, and they respect it. It won't make him choose an ugl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | How Much Do Most Men Today Really Care About Traditional "Feminine Virtues"?Or a Muslim girl who expects them to convert for her. I mean, would anybody want this, man or woman? We're talking about someone who asks for you to change your religious beliefs, something that can't actually be done unless you actually believe the religion you're converting to is the right one. Otherwise it's just acting and nothing more, and sooner or later that is going to be shown in full effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Body positivity does far more harm than good.Or maybe women have higher standards for men while men can be satisfied with the minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Body positivity does far more harm than good.I don’t think Jack Black would be as successful without his status and money He wouldn't be as successful as he is right now, but he would be way more successful than the average man. Jack Black would only have the chance (not even guaranteed) of being unsuccessful if he was a bum. If he had a normal job somewhere, enough to support himself, it would be enough to make him way more successful than the average man. What Jack Black has is pure charisma and confidence, enough to attract most girls a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesThe reason women HAVE TO put make-up and take care of their looks is because they compete with other women, not to look better for the guy. Guys have a low attraction threshold, meaning they can easily like a woman for her looks, but there is always a prettier woman out there and she knows he can replace her, so she wears that make-up to appear more pretty and compete with her. The make-up is deception. It's not something the man benefits from, because eventually they will get married and he wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesYeah, but that's what he meant. In this case "like" means "attracted to", or at least that is how I understand it. You like a lot of people "as a person", but you obviously don't date them because you're not attracted to them. What he means is that when you're attracted to them, you don't let something small as "he didn't pay for me" ruin your attraction to them. Sure you might be taken aback or feel bad, but you're going to go to that second date anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesMaybe Scandinavian countries like Germany or similar. In most Eastern European countries (meaning Slavic countries like Russia, Serbia, Bulgaria, etc) you are mostly expected to pay and treat the woman traditionally, regardless if she is a traditional or modern woman. There will be women that will offer to pay, and some very good hearted women that will actually be genuine in their offer. The problem is, they are pretty traditional countries and you risk looking like a chump if you don't offer t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesIs this true? I’m a woman who has dated A LOT in my life and usually we go Dutch or the guy absolutely insists on paying. The guy insists on paying because "dutch" is a test most women do. She will offer to pay, but it's just courtesy. If you accept she will be mad at you, look at you as incompetent and unfit, and there won't be a second date. Obviously some guys just like paying and that's why they insist on it. But a lot of guys insist because they don't know how genuine the offer of going dut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesbut doesn’t everyone feel indifferent when figuring out how much they like someone during the early dating stage? If you're dating someone, even agreeing to a first date, you like them. Of course what happens during the date might make you like them more or less, or even dislike them, but the default is that you liked them enough to go out to a date. Even in OLD you get someone's general vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesWomen love a mysterious guy. They love drama. They love change and variety. It's why toxic guys are successful in dating. They will treat her good and then back out, making her wonder what the hell happened, making her chase him for validation. It's a good manipulation tactic. Women get bored if the guy is nice all the time and everything goes well. It's why she will test you and argue with you for stupid shit like "You aren't lowering the toilet seat down after going to the bathroom" (I found o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:44 PM |
| – | Considering that women are more easily susceptible to mass propaganda, how much do you think is it possible to manipulate their sexual behaviors?It is literally true in every way, lol. All of your actions are influenced by your biology, not just ones based on attraction. You like thinking you have full autonomy, but what a person likes is innate. Attraction is subconscious, and it's subconscious because it's a biological response. When a huge portion of women like fuckboys and ignore the guys that treat them right, it's obviously their nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Key word, "some men", meaning not the majority. To most men, careers are a tool to get a certain lifestyle. To have a proper family life you need a proper career. Once you give up on family and decide to work for yourself only, then you don't have people that depend on you. It means you can get a simpler career, a job that you would actually like. You can still get a better career if you want, but that is only if you like the challenge of working, or if you want more luxury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?When I say "collapse" I mean it will deteoriate by a great amount. Yes we will adapt cause it's what humans do, but with huge losses before we are able to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?It's not that it's the peak of happiness for them. What I meant is that it takes little to satisfy them, for them to at least become content with what they have. Travels, special hobbies and similar stuff are additional stuff that they can choose to do if they want and feel even happier. Also men will not become blobs. They will still work and be productive members of society, but the difference being that they will no longer set themselves on fire to keep society warm. As I said, society depend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I said the MAIN reasons. Except romantic and sexual stuff, you can get anything else from a friend or family member. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 7 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?There are reasons homeless shelters aren’t inhabited mostly by men. The biggest reason is they are more likely to refuse those services. It's what they tell you to shut up about it. It's the whole "toxic masculinity" thing, which is just blaming men for everything. And all those jobs you describe as dangerous? Women were barred from those jobs until recently and still are in other ways. They still wont do it even now that they are free to do so. Firstly because it's dangerous and women won't sac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 9 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?You didn't hear about the 72 virgins in heaven waiting for them? Jokes aside, a healthy-minded normal and happy guy does not go join a terrorist organization. You tell a heavily sexually repressed person "You will get all the sex you want", and paint the horrible atrocities you ask of them to do as a noble cause, and suddenly they are way more willing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 7 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?for example, government will have less cost with education and etc... Less cost for education, but more cost for pensions. Retirement works because people keep working and putting money in the money pool that pensions take away from. You take away workers, you don't have enough money. Old people experience poverty and immediately die, pretty much having a big fraction of the population just die. It won't be pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 21 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Can you elaborate how society would stop functioning if men won't have sex? - The main reason men marry is children and sex. A woman already has the right to leave the man and take her child with her. She pretty much automatically wins custody unless she explicitly gives away her rights. On top of that, she still has access to the man's resources through child support, and benefits from the taxes men pay. So what happens when sex is taken away as well? Men have no reason to marry. Now you might … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre.Yes, Scott Pilgrim is one of my favorite movies. Why do you ask? Cause it's my favorite as well, hahaha. That movie might be the greatest piece of art cinema ever produced. Especially the transition and details. I've seen it over 10 times and there is always something new to notice in the background. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 14 | Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre.Scott Pilgrim Have you even watched the movie? It's pretty well stated that Scott is an asshole, and he is leaning more over the attractive fuckboy rather than a dork. He dates a high-schooler that he tried to ghost, hurt Kim's feelings by not even breaking up with her properly, is selfish and self-centered. On top of that, Scott is in a band, plays a bass guitar, and is the best fighter in his town (the movie tries to pass it off as Scott is a bad fighter at the start, but the comics confirm he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessI know, but that's my point. You're supposed to either find somebody who you share interests with (genuinelly, not just faking it), or just accept you wont find anyone of the opposite sex that shares those interests, because the sexes have differences, and that's fine. When people fake interests, eventually both of them come out unhappy. In this scenario you want the others to share your interests (food, alcohol, or whatever on the beach), while for them the beach is a completely different activ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Considering that women are more easily susceptible to mass propaganda, how much do you think is it possible to manipulate their sexual behaviors?The difference is that a man will rarely pay extra for that Dove soap, even if it does have "FOR MEN" on it. On top of that, it will be a 7 in 1 Dove Soap that is all shampoo, facewash, bodywash, hand soap, toothpaste, moisturizer and laundry detergent, not buying them separately and spending enormous amount of money. In reality, a man mostly wont care. He will get what seems to work, and continue to use it. I only started using skin cream about a year and a half ago, and that's only because my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Considering that women are more easily susceptible to mass propaganda, how much do you think is it possible to manipulate their sexual behaviors?He is probably talking about the 80% of marketing being directed towards women. The fact that women react on their emotions more frequently than men, it's obviously that marketing (and even propaganda) would work on them better. That being said, he is misunderstanding the extent of power that marketing has. It cannot override a woman's biology. The asshole frat fuckboy that has a ripped body is not really the pinnacle of success when it comes to the modern world. It might even be deterimental to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else feel bad when women say the male body is unattractive?Someone posted that only 7% of women orgasm from casual sex Yet they still keep doing it, which means it's pleasurable enough. Sex in itself is pleasurable, even without orgasm, especially for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessI’ve gone to and watched millions of sports games in my life while caring about 0 of them This is not "sharing interests", this is just pretending to care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Going to the beach: A metaphor for why women are marrying lessRight, and the latter is a fantastically good thing. It might seem like a good thing at first, but if you look deeper into it, it's not because of a good reason. In the past a woman would need a man to provide for her, so she would marry. Now the woman can provide for herself alone. That's a good thing. Amazing even. It makes me happy. The problem? A woman can provide for herself, but raising a child on that single salary is not something she can do. So what happens? Child support. Now a woman c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whoresmost women would prefer a more attractive man with less money. Money isn't the primary goal for most women, most women would prefer a more attractive man with less money. Money isn't the primary goal for most women, most women would prefer a more attractive man with less money. No, most women would prefer AN ATTRACTIVE MAN (which is obviously above a high-earner), not a MORE attractive man. Because a 4 and a 6 are the same in a woman's eyes (considering they all go for the same fuckboy all of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whoresYou didn't catch my point. Women love money, materialistic stuff and extra security. He might not have more money than she makes, but it's EXTRA MONEY, and a man with that much money is what she thinks is the best she can do. If she was sure she could get someone with more money, she would. She just doesn't want to risk what she has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:40 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whoresFirst: 30% of women earn more than their male partners. This is below half, yes, but it is tangible evidence that she's not in it for any monetary gain. The problem is that people think "Oh, she has a job, she is making money, she might even be making more than him" and they automatically drop the idea that she might even want more. Yes, she is making 30% more than him, but 80% of marketing is directed towards women. His money is her money, even if it's lesser. If she could get someone that make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are overly criticized in society compared to womenIn pretty much every context, especially real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.You dont understand what a healthy relationship is. No, YOU don't understand what a healthy relationship is. A healthy relationship is a two-way street. If one person is putting way more effort into the relationship, it is eventually doomed to fail in one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.Yes, it's a waste of time, in the same way simping over a woman that doesn't like you is a waste of time, and like crushing on celebrities is a waste of time. It means you're giving her way more than she is willing to give you, yet she would give those things to men she barely knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 6 | [CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placeboHow the hell is Men's Right Activism a part of Red Pill? One is about bettering yourself and understanding women better, the other is fighting about the rights of men and the harsh societal pressure we have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 11:38 AM |
| 9 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyThe average women doesn’t have access to men making more 100k a year You are right that the attractive guy making 100k wont usually even give her a second glance, but you're forgetting that a woman is more attracted to the best she knows. It's a possibility and she will strive for it, and the moment that 100k guy seems available for her, she will jump ship. Of course days after the guy will dump her after using her for all she is worth, and she is going to blame all men and never learn from her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the ideal male body type?He got lucky and the girl was already fully digging him. Most tall women already heard "I can climb" so many times that it's a turn-off by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What is the ideal male body type?Yeah, I am not American and I never tried it, but I frequently hear it's a choice among people. I did pause for a second and thought about it, and still spelled wrong hahaha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 0 | What is the ideal male body type?Which is honestly more than enough. 20% is healthy both for the body and for the mind, as you're not sacrificing a lot of pleasure. Also, when we talk in terms of relationships, a woman is going to choose the 20% over the 14% (assuming she weighs her options correctly), unless she is living that same healthy life. Because when a woman wants a certain fast food (whether it is Chipotle, Chic-Fil-A or whatever), she is going to expect her man to be there as well. Telling her "sorry, I don't eat tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 4 | What is the ideal male body type?I'm from a country where the average height is already low, combined with my generation being even shorter than average, and adding my bad habits as a teen most likely stunting my growth, I currently consider myself a goblin. I already have a beard, and started working out to get ripped, so eventually I'm trying to evolve from Goblin to fantasy Dwarf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | What is the ideal male body type?I believe that as long as you exercise regularly and increase your muscle size, and eat in moderation on top of that (which means eating slowly and stopping when you're satiated rather than completely full), it shouldn't be a problem. "Indulging in desire to eat" doesn't always have to be eating like a pig, rather eating whatever you want, but still in moderation. The muscles themselves burn calories simply for being there, let alone when you try to increase their size and exercise with a bit of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?I cannot remember the last time a man made me a sandwich. When was the last time you asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:50 AM |
| 2 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?I am curious. How many of those friends are in relationships? If any of them are not, is it by choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsStudies show what women care about is money not strength. Women CARE about money, but they're not attracted to you because of your money. They want your money, so if you're not attractive as well, years down they will divorce you, take half of your shit and leave you for someone more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 08:43 PM |
| 4 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?Be a generally kind, caring person. Ask about their day. Actively ask about the things that matter to them, and actively listen. Don't play stupid games and communicate directly without being antagonizing. Don't be afraid to lightly banter with them and laugh together. Don't be an entitled bitch ( I think this is pretty straight-forward). Don't entertain other guys knowing full-well that he would definitely mind that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Purple-Pillers, how evenly are your beliefs in both pills mixed? What in particularly are your red and blue pill beliefs specifically?Also, religious taboo on sex will guarantee a dead bedroom. Not really. Sexually repressed Christian girls easily become one of the kinkiest women. If you're trying to find a kinky girl, just look into someone that was in catholic school. You will find one. EDIT: I forgot to mention that you actually have to be just as attractive as usual to get that Christian girl to have sex with you, no different than any other girl. I can guarantee you that the sweet innocent religious girls you see are the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Purple-Pillers, how evenly are your beliefs in both pills mixed? What in particularly are your red and blue pill beliefs specifically?I always thought that the hypergamy theory was so silly. My family is full of women with dirt poor self-esteem I should have just stopped here. The rest is a waste of time. Hypergamy is not about women choosing objectively better men, it's about them trying to LOCK-DOWN men that THEY THINK are better than them, which means: They have low self-esteem, so no matter how ugly their partner is, they still believe they are below them, and that ugly partner is better than them, that they are lucky to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 21 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsNah. Muscle helps to get both relationships and hook-ups (especially hook-ups), and it also helps with attraction while you are in a relationship. But most of the "lose weight and gain muscle" and "just lift" are not only about how muscle makes you look and weight loss. That is only one part of it. It's also about self-confidence, discipline, health, and mostly strength. All of these things are attractive, and that last one is important af. Because let's face it, if you tell me "strength does no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/RelationshipsNobody said it was easy, or that it would be. Change is hard, and you have to constantly strive towards it. The better part is that halfway through it, you realize that you don't care about being attractive to women anymore, you just wanna get better. The women are a side bonus that is pretty appreciated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherishedAnd why would any average-above average looking, body confident woman in the west choose to follow these rules? Honestly? Only 2 reasons: Because the guy she is dating (who definitely has to be high-value) wants it, and he set clear boundaries that otherwise he would choose someone else. She fucked around in her youth, and now she wants to play the "changed modest woman" to a beta so he would provide. It's obvious with the simp pandemic nowadays that a woman would have no reason to follow this d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherishedI think it's quite a normal way to dress like . I see quite a lot of decent and modest women outside that keep to this, and they have decent and modest boyfriends that aren't tradcons. I think you're just retionalizing it for yourself as to continue dressing like a hoe. You don't need to. You can dress how you want, but you will attract the kind of guys that you dress like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherishedThe reason I sound like your HS dean is because it's a part his job to make sure people don't dress inappropriately. I was just trying to visualize it a bit for you guys 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherishedThis is just projection of how women fuck and date good-looking assholes and then they just marry a beta when they tired of it. I'm pretty sure at least 90% of men would take a good woman and date her over any slutty girl, and they will wait for sex as well, assuming you find what he likes and show him he actually matters to you and you find him attractive. Because a guy will learn throughout life that unless he is given sex, the girl doesn't really trust him and likes him that much (since we're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherishedWhen men say "We want a modest girl that doesn't dress slutty", we don't mean her dressing like a nun in church, we just mean: - we don't want someone that shows so much cleavage that basically half her boobs are hanging out of her shirt, or wears something that is basically underwear for public. No cleavage is preferable - No stuff like leggings that make your ass jiggle around as you walk. You can use "comfort" as an excuse to wear those in public, but we all know why women wear it, and even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Why the hell is Ed Sheeran on the same row as DJ Khaled and Arnab Goswami, and someone like Naveed Choundry higher than him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime".Its not a bad idea if youre not dumb and broke. Pretty much everyone who ever got fucked by marriage/divorce thought similar to you. "I am smart enough and I am sure I made the right choice for my partner". What I am asking you is: What makes you different from all those people? What separates you from being a divorcee waiting to happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | There is only one trait you should desire and actively look for in a long term partner.Yeah, but the question is: How big is the chance of getting into a car crash, compared to the number of relationships where cheating happens? I see cheating everywhere and all genders, and all of those idiots think they are the one who won't get cheated on. What I often ask myself is: What would make me different from them? They all thought they were smart enough to not be cheated on, like I would. They all thought they were picking the right partner, like I would. So why am I better, and theref… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 3 | There is only one trait you should desire and actively look for in a long term partner.I honestly do not get yall obsession with not being cheated on to the point where you do not allow yourselves to live. Because you're a cheater. Cheating is natural to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?Read it over and over. Maybe you will be able to eventually understand my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?This guy gives me the same vibe as a rich person telling people in poverty that they need to work harder and they will be just like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 14 | The "rape culture" is an overblown myth.I think r/UnpopularFacts would be better. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Are these men dating fat women actually physically attracted to them?What most people don't understand is that people in America are OVERWEIGHT. It's a statistic based on BMI, and BMI cam be pretty shit, as fit guys with good muscles were deemed overweight. These people who are part of that statistic do not have to be unattractive. Regardless of a womans weight, if her proportions are good, then she is attractive (and is therefore now considered thicc or curvy). A woman with quite wider hips than her waist and big boobs is almost always attractive enough to get a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Why is the bar for men so low?I lived in a traditional area, and from a traditional household. The house isn't cleaned troughly every day for 8 hours like a full time job with no rest. A SAHM is still a SAHM even when they are fucking around at home (just like someone would fuck around online at their job). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Why is the bar for men so low?Doesn't matter. The woman could choose to faff about in their "supposed extra hour or two" instead of letting the man do it (and he can take care of the children), but they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | AskMen post discussionThis is like a woman complaining that men don’t love her when she lets her leg hair grow, wears no makeup, and shows up to a date in sweats Except a man still has to take care of his looks just like a woman does, and do all of the romancing as well. On top of that, the woman is the only recipient of the romancing the man does. On the other hand if a woman did not take care of how she looks, she would lose on other things as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 0 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?I don't think so. Curvy women (not fat or obese, curvy) will forever be more attractive than skinny ones. In the end its neither skinny or fat, rather the middle ground that is preferred, and it does make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Women are having children later because now they can fuck around as much as they want and still get someone to finance them later in life, regardless if the woman has a job or not. Women are not staying single only because they aren't "coerced", they are staying single because in their nature for the man they are with to be better than them, especially when it comes to finance. They date up, even though they idea of "up" sometimes isn't the right one (which is why some women end up with deadbeat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Feminism Mega ThreadWhat you said applies to literally anything. Fruit has one type of definition as well. Does that mean there is only one kind of fruit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Yeah, but that doesn't matter. If they can't get a relationship with the men they want because they are fat, then they won't date at all. They will settle for being pump n dumped by them, and that is enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Redpilled YouTuber thinks redpillers are too obsessed with single mothers and women in general. Do you agree or disagree?Yet despite those bad choices they chose to stay and deal with those choices... Its biology. She carried that child for 9 months and developed a bond. A man is treated as a secondary parent by default. It is the mother's child first, then the fathers. She can choose to abort it, she can choose to raise it herself while getting financial support from the father. If fathers would be the one that births the kid, it would be the other way around. There are many men who go through shit with their chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Redpilled YouTuber thinks redpillers are too obsessed with single mothers and women in general. Do you agree or disagree?As a child raised by a single parent (who actually turned out ok), I'd say single mothers are a bigger problem than people realize, as children of single mothers often end up very fucked up (from things I have read, but mostly from my observations of other children with single parents). You can say "They don't end up single BY choice", but lets be real here, most of them end up single BECAUSE of their choices, choices they made while ignoring all the red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Relationship advice when a man told his wife she smells funnyI am not creating a false dichotomy, its just that the type of person his wife is, even that would not work. Nowhere it is stated he was rude to her. "Hey, I don't mean to insult you, but it's smelling/tasting different than it normally does." would be enough for an adult that knows how to communicate, but she would still focus on the bad part and get offended like she did. Her offence comes from a place of deep insecurity (considering she is still insecure about it and punishing him years later… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Relationship advice when a man told his wife she smells funnySure, because telling them "You don't smell fresh" so they can check what is the reason themselves, whatever it is, is worse than: "Do you have some kind of disease?", after which you explain that the reason you think she has a disease is that her pussy smells bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Do you think you would have trouble dating if men’s sexuality was the same as women’s ?Flirting is a subjective thing, swiping is not. What some people consider flirting, I do it with my friends on the regular with no sexual/romantic context. What some people consider flirting, its not even close to flirting at all. You cannot equate "hints" & flirting with swiping. The real world equivalent of swiping is saying "I like you, would you like to go out on a date with me this weekend?". Its defined direct communication that shows clear interest in the the other person with no room for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you think you would have trouble dating if men’s sexuality was the same as women’s ?Swiping on tinder means that you like someone. Its direct, with a clear meaning and purpose. On the other hand, the "hints" women drop can be mistaken for literally anything, including indifference or friendliness. If its a "hint" and "subtle", it clearly cannot be called an "approach". Direct and clear flirting is what men do. Women are usually too passive to initiate such a thing, rather communicating badly (hints) and waiting for the other person to do it. It also doesn't help that there are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake?interesting... i'm not even dating 10s haha most likely 7s In a situation where men are scarce, that 7 becomes an 8 or a 9. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?The wrong person can be literally anyone in hookup culture. People don't usually go around with STD test results. High n-count is a result of 2 things: Hookup culture, which most men are disgusted from when women do it, for reasons I specified earlier. a result of failed string of relationships, which is also a red flag, meaning a person cannot commit or is bad at picking people who fit them. "commitment" isnt the goal. for most people commitment is the end goal, even if it isn't with the person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 7 | Are boys asking their MOMS how to get pussy?!Advice for getting women is always hard to get. 8 out of 10 times when you ask a woman how to get a woman, she won't be able to give you good advice because she herself doesn't know what she wants, or she is lying to herself and therefore she has to lie to you as well to make it more believable. The 9th one will know what she wants, but she doesn't want you to succeed, because its better for women to weed out the losers than have unattractive men try and become better (while hitting on them). Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?You don't get sex poisoning from having too much sex, but you do get STD's, and you do get some issues that will give you problems in a relationship. People who are used to fucking one person after another won't just commit. Eventually one of two things will happen: They will get bored of sex and won't be sexually compatible with their partner who want to be more sexually active, resulting in a dead bedroom. They will get bored of sex with that certain person and will cheat on them with another.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | What should be done to help men?Erotic fiction itself is not a measure, but the popularity of certain erotic fiction media is a measure. Erotic fiction is made to appeal to the sexual side, so the most popular ones will always be the ones that appeal to the wider audience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?What's the right amount? 1? 3? 200? It is different for every man. For me, it depends on the age. Personally, I would say 2 sexual partners till the age of 18, with 1 more every year should be the normal amount. Less is okay, unless she is a virgin at an age of 23 or higher, which is a red flag (too prudish, religious, something wrong with her that other men picked up on). If she exceeds the expected number by few, that is fine, but I will be a bit more suspicious. In the 21st century where FWB … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 4 | What should be done to help men?30% of men being sexless is a problem and a catastrophe in TODAY'S SOCIETY, not in general. IMO the real problem isn't "Men cannot get sex", the real problem is: Men are taught from a young age that sex is a way to define their self-worth. Most insults that come from women are "Small dick", "cannot get sex", "you have sex with another man". When more than half of the world deems you worthless for not being able to get sex, then of course you will do stupid shit to get it, including crime and imm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?So in other words you see women as objects, cool. First of all, men are seen as objects as well, a lot of the time, just not always sexual. Its either an ATM, an emotional tampon, or a sexual object, and usually for women these 3 are not the same person. So why doesn’t the same logic apply to men? Because most women refuse to, and are actually attracted to high n-count men. The reason being, high n-count men have social proof (the other women they fucked) which shows that they are high value. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?Why do you think that just because somebody doesn't like high n-counts, that they automatically desire virgin women? Most of us just want balance. A woman that isn't a total whore and fucked half the town, yet she had experienced sex before, meaning that she at least lightly knows what she wants. You wanting sluts is your preference and nothing else. It is no different than the "tradcuck" you are describing that wants a virgin woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?You just invalidate "higher chance to cheat and commitment problems" and call it junk science, but it really isn't. For one, I would like to say I don't hate them, I just refuse to commit to them after what I experienced and researched. That being said there is another reason, and that is the fact that women who are promiscuous are more likely to pick bad men to have sex with, or have children with good men and use child support as a backup plan when she eventually divorces him, and therefore ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 03:32 PM |
| 7 | Boy raised by feminist speaks out. Mods mute anyone commenting on feminism and lock the threadIts not even just rape. It's literally abuse and torture. My eyes teared up reading the post. She broke the guy in pieces. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Boy raised by feminist speaks out. Mods mute anyone commenting on feminism and lock the threadBecause feminist = good, man = bad. People don't think she is capable of such a thing so they subconsciously ignore it, even if she is the monster she is. Child services would just ignore the abuse because its a mother and not a father. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Which scenario is the most common when it comes to the reasons women divorce?Technically yes. You don't have to be married to the woman. When the baby is born you sign the papers to be named as their father, so the mother can ask for child support whenever she wants. Even if you don't sign any papers, the mother can request a DNA test, and if it matches then you will still have to pay child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything you are consciously doing to increase your attractiveness, or are you just hoping someone will randomly find you attractive for who you naturally are?Honestly, no. I am 22. There was a point (about 3-4 years ago) when I started improving myself. I greatly improved my style from oversized hoodies and the stupidest graphic t-shirts, into varied clothes that fit me well, also experimenting with different colors. I added accessories and watches as well, a beard that I groom frequently, a new hairstyle, etc. I started learning about female psychology and in that part I greatly improved. I no longer put women on a pedestal, no longer think niceness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What type of men cheat on their wives? Have you ever met a man like this? How was he?But they might get dumped. And the girl doesn't deserve to be cheated on. There is a certain point in things where you stop blaming only one person, and start blaming both because the other person was irredeemably stupid. In relationships, one of those points is forgiveness of cheating. I'd rather ruin my friendship than be accessory to evil Honestly, those friendships were way more worth to me than anyones relationship. A lot of good came out of them, both for me and others. To sabotage that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the Old Joke: "If men got pregnant, there'd be an abortion clinic one every corner."Honestly, I am not even sure. Its easy to say there would be an abortion clinic at every corner, but there are a lot of situations where men are fucked yet they get no support on at all, and people don't even want to address it. Men are 3 times as likely to commit suicide, they get 60% longer sentences than women for literally the same crimes, the legal definition of rape does not include women raping men, statutory rape to little boys by a woman is treated way less harshly than if a man would d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What type of men cheat on their wives? Have you ever met a man like this? How was he?I have met numerous guys like that. Actually, 4 out of my 5 close friends did it. While I do think its a bad thing, I would never go and tell their wives/girlfriends. Why? Their partners allowed it. Each and every one of their girlfriends/wives stayed in the relationship after the first time they found out they were cheated on. Did they argue about it a lot? Definitely. Did they briefly (for a few days) break up? Yes. But to me, staying in a relationship after your partner cheated on you is simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What type of men cheat on their wives? Have you ever met a man like this? How was he?There is a right way to ruin your marriage. Women know how to do it, and that is why they are always the winners in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | What type of men cheat on their wives? Have you ever met a man like this? How was he?Contrary to popular belief, I don't think the men that do this are in dead bedroom situations. This is because men that do this are typically attractive for their age so their wives don't really lose attraction to them. I disagree. While I have never been married, from what I have observed around me, while being married to someone, you can totally take your partner for granted and stop putting in any kind of effort towards the relationship, including effort at sex, and for some people even flirt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.http://www.lifestyles.com/article/study-looks-into-the-matter-of-women-and-casual-sex/ Its not much, but here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.I care about my wellbeing, so I'm not eating it. Therefore, it's not a privilege. This is the most horrible argument you could have given, because when it comes to food, caring about your wellbeing is a privilege. You would know this if you ever had to worry about food, but its clearly you didn't. Men on the other hand don't the choice of caring about their wellbeing. They have to eat that junkfood or they starve to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Maybe, but unless that’s the reality, how could you know for sure? I know for sure because if we want to orgasm, we can get it by jerking off, sometimes as early as 2 minutes, and we wouldn't need sex at all. Orgasm is not even the most important thing about sex for men, rather its the validation. The validation that you aren't a complete failure in the eyes of nature and society, because thats how we were taught to measure our worth. If men had a 20% chance to orgasm each time they had sex, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 7 | "I'm good at playing a convincing villainous character"- Amber Heard. Yeah, no shit.We always gave Adam Sandler a lot of shit for playing himself in every movie, but now I see that being a completely good thing, as opposed to this piece of shit. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 2 | The torture boys undergo during circumcision ceremoniesDude, I really wont sign up for a site just to read an article. Screenshot it or something next time. I have no idea what the article says (seems to be more about a cult than the practice itself), but I have to say the circumcision itself is not really that horrible. I was circumcised when I was 4. Didn't traumatize me, didn't hurt, but it was pretty awkward. I don't mind my circumcision at all, and if I wasn't circumcised, I would have probably chosen it myself later (though the problem that th… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | A law in my countryHowever, people should be hired and fired based on qualifications and what they will do, not gender The problem does not lie there. Between a man and a woman who have equal qualifications, the man will always be a superior employee, because the employer doesnt have to worry about maternal leave. When an employer hires a woman: He has to worry about whether a woman is married or not and ask whether she has children. If she doesn't have children, he has to worry about her getting pregnant and taki… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/21 02:31 PM |
| 9 | “I wanted a dog but my boyfriend didn’t, so we compromised and got a dog.”I don't know, man. No bitches yet for me. Yet on the other hand, I have 99 problems, so... | /r/MensRights | 04/01/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkNever happened in older generations Its almost seems like the rules were completely different back then. Like people married much younger or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 05:55 AM |
| 4 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkI agree. When I became single and realized I needed to learn to approach I went out a lot and it took me a while to build up the courage to start approaching. But meanwhile I did a lot of observing. I can't tell you how many times I saw a group of 4 or 5 women on a girl's night out and considered approaching but chickened out and then saw them all go home together at the end of the night without having been approached by any men. That is simply because: The worst outcome that can come out of col… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Labour?as a guy who grew up as not so alpha, "don't be such a pussy" actually works quite a lot, because a lot of men are just pussies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 5 | "I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought?True, but if you eat plain bread for your whole life, you would eventually throw everything away to get some good food. Thats the whole point, you already are sick of what you have, which is why the grass is greener on the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 17 | Unattractive people suffer worse life outcomes but men face HIGHER penaltiesTreatments for balding exist somewhat I'll agree (with many of which having potentially fatal side effects like heart attacks), I wasnt talking about medication, I was talking about gair transplant. If you're 4 foot 8 guy and you want to date women you're gonna have a bad time. As a short guy, I definitely understand. I think most women care more about a guy's height and having hair more than being slightly ugly. They dont care about it "more", they care about it equally. When I say equally, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 01:24 PM |
| 28 | Unattractive people suffer worse life outcomes but men face HIGHER penaltiesThere is treatment for balding tho, and I am pretty sure its cheaper than plastic surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.So they either assume they can’t handle responsibility or they try to dodge it. And often time they don't take responsibility and avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 10 | [CMV] Hypergamy is a human trait, not a female traitMental stability. Most men do like the idea of their girl being mentally stable, but it would not be a dealbreaker if she was pretty enough. It is a real problem though, as mentally unstable people (not just women, but people in general) can be dangerous. On one side you can make their mental health worse by not acting accordingly, on the other side you might even get hurt regardless of what you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 06:23 PM |
| 9 | [CMV] Hypergamy is a human trait, not a female traitMost of us even make a lot of excuses for the latter as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you?/Plus Ultra AND BEYOND! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | There is a “Men Are Wonderful Effect” inherent in TRP beliefsFaking a frame will only set you up for a fall later when you inevitably let your true self through. Not really. A girl that you have been with for a while will tolerate the unattractive stuff more than a girl that met you an hour ago. Its true that a woman can also lose attraction while in a relationship, but the standards are even higher before you start a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.No matter how much money you give someone when doing business, they will go bankrupt unless they know what they are doing. If someone gave you all of the businesses of Trump right now, I doubt you would be able to even keep the networth. The fact that Trump still has a considerable amount of money proves that he is competent enough for it. As for "hard work", thats just bullshit fed to people so they think they have a higher chance at being rich. Trump didnt work hard, he worked smart, otherwise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.Also, you said it yourself that if a Lion is not strong enough to protect his pack he will get thrown out. Humans are not lions, therefore financial security is also needed, which Trump has. In other words sex is transactional everywhere and Trump has what it takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.Doesn't matter what you think. The man has money, he gets pussy one way or another, and he gets away with a lot of fucked up stuff he does. I dont like him myself because he is a shithead, but he is succesful, regardless of his morality or the haters that try to bring him down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.Trump was elected because the alternative was Hillary, an even worse choice. In reality they are both shit candidates. Actually even in the current election both candidates are shit. Its a reccuring thing with Americans where they have to choose the lesser evil. Trump was the winner (Lion) so we saw the stupid shit he can do. Hillary was the loser (sheep), so she didn't have a chance to prove the fucked up things someone like her is capable of. Because of this you automatically think that Hillar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.Women can be leaders. They usually dont get to be the leaders because they arent fit for the position. Its simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.What about them? Please enlighten me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.Leaders who rule with fear aren't known to be the best ones. Maybe thats why "tiger moms" never got to be the leader, and men are better at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.you mean female lions, yeah? I meant Lions in general, as a concept of a more powerful being than the usual weak herbivorous prey. You can change the Lion with a Tiger, Jaguar, Grizzly, etc. and it wont change the meaning of what I said: The weak arent good for not doing bad things, because most of the time to do those bad things, it takes power which the weak dont have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many Red Pillers anti-abortion, when banning abortion will probably force more men into marriage or child support?If you assert something without any evidence, it remains an opinion or simple theory until evidence is presented. Even so its presumed false and unusable until proved true. The burden of proof is on the person making the claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:24 AM |
| 0 | Why are so many Red Pillers anti-abortion, when banning abortion will probably force more men into marriage or child support?Abortion frees men also. Wtf, if I accidentally knock up a girl I now have to have a child? You dont have a say or choice in anything here. Yeah there is a chance it might free you from when you knock someome up in a one night stand, but it also means your girlfriend/wife can simply abort the child whenever she wants completely without your consent. The main idea is that in every situation you dont have a say in anything and you still have to take responsibility. A woman can abort it regardless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Telling women that they're perpetually the victim, results in an avoidance of personal responsibility.all of the wars have been started by men. I am tired of hearing this. All of the LEADERS were men. Of course that would mean wars were started by men. In situations where women were leaders, then it was women who started wars. But lets stop the mindset of "More men started wars, so women are better". Women werent better, women were weaker, therefore not viable for a lot of leader positions, thus not able to do the same amount of evil or good as a man would be able to do. Its like saying the shee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:05 AM |
| 29 | Twitter Doesn't Believe MenCan Be Abused.Damn. I wasn't abused and I don't get angry often, but this really pisses me off. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/20 09:47 AM |
| -20 | Because when men show anger it’s fragile. But what about when women do? I know it’s less important than some of the other things on here but it bothered me for some reasonThere is absolutely nothing stopping a women from fixing it And yet it probably wasn't. Ask yourself why. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/20 12:30 PM |
| 16 | Men are more likely to get in a violent confrontation, but whatever I guess.Yes, but I still wanted to mention that invisible factor there that most people will ignore, the thing that the percent we have is from CONFIRMED victims of human trafficking. The percent still might be higher or lower for either sex. I know it might me stupid of me to say it, but is important to mention those hidden factors. Statistics are science, and missing one important word in science can fuck up everything. If we do not mention it then: We forget to mention that the percent of false accus… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 11 | Men are more likely to get in a violent confrontation, but whatever I guess.It should also be mentioned that men are almost as likely to be victims of human trafficking with 49 percent of the victims being Male 49 percent of the victims we know of. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?All of those eventually create insecurity. When you see yourself as very inferior to your partner, especially physically, then you start thinking the partner can do better and deserves better. That doesn't mean you are going to let the partner go, and you will still cling to them for as long as you can. All of this lead to insecurity and problems which makes the relationship toxic in the way I said before. They can be with someone so unnatractive that they think its their low self-esteem's match… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?If you don't think someone havs self-worth, then you cannot say they are dating down. Yes HE might seem less attractive or earn less, but SHE is the insecure one who will drag the relationship down because she thinks you are fucking your female best friend or because she thinks you are cheating on her every time you go out to hang out with your friends. This is regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 8 | "Forcing feminism down South" "official approach taken by Cooperation Agencies ... if you want money for food you have to pass a law that will privilege women or give most of the funds to them or “educate” males to let them know how wrong they’ve being doing or find another way to empower women."The problem is, you cannot coerce someone to give all the money to one gender and call it equality. if you want money for food you have to pass a law that will PRIVILEGE women They are not asking for the law to be equal, they are asking for privileges, which is unequal. This is all disguised as equality, but we all know feminism isn't for equality. Its for female privilege. Anyone with half a brain can see that is the case in the west as well. They put feminism in universities and we got toxic f… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadthey'll have to work a lot harder to get to the same place as kids who slack off. But it isnt enough to just tell them this. You need to go deeper and be specific. I myself am not an incel, but if you told 15 year old me that he needs to work harder, he would take it as " chase the girl more and be more vocal about you loving her", which was the exact thing that was holding me back. The 3 times I got a girlfriend as an adolescent was exactly when I stopped caring and did whatever the fuck I want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Older men (30+). What are your reasons for going after younger women that are NOT LOOKS RELATED?I don't want you to understand me in a wrong way for what I am about to say. I mean nothing bad with it, and in no way I am trying to invalidate your experiences. I clicked on your profile because I am Romani and you had "gypsy" in your name. I thought I might find someone I know, but I actually found a lot of posts about insecurity, loneliness, self-loathing and feeling "unlovable" and wanting plastic surgery. I am here to tell you something that you probably heard before, and most likely didn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedSounds like you have no idea what IOI are, and what the difference between flirting and normal conversation is. I wont even continue talking. Ypu think that a person has the same chance with someone they went on date with and someone they briefly talked to while working. You will probably be stuck here for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 07:09 AM |
| 6 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedShe never had a chance with Chinese guy because she never met him. Its a stupid comparison because with this guy she had a chance, and she blew it for something stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedIts not that she is going to think about all her past loves and miss the guy who she went on one date that didnt even pay. Its that she will not even know what she lost, while he is most likely happy with someone else, and she ends up with the guy that paid for her, but isn't really that great of a match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 4 | My mother told me the other day that you always have to get permission before sex so the woman cannot cry rape.Even if its illegal, its a good backup plan. I imagine the consequences for rape accusations are worse than the consequences of recording without consent. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/20 12:25 AM |
| 0 | If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating.Until you push back at men for not helping equally with housework and childcare you probably shouldn't care about being the ones buying coffee. I agree that boys/men should be pushed to do more housework from teen age, or at least be self sufficient and care for themselves. Independence is a masculine and adult thing to have as well. But the thing is, one of these things happens while theyre dating, the other happens AFTER theyre dating, when theyre married. A man will always pay for a woman, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 12 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeWe aren't allowed to say how scared we are to walk home at night, because we are expected to be tough and strong accountable for women's safety as well. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 8 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeWhy am I being lumped in with the scumbags of the world? Because some women are weak, since they were brought up as victims with no self-accountability. Men have more self-accountability. We realize that we are protected by the police to an extent, but after that nobody owes us safety and we are supposed to protect ourselves. It doesn't matter how weak we are compared to our attacker. Maybe he is twice as big, knows martial arts, or has a weapon. When it comes to men, this doesn't matter a lot t… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 9 | Sexism in Austria: conscription, higher pension ages, hiring discrimination.Yes, 4 times less means one fourth, or 1/4 in numbers. It means that if you would make $2000 normally, you would now make $500, which is 1/4 of $2000. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 9 | Sexism in Austria: conscription, higher pension ages, hiring discrimination.I am sorry, I am not sure whether this is sarcasm or not, and I am not from the USA. Aren't they both the same? What is the difference? I searched it on google and it seems "selective service" is just a draft that is not active yet. I don't really understand the draft since we don't have it where I live. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | What are these “high standards” that women have?Generally petty criminals aren’t high value so she obviously lowered her standards at some point. High value is a relative thing, and it depends on what SHE thinks is high value. She might be the type that thinks someone is not a criminal until they are jailed. I think most of us can all agree that the SIMPs should actually be more high value because they would do a lot for their SO, but life doesnt work that way, so we shame them for their stupidity of thinking that it would get them laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members?My female friends and my mom gave me extraordinary advice, something that you would find on TRP. That being said, the reason I am friends with them is because they are honest and direct (something that I didn't find true for most women), and my mom is the type of woman that most men would be intimidated by. I also come from a small traditional type culture where the woman is deemed to be lesser than a man in the relationship, where the man is supposed to be stoic and control the woman, where he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 12 | Anti-"Women are just as bad" post. Thoughts?. In the UK there are feminists trying to make misogyny a hate crime but refuse to even discuss misandry Instead of this, the Duluth method would be a better example, because its not just in the UK, but everywhere. It was literally created by feminists and is one of the main cases men arent taken seriously in domestic abuses cases. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/20 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Why do women give men advice that's counterproductive to attracting them?She doesn't even have to be a 10. Most guys who play a video game once weekly will take a 5 or 6 that plays Warcraft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 5 | Why do women give men advice that's counterproductive to attracting them?Nope, more like taking a totally attractive man that has a fit body, and saying that you love his dad bod. One example is Zac Efron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 11:34 PM |
| 6 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?"No means no" is the biggest load of crap that ever existed. "No means no" is a good way to lower the risk of getting #MeToo'd. The risk is never zero tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 9 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?It is not only about not wasting time, it is also about setting boundaries for yourself and deciding that you won't take certain shit from women. If you continue replying to one word messages, then you are reinforcing the behavior that she can make no effort and still have your attention. If you give her a seen after the second one word message, two things can happen: She never messages you again, proving to you that she wasn't interested in the first place. She will message you herself this tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Do you secretly like a tiny bit of objectification from your partner?Yeah, it should actually be a pizza pie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Q4RP Unde What Conditions Would You Date a feminist?vilefication of men, victimization of women, absolute lack of accountability for women while blaming men (even more than regular women), using the justice system as a weapon against men (duluth model, false accusations, child support), hate towards women who have chosen traditional roles, protesting MRA activism whenever they want to make a positive change for men, glorification of toxic traits in women, and a lot of other things I am lazy to think of I understand that in theory, feminism isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP Unde What Conditions Would You Date a feminist?I would say I am purple pilled, but still more leaning towards red pill: As time goes and I see how fucking disgusting feminism is, I am starting to think that under no circumstances would I date a person that calls themselves a feminist. I would avoid a hookup as well. Hooking up with a feminist definitely raises your chance of getting falsely accused, and there are plenty of fish in the sea for me not to take that risk. Feminists cannot go higher than 4/10 for me. Theyre simply not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 08:25 AM |
| 4 | Juggling men/women is a shameful practiceI think the social proof thing might work for some women but I have seen too many attractive women with average looking men. I agree with both of your points, even though there is usually a third option here, which I forgot to mention because of the whole mountain of text I had to write: The woman is insecure The reasons for insecurity could be other women telling her she is ugly (jealousy), but it could also be that the guy didn't act like she was a special fairy being who he needs to bow in fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men just masturbate?The "good nerdy guy" and "bad boy" example was just a simple example, I never said it wasn't possible. In reality when we say "bad boy" we usually mean the "alpha". While this guy is clearly smart, he really doesn't look "beta" at all to me. He has an aura of confidence around him and masculine features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Juggling men/women is a shameful practiceI actually think it's powerful to always have options especially for a woman. While I agree its good for women, its actually more effective for men. I'll be making a lot of assumptions here, but if you think its incorrect feel free to correct me. Realistically, the "options" a woman has will most likely be orbiters. Orbiters are not the type of men the woman wants. With men being blue-pilled so much nowadays, I'll assume 9 out of 10 guys are orbiters, since IMHO even that is not a lot. To get to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men just masturbate?What I mean is that attraction doesn't happen from thinking. Its subconscious. A woman will think she likes the good nerdy guy, but her panties will always get wet for the "bad boy". She "thinks" she knows what she wants, but what she does is different. A person can "think" all they want, but when it comes to physical attraction, the moment you see a person, that is the moment you subconsciously decide whether they are fuckable or not. After that, the "thinking" is not deciding whether you want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men just masturbate?I don't really think if its from men or women, but technically it would be women since I am heterosexual. The thought process basically is: Someone says/shows they want to have sex with me -> They have sex with me -> I am attractive Someone says/shows they want to have sex with me -> They fail to follow through -> They are probably lying to not make me feel bad, or I am attractive romantically, but not sexually (the sexual attraction is mainly what we want for validation) I pay someone to have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about the dad-bod.Sorry, but in no way that is a dad bod. Thats a fit guy that goes to the gym regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many men so thirsty?most of it is shot from a male perspective and focuses on the female performer’s face/body/reactions. How would that appeal to hetero women? Women are quite narcissistic though. I was really baffled when I heard that they can literally masturbate without thinking about the sex itself, just how it makes THEM feel. They don't even have to imagine having sex with a man. I cannot even get hard sexually without even thinking about a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 03:38 PM |
| 4 | It’s a contradiction for red pillers to talk about not putting women on a pedestal but also telling users learn how to pass women’s shit testsThe one that learn to pass the shit test will still have that insecurity Until he has sex a few times with different women. Then he understands that it doesn't matter that much and won't have that insecurity. On the other hand, the one who doesn't mask his insecurity will not get laid, and the insecurity will remain forever, thinking that he didn't get laid because he is short, when in reality he didnt get laid because he let his emotions guide him. Being a man works like that. Its "fake it till… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 6 | It’s a contradiction for red pillers to talk about not putting women on a pedestal but also telling users learn how to pass women’s shit testsBold of you to assume thats their whole life. Thats just the part about sex. You are still living your normal life and doing what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 10 | It’s a contradiction for red pillers to talk about not putting women on a pedestal but also telling users learn how to pass women’s shit testsWhy are you people acting as if not reacting badly to shit tests is manipulation? Shit test IS the manipulation, and learning how to deal with them is called not being a dumbass. Do you even know what a shit test sounds like? Wow, you are so short. That guy over there is pretty cute. I bet you say that to all the girls Reacting emotionally to any of these is the best way to lose the girl. Conditioning yourself to not react to this manipulation easily will get you a long way, and after a certain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:28 AM |
| 4 | It’s a contradiction for red pillers to talk about not putting women on a pedestal but also telling users learn how to pass women’s shit testsUnqualified people getting in over their heads don't last very long in either scenario. So? TRP isnt about lasting long. Its literally about sex. Just sex. Its enough to last for the ONS, and your job is done. Everything else is extra. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:16 AM |
| 5 | It’s a contradiction for red pillers to talk about not putting women on a pedestal but also telling users learn how to pass women’s shit testsIf the referee whistle doesn't blow, then its okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | If all women wore a burqa, men would not stop staring, but that is a bad argument for women who dress in revealing clothingYep. That is one of my points. These men saw half naked women walking around throughout their lives. Seeing a woman in a burqa will definitely not make him hard. But the point is not that women should wear the burka, the point is that the sluttier you dress compared to others, the more attention you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | If all women wore a burqa, men would not stop staring, but that is a bad argument for women who dress in revealing clothingPut a supermodel dressed elegantly in a room with a half naked crack-whore and there's no doubt who will get the most eyes. Except crack-whores arent really common, and neither are supermodels. Those are just two extremes. Most women are close to the attractiveness level with each other, and a 6/10 in skimpy clothing will get more stares than an 8/10 in regular clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | If all women wore a burqa, men would not stop staring, but that is a bad argument for women who dress in revealing clothingI disagree because the women in my life have discussed the surprising consequences of wearing masks where they say they are being stared at less. Masks are another way of covering up. When a man stares at you, he rarely only looks at your ass or boobs. He also looks at your face, your hair, legs, your clothing, etc. Sometimes even personality might be a factor, as women who act promiscuously are more likely to get attention as well. EDIT: This is not always a conscious decision. Even if a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?Then be the predator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?Men react like that to gay men not because they are afraid or disgusted of being sexualized, they react like that because there is a risk of them coming out as gay or feminine to people around. The way society is, men are convinced that overcompensating with masculinity and throwing away anything feminine will make them seem like more of a man and get them more chances with women. When you normalize the facts that: Talking or hanging around gay people is completely fine. Being gay is fine, even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Are men in authority positions (doctors, teachers) more likely to enter an inappropriate relationship with a patient than females?That's exactly what Ramblin is suggesting. That they are consciously doing this. Which is my only issue with his statement. Ir sounds like it, so It might have meant that. The way I see it though, unlike a man, they don't actually have to think about it, so why would they? Other things (like unsuccesful men) are definitely thought about from women, because that actually carries a risk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 9 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careHow about you check your own damn title. It literally says "if I don't mention it until a few months into dating". FEW MONTHS. I doubt you are having a date once in three months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Are men in authority positions (doctors, teachers) more likely to enter an inappropriate relationship with a patient than females?Dude, they aren't making a risk analysis chart. They don't put their insidious hat on and start plotting how they can fuck over a man... Nobody said they do. They don't do it consciously, its in their nature to do it. Luckily SOME women go against their nature, so its not all lost for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careAre we seriously suggesting that the women aren’t also risking being emotionally invested and then being left heartbroken when the guy is completely against childre The women are risking it, but risking it is the only way they can do it. When she mentions she is a single mom, most people are going to back away. Hiding that she is a single mom significantly ups her chances of trapping someone in a relationship, because most likely he will ALREADY be emotionally invested when she tells him. She ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Why don't men just masturbate?I never said it was. You do not need validation to survive, but most humans need it to be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Why don't men just masturbate?And that is a huge difference. For men, sex is not just pleasure, its validation. If you manage to get sex, it means you are good enough. We also want the physical intimacy as well since we are literally touch starved. Getting a hooker doesnt give you validation. You know they are fucking you for money and nothing else. Its like renting a high quality fleshlight. The validation part is not something that you can get over easily. You can try, but its part of your biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Why don't men just masturbate?A hooker is just assisted masturbation. Sex is more to a man than just putting your dick somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 2 | When a man has multiple short-term plates, all of that extra time is essentially taken away from pursuing a more rare, valuable connection.if you think girls like being one of three girls you fuck on a rotational basis and wait around ready to get subbed in then you’re a bit delusiona The problem here is that you think we tell women they are in the rotation. You always SHOW that you have options (which automatically makes you a HVM in her eyes, but you never tell her that you are fucking anyone else. Its not even her job to know. If she asks, you redirect it back with a joke. If she is persistent, you say its none of her business. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 7 | Do you think it's okay, for you, to be friends with your ex, while you're in a relationship with another man?However, dealing with insecurities from the inside is much more sustainable and would help you become a more desirable partner overall. A stable, confident partner is someone we all want to have and enjoy spending time with. While I agree with this, it is never that simple. I am leaning more on OP's side here. This will be a long one, so bear with me. Here are a few points: Having an ex in your life risks complication when in reality it doesn't have to. Friendships aren't so scarce that you need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/20 04:04 PM |
| 10 | In day-to-day life, why should low SMV men treat women with respect versus being an asshole if the end result is the same for them, i.e., social and romantic rejection?At the end of the day it comes down to the individual. I know, hard to believe it but there are people who don't need a reason to not be a dick. That is, their natural default isn't "asshole, " But being a gentleman isn't really just "not being a dick". Being a gentleman is going out of your way to do good things. "Not being a dick" is just guys being completely indifferent and not caring at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Is male predatory stalking behavior an inherently male trait?,>Think of how common it is for men to stalk women they're interested in prior to making a move. That co-worker whose Facebook you've been over a hundred times, so that you know what her favorite food, color and album is. Online stalking is not an inherently male trait. Actually, I am willing to bet way more women stalk guys than guys stalk girls. As I have seen from experience. Most of my male friends open their crushes social media, see that their crush is hot and take notice of any interests … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyIn this situation, neutral is still good. If you focus on not doing bad things, then good things will be able to flourish. But in this case, men DID good. When the status quo all throughout nature is rape and might over right, giving women rights and protecting them is not "not doing evil". It is actively doing good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:30 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyIn this case, immoral is synonymous with dishonorable, which proves my point. Not actively being evil is honorable, because no creatures owes it to another creature to be moral and good. It is a choice. In this world where common decency is scarce, it is dangerous to take good deeds for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:21 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyI don't really get it but if it works for you and keeps rapists off the street thats great. It really worked to be honest. Rapists aren't completely off the streets, but isn't it a mans honor that allowed women to have rights at all? When it comes to nature, consent doesn't really matter in anything. In some species, males (or maybe even females in some cases, I don't know) do not ask for consent for reproduction. They are stronger, therefore they take what they want. The lion doesn't ask for co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | When your expertise is disregarded because of your age, color, and genderMan where the fuck do people like that actually live? America | /r/MensRights | 30/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | When your expertise is disregarded because of your age, color, and genderThey will end up alone with their 7 cats Nah. Such a woman will find a partner. That partner will be an abusive low quality man, to mirror her being a low quality woman. Then they will bitch about how there are no good men. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Do women really mean, “You and me forever,” or is it a ploy?The only thing a woman can do forever is hold a grudge. There is nothing else the human race can do forever other than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Does "Team Man" exist in real life?even young boys know to run to their mothers if they're hurt and need help That is not because fathers have less empathy than mothers, its just that fathers are the ones that are supposed to train the kid for the harsh world of being a man. Mothers are the one that tell their boys "be nice" when they ask for dating advice. Most of the time, the guys who are successful with women are the guys who had a father to tell them "Be confident, work out, and don't put women on a pedestal", because it is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, would you be okay to wait two - three months before sleeping with a girl you are really interested in? Why/Why not?Even if she was below me in attractiveness, I wouldn't mind waiting at all, considering that she treats me like any other guy she was interested in, rather than making exclusively me wait. On top of that If I am serious, thats even more of a reason to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | For those of you that "switched sides" Why? What information made you change your views/what was the chain of events that lead to it?M[21] I was blue pilled, now purple pilled. I cannot say I flirted a lot and had many girlfriends. I had no idea how to get a girlfriend. The only close friends I had back then, when I asked them how to get a girlfriend, they told me "Just talk to her" or simply made fun of me for even asking. Then SOMEHOW in third year of highschool I got my first girlfriend. Even I don't know how I did it, but that went on for a toxic 11 month relationship. After that relationship, I tried it with 2 other girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 2 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.If working out was good for relieving sexual tension, people wouldn't masturbate, they would work out and have the bodies of Greek gods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:43 PM |
| 12 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.I don't think men are slaves to their biology and make every choice to improve their chance at sex. Thats where you are wrong. Every animal (including humans) is a slave to their biology. Just because we are a slightly more evolved monkey doesn't mean we are above our instincts. We may sometimes go against our instincts, but to do that we have to actively fight it, and even then we are not aware that subconsciously we make a lot of decisions based on biology. Men have the instincts to seek out s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 3 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Why can't the proposed action be banning porn or banning social media? Or other stuff that organically help the problem? Because banning porn or social media will make men more socially and sexually aggressive. Women often complain about the unwanted attention they get from men that they don't like. Imagine what happens when someone who watched porn all their life all of a sudden can't have it. He is forced to go approach women. Sooner or later, he becomes one of the "nice guys". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scaleI’ve seen lots of articles and heard from actual women that, when they let their dudes dress them, the men always pick out “sluttier” outfits than they would have done. I’ve found this to be true in my own relationships too. Apparently what men think is “slutty” is what strippers wear on stage It really depends. Most of guys do not think a bit of cleavage or a skirt a bit higher than your knees is slutty. Most of us do not expect you to dress like a nun. When we say "modest", we mean what is nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 01:26 AM |
| -1 | The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scaleIf we dressed modestly and got the same or better treatment from men, we would do it. Spoiler alert: that’s not what happens You get the better treatment from men because they want to have sex with you, not because they want a relationship from you. If you understand that, then it is fine as well. The same guys who treat you better when you dress slutty are the same ones that will dump you the moment they find someone sexier to have sex with or more modest to have a relationship with. EDIT: P.S.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Was patriarchy a sexual strategy?Women are hardly homogenous. Their genetic code is more variable and complex than mens is. They all vote differently. Men are way more variable than women will ever be. Women tend to be close to the average of a woman. Men often stray from the average. That is why men are the gender that dominates science fields and are often at the leadership positions, while at the same time they are more likely than women to be criminals or homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Why hasnt the fear of STDs and its untreatable mutations led to women treating high n count men and those who participate in casual sex as harshly as men treat high n count women?Way more women than have sex regularly, so I doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 16 | Attractive men have always had it easierWhat you are forgetting is that Chads will chase while fucking someone else on the side. Its kinda stupid to think someone will miss out on sex because of that when he has it so easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Feminists love to attack men and limit what they're allowed to be or do ....... but they're 100% dependent on OUR WORK every day.Because when something happen to a man, good or bad, people say it's his fault. This goes deeper than just this. The reason its his fault is because the man is held to a higher standard, while the woman is held to the standard of a child. This is because over thousands of years and even today, men don't whine about work and put their health at risk to raise a family. That is why we have fields like garbage disposal and construction work where a woman working there is rare as an unicorn. If a cre… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/20 02:38 AM |
| 3 | If women practice hypergamy, do they actually love men?Exactly. The problem here is your perception of love. A woman will love a man because it makes her happy and feel attracted. If she is no longer happy with him and is not attracted to him, love doesnt mean shit, because romantic love is a feeling that mainly comes from attraction. This is no different for men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Guys, if you could make a sextape with one girl who would you choose?Your mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Would you accept being in a long term, open, non-marital relationship without kids?So basically friendship with extra steps? No thanks. If I decide to marry, its because of commitment. It is because I want someone to be mine, and only mine, and maybe have kids with them. Otherwise, there is no reason for me to marry. I have no problem with polygamous people, but its not something for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Do men value companionship?You cant exactly marry a friend. Situations where after years of friendship one of them gets feelings and he confesses and they live happily ever after is mostly a movie trope. Yes, it may happen in rare occasions, but its the exception, not the norm. Most guys that know even about a bit about getting a girlfriend know that if you present yourself as a friend at the start and not flirt, after a month you get friendzoned, and you don't really get out of that. If someone is a friend, you don't rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 02:21 AM |
| 0 | Is this wrong to say?Men will always improve one way or another. Its a biology thing, we are competitive by nature. The difference between most men and most women is that men will both put themselves up and put others down when it comes to competition (therefore improving as well), while women will only put others down (therefore not improving at all and making people complain). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 09:55 AM |
| 0 | Men who want marriage: would you prefer a virgin, a woman with mild experience, an experienced woman, or a "slut"?I would say Mildly Experienced to Experienced. Mildly Experienced is the best for me because she has just enough experience to know what sex is and how it feels, while also leaving room for us to explore each other. Experienced is okay. In a situation where Mildly experienced and Experienced are equally attractive, I would definitely choose the Mildly Experienced, but it definitely isn't a dealbreaker in other cases. If the Experienced is even 5% better then I am choosing her. Virgins, while bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 09:37 PM |
| 3 | You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life?If I suddenly transform into a 18 year old girl with the experiences I have as a guy, I really doubt I would be a straight girl. But if I were, then I would act no different just because the gender I am attracted to changed, I will simply go after guys instead of girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | You wake up tomorrow permanantly changed into an average-looking 18 year old girl. How do you live the rest of your life?My intentions won't change. I will still go to college, I will still work out, and I will still hit on girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Men: how do you feel about being dominant?I like being dominant and by now it comes naturally for me, even though I don't think I was really dominant growing up. I have no problem with it personally. What I don't like is that other men who are submissive would rarely have a chance to be who they are without seriously damaging their chance ( or relationship) with a woman, and have to play pretend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | PPD crew, be honest: do you get an ego boost when a taken/married person wants you?It doesn't really give me any ego boost more than any other woman approaching me. Cheaters don't cheat because somebody makes them cheat or because you "took" them from someone else. Cheaters cheat because they're cheaters. Its a personality trait. As for the bonus question, I do feel a bit smug, because even though I probably am not thinking about putting the moves on someone with a partner, the partner thinks I am a threat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?You lost the argument when you checked my profile about what I posted, and tried to use it against me. That proves that social media DOES matter, and you don't actually have better things to do, you just try to sound smart on reddit and argue a lot. I also never said that friends didn't matter or that social media matters more than friends, I just used it as an example because it was on top of my head, the reason being that it was mentioned on OP. I rest my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?Wow, spoken like a dude who gives way too much of a fuck about social media, and who likely dates worthless Gen-Z sluts who care way too much about superficial time wasting bullshit like insta and snapchat. Give me a break. I'm a real human with an active and busy lifestyle. I don't have social media (except reddit, obviously) because I have much, much better shit to worry about on any given day. Sounds like you want to be the holier than thou no social media guy. If you chose reddit out of all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?You seem to be misunderstanding something here. Mate-guarding (when not taken out of hand) does not show that you have no other options, it shows that you care. It shows dominance. The thing that actually shows that you have options is women commenting on your photos. If you think you can fool a girlfriend that you have options by "not caring", then you are simply mistaken. She notices who looks at you and if you actually have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | "Any woman who makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait" How far do you agree with this?There are many factors here. The most important thing for you to understand is that some women, even if they are sexually attracted to you, they will make you wait as long as they see you as a worthy potential partner. You can't really blame her for giving it up in 30 mins and having a one night stand with "CHAD" because "CHAD" was never thought of as a potential partner. He was a pump and dump. If "CHAD" was a potential partner, then she definitely wouldn't give it up in the first 30 mins becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 12:24 AM |
| 10 | Men, do you believe that you’re more important than women?I do not think men are more important than women. I also do not think women are more important than men. Sadly, society disagrees with me on the second. Women get the pussy pass, men are punished harsher for the same crimes as women, and their issues aren't taken seriously because we are "privileged". Barely anybody is grateful for a man's effort, because it is expected of a man to do it by default, and if he didn't do it then he is just lazy, incel, scoundrel, no good, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about women being so open about their sexual nature?I think you misunderstood me. I am not a white knight. I am just a guy who thinks logically. Can I blame a woman for liking a tall and handsome guy over me? Of course not. It is in her nature. But I CAN blame her for making fun of me or any other short guy, or using men for food, because there is no need for such a thing. What I am saying that if women we're honest, then it will be easier for men to choose which women are suitable (the kind, high value women), and weed out the worst women (gold … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Men who want a woman to have sex with them within X days because she's had casual sex before are insecure.The average male has a biological cheat code called testosterone. He can work out to become strong enough to overcome any attacker, a woman can never say the same regardless of training. The average human has a cheat code called weapons. Stop whining like a little bitch and carry a knife/gun/pepperspray if you feel so threatened. Its the 21st fucking century. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 01:06 AM |
| 8 | How do you feel about women being so open about their sexual nature?Women are not open enough for their sexual nature. They still lie. But if all women were open about their sexual nature, I would be happy. Why? I don't really care about how many guys you have fucked, unless it is really out of the ordinary. I try to get sex all the time, so it shouldn't be any different for anybody else. What I do care about is you being honest with me, and you acting like a nun when you have fucked a dozens of men is not honest, and WHEN I find out, then everything else really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Different women want different types of men. Why is this so hard to understand?What makes you think it was MEN who suppressed their sexuality? Men are the ones who benefit from their urges. It is women who more often slut shame other women because they are competition. Yes, I do admit men care about the n-count of women, but that is usually because they are still under the illusion that low n-count = high value. Virginity was the norm as well centuries ago, but nowadays it is weird to find a virgin older than 23 years old. Maybe if women stopped lying about their sexuality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Different women want different types of men. Why is this so hard to understand?No I didn't think they were humans, and no my parents didn't fail me. Society did. Because they all ( especially women) acted like women were higher beings. No matter what my parents said, there was always 100 women to refute it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Different women want different types of men. Why is this so hard to understand?So why do men in this sub keep analyzing and blaming women for being just like them? Because most lie about it. It is not about them wanting it, it is about me being lied to while growing up about women being fairy creatures that don't like sex and don't care about appearances. I like TRP not because I blame women for what they are, I like TRP because it shows me what women are, so I can adjust to it. Does it make me think less of women? Yeah, it does. Do I think men are automatically better jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: What's an advantage associated with your gender that you're willing to admit?You do know men are 3 times more likely to be assaulted, right? Also there is the fact that for the average male, the number of the attackers that are stronger and weaker are roughly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you do the same.To me, it doesn't sound like you are weak, it sounds like you are stupid. I still have to meet a man that is invulnerable to a knife, stun gun or a pepper spray. But this is not about the real danger. Women just like to whine. Because it is in a woman's nature to play victim, so she will whine, but most of the time won't take protective measures for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Would you do the same.If ANYONE attacks you, you are allowed to fight , even without holding back. Anyone that says otherwise is sexist and is riding on the "Women are weak, beautiful little fairy creatures" bandwagon. Be careful though. A woman can really fuck you up when it comes to legal stuff, since the legal system always favors the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 6 | How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her?Which proves my first point, that you have a lot of toxic men around you. Reddit is kinda famous for being such a place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 04:06 PM |
| 9 | How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her?You either have very toxic men around you, or you are making this up on the spot. The men who say this are the types that can't respect their girlfriends and wives because they can "Stick their dicks" in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Men: Have you ever asked a woman that you really liked to split the bill with you on the first date?On a first date, I expect to pay it myself. It really means A LOT though when the girl offers to pay. EDIT: Even so, the date will be relatively cheap (I don't think first dates in my country are usually expensive like in the other countries). It might be coffee, sweets, or some music festival or something. I think the rule should be that the one who organizes the date should be the one paying.That being said, men 99% of the time will always be the one who asks the girl on the first date. On top… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Guys who prefer thin women vs. guys who prefer curvy/thick women: what does it say about the guy?I'll be honest here. My requirement is not for her to be "thin" or "thick". My requirement is for her to be attractive. I can like both, and I have no problems with imperfections. But I don't really think I can describe to you what I want. I simply let my instincts guide me to what something is attractive to me. I see it, and decide if I like it or not. Anorexic or Obese (I am not talking fat, I am talking obese) people are definitely not something I can ever be attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?Many reasons. I mentioned two of the reasons in my original comment: 1. They have no interest 2. They are afraid that they will be shut down by people who think men are privileged and don't deserve a movement (which definitely might happen) There is also a third reason that I can think of: 3. Men don't know who actually needs help, and shutting of our feelings is seen as a normal thing, because that is what we were taught. As men, we are taught how to behave early. "Real Men Don't Cry", "A real … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?I don't have the money to give you GOLD, but here is a poor mans GOLD 🥇 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?You don't seem to understand the situation here. We don't rage at Chad because Chad is not the problem here. Chad is an attractive guy. We want to become Chad. On the other hand, women are the "indirect communicators" that will tell you "All I want is a guy that treats me right", when in reality that is not even a requirement. The real requirement here is "I want him to be tall and handsome", and being nice and treating her right is just the icing on the cake. You don't even have to treat her ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women?And do what females do, help each other. There is no men's equivalent of feminism, and men are still considered disposable everywhere. Half of the fault is on men, who have no interest to do it or are simply afraid to do it. The other half of the fault is on the people men are afraid of, the people who think men are privileged and will verbally attack them for saying otherwise. Because of feminism, women have way more privilege (not just rights, but privilege) today than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do men refuse being friends with women? And why do they refuse to stay in the friendzone? And why does that bother women?Male-Female friendships happen and are genuine (talking from experience), but only when neither is attracted to eachother. Otherwise, its just the friendzone. Men cannot stand being in the friendzone because its overally a pretty shitty place to be. The Friendzone is a place where you can't physical attention from the woman you like while she is often around you, so its basically torture. Men are way more physical than women. There is no love without physical intimacy (or the expectation of it) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How can a man who is average/below average become attractive?Because not everyone can grow a good beard. No beard is better than a patchy beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | heres an idea. what if a girl didnt "wait for sex", but demanded STD tests from every guy?I am a 21 year old geek, and I already had 3 by now. While maybe not 10, 5 is definitely a possible number for literally anyone but the worst of the worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 03:29 PM |
| 0 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.We will be honest here, EVERYBODY choose people they can get to commit to them. Problem is, the woman this person talks about (and probably is herself I will assume) is the type that settles for people she isnt sexually attracted to enough just because she can't get someone more exciting to commit to them, BUT still acts like she is some kind of prize because she is attractive enough to be pumped and dumped by an "exciting" guy, even though men would fuck most decent looking women, no matter how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 01:32 PM |
| 2 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.So we should be happy that we are settled for? She is a good person because she cant get those "exciting" guys to commit to her, so she settles for you? I'd rather have someone less attractive (but still has the minimum) to commit to, as long as she isn't this kind of person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:41 PM |
| 5 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.What women fail to notice is how much pump-n-dump guys will wait for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are jealous of lifting.Wow dude, you argument just killed me. I am convinced. So let be break it down to you better. Time - Unless ypu have stuff at home to work out with, lifting needs a gym. The path to the gym and back can be longer than the 10 to 30 mins women take to apply make-up. Skill - I am not going to deny doing make-up needing skill. It really does. But lifting needs more. Why? Because you need to have a proper form, otherwise it won't be as effective. Even simply not flexing the right muscles can hold you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are jealous of lifting.No, not like lifting. Those two things aren't even close. If you want to compare it to something men do, compare it to styling your beard with a straight razor. That is what takes time, skill and dedication like make-up does, and has similar effect (the face). Lifting takes way more of those 3 things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Which gender is most clueless about the other ?Men, but most of it isn't their fault. Most of it is because of misinformation. Men are usually straightforward for most stuff, so not really a challenge to know them. Women on the other hand are way more complicated, but definitely not in a good way. They talk about stuff indirectly, they are focused more on "hints" than simply being direct, they lie about what they like, in an attempt to not seem "easy", and they barely even know what they want when it comes to men (or simply wont say it becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Do men and women actually enjoy each other's company?These MOST men/women you are talking about are the ones that complain about stuff. You don't see people that say the opposite, so you automatically assume that its true about 90% of men/women, when in reality its just 1%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Say a woman has a 4 face and an 8 body. Is she still considered a 4 or something in between?I stopped using the 1 to 10 scale. I started using the binary scale. Girls you would date/bang, and girls you wouldnt. Helps against putting women on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | I really don’t know what to do with her beyond this pointDo it. A word of advice, when you arent sure if you should go for it or not, always go for it. Women like confidence, and if you wait for too long or show hesitation, they get turned off. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What are the people in this subs opinion on the roles of men and women in households and in society?Sorry. It was really wrong of me to assume you had a mouth, tongue or brains. Since you compare humans to simple animals, you should just be like those animals and go shit in the woods or something. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What are the people in this subs opinion on the roles of men and women in households and in society?Except you know, we are humans with a fucking mouth and tongue, and we can assign ourselves whatever roles we want if we actually talk with our parntner about that. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 10:32 PM |
| 12 | What are the people in this subs opinion on the roles of men and women in households and in society?There are no roles unless specified. Its an agreement between 2 partners. That means both men and women divide chores, work and raising the kids according to an agreement that they made, not by any standards of society. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 12:43 PM |
| 3 | MLK agrees. Feminism is cancer.I choose to add it to one of the possible options. While for me, Sharia is hell, for them it might be happiness because its simple and they wont have to beat their head over it. Like my uncle once said, "Dont give a simple and stupid man a car, he wont know how to drive it and it will only make him unhappy. Give him a shovel, and he will know what to do, thus he will be happier and feel more useful. " . Im not saying this is a very likely situation there and that we should act upon it, but I def… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | If a man is accused of rape and denies it by saying “she’s not my type” instead of “I would never rape anyone,” that is how you know you’re dealing with a rapist.I wouldnt say so, the fact is, everybody who is accused of rape would say "I would never rape anyone", so it holds no weight, while "Shes not my type" atleast gives a reason to why he didnt do it. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Feminists, presumably mostly "intersectional," go after the Dalai Lama for masculist jokeI didnt see that, so I guess I was wrong. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 09:01 AM |
| 8 | Feminists, presumably mostly "intersectional," go after the Dalai Lama for masculist jokeI see nothing wrong here. I dont know much about him, but he seems as realistic as one can get. His words : Real beauty is inner beauty, but were human beings, and appearance matters too, are quite true. He simply takes into account the imperfections of the human race. According to the way hes talking he seems to know that being pretty SHOULDNT be a requirement, but hes realistic and knows it will be if its a female whos leading. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 07:42 AM |
| 7 | I Was Sexually Harassed By A Woman While My Dad Thought I was ExaggeratingYou are a special kind of hero. You are the one who makes the change even if you get judged for it. Even so, Il ask you this question that will probably be asked if I dont ask it and I might seem like a dick for asking. Was she that ugly? I mean, as opposed to now, my 16 year old self wouldnt really consider anything by the opposite sex sexual harassment because of raging hormones. Or was sh average but her actions were way too creepy? | /r/MensRights | 24/06/19 11:16 PM |
| 33 | Australian Army cuts fitness test/requirement because women were failing. If men failed, it meant you weren't in the Army anymore. Now women are failing, remove the test.The Four Karens of the Apocalypse arent a joke Lethn. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Let’s not do this and just realize both genders have issuesYou inspired me,heres an upvote! | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Saw this on r/Feminism. Why do they brand all men as rapists?The one that made this pic actually think rapists dont know this and theyre going to follow what they say or something. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is rape more distressing than murder and bloodshed in comics?Because rape has lasting psychological effects.Being dead just means youre dead,you stop thinking,so you cant actually even imagine yourself in such a situation.Thats why in a dream when you are falling to your death,you always wake up the moment you hit the ground or right before. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:58 AM |
| 2 | One in 30 young men were married as children. “It’s a rights violation. It creates a burden for boys to take on adult responsibilities and roles when they are still children themselves – like providing for a family,” says one of the authors of the UN reportI come from such a society,and while its not too common nowadays,theres still a few cases where children are married young,and yes,boys (I wont say men since they clearly arent since theyre underage), are forced to quit school and start working. It usually doesnt end well for both the boy and the girl. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | is androgyny a male right and redefining male identity.I see you are a bit confused here.The only thing defining if someone is male or female are the reproductive parts and their function.In other words if you have a male reproductive organ,you are male,if you have a female reproductive organ youre female.You cant redefine that.The traits that are considered common in specific genders(male=strong,female=caring) arent gender specific,theyre just traits that are more common in one gender than the other ,but still present in both. Youre still a "real" … | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | If feminist men realized you can't easily change the paradigm of what women find attractive, would they still subscribe to that particular set of beliefs?Its called evolution,go read a book or something. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:16 AM |
| 5 | This bikers club is the best example of toxic masculinity (They help stop bullying).Damn these onion cutting ninjas. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you all ever feels scared to talk about men’s rights?No Im not afraid of talking about mens rights or womens rights, and even LGBT+ rights. Its the right thing to do. What Im afraid of is someone using my gender against me in court when I am innocent. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:05 AM |
| 1 | POS couple kill their little boy cause they “hate men”When is the death sentence returning?We serioudly need it against people like these. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 08:01 AM |
| 4 | Alright... So you don't do it, you are an asshole. You do it, you are a rapist.I wouldnt doubt it that much really.I cant guarantee it happened to him,but it definitely happened to someone. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 07:59 AM |
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